Save Baby Aaliyah
The case of Aaliyah Bedwell:
SaveAaliyah.com – read about it here. It is not a hoax, this is a real girl, with a real mother trying to protect her daughter.
Write the District Attorney of Placer County, California:
Bradford R. Fenocchio
Placer County District Attorney
10810 Justice Center Drive Suite #240
Roseville, CA 95678
(916) 543-8000
(916) 543-2550 fax
bfenocch@placer.ca.gov
Date:
Mr. Fenocchio,
I am writing you to express my concern about your apparent lack of attention in a case involving the sexual abuse of a three year old girl named Aaliyah Bedwell. The video seen many places on the internet titled “Daddy’s Worm” is disturbing to say the least. What’s more disturbing is the way this case has been handled by your office. You are the highest Law Enforcement Official in Placer County, California. You have the responsibility to protect this child when the allegation of sexual abuse is brought to your attention, which this was over eight months ago by all accounts.
The suspect in this case has an attorney named Mrs. Sandra Amara, whose husband is also a judge. If Judge Dirk Amara is meddling in this case, it is also your duty to investigate him. Judge Frances Kearney, removed herself from this case, and stipulated that a judge from a different county would hear it. Which is a step in the right direction, however, it does not absolve you of your responsibility of investigating credible allegations of serious violent sexual crimes like this one.
Mr. Fenocchio, it is paramount for the well being of children in your county that you prosecute those suspected of child sexual abuse to the fullest extent of the law without exception. Anything else is unacceptable for a District Attorney. Protect this child, prosecute the offender, and uphold the laws of your state. These are all part of your responsibility as the District Attorney of Placer County, California. You need to take this very seriously before this child is beyond the help and protection she deserves.
Sincerely,
Your name
City, State
Read here about how broken the Placer County, California Superior Court really is:
http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/43819/placer_county_judicial_system.html?cat=17
Blogger News Network Update:
Aaliyah Bedwell – Accused’s Lawyer Plays Dirty
May 14th, 2009 at 6:46 am
Bubba we need to help this child, I myself am a abused child and this poor baby girl is being abused in the worst way! We need to pull together, and get this son of a bitch.
This is awfull. My God please save this child!! This is so sad now she has been pulled out of her home and now with strangers. I hope she is home with here mom now.? HE IS HURTING THIS LITTLE GIRL! HELP!!
May 14th, 2009 at 6:47 am
They really ought to get to the root of this sicko. Just because he seems well connected doesn’t give him the right to do things to this poor innocent child.
GOD will take care of this man come judgement day.
May 14th, 2009 at 6:48 am
rather when I was as a child.
May 14th, 2009 at 6:49 am
this is so disgusting. this man needs to be hurt the same way he has hurt his little girl!!!!!!!!
May 14th, 2009 at 6:55 am
Man, I feel bad for you two. I hope that somebody in the court system hears you and sees that video.
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May 14th, 2009 at 6:58 am
This is not staged. You can tell. I am a parent of a beautiful little girl as well & couldn’t imagine anyone doing this to my child. I can just understand how her mother feels right now. I would be in rage mode & stopping at nothing to make sure something is done to protect this child. What kind of sick bastard would do this to a child let alone his own. What a sick F***. Someone needs to do something about this. If this little girl stays in his custody she could end up dead like the rest or these poor babies out there that keep getting murdered by their parents. What is wrong with people? What is wrong with this society? This child will probably be scarred for life over this. Legal actions must be taken. I’m just in shock!! WTF?
May 14th, 2009 at 6:59 am
Hi I’m from Miami and I was extremely disgusted. I am a father of 3 and the benefit of the doubt is that a 2 and a half year old cannot be train or coach to say all all this. The little girl was brutally honest as all the kids are…… they just say as it is. Please send this to the proper authorities and get the Deacos involve.
Thanks for your time.
JC
May 14th, 2009 at 7:00 am
This is so eff’ed up….I cannot believe what I am hearing…I had to turn the volume down…I am in tears….I contacted my husband and he said he had to turn the radio off in the car just during Bubba’s intro…..I want to eff’ing kill this guy, this is so wrong!!!!…….WHY?!?!?! does our justice system continue to allow our beautiful children get hurt and violated like this…..this beautiful lil girl is going to be mentally damamged for life…I am in tears, my heart aches for this lil girl and her mother……..I want to post this to my Facebook to spread the word!!!
May 14th, 2009 at 7:01 am
That sicko needs to be exterminated. God bless this beautiful little girl and help her to overcome this horrible experience.
May 14th, 2009 at 7:09 am
Dear Guys,
I have never called or mailed you guys, till now. I am moved to at this time. To keep it short, just let me know when you load the bus going to California. I’am with you, bat in hand.
May 14th, 2009 at 7:12 am
OMG! This guy is sick ,his parental rights should be taken until a full investigation has been conducted. And from what I have heard,they should be taken away for good.
Bubba army, keep up the great work by bringing awareness of these issues to your listeners.
Look out Nancy Grace, Bubba’s got radio:)
May 14th, 2009 at 7:12 am
I am absolutely sickened by this video! Her father’s “worm” should be cut off and fed to him!!
May 14th, 2009 at 7:14 am
I can only hope that Dr. Saturley is well trained in the literature on tainting of very you children’s memories and the manner in which very young children use language…on top of that, he should also be well trained in the forensic evaluation of child sexual abuse…in my opinion, the country’s leading expert is Tampa psychologist, Dr. Kathy Kuehnle [pronounced keen-lee]…
I’m a forensic psychologist in the Brandon area and have seen way too many cases that sound legitamite but later prove to be staged or tainted memories…children this age are incredibly sensitive to inappropriate questioning and once tainted, their memories cannot be untainted…
The problem is that this video already suggests that the child’s memory may be tainted by the mothers seemingly harmless questioning…this questioning may have no malicious intent, but can alter the child’s memory without meaning to do so…
The appropriate questioning of a young child takes years of training, a thorough knowledge of the research on how young children use language, and techniques to prevent tainting or confounding of memory…
That being said, if this case proves to be accurate, then the child should definitely be protected…the more people who question the child the greater the likelihood that the father could win a “taint hearing”, which is when the reliability of the child’s statements is challenged…please, do not allow any more questioning until a well-trained specialist gets involved in the case…
Thanks…
James R. Flens, Psy.D., ABPP
Diplomate in Forensic Psychology
May 14th, 2009 at 7:15 am
I can’t believe that man would be allowed to have custody of this child. And I can’t believe this county would not at the very least investigate. What are they waiting for this child to be killed by that monster??? That entire county is corrupt!
May 14th, 2009 at 7:17 am
This is OUTRAGEOUS!!! Dr. Joe or whomever needs to contact Gov. Schwartnegger or someone! I am sickened by this.
Please help this poor little girl and mother.
May 14th, 2009 at 7:20 am
hey bubba, i am also a survivor of child abuse. after hearing this story on your show, then watching it for myself, i am sure that this little girl was not told what to say and she needs help. i am willing to write any letter or send any e-mail in order to help save this baby from any more abuse. thanks for your show bubba. god bless.
May 14th, 2009 at 7:25 am
I am so thankful that you guys got a hold of this story. Now, this little angel will get the help she needs. I am still just speechless. I am not a “professional” but I don’t think she would be suddenly so scared of the baby Einstein worm just from “coaching”.
Thanks for coming to New Smyrna Beach! BUBBA ARMY! BUBBA ARMY!
May 14th, 2009 at 7:27 am
This guy is a sick bastard!!! He should be castrated, and then have his own member shoved down his throat!!!
May 14th, 2009 at 7:34 am
I’m from Richmond, VA and I think this situation is down right disqusting! Something more needs to be done and with this really happening and there is proof of it from the child this no staged act. Why isn’t something being DONE! That lil girl is going to be messed up more in later years. Instead these damn people in the world are more concerned about the damn beauty pagents and pictures coming up, who gives a crap about that garbage!?!? No one!!!!!!!!!!! WE CARE ABOUT THIS LITTLE GILR & ACTIONS NEED 2 BE TAKEN!!!
I feel as if the Daddy’s “WORM” needs to be chopped off and someone needs to put it in his face and make him play with it and shove it down his throat and choke on it.. This story listening to it made me want to throw up on my ride to work, I don’t understand how people can do something so SICK!!!!!!
May 14th, 2009 at 7:34 am
Bubba needs to pull out ALL the stops. I mean get Charlie Crist on the case, Tucker and anyone else who can draw attention to this case.
May 14th, 2009 at 7:35 am
I say we cut this guys ‘worm’ off, put it in HIS mouth, and make him clean himself up with a f*n napkin…. that is of corse before we handcuff him to a telephone pole and let every good, honest, mother and father in america unload a few rounds into his @$$. sick bastard.
May 14th, 2009 at 7:35 am
I have sent an email to the District Attorney and the Office of Victim Services. At the very LEAST, this evidence and case needs to be investigated thoroughly and without prejudice. Anything less would be a travesty and unacceptable.
Bubba and staff….you are good people for taking this situation and making it known to all outside of the local area. Our children need to be protected and kept safe…even if that means from their own parent.
May 14th, 2009 at 7:36 am
This is so terribly sad. My husband and I cannot have children, but adore them. I think this father should have his “rights” taken from him, and now! This child does not deserve such hell…there is enough of that when she gets older. I agree, cut it off and fed to him!
May 14th, 2009 at 7:37 am
I am a criminal investigator in Georgia and I work on child molestation cases on a weekly basis. I wish I worked in CA right now so I could help this child. Has the mother taken the child to a Child Advocacy Center and had a Forensic Interview done with the child? This is one of my first steps in getting a child away from the offender and being counseling for the child and the mother.
May 14th, 2009 at 7:37 am
“my daddys worm touches my fingers”? WHAT THE F**K? how could this monster get custody? someone needs to kick the judges AND the fathers ass. DROP THE PEOPLES HAMMER!
May 14th, 2009 at 7:39 am
I have never cried on my way into my office until today, it took every ounce of me to convince myself not to drive straight out west..
Great Show bubba
May 14th, 2009 at 7:40 am
Bubba this makes for great Radio, and child services should have investigated this immediately and on face value its sicking. Their are a couple other things wrong though. First we don’t even know if that is a real child’s audio in this video because you never see the child’s mouth or face. Then at the end when the mother comes in it’s to convenient. It really seams like a magicians trick. There is no evidentiary value in this at all. Also what are the Mother and aunt lesbians sleeping together also? Also the picture of the mother and baby the mothers not showing any concern for what is probably a abused child. Frankly it’s in my opinion probably all a scam to get this woman money and custody of the child. The only good thing that could come of this is to high light the plight of child abuse and government that doesn’t immediate investigate allegations of this type!
May 14th, 2009 at 7:41 am
Someone needs to do something about this!! OMG!! The truth needs to be told and if the father really did this, someone needs to do the right thing for this little girl! She has been damaged for the rest of her life and that is not fair to her. Someone please help this little girl!!
May 14th, 2009 at 7:45 am
I want to add to my first statement.When I heard the audio on the air I felt the same way as first as you guys.( my blood was boiling) I felt discussed and wanted to kill the guy, but after seeing the video I had my doubts.
May 14th, 2009 at 7:46 am
I listened to your show this morning, where you played the tape, and it made me sick to my stomach. Thanks for posting the letter which I am going to send immediately. There is strenght in numbers so please everyone get involved and send this letter ASAP – it just might help.
Thank you.
May 14th, 2009 at 7:46 am
Thank you so much for making this available. Without outlets like you, we would not know of such horrid acts of violence against children. I think this Bastard needs to be punished and everyone needs to stand up for this defensless girl and her mother. Shame on the court system for turning the other cheeck to this video. You can obviously tell it is not coached or staged. Hopefully justice will come to this little girl and her family. And for her good for nothing father, may he suffer through the endless ass raping he deserves when he gets to jail. THANKS BUBBA!!
May 14th, 2009 at 7:49 am
I have contacted ABCnews, Oprah Winfrey and Governor “Arnold” of California imploring each to take action. The more media coverage, the better for this little girl and that corrupt system in which she lives. I am a victim myself, of sexual and other forms of abuse and can tell you with near certainty, this is real and my heart goes out to Aaliyah and her Mother. I am 40 and have a daughter (7years old)….if anyone touched her…..well let’s just say, my innocense was taken from me as a child, I won’t tolerate it happening to my child. With the Grace of God, if it stops now, the memories may fade and she can have a normal life……thank you for airing this. Social Responsibility is up to all of us.
May 14th, 2009 at 7:49 am
I’m with everyone commenting. SICK F***!!!!!!! Let me know when the bus to California leaves. I’ll be there!!!
May 14th, 2009 at 7:55 am
Heard this this morning driving in to work… Not a great way to start off the day. :( As a mother, my Heart broke just listening to that little babies voice. As a HUMAN BEING, my Sicilian blood just about boiled over in my truck. I have sent the following to the Attorney General’s office per the link above, and will today send a certified letter to the California Review Board. A true investigation may very well prove the mother to be “out there” – but only a REAL investigation, looking at all of the facts can determine that. Personally, I’ve read all the info here, and on her website ( saveaaliyah.com) and I don’t think she is anything but terrified for her child. Thanks for helping spread the word about this. I enjoy listening to you kick the midget around, but THIS.. THIS is the kind of thing you guys excel at.. I realize that idiot is making life hell for you, and I support you going after him; I’m just saying that the passion you have for your career choice, and your ability to fire up others and get them involved, shows it’s true importance with stories like this. Deb
“I just this morning learned of the case of Aaliyah on my local Tampa radio station. I AM APPALLED that the courts have not even LOOKED at this video, or taken the abuse seriously. AN investigation SHOULD be done – PERIOD. Are you people crazy or just uneducated in your profession? HOW do you disregard potential child sexual abuse without even LOOKING at the evidence? And that baby is STILL with her FATHER? NUTS! An investigation.. a REAL ONE, may very well prove the mother to be a loon – but you won’t and CAN’T KNOW that until you INVESITATE IT FULLY. And as a mother of now teenagers, I can attest that a 2 1/2 year CANNOT be coached to say the things that poor baby does in that video. The ONLY leading remark I noticed in listening to it was the aunts “daddy shouldn’t make you touch his worm” but that is at the END of the video. And Auntie is right. Placer County disgusts me, and I hope through all of the people who are now becoming aware of this case country wide due to the new media presence, that Placer County, its judges, court officials, attorneys and police department are put under a microscope and that those who have abused their power, are made to pay highly for the transgression.”
May 14th, 2009 at 7:56 am
Bubba, I’m with you….get out the GLOCK. I just forwarded the video to Nancy Grace and asked her to expose this video to save this little girl before it is too late. Others should do the same, before it is too late !!
May 14th, 2009 at 7:59 am
Watching this video is absolutely disturbing!!! If California isnt going to step up and take care of this Beautiful little girl, then the mother needs to take her away from California, she needs to be a mother and do what ever it takes to save this baby from a life of hell!!!
May 14th, 2009 at 7:59 am
Good Morning Bubba,
I listened to the video when it was played this morning on my way to work and I couldn’t believe what I was hearing. As soon as I arrive at work I went onto your website to watch it for myself. I have never left to sick to my stomach. Something needs to be done to help this little girl, fast! I hope and pray that she will get all the help she needs to overcome her fears, because definetly something is wrong. God bless her and my prayers are with her.
May 14th, 2009 at 7:59 am
To read about this case, watch the video made me sick and upset.How can a father or anyone for that matter do this to there child.This is defentaly a case of Sexual abuse and this man needs to get the death sentance.You can tell that this is not coached or that the daughter is not making this up.A 2 1/2 year old has an imagination but not to this extent.I have 8 neices,nephews and expecting my 1st child, to know that this mother is not being herd goes to show how messed up our systems really are. This is a serious case and the judge should be investigated as the letter above states.I would do anything to help this mother as far as donating money or just her knowing that she has my support.I can only imagine how hard this must be on her to be passed off as crazy, knowing that this has been going on for god knows how long and if it still is happening.He should get the death sentence and be left to rot.or maybe put in prission to get raped and see how it feels.This child will never be right and have to face a life full of therapy.Please everyone help any way you can! Pray for the child and mother and that this child is saved.
May 14th, 2009 at 8:01 am
As I sit hear and listen to this I am so disgusted and saddened.I was a pre teen that was molested and cried out for help and was not believed,it was defastating and still at times affects me till this day and I am now 35 yrs old,to be believed and her Mother trying to help and no one listening is even more devastating.As a Mother now of a 10 yr old beautiful little girl I am always on gaurd for the digusting people like this man that are out there.And you can bet if she ever came to me with this type of crap I would believe,react and probably spend the rest of my life in prison.This is so sad and something has to be done,should’ve already been done.If there is the slightest doubt what would it have hurt to take the time to investigate this,shouldn’t even be a question.I will write the system and follow this story,the sad thing is that there are so many that go untold and unheard!
May 14th, 2009 at 8:01 am
I can only say one thing about this and that is This world is very messed up i hope the mother runs away somewhere where the father never sees her again this is sick if this in fact is true godbless this little girl and i pray that all of this goes away for her sake.
May 14th, 2009 at 8:08 am
Have you all forgotten that this man is innocent until proven guilty? Yes children can be coached to say these things and often are. Thank God for DNA as it has released numerous men from prison when people just like you all jumped to conclusions and put them there out of disgust at what is alleged rather than based on the evidence. There is no one here (Crystal U & Rebecca) qualified to determine if this girl has been coached or lead in any way. If this man did this to this girl then all the things suggested for him here should be done to him. If however the mother staged this, which vindictive mothers do (and worse) on a regular basis, then the things that should be done to him should be done to her instead. Either way, one of them should pay with dearly.
May 14th, 2009 at 8:20 am
this guy is sick. I have a daughter about this little girls age and it is to even think of someone doing that to her. this guy needs to be locked up.
i can’t even say what I would do if that happend to my little girl. but people have to step up and save this little girl before it is to late.
May 14th, 2009 at 8:22 am
GOOD MORNING I AM CRYING AS I TYPE THIS. I AGREE WITH THE OTHER COMMENTS AND WITH WHAT YOU SAID ON AIR BUBBA. WE NEED TO MAKE SURE THIS IS REAL AND REALLY HAPPENED. IF IT IS PROVEN THAT SICK S.O.B. DID THIS TO HIS OWN LITTLE GIRL HE SHOULD BE PUT IN A JAIL CELL WITH A REVOLVING DOOR THEN HE CAN BE THE ONE TOUCHING AND COUGHING ON WORMS. HOW DISGUSTING AND HOW SAD. GOD BLESS AALIYAH AMD MOM
BUBBA AND CREW KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK BUBBA ARMY!!!!!
May 14th, 2009 at 8:22 am
This is Disgusting, either if The Daddy is guilty or if the mother is playing mind games with this child…I say we SICK GRADY JUDD on them!…
Grady Grady!!!!!
May 14th, 2009 at 8:22 am
OMFG!!! This man doesn’t deserve prison, he deserves to die!!! A slow and painful death! How anyone could harm a child in any way is beyond me, but a parent! That is just unspeakable. I agree that we should load the bus and find this pond scum that thinks he is a man. Yes, I am a mom of a beautiful 16 yr old girl. And she is ready to jump on the bus with us………Let’s get’em!
May 14th, 2009 at 8:23 am
My husband and i listened to this show this morning and not only were we appalled and disturbed, but angry as well. If that little girls father had been in front of us, I’m not sure which one of us would’ve beat him to death faster. I hope for the child’s sake something is done soon.
May 14th, 2009 at 8:23 am
i just watched the video it is disturbing that this kind of abuse can happen with no investigation i hope its not true but if it is put the sick bastard under the jail i have a daughter of my own and my heart goes out to the child the video made me tear up and something needs to be done
mr wiseman
May 14th, 2009 at 8:27 am
I have written the attorney, signed the petition to get her home to her mom and forwarded your site and hers to my networks.
I can’t even begin to say how much I support and continue to appreciate your show everyday.
Thank you!!!
May 14th, 2009 at 8:27 am
I AM EMAILING YOU TO EXPRESS MY CONCERN ABOUT YOUR APPARENT LACK OF ATTENTION IN A CASE INVOLVING THE SEXUAL ABUSE OF A THREE YEAR OLD GIRL NAMED AALIYAH BEDWELL. I WATCHED THE VIDEO AND AM JUST SICK. Is your backround/ancestry Italian, if so I can’t believe you would not do something about this. Your mother must be very proud of you, sic. What action is being taken, is an investigation going on?
I will be forwarding this to Maria Shriver and also suggest that the radio station I heard this news reported on also
request that whoever hears this and knows about this child write to The First Lady and also the Governor.
You need help. You need to be removed from office.
Florence Kushner
145 Brighton D
Century Village West
Boca Raton, Florida
fkushner@yahoo.com
fax: 916-558-3160
attn: First Lady Maria Shriver
SaveAaliyah.com
http://www.btls.com/news/stories/save-baby-aaliyah.html
May 14th, 2009 at 8:30 am
[...] A video being distributed on the Internet is titled daddy’s worm shows Aaliyah Bedwell talking about her experience with her father. See Video Here [...]
May 14th, 2009 at 8:31 am
First of all, this story made me sick…I can only sympathize with the mother and aunt having to hear all that this 2 – 3 year old had to say. How disgusting it was to hear about her father doing this to her is beyond all comprehension!
The County and State of California should use this video as part of their investigation and overturn the decision of granting the mother full custody and send that “animal” to jail for LIFE!
May 14th, 2009 at 8:32 am
11 visits to CPS and they didn’t find anything wrong. I could believe maybe 1 or 2 people in protective services being corrupt, but 11 visits?
Give me a break.
May 14th, 2009 at 8:39 am
I simply say death is not good enough if this is not a story made up by mom coaching. But if she done this to get back at him then she needs the same sentence.
The loser is the child….
please someone help her
May 14th, 2009 at 8:43 am
This was quick…how I feel.
How to Kill a Pedophile
The punishment must always fit the crime
The exception is with a different type of slime
The evil of which I speak
Are a special type of freak
The innocence they destroy and take
Forever stays family that they break
The justice that is served to this special kind
Send them to hell and mess with their mind
One strike is all you get for this offense
Committing this crime there is no defense
Liberals will probable become undone
What if it was their daughter or son?
This crime can get us all pissed
Back yard justice is hard to resist
Should be, mess with a child and get the chair
But there are spineless politicians that don’t care
They vote with the loudest not the most
I wish they were haunted by the child’s ghost
Now, I am no saint, I am the bad in good
I could be their executioner and you know I would
A lot of liberties will be used on this job
It’s hard to tell where I start on this slob
A week is enough to complete the task
Staying professional is hard to ask
My job was simple, kill the crook
Trade pain for the innocence he took
Now with the sound proof room secured
I tell the bastard he is about to be cured
Copyright – Ricky Venus
May 14th, 2009 at 8:47 am
Everyone has got to think that something is wrong in this situation. I, myself have a 2 1/2 yr old lil girl and myself, am a victim of child molestation from my father. Whether the father IS doing something to Aaliyah, or not, the county should be looking into this. I think we should start a petition and all start making serious phone calls. I know that somthing like this can mess you up at a young age and haunt you for most of your life and even consume you sometimes! THIS LITTLE GIRL NEEDS OUR HELP!!!
May 14th, 2009 at 8:47 am
OK this is my opinion
where there is smoke there is fire!!!! And you have A forest fire going on here something needs to be done I can’t believe this guy can even see his daughter I mean come on there are too many red flags here to just look the other way !!!!! and allow this guy custody!!!! CUSTODY!!!! come on peaple!!!! DO THE RIGHT THING!!! GET HER OUT OF THERE!!!!!I mean everybody wants to find out who is at fault or who is to blam ( the dad is doing this) (the mom is doing that)ok I understand that- but get the little girl out of there and into a safe place while you figure out whats going on the last place she needs to be is with her father!!
DO THE RIGHT THING!!!!!!!!!
May 14th, 2009 at 8:48 am
This is a true story….we all know that kids say what they see..we have all been their one time or another (not in this situation)and I think something should be done! NOW!!!
May 14th, 2009 at 9:01 am
Sicko!!!
May 14th, 2009 at 9:35 am
I am horrified at the CPS response (lack thereof). I too was a “victim” of a biased judge (relating to another matter-not child abuse) and understand how incredibly frustrating it can be. This case needs to be moved to another county.
I am ready to board the bus for California; sharpened butchers knife ready to cut the guy’s d*** off and feed it to him.
May 14th, 2009 at 9:39 am
This is a flat out outrage for a judge to even think about sending the child to the so called father not only is it a sin but it is harmfull to the child in so many ways and this is letting this child belive that it is right whare is the law at in this state and the thing with stop abuse someone needs to do something this child should be with the mother not with trash that wants to abuse her.
DO SOMETHIG START EMAILING THE GOVENER AND ALL
May 14th, 2009 at 9:47 am
Wanna know the problem with the DA’s office in Placer County? Just try calling them, the automated recording tells you told hold on the line, then it rings about 35 times, and eventually cuts you off. Obviously these guys are either sleeping on the job, or maybe they saw the FL area code and knew what was coming, sure its not the first call. Sure to be more tomorrow. Any DA’s office around here would be in a world of shizz (with a Z) if they didn’t at least thoroughly follow up on this if not immediatly arrest this perv.
May 14th, 2009 at 9:48 am
I am outraged that nothing has been done to investigate these allegations.I am even more outraged that this child was placed in the custody of the accused child abuser! Something should have been done. Whether or not these allegations are true or not,(which I being abused myself as a child believe that this child was abused!),this child should have been removed from both parents custody and these allegations should have been investigated!!!!!!WTF is this world coming to!How can our judicial system let this happen! I am so glad there is a show like yours to help this lil girl!Your show so Kicks A$$!!!!Thanks to you hopefully this lil girl will get some help! Thanks Bubba Radio Network!!!!!
May 14th, 2009 at 9:48 am
Dear Bubba,
Your story this morning about Aaliyah touch my heart in more ways than one. Now that I have my emotions under control, I felt that I should send you and email and ask you to PLEASE do not give up on this story!!!! In 1994, here in Sarasota, Florida, my brother-in-law raped & murder my 3 year old niece on several occasions. Apparently he had been doing these acts on her since birth. Once she was able to speak and understand what was going on she told him that she was going to tell her mommy. He then murdered her. This act was a horrendous act which torn my family apart. He is currently serving a life sentence in Hardee County Correction. Unfortunately she is no longer with us. But Aaliyah is and she needs protection from this monster! PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE do not let this monster get away with this anymore. Thank you for taking the time to read this! YOU ARE THE BEST!!!!!
May 14th, 2009 at 9:51 am
CONTACT THE GOVERNORPrintable VersionGovernor’s Office:
Governor Arnold Schwarzenegger
State Capitol Building
Sacramento, CA 95814
Phone: 916-445-2841
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May 14th, 2009 at 9:52 am
Turned on Bubba as I do every other morning and thought I was listening to another spoof when I heard Aaliyah’s precious voice. OMG, my heart is broken for this little girl. And until an OFFICAL inquiry is done and full investigation is completed I am confused as to who to direct my hatred towards. If the mother is creating this scenario then damn her for the damage she is about to inflict on her child. If the father is truly that sorry of a piece of $*it then the damage he has done and I`m sure continues to do is beyond repair. Either way this little girl is the victim. What a sick sick world we as a society have created!!!! Eye for an Eye I SAY!!! BUBBA ARMY BUBBA ARMY
May 14th, 2009 at 9:54 am
This is beyond words. Just tell me what I need to do to help. I have a 2 yr old daughter myself and a brother with two boys under 4 that is going thru this very same type of situation with divorce and custody (although non-sexual abuse..but abuse nonetheless) so I feel your pain and frustration. He’s besides himself with what to do and everyone thinks he’s crazy. He has proof but no one cares. It’s really something to know that all our tax paying dollars are going to court systems that are biased based upon “who you know” or “how much money you have”. *sigh*
I really hope all this attention will finally get someone to listen or pull someone out of the woodwork to finally help. I pray for this little girl and her mother.
May 14th, 2009 at 9:55 am
HEAR IS HIS WEB FOR EMAILING THE GOV,
http://gov.ca.gov/interact
May 14th, 2009 at 10:01 am
I sent the letter, but changed it-I am a stickler for grammar, etc. Here it is:I am writing to you to express my concern about your apparent lack of attention in a case involving the sexual abuse of a three year old girl, Aaliyah Bedwell. The Internet video, in which the little girl describes her “Daddy’s Wormâ€, is disturbing to say the least. What’s more disturbing is the way this case has been handled by your office. You are the highest Law Enforcement Official in Placer County, California. You have the responsibility to protect this child when the allegation of sexual abuse is brought to your attention, which by all accounts was over eight months ago.
The suspect in this case has an attorney, Mrs. Sandra Amara, whose husband is also a judge. If Judge Dirk Amara is meddling in this case, it is also your duty to investigate him. Judge Frances Kearney removed herself from this case, and stipulated that a judge from a different county would hear it. This is a step in the right direction, however, it does not absolve you of your responsibility to investigate, and become involved when there are credible allegations of serious sexual crimes, like this one.
It is paramount for the well being of children in your county that you prosecute those suspected of child sexual abuse, to the fullest extent of the law, without exception. Anything else is unacceptable for a District Attorney. As a parent of two children, I implore you to protect this child, prosecute the offender, and uphold the laws of your state. You need to take this very seriously before this child is beyond the help and protection she deserves.
May 14th, 2009 at 10:07 am
There are two tapped video calls to the mom on the blog , at http://www.ChildProtectionCommunity.com, listen to the mom and you tell me if you think she is lying?
Over an hour of her own account of this nightmare, and her trying to save her daughter. Being called crazy and no one listening?
Hear her side and see what you think/
May 14th, 2009 at 10:10 am
it’s so hard to tell if this is real or not. First of all, why would you set up a tape and record all of this and have the words put on the screen and go through so much trouble. Just take the kid to the police and let them ask her questions. The police have a way of asking and getting information from abused children.
If the guy did touch this kid, fry him! But I just can’t tell if its real or not. This chick looks psyco!
chad
May 14th, 2009 at 10:13 am
[...] A video being distributed on the Internet is titled daddy’s worm shows Aaliyah Bedwell talking about her experience with her father. See Video Here [...]
May 14th, 2009 at 10:44 am
Just saw the video after hearing about it earlier. Bubba, all I can say is if the father is investigated and found to be guilty of this sick, sick child abuse/molestation, then he deserves to be prosecuted to the fullest extent of the law (bear in mind, we ARE talking about CALIFORNIA, however)…if it ends up being the mother coaching her child, and yes, children CAN be coached at a young age, then she, too, is guilty of child abuse and again I say, should be prosecuted to the fullest extent of the law. Generally, I am of the belief that “out of the mouths of babes comes the truth,” but have seen it happen where a parent can get little ones to say horribly bad things about the other parent in an attempt to get back at them for something they feel is an injustice. This mother needs to get this little girl to a child psychologist immediately to try and see if this is indeed something that is happening. There are many qualified and experienced in this field to work with little ones this way and they do a lot through play therapy. If she has not/does not do this, then I have my doubts about the validity of this, as putting it on UTube is in no way going to help this child. It will then REEK of her being the guilty one, because if it were ME, I’d be appealing to whoever I had to, medically, psychiatrically, psychologically, to get HELP for my child, not putting her little angelic face all over UTube!! Years down the road, if this video resurfaces, the child will have other problems to deal with. She is going to have enough as it is when the truth comes out either way. If that father is guilty, the other posters and I share the same sentiments…cut it off and shove it down his throat…there would be no shortage of volunteers standing in line to do this. If it is the mother, every hair on her body should be pulled out one by one and hot bleach poured over her for victimizing her child for personal gain. This case needs to be investigated in BOTH directions and the truth will out. There are some sick parents out there…it’s a shame these babies are subjected to them. It’s a shame the California DCF and the justice system does NOT come to the aid of this child. She should be taken away from BOTH parents, placed in a safe home with a trusted family member or friend or whoever, and a COMPLETE investigation of BOTH parents needs to take place…again, I say…CALIFORNIA…it is what it is…just my opinion…
I will email the governor and whoever else I can think of regarding this! Either way, it is a sick sick situation!! Poor little baby!
May 14th, 2009 at 10:46 am
Absolutely disgusting and completely disturbing. The individuals of the “Good ‘ole Boys” who are in favor of assisting him, due to personal connections, should also hang with him. Bubba is frightenly correct when he points out the potentially mind numbing and gut wrenching acts that are constantly being handled by “Good ‘ole Boys” throughout the world on a daily basis. Love the show!!
May 14th, 2009 at 11:24 am
EVERY single person who has touched this case or even glanced at it and pushed it aside should face felony charges of the most severe kind… To say I am ENRAGED is a hideous understatement… The pathetic excuse for the Placer County D.A. already dropped the ball so badly that any corespondence to him should automatically come with a carbon copy to the State of California and probably someone on a Federal level just to be sure as many eyes are on this as possible… I know you guys aren’t looking for personal accolades in any form or fashion, but THANK YOU for continuing to do the things that absolutely need to be done, using your power to do the right thing and get things done…
May 14th, 2009 at 11:29 am
Bubba and guys great stance to take that either way some thing is wrong ,and that precious little girl is being in some way abused.Being the dad of two girls myself I found a tear run down my face hearing it and just as hard when I watched it later at work.Bubba not to mention the neglect of a communities judicial system that’s more than the good ole boy network,rather a crime by each judge that refused to air on the side of caution and view this tape.Would love to hear the mom on the show not because im 100% sure its real,but simply cause she is the one making the allegations.Bubba you need to be more than peoples hammer on this one,please we must find the truth out and get that girl checked out immediately.Love the show and what you all do,good luck guys.
May 14th, 2009 at 11:36 am
If the judge and attorney are married, that represents a huge problem of favoritism. Anyone protecting this guy should be prosecuted. And while it looks amazingly bad for the dad, are we 100 % sure this has not been investigated properly? or are we just going off of what’s in the video. The bottom line is that if it’s true, which it appears to be, throw the guy in the lion pit and let them lay waste to him.
May 14th, 2009 at 11:38 am
I’m a mother of 2 small childern. I have a husband that had a child before we got together. We had contact on and off with this boy for about 8 years. His mother had boyfriend after boyfriend, we of course never met any of them. The mother of this boy, who was 9 at the time, was going through some money problems and at this point we were all trying to get along so we took him in for her until she got back on her feet.
My husband and I did with him what we did with both our other childern raised them the only way we knew how..with love and discipline. My husband and I are both hard workers and we try and do the best that we can.
Well when this boy came into our lives we didnt know a whole lot about the back ground because the mother only allowed us to see him when she wanted something. So no questions asked we brought him into our home and treated him as if he was one of mine. This kid was sweet and loving at the begining. Things around the house came up missing. Money, credit cards, and jewerly. That was the least of our worries..
After dealing with that problem, which he blamed his 5 yr old sister for framing him on all the stolen stuff. We got a call from my best friend one afternoon her telling me that her son ,which came to the house all the time to play because her son and my daughter are 6 weeks apart, came home and told her the thing that my husbands son wad doing to my daughter in the closet. My best friends son told us everything that happened and he also told us that the 9 year old told the the 5 year old that if the told he would hurt them. I immediately called the mother of the 9 yr. old and told her to come in get her son. The next step I did was called DCF because I thought they would beable to help my daughter. In the state of Florida they have 24 hours to come out and investigate. So this so called “case worker” showed up and took the 9 yr. old to his room and talked to him for about 30-45 mins. Then they pulled my daughter to her room and talked to her for maybe 5 mins. Then the “case worker” cam out and told me she would call us in a couple of day , in the mean time the 9 yr old needed to go back with the mother. instead the mother didnt want him and he ended up with the grandmother, which i dont think is any better they are pot smoking nudest!
The next day the “case worker” called us and informed us that the the boy would be going to the Childrens Advocacy. Now there is where victims are taken to help cope with what happens to them.
I guess the more the “case worker” got into it she came across an old file that the 9 yr old had told somebody that things happened to him at one point of time with one of her boyfriends old boys. So because nothing came of the case and the mother didnt pursued the alligation the case was dropped.
So because this boy was a victim back when he was 5 , but now he is 9 and doing the same thing to my daughter that was done to him, they “DCF” treated him as the victim and not the predator. They “DCF” pretty much pushed my daughter to the side and focused on him. Which he needs it dont get me wrong , but what about my daughter and her innocence that was lost at 5 yrs. old. I am sure at one point he was the victim but not this time , he was the predator. To this day my daughter still hasnt got any help , we dont talk about it and we never see the boy. And we never bring his name up. we hate to be that way but when somebody hurts your child like that what do u do? People say that they would do this and they would do that, but until it happens , God forbid, you never truely know what to do.
I believe that the mother did not coerce a 2 yr old into saying those terrible things. A 2 yr old mind spand isnt that well that she could keep that going for as long as she did. As for the father to get full custody that is completely wrong on someones part. That could mess that sweet angel up even more than she could already be.
As a mother of a molested child my heart goes out to that mother..God gives us precious little gifts from heaven and for someone to hurt them in anyway is horrible…
My heart goes out to the beautiful little angel sent down from heaven , i will keep her in my prayers and in my heart until she returns home where she belongs in her mothers arms!
From one mother to another keep your head high all of us mothers are behind you!
May 14th, 2009 at 11:57 am
I have two children one two, one four and its hard enough to get my two year old to say her name let alone coach her to say things of this nature. The fact that the attorney of this creep suggested that is beyond mental comprehension. If this mother really wanted custody I doubt that she would bring allegations of molestation to the front.
The simple fact that she may using her connections in the court system to help her should rule her as unfit to be his lawyer. Conflict of interest to start with.
This guy is a disgusting low life and isn’t fit to be allowed in public without being ashamed of his existence. If this video and the countless others aren’t reviewed by the police then we can lose all faith in the judicial system and take the law into our hands. How can you trust the courts and police if they are too lazy to review this seriously?
May 14th, 2009 at 12:25 pm
I can’t beleive that this guy is still alive!!!I have two children myself and if I ever heard this about my children they would already be DEAD!!!!This is the worst thing anyone can do to a child… asfar as the count she lives in maybe there needs to be a investagation on the DA,police and the judge!!!! they need to know that ANY child abuse allegations need to be looked at immediately
May 14th, 2009 at 12:44 pm
this f###in guy needs to be strung up by his ankles, castrated and LITERALLY ball-gagged if you catch my drift, all while being fully conscious so he knows every bit of what’s goin on. then you just let him bleed to death. this guy is an absolute waste of semen. he is worse than broken and i know for a fact that if i lived in california this guy would be dead.
May 14th, 2009 at 1:09 pm
Bubba, im a juvenile corrections officer and my wife is a preschool teacher,we are also parents of four boys and this story made us sick to our stomachs. i think that the father is a sick bastard who needs to be put in general population with inmates who are fathers and let poetic justice take care of him and as far as him having custody, the judge who awarded it needs to be pulled off the bench permenatly.
May 14th, 2009 at 1:15 pm
We think this guy needs a taste of his own medicine…sick bastard…im sure the california state prison system has plenty of worms for this f### to choke on! PROSECUTE CHILD SEX OFFENDERS THE SAME WAY THEY OFFEND!
May 14th, 2009 at 1:31 pm
hi Bubba! You really need to listen to #13′s response. This is the saddest thing. Now what?! Are you gonna get blamed for bringing this to light? That poor baby is the innocent and if they go the “Tainted Route” then Ally is done for for sure!!!
May 14th, 2009 at 1:36 pm
I just wanted to thank you, Bubba. Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!
May 14th, 2009 at 2:04 pm
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May 14th, 2009 at 2:12 pm
Im throughly disgusted!!!!!! Today was the first time I ever turned the radio down cause i felt sick to my stomach. thank you, all of you for bringing this to our attention. thank all of you for all you do for us in the Tampa area. F.T.E
May 14th, 2009 at 2:17 pm
This is why humans need to take a test before they become parents!!!!!!!!! I’ve listened to you since your first day at 98 ROCK and this morning was the very first time I EVER turned the radio down because i was sick to my stomach!!!!! As a half-way decent human much less a parent of 2 boys this made me sick to watch. Great work guys…..Keep it up F.T.E from Dade City, Fl.
May 14th, 2009 at 2:20 pm
bubba, i love your show. i listen every morning as i get my kids off to school. when i heard about this girl this morning, my heart broke in a million pieces. even my husband was ticked. but like we said, if the mom IS coaching the girl then she needs to go to jail for this too. i feel he should be shot so he never hurts her again,but so should the mom if she is coaching her to hurt her dad. when kids are 2, they look up to BOTH parents and they want both mom and dad there for everything. we have 5 kids and at one time or another they wanted me or their dad, this did not upset me, they need their dad too and i need mom time. maybe i am weird ,but i could NOT IMAGING SAYING THINGS ABOUT MY HUSBAND TO THE KIDS. HE IS GREAT, I HAVE BEEN WITH HIM SINCE WE WERE IN HIGH SCHOOL. i was 15 when i met him and i am now 42. i need him just as much as i need my kids. i love him more than life itself. i can’t image life without any of them. bubba, i also love hearing hulk hogan with you. i am a big fan of wrestling, i have watched it since hulk won the belt from the iron sheik way back when. thank you for keeping me smiling during the day. i would love a window sticker if you could send one or let me know how much they are. keep up the GREAT work!!!! BUBBA ARMY, BUBBA ARMY!!!!
May 14th, 2009 at 2:27 pm
first of all castrate the bastard then this motherfu**er should be executed he is a mean a**hole this should be brought to justice…………AND FOR THE MOM AND LITTLE GIRL IM SO SORRY THAT THIS HAPPENED TO HER I WISH YOU WILL GET THE CUSTODY SOON……
May 14th, 2009 at 2:31 pm
Hi Bubba and Crew,
I heard this story this morning and cried for Aaliyah. When I got to work, I checked out their website and it completely broke my heart. After reading all of the entries in her journal,needeless to say I was in a state of shock. I am a mother of a 2 year old little boy and just the thought of having to go through something like this makes me sick to my stomach. I know that there are two sides to every story and hopefully the truth will come out and justice will prevail. I pray to God that this little girl isn’t ruined for life. I want to thank you and your crew for bringing this to us, the public. We would never had known what was going on. You get a lot of criticism for the “bad” things you do, but you don’t always get the praise that you deserve…I want to give it up to you for trying to get involved and help out this poor defenseless baby!!!! Keep up the great work…Us women listeners LOVE YOU!!!!
Christina
May 14th, 2009 at 3:01 pm
Bubba, I watched the video and listen to the tape twice. I dont feel this little girl was coached in any way. we all have children and you know when your child is repeating something you have told them especially something they need to repeat back again. They tend to say things in the middle for apporval such as “like that mommy” or “say it like that mommy” things of that nature and even when her mother starts to cry you would think the child might say “but mommy you said to say that” or something to that nature also. This is a sick act that is being done and it needs to be stopped. I like you would have been loading up at the first hit of the “worm” and made sure that the “worm” never came around again. There are also some ways they can see if she is talking about the “worm” we all think she is. Maybe put a few pictures of WORMS in front of her such as a glow worm, the green worm (she doesnt like), a pic of a penis (trust me I KNOW its not pretty) & a real pic of a worm, to see which one she picks up when talking about this so called “worm”. She speaks very well for a 2 1/2 year old, and she never backs down from her story. The problem is now that this is all out. What happens when she goes back to daddy’s house?? what is he going to say or make her say…
May 14th, 2009 at 3:04 pm
I don’t think we know enough as of yet. But this is very disturbing.
It doesn’t sound like she was coached, as her comments are too off colored, as a normal 2-3 yr old, not sounding rehearsed.
If it is true, there is no punishment enough for this non-man
If it isn’t there is no punishment for the mom that isn’t.
May 14th, 2009 at 3:08 pm
I want to tell you thank you for posting this and bringing it to the attention of others. I work for a law office and we have cases in Placer county and I would like to validate what you are saying about the county. It is a disgrace that they even heard this case in the county with all of the connections going on. Thank you again for bringing this mis-justice to everyone’s attention.
May 14th, 2009 at 3:09 pm
Bubba it breaks my heart to think that there is nothing being done for this little girl.I have 2 children and one being a 2yr old little girl and if someone did this to her i would take justice into my own hands.i agree with everything you said and strongly believe that child molesters should be put to death.SICK FREAKS!!!!And anyone who aides a child molester should face the same penalty.HOW WOULD THOSE COPS AND JUDGES FEEL IF IT HAPPENED TO THIER CHILDREN!!!!!!!
May 14th, 2009 at 3:11 pm
I am a victim of child molestation. I feel this little girls pain, my case also was thrown out because of my age. I could not give full details because i was scared but my older sister was also abused and she came forward and they took her word but the sad part was he only got probation. There were more children involved and the sad thing was he was still granted visitation as long as there was an adult present at all times. It still haunts me till this day. Someone please help this little girl!!!! God please watch over her.
May 14th, 2009 at 3:12 pm
Someone needs to save this baby! I am going to tweet this asap and sign on to kgb and tell the people there to help. This poor baby. I feel so bad for her
May 14th, 2009 at 3:23 pm
One word, disgusted.
May 14th, 2009 at 3:26 pm
I watched the video and was disgusted at what I heard. I fought back tears. If he has done and is still doing this to this child he should be strung up by his “worm”. Where are the people who can help this poor child? She’s trying in her own way to reach out for help! It would take an army to hold me of if this was happening to my child!
May 14th, 2009 at 3:29 pm
This a**hole needs to be dealt with. To hear this happen to a girl it sickening and I cried listening to this information today. Bubba army save this little girl and her mom.
May 14th, 2009 at 3:32 pm
I am a 21 yeard old father of a 6 month old baby boy, and i have legal custody of my 4 year old nephew. It is truely mind blowing things are overlooked like this. Now that I am a father figure i look at everything in a new light. My heart broke for this girl.
I went through the same while getting custody of my nephew. He was dropped off at day care and never picked up. My mom picked him up and noticed a huge burn on the side of his face. He claimed someone put his face to the coil of a stove top. The sherrif was called child protections were called.
That day my mom took him to the doctor and he confirmed that what my nephew told my mom matched the injury he had on his face. No charges were filed, no investigations at all.
To this day if his mother wanted to get him back she could. This stuff happens everywhere. I hope something is done about this SOON.
May 14th, 2009 at 3:33 pm
Bubba-
Please dont play this again tomorrow for the Sirius show – its being played right now. Its a tragedy if its real, but we listen to you to be entertained – you brought it to our attention -we can act if we want to – please continue on with the hillbilly hijinx
you are a good man bubba
May 14th, 2009 at 3:39 pm
This little girl need to get in safe arms A.S.A.P. im a father of three and id be on my way to prison right now if this was one of my baby girls.Californa neens to do something fast.im leaving on this that sick bastard need to be charge
May 14th, 2009 at 3:40 pm
I think this guy need to be taken to ned’s place for about a week then turned over to the prison population so they can show him just how much they like child rapo’s,if he is still alive after ned’s place!
May 14th, 2009 at 3:40 pm
I have a little girl myself. She is five years old. I could’nt even begin to think of what is going on, and if this guy is guilty…..I would cut his dick off! I hope that this little innocent girl has not been hurt in any way. I hope that this is story is false and this guy is not doing this to his daughter. This sucks for everyone especially for the little girl.
May 14th, 2009 at 3:42 pm
I dont what kind people live there but if i knew this was going on id do my best to stop it like kick in his door and break his fingers just to start, the fact nothing so far has happened legally or otherwise just blows my mind!
May 14th, 2009 at 3:43 pm
I am a 30 year old man, and i am crying my eyes out right now after watching that video. I am printing out the letter now and my wife just went to get some stamps. BUBBA ARMY we have to step up on this one. Post links to this and the SaveAaliyah.com site on every web page you see today!!! Sports pages, Entertainment Pages, etc… GET THE WORD OUT THIS WOMAN DESPRATELEY NEEDS OUR HELP!!!! Mail your letters and donate what you can. Bubba, Brent and the Crew: Thank you once again for bringing light to an incredible injustice!!! Gotta go Mail Something. BUBBA ARMY FUCKIN REPRESENT HERE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
May 14th, 2009 at 3:43 pm
Bubba, your specialist commented on the fact that the mother could have taught the child to do this. What about the bruises and the abuse? I am, just like millions of children, a victim of this type of abuse/molestation. I know first hand how hard it is to get anything done or get any convictions. The person doing the abuse will OF COURSE deny and do anything to get the attention off of him/her. For the most part, society views this as one of the worst crimes. So, the abuser would never want that conviction. The way that she responded and the repetition of the words and sentences she used are too obvious to the reality of the abuse. I do not believe the mother is crazy. This disgusting piece of ************** should be sentenced to death. No matter what happens in my life, I will always have had that in my life and no one deserves that.
May 14th, 2009 at 3:47 pm
What a sick f**k . I hope people recognize this guy on the street(which he should not be on) and take care of business. It is absolutely appalling to me that someone could treat a child like this. I hope justice is served for whomever is involved and maybe Placer County needs to have a higher authority look into matters as to why this tape has been passed through.
May 14th, 2009 at 3:54 pm
This guy needs a taste of his own medicine>!!!!
May 14th, 2009 at 4:02 pm
Bubba, As much as this video sickens me, I’ll consider the mother may have told Aaliyah what to say. The case needs to be investigated. It is disgusting and sickening to me that the video was ignored by our courts and police departments. The sad thing is that there are hundreds or thousands of other cases that are also being ignored. I’m glad to see you’re giving this story the much needed air time.
May 14th, 2009 at 4:02 pm
God bless this poor baby and protect her.Abusers are so used to getting away with things like this that they no longer take the law seriously.Ask yourself”how many people do you know who have been abused?”it shouldnt be that commonplace that each and every one of us know so many victims,the law enforcers need to take that into consideration before they let these b*st*rds get away with it!!!!!
May 14th, 2009 at 4:07 pm
Hey Bubba
I was not able to listen to all of the “Daddys Worm” video this morning or afternoon but I just finished watching it and I agree with you and almost everyone that has commented on this.
This sick bastard needs some Real good ol boy justice. When he gets put in jail they should put him in with gen pop so he can get a taste of some big burly redneck or brothers sticky worm on a nightly basis.
Thanks for having the balls to bring this to the publics attention.
Mike
May 14th, 2009 at 7:40 am
Bubba this makes for great Radio, and child services should have investigated this immediately and on face value its sicking. Their are a couple other things wrong though. First we don’t even know if that is a real child’s audio in this video because you never see the child’s mouth or face. Then at the end when the mother comes in it’s to convenient. It really seams like a magicians trick. There is no evidentiary value in this at all. Also what are the Mother and aunt lesbians sleeping together also? Also the picture of the mother and baby the mothers not showing any concern for what is probably a abused child. Frankly it’s in my opinion probably all a scam to get this woman money and custody of the child. The only good thing that could come of this is to high light the plight of child abuse and government that doesn’t immediate investigate allegations of this type!
I know that Bubba didnt put this on the air for “Great Radio” He played it because he,being a father himself is concerend about this child and if the guy is innocent and the mother coached Aaliyah then I will be the first one after bubba and crew to appolaqize.
May 14th, 2009 at 4:10 pm
Had to turn off show this guy is a pile of crap!!!
May 14th, 2009 at 4:13 pm
if this is a true representation and in fact the girl has not been coached (which i tend to believe)all u need do is put this sick bastard and his worm in the general population of any prison and his worm would be hangin limp from his own mouth.even prisoners loath and detest child molesters and serve prison justice.
May 14th, 2009 at 4:22 pm
I am also an abused child. This is very heart breaking for me, a 13 year old kid.This is sad and something should be done. Justice should be served. I never said anything when it happened to me. I waited for a couple years because I was scared. But I felt better when justice was servered. I hope they get this messed up person and throw him in prison where he belongs. If nothing is done it will keep going on and he might even evetually kill her. Especially scince she said it to pretty much everyone. I hope she gets help and this sick son of a gun get his butt throw in jail, that would make Aaliyah, her mom, her aunt, me and hundreds if not thousands of people fell better.
May 14th, 2009 at 4:23 pm
Nobody deserves this. I Didn’t, she didn’t, nobody deserves it.
May 14th, 2009 at 4:24 pm
What the ?????? I’m so lost for word’s how can anyone say this is a coached child no way a child that age would know the things she know’s it’s peoople like this that ruin the children of today and we wonder why we have murders and robbers drug addicts this is sad at the least and it’s no wonder our world is in shambles…. A Tape like this warrents a 9mm shot to the head no questions asked and if you question the mother you need a bullet too then maby our country could start being normal
May 14th, 2009 at 4:26 pm
Bubba, This sick BASTARD needs to be hung by his thumbs and casterated and feel every bit of the pain and then he needs to be SHOT!!!!
May 14th, 2009 at 4:26 pm
Bubba, Why would the mother implicate herself by taping this if she told the baby what to say. That doesn’t make sense. That child could not remember what to say during that taping word for word if the mother had told her what to say. Her father is a sick bastard and needs to be hung by his balls. A child that young could not make up a story like that unless it was happening.
May 14th, 2009 at 4:31 pm
My heart goes out to the mother and child.. I too was a young girl getting sexually abused at one point. I was so scared to say anything. This little is being so brave by telling her story in the best way she knows how. I pray everyone reading this will do everything they can to help her. Thank you bubba for reaching out. I know you have started opening many doors to try and get this little girl home!
May 14th, 2009 at 4:34 pm
Never see the little girl talking its just audio. I hope it is fake because if it isnt this guy needs to be given to marcellus wallace.
If it is fake you guys just slandered this dude pretty good.
Video definitely could be made though not hard to do and women who lose custody of their kids would do it in a heartbeat.
May 14th, 2009 at 4:34 pm
What a sick f***. He needs to end up in the big house with the guys who hate child molesters. They will handle him there way. This poor child needs all the help she can get along with mom. May GOD bless you both.
May 14th, 2009 at 4:35 pm
im sick that there are actually people that think this mite be staged!! this is a two and a half yr old little girl. the video was taken in the dark. there is no way this poor little girl could remember what or how to say all that stuff. get a grip on reality here people, listen to her voice. this girl is genuine, her voice so innocent. someone has to help get this girl away from her father. and he should be casterated. if that was my daughter, he would be dead!!!! how can i help with this?
May 14th, 2009 at 4:42 pm
This poor poor little girl. I have a 3yo son and I totally believe little Aaliyah is experiencing horrific abuse by her father and grandfather, just by the way she communicates it. This is so tragic and sickening. We always go on and on about the poor children AFTER they end up dead, well here’s our chance to do something before that happens. KEEP THIS STORY ALIVE.
May 14th, 2009 at 4:46 pm
Can’t believe this video. Shocked that someone who is a father (and I am not so sure he deserves to be even considered that) could do something so horrible and heinous to a young child. If castration is ever a legalized punishment, put this bastard on top of the list to be the first one to have it removed! Then you can beat the living hell out of him! Any kind of punishment that makes him suffer the rest of his life works!
May 14th, 2009 at 4:46 pm
I just don’t know what to say. Unbeleivable that this has not been looked into after so long. Listening to this on the show while my little 15 month old girl was napping and it really choked me up. I even felt a moment of extreme anger (my thoughts of what I would like to do scared even myself). I really hope all the talk today helps the system move forward through the preasure they will be getting now.
May 14th, 2009 at 4:48 pm
Will someone please find this guy and kill him?
May 14th, 2009 at 4:48 pm
I am speechless. Keep getting the work out, please! Let me know what more I can do, I already went to the link and contacted the child services, and so on. If this lady needs a fund to hire a good lawyer, let us know.
Keep it up guys.
May 14th, 2009 at 4:50 pm
As an abuse survivor of the same type of abuse as this little girl, they really, really need to investigate this. Listening to this has stirred up so many horrible memories, and its made my stomach turn. The only thing about this that I can hope, if this is happening, is that shes too young to remember it if it ends soon. Mine did not end until I was 9, so sadly, I have the majority of my memories and I lack a normal childhood. I hope everyone gets involved to at least cause an investigation to occur. To anyone who hasnt been through this, you have no idea how this affects you LIFE LONG. I am now soon to be 30, and there is not a day that goes by that I dont think about what was done to me. Please God or someone out there, help this little girl if this is happening. Please dont let this continue. I’m begging, if this is real. :(
May 14th, 2009 at 4:52 pm
While driving in Placer County this afternoon and tuning into the Bubba Show as I do each and everyday for a good laugh, I literally broke down in tears while listening today! Words cannot describe how disgusted I am that this kind of injustice can happen to a little girl anywhere in the United States, but the fact that it is happening in my backyard makes me even sicker!!! I will be sending my letter in as well as passing this on to each and every person I know so that something can be done to save this little girl! My heart and prayers go out to Aaliyah and her Mother! I do not believe for one minute this little girl is being leaded in anyway! Her Daddy is sick and needs to be put away forever!!!
May 14th, 2009 at 4:53 pm
I am so deeply sickened and saddened by what I heard on the video tape you played today. As the father of both a daughter 18, and son 16, I think that getting a glock out would be the least of the father’s worries. If this does turn out to be a true event, it has to be made known that whatever prison he gets sent to what he did, and make sure that the inmates get a hold of him. Sex crimes against a child are the lowest form of scum in a prison.
I feel so sorry for that poor little girl. For some bastard to steal her innocence, the world is hard enough, the longer that a child has pure innocence, the better.
Thanks for bringing this matter to little Budda and crew!
May 14th, 2009 at 4:55 pm
—-> PLEASE WRITE THE DISTRICT ATTORNEY!!!
If this really concerns you, write the district attorney and tell him. Copy and Paste the letter at the top of this page, if nothing else.
TAKE ACTION!!!
DO SOMETHING!!!!!
May 14th, 2009 at 5:01 pm
this is bullshit someone need to help tanks bubba
May 14th, 2009 at 5:06 pm
I agree with Dr. Jay Flens. Both interpertations of the story are damaging to the child. Someone needs to get to the bottom of this problem before it causes more damage for this little girl. Both parties need to know that everything that is going on and being said about the other parent will be embeded into this childs mind. The authorities need to work on this case and find the truth for this little girl.
May 14th, 2009 at 5:08 pm
Hey Bubba and the boys thank you for taking a stand on this issue I heard you on Howard 101 today and this make me sick. I have 4 little neices and couldnt believe someone could do this to a young child. I created a facebook group for this cause and gave this website and the saveaaliyah site. The group is open to the public and please join and send your friends so we can help this poor little girl. http://www.facebook.com/home.php?ref=home#/group.php?gid=92865122089&ref=nfends
May 14th, 2009 at 5:31 pm
I cannot even finish listening or watching the video. I am a mother and a grandmother. My granddaughter is close to her age. There is no way that child is coached. They are pure and innocent. They say what they think and what they feel.Remove the child. The mother nor the father matter. It is the child that matters. She has no voice in our system. Let someone speak for her. Thank you Bubba for being a voice for the innocent child. God Bless you.
May 14th, 2009 at 5:31 pm
Either way you look at this. Ture or false the fact is that it must be looked at now. Save the child. I don’t care who is innocent or guilty. My concern is for the child and she must be saved now. Thank you for bringing this issue to my attention and I will do what I can to help in the cause. Which ever way you slice this issue it is Aaliyah being hurt.
May 14th, 2009 at 5:33 pm
I CANT BELIEVE A CRIME LIKE THIS IS NOT TAKEN ANY MORE SERIOUS THAN IF IT WERE SHOP LIFTING. THIS FATHER AND THE PEOPLE COVERING THIS UP SHOULD BE DEALT WITH AND A SERIOUS PUNISHMENT GIVEN THEM.
May 14th, 2009 at 5:39 pm
this little girl was obviously coached!! you can hear the little girl pausing and trying to remember the words. hell u can even hear the mother mumbling in the back at times!! has anybody even realized that the ENTIRE conversation happens just off screen! this only one guilty of anything here is the BITCH MOTHER for making her precious child even utter such disgusting words and put her through this type of stress! im dealing with a bitch just like this! the only reason i bet she hasnt tried this is cause we have a son and not a daughter! this bitch needs to be hauled under the lights and broken down!! cmon people..they gave him custody because they have seen the video and realize that the mother is a piece of shit!! its been 8 months because they are building a case against her not him! f### this hoe!!
May 14th, 2009 at 5:40 pm
This is horrible. I hope Justice is served!!
As for Chris We don’t need listners like you glad to hear you tuned out.
May 14th, 2009 at 5:43 pm
Ok we have some serious alligations here that need to be investigated fully. My question is does the state have something that says that this is all a hoax? If not everyone in the SA’s office needs to be taken out tied to and shot along with the father or mother which ever is playing games here. I know first hand kids can be coached as my father in law was accused of these types of acts by his ex wife’s daughter but after an investigation it was prooved that the alligations were false so to just push this under the rug is just criminal! With that said if it comes to light that the father reall did these things we need to make sure the people responsible for the delay in action and placing this child in danger are brought up on criminal charges at the verry least. Now if mom is just playing games to get her child I understand a mother has to do anything in her power to get her child but somehting like this is absurd and she should never see the light of day let alone the little girl. Bubba dont stop pushing this untill the truth is know either way. you may offend most but when it comes to things that really matter like this you step up at the right time so please keep pushing this, this is one time when being outspoken is a good thing
BUBBA ARMY
May 14th, 2009 at 5:44 pm
Bubba And All Keep UP The Good Work
May 14th, 2009 at 5:45 pm
my daughter is 1 1/2 and says like 15 words..my son spoke that well and was a sponge at 2 1/2..as a father of two AND the oldest child in my ENTIRE family..yes..a 2 1/2 yr old can indeed be coached..WELL!
May 14th, 2009 at 5:49 pm
I have three words for this man. SHOOT THE BASTARD
May 14th, 2009 at 5:51 pm
Oh my god Bubba…I was in tears. I myself was an abused child and as a parent it’s not something you want happen to your child. Being a victim you educate and protect you kids to the best of your ability. I educated my children and unfortunately not only did it happen to my baby girl but to my son also by the same sick minded ******* I’m not sure how the law works in the states but here in Canada they get a slap on the hand making it very frustrating for both parent and victim. Years of therapy and still my babies will never be the same. Innocent children are being mentally damaged for life
I know that with your help justice will be served…you have the power and drive to help any victim of such. I sure wish we had someone like you here in Canada.
This guy is sick his parental rights should be taken until a full investigation has been completed.
Bubba please keep us posted.
May 14th, 2009 at 5:52 pm
After hearing this on the radio my wife and I were just in shock. We both cried, and were so happy when we heard of all the wonderful people stepping up to help. Bubba Army, BUBBA ARMY! Let us all help in prayer, even if some of us are atheist, Help her Bubba Army.
May 14th, 2009 at 5:56 pm
I WAS YOUR LAST CALLER YESTERDAY & WOULD LIKE TO SAY ONCE AGAIN, I HAVE THIS GOD AWFUL FEELING IN MY STOMACH THAT HER FATHER DID THIS IF NOT ONLY FROM MY OWN EXPERIENCE. WHATEVER THE OUT COME, I’D LIKE TO SAY THANK YOU ONCE AGAIN FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART FOR GETTING THE WORD OUT SO THAT THIS INNOCENT CHILD CAN RECEIVE HELP SOMETHING I NEVER HAD. MY FATHER IS STILL ALIVE (I HAVE NO RELATIONSHIP WITH HIM) & HE TOLD MY BROTHER HE WOULD NEVER ADMIT IT HAPPENED. WHEN MY MOTHER FOUND OUT ( I WAS AROUND 23) SHE APOLOGIZED TO ME FOR HIM (THEY WERE DIVORCED) THEN TURNED AROUND A FEW YEARS LATER REMARRIED THE SOB & TOLD ME I WAS LYING, THEN HE DIVORCED HER AND SHE BELIEVED ME AGAIN. TALK ABOUT A DOUBLE WAMMY WHEN THE 2 PEOPLE YOUR SUPPOSE TO LOVE THE MOST IN THIS WORLD & LOOK UP TO & TRUST MIGHT AS WELL HAVE JUST STUCK A KNIFE IN YOU. THANKFULLY I TURNED OUT O.K. & THAT’S ALL I WANT FOR THIS LITTLE GIRL AND LIKE I SAID, NO MATTER THE OUT COME CUZ I HAD IT FROM BOTH GOOD OLD MOM & DAD & SOMEONE NEEDS TO PAY.
May 14th, 2009 at 6:12 pm
Sick f!! this ‘a’ hole needs to have his “worm” laid out on a chopping block and hacked up, then let him try to get a 3 year old to touch it or whatever!! Can’t believe anybody with any kind of dignity or feelings would not even bother to look in to it. What the ‘f’ is going on in that part of the world? Sounds like a modern day thunderdome environment!! Way to step up Bubba and let people be aware of the alleged situation!! glad to be a part of the Bubba Army!!!!!!
May 14th, 2009 at 6:20 pm
Some one give me an address.
I’ll do him.
May 14th, 2009 at 6:24 pm
Give me an address.
I will do him.
Do him real good.
May 14th, 2009 at 6:50 pm
This bitch is a money grubbin’ whore. ANY mother on the face of the earth who heard her child say that anything was being done to them would jump out of bed and hold her and ask her what was wrong, not film her in ‘night vision’ and leave it alone AND NOT MAKE A LINK FOR A DONATION!!!!!!!!!!! A real claim would be: Please contact the police etc…..It’s soooooo fake. You can see at one point where the video stops and starts again. What mother, even a piece of shit, would just lay in bed next to her child and just listen and not hold them and ask ‘what happened, what does daddy do’?!?!?!?!!!!
LIAR
May 14th, 2009 at 6:54 pm
You have got to be kidding! This is a MegaBit*h out for revenge. Listen to the cell phone calls linked on her website. It is all about her not the child. I find it truely hard to belive that after 6 months, if the alligations were true, that ANY court would ignore the information that you have provided. You Rednecks will belive any thing -”Hell, if it’s on the internet it MUST be True!” I have, however, forwared your letter in my nane.
May 14th, 2009 at 6:56 pm
I can’t fricking believe that the judicial system can turn a blind eye to this. I have no doubt in my mind that this baby girl is telling the truth. The mother isn’t trying to extract any info out of Aaliyah such as “and what happened after that” or “tell Mommie more”, etc. Irregardless of what anyone thinks about this video, fake or not, it doesn’t matter. This child is crying for help. I swear!!! Something is jacked when children are disregarded in such a manner. I bet this wouldn’t happen if it was an animal being abused. What does that say about us???
May 14th, 2009 at 6:58 pm
I am outraged and disgusted by this video. The Father should be excuted. And as for the connections that he has we should get all of their names and be sure that when their seat comes up for re-election that the public remembers this little girl and how she was treated. If a priest (a man supposedly living for God) can molest children then anybody can, no matter their social standing. I am a victim of rape and abuse, it was overwhelming as an adult. I can’t even begin to imagine the pain and suffering it causes to a child. I am with you on this band wagon. Just tell me when and where!!!!!!!
May 14th, 2009 at 6:59 pm
I tried to have an open mind after hearing part of your show this morning. I tried to see how it could possibly be staged or misconstrued. I tried to see a WAY out for the father(I belive in innocent until proven guilty). After all the excuses I could come up with, I cried. I saw this child crying for help, and noone has been able to, obviously! My gosh this child talks and talks but cries if her auntie or Mommie doesn’t answer whether or not they are simply THERE!!
Please keep us up to date about ANYTHING you hear about this case. The public needs to know ANYTHING it can on how to prevent sexual abuse: especially child sexual abuse; how to recognize it; that you will not be ignored if you report it; and that you will not be austrisized reporting it!!!!!!
May 14th, 2009 at 7:07 pm
Hey Bubba,
After hearing this story, has caused me to feel a lot of hate, like I just want to go out and beat on a pedophile.
Where does this fag live?
May 14th, 2009 at 7:08 pm
Like you said on the show today…If this is true this guy is one crazy piece of crap. To quote Hank Jr, “I’d like to spit some Beech Nut in that dudes eyes, and shoot him with my ol’ 45″
May 14th, 2009 at 7:12 pm
If this guy did this he needs to be castrated and stoned at the courthouse steps and in front of the whole world. This actually made me tear up, I dont have kids but i have a neice and if someone would ever do something like this to her i would be in jail and would do the same as bubba would do.
May 14th, 2009 at 7:15 pm
[...] are going to be pig sick of the name Aaliyah Bedwell. It is going to be discussed again on btls again tomorrow, terrestrial radio for 4 hours, and then Sirius for another 4 [...]
May 14th, 2009 at 7:21 pm
If this f###ng monster is guilty, I say we fire up the Bubba wood chipper and make some human chili jones.
May 14th, 2009 at 7:27 pm
Some of you people are…special. What most of us want is an investigation into this. Yes the obvious one is to look into possible abuse by the dad to the little girl. BUT if that is indeed false, than an investigation needs to occur in regards to the making of this video. As a survivor, it sounds legit to me, but I’m no expert. It doesnt sound coached to me, especially near the end when you can hear the slight crying and the little girl asking whats wrong. Sure it could all be staged but I’m just not believing it. Either way, someone or both need to be investigated.
May 14th, 2009 at 7:29 pm
What a sick sick freak I have 3 kids of my own and if this was ever to go on with any of my kids so help me god ..No need for god,cops,jail.I will hand out death on the spot I sure hope the mom is not making all this up..Its hard to see 8 months or so and nothing has been done..wtf I hate all sex offender that eye up kids kill em all
May 14th, 2009 at 7:31 pm
This breaks my heart just knowing that anyone would be capable of such a heartless deed. I listened to the show today and I’m trying to way both sides. However, my gut is winning the battle of a terrible ending to the story. I hope the Bubba Army can expose this “Prick of a father” and get him put away where he belongs. Please keep me posted on this issue.
jw
May 14th, 2009 at 7:39 pm
What a BASTARD!!! I am disgusted and enraged by what I just saw. I started listening this morning on my way to work and was so upset I was glad I got to work and couldn’t listen anymore. I am a mother of 3 children 2 of which have been sexually abused by someone they know. At the time my daughter was 2 and my son was 3 1/2. Listening to Aalyiah brought back painful and sickening memories. There is no way this child is making this up. My son gave very vivid details even at his age and there is no way you can coach a kid to say things like that.
What is wrong with Placer county!!!! Are they all cold hearted Bastards???? Do they not have children???? I’m sure if it was one of theirs, they wouldn’t let someone get away with this.
I hope he rots in Hell!!! He wants someone to play with his worm so bad wait till he gets locked up (Lord willing). They don’t like people who hurt babies!!!!
I will pray for Aalyiah and her mom that God will bless them and keep them safe, and give them the strength to get this creep off the streets forever!!!
Bubba–thank you so much for caring enough to bring this to everyone’s attention!!! I love your show–Bubba Army Bubba army
May 14th, 2009 at 7:42 pm
Bubba this is so crazy! This a$$hole should be killed! Not only that, but I feel guilty because this is in my own backyard and I have not heard a thing about this case! The news coverage in the Sacramento/ Placer County area is lack luster to say the least! I will do all that I can not only as BUBBA ARMY member but as a citizen of the Roseville/Placer County area! This is complete Bullshiz, and needs to be in the for front of the media networks! Saving baby Aaliyah is way more important then a fundraiser for saving the Sacramento Kings! This is a childs life, not a shotty sports team!! Come on Sac news stations and Placer County. Get off your butts and DO SOMETHING!
Sorry I was justtrying to type fast Grammer is really shitty!!
May 14th, 2009 at 7:53 pm
From the mouths of babes..After veiwing this video posted on your website, I was left with emptiness and dispair. As a mother, a nurse and a humanbeing, I could only feel hoplessness and real pain, the kind that I have witnessed when a parent is fighting for thier childs life from cancer, and their is nothing they can do but watch. There is no cure for this disease but, there is a remedy for what pain this child is suffering. As a mother, listening to this little girl ( I can’t get her little voice out of my head ), I can tell she is speaking her truth as her little mind sees it, with honesty. Her mother’s pain is also, real. ( a mother can sense it). I empathized for her, trying to put myself in her shoes..but it was a place I could not go without feeling anger and after reading some of the comments of people doubting her it only made me sadder. Was she to shine a bright light in her childs eyes like that of an interrogation? Only a mother would know that this child was asking questions out of fear like.. do you have a worm? to her mother and “auntie” because she has witnessed first hand that the people she has trusted and grown to love, namingly her father, has scared her in a most devious and dispicable way. Who in her little mind will betray her next? For those who think the mother has coaxed her shame on you.. this mother is hurting and her daughter even at 2, could sense it. You can not fool a child if you are close enough to them..my 4 yr old son can pick up on my sadness within 5 min of my presence without me speaking a word or crying. Children deserve more credit than they recieve. I am glad Bubba you have brought this to light and others are making their contributions. This little angel needs all the help and prays she can get
May 14th, 2009 at 7:57 pm
Hi Bubba ,
Freakin CHILLS !!!!!
It’s been three hours since your show ended and i still got chills, that was one of the sadest, disgusting ,out right unforgivable acts. I’m the very proud father of two beautiful little girls,and it made be cry like a little girl on the way home from work listening to you. I know the Bubba army has to be just as sick. I cut and pasted Brets letter and sent it to that so called D.A. Hopefuly he gets off his a– and helps that ltttle girl and her mom.If there was ever the case for capatiol punishment this is IT. May that piece of crap of a father die a slow painful death ,if he did do what we all heard on that tape . Thanks for letting me vent Bubba . New listener since you came with Howard ,and I Love your SHOW.
Steven.
May 14th, 2009 at 8:08 pm
Damn it bubba, its just wrong. So glad i dont live in a small town
May 14th, 2009 at 8:15 pm
MY HEART GOES OUT TO THIS LITTLE GIRL AND HER MOTHER IT HAS TO BE HARD HEARING THIS FROM A CHILD AND NOONE WILL HELP WITH ANYTHING! HOPEFULLY SOMEONE WILL HELP WITH THIS SITUATION!
May 14th, 2009 at 8:15 pm
This guy has to be the sickest human being walking on the face of this planet,he definitely needs to be castrated,if he indeed did do this to his daughter.You are definitely broken if you have to stoop to this level to full fill your sexual desires on a child that is only innocent and really has no idea what is really happening to her.I feel so badly for this little girl.Bubba,keep your foot on his throat,until we bring all of this to justice,for this little girls sake,thank you!
May 14th, 2009 at 8:18 pm
hay bubba
being a father of a 2year old i just want to grab this guy
wrap my towchain around his balls and drag him behind my peterbuilt for about 500 miles but thats just how we would handle it in the back woods of pennsylvania
and yes the bubba army is strong around here
May 14th, 2009 at 8:23 pm
This guy is a sicko and needs to be stopped. im printing and sending the letter now.
May 14th, 2009 at 8:27 pm
I don’t understand why there is a video camera w/ night vision handy; jus t odd to me. I’m sorry, but why doesn’t the mom have a lawyer? I understand if money is the issue. I just didn’t grasp the reason during my view of the video.
I agree that some investigation is needed. Maybe the best thing is for the little girl to be in someone else’s custody until both parents are fully investigated. I know she needs her parents. The issue is if the environment in either parent’s presence is best for the little girl at the moment. Even if not coached or the parents aren’t being undermining or opinionate about the other parent, the little girl has got to sense stress. There are three sides to a story; his, hers and then the overall facts. No matter what happens someone needs to represent the child
and her rights.
http://www.dss.cahwnet.gov/cdssweb/PG20.htm
http://www.findcounseling.com/journal/child-abuse/sexual-abuse-incest-statistics.html
http://www.findcounseling.com/national/child-abuse.html
http://www.findcounseling.com/journal/child-abuse/child-abuse-hotlines-phone-numbers.html
http://sacramento.fbi.gov/
May 14th, 2009 at 8:27 pm
i know some people i was in the 82nd with we could show this man a real bad time…airborne!!
May 14th, 2009 at 8:28 pm
hey bubba and crew iam a dedicated listener for years now and also i have a bubba army sticker on my work truck(dont know if that makes me in the bubba army or not)anyway out of all the stories you guys talk about this is the first time i have ever responded to anything.i have three children myself and if this happened to my kids i would load the glock as well bubba what can i do to help you guys in any way please.thanks good luck all involved in this matter bubba and crew do your thing you will get a reaction from this somebody important has to be listening or reading
May 14th, 2009 at 8:29 pm
Thank you for picking up this story Bubba. I found out about it a week ago through BNN Simon & Jan.
The judicial system in Placer county is a corrupt (good old boys club) This affects law enforcement and the local media who are afraid to report on this case. Can you imagine living in a County like this? This sounds like a spinoff of the movie Deliverance, California style.
We need to keep this story screaming until justice is done for this precious little girl.
May 14th, 2009 at 8:41 pm
Bubba And Crew,
As proud parents of three we are sad for this child. No matter who is the psycho (mom or dad… I am guessing dad)its outrageous that the authorities have not stepped in and taken the little girl away from the situation. I listen to your show daily and just have to say no matter what you have done on the air that would seem out of line to every critic what you done today was nothing short of commendable. It should be put on every radio and news station nation wide to let people know the sickness that is out there.,.right in front of them
May 14th, 2009 at 8:48 pm
Bubba,
I live in Roseville CA, (Placer county) and this is the first I have heard of this story. None of the local news stations are running this story. Hopefully word will get out to the 3 network news (KCRA KXTV KOVR)stations and they can give this proper coverage. This guy sounds like a real pervert, and needs to be molested himself during a long stay in Folsom prison. Don’t stop with this until there is justice for this little girl, Keep up the great show!
May 14th, 2009 at 8:53 pm
The “Good ole boy” system is who to blame for any of this. Kids can pick up anything that their parents say or do. I myself had my 3 year old son, told that “We need to get out of here before daddy hurts us”, by his “then” pysco mother, and picked up on it. I am for neither the father or mother till the truth comes out. If the mother is or somehow “coached” the little girl, or God help the father if it is true, then they get what they deserve. The victim is the little girl. The culprits start with the county officials and their lack of ivestigation. I hope and pray that there is not a lot of phsycological damage done to this girl. If they are tryin to get back at one another, shame on them. The county needs a major overhaul in my opinion, that’s where I’d start first, no.. get the child the child in a safe enviroment and then get the ball rolling. Anyway it’s a tragedy that an innocent kid has to be put thru this. My son turned out great, the whole arguing with me and my ex was that she was super pissed that I let the cat out of the bag that she was gay. And was really pissed when she found out that I had tapped my own phone to get the truth. We get along great now. Again I hope that this gets resolved and fast for the little girls sake, the only casualty in this fiasco.
May 14th, 2009 at 8:53 pm
Bubba,
I just want you and everyone in the Bubba Army I am an FTE and this story touched me and my wife we sent the email to the DA. I just hope we are not to late as you said on the show today it is a win win situation.
May 14th, 2009 at 9:08 pm
how do we contact arnold swartnagger he should be all over this as well as the fbi and some child doctor should look at the child u can tell when a kid is being coach and when they are not thay is why we have those people i live in oregon a few years back front padge a man was released from jail for rapeing and murdering a 2 yr old after he spent some time in jail all because he didnt get a timeley trial what the hell is that im so angry right now i cant even spell anyway all child abuser should be kept in a special place and tortured every day of there natural life.
May 14th, 2009 at 9:21 pm
I am literally sick to my stomach after hearing that video. I heard your show today and I am confident that you will get after these people or whomever can help figure this nightmare out. I have a 4 yr old daughter that IS my entire life…I am so sickened by this. It’s too graphic to be a hoax but either way, it needs to be figured out and that child needs help asap.
May 14th, 2009 at 9:34 pm
what the hell is the matter with this man sorry i ment beast our hearts go out to this little one
May 14th, 2009 at 9:39 pm
Bubba, I heard this on your show this morning and just saw the video and all I can say is when do we get all of the Bubba Army together and ride out there to California and take care of this guy? As a father I am sickened to hear this, fearful just like every other parent out there who worries about their child when they leave the house. The most important issue here is the child and her well being and if the law will not take care of it properly then the people have to do something to protect this child and I, as well as several others, are more than willing to drive, ride or whatever it takes to get out there to be there for this little girl. This simply must NOT go unchecked and the longer it continues the more this little girl is in danger. As a fellow parent I feel it is my duty and that of every other parent worth their salt to step up and put this right before this little girl must endure any more. The People’s Hammer must be nuclear powered and slammed on this guy now!
May 14th, 2009 at 9:47 pm
Dude this is an atrocity. For something as horrific as this to take place and never see the light of day is inexcuseable. We must make them delve into this case with no prejudice. Investigate bot sides (mother and father) equally and determine what is really going on. If the father is doing what he’s accused of then he should be dealt with accordingly.
May 14th, 2009 at 9:48 pm
It’s hard to put my disgust into words over this. I was in tears today as I listened to this. How can they have not investigated this, even the smallest iota of a mention of child abuse should be looked into.The court system and law enforcement need to be investigated after this. How could they give such an innocent child to that disgusting monster!! He is a pig & I hope this gets investigated and that monster goes to jail, we all know what they do to child abusers in jail……
May 14th, 2009 at 9:53 pm
I just dont know what to say…This shizz HAS TO STOP!!!!!
I want to take her dad deep sea fishing where he will be the fishing worm. If there is a GOD, PlEAS help this kid
May 14th, 2009 at 9:54 pm
Bubba…If this guy is found guilty of this!!!He should be brought to your studio and put him on your torture rack and make him feel the wrath of the Bubba and then thrown into your Bubbagon for who ever wants at him. Me 1st!!!
May 14th, 2009 at 9:59 pm
i think the moms innocent and she just dont know what to do but the husband needs to be tortured
May 14th, 2009 at 10:03 pm
I think that there is a special corner of hell for the father and for all the authorities and everyone who is in total denial and will not do anything to confront or stick their neck out against any of the good ol boy politics that are taking place there to save this perfectly beautiful angel little girl. They have the nerve to call themselves men. Carma is a mother******. I would love to get him out here in the country in Pennsylvania where I live where us country boys would cut his worm off, stick it in his mouth, cut his legs from his ankles to were his worm used to be while he is chained and stuck to a post with arrows and let the coyotes and critters take care of him. TRUE JUSTICE! GOD SAVE AND BLESS AALIYAH AND HER MOTHER!
May 14th, 2009 at 10:08 pm
Mr. Fenocchio
My name is Tammy Paro and I am a resident in upstate NY. A friend sent me a message regarding the situation with this most tormented little girl this evening.
To have to hear of this in such a way was most unfortunate for this child as it was not a news story about the agency you head using it’s power to save the child, but a story about the humanity of a radio show doing it instead! That fact is criminal in and of itself!
I would like to tell you that what I heard and read on my computer, via the Bubba The Love Sponge Show was not only disturbing and repulsive, it was true. The language that Aaliyah used was typical of a child her age. The references she made to the Baby E. Worm and her father’s penis were also appropriate for her age (at the time of the making of the recording). She was not being influenced by either adult in the room and clearly was speaking for herself. How your agency or you could have spent the past year doing nothing to aid in the fight of this child’s mother to save her is despicable.
I have an educational background in the area of child development as well as psychology and work professionally with children. It is not possible for a child of her age to be programmed in such a way that she would make such distinct and yet random references to what she was and in all probability is still experiencing at the hands of her father. Her description of his “worm”, it’s size, it being yucky and also the way she portrayed what was causing her to cough and his having to wipe her mouth is clearly an indication that she is being forced to perform some type of oral sex on her father. This man is sodomizing his toddler and your agency is doing nothing to stop it.
Her cries have not gone unheard by those that love her or even by the country she lives in. Aaliyah’s cries go unheard only by those that have the power to change her circumstances. They are ignored by you and the others in your field that are entrusted with stopping such crimes against those too young to stop them on their own. Face it, she has tried harder to stop her father by telling him to stop than you have!
Mr. Fenocchio, you are in a position affording you the chance to bring about the saving of this child. You are also in a position to continue the obvious indifference that will doom her to a life of nothing but pain and constant violations emotionally and physically at the hands of her own father.
I can tell you from personal experience that what has been done to her is something that will not end until someone with the power to stop it, does exactly that! Mr. Fenocchio, are you going to be that man? Are you going to be the person who uses his influence to save her from more abuse and offers her the life she was meant to have? The power is yours to use if you choose to stand up for her and use it. If you choose to do nothing, I am sorry to say that you are worse than the person perpetrating these crimes against this child. He is a vile,manipulative, heinous creature who preys upon the innocent. He is sick, in a way that is not clearly understood. You, on the other hand, are not. You are clearly just indifferent to what she suffers. If you choose to continue to look away and allow this to continue, you cannot fall back on some obscure diagnosis as an excuse for doing nothing. The only reason you will have is that of complete disregard for human life and the safety, protection and welfare of Aaliyah.
I would encourage you to be a hero for this child and not add yourself to the ranks of the many that will have failed her in her young life. She is blessed to have a mother willing to continue to fight for her and not give up. What her mother lacks is power, you have that and waste it. Do the right thing Mr. Fenocchio. Do the difficult thing. Fight for the child who cannot fight for herself.
As a survivor of long term severe sexual, physical, emotional and psychological abuse, I can tell you that what happens to her now, will change her life forever. What this man has done, cannot be undone. I watched the video, I heard Aaliyah and I can tell you that I know her because there was once a child within me that experienced the same type of abuse and much worse. Had I your position and power, this would have stopped the first time it was brought to my attention. Is it only survivors of abuse that care for those that are currently being abused by not only those they trust but also by the system put in place to protect them?
Your office has an obligation to do what is right for her. Do it! Mr. Fenocchio, the eyes of the Nation are watching you now. What will you do? I pray, for Aaliyah that you and those that have the power to change her circumstances do it and do it now! Every moment is one moment too many for her to suffer.
We will be watching. We will not be silent. We will have the courage that was so profoundly apparent in Aaliyah and we will speak out. It will no longer be the small voice of a child that says “No, don’t do that”! It will be all of us telling you that it is time for you to do your duty and stop turning a blind eye to the slow death of the innocent spirit of Aaliyah.
Respectfully outraged
Tammy Paro
Mandated reporter for CPS in upstate NY
Parent Educator for Catholic Charities of the Arch Diocese of NY
Professional Nanny for an agency out of Clifton Park, NY and a parent of five happy, healthy and safe children!
May 14th, 2009 at 10:25 pm
I will be contacting my local chapter of B.A.C.A. (Bikers Against Child Abuse) to see if they have affiliates in Placer County. They’ll surely take up the case and follow it to its conclusion.
Please locate, contact, and support your local B.A.C.A. chapter. These are good people doing good work!
May 14th, 2009 at 10:35 pm
God bless this poor innocent child! She is not making this up and I do not see how an adult could not see this!! this literally makes me sick to my stomach and want to cry. We all need to take a stand for this little girl!! this is wrong! This man needs to be chopped and BURNED! what a sick f*ck!
May 14th, 2009 at 10:39 pm
“BUBBA ARMY!” “BUBBA ARMY!” BUBBA ARMY!” LET’S All send this letter. I Bubba Army Private has sent three now from northern Alberta, Canada! With Bubba’s Army on this all that’s needed is the “POWER of the HOWARD FIST”
May 14th, 2009 at 10:45 pm
this is so messed up!..this man is just plain sick in the head!…….something needs to be done and fast that baby has done nothing to deserve this injustice…..i know exactly what she is going thru as i endured @ 20 yrs of sexual abuse in my life(not all by the same person)…the first time was my biological father..nothing was ever done to him for it…it made me feel like i was nothing…this baby is something and she deserves to b protected by the law and justice system..i watched the video and it made me throw up…..there is no way that she was caoched in any way….i was her age when my father did it to me….i no first hand kids say what is the truth at 3 yrs old they cant lie on purpose…..the dont have that ability yet….i pray over and over again that this sick sob is brought to justice before any more damage is brought on this baby girl!!!!!!!…..edie
May 14th, 2009 at 11:07 pm
I have a 9 y.o. boy and a 3y.o. girl. After the brodcast of this tape I had to stop my big truck on the side of the road and call my family back home. I’m a Canadian and knows this is hapening hear too. Bubba PLEASE HELP HER OUT! If they need a please to hide. My home is open to them in a small town in northern Ontario, Canada.
May 14th, 2009 at 11:20 pm
the mom is smokeing hot. i hope shes not a 15min of fame whore useing her kid if this is true they should have him put in general population the inmates will take care of him and it wont be clean or fun he will suffer and die that is what i hope happens if this is true.
May 14th, 2009 at 11:22 pm
Bubba,no matter what,you have just saved this little girls life,I can’t believe that sicko of a father has legal custody of this child!The thing is not only does he need to go away,so does anyone involved in covering this up.No way should this have gone without being investigated.Anyone of the disturbed individuals who seen this video and did nothing about it are is just as guilty.Thanks Bubba for everything you do! And may the father of that baby girl be introduced to all the penitentiary worms.Let him see first hand just what he has done to this child!
May 14th, 2009 at 11:31 pm
I k now the hurt this mother is going threw my daughter was doing the same thing as this little girl at the age of 4 her half brother would hump her butt i could not get not help at all the court said i was telling her to say this and court turned around and gave my ex sole custody and let it happen 13 times that i know of she now is 12 years old i havnt seen her in 8 years it is very hurtful when she would come home and tell me all i can do is walk out of the room crying i could never get any one to listen to her or me in my case nothing was ever done to the sick kid that is called her half brother he can now hurt another child
May 14th, 2009 at 11:37 pm
Thousands of innocent children are abused everyday in this country behind closed doors. Aaleyahs mother gave us an opportunity to listen to how her child has been coping with this abuse. I am the mother of a 3 year old little girl and I do not believe for one second that little Aaleyah was coached. Her father is a sick SOB and his “worm” should be chopped off and floating in the Pacific Ocean!
May 14th, 2009 at 11:38 pm
We really need to get this man off of the streets, as an abused child myself, this child will have to endure years of hurt and anger, guilt for something that she never did. For something that was done to her. After years of therapy and the Lord’s good grace I have been healed and have the ability to help others. Speak with others. People like this man need to be punished for such crime/crimes never to be seen or heard from again. I know that the Lord will make sure of it one day, but while they walk this earth, we as a people need to unite and make sure we do something about them or our children will just continue to be hurt and abused instead of being safe and loved like they are intended to be. It’s a shame when a child cant just be that a child. Carefree to run and play and enjoy their life without having to live in fear of others always wondering what if? I pray that justice be done, I know that the Lord will hear our prayers. I Thank each and everyone that comes here for support as I know you care and that you are loving parents/sisters/brothers/etc. In His Love, Tam
May 14th, 2009 at 11:49 pm
WE_CARE_ProJect is hear to support Save Baby Aaliyah, We are located from East Coast to West Coast and in Between (Indiana) Please hear our voices CRY OUT SCREAM OUT for this child and her Mother.
May 14th, 2009 at 11:49 pm
I am so OUTRAGED at the way you are looking the other way as this precious baby gets sexualy, physicaly,& verbaly abused & tortured. Don’t you have babies of your own or grandchildren?~ You wonder what is wrong with our future?~ Our children? YOUR what’s wrong with it. YOU keep allowing this kind of stuff to continue & know it will only bring about more pain & anger once these babies grow up & realize that knowone cared what happened to them when they were to helpless to protect themself. YOUR so wrong if you think this could NEVER happen to your OWN children or grandchild & wrongly mistaken. PLEASE rescue this baby so she might have some kind of life left in her if that is even possible anymore? My prayers go out to all the abused children who have survived as I barely did & also to the ones who have passed because help NEVER came for them. WE HAVE TO BE THE VOICE FOR THE CHILDREN!~ From L.Engle-Belcher of Niagara Falls,N.Y. AKA HappyOne Against ALL ABUSE
May 14th, 2009 at 11:52 pm
Date: May 14,2009
Mr. Fenocchio,
I am writing you to express my concern about your apparent lack of attention in a case involving the sexual abuse of a three year old girl named Aaliyah Bedwell. The video seen many places on the internet titled “Daddy’s Worm†is disturbing to say the least. What’s more disturbing is the way this case has been handled by your office. You are the highest Law Enforcement Official in Placer County, California. You have the responsibility to protect this child when the allegation of sexual abuse is brought to your attention, which this was over eight months ago by all accounts.
The suspect in this case has an attorney named Mrs. Sandra Amara, whose husband is also a judge. If Judge Dirk Amara is meddling in this case, it is also your duty to investigate him. Judge Frances Kearney, removed herself from this case, and stipulated that a judge from a different county would hear it. Which is a step in the right direction, however, it does not absolve you of your responsibility of investigating credible allegations of serious violent sexual crimes like this one.
Mr. Fenocchio, it is paramount for the well being of children in your county that you prosecute those suspected of child sexual abuse to the fullest extent of the law without exception. Anything else is unacceptable for a District Attorney. Protect this child, prosecute the offender, and uphold the laws of your state. These are all part of your responsibility as the District Attorney of Placer County, California. You need to take this very seriously before this child is beyond the help and protection she deserves.
Sincerely,
Melanie Doty
Evansville, Indiana
May 14th, 2009 at 11:59 pm
I did not catch all the show today but I did hear some of this discussion and had to read about it for myself. After reading the story and watching the video I was sick to my stomach. I cannot believe that America’s morale compass is so FU*&* up that no one has looked at this case more closely. I know there are to sides to every story but I pray to god someone helps this little girl.
May 15th, 2009 at 12:04 am
I viewed this video this evening at the request of my husband, a dedicated listener…And I’m uphauled that no one has brought this case to trial. This poor little girl, as we all sit, in tears listening or watching what she’s going through is STILL GOING THROUGH IT!!! UNF###ING BELIEVABLE!!! Someone seriously needs to get off of their tired, lazy asses and wake up! Yes, let’s save little Aaliyah and do whatever it takes to bring her sorry desperate father to court. If for any sick reason this little girl has rehearsed this scene, then we’re responsible for bringing her mother to justice at a later time, but the focus should be to get THE BABY out of direct danger.
May 15th, 2009 at 12:25 am
All I want is Aaliaya safe! I am calling on the army. Protect this young girl. Make sure she becomes a super person. She survives and makes a difference. As a man I protect. This small one needs all of us. Turn your rage to a stream of protection. To make a difference save Aaliaya’s life. Make sure you make a difference.
BUBBA ARMY!!!!
May 15th, 2009 at 12:27 am
Disgusting, either way. Thanks Simon and Jan for bringing this to Bubba’s attention. As always, once Bubba gets ahold of something – look out!
Aaliyah, help is coming – I hope it’s not too late.
May 15th, 2009 at 1:00 am
this makes me cry
May 15th, 2009 at 1:07 am
As a retired NCOIC (Non commissioned officer in charge)of a corrections facility within the theater of the USAF, I was able to sit in on quite a few proceedings involving members of our military, and viewed similar video and recorded evidence like this, and in my honest opinion, this appears to be very legitimate. I had at least 35 convicted “child molester/abusers” sent to facilities within my command, and PLEASE understand that they are sick and in-curable degenerates, that cannot be rehabilitated. Those I encountered who were either up on charges or found guilty of these types of offenses involving children were the most cunning of vermin, I have ever met, keep in mind they have to control the mind and views of the most innocent yet inquisitive minds, those of a child. Children under the age of 5 do not have the ability to “cover” for anyone other than them selves. They, when speaking of or describing actions they dont fully understand or dont comprehend often verbalize facts in fragmented segments, often repeating them 2 or 3 times in succession, this is the way their mind works when they verbalize any point, whether they feel the urge to go potty, or they are hungry.Those of you who have kids, think back to when they were 2 or 3 and try to remember how often they repeated the phrase ” I’ve got to go potty, I’ve got to go potty, I’ve got to go potty”. Any ways< Bubba and crew, thank you for bringing this to the forefront, and fighting for this little girl, I hope for her sake, justice is done!!
May 15th, 2009 at 1:33 am
The child wasn’t coached… I hope everyone sends an email to the prosecutor regarding this case…
May 15th, 2009 at 1:41 am
Whether you believe the video or not, this obviously warrants an investigation, SOONER rather than later. I think I would run away with my child rather than ever turn her over to him for his “visits,” but maybe the legal way is the way to go. If this is true, she doesn’t have much time left before all of her innocence and trust are destroyed. :(
May 15th, 2009 at 2:08 am
Bubba thank you for taking this on you are a hero some other stations, jocks wouldnt give 2 shits less. I just wish to god someone would get to the bottom of this why is this still going on and seems to not be ending???? I pray you stay with the case and use your power to demand answers.
May 15th, 2009 at 3:55 am
At first I thought the story sounded a little too… made up. But then I watched the video. I also pumped the audio and listened through good headphones to see if I could hear any “whispers” or “coaching”.
All I heard was a little girl talking and a mother crying. The tone of the mothers voice showed she was crying probably the entire time. The little girls rambling (to me) showed ZERO signs of coaching.
Anyone with kids knows that its not easy to coach a kid to say things. Especially for any prolonged period of time. Also this video is edited down to 9 minutes. I read the actual video is 24 minutes. Coaching an (at the time) 2 1/2 year old to speak for 24 minutes about “daddy’s worm” and how “daddy wants a baby with me”… that just ain’t happening.
What I believe is, that if this is actually found out to be true… and this father is abusing the child.. then the judge, the prosecutors and anyone else involved with this case should be tried with accessory. Just as people can be charged as an accessory to murder… these people should be tried for accessory to child molestation. By not viewing this evidence and truly investigating these claims.. they themselves are facilitating this to go on. They might as well be right there with this “father” doing these acts.
May 15th, 2009 at 5:50 am
Can you hear the prayer of the children?
On bended knee, in the shadow of an unknown room
Empty eyes with no more tears to cry
Turning heavenward toward the light
Crying Jesus, help me
To see the morning light-of one more day
But if I should die before I wake,
I pray my soul to take
Can you feel the hearts of the children?
Aching for home, for something of their very own
Reaching hands, with nothing to hold on to,
But hope for a better day a better day
Crying Jesus, help me
To feel the love again in my own land
But if unknown roads lead away from home,
Give me loving arms, away from harm
Can you hear the voice of the children?
Softly pleading for silence in a shattered world?
Angry guns preach a gospel full of hate,
Blood of the innocent on their hands
Crying Jesus, help me
To feel the sun again upon my face,
For when darkness clears I know you’re near,
Bringing peace again
Dali cujete sve djecje molitive?
(Croatian translation:
‘Can you hear all the children’s prayers?’)
Can you hear the prayer of the children?.
Thank you Child Protection Community for not allowing another innocent voice NOT to be heard!..You already know!!!
May 15th, 2009 at 6:30 am
Bubba if you or your staff are reading comments during the broadcast – I think there is wrong info being said. The mother had not yet been instructed to not video tape the child when this video was made. It was after this that she was told to stop making videos.
May 15th, 2009 at 7:34 am
SAVE AALIYA!!!!!!!!!! It is a sad country when our government does not protect these beautiful children. A Mother has to rally and rely on strangers to help her baby girl! This child is in great danger, she will need extensive counseling and love. She belongs with her Mother that loves her and will do anything for her safety. The “Father” doesn’t see’s this child as an object. And he belongs in prison. We cannot let these peds out, they need to stay in prison for life. He has ruined this child’s life, his needs to be taken… He needs locked up, so he will never do this to anyone again. I am the State Director for Child Protection Community. Aaliyah, help is coming quickly!! You have BABBA, All of child protection community, our associates, and many more… The world is coming to help you sweetie!!! First we take care of Aaliyah, she is most important… THEN WE GO AFTER JUSTICE!!! It is time our governement, CPS and others that have the power to save these children wake up! We will no longer allow innocent, voiceless children to be treated worse than the criminal himself. These laws that protect the criminals HAVE to change. Child Protection Community is in 14 countries… We are growing quickly. We are here for Aaliya and all children. Please look at our stories at http://www.childprotectioncommuniy.com Read our blog. If you are visiting this page, there are many children, that need your voice! Don’t let them be silent either. If you need help, we are there for you! -Michele Sobczak, IN State Director Child Protection Community.
May 15th, 2009 at 7:48 am
I no way condone what the sick bastard is doing, but what did the mother do not to win custody? I feel bad for the child. They are always the victims.
May 15th, 2009 at 8:05 am
Instead of waiting for GOD to give this pedophile his just deserts, we the people must ban together and write to Mr. Fenocchio, and insist that he help in protecting this beautiful child.
Mr. Fenocchio is hired by the people, therefore, he works for us and we should place this issue as a priority on his “To Do List”. What is the outcome thusfar?
Thank you,
The Soldiers
May 15th, 2009 at 8:28 am
I do not see or hear what you all do at all…I Once had to deal with this type of situation when my child was 2 and a half, and my son literally told me , that his uncle stuck his Pee pee in his Butt…and I acted right away…Now this little girl, can tell you exactly what is going on…my son did! you CaNT trust anyone nowadays from Priests,teachers,mothers or fathers..its a sick society and I believe all of you are just seeing that part and not realizing that there are still good parents out there … I Just feel this little girl could come right out and say whats been going on, if anything..Not just the audio I have heard. apparently thats why the father has full custody??? has anyone checked up on the mom, maybe shes got mental problems? I dont know any of these people, so i dont see how anyone can side with either of them. sorry to be on the opposing end, But Like I said above about my son, I have been in this situation, and it really tore my heart out..
God Bless to all, and Bubba I Listen to you everyday!! we love you here in O-Town!
sincerely Lori
May 15th, 2009 at 8:59 am
As a member of the Child Protection Community, I am elated to see Aaliyah’s plight being brought to MORE attention through this blog. God bless you Bubba for helping to save this precious baby. PLEASE… EVERYONE… write, write, write, and be a voice for Aaliyah!!!! Make us too many voices to ignore.
Remember too, this is just one of thousands of innocent little lambs suffering in silence. Join us! Help us save and protect them ALL! The abuse of children MUST end! If we don’t stop it, who will?
Jesus said anyone who hurts a child would be better off if he had a rock tied around his neck and cast into the sea.
PROTECT His children – PUNISH the abusers!
May 15th, 2009 at 9:14 am
Hey Bubba, this story is very sad…I am a mother of a 3,4 and 6 year old and the youngest 2 are girls.I think this child first of all should be taking out of the amrs of her father and her mother and put somewhere until they have proven one of them guilty.I myself do believe this child and she needs help,she is unable to help herself.The courts have to stop worring sbout drugs on the streets and how much money someone can pay them and help these poor inocent children.this child is in trouble and is in fear and not one child on this planet derserves to live like this.It breaks my heart to see this happening in the world today and to think a grow man may have done this…the court has to go in on this further even if he is inocent than thats one child they know is safe.But hang in there baby girl someone will help you!!
May 15th, 2009 at 10:22 am
What is wrong with you people? It isn’t like this child is even old enough to lie and be consistent in the lie. This child was 2 years old in this video. If she was coached like some want to say she would not repeat as she did over and over again.
Maybe you need to look at how many kids end up dead because they are put back in their abuser’s arms. Maybe you need to look at the survivors as myself who lived my whole childhood with one of my abusers. You are damaged for life! Not only is this father guilty of abuse but so is the system, CPS, and anyone else that helped this child go to the father.
Our system is so screwed up is isn’t funny. What happened to show evidence? First they don’t ask for evidence accuse some that are innocent of molestation; then they don’t look at evidence to actually convict a pedophile. This father is exactly that he is a pedophile! Get off your a$$es and do your job for once and save this little girls life. Go to http://www.ChildProtectionCommunity.com and read the stories on this case. Then when you are done with that start saving other kids lives and go sign and pass Baby James Law at http://babyjamesfoundation.org
It is time we are realize we are responsible for saving these kids that includes all of you system workers, judges, etc. Just think if something happens to this child as did two boys in Bloomington, IL Will you wish then you opened your eyes?
Renee Hutchinson
President and Founder of
Baby James Foundation
May 15th, 2009 at 11:14 am
For years i too was abused by a parental figure and his worm. Noone believed me when i tried to tell teachers,and family about the abuse and for years i suffered to this day i can remember everything like it was yesterday. If there is anyway to help protect this child and get her away from the abuser we have to try. There is no way that this was set up not a moment went by that i thought it was a set up. In that innocent childs voice you can hear the sincerity and her anger at her father. The graphic description she gives had me crying and reliving my own abuse. There has got to be an attorney out there somewhere willing to stand up and fight for this girl and her mother. The fact that the fathers attorney is married to the presiding judge is a conflict of interest in my eyes and should not be allowed to happen. To the mother i wish you strength and courage and never ever give up the fight to protect your daughter. I know i would lose my mind if anything ever happened to my daughter so i can only imagine your pain but know that there are plenty of people out here that are on your side and hoping and praying that the justice system takes care of the violator. NEVER GIVE UP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
May 15th, 2009 at 11:41 am
This guy is sick!! The judge in this town needs to do his job. The Govenor needs to step up and take care of business!! If I were in the mothers shoes I would take her and never come back!! Or better yet, cut off the worm and then blow his brains in!!
May 15th, 2009 at 11:46 am
This is an absolute outrage. The father of this poor little girl needs to be brought to justice. He is one sick individual, and if anyone is mentally unstable it is this horrish man.
This little girl is telling the truth. I don’t feel this is staged in any way. Children at this age have an absolute knack for being very blunt and truthful. She is trying to process what is happening to her and her little mind can’t handle it. She is crying out for understanding. She needs help RIGHT now before it gets any worse!
WE MUST DO SOMETHING!
May 15th, 2009 at 11:46 am
uhhh this was hard to find such a change of attitude on todays show I Guess Bubba did some searching and changed his tune today. Where there’s smoke not always a fire huh.
May 15th, 2009 at 12:02 pm
This takes Parental Alienation to the extreme. If I did not see this case unfolding in front of my eyes I may not be able to believe it. But it is true and I am sickened. This little girl and her mother are not just being abused at the hands of the father and his posse but the entire Placer County Court system and CPS. He must feel like such a big man to have so many people in his pockets. He needs to be the next poster child for Domestic Violence and Narcissistic sociopaths. It is going to take this country and everyone to stand behind this mother and this little girl to protect them anyway we know how. These judges are corrupt. These good old boys need to step down and let the next generation come in and actually be able to see through these kinds of manipulation and scare tactics of these kinds of fathers. These are supposed to be mandatory reporters and ones that uphold the laws and serve justice not serve more abuse on a woman who has to be the voice of her child. Even though she clearly has one. I have children and grandchildren of my own and they speak the truth. How do we as parents and grandparents protect children if the very ones we put in office are helping perpetrate the abuse. Time to wake up AMERICA! This is happening all over. This mother was just brave enough to let us know! I for one stand behind her 100% She needs all of our help.
May 15th, 2009 at 12:11 pm
Any one who says that this discusting is wrong, this is more than discusting. As a father my6 self I don’t want this guy in prison taking the tax money from tax payers to stay there, I want to have this guy killed, maybe by a firing line, a public hanging, something that will cause this guy pain, of course if this in fact true! I also say to hell with the G.O.B.N.(Good Ole’Boy Network)
May 15th, 2009 at 12:13 pm
There are too many warning signs here for there to not be abuse. A child who has been coached does not talk like Aaliyah does in the video. She describes the events in her words, not those of an adult.
Our website members support justice for Aaliyah. BrokenChild.org is a citizen advocacy group who advocates for children who have been abused and neglected. We are also a member of the Child Protection Community. http://www.ChildProtectionCommunity.com
It is better to stand UP for a child than stand BY doing nothing. Help this little angel stay on earth. Help get her out of the abuse.
May 15th, 2009 at 12:16 pm
Bubba,
My thanks to you in making sure this story is heard. We are members of the http://www.childprotectioncommunity.com and we want to do our part on making sure these children are protected. If we stand back it is like we are perpetrating the abuse too. This mother is doing all she can despite all of those who are against her. This baby needs our help desperately. This case is not being heard in the courts or taken seriously just because of the father and his cronies. The judges and attorneys and CPS in this case need to all step down and face jail time as far as I am concerned. You cannot gag the entire world and thinking you can may make the judges in this case as bad as the father. This mother would have never had to try to plea the way she did if the system was working like it should. This child needs protection and at this point so does this mother. For those of us willing to get out there and make sure these laws change and that the final word of a small town judge is not the final word. I say jump on board let’s see some change! This is not the only case! I wonder how many others in Placer county have been gagged and ended up like this? How many others across this country are in the same position or have been? Millions. The statistics are getting worse. As the laws in some states become more stringent these perpetrators of sexual abuse, child abuse and domestic violence know how to maneuver through the court system. I see it everyday. I have lived it too. That is why I started fighting for victims everywhere. It must change and we cannot wait for the change to come. Change happens now! It takes a community to raise a child and that is just what I see happening. Don’t let one more child get abused in this community and do nothing.
May 15th, 2009 at 12:24 pm
I hope he gets put behind bars soon, and the same thing will happen to him in jail. He should never be allowed to see his child again! This makes me sick to hear!!!!!
May 15th, 2009 at 12:46 pm
The father is most likely a SICK F###! But the cops and prosecutors that sat on their thumbs should also do some HARD time!!!
May 15th, 2009 at 1:09 pm
This is a story that the whole country is now watching and learning about-Our members of The Child Ptotection Community are 60 members strong and located in almost every state now-This is such a tragedy that grown people cannot see the in simplistics terms from the child that her father is molesting her-God Bless her mother who is trying so hard to get this resolved with a positve ending for her child and shame on the court systems and CPS of California-Your state is not being seen in a positive light for this childs right-Sincerely-Janell Matula of The Texas Child Protection Community Representative
May 15th, 2009 at 2:35 pm
This is a case that so obviously needs to be investigated by impartial professionals and some intervention needs to be made immediently so that the father is not alone with Aaliyah again unless proven innocent. I hope Aaliyah gets the protection from abuse every child deserves.
May 15th, 2009 at 2:37 pm
This is a case that so obviously needs to be investigated by impartial professionals and some intervention needs to be made immediently so that the father is not alone with Aaliyah again unless proven innocent. I hope Aaliyah gets the protection from abuse every child deserves.
May 15th, 2009 at 2:39 pm
First off, one word to Renee Hutchinson: At 2.5 years of age, the child is definitely old enough to lie and do so consistently. There have been many studies done on the capacity to lie in young children such as this one and they are definitely able to do so.
Now:
Personally, I can tell you that I used to force myself to throw up in the crib when I was under two years of age to get my parents to take me out of the crib so I would not have to go to sleep.
Anyone here saying that children can not be coached to do this is mis-informed.
The notion that Aaliyah could have been coached is just as valid as the notion that she is telling the truth. Let’s not ignore the fact that the entire conversation occurs off screen, meaning that there could have been other things being done off camera to cue the child into when to say what.
There are a number of possibilities.
All any of this proves is that there is a definite NEED for an investigation on this case done immediately.
People don’t like to realize that everyone is innocent until proven guilty. The man has not been proven guilty as of yet.
This just intensifies the need for an investigation.
In the event that this is true, then the man deserves any kind of horrible fate that can be place upon him. But until then, you can not go around demonizing someone for doing something you have not investigated.
May 15th, 2009 at 3:49 pm
I agree why not take her from the dad and investigate for a few days what can it hurt what is the problem with investigating…. This continues to worry the shit out of hundreds of people i feel if they dont do something soon people and not me may start taking things into there own hands..
May 15th, 2009 at 5:02 pm
Talk to your children.
Know everything about them.
Love and nurture them.
But most of all,
LISTEN TO THEM!
May 15th, 2009 at 5:09 pm
hey bubba schedule a bus trip and charge us whatever for the ride. lets go pay a vist to this s.o.b.
May 15th, 2009 at 5:11 pm
I do not see or hear what you all do at all…I Once had to deal with this type of situation when my child was 2 and a half, and my son literally told me , that his uncle stuck his Pee pee in his Butt…and I acted right away…Now this little girl, can tell you exactly what is going on…my son did! you CaNT trust anyone nowadays from Priests,teachers,mothers or fathers..its a sick society and I believe all of you are just seeing that part and not realizing that there are still good parents out there … I Just feel this little girl could come right out and say whats been going on, if anything..Not just the audio I have heard. apparently thats why the father has full custody??? has anyone checked up on the mom, maybe shes got mental problems? I dont know any of these people, so i dont see how anyone can side with either of them. sorry to be on the opposing end, But Like I said above about my son, I have been in this situation, and it really tore my heart out..
God Bless to all, and Bubba I Listen to you everyday!! we love you here in O-Town!
sincerely Lori
Well said! Thank you Lori, it’s exactly what I was thinking. Nice to know I’m not all alone here;)
May 15th, 2009 at 6:34 pm
Do you realize that ONE OUT OF EVERY THREE GIRLS ARE MOLESTED BEFORE THE AGE OF 18? Every 10 SECONDS another child is abused, raped or killed in the U.S.– And only 28% of child abuse reports are investigated!!
We need to STOP this epidemic plaguing our nation & stand up for our innocent children. It is OUR job to protect these children—they are our future!!!
How much more evidence do you possibly need? A 2 1/2 year old child does NOT talk about being RAPED by her father for almost 30 minutes straight. She’s not even old enough to know the details described in her video “Daddy’s Worm” UNLESS it has been shown, taught or done to her.
Aaliyah’s father is a molester, pedophile and a child sex offender and needs to be prosecuted — BEFORE IT’S TOO LATE!
Sandra Potter
CEO & Founder
DREAMCATCHERS FOR ABUSED CHILDREN
http://www.myspace.com/abused_children
http://www.dreamcatchersforabusedchildren.com
May 15th, 2009 at 6:59 pm
I heard bits and pieces of this on the show yesterday and was shoked as everyone. I checked the video out and I have the sick feeling this is setting the father up, just a gut reaction, it seems all contrived. Who sets up a nightsight video and just “accidently” gets your daughter talking about daddy’s “worm”. Kids babble about all manner of nonsense at that age, their brains are absorbing information at a rate that is astounding. Add to it a mother that wants primary care?
So pissed I missed Slatery commenting on this.
May 15th, 2009 at 7:15 pm
My brother-in-law is Connie’s boyfriend, and has been in Aaliyah’s life since she was about 11 months old. He loves her like she is his own daughter. He began telling us about what was happening to Aaliyah over a year ago. I know there are many people who question the validity of this situation, and no one thinks people shouldn’t. What is hoped is that, no matter where you stand, that you will think of Aaliyah’s well being. Connie has expressed to the court that she would like for Aaliyah to be put into temporary foster care while a REAL investigation is done to prove, once and for all, whether or not Aaliyah’s legal guardian is doing terrible things to her. Any good mother will believe her child, and Connie does.
Until recently, no one was taking this seriously. In the past month or so, Connie and her family, as well as my brother-in-law and myself, and countless other people, have done whatever we can to get Aaliyah’s story out there, in the hopes that something will be done to insure the well being, safety, and happiness of Aaliyah. Thank you for spreading the word. No matter where anyone stands on the issue, no matter whether you believe it or not, what matters most is AALIYAH!!
May 15th, 2009 at 7:24 pm
I am a survivor from the age of 5, HORRIFIC abuses beginning at the hands of a family member who was supposed to keep me safe. NO-ONE wanted to believe what was before their eyes just like with AALIYAH. She is in grave danger. She NEEDS ALL of us to stand up and be her voice. We tell our children they can talk to us, tell us anything, we will believe them and keep them safe. A mother is and has been fighting to do just that for her daughter. I have been fighting here in Florida for my 2 grandchildren’s safety from constant abuse. I have watched the video “DADDY’S WORM” more than once, as revolting as it is and I ASSURE YOU it is NOT coached. Children tell the truth in their own words, age apropriate. This is real people!!! AALIYAH BEDWELL is being repeatedly abused in the custody of her abuser and the LAW is doing Nothing!!! One Judge has apropriatley removed herself from the case. WAKE UP AND DO WHAT IS RIGHT!!! REMOVE AALIYAH from her father’s custody, strip him of his parental rights and place precious AALIYAH into the loving arms of her mother where she belongs. In conjunction with Law Enforcement for the safety of ALL children C.O.P. strives to make it safe online for all children. I am Florida Division Head with CHILD ONLINE PROTECTION (C.O.P.) and blessed to be part of a great team. STAND AS ONE VOICE UNIFIED FOR THE FREEDOM OF AALIYAH.
She needs to be where she is safe. That is definitely Not with her father. I fight for best and safest placement for AALIYAH and that happens to be with her mother.
I have already written Nancy Grace and a handful of others on AALIYAH’s behalf.
WHAT IF IT WERE YOUR CHILD OR CHILD OF YOUR LOVED ONE???
Respectfully
LEE – A VOICE FOR THE VOICELESS
Child Online Protection (C.O.P.)
FL Division Head
“LET EVERY CHILD BE SAFE AT ALL TIMES”
May 15th, 2009 at 7:26 pm
I just read through the day to day notes on her website. Sorry, I have a hard time believing this. I do hope I’m right.
I’m sorry if it sounds crude, but changing a diaper of a baby girl that was raped by an adult man days before? You would have NO doubt.
May 15th, 2009 at 8:54 pm
Its funny how so many here just repeat the original lies Connie put out.
There was a massive investigation, there is no corruption and there are reasons why custody was removed from her that she is not telling you. None of you have the full story.
But you web followers read it once and it is suddenly the truth.
There are thousands of cases of custody fights where false accusations have been made against a dad on child sexual abuse.
Connie had motive to make the video. How do we know that Connie wasn’t ‘playing a game’ of Eisteins worm’ with Aali during that video and just changed the name of the worm to daddy !! There are countless ways to coach a child into saying things and playing along. I could give you an endless list on how children can be coached into role playing with parents.
NO this child didn’t make this up on her own, her mom is leading her.
Did you stop and think why Connie didn’t have her doctor Nay record a video? Why not use the professionals that this child went to? Why do a video in the dark? I do not hear words on this video that are convincing enough to demand for the fathers head on a stick.
Common sense doesn’t prevail when insanity takes over and people start believing every word they read. There is a reason this woman does not have custody. AND until she provides actual names to go along with her conspiracy theories, I won’t buy that either. Evidence is not here, were any of you not listening to the doctors on today’s show? They would not side with Connies version, they requested more evidence prior to todays show but Connie wouldn’t forward it to them. I know Bubba questioned how he felt about this after listening to them to. This is his site, if I’m wrong, he’ll say so won’t he?
There’s been 11 investigations all with doctors, police & a variety of CPS.
Theres no other cases of women coming forward screaming conspiracy. YOU think if that’s how the county worked, there’d be more than Connie yelling.??? !!! Everyone keeps repeating the words from Connie: no investigation, county officials in each others pockets, judges are crooked.
Open your eyes for a minute, stop and think. You want the world to believe this father is guilty over 1 video where the mother has control of the atmosphere & setting, without any other evidence put forward. Without doctors coming to her side agreeing with her. Without giving any names to this great cover up. You all want to hang a man on that???
You’re talking hundreds of people all risking their jobs, their lives, their careers to cover for a pedophile??? Not going to happen without someone in that group of hundreds breaking the silence. Where there’s smoke theres not always a fire people.
THINK, use your head and don’t try and make me someone who would ever support a child molester. NO WAY I EVER WOULD. Children are the world to me. I’d kill any man who’d harm my kid. I do not know the father but I have enough sense to consider what was put in front of my face!! Not going to hang this man on some flimsy suspicious stuff. NO WAY.
May 15th, 2009 at 8:55 pm
DREAMCATCHERS HOW DARE YOU SAY THAT Aaliyah expresses any form of RAPE in that video. WHERE?????????????? OMG, how you spin something into what is not there.
May 15th, 2009 at 9:01 pm
One more thing, the new judge that has been brought in from outside Placer County, NOT in anyone’s pockets have ruled STRONGLY against Connie adding even FURTHER RESTRICTIONS.
YOU’RE SUPPORTING A WOMAN WHERE 9 JUDGES HAVE LOOKED AT THE EVIDENCE AND DECIDED TO HAVE THE FATHER RETAIN CUSTODY.
YOU’RE SUPPORTING A WOMAN WHO CLAIMS THERE’S NO INVESTIGATION YET HOW HAS THIS GONE THROUGH COUNTLESS JUDGES. If there’s no investigations, why was there 11 separate CPS files of abuse investigated fully?
GOOD GOD PEOPLE USE YOUR HEAD! Your heart is in the right place but this is not a child who was sexually abused!!!
May 15th, 2009 at 9:06 pm
In the past few years,the general populace of US has been facing a radical reexamination of the health care system. Not only has this investigation avoided its illness but resist to overcome!
May 15th, 2009 at 9:10 pm
Bubba thanks to you and your show this little girl will HOPEFULLY get the help she so deserves. On a personal level I was molested as well for 4 years from my twin step- brother’s…my mom was of NO help to me and I will stand behind this mom and daughter for as long as they need…I will sign any legislature or whatever…Aaliyah Bedwell deserves the help!!!
May 15th, 2009 at 10:49 pm
As a mother, I would have disappeared with that child a LONG time ago.
May 16th, 2009 at 12:23 am
This is NONSENSE-Connie did not make this up
This brought me to tears and made me sick when I first heard this story. This devastates Connie’s grandmother, great-grandmother of Aaliyah, a good friend. I can character witness that Connie is a good person. I am acquainted with Connie, her father, sisters and grandmother (wonderful people). I do not live in the same state anymore, so I have not seen them personally in 9 years. I e-mail Aaliyah’s great-grandmother and we keep in touch. This is an unbelievably horrific story; so outrageous in the lack of justice, that any logical mind rationally wants to come up with a ‘reason’ why the mother has lost custody of the child. The father is apparently pretty crafty, as well as, very well connected. There are some insidious misrepresentations of Connie and Cara “making this up†made on this blog. I can sensibly and emphatically state that they are ‘real people’ and this is not a HOAX, nor would they ever do such a thing. This is purely a case of The Powerful vs. The Powerless.
It appears that the grandfather, Aaliyah’s father’s father, is also an abuser, which is characteristic of ‘the abused’; the abused tend to perpetrate or ‘act out’ on others what was done to them. The mother of the abuser is also an accomplice, by not doing anything but crying and not taking action for the protection of her great-grandchild to stop the abuse. Apparently, there is another victem, a girl cousin, who also might be involved with the abusers.
Please someone, help save this baby and give her back to her mother, Connie, who loves Aaliyah and is self advocating,and suffering in pain as she helplessly watches her child endure sexual molestation at the hands of her father but powerless to stop it.
I am glad to see this going national with you Bubba. I am now a New listener and will continue to listen in hopes for updates on my family friend’s plight in California. This baby needs help from anyone with the power to help.
Michelle Z.
Florida
May 16th, 2009 at 12:34 am
victim
May 16th, 2009 at 1:01 am
bubba…let me tell u how this made me feel i will kill some dumb ass for this horror i hate people that r abussing other children i am sick to my stomach right now if there was something i could do i would like blast him in the head if any of my x wifes new boyfriends ever touch my son i,ll kill them i,m just at the end of my limit with this somebody needs to help her before it is to late let me know what to do when i was 6 it hapen to me i,m not right now because of it
May 16th, 2009 at 8:46 am
I think its time those with ‘contacts’ or money are brought down a peg or two..they think they can buy their way out of the bad they do…meanwhile these jerkoff officials continue to allow the child to stay with the abuser & remove her from her protection..maybe they have gotten away with so many they think they can continue & the rest of the world never know..time to bring them down I think.
May god bless & keep that lil angel safe from any further harm, we pray, we pray, we pray lord please help us out here, your intervention is so badly needed, please bring that baby girl back to her mother, where she will be safe.
May 16th, 2009 at 11:39 am
man thats so not right to hurt kids. I am a da of a two year old boy and he is the best thing that has ever happend to me and im only 23 years old. So something needs to happen to this guy relly fast. best wishes for the family.
May 16th, 2009 at 1:52 pm
PLEASE investigate this A.S.A.P. This little one is being abused by the dad OR the mom & possibly many others. This baby is crying out & counting on us to save her & you can’t put a price on that. This is her REALITY she is talking about & it needs to change right now. DON”T keep failing our babies because they ARE OUR FUTURE & WE WILL REAP WHAT WE SOW. I am a survivor of child abuse so I know first hand what this baby has already lost & we need to change this. Thank you, HappyOne against ABUSE
May 16th, 2009 at 3:19 pm
God save this child. I hope you find a way to save her. You will be in my prayers.
May 16th, 2009 at 3:39 pm
I think what should be done, similar to bikes for badges to raise money to help this girl and her mother (because they will need therapy after all this.)
But this time strap her father to the road and all the cars and bike cruise right over this sick M*th*r F*ck*r.
But because of America’s great judicial system this guy will problem never see a jail cell because Aaliyha’s age, and may have been coursed by the mother, this sick dude will keep doing this over and over again and ruin the lives of many for people.
May 16th, 2009 at 6:09 pm
as the iron sheiks said someone should stick him in his tukas and make him humble
May 16th, 2009 at 6:10 pm
put him the cage with mike tyson and let him do the man until he loves him
May 16th, 2009 at 8:55 pm
I’m very leary to believe this as accurate solely based on an edited video made by the person making these allegations.
Where is the evidence from the experts? A pediatrician? A licensed child psychologist who specializes in sexual abuse? The CPS investigations ALREADY DONE? I’m sure this mother had time to take her child to a doctor and a psychologist who could verify these accusations and has provided the mother with written proof her concerns where founded.
Bubba I know your expert has asked the mother for copies of this information. I will be much more inclined to believe this as true once you can get this information and post it for listeners such as myself.
Without that, I can not believe this to be true but only the claims of a vindictive mother who wished to alienate her child from her father.
May 16th, 2009 at 9:05 pm
I don’t understand why people continue to look the other way in situations like this, and then they wonder why some kids turn out the way they do. This poor little girl is asking for help the only way that she knows how. How is this even an issue? The girl should not even be allowed with the sorry excuse for a man until things are sorted out. This is not something that just goes away on its own. So many kids ask for help, and so many times it is ignored until it is too late, on the other hand, a lot of kids don’t say anything at all because they feel nothing will be done. Doesn’t that say something right there?
May 17th, 2009 at 4:06 am
This worthless bastard needs to die, along with his parents and anybody in the judicial system in that f###ed up county! They need to smash his fathers balls between two bricks, so he can not reproduce any more fucking idiots! I thought I lived in a fucked up county, but it does not hold a candle to what these bastards are allowing to go on. Child molesting son of a bitch! I would LOVE to be a cop in that county! They would never be able to identify the body! This woman just needs to take the daughter and get the hell out of that fucked up state!
May 17th, 2009 at 7:25 am
This just makes me sick,
if this had happened to my daughter the sick bastard would be dead, end of conversation.
Let’s go ARMY, do what we can to get this SOB off the streets before this poor child is hurt anymore.
Greg
Ontario, Canada
May 17th, 2009 at 9:52 am
Looks like the local paper, The Auburn Jounal is finally covering this. See the article by Jenifer Gee.
http://auburnjournal.com/detail/114617.html?content_source=&category_id=&search_filter=&user_id=&event_mode=&event_ts_from=&event_ts_to=&list_type=&order_by=&order_sort=&content_class=1&sub_type=&town_id=
R/Chuck
May 17th, 2009 at 10:57 am
Let’s face it, This Connie is pulling out all stops to get her kid back. I think in the long runs she’s going to be shown as making false allegations against the father.
Most of the entries I see here are kneejerk, reactionary statements to one piece of the puzzle.
May 17th, 2009 at 12:03 pm
After listening to the video and reading the comments of others, I have this to say….both Parents should be given a polygraph test.I hope that a true verdict is ultimately rendered.The only sensible course of action would seem to be to place the child in a safe environment until the matter is fully investigated.
Joyce
Lancaster, Ohio
May 17th, 2009 at 12:49 pm
I wish it would stop and every quit repeating the lies of the mother by stating there was no investigation. Here’s FINALLY AN ARTICLE that shows law enforcement did a thorough investigation and a team of specialist have seen Aaliyah. There was no evidence of abuse and the case is closed.
http://auburnjournal.com/detail/114617.html?content_source=&category_id=&search_filter=&user_id=&event_mode=&event_ts_from=&event_ts_to=&list_type=&order_by=&order_sort=&content_class=1&sub_type=&town_id=
May 17th, 2009 at 1:26 pm
Anyone that would abuse a child should be locked in a room with a bunch of angry mothers.
May 17th, 2009 at 6:30 pm
Illinois LEO sounds like Drew Peterson. good thing we know he is behind bars with a 20 million dollar bail.
The Auburn Journal has posted about this story today. The detective handling the case explained how the case WAS in fact investigated and the father WAS CLEARED OF ALL CHARGES.
GREAT ARTICLE! Thank you Sargent Peccoraro for clearing up any doubts!
May 17th, 2009 at 6:34 pm
What’s up with the mob mentality without any facts? I wonder what those who replied here would think if THEIR son was accused without facts?
Bubba is a dad. How would you feel Bubba if your son, Trenton I believe is his name? was a father and falsely accused of molesting his child? An investigation cleared him and the mother of his child was hell bent on destroying him? I think you would be outraged!
I’m amazed how people simply believe this so quickly. Guilty until proven innocent no doubt.
What is more amazing, is IF by chance someone harms the father or child, there are going to be some serious law suits for those who assisted the mother in perpetuating these false allegations.
SHAME ON YOU CONNIE BEDWELL FOR ABUSING AND EXPLOITING YOUR CHILD AS YOU HAVE!
May 17th, 2009 at 7:30 pm
why has someone removed my links to hear the family radio interview? The interview is on blogtalkradio. Will you do one Bubba?
May 17th, 2009 at 7:51 pm
WHERE IS THE EVIDENCE, I posted a link above your post for this article. Amazing isn’t it how some can be taken in.
Here it is again. http://auburnjournal.com/detail/114617.html?content_source=&category_id=&search_filter=&user_id=&event_mode=&event_ts_from=&event_ts_to=&list_type=&order_by=&order_sort=&content_class=1&sub_type=&town_id=
May 17th, 2009 at 8:28 pm
That just sick the dad should be killed,the mom’s hot!
May 17th, 2009 at 8:28 pm
Some voices of reason.
Bubba, ya really need to take the “pedophile father” line out of the rotater for this story. It opens ya up for one hell of a slander lawsuit.
IMO, this was handled badly. BTLS I’m a total mark for you guys, I love ya and listen everyday but I think ya got worked.
May 17th, 2009 at 9:22 pm
It is right that we have child services to protect our children, but they are not doing so. This child needs to be in a place away from him. I am very hurt and disgusted that nothing has been done. I know about child services, they have been called on me 7 times since living in ny and have all been unfounded on child abuse. This case is child abuse and needs to be addressed. If it were me I could not stand by and watch my daughter go through something this horrible. I know for a fact he would not be allowed to see her. A mother is in this life to protect their children and I am totally for stopping him and bringing justice. The governor of California needs to step up and do something, and you know who you are…..
May 17th, 2009 at 9:45 pm
There is a problem with the Auburn Journal Newspaper article. The Auburn detective did not indeed investigate the case. The case was closed without examining the other side. In the articles I have read on blogtalkradio and saveaaliyah.com, there have been no questions asked of witnesses for Connie’s side whatsoever. There is a considerable amount of evidence with the sister Cara, and Connie’s boyfriend Darryl, yet NO ONE has interviewed them or any other person on Connie’s side for a balanced perspective. This is clearly a covered up case.This is straight from the save Aaliyah site from Cara Bedwell, the sister who took care of Aaliyah at night:
EVERY AUTHORITY THAT HAS THE POWER TO DO SOMETHING….. HAS NEVER CALLED TO TALK TO ANYONE THAT HAS WITNESSED AALIYAH SAY AND DO THESE THINGS!!! THEY ONLY LISTEN TO THE POOR PITTY STORY OF LIES THAT THE PEDOPHILE AND HIS MESSED UP FAMILY TELL THEM…. AND NOT ONCE HAVE THEY ATTEMPTED TO LISTEN TO ANYONE OF US THAT HAVE SEEN OR HEARD THAT BABY GIRL!!!
THEY BUY INTO THE PEDOPHILES STORY TO CALL CONNIE CRAZY FOR TRYING TO FIGHT FOR HER DAUGHTER BUT LITTLE DO THEY KNOW THERE’S A MILLION CRAZIES THAT STAND BEHIND HER THAT WILL KEEP FIGHTING UNTIL OUR BABY IS SAFE! THE TRUTH IS THE TRUTH AND WHAT AALI HAS SAID AND DONE FOR ALMOST TWO YEARS NOW WILL NOT BE HIDDEN OR KEPT QUIET!
I have a feeling there is going to be some embarrassment in Placer County before this is all through. The definition to investigate is to examine closely, and this clearly has NOT been done. There has been no justice served here and a little girl could be being sexually abused daily, for all we know, while a full scale investigation has yet to be done. I am In agreement with the family I heard on an interview on blogtalkradio yesterday, I agree that the baby should be removed from both parties until the situation is all cleared up, this offered by Connie’s family’s side. I also heard on the interview that this was NOT a custody case problem; this began with Connie fleeing to her father’s house in Alaska to get away from the physical and emotional abuse of Dustin in the first place. I read this on the site witnessed by Curtis Bedwell:
True story. It’s on tape. THANKS CPS. Way to look into it. He is quite a piece of —–. And I was there when he took a baseball bat out on her and started yelling at Connie while Aaliyah was in her arms at 4 weeks old before Alaska.
Keeping Aaliyah in an alleged abuser’s house, who has a rap sheet history with a criminal record of abuse, alcoholism, and drugs, while having evidence of him being a pedophile isn’t wise judgment for any judge, lawyer, or psychologist.
May 18th, 2009 at 1:02 am
WHERE IS THE EVIDENCE, I’ve heard rumblings of criminal charges coming about and they are not for the father FYI to all reading.
May 18th, 2009 at 6:29 am
Thank you Bubba, for being unbiased and looking into the facts for this child. I hope the truth will come out soon.
Joey Tillman
The Child Protection Community
Can we please get to the bottom of this sooner than later.
May 18th, 2009 at 8:31 am
I have a special set of skills that make me a nightmare for garbage like this. Give me 5 minutes with this guy and he will never hurt or even be able to hurt another human being!
May 18th, 2009 at 9:41 am
I am hopeful to get the chance to to out to California and meet with the mother and father in this case.
Let’s give them all the chance to do legitimate psychological testing.
I will give them the benefit of the doubt and spend ample time observing them with the child and reviewing all the data.
This case needs a neutral professional who can get to the bottom of the issues.
May 18th, 2009 at 9:50 am
If there are people like the Anthonys getting on to these talk show getting paid for their stupid daughter…..WHY can Connie not get attention like that. Why isn’t anyone helping this women? There are people out there that can help. Where in Casey Anthony getting the money to defend her useless ass and poor Connie can’t getting anything. Someone help her. I have a 4 year old daughter and let me tell you what I would be on the highest mountain screaming for help, I would be heard. Placer County is a speck on the map, I think it should be blown off the face of the earth if this is what legall system is like. Our childern are our future. God Bless this baby..!!
May 18th, 2009 at 9:53 am
Michelle is making all GREAT points, EnoughAlready should go find something else to occupy his/her time as this case seems to be annoying. Key points here is that the investigation scope is not known, could have been completed via the Police Dept. not the CPS specifically. This is key to know who did the investigation and how broad was it. Seems from what I read in the Auburn Journal article that the investigation was not thorough. From the BloggerNews radio interview with the Begwell family nothing was done on thier end as far as interviewing them. Note, there are many many people on Connie’s side confirming this problem. I can’t beleive they would all lie even considering the custody matter. Just doesn’t make since. I can’t wait until the BubbaArmy gets some traction on this case.
R/Chuck
May 18th, 2009 at 10:10 am
Bubba how are you doing??I listen to your show every morning on the way to school and when I heard this last week I was sickened and now even more that I am actually watching the video and I am sickened at the fact that this poor little innocent girl has to go through something like this and that her own father ,one of the 2 people in this world that should be taking care of her and making sure she is safe is exposing her to this kind of behavior and IT ISNT RIGHT AT ALL, I think this SOB should be in jail for as long as they can keep him there ,and its because of sick people like him that many people were unfortunate to grow up and not* have a normal life and that is very sad to hear AND SOMETHING MUST BE DONE REGARDLESS OF HOW MUCH MONEY IT MAY COST TO PUT THIS SOB BEHIND BARS, WHERE HE BELONGS!!!!!!!!
May 18th, 2009 at 11:19 am
You guys have no idea who this mom is. She has forced her daughter to say this, Before you judge the dad, get to know the mom.
May 18th, 2009 at 11:41 am
the article in the auburn journal is one- sided, and you cna post the link to it all you want but it is obvious there is No statement from CPS or anyone who isn’t part of the ‘good ol boys’ club in that article. It leaves ALOT of information out while in support of the father.
It has been stated OVER AND OVER BY WITNESSES that there has NEVER been a thorough investigation OF ANY OF THE WITNESSES to this abuse and behavior.
Considering THAT I have to admit I couldn’t give one iota that they got a sheriff who never bothered to fully investigate this. IF THEY HAD would we all be in here arguing over WHO IS LYING? I think not.
I HOPE at some point the WITNESSES can and will be heard by Someone not already embroiled in the Dastardly history of sham Justice that is often served by the Cronies in Placer and has been going on there since way before Aaliyah was even a fertilized egg.
What I’m saying is that if MANY witnesses say they were never interviewed that tells me NOBODY has done a Thorough investigation in Placer County. Some scream for Connies evidence, but my heart screams for evidence it is Not happening! I’d like to see that presented in an UNBIASED news piece, obviously not what The Auburn Journal published Half a story on.
Sweeping it under the rug and covering up or not fully investigating the evidence for two full years this has been going on, has only made it that much harder for Connie to prove her side. Leaving the child in the Fulltime hands of her possible abuser is definitely not in the best interest of the child, as he can and likely has brainwashed her to tell His side now instead of her original cries for help. This DOES, IN NO WAY mean it never happened or doesn’t exist.
I truly believe there is a little girl in danger and she should definitely be removed From BOTH parties while an impartial party investigates further. THAT HAS NOT HAPPENED YET. The same people who are covering it up or sweeping it under a rug due to their community ties, are the ones making statements they have investigated yet show us no proof of anything Connie has done to warrant not even being able to take a picture of her own daughter or visit on scheduled visits.
Abuse is perpetuated by those who will continue the cycle by covering it up. Anyone who has been a victim knows that the first thing an abuser does is try to turn the tables in their favor, make the other parent look crazy, pull any strings to cover up the abuse. That it has been allowed to happen to Aaliyah for too long, makes it hard to just hush and keep quiet. Thanks Bubba Army for stepping up to the plate for this little angel- she obviously has Not been Heard!
this is not the first case like it in Placer County. Elsewhere, and until the 80′s this was common, so common that who knows how many mothers had to run away and conceal their new identities to protect their children. Connie had some real guts to come back to Placer with the cards already dealt in the fathers favor and she has been fighting it, to no avail ever since.
There absolutely Must be a full investigation by impartial parties, for the witnesses to Finally be Heard, and for this little girl to have what all children deserve and thats the right to know both parents. If her father is abusing or has then he needs to be punished and recieve help. If Connie is not telling the whole truth, then she should be reprimanded but also have full access to her daughter. The child deserves to know both of them and that is not what I see happening in the best interest of the child just now. Right now she isn’t even allowed her legal visitation!
Anyone who can sit there and say she or this baby have been heard has got to be blind.
May 18th, 2009 at 3:50 pm
This was staged! The camera was turned off three times during the course of the video! If the little girl said those things of her free will there would not be space or time to turn the camera off! For what reason did she turn the camera off? To coach??????????
May 18th, 2009 at 3:52 pm
Dr.Saturley, I was so disappointed in not hearing what you had to say about this case the other morning (in and out of my truck all morning). It’s tiring reading the tough guy posts, the friends of a friend and quotes from a biased website or blog. I would like to see some professionals like yourself comment on this case.
I really hope I’m right and the mother is a nutjob. My friend years ago was falsely accused by the mother (and no that does bias my opinion). When the smoke cleared my friend had full custody.
May 18th, 2009 at 4:33 pm
Video Turn Off’s
#1. 2min:55sec Would the baby have forgotten what she was supposed to say? Did the “Worm” sound scary?
- Why was the bottle & the special bear so more important than telling mommy daddy was being a bad boy with his “Worm”?
#2. 5min: 31sec Why did aunty turn off the camera before coming into the picture? Did we need to re focus baby?
- After all dady didn’t show dolly the “Worm”, yet dolly and it being cold and all was more important than finishing telling mommy why the “Worm” was so yucky!
May 18th, 2009 at 5:56 pm
yea there is something going on forsure …..Thanks Bubba for getting to work on this one, just maybe now someone will listen and the right people will look into it and get this sicko AND SAVE THIS CHILD!!!!!
May 18th, 2009 at 7:09 pm
I understand she is wanting to help her child but why didn’t she at least white out her face. So for the rest of her life everyone will know. I was abused also as a child and shame comes with it. But having everyone look at you and know… if the mom is putting this stuff in her head and telling her what to say..can she grow up and really believe this happen to her if it didn’t?
May 18th, 2009 at 7:43 pm
For thoose of you who think this is fake. Even if it is how can you think it is right to not have a trial? So youd rather just let the mother brain wash her little girl. None of you were there. So you can not be sure that this if fake. And if its not that means that sick son of a bitch is still on the streets being able to do this to his little girl over and over. And maybe other little kids that none of us know about. Im not saying that I agree that this is fake. Because I don’t I really truly believe that this is real. And if it is just think. How would you feel if that was you little girl. Telling you all about her daddy’s “worm”. I have a little girl she is 5 months old. And if she ever EVER came to me telling me about her daddy “worm” or anyone’s worm at that, that sick son of a bitch would be dead. 6 feet under baby. Im not agreeing with eaither side. But for thoose of you who don’t believe this is fake. Give her mother the benefit of the doubt cause if it was your little girl you would want her to do the same. You would want people to believe you right? Okay then. I think it is really fucked up that the state of California is just now looking into this case. Because either way if he is guilty or not that little girl is still being physically or emotionally hurt. I think it is sick that it had to take Bubba The Love Sponge to air this on his radio and to put this video on the internet to finally get an investigation.
May 18th, 2009 at 9:15 pm
To all the internet tough guys; What would you do to the mom when it comes out that this was all a fabrication?
May 18th, 2009 at 11:41 pm
This entire battle started after the father had pulled a baseball bat out on Connie while she was holding there 4-week old baby. He then hit her AND the baby with soiled diapers in the same instance. He tried to keep her from leaving by taking the base to the car seat and not letting her leave to safety. There are COURT RECORDS showing this- anyone can walk in and get them… From the beginning it was his abusive nature that forced Connie to run for safety and move to Alaska to protect her daughter. The only mistake she made was listening to the promises made by the court- and him that Aaliyah would be safe if she returned. Connie wanted to let her daughter grow up knowing her father- but then he started abusing her both sexually and physically- and all of the evidence and witnesses can attest to this- we have ALL seen how Aaliyah would run from him, scream when she saw him- never look at him when he picked her up at exchanges- and we all would see the rashes around her mouth, and ALL of us heard and saw her telling us what she had experienced with him- her talking about daddy’s worm in her mouth- and how he has to wipe it off with like a napkin.
Sgt Pecoraro so casually forgets to mention WHEN he ACTUALLY and FINALLY WATCHED THAT VIDEO. It is a matter of fact that he did not watch that video when Connie went into the police station with it in her hand the very next morning (June 10, 2008) after Aaliyah made those statements regarding what her father has been doing to her the night before (June 9, 2008). In fact, the Auburn Police Department had Connie turn the child over to a child molester for his visitation on June 10, 2008 to be brainwashed during the fathers visitation again. When Connie received Aaliyah back from his visitation on June 15 2008, we all took Aaliyah to the hospital to have her examined; Sgt Pecoraro yelled at Connie and told her to leave the hospital. He did not authorize her examination. During that heated phone conversation with Sgt Pecoraro in the hospital he still at that point HAD NOT EVEN WATCHED THE VIDEO YET!!!
Mr Fenocchio (the DA) might want to help Sgt Pecoraro redefine what “immediate” truly means and see to it that he doesnt allow other children to be harmed because of his unwillingness to do his job. Also after we received Aaliyah back from him she made one line coached statements such as “I love daddy, I love daddy’s worm, mommy makes me say these things, daddy said so, daddy said I love daddy not Darrel, Darrel’s bad daddy said so. etc” It wasnt until June 17th 2008 that Sgt Pecoraro FINALLY didnt make Connie turn Aaliyah over to the father. Sgt Pecoraro had called and apologized to Connie for what he had done or should I say hadn’t done. Aaliyah’s MDIC interview took place on June 23, 2008 in which Aaliyah stated the one line brainwashing her father made her say.
WE WOULD ALL LIKE TO THANK THE AUBURN POLICE DEPARTMENT FOR CARLESSLY PUTTING AALIYAH BACK IN A PEDOOPHILE’S HOME TO BE BRAINWASHED AGAIN INSTEAD OF TAKING APPROPRIATE IMMEDIATE ACTION.
We all hope that the Auburn Police Department will acknowledge their mistakes and make this right for Aaliyah. This whole other side to the puzzle NEEDS to be heard and DESERVES to be heard for Aaliyah’s welfare.
May 19th, 2009 at 12:17 pm
He should get a slow painful death. You should contact the Steve Wilkos show. I know that he would be able to help. My prayers are with you and Aaliyah.
May 19th, 2009 at 1:34 pm
Joe, not to worry. The mother will end up behind bars for her clever coaching of her child. I’ve personally filed a complaint with the FBI internet fraud unit and there is an open file. With all her accusations confirmed by authorities to be fabrications & lies, the FBI has taken my complaint seriously.
May 19th, 2009 at 4:15 pm
This is no man, he is a sick SOB that needs to pay severe consequences for his immoral, disgusting act! I can’t understand how any so called “human being” can actually do anything like that to a poor, innocent, defenseless child. In my opinion, I think that pigs like this jerkoff needs to be tortured and a bullet in their head to put them out of the victims and the victims families misery. What a POS!!!!!!!!!!! This disgusting worthless predator does not deserve the air we breathe.
May 19th, 2009 at 9:42 pm
Michelle, take a breathe. Do you know for certain that this has transpired? We have web logs that are totally biased, we have 2nd hand info, we have friends of friends, we have a half assed blair witch type video that proves nothing. Sorry, I don’t see the evidence that I need to demonise someone.
Jesus, if I had a daughter I’d definitely keep her the hell away from worms to keep from getting labeled a pedophile.
May 19th, 2009 at 11:13 pm
EnoughAlready, Tell me you didn’t really go to the FBI and file a complaint when you don’t know all the facts. AMAZING!!!!!!
May 20th, 2009 at 12:08 am
EnoughAlready-
You sound like the pedophile yourself…
Always reverse charging your twisted behavior.
Is that supposed to be some sort of threat to scare Connie?
Connie already sat down with the FBI so now you have made a complaint. You are probably right they probably do have an open file but it’s not for fraud.
Maybe someone should check that IP address.
May 20th, 2009 at 7:53 am
fyi- joe…
quote”We have web logs that are totally biased, we have 2nd hand info, we have friends of friends, we have a half a##ed blair witch type video that proves nothing.”
FUNNY YOU CAN CONSIDER HER IMMEDIATE FAMILY AND AT LEAST ONE PSYCHIATRIST WHO WERE NEVER INTERVIEWED BY LE OR CPS, TO BE 2ND HAND INFO. THATS A NO BRAINER, AND BY THAT I MEAN AN IDEA WITH NO BRAIN BEHIND IT…
THAT VIDEO DID NOTHING BUT REINFORCE MY BELIEF IN THE MANY, MANY, MANY WITNESS STATEMENTS (that have never been heard by cps or le) THAT ARE AVAILABLE FOR YOU AND ANYONE ELSE TO READ, YES RIGHT HERE ON THE INTERNET. I’D BE WILLING TO BET AT LEAST HALF OF THE POSTERS HERE SCREAMING CONNIE IS A LIAR HAVE NOT EVEN BOTHERED TO READ THOSE MANY STATEMENTS THAT ARE NOT HEARSAY THEY ARE LEGAL STATEMENTS.
IN FACT THAT VIDEO DID NOTHING BESIDES REINFORCE MY BELIEF THAT THE BEDWELLS ARE TELLING THE TRUTH.
May 20th, 2009 at 8:01 am
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=40PGIVtbgGc
I performed analysis on this video and as near as I can tell there is a considerable amount of deception concerning the physical aspects of the video. The Daddy’s worm video must undergo scrutiny by a video expert. However I can tell you that it was standard lighting, not infrared, that was used. I agree with Enough Already, there is clear evidence of intentional deception.
May 20th, 2009 at 6:26 pm
I’ve been going through the various Youtube posts, these, including that one from Richard don’t expose anything. This is still a mystery. I still have not read a single thread or news article that confirms the CPS have checked into this case and come up with findings. Also the Bedwell family have not been interviewed (unless it was done today, ya right!), this still stinks of a coverup by the locals.
May 20th, 2009 at 7:01 pm
70sixspeed Darrel, maybe you are the pedophile and the reason Aali is having the issues she does, no wonder the courts are keeping her from you and Connie
May 20th, 2009 at 9:39 pm
I’m wondering why Bubba hasn’t commented on this in days. Maybe I missed it.
May 21st, 2009 at 12:15 am
Chuck M,
I filed a complaint on behalf of 22 people who want their money back from Connie. There have been no refunds and no response from her or the promises from Tim Bedwell to provide receipts and he will personally handle it.
THE FBI complaint is directly related to that. INTERNET FRAUD is INTERNET FRAUD.
Tim Bedwell stated & I have copies where he said he would provide refunds to anyone who gives a receipt.
We did, all 22 people and there was ZERO response.
MULTIPLE requests have been sent in since May 8th. The FBI is taking this seriously. You do not scam people on the net, then say you can get your money back and then disappear and ignore multiple requests to return money donated to something since proven a fraud!
We’ve given the FBI the info requested & emails. Showing that this case was investigated and closed, then asking for money because you claim there was no investigation is FRAUD.
WHY are we being taken seriously? Ask them, not me. Fraud cconvictions can carry a lengthy sentence Connie, so answer our emails you scammer.
May 21st, 2009 at 4:36 am
Was Dr. Joe Saturley able to obtain the information he was seeking before agreeing to move foward with this case. I see that he also offered to go to California and offered to be a non biased out of county professional to assist the family.
Why am I seeing all this finger pointing and nothing about what Dr. Saturley has offered? Is this not what the family was seeking? What about the attorney that the mother has obtained?
I’m at a loss as to why the finger pointing is still happening when the mother has obtained an attorney. Can’t her attorney talk to Dr. Saturley?
Has Dr
May 21st, 2009 at 2:13 pm
Enough, Wow, I missed the entire deal on the $$$. So Tim said he would get the money back? What was the premise on saying or promising this? Say it aint so Connie! did you scam us. What about the entire family that Simon & Jan Barrett interviewed on Bloggernews? There was the boyfriend, the aunt, a sister, her mom. Were they all in on it? I’m as confused as ever.
R/Chuck
May 21st, 2009 at 3:53 pm
SO is this sh*t real or not? Is the father a pedophile or is the mother a scammer and brainwasher?
May 21st, 2009 at 7:57 pm
TO #308
This is a blatant attempt by Dustin David Thompson the Child Molester and his clan to deter those who want to donate to help Connie.
NOT ONE PERSON HAS REQUESTED A REFUND OF THEIR DONATION … but if anyone does the instructions for obtaining your refund is; go to http://www.bloggernews.net and post your receipt # on the most current article about Aaliyah, and I will contact you and set up the refund. It’s that simple.
Thank you to all who have donated their time to help, and those who for lack of time donated money. We are eternally grateful.
As for Dr. Saterly’s offer;
Connie requested any testing deemed necessary by Dr. Saterly.
The Bedwell family and all witnesses have also agreed to take any test deemed necessary by Dr. Saterly and those professionals needed to conduct these third, neutral party tests in order to establish the truth.
Connie and the Bedwell’s are looking for the opportunity to be tested and interviewed by Dr. Saterly.
May 22nd, 2009 at 9:41 am
Does that mean that the Blogger News Network is now the official agent regarding donations now? Isn’t that a little strange to have a free blogging rumor mill in charge of such things? Or do you just skim through the comments till you spot a message pertaining to donations? Either way it hardly sounds responsible or “legit”.
May 22nd, 2009 at 9:53 am
And another thing. If BNN is not officially involved and you are just skimming messages there, how do you contact the people? You would have to ask the site editors for the email Address of the person, which they are not “supposed” to give out without permission! Why not just have a refund button on the PAYPAL page? With just as many options for refunds as there is for donations? Just Curious.
May 22nd, 2009 at 12:52 pm
i don’t think that the mother is lying. There would have to be a lot of people going to jail if this was a hoax. Why hasn’t she been arrested yet if this is a scam? There is just too much information out there now to hide it if it was a hoax. I did some research and it’s been since the second week of April. That’s a long time and she isn’t arressted. I believe the mom and we should do something to get this, god what do you call this thing; he’s not a person, father, man and even some monsters have integrity. We need to stop this guy and put him behind bars.
May 22nd, 2009 at 1:21 pm
Enough Already and Where is the evidence, you sure sound like you are the bio dad. You go to great lengths to make sure people hear you and listen to your bull crap. You have all of this “evidence” that doesn’t prove anything other than maybe 6 months ago an investigation was done improperly and needs to be done again. Bubba, you should do some IP checks. Everyone says that the thompsons have taken the high road and havn’t responded, I have seen a lot of posts that look exactly like Enough Already’s and Where’s the Evidence all over the mother’s supporters pages. The Thompson’s aren’t even human enough to use their own names. People, really, step back and really see what they are saying. Take it one word at a time. It’s amazing how they try to brainwash. It’s scary.
May 22nd, 2009 at 3:06 pm
I consider myself a christen, however this guy should be hung !!!! killed!!! then you call the police and tell them what and why you did this !you’ll at least know it will never happen again!
May 22nd, 2009 at 5:55 pm
To Dustin Thompson aka EnoughAlready and his many other alias’s;
YOU the Child Molester Dustin Thompson and his supporters are so bend on spreading the lie of people wanting refunded donations, that last week I decided the way to show these claims are false was to have any request for a refund be published by posting their receipt number on BNN. Where are the 22 receipt numbers Dustin?? I would also love to see those emails you sent to the FBI!!! POST THEM HERE ON BTLS!!! You need to get off that crack pipe your smoking and cut back on the gallon of wine you drink every night!
Grow up and be a man. Post under your name instead of all your alias’s.
Hey got an idea for ya Dustin, there’s a special button for you …..you know the 1 dollar button……you and your 22 imaginary “donation return friends†can donate a dollar then you all can request your 23 dollars back. But hey you can’t do that either because date and time stamps are posted to each donation, and you couldn’t possibly get them back dated to May 8th.
BNN is not party to this refund instruction, nor are they providing posters email addresses to anyone without their permission.
It’s so;
1.) A refund request can be verified in public.
2.) Each receipt number has a trace back to all the donator’s information.
(that’s how we know your lying Dustin)
Not one donator has requested a refund!
I’m waiting for your 22 receipt numbers and copies of your emails to the FBI…. LMAO at you curs!
How low can you possibly go?……Wait….I forgot I was talking to a child molester! What else would we expect?
The “Daddy’s Worm Video†is going to be verified as uncut, un-dubbed, uncoached and will be verified as authentic, then what are you and your pedophile backers going to say.
Why no reply from you and your family regarding Dr. Saterly’s pro bono invitation for interviews and testing by a unbiased third party outside of corrupt Placer County?
Connie and the Bedwell’s are waiting for your answer!
May 22nd, 2009 at 6:59 pm
TIM BEDWELL, NICE TRY. I will ask the FBI if I can post the FILE NUMBER HERE AND CONTACT NAME! THEY HAVE OUR RECEIPT NUMBERS. YOU TOLD ME YOURSELF YOU WOULD REFUND THE MONEY AND TOLD ME HOW FROM BNN POSTING. NOW ALL EMAILS HAVE GONE UNANSWERED.
I CAN’T WAIT TO GET THE APPROVAL OF THE AGENT HANDLING THIS TO SHOW JUST WHAT A FRIGGIN LIAR YOU ARE.
May 22nd, 2009 at 7:00 pm
I’M NOT POSTING SH## ON BNN FREE BLOGGING IDIOT SITE, THE FBI ARE HANDLING THESE COMPLAINTS. FAR BETTER FOR THEM TO INSTEAD OF SOME IDIOT WHO THINKS HE IS AN ACTUAL MEDIA PERSON
May 23rd, 2009 at 12:45 pm
I do not have permission to place the agents name on the internet. He suggested I post a link how to file your own complaint against this scam, make sure it has Connie Bedwell name in the complaint and it will get to him shortly.
He’s asked you all NOT TO DEAL WITH ANY BEDWELLS or BNN. File your complaint with authorities and it will be handled.
http://www.ic3.gov/default.aspx
Welcome to IC3
The Internet Crime Complaint Center (IC3) is a partnership between the Federal Bureau of Investigation (FBI), the National White Collar Crime Center (NW3C), and the Bureau of Justice Assistance (BJA).
May 23rd, 2009 at 12:48 pm
For the record for the last time, I DO NOT KNOW DUSTIN.
BEDWELLS WOULD LIKE EVERYONE TO THINK THERE CANNOT BE PEOPLE WHO DO NOT BELIEVE HIS DAUGHTER UNLESS THEY’RE LINKED TO DUSTIN.
NOT TRUE. THIS IS A SCAM, BEEN PROVED A SCAM, BEEN PROVED CONNIE COACHED HER KIDS.
YOU THINK YOUR LAYMAN INTERNET EYES ARE MORE INTELLIGENT THAN EXPERTS WHO’VE SEEN THE CHILD?
THERE IS A REAL TRUE FBI FILE OPEN ON FRAUD AGAINST HER. GO TO THE WEBSITE I GAVE (NOT BNN) AND WORK WITH AUTHORITIES.
May 23rd, 2009 at 12:55 pm
If a little girl were not involved, this would be entertaining but she is. I’ve said I have doubts about the accusations and I still do but either way this little girl is in trouble.
May 23rd, 2009 at 3:27 pm
EnoughAlready = Dustin Thompson the Child Molester;
Please post anything you claim, emails, 22 receipt numbers, correspondence with the FBI, FBI case #, any and all your above made claims right here on BTLS and then will see who the liar is. Or is Bubba not an actual media person too?
Dustin Thompson has NO ANSWER TO DR. SATERLY’S OFFER. What’s up with that child molester?
PUT UP OR SHUT UP Dustin! Your caught in your lies just as you will be in your criminal trial.
May 23rd, 2009 at 5:21 pm
Tim Bedwell, I’ll get this website BTLS to confirm my IP addy and location.
You want to turn this into Dustin’s doing. It is NOT.
God you are as crazy as the rest of the internet says. Everyone else, contact the FBI website for to be a part of this investigation.
You want to spin this making me part of any Dustin team or camp, I’m not. I’ll let those who read here decide for themselves by contacting this link if you feel you’ve been scammed, put it through the FBI Internet Fraud Unit. You will find none of us even know Dustin, we just were dumb enough to believe this sh** off the start. We sure don’t anymore!
http://www.ic3.gov/default.aspx
May 23rd, 2009 at 8:05 pm
I suppose all these posters are Dustin? lol
http://forums.somethingawful.com/showthread.php?threadid=3137533&userid=0&perpage=40&pagenumber=7
In the link below, people talking about requesting their money back and getting no response. I’ve put in a request to add them to our group.
http://www.websleuths.com/forums/showthread.php?t=83594&page=8
It’s a great thing she did the Auburn Journal article because it showed the world what a con she really is.
May 23rd, 2009 at 8:33 pm
EnoughAlready = Dustin Thompson THE CHILD MOLESTER….why can’t you publish those #22 receipt numbers and FBI emails for us? WHERE ARE THEY??? Your caught in your lies again Dustin!
GOT NEWS FOR YOU CHILD MOLESTER – you don’t need permission to publish a FBI agents name if what you’re saying is the truth! The only reason you didn’t publish an FBI agents name was there is no agents name you could truthfully publish based upon your allegations! Without actually having a true FBI Agents name to publish with your allegations, any name you published would be a fraudulent statement which the FBI could have the Justice Department prosecute you for. You are such a lying dumb ass! You got another lies for us today???
The web link is an internet FBI complaint link… There’s no contact with an FBI AGENT….your laughable.
Dustin, Enough Already about the donation return lies…
LET’S GET TO THE FACTS OF THIS CASE!!!
Molester Where’s the proof of your statements about evidence?
Evidence that proves the child was coached.
Evidence that any judge has even viewed the Daddy’s Worm Video or any of the many videos?
Evidence that the judge rejected the videos as coached?
ANY EVIDENCE WHATSOEVER TO YOUR CLAIMS….WHERE IS IT?
What we do know is; Placer County is corrupt. The first move to get around that was a new judge has been appointed from out of the County. Second, to level the playing field, Dr. Saterly has offered pro bono (for free) to interview and test you and your family. Connie, the Bedwell’s and all direct witnesses have agreed to whatever interviewing and testing Dr. Saterly deems necessary.
Dustin, where’s yours and your families agreement to this most generous offer. After all, you claim you have been cleared of all charges….What’s the hold up Dustin and the Thompson family? Dustin you never address or answer this question. WHY?
The facts of the matter, is you will steadfastly refuse to be interviewed or tested by a neutral, nonbiased, third parties who your attorney can’t control.
For a week now, Connie and the Bedwell family, as well as all direct witnesses have stated they will cooperate with Dr. Saterly testing.
WHAT’S THE HOLD UP THOMPSON’S????
May 23rd, 2009 at 9:14 pm
This post was deleted FIVE TIMES by the Auburn Urinal ….
No small town collusion??? After they closed the comment section they went back and reposted the second deleted posting of this writing!
On 5/19/09 at 06:43 PM, TruthIS wrote:
In the Auburn Journal Victor Pecoraro is quoted below…
“Victor Pecoraro, Auburn Police detective sergeant, said the department IMMEDIATELY investigated the child’s welfare after watching Bedwell’s video. The toddler was interviewed by a team of trained specialists and investigators questioned the father. He said the video is only a ““piece of the puzzleâ€â€.
Sgt Pecoraro did not “immediately†investigate this situation as he claims. In fact he had the case open for 5 months (Feb 2008 to June 2008) and still to this day has not contacted the people who are direct witnesses to the child’s statements at the hands of her father, all of whom are listed in Connie’s two page witness list. Additionally, Connie’s boyfriend Darrel Payne called Sgt. Pecoraro to see why he hadn’t contacted him in the 5 month investigation since he was the first person on that list. Sgt. Pecoraro stated that, “everyone I’ve interviewed tells me that Dustin is the best thing since sliced bread†and “you couldn’t tell me anything I don’t already know about this caseâ€.
Sgt Pecoraro you were proved wrong on both statements.
I’m not an investigator but common sense tells me that an investigator would first look at all evidence presented to him while interviewing those making the allegations. This would help investigators to know how to proceed and determine the type of questioning of the accused? You went directly to the accused and fell for his and his family B.S. Did it go something like this; Dustin is just a mellow guy, he would never do anything like that?
Sgt Pecoraro conveniently fails to mention WHEN HE ACTUALLY and FINALLY WATCHED THAT VIDEO. It is a fact that he did not watch that video when Connie went into the police station with it in her hand the next morning of June 10, 2008 after the child made those statements regarding Dustin molesting her, as was filmed on the night of (June 9, 2008). In fact the Auburn Police Dep. made Connie hand the child over to a child molester for his visitation to be abused and brainwashed again that same day, June 10th 2008.
Upon receiving Aaliyah back from Dustin’s parenting time on June 15 2008, Connie took the child to the hospital to have her examined after the child again stated that “daddy hurt my pee pee†and “daddy hurt my buttâ€. Connie requested authorization for the examination, Sgt Pecoraro yelled at Connie and told her to leave the hospital. He did not authorize the child’s examination. During that heated phone conversation with Sgt Pecoraro in the hospital he still at that point HAD NOT YET WATCHED THE VIDEO!!! Sgt Pecoraro seems quite confused as to what “immediate†and “investigation†truly are. Sgt. Pecoraro’s actions were far from what he claims. We can only hope that District Attorney Fenocchio can bring some clarity to Sgt. Pecoraro’s perceptions in hopes that he doesn’t allow other children to be harmed due to Sgt. Pecoraro’s unwillingness to correctly do his job.
After Connie received the child back from Dustin she made one line coached statements such as, “I love daddy_ I love daddy’s worm_ mommy makes me say these things, daddy said so_ daddy said I love daddy not Darrel_ Darrel’s bad, daddy said so. etc†It wasn’t until June 17th 2008 that Sgt Pecoraro FINALLY didn’t make Connie turn Aaliyah over to Dustin. In fact, Sgt. Pescoraro called and apologized to Connie and Darrel for what he had done, or should I say hadn’t done.
Aaliyah’s MDIC interview took place on June 23, 2008 in which Aaliyah stated the one line brainwashing from her father.
Thanks to Sergeant Victor Pecoraro’s negligence and dereliction of duty, failing to properly follow the basic rules of investigation, putting the child back in Dustin’s home for continued brainwashing before the MDIC interview, the interview was ruled as “unsubstantiated claims of abuse†and is where the claim of coaching originated.
DUE TO THIS COMPLETELY INEPT, ONE SIDED INVESTIGATION THE CHILD REMAINS IN DUSTIN’S HOME TO THIS VERY THIS DAY. Connie refusing to stop bringing the continued statements of this child before the court, CPS, STEP, and Sandra Amara, Dustin’s attorney and the child’s court appointed attorney Ms. Bowman, all of whom recommended to Judge Jeffery Penny that, 100% custody should be given to the father. Their premise was that Connie stating to the court what the child was continuing to speak of Dustin’s sexual and physical abuse constituted “child abuse at the hands of the motherâ€. That “video taping of the child exchanges constituted abuse by the motherâ€. This reasoning defies logic. That didn’t stop Judge Jeffery Penny from granting their recommendation without viewing court mandated reports of abuse or the Daddy’s Worm Video. No judge has ever viewed the Daddy’s worm Video†regardless of Sandra Amara’s blatant lies to the contrary to Judge Francis Kearney and Judge Nichols.
Sandra Amara requested Connie’s visitation completely taken away is for one purpose and one purpose only; To stop further documenting of the child’s statements and actions that reveal the Thompson’s on going abuse sexual and physical abuse. Betty the supervisor of Connie and the child’s visitation at “About The Childrenâ€, stated regarding her observation of the child having to go to Dina Thompson the mother of Dustin Thompson was, “That was the second worst reaction of this child’s refusal to go to the other party I’ve ever seenâ€. (like those in the parential exchange video) Though Betty documents the child’s reactions and statements during visitation, Connie asked Betty if her documentation was being reported to the court? There after, Connies shows up for visitation and the owner of About The Children, Maureene Rodarte starts yelling about a picture(s) of Connie and the child on http://www.saveaaliyah.com stating, “someone could come in here and grab the child out of the arms of a supervisor and run away with herâ€. Rodarte further claimed Connie was in violation of the restraining order for posting the picture. Connie refuted each and every accusation of Ms. Rodarte to her ultimate stupefied silence. Rodarte, then reverted to name calling. Rodarte’s last words were to refuse to allow Connie visitation there anymore. Rodarte claimed the picture(s) gave away the location of visitation. Look for yourself to see if her claim is true. The picture was taken in a room with out any designation of location. Her claim is baseless! However, it accomplished Sandra Amars court denied request to cancel Connie’s visitation without cause through a friend and fellow colleague. Thompson’s never showed up with the child for that visitation either. Imagine that! These facts point once again to the Good Ole’ Boys and Girls Club of Placer County showing their collusion! If Sandra Amara can’t get the Judge to do what she wants, she’ll pull the strings to get it done through friends and colleagues.
To date the only known person of the above named, known to have view the video evidence is Sgt. Pecoraro and STEP as they pulled out of the case. Judge Kearney in the Ex-Party hearing before she recused herself, ordered the child’s attorney Ms. Bowman to view the video. Interesting fact; Ms. Rebecca Bowman was appointed as attorney for the child to fight for the child’s best interests, has had access to court mandated reporters reports, the video for 11 months and had to be ordered to watch the video.
U N B E L I E V A B L E !
Placer County Judicial System is notorious for its corruption long before this case! Read the article at and see why Dustin is hiding in Place County behind it’s co-called professionals; http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/43819/placer_county_judicial_system.html?cat=17
For anyone who is interested in the truth of these matters, the court filed paper work is public record. It will easily disprove the pedophile clans supporters statements of events. It’s well documented and not even remotely close to what the child molester family and friends claim.
Dustin Thompson if you’re as innocent as you claim to be, take Dr. Saterly’s, Pro Bono invitation to be tested and evaluated by non bias third party outside of the corrupt Placer County Good Ole’ Boys and Girls Club.
Connie and the Bedwell family and all witness to the child’s statements have already agreed to be interviewed and tested. How about Dustin and the Thompson family!
Step up Dustin, be a man, let go of your daddy’s hand, quit hiding behind the skirt of Sandra Amara and lets find the truth! I know you won’t do it, but Connie and the Bedwell family and all witness’s to your despicable acts have already agreed to do it.
Here’s your chance, were looking to see what you and your family are made of?
Come on, prove Connie and those crazy Bedwell’s wrong.
THEY’RE WAITING……..
May 23rd, 2009 at 9:42 pm
No one requesting a refund is a FLAT OUT LIE. Websleuth posters have requested refunds before this story even HIT BNN. Directing those who have donated and are requesting a refund of their money to a site, Blogger News Network, which bans a users ISP if they are not 100% supportive of the mothers story is not only irresponsible it prevents anyone who wants a refund from doing so and steers them away from being able to get their money back.
For anyone requesting a refund, I suggest contacting PayPal directly. You won’t get anywhere requesting your money from the Bedwells.
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May 23rd, 2009 at 9:46 pm
Enough Already, I had not seen your previous post with the FBI info on requesting a refund/filing a complaint. Perhaps it would be wise for anyone requesting a refund to contact both the FBI as well as PayPal and and make sure both know of the request for a refund as well as contacting both agencies.
May 23rd, 2009 at 9:48 pm
Referring the above writing about Sgt. Pecoraro;
Regarding the picture Maureen Rodarte claimed, “someone could come in here and grab the child out of the arms of a supervisor and run away with herâ€. Rodarte also claimed the picture(s) gave away the location of visitation. This is the very same picture posted here on BTLS in the very beginning of this thread.
Note also; In the article linked to, about Corrupt Placer County Judicial System… One of the Judges spoken of in the article was the very same Judge that recused herself … Judge Francis Kearney!
May 23rd, 2009 at 11:20 pm
Thank you for the information regarding Paypal. I think a few in our group were trying that way. I took it upon myself to collect everyone’s details and supply it to the internet fraud unit after seeing confirmation in the Auburn Journal regarding this story, the steps taken and the results of the investigation.
I will contact Paypal and let them know the information and names involved.
Tim, I cannot wait for Bubba to email me so I can speak with him. He can let everyone know I am clearly not Dustin and have no connections to Dustin.
Regarding your 1 internet posting of an OLD Placer County article. I think you are confusing Associated Content with Associated Press. One is credible and one is NOT. The one you use is NOT.
Anyone can write for Associated Content or submit an article. THEY DO NOT HAVE ANY EDUCATED JOURNALISTS.
Yet again Tim is using a free blogger uneducated source lacking credibility in the news field to put this story out there. Associated Content article was a highly biased article written by a party that did not have a successful outcome in Placer County. It was not written by a journalist or true media. We can leave it to the readers of this ARCHIVED board to decide if a completely unrelated article, the ONLY article Connie can put out there, makes for a conspiracy theory.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Associated_Content
It shows once again how desperate Connie is. She is running scared and has her daddy play SPIN PARTY to sway the readers away from the truth.
I won’t bother wasting one more moment of my time debating with something that has been proven to be a fraud. I won’t be returning UNTIL Bubba speaks with me so I can provide to him who I am and the FBI information on the Internet Fraud.
Yes Tim, the agent has asked me NOT to leave his contact information on any internet posting. I’ve told the people here if they follow my instructions above and list Connie Bedwell in the information, it will get to the investigating agent. http://www.ic3.gov/default.aspx
Post all the lies you want Tim and attack me all you want. I cannot wait for Bubba to verify who I am and my details SO I can throw it in your face. Lie lie lie is all you’ve ever taught your girl to do. She’s followed well in your footsteps. You taught her well.
May 24th, 2009 at 12:16 am
Oh and you all know that while Placer County may indeed be corrupt or have a few problems, the Associated Content blog, is just that a blog article, not a news source. Not only is it from 2006 and about only a couple of cases, it is just opinion and not in any way associated with a news organization.
I believe this case needs to be investigated further. No matter which parent is causing this child harm(in my opinion after much reading for weeks- they potentially are both doing this child harm).
This case has not been handled well. This child is indeed in danger- there has been no determination as to which parent is hurting her. Keep the focus on this child in need.
May 24th, 2009 at 12:43 am
Sandra Amara requested Connie’s visitation completely taken away is for one purpose and one purpose only; To stop further documenting of the child’s statements and actions that reveal the Thompson’s on going abuse sexual and physical abuse.
About that perception- maybe it was because Connie was freaking her daughter out with all the questions and suspicions. She was becoming hyper aware of any an all disturbances and linking them to abuse. A lot of what I have read seems to be normal childhood tantrums-not breakdowns. And this baby girl is very attuned to her mother’s emotions.
Connie was tainting the memories that the baby with her questions, reactions and fears. (which may be valid and must be investigated). She may have invalidated all possible evidence except physical evidence by her own actions. This may not have been her intent, but it is the result.
Also, how many regular pediatrician visits did this baby have since June of last year? Pediatricians are mandated reporters of suspected abuse. And would have been required to document any physical signs of abuse- especially sexual.
You don’t need to take a child to the hospital and request permission. Any suspected abuse is mandated to be reported, and an exam for sexual abuse will happen no matter what.
How do I know this? Because I suspected my ex of doing this to my 2 year old when she came home from a weekend visit screaming ‘owwie daddy No NO!’ for 7 hours straight. I took her to the doctors immediately and described her reaction and was ordered to have her examined for sexual abuse. It was horrible, they took pictures, and did internal exams. I was not allowed to be in the room.
Thank God it proved she was not molested, and had just reacted to being away from me for one of the first times for more than overnight. That, and her father is a very big guy and can be very scary. This all happened 20 years ago, and in California. So I am familiar with the process.
I strongly doubt any medical doctor could be influenced by anyone to jeopardize their medical license just to make this go away!! It just makes some of the statements by the mother and her family harder to believe. Either that or there truly was no sign of abuse to be found.
I am bothered by the fact that none of the Bedwell family has been interviewed as part of an investigation. Because of this I have written numerous emails and letters to people both in Placer and at the State level.
No one has to agree with the Bedwell’s reality to do this. No one has to believe the father is being falsely accused. All you have to believe is that this child needs help.
This definitely warrants the attention and a closer look by those outside Placer County.
May 24th, 2009 at 3:52 am
TO THE BELOW LISTED:
EnoughAlready
May 23rd, 2009 at 5:21 pm
WhereIStheEVIDENCE
May 23rd, 2009 at 9:42 pm
WhereIStheEVIDENCE
May 23rd, 2009 at 9:46 pm
AND IF I MISSED ANY OF YOU MOLESTER SUPPORTERS THIS IS TO YOU TOO;
All your writing and BS yet you still fail to provide your #22 fictitious donation refund receipt numbers, and those ever so scary emails to the FBI … :>{)
I don’t care if you’re actually him or not…if you support him, that’s the same as being him. Ever heard of guilt by association? Asking intelligent questions is one thing…supporting Dustin Thompson’s lies is another.
Once again if there’s anyone who wants a donation refund post your receipt # here on BTLS or BNN and I’ll contact you.
How is it Dustin that you will do anything and everything but prove your own words?
Lies are empty words and so much hot air!
WAITING FOR YOUR PROOF!
May 24th, 2009 at 8:22 am
“Directing those who have donated and are requesting a refund of their money to a site, Blogger News Network, which bans a users ISP if they are not 100% supportive”
This is an out right lie as well. The BNN moderator ONLY bans IP addresses for those who attack and name call those who do believe the mother. They are also warned about it. They encourage discussion and questioning, just not attacks.
They believe everyone is entitles to their own opinion.
May 25th, 2009 at 10:36 am
Well I see the people banned from Bnn are spreading their hate, discontent and lies here now. Have you guys NOT heard there has been a support group started just for you? I think it’s called Bnn Banned Bloggers.
Whether you believe this story or not, we should all demand a complete, thorough and unbiased investigation be done in this case. To do any less is a dis-service to every child who has ever been or ever will be abused!
I absolutely believe the Bedwells. They have not just agreed but begged for independant investigations, mental evaluations and even polygraph tests, stress tests and any other test that proves deception. I do know there are test that a person can not manipulate and the truth WILL be clear. The Bedwells and I mean EACH AND EVERYONE OF THEM, ARE BEGGING FOR TEST WHICH WILL UNDENIABLY EXPOSE WHO IS BEING DISHONEST, MANIPULATIVE AND WHICH PARENT IS TRYING TO COACH Aaliyah. The father’s side have even refused to discuss this. All they do is come on the internet and try to discredit the Bedwell’s ANYWAY they can. The donations are of particular concern to them, money is power. With the money to hire an attorney and pay for professional testing,
TWO THINGS WILL HAPPEN which scares the hell out of the
Worm. Connie will have an attorney, so the Worms’s attorney won’t be able to run all over Connie and twist every fact like she has been able to do thus far. With funds to pay for professional evaluations, the people hired will not be Placer county good ole boys and therefore the Thompson’s will no longer control those things either. The Worm KNOWS if this case is taken out of the hands of his cohorts, he will be in big trouble. People have sent donations to Connie and she has hired an attorney. The Worm is getting more nervous EVERY day. He is DESPERATE to STOP these donations. DESPERATE! He will say and do anything it takes to keep people from sending any money to be used to expose the truth. Connie Bedwell has sold ALL her personal belongings to try and get the money to fight and get protection for her child. Her family members have also sold their worldly goods to get the money needed, even her circle of friends have donated to this cause. The Bedwells do NOT have the resources that the Worm enjoys. His money and connections have given him the freedom to sexually abuse his own daughter. Thank God some people followed their hearts and sent money and Connie HAS HIRED AN ATTORNEY WITH THOSE DONATIONS!!! Every dime she gets goes toward protecting her baby. I ask you mothers and fathers would you do LESS for your child then Connie is doing for Aaliyah? How far would you go to get your baby out of the hands of a monster. Yes she needs money, it takes money to fight in court. Attorneys work for money and as great as it would be to think that some high powered bulldog would take this case on pro bono, it has not happened. The Worm has deep roots in Placer county and he has money. Connie is an outsider there and she is a working mother. When the Worm had supervised visitation for that very short time, his parents could oversee his time with Aaliyah, Connie has had to pay a fee of a hundred dollars each and every time she has seen Aaliyah. She was the victim of abuse, she brought Aaliyah back to Placer County because she had been assured the baby would be protected, they all lied. She was tricked and now Aaliyah pays the price nightly, when the Worm comes out! PLEASE DON’T BE FOOLED BY THIS MONSTER. If you can send a dollar, well I can’t think of a better place to spend one. This family is extremely appreciative for anything anyone does for Aaliyah. Write letters, send emails or even just pray for Aaliyah’s safety. Connie’s big crimes are leaving the Worm and his abusive actions, he would NOT even sign Aaliyah’s birth certificate, he wanted NOTHING to do with this child until he could use her to get back at Connie and that includes sexually abusing this baby. He is sick and needs help but most of all he needs to be kept away from children. ALL THESE FOLKS WHO SCREAM THIS IS A FRAUD, WELL THERE ARE “REAL SCAMMERS” ON THE NET, ROBBING THE ELDERLY AND NAIVE DAILY. IF YOU ARE REALLY THAT CIVIC MINDED AND YOU ARE DETERMINED TO “HELP BY KEEPING US FROM BEING SCAMMED” GO AFTER THE PROFESSIONAL CON ARTISTS, THEY CAN EASILY BE FOUND ON THE NET. No your intentions and motives are clear, you can’t afford to fight Connie on an even field, you will be exposed.
May 25th, 2009 at 10:53 am
BTW I called the office of the FBI and spoke with an agent at length. They are in NO WAY involved with ANY aspect of the Bedwell case. NONE NOTA NOTHING so liar liar pants on fire, peddle your papers elsewhere.
To the WORM, you and your attorney have managed to put a gag order on Connie Bedwell, which DOES violate her civil rights, every dog has his day, and the two of you should practice your barking, cause your bite gets less scary every day. YOU AND PLACER COUNTY WILL BE EXPOSED. You have shut Connie up, what is your plans for the rest of the country? How are you going to shut us up? You have done everything in your power to stop the Bedwells from exposing you and your crooked dealings and yet your crimes have still come to light. I would love to be there, the day you get the same kind of jewelry Drew Peterson sports in public now, he to thinks he is above the law! No child is safe as long as you are walking around free, especially Aaliyah, you are a monster!
May 25th, 2009 at 11:19 am
This is not a scam or a hoax. This is the desperate attempt of a mother to save her child from being sexually assaulted by the man who is suppose to protect her.
Bubba I understood you intended to follow thru with this story, what happened? I know these things take time, however every day that passes, is another 24 hours of abuse on this little girl. Because the mother is trying to protect her child, the corrupt people in Placer county have seen to it, Aaliyah no longer sees her mother. This child must be half scared to death. She is surely thinking even her mommy has abandoned her now. Richard Nixon didn’t even have the power to stop an investigation, how in God’s name has this Worm accomplished this?
All we hear is, we are working on it and yet Aaliyah is also living it. Bubba there are a lot of people who find you offensive and I admit, being from a different generation then you, I don’t always understand or even appreciate your humor. I honestly believed your disgust about this case. I mean I really thought, this guy IS a real decent person. I have had trouble eating and sleeping since I first became aware of Aaliyah’s case. The day you talked about this on your show, I felt at ease that night, I slept like a baby. I thanked God for you and your interest in getting to the bottom of this story. Please Bubba that child needs you and your army. Don’t ignore this like so many others are doing. Aaliyah needs a hero, she is a tiny little girl and her mother has done everything in her power to save her. She risks going to jail, her reputation has been soiled and her sanity questioned and she is still fighting. THEY NEED YOUR HELP, PLEASE. You told the listeners you would be talking about this again, When? When will you follow up on this story?
BTW Love the segments with the HULK, you guys are hilarious.
May 26th, 2009 at 11:49 am
No need to do anything other than file your dispute with PayPal and contact the above FBI info if one so desires. Those handling the paypal account via the save aaliyah site can give Mr. Bedwell the information he needs on whether or not anyone has requested or received refunds.
If PayPal is refunding the money, I would not reveal any personal info to Mr. Bedwell. Especially with the response given to those requesting a refund. All his request will do is give him your personal email and info. PayPal is set up as a secure site. To maintain your privacy go directly through them.
May 26th, 2009 at 12:49 pm
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May 26th, 2009 at 1:32 pm
Mema,
Why is Connie an ‘outsider’ in Placer County? I thought she went to High School there? I know she went to Alaska for 7-8 months after the baby was born. Surely that does not make her an outsider or did she grow up somewhere else?
How much money are we talking about here for the Thompson family- are they upper middle class, millionaires or multi-millionaires?
Who lied about it being safe to return with this baby? Why did she even come back if he was abusive? Surely she did not want her daughter to have a relationship with an abusive man just because he was the sperm donor, or did the courts make her come back to CA? Was it an involuntary return, or her choice? If she was forced to return, how was that accomplished?
Has the father ever signed the birth certificate, or how else does he prove he is this child’s father? As it is stated frequently he in not on the birth certificate, when was he confirmed to be the father?? Did he prove it with a paternity test and then sue to get custody/visitation, or was he sued for child support, and forced to take a paternity test? Is his name now on this child’s birth certificate? How long has this custody battle been going on if he was initially unwilling to admit paternity?
In addition to having to pay for visitation (why were none of the Bedwell’s allowed to supervise- what reason did the courts use?), I am guessing Connie has to pay child support too. I am so glad she has raised funds enough to hire an attorney now. No one should have the scales tipped to such an overwhelming imbalance by being without representation in court. Does Connie have a court hearing this week?
I pray for this baby girl. She has to be so sad and worried about why she has not seen her mother in a couple of weeks. Children need their routine’s. Children need to be safe, and loved every day!
May 26th, 2009 at 4:36 pm
Justgetaninvestigation
May 24th, 2009 at 8:22 am
The BNN moderator ONLY bans IP addresses for those who attack and name call those who do believe the mother.
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Excuse me but I was one of those BNN’rs that was banned for not being supportive ( and get this straight once and for all ) for not being supportive of THE MOTHER…ok…We are all in complete agreement on finding the truth…that should not mean hanging a man in public with no proof and 11 investigations and a lame coached video!
I never once name called anybody…and was told to shut my mouth by the female editor…for asking questions…so unless you can prove what you say is true…DON’T BOTHER SLINGING YOUR B.S on a subject you clearly know nothing about!
The other thing…why would she bann those who name call “THE MOTHER”…isn’t that in itself biased if nothing else…what about A who called a poster “the pedaphile”…SHE IS STILL BLOGGING…that’s right…can you see a pattern here!!! THOSE WHO WANT THE TRUTH AND NOT JUST THE MOTHERS SIDE WERE BANNED….BNN is NOT interested in the TRUTH!!!
May 26th, 2009 at 4:36 pm
“Upon receiving Aaliyah back from Dustin’s parenting time on June 15 2008, Connie took the child to the hospital to have her examined after the child again stated that “daddy hurt my pee pee†and “daddy hurt my buttâ€. Connie requested authorization for the examination, Sgt Pecoraro yelled at Connie and told her to leave the hospital. He did not authorize the child’s examination.”
Umm, why would she need authorization? You take a child you have custody of to a pediatrician and ask to have an exam to rule out sexual assault/sexual molestation. Once a doctor hears those terms – he is required to report his/her findings to law enforcement/DCF/CPS right?
Was it because she could not pay for the exam? Why would she need authorization from the police? I must be missing something there. How can the cop tell her not to have her child examined and to leave the hospital? Was there already some restrictions placed on Connie at that time? Because this one thing totally confuses me!!
May 26th, 2009 at 4:39 pm
I personally know of a handful of people that JUST LEFT that site because they have eyes and saw what was going on…more then a handful have left on their own….so don’t give me that crap about post-bnn’rs spreading hate cause they were banned or for any other reason.
I know everyone of the people who have left or have been banned…and they ( we ) are quite content to be away from the natzi nation!!!!! Leaving it behind, however…you needed some clarification so there you have it!
May 26th, 2009 at 4:43 pm
So what’s going on with doc joe???? Is he interviewing the mother father and child??? AnneA…is Connie going through with the pro bono evaluation…did she hand over her psych eval yet?…….
May 26th, 2009 at 4:49 pm
“It wasn’t until June 17th 2008 that Sgt Pecoraro FINALLY didn’t make Connie turn Aaliyah over to Dustin. In fact, Sgt. Pescoraro called and apologized to Connie and Darrel for what he had done, or should I say hadn’t done.”
So if I have the time line right- Connie reported this on June 10th (with the video taken June 9th), the cop refused ‘authorization’ for an exam at the hospital on or about June 15th (5 days later) and had not yet viewed the video. Then on June 17th (7 days after the initial report) he called to apologize.
Then the baby had and MDIC exam on June 23rd. Can anyone explain what an MDIC exam entails?
This sounds like within the first 2 weeks there was some sort of investigation. Is it true that there was nothing found and nothing done at this point?
Thanks!
Then for
May 26th, 2009 at 4:52 pm
She risks going to jail, her reputation has been soiled and her sanity questioned and she is still fighting.
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IMO she should be in jail for not taking that child away for good if this was really true! She has had 2 years to get more then one homemade video for proof…where’ the vid of the child screaming and crying not wanting to go to daddy’s…( even though that is natural for a young child not understanding why she has to leave mommy to see daddy)…where is the documenting support from psych docs and gp’s and child abuse experts….WHERE IS THE BEEF????
So yes, her sanity questioned for claiming the entire state of FL is corrupt…!!! ahhh…yes…do you really think that could even be possible? You obviously do….that is why I also question your sanity!
If she is still fighting…I expect your answer to my question about doc joe would be that CONNIE has already done the evaluation….but I am doubtful of that!!!
May 26th, 2009 at 7:44 pm
Bubba and Co.
I am also wondering why you dropped this story from your show. Is it your lawyers or Sirius Corporate? What about a good SpiceBoy parody song? I agree with Anne, we need you and your Army to at least support the story, yet not taking a side as you did on the first day. The more I read on this the more I know there is a violation of a small child. Come on BUBBA!!!!!!!!!!!!!
R/Chuck
May 27th, 2009 at 8:10 am
http://www.bloggernews.net/120689
http://www.bloggernews.net/120697
http://www.bloggernews.net/120707
CA, this is why you were banned from BNN. You refused to listen to what the owners of BNN had asked you NOT to do. IT’s all there in black and white eveyrone. See the first article, and watch how it all unfolds. C~A was yelling and screaming at the person who brought the story to BNN and then accusing her of being Connie. C~A, you can’t hide who you really are and what you really said.
May 27th, 2009 at 10:02 am
Justget….I am not interested in your above post. Since when is an opinion on if someone is someone other then they appear to be a crime???
I can’t view those posts…and going in the back door would be a waste of my time…so why don’t you post them IN BLACK AND WHITE…I was there…I don’t know who you are you obvioulsy are here under a different name and why you would take the time to research my posts which, again..are NOT the reason I was banned! I was there, I know what happened, and I now the personal emails i recieved from the female editor…If you are referring to caps…take a bit more and research ALL my posts on Bnn over the last year…I USE CAPS ALOT….DOESN’T MEAN I AM YELLING…So unless you want to identify yourself and post my comments to show all why YOU say I was banned…I stand by every post I made there and here….I never called anyone names or called them a PEDAPHILE…which imo is the worst thing someone can do and it was done there….AnneA is still there…NOT BANNED!! I am sick of the sugar coating and b.s and back peddling about the TRUTH about BNN…Don’t tell me what went on…I WAS THERE!
So post my comments…show me how horrible I was to get banned…I was leaving ANYWAY….I know I asked questions of karenccc one friday night…post that too…my first interaction with her…I was polite and was simply asking questions…that is what started the whole interaction with j telling me AND MY MOUTH..BLAH BLAH BLAH…..show me the money. Show me what I refused to do…put your money where your mouth is…or shut up! I also asked the editor to provide me with posts of mine that would back her mouth up too…SHE COULDN’T!! Seems alot of questions being asked about credibility and truth and alot of DEAD AIR in return.
May 27th, 2009 at 10:04 am
Oh ya, and EVERYTHING…that is asked of the BLOGGERS AT BNN to do or not to do SHOULD ALSO APPLY TO THE EDITORS…that’s where the word hypocritical comes in to play!!!!
May 27th, 2009 at 10:12 am
Bnn had no problem telling posters to shut their mouth…I have no problem telling the TRUTH and every right to ask for it!!!!
May 27th, 2009 at 10:13 am
except…I had the class to tell J to shove her sight and her hypocracy where the sun don’t shine in an email…I didn’t belittle her on the blog…that’s the difference between her and I!!
May 27th, 2009 at 10:47 am
Huh??
RESPONDING TO THE ABOVE POST:
May 26th, 2009 at 4:36 pm
“Upon receiving Aaliyah back from Dustin’s parenting time on June 15 2008, Connie took the child to the hospital to have her examined after the child again stated that “daddy hurt my pee pee†and “daddy hurt my buttâ€. Connie requested authorization for the examination, Sgt Pecoraro yelled at Connie and told her to leave the hospital. He did not authorize the child’s examination.â€
****Police cannot do any such thing. It is another lie Connie has put out there, apparently stuck didn’t it? She could have taken her daughter to multiple doctors during the day, any where. Why would police be in the hospital too?
As far as BNN bannings go, I’ve seen some uncalled for hate filled raging emails Jan sent to others. Nothing professional or journalistic about that forsure. She would not let multiple people dare ask any questions if it was against Connie but let Karen & Anne have a free for all calling everyone names if they remotely looked like they were not believing Connie’s tall tales. It had nothing to do with name calling, everything to do with alterior motives on J&S’s part. Got pretty darn quiet over there after everyone started to see through Connies lies. Actually, no matter where you go it’s died down. If there was this mass force mounting up against this ‘crooked county’, the voice on the internet would be everywhere.
Bedwells have a couple of stragglers but otherwise, other than changing names to appear like Connie has support, she has nothing because it’s very apparent to people like me who did not know this story. She’s a good con artist.
May 27th, 2009 at 10:51 am
and another thing…you obviously know who I am…I don’t hide..as you can see from my username…however, seems you are hiding behind a different name. Surely you would have better things to do then do “research” if ya want to call it to look up some strangers posts to see why they were banned from a blog you prob. were never on!!
so which is it…YOU the one hiding or you just have no life?
May 27th, 2009 at 11:09 am
If any of you know how to go look at sites that track ‘web hits’ on any given article, take a good look. This story died in its tracks when the AJ article came out confirming Connie set this whole thing up. Confirming this child has seen a team of specialists. Confirming an investigation clearing the dad of any thing.
Just fun to take a look at that statistical information. Most people on the internet have a brain and have seen through this woman’s crazed rants.
Have at it Tim, it’s fun to read how you attack people on here. Sure does not make any of you look credible when you do stuff like that. People like me that read this on Websleuths for the 1st time can’t believe how you attack perfect strangers.
You’re time would be better served writing to congressmen and any government official possible all around the USA if you actually believed your granddaughter was being harmed. But to find you in (what I think is an archived board here) screaming at people shows you have nothing better to do for your granddaughter. Can’t imagine there’s more than 10 people that pop in to read this. How screaming at a board helps your granddaughter?? Not sure how that achieves anything. Just makes you look like a nutcase so if that’s what you’re going for, have at it.
Feel free to call me Dustin, Timmy. I don’t care. I know I’m not. I’m just a stranger that read & posted on WS about this, but if it’ll help de-stress you, feel free.
May 27th, 2009 at 12:41 pm
Justgetaninvestigation,
Since you obviously have spent time in the archives of the site that has chosen to promote the claims of the mother in this matter, perhaps you could point out to me any posts that I made that were abusive or contained any sort of name calling.
I can save you some time, there were none. I NEVER called anyone a name, I never “yelled” at anyone, nor was I abusive to anyone with a different opinion.
Yet I am among the “banned” from that site. Why? Because I went to another web site, Web Sleuths, and voiced my opinion of disbelief of the mother’s claims in very clear, no uncertain terms.
The editor’s of that site seem to believe that they have the right to restrict or control the most cherished of all liberties, the freedom of speech. Brave men and women have shed their life’s blood to give each of us this liberty, and they cannot restrict that right.
Since then, I have voiced my opinion of the mother’s claims at other sites in this virtual world of the Internet. I have stated many reasons that I disbelieve this story. Foremost of these is the video at the center of this emotional reaction. After viewing the video several times, I was forced to realize that I had not SEEN the child say a single word accusing the father of sexual abuse, AND NEITHER HAVE YOU. For whatever reason you choose to believe, the camera NEVER shows the child say anything. I am unable to take the giant “leap of faith” that the video is valid solely because the mother and her family say so.
Let me ask you a question. If someone posted a video on You Tube claiming that a 2 year old little girl could quote the entire Declaration of Independence from memory and NEVER showed the child talking, would you believe it? Would it help you to believe it if the child’s aunt, and grandfather posted long posts on the Internet referring to you, or anyone not believing the claim, with some of the most vile terms that can be applied to a human being?
In my opinion, the emotional reaction surrounding this saga was accurately defined in an article at tampabay.com…….
“In a sense, the Internet is the largest mob ever assembled. It sometimes transforms otherwise inhibited people into unrestrained, faceless conduits for emotion.”
No matter your opinion, this child deserves a non emotional analysis of the facts. I have done my best to give her just that.
May 27th, 2009 at 1:14 pm
Justgetaninvestigation
How many is it going to take? There have been what, 11 investigations so far? That’s a lot of taxpayers money already. Seems to me some people should be gettin a little pissed about that. Oh the conspiracy thing? The corruption thing? The whole county and police department, all inept or corrupt? Please that’s just utterly absurd.
May 27th, 2009 at 3:24 pm
HUH?? said: Umm, why would she need authorization? You take a child you have custody of to a pediatrician and ask to have an exam to rule out sexual assault/sexual molestation. Once a doctor hears those terms – he is required to report his/her findings to law enforcement/DCF/CPS right?
Exactly, what police officer has ANY right to AUTHORIZE an examination of ANY child? If you all cannot see how rediculous this situation is, you need new glasses.
I wish I had the dang court files. Anyone in Auburn, Cali want to go down to the court house and get a copy? It’s all public domain. Then maybe we can get somewhere and get this little girl and her mother help!
May 27th, 2009 at 7:19 pm
What difference does any of that make Justgetaninvestigation ?
I am still amazed after reading on BNN that Connie willingly came back to CA to allow her daughter to have a relationship with a man she claims abused her (connie) and threw dirty diapers at her and the baby.
It is said now that it was not due to the paternity issue(ei. Dustin sued connie for visitation so she came back), nor is it a child support issue(ei. Connie filed for child support and proved paternity of Dustin).
This is a bit tough to understand, a mother chose to involve an abusive man into her daughter’s life while living in Alaska, and moved back to California for THIS????
According to BNN Connie had not requested child support- and Dustin did this to force Connie to come back to him.
Allegedly the courts told her visitation would be supervised- so how did the courts get involved?
Who brought the matter to court? Dustin because he admitted paternity, or Connie who rightfully requested child support. How can she say willingly if she was forced to come back to CA? Something is not being told here.
What really happened?
May 27th, 2009 at 7:31 pm
I left BNN too- willingly. I was tired of only those who disagreed with popular opinions being chastised or in a couple of cases banned. While others where allowed to say anything they wanted to people who were posting respectful or even interesting questions or points of view.
That attacks on newcomers, or those who post opposing views is still happening is apparent on several subjects and articles. I stopped posting, and only read there.
Now with the advent of no more public comments being allowed on CAYLEE, HALEIGH or AALIYAH – and only members being allowed to post (so far 80% of posts are in the off topics thread and NOT about the articles anymore) I find the limited perspective not worth the time.
Blogs get boring if there is no real discussion, or new input. Many people I know will never post on member only blogs or forums. Why bother- it becomes the good ole boy/girl club of opinions.
Instead of moderating comments like this site does- they have pretty much limited it to just a few points of view. They have over reacted and shut the doors to new points of view.
And I agree about Jan shutting down points of view she does not agree with- she has been doing that of late.
It is their site- they get to make the rules. That is how it is everywhere. But I know it just cost them my readership and posts. Possibly others. Either way, the lack of control has been ongoing and is now killing that Blog in my opinion.
May 27th, 2009 at 7:42 pm
This is a place to post opinions and views about this case. Not about what is going on on other sites. I am sorry for getting off topic.
The next court date is June 1st. Connie has said she has an appointment to meet with the DA on June 2nd, the one who handles child abuse cases. I wonder if which parent will be discussed.
I only hope it leads to something better for this baby. One way or the other, she is what matters to me.
May 27th, 2009 at 9:58 pm
Bubba’s specialist asked Connie for a copy of her psych eval. My guess is Connie has not provided Dr. Saturley with any of the information he requested so no further story to comment on until he gets the info. Pretty simple to figure out.
May 28th, 2009 at 7:07 am
If this is a sick scam or custody battle I ask you all the following questions…
Why hasn’t Connie been arrested?
Why hasn’t the saveaaliyah site been shut down?
Why haven’t paypal shut her account down?
Why no follow up in the Auburn Journal?
Why no response at all from the fathers camp?
Why won’t the Thompsons agree to an independant assessment from Dr Joe Saturley? Connie and her family have welcomed this.
Why hasn’t Dustin agreed to Lie detector and stress tests? Connie has volunteered to take any tests necessary to protect her daughter.
An innocent man would do anything to clear his name, surely he would be demanding these tests to put an end to all the rumours?
To Beast, CA, Huh and the rest of your vindictive little gang just ask yourself why you are so angry about being banned from a blogging site, this isn’t about you it’s actually about Aaliyah. You are all coming across as obsessive and wierd which in turn discredits what you’re actually trying to say.
Bubba when are you going to give everyone an update, please don’t let this little girl down.
May 28th, 2009 at 7:10 am
HUH?? Why does any abused woman ever go back to their abuser? It happens everyday. I don’t have the answer to that. How I read it is that the only way she was going to come back to California was if the courts stepped in and made it safe with supervised visitations for the father. I also read where Connie didn’t believe the abuse she was shown would be placed upon their daughter. The only way we will truly know all the circumstances of the whole situation is to get a copy of their file. Dustin isn’t saying anything and Connie is telling her side of the story. And what happened on BNN doesn’t really matter other than there are now a half dozen people, bitter if you ask me, that are now spreading gossip and slander of the owners and posters on that site. I was there for a long while, I didn’t post much. But that’s only because I saw the clique there run off many people. I totally believe that the clique, the runners of the board, attacked KarenCCC over and over until they either got her banned or she left, but that didn’t happen and they got angry. If you read there for any time, you cannot say that didn’t happen before. However the owners of that board choose to run it, it’s their decision. And there aren’t any new hits on Aaliyah’s threads because there isn’t any new news. I’m hoping that after the court date, there will be a new article and then there will be more discussion.
CA, I have a life, I was there when this all happened. I chose not to show my name that I posted under because I don’t need to be rediculed and harrassed. I saw how you all worked on that board. I have spoken to many people who feel the same way. There are alot of people on those boards now that were there just lurking and never posted before. But now that a few have left, they feel free to post. At least before this new forum came about. It goes both ways CA.
May 28th, 2009 at 10:11 am
Justgetaninvestigation
May 27th, 2009 at 3:24 pm
I wish I had the dang court files. Anyone in Auburn, Cali want to go down to the court house and get a copy? It’s all public domain.
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JUSTGET – your response in the above quote is funny and tells me you know nothing of family courts. None of this is public domain, not one bit. You could not get any of this information. Really, this is how smart you are?
I’d suggest you JUST GET out of here before you make any other ummmm ‘statements’ like that, you are clueless about the courts.
The very few left following this at BNN are because a small handful were banned for no reason other than not siding with the mother. The rest left because it was a joke and proved to be a sham by the mother.
May 28th, 2009 at 11:10 am
marmite
May 28th, 2009 at 7:07 am
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To Beast, CA, Huh and the rest of your vindictive little gang just ask yourself why you are so angry about being banned from a blogging site, this isn’t about you it’s actually about Aaliyah. You are all coming across as obsessive and wierd which in turn discredits what you’re actually trying to say.
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Exactly where have we (I) made this about me??? Care to post that comment of mine that makes you say that!
Angry about leaving a site that has no COMMENTERS..angry about leaving a site that controls opinions and ridicules opposing opinions right in the blog? Angry for leaving the drama surrounding the high school mentality? Angry to leave a site that “stinks” of horse manure and has only a few regulars there that post more in chat then in an article? HARDLY! I have all my friends that are no longer there either. We are all actually very very happy! So you are way off the mark here girlfriend. YOu don’t know me or who I am. You hide your name, your prob. very two faced on the blog as well..Are you afraid of being banned for commenting on ANOTHER BLOG…oooohhhh…love to be a prisoner of BNN again…NOT…Actually, I have a good idea who you are. So sad you feel the need to hide! Some are weak that way!
ustgetaninvestigation
May 28th, 2009 at 7:10 am
Would you kindly post the comments we have made that make you act the way you do? You haven’t posted why i was banned…if you were there…and you have some intellectual capabilities..you would see how it was not only me that was banned..and you haven’t posted your proof…How about minding your business. Busy body people like you with no back up for your mouth are a waste of space you belong whre you are! If you don’t have anything nice to say…shut your mouth..move along..Why are you attacking me? You were there…you are hiding NOW…posting stuff about ME that you can’t back up…a link is not proof. YOu are counting on people not taking the time to go look and looking “right’ at the same time. Your a coward not saying who you are! You obviously would like to hide your short comings and ridiculous thoughts and empty headed accuastions.
You very simply person…”vindictive gang”….your funny!
I have a gang now ya ok …your laughable! What is it I’m vindictive about anyway…I tell the truth…never lied about what went on at bnn…if the truth and the courage to stand up for it is vindictive to you then I can’t help you!
Will be waiting for you to post your proof on both my comments for being banned…as well as where you see any post of mine of beasts that show anger and obsessivness. Go for it! I’d love to see it! I have a few names that you know perhaps including yourself that show true signs of obsessiveness! I am hardly interested in this case. NO PROOF!! There is proof however that CAYLEE IS DEAD..there is proof however that HALEIGH IS MISSING…THERE IS PROOF THAT SANDRA IS DEAD…THERE IS PROOF THAT TORI IS MISSING AND LIKELY DEAD…You want to accuse me of being obsessed at least take your best shot at it…BEDWELL case IS NOT IT!!
I’d also like to know how wanting the truth and asking for proof can be something that can be discredited…I”M not the one having to proof anything nor am I the one who is spewing lies. I am not the one who is demanding people to believe…so what is it that I have said that needs to be credited??? Post your answer to that too…or will you simply ignore as usual. Go back to BNN…that’s where you belong in the black hole with all the other moles.
You don’t need to be ridiculed or harrassed? Isn’t that what your trying to do to me? If you don’t say who you are then you nothing but a fake! You don’t believe in yourself or what you say! Why don’t ya take a long walk off a short pier unless you want to be honest!
May 28th, 2009 at 11:43 am
“KarenCCC said,in May 1st, 2009 at 8:35 am Papa, I wasn’t threatening anything. I just don’t want to cause trouble, and that seems all I have done.
m2c, I haven’t said that I am unhappy about no one helping, I know people are helping. Again, about money, I didn’t ask anyone to send money. I just thought if I got this out to millions of people that there would be a lawyer in her area that could contact her and get her the help she needs. That’s all I wanted. I am unhappy that I have to validate why I am here.
Papa, I have contacted John Walsh’s site, Oprah’s won’t even let me put up a post because it violates it’s rules, I contacted so many different people and as I said yesterday, this forum is the only one that is helping me. I am thankful. I do not want to start any trouble.”
This is KarenCCC trying to defend herself from all of your accusations. C~A, I’ll be back with what you said to her before you got banned. I have to find it, but I will….
May 28th, 2009 at 2:04 pm
Marmite, I have never been banned from ANY site. I was simply asking questions based on my own perceptions and the information I have read.
I have clearly stated that I believe something needs to be done to further the investigation for the sake of this child. I have contributed to that effort by emailing officials I believe can assist in getting this case the attention it deserves.
If you don’t like my questions, please feel free to ignore them. I do not attack anyone personally, and I respect your right to an opinion that may differ from mine.
Why is it necessary that I agree with you or go away? Am I not entitled to the same respect you have with regards to posting a comment or a question? I am in no way ‘vindictive’- I only care about the safety and happiness of this CHILD- she is the only one that matters to me!
This attitude of attacking people does not further the cause at hand- helping this baby girl. Instead of attacking individual posters how about convincing people with words and evidence. How about respecting everyone’s right to think for themselves?
May 28th, 2009 at 2:20 pm
In answer to your posted questions Marmite..
Why would Connie be arrested? What is she alleged to have done.
Why would the SaveAaliyah site be taken down? That would require Dustion instigate a Civil case against the owners of that site- it is not under Connie’s control. They have a right to put up a site and ask for donations to support ANY CAUSE they want.
Why would PayPal shut down the account? Same as above, and I do not see that they are violating terms of service for Paypal accounts. Unless fraud is proven, and to my knowledge it has not.
To the questions about the father or his family responding, who knows, they have not formally responded. Plenty of allegations about them allegedy being posters of comments, but once again- who knows it they are indeed the family or father or attorney. Just like your assumption I was a banned blog commentor and or allegations that if someone does not fully agree with the Bedwell’s they MUST be ‘pedophile supporters’ because of their opinions.
Who knows why they have not accepted offers for an out of state doctor to investigate. Who knows if they have taken polygraphs on their own. I sure don’t know. No one is saying, only guessing. Heck I don’t even know if it would be considered by the courts.
I have already commented on your generalization that I am a member of a ‘vindictive little gang’. I am not, I speak and think for myself.
May 28th, 2009 at 3:14 pm
Justgetaninvestigation when I said what difference does that make. in post 361..I was referring to post 350. Apparently some comments were in moderation and appeared after I posted my comment.
Sorry!
May 28th, 2009 at 8:11 pm
To Where’s the evidence may27 9:58 pm-
Bubba’s producer said that he had read the moms psych report. “And it’s a mixed bag of goods †That comes from this same site I believe, just a different page.
I may be wrong, but I read that today while looking for updates and more information about this weird case!
May 28th, 2009 at 9:15 pm
TO – TimeWillTell
May 27th, 2009 at 10:47 am
“Upon receiving Aaliyah back from Dustin’s parenting time on June 15 2008, Connie took the child to the hospital to have her examined after the child again stated that “daddy hurt my pee pee†and “daddy hurt my buttâ€. Connie requested authorization for the examination, Sgt Pecoraro yelled at Connie and told her to leave the hospital. He did not authorize the child’s examination.â€
****Police cannot do any such thing. It is another lie Connie has put out there, apparently stuck didn’t it? She could have taken her daughter to multiple doctors during the day, any where. Why would police be in the hospital too?
TimeWillTell; stated, “Police cannot do any such thingâ€.
Please tell all of us the exact procedure the pediatrician directs one to do after they have examined the child brought in under the accusation of sexual abuse.
What’s the difference of a mandated reporter reporting it sexual abuse VS. what’s needed in a sexual abuse case that’s to be prosecuted for sexual assault etc.?
May 28th, 2009 at 9:24 pm
WhereIStheEVIDENCE
May 26th, 2009 at 11:49 am
I already have the names and email address’s of every donator. Their information is located on their receipt. Keep trying to shift the issue.
EnoughAlready
Still no #22 requested donation refund receipt numbers, or complaint emails filed with the FBI. When you pull them out of your hat will you please post them here on BTLS and/or BNN for all to see.
6+ days and waiting for your proof EnoughAlready!
May 28th, 2009 at 9:30 pm
WhereIStheEVIDENCE
May 26th, 2009 at 11:49 am
I already have the names and email address’s of every donator. Their information is located on their receipt. Keep trying to shift the issue.
EnoughAlready
Still no #22 requested donation refund receipt numbers, or complaint emails filed with the FBI. When you pull them out of your hat will you please post them here on BTLS and/or BNN for all to see. (your posting of the #22 donators requested refunds & FBI emails) It’s obvious you won’t post this information has come to support the lies by trying to direct people another way.
6+ days and waiting for your proof EnoughAlready!
May 29th, 2009 at 12:26 am
I was wrong about where I read the update about Dr. Saturley in my may 27 8:11 pm comment.
Here is the correct link.
/directoryofclearwater.com/blog/cleatwater_news/dr-joe-saturley-follows-up-on-aaliyah-bedwell/
May 29th, 2009 at 8:10 am
This article mentions that Dr. Saturley would go to Auburn Ca. if somone buys him a plane ticket.
{Quote from article} “Half joking, he said if someone bought the plane ticket he would go to California to evaluate the case.”
Dr. Saturley, I have several free tickets on United Airlines, you are welcome to use one (no charge) to get out there and figure this story out once and for all. I will find your E-Mail address and E-Mail you my information.
R/Chuck
May 29th, 2009 at 8:17 am
HUH?? “A mixed bag of goods” does’t scream “lies” or “delusional” to me. It just means we have to wait for the evaluation to come to light. It could mean an endless amount of possibilities.
I hope we all can get some answers, soon.
C~A, I’m not going to fight with you any longer. I saw what happened, people can go to those sites and look for themselves. I am fighting for Aaliyah. I can’t waste anymore time on you.
May 29th, 2009 at 9:51 am
Mr. Bedwell. There is no case to prosecute until physical evidence is gathered.
You report suspected child abuse to any doctor (usually your own pediatrician). That doctor will listen and do an examination for signs of physical trauma. Even without any physical sign of sexual abuse you are then referred to an official documented physical exam (county/state doctors). This exam is usually conducted at a hospital. That exam involves many pictures of internal vaginal exams, and an overall physical with many tests for bladder infections, blood tests and more. They look to see if the hymen has been compromised (although this is not proof as it can happen in other ways, it will trigger further exams and a formal investigation). This is all done outside the presence of the family, and as a mother I can tell you it is heart wrenching and an awful event.
The findings of any and all physical evidence will be referred to the next level. Without physical evidence if the emotional trauma is clearly evident CPS may require psychological examination. If psychological evaluation of the child leads them to believe the potential of abuse is there all results are documented and forwarded to the DA. If they are not able to find definitive physical proof they will generally hold an open case until such time as physical evidence is found.
This is all done without consulting the ‘witnesses’ as unless they witnessed actual sexual contact and molestation or worse…they are not providing anything beyond opinion and speculation. They may be needed during an actual trial to support physical findings. They may not even be contacted until the D.A. is involved in a formal charge.
If the D.A. does not have enough evidence this may not be prosecuted at the criminal level.
I know this is not what you wanted to hear. But there pretty much has to be physical evidence, not subjective opinions and perceptions before you reach the D.A and a criminal trial.
The handling of this in family courts is somewhat different. There are many forms of child abuse. Judges can and do make decisions based on submitted evidence by either side. Once again, opinions do not count. You need to have documented proof by court ordered doctors of many disciplines. It comes down to the laws, the physical evidence and the medical and professional opinions the court uses.
I know all this from having gone through it, in California.
I also know that Justice is blind…it is a matter of law, not morality. And that your situation must be very frustrating for your family. At least you have a lawyer now who can guide you through the legal proceedings. The scales where tipped when Connie did not have representation.
You still may not like the outcome. It does not always make for a county wide conspiracy. You need the physical proof. That is the way the laws are written.
Good luck in your battle.
May 29th, 2009 at 10:03 am
What all that meant was that Connie should have gone through her own pediatrician or family doctor in order to get the official physical exam ball rolling. The police do not authorize it unless there is an ongoing criminal case that the DA is involved in.
She probably should not have even called the police at that point. She had already made a police report right? Taking the baby to a doctor after what she saw as escalation of abuse and having a police report number and her own description of the babies behavior would have triggered the mandated reporting process.
I think she had the process backwards. Unfortunately. you do not need police until there is proof. I wish she would have taken the baby to her own medical doctor after she left the hospital. I am still not sure what type of authorization she was seeking from police. Both the hospital emergency room and the police should have been able to explain this to her.
May 29th, 2009 at 11:14 am
I agree a ‘mixed bag of goods’ just means that there are some things we do not know. We have no details on what it means. Everyone has issues that may turn up in an evaluation, in this case they may not even relate to this situation. We should never know the results of a person’s psych exam. That is private and not up for discussion by the public in my opinion.
I believe Connie absolutely believes in this abuse. I believe that she is telling the truth as she sees it. I do not think she is lying. She has her opinions and her perceptions. She is doing what she believes is right. She wants her daughter to be safe from harm! Any mother wants that, I would only doubt her sanity if she believed it and did not care or act.
There needs to be more details provided that we will likely never know. Medical and court records are sealed. If there is no physical proof to back up the beliefs of the mother and her family this is not going to be resolved soon. I do not know what will happen. I do not know enough to know what should be done, beyond another investigation to remove all doubt if any corruption within this case.
All that matters is this child being safe. Whatever that takes! What if abuse did happen and can’t be proven? What if the abuse never happened, and is driven by a mother’s fear?
We can only pray for this child, and that the truth will prevail. I want this child to be loved, safe and happy no matter who is right. That is why I keep writing emails to officials in the state, and county.
May 29th, 2009 at 11:26 am
I’ve taken my children to the doctor dozens of times in their lives. Thankfully, we’ve only been to the emergency room a few times.
The police have never had to authorize any of the examinations or visits. They’ve never even been consulted as far as I know.
May 29th, 2009 at 11:31 am
There was an MDIC evaluation on June 23rd 2008
Here is a link to what that is, they apparently did not find enough evidence to pursue a criminal charge at that time.
/www.placer.ca.gov/Departments/DA/DAUnits/MDIC.aspx
May 29th, 2009 at 11:32 am
This was part of the investigation that did occur.
May 29th, 2009 at 12:41 pm
So on June 9th the video was made, on June 10th the police were contacted and presumably a police report taken, on June 15th Connie went to the hospital but was not seen, on June 23rd there was Multi Disciplinary Interview done where the baby was examined. I am guessing CPS was part of that process. I am hoping doctors were involved. There were is a Child Forensic Interview Specialist who talks to the child and it is all videotaped.
Was that the extent of the investigation? What did they do beyond that?
May 29th, 2009 at 1:35 pm
“There was an MDIC evaluation on June 23rd 2008
Here is a link to what that is, they apparently did not find enough evidence to pursue a criminal charge at that time.”
That evaluation was done while the baby was in Dustin’s care, this is when Connie states that the baby would say, “mommy makes me say these things, daddy says so” “I don’t like Darrel, daddy says so” etc……
Connie also stated that the baby wouldn’t disclose to all of those CPS and examiners, I don’t know if any two year old would. They are strangers to them. There are so many questions. If you don’t mind me asking, where are you getting your information?
May 29th, 2009 at 5:45 pm
Mr Bedwell, do you really expect me to believe you had private information given to you from PayPal as to email addresses for those who donated or requested a refund?
You sir, are the one spinning things coming out evading peoples questions and redirecting pointing fingers. You sir, are foolish to believe readers of this story are not intelligent enough to see right through what you are trying to attempt. The courts did not, I do not and MOST readers of this story do not.
I am a member of Websleuths, no one there bought this story BEFORE it ever hit BNN. They still do not. As a matter of fact readers think your daughter should be charged with child exploitation AND they have reported their concerns to the National Center of Missing and Endangered Childrens exploitation department. Why is it the most respected crime sleuthing site on the net and its members who ADVOCATE for crime victims and despise pedofiles do not buy a word of this? Because there is no crime and the allegations are false.
ALL you and your family do is try to intimidate through bullying and fear. Surely the courts saw through this, as do the rest of us which left the courts NO CHOICE but to PROTECT a child from the harm her mother and your family is causing.
Keep it up Bedwell family, and I can almost be certain the next thing we’ll be reading is Connie loses her parental rights. That would be very sad for this child, but as we all know in some cases it is necessary.
May 29th, 2009 at 5:50 pm
What are the criminal charges for exploiting a child on the internet for which one has NO LEGAL custody?
May 29th, 2009 at 7:50 pm
Did you read the MDIC website and brochure? The person the child talks to is an expert a CHILD FORENSIC INTERVIEWER SPECIALIST. Many agencies are involved, but they try to avoid having too many people interview a victim. Read the site and the brochure information.
This MDIC exam was done during the 50/50 custody back in June 2008. This info about the MDIC exam and the custody comes from the Bedwell’s. I believe they(the Bedwell’s) also said no charges where filed against anyone at that time, and that they were angry about the outcome. I believe they also said custody was changed to twice a week for Connie at some point down the road. It did not sound like it was because of the MDIC, but I have not found an answer to that one way or the other.
Do you have information to the contrary about the custody or findings of the MDIC Justgetaninvestigation?
May 29th, 2009 at 8:02 pm
DOES ANYONE WONDER WHY SHE DOESNT HAVE CUSTODY?? DOES ANYONE WONDER WHY SHE LEFT THE COUNTRY TO GO TO JORDAN BECAUSE SHE “THOUGHT THE WORLD WAS ENDING.” I KNOW, BECAUSE SHE HAS A COUPLE OF SCREWS LOOSE! THE COURTS ALREADY FOUND HER NOT MENTAL FIT TO RAISE A KID, UNLESS SHE GOT HELP. I KNOW ALL THIS, BECAUSE I GREW UP WITH BOTH OF THEM.
May 29th, 2009 at 8:38 pm
Thank you Huh. I wanted to know if TimeWillTell could explain it since it seemed so sure of the procedure and bluntly claims Connie’s lying.
On Feb 6, 2008 Connie went to APD. Officer Ackard and Sgt. Reams, they interviewed her for 8 hours, this included copying of evidence. However, they did not want to have the Aaliyah examined due to being unable to verify that abuse occurred within the last 72 hours.
Fact; APD Sgt Pecoraro was well aware of Connie’s claim that Aaliyah was being sexual abused.. Connie contacted Aaliyah’s pediatrician who referred her to take Aaliyah to UC Davis Medical Center where they do complete through exams for the purpose of prosecution. This exam needed LE authorization. APD Sgt. Victor Pecoraro refused to authorize Aaliyah examination on two separate occasions while Aaliyah was at UC Davis Medical. The last time was on June 15, 2008.
May 29th, 2009 at 8:45 pm
“I am a member of Websleuths”
This answers my question as to why you sound so ignorant.
May 29th, 2009 at 8:51 pm
My offer for a ticket for Dr. Saturley was received well. Joe will go there but needs to insure he has cooperation on the Calafornia side. News at 11………………..
May 29th, 2009 at 9:45 pm
Thank you Huh, but I wanted to know if TimeWillTell could explain it since it seemed so sure of the procedure and bluntly claims Connie’s lying.
On Feb 6, 2008 Connie went to APD. Officer Ackard and Sgt. Reams, they interviewed her for 8 hours, this included copying of evidence. However, they didn’t want to have the Aaliyah examined due to being unable to verify that abuse occurred within the last 72 hours.
Fact; APD Sgt Pecoraro was well aware of Connie’s claim that Aaliyah was being sexual abused.. Connie contacted Aaliyah’s pediatrician who referred her to take Aaliyah to UC Davis Medical Center where they do complete through exams for the purpose of prosecution. This exam needed LE authorization. APD Sgt. Victor Pecoraro several times refused to authorize Aaliyah examination while Aaliyah was at UC Davis Medical. The last time was on June 15, 2008.
May 29th, 2009 at 10:44 pm
WhereIS the Evidence;
I have NEVER one time heard Aaliyah say;
Mommy and/or Darrel hurt me.
Pop Pop punched, kicked, slapped or knocked me down.
Auntie hurts me.
NOW WHO IS IT THAT’S HURTING THIS CHILD?
Spin spin spin the Thompson SPIN!
May 29th, 2009 at 11:14 pm
WhereIStheEVIDENCE
May 29th, 2009 at 5:45 pm
I think it should be clear by now… I don’t care what you and your little group think!
AS a matter of fact, PayPal does publish the email address with the donation receipt!
Lets get to the truth of the matter! It’s simple, get your friend to publish the receipt # of any of your claimed donators who want a refund. Until then the subjects dropped. I’ll be waiting.
You can claim that there’s been a investigation, but it has only been from one side. If it was your daughter being molested, is that what you would label as an investigation?
You State;
“As a matter of fact readers think your daughter should be charged with child exploitation AND they have reported their concerns to the National Center of Missing and Endangered Childrens exploitation department”.
AND HOW’S THAT WORKING OUT FOR YA???
Sound like the FBI investigation for internet fraud, that isn’t.
Sounds like the Roseville police investigation for fraud, that isn’t.
Sounds like the #22 donators who want refunds, that you can’t produce.
Sounds like those ever terrifying emails to the FBI, that you can’t produce either.
Sounds like all those donators receipt #’s and email addresses that you claim I don’t have, but I do.
I could go on and on! but what’s the point, it like talking to a brick.
Attack me all you want, I put my name on everything I write, where’s yours? Why do you attack from the shadows. Come put your real name out here and then write your crap, then when this is over let’s see who still standing!
Since you’re all so close to the Molester and his family, why don’t we ever get to hear you tell us about why he won’t step outside the corrupt Placer County Professionals and be tested and interviewed by Dr. Saturley?
If Connie’s claims of Placer County being corrupt aren’t true. Why is Dustin and the Thompson’s refusing to be interviewed and tested by someone outside of PC?
Simple questions!
May 30th, 2009 at 11:23 am
It’s nice to see another site that allows freedom of speech, no matter what the subject! In my opinion, BNN has lowered itself to the boot out the door level…and will surely be the cause of it’s own demise.
Rock on bloggers!
May 30th, 2009 at 12:12 pm
marmite
May 28th, 2009 at 7:07 am
To Beast, CA, Huh and the rest of your vindictive little gang just ask yourself why you are so angry about being banned from a blogging site, this isn’t about you it’s actually about Aaliyah. You are all coming across as obsessive and weird which in turn discredits what you’re actually trying to say.
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C~A
May 28th, 2009 at 11:10 am
Exactly where have we (I) made this about me??? Care to post that comment of mine that makes you say that!
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In response to C~A please read this blog from the beginning, I suggest you take your time reading your own posts for evidence of your weird and vindictive rants.
It is clear you are have issues and this situation just happens to be your latest outlet to release that unresolved anger. I seriously suggest counselling.
To the rest of your gang please channel your energies into something positive. All we are asking for is an independant investigation.
C~A please don’t bother to respond, you’re boring me.
I repeat This is about Aaliyah not you!
May 30th, 2009 at 3:14 pm
Connie did not lose joint 50/50 custody till July 1 2008 per her own time line. After that is when she went to the supervised visitation twice a week. So the change was probably a result of the MDIC interview reports to the Family court.
She had also had the baby home with her from June 15 till the MDIC interview in June 23rd.
While the STEP program no longer exists, there is still information on what it was. It lost funding during the budget cuts in CA.
It also sounds like both parents and the child were in the STEP program for quite a while if this was the source of the therapy/counseling that the baby was getting. Once again, from the mother’s own words.
May 30th, 2009 at 3:50 pm
I actually meant she lost joint custody and went to supervised visits July 3, 2008.
The information about what MDIC is in Placer County, as well as the brochure they give to the parents of the victims before the interview is available at the link I provided above. I suggest you read it, as well as watch the full 27 minute video.
There is much more to the time line in this case that I have put together from the statements going back to prior to the move to Alaska, through the initial custody court hearings as reported by the Bedwells statements, through to putting together my own time line. There is a lot going on in this case. Much more than first reported.
They return to court June 1. No telling what will happen.
Once again, I believe this child needs to be supported. No matter the outcome, she is the ONLY one I care about.
May 30th, 2009 at 9:49 pm
I see a lot of people wrote on here stating they have sent emails to Placer County officials and state level officials and others…..HAS ANYONE RECEIVED A RESPONSE????? I sure haven’t. If anyone has received any responses, please let me know. Thanks a log everyone.
May 30th, 2009 at 9:50 pm
Ha, ha….I mean “thanks a lot everyone”
May 31st, 2009 at 12:13 pm
Mr. Bedwell,
I think you have mistaken me for someone else. I know nothing about 22 requests for refunds. I know of one who received a refund, and I posted the information solely for those wishing a straight answer on how to get their money back.
As for the rest of your statements regarding the medical center. Get it in writing from the physicians who were told by whatever law enforcement officer NOT to give your granddaughter an exam to determine if she was sexually abused. Post that online so you can back your statements with facts. You’re family must have them. Surely your daughter would not have walked out of the medical center without having written proof. We’ll be waiting.
WITE – Oak Park, IL
May 31st, 2009 at 12:19 pm
That should read I know of no one personally who has received a refund. Though, I suggest the request go directly to PayPal as opposed to sharing personal info here or at BNN.
WITE- Oak Park, IL
May 31st, 2009 at 1:08 pm
No responses to any of my emails to the D.A. or the letters to the Judicial Review Board. Form Letter from the Governor, and none from CPS.
May 31st, 2009 at 1:15 pm
So Mr. Bedwell,
you said:
“On Feb 6, 2008 Connie went to APD. Officer Ackard and Sgt. Reams, they interviewed her for 8 hours, this included copying of evidence. However, they didn’t want to have the Aaliyah examined due to being unable to verify that abuse occurred within the last 72 hours.”
Did this result in the MDIC interview ON fEB 26, 2008 instead of the medical evaluation?
“Fact; APD Sgt Pecoraro was well aware of Connie’s claim that Aaliyah was being sexual abused.. Connie contacted Aaliyah’s pediatrician who referred her to take Aaliyah to UC Davis Medical Center where they do complete through exams for the purpose of prosecution. This exam needed LE authorization. APD Sgt. Victor Pecoraro several times refused to authorize Aaliyah examination while Aaliyah was at UC Davis Medical. The last time was on June 15, 2008″
But there was an MDIC interview on June 23,2008. Was that the substitution for the hospital exam? Did Connies pediatrician see the baby? Did he exam her at any point and ever find any signs of sexual abuse, or physical abuse?
Did she just call her own doctor for advice, or did he see her and refer her to UC Davis Medical? Has this little girl ever been physically examined???
May 31st, 2009 at 1:42 pm
Marmite- once again, I am not now, nor have I EVER been banned from any blog or forum anywhere. I am not vindictive, but I have an opinion. I am not part of a gang.
You are right, this is about this child, not name calling, not blame for the problems at other sites. In reality BNN is no longer a blog that allows comments (at least not on the subjects I used to read there). That does make it difficult to contain the problems to just that site.
I do think that Aaliyah has lost a venue to get public attention and support. It was always the comments and discussion that was able to sway opinions and involve the public hopefully. I believe they had quite a following of readers who never posted. I know that their site still comes up when I do Google searches for information about this case.
The comments are now locked away in a private forum. There is nothing wrong with that, however it limits the exposure for this case. This is why I post here and on any other public blogs and forums that I can about this case. I want the public aware. I want this child to he helped.
I hope that there will be an update somewhere about the results of the court tomorrow. Connie will be in court, and she has an attorney. Hopefully she will regain at least access to visitation services again. I have been told she has located another supervised visitation center that she can utilize, and that the only holdup resuming her twice weekly visitation has been a lack of response from Dustin’s attorney on the subject.
May 31st, 2009 at 2:43 pm
HUH?? Because of moderation, I don’t know what post you are referring to when you are speaking to me. From how I read the timeline, the baby had just came back from Dustin’s when they did the MDIC interview. That’s when the baby started saying “mommy makes me say these things, daddy says so” etc…..and just because the site states what a MDIC is and exactly how they perform it does’t mean that they do it like that. I know I have been to Drs and other places where the format for something was done so totally different than before. It just depends on the person. I think Connie should read all of what you posted here and on your other board and then she, or rather a family member, tell us if that is how it was performed. I’m sure there are holes in that evaluation as well. The ONLY reason Connie has had custody taken from her and put on visitations is because she will NOT lie and say Dustin isn’t doing this to her daughter. That’s how I see it.
May 31st, 2009 at 4:24 pm
Mr. Bedwell,
you said:
“On Feb 6, 2008 Connie went to APD. Officer Ackard and Sgt. Reams, they interviewed her for 8 hours, this included copying of evidence. However, they didn’t want to have the Aaliyah examined due to being unable to verify that abuse occurred within the last 72 hours.â€
It is too bad there are not any comments from Connie on her time line document about Feb 6th. I would have hoped an 8 hour interview with police and their refusal to do anything but copy her evidence would have warranted an entry. She mentions other trips to see the police.
May 31st, 2009 at 7:32 pm
While googling “Corrupt Placer County CA”, I have found some things:
http://la.indymedia.org/news/2008/02/214067.php
With this one, It’s only for officials, but look at all the civil rights cases against Placer County:
http://dockets.justia.com/search?q=County+of+Placer
http://www.ripoffreport.com/reports/0/320/RipOff0320960.htm
Claim against county of placer
http://www.libertyforlife.com/abuse/abuse/claims/CLAIM%20AGAINST%20Placer%20v1.doc –
http://auburnjournal.com/detail/106582.html
I found this in the Auburn Journal:
“domestic crimes are taken seriously by both law enforcement agencies and the judicial system.” LOL Not in Placer County California, where rubber stamping judges, closed hearings, corrupt DA’s, perverse financial funding, ignorance of the law runs amok, all under the guise of “we are tough on domestic violence” and “if were proven wrong, well, we’ll just make a case up” mentality. If you have a family in Placer County, you are a target and I recommend you get out now before it’s to late. They want your children and will perjure themselves to get them and they want you, the parent, to partake of their social services and they are willing to use extortion tactics to reach these goals. The judges and DA are in on the scam. This is fact. Heed this advice and do not find out the hard way, as we did. Add a Comment Posted on 12/02/2006 at 6:12:00 PM
I can keep going on. There are NUMEROUS stories of Placer County, CA corruptions!
June 1st, 2009 at 12:53 pm
I really feel that Connie could come up with something better and more effective to ruin Dustins life if that was her goal. What idiots! Connie’s IQ places her in the top one third of the population…I am pretty sure she could think of something way more clever to be vindictive. But she has morals and she doesn’t believe in hurting people…vengeance isn’t hers… how it is going to feel to have to explain and apologize to Aaliyah of why you all would help her dad further molest her because you want to spread his lies and you own lies and assumptions? Duh??, you are disecting every bit of that timeline. It wasn’t finished and all the information is not there. She was just jotting things down as they came. Who does it benifit to lie about something they dont know about and are just assuming things by just a few words? The baby states that her dad sticks his penis in her mouth, the only two people that are there are Dustin and Aaliyah and Aaliyah says that is what her dad does to her, I can’t understand why you choose to think that Connie is lying just to be vindictive. How do you all sleep at night knowing you are supporting him to further do this? You can keep disecting that timeline, it doesn’t make your assumptions of it true.
June 1st, 2009 at 1:39 pm
JustGet,
On June 17, Connie was told not to turn the baby over to Dustin.
He had just had her from June 11 to June 15.
So from June 15 until the June 23,2008 MDIC interview, Connie had the baby.
June 1st, 2009 at 2:29 pm
JustGet. At least one of your links (the one to the Auburn Journal) is not applicable at all to the case at hand.
It is about a dui/murder case, one that had a very polarizing effect on the community. NOTE: There was a trial for a DUI death/vehicular manslaughter charge. He was found guilty of 2nd degree murder and gross vehicular manslaughter. In what way is this corruption?
The first case you list is about a lawsuit regarding theft, and is also not in any way related to this case. In fact the plaintiff says some pretty nutty things in his pleading- Including calling the Federal courts Felons, and saying that Jerry Brown(Ca State Attorney General) had him kidnapped(umm it’s called arrested) and he sat in jail for 30 days. This is all over an IRS audit and Social Security pension, and his Trust funds. It has nothing to do with the corruption of Placer county, The guy had 9 simultaneous laaw suits going on. The case went through multiple courts and state/federal jurisdictions and seems to have been ongoing for years.
The ripoff link is about a deportation hearing- allegedly involving tainted evidence being submitted by the DA- with no supporting documentation available – made by the guy who was deported back to Germany.
Many of the civil rights cases are against the sheriff’s office, alleging either civil rights being violated during arrests, or while in Jail. Big surprise there, how many Sheriffs departments do you think get sued by defendants?
The only interesting information was the comment someone made on an article in the Auburn journal. Was this out of an article’s contents or out of user posted responses? I would be interested in reading more about it.
June 1st, 2009 at 7:36 pm
JustGet,
I don’t think Connie is lying. I think she truly believes abuse is occurring. I believe her family does too. She lives in a total nightmare right now.
What I find after researching the information as it has been presented to date, is that there are questions I still have as to what is going on.
If you feel I have lied about anything, feel free to point it out. I will listen if you think I have misrepresented information. In fact, I have read nothing from the father. I don’t know how I can be ‘spreading his lies’. I am only stating my own thoughts and opinions.
I have not contributed to the molestation of a child. I have supported the request to help get a further more complete investigation. I do not feel this mother is vindictive (angry yes). I just do not agree with all of her interpretations of all these reported events as being of physical and sexual abuse based on what I have read.
I am troubled by the notion that so much of this is being stated as corruption. There have been investigations, just none that have found enough proof to support the mother’s claims so far. There have been a lot of agencies involved, and a lot of professionals outside the court. That none of these others have supported Connie’s belief does not make them corrupt, nor her a liar. But it is information that I consider when I am looking at this case.
Why is it everyone who does not agree with the Bedwell’s interpretation of the history, statements, or questions these beliefs is labeled a pedophile or supporter. Everyone who comes up with alternative opinions or interpretations of the reported events is somehow spreading lies. It is called a difference of opinion. It is called thinking and deciding based on what you read.
No one on the internet ‘knows’ all the facts. It is purely speculation based on our interpretation of the information presented. Not even the mother ‘knows’ all the facts. She only knows how she understands and interprets what she sees.
How is it there has been no physical proof of this ongoing molestation and physical abuse- not in 2 years? Or has there? Objective proof would be welcome here, not the subjective. I hope this can be found, for the sake of this child.
One thing I know for sure is this child deserves to be happy. She deserves to be safe. Once again, I do not care about her parents. I care about this child.
June 1st, 2009 at 7:41 pm
Just Get, you state “I really feel that Connie could come up with something better and more effective to ruin Dustins life if that was her goal. What idiots! Connie’s IQ places her in the top one third of the population…I am pretty sure she could think of something way more clever to be vindictive. But she has morals and she doesn’t believe in hurting people…vengeance isn’t hers”
So you know her? For how long? What would she want to ruin Dustin for? Is that what she wants to do?
June 1st, 2009 at 9:48 pm
New article at BNN regarding Connie and Aaliyah. Something finally is happening for Connie’s side!
http://www.bloggernews.net/121098
June 1st, 2009 at 9:51 pm
HUH??, to me, it shouldn’t really matter the contents of the case, what they are for, these people are screaming CORRUPTION in Placer County. That’s why I posted them. I will find that last link for the Auburn Journal, yes it was a user comment. I will try to find it again and post it here. But, from what I remember, the article didn’t have anything to do with what you are looking for either.
June 1st, 2009 at 10:02 pm
HUH??, I’m still looking for the other article, but found this one first:
http://abolishcps.blogspot.com/2006/09/placer-county-california-cps-victim.html
June 1st, 2009 at 10:09 pm
Ok, here it is. It’s about domestic crimes:
http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/71869/domestic_crimes_in_criminal_law.html?cat=17
June 1st, 2009 at 10:19 pm
Oh, BTW, Judge Kearney never signed the papers before she recused herself, so the restraining order isn’t even in effect! HA! So funny!
June 1st, 2009 at 11:00 pm
So if there is to be a California 730 exam, does this mean Dr. Saturley will be the one conducting it???
I sure hope so, because it can be very expensive(up to $15,000) and cost can be split between parents if the court does not pick up the tab.
Connie should have supervised visitation restored within a day or two. This is good news!
June 2nd, 2009 at 4:02 am
Well they went back to court and guess what….?
Connie was not jailed, in fact the new Judge ruled against everything the fathers lawyer requested.
The judge ordered that Connies visitation be reinstated immediately, if this cannot be arranged within a couple of days then Connie has to file an Ex Parte hearing.
The hearing will resume 30th June.
June 2nd, 2009 at 6:56 am
“So you know her? For how long? What would she want to ruin Dustin for? Is that what she wants to do?”
I said she didn’t want to ruin Dustin’s life, there are some people who are stating she is vindictive because he gave her a STD and cheated on her, they claim to be freedom of speech advocates (hypocrites) but I can’t post on their site. As a matter of fact, my post is still in moderation on their site. So, I decided to write it here, where they don’t own the board.
June 2nd, 2009 at 7:00 am
This is to the other site I was talking about previous:
No, there isn’t a 730 examination ordered yet, you should read the entire article before jumping to conclusions. Amara tried to sneak that past the judge, she filed the papers as Connie and her lawyer were walking into court, the judge said “HUH, UH MS AMARA”, so it is not ordered yet, NOTHING is ordered yet other than visitiation be reinstated NOW!
June 2nd, 2009 at 7:10 am
Hey Pattcake (again for the other site), Connie doesn’t have to tell her father what goes on in court, Darrel was there, her sisters and I think her brother was there. Also, don’t you think her lawyer is doing the talking now? Why don’t you go investigate something else now. BTW, did you hear that David Thompson sat on the stand for almost two hours calling his son a child molester, roflmao! About halfway through, he started saying “Alleged molester”, I swear, that is one of the funniest things I’ve ever heard. Liars cannot keep their words untruthful.
Nothing was resolved yesterday because they only allotted 2 hours for the hearing, they spent the two hours proving that Connie is not the one posting these things on the internet. Patty, you should go back to sleep, you have absolutely NO CLUE what is going on. On June 30th, the hearing will continue and Connie will be on the stand….and then we will see if the judge is in anyone’s favor. AGAIN, there were no orders other than to re-establish visitations. Have a nice day Pattycake, but I suggest you sleep just a little more, you need to be awake in order to read and comprehend things. I hope you can actually comprehend what I have written! Good day all!
June 2nd, 2009 at 9:32 am
HUH??, this moderation thing stinks. I am sorry that you thought I said you were lying, I was talking to other people on another site that state everyone is able to voice their opinion but won’t allow me to post there. I’m not sure but you seem to be one of those people on that other site, a lot of what you say here is over there. Here it seems you pretend you are neutral, over there you are against Connie. I could be wrong, if I am, just let me know. There are a lot of things that will be coming out soon. Such as doctor’s evaluations and such. There should be some reports from the caretakers at the supervised visitations that prove the baby is stating in visitations what Connie says she is. It’s all documented, and as soon as Connie is ALLOWED it will all be out. I am hoping that this judge sees the restraining order is completely against Connie’s civil rights and does something about it. That’s all I’m trying to say, everyone that is not truly trying to find the answers, that truly believes this little girl is not being abused by her “father” are enabling his abuse. That’s how I see it.
June 2nd, 2009 at 9:50 am
Hi Just… not really caring much about your post about me. It’s flattering you took the time to read my info, thank you.
The current orders remain in place. If they were removed, your ‘blogger’ would have said so. Getting further information about 730 exam states exactly what I said last night.
IF THE JUDGE BELIEVED FOR A MOMENT ABOUT CONNIE’S ABUSE CLAIMS – HE WOULD NOT HAVE ORDERED THE 730. So the JUDGE DOES NOT BELIEVE HER period. The judge wants this finished! Speaking to my boss, he said that professionals past and present will evaluate both homes and even interview the child.
If Dustins’ home continues to be where the child is currently thriving, there will be a recommendation to keep the child exactly where she is. As I understand it, BabyA is doing remarkable, happy & thriving very well. It’s not a good thing for Connie – period!
As long as the Thompsons will show the loving environment, the child will REMAIN where she is. It wouldn’t be in the child’s best interest to move her if she’s doing so well. Especially when these professionals can now take a look and see how the Bedwells attack perfect strangers online, can you imagine how they would be in person?
Their actions and behaviour have harmed any possibility of the child going to the mothers home. This order will be final, it will be permanent. The timing of it is a major success for the Thompsons.
Not going to bother debating this on now a 3rd board. You are welcome to come ‘to the other site’ to post. I won’t be back to read your response. Enjoy your day.
June 2nd, 2009 at 9:52 am
Justgetaninvestigation,
The only mention of a 730 examination in the “article” you proclaim(!) reference to in your post #417, states as follows:
“Furthermore Connie Bedwell should be stopped from filing any motions until THE completion of THE 730 examination.”
The “article” clearly indicates that a 730 examination is forthcoming by their wording of THE 730 examination versus usage of A 730 examination.
In your post #425 are you saying the “article” is incorrect in their choice of wording? The only reason I’m asking is that your post seems to be a rather hostile response to a question asked in post #422:
“So IF there is to be a California 730 exam, does this mean Dr. Saturley will be the one conducting it???”
Please note that this post clearly asks IF. It is a question that many would like an answer to.
June 2nd, 2009 at 12:39 pm
Possibly there needs to a clarification of the 730 order.
Seems S does not write clearly. He does not say who requested the 730 order. It may have been the judge, or the attorney for either parent. I interpreted:
“Furthermore Connie Bedwell should be stopped from filing any motions until the completion of the 730 examination”
To mean that she was trying to prevent any motions from being filed until the completion of the 730 exam. Not to mean that Amara was requesting a 730 exam. In fact, I thought it leaned more towards Connie having requested the 730 hearing in order to bring Dr. Saturley into the case. That is purely speculation on my part.
California Evidence Code Section §730 (“730 Child Custody Evaluation”):
When it appears to the court, at any time before or during the trial of an action, that expert evidence is or may be required by the court or by any party to the action, the court on its own motion or on motion of any party may appoint one or more experts to investigate, to render a report as may be ordered by the court, and to testify as an expert at the trial of the action relative to the fact or matter as to which the expert evidence is or may be required. The court may fix the compensation for these services, if any, rendered by any person appointed under this section, in addition to any service as a witness, at the amount as seems reasonable to the court. Nothing in this section shall be construed to permit a person to perform any act for which a license is required unless the person holds the appropriate license to lawfully perform that act.
Also, I was unaware there was verification of the lack of signature on the restraining order. Has this been verified with the court clerk? Because in reality, the court clerk is the one who supplies you with the certified signature of the judge. Once again Simon’s article was unclear about tis detail also. It sounded like it was not verified. Bummer about there being no printed verification of that for the public to read for him to expand on these items!!
“On June 30th, the hearing will continue and Connie will be on the stand…and then we will see if the judge is in anyone’s favor ”
I think the point about the Judge is important Just Get…so if this judge rules against Connie in any way will he be deemed corrupt too? What if the truth falls short of what either side claims?
June 2nd, 2009 at 1:51 pm
So bottom line,
Is there a 730 order or not?
Is there a 3111 evaluation?
Is Dr. Saturley coming to Ca. to interview relevant parties?
Did Connie meet with the District Attorney who handles Child abuse cases as was mentioned at BNN as to be occurring today June 2 ?
Is Connie still limited to 2 – 1 hour visits a week?
June 2nd, 2009 at 1:58 pm
Here is something interesting I found, and if you read all of the witness letters on the CPC site (especially Connie’s Nana’s) you will see all 9 of these behaviors witnessed of Aaliyah. Why can anyone not see this and think there shouldn’t be a new, thorough investigation? Come on people, let’s do the right thing for this child!
Do you notice some of the following behaviors in children you know?
….Fear of certain people or places (e.g.
, a child may not
want to be left alone with a baby-sitter, a friend, a relative, or some
other child or adult; or a child who is usually talkative and cheery
may become quiet and distant when around a certain person).
….Nightmares, trouble sleeping, or other extreme fears without an obvious explanation.
….Play, writing, drawings or dreams may include sexual or frightening images.
….Spacing out at odd times, seems distracted or distant, “checked out.
 .Loss of appetite, or trouble eating or swallowing or sudden changes in eating habits.
….Sudden mood swings: rage, fear, anger, insecurity or withdrawal.
….Leaves “clues†that seem likely to provoke a discussion about sexual issues.
….Stomach illness all of the time with no identifiable reason.
….An older child behaving like a younger child, such as bed-wetting or thumb sucking.
….Adult-like
sexual activities with toys or other children, such as simulating sex
with dolls or asking other children/siblings to behave sexually.
….New words for private body parts.
….Shows resistance to bathing, toileting, or removing clothes even at appropriate situations.
….Refusing to talk about a “secret” he/she has with an adult or older child.
….Talking about a new older friend.
….Suddenly having money, toys or other gifts for no apparent reason.
….Cutting,
burning or otherwise intentionally harming herself or himself, i.e.
drug use, alcohol abuse, sexual promiscuity, running away from home.
….Has negative self image, i.e. thinks of self or body as repulsive, dirty or bad.
….
Physical Warning Signs of Possible Child Sexual Abuse
Does a child close to you have:
….Unexplained bruises, redness, or bleeding of the child’s genitals, anus, or mouth?….Pain at the genitals, anus, or mouth?….Genital sores or milky fluids in the genital area?….
If you said “yes” to any of these example please report it or consult a professional
June 3rd, 2009 at 5:56 am
To just get an investigation.
You said:
If you said “yes†to any of these example please report it or consult a professional
Exactly! However if you look at the timeline posted at CPC, Connie never did ask a professional despite the numerous doctor visits in her notes. Why is that? Why did the child never complain about her sore bottom in the care of her dad or her dads family, at any of the numerous doctors she saw including the therapist Mitzi Nay, any of the exchanges in front of anyone other than Connie and her sister Cara? If you go read the timeline, no where is it documented A’ complained about her sore bottom to anyone other than Connie and her sister. That is very suspicious to me if in fact her bottom was sore.
June 3rd, 2009 at 12:10 pm
Well, WhereIs, I’d say she never said anything to her dad or her dad’s parents because she was afraid of them. Plus from the allegations, they are the ones that have done it to her. Why would she have to tell them?
Also, we don’t know what Mitzi Nay has said or not said. There is a letter on an article about the baby at BNN that states she feels some sort of abuse had occured. But that is just one letter while Mitzi worked with her. Didn’t Mitzi work with the baby for at least 10 months? I’m sure there is a lot of documentation that will be put out as soon as the Bedwell family is sure that the restraining order is not in effect.
HUH?? Amara and Dustin asked for the 730 examination, but as I said before, the Judge did not order on anything or even hear anythiing in regards to it because he was busy listening to Connie’s lawyer prove Connie wasn’t the one putting/posting anythng on the internet. We’ll have to wait and see on the 30th as to what happens with the 730 exam.
June 4th, 2009 at 12:55 am
Justgetaninvestigation
June 2nd, 2009 at 9:32 am
HUH??, this moderation thing stinks. I am sorry that you thought I said you were lying, I was talking to other people on another site that state everyone is able to voice their opinion but won’t allow me to post there. I’m not sure but you seem to be one of those people on that other site, a lot of what you say here is over there. Here it seems you pretend you are neutral, over there you are against Connie. I could be wrong, if I am, just let me know
I am not in support of anyone but this child. I am not enabling the father, nor am I supporting the mother. I am trying to put the pieces of a puzzle together, without the full picture to match it to, or all the pieces. I refuse to call him a pedophile, or her a liar. There are not enough objective facts to do either.
Why has the full 27 minute video been removed? It surely can’t be because it shows this child’s face, as there are numerous still photo’s on the main saveaaliyah site.
I am waiting for the additional information many are discussing. Such as medical opinions, and independent statements or reports, whatever there may be.
It is fine if you choose to believe what you have been told from the bedwells. Based on my own interactions with them, I choose to look elsewhere for objective proof.
Although I do believe that Connie fully believes there is and has been abuse of her child. I am not convinced all that she sees leads to only one conclusion.
I want this investigated too, this child should be the only priority no matter which side you fall on.
June 4th, 2009 at 1:02 am
I had actually hoped there would be an independent 730 exam. It would make me personally feel much better if someone went through all the sealed documents and MDIC videos, and CPS, STEP and all the various reports, and then spoke to the witnesses in the immediate families. ALL THE SEALED records, medical, legal, and any other are reviewed in such an investigation. It can be quite intensive.
The only problem is the cost. It is usually split between parents- and I am not sure if either side could afford the rather hefty price tag. Payment arrangements must be made before that type of exam is even started. It can take weeks, if not months and can cost up to $15,000 base on what I have found researching it.
I am hoping some less financially restrictive method of accomplishing this will be found. We will have to wait and see.
June 4th, 2009 at 8:47 am
The only problem is the cost. It is usually split between parents- and I am not sure if either side could afford the rather hefty price tag. Payment arrangements must be made before that type of exam is even started. It can take weeks, if not months and can cost up to $15,000 base on what I have found researching it.
I find that odd that it costs that much and Amara is trying to go after Connie for exactly that amount. I heard that Dr. Saturley is trying to get Dustin to agree to the evaluations, but he will not respond to him. I’m assuming it’s because the doctor isn’t from California and he doesn’t have any juristiction there. And if Dr. Joe will do this pro bono, why wouldn’t Dustin just agree to it? Then the $15,000 wouldn’t matter.
June 4th, 2009 at 12:32 pm
JUSTGETANINVESTIGATION;
Really starting to look like the Bedwells are using you and feeding you only what they want you to know!
If you were talking to them… like you say, they should have told you how the 730 EVALUATION IS done, completed and already ALL recommendations ACCEPTED by the courts!!!
Recommended???? That DUSTIN retains 100% custody. That evaluation is serious stuff, almost impossible to overturn!
They would have told you the MINOR issue of the gag order was resolved on June 1st and the orders are in full force.
They would have told you Connie never bothered to attend even 1 STEP class at all.
They would have told you the REAL REASON Connie lost ALL custody. Not some but all… it takes SOME VERY SERIOUS STUFF for a parent to lose all rights to their child. So why hasn’t she told you yet?
Tim, I’d shut up if I were you. Dragging BabyA to Jordan and having the District Attorney’s office drag you back and throwing you in jail for kidnapping a baby – I think you have deeply harmed Connie’s case of EVER EVER getting her child back. It’ll never happen, you’ve helped her lose it all. Wonder what that feels like?
June 4th, 2009 at 9:56 pm
If you take away the emotional response to watching all the videos, and stick to the facts, there’s not much solid info on this case. There’s conflicting info at best. Incomplete and misleading info at worst. These people have been fighting over this child long enough. I hope the court makes a final choice on evidence only. I hope this little girl ends up in the right place- maybe that should be away from both parents. She’ll at least need a new name since all this publicity. What was her mother thinking putting her name on the internet? Did she really make enough money that way to justify what she’s done to her baby? Was the money worth it?
WOW, just WOW!! poor child
June 4th, 2009 at 10:01 pm
Baby A wasn’t born when Tim and his children went to Jordan on vacation.
I am not going to argue with you Patty, I tried speaking civilly with you on your other site, but you made it quite clear you are not capable of that. So please do not address me any longer. You are not getting the right information. You are being manipulated by the abuser himself. All abusers have the capablilities to do that. You have fallen under his “spell”. When all comes to light I will not accept your apology. I tried, you failed.
June 5th, 2009 at 1:24 am
I thought it was determined Tim Bedwell kidnapped a child (what child we do not know) and too the child to Jordan. He sure does have a long criminal history.
Justget… Give it up. Connie has already broken the gag/restraining order- whatever you want to call it. I see them as two seperate things. One a gag order to not talk about the case, and two a restraining order to keep her away from DT. Connie has already put a video online, talked with a CPC after the gag order. Why not put it all out there and throw herself to the mercy of the courts IF this were fact? It makes NO sense whatsover to put some but not ALL of the information out there IF it existed.
Hon, this story has already been debunked. It is only a matter of time before criminal charges and additional info is out there to prove this mother LIED about ALL of this. AND created a coached video. Why reminds me, why was the 27 min video removed? Because it made more logical sense that this was a load of bull doo doo. Instead an edited 9 min video exists with more lies as to why the entire 27 min couldn’t be posted.
June 5th, 2009 at 1:59 am
Guess I have 1 MINOR correction to make. I assumed the conviction of child abduction was for babyA. It was not and I willingly admit my mistake. NOT something BNN would ever do. Nevertheless TIM BEDWELL is THE convicted criminal NOT Dustin. Because of the penal code number attached to the file, I was mistaken. Still, the guy kidnapped kids!
Everything else about the completed 730 Evaluation and the recommendations SUPPORTED by the court, the NEW judge is all true, all correct. Connie never attended a STEP program, NOT ONE day at all.
The court orders against Connie are all FULLY ENFORCED AND SIGNED BY THE NEW JUDGE. Doesn’t sound like he’s liking anything about this woman.
With the 730 Evaluation completed, Connie has basically – with that – LOST ALL CHANCE of ever obtaining custody ever again. She will never get her kid back.
So you can all stop begging for a NEW investigation. AS you were begging, ONE was being worked on and completed by a very HIGHLY respected Forensic Child Psychologist. Not some (lol, good ole boys).
Because the NEW JUDGE (also NOT good ole boys club) enforced the orders and QUICKLY signed what was missing… he will be visiting those orders on June 30th. He will be deciding Connies’ FATE and what to do about her endless violations and disgusting lies she’s spewed about an innocent man. A INNOCENT man who’s repeatedly been found INNOCENT of any sexual abuse accusation.
BabyA is very safe in the home she’s in. Connie can never claim ever again that OUTSIDERS did not help her. THEY HAVE and THEY’VE RULED AGAINST HER. Looks like Placer County got it right all along. Even outsiders not from this place agree that the FATHER WAS SET UP & FRAMED.
We’re talking now 12+ investigations that’s included more than 100 people ALL AGREE – CONNIE COACHED babyA. Connie made it all up.
June 5th, 2009 at 5:07 am
Considering there are fines and jail time for mandatory reporters who do not report child abuse we can believe if Mitzi Nay did suspect child abuse she would have provided Connie with more than the a letter indicating **maybe** abuse occured. If she had been working with the child for 10 months- she worked with the child long enough to make that distinction. However she did not. The very general letter dated June of 2008 just prior to court simply indicated **IF** the child disclosed she would report it. In the 10 or so months she worked with A, A did not disclose enough for Mitzi Nay to confirm abuse.
June 5th, 2009 at 5:23 am
Tim Bedwell – Connie’s Father
May 29th, 2009 at 9:45 pm
Thank you Huh, but I wanted to know if TimeWillTell could explain it since it seemed so sure of the procedure and bluntly claims Connie’s lying.
On Feb 6, 2008 Connie went to APD. Officer Ackard and Sgt. Reams, they interviewed her for 8 hours, this included copying of evidence. However, they didn’t want to have the Aaliyah examined due to being unable to verify that abuse occurred within the last 72 hours.
Fact; APD Sgt Pecoraro was well aware of Connie’s claim that Aaliyah was being sexual abused.. Connie contacted Aaliyah’s pediatrician who referred her to take Aaliyah to UC Davis Medical Center where they do complete through exams for the purpose of prosecution. This exam needed LE authorization. APD Sgt. Victor Pecoraro several times refused to authorize Aaliyah examination while Aaliyah was at UC Davis Medical. The last time was on June 15, 2008.
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This too makes no sense. There are protocals for both acute (within the last 72 hours) and non acute (more than 72 hours) exams for possible sexual abuse against a child. throughout Connies timeline she repeatedly notates a sore bottom. A young child under 3 would have signs of vaginal or anal abuse that would not require dna evidence of semen being located in those areas. Tearing would occur. Then later the story seems to change to oral violation. (quite possibly because genital abuse never occured) and again the 72 hour issue. Way back while Connie was expecting she accused DT of giving her an STD. Surely if the child was repeatedly being abused orally evidence of an STD would likely have shown up. the twists, spins changes throughout this poorly written story by the Bedwell family seem to change to support reasons why evidence could not be found.
I would still love to see a statute where a doctor needs law enforcement permission to conduct a visual or forensic exam on a child for sexual abuse. I doubt one exists or it would have been posted to support this phony story.
June 5th, 2009 at 5:29 am
Just get it…. Oh please. Who is calling the kettle black with name calling. Maybe you should scroll back and see your own name calling of other posters at this site. Still doing it I see.
June 5th, 2009 at 5:41 am
Then later the story seems to change to oral violation. (quite possibly because genital abuse never occured) and again the 72 hour issue——
Would be better phrased as follows. Once the Bedwells realized no investigation wouldn’t hold water based on the 72 hour requirement for acute abuse and DNA evidence the story then switched to oral abuse which they hoped would fly thinking it would be logical that readers would buy into that needing 72 hours for DNA evidence theory, however, if the alleged abuse had continued for as long as it has been claimed at least 5 months according to the timeline posted at child protection community it is very very likely a test would be positive showing the child had signs of an oral STD. There would be no need for a 72 hour ‘rule’ for evidene with that scenario. That could have been done at any time.
Keep trying to spin the story- I’m sure we’ll debunk it with logic time and time again. Can’t prove lies.
June 5th, 2009 at 5:49 am
Just get an…..
IF the Jordan trip was a family vacation there would not have been criminal charges for child abduction. IF he was cleared of these charges and not found guilty public record sites would not show codes – the sites would indicate no conviction only.
Maybe you need to just get educated.
June 5th, 2009 at 6:01 am
Justgetaninvestigation
May 29th, 2009 at 1:35 pm
“There was an MDIC evaluation on June 23rd 2008
That evaluation was done while the baby was in Dustin’s care, Connie also stated that the baby wouldn’t disclose to all of those CPS and examiners,
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More false info. According to the timeline at Child Protection center A was in Connies care from the 15th of June through the 23rd when the MDIC evaluation was conducted.
As to your second statement:
JustGetanInvestigation
June 3rd, 2009 at 12:10 pm
Well, WhereIs, I’d say she never said anything to her dad or her dad’s parents because she was afraid of them. Plus from the allegations, they are the ones that have done it to her. Why would she have to tell them?
Also, we don’t know what Mitzi Nay has said or not said. There is a letter on an article about the baby at BNN that states she feels some sort of abuse had occured. But that is just one letter while Mitzi worked with her. Didn’t Mitzi work with the baby for at least 10 months?
What are you saying Justgetan? That Mitzi Nay was still a stranger to this child after 10 months?
June 5th, 2009 at 8:08 am
Who, in their right mind, would ever take their children to a middle east center of terrorism for VACATION?
June 5th, 2009 at 8:44 am
You people amaze me. WhereIs, read my posts. I was asking exactly what you just asked me about Mitzi Nay.
Thank you Patty for retracting your false allegations of Tim abducting baby A to Jordan. He was accused of kidnapping HIS children to Jordan in 2000. Connie was 16 at the time and I believe Christen was 18, I haven’t a clue as to how he could even be charged with that. Just because their mother claims they were kidnapped doesn’t mean that he did. I mean, you are sitting her saying that when baby A is stating that her “father” is abusing her, you don’t believe her, but you’ll believe Connie’s mother? I don’t understand your logic.
I will admit to name calling in the beginning, but I was frustrated. But I went to another site in order to speak to Patty, but it did not work out the way I would have liked it to. Oh well, so I will stay here and speak.
June 5th, 2009 at 8:53 am
Here is an article with an update regarding Dr. Joe Saturley:
http://www.bloggernews.net/121141
June 5th, 2009 at 9:46 am
LL Papa,
They are Jewish. So are you saying that a father cannot take his children to a land where they can learn about their religion?
June 5th, 2009 at 9:55 am
BTW, LL Papa, I saw your post regarding Anne Ambrose being related to Micheal Ambrose. This is untrue. The way you connect the dots is funny. There is a Lauren Ambrose (an acress) and a Jimmy Ambrose (a writer, I believe his name is Jimmy), does that mean she is related to them as well? Ambrose is her married name.
June 5th, 2009 at 10:32 am
JustGet,
You were acting civilly to me? HUH? calling me vile names is civil? I owe you NO APOLOGY. None and you’ll never get one from me. So DO NOT FLATTER YOURSELF.
The truth is the truth and I will keep speaking it because this child is safe where she is!
TIME IS WHATS GOING TO PROVE HOW RIGHT I AM ABOUT EVERTHING THAT’S GONE ON WITH THE CHILD AND THE EVALUATIONS. TIME WILL BE THE ANSWER HERE.
IT IS YOU THAT WILL HAVE EGG ON YOUR FACE. THIS CHILD IS NOT BEING ABUSED, NEVER WAS OTHER THAN BY HER OWN MOTHER.
June 5th, 2009 at 10:58 am
LL Papa
June 5th, 2009 at 8:08 am
Who, in their right mind, would ever take their children to a middle east center of terrorism for VACATION?
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lonelyplanet.com/jordan
For many people Jordan begins and ends with the magical ancient Nabataean city of Petra. And it’s true, Petra is without doubt one of the Middle East’s most spectacular, unmissable sights, battling it out with Machu Picchu or Angkor Wat for the title of the world’s most dramatic ‘lost city’.
Yet there’s so much more to see in Jordan – ruined Roman cities, Crusader castles, desert citadels and powerful biblical sites: the brook where Jesus was baptised, the fortress where Herod beheaded John the Baptist, and the mountain top where Moses cast eyes on the Promised Land. Biblical scenes are not just consigned to the past in Jordan; you’ll see plenty of men wearing full-flowing robes and leading herds of livestock across the timeless desert. But it’s not all crusty ruins. Jordan’s capital Amman is a modern, culturally diverse Arab city which is lightyears away from the typical cliches of Middle Eastern exoticism. The country also offers some of the wildest adventures in the region, as well as an incredibly varied backdrop ranging from the red desert sands of Wadi Rum to the brilliant blues of the coral-filled Gulf of Aqaba; from rich palm-filled wadis to the lifeless Dead Sea. Ultimately it’s the sensual delights of daily life in the Middle East that you’ll hanker for longest after you return home; the bittersweet taste of cardamom coffee or the smell of a richly scented nargileh (water pipe); the intoxicating swirl of Arabic pop sliding out of an Amman doorway and the deafening silence of the desert.
Jordanians are a passionate and proud people and the country truly welcomes visitors with open arms. Despite being squeezed between the hotspots of Iraq, Saudi Arabia and Israel & the Palestinian Territories, Jordan is probably the safest and most stable country in the region. Regardless of your nationality, you’ll be greeted with nothing but courtesy and hospitality in this gem of a country
June 5th, 2009 at 11:00 am
Whatever Patty, and what are you talking about? I never called you any names on the other site. You are delusional. I will not respond to your idiotic posts any longer. I am telling the truth, you are spouting lies from this so called “father’s” mouth. I can’t wait for you to never show your face on the internet again when all is said and done. Sleep peacefully knowing you are conversing with an abuser.
June 5th, 2009 at 11:12 am
Re: Justgetaninvestigation, post #452……
From: en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Religion_in_Jordan
The Hashemite Kingdom of Jordan is a majority Muslim country, with 92% of the population following Sunni Islam while a small minority of around 2% follow Shia Islam (as well as some Druze). Jordan also has a significant Christian minority, making up around 6% of the population, mainly Greek Orthodox, Catholic or Coptic)
The family is Jewish per your post and they went to a 94% Muslim country for VACATION? What is your hypothesis of anticipated “learning”?
June 5th, 2009 at 11:25 am
Do you see where Jordan is LL Papa? It’s a hop skip and a jump to Isreal. Get a life, please. How you connect the dots is rediculous. Let your friend Oceans speak for you. She’s better at the investigation.
June 5th, 2009 at 11:27 am
Justget… All Patty got wrong was the name of the child Tim Bedwell was charged with and CONVICTED of abducting. A charge for which he did time in prison. No one heard this from the mother. It is on public websites which give criminal background checks.
Please keep your facts straight.
June 5th, 2009 at 11:27 am
Also, if you are using wikpedia, that says a lot about your investigating skills.
June 5th, 2009 at 11:30 am
If this was a vacation… TIM BEDWELL WOULD NOT HAVE BEEN IN PRISON FOR THIS ‘TRIP’ WOULD HE?
UHHH 228 days served and 114 conduct = THIS WAS NO VACATION
I’m thinking pattycake200, the name calling pretty uncivil if you ask me, made them look highly foolish and beyond capable of any credibility.
What a waste of time here… WE’VE PILED ON THE EVIDENCE WITH EXPERTS, DOCTORS, DA’S OFFICE, POLICE, CHILD PSYCHOLOGISTS = ALL AGREEING THIS CHILD IS SAFE.
THERE IS YOUR PROOF – and with the NEW EVALUATION COMPLETED (unlike Justget, june 2 – NOT KNOWING THAT IT WAS DONE…)
The NEW JUDGE AGREES WITH THE EVALUATION, ACCEPTED IT AND THE COURTS ADOPTED IT. JustGet, go look up courts, procedure, acceptance and furthermore HOW LONG AND EXTENSIVE THE 730 EVALUATION IS TO GET DONE. A HIGHLY REGARDED FORENSIC CHILD PSYCHOLOGIST SPECIALIST OUTSIDE THE COUNTY AGREES THE CHILD IS SAFE, AND RECOMMENDED DUSTING RETAIN 100% CUSTODY AND CONNIE have NO custody of her daughter.
THE TRUTH IS THE TRUTH IS THE TRUTH!!! June 30 IS NOT FOR CONNIE, it’s about Connie. The judge will be ruling on a great deal of infractions and orders she HAS NOT complied with.
THIS EVALUATION ESSENTIALLY GIVES THE FATHER PERMANENT CUSTODY. PERMANENT CUSTODY IS PERMANENT. THERE IS NO ABUSE AND WITH OFFICIALS AND EXPERTS OUTSIDE THIS COUNTY RULING IN FAVOR OF THE FATHER – THAT IS PROFOUND.
ENOUGH SAID, Justget, you’re a joke with what you think you know. Goodbye.
June 5th, 2009 at 11:46 am
Re: Justgetaninvestigation, post #453…..
At no point in my post, which you referenced, did I ever say anything about anyone being related? To refresh your memory, my post from djxtreme.wordpress.com, is as follows:
papa813 says:
June 4, 2009 at 12:45p.m.
AnneA from the other site made several posts that began with ANNE AMBROSE HERE. I noticed on the CPC timeline of the mother that she and MICHAEL AMBROSE returned Aaliyah to Dustin…hmmmmmm???
I typically need no help in expressing myself through word choice. I found the name of Ambrose contained in the CPC timeline to be reason for thought, hence hmmmmmm???.
I will assure you that had I noticed the “Lauren Ambrose” or “Jimmy Ambrose” names, which you referred to, as being a part of the CPC timeline, the closing to my post would probably have been hmmmmmm, hmmmmmm?????? for a “double”
June 5th, 2009 at 11:53 am
Permant custody is permanent custody. Basically what this means is the courts will NOT accept any further case regarding custody unless it can be PROVEN there has been a significant change of circumstances AFTER June 30th. Everything prior to June 30th will be done, over, kaput.
June 5th, 2009 at 12:06 pm
“the brook where Jesus was baptised,” – marmite
June 5th, 2009 at 10:58 am
Why would a Jew want to see that? Jesus is not their Messiah.
June 5th, 2009 at 12:17 pm
Patty, we’ll see. You are going to be choking on your words. I can’t wait for it.
June 5th, 2009 at 12:24 pm
Why would you want her choking on her own words? Wouldn’t you be happy if what she has found is the truth?? A not being abused sexually at all?
June 5th, 2009 at 12:33 pm
Re: marmite post #455…….
Without getting into the merits of your referenced article, I respectfully submit to you that it’s dated as Feb 17, 2009.
The Jordan vacation trip of the Bedwell father and children, to which I referred in my post #449 was nine years earlier in 2000. The following article from, en.wikipedia.org/wiki/2000_millennium_attack_plots, is considerably more relevant as to the political climate and terrorist activity of the year 2000.
The Year 2000 attack plots were terrorist attacks planned to occur on or near January 1, 2000: the bombing of four sites in Jordan……In Jordan, members of the group planned to bomb four sites: a fully-booked Radisson hotel in Amman, Jordan; the border between Jordan and Israel; Mount Nebo, a Christian holy site; and a site on the Jordan River where John the Baptist is said to have baptized Jesus. These locations were chosen to target tourists from the United States and Israel. The most active participant was a Boston taxi driver named Raed Hijazi.
On November 30, 1999, Jordanian intelligence intercepted a call between Abu Zubaydah, the leader of the plot, and Khadr Abu Hoshar, a Palestinian militant. In the conversation, Zubaydah stated, “The time for training is over.” Sensing that the attack was imminent, Jordanian police arrested Hoshar and fifteen others on December 12, 1999.
The authorities put twenty eight suspects on trial. Twenty two of them were quickly found guilty. Six of them, including Hijazi, were sentenced to death. Zubaydah was sentenced to death in absentia. Loa’i Mohammad Haj Bakr al-Saqa and Abu Musab al-Zarqawi, were sentenced in absentia in 2002, for their part in the plot which included using poison gas during the bombing.
Particulary in light of a sentence contained in the first paragraph of this article, “These locations were chosen to target tourists from the United States and Israel”, my post #449 requires no further validation.
I repeat, “Who, in their right mind, would ever take their children to a middle east center of terrorism for VACATION?”, especially in the year 2000?
June 5th, 2009 at 12:40 pm
JustGet…It didn’t work out for you cause you’re a flake.
June 5th, 2009 at 12:43 pm
Poor JustGet, you are confusing ME with the one that’s made the decision for this child. There’s nothing further to do, the 730 Evaluation is DONE… DONE deal – awarded the father 100% permanent custody. okay?
There’s NO good ole boys club. We’re dealing with OUT of the County Judge & OUT of the county EXPERTS… A VERY RENOWED highly respected Forensic Child Psychology Expert none the less!!
THIS OUTSIDE GROUP of EXPERTS AND JUDGE have concluded the child is safe. There is NO MORE ARGUMENT HERE whether she’s being abused… she IS NOT being abused by the father. The mother on the other hand, well THERE’S GOOD REASON SHE can ONLY have supervised visits.
I repeat:
PERMANENT CUSTODY IS PERMANENT. THERE IS NO ABUSE AND WITH OFFICIALS AND EXPERTS OUTSIDE THIS COUNTY RULING IN FAVOR OF THE FATHER – THAT IS PROFOUND.
There’s nothing for me to choke on my dear. There’s COUNTLESS experts and NOW SPECIALISTS & JUDGES from the OUTSIDE that’s determined babyA is safe, loved and WILL REMAIN with the father PERMANENTLY.
Not sure what you do not understand about any of this? There’s nothing further that will be done, other than the Judge dealing with Connie and her behavior on June 30. Otherwise this is all OVER AND DONE. ITS SEALED, FINAL, FINISHED.
How could I ever choke? I have the TRUTH on my side. You’ll be waiting an eternity my dear. I only pity you, have no anger… because you’re being used, it’s called a Pasty. That’s very sad actually. Now I’m off and running to enjoy my day.
Its a great thing to know this child is safe & loved & happy.!!! YAY BABYA, that’s what its all about.
June 5th, 2009 at 12:44 pm
Who is Yahshua then?
June 5th, 2009 at 12:49 pm
Aww Beast, and you aren’t? You are the biggest of them all. It didn’t work out for me because I refused to be attacked and being called names by you, the biggest hypocrite on the net that I have ever “met”. You don’t write about facts, you are writing about what Patty is telling you that Dustin is spewing to her. Which are all lies.
StopCon, I would love it if baby A wasn’t being abused, but she is, so I cant wait for Patty to choke on all of her lies. All of you are going to be SILENCED and soon. It’s going to be a beautiful day when that happens.
June 5th, 2009 at 12:54 pm
JustGet…really..Spend the $30 and get the records for yourself. I suppose though according to you then it will all be lies and corrupt officials. We are talking abhout facts in black and white from police and courts. You are talking about ….what?
June 5th, 2009 at 12:55 pm
STOPCONARTISTS…
Maybe she’s been praying BabyA is being abused just so she can be right? Pretty sad she cannot understand how many experts have REALLY looked at this all, including doctors to find BabyA is not a victim of sexual abuse. Connie is a fraud, a scam artist… and a flake.
June 5th, 2009 at 1:00 pm
Again, Patty, we will see.
June 5th, 2009 at 1:02 pm
JustGet, if you only knew the length this Forensic Expert has gone to be certain this child is safe. This renowned child psychologist…
You think some person from outside the COUNTY would put their entire career on the line to protect a molester?
This order makes it permanent. This FORENSIC expert HAS SEEN EVERY SHRED OF EVIDENCE & documentation from ALL SIDES.
ALL OF IT, and still feels the best, safest most loving environment is in the fathers’ home.
Again hon, you’ll be waiting a long time. I DO KNOW THAT FOR SURE. This child will always remain in the father’s care. The father will always have custody, the father will always be the one making the decisions for babyA.
The mother can keep paying for her supervised visits and can keep singing the same ole song. It’s OVER. Whatever orders Connie TRIES to bring to the courts and the new judge now will not be accepted.
I mean you don’t even know what you’re talking about, you didn’t even know this extensive Evaluation was completed. So shut up already, you’re looking pathetic.
June 5th, 2009 at 1:09 pm
have a question JustGet…
where have I lied? My opinions are backed up by police, DA, doctors, experts, and NOW a Forensic Child Psychologist.
SO WHERE is it that I’ve lied about the safety of babyA? How can all these EXPERTS & SPECIALISTS BE WRONG and YOU are right?
You realize how ridiculous you look when you make those statements, don’t you??
I’ve pointed out many times where you were DEAD WRONG. But you just keep babbling.
June 5th, 2009 at 1:21 pm
460.JustGetanInvestigation
June 5th, 2009 at 11:27 am
Also, if you are using wikpedia, that says a lot about your investigating skills.
……………………………………………………
Just Get, If my choice of reference site for response to your posts, Wikipedia, offends your thought process, that was certainly not my intent. Quite frankly I believed it might be one of your favorites due to an endorsement by your ofttimes referenced site’s senior editor on May 5th, 2009.
“Take a look at this article. Now I will say that Associated Content in my mind is about as reliable as Wikipedia”
June 5th, 2009 at 1:27 pm
I won’t hold my breath for Connies version of the truth to be verified as the actual truth.. :)
June 5th, 2009 at 1:29 pm
JustGet. What PROOF do you have that babyA is being abused? You have none other than what you have been TOLD. You haven’t SEEN ANY documentation to PROVE she is being abused. Pattycake has done her own investigating and has actual DOCUMENTATION that backs up her story. What do you have to back up your story? I will say this right now, I AM A FRIEND OF THE FATHER & I’M PROUD OF THE WAY HE HAS HANDLED HIMSELF THROUGHTOUT THIS WHOLE SAGA. He is a great father. I see him interact with his daughter and I see how well she is doing in her fathers home. There is NO abuse and JustGet you haven’t seen this little girl. You have absolutely NO CLUE about what is going on in this childs world. You are the one that will be silenced and we can’t wait!
June 5th, 2009 at 1:37 pm
Jews do not accept Jesus as the messiah because:
1) Jesus did not fulfill the messianic prophecies.
2) Jesus did not embody the personal qualifications of the Messiah.
3) Biblical verses “referring” to Jesus are mistranslations.
4) Jewish belief is based on national revelation.
June 5th, 2009 at 1:51 pm
personally i would love it if this has all been a mistake. It would make me happy to know there has been no abuse, and this baby is/has been where she should be.
June 5th, 2009 at 3:05 pm
Who is Yahshua ?? I haven’t heard that name in this case????
June 5th, 2009 at 3:07 pm
So this stuff is coming from the father?? I thought all this information came from the mother?
Are there court records?
June 5th, 2009 at 7:24 pm
This is C~A and I haven’t been here for a week, internet problems the very day I was typing JUSTGET a really pretty letter…I saved it…..but didn’t get to send it. Hmmm! A week later she is still here arguing a moot point, being catty and degrating STILL!!!!
Your such an angry person JUSTGET. I can’t imagine doing what your doing….everyday all day …spewing hatred and non-factual b.s and the sad thing is …YOU BELIEVE WHAT YOU SAY! How can you form an opinion with NO facts? Unless it is you who has no life, and is willing to converse with people in any way it takes to make you feel mighty and righteous!
Gawd, come back when you have something intelligent and mature to say and some facts to back up your big MOUTH!
I’m outta here…someone let me know when IT gives up and goes away!
June 5th, 2009 at 7:29 pm
JustGetanInvestigation
June 5th, 2009 at 8:44 am
You people amaze me. He was accused of kidnapping HIS children to Jordan in 2000. Connie was 16 at the time and I believe Christen was 18, I haven’t a clue as to how he could even be charged with that.
Just because their mother claims they were kidnapped doesn’t mean that he did.
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
IT’S TIME FOR YOU TO EAT YOUR WORDS!
YOUR LAST SENTENCE ~ THINK ABOUT IT AND THINK ABOUT CONNIE!
CHOKE ON IT!
June 5th, 2009 at 7:31 pm
ABOVE POST ALSO SUBMITTED BY C~A YOUR FAVORITE FAN!
June 6th, 2009 at 12:41 pm
Just get, you said:
“He was accused of kidnapping HIS children to Jordan in 2000. Connie was 16 at the time and I believe Christen was 18, I haven’t a clue as to how he could even be charged with that. Just because their mother claims they were kidnapped doesn’t mean that he did. I mean, you are sitting her saying that when baby A is stating that her “father†is abusing her, you don’t believe her, but you’ll believe Connie’s mother? I don’t understand your logic.”
It seems based on what I have read, that he was not just accused of this, he actually spent time in jail for it. Taking any child across state lines, or out of the country without the full consent of the other custodial parent is indeed kidnapping. There must have been more than just an accusation from an angry mother in order to cause this to result in jail in my opinion.
I see no reason to research this information about Mr. Bedwell. The only relevance to the subject of this child would be in understanding why Connie would not run with her child- if she has seen the net result of taking a child without permission result in jail time she would have been less likely to go that route back when the father began his custody/visitation case while she was in Alaska.
All of this is my opinion only, I do not know the actual circumstances that resulted in the charges, convictions and jail time Mr. Bedwell appears to have served.
June 6th, 2009 at 2:35 pm
JustGet, It seems you have more of an overwhelming need for vengeance toward Patty then you do in seeking truth and justice for baby A.
Your obsession with having those that believe differently then you “choke on their words” only serves to discredits you.
Calm down, and get a grip if you expect anyone to take you seriously! Right now you are just ranting and raving and frankly unbelievable.
June 7th, 2009 at 8:31 am
STOPCONARTISTS – Exactly ~ seems that ol’ justget would rather be right and the baby is being sexually abused then for it not to be true…HOW SICK IS THAT!
June 7th, 2009 at 8:40 am
justget – StopCon, I would love it if baby A wasn’t being abused, but she is, so I cant wait for Patty to choke on all of her lies. All of you are going to be SILENCED and soon. It’s going to be a beautiful day when that happens.
( oh really, WHAT A BEAUTIFUL DAY THAT WILL BE EH! When a child is proven to being molested! What’s wrong with your head! ) STOP MAKING THIS ABOUT YOU!!!!!!
June 7th, 2009 at 12:27 pm
Hi No Reply, I just saw your post regarding not getting any responses to your emails. I received the same form letter from the Govenors office. Thank you for answering. This moderation here kind of mucks things up.
June 7th, 2009 at 5:05 pm
marmite
May 30th, 2009 at 12:12 pm
Didn’t think you could produce…if you could you would…don’t waste my time…I haven’t been on here much and I know I have never said anything your accusing me or beast of …it’s you my dear that needs to stop wasting my time…move along…get over me! I know your hiding behind a new name…that’s ok…i don’t really care to know who you are! I don’t hide, your lack of producing anything to back up your accusations is very telling on who you are…unless there are two of you at bnn that run your mouth without anything to back it up! LOL
June 8th, 2009 at 2:14 am
C~A You obviously didnt read my May 30th post slowly enough to understand it so I’ll repeat it again just for you.
In response to C~A please read this blog (and the others)from the beginning, I suggest you take your time reading your own posts for evidence of your weird and vindictive rants.
It is clear you are have issues and this situation just happens to be your latest outlet to release that unresolved anger. I seriously suggest counselling.
To the rest of your gang please channel your energies into something positive. All we are asking for is an independant investigation.
C~A, Please don’t bother to respond to me, I’m not vaguely interested in anything you have to say. Your responses are neither intelligent or helpful to the situation.
I repeat once more – This is about Aaliyah not about you!
June 8th, 2009 at 8:24 am
then quit addressing me marmite! Your very repetative and again, I do not need to re-read my own posts! Your a lost cause…let it go! If you want to shoot your mouth off about me, produce your proof of your accusations…otherwise keep your mouth shut! I have never made it about me…your a joke! Go back to your hole and leave me alone..GOT IT!
June 8th, 2009 at 8:35 am
All of you have no proof that he is not abusing baby A. You can sit there and tell me all you know from the past investigations. It does not matter. It was a biased investigation and because Connie did not have a lawyer throughout, there are things that should have happened that did not. I am so tired of hearing your “proof”. It is in the past. We will see what happens now, today, in the present. You all have no idea what is going on and what is happening. I, however, do. And to the person who is a personal friend of the “father”, haven’t you ever heard someone say when they find out that their friend does something horrible “I can’t believe he did this, they were such a nice person. It doesn’t make sense”? This is what abusers do, they manipulate, they hide things. They are good at showing you what you want to see. I believe this is happening to the baby, and nothing, not ANYTHING any of you have to say to me will EVER change my mind. I will never stop fighting as long as baby A needs me.
C~A and Beast, move on to something new. You have nothing intelligent to say regarding this case – move on. This is the very last time I will respond to anything you say.
June 8th, 2009 at 8:35 am
and another thing, how do I make it about me anyway, I was done with the case from the beginning…NO PROOF! I hardly spend time on it …I spend my time on cases that are actually real and have proof that a child is either missing, dead or abused! This story is a waste of time..which is why you are so hell bent on spending all your time on it…cause that is all you are…A WASTE OF TIME!
June 8th, 2009 at 8:42 am
Sadstuff, someone was asking about Jesus and the Jewish religion:
Yahshua is a transliteration of the original Hebrew or Aramaic name of Jesus commonly used by individuals in the Sacred Name religious movement out of Christianity. Those who follow Sacred Name teachings (such as the Assemblies of Yahweh) believe that it is essential to salvation to use the correct pronunciation of the name of the one most Christians call “Jesus”. It is believed by some that this is the correct transliteration of the Hebrew יהושע (yod-he-waw-shin-ayin – usually transliterated as Y’hoshua or sometimes Yahoshua), which means “Yahweh is Salvation.”
June 8th, 2009 at 9:17 am
justgetinvestigation – when I read throughout here you have been wrong on almost everything. There was just a current investigation (not past) completed with a forensic psychologist that is very well respected in their field. This expert has no motive nor bias and came from out side of Placer County. It was very thorough therefore Connie cannot keep making claims about no new investigation. Due to the child psyc forensic findings Dustin was told by the courts and Judge Smith his kid is staying with him and Connie lost all her rights. The rest of the BS your hashing is old news and has since been addressed by Judge Smith. Maybe you should take up knitting because supporting a mom you have never met is making you look very uneducated to us who know whats happening.
June 8th, 2009 at 11:39 am
“There is no proof that he is not abusing Baby A”…
How are eleven investigations by CPS, the police & the courts not proof?
What would be proof that someone was not abusing someone else? What would that proof consist of?
At what point does the accuser stop accusing?
And, are you, personally, capable of seeing the emotional, behavioral & developmental damage done – not to the accused, but to the child – by the accusing, if it is not true, whether mom believes it to be true or not? And, are you able to see how the damage done to the child multiplies with each new investigation once the accusations have been shown to be unfounded?
Is there some point in the future appeal after appeal, accusation after escalated accusation, where even her best friend will be able to say, “Look honey, it’s time to give up. It’s time to move on. Your baby is healthy & normal. Maybe you misread some of the signals here. You have every right to your feelings, but you might be causing problems for baby if you don’t step back & see that you might be wrong about this. Time to start healing and building a good relationship with her and her father, as a co-parent, before it’s too late for you to be a positive influence in her life at all. She needs you. As a parent, not as a broken adult who was in the wrong adult relationship for her.”
June 8th, 2009 at 1:46 pm
JustGet… You say that you do know what is going on, really from who? Obviously a very reliable source right? There was a FULL THOUROUGH INVESTIGATION! It doesn’t matter that the mother didn’t have an attorney. There is a standard procedure that the investigators follow, it doesn’t matter if both parties have attorneys or not! They don’t base their investigations on who has an attorney and who doesn’t. Your excuses are lame. All you “mother supporters” say that this baby is afraid of her father, right? I KNOW FOR A FACT that this baby is NOT afraid of her father. Have you seen this little girl?? I think not!!
You stated: Thank you Patty for retracting your false allegations of Tim abducting baby A to Jordan. He was accused of kidnapping HIS children to Jordan in 2000. Connie was 16 at the time and I believe Christen was 18, I haven’t a clue as to how he could even be charged with that. Just because their mother claims they were kidnapped doesn’t mean that he did. I mean, you are sitting her saying that when baby A is stating that her “father†is abusing her, you don’t believe her, but you’ll believe Connie’s mother? I don’t understand your logic.
Are you serious? He was CONVICTED AND SERVED JAIL TIME!!! Here, also there was an investigation done for him to have been convicted in a court of law. Oh wait, was this also a “good ol boys” county? Did Connies mother have so much money that she also had all the professionals in her pocket?
You are rediculous!
June 8th, 2009 at 5:35 pm
Just get,
“You all have no idea what is going on and what is happening. I, however, do”
So what inside information do you have about what is going on? Any new information on the status would be appreciated.
Has Connie resumed her visitation? How is that going?
Why are all previous investigations biased? Has Connie’s attorney submitted the family statements to the courts yet? Does Connie know that these statements are not actual evidence without some sort of medical/psychological proof to back them up? Is the family saying there has been no 730 exam done?
What does this baby’s own doctor say about the physical/sexual abuse? The rashes or the many reports of pain (in her private parts), surely she was seen for this multiple times? Her own doctor can’t be considered corrupt, as his office called to tell Connie that Dustin had picked up the baby’s medical records from his office.
How long has the baby been in therapy? Does she still go? I had read that she has been seeing a therapist for a year. Is that true? What does this therapist say? Surely after that long, she would be able to confirm sexual abuse is ongoing and by law report it to the police?
How did Connie’s meeting with the D.A.(who handles child abuse cases) on June 2 go? Did it happen or was it mis-communicated to KarenCCC? Is there still charges ‘pending’ against Dustin for abuse?
June 8th, 2009 at 8:33 pm
I just saw this on the saveaaliyah.com website:
LOCAL NEWSPAPER WHERE THE MOLESTING TAKES PLACE
The mother was interviewed for an hour and a half with complete answers and full details to the case. The Auburn Journal told BloggerNews.Net that they had to stay in the good graces of the local police. Therefore details were left out and information supporting Aaliyah and her mother on the comment section were taken off by The Auburn Journal. Placer County spells corruption. To answer the question left out by AJ- the ONLY reason the child was taken from the mother was because the mother constantly told the court and proper authorities of what the child was saying about her father. It is documented in the court file on July 3, 2008.
June 8th, 2009 at 9:06 pm
A witness letter from a Registered Nurse:
To whom it may concern:
I am writing this letter on the behalf of Aaliyah Bedwell and Connie Bedwell which I have personally gotten to know over the last 2 years. I have been a registered nurse at X Medical Center at which I am currently employed for the last 4 years. In my field of work and training I perceive myself as having an insight to people and their character. I am completely perplexed by some of the judgments made in this court case.
Connie has always shown her incredible love for Aaliyah and her overwhelming concern for her well being has shown. I find it completely devastating as well as poor judgment to take this little girl from her loving and caring mother. This action I feel is detrimental to the child’s well being.
Coming from a medical background and studying adult and child psychology the actions and words from Aaliyah clearly show the amount of stress she is experiencing such as regressing in potty training. After reviewing the video of Aaliyah describing what is happening while in the care of her father, it is very clear that this 2 year old child is describing male genitalia without question. Aaliyah without being coached was able to describe the act of falachio and the clean up after the fact. She actually states “he has to wipe it off with like a napkin.†After she describes how it chokes her making a coughing sound. A 2 year old cannot talk in so much detail for 27 minutes, uncoached, refusing to lie in a bed unless she has experienced this traumatic event. I feel it would be in the best interest of Aaliyah if the court actually took the time to review this video and hear the cry out for help from a defenseless 2 year old child.
I feel this case has been mismanaged and lost the insight of what the focus is ….Aaliyah! Everyone involved supporting Connie wants what is in the best interest for this little girl. I am embarrassed for the fact we trust and use Child Protective Services and the court system to yes in deed protect those who can not protect themselves. In Connie’s case I feel there has been negligence in the system. If the “daddy’s worm,†video presented by the mother was actually reviewed by the court I would like to think that the father would be prosecuted not receiving full custody of the child.
I have not been asked to write a letter or give my opinion, but in my profession I am an advocate for people whom I don’t know. Here in this case I wish to be an advocate for a little girl and her mother. I hope the court system will do the same and make this right for the best interest of Aaliyah. Thank you.
I declare under the penalty of perjury under the laws of the state of California that the foregoing is true and correct.
June 8th, 2009 at 9:08 pm
Have you seen the video of the visitation exchanges:
youtube.com/watch?v=7VWzfM14Ha4
This baby CLEARLY does not like her father. She won’t look at him NOR will she touch him. Watch her hands…..poor sweet baby.
June 8th, 2009 at 9:24 pm
Just Get,
So this means that the Bedwel’s think that the newspaper is also corrupt. She is accusing them of lying about her comments? Where they state she declined to answer??
Some comments in support of the father were also removed by the AJ. Comments were screened for abuse and removed. Unfortunately many of the abusive comments I read and saw removed were from the Mother’s supporters (but not all). Libelous comments were also removed.
As near as I can tell, the reason the child was taken away by the Step program is because she did not comply with the requirements of the program. She needed to attend classes and she needed to cooperate with the parenting plan. She refused to believe there was anything else besides abuse going on. She made reference to her opinions of the Step program meeting she had, and was frustrated they told her she was ‘hyper’ (I take that to mean hyper-aware- seeing abuse in everything) and could be wrong. Her reaction in that meeting is most likely key to the decision to remove her custody.
Since we can’t read the court files online, we will have to wait until someone can provide copies. I do not believe family court records are available to the public, so this will not happen until the restraining order is lifted I am guessing.
The other reason she was taken away is because no facts supporting the claims of abuse where found. There are no medical reports supporting physical abuse, and none finding physical signs of molestation (ie – anal or vaginal abuse) by medical professionals. Apparently there are also none from the psychological testing done either.
Once again, I would think with all the claims of physical pain the child expressed(my butt hurts, my pee-pee hurts) there would have been many medical doctor visits that would be looking for the causes of the pain. No results of these visits are mentioned by Connie. Why is that?
June 8th, 2009 at 9:35 pm
It is also possible that the Auburn Journal stuck to verifiable facts. And limited the article itself to comments from the mother and the authorities they could get responses and quotes from. It stated her opinions, but did not portray them as factual. That was the proper thing to do. I do not know what Connie expected them to do- believe all of what she said without checking the facts and commit libel? No where did I see them lie about what Connie said.
How often do you see news articles with peoples opinions (especially of sexual abuse that has not been proven) being stated as facts? Witnesses to crimes are quoted, sources like LE are quoted, but no where do you see speculative opinion in a newspaper(except in the editorial and opinions pages).
Connie could have talked for hours, and yet only provided a few details that could actually be printed in a paper. Unlike BNN and individuals, newspapers are supposed to be unbiased. They are not supposed to slant the news to only provide one persons viewpoints. The Bedwell’s seem to have issues with those who do not agree 100% with their views.
June 8th, 2009 at 9:44 pm
There must be actual legal grounds for removing a parents custody altogether. These would actually be documented in the legal records and, possibly, in the amended custody agreement. If ‘Reporting suspected abuse to the court’ is the actual reason documented in the custody agreements and the documentation of the legal decision & proceedings, then she certainly does have a case for appeal.
I’m pretty sure that’s not what’s documented, though. They may be corrupt, but I’m sure they are not stupid.
June 8th, 2009 at 9:48 pm
TryADifferentPointOfView
June 8th, 2009 at 11:39 am
“There is no proof that he is not abusing Baby Aâ€â€¦
How are eleven investigations by CPS, the police & the courts not proof?
What would be proof that someone was not abusing someone else? What would that proof consist of?
At what point does the accuser stop accusing?
And, are you, personally, capable of seeing the emotional, behavioral & developmental damage done – not to the accused, but to the child – by the accusing, if it is not true, whether mom believes it to be true or not? And, are you able to see how the damage done to the child multiplies with each new investigation once the accusations have been shown to be unfounded?
Is there some point in the future appeal after appeal, accusation after escalated accusation, where even her best friend will be able to say, “Look honey, it’s time to give up. It’s time to move on. Your baby is healthy & normal. Maybe you misread some of the signals here. You have every right to your feelings, but you might be causing problems for baby if you don’t step back & see that you might be wrong about this. Time to start healing and building a good relationship with her and her father, as a co-parent, before it’s too late for you to be a positive influence in her life at all. She needs you. As a parent, not as a broken adult who was in the wrong adult relationship for her.â€
Excellent post! Finally a voice of reason!
June 8th, 2009 at 9:53 pm
Dustinfriend
June 8th, 2009 at 9:17 am
….and Connie lost all her rights.
Dustinfriend, does this mean Connies parental rights were revoked and the info we read about the judges ordering supervised visitation to be agreed upon two days after the last court date is untrue? If so, it would make sense the next court date would be for criminal charges against Connie for the information she has posted online.
Please clarify, if you can, what you mean by Connie lost ALL her rights. Thank you.
WITE
June 8th, 2009 at 10:15 pm
JustGetanInvestigation
June 8th, 2009 at 8:33 pm
The only way you can make the comment with absolute certainty:
“To answer the question left out by AJ- the ONLY reason the child was taken from the mother was because the mother constantly told the court and proper authorities of what the child was saying about her father. It is documented in the court file on July 3, 2008.”
Is if you personally saw the court file from July 3,2008. My guess is you have not. If you have, then by all means start posting facts to back up your opinions. without fact to back it up your thoughts are nothing other than an opinion.
I even asked Mr. Bedwell for proof his daughter was turned away from a medical doctor when requesting an examination of A for abuse. Never got it. Doubt it exists, if so it would have been posted to back up facts. Instead, when asked for proof you people go silent, dodge reasonable questions and start spouting off your unfounded opinions as they can not be supported with proof.
June 8th, 2009 at 10:59 pm
Courts need legitimate reasons to remove custody from a parent. Those reasons are recorded in the documentation of the court proceedings, the judges decision, the psychological reports and, possibly, in the amended custody agreement.
“Reporting suspected abuse to the courts and other authorities” is not grounds for removing custody from a parent and would not be documented in any legal capacity. At least, not on it’s own. Perhaps something more like, “Mother continues to make false claims of abuse against the father, despite the lack of evidence and the fact that these claims are, repeatedly, unsupported by psychological evaluations of the child and households. Mother shows an inability to effectively co-parent with the child’s father, in the child’s best interest. She repeatedly shows only an unhealthy animosity towards her child’s father, which cause emotional distress for her child.”
But, a simple ‘she keeps telling on him so we’re taking custody away’ wouldn’t signify corruption on the part of the legal system, it would signify stupidity. If they’re smart enough to be corrupt, they’re smart enough to cover up their corruption with actual legal terminology & procedure.
June 9th, 2009 at 3:01 am
From Adoption.com
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I’ve deleted what we know does not exist in this case, chronic alcohol and drug abuse, information pertaining to siblings, child murder……
While the father has been cleared as a suspect and CASE CLOSED according to Sargent Pecoraro, I still left info pertaining to ‘sexual abuse’.
What is of interest here, is abuse, as well as possible reunification as well as unwillingness to get help for such things as mental disorders etc.
My apologies for not adding a link due to computer problems on my end. A google search of California grounds for termination of parental rights will get you to the info from adoption.com
Grounds for Termination of Parental Rights California
Statute: Welf. & Inst. Code §§ 361.5(b), (h), (i); 366.26(c)(1)
Circumstances That Are Grounds for Termination
Abuse/Neglect
Mental Illness or Deficiency
Felony Conviction/Incarceration
Failure of Reasonable Efforts
Sexual Abuse
Child Judged in Need of Services/Dependent
Child’s Best Interest
Circumstances That Are Not Grounds for Termination
Failure to Establish Paternity
Child in care 15 of 22 months (or less)
Cal. Welf. and Inst. Code § 361.5(b), (h), (i) (West, WESTLAW through Cal. 2003 Legis. Serv., Ch. 28)
Reunification services need not be provided to a parent or guardian described in this subdivision when the court finds, by clear and convincing evidence, any of the following:
That the parent or guardian is suffering from a mental disability that renders him or her incapable of utilizing those services;
That the child or a sibling of the child has been previously adjudicated a dependent as a result of physical or sexual abuse, that following that adjudication the child had been removed from the custody of his or her parent or guardian, that the child has been returned to the custody of the parent or guardian from whom the child had been taken originally, and that the child is being removed due to additional physical or sexual abuse;
That the child was brought within the jurisdiction of the court because of the conduct of that parent or guardian;
That the child has been adjudicated a dependent as a result of severe sexual abuse or the infliction of severe physical harm to the child, a sibling, as defined above, by a parent or guardian, and the court makes a factual finding that it would not benefit the child to pursue reunification services with the offending parent or guardian;
That the parent or guardian of the child has been convicted of a violent felony;
That the parent or guardian of the child has advised the court that he or she is not interested in receiving family maintenance or family reunification services or having the child returned to or placed in his or her custody and does not wish to receive family maintenance or reunification services;
That the parent or guardian has on one or more occasions willfully abducted the child or child’s sibling from his or her placement and refused to disclose the child’s or child’s sibling whereabouts, refused to return physical custody of the child or child’s sibling to his or her placement, or refused to return physical custody of the child or child’s sibling to the social worker.
In determining whether reunification services will benefit the child, the court shall consider any information it deems relevant, including the following factors:
The specific act or omission comprising the severe sexual abuse or the severe physical harm inflicted on the child or the child’s sibling;
The circumstances under which the abuse or harm was inflicted on the child or the child’s sibling;
The severity of the emotional trauma suffered by the child or the child’s sibling;
Any history of abuse of other children by the offending parent or guardian;
The likelihood that the child may be safely returned to the care of the offending parent or guardian within 12 months with no continuing supervision;
Unfortunately, based on much of what we have read it appears Connie does meet more of the above than does her daughters daddy.
Hmmmm……
June 9th, 2009 at 3:04 am
I meant to snip more, such as failure to establish paternity. sorry all.
June 9th, 2009 at 7:40 am
To you all, you will have to just sit and be patient for the new facts to come out. They will be here soon, promise. I don’t have hours to sit here and refute all of your “OLD” information. HUH?? I do not wish to answer any of your questions. Not that I can right now anyway. Patience is a virtue. I am just posting, here, information that is elsewhere so people have the information. I’m not here to debate with anyone.
June 9th, 2009 at 7:45 am
And as far as I know, Connie is not the one that has taken Dustin to court, it has been the other way around for almost 2.5 years. I can’t be 100% sure, but from what I have heard and been told, I believe Dustin is the one that files the court petitions. So whoever said something to the affect that Connie keeps bringing these allegations to court, it isn’t quite true.
June 9th, 2009 at 10:37 am
Dustin keeps going to court because of Connies sick allegations. He’s protecting his kid for good reason.
Justget you’re a load of crock with your soon postings. I know whats coming down on June 30 against Connie. If she wants to get in one last attack on Dustin it will help his case even more so tell her to go for it. You’ve been wrong on almost all your posts here and you expect everyone to believe your pile?
June 9th, 2009 at 11:33 am
In custody cases, petitions are most often brought forth by the party who is attempting to work civilly as a co-parent within the bounds of the mutually agreed upon custody agreement (or the one set by the court, if a mutually agreed upon agreement is not possible or has been shown to be not in the best interests of the child).
The parent who is working within the bounds of the agreement will respectfully follow proceedings that the judge asked them to follow when they signed the custody agreement. If the other parent is *not* respecting the custody agreement, they will bring a petition before the court for the judge to rule on.
Conversely, the parent who does not respect the courts and who does not honor the commitment that they made when signing the original custody agreement wouldn’t bring a petition before the court to ‘tell on themselves’ for breaking the agreement that they made, would they? They would just go ahead & do whatever they want.
Blaming the father for the fact that this is being dragged out due to the father’s bringing petitions before the court, asking the judge to civilly rule on the matter of mother’s transgressions against the agreement they joined into, is ridiculous.
That’s like blaming the police for wasting the murderer’s time by bringing the criminal before the courts to have justice served against him.
June 9th, 2009 at 11:51 am
My husband’s ex lost primary residency because she completely ignored the parenting agreement doing whatever she wanted, showing contempt for the court by ignoring the agreement she made with the court and showing that she was unable to respect her child’s relationship with her father.
In order to try to be civil & flexible, to respect his child’s relationship with her mother and to respect his child’s right to a stress-free childhood, my husband would often let the little things slide, as his ex ignored the parenting agreement. But, for the big things, the things where she was obviously causing emotional harm to their child or attempting to severely limit his parenting time with their child, he would follow the agreement they made in court, bringing the issue to mediation and then, when that failed, petitioning the court.
His ex would have had no reason or issues to bring a petition to court. He never showed contempt for the parenting agreement.
June 9th, 2009 at 12:44 pm
Just Get, You said “HUH?? I do not wish to answer any of your questions. Not that I can right now anyway. Patience is a virtue.”
I can be patient and wait for answers. I appreciate the reply. I really do not expect you to have all the answers, but you alluded to having some information that the rest of us searching the internet about this case didn’t have (“You all have no idea what is going on and what is happening. I, however, do”).
The questions I asked remain however:
Has Connie resumed her visitation? How is that going?
Why are all previous investigations biased? Has Connie’s attorney submitted the family statements to the courts yet? Does Connie know that these statements are not actual evidence without some sort of medical/psychological proof to back them up? Is the family saying there has been no 730 exam done?
What does this baby’s own doctor say about the physical/sexual abuse? The rashes or the many reports of pain (in her private parts), surely she was seen for this multiple times? Her own doctor can’t be considered corrupt, as his office called to tell Connie that Dustin had picked up the baby’s medical records from his office.
How long has the baby been in therapy? Does she still go? I had read that she has been seeing a therapist for a year. Is that true? What does this therapist say? Surely after that long, she would be able to confirm sexual abuse is ongoing and by law report it to the police?
How did Connie’s meeting with the D.A.(who handles child abuse cases) on June 2 go? Did it happen or was it mis-communicated to KarenCCC? Is there still charges ‘pending’ against Dustin for abuse?
June 9th, 2009 at 12:51 pm
I do not believe all parental rights for this mother have been terminated. She may not currently have custodial rights, but she was supposed to get her supervised visitation rights back after the June 1 court date. I had been told that Connie had indeed found another facility to use, and that the only holdup was Amara returning calls to arrange it. Since the judge was said to have ordered the attorneys to make these visitation arrangements within I believe 2 days (June 3) Connie should be able to see the baby.
June 9th, 2009 at 2:42 pm
TryaDifferentPointofView said:
[How are eleven investigations by CPS, the police & the courts not proof?
What would be proof that someone was not abusing someone else? What would that proof consist of?
At what point does the accuser stop accusing?
And, are you, personally, capable of seeing the emotional, behavioral & developmental damage done - not to the accused, but to the child - by the accusing, if it is not true, whether mom believes it to be true or not? And, are you able to see how the damage done to the child multiplies with each new investigation once the accusations have been shown to be unfounded?
Is there some point in the future appeal after appeal, accusation after escalated accusation, where even her best friend will be able to say, “Look honey, it’s time to give up. It’s time to move on. Your baby is healthy & normal. Maybe you misread some of the signals here. You have every right to your feelings, but you might be causing problems for baby if you don’t step back & see that you might be wrong about this. Time to start healing and building a good relationship with her and her father, as a co-parent, before it’s too late for you to be a positive influence in her life at all. She needs you. As a parent, not as a broken adult who was in the wrong adult relationship for her.†]
Brilliant post!
June 9th, 2009 at 5:33 pm
Last time I checked JustGET… you didn’t even realize there WAS a 730 evaluation.
Certainly NOT OLD INFO IS IT NOW?
THE COURTS already adopted the 730 eval. which means they agree with all recommendations, the most important being there’s NO abuse of BabyA and Dustin retains 100% custody. What a pity you didn’t know about that NEW tidbit, as I look up to June 2 of your post and see how oblivious you are.
Bottom line the courts continue to side with the dad and this not so clever internet campaign has backfired on Connie. She should ask her daddy about ways of jail life, she may need the tips.
Pretty sick that a mother would ever withhold NEW evidence when her child is supposedly being molested. Maybe she’s had to take time to manufacture more evidence.
I can’t be bothered to post here, anyone else want to debate with me, you know where to find me. At least that place isn’t ARCHIVED like here. lol
June 10th, 2009 at 7:32 am
Patty, good.
Huh?? Visitations have not been started, as far as I know. The judge ordered to petition an ex parte if they were not, so I assume that is what they are doing. I do not know what happened in the appointment with the DA. I’m not sure if they baby is still seeing a psychologist, I sure hope so. And I don’t think there were any charges pending against Dustin when the judge told Connie and her lawyer that there was an ongoing investigation against him. There just hasn’t been too much information as of now. I have been told to be patient, so that is what I have been saying, and others who are helping in baby A’s case. We just feel that we need to put the information we do know on the new “articles” regarding this case.
June 10th, 2009 at 7:53 am
Stepmom, all I was saying is that Connie was told to stop making these allegations towards the “father”. Everytime she sees her baby and her baby is still saying that her “father” is abusing her and playing the games that she plays, she keeps on telling it. That’s what they are saying about her not going by court orders. I would do the same thing in all honesty. I would never stop. People don’t tell all the facts. And then they disect her words and twist them. How many cases have there been where CPS has dropped the ball on a child and that child ends up really hurt or dead? Every bruise that was documented on this child, CPS said that they couldn’t determine when or how it happened, even though the child stated her “daddy kicked her in the back” or whatever. So 11 “investigations” means nothing to me. Even if people think that Connie is the one telling her child to say these things (which baby A did say that, but only after she was with her father for a week) why wasn’t there an investigation into that? They just claimed she was doing it. A judge told Connie that she did not have to participate in the “classes” where she would have to co-parent with an alleged child abuser. She had told the judge that she did not want to sit in a room with him, which is what they would have to do. I agree that what I say is just hear-say, but I believe her. If there wasn’t a restraining order in place to where she could put forth the information that is needed in order to prove all of this, I wouldn’t even be here helping this baby. I refuse to fight with anyone any longer. But with all the “proof” these people claim to have against Connie, I think they should post it. I personally do not have the documentation of any court papers, but have seen a few. I have not seen anything regarding the proof these people have about Connie lying. And it doesn’t matter what type of religion Connie and her family are. Now they are disecting and assuming what they practice. Someone asked a question, I answered it, and now these people are in a cult. Nothing that Tim has done should matter regarding baby A or Connie. I heard the story about what happened in Jordan, it’s all irrelevant. Connie is not Tim. And in my opinion what Tim did isn’t how they are protraying it to be. No one was there. Not one of these people here can say for a fact that Tim kidnapped his children to Jordan. There are so many men and women accused of doing this, just because he was convicted of it doesn’t make it true. There is a man that just sat in prison for 27 years for a murder he did not commit. There were three lawyers that knew this, but left him in jail because of client/lawyer priviledges. Innocent people go to jail everyday. If Tim served 200 days, like they say he did, then he served his time and has paid his dues. But it still doesn’t mean he did what his ex-wife claims. This is all useless information anyway. This is about baby A. Not all of the Bedwells.
June 10th, 2009 at 10:46 am
Why are you posting alone Justget? Have you taken up knitting yet because everything you write is wrong information.
June 10th, 2009 at 12:25 pm
Just because there is an exception to every thing doesn’t mean this whole A case is the exception.. 11 CPS INVESTIGATIONS.. 730 Exam just completed..
Tim Bedwell was convicted for kidnapping..
Why all these excuses for people you DO NOT know?? Christ I hope you all think with your brains and look at the facts instead of what a woman you never met in your life says. You all are sucked in because a child is supposively being hurt.. I really feel sorry for you all.. this will all wash away and you will still be sitting there defending and being manipulated.
Its all black and white.. Analyze the facts you do know.. Not what she said but what has been done.
Everyone who revels in this whole conspiracy and corruption of a whole county needs to go back to reading fictional books..
The reason someone would look at Tim’s criminal background and his psyche would be the fact he help raise this woman who alleges abuse is happening. So if a mentally unstable person were to raise a child.. there could be emotional and mental instability in the child aka Connie.
June 10th, 2009 at 1:26 pm
Justgetaninvestigation: Is there anything that WOULD convince you that the father is innocent?
At first, the allegations are “They haven’t investigated.” Then we come to find out, they HAVE investigated, 11 times, and it didn’t go the mother’s way.
The original allegation was “CPS and Law Enforcement are part of a good-ol-boy’s club and they’re in on suppressing the TRUTH.” Now it turns out that the out-of-county judge and specialists are agreeing with the original assessment and ruling against the mother. Are they in the good-ol-boy’s network too?
Frankly I think that Ms. Bedwell’s supporters are going to continue to ignore any evidence that is contrary to their beliefs and will persist in harassing Placer County officials until Ms. Bedwell loses all custody or is prosecuted for unleashing this storm of public interference on their county. The wheels of justice do move exceedingly slowly, and I think there will be profound repercussions to Ms. Bedwell’s internet campaign against the father—it’s only a matter of time.
June 10th, 2009 at 1:56 pm
Thank you for those answers JustGet.
So Connie still does not have her visitation back as far as you know. Her lawyer should have filed an ex-parte for her after 2 days. An Ex-parte hearing would not be waiting until June 30. She should have had her visitation back- that is just not right!
I do have to correct you about the father having this child before any of the MDIC interviews. If you look at the time line, Connie had her child before these interviews. That would be plenty of time for her to “unbrainwash” (her term) this child before the exams. She was told to give the father the child on June10, and got her back June 15, she makes note of being told by police she did not have to give Dustin the child on June 19, and the MDIC interview was June 23. SO she had just had the child for 8 days. Same thing for the MDIC on Feb 26, 2008. At this point Dustin was only seeing the child for short visits.
If you are right about the judge telling Connie she did not have to participate in the Step program, then that should not be the reason she lost custody of her child Jul 3, 2008. It will be interesting to find out why the Step program took the child away. And what the actual legal reason was.
As far as trying to tell people what you know, tell them where your source is. Here, let me help. People that are reading here already know about this (it is an archived blog), but just in case- read the saveaaliyah blog- there are links there to everything the family says, and has in the way of proof. To read statements from the Bedwells and others supporting this mother- go to Child Protection Community- links available on the saveaaliyah site.
LOL- as far as your take on Tim- I agree their religious beliefs and his criminal record do not apply- but it all came up because you and Marmite tried to say that it was not a kidnapping. If you take a child across state lines or country borders without the permission of the other custodial parent, or you do not return on the pre-arranged date with said child- It is indeed kidnapping. There was a trial, there was a sentence, and Mr. Bedwell went to jail. There are no gray areas here. You defeat your purpose by even being pulled into that discussion. It is not a matter of portraying Tim as doing anything. The jail term is a FACT. The charges fit the timing of the trip to Jordan with a then underaged Connie. Sounds like he had a contentious divorce and custody battle. It is what Connie grew up with. But please do not try to say he was innocent or try to blame the ex-wife- this was not in the ‘corrupt’ courts of Placer county. This was a federal case- you know crossing state lines or borders makes it federal. How would you feel if your ex took your children to another country or did not return on time with your children?
June 10th, 2009 at 2:06 pm
Frome AnneA:
I have more anger then frustration right now. Every day that goes by, Aaliyah is STILL in a living hell. I can’t believe Connie’s attorney will let this go on until June 30th. He needs to work on getting that child OUT of that home NOW! Maybe we need to start writing, emailing and faxing again. Yes the courts seem to be listening to Connie now but she still has NOT had the opportunity to present the evidence she has to anyone with the power to pull that baby out of the Worm’s custody. We should NOT stop until this one little girl is safe. We have not been able to help any of the other children. Partly because most of the mothers in some of these other cases are part of the problem. This mother is the solution to her child’s victimization and we MUST support her any way we can.
This story has opponents, sadly many of them, are advocates for children. I don’t know how they can in good conscience, claim they advocate for children.
Nor do I buy the rightous indignation they dogmatically spew while attacking Connie and defending the Worm. I have watched and rewatched the Daddy’s Worm video, 27 minutes of a 2 year old, telling her mother and auntie about her daddy’s abuse of her. NOT ONCE, did I hear any coaching or interjecting by either of the women in the room. In fact I clearly saw a mother whose heart was breaking. She was doing her best to keep her child from seeing just how upset she really was. I saw a little girl who used her doll to express her wants and fears, such as the doll was hungry. Aaliyah wanted something to eat. The doll was afraid. Both Connie and her sister, tried to redirect Aaliyah’s attention. While Aaliyiah ate one of the women talked to the child about a lost toy, but Aaliyah would NOT be detoured. She was determined to tell her mother what was happening to her. Later Connie tried to get Aaliyah to go to sleep. Still this little girl would not be denied the opportunity she had to try and stop her father’s abuse. 27 continuous minutes of a 2 year old talking about things NO CHILD should know about.
Giving facts and details that adults would NEVER think to say while coaching a child. Children who have been coached will give FEW if any actual facts or details. A mother who uses a child to get back at the father tell the child, tell them daddy touched you on your private parts. She may even throw in its yucky but NO CASE I have seen in over 40 years of experience, that has EVER been this detailed and fact filled UNLESS the was abuse happening. The father calling his anatomy the Worm and then using baby Einstien’s worm to make the child sound mixed up, should she tell anyone. This is a common practice among pedophiles, it’s all part of his manipulation of this child. The best way NOT to get caught is to confuse the child. Confusion is a pedophiles BEST friend.
When a man rapes a woman, he uses fear and guilt and while fear is also a big part of a pedohile’s MO, confusion is the most reliable. A child can’t explain anything to anyone, if what she says makes no sense. He intentionally teaches her the senseless, anything to confuse the facts. It has worked for generations. Adults deal in facts and things that make sense. If a child conquers her fears enough to tell on her abuser, he has already programed that child by confusing her on every issue. Pedophiles have 2 goals, having sex with children and not getting caught. Making sure the child is confused allows him to accomplish both.
This case is a little different then other cases I have seen over the years. Normally the pedophile being older and therefore wiser then the child, usually is completely successful. In this case, its unfortunate for the Worm, but his victim, Aaliyah is smarter than he is!!! This is one very special and bright little girl, the sky is the limit for what she may give the world, if she gets the chance.
Connie Bedwell needs and DESERVES our support. We see so many other mothers allowing and in some cases participating in the abuse of their young children. Then we see the extremes that Connie has been forced to go to, just to try and protect her child. We can’t call ourselves advocates for children and NOT defend her. Those who want to attack her, will continue to do it. In my opinion they can advocate for children with the Anthony’s. They all have the same mind set. To me this whole issue is a little bit like the belief in God, there is no sitting on the fence. You either believe or you don’t. But don’t tell me you are an advocate for children and then attack a mother who is fighting for her child. There is NO evidence that shows Connie is trying to get even with the Worm. In fact there is NO proof she has ever done anything except try to keep her child’s father in her child’s life. The fact that she was safely in Alaska and returned on her own to California PROVES she was not trying to eliminate the father from Aaliyah or his family. THAT IS THE ONE UNDENIABLE FACT, in this case. All this other crap is theories and lies brought in the picture by the Worm and his supporters to, here I go, CONFUSE the issues and facts of this situation.
Connie Bedwell and her entire family have been fighting a corrupt justice system, the Worm and all his supporters, his attorney and now she has to fight people who CLAIM to be advocates for children. The Worm must be having a good laugh at all these fine folks who say they advocate for children. He has managed to settle the question of who they believe him, or their lying eyes. And let me add, he has done this without so much as an open denial. He has accomplished this with the help of many children’s advocates who blogged right here on BNN. These advocates for children went after Connie and ANYONE who supported her like a hungry dog after a meaty bone.
I’m sorry, I watched like many of others have, as the search for sweet little Nevaeh came to a heart breaking end. When I read the post about how horrific this all is and how WE MUST put an end to it, the anger in me is ready to explode. I hear sympathy from some for this mother who did NOTHING to protect her child. Then I remember how Connie has been ripped to shredds for trying to protect her child. All of these comments are coming from the same people! Demands for this to stop are coming from the same people who have done all in their power to try and get Connie PROSECUTED!
Well sit back all of you who attacked Connie Bedwell, all who made jokes about a woman who disclosed the details of being raped as a young girl, all those who have jumped on the Worms wagon. As long as there are people like YOU, this will NEVER END!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! YOU are the problem. A woman talked about the most painful experience in her life, a mother video taped her child’s account of being abused and forced to perform oral sex on her father, your reaction was to laugh, make jokes, accuse, and attack. I heard the pain in the woman on the radio, the pain in the mother’s voice and the fear in little Aaliyah. What has all your hateful words and actons accomplished? Let me see now……. You re-victimized the woman on the radio, hurt her to her core. You helped enable the father to continue to molest his daughter and gave the Worm’s attorney the weapons she needed to keep this child from the mother she loves and trusts. And Connie Bedwell, what did you do for this mother who is REALLY an advocate for Aaliyah, you beat her to the ground.
Everything Connie did up to the point that her friends and family put this story on the internet, was without an attorney. Which was the reason the Worm and his attorney dominated every court appearance. Because of this story, people were sending money so Connie could get the legal help she had to have to save Aaliiyah. But because of the efforts of one person and his sidekick, both claiming to be advocates for children, the donations came to an abrupt end. Those 2 should be especially proud. Stand on those morales boys. You will need something to comfort you when the truth in the Bedwell case comes out.
Your theories and math make about as much sense as the family tree you
researched.
BY THE WAY:
(For the record, I married the name I carry and have never even heard of Michael. Brilliant deduction Watson, I have the same last name as someone related to someone in this case, it stands to reason I must be his aunt. Gee there are some very rich and famous people with this same last name. Do you think they will accept I am related to them, put me in the Will? huh ya think? NOT! ) Stupid sticks out no matter who is wearing it. I’m sorry, I will get back on topic.
June 10th, 2009 at 2:24 pm
Just Get, it is not proof against Connie, it is the total lack of proof (medical reports, actual witnesses to abuse like hitting, psychologist reports that document any physical or sexual abuse of this child) showing this father is abusing this child. And debating the facts found is not attacking, nor is it twisting words. But you are entitled to that opinion, as others are to theirs. It has to be hard to be the only one here posting in support most of the time.
I have read every scrap of information I could get a hold of. I have yet to see answers to the most important questions that could provide proof. I watched all the videos. I am still not convinced of abuse by this father.
Still asking-
What does this baby’s own doctor say about the physical/sexual abuse? The rashes or the many reports of pain (in her private parts), surely she was seen for this multiple times? Her own doctor can’t be considered corrupt, as his office called to tell Connie that Dustin had picked up the baby’s medical records from his office.
I had read that this child has been seeing a therapist for a year. What does this therapist say? Surely after that long, she would be able to confirm sexual abuse is ongoing and by law report it to the police?
What is the reason the court gave for removing custody on July 3, 2008? See the comment by “what” post number 511.
Are the Bedwells saying there has been no 730 exam? Have the statements shown on CPC been submitted to the court?
Was there a 3111 exam instead? Who ordered the psych evaluations? There has to have been one or the other.
Where is the medical or psychological basis for these allegations of abuse?
I do believe this mother and now her family have become Hyper Aware- everything is interpreted to mean sexual or physical abuse. I do believe that the lack of physical/medical proof has caused a drop off in support or even a change of public opinions once the initial emotional response to the video wore off. IMO of course.
June 11th, 2009 at 1:12 am
Justget, You say “But because of the efforts of one person and his sidekick, both claiming to be advocates for children, the donations came to an abrupt end.”
So Connie is not able to get any more donations?
And WTH is Anne talking about- joking a woman who was raped?
“all who made jokes about a woman who disclosed the details of being raped as a young girl”
“The fact that she was safely in Alaska and returned on her own to California PROVES she was not trying to eliminate the father from Aaliyah or his family.” actually the courts were involved in this decision too. She returned after finding out she had not been a resident of Alaska long enough to avoid having to return to deal with the custody/visitation proceedings here in CA. She says the court lied to her about Dustin having only supervised visitation.
June 11th, 2009 at 1:37 am
Much of AnneA’s post just does not make sense. I can tell she was upset when she wrote it but????
“You re-victimized the woman on the radio, hurt her to her core. You helped enable the father to continue to molest his daughter and gave the Worm’s attorney the weapons she needed to keep this child from the mother she loves and trusts”
What is she trying to say? Was Connie supposedly on the radio- or was it just her family? Enabled a father to molest his child how? The courts are looking at evidence and reports that we in the public do not see to make their decisions. Gave the father’s attorney weapons? You mean like the postings made by the family members and friends? There is so much rambling in that post it gives me a headache.
Once again, by demanding physical/medical/psychological documentation, and not just the statements of this mother who obviously believes there is no other possible cause but sexaul abuse does not make anyone a pedophile or a pedophile supporter.
Many of us wrote demanding further investigation. Turns out with this 730 evaluation, there was. Many of us are asking valid questions- like what were the findings of the doctors (surely there were many visits to this child’s pediatrician) for the ongoing complaints this child made about pain to her private areas? What reason did the court specifically use to remove her custody and switch t supervised visits? Not just she would not stop complaining- but what legal reason did they use?
I remind you that saying this child was tricked by the father to say ‘mommy made me say it” at the June 23 MDIC exam does not work- by her own accounts she had this child in her full custody for 8 days prior to the exam. Also there have been 2 MDIC exams- one was in Feb 2008.
Now it is also being said that despite the Jun 1 court appearance Connie is still not able to have supervised visits? Why? An Ex Parte hearing does not take that long to get heard? The Judge said 2 days to arrange it- it is now the 11th. What is the delay?
I just see no reason to believe in a woman I have never met who has shown no documented proof of these allegations after 2 years of trying to get some. How many doctors is it that have failed to find any physical proof? I mean she is alleging more that just oral sex. She has repeatedly said this child’s ‘butt’ and ‘pee-pee’ hurt! It has even been implied by the comments about a rash around this child’s mouth that this was going on back in Jan/Feb 2008. This child has seen numerous doctor’s including her own pediatrician right? So why can not one doctor corroborate sexual or physical abuse?
And is this child finally potty trained?
June 11th, 2009 at 8:17 am
Icky Etardo, if he takes a lie detector test and allowe the baby to be evaluated by an independent doctor, such as Joe Saturley and he states that there is no abuse, then I would believe him.
Huh?? You ask so many questions at one time. The 730 eval was completed in January. They want her to comply with it, but she has askec for a trial and they have not given her one as of yet.
Yes, every time Connie had gone to court, she submitted the witness statements. But without a lawyer, she doesn’t think anyone had read them. And I don’t know who ordered the 730 Eval, if I had to guess, I’d guess the ‘father’. I think the medical and psycological basis are considered evidence and they are not on the internet pending a trial.
Regarding your statement about Tim and if it were my ex, I don’t hate my ex husband so I wouldn’t have called the police to say it was a kidnapping. If they were REALLY late coming back home then, of course I would. But not to claim kidnapping, I’d see if they could find out what happened. My ex would never leave the state or country with the kids without consent from me. Everyone is different though.
June 12th, 2009 at 3:34 pm
Justgetaninvestigation AKA KarenCCC aka a lot of other names
I can’t get over how you claim inside information when you didn’t even know the 730 Evaluation was completed AND didn’t know Connie didn’t care enough to bother attending the STEP classes, not 1.
Seems to me if you knew things that were actually happening, that would be pretty important information. Reading here, you state empatically the 730 eval. was not done. I quote YOU KarenCCC/JustgetanInv. – “NO there ISN’T a 730 Evaluation ordered yet” See Post #425.
AAAAAA But there was one ordered & COMPLETED and the courts / Judge Smith adopted the recommendations allowing the father to retain 100% custody. WOW, just how did you not know ALL of that???
I think it’s quite evident to everyone around that I OBVIOUSLY know a thing or two of what’s occuring behind the scenes of this entire sham of a story.
This child is safe with her father and Connie has MUCH to hide from y’all. Tim, want to yell at me about calling your daughter a liar? She is & she’s a scam artist who’s too lazy to work & decides its easier to go online to beg for money…you raised her well I see. I’m sure you’re as proud as a convicted felon could be. KarenCCC seems to think the ‘kidnapping’ was your only conviction, you should update her about the rest of them.
Intimidation is what Connie & her dad does best, but it won’t work on me. None of your vile ‘threatening’ emails have done anything to shut me up. It’s no shocker to see why the father has all custody and why the judges REALLY keep siding with him.
To all who ‘hide’ by sending me ugly emails instead of confronting me out here – COWARDS. Pretty scary to think Aaliyah would EVER be safe in that environment with any Bedwell! So bring on whatever you want, you OBVIOUSLY know where to find me.
June 12th, 2009 at 9:43 pm
Whenever I hear that there is no evidence, I remember Aaliyah saying Daddy’s worm made me cough and he had to wipe it off.
How would a doctor be able to tell if this man had stuck his penis in this baby’s mouth ?
CPS/family court can’t back down now, they won’t admit that they forced a little girl to live with a worm while keeping her away from her mother that she loves.
June 12th, 2009 at 10:04 pm
I am getting really sick and tired by the rantings and lies posted by these zealots on their vengeful head hunt. Do you think we are fools? I see a letter posted above from a supposed RN describing her time with A, if we are to believe this in any way a true copy of a true RN, are we then supposed to believe she does not know how to spell fellatio? Again no name is offered with this so called “evidence”. No official report from an RN on the examination. Just something posted online by someone that clearly does not understand what a “professional” letter of declaration should look like, and certainly would contain better spelling and grammar. It’s a joke.
June 14th, 2009 at 8:53 pm
You expect us to believe an RN can’t spell fellatio? And uses !!! in a so-called letter of professional declaration? Wow, how stupid do you think we are?
June 15th, 2009 at 1:05 am
It seems that this little girl is now potty trained in addition to being happy where she is. She is where she needs to be, and the courts know it!
June 15th, 2009 at 9:25 am
JustGet, I would like to ask you two questions.
(1)How did you go from this, on June 2nd………
“No, there isn’t a 730 examination ordered yet”
To this on June 11th and posted this morning?……..
“The 730 eval was completed in January.”
(2) Why has the mother NOT told Dr. Saturley about a completed 730 evaluation as he stated on BTR this past Saturday?
June 15th, 2009 at 10:27 am
I can’t help it if my post was in moderation since June 11th.
When on June 1st Amara had submitted the 730 eval, I assumed it was for it to be done, I was told on June 11th that one has already been done, since January.
Huh?? AnneA was speaking about how some people had re-victimised Jan from BNN, not Connie.
June 15th, 2009 at 1:52 pm
Flappycakes
Do you think any of us that know Connie and the Bedwell’s is actually going to believe she is writing you threatening emails?
Go flap your lying flapjacks somewhere else.
We are all sick of you and your little crew of ignorant people that wouldn’t know what abuse looks like if it hit them in the forehead. Do you people have lives? It is apparent that you don’t! You all got banned from BNN and so you attack the people they are supporting.
It must feel pretty nice when you lay down at night and think to yourself, “Wow I’ve had a productive day of talking about things I know nothing about. I don’t even know these families involved or the little child that is being abused. I’ve spent my whole day blogging on the web spewing lies because I don’t have the brains to do the research it takes to get factual information. Not only am I a gossiping fool but I am supporting a child molester that is more intelligent than I am and he is using me like a puppet so he can stick his hairy worm in his daughters mouth.”
It must feel really good to have all of those thoughts flow through your head at night. How do you sleep flappycakes and crew? We all want to know.
June 15th, 2009 at 2:27 pm
I would guess the reason she did not tell Dr. Saturley about the 730 child custody exam, is because that is what she is asking him to come to California to do.
She neglected to mention that the full family(both the parents and child) have been interviewed. She just did not like the results of the exam, and she refuses to believe there has been no abuse.
As Dr. Saturley said during your interview with him on Saturday, this mother believes wholeheartedly in the abuse. It does not make it real. He also said that he did not see the video as absolute proof, especially because Connie had already been ordered to stop video taping her child. So where are these other videos? He also stated that he had no idea what had been going on in the minutes,hours, or days leading up to the taping of the video- GREAT POINT! and how easy it is to alter memories, and lead children towards statements. He also said that there have been at least 2 interviews with 2 way glass, with witnesses watching- and in neither of these would this child, when questioned by a professional say there had been ANY TYPE of abuse!
Dr. Saturley also expresses the opinion that the child exchange was not relevant and that these exchanges were too drawn out- and traumatic for this baby. That ideally, there should be a third party exchange where the child’s parents just did not meet.
I also loved when he talked about the credentials of the woman who wrote that letter posted at BNN. How her credentials were not appropriate to have made that statement.
Basically, it is confirmation of what I have been saying all along!
June 15th, 2009 at 2:33 pm
Ummmm everyone 730 EVALUATION WAS COMPLETED AND ACCEPTED INTO THE COURTS MAY 13, 2009. Far cry from January. but if Connie NEEEEEDS to stick with January for whatever reason, feel free.
All I know is that she lied to the Doctor and told him NO family evaluation was being done at all. NONE. The doctor as a pile of stuff sitting in his inbox UPON his return from Mexico. Guess he’ll see how mislead he’s been.
Furthermore – I JUST LOVE HOW KAREN continues to make mistakes THEN does not tell the entire story when CORRECTING her mistakes.
The rest of the story being the NEW JUDGE accepted ALL recommendations by this family evaluation and Dustin continues to retain 100% custody. NO TRIAL will be ordered Karen. What NOW has to happen is for Connie to bring forth to the courts a very compelling reason why Aaliyahs custody situation should be changed… And OLD ACCUSATIONS will not work with the courts. OLD stuff (like on the net) will not be listened to, they are RESOLVED issues.
What could Connie possibly get as a new compelling reason when she can hardly see her kid? I’m not sure she truly understands the BACKFLIPS AND BEGGING she’ll have to do with the courts to obtain further visitation – never mind any form of custody. UNTIL she adheres to everything & AGREES to everything – she will continue to lose. Karen, you’ve not helped her 1bit, you’ve actually added information that (now I KNOW) some experts have also given to the judge to show how Connie & family continue to be in violation.
You can all try and hide “I spoke to family…NOT Connie” BUT FAMILY is still getting INFO FROM CONNIE. = STILL DIRECT VIOLATION.
what DON’T you get about that? JAIL is what needs to happen to end this BS on the net.
June 15th, 2009 at 6:06 pm
I really do not see this as a matter of pride preventing the courts from acting or
“CPS/family court can’t back down now, they won’t admit that they forced a little girl to live with a worm while keeping her away from her mother that she loves.”
There has been no documented proof of physical or sexual abuse. Remember Connie is alleging more than just oral sex here. The “my butt hurts” and “my pee-pee hurts” statements had (or should) have been investigated by this child’s own pediatrician. Is it that there were no doctor exams or that there were no findings of abuse? Could it be that these were related to normal diaper rashes, or Urinary Tract Infections? Just like the rash on this child’s mouth- which are only reported for a couple of weeks in Jan-Feb of last year…where they thrush, or infantigo or some other type of rash children get?
Has this mother ever considered that many of these ‘symptoms of abuse’ are explainable in other less sexual ways? Has this mother ever considered her own fears and anxiety are causing this child harm? Especially when there are no medical or psychological basis for these events being sexual abuse?
You really should listen to the interview with Dr. Saturley and consider what he says. And then remember that a comprehensive interview with both parents and this child HAS OCCURED. Connie just did not agree with the results.
June 15th, 2009 at 6:13 pm
I agree this child loves her mother. That is true of all children of this age. She spent most of her time with her mother, and her mother’s family up until July 2008. There is nothing unusual about that.
This child also has the right to a father. Especially when it has never been proven that there is any abuse occurring except in the mind of this mother. That this mother refuses to see this as a possibility has cost her joint custody of this child. That she can’t accept the findings of the investigations and examinations of her child, and herself and this child’s father as not being sexual abuse has created this situation.
It is sad, and I am absolutely sure that this mother is in pain, and has been suffering for a very long time. It still does not mean these allegations are true. It doesn’t give her the right to make these allegations of abuse endlessly without repercussion either.
Connie needs to realize she may be wrong from day one about these charges. What then? Is her pride and her belief worth losing her daughter forever over?
June 16th, 2009 at 7:39 am
Some quotes from Dr Joe Saturley taken from the radio broadcast 13 June.
‘Connie believes that the childs father is sexually abusing this child, has or continues to. It doesn’t make it so but Connie truly believes that and therefore appears to be quite motivated in trying to gather evidence and to prove to the court system and other people, the people at large that this is going on. As any parent that feels that they are in the right and the system is wrong she has fought in a variety of ways to bring attention to this matter.’
‘As far as Connie Bedwells psychological evaluation, theres nothing particularly of concern in it. There are certainly some comments by the psychologist that wrote it up that I take exception with. I have also obtained the testing or at least I believe I have the testing that Connie went and got what we call the protocol, I have rescored them, you know every psychologist has there own little spin on interpretation but theres nothing of any true significance in Connies profile that would cause me concern.’
‘Now what I am proposing to do is go to California to do psychological testing on both parents, interview them, collect collateral data from other people and some of the court records. And also to observe the behaviour of the parents with the child and interview the child and do a complete family evaluation. That has NOT taken place yet. There has been NO thorough family evalution that looks at all parties and looks at the child and looks at the relationships. There have all been kind of these piece meal things that have taken place.’
‘If you watch the Daddys worm video Connie really did not, or at least from what I’ve seen of it, I don’t know what was occuring before the video was being shot but there was no prompting of the child to talk about this. She seemed to be talking about it fairly easily.’
‘I have spoken with Connie over the telephone, she comes across as very sane.’
‘Connie has already been evaluated and until a full family evaluation takes place this case is just stuck in the mud.’
‘I placed a call to the father, he’s not returned it. I have recently sent an email offer to Connie to offer to her attorney and to the court system, a free evaluation. Connie is certainly on board for a full family evaluation. I have no contact with the dads side so I don’t know their position or whether they have any interest in participating yet.’
June 16th, 2009 at 10:18 am
marmite do you really read??? A 730 exam has been done whether it was Jan or May doesn’t matter but it has been done so the Dr. has been MISINFORMED as usual by Connie!
June 16th, 2009 at 11:03 am
Loralee you are so kind to give me such a sweet name ♥♥♥
I sleep very well thank you. In fact I have the police, child psychologist & forensic experts all sleeping in bed with me LOL
We ALL agree babyA is safe & loved and will FOREVER REMAIN WITH HER DEAR DADDY. You are wrong though honey, I’ve never spoken to BabyA’s Daddy – ever. So I don’t need daddy’s words – I HAVE THE COURTS WORD & EVIDENCE ON MY SIDE! HECK EVEN THE NEW JUDGE HAS SIDED WITH THE DAD. lol
But thanks for the good laugh, it made my crews day. Our tummy’s hurt from your post. ♥♥♥
June 16th, 2009 at 1:11 pm
A full family evaluation has already taken place. Full Family means both the mother, the father, and the child. It is unfortunate that Dr. Saturley was not told this.
Connie could use Dr. Saturley’s help in disputing the findings of the existing 730 child custody evaluation and MDIC interviews. She may be able to regain some custody that way. She just has to realize she has no way to prove sexual abuse has occurred.
Dr. Saturley did clear up a few things in his radio interview. He has confirmed that he is unaware of what a 730 evaluation is. That he is unaware there was also a Step Program evaluation and recommendation written too. He also confirmed that while Connie believes abuse has occurred it does not make it so.
There is still no medical or psychological reports about or from any of the parties(the child, the mother or the father) that support sexual or physical child abuse has occurred.
Connie has the right to question this 730 child custody exam, during a trial, an provide her own evidence to dispute it. That is all she can do at this point.
But her unwillingness to abide by court rulings, and to follow the orders and work within the process has made this unlikely to mean she will regain even shared custody. She wants sole custody, and she refuses to accept less. It is sad, because I am sure this child loves her mother dearly.
June 16th, 2009 at 1:22 pm
Wow the 730 child custody report was submitted to the court May 13??? Seems some bloggers should have known that before they went off on the entire county being corrupt rants. Seems Dr. Saturley should have been informed during the initial radio show on May 14!!
I guess the fact that the court did not adopt the recommendations until the new Judge heard them June 1, was the loophole on reporting this. I guess that the testimony of Dustin’s father heard on June 1 was completely about the fact that Connie is not in compliance with the court orders. That her belief in ‘sexual abuse’ is still ongoing and she has not changed her position about this ‘abuse’ in the 11 months since she lost custody because of it.
I wonder what sort of attorney Connie has. He does not seem to able to explain to his client that she is hurting herself and not Dustin.
June 16th, 2009 at 7:24 pm
Loral Lee..nice post..who is the “we are all”? Patty has more facts, FACTS, on this case than anyone does. Especially BNN. The 30th is coming up fast. We can wait, Bud.
June 17th, 2009 at 6:00 am
StopConArtists
There is no need to be rude, I was only quoting what Dr Joe Saturley said on ‘Beasts’ radio show. It was obvious you were all trying to get the Dr to agree that Connie was a crazy fraud but the Dr remained professional and impartial and in fact stated that there was nothing in Connies psychological evaluation that indicated anything of concern.
http://www.saveaaliyah.com/
http://www.thepetitionsite.com/1/help-save-aaliyah
June 17th, 2009 at 8:47 am
Connie believes that the childs father is sexually abusing this child, has or continues to. It doesn’t make it so
June 17th, 2009 at 9:01 am
Show me even one report from a medical doctor, or licensed psychologist that has documented evidence of sexual or physical abuse of this child by her father.
Even just tell me one exists. You can’t, because there is none.
Despite months of complaints about her ‘pee-pee’ or ‘butt’ hurting there was no evidence found. Is it that Connie is only intending to imply there has been sexual abuse or that there have been other reasons found for this repeated complaint. Surely it was looked at by a doctor many times. This child complained about this for months. Is this real, or just a fabrication? What did the doctors say?
Surely this child’s problems with sleeping and having her diaper changed where discussed with the therapist she had been seeing for the last year or more. What did she say?
I remember the family talking about the rash she ‘always’ has around her mouth- you know the one that occurs only for a couple of weeks in the time line? Is it ‘always’ or just for 2-3 weeks. What did the doctor diagnose the cause as being? Surely she saw a doctor for this also.
How can Connie say Dustin ‘brainwashed’ this child before the June 23 MDIC(Multi Disciplinary Interview) when Connie had the child for a full 8 days beforehand?
June 17th, 2009 at 9:12 am
What were the findings of the first MDIC interview – you know the one in Feb 2008.
Why did Connie end up losing custody? Was it related to her refusal to go to the Step Program Classes? Because if that is so- and Connie says that the judge told her she didn’t have to- then why did Step consider her in default of the agreement?
Why hasn’t Connie et al told Dr. Saturley that a family evaluation has occurred. Is it because her ‘witnesses’ have not been interviewed? She needs to read the statutes – they are not included just because she wants them to be, The FAMILY is the child and her mother and her father. Since she has also submitted the sworn statements of her family and friends to the court- it is possible they were considered. What Connie is unhappy about is that these statements are not convincing evidence. They are purely observations from untrained professionals who do indeed have ‘a dog in this race’.
Just how many investigations and reports and court trips will it take before Connie is satisfied? Will this new judge be considered corrupt because he does not ‘see it’ her way?
There have been 2 MDIC exams, 11 CPS reports, at least 1 Step program family evaluation(read about what that entails before you discount there having been a full family child custody report), and a CA 730 Child Custody Evaluation and Recommendations report (which the court accepted).
June 17th, 2009 at 10:24 am
And why does this mother not have her supervised visitation again? This is ridiculous- the judge ordered it continued, and she could have filed the ex-parte after 2 days- that would be Jun 3rd. What is the holdup- does Connie want to see her child or what?
June 17th, 2009 at 7:05 pm
I moved out of my daddy’s house for the first time when I turned 25 to attempt to be a man. John David Thompson, yep that’s my daddy!! He beats and cheats on my mother; I’ve learned from the best of ‘em! My daddy hold’s my hand through everything I do. If you all ever had the chance to meet my parents you would just love em; they are just like Casey Anthony’s enabling screwed up parents. They lie and protect me from having to go to jail instead of protecting the baby from my yucky, one-eyed, hairy worm.
My baby’s mom left me when our daughter was 4 weeks old because I tried to beat her up with a Louisville slugger baseball bat while she was breastfeeding the baby. She took off to Alaska for the babies and her safety. Oh and I forgot to mention that I wanted to be just like Scott Peterson, and I threatened to kill her while she was pregnant 2 weeks before her due date. She was such a drag because I couldn’t do cocaine and get drunk as often as I wanted.
I filed a false emergency hearing claiming the baby was kidnapped about 3 months after she was gone, but the judge caught me in a bunch of lies about me trying to beat my baby’s mom up with my baseball bat. Then he caught me in some lies about the time I slammed her head in the trunk of my mercedes. So he put a No contact order on me so I couldn’t contact, threaten or harass her… but that hasn’t stopped me even to this day. I still creep and stalk her apartment at night to hopefully get a glance of her beautiful body. Im so good at lying I get these idiots that work for the court system to join in on my scheme to continue to abuse her and the baby. Our 9 other judges weren’t nearly as smart as our first one was; they don’t even read the file. These judges listen to my attorney while she invents and twists the greatest stories.
I started beating my daughter when I realized my baby’s mom wouldn’t come back to me. I’m so psychologically unstable that I threatened suicide two times to jump off the foresthill bridge… just ask Connie, she taped it. Crap I don’t know how I am going to talk my way out of that tape… I can’t claim she coached me too!!
My daughter tells her mommy that I hurt her pee pee and butt. She tells her how I stick my yucky, one-eyed, hairy worm in her mouth even after I have threatened to kill her and her mommy for telling on me… can you believe that f**king little brat? Oh wait, that is what I called her when she was only 8 days old because she was crying when her mommy was in the bath.
I have been trying to brainwash other people like I do to my own daughter in hopes that they will fall for my crap. I’ve tried to convince my daughter into thinking I was a parrot, but her mom caught onto that one so now I wear a scary mask and tell my daughter it’s the monster that is molesting her at night. I don’t want anymore proof of me being a child molester documented in the visitation reports so I am breaking a court order denying Connie her rights of visitation.
My daddy John David Thompson- yep that’s my daddy- the apple doesn’t fall far from the tree, like I said, that’s where I have learned to hit women and babies because my dad does hit my mom and me growing up. My daddy tries to convince my daughter that his name is Papi instead of grandpa because he hits her too. Man, I am a spitting image of my daddy!!
I want you all to go to saveaaliyah.com and watch the video called “daddy’s worm” where my daughter will tell you the TRUTH about what I do to her at night time.
PLEASE SAVE MY DAUGHTER FROM MY CHILD MOLESTING SELF !!!!!
Sending out my pedophile wormy love,
Dustin David Thompson
P.S. Thank you to all of you that support me not even knowing the facts of what I am. Thanks for helping me try to continue to isolate my victims so they can’t get help. I can just feed you a little bull here and there and you completely forget that you just heard my daughter talk entirely on her own about what I do to her at night.
June 17th, 2009 at 7:19 pm
Connie can talk to anyone about anything. It’s freedom of speech and it does not violate the restraining order.
Even though the restraining order violates Connie’s civil and constitutional rights right now as it is. It only prevents her from posting on the internet, if it is even valid given the judge never signed it.
There has been a 730 evaluation completed on January 5 and adopted in May, Flappycakes. You should get your facts straight!! Oh but wait, you get your “facts” aka “hot air” from the pedophile so you will never get the facts straight. The Dr. never watched the daddy’s worm video. It defefinitely was not a complete evaluation for many reasons which would be proven in a trial.
Connie legally has a right to a trial for the restraining order and Dr Roeder’s report. Another violation of her rights that the judge has violated.
Anybody know of a great civil suit attorney in Placer County?
Oh hey and Flappycakes, Tim was never convicted of kidnapping, drug charges, or any other hot air that leaks out of your flap jacks. He has never threatened you, nor have any of the Bedwell’s. You would have that and Tim’s “record” posted in a heart beat if their was such a thing!!! Post the PROOF that you dont have. Flap, flap, flap away Patty, you’re as high as a kite.
Anybody can create lies about anybody just as you and the Thompson’s do, but what separates us sane people from wack-jobs like you is we tell the truth Flappycakes.
And Huh… Connie is not making the allegations, she is simply repeating what Aaliyah has alleged about her wormy daddy.
The focus here is the safety of the child from the pedophile. Spin the subject and the focus all day long pedophile clan.
June 17th, 2009 at 9:55 pm
Oh flappycakes the new judge isn’t on anybody’s side. Judge Smith (you probably didn’t even know his name though you claim you have info from the courts) has only heard the restraining order and sanctions.
He will be filled in on the child molester’s actions really soon which will be a pretty little surprise for the pedophile and clan.
And hey flappycakes since you have so much information from the courts why don’t you go ahead and tell us about the No contact order that Judge Peneschi put on Dustin because he abused Connie and Aaliyah in march of 2006?? Or why don’t you explain to us what the 3 other Domestic Violence restraining orders consisted of that Connie had filed on the pedophile. Or explain to us how Dustin was on court ordered alcohol testing because he is a drunk! Yeah flappycakes read us that court file!!! Read to us how Dustin raped a 15 year old girl when he was 18. Read to us how the police report and Dr’s notes from Dustin slamming Connie’s head in the trunk of his mercedes.
Come on flappycakes, you have so much information from the courts you act like the world revolves around you…just read it to us already!
You won’t do that though, because for one, you don’t have it and two, you wouldn’t dare expose the pedophile for what he is.
Oh and one more thing we want you to do is post Dustin’s own handwriting that is in the court file of him admitting his anger problems, what a liar he is, how emotionally unstable he is, how trustworthy Connie is, etc.
Keep flapping Patty!!
June 17th, 2009 at 11:20 pm
http://www.bloggernews.net/121278
Aaliyah Bedwell – An Update June 17
Posted on June 17th, 2009 by Simon Barrett
My wife and I had the opportunity to talk to a close family friend last night. We were brought us up to date on the case. In the last court date (June 1) the judge stipulated that the attorneys representing both mother Connie Bedwell, and biological father Dustin Thompson needed to get together and arrange a visitation schedule. The threat was also put out, that if this could not be achieved within a couple of days then Connie Bedwell’s attorney should resort to an ex parte hearing.
Well 17 days later, nothing has been achieved. It is now 7 long weeks that Connie Bedwell has been denied access to her three year old daughter.
The next court date is scheduled for June 30, another two weeks. And it is merely a continuance. New Judge, same old stuff!
Dustin meanwhile has his attorney Sandra Amara trying to slap a $15k sanction on Connie for online transgressions. There is a supposed restraining order from Judge Kearney preventing Connie Bedwell from talking to the the press (and we here at BNN have made a point of not contacting her directly), however, no-one actually seems able to locate a ’signed’ version of this order. Attempts by the Bedwell family to obtain this information have been unsuccessful. Judge Kearney as you might recall removed herself from the case. The reasons for her decision remain conjecture. While I could offer some insider information, I suspect that my information would only cause more trouble for the Bedwell family.
What really surprises me about this case is that it is not happening in some no name town in a no name state, Auburn is a scant 40 miles from Sacramento, California.
A Florida based specialist Dr Saturley has offered his expertise to do a comprehensive family analysis, and he is offering this at no cost. Dr. Saturley has contacted the California authorities, and they have ‘green lighted’ the project. While the Bedwell family have signed on to the project, neither Dustin Thompson, nor his attorney have even had the courtesy to return his calls. Of course that is not surprising, Dustin Thompson has no reason to comply to the request.
One has to wonder if the courts can force Dustin Thompson, and his intransigent lawyer Amara into agreement? Clearly the Thompson family have some pull in the area. Both Dustin and his father are county employees. And I certainly cannot forget the quote from the Auburn Journal “You have to remember that we have to keep in the good graces of the local police forceâ€. This was the quote that Jan and I received from the reporter when we pressed her about the Bedwell case! At the time I was flabbergasted that a member of the press would say such a thing. That is akin to committing Hari Kari in the press world.
In fact this case has been extremely difficult to investigate. Dustin Thompson refuses to return our calls, and the closest we have got to Amara is her office gofer, who would take a question, go ask Amara, then come back with a ‘no comment’. Amara even took the opportunity to go on a fishing expedition. Needless to say she came up empty handed. I am sure that she will be reading this article, so I will reiterate what I have said before. If Dustin is being falsely accused, why are you so reticent to talk to the press? I would also like to know why Dustin Thompson will not agree to an independent assessment? In my mind an independent assessment could go far in resolving this case. Generally it is only the guilty that would refuse such an offer.
I know if I was being accused of heinous crimes against a small child I would welcome the opportunity to clear my name.
One of the more interesting court documents is one from Connie Bedwells’s chiropractor. I hear you say “What could that have to do with anythingâ€. It shows a clear style. A style that has been well documented about Dustin, his past conduct is somewhat questionable, but it does seem to include quite a bit of violence. One of the strange aspects involves an incident while he was in high school. Although he was 18 at the time, the records are still apparently sealed, sealed as a juvenile. The incident concerned a serious beating of a younger student.
The letter from the Chiropractor can be read here. You can draw your own conclusions. Was Dustin involved?
Simon Barrett
June 17th, 2009 at 11:33 pm
Flappycakes has an update for y’all to do with what you wish. Since some here think I KNOW NOTHING, I trust there will be no replies to my ‘non’ information. PS: TY for the new nickname, it’s a whole lotta fun :D, I just might change it officially.
#1. BabyA is currently still seeing a child psychologist. I know I’ve seen concerns wondering if anyone sees the child anymore and there is.
#2. Connie, for whatever reason, has not contacted DT’s lawyer to resume visitation with her child. Although unclear, the possibility exists that she cannot find a suitable visitation center willing to have her. It’s now been 41 days since her last visit – YES 41 days… and DT’s lawyer is fully willing & ready to comply to the ‘standard’ supervised visitation put in place by the courts. They just need to contact them and have not.
June 17th, 2009 at 11:55 pm
Maybe Karen can answer me pullleeeeze? Is it true Connie’s own lawyer will not return her calls? holy wow
June 18th, 2009 at 7:47 am
I like your new name Flappycakes, pretty cute. Anyway, leave me out of this. It looks like you have angered someone knew. I am not posting about anything except on BNN. So, please just leave me out of this.
June 18th, 2009 at 7:48 am
Flappycakes BFF,
Wow!! LOL!
June 18th, 2009 at 10:10 am
Karen I would type some kind of comments but I can’t stop laughing. Sorry to funny, talk about being put in one’s place. You go folks, time someone who REALLY knows the truth expose the wanna be insiders. LOL this is great.
Karen I feel jealous, I want Pattycakes BFF to be our BFF. She is awesome!
June 18th, 2009 at 10:13 am
The best part of all this is, all these FACTS about daddy are not even that paramount, wait until the pertinent facts come out. I predict an EXPLOSION that will rock a lot of worlds and knock the smug smiles off many faces.
June 18th, 2009 at 10:13 am
HAPPY DANCE ANYONE????
June 18th, 2009 at 3:26 pm
LOL First of all pattycake just because Dustins ex Michael Anne lied to the courts about Dustins abuse towards her doesn’t mean she hasnt disclosed that information to a number of other people that know she is lying too. And yes patty cake Dustin was 18 when he raped Connie at 15. He was drunk and there was no fight going on when Dustin viciously attacked Brian while he was drunk on campus. He was arrested for assault and was suspended for an entire semester, half the school year. The other fight had already occurred in a complete different location of the campus. You cant spread lies about an event that an entire school saw! Nice try Patty Cake. It’s all documented in the court file Patty Cake. And what’s even more hysterical about Michael Annes letter is that Dustin wrote it for her!!! Ask Steve he was there!!! Another guy Michael Anne was sleeping with at the time!
June 18th, 2009 at 3:29 pm
We are so tired of you Flappycakes! Why don’t you post Connie’s arrest record? Oh Yah! Because there ISN’T one! But keep spouting the lies from Dustin, you are just what you accuse KarenCCC of being! Spew crap, Flappycakes! Keep on keeping on!!!!
June 18th, 2009 at 4:37 pm
Actually and Factually Flappycakes
1) Aaliyah is not seeing a psychologist. She has seen an MFT only 5 times in the last year with the child molester sitting in the room to intimidate her to make sure she acts exactly how he wants her to so he doesn’t get caught. Although Dustin Thompson thought he had it made by threatening the crap out of Aaliyah and sitting in the MFT’s room with her he couldn’t completely control Aaliyah from telling her mother in visitation what he does to her. Yes there is circumstancial evidence and quotes from Aaliyah about what her mad wormy daddy is doing to her documented in the visitation reports.
2) Sandy Amara does not only NOT return BNN’s or Dr Saturley’s phone calls but Connie Bedwell’s attorney’s phone calls as well… Shocker! Do I see sanctions coming on Dustin for violating a court order that the judge was clear as day about?
It’s okay Pattycake because the DA is familiar with pedophiles and this type of behavior. They know what the pedophile is doing. They know he is trying to cut off her visitation for 4 very intentional reasons…
1) So continual evidence isn’t constantly stacked against him documented as Proof against him.
2) So he can continue to stick his worm in his daughter’s mouth.
3) All child molesters try to isolate their victims and cutt off the child-mother relationship.
4) It’s just one more way to be abusive to Connie and Aaliyah both.
Dustin Thompson might be fooling a number of ignorant people such as yourself, but there are people who do deal with child molesters on a daily basis that know exactly what he is doing. Thousands of child molesters have done this exact behavior before him.
June 18th, 2009 at 4:40 pm
FlappyCakes
Ask yourself a few questions…
The lies the pedophile is spewing to you that you type as facts, how stupid are you going to feel when they are all proven untrue?
Think to yourself does any of his lies seem a little ludicrous? Do you know exactly how ridiculous you sound repeating them?
Tim never kidnapped his children.
This entire situation has nothing to do with Tim. Do you have the brain capacity to realize the pedophile is doing one damn good con job on you to take the focus off of his worm? Just marinate on that for a minute. Flappycakes my suggestion would be to go read a couple of books on child molesters before you keep flapping your cakes.
Tim doesn’t even live in the same state as Dustin, Connie or Aaliyah. It shouldn’t be any harder than 1+2=3 to figure out that the pedophile has you focused on a single person that has nothing to do with the entire situation instead of having you focused on what is right in your face…Daddy’s worm!!! 5 year olds could do the math, but you can’t?
If you actually had threats from the Bedwell’s you would have them posted already, but you and I know that as an absolute fact you don’t have such a thing. It’s just more of the same hot air that you spew with every other sentence out of your Potty mouth Flappycakes. It’s the same as you saying Tim has a criminal record which he doesn’t. We are all capable of buying it. Funny that you haven’t posted that yet either. What’s even more funny is a lot of us went to high school with both Dustin and Connie and are extremely familiar with Dustin’s lying manipulative criminal history. But Flappycakes you wouldn’t know of Dustin beating the crap out of people drunk and getting arrested for it or him beating the crap out of his girlfriends prior to him being the child molester that he is.
The child molester loves to leave all the good factual information out and feed you some off the wall crap about Tim to sidetrack the less intelligent such as yourself with his lies and manipulation.
Flappycakes when are you going to realize that the pedophile is using you as a puppet in his show.
You should cut the puppet strings before he hangs you along with his worm.
Take Aaliyah’s advice “It’s yucky!”
June 18th, 2009 at 5:00 pm
To Guesswhat AKA The Child Molester,
We all have seen the supervised visitation reports where it is documented that she is refusing the potty and she is still in diapers.
And there is one thing you are right about… She is potty trained. Connie had her potty trained before she regressed in it because of the sick child molester molesting her.
We know it’s your goal to try to hide the sexual abuse symptoms she is having from your yucky worm, but anyone with a brain knows why a child at 3 1/2 yrs old would refuse the potty.
You child molesting creep!!!
We all can’t wait for bubba’s worm to be in your mouth at San Quintin. Maybe your two hole will hurt so bad you will refuse the potty too!!!
June 18th, 2009 at 5:37 pm
Flappycakes, hope you like porta-potty-patty too because you are full of it sweetie!
Dr Saturley has in writing knowledge about the 730 evaluation. You wouldn’t know that though because you speak of things you aren’t there for and know nothing about.
“Dustinsfriend” aka Dustin: You have drug Connie into court every single occasion besides a restraining order in 3 1/2 years. We all know how obsessed you are with her. You need to move on and get a life and quit using your daughter as means to try to control Connie.
Beast: The words “Patty” and “Facts” do not belong in the same sentence together. Hot air does not equal facts. Have you ever heard of these things called FIRSTHAND knowledge and PROOF? Something neither of you have! It sounds like you need to pull Dustin Thompson’s chlamydia infested yucky WORM out of your mouth’s!!
To all of you Pedophile supports we are looking forward to you posting your proof!!! If Porta-potty-patty is your detective; You’re all going down the sewer with her!
Hey Thompson’s when are you going to answer Dr Saturley’s offer? Hiding out behind Sandy Amara’s skirt and corrupt Placer County is only going to last for so long.
Hey Dustin FYI: a little bird told me you and your daddy have a colonoscopy appointment done by law enforcement on it’s way. Maybe you and your daddy can hold hands for that too. And when Justice is served you both can have matching bracelets!!! It’ll be cute.
It looks like your whole little plan of trying to convince the world Connie is “crazy” didn’t work. Now what are you going to do? Keep attacking her dad that lives over 4,000 miles away and has nothing to do with the situation? Sounds like a couple of real genius’ came up with that idea! LOL. The Thompson’s must have used their B.S. Degree’s they received from the University of Bovine Scatology (I know you will need to look this one up).
PattyCake the only one threatening anybody is you repeating Dustin’s threats to Connie about how she is never going to have custody again. Keep it coming- It just shows the mindset of the threatening controlling abuser Dustin Thompson and why he is withholding visitation. He can’t help but be abusive in everything he does and says. Patty you talk with the child molester himself and deny what’s only obvious.
Hey Flappycakes do you know that falsely stating someone is a kidnapper, has drug charges, all the other vomit that comes out of your potty mouth, etc is something called slander and defamation of character? =)
You should probably put a couple of minutes of thought about whether you should repeat the B. S. out of the child molesters mouth. Ponder that!
June 18th, 2009 at 6:11 pm
“If
If you can keep your head when all about you
Are losing theirs and blaming it on you,
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you
But make allowance for their doubting too,
* * If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
* * Or being lied about, don’t deal in lies,
* * Or being hated, don’t give way to hating,
And yet don’t look too good, nor talk too wise:
If you can dream–and not make dreams your master,
If you can think–and not make thoughts your aim;
If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster
And treat those two impostors just the same;
If you can bear to hear the truth you’ve spoken
Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken,
And stoop and build ‘em up with worn-out tools:
If you can make one heap of all your winnings
And risk it all on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
And lose, and start again at your beginnings
And never breath a word about your loss;
If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
To serve your turn long after they are gone,
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
Except the Will which says to them: “Hold on!â€
If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
Or walk with kings–nor lose the common touch,
If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you;
If all men count with you, but none too much,
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds’ worth of distance run,
Yours is the Earth and everything that’s in it,
And–which is more–you’ll be a Man, my son!
–Rudyard Kipling”
The father’s name *has been cleared* in a court of law, where it matters, where it is important for it to be clear in order for him to continue on fulfilling his responsibilities as a *parent*.
Dr Saturley’s investigation is not being ordered or requested by the courts. In fact, just saying that it has been ‘greenlighted’ doesn’t mean that the courts *want it*. It sounds like they’re just saying ‘You are welcome to consult any professionals in your personal life that you choose to’.
Dr Saturley’s investigation, if it were to occur, would simply serve to continue the internet circus for no actual legal benefit for the child. It might make dad feel better about himself, personally, to prove himself to anonymous people on the internet, but I don’t think that a good parent puts their personal pride before their child’s needs. And, this child needs the circus to end.
What *would* help the child, if there is actually abuse going on or if there had been abuse going on, would have been visits to the child’s pediatrician and other medical professionals, at the time the abuse was/is happening.
If the court orders it, I don’t believe the father would need to be ‘forced into agreement’. Has he violated any court orders so far?
To say ‘I know if I was being accused of heinous crimes against a small child I would welcome the opportunity to clear my name.’ is rather short-sighted, in my opinion. If I were living day-to-day with a child (and I have lived through the toddler years with children of my own) and my *personal life* was in turmoil, as anonymous people on the internet accused me of things that had already been proven untrue with the people that matter, then I, personally, would put my responsibilities as a parent first and try to move on as gracefully as possible, letting the lies slide on past unless they affected my ability to parent. Stick and stones, etc…
June 18th, 2009 at 9:55 pm
Just when I thought Connies groupies could hit rock bottom, you’ve succeeded in a new low here. What a shame. tsk tsk tsk tsk
BUT I WANT TO THANK YOU ALL WHO’VE POSTED AS OF LATE …. 12 DAYS TO THE NEXT HEARING AND THERE’S TREMENDOUS WORK GOING ON BEHIND THE SCENES ON DT’S END.
YOU’VE BASICALLY NAILED CONNIE’S COFFIN CLOSED BY YOUR WORDS HERE TODAY. Thank you VM in assisting with that. Way 2 go :D
THIS WILL LOOK GREAT WITH THE JUDGE ON JUNE 30th.
I truly will no longer care to ever post IN A ROOM FILLED WITH BOTTOM FEEDERS people who are profoundly mentally ill. Bye all
June 19th, 2009 at 2:04 pm
Once again, the bedwell family is posting accusations of those they disagree with of being the father. You fools still do not understand that you do not help your position, you hurt it. Stick to arguing the facts and lose the lame attitude, name calling and vile posts.
No one listens to your nonsense- even if you have some valid points because you are only on the attack.
When it comes down to it- this is just an internet blog, and will not decide this case in court- Although I must agree, that there are many libelous claims, and those are prosecutable and could result in civil suits. At minimum they make the Connie supporters look like lunatics. Especially that Dustin Thompson post.
You really should stick to the debate of the facts, or even just the posting of the facts and give up on the childish attacks.
June 19th, 2009 at 7:40 pm
TO:
Flappy aka Patty
What effect could anonymous posters have on a court hearing that’s supposed to be based on facts ?
Please try to speak as if you have a little common sense.
In order for any of this to have any relevance in court, the judge either has to be biased and corrupt to allow anonymous posts entered as evidence or will need to subpoena. Flappycakes bff, “Guesswhat” ‘s BFF, and Hey Porta Potty Patty to testify. You give as good as you get and sling more mud than all the posters combined, then you start making threats when you can’t take the heat.
You are pathetic and I feel sorry for you.
June 19th, 2009 at 7:48 pm
In response to Huh?
Show me even one report from a medical doctor, or licensed psychologist that has documented evidence of sexual or physical abuse of this child by her father.
Huh. Please show me one report that has documented evidence that there was no abuse by the father.
You can’t, BECAUSE they are confidential records.
Neither on of us know what they state. This court could work like the one who gave the perv who raped a 4 year old a year in jail. IDK.
I do know that Daddy’s worm was yucky and made baby Aaliyah cough. I’m so sorry baby.
June 19th, 2009 at 7:50 pm
loralee— If Dustin raped Connie why did she continue to date him and have a relationship?
guess what— If a child is being forced to give oral sex why would she have issues with potty training?
June 19th, 2009 at 8:27 pm
Over the next few posts let’s examine Lies versus Facts in this story.
June 19th, 2009 at 8:29 pm
Over the next few posts let’s examine Lies versus Facts in this story.
June 19th, 2009 at 9:05 pm
LIE #1
571 Flappycakes BFF
June 18th, 2009 at 4:40 pm
It’s the same as you saying Tim has a criminal record which he doesn’t…….Funny that you haven’t posted that yet either
(Don’t worry Pal, she didn’t but I will)
FACT #1
FROM INTEGRASCAN.COM
National Criminal Record Search
Search Summary
2 offender record(s) found, containing 2 offense record(s).
Search Criteria: First Name=TIMOTHY, Last Name=BEDWELL, DOB=07/29/1960
Jurisdictions Searched
Search Criteria
SEARCH DATE 06/05/2009 SEARCH TIME 4:56 AM
FIRST NAME TIMOTHY LAST NAME BEDWELL
DATE OF BIRTH 07/29/1960 STATE ALL
Search Detail Records
Juris. ID No. / Last Name First Name Middle Name/ Date Of Birth
AK_AOC 24332/ BEDWELL TIMOTHY B/ 07/29/1960
Additional Information
Full Name BEDWELL, TIMOTHY B DC # 24332
OFFENSE
Offense AS11.41.270(A): STALKING-2ND DEGREE Offense Type MISDEMEANOR
Case # 4FA-03-00765CR State AK
Source AK_AOC Court FAIRBANKS
Case Type CRIMINAL Disp. Date 05/05/2003
File Date 02/26/2003
Juris. ID/ No. /Last Name First Name Middle Name / Date Of Birth
AK ADMIN OFFICE OF COURTS/ BEDWELL TIMOTHY B/ 07/29/1960
Additional Information
Full Name BEDWELL, TIMOTHY B DC # 1039806
OFFENSE
Arrest Date 02/26/2003 Case # 1039806
State AK Source AK ADMIN OFFICE OF COURTS
Case Type Criminal-Misdemeanor File Date 02/26/2003
Disposition DS
——————————————————————————–
FEDERAL CRIMINAL RECORD SEARCH
Search Summary
3 index case record(s) found containing 3 criminal record(s), 0 civil record(s), and 0 appellate record(s)
Search Criteria: First Name=TIMOTHY, Last Name=BEDWELL, DOB=07/29/1960
Regions Searched
FEDERAL DISTRICT COURTS SEARCHED
Criminal Index Case Records
Name /Court/ Case No./ Case Name /Filing Date /Case Date
BEDWELL, TIMOTHY BROCK /caedce /2:2000mj00103 /USA v. Bedwell/ 05/12/2000
BEDWELL, TIMOTHY BROCK/caedce /2:2000cr00328/ USA v. Bedwell/ 06/22/2000 09/14/2000
BEDWELL, TIMOTHY BROCK /nyedce/ 1:2000mj00909/ USA v. Bedwell 05/28/2000
Appellate Index Case Records
No Records Found
June 19th, 2009 at 9:06 pm
LIE #2
425 Justgetaninvestigation
June 2nd, 2009 at 7:00 am
No, there isn’t a 730 examination ordered yet
FACT #2
543 Pattycake
June 15th, 2009 at 2:33 pm
730 EVALUATION WAS COMPLETED AND ACCEPTED INTO THE COURTS MAY 13, 2009.
VALIDATED AND CONFIRMED BY OUR PAL
558 Flappycakes BFF
June 17th, 2009 at 7:19 pm
There has been a 730 evaluation completed on January 5 and adopted in May, Flappycakes. You should get your facts straight!!
June 19th, 2009 at 9:07 pm
LIE #3
(From BNN)
Aaliyah Bedwell – An Update June 17
Posted on June 17th, 2009 by Simon Barrett
There is a supposed restraining order from Judge Kearney preventing Connie Bedwell from talking to the the press (and we here at BNN have made a point of not contacting her directly)
FACT #3
Jan Barrett said,
in May 2nd, 2009 at 4:16 pm
ok for the record, Simon and I have talked to this childs mother
June 19th, 2009 at 9:08 pm
LIE #4
573 Hey Porta-Potty-Patty
June 18th, 2009 at 5:37 pm
Dr Saturley has in writing knowledge about the 730 evaluation. You wouldn’t know that though because you speak of things you aren’t there for and know nothing about.
FACT #4
Listen to Dr. Saturley’s own words with particular attention beginning at the 12 minute 45 second mark of the broadcast. He was NOT aware of a 730 Evaluation having been completed, as of 6/13.
http://www.blogtalkradio.com/djxtreme
June 19th, 2009 at 9:15 pm
These are just 4 examples of the vicious lies being told by the mother’s supporters. I have many others, but I believe you can clearly see a pattern that has emerged of who’s telling LIES and who speaks the TRUTH.
June 19th, 2009 at 10:31 pm
Happy Fathers Day DT!
I am confident your daughter is safe with you. Let your ‘enemies’ fall on their own as they have.
I thought I would share this with you, and your daughters wonderful paternal Grandfather from one lover of the game to another.
You are a rainbow of hope, and the promise of hope via that rainbow for all the never married single fathers out there, as well as all the falsely accused fathers. God Bless!
From Baseball Almanac.
The Reason for Rainbows
A Song to Baseball
by J. Patrick Lewis
Published: Baseball Almanac
There was an Old Man of Late Summer
Met a Winter Boy out of the blue,
And he whisked him away
From the city one day
Just to show him what country boys do.
He taught him three whys of a rooster,
And he showed him two hows of a hen.
Then he’d try to bewitch him
With curveballs he’d pitch him
Again and again and again.
He taught him the reason for rainbows,
And he showed him why lightning was king,
Then he fingered the last ball—
A wicked hop fastball—
He threw to the plate on a string.
Oh, the Old Summer Man and the Young Winter Lad
Spent the light of each day—every moment they had—
In the wind and the rain, or the late summer sun,
Where he taught him to pitch and he taught him to run
In the wind and rain and the late summer sun.
But when that Old Man of Late Summer
Met the Winter Boy out of the blue,
He said to him, “Son,
You can pitch, you can run,
But to hit here is what you must do:
Just pretend that the stick on your shoulder
Is as wide as a bald eagle’s wing.
You’re a bird on a wire
And your hands are on fire—
But you’re never too eager to swing.
Stand as still as a rabbit in danger,
Watch the pitch with the eyes of a cat.
What will fly past the mound—
Unforgettable sound—
Is the ball as it cracks off the bat.â€
Oh, the Old Summer Man and the Young Winter Lad
Spent the light of each day—every moment they had—
In the wind and the rain, or the late summer sun,
Where he taught him to pitch and he taught him to run
In the wind and rain and the late summer sun.
The Reason for Rainbows by J. Patrick Lewis
One More:
WHEN GOD MADE FATHERS
by Erma Bombeck
When the good Lord was creating Fathers, he started with a tall frame. A female angel nearby said “What kind of a Father is that? If you’re going to make children so close to the ground, why have you put the Father up so high? He won’t be able to shoot marbles without kneeling, tuck a child in bed without bending, or even kiss a child without stooping”
God smiled and said, “Yes, but if I make him child size, who would children have to look up to?”
And when God made a Father’s hands, they were large. The angel shook her head and said, “Large hands can’t manage diaper pins, small buttons, rubber bands on pony tails, or even remove splinters caused from baseball bats.”
Again God smiled and said, “I know, but they’re large enough to hold everything a small boy empties from his pockets, yet small enough to cup a child’s face in them.”
Then God molded long slim legs and broad shoulders, “Do you realize you just made a Father without a lap?” The angel chuckled.
God said, “A Mother needs a lap. A Father needs strong shoulders to pull a sled, to balance a boy on a bicycle, or to hold a sleepy head on the way home from the circus.”
When God was in the middle of creating the biggest feet any one had ever seen, the angel could not contain herself any longer. “That’s not fair. Do you honestly think those boats are going to get out of bed early in the morning when the baby cries, or walk through a birthday party without crushing one or two of the guests?”
God again smiled and said, “They will work. You will see. They will support a small child who wants to ride to Branbury Cross or scare mice away from a summer cabin , or display shoes that will be a challenge to fill.”
God worked throughout the night, giving the Father few words, but a firm authoritative voice; eyes that see everything, but remain calm and tolerant.
Finally, almost as an after thought, He added tears. Then he turned to the angel and said, “Now are you satisfied he can love as much as a Mother can?”
The angel said nothing more.
Happy Fathers day!
June 19th, 2009 at 10:49 pm
By the way DT, Your opponents are still hoping for a second chance at that first pitch.
They seem to have forgotten the three strike rule for an out, etc. etc.
Let them keep replaying that first pitch. Asking the umpires to review the call over and over. Maybe 20 years from now it will make some of those sports history funnies.
Just do me a favor, please try a hot dog Chicago style, without ketchup. It’s a sin to have ketchup on a hot dog in Chicago. Just like it is a sin to not do your homework in family court. ;)
Kiss A for us!
June 20th, 2009 at 12:13 am
Connie’s group is more mature than you Flappycakes. They all don’t have to spend hours upon hours arguing your circle-jerk lies that you spread all day long.
We are all just helping the Bedwell’s put the facts out there to show the great lengths the Thompsons go to deceive people to cover the facts of Dustin Thompson molesting his own daughter. It shows to anyone reading, the long extensive fight Connie has been up against fighting so many dishonest people, sick lies and gossip the child molester spreads about her and her family just to cover his crimes.
And the first time you have ever been right Flappycakes… This will look great with the new Judge!!! Maybe it will spark him to actually read the file to see what a sick past Dustin Thompson has and make him wonder what kind of Judge gave custody of a child to an abusive, alcoholic, that has a history of abuse towards both the child and mother. Maybe it will spark him to watch the video of Aaliyah telling us all what her wormy daddy does to her at night on saveaaliyah.com.
The only thing Dustin can do at this point “behind the scenes” is stop molesting his daughter “behind the scenes” since he has the world watching him. It must just piss him off that “Connie has reeled in the Nation” as he said in his restraining order. It kills the Thompsons knowing people outside of Placer County actually care to know THE TRUTH and FACTS pertaining to this case. These people that don’t live in an inbred, backwards, corrupt county such as Placer County actually want the truth and wonder why Placer County would have to violate Connie’s civil rights to hide the facts.
They want to know how a child molester can unlawfully get a Judge to order full custody of a child to be taken away from a fully competent mother with absolutely ZERO proof against her. By California law, Judge Penney had unlawfully granted Dustin full custody. The court records state they took Aaliyah from Connie because she wont stop reporting abuse. By law you are supposed to report abuse!! Anyone see the contradictions within Placer County? Placer County is THE BIGGEST CATCH 22!! If she didn’t report the abuse she would be liable for endangering the child knowing he is a child molester.
And Flappycakes why are you wanting so badly “to nail Connie’s coffin closed” or call her, her friends or any witnesses who know Dustin is a child molester “mentally ill?” Is it because you are the abuser himself???? Or are you just spouting his abusive talk he relays to you?
Once again Patty, you should put some serious thought into the things you say given that the Child Molester himself has threatened to kill Aaliyah and Connie a number of times and then states she is “mentally ill” for trying to get help because of his crimes. It’s not exactly a safe bed to be sleeping in with him figuratively and literally if you know what I mean!
WHAT IS YOUR REAL NAME PATTY?? WE ALL WANT TO KNOW?? You say you don’t speak with the wormy daddy so are you the wormy daddy? You sure use a lot of his favorite terms for “not talking to him”!!
“a stepmom and mom”
The ONLY reason Dustin would love to end his own circus that he created, would simply be to get everyone to look the other way to keep molesting his daughter!!!! He can play the caring, concerned, victim, innocent father role all he wants!! We PERSONALLY KNOW him and the sick games he plays!!
Oh and June 30th will be another hysterical court session just as the last one was on June 1. It went like this…
Connie’s lawyer speaking…
John David Thompson do you have any proof that Connie is posting on BNN like you claim?
JDT’s answer: No I do not.
John David Thompson do you have any proof Connie is posting on myspace like you claim?
JDT answer: No I do not.
John David Thompson do you have any proof that Connis is posting on BTLS like you claim?
JDT’s answer: No I do not… but there is information posted the next day about events that just occured in the court room!!!
John David Thompson do you have any proof that Connie is posting ANY of this information?
JDT’s answer: No I do not!!
John David Thompson at the last court hearing I recall about 20 other people being in the court room other than Connie OR are you insinuating that I posted these?
LMFAO!!!
It will be the same routine on June 30th! It will go something like this…
Now Connie Bedwell have you posted anything on the web since the ‘unconstitutional restraining order violating your civil rights that Judge Kearney that recused herself never signed’ has been in effect? …
LMFAO!!!! Court should be pretty entertaining again! The Judge will probably be yawning like last time because Connie is NOT posting!! The child molester is just wasting the judges time to try to get the him to grant Dustin $15 K so that Connie can’t afford to fight his Child molesting *** in court!!
It’s okay Connie we all have your back. God knows he is a child molester and he has his day coming. Keep being strong and fighting for what’s right!! We all admire your strength girlie!!
Aaliyah honey we all miss you and think you are the strongest person alive to be going through what you are going through. It will all be over one day soon and you will be safe again and home with your mommy.
Aaliyah means set apart above all, set on high, ascending to the heavens and TRUTH. The truth will come out honey keep being strong!
Pattycake says she supposedly isn’t posting anymore! Patty did you just realize that you have opened yourself up to a lawsuit for slandering the heck out of Tim and Connie? Is that why you aren’t posting anymore? It would be the most intelligent thing you have done so far. We could only hope you are done posting your B.S., but like all of the other B.S. out of your mouth we all can’t bank on anything you say. See we can call Dustin a child molester because he is one. It’s not slander. It’s the Truth. And flappycakes It is documented in the pediatrician reports; You are probably one of the most ignorant of people I’ve come across.
Hey Dustin take a lie detector test!! Connie will why wont you?
G U I L T Y
That’s why!!!
Patty also I’ve gone back through some of your blabbing posts on other websites… Really? You have earned the right to judge the mother? Wow, God heard that one! Really? Do I need to post the supervised visitation reports that show you what a child molesting creep Dustin is in order for you to retract what you have said? It’s public information! It seems like you are the type that won’t ever admit you are wrong even if it’s in your face. I hope God judges you with the same judgement stick you are judging Connie with because you are so wrong.
June 21st, 2009 at 8:32 am
WOW I really believe people who can inappropriately be so graphic about molestation… it sounds like a joke to you guys. NEVER would I EVER repeat a single word of insults or horrible garbage that comes out of your mouths if I knew a child who was being molested.. you guys should be ashamed of yourselves.. I hope baby A will never have to read your disgusting language about her. Connie is not going to have custody much longer.
And by the way unlike you trolls most of us get our information via background checks and by the courts…not a sad loser named Connie…. go back with your sister T*ts Mcgee and go party some more..
June 21st, 2009 at 8:33 am
visitation not custody*
June 21st, 2009 at 5:51 pm
It’s just so much circumstantial evidence with no actual proof of abuse at all. And, all of the circumstantial evidence could easily be chalked up to any number of regular childhood behaviors, especially behaviors associated with children who have a parent who is clearly not willing to put the child’s emotional needs before their own personal issues of anger, bitterness, deflected guilt, rejection or past childhood abuse of their own.
Even the words the child is saying in the video could easily be interpreted in any number of ways. It would have been great to have been there at the time, to ask the questions that should have been asked, calmly & without fear – ‘Tell me more about that worm’, for example.
If you can’t get past your own assumptions that the worm must, surely, be phallic in nature & could be nothing else, try thinking about the entire conversation if the adult with the worm had been mommy, instead of daddy. Surely you would never have assumed a phallus then, right? What would you have assumed? You’d want to ask the child more questions, wouldn’t you, before you made any assumptions at all. And, you can see that it could have been just about anything, then, from the imagination of a 2yo child.
June 21st, 2009 at 10:11 pm
Wow Cubby, you are just as smart as PattyCake! Goodness grief!
LL Papa, just what exactly were you trying to prove? Tim has nothing to do with this case. NOTHING! Got it???? You are all disgustingly pathetic.
June 22nd, 2009 at 1:07 am
“So many unknowns and assumptions”
You say…
“If you can’t get past your own assumptions that the worm must, surely, be phallic in nature & could be nothing else, try thinking about the entire conversation if the adult with the worm had been mommy, instead of daddy. Surely you would never have assumed a phallus then, right? What would you have assumed? You’d want to ask the child more questions, wouldn’t you, before you made any assumptions at all. And, you can see that it could have been just about anything, then, from the imagination of a 2yo child.” Blah, Blah, Blah…
Well for the first 4,000 of us that were all able to see the entire 27 minute video of Aaliyah talking about her daddy’s worm know that she isn’t talking about the mom because she walks over to her mother and asks to sit in her lap, then explains that she doesn’t have a worm because she is home with her mommy. FYI: women don’t have penis’. No two year old can describe with such detail what her daddy has done to her without it having happened to her. And to say it was from her imagination is ludicrous because no child can tell of a consecutive story of her dad molesting her for two years unless he has been molesting her for 2 years.
Why would the mother need to ask more about the worm? Aaliyah did a pretty good desription of it without having to ask her any questions. Have you ever thought that the mother didn’t want to give the wormy daddy any chance to use her questions as an out to say her mother coached her? It was super smart on her part to say as little as possible and let Aaliyah explain away. It was not the first time she has described daddy’s worm if you read through the documentation.
Keep trying to come up with an aliby Dustin, Baby Einstein’s worm is green and orange and doesn’t gag people. There is no need to ever have to wipe Baby Einstein’s worm off her mouth with like a napkin. Your worm has been described as yucky with one eye and hair. Better come up with something more clever than Baby Einstiens worm, but then you would have to change your story like you always do when confronted about your abuse by us “crazy” honest people.
And Thompsons if you cared so much about the world knowing about your granddaughter being a victim of molestation you would be protecting her and not covering for your P.O.S. son you raised and it wouldn’t have come to this point.
Dustin you are no father. A father wouldn’t be molesting his own child like you are doing. Do you think sending yourself happy father’s day wishes on BTLS makes it appear like you are a good father? Come on we know what you are… A child molester.
“inapropriately be so graphic about molestation” -Good one Dustin. Oh are we supposed to keep it a secret like you and your demented parents? No thanks! If you weren’t molesting her we wouldn’t have to talk about it. Once again 1+2=3.
Truth hurts doesn’t it Thompsons?
Take a lie detector test Dustin… Show the world how innocent you aren’t.
Connie will take one.
June 22nd, 2009 at 1:17 am
Huh, look how mad you are that someone on here is putting the facts in your face.
Name calling… What does fool and lunatic mean to you?
I will call you names but I wouldn’t sit back in denial and pretend I’m not calling you names like you do.
According to you, anyone telling the Truth it means they’re a lunatic. You can call me a lunatic all day long; I have no problem putting reality in your face.
The ENTIRETY of the Dustin Thompson post is 100 percent factual. It’s as raw as it gets. The Thompson’s know it, Sandy Amara knows it and the Bedwell’s know it.
How is it that you automatically assume this is a Bedwell family member? You sound silly, almost as silly as John David Thompson on the stand stating 18 plus times, “No I do not have any proof Connie is posting.” Who brings an 8 inch stack of paperwork to their own requested trial and not a single shed of it is evidence with the expectation of a $15K sanction? Oh that’s right, Sandy Amara does that. I see a correlation here. It sounds like “Huh” has a B.S. degree too!
We all know that Dustin Thompson didn’t post that. We all know Dustin is incapable of telling the truth and therefore wouldn’t post such factual information.
We all know Dustin Thompson’s posts include name calling such as “whore” and “slut,” have threats such as “Connie is never going to see Aaliyah again,” they refer to death such as “coffin” or state “Connie is gambling Aaliyah’s well being,” they almost always have a statement about how “mentally ill” anyone supporting Connie is. My suggestion to people respouting his lies is that given Dustin Thompson has threatened to kill Connie and Aaliyah both a number of times, it would be extremely dumb to quote his abusiveness.
June 22nd, 2009 at 2:16 am
LL PAPA’s PROVES HIMSELF A LIAR WITH HIS PREVIOUS LIES
p.s. If you are going to try to convince people of your lies you should at least try to be consistent. lol
1) Altering a record report about Tim Bedwell doesn’t make it the truth. But what is funny is it shows us all what a liar you are because first your story was Tim kidnapped Aaliyah, then it was Tim kidnapped his kids, then it was he has drug charges, now it is this…??? You people are really twisted. For you to post this after all the other lies you tell just makes you look like the liars you are… so thank you!
2) Just because a random poster was unaware of a minor detail doesn’t make it a lie from Connie’s camp. Connie’s camp was actually the ones who confirmed the exact dates for you LL Papa because your porta-potty-mouth-patty detective cant get the facts right.
3) Connie can technically talk to whomever she wishes because that portion of the restraining order was not listed as part of the order… so the arguement is moot altogether.
4) At that point in time maybe Dr. Saturley hadn’t read to the point discussing the 730 evaluation since it is discussed at the end of a 75 page document that you don’t have access to LL Papa!! Dr Saturley has it and you do not.
LL PAPA HAVE YOU EVER HEARD THE SAYING…
“IT IS BETTER TO BE PERCEIVED A FOOL IN SILENCE THAN TO OPEN YOUR MOUTH AND REMOVE ALL DOUBT.”
YOU SHOULD JUST KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT AND YOU WONT CONTINUE TO MAKE THIS STATEMENT RING IN OUR ALL OF OUR HEADS EACH TIME YOU TALK.
Who are you to think you can talk of a subject as if you have facts when you live in Florida? You aren’t here in California, you haven’t seen the court file, you haven’t met the Thompsons or the Bedwells, etc. You don’t even have an uncut version of the Daddy’s worm video.
Abuse is a complex subject that the average human mind can’t begin to conceive unless they have experienced it themselves and/or have studied it for many years. It’s okay LL Papa we don’t expect average minds like yours to understand. We didn’t put the information on the net to explain ourselves to random ignorant people. It’s on the net to recieve help in which is being achieved in various ways already.
You sure are a strange one to boldly speak of something you know nothing about. Why don’t you have a life? Maybe you should get some help from a counselor that can give you some direction in your life. That way you don’t have to waste your time on the computer defending a child molester all day when you aren’t even aware of the circumstances. Maybe Dr Saturley can help you? You should reach out for help really. We will pray for you.
June 22nd, 2009 at 10:16 am
“You don’t even have an uncut version of the Daddy’s worm video. ”
HOW wrong you are! I know I saved a copy of it to my computer before it was deleted on a myspace profile within the last month.
Also I am not Dustin Thompson, I go by the name Butters on other sites and I have no shame in sharing that fact.
I will be interested to see how your tune changes on June 30th…
June 22nd, 2009 at 10:18 am
Also Cubby is a fellow blogger on another site.. we all post under one name unlike some of you…
June 22nd, 2009 at 10:23 am
I can’t wait for PattyCake to have to eat her keyboard…and it may just be before June 30th.
June 22nd, 2009 at 10:30 am
I couldn’t resist:
Full Name: Timothy B Bedwell Date of Birth:
AKAs: Height:
Weight:
Hair Color:
Eye Color:
Race:
Gender: Unspecified
ADDRESSES
V CRIMINAL OFFENSE 1
Offense Date:
Case Number: 4FA-03-00765CR
Offense Type: Stalking
Offense Code: AS11.41.270(A)
Offense Description: STALKING-2ND DEGREE
Date Reported: 02/26/2003
Disposition: DISMISS
Disposition Date: 05/05/2003
V CRIMINAL OFFENSE 2
Offense Date:
Case Number: 4FA-03-00765CR
Offense Type: Stalking
Offense Code: AS11.41.270(A)
Offense Description: STALKING-2ND DEGREE
Date Reported: 02/26/2003
Disposition: DISMISSED
Disposition Date: 05/05/2003
June 22nd, 2009 at 10:55 am
I couldn’t help but notice daddy’s supporters are comparing this sad situation to a BASEBALL GAME. I finally understand their motives. This is a game to them, just a game. They will say anything they need to. It is all a game.
As for the poster who wouldn’t repeat those words even if you KNEW a child was being molested. How sad for the children in your life. It is so distasteful you wouldn’t repeat it. So if a child you love gets molested, how will you handle it? From your own words, I guess you wouldn’t do anything at all. I think you have some pretty major problems of your own and you should see somebody. That attitude is really sick. Normally the only ones who don’t want to expose this crime, are the ones who do the molesting. But then when the shared mentality looks at this as a game, what else would your position be. Get help please. You really do need it, all jokes and insults aside.
You know the daddy supporters have done a good job of confusing these issues and even the average reader. First you screamed, you were stopping a scam a hoax. But its not like you sent money and had a reason to scream that. I asked long ago, if scams are really your beef, why not go after the big fish. The net is full of them, they aren’t hard to find. But no you latch onto a single mother who truly believes her child is being molested. You do all in your power to try and get her arrested, that failed. You launch a campaign to discredit her, but that hasn’t worked out as you thought it would. Now you say the mother SHOULD have asked more questions. Before you said she coached her. I think ANYONE can see why there is so much confusion.
The Bedwell’s story has NEVER changed. They don’t come up with “evidence” that suits the situation. They have told the same story no matter what. Connie’s opponents have a defense for all seasons. Well it don’t fly, with all your combined IQ’s you have not figured that out yet?
I don’t care what the judges say, the lawyers, the parents, the supporters from either side. I believe Aaliyah, I believe a child that will not be silenced. You hold onto one sentence, Mommy made me say it. I hold onto 27 solid minutes of a little girl talking without any assistance or even encouragement. You all play your games, I don’t have time. I want to help this child, her words need to be heard. She deserves to be listened to. To all those who have reduced this child’s abuse to the equivalent of a baseball game, I say God forgive you. There is no way to convince those who are determined that their team win no matter what the facts really are. All I can think to say to you is PLAY BALL. Leave the protection of children to the people who know its not a game!
June 22nd, 2009 at 1:26 pm
Someone told me today that you said you will eat your keyboard if you are wrong.
Please tape this for us and youtube it!!! LMFAO
You should be eating it real soon!!!
Someone also told me the best joke I’ve heard all day… that you claim you are a child advocate! So could you please post child sexual abuse symptoms in 15 month old victims to toddler victims.
If you really knew this information I question your intellect given the stance you have taken.
You might want to back out of this situation since you supposedly just passed your course in May. You might ruin your career you haven’t even begun.
Did you cheat your way through your course or did you get tutoring from Dustin the Child Molester?
June 22nd, 2009 at 1:46 pm
Hey LL Papa,
It has been stated Tim has been “CONVICTED” of…
Federal Kidnapping of Aaliyah,
Federal Kidnapping of his children,
Drug Charges, and
Stalking
Would you please explain to us what that record means since you posted it? Are they convictions, are they time served, are they suspended, are they dismissed, etc.?
This record doesn’t seem to back the things that have been said so please explain it to me.
June 22nd, 2009 at 2:34 pm
You are completely right about these “BASEBALL GAME PLAYERS” that think that Aaliyah’s life is just a game to play with.
I don’t know if you are aware of this, but coincidently OR NOT Dustin David Thompson and John David Thompson (yep that’s his daddy) are BASEBALL COACHES!! Go figure! I know both of those perverts personally and this is just a game to them. Their posts continue to show their mindset. They are abusers that think they have a right to beat women and molest children, to them it’s just a fun little game they laugh at.
Connie even writes about the “games” they play over and over again in her court paperwork and now you all get to see it here on the internet for yourselves.
It’s always the coaches, priests or people you think you can trust that claim to be “pillars in the community” that are molesting children behind closed doors. The Thompson’s fit the profile. Molesters make molesting a game too. These two boys, I refuse to call them men, think life is a game.
You know what type of people think life is just a game… Sociopaths. Read up on the definition of a sociopath and you will be convinced Dustin and JD Thompson are both sociopaths.
Dustin David Thompson You are a Child Molester.
John David Thompson You set a great example for your son.
Get help!
They have even sent a message to saveaaliyah.com stating to Connie that she is “gambling (like a game) Aaliyah’s safety and welfare.” Dustin has a serious gambling problem on top of his other problems. Dustin obviously feels Aaliyah’s life is just a game. Quit gambling your daughter’s life Casey Anthony, I mean Dustin Thompson.
June 22nd, 2009 at 5:01 pm
If you support a child molester therefore you are guilty by association.
Dustin you probably do have a full copy of Daddy’s worm that you got off Connie’s myspace before you had her entire account deleted. Post it!! Show everyone how UNCOACHED Aaliyah is. Let them see the full 27 minutes of her talking completely on her own. Yeah you wouldn’t post that because then everyone would conclude that a 2 year old can’t talk about your worm for 27 minutes straight. Plus that video shows how much she loves her Mother, Darrel and Auntie.
All of your lies and trash talking would be shown as exactly that, lies and trash talking. Then people would further conclude that you are exactly what we all know you to be… A Child Molester.
Calling Connie a loser it just shows your abusiveness. Keep it up, keep showing the world what you are!
Just to fill you all in that are keeping up with this situation. Dustin has very distinct patterns. He loves to flip everything he does on Connie. Keep your eyes peeled. Cara’s a partier now? Dustin we all know you are the one who does cocaine and has a drinking problem. Keep flipping your behavior on everyone else.
June 22nd, 2009 at 5:45 pm
I’m not saying that mommy abused her & she’s turned it around and is using the video against daddy.
I’m saying that the child didn’t say that her father abused her. She told about a worm.
Just because daddy is a man and men have penises and penises could be said to look like worms doesn’t mean that the worm, in this case, is daddy’s penis.
Without physical evidence or, at least, supporting psychological evidence, I think that the assumption that the worm is a penis is a sensational one. And, I’ve worked with children since I was 12 years old, in one form or another – that’s over 30 years – and potty training is a years long process for all children, with regression happening for any number of reasons, but especially common in children who trained too early in their development, so that doesn’t really stand out as an issue for me, at least not on it’s own.
Without being able to speak to the child (as, I’m sure, the professionals involved have done), I can’t know what she meant when she spoke of the worm. Some non-leading questions would have been so easy to ask – ‘Tell me more about the worm’ ‘Where did it come from?’
And, to paraphrase Freud’s saying – ‘Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar’… Sometimes a worm is just a worm…
June 23rd, 2009 at 12:14 am
Moving from “Dustin Thompson beat someone up when he was a minor” to “Dustin Thompson RAPED Connie Bedwell when she was only fifteen!!1!” certainly constitutes a radical change in the story, imho. “Nobody has ever investigated” to “This has been investigated 11 times,” is also a major change in the story imho.
June 23rd, 2009 at 8:36 am
Something has occurred to me and I would really like an answer from those who support the father.
Many of you keep repeating that Connie is making these accusations against Dustin because she is bitter. Others say she is a scam artist out for money. Then there are those who say she is mental. So which is it?
Let me address the first reason you say she makes these claims. She is just bitter. What is it she is bitter about. SHE LEFT HIM. There is documentation, (you all have not seen I’m sure) in his OWN handwriting where he swears his love for Connie. Where he states he screwed up and will do WHATEVER she wants him to do to make up for all his “mistakes”. He states he KNOWS he was wrong and he is sorry. In his OWN handwriting he praises her for her kind and loving nature. He talks about how honest and pure her heart is. All he wants is for her to give him another chance. This documentation is NOT a letter to Connie. It’s something very official and as I said it is HIM admitting his wrongs NOT Connie accusing him. Again SHE was the one that wanted out. She had NOT met someone new, she just had all of the abuse she could take. She wanted him to move on and she wanted to do the same. She wanted him to acknowledge Aaliyah as his daughter and help her raise the child they both created. She NEVER wanted to exclude him from Aaliyah’s life, she wanted him out of hers. She would have been happy to co-parent with him UNTIL Aaliyah told her what he was doing. Then and ONLY then did she want to limit his access to this child. He has threatened suicide and when that failed he threatens to kill Connie and Aaliyah. He is as desperate as a man can get to have Connie with him. Forcing her is no problem to him, just so she is there. So I ask, what is she bitter about? It’s not like he left her and she is trying to get HIM back, she don’t want him.
Ok the whole money thing, lets see here is a woman who has sold ALL of her belongings to get money for an attorney. She has sold everything she didn’t have to keep to live. EVERYTHING. So obviously material goods have little meaning to her. Her child is the most important and keeping her safe is her only goal. You have her painted as a materialist money grubber who is trying to get people to send her donations. What would she do with them? Buy toys and goodies for herself? But yet she sold everything she had EVERYTHING to try and spare her child from abuse. So that reason don’t really cut it either.
Now the mental illness claim. She has been evaluated up, down and sideways and shows no sign of mental illness. She is stressed but any mother who believes her child is being sexually and physically abused who ISN’T stressed is a mother who is mentally ill.
Now that I have gone through all the reasons you say Connie has for saying Aaliyah is being abused, and none of them make common sense, what’s next?
In Dustin’s own handwriting he talks about Connie’s kind, gentle and loving nature. He talks about her honesty and goodness. He admits he did all she claimed and more BUT he is sorry. There is a number of witnesses to his abuse and threats of killing both Connie and Aaliyah. His mentality is if he can’t have her, nobody can. His abuse of Connie during her pregnancy clearly proves he had no problem hurting his unborn child. Aaliyah could have died from the physical assaults he perpetrated on Connie. He didn’t succeed in getting rid of Aaliyah before she was born. He can’t stand the thought of Connie loving anyone else, not even this innocent child. If you were EVER the victim of domestic violence, of a man who wanted to contol and own you. Abusive men are sick and will do ANYTHING to punish the woman who walks out. They know what hurts and scares you the most. The anger they feel for the victim extends to the person they THINK got between them and the woman they abuse. Women and children die everyday at the hands of a man like this. Connie found her strength and got away, she has ONE weakness, Aaliyah. This innocent child is Dustin’s way to hurt Connie, he is destroying both of them. You all believe he loves Aaliyah, but he don’t. If you watch the exchange video’s you can see how cold and unfeeling he is. It would break my heart to see my child in the state Aaliyah is in, NOT HIM. He callously ignores her plea’s and tears. Not something a person who loves a child can do. If the judge said they had to share the child so cut her in half. Dustin would have the knife, Connie would walk away. Now which parent really loves this baby girl?
An average of 3 out of 5 girls are sexually abused before they reach 18. Those statistics are old and I don’t have the latest results from that research. The last numbers I had also showed 1 in 5 boys also had the same fate. The numbers have not gone down but have surpassed those reports. With all the children who are sexually abused why are so FEW men in prison for it? Why do so many get accused and walk away from the charges? The reason is because pedophiles are the most manipulative crimminals in the world. They are calculating and cunning. They know who to charm and how to do it. They confuse their young victims and they get off free and clear. They ALWAYS come up with a hundred reasons why their accusers are accusing them. It is easy to convince people they have not done what they are being accused of. None of us really want to believe this stuff happens. When you don’t WANT to know the truth, the truth aludes you. For all these reasons, child molesters are free to keep hurting kids. And all the good and decent people sit around trying to figure out how these things KEEP happening.
They say its better to let ten guilty men go free then to wrongfully convict one innocent man. I don’t agree with us for crimes against children. Thinking like this is why are children are being raped and murdered. Until good and decent people are willing to see the ugly of these crimes, our children will continue to pay the price. We have to find the way to level the field. As it is now, a sweet innocent child is expected to do battle with a grown man who is skillful in deceit and crimminal behavior. It is equivalent to putting a newborn baby in the water with a crocodile. I will fight for the baby, you all keep helping the croc. But PLEASE don’t fight under the child advocates banner, it don’t compute.
June 23rd, 2009 at 9:06 am
Anne A
You are an amazing person. Thank you for that post. Even though it will be twisted and disected to make it look like something totally different, it is so true. I am so happy the baby has you in her corner.
June 23rd, 2009 at 9:45 am
To “so many unknowns and assumtions”
You need to go back and read all of the information on saveaaliyah.com. The child has described “daddy’s worm” a number of times after she had been complaining about her daddy hurting her pee pee. Instead of ASSuming right now try to use common sense and logic. Why would a child be afraid of beds? Why would a child say her daddy is hurting her pee pee then claim he is sticking his one eyed hairy worm in her mouth? And she thinks she has married her father? If you pay attention to the words of the child even in the video alone she is refusing to sleep in the bed, eventually didn’t even want to be in a bedroom at all, and is insistant on telling her mother and auntie why she gets mad at her daddy all coinsiding with numerous symptoms of sexual abuse: nightmares, wanting a nightlight, fearing certain people and places, rashes, bruising, limping, regressing in breastfeeding and refusing the potty. It is a continual situation over a 2 year period. The child has told a consistant story of physical and sexual abuse from her father along with the physical, circumstancial and symptomatic evidence all pointing to the abuse. The two people Aaliyah is reacting to and making statements about is her father and grandfather (Dustin and JD Thompson). It all can only add up to one thing: It is undoubtedly occurring.
No, it is not normal for a child to refuse to go to the bathroom. When a child is being abused, they regress to a level of a time when it was safe for them. On top of that fact, they want to control something in their world because the abuser has ripped any ounce of control from them. So in a child’s world there are few things they can control such as eating and using the bathroom. It is also a sign of psychological trauma.
It is the exact same reason why abusers are so controlling. In this situation Dustin Thompson is extremely controlling of his victims because he has been a victim of abuse himself by his father. His parents seriously contributed to psychologically damaging of him to the point he feels the need to control everything and everyone. His parents raised him in an atmosphere in which he confuses love and abuse. Abusers learn to be abusers from their parents and it is a vicious cycle through generations. Dustin’s daddy John David Thompson is also an abuser which is where he learned it from.
Incest perpetrators such as Dustin Thompson always have some form of violent past on the mother (read saveaaliyah.com) where you can see Dustin has slammed Connie’s head in the trunk of his car. The fact Dustin raped Connie when she was 15 shows his interest in young children at that point in time. Dustin Thompson completely from one end of the spectrum to the other has the entire profile of a child molester. It is not assumption it is fact.
Even still at this very point in time, Dustin is using the court system and his daughter to abuse and control Connie. He is trying to wreck havoc upon her life in hopes she will return to him. Abusers can’t stand the thought of the woman ending the relationship which Connie did. Statistics show that is when abusers are the most dangerous and often murder their victims. They feel they have lost control of the victim and therefore feel the only way to control them is kill them. Read on saveaaliyah.com that Dustin would send Aaliyah home singing “Aaliyah, Aaliyah your mommy is dead.” In a post above it states he threatened to kill her 2 weeks before her due date. Men like Dustin Thompson and Scott Peterson are charming and manipulative. They work havoc behind closed doors and spend hours upon hours to convince the outside world that they are the best thing since sliced bread. Scott Peterson even had Lacy Peterson’s parents on his side at one point. Dustin Thompson happens to have manipulated a number of people through this process also. Abusers play a very charming role, usually playing the victim themselves to proceed in getting as many others as possible to join in on abusing their victims with them. Their goal is to isolate their victims from any form of help by using any means necessary. Dustin wants to isolate Connie and Aaliyah from getting any help. Abusers abuse their victims and then attempt to be their victims savior from the abuse they just inflicted. He wants to make it to where Connie has nowhere to turn but back to him. Dustin hopes in abusing Aaliyah Connie will have to go back to him.
Someone needs to help put an end to this situation for Aaliyah. She is in serious danger with Dustin Thompson and John David Thompson.
June 23rd, 2009 at 10:04 am
LMAO wow you really think I am Dustin sorry to tell you I have a vagina. I am all woman and I do not even live anywhere near California.
So how many Lawyers has Connie gone through? I know its at least a handful of Lawyers.
Sorry but I have my info backed up by the 11 CPS investigations and the 730 Exam. I don’t need to hear from Dustin or Connie. This child is safe, I really wouldn’t be able to live with myself if I were responsible for baby A having to go back with her mother.
The video I got from a diff. myspace account and its not even Connies account sorry. Oh and I think at least half of us who are advocates for the truth and not some sensationalize story by Connie have seen the video. Like the scene were they are in the hall way and she is eating her hot dog. Yeah I have seen it… not a proof of abuse at all.
June 23rd, 2009 at 10:39 am
Reported 11 times doesnt mean investigated 11 times.
And yes Dustin at age 18 raped Connie when she was a 15 year old child. It is a complete separate event from Dustin committing assault and battery on a student on campus while under a controlled substance (that yes indeed occurred also).
Last time I checked in California an 18 year old sleeping with a 15 year old child is statutory rape. Last time I checked, when a female tells a male no 3 times, it means the sex wasn’t consentual.
Dustin Thompson has the profile of a child molester 10 years prior to him hurting his daughter’s pee pee and sticking his one eyed yucky hairy worm in his daughter’s mouth.
Dustin’s definitions regarding sex doesn’t apply to what’s considered normal. Raping a 15 year old child and continually molesting a 15 month old child through 3 1/2 years old is not normal.
If Dustin’s parents would have given him boundaries to abide by and consequences for his actions instead of enabling him, he probably wouldn’t be who he is today. Why would they punish Dustin for something they taught him was okay though right? Dustin’s behavior is a reflection of them so they feel the need to lie and cover for him.
It’s the same pattern as Casey Anthony’s parents. They deny they raised a murderer.
Dustin Thompson’s parents deny they raised a child molester threatening to be a murderer.
Neither families care to give justice to the innocent babies, but only care to protect the monsters they have raised.
June 23rd, 2009 at 12:36 pm
Some answers in response to the post by so many unknowns & assumptions..
U & A said :Just because daddy is a man and men have penises and penises could be said to look like worms doesn’t mean that the worm, in this case, is daddy’s penis.
****What kind of worm would daddy have that would hurt Baby A’s mouth ?
U & A: I think that the assumption that the worm is a penis is a sensational one.
***Then what was Aali referring to ? We know that the worm belonged to daddy, we know that the worm is yucky and that it makes Aaliyah cough ( Aaliyah makes a gagging sound)
We know that daddy has to wipe the worm that belongs to him off with like a napkin.
Many little girls go through life being sexually abused. When Aaliyah is old enough to talk and use words like penis and blow job, will anybody be fighting for her like they’re fighting to save the worm ?
What will those who allowed it to happen say ? OOPS ! My bad.
We have Aaliyah’s testimony, when is someone gonna save her ?
U & A: Without being able to speak to the child (as, I’m sure, the professionals involved have done), I can’t know what she meant when she spoke of the worm. Some non-leading questions would have been so easy to ask – ‘Tell me more about the worm’ ‘Where did it come from?’
***Aaliyah’s aunt said she told her that the worm had one eye and hair, like on the top of your head.
U&A: And, to paraphrase Freud’s saying – ‘Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar’… Sometimes a worm is just a worm…
*** Sometime’s a worm makes you cough.
June 23rd, 2009 at 2:28 pm
Your right you do have a vagina DUSTIN DAVID THOMPSON…
You are a one big vagina!
It starts with a P and ends with a Y and has a USS in the middle.
Child Molesting CREEP.
You can’t pick on someone your own size so you rape and beat women and children! PIG!
June 23rd, 2009 at 2:37 pm
Hey wasn’t Scott Peterson cleared by the police as a suspect at one point in time before the TRUTH came out?
Oh Dustin David Thompson your day is coming too. It looks like you and Scotty have a little something in common.
Dustin since you want to claim that Tim has been convicted of kidnapping, hopefully he could get a few people lined up in Prison waiting for you. I here they love Child Molesters like you.
June 23rd, 2009 at 8:21 pm
Just wondering if the people (person?) who think that there can be no other interpretation of the child’s words have children of their own (that they spent loads of quality playing time with).
The first possible alternate interpretation that comes to my mind, as a parent, is that the child was, as children do, picking things up off of the ground & putting them into her mouth. I can easily see a parent getting goofy in order to help the child learn, pretending to pick dirty yucky things off of the floor themselves (things like worms) and putting them in their own mouth, offering them to the child, and, yes, wiping their mouth afterwards with a napkin.
I have no idea if this is what the child was talking about. Or if it is abuse. Or if it is gummy worms. Or a puppet. Or a toy. Or any other imaginary game that might spring from the mind of a child at play with a parent who’s playing along.
It’s odd to me that people can see only one possible interpretation. Yes, abuse does happen. I was a victim of sexual abuse myself as a child. But, that doesn’t mean that it always happens to everyone or that people don’t lie about it (or think it’s happening when it isn’t).
I don’t know any of the people in this sad story. I don’t know anything about this story besides what I’ve seen on the internet. If I’m on anyone’s ‘side’, it’s on the side of the child. These preschool years are so very important to a child’s development. The lessons that they learn at this age regarding the world around them, that it’s safe, secure, that they are surrounded by people who they can trust to put them first, to guide them as they grow, are the very foundation of who they are to become as adults. A child at this age needs stable adults around them who act as role models of good behavior, who act as safety nets while the child explores their boundaries, who help the child past normal fears & mistakes.
This child’s development seems secondary to at least one of her parents – second to that parent’s emotional issues, whatever they may be.
The fact that these accusations, along with any physical or psychological evidence that the mother has presented, have been reviewed by professionals multiple times and found to be unfounded every time, leads me to believe that it’s mom who’s not figured out that parenting means growing beyond your own self, means realizing that the world’s not all about you anymore.
Why she’s doing it? I don’t know. I like to think it’s not malicious – that she believes (or has made herself believe) that she’s doing what’s right.
I’ve known my share of divorced parents where they both started out saying the right things about co-parenting and respecting the child’s other parent, but where one of them didn’t really mean it, or didn’t intend to honor their co-parenting promises – didn’t think it was really going to happen. At that point, frustration, anger, sadness, feelings of low self-esteem when they see their child loving the other parent, regret, competitiveness, bitterness, jealousy, all kind of emotions come in to play. People are complex, they change, they show one side but feel another. It’s hard to move past that, to make the right decisions no matter how tough they are, how much they make you grow. Some do it better than others.
It’s just sad that there’s always a child or two stuck in the middle, their childhood & the lessons they’re supposed to be learning, lost in the mess of failed adult human issues.
June 23rd, 2009 at 11:00 pm
Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar, a worm just a worm. But always clueless is just clueless.
To the Bedwells,
Keep fighting, don’t ever give up. Those of us who believe this story are praying for Aaliyah’s safety. Hopefully she will grow up and speak for herself. By then the damage is done and she will have to deal with the aftermath. Those who doubt her will have to live with the things they have said and the harm they have done. My loyalties are and from day one been with this very special little girl. For those who have taken Aaliyah’s side just know, there is no wrong side by standing up for her.
June 23rd, 2009 at 11:15 pm
I see Tim Convict got back online in time to spread more lies before court. youre all so friggin hilarious the stupid posts could never be taken serious. bedwells are a joke huge joke huge huge huge like a worm joke
June 24th, 2009 at 6:18 am
so many unknowns & assumptions
You cannot have seen ALL the evidence online and still doubt what Aaliyah is describing in the Daddys Worm Video.
Did you watch the full 27 minute uncut version? Have you read the witness statements? Have you watched the ‘Exchanges video’, have you seen the documents handwritten by Dustin where he describes how badly he behaves. If you claim to have seen ALL the evidence and still don’t believe what Aaliyah is trying to tell her Mom you are seriously deluded.
http://www.saveaaliyah.com/
http://www.thepetitionsite.com/1/help-save-aaliyah
June 24th, 2009 at 8:21 am
All the witness statements who happen to just be family and friends.. not professionals.
Who knows maybe Darrel or some other guy wrote that out and now they try to pass it off as Dustins handwritten note.
And I have watched the full 27mins I do not see a thing that screams abused child.
I can see all the “evidence” online and know that she is safe with her dad. There is a completed 730 Exam, there is an out of county judge and Connie has had a handful of lawyers because they find out how much of a case she DOESN’T have after awhile..
June 24th, 2009 at 8:23 am
And if Dustin or his lawyer wants to contact me to provide the evidence that I am not Dustin they can go to the website that my name provides and find me. My name is Butters on that site. Because I would hate to see Connie trying to pass me off as Dustin as some sort of “evidence”.
June 24th, 2009 at 2:18 pm
Seriously, you people need to get a freakin life. All you do is bicker back and forth about the same thing and call each other names. Take a step back from your computer and find a social life outside of your home. All I can see are losers fighting a battle that you can’t win because your a dumb azz blogger!!! Not one of you is probably personally involved in the case. Get over yourselves, this was originally about a child, has everyone forgoten about that? Maybe Aaliyah is in danger and maybe she’s not but all of you have made this about getting the last word. Obviously you all continue to return so your never gonna get the last word.
June 25th, 2009 at 12:00 am
Well well so Dustin can contact Butters if he NEEDS her. You would do anything to get on the inside of this case. You are a joke. Poor helpless Dustin NEEDS you to save the day. YOU ARE DELUSIONAL. How empty must your life really be?
Perhaps you should sweep your own door step before you take the broom to Connie’s. You are so desperate to be on the inside of this case that you’re begging the worm to contact you. Hey Worm you got a good witness here, call her. She will save the day. Not to mention if you call her the other 2stooges she associates with will help you to. Let me think you could get, Butters, Flappycakes and CA all for the price of one. I bet Mr. Ed would jump on your wagon to.
Mr. Dustin’s whole fan club could testify as character witness. They want to be witnesses and the Judge will know right off the bat, these are some real characters. Sounds like a plan to me. All these people who have known you for soooo long can swear you are not guilty of anything. I’m sure the Judge will take into account the long and close relationship between all of you. You’re a joke, a group of jokes. There is a reason some call you all the outhouse group. I’d buy a ticket to that show.
Hey and you have an almost licensed almost certified child advocate in that group. She has not actually had a real case but hey she will testify about her 20 years experience on this subject. You can do that for your good buddy Dustin can’t you Flappycakes? Then there is CA mother of 5. Course only 2 of those are hers but that is just a technicality. See they hold everyone to the highest standards except them-selves and you. Kind of like Ms. Amara, right Shelley? Then there is Butters herself, she has taken you under her wing cause she is such a Butinski her own family don’t like her much. They just misunderstand you don’t they Butters? Then there is Mr. Ed. Well he pretty much ignored his son growing up but he REALLY likes his granddaughters a lot. So he thinks he may be some kind of expert on kids. If he had been involved raising his own kid, he would know he’s an expert instead of thinking it. A stellar list of witnesses. Dustin you better recruit them quick. You NEED them.
I have laughed so hard I nearly wet myself. This is too funny and my side hurts. I need to move on. Laughter is the best medicine but Butters you have made me OD on it.
June 25th, 2009 at 8:00 am
ca, butters, flappy – get a new hobby, you suck at this one. maybe try match.com to find someone special to share your thoughts with. I personally am tired of reading your negativity. So you say you are all together at another site? Go back there then and spread your bad attitude to each other.
June 25th, 2009 at 10:26 am
Melissa..Gee and you are calling other people stupid? CA does have 5 children, and she gave birth to all of them. I know, I am her husband. Perhaps you are confused that only 2 of them are “biologically” mine. But I suppose that is just a mistake by someone blinded by stupidity. Obviously YOU are the one that cant keep the facts or truth straight. Since you know nothing about love or families, that is clear and I will explain something to you. Paternity does not have anything to do with being a mother or a father. That is just a technicality. I wonder if you have any children of your own? You see WE have a lot of experience with children, and can very easily see what is possible and what is not. What is normal behavior and what is not. There is no proof that DT is abusing A. But there is abundant evidence that C is a poor mother.
June 25th, 2009 at 12:27 pm
Beast, EVERY child is different. What you have experienced with your children is different that what others may have experienced with theres. There is not generalization to that. And there is no evidence that Connie is a poor mother. She loves her little girl very much and is doing what she feels she should do in order to protect her. THAT is not a “poor” mother. That is a great mother! And if your wife thought that anything was happening to her children (not by you, just by anyone) would not do the same thing that Connie is doing in order to protect her child if she thought no one was listening to her, what would you suggest she do? If you were both told that there wasn’t enough evidence to prove the allegations, what would you do? Espceially after two years???
June 25th, 2009 at 1:25 pm
Beast,
I’ve seen you post before something along the lines of that because you have children that you know what is possible and what is not possible. I would say that what is possible and no possible varies a great deal between all children.
I have 3 myself and one talked in complete sentences at the age of 16 months with a vocabulary that was astounding, one did not speak in full sentences until well beyond 24 months, the other was more quiet in nature and spoke when he wanted to speak, not when you prompted him. The differences among my own 3 children did not stop at their speech development, it went way beyond that. I just gave speech development as a simple quick example. My 20 month grandaughter has been talking in complete, understandable sentences for well over 3 months and she uses sign language.
For someone to say because they have children it gives them an edge to know what is and is not possible with all children or normal/not normal paints an awful broad brush that IMO is ripe for error since it can and does vary so much between them all.
I also don’t see how anyone blogging about this on the internet can possibly know with all certainty that “there is no proof DT is abusing A. But there is abundant evidence that C is a poor mother”.
While I have not seen any “proof” that there is any abuse going on by DT, I have seen what (to me) is suspicious. On the other hand, I have not seen the abundant evidence that you say proves C is a poor mother. The fact that she does not have custody and is on supervised visits does not prove to me that she is a poor mother. If the accounts are correct that we have seen posted by those that proport to be connected to this situation in real life, then it is very suspect the reasons why she lost joint custody. All I’m offering here is that none of us really know. We don’t have any hard evidence in front of us either way.
It’s unfortunante that so many people who have absolutely no way of knowing first hand what is really going on with the little girl feel so compelled to speak as though they do and then trash so many others for having an opinion and voicing it. The ones I am referring to are the ones that have only learned about this on the internet and jumped on one band wagon or the other. I am not referring to the people posting here who do have first hand knowledge by virtue of knowing these people in real life and are posting here to give their first hand accounts of what they have themself witnessed. That is a far cry different than a blogger claiming to have done research in publc records or talked to someone that talked to someone, etc.
June 25th, 2009 at 2:42 pm
Everyone bow – beast is here and he thinks he’s the king. King of BS lol
June 25th, 2009 at 9:22 pm
I haven’t seen abundant evidence that C is a poor mother. It’s obvious that she loves her daughter very much. She believes that her daughter is being molested by her father.
The only people that know for sure are A and her daddy.
Oh, I forgot — the worm.
June 26th, 2009 at 4:50 am
Hello Beast,
This case got my attention from the beginning. I read all the posts I can. I have done my best to keep up with it. I don’t fight with either side as a rule. You guys have finally got to me. Somebody I can’t remember who called you all sheep and they are right. You and your group twist and tweek stuff til the only truth left is the players real names.
Using your kind of logic I’ve been able to paint a picture of some of you. If you don’t ike my art work blame your-
selves. I’m using your supplies directions and your lead to make it as truthful as you have the accusations against Tim
Connie and all the Bedwells.
I see facts about as clear as all of you. Remember I am following the same kind of logic you and your flock use. I could never paint such a colorful picture using my normal logic. God I love thinking like this. I have not ever been able to mangle facts so much.
It is a fact CA has 5 kids. I got the number right so I told the truth. It don’t make no difference who the daddy is. I never said nothing about him or her husband for that matter. If over half her brood ain’t yours huh, sounds like a big ole personal problem to me.
Have you 2 ever thought about getting off the computer and going to see a real marriage counselor. I know both of you have a bunch of faith in your online professional amatuer blogger friends. But they are dabbler shrinks and they ain’t addressing the real deal here either. See these are the kind of facts to be ignored.
Beast ole buddy there ain’t no gentle way to tell you what you need to know. I am going to just spit it out. You are a decent man but you are in denial big time. There is an elephant in the room and you need to look at it.
It ain’t normal for a married woman to run around getting knocked up with kids that ain’t her husbands. There is no good reason for her doing that stuff. Your online friends seem to think different than average people. They might be thinking your wife’s family has a shortage of offspring. They might even think she is having all them extra kids with her cousins so her family tree keeps growing. Or could it be you ain’t upset cause her babies daddys are your cousins? Could it be your kin need more branches on their trees? At least that tells me why you plain don’t care half your kids ain’t even yours.
One fact you got perfect no doubt about it. I don’t know nothing about love and families, not your kind anyway. In my world, daddy’s get downright upset when their wives present them with other men’s babies. Beast I really tried to get on board with you on this one. I can’t do it. It don’t matter which one of your blood lines could end. It blows my icky meter off the charts. You hit the nail on the head. I don’s know nothing about that kind of family love!
You are right there is no proof that DT abuses Aaliyah. That is normal to. Guys who do this stuff never do it in front of people. Using your kind of logic even a nationally broadcast TV show would not be enough evidence. If DT hand wrote a full confession, somehow Connie would be to blame.
You are also right that the mother is poor. The father has made sure she uses every dime she earns fighting ridiculous accusations in court. Paying $100.00 bucks a pop for an hour visit with her child. Being poor has cost her custody of her child. If what I hear is really true, there is a new day coming. Things are about to change according to my info.
No sense wondering if I have children, I do. 2 of them and they both belong to my husband. We kind of like it that way.
We both come from large families. There is little to no chance either of our blood lines will come to an end. There
is no need to, how can I say this, learn or engage in your kind of family love. We really like that. Our family tree’s aren’t even in the same forest. Again liking it.
About your all your vast experience with kids. How much can you learn by ignoring your kids sitting in front of the computer screen. Husband, wife and their dualing keyboards. Yes you can learn a barrel full about what is normal and not normal. What exactly is your expertise? 1001 ways to keep 5 kids from interrupting your computer time? Who is better at ignoring those kids? How many family members don’t answer their phones when your number comes up on caller ID. They are probably all sick of you pushing your kids off on them, even if some of them are the daddies. You are right about having the most experience. I take care of my kids. They are fed balanced meals, bathed daily and have a regular bedtime. The focal point in our home is not his and hers computer stations. My kids wear clean clothes every day and they live in a home that is neat, clean and orderly. People who parent like you can be found online 24/7.
I seldom post because I don’t have time. I am busy caring for my family. We live a normal life and think normal thoughts. You will never find myself or my husband online fighting for a man accused of abusing his daughter. I have a life off line. I find my own logic makes sense to me. Your logic does not make sense to anyone except you and the faithful flock who follow you.
Beast by your logic I took your own words and twisted, tweaked and mangled them until the picture I painted was to my liking. That is exactly what you have been doing to the Bedwell’s for weeks. How do you like it? I’d bet you have called me nuts and worse many times. I bet I’m being called delusional to. When you absorb all I have said and how crazy you believe me to be, think about this. Your rants and ravings sound just as crazy and vindictive to each of us not in your circle as mine sounds to you. Deal with your logic for awhile. We all have had to and its old. Move on none of your group have been asked to involve yourselves in this case. You annoy us as much as those 5 kids annoy you.
Ok I’m done. D U N N done !
June 26th, 2009 at 7:55 am
So for those of you who question Connie here is some “inside” info on her… I have known her VERY VERY closely for 2 1/2 years and have spent more time with her then anyone in that time. All of you who say she is doing this for vengeance are clearly ignorant. In no way would she EVER use her daughter as any kind of vengeful tactic, or leverage, or in any way to try and get revenge on dustin. Her daughter is her life- believe me, she would do anything to protect her daughter and to nurture and raise her in a safe, stable, loving environment. Just a few weeks after Aaliyah was born she packed up everything she could carry and moved a few thousand miles away after he physically abused her while she was holding newborn Aaliyah and at the same time threw soiled diapers at her which hit Aaliyah in the face. She left everyone she knew and loved to get away from dustin and keep her baby safe and protected from her baby’s own father. Several months later when dustin filed an ex-parte hearing to try and get Connie to move back so he could see Aaliyah- the judge presiding over the case placed a no- contact order on dustin stating he could not annoy, harass, or contact Connie in anyway. Dustin filed the hearing and after the judge listened to the evidence and talked to dustin he decided AGAINST dustin and told Connie to remain in Alaska at the time. Connie has ALWAYS put her daughter before her needs or anyone elses- Aaliyah is all that matters to her. She raised Aaliyah in a safe loving environment and Aaliyah was one of the most intelligent, well spoken, happy babies I have ever seen. This was all in thanks to how much love and support Connie gave her- Aaliyah ALWAYS had 100% of her attention- and it was so obvious to anyone how much Aaliyah loves her mother- every time she sees her she gets incredibly giggly and hyper and playful and wants to show her mom everything she knows! The first time Aaliyah spent the night for visitation at her dads house- when she returned to Connie’s home she actually ran in the house and was doing somersaults in the living room and running around playing with all her toys- this was all after she was shaking with joy laughing at the top of her lungs and hugging Connie uncontrollably in excitement the second she saw her mom at the visitation exchange!
Some of you say that Connie is a liar- that she is “making all of this up”- what proof do you have of ANY of that? Like I said- I have known her VERY closely for along time spending all of my time with her- and have NEVER caught her in any lie, not even a little white lie. She does not believe in it- it has never even been an option for her, her religious belief and personal morals prevent her from lying, and she is by far the most honest person I have EVER met. If she is so bad- like dustin tries to say on here- then why, in his own handwriting, did he say that her 5 best characteristics are her sense of humor, how trustworthy she is, her caring nature, that she’s mature and loving? Why did he say that he lies and yells and has anger problems and fears losing her and he cant be without her cause he needs her? Why did he say it’s his fault that she felt the way she did- and that he doesn’t want to change because he has been that way for so long- which a little tip for you is a prerequisite of a sociopath… Why did he admit in his own writing that he hurts her and he is emotionally unstable? Doesn’t sound like he is the best guy in the world to me. So what evidence do any of you ignorant people have that prove Connie has EVER lied- or done any of the stuff you are accusing her of??? The only thing Connie ever has done wrong in this case is actually coming back to California after believing the courts saying she would be protected from him…
When Connie first moved back from Alaska- she did it so Aaliyah would grow up knowing her father. At first everything was great with Aaliyah and her dad, but at the time Connie was telling me that she had noticed dustin around her apartment and stalking her. Soon after that dustin and I met- and almost immediately Aaliyah started changing attitudes severely towards dustin. She no longer was happy to see him like she used to be- and around that time she started saying in her limited vocabulary daddy owies and other scary things. Sure seems odd that after he wrote in his own handwriting that he fears losing her- and after he told Connie’s Grandmother that Connie will always be his- Connie’s daughter started coming home with bruises and was scared of her own dad. Sure seems like after realizing that he in fact DID lose Connie, and realizing that he could no longer take his anger out on Connie- he did the next thing he could do to hurt her- which unfortunately was to abuse there daughter so that he could still control and hurt Connie. It sure takes a weak man to hurt an innocent child- but it takes a sick demented man to hurt his own flesh and blood.
Now back to the ignorant people who pretend they have inside info on the case… Those of you who talk about the 11 CPS investigations that have been thoroughly investigated and cleared– what evidence do you have? Just to be clear- I have been to almost every single court case- and the CPS reports have come up numerous times- but the second the judge calls CPS, he COMPLETELY clears the courtroom except for mother father and paternal grandparents. They are the ONLY ones allowed in- not even Connie’s sisters can be in the court to hear ANYTHING about the CPS reports… To be clear once again- reports DO NOT mean investigations- I made a report pertaining to what Aaliyah had told me- and all they did was write it down and say thanks for calling and I never heard from them again- great “investigations” they do… So for those of you saying you have seen the reports- please please post them and share them- I am willing to put money on the fact you have zero details about any of the “investigations”…
Now onto those of you who seem to have deemed Tim as a criminal… It’s very easy to doctor a document to not show how Tim was dismissed of all charges- or you must have forgotten to mention that the person he was accused of stalking was his former boss who is now in prison on a 99 year stint for second degree murder of a 21 year old girl who he had tried to sexually abuse while high on cocaine. Ohh and the other guy he was dismissed of stalking- was the brother of the murderer who helped hide the girls body and then committed suicide so he wouldn’t have to testify against his brother. You can read all about it- just search Mike Lawson and Bob Lawson on Google…
So what evidence have any of you really seen??? It is very easy for all of you to just say you have inside info- but I bet that you know nothing other then you have read online or someone told you in a blog- and just so you know, thats not inside info! I have been around for all of this real life- not reading about it from the liars on here saying what they think will help dustins side- I have formed my opinions based on what I have experienced and seen in person- and from what little Aaliyah has told me and from seeing all of the signs of abuse she has shown towards dustin. So if all of you want to keep fighting and saying ignorant lies about Connie- just know that in the end you will be judged and punished for your willingness to help a pedophile…
June 26th, 2009 at 5:32 pm
Personal attacks on other users do NOTHING to help Aaliyah. It’s also pretty amusing when someone says “You need to find something else to do/get a life” and then follows that up with 10 more paragraphs.
The police have CLEARED Mr. Thompson of all wrongdoing, and no number of personal attacks are going to change that. We’re at the end of the road here. Unless somebody manages to come up with some sort of concrete NEW evidence, the case is over.
June 29th, 2009 at 1:43 am
Icky Etardo
I find your name amusing. Is it a play on someone famous say maybe Ricky Ricardo of I Love Lucy fame? Or perhaps a nickname people have given you? Let’s see what kind of name could have been given to you that made you come up with the version you WILL share with the world. Oh I got it, could it be the real name you are known for is Sicky Retardo, I bet that’s it. It sure seems to fit you well.
Just what rope are YOU at the end of? And who are YOU to decide this case is over? Does the Judge know of your decision to end this case? Do the Bedwells? Just who has
given YOU the authority to say its over? Funny you say its over and yet there are many who KNOW this case has not even begun yet! By all means you can call it quits for yourself at any time you choose. How dare you speak for the rest of us. Those of us who KNOW justice has not yet prevailed.
Good luck, Goodbye and good riddance. Peace.
Saying this case is over, sounds like one of two things. It is either wishful thinking or stupidity. I am happy to know you and your kind have thrown in the towel. I guess you will be going back to lives you don’t have. As for those of us who fight for Aaliyah, we intend to fight on, thank you very much.
It has been great not knowing you. I am wishing something for you in the future. My wish is God show you kindness and give you some happiness. Maybe then you won’t be filled the anger and hate you exhibit now. Maybe you will never again go after a young single mother and her innocent baby girl.
You have really shown what a bully you can be. I hope those days end when you close this case in your mind.
June 29th, 2009 at 11:31 am
Darrel & Tim shut up. People won’t stop, Connie won’t win, she won’t keep making her scam money. No ones gone away except from this joke board.
June 29th, 2009 at 11:46 am
Do you have any new evidence, MelissaC? Something that the courts haven’t seen or heard yet that will sway them to change their decisions that have been upheld by multiple judges multiple times?
I thought not. All you have is more pap. Good luck, you’re doing an excellent job of making this poor child’s life a circus, and you’re doing nothing to forward your aims.
June 29th, 2009 at 2:35 pm
Melissa C~
Good Job figuring out Dustin’s name he posts under: Icky Etardo you can guarentee stands for Sicky Retardo. Like the posts above explain, Dustin thinks everything in life is a game. S o c i o p a t h
Dustin reminds me of the sociopath Joker on Batman that has the whole town running around, fighting and bickering about his next game plan. All the while, he sits back in the shadows and enjoys the utter Chaos he has created. He sits back thinking he is a cunning puppet master to have invented such an entertaining show. Sociopaths are often bored and find situations such as molesting Aaliyah, destroying and threatening her life, just a fun little game. Not only does he find what he is doing to Aaliyah, a game, but deceiving ignorant people to fight for him so he doesn’t have to appear that he is doing it himself. This also makes quite an exciting little game for Dustin as well.
Dustin gets a thrill from ignorant people such as Beast, Pattycake, LL Papa and crew feeding out of his hand and feeding off of his worm.
Justme~ is Dustin Thompson
Let me show you all how you can tell this is Dustin the child molesting Thompson posting himself. There are a number of signs in his words alone…
1) He tells both “Tim and Darrel” to “shut up”! Abusers have a very distinct sign in them that gives you a red flag before they even hit women: Extreme Jealousy. Here Dustin can’t stand that two men in Connie’s life are fighting for her and Aaliyah, so he feels the need to tell them to shut up. There are a lot of us posting about what a child molester you are Dustin so why would you only tell Tim and Darrel to shut up? We know that answer… A B U S E R that’s what they all do. If Connie was on here posting you would not only be chiming in on Tim and Darrel but Connie as well.
2) “People wont stop.” Dustin is actually referring to himself. Dustin will never stop. Abusers don’t think it is over until they say it is. So all of you posters keep that in mind because according to Dustin you can’t stop until he says so. He thinks he can control you as well as Connie and Aaliyah.
3) “Connie won’t WIN” This is a classic example of what a sociopath Dustin really is. Connie won’t WIN??? Dustin last time we all checked this wasn’t a game for anybody to win. Aaliyah’s life isn’t a game to win. We understand in your’s and your daddy’s heads that it is a game to you…
IT IS NOT A GAME!! GET THAT THROUGH YOUR CHILD MOLESTING ABUSER BRAINS DUSTIN THOMPSON AND JOHN DAVID THOMPSON!!
June 30th, 2009 at 10:00 am
Melissa. SO I suppose then women that have children while they are married but then get divorced should just stay alone for the rest of their lives? And again you are just like the rest with your attacks, lies, and garbage. You call what I have to say “Rants”. So what are we to call the putrid filth that you write here? All I want is the truth, and the way you folks are going about it is not getting any. It’s vicious, slanderous, and disgusting.
June 30th, 2009 at 10:59 am
I was just scrolling through all of this & saw the letter from the ‘registered nurse’ again.
The original posting of this letter, on the comments of the (conveniently now deleted) i-report ‘article’, included some odd misspellings, most notably a way off-base spelling of ‘fellatio’ as something like ‘falachio’. I remember that a few of us even commented on that at the time.
Isn’t it odd how that misspelling is missing in the presumed cut/paste of this official letter from a witness registered nurse when it’s later posted here?
June 30th, 2009 at 12:00 pm
lmao nope not Dustin, nice try. I repeat Darrel & Tim shut up. People won’t stop, Connie won’t win, she won’t keep making her scam money. No ones gone away except from this joke board.
June 30th, 2009 at 5:09 pm
Well, Connie was not put in jail today. I wonder why? Congratulations Connie. Keep fighting!!!!!
June 30th, 2009 at 8:17 pm
Any new evidence? Anything at all? A doctor’s report, a psychiatrist’s opinion, a letter from a teacher or daycare worker? *crickets*
June 30th, 2009 at 10:50 pm
[...] http://www.btls.com/news/stories/save-baby-aaliyah.html [...]
July 1st, 2009 at 10:44 am
Hey y’know, I copied and pasted that off of the saveaaliyah.com site. I don’t know what you are talking about. I guess you are saying I fixed it before I posted it. I guess we can go and see on CPC and saveaaliyah.com and see if they are different? That would be a good idea, huh?
July 1st, 2009 at 12:17 pm
Family court judges don’t put parents in jail for contempt of court. They give them a slap on the wrist, a lecture in the hopes that they will get it together & start co-parenting in the best interests of the child and, eventually, if they have to, family court judges change custody & restrict visitation in order to maintain the child’s best interests when their parent just refuses to get it.
I am curious, though, regarding what did happen in court yesterday. If you know she wasn’t put in jail, do you know what *did* happen?
July 1st, 2009 at 1:25 pm
I heard that Amara asked Connie and her lawyer to take down everything on the internet and they would drop the whole thing. Connie, I think you should counter with you will try to get everything taken off the internet (I don’t see how you could do it, unless you can actually speak about it) if they give custody back to you and he sign all of his parental rights away! I mean, if they were begging like they were, they should comply with it. If they were’t a bunch of dishonest, disgraceful people, none of it would have been put on the internet at all! You go Connie!
July 1st, 2009 at 5:32 pm
sniff sniff poor connie
July 1st, 2009 at 5:36 pm
hey, y’know what’s funny?
June 30th, 2009 at 10:59 am
I was just scrolling through all of this & saw the letter from the ‘registered nurse’ again.
The original posting of this letter, on the comments of the (conveniently now deleted) i-report ‘article’, included some odd misspellings, most notably a way off-base spelling of ‘fellatio’ as something like ‘falachio’. I remember that a few of us even commented on that at the time.
Isn’t it odd how that misspelling is missing in the presumed cut/paste of this official letter from a witness registered nurse when it’s later posted here?
***rolf that’s funny***
July 1st, 2009 at 5:37 pm
JustMe
July 1st, 2009 at 5:32 pm
sniff sniff poor connie
July 1st, 2009 at 5:38 pm
poor connie sniff sniff
July 1st, 2009 at 5:38 pm
JustMe
July 1st, 2009 at 5:38 pm
poor connie sniff sniff
July 1st, 2009 at 5:40 pm
Whats the congratulations for? LMAO congratulations? ha ha ha
July 1st, 2009 at 6:02 pm
Anyone feel like sharing the outcome of yesterday’s hearing? Anyone at all?
*tumbleweed drifts by*
July 1st, 2009 at 8:49 pm
OMG. PattyCake is cracking me up. She was an interested party and poster or whatever and now she’s involved with the case and submitted an affidavit to the judge.
–” Dear Judge, my name is PattyCake and I post on Bubba the Love Sponge and all kindsa people that post there are saying mean things and Connie must be forcing them to say these mean things and me and my friends Icky and Tubby think you should do something about it. Please put her in jail so me & Icky have something new to post about”
July 1st, 2009 at 10:53 pm
Retardo? Really?
I haven’t heard anyone make fun of mentally handicapped people since elementary school.
Wow…
July 2nd, 2009 at 12:43 am
justgetyourselfouttahere
if there was good news for connies hearing everyone would be screaming it from the mountain tops. LMAO
July 2nd, 2009 at 1:48 am
bnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn where for art thou master of all knowledge awaiting your update. thou’s knowledge equals a sludge and ye bows to your greatness and holiness
July 2nd, 2009 at 7:51 am
Glad,
LMAO!!! That is funny!
Btdt, Bnn will be writing a new article as soon as they can.
July 2nd, 2009 at 1:26 pm
Everybody is saying Connie and the Bedwell’s are Jewish but I think the Thompsons are Jewish!!
Look it up all of their names are Jewish: Adam, Dina, David, John, Thompson, etc…
Aaliyah is even Jewish.
The Thompson’s are just a whole bunch of Jews calling the Bedwell’s a bunch of Jews. LOL
They call Connie’s religion “unusual” but they are all Jews. Maybe the Thompson’s should learn about their heritage before they continue to indirectly call themselves and their ancestors “unusual.”
A little knowledge goes a long way…
So my question is
WHO’S THE JEWS?
July 2nd, 2009 at 1:48 pm
Anybody know where Lying Libelous Pa Pa went?
I bet he is afraid because he altered Tim’s nonexistant record and he is afraid of a lawsuit. He disappeared as soon as he realized some of the people posting here aren’t morons and called him on his crap.
Eddy Craig from Sarasota Fl… Where are you? That is your real name right Lying Libelous Pa Pa?
Why if you are defending an innocent man do you have to lie about the Bedwell’s?
Only guilty people need to lie and have people lie for them…
July 2nd, 2009 at 3:18 pm
Did anyone see “Flappycakes” posting yesterday? She thinks the world revolves around her. She actually told everyone that she wrote an affadavit to the judge! One more lie to add to her long list. Judges’ information isn’t available to the public because of people like her.
Patty this isn’t about you! Get some help it seems you have this problem called…
Narcissistic Personality Disorder
DSM IV-TR criteria
A pervasive pattern of grandiosity (in fantasy or behavior), need for admiration, and lack of empathy, beginning by early adulthood and present in a variety of contexts, as indicated by five (or more) of the following:
1) has a grandiose sense of self-importance
2)is preoccupied with fantasies of unlimited success, power, brilliance, beauty or ideal love (megalomania)
3) believes that he or she is “special” and can only be understood by, or should associate with, people (or institutions) who are also “special” or of high status.
4) requires excessive admiration
5) has a sense of entitlement
6) is interpersonally exploitative
7)lacks empathy
8)is often envious of others or believes others are envious of him or her
9)shows arrogant, haughty behaviors or attitudes
Check, check, check, check… and check! Patty it fits you perfectly. Anybody can see it for themselves throughout all of your postings!
Patty what makes you think you are so important that the Judge is actually going to listen to you if you were to write to the judge? You are a blogger with 5th hand information! Im sure you didn’t write anything to the judge but only told people that to get attention, to feel important, to have people ask you questions like you have inside information. That is a pretty desperate stunt to pull. Your behavior says Narcissistic all over it!
This isn’t about you Patty. Get over yourself.
It is about an innocent baby that is having her psychological health ripped away from her because of her child molesting monster of a dad and her physically abusive grandfather. Have some empathy for the child that is being abused by her father.
Maybe Dr Saturley can help you right along the side of your friends L L Pa Pa, Dustin and John David Thompson.
We all will support you getting the help you so desperately need. We will all pray for you.
Please just get help.
July 2nd, 2009 at 7:57 pm
LMAO just wait and see what’s about to happen to Dustin and his worm. Big things are happening so flappy beasty & tubby will have to eat it big time. Things are about to get interesting and Aaliyah will finally be safe.
July 3rd, 2009 at 12:22 am
Well Flabbycakes why the silence? You’re buddy Tubby got the thread closed. Why are you hiding? LMAO scared? Better be. Tell your worm friend things are coming.
July 3rd, 2009 at 9:41 am
We need everyone to join and help. Contact me asap letter email phone, things are happening now!
Karen Daley
3708 RIDGEMERE DR
VALDOSTA, GA 31605 Ph: 229-794-1838
My email is tianjaffords@hotmail.com
If the sick pedo’s reading here try and mess with my 4 kids there will be hell! Save Aaliyah
July 3rd, 2009 at 9:45 am
Well Flappy, Beast and co, we’re still waiting…..
*tumbleweed drifts by*
You must be running scared as you’re running round deleting comments and threads. You do realise everything is saved elsewhere don’t you??
You’re so desperate for posters at the ‘Outhouse’ you’ve even got C~A copying and pasting other peoples comments from other sites – he he he he
Back in your boxes freaks, this is about Aaliyah!
http://www.saveaaliyah.com/
July 3rd, 2009 at 12:00 pm
I just want to respond to something that was said on another board regarding this case.
Changing custody or limiting visitation when a parent shows contempt for the decisions the court has made regarding what is best for the child – is not ‘punishment’. It is an attempt to try to do what’s best for the child, in response to the realization that the parent in contempt is not planning to cooperate with what the court has already decided.
It’s a ‘change of plans’ that the court has to make after the parent shows that they have no respect for the courts decisions, especially if that parent’s actions are proving to be detrimental to the child’s well-being. One very important part of being a parent to a child who is moving from parent to parent, is to let the child know that you respect and encourage their relationship with their other parent. Not doing so is harmful to your child, not in their best interest.
July 3rd, 2009 at 3:50 pm
Dustin why don’t you take a lie detector test?
Connie will.
July 3rd, 2009 at 4:46 pm
Hey L L Pa Pa
July 2nd, 2009 at 1:48 pm
Snipped quote
“Only guilty people need to lie and have people lie for them…”
DAMN YOU GOT THAT RIGHT. HOW MANY PEOPLE ARE THERE LYING FOR CONNIE?
July 3rd, 2009 at 7:57 pm
Hey L L Pa Pa
July 2nd, 2009 at 1:48 pm
*snipped*
Eddy Craig from Sarasota Fl… Where are you? That is your real name right
KarenCCC
Karen Daley from Valdosta GA. Where are you? That is your real name right
July 3rd, 2009 at 9:28 pm
Well, I guess I should go back to using KarenCCC since Dustin is using my old one. Have fun Dustin. You do NOT bother me…..Kisses!
July 3rd, 2009 at 11:08 pm
Yikes – no matter how strongly you feel about this, putting your personal information out like that, especially when emotions are running so high on this issue, is not a smart or safe thing to do. I’m sure if you ask the webmaster, they’ll delete that comment for you. You have no idea who can read that, how they feel about you or how emotionally stable they may be.
July 3rd, 2009 at 11:18 pm
Re: Polygraph (lie detector) – They are not useful in a court of law (even family court). See California Superior Court decision here: http://www.saccourt.ca.gov/juvenile/delinquency/rulings/docs/sara-b.pdf – pages 11 & 12 mention the admissibility of lie detector tests in court, calling them as useful as a deck of tarot cards…
A lie detector test might help clear his name on the internet for some people (and, for others, it will be seen as being interpreted wrong or being as useful as a deck of tarot cards), but what does that have to do with his life as a parent?
July 3rd, 2009 at 11:49 pm
Reminds me of a circus side-show. How does this help any child? shame on all of you
July 4th, 2009 at 1:57 am
I thought Papa Ed & Dena were from Brandon,Fl ??
July 4th, 2009 at 2:02 am
Yes I posted my info!
July 4th, 2009 at 2:26 am
Just me…
Get your buddy Dustin to take a polyghraph. $50 says he wont.
July 4th, 2009 at 9:11 am
First off, I dont know why any of you think it was Karen who posted LL Pa Pa’s name. Why would she need his info? She isn’t the one who would be filing a lawsuit for altering Tim’s record. Think about it genius’. Trace the IP its not coming from GA! And hey Pattycake your next sweetcheeks!
You people aren’t that intelligent to be altering documents to lie, slander and defame people when they can prove what you are saying is bull.
This one goes to JUSTME- What makes you think that people are lying for Connie? There are plenty of people behind the scenes that have the visitation reports and documents in their own hands that are fighting for Aaliyah. This was never about Connie. Dustin wants to make it about Connie to side track you off the real issue…
DUSTIN IS MOLESTING HIS OWN DAUGHTER.
Yes, all people behind the scenes have “THE PROOF” that Aaliyah is still talking about her tongue hurting, how mad her daddy is, how she begs to go home with her mommy, and how her daddy wears a scary mask, etc and so on. Patty, LL, Beast, Pedophile clan… Why hasn’t Dustin supplied you with those reports since you are all such great detectives and you are defending an “innocent” PIG?
Dustin Thompson is a Child Molesting Creep.
We all KNOW THIS AS FACT! That’s why we are fighting on Connie’s side because we all have seen PROOF that she isnt the one making her daughter say and do those statements and behaviors. We all know why Aaliyah is still saying and doing those things…
Dustin Thompson is a Child Molester.
It doesn’t take a genius to figure it out.
To MaureenN-
Who would respect a court system full of ignorant monkey’s who put a defenseless child in the home of a Child Molester?
Attempt to use your own head people…and Not let the Wormy Daddy do it for you.
DUSTIN TAKE A LIE DETECTOR TEST SO ALL OF YOUR SUPPORTERS CAN SCREAM YOUR GUILTY WITH US.
We know you won’t take one!! Let the Truth come out!!!
July 4th, 2009 at 9:34 am
Addressing Patty off the other site
Patty what makes you think that Connie is capable of taking anything off the net? Did Dustin tell you that so you just turn around spew it without using a single brain cell you might have?
Not a single thing is coming down off the net. If that’s what Dustin thinks, that is funny. That’s what he was begging Connie for and he obviously didn’t pay attention to what Connie’s attorney told the judge. Plus Connie has zero control of what we all do on the net!
The internet is just the beginning of this battle. Not a single thing is coming down until Aaliyah is safe from her Wormy Daddy aka The Parrot aka The Scary Monster and Abusive Papi or shall we call him “mad grandpa” because that’s what Aali called him until “Papi” realized he was being told on too.
John David Thompson and Dustin David Thompson mark these words…
Your lies are going to unravel in front of the entire nation.
Your lies are going to unravel in front of the entire nation.
Your lies are going to unravel in front of the entire nation.
Your lies are going to unravel in front of the entire nation.
Your lies are going to unravel in front of the entire nation.
Your lies are going to unravel in front of the entire nation.
Your lies are going to unravel in front of the entire nation.
I hope that rings in your head on an hourly basis. Think about it and let it eat at your conscience (if you even have one left).
Your lies are going to unravel in front of the entire nation!!!!!!!
July 4th, 2009 at 11:11 am
I didnn’t post anything on here since the Ireport fiascoe except the DISMISSED charges for Tim Bedwell and a few laughing posts about what others have said about Patty and Beast. I really don’t care about all of you and if you post my information. Papa, I’m not the one that had your information, and I certainly didn’t post it. You all say I’m crazy, but I am not like any of you. I wouldn’t do that. I don’t care that my information is here, it’s been every where else since the Ireport. Using my name and pretending that I post this stuff doesn’t bother me. You can tell by the writing styles it isn’t me. So go ahead, what you think you accomplished, you didn’t do any harm to me. But thanks for letting everyone know how pathetic you all are.
July 4th, 2009 at 11:16 am
Sigh,
Thanks for the advice, but they have had my information posted pretty much everywhere since the middle of June. They know what I’ve done about it and since they have now done it again, there will be something I can do about it. They all think I’m crazy, so if some creep comes to my house or anything, I can use that as an excuse for my actions.
July 4th, 2009 at 11:19 am
Plans are in the works to Save Aaliyah!
Karen Daley
3708 RIDGEMERE DR
VALDOSTA, GA 31605 Ph: 229-794-1838
My email is tianjaffords@hotmail.com
July 4th, 2009 at 11:33 am
The courts are the ones who are deciding custody issues in this case.
If she does not respect to the court, the judges making the decisions, then what exactly does she hope to accomplish? What is her goal? What is her plan?
If the intention is not to show evidence to help the judge decide what is in the best interest of her child, what is the point of the videos & claims of abuse?
Is it just a tantrum?
An attempt to slander?
Who is she attempting to reach with the videos & claims of abuse, if not someone who actually has the ability & power to keep her child safe? The general internet public?
And if she’s right about the abuse -and- not willing to really disrespect the courts & laws by simply putting her child into hiding – then continuing to show contempt for the very system that has the power to keep her child safe, is a very immature, unreasonable, irresponsible way to be a parent.
Again, I don’t know anything about this case besides what I’ve seen on the internet. I’ve not spoken to anyone on either side or received personal emails from anyone on either side of this family. I have no idea what is true or not true.
But, I do know children well, know that they say all kinds of things that can mean a million different things. I know that children have all kinds of issues while growing up, including rashes, diaper rashes, potty training problems, boundary pushing, sleeping issues, etc & that those are not, necessarily, proof of abuse. I know that if abuse is happening, that doctors can usually find physical proof of it. I know that mothers are not automatically the best parent or even a caring parent, that sometimes they (just like fathers sometimes) cannot put their own issues aside & do what’s right for their kids, give their children what they need.
I also know how the custody/family courts work. My husband was in & out of court with his ex for over a decade. But, it’s not just the court system that I’m familiar with. I’m familiar with the games that divorced parents sometimes play outside of court.
I’m also familiar with how much those games harm the children who are stuck in the middle. My stepdaughter has issues & emotional scars that she will carry with her for the rest of her life.
This child will, too. Unless everyone starts working respectfully within the court system (and it is possible to respectfully disagree and to respectfully show proof to ask for changes), respectfully with each other, and really puts themselves in the child’s shoes & heart, putting their own egos aside & being good day-to-day parents, teaching her how to confidently find her way in the world.
July 4th, 2009 at 11:35 am
DADDY’S WORM
The pedophile clan wants to try to convince anybody they can that “Daddy’s Worm” is anything but Dustin’s penis. So right here we will rip his “theories” to shreds with this thing called LOGIC.
(Think slowly about each point before you move on to the next point.)
1) Dustin wants you all to believe the child is speaking of Baby Einstein’s worm:
The child is clearly speaking of 3 types of worms throughout the video. Baby Einstein’s worm is the first one she addresses which she states is green and orange. Anyone that has seen B. E. knows that is correct and accurate. The child then adresses “Daddy’s worm” which tastes “Yucky” and makes her cough, he has to wipe her mouth with like a napkin because of “Daddy’s worm” not B. E.’s worm. She states she sometimes gets mad at daddy and then further describes why. At the end she describes how daddy takes her to the store to see worms. She is very descriptive and very clear it is “daddy’s worm” not worm’s from the store. Daddy thinks he is so smart and tried to confuse her by taking her to the store to see worms. Too bad for him that his child is more intelligent than him. The child then concludes she doesn’t like ANY of the worms. She gives the infamous worm an owner, her Daddy. She gives Baby Einstein’s worm an owner B. E., and she tells us where the other worms are that daddy made her go see…at the store.
She addresses “daddy’s worm’s” size. She is holding her little baby doll in her arms and says its giant like her baby. She says she tried to see him, he tries to look big.
“he tries to look big” possibly like an errection? She says “she tried to see him” so apparently it was dark. She says “I tell daddy’s worm dont do that, its yucky, dont touch my mouth worm” And that she has to tell him “dont stop.” It makes her choke and cry. Then tells him “daddy get it off, he has to wipe it off with like a napkin.” This child descibed perfectly the act of oral sex in complete sequencial order entirely on her own. “Daddy’s worm” does it to her. Then she states “daddy wants to have a baby.”
2) The Child Molester wants you to believe his Worm is an earth worm:
The child is very descriptive and clear. She described it’s size and it is not the size of an earth worm. Why would Daddy be sticking earth worms in her mouth anyway? That is abuse in itself. If you paid attention in the first of his theories it clearly debunks this theory of the child molesters too.
3) The Child molester wants you to believe that she is speaking of gummy worms:
Listen to the child!! She tells you Baby Einstein’s worm is green and orange, not “Daddy’s worm.” Remember she tells you about “daddy’s worm” that she “tried to see him.” It’s kind of hard to see a worm that is getting shoved down your throat in the dark that makes you choke and cry. “It tries to look big” so we know it changes sizes. Plus, kids love gummy worms. “Daddy’s worm” is “yucky,” she has to tell it “dont stop” and then she states “daddy wants a baby”!! That is no gummy worm! Why would a child think her daddy wants a baby with her? Think about it. Why would she have to tell a worm that she doesn’t like, “Dont stop”?
4) The Wormy Daddy wants you to believe the mother coached her:
Coaching is leading. It is the same as leading a witness with the answer in the question just like the rules in a courtroom. First of all nobody is even talking about the subject of “Daddy’s worm” in the video but ONLY the child entirely on her own. The only question asked is “What does the worm look like? There was nothing suggesting or leading in it. For those of you who do not understand what coaching is, a coaching example would be: Does the worm look like a banana? That would be suggesting an answer in the question. None of which ever happens throughout the entire 27 minutes of the “Daddy’s Worm” Video. The Mother and Aunt aren’t even talking. The child is insisting on telling them why she doesn’t want to go to bed. Any good Psychologist knows that children relate everything to their own knowledge and the world as they know it. They relate their own problems to their dolls having the same problems. This child in the video tells us that “Daddy’s worm makes her sick and cry and it makes her teddy bear sick and cry too.” She tells us that both her and her doll “don’t wants to go to bed right now.” At 2 1/2 she wouldn’t know the word penis instead describes it the best way she knows how “Daddy’s worm.” Don’t forget also there were previous reports made to CPS by others than the mother of the child describing “daddy’s worm” as having hair like the hair on her head, it having one eye, and hurting her tongue. There are previous reports and restraining orders filed because “daddy hurts her pee pee” before she ever talked about daddy’s worm in her mouth.
Child molesters only progress in the sick things they experiment on children. You can see the progression throughout this child’s statements and behaviors. You can only imagine what he is doing to her since he has her alone for a year.
It is very clear to any attentive parent that it is impossible to coach a 2 1/2 year old child to talk for 27 minutes straight relating everything she says to her dolls. Not one time throughout the entire video does she ask what mommy what did you say? The Inotation (rise and fall of ones pitch) is clear this child is speaking of her own valition. Her inotation does not rise like she is questioning each statement like a coached child would sound like. This child is clearly uncoached.
Also it is pitch dark in the room. You can tell that they have to turn on a glowing bear in order to see. Also the infared is on in order to view the video. There is a tremendous amount of detail in the video alone to prove this child was indeed not coached or prompted in any way to say what she is describing about her “Daddy’s Worm”.
Help stop this Child Molester!
July 4th, 2009 at 11:55 am
We know that lie detector tests are not admissable in court. The courts do not care about Truth.
And since you are defending the Child Molester, get him to take a Polygraph test to show you peronally what a Child Molester he is.
And sorry but I have to rip you hard on this question because it is probably the most idiotic question I’ve ever heard…
“but what does that have to do with his life as a parent?”
ARE YOU KIDDING ME??????????????
WHAT WOULD A LIE DETECTOR TEST DO TO DETERMINE WHETHER HE IS MOLESTING HIS OWN DAUGHTER AND WHAT DOES THAT HAVE TO DO WITH HIS LIFE AS A PARENT???
I THINK THE CHILD MOLESTER HIMSELF IS POSTING UNDER MAUREEN!!!!
WOW!!!!
Who wouldn’t have guessed that the Pedophile clan would make excusses for The Child Molester having to take a lie detector test?
G U I L T Y.
All of your excuses say one thing to us all Dustin…
G U I L T Y.
G U I L T Y.
G U I L T Y.
G U I L T Y.
G U I L T Y.
G U I L T Y.
G U I L T Y.
G U I L T Y.
G U I L T Y.
G U I L T Y.
G U I L T Y.
And “Wonder” I put my life on it that he won’t take a lie detector test nor ever step foot near one.
Connie already had agreed to take a lie detector test and show the results to the world how about you Dustin?
We are still waiting.
Come on clear your “innocent” name in front of all of us!!
July 4th, 2009 at 12:10 pm
More kisses! Muah!!!
July 4th, 2009 at 9:24 pm
marmite
July 3rd, 2009 at 9:45 am
Well Flappy, Beast and co, we’re still waiting…..
*tumbleweed drifts by*
You must be running scared as you’re running round deleting comments and threads. You do realise everything is saved elsewhere don’t you??
You’re so desperate for posters at the ‘Outhouse’ you’ve even got C~A copying and pasting other peoples comments from other sites – he he he he
Back in your boxes freaks, this is about Aaliyah!
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YA TUMBLEWEEDS FORM IN MY MOUTH PRICLE!!! I knew I should not have come in here…WTF are you talking about idiot! I do want I want …I don’t do anything for anyone…Why don’t you STOP coming to our blog if you don’t like what i do…I mean really, get a life…you don’t like what i do what i say what i post…GO AWAY! This is a baby A article…WHY ARE YOU POSTING WHAT YOU SEE I COPY AND PASTE FOR A MICHAEL JACKSON ARTICLE…you say this isn’t about me?? HELLOOOO…you are posting stuff I do on another topic on baby A’s article…YOU SICK PIG…
We thank you very much are not desperate for posters you idiot…we don’t have ads’ and are not paid…unlike THE OTHER SITE YOU BELONG TOO…GOING DOWN DOWN DOWN…LMFAO!
Your still so angry with me? You miss me!! Too bad…have fun spewing you b.s about who I am ..YOU DON’T KNOW ME SKANK! WHY CAN’T YOU LEAVE ME ALONE…??? I have not been here for 2 months…and your still taking about me…YOUR A SAD DEGENERATE NO LIFE…You make me laugh…MOVE ALONG LITTLE DOGGY…STAY OFF OUR SITE IF YA DON’T LIKE IT! GAWD!
July 5th, 2009 at 2:05 am
Hey Simon, aka MARMITE, you write fiction with your real name, why not post here using the same name you use on your blog? Hiding? Do us a favor, use spell check… A 4th grader can spell better than you can SIMON AKA MARMITE
And for Darrel, and his right arm, couldn’t find a reason to call her a lady, because she is not…. Darrel, unless you Tim in disguise, you need to grab yours and try to save part of your name, as does your sweet sis DuhNiece.
HEY TIM, HEY DARREL, when you are done trying to FIND YOUR BALLS OFF THE FLOOR- as you uh, let scara CARA speak for you so called MEN — the jokes you are, running so far GRANDPA about had to run as close to RUSSIA as he could…
Maybe ya’ll should look at or rethink, ( Lord, I am giving these people credit to think — hee hee ) something called peaceful protesting…
A guy named John Murtari, well, he stood for his rights, and LIKE A MAN did not cry out blame elsewhere… instead, when he went to jail, he went on a hunger strike. Would not drink or eat for weeks….
Instead of being a GROWN UP- you all exploit a child… and let her be the brunt….
GROW SOME –
CONNIE ACCEPT JAIL TIME! GO ON A HUNGER STRIKE- Make Placer county be responsible for your being even so much as hydrated… if you so believe in your cause.
OR DARREL OR TIM, you do it for her.
Better odds than the lottery that none of the above, Timmy, Darrrel, or ANY Bedwell, will make an ounce of sacrifice…
They will keep using MARMITE AKA BNN or fools like KAREN..
BEDWELL PUSSY CHUMPS! EVEN your dike baseball sister – still a chump!
I will eat it, right here, in CHICAGO –
I LOVE DENNIS RODMAN THE WORM!
- just because I am from Cicero, doesn’t mean I am a fan of Capone.
July 5th, 2009 at 2:24 am
Oh by the way Skimmy TIMMY! You are a runaway… What kind of father BAILS out on their daughters and baby boy. by running as far away as one can?
You are a JOKE TIM!
REAL FATHERS ARE CLOSE BY not thousands of miles away and having people make lies about being discharges for stalking. WHAT ABOUT YOUR OTHER CHARGES TIMMY TIMMY TIMMY WON’T GO HOME!
HEY DARREL! PLEASE tell us, when those murderes who lives 650+ 8 hours away from Timmy lived, what exactly was the ‘bar’? Was it that Tim didn’t murder anyone, that he was a felon with a kidnapping charge, or was it, that you all could come up with NOTHING better to compare Connies DAD to, other than chasing murderers an 8 hour drive away for a pay check?
LOVE YOUR BAR FOR CHARACTER DARREL! Ya found a good one Connie… a dude who finds the bar for character chasing losers 850 miles away. GREAT JOB SKIMMY TIMMY!
Keep posting you freaks!
The more you talk, the more the NATION SEE’S THIS CHILD IS SAFE AS FAR AWAY FROM THE BEDHELLS AS POSSIBLE!
July 5th, 2009 at 2:24 am
Oh by the way TIMMY! You are a runaway… What kind of father BAILS out on their daughters and baby boy. by running as far away as one can?
You are a JOKE TIM!
REAL FATHERS ARE THEIR CLOSE BY not thousands of miles away and having people laugh about being discharges for stalking.
HEY DARREL! PLEASE tell us, when those murderes who lives 650+ 8 hours away from Timmy lived, what exactly was the ‘bar’? Was it that Tim didn’t murder anyone, that he was a felon with a kidnapping charge, or was it, that you all could come up with NOTHING better to compare Connies DAD to, other than chasing murderers an 8 hour drive away for a pay check?
LOVE YOUR BAR FOR CHARACTER DARREL! Ya found a good one Connie… a dude who finds the bar for character chasing losers 850 miles away. GREAT JOB SKIMMY TIMMY!
Keep posting you freaks!
The more you talk, the more the NATION SEE’S THIS CHILD IS SAFE AS FAR AWAY FROM THE BEDHELLS AS POSSIBLE!
July 5th, 2009 at 2:24 am
Oh by the way TIMMY! You are a runaway… What kind of father BAILS out on their daughters and baby boy. by running as far away as one can?
You are a JOKE TIM!
REAL FATHERS ARE THEIR CLOSE BY not thousands of miles away and having people laugh about being discharges for stalking.
HEY DARREL! PLEASE tell us, when those murderes who lives 650+ 8 hours away from Timmy lived, what exactly was the ‘bar’? Was it that Tim didn’t murder anyone, that he was a felon with a kidnapping charge, or was it, that you all could come up with NOTHING better to compare Connies DAD to, other than chasing murderers an 8 hour drive away for a pay check?
LOVE YOUR BAR FOR CHARACTER DARREL! Ya found a good one Connie… a dude who finds the bar for character chasing losers 850 miles away. GREAT JOB SKIMMY TIMMY!
Keep posting you freaks!
The more you talk, the more the NATION SEE’S THIS CHILD IS SAFE AS FAR AWAY FROM THE BEDHELLS AS POSSIBLE!
July 5th, 2009 at 2:24 am
Oh by the way TIMMY! You are a runaway… What kind of father BAILS out on their daughters and baby boy. by running as far away as one can?
You are a JOKE TIM!
REAL FATHERS ARE THEIR CLOSE BY not thousands of miles away and having people laugh about being discharges for stalking.
HEY DARREL! PLEASE tell us, when those murderes who lives 650+ 8 hours away from Timmy lived, what exactly was the ‘bar’? Was it that Tim didn’t murder anyone, that he was a felon with a kidnapping charge, or was it, that you all could come up with NOTHING better to compare Connies DAD to, other than chasing murderers an 8 hour drive away for a pay check?
LOVE YOUR BAR FOR CHARACTER DARREL!
Keep posting you freaks!
The more you talk, the more the NATION SEE’S THIS CHILD IS SAFE AS FAR AWAY FROM TEH BEDHELLS AS POSSIBLE!
July 5th, 2009 at 2:24 am
Oh by the way TIMMY! You are a runaway… What kind of father BAILS out on their daughters and baby boy. by running as far away as one can?
You are a JOKE TIM!
REAL FATHERS ARE THEIR CLOSE BY not thousands of miles away and having people laugh about being discharges for stalking.
HEY DARREL! PLEASE tell us, when those murderes who lives 650+ 8 hours away from Timmy lived, what exactly was the ‘bar’? Was it that Tim didn’t murder anyone, that he was a felon with a kidnapping charge, or was it, that you all could come up with NOTHING better to compare Connies DAD to, other than chasing murderers an 8 hour drive away for a pay check?
LOVE YOUR BAR FOR CHARACTER DARREL! Ya found a good one Connie… a dude who finds the bar for character chasing losers 850 miles away. GREAT JOB SKIMMY TIMMY!
Keep posting you freaks!
The more you talk, the more the NATION SEE’S THIS CHILD IS SAFE AS FAR AWAY FROM THE BEDHELLS AS POSSIBLE!
July 5th, 2009 at 2:24 am
Oh by the way Skimmy TIMMY! You are a runaway… What kind of father BAILS out on their daughters and baby boy. by running as far away as one can?
You are a JOKE TIM!
REAL FATHERS ARE CLOSE BY not thousands of miles away and having people make lies about being discharges for stalking. WHAT ABOUT YOUR OTHER CHARGES TIMMY TIMMY TIMMY WON’T GO HOME!
HEY DARREL! PLEASE tell us, when those murderes who lives 650+ 8 hours away from Timmy lived, what exactly was the ‘bar’? Was it that Tim didn’t murder anyone, that he was a felon with a kidnapping charge, or was it, that you all could come up with NOTHING better to compare Connies DAD to, other than chasing murderers an 8 hour drive away for a pay check?
LOVE YOUR BAR FOR CHARACTER DARREL! Ya found a good one Connie… a dude who finds the bar for character chasing losers 850 miles away. GREAT JOB SKIMMY TIMMY!
Keep posting you freaks!
The more you talk, the more the NATION SEE’S THIS CHILD IS SAFE AS FAR AWAY FROM THE BEDHELLS AS POSSIBLE!
July 5th, 2009 at 2:24 am
Oh by the way TIMMY! You are a runaway… What kind of father BAILS out on their daughters and baby boy. by running as far away as one can?
You are a JOKE TIM!
REAL FATHERS ARE THEIR CLOSE BY not thousands of miles away and having people laugh about being discharges for stalking.
HEY DARREL! PLEASE tell us, when those murderes who lives 650+ 8 hours away from Timmy lived, what exactly was the ‘bar’? Was it that Tim didn’t murder anyone, that he was a felon with a kidnapping charge, or was it, that you all could come up with NOTHING better to compare Connies DAD to, other than chasing murderers an 8 hour drive away for a pay check?
LOVE YOUR BAR FOR CHARACTER DARREL! Ya found a good one Connie… a dude who finds the bar for character chasing losers 850 miles away. GREAT JOB SKIMMY TIMMY!
Keep posting you freaks!
The more you talk, the more the NATION SEE’S THIS CHILD IS SAFE AS FAR AWAY FROM THE BEDHELLS AS POSSIBLE!
July 5th, 2009 at 2:24 am
Oh by the way TIMMY! You are a runaway… What kind of father BAILS out on their daughters and baby boy. by running as far away as one can?
You are a JOKE TIM!
REAL FATHERS ARE THEIR CLOSE BY not thousands of miles away and having people laugh about being discharges for stalking.
HEY DARREL! PLEASE tell us, when those murderes who lives 650+ 8 hours away from Timmy lived, what exactly was the ‘bar’? Was it that Tim didn’t murder anyone, that he was a felon with a kidnapping charge, or was it, that you all could come up with NOTHING better to compare Connies DAD to, other than chasing murderers an 8 hour drive away for a pay check?
LOVE YOUR BAR FOR CHARACTER DARREL! Ya found a good one Connie… a dude who finds the bar for character chasing losers 850 miles away. GREAT JOB SKIMMY TIMMY!
Keep posting you freaks!
The more you talk, the more the NATION SEE’S THIS CHILD IS SAFE AS FAR AWAY FROM THE BEDHELLS AS POSSIBLE!
July 5th, 2009 at 2:24 am
Oh by the way Skimmy TIMMY! You are a runaway… What kind of father BAILS out on their daughters and baby boy. by running as far away as one can?
You are a JOKE TIM!
REAL FATHERS ARE CLOSE BY not thousands of miles away and having people make lies about being discharges for stalking. WHAT ABOUT YOUR OTHER CHARGES TIMMY TIMMY TIMMY WON’T GO HOME!
HEY DARREL! PLEASE tell us, when those murderes who lives 650+ 8 hours away from Timmy lived, what exactly was the ‘bar’? Was it that Tim didn’t murder anyone, that he was a felon with a kidnapping charge, or was it, that you all could come up with NOTHING better to compare Connies DAD to, other than chasing murderers an 8 hour drive away for a pay check?
LOVE YOUR BAR FOR CHARACTER DARREL! Ya found a good one Connie… a dude who finds the bar for character chasing losers 850 miles away. GREAT JOB SKIMMY TIMMY!
Keep posting you freaks!
The more you talk, the more the NATION SEE’S THIS CHILD IS SAFE AS FAR AWAY FROM THE BEDHELLS AS POSSIBLE!
July 5th, 2009 at 2:24 am
Oh by the way TIMMY! You are a runaway… What kind of father BAILS out on their daughters and baby boy. by running as far away as one can?
You are a JOKE TIM!
REAL FATHERS ARE THEIR CLOSE BY not thousands of miles away and having people laugh about being discharges for stalking.
HEY DARREL! PLEASE tell us, when those murderes who lives 650+ 8 hours away from Timmy lived, what exactly was the ‘bar’? Was it that Tim didn’t murder anyone, that he was a felon with a kidnapping charge, or was it, that you all could come up with NOTHING better to compare Connies DAD to, other than chasing murderers an 8 hour drive away for a pay check?
LOVE YOUR BAR FOR CHARACTER DARREL! Ya found a good one Connie… a dude who finds the bar for character chasing losers 850 miles away. GREAT JOB SKIMMY TIMMY!
Keep posting you freaks!
The more you talk, the more the NATION SEE’S THIS CHILD IS SAFE AS FAR AWAY FROM THE BEDHELLS AS POSSIBLE!
July 5th, 2009 at 3:08 am
My name is Timmy (Bedwell), I got a nickel, it bought me a bus ticket and a bench to sleep on too.
My latest stop, is Alaska, where I am a baska’
Cuz all I can offer is a nickel or two….
and then along came DARREL!
Who would like another tune other than the legaSEEEEEEE
that comes with leaving women to panhandle for the FAMILY!
TIM, Darrel, WHAT MEN YOU ARE!
BRAA HAA HAA HAA HAAAAAA
You go suck your own worm, or better yet, chase your tails you SQUIRRELS!
July 5th, 2009 at 3:24 am
Yep, I LOVE THE WORM! #91
I LOVE THE WORM
I LOVE THE WORM
Hey WORM, I miss you playing with MJ!
LOVE YOU WORM! I WANT THE JERSEY!
When vague desire is the fire
In the eyes of chicks whose sickness
Is the games they play
And when the masquerade is played
The neighbor folks make jokes
At who is most to blame today
the above, dedicated to the BEDHELLS!
July 5th, 2009 at 4:51 am
marmite
July 3rd, 2009 at 9:45 am
Well Flappy, Beast and co, we’re still waiting…..
*tumbleweed drifts by*
You must be running scared as you’re running round deleting comments and threads. You do realise everything is saved elsewhere don’t you??
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First of all anything that has been posted has NEVER been deleted…SECOND of all there was and is nothing there that would give us any reason to delete! OOHH..running scared…ya you got it Barfite!! Do you realize how immature and senseless it is to run your mouth off about total b.s? You know your full of it…I know you full of it!! JUST WHO IS IT YOUR TRYING TO FOOL AND WHAT IS YOUR PURPOSE?
Do I dare hold my breath for an HONEST answer or something to back your mouth up with !!
July 5th, 2009 at 4:51 am
and uh…your still waiting…DID YOU WANT SOMETHING?
July 5th, 2009 at 4:57 am
It is a fact CA has 5 kids. I got the number right so I told the truth. It don’t make no difference who the daddy is. I never said nothing about him or her husband for that matter. If over half her brood ain’t yours huh, sounds like a big ole personal problem to me.
Have you 2 ever thought about getting off the computer and going to see a real marriage counselor.
HEY MELISSA…I HAVE NEVER SPOKE TO YOU NOR DO I CARE TO..JUST WHO THE HEL ARE YOU TO SPEAK OF MY CHILDREN OR MY MARRIAGE..WHO DO YOU THINK YOU ARE! MY CHILDREN AREN’T ANY OF YOUR GAWD DAMN BUSNINESS TO DISCSUSS ..YOU GOT THAT!!! GROW UP, KEEP MY PERSONAL LIFE OUT OF THIS YOU SCUM BAG, WHICH IS FYI JUST FINE THANK YOU…WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU!
YOU DON’T KNOW JACK ABOUT MY PERSONAL LIFE…SO DON’T PRETEND TO…SEEMS TO ME YOU ARE THE ONE THAT NEEDS SOME PERSONAL ATTENTION FROM A PROFESSIONAL! THIS SITE REAKS OF THE SCUM OF THE EARTH!!
You have alot of nerve…
July 5th, 2009 at 8:05 pm
Why would Mr. Thompson bother taking a lie detector test? The only people that matter already believe him, and that’s the court system. He’s not required to answer to anyone else except the court system. He also has everything he wants—full custody of the child. Why would he waste his time and money?
Let Ms. Bedwell take a lie detector test, since it’s her word that’s being doubted by the courts. You all can take up a collection to pay for it, since you’re so concerned.
Of course, as many people have said, lie detector tests aren’t admissible in court, so why should Ms. Bedwell take one either? It would just be a big fat waste of money—money that she could spend on the visitation center and seeing her child. Why would she waste her time and money?
Maybe lie detector tests are just a stupid idea, since they won’t really help anyone!
July 6th, 2009 at 5:46 am
It is still apparent that C~A has NOT yet got that help she so greatly needs. She keeps saying she isn’t going to post here anymore and back she comes again! It would laughable if she wasn’t messing around with the life of a 3 year old girl.
How can anyone defend the fact the fact that the father won’t take a lie detector test, it may not be admissable in court but it would certainly clear up a hell of a lot of doubt.
Ask any innocent person if they were accused of sexually abusing their little girl would they take a lie detector test, everyone I have asked has said they would go to ANY lengths to clear their name.
Cost isn’t an issue for the Thompsons, if they can afford to keep this case in court for this long they can afford a lie detector test. You know what, IF the test proved the ‘father’ wasnt lying I’m sure he could sue the Bedwells for his costs so surely it’s a win win situation for him either way.
Still not willing to take the test Dustin – Why, what do you have to hide?
http://www.saveaaliyah.com/
July 6th, 2009 at 9:43 am
How can anyone defend the fact that Connie won’t take a lie detector test.. works both ways…idiots..
July 6th, 2009 at 10:32 am
“How can anyone defend the fact the fact that the father won’t take a lie detector test, it may not be admissable in court but it would certainly clear up a hell of a lot of doubt. ”
Clear up doubt for who? The internet public?
As a parent, I wouldn’t waste my time & money defending myself to the general internet public, no matter what they were accusing me of doing. A responsible parent puts their child’s needs before their own personal issues, unless those issues are interfering with their ability to parent well.
The courts have not asked for (and most certanly won’t ask for) a polygraph test. I’m sure that, if they do, both parents would comply. As far as I’ve heard here on the internet, the father is complying with everything that the courts ask of him.
July 6th, 2009 at 10:48 am
BTW – If I were Connie & truly believed that my child was being abused, I would most certainly be playing nice with whoever I needed to play nice with, in order to get time with my child, even supervised time that I had to work 2 extra jobs to pay for. I would play nice with the courts, I would play nice with my ex, I would let the judges, lawyers & all involved officials know that I understood their concerns & was willing to do anything to show them that they could trust me.
I would be friendly with my worst enemy, if it meant that I could spend even a few minutes with my child, comforting her, giving her strength, letting her know that there’s a safe, loving place in the world. I would be aching for my child, alone in an abusive world & I would not let my pride or personal feelings stand in my way at all in order to be with her.
Then, I would keep working within the system, the system that has the power, to earn more time, more custody, to get people to know I was trustworthy, responsible, mature, sane, doing whatever was asked of me, then asking what more I could do, in order to find someone with power who I could convince, rationally, of what I believed to be true.
I would stay in constant contact with my child’s psychologist, asking that person to include me whenever possible in the sessions. And, even if that was not possible, I would befriend the counselor or psychologist, behaving rationally & responsibly, showing an awareness of the possibility that I might not be believed due to my personal involvement in these relationships, but that I felt strongly that there was abuse happening.
I would admit to the possibility, also, that the child’s father was not *all evil*, that there was good in his presence in her life as well. Believing only in extremes, with no gray areas, is a sign of irrationality – especially when discussing a person who, in your past, you chose to be in a relationship with, therefore, in your past, somehone who you admired & saw something good & valuable in.
And, once I had the custodial ability to do so, I would bring my child to a doctor for a full physical exam, making sure that the doctor knew that I was concerned about the possibility of sexual abuse. This, along with psychological support, is what the court needs to see.
July 6th, 2009 at 11:09 am
Below from petition.
Why is it that every little fact of the father’s life is being dug up and brought up, but nothing about the mother’s is. I wonder how many fist fights has the mother been involved in. Is she manipulative? Did she get pregnant on purpose? Why if someone is so horrible would you want to get pregnant on purpose? How long was she left alone with her daughter where she could have coached her? Was the father left alone (no roommates or family members) around majority of the time?Why are so many people saying things that they heard from the mother, but were not physically there for. You cannot and should not be claiming and saying things to be true if you were not there. It is called here say. That is all a lot of this is. Is it true that the boyfriend and mother were broken up for a period of time? Well, why? Is it true he was on a match making website in that time? Why did the grandfather take his 4 kids to Jordan? You can’t say the mother has nothing to do with this site. I think everyone should take a long hard look at what they are saying and who and what they are believing because there are two….YES TWO sides to every story. How sad that this little girl is being subjected to all of this publicity because CPS, the court system and the police have all had enough of all the crying wolf.
DARREL YOU CHEATED ON CONNIE? GOOD MAN
CONNIE YOU GOT PREGNANT ON PURPOSE? WONDER WHY
TIM WELL, WE DON’T NEED TO REHASH YOUR CRIMINAL BACKGROUND SCUM LOSER
THE REST OF CONNIES GROUPIES ARE A PATHETIC SMALL NUMBER. HOW MANY PEOPLE DID CONNIE MANAGE TO ROUND UP ONLINE? 4 OR 5? THEY KEEP POSTING UNDER DIFFERENT NAMES SO IT APPEARS LIKE MORE PEOPLE BELIEVE HER. LMAO!
********AMEN TO THE WORM SUPPORTERS; YOU’VE DONE GOOD!********
July 6th, 2009 at 11:22 am
DUSTIN! WTG MAN KEEP YOUR KID FROM THESE FREAKS! BEDWELLS ARE CRAZY AND THEY’VE PROVEN THAT ALL BY THEMSELF. LMAO
July 6th, 2009 at 1:08 pm
MaureenN said: “If I were Connie & truly believed that my child was being abused, I would most certainly be playing nice with whoever I needed to play nice with, in order to get time with my child, even supervised time that I had to work 2 extra jobs to pay for. I would play nice with the courts, I would play nice with my ex, I would let the judges, lawyers & all involved officials know that I understood their concerns & was willing to do anything to show them that they could trust me.”
Though the point is understood, and I don’t completely disagree, I must say…if I believed my child was being abused in any way by an ex, there is no way in hell I’d play nice with him. If my belief was that my ex was a child abuser there would be no compromise.
Candace Watson “played nice”…real nice, with a convicted sex offender and look what happened there. The guy took off with her and her 4 yr old daughter, Haylee.
July 6th, 2009 at 2:23 pm
MaureenN
You could do all those things, but you’d be wasting your time. It doesn’t matter, the Family Court System isn’t really set up to do what’s best for the child. She can befriend whoever she wants but they’re going to do as they’re told so they don’t lose out on any $$. If the pro’s don’t do what their employer (the State) wants, they will find a new pro who will. Connie can’t save her daughter by going along with those who were irrational enough to take her child in the first place.
July 6th, 2009 at 2:31 pm
MaureenN
Why play nice with a system that handed over your child to her abuser ? They’re not playing nice. Sometimes you have to fight fire with fire.
I sure wouldn’t play nice with someone who condemns my child to a 24/7 like with her daddy’s worm.
Connie is right and it’s out of her hands now anyway.
Until Aaliyah is away from the worm, it’s not going away. Connie could beg & plead to have all the info taken down, but until Aali is away from the worm it’s not happening.
July 6th, 2009 at 2:35 pm
If he doesn’t want to waste his time dealing with the general internet public, and the video is so innocent, why is he fighting so hard to get it removed ?
I mean, a parent should be able to put up a perfectly innocent video of their child on Myspace or whatever.
I know I have.
July 6th, 2009 at 2:43 pm
For the truth along with a healthy dose of common sense, read the post by DADDY”S WORM WITH LOGIC. It makes perfect sense. Aali is being abused and many of you are more worried about her abuser.
July 6th, 2009 at 3:44 pm
Yeah Dustin anybody that tells the Truth about you is “nuts.” If telling the Truth means we are all crazy, trust us we love every minute of it!
You must be desperate to beg Connie to take this all off the net. You can’t stand having other people knowing what you are, can you? Truth hurts doesn’t it? Maybe you should have thought about the consequences of molesting your own daughter before you did it each time.
You know, I know, we all know, at one point in time you only have one ultimate ending for all of this that you have done to your own daughter. It’s probably eating you up right now huh Dustin? You’re still out at the bars, drinking and posting drunk posts on BTLS- can’t sleep much knowing the outcome of your actions?
ONE ULTIMATE ENDING…JAIL.
Your threats of jumping off the Foresthill Bridge are probably sounding good to you again.
Since you’re an abusive sociopath, Oh you would just love for Connie to come back to you. It sure would make controlling her a hell of a lot easier than using the system! We all know that is your goal with dragging Connie into court for the last 3 1/2 years. Yes everyone, Dustin has been the one to drag Connie to court everytime but one in the last 3 1/2 years!!! I wonder what the judge would think about that if he knew. She isn’t going back to you Dustin just face it.
Connie found a real man… Darrel. And yes he thinks she is an honest, caring, trustworthy woman just like you do Dustin… remember you even wrote it down on paper in a Dr Phil exercise. Now that you can’t have her she is “crazy.”
Yes Dustin we can all tell by your Drunk writings how jealous you are of Darrel. (A little tip: Proof read your drunk posts the next morning after you sober up a little before you start drinking again at breakfast. Your posts might make a little more sense that way. Plus your abusive tendencies really shine through when you are drunk ;)
You are just a typical abuser still at it. You can’t handle that Connie has support and your attempts to isolate her aren’t working. It isn’t going to happen. People see through you like glass Dustin.
It’s no surprise to us that you would avoid Dr Saturley’s offer from outside of Inbred Placer County and then dodge a lie detector test by coming up with a million reasons it will do you no good to take one. And you’re right, the polygraph test will do YOU no good since YOU ARE GUILTY.
Come on Dustin show everybody what a “caring, concerned father you are because Connie is nuts” Show us how nuts she really is. If she is so crazy why are you still trying to get her to come back to you? Why can you not go 5 seconds without dragging her into court? All abusers use the court system to further abuse their victims to try to make their life hell so they come back, but Connie knows this Dustin and your plan isn’t working.
Your mommy and daddy must enjoy paying for your attorney to cover for your Pedophilia problem. How’s that working out for you Dave and Dina? Maybe when your parents learn that they are going to have to fork out 60 k for a criminal defense attorney for your pedophilia, maybe then, they will finally learn that enabling you was the most damaging thing they could have ever done for you. Ask Casey Anthony’s parents they enabled their daughter until she murdered their grandchild. The Thompson’s are headed down the same path.
You Thompsons love to tell other people they should be ashamed of themselves… Well have you looked in your mirror lately?
You see your dirty face in the mirror and attempt to wash the mirror like the mirror is dirty.
I hate to be the one to break it to you Thompson’s but the crap is on your face!!
Like the post above says…
“Your lies are going to unfold in front of the entire nation.”
P. S. Dustin notice the Bedwell’s don’t address your lies. They don’t care what you say because they know at least their name isn’t associated with Child Molester like yours Dustin. Quit molesting your daughter!
July 6th, 2009 at 3:56 pm
DADDY”S WORM WITH LOGIC
July 4th, 2009 at 11:35 am
DADDY’S WORM
The pedophile clan wants to try to convince anybody they can that “Daddy’s Worm†is anything but Dustin’s penis. So right here we will rip his “theories†to shreds with this thing called LOGIC.
(Think slowly about each point before you move on to the next point.)
1) Dustin wants you all to believe the child is speaking of Baby Einstein’s worm:
The child is clearly speaking of 3 types of worms throughout the video. Baby Einstein’s worm is the first one she addresses which she states is green and orange. Anyone that has seen B. E. knows that is correct and accurate. The child then adresses “Daddy’s worm†which tastes “Yucky†and makes her cough, he has to wipe her mouth with like a napkin because of “Daddy’s worm†not B. E.’s worm. She states she sometimes gets mad at daddy and then further describes why. At the end she describes how daddy takes her to the store to see worms. She is very descriptive and very clear it is “daddy’s worm†not worm’s from the store. Daddy thinks he is so smart and tried to confuse her by taking her to the store to see worms. Too bad for him that his child is more intelligent than him. The child then concludes she doesn’t like ANY of the worms. She gives the infamous worm an owner, her Daddy. She gives Baby Einstein’s worm an owner B. E., and she tells us where the other worms are that daddy made her go see…at the store.
She addresses “daddy’s worm’s†size. She is holding her little baby doll in her arms and says its giant like her baby. She says she tried to see him, he tries to look big.
“he tries to look big†possibly like an errection? She says “she tried to see him†so apparently it was dark. She says “I tell daddy’s worm dont do that, its yucky, dont touch my mouth worm†And that she has to tell him “dont stop.†It makes her choke and cry. Then tells him “daddy get it off, he has to wipe it off with like a napkin.†This child descibed perfectly the act of oral sex in complete sequencial order entirely on her own. “Daddy’s worm†does it to her. Then she states “daddy wants to have a baby.â€
2) The Child Molester wants you to believe his Worm is an earth worm:
The child is very descriptive and clear. She described it’s size and it is not the size of an earth worm. Why would Daddy be sticking earth worms in her mouth anyway? That is abuse in itself. If you paid attention in the first of his theories it clearly debunks this theory of the child molesters too.
3) The Child molester wants you to believe that she is speaking of gummy worms:
Listen to the child!! She tells you Baby Einstein’s worm is green and orange, not “Daddy’s worm.†Remember she tells you about “daddy’s worm†that she “tried to see him.†It’s kind of hard to see a worm that is getting shoved down your throat in the dark that makes you choke and cry. “It tries to look big†so we know it changes sizes. Plus, kids love gummy worms. “Daddy’s worm†is “yucky,†she has to tell it “dont stop†and then she states “daddy wants a babyâ€!! That is no gummy worm! Why would a child think her daddy wants a baby with her? Think about it. Why would she have to tell a worm that she doesn’t like, “Dont stopâ€?
4) The Wormy Daddy wants you to believe the mother coached her:
Coaching is leading. It is the same as leading a witness with the answer in the question just like the rules in a courtroom. First of all nobody is even talking about the subject of “Daddy’s worm†in the video but ONLY the child entirely on her own. The only question asked is “What does the worm look like? There was nothing suggesting or leading in it. For those of you who do not understand what coaching is, a coaching example would be: Does the worm look like a banana? That would be suggesting an answer in the question. None of which ever happens throughout the entire 27 minutes of the “Daddy’s Worm†Video. The Mother and Aunt aren’t even talking. The child is insisting on telling them why she doesn’t want to go to bed. Any good Psychologist knows that children relate everything to their own knowledge and the world as they know it. They relate their own problems to their dolls having the same problems. This child in the video tells us that “Daddy’s worm makes her sick and cry and it makes her teddy bear sick and cry too.†She tells us that both her and her doll “don’t wants to go to bed right now.†At 2 1/2 she wouldn’t know the word penis instead describes it the best way she knows how “Daddy’s worm.†Don’t forget also there were previous reports made to CPS by others than the mother of the child describing “daddy’s worm†as having hair like the hair on her head, it having one eye, and hurting her tongue. There are previous reports and restraining orders filed because “daddy hurts her pee pee†before she ever talked about daddy’s worm in her mouth.
Child molesters only progress in the sick things they experiment on children. You can see the progression throughout this child’s statements and behaviors. You can only imagine what he is doing to her since he has her alone for a year.
It is very clear to any attentive parent that it is impossible to coach a 2 1/2 year old child to talk for 27 minutes straight relating everything she says to her dolls. Not one time throughout the entire video does she ask what mommy what did you say? The Inotation (rise and fall of ones pitch) is clear this child is speaking of her own valition. Her inotation does not rise like she is questioning each statement like a coached child would sound like. This child is clearly uncoached.
Also it is pitch dark in the room. You can tell that they have to turn on a glowing bear in order to see. Also the infared is on in order to view the video. There is a tremendous amount of detail in the video alone to prove this child was indeed not coached or prompted in any way to say what she is describing about her “Daddy’s Wormâ€.
Help stop this Child Molester!
July 6th, 2009 at 5:03 pm
You all should start repenting and change your evil ways.
Really Thompson’s, you all should apologize to Aaliyah for what you have done to her and continue to do to her. And I don’t mean your type of apologies Dina where you tell her your sorry that grandpa just hit her and you didn’t help her. I mean truly apologizing and getting her out harms way if you all don’t have the self control to go hit a punching bag instead of hitting and kicking a defenseless baby (and women). Repent and change.
Do you actually think she is going to respect any of you when she is older? She knows who treats her like crap… The Thompsons and who treats her with Love…The Bedwells.
She knows what all of you are. She is an extremely intelligent child and she told us all what you do to her. You all hate her for telling on you but you should hate yourselves for your dispicable actions. If you weren’t doing something wrong she wouldn’t have to tell on you. You think abusing her into silence is going to cover your asses forever: It’s not! So you should probably consider repenting and changing now. I recommend looking up on Youtube a video about kelsea Briggs who died at the hands of people like you Thompsons and at the hands of a screwed up court system like Placer County’s.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uWow42TCwzg
I pray the guilt of what you all are doing to Aaliyah eats at you at night to the point you all can’t function until you change your evil ways.
Have a heart or a soul Thompson’s go get help and stop taking your own psychological problems out on Aaliyah.
Real men don’t hit babies and women they go to counsellors and get help.
Seriously Thompson’s shouldn’t you be focusing on your other grandbaby’s life that is dying of terminal cancer rather than wasting money on defending a child molester. Can’t you people see that you are harming and ruining the lives of two helpless children? Stop putting your money towards defending your child molesting son that is threatening to kill your innocent defenseless grandbaby to keep his little secret quiet and start using your money to save your other innocent defenseless grandbaby’s life that is dying of cancer. Your son belongs in jail for what he is doing to Baby A. Dave belongs right along with him. Quit hurting and harming an innocent baby. You people just let your pride get in the way so lie to cover up your sins. You are going to end up taking two innocent babies lives down with you. Grow up and get your priorities straight and go get some theraputic help for your problems.
We all are begging you to get some help for the sake of the lives of both your grandbabies.
God has a way of dealing with people like you that don’t change and repent and your time is coming Thompsons…
July 6th, 2009 at 5:12 pm
Dustin is avoiding the lie detector test for only one reason: GUILTY
He wouldn’t touch a lie detector test with a ten foot pole in fear that it will let us all know the TRUTH.
July 6th, 2009 at 5:20 pm
You should just sign your real name on your posts:
Thompson Child Molester Enabler with a B. S. Degree.
July 6th, 2009 at 5:42 pm
“I would be friendly with my worst enemy, if it meant that I could spend even a few minutes with my child…”
Let me mimic you Maureen because this is essentially the ignorant things you are saying…
“I would be friendly with the monster molesting my child and I would be friendly with the pedophile that is sticking his penis down my daughters throat, so I can be a brown noser to the corrupt system and fall right into what the pedophile wants which is control of Connie’s entire life all for the sake of seeing the child regardless of any morality in the situation.”
You are a wack job lady or whatever you are!! Or wait a Thompson!!!
Anybody with morals wouldn’t cave into such B.S. for a corrupt system and a sick controlling pedophile.
Keep standing strong and fighting for what’s right Connie.
You MaureenN sound like you just laid out the pedophiles agenda for Connie.
How is that??
Have a conscience, some morals, use your brain and think twice before you speak MaureenN…
July 6th, 2009 at 5:47 pm
Dustin way to try to flip the lie detector test on Connie to take the heat off you!!
Connie already plans on taking one.
Where are you Dustin??
Oh too busy calling people “Idiots” that can see through your sh*t!!
C H I L D M O L E S T E R
July 6th, 2009 at 8:14 pm
Looks like someone (dustin) aka why Connie’s supporters are nuts– went on a little “hallucinogenic binge” this weekend… Getting a little touchy feely with the copy and paste aren’t you?
So you say to me to FIND MY BALLS OFF THE FLOOR- yet you hide behind your computer at 2:30 in the morning? Sounds like you must have a pretty lonely disappointing life to sit and stroke keys all night long… I have made it completely obvious to everyone here who I am– what, you don’t have the balls to do that? Oh wait- maybe your daddy will come and take care of it for you. Do me a favor and tell him it was great talking to him outside the gym that one night- you remember when I had the “balls” to walk right up to him and your best buddy outside and let him politely know he is never welcome to step foot on my property- what was his response again? Oh yeah, that’s right, he called the P.D. to try and figure out where Connie was! HaHaHaHaHa! Didn’t work though did it- cause if I remember right, once I told them I refuse to help him and his pedophile son find her they backed off and he got in his little mid-life crisis car and left crying while acting tough flipping me off as he sped off!
It’s funny that you mentioned my right arm- that really is the one Connie likes the best… She usually grabs it and tells me how easily I could use it to strangle people with! So why don’t you just man up and say who you really are? Why don’t you just answer all the REAL questions on here instead of trying to just misdirect everyone’s attention away from you- and while you are at it- stop being such a sick fu**!
One more favor to ask, I couldn’t make it to court last time- so will you please blow your dad some kisses for me again! Thanks!
July 6th, 2009 at 8:26 pm
marmite
July 6th, 2009 at 5:46 am
ya whatever….why are you so hateful and angry barfite…??? Do you ever have anything nice to say? Why do you focus on me? Do you even know? why do you lash out at me? Do you care to be honest for once…perhaps you just troll the net looking for victims and people you think you can hurt????? What good are you?
Why do you “still” talk about me …what is it that you want from me…STOP MAKING THIS ABOUT YOU…whatever, so i pop back in once in a while…OOOHHH..MY BAD! I see you STILL lashing out??? YOu have never, ever answered any of my questions …why are you so interested in my personal life..??? I don’t get your hateful evil purpose…why don’t you say what you really mean barfy??? Put it out there…this case is DEAD to me A SCAM…yawn…I haven’t paid any attention to it in a long time…so why are you here ON A BABY A ARTICLE talking about ME when I haven’t been here…JEALOUSY PERHAPS? SUCK IT UP PRINCESS! I am who i am and if you don’t like who you are that’s your damn problem..You don’t talk about baby here you talk about ME…WHY? Your messed up honey bunch!
Ya I do come here once or twice a month…when I am bored! Funny you don’t have much to say except bashing people you don’t know and their personal lives that you have sponged off other sites…parasite!
July 6th, 2009 at 8:31 pm
oh and marmite…I AM NOT MESSING AROUND WITH BABY A…BECAUSE I DON’T BELIEVE HER LYING BIOTCH MOTHER…IT’S MY RIGHT TO MY OPINION…I DON’T TAKE SIDES WITHOUT PROOF…I don’t support the father…I DON’T KNOW HIM…GET THAT THROUGH YOUR THICK HEAD…I just DON’T support the mother!!! I am neutral…WTF IS YOUR PROBLEM WITH THAT??????????????????????????
July 6th, 2009 at 8:51 pm
Why you Connie supporters are NUTS!
July 5th, 2009 at 2:05 am
Hi there…so you think the ahole marmite aka barfite is the gremlin that runs bnn….LMFAO..if that is true…he goes into his own blog and blogs under a different name…..THAT IS SCARY!!!! GLAD I DON’T SHARE A BED UNDER A BRIDGE WITH THAT LONG HAIRED FREAK!!! wHY do you think it is him? I had it narrowed down and he was one of them…but i thought…OMG..HE IS ONE SICK PUPPY IF MARMITE IS SIMON BARRETTE….I know he is full of shiott …but to stoop that low…LMFAO…I DO BELIVE YOU COULD BE RIGHT!!! WHOO HOO…WHAT A ……….. LMFAO SOME MORE! Wow…jan I thoguth i would be embarrased to have you for a wife…but if marmite is simon…YOU HAVE BIG BIG PROBLEMS…more then I knew you already have…. ;)
July 6th, 2009 at 8:58 pm
Oh Man Maureen
July 4th, 2009 at 11:55 am
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When are you connie clan members going to learn that everyone that doesn’t agree with you is NOT dustin…get a life!!! gROW a brain…get the facts…do the math… (doubles over laughing ) ya know some people believe in “FACTS”…in this world…why don’t you gather some and regroup…and realize that there are intelligent people that WILL NOT follow a woman who has NEVER PROVIDED PROOF…and continues to violate a court order in her lame attempt to get custody of her child…the rest of the bs ..he said she said…is all SPECULATION…if you start with facts and NOT opinions…you might have stopped at the tape…which is all she has AND IS NOT PROOF of anything…. this woman is a liar and a scam…IF MY CHILD WERE BEING ABUSED…I’D HAVE MORE THEN A LAME CONCOCTED VIDEO TO SHOW A JUDGE…
July 6th, 2009 at 9:12 pm
marmite
July 3rd, 2009 at 9:45 am
Well Flappy, Beast and co, we’re still waiting…..
Again..I ask…WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR? WHATEVER IT IS…DON’T HOLD YOUR BREATH..GREMLIN…
July 6th, 2009 at 9:48 pm
marmite
July 6th, 2009 at 5:46 am
It is still apparent that C~A has NOT yet got that help she so greatly needs. She keeps saying she isn’t going to post here anymore and back she comes again!
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Oh yah..that’s a real problem in the world today..someone says they won’t be back and they do!! That needs real professional help IMO too…wonder barfite…what kind of disorder is that…so I can tell my professional your uneducated barifte opinion…rotflmfao…
July 6th, 2009 at 9:51 pm
then you can kiss my C~A-ss
July 7th, 2009 at 4:31 am
Hey there CeeA
What is your problem? Who the hell do I think I am?
Who the hell do you think you are? The net is riddled with your trash about Connie and her daughter compliments of none other then CeeA. It’s OK for you to stick your nose in Connie’s business and disect her as a mother and a person. But you don’t like it when someone gives you a taste of your own medicine, DO YOU?
Connie never ask you for one thing! She NEVER spoke to YOU either but you have taken it upon yourself to attack her at every opportunity. You can dish it out but you can’t take it can you! You and your husband have are disgusting excuses for human beings. You twist and contort things until they appear to be as dirty as your mind. You and that husband of yours think you can say anything you want and yet you think you should be exempt from scrutiny. People who love and care about Connie and Aaliyah put a video on the net and you went after Connie like you were being paid to discredit her. Even that wasn’t good enough for you, you also went after her father and the rest of her family. Now you COMPLAIN because there is a light on your personal life. If you were not so pathetic, you would be funny.
CeeA honey, build a bridge and get over it. You and your husband, if he really married you, tried to run Simon’s site and when Jan stopped you, you got mad. Beasty Boy started his own site, so he could be the big dog. Boy you 2 were riding high, taking bloggers away from other sites. You were on top weren’t you. But alas, you guys went to far. Beast wasn’t happy just defending men who abuse children, he actually glorified one. It was just too much and even your long time friends and supporters couldn’t take it. Yes we all know, your site is now a ghost town. My my how the mighty have fallen. I really wish you could hear us laughing at the 2 of you. Just thinking of you in your kingdom with no subjects brings smiles to our faces. Sean and Shelley accuse Jan and Simon of being controlling liars and yet the Barretts have had successful sites for over 2 years, your site lasted what. not even 2 months. Karma gets you everytime don’t it!
Several of us wonder why is it Beast defends men who sexually abuse children? He even glorifies them, admires them and their ability to get away with it when the world knows what they do. Men who desire sex with children often times find women who have children already and they hook up with them. Instant access to their hearts desire. It is sick and yet we see it over and over. At least if we are smart enough to add 2 and 2. Then there are women who fall for these abusers and before long they are spouting the same garbage as the abuser spouts.
I couldn’t help but notice you defend Beast glorification of a pedophile. Why is that CeeA? hmmmmm ah-hmmm one does tend to wonder. I don’t know why you are so upset with me. Your loving hubby is the one who said you have 5 kids, all of whom you gave birth to, only 2 of them are his. I didn’t say that, he did, jump on him. Oh wait no forget that, for a second there I forgot you and Beast are like minded and you think just like him. You are obviously comfortable having Beast’s words coming out of your mouth but I’m not so don’t try to put what he says on me. He said it, I didn’t.
You keep saying you got banned from a certain site for just asking questions. Were you high? I read the ALL your posts. You didn’t ASK questions, it was more in the vein of an interrogation. Hitler’s henchmen have nothing on you and your cohorts. You guys started that whole fiasco. You were rude, the questions were more in the frame of demands and YOUR GROUP accused them of being other people and you said they carefully planned and took 6 months to execute this hoax on the bloggers. You were firing questions at them and before they could answer anything, you shot off 10 more hateful and accusatory “QUESTIONS”. They DID NOT sound like legitimate questions to me or anyone else with half a brain. Not just you but the WHOLE BUNCH of your clique.
When KarenCCC and AnneA. had enough, more then I would have taken by far, they fired back. KarenCCC had ONE hateful response and AnneA. had TWO hateful comments. The contents of both their comments were truthful. These 2 women refused to be obedient and follow the crowd and for that your group decided to get rid of them. You are just mad because YOU were the one that got kicked off. All the clout you THOUGHT you had, you didn’t have and you were booted! That was the funniest thing to date. You are sore losers but losers none the less. Deal with it, I’m sure you are accustomed to what you are. That is probably why you are so miserable. Misery loves company. You wanted a fight, you came out swinging, the ladies, and you can tell by their lack of vularity, they are definitely ladies, beat you without raising a hand.
MARMITE: You are so right, she keeps promising she won’t be back and yet here she is over and over and over. She evidently can’t tell the truth about anything. She got very uupset because I said something about her children, yet she feels entitled to talk about other peoples children and families. She has NO problem posting personal information about anyone who opposes her and the mighty Beast. She has a great big new site, not crowded at all, her and her man can say and do whatever they want but here she is. Trying to run this site. Telling us what we can and can’t say. She is confusing us with the people who flocked to HER new site, following her like the sheep they had become. I think its wonderful they finally saw Beast and CeeA for who they are. Even their “friends” couldn’t tolerate their defending men who sexually abuse children. It was just to much. Thank God they came to their senses.
CeeA let me make a suggestion, you and Beast might have more luck keeping bloggers, if you stop claiming to be advocates and defenders of children. Just come clean about what you stand for. Start up a new site, say a support group for pedophiles. Since the Baby A case came to light your comments VERY CLEARLY support men who sexually assault children, admire them even. Your best friends can’t ignore it anymore and they refuse to associate with your kind.
OUR DEAREST PATTY: You are so right about Flappycakes but there are a couple of other people who also suffer Narcissistic Personality Disorder. CeeA and Beast have all the traits that Flappycakes has, I wonder if she gave it to them or they gave it to her. Either way you nailed Flappycakes but forgot to include CeeA and her man. Of course CeeA also seems to be mad at the world. Her anger really shows, makes you wonder why she is so mad all the time. Sometimes women with kids marry a man and they see little things they don’t like. They are often worried about why their man walked them down the aisle. Did he marry her because he loves her, in spite of the fact she has kids or because she had kids? CeeA I hope that’s not what drives the anger you have. I’m sure Beast sticks up for these men because he see’s them as underdogs and NOT predators. (snicker snicker and giggles) It will be alright sweetie.
MAUREEN N:
If I have to read about your husband and his daughter and the horrible woman who is your step daughter’s mother one more time, I will puke. If you only knew how jealous of his ex wife you sound, you would STOP it. I swear to God you are so threatened by his ex, you are blind to all else. The Baby A case has NOTHING in common with your situation. NOTA, NOTHING, NOT ONE THING!!!!! The first time you posted I must have read your comments a half dozen times trying to see how they related to Aaliyah, I couldn’t find one single common thread. You just keep saying the same things over and over. Just because you married a man who was in a custody battle, don’t make you an expert on courts, judges or kids. You keep insinuating that Connie is like your husband’s ex. I have a real good feeling you don’t even REALLY have a clear picture of what his ex wife is much less what Connie is. I also have a good feeling his ex wife has a story the polar opposite of the one you tell repeatedly. Your husband ain’t in love with Connie, he is in love with his ex, leave Connie alone. The reason I think he loves his ex is because you would NOT keep running her down and bringing her up, if she were no threat to you.
Every single comment you have posted, tells all still bothering to read what you have to say, you think he still loves his ex. Get over it or send him back to her, its clear you don’t believe he loves you. Sorry honey, someone has to get you out of the denial you live in. I am not trying to be cruel, but if you were not threatened by her, you wouldn’t keep talking about her. I’m sure you will eventually find a man you can be sure of. He may love you but the point I am making is, YOU DO NOT THINK HE DOES. A woman can live with a man she don’t love BUT she can’t live with a man that don’t love her.
TO THE SUPPORTERS OF CONNIE AND AaLIYAH:
It’s been a long rough road but the truth is coming out and sooner then some think. We have stayed the course and fought a good fight. He who laughs last, laughs best. Connie Bedwell and her family will be vindicated and the guilty will be punished. Aaliyah thank you for giving us the words and strength to defend you and your mommy. Soon baby girl you will be back with your loving mommy where you belong. What a celebration it will be, Aali, what a smile you will have, I can almost hear you laughing with joy right now. The thought of you being safe, sound and happy has inspired us all. Hang on Baby, help is on the way……
Your daddy’s puppets will be proven the fools they are and your truth will shine through.
July 7th, 2009 at 7:02 am
To :Daddy’s Worm with Logic—
I hope you sent that to the DA. You just made their case.
July 7th, 2009 at 7:14 am
OK, this really is the final time I address C~A here, they are determined to take the emphasis off poor Aaliyah but I feel I need to respond to her outrageous rants.
C~A
I went back through all my posts to see where I could have made you soooooo mad. Of the 9 posts I made you were mentioned in the following…
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marmite
May 28th, 2009 at 7:07 am
To Beast, CA, Huh and the rest of your vindictive little gang just ask yourself why you are so angry about being banned from a blogging site, this isn’t about you it’s actually about Aaliyah.
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marmite
May 30th, 2009 at 12:12 pm
In response to C~A please read this blog from the beginning, I suggest you take your time reading your own posts for evidence of your weird and vindictive rants.
It is clear you are have issues and this situation just happens to be your latest outlet to release that unresolved anger. I seriously suggest counselling.
To the rest of your gang please channel your energies into something positive. All we are asking for is an independant investigation.
C~A please don’t bother to respond, you’re boring me.
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marmite
June 8th, 2009 at 2:14 am
C~A You obviously didnt read my May 30th post slowly enough to understand it so I’ll repeat it again just for you.
In response to C~A please read this blog (and the others)from the beginning, I suggest you take your time reading your own posts for evidence of your weird and vindictive rants.
C~A, Please don’t bother to respond to me, I’m not vaguely interested in anything you have to say. Your responses are neither intelligent or helpful to the situation.
I repeat once more – This is about Aaliyah not about you!
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marmite
July 3rd, 2009 at 9:45 am
Well Flappy, Beast and co, we’re still waiting…..
*tumbleweed drifts by*
You must be running scared as you’re running round deleting comments and threads. You do realise everything is saved elsewhere don’t you??
You’re so desperate for posters at the ‘Outhouse’ you’ve even got C~A copying and pasting other peoples comments from other sites – he he he he
Back in your boxes freaks, this is about Aaliyah!
http://www.saveaaliyah.com/
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marmite
July 6th, 2009 at 5:46 am
It is still apparent that C~A has NOT yet got that help she so greatly needs. She keeps saying she isn’t going to post here anymore and back she comes again! It would laughable if she wasn’t messing around with the life of a 3 year old girl.
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OK so I admit to calling you weird and vindictive, based on what you post I believe you are. I admit I suggested you need counselling for your anger issues, I think you do. I even admit I accused you of copying and pasting other peoples comments onto Beasts site to make it look like people were posting there. All true so far.
I certainly DO NOT accept the allegations you accuse me of…
722.CeeA
July 6th, 2009 at 8:26 pm
ya whatever….why are you so hateful and angry barfite…??? Do you ever have anything nice to say? Why do you focus on me? Do you even know? why do you lash out at me? Do you care to be honest for once…perhaps you just troll the net looking for victims and people you think you can hurt????? What good are you?
Why do you “still†talk about me …what is it that you want from me…STOP MAKING THIS ABOUT YOU…whatever, so i pop back in once in a while…OOOHHH..MY BAD! I see you STILL lashing out??? YOu have never, ever answered any of my questions …why are you so interested in my personal life..???
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C~A believe it or not I couldn’t care less about your personal life, I have never once asked you a question, I wouldn’t waste my breathe because I simply do NOT care what your opinion is. You have obviously proved yourself to be even more stupid than I thought you were originally.
I’m not hateful and angry towards you, you flatter yourself. You are the one that has lowered the tone by calling me names, Skank, Gremlin, SAD DEGENERATE NO LIFE, LITTLE DOGGY.
You are simply not worth any more of my time.
It is interesting to see that you are now saying you are neutral, it’s just a shame everything you have posted so far says something entirely different.
Now lets get back to what is really important here, getting Aaliyah back with her mom..
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7VWzfM14Ha4
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July 7th, 2009 at 7:35 am
Wow…there’s sure some whacko’s posting on this site. I’ve never seen such incoherent rants by some of these idiots. Most of them seem to be from the side of the people defending the father. And childishness to boot with all the name changing with the posts trying to post as someone else.
Shame on the webmaster or moderator (if there is one) for not removing the personal information posted on some of these comments. That should be removed.
July 7th, 2009 at 8:22 am
I would be friendly with the monster molesting my child and I would be friendly with the pedophile that is sticking his penis down my daughters throat, so I can be a brown noser to the corrupt system and fall right into what the pedophile wants which is control of Connie’s entire life all for the sake of seeing the child regardless of any morality in the situation.â€
You are a wack job lady or whatever you are!! Or wait a Thompson!!!
Anybody with morals wouldn’t cave into such B.S. for a corrupt system and a sick controlling pedophile.”
Yes, I would do anything, no matter how personally abhorrent to me, no matter how painful, to comfort my child in any way possible, if she was being abused. Yes, I would. Any parent would. If someone was actively abusing my child, I would go up to that abuser & kiss him on the lips if it meant that I would get an extra minute with my child to comfort her and give her strength.
I would not care if I was appeasing him or making him feel powerful. I would not care how being nice would make *me feel*. I would give him control of my life if that’s what he wanted. Anything to save my child, or even just to make things a little bit easier for my child.
Wouldn’t you? Wouldn’t any parent who loves their child if they believed that their child was being abused?
July 7th, 2009 at 10:50 am
This is so sad. To see how adults are acting. I have been keeping up with this story sense it was brought to BNN. I have chosen not to blog about it due to the fact that I don’t have all of the facts. I personaly would not of put my child on the net with her face shown and her name. What is on the net stays on the net and no child deserves this. There are other ways to get help. I also feel that if this father is abusing this baby he will stop with all that is going on in the courts and on the net. Connie’s father has stated that if anyone wants their money back that they donanted they can get it back. If he can pay this money back then why did Connie need money for an attorny. If she were my child and my grandbaby needed this help I would find a way for her to get an attorney. No money for an attorney before the donate button was put online now he can refund everyone’s money that wants it back. Something not right about that to me. If this were my child and she was indeed in danger I would do everything that I could to help her. I would dissapear with her for one thing. I would go so far under that no one would ever find us including my family. Should she have to do this no but, I would not be on the net begging for money from strangers. I do know that some justice systems are corrupt but when you look at all that has been done one has to wonder. 11 different interviews. I do know that there seems to be a lot of people want this to be true so they are right. Just to be right and throw it in others faces. That is the way children act. What dose this father owe any of you. If I were him I would not address this at all. You all say if he is not abusing this baby he should prove it. What dose he owe you people? He dose not know you people he has nothing to prove to you. He has to take this to the courts of law. You people are not the judge. I don’t know if this child is being abused or not. I hope and pray that she is not. If she is her daddy should go to jail. If not and this is Connie’s pound of flesh then she should go to jail. Please think how you sound. Someone on another site said that she was quilty of trying to make peope believe her way by saying and doing things that she should not of done. Don’t even ask me who and where I don’t play that game. I just wish you would all find a way to discuss this without mud slinging. This is not your fight. You will just have to wait and see what happens in court.
Melissa, I guess that you did not know that Beast had his site before this ever started. You are accusing him and CeeA of terrible things. Do you know them? Do they know you? Are you just trying to start a fight because you can. Do you live close to this family, the Bedwells and the Thompsons. Do you know this child? Have you been to the court hearings? What do you know? Do you only know what you have read on the net? What do you know as a fact not a feeling but fact. Facts that you have seen not rumored on the net. I feel for this child. Just know what is on the net never gose away it is here for ever. How do you think this child will feel when she is old enough to understand. Who failed her? I hope and pray that this child is safe and will have a long and good life and not have to read all of these bad things about her mom and dad and herself. God bless her always. I think a lot of you people should find a fight where you can do some good. This is not helping this child. And please don’t say that it is up to the public to keep children safe. I believe that we all should do what ever we can to keep our children safe but what are you doing Melissa to help? I know that I would love to help this child or any child who is being abused. This case is in the court system and changes have been made with the judge. We can only hope and pray that this turns out right for this child.
July 7th, 2009 at 11:43 am
Actually, Maureen, if I truly believed that the father was molesting my child, I would do anything and everything that the Family Court ordered me to do so that I could keep custody of my child. Even if I didn’t like the court orders, I would still follow them, so that I could at least keep my child from being molested half of the time.
If the court ordered me to attend classes or counseling, I’d attend the classes and counseling, even if I didn’t agree that I needed them. If the court ordered me to stop talking about the case, stop talking about the father, or stop attempting to recruit new professionals into the case, I would stop. Whatever it took to retain custody of my child, I would do.
Ms. Bedwell didn’t follow the Family Court orders, and that’s why Aaliyah is with her father. She’s done everything wrong, and continues to do everything wrong.
P.S. It amuses the hell out of me when you all accuse me of being a Thompson, especially when you all accuse me of being Dustin.
July 7th, 2009 at 12:31 pm
Icky,
I don’t care who you are.
If you truly believed your child was being molested, I hope you would do everything possible to get your child away from her abuser. Being molested half the time is NOT okay.
You could honestly drop your child off with someone you knew was going to stick their penis in your daughter’s mouth or worse ? How could you do that ? What would you say to her ? It’s ok honey, it’ll be over soon, we gotta do what the ‘experts’ want ???
I wouldn’t. I’d listen to my heart and GOD, as Aali was a gift from him, not the STATE…
I’m sure Connie has been tempted to take Aali & run but if she’s in jail for years, her daughter is condemned to a lifetime of abuse.
In order to cooperate with a bunch of crazy officials who don’t even know your child ?
I hope not Icky.
Remember that many feel Aali is talking about Baby Einstein worms, totally innocent. So why does everybody want this cute little video of Aali talking about Baby Einstein worms to go away so bad ?
July 7th, 2009 at 12:41 pm
No MaureenN, I wouldn’t kiss someone who hurt my child.
WTF is wrong with you ? I wouldn’t play nice with anyone who was forcing her to live with someone who sticks his penis in her mouth. How do you think she would feel about you being nice to her abuser ?
I’ll tell you what she’d think.. It must be ok with Mommy that daddy does this. There’s nothing wrong with it or Mommy would be angry and trying to SAVE ME !!
Why won’t Mommy SAVE ME ? She doesn’t care that he hurts me.
I would rather my child know that I didn’t cave in to her abuser and that I fought in the only way I knew how, which was to expose him and try to get her away from him.
It sounds like you want to breed victims. Make sure she has no self worth whatsoever. Great plan. Kiss the guy who molests your child. What a lesson that will teach her.
July 7th, 2009 at 5:22 pm
marmite. I could care less about not posting at BNN. Your site is a joke and not worth the lies you write there. Like no one there has ever spoken to Connie yet you have written more than once that you have. What an idiot. Your credibility is 0 Simon. What you say has no worth.
July 7th, 2009 at 6:10 pm
MARMITE SAYS- You are simply not worth any more of my time.
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Whatever that little rant was supposed to be…it made no sense…I haven’t been here for a long long time…and i come in the other day and your are STILL talking trash about me…SO BASICALLY…save your copy paste b.s …
you haven’t asked me anything…well i must have missed it since you said
CeeA
July 6th, 2009 at 9:12 pm
marmite YOUR COMMENT # 699
July 3rd, 2009 at 9:45 am
Well Flappy, Beast and co, we’re still waiting…..
WAITING FOR WHAT …AND yes…I call you as I see you…your a hateful lying miserable troll!!!!
go back under your bridge…YOU DO NO SERVICE to ANYONE …ESPECIALLY THE CHILDREN…
July 7th, 2009 at 7:09 pm
YOU NEVER WERE WORTH MY TIME BARFITE…I TOLD YOU I ONLY COME HERE WHEN I AM BORED…TO GET A LAUGH ..If I am not worth your time..why do you spend so much time talking about me? When there is NOTHING TO SAY…I mean really…you have nothing better to do then trash people…???? YOur a low life troll…yes you are…a gremlin…PLANKTON…do you know what that is…?? prob. not…
IT’S THE BOTTOM OF THE FOOD CHAIN…IT’S THE SHITT ON THE BOTTOM OF THE OCEAN FLOOR THAT IS MADE UP OF FISH SHITTT AND REMAINS…THAT’S WHAT YOU ARE!!! IT’s the stuff the bottom of the food chain SUCKS UP to stay alive…that’s what you do…suck up the SHITTT to stay alive and feel important…YOU SUCK!
July 7th, 2009 at 9:35 pm
Icky…
Obviously you are not a thompson since you have all of your details wrong- First off, Connie did NOT lose Aaliyah due to not following family court orders. Where you heard that and why you believe that, is pretty obvious… She actually had Aali taken away from her because the judge at that time was punishing her for bringing evidence of child molestation into the courtroom. He believed that she should just give up and stop- and ANY parent would NEVER stop bringing valid evidence forward that there child was being molested. He even stated in court (yeah, I was ACTUALLY in the court room when it happened, so Im not just stating hearsay like the rest of you out there…) I have given you enough chances to stop showing your evidence to the authorities, and now I have no choice but to take Aaliyah away from you as punishment for not stopping bringing evidence into the court-(paraphrased). What parent in there right mind would ever stop bringing evidence forward that their baby, their flesh and blood that they naturally and passionately are going to do anything possible to protect, has been molested and physically abused??? Would you just quit and give up just because someone told you to??? Second- she was straight up lied to by the judge about the co-parenting classes. She was promised that she would never have to sit in a classroom with the man who beat her up, slammed her head in the trunk of his mercedes, emotionally abused, and even violently threatened and physically abused while she was holding their 4 week old baby- yet that promise was a lie. Immediately after signing the papers, Connie was told she HAD to sit in the same class with him and work with him, that she had no choice- how many of you would feel comfortable sitting next to the man that has threatened you and your babies life? Connie IS following the court orders- she IS doing what they want, she does not agree with it, but she is abiding by their rules. dustin on the other hand is not- they have been warned and even scolded in court for keeping Aaliyah from her mother, yet it has now been over NINE WEEKS since they have let Aaliyah see her mother, who she absolutely loves and adores- and who knows what kind of sick stuff dustin is feeding her with her mom not around to be able to give her an hour or two of peace and safety- who knows what kind of irreversible damage he is doing to her in his home right now- I only pray that she is safe and can come home to her loving mother immediately so that she can TRULY be safe and be nourished in a real family- and a loving family- not a twisted sick family like where she’s stuck now…
So icky next time you want to post- try posting facts and not hearsay that you read on some other blog somewhere…
July 8th, 2009 at 3:03 am
To WHEN WILL THIS STOP:
Why is it you are SO concerned about people sending money to Connie so she will have an attorney. The reason Connie lost her child in the first place was because she didn’t have a mouth piece when appearing before the judge. The Worm had an attorney, by sending donations to Connie, we are just trying to level the field. She NEEDS and DESERVES to be represented. Since she is NOT a crimminal, she has to come up with the money to hire one herself. The Worm and his lady lawyer mashed Connie into the ground at every hearing. The last 2 court hearings things have gone quite differently. She has a representative that knows the inner workings of a court room and suddenly Ms. Amara isn’t the bulldog she was when she was going against a single mother without an attorney. So yes we are helping this baby. As for this being none of our business, you are wrong. When a child is being violated it’s everyone’s business. The days of keep it quiet and pretend it isn’t happening are OVER!!!
You seem like a reasonable person, however you have far to much concern about the money issue of all this. Which just so happens to be the Worm’s biggest complaint. He does not want Connie to be represented, things went much better for him when she was alone in the court room. You are insinuating you are neutral but your comments say otherwise.
You are most certainly in the Worm’s corner, I understand your reluctance in admitting that, I to would be embarrassed to publically defend him as well.
I do not know any of the parties involved. I am a blogger who began reading this story and my heart aches for that baby girl and all the pain she clearly shows. When she talks about what her daddy is doing to her, I must defend and help her any way I can. I saw the uncut 27 minutes video and that child was NOT being coached, no way.
The purpose of getting involved in this case was to shine a light on it and we have successfully done that. All the donations Connie gets is used for attorney fees and other professional services required to get the truth out. This is a crime against the most innocent and helpless among us. IF the Worm is innocent he has nothing to worry about. But the fact that he comes on here using God only knows how many identities trying to discredit Connie, only adds to the belief that he is in fact guilty. You can write down all he has done in reacting to Connie’s actions and you have a text book case of the ultimate abuser, both with Connie and Aaliyah. He fools some people but common sense and our own personal knowledge of men like him make it impossible to fool all of us. Those of us who believe Aaliyah, believe her because we KNOW this is a text book case. We recognize his attempts to confuse Aaliyah are common tactics of a sexual predator. Men who abuse children are the sneakiest humans on the planet. He tries to convince everyone that Connie is crazy and delusional and yet he wants her back so badly, he would crawl thru hell in gasoline underwear to have her again. He is a bully in every sense of the word and it is killing him that Connie has people who are willing to help her. The thing that is the biggest threat to him is her having an attorney, no longer will there be only one side of this issue presented in the court room. That is NOT good for him. He has done and is doing anything and everything he can to get people to stop sending her financial help. Well we will NOT NOT NOT stop. We absolutely believe this beautiful little girl and want to make sure she has a voice in all this. We know the only parent who truly loves Aaliyah is her mother. Her mother is her voice and it takes money for her to be heard, The funds will keep coming in. They slowed down for a week or so but I understand they are coming in more often and in bigger amounts again. The Worm actually did Connie a huge favor. I’m sure he didn’t intend to help her but that was the result of his campaign to get the donations stopped. Many people who never thought about sending money read his comments. They saw right through him and what he was trying to do. For many it was proof of his guilt and they want to stop Aaliyah’s suffering. I understand they have monthly pledgers. People who send a donation each month. So far those pledges have come through. The worm under estimated the intelligence of good and decent people. Once they realized how desperate the worm was to keep Connie down, all of the accusations, against him rang true. A lot of people who were undecided, jumped off the fence and they want to help. They are kind and caring people and their generosity proves it. The Worm himself CONVINCED them of his guilt, something we had not been able to do. Things are most certainly looking up for Aaliyah. This case is everyone’s business. Aaliyah deserves to grow up free of the sexual assaults she describes in the video.
You contradict yourself, you are all fired up about others actions for helping the mother. You say its not anyone’s business and I say it’s everyone’s business. Throughout your post you say it’s not the public’s business and yet you claim you are “not involved” in this case the whole while you defend the father. Condemn the mother and defend the father, your words are very telling. I do not know you and if you really are legitimate and not a worm puppet, walk away. You are not obligated to stay on this site. Each journey begins with the first step. Take the first step and walk on. I, on the other hand, feel deeply committed to keeping this case alive for the sake of baby Aaliyah. If this case offends you, you should not be here, there are thousands of other places and stories to use your computer and time on. I am dedicated to this story and this child. That is my right and what my conscience demands I do. You deny any real interest in this case so what is the problem?
I have watched the exchange video’s and the Worm comes off heartless and unfeeling. His beautiful young daughter is crying her heart out and he doesn’t so much as pat her on the back to comfort her. He is cold and without emotion. I could not watch an animal suffer like Aaliyah suffers when she must leave her mother and return to the Worm. He has NO problem seeing Aaliyah hysterical and screaming for her mother. What he does to that child is NOT NOT NOT love, no way on earth! He should comfort her, that is what a loving parent would do. A father who uses his child to punish the mother see’s her as a weapon and not a human being.
In fact I bet he enjoys Aaliyah’s pain, he loves seeing Connie hurting for her baby. That is his goal, hurting Connie at any cost, even their child. All this garbage the Worm’s supporters spout off about Connie being vindictive are so wrong. Connie is the one who left the Worm, he didn’t leave her. I have seen paperwork in his own hand-writing begging and pleading for Connie to take him back. Admitting that he has been wrong and talking about what a good and decent person Connie is and how much he loves and NEEDS her. He is the vindictive one and like all men with his problems he tries to turn it around. Everything he accuses her of doing are his own actions, NOT hers.
You also feel the need to defend Beast and his wife. No I had no idea he has had a site before this all started. Learning that just tells me, he obviously has never been able to run a successful site. He has no talent and has not been able to garner the kind of following Simon enjoys.
As far as accusing Beast and CA of all these terrible things, I have only told the truth as I see it. Which is how they have conducted themselves in all this. They have viciously attacked people on every level. They have put personal information on the net. They have shown no regard for the safety and welfare of this woman’s children. Young children who live in the home which they have published the name, telephone #, address to. When she complained and tried to tell them that was hitting below the belt, they told her she was fair game. She ASKED FOR IT!!! She was the one putting her children in danger by involving herself in this case!!! The comments went on and on about how they had the RIGHT to publish her personal information, she brought it on herself. What did she do to give them that right? She speaks out for Aaliyah, but their goal just like the worm’s goal is to shut her up!!! You can lose sleep over the things that me and others have said about Beast and Sean if it bothers you but I have NOT put any personal info out there about them. They have children and I have morals, there is a line nobody should cross. They crossed that line and laughed at the victim they did it to. They had the nerve to BLAME HER. They think of themselves as victims but that is just another of their many delusions.
I couldn’t have a lower opinion of them as people and yes I have made my digs at them but I would NEVER EVER do or say anything that could possibly identify them or where they may live. They have 5 children in their home, who deserve to be safe and secure and not in danger of some physco paying them a visit. Believe me, the way they have defended men who sexually abuse children and made fun of one woman who was raped, there are zealots who would go after them. I could not and would not EVER want their children put in that situation. That is the big difference between Connie supporters and Dustin supporters. Not all but most of us feel this way. They have most certainly angered more people tthan they realize. They feel entitled to say anything they want but sure get upset when people return the favor. I have not seen anything either of them have posted that indicates they are advocates for children. I have repeatedly seen comments advocating for predators. Their views are clearly stated and well known among us all. Like I said you worry about them, my efforts are used to defend real victims, the children.
To MAUREEN:
Once again you claim your expertise in matters you think you know about. You talk about how you would follow the orders of the court. In fact many many of you say Connie should be doing what the court orders tell her to. You consistantly attack her for not doing that. Then you spout off about all you would do. Run, hide go underground do whatever it takes to stop the abuser. One second its obey the law and the next its defy it. No matter which way Connie goes she is attacked by people who defend the father. Nothing she does is right in the eyes of you people. There is no way for her to win with you. So honestly just between us, should she follow the orders or should she disappear with the baby, which way could she go to help you believe she truly thinks Aaliyah is being abused by the worm?
I have seen people who refuse to accept reality for many reasons but the worm’s supporters are the bottom of the barrel hard core advocates for daddy no matter what he does. There is a video and even that has been disected and dusputed. When one of their theories fall thru they just come up with another one. They resort to name calling and attacks and then they accuse us of doing it. I don’t know how they live with themselves. I couldn’t.
Believe what you will and blame us for all the injustice in this case. I don’t care. I have gone back and read all the posts and comments on the majority of boards discussing this case. Yes I have seen attacks on some people, mostly the worm and his supporters from the outhouse (back before they fled like a house was on fire for Sean’s defense & admiration of a pedophile) but I can confidently tell you I did not find ONE INCIDENT, NOT THE FIRST WHERE CONNIE’S SUPPORTERS STARTED IT. EACH AND EVERY TIME THOSE WHO DEFEND CONNIE AND AALIYAH ONLY RESPONDED TO THE ATTACKS MADE ON AND TOWARD THEM, NOT ONE THAT CONNIE’S SIDE INSTIGATED!!!!
I have much more to say but I’m sleepy so I will save it for another day. I will be back that is a promise. We will not stop or go away until this whole situation is resolved and the truth is out for the sake of this innocent baby.
July 8th, 2009 at 6:58 am
One thing that you are right about Melissa is that I have been where Connie is. I did handle it very differently. I know what it is like to watch your child cry and hurt. I know. However, I do have honest conerns about how this is being handled and what the truth is. I do feel for all in this case. You did take some of what I said and twisted it. There is no need for that. I will do what you said and I will stay quite and just watch what happens. I will save any comments until then. I hate seeing the freenzy that this case has caused. We don’t know all of the facts. I do know Meliss how Connie feels. You happy. I pray for blessings for this child. I also feel for the families.
July 8th, 2009 at 8:51 am
I want to thank everyone that is conserned with my children’s safety and for coming to my defense. But I do ask that everyone stop fighting with eachother. Let’s go back to discussing the facts.
Icky, someone had told us once that you were on WS. I can only assume that you have recieved your bad information about this case from the one person who is advocating for this “father”. Since you are here now, because they have closed that thread (as I have been told), then can you just read the posts that actually have the facts? You can tell which are from Connie’s family and friends. I am not saying that I am one of them. I do, however, speak to her family and get my information from them. But I am just a person of interest in the case. I have no first hand knowledge, have never met Connie nor the baby. BUT, neither have you – nor have you met the “father”, whom you are saying is innocent. I read your posts and you are just regurgitating what you have been fed. And where do you think that person is getting her information? She recieves altered and fake information and then posts it. There weren’t 11 seperate investigations, there were 11 REPORTS of abuse that were not looked into. What was said by CPS was that they couldn’t tell if the bruises were from abuse because by the time they saw the baby they were faded. And how could the police do a complete investigation when they didn’t contact ONE witness on the child’s mother side? Regardless if they are family and friends of the mother, they SAW and HEARD with their own eyes and ears what the baby was saying and doing. Again, I wasn’t there, I don’t know what the police actually did or didn’t do. But because Connie did not have any legal council, things were done (and or not done)to keep Connie from speaking for her child. She was told to not video her daughter, the baby started speaking of the worm and said “F” this, I am going to get this on tape. There is nothing that Connie won’t do to get help for her daughter. I would NEVER kiss my daughter’s or son’s abuser. I would NEVER run with my daughter or son because if I got caught, they would end up with the abuser for the rest of their lives. I pride myself on being a good mother, that would do anything to protect them. And if people weren’t listening to my daughter, I’d make damn sure they’d listen to me. I think that if Connie had had the money and council in the beginning, NONE of this would have happened and we wouldn’t even be disgussing this. Just step back and read the truth. What you or I would do, is not necissarily what someone else would do. This isn’t about what past mistakes have been made, this is about the baby is STILL saying she is being abused and STILL playing the “death” games in visitations. Since Connie has not had custody of this child for a year, how can she be coaching her???? He doesn’t even allow the baby to speak to her on the phone! Where is the coaching coming from? And yes, I have seen the visitation reports. Written words from the supervisors, very telling to me. There needs to be something done, TODAY.
MelissaC, I think you are one amazing lady. Your posts are to the point and filled with truth. I have been invested in this case since the beginning, and your words will fall on deaf ears from the opposing side. But I did want you to know that I appreciate your words and your support for this baby.
Daddy’s Worm with Logic, all I have to say is that post is BRILLIANT and bravo. I hope that gets into the hands of the DA, CPS and the lawyers. You are absolutely right where you say the baby NEVER asks “What mommy? What did you say, I didn’t hear you.” That is very telling to me! If they can’t see truth from that, Connie definitely needs to get this case OUT of that county.
Connie, if you read this site, I am so proud of you for standing up against all of this crap. You are an amazing mother! Nothing that these nay-sayers write can take that away from you. The people who know the truth can see how very much you love your daughter and are not doing this to be vindictive. Keep fighting until you have your precious little girl back with you. We will keep fighting for you Connie and Aaliyah! Stay strong and keep the faith I know that is carrying you along. You are the strongest people I “know”!
July 8th, 2009 at 9:05 am
Oh, and Beast, Marmite is not Simon. I speak with HER all the time. And when Simon and Jan say they don’t speak to Connie, they don’t. Not since this first started and I asked them to. They go through Darrel and Mr. Bedwell to get their information after the court hearings. That’s why it sometimes takes a bit for a new article about it.
Not trying to start anything with you, just wanted you to know.
July 8th, 2009 at 5:37 pm
I Don’t Get It:
The way things are now, Aaliyah is (allegedly) being abused 100% of the time, all because Ms. Bedwell didn’t follow family court orders. We’re just going to have to agree to disagree: in my opinion, being abused 50% of the time is only half as bad as being abused 100% of the time. That’s just simple mathematics. If I believed that my child was being molested by the other parent, I’d do whatever it took to preserve my 50% custody.
70sixspeed: Ms. Bedwell was ordered by the court to stop videotaping the child and to stop “collecting evidence” of abuse–most likely because the constant suggestion during the “evidence collection” was affecting the accuracy of the child’s memory of events. Ms. Bedwell ignored a court order. If you ignore orders from the Family Court on how to behave while parenting your child, they limit your access to the child or take it away completely. That’s how Family Court works. There’s no “revenge” involved. There is only codified law—guidelines that the Family Court MUST follow.
Let me quote a very small portion of a study done on child suggestibility:
“1. There are reliable age effects in children’s suggestibility, with preschoolers being more vulnerable than older children to a host of factors that contribute to unreliable reports.
2. Although young children are often accurate reporters, some do make mistakes –particularly when they undergo suggestive interviews; and these errors can involve not only peripheral details, but also central, predictable (i.e., scripted) events that involve their own bodies. It is also the case that suggestive questioning not only distorts children’s factual recall, but it also has a strong influence on their interpretation of events.
3. Measures can be taken to lessen the risk of suggestibility effects. To date, the factors that we know most about concern the nature of the interview itself–its frequency, degree of suggestiveness, and demand characteristics.”
The entire report is here (it’s very long):
http://www.law.umkc.edu/faculty/projects/ftrials/mcmartin/suggestibility.html
There have been a number of people in the State of California who have been falsely accused of child molestation and even jailed for it. The State paid millions of dollars for improper trials and later, settlements to recompense people for false imprisonment (the record was 20 years for a crime that a man named John Stoll never committed; a married couple that were falsely accused and convicted, Scott and Brenda Kniffen, served 14 years in prison).
The State learned from its mistakes and formed guidelines for experienced interviewers to use in order to not contaminate the memories of child witnesses. That’s why they ordered Ms. Bedwell to stop “collecting evidence”.
MelissaC: Ms. Bedwell has instigated every word that’s been posted on this subject by distributing the videotape. If not for that, nobody would know anything about her personal business, and nobody would have any information to comment on. That’s what happens when you post your personal information on the internet: people comment on it, and often they disagree with you. If she doesn’t like it, and you don’t like it, tough noogies. Perhaps you could ask BTLS to remove this thread if you don’t like the fact that people disagree with your point of view.
Personally I’d like to see a little more civility on BOTH sides of the argument. Bickering back and forth in a hostile manner does nothing to help anyone.
July 9th, 2009 at 7:11 am
For anyone stumbling on this horrific case there is a lot of information out there, don’t take my word for it, listen to Aaliyah tell you herself…
http://www.youtube.com/user/endpedophilia
http://www.youtube.com/user/wellsaidjohnsmith
Listen to Connie, Aaliyah mom…
http://childprotectioncommunity.com/blog.asp?action=details&page=41327&int_blogid=350
Read the witness statements…
http://childprotectioncommunity.com/
http://www.saveaaliyah.com/
More information here….
http://www.bloggernews.net/index.php?s=aaliyah
Come to your own conclusions….
I believe that Aaliyah deserves an THOROUGH independant investigation to clear this up once and for all. Is that really too much to ask for?
July 9th, 2009 at 10:22 am
See Melissa that is the problem with you, and people like you. You have no facts. My “site” was started years ago. Long before I had even heard of BNN, and it will be there long after you, Connie, and BNN are gone. You know why, because people like you are not welcome there. I don’t deal in gossip, rumor, or disgusting attacks and putrid language. If you can learn somehow to research before you open your yap you’d learn some things.
July 9th, 2009 at 12:42 pm
” WONDER
July 6th, 2009 at 2:35 pm
If he doesn’t want to waste his time dealing with the general internet public, and the video is so innocent, why is he fighting so hard to get it removed ?
I mean, a parent should be able to put up a perfectly innocent video of their child on Myspace or whatever.
I know I have.”
So you have posted and exploited your daughter on the internet and slandered another in the same process? Interesting people Connie has on her side! Why would he be fighting to hard to have it removed? Uh actually Connies Lawyer said that Connie would find a way for it all to be removed before August 29th. And hell yes if I were Dustin, I would be fighting for this to be taken offline because its horrible to have that out there suggesting I molest my child when I do not!
MelissaC said at 3:03am
“The safety and welfare of this woman’s children. Young children who live in the home which they have published the name, telephone #, address to. When she complained and tried to tell them that was hitting below the belt, they told her she was fair game. She ASKED FOR IT!!! She was the one putting her children in danger by involving herself in this case!!! The comments went on and on about how they had the RIGHT to publish her personal information, she brought it on herself. What did she do to give them that right? She speaks out for Aaliyah, but their goal just like the worm’s goal is to shut her up!!!”
Nope lies. Karen posted her phone number many times on BNN and even a post by Karen above she provides her email,phone and address.. SO tough luck! NEVER did Beast,CeeA or anyone post her info online for everyone to see.
ANOTHER point I would like to make is Baby A has a lawyer appointed to her that Connies lawyer would have to call and arrange visits.. its not up to Dustin. Connie needs to make the effort to see her child.
July 9th, 2009 at 3:05 pm
Why do you all continue to argue and batter each other?? Seriously, find something to do with your lives that are productive. If you are wanting to help a child that much, there are hundreds in each of your local communities that would appreciate even 50% of the effort you all put into arguing.
And Beast.. Your site is no man’s land at this point.. you drove off your own followers. What does that tell you? The only one that can put up with your power trip is your wife. How sad.
July 10th, 2009 at 7:42 am
Butters,
You are incredibly sad. I have not posted my own information. You and your clan can keep on saying I did, because obviously it either had to be one of you or Dustin that did so, but it doesn’t make it true. You have once again proven how pathetic you are.
July 10th, 2009 at 8:58 am
Just Drop it. You obviously are one of those. I don’t know what level of mental stability you have but I will try to explain something to you very simple like. I don’t have, and never will have “Followers”. Sometimes people choose to post or comment and sometimes they don’t. It doesn’t matter to me one way or the other. Whatever your name was before you should examine why you are the one going from site to site and changing your name, THAT is sad. My name is the same, and I am still where I have always been.
July 10th, 2009 at 10:16 am
KarenCCC. WOW how far gone are you? look up
KarenCCC
July 4th, 2009 at 11:19 am
Are you trying to say now that wasnt you?
July 10th, 2009 at 10:27 am
And here as well
JustGetanInvestigation
July 3rd, 2009 at 9:41 am
Why are you using 2 different names here? And you wonder why people question the credibility of you, and the others doing the accusing.
July 10th, 2009 at 1:10 pm
Beast, NOPE, it wasn’t me. I don’t care if you believe me or not. The moderator can tell you, it was from a different IP address. I’m not wondering anything. Butters said that I put my inormation on here, I answered her with that I didn’t. Why are you getting involved?
July 10th, 2009 at 1:18 pm
See Beast, it’s easy to change the screen name. I can post as all of you if I wanted to. I haven’t said one word to you or any of you in a while. Why are you starting with me today?
July 10th, 2009 at 2:02 pm
The way this site allows posting “names” to be changed every single time a post is made, anyone can post under any name. The poster name is not indicative in any way, shape or form of who the real poster was that posted any information. I could log on as “Beast”, “KarenCCC”, or anyone else for that matter. Just because that post was from “karenccc” does not mean it was actually her that posted what is proported to be her information.
July 10th, 2009 at 3:24 pm
Hey Beast, see how easy it is to use somebody’s name?
Dumbass.
July 10th, 2009 at 4:05 pm
Beast…you had better re-check your loopy wife and ask her how many names she uses. She’s done gone mad! As for your blog, you have lost nearly all your posters…wonder why? Could it be the nasty approached both you and wifey have? Or is it that you’re just flat out bossy, mean and everything in between!
July 10th, 2009 at 6:20 pm
Karen why would I give a flying duck about your personal info enough to look it up? And I see no reason for Dustin to post it at all. Maybe you should contact the moderator of this site for I.P addresses to see who is posting your info..unless its you then I see no reason for you to not ask for it. And provide PROOF.. POST the I.P Addy when you get it….
July 11th, 2009 at 12:56 am
Keep going Connie supporters! The more you act like raving maniacs, the SAFER Aaliyah. The courts have ALREADY determined, by the recommendation of Aaliyahs lawyer, not Connies, NOT Dustins, the BEST place for this child is with her father. The childs lawyer makes those determinations in disputed custody cases.
Keep going Connie supporters! Seal the deal for Connie to NEVER have the opportunity for more than two one hour supervised weekly visits with her daughter. At a place Connie needs to be watched very carefully to ensure she doesn’t attempt to further poison her childs mind.
Keep going Connie supporters! No, she may not be held liable for the libel you post, but it does help the courts ‘see’ Connie has made little to no effort to stop her vindictive rage. Can she be held in contempt for her actions? Certainly. The courts will only have so much patience until the penalties get stiffer and stiffer- maybe even prison time.
Keep going Connie supporters! When Aaliyah is old enough to understand this, there is a DAMN good chance Aaliyah will tell the judge her father NEVER harmed her and she REFUSES contact with her mother for saying and doing such horrible things about her dad.
Keep going Connie supporters! Because that is the track you have taken this runaway train.
July 11th, 2009 at 7:09 am
What exactly where you thinking Connie? That your daughters father didn’t deserve the opportunity to parent without your ‘bibity bobity boo’ wishful fairy tale when he didn’t allow you to dictate the time spent with both of your child? Did you think you could slam the door to the person who has equal rights according to California law and pretend she had another daddy?
Sorry, it doesn’t work that way “princess”.
YOU chose this man as the father of your child. The man who shares exactly as much DNA as you contributed. Aaliyah is no more Bedwell than she is Thompson.
Oh, so things didn’t work out, get over it! It happens. Not only are your accusations baseless, your “fantasy” that your daughters father is off “pining away” for you – as if he is some love struck Romeo only demonstrates delusion you and your “clan”.
What’s ironic, every single thing your “supporters” *cough cough* have accused your ex, describe you and your “clan” to a T.
Connie, your “fairy tale” ends like this –
You win the war on slamming your ex, but you LOSE out on being a part of your childs life. Why? Because you can’t see past the end of your nose, or your ass with your ego.
The WHOLE WORLDS SEES YOU ARE A LIAR CONNIE! ACCEPT IT!
get on your KNEES and pray for Gods forgiveness, along with the knowledge of how to get your head on straight to be an active part of your childs life, before she too thinks you are a fool along with the rest of the world.
July 11th, 2009 at 8:12 am
BEAST:
If you are not going from site to site, what are you doing here? Excuse me but I don’t think you were on your site where you have always been when you post here or other places I have seen comments by Beast and CA. I do have a serious question for you. Just exactly how is it that you know how horrible it is to be accused of molesting your child? You consistantly defend men who hurt children and have even gone so far as to glorify one. Both you and your puppet wife are way to passionate when defending people accused of molesting children.
You consistantly spout off about the laws that protect these men. You live in Canada, what would you know about the American justice system? How much personal experience could you possibly have in our courts? You are a victim of your over inflated ego and like everything else you claim expertise about, you know nothing.
In fact the one and only thing I think you are really an expert on is defending the low life scums who hurt children. You are quite good at that. A fact that I think everyone has noticed. It sure gets a big AHEMmmmm from me.
I can’t help but wonder just how you became so good at it. Actually that’s not true, I really don’t wonder at all. I think many of us have figured it out. You have a disgusting dirty mind.
Beast I haven’t forgotten the sickening comment you made on another site. When one of the bloggers said something about a daddy giving his young son a bath. Anyone who could even think that way is very shady as far as I’m concerned. Let me just say this, I would NEVER leave YOU alone with a child. At the time I thought your intention was to anger the blogger, but I have my doubts about that now. All you accomplished was saying a whole lot about yourself and the way you think. Sean I hope you stay in Canada. Please don’t ever come to the states. We have to many of your kind living here already.
JUST DROP IT:
Wow you hit the nail on the head with that assessment of Beast and his wife. If we could buy him for what he’s worth and sell him for what he THINKS he’s worth, our economy would be in great shape. He calls himself Beast, I worry he is actually describing WHAT he is. Even his nickname says alot about him. I’m not just making digs at him. I have gone back and re-read a bunch of comments made by him. Much of what he has said, is really scary. I am serious when I say I’m so thankful he is in Canada and no where near any of our beautiful children. I am not making any accusations.
HIS OWN words and view points make me very nervous.
C~A: On May 26, 2009 at 4:52pm you asked:
where’ the vid of the child screaming and crying not wanting to go to daddy’s…( even though that is natural for a young child not understanding why she has to leave mommy to see daddy)
Well those exact vid’s were put on the net and what did you do? You dismissed them, saying the mother whispered somethng to Aaliyah to get her upset. Anyone could see that child was terrified of her father. She knew what she was going back to and she was begging in every way a 3 year old can, NOT to make her go with him. NOTHING will ever convince you. WHY? Even when you get exactly what you demanded. The very thing you needed to prove Aaliyah wants her mother, you still refused to believe, what you saw with your own eyes. There are none so blind, as those who REFUSE to see. Like Beast, defending someone accused of hurting a child comes as natural to you as breathing. I can’t help but wonder WHY? I have a good idea but I will keep that to myself. I’m fairly sure others have their own ideas as well.
KARENCCC:
Don’t worry we all know you DIDN’T PUT YOUR OWN INFO OUT on the internet. Yes you did put it on BNN ONE TIME, and it was quickly deleted. It was very kind and generous of you to say you didn’t think anybody from the outhouse would have done that. I agreed with you at first but like I have already stated, I have re-read most of the comments on this case. I now DO think there is 3 individuals who would be that evil besides Dustin. Like you I believe it was Dustin, but I wouldn’t put it past his 3 most vocal supporters either. Those of us who have taken the time to get to know you, know exactly what a wonderful, giving, kind, and loyal person you truly are. We also know you are passionate in the defense of children. Everything that drives you is from the pure goodness in your heart. Ignore those who attack you, they are jealous of you. Shoot I am even a little jealous of the fantastic person you are. You are one of the few people I have ever known who really honestly prays for
those who mistreat you. I strive to be more like you. Never let anyone make you doubt yourself. I am proud to call you my friend. Don’t change, not ever, you’re a gift to us all.
Those who “question the credibility of you,” are clueless about so many things, this is just another thing on that list. It’s not your job to educate them. Let it go.
BEAST COMMENTS:
See Melissa that is the problem with you, and people like you. You have no facts. My “site†was started years ago. Long before I had even heard of BNN, and it will be there long after you, Connie, and BNN are gone. You know why, because people like you are not welcome there. I don’t deal in gossip, rumor, or disgusting attacks and putrid language. If you can learn somehow to research before you open your yap you’d learn some things.
I HAVE ALREADY ADDRESSED THIS: He must have missed it. Again
I had no idea he has had a site before this all started. Learning that just tells me, he obviously has never been able to run a successful site. He has no talent and has not been able to garner the kind of following Simon enjoys.
Beast you flatter yourself, I know you are so self absorbed you’d never notice but I didn’t WANT to join your little clique. I defy you to show any proof I ever even so much as dropped by your site. I have standards, you do not meet them. I believe we are known by the company we keep. Contrary to what your enormous ego might tell you, I really think you are a disgusting excuse for a human being. In absolute honesty I don’t find anything about you or your opinions that I find ANY value in. What little I know about you is way too much for my taste. I don’t trust you and I don’t like you.
You brag about this site you say you’ve had all this time. Why then were you writing for Simon. I would venture to say its because his site is successful while your site flounders. You welcomed all the people who got banned from Simon’s site and intended to lead them around like sheep. But they saw you for who and what you are, you finally had a few members and COULD NOT EVEN KEEP THEM. They came to your site out of desperation and after they got to know you, they realized they really were not THAT desperate!!!
You and your little clan were riding high for a minute. You all had common enemies. Simon, Jan, KarenCCC and AnneA. As we the wallflowers watched everything unfold, we laughed a lot. You guys talked trash about Karen and Anne but they were the ONLY ones who were NOT sheep. They stood up to all of you and even Pickles! The whole bunch of you never did that. It must really bite that you had all the documented card carrying sheep who obediently followed PICKLES and yet you COULDN’T MAKE THEM FOLLOW YOU!!! Pickles even with all your short comings and you didn’t even come close to measuring up to her. It is really funny you’re so dense that hasn’t even occurred to you yet. YOU’RE A LOSER BIG TIME. Your opinions mean nothing. By default you get a flock of pre-programmed sheep to blog on your site and they de-program themselves and get away. I don’t know where you get the nerve to come to ANY site and post. The only reason I can come up with to explain your lack of embarrassment is pure and complete ignorance. It must suck to be you.
Beast there is little doubt you really got short changed in this life but there is hope. Maybe in your next life you’ll come back as jackass with a brain instead of just the plain jackass you are now.
July 11th, 2009 at 9:20 am
BEAST:
Here is just a PS for you to think about. You should go back and read some of the blogs when everyone was one big happy family. When Pickles ruled BNN. The way all of you praised her “heartfelt” articles. Each and everyone of you said the same garble. Out of all those bloggers not even one of you, realized what a lack of intelligence there seemed to be on that site. I know some people blogging were realIy smart but by praising Pickles “work” there brain appeared to be stuck in neutral. I never saw any post by KarenCCC or AnneA that praised Pickles. You guys really slammed those ladies but yet they didn’t fall into the same category that all of you did. All the talk about the wonderful family you all had become. The reality of it was you were all just a bunch of brown nosed lying hypricrits without back bones. You also NEVER saw any praise from me. I just couldn’t be that phoney. The rest of you didn’t have any trouble pulling it off, it came natural to all of you. The kind of people who dominated that site, are not my kind of people. I will stay with Karen and Anne, they are intelligent and stand up for what they believe in. THEY ARE THE PEOPLE WHO HAVE VALUE. For all the reasons I have outlined in this post and the last one, I would never join your site. All my life I have thought all people are equal. Since becoming aware of you, I have changed my mind. I have learned one thing from you, mister you’re beneath me and my friends, on every level.
July 11th, 2009 at 3:56 pm
Are you trying to say that posts #663 and #680 in this thread aren’t you, KarenCCCC? Because if they aren’t, both posts are supportive of the Bedwell family, so it’s CLEARLY Bedwell supporters that posted your personal information. I have also seen the same information posted on BNN by a user calling themselves KarenCCC, so it seems a little ingenuous to claim that Bedwell opposition posted the information in order to harass you.
And everyone wonders why the opposition posts using pseudonyms! With craziness like this going around, you’d have to be nuts to post your personal information!
July 11th, 2009 at 6:49 pm
If you noticed, Icky, I have added another “C” to my name because someone used my “JustGetAnInvestigation” and posted my personal information and then when I started posting here under my regular “KarenCCC”, they posted my personal information AGAIN, but using “KarenCCC”. I have been “KarenCCC” on BNN since I first went there. You people amaze me. Seriously, WHY would I post my OWN PERSONAL information for the whole wide world to see? Amazing!!!! I am not CLAIMING they did, I KNOW they did, because I DIDN’T! I wish I could post the emails I have been receiving from “them” or Dustin. Then maybe you’d be able to understand. I’m not going to post them, but there is one at BNN that you can look at. I had to put stars where the vulgar words were, and the one that I did post is not as bad as the others. And Icky, I assume you haven’t been around since the beginning, these people you are defending and I have been going round and round and round. I guess I have said some things they haven’t liked, so they stooped as low as you can go over the internet, I guess, and decided to “get me back” by posting my information. As I said, it’s fine, it just proves that they are pathetic human beings; plain and simple.
July 11th, 2009 at 6:55 pm
BTW, Icky, I never posted any information on BNN except my phone number. And that number is unlisted. Tis why I posted it! AND, I only posted it ONCE. It’s so funny that you (and Butters) say these lies, anyone can go to BNN and look at all the posts I’ve ever made. I have never given anyone my address, my real name or my email address. BUT, these jerks have. Your whole clan is always screaming “Post the TRUTH”, why don’t you practice what you preach!
July 11th, 2009 at 6:58 pm
OMG People!!! How idiotic of you all to think Karen or any of Connie’s supporters posted her personal information. I swear, I have never seen such moronic people EVER in my life. Wow, this is worse than Placer County’s corruption. MORONS!!!
July 11th, 2009 at 8:14 pm
I had to move again to avoid my stalker ex. I only have a few minutes to come back and check for an update on this case.
I can’t believe the idiocy I am seeing in the posts since June 30. Please use some common sense, and don’t ever post real life info out on the net. Don’t do it to get even with someone either. It is dangerous. You never know when the person you are posting info about may be put in physical danger by your actions.
I see no new info on this case, and very little if any intelligent adult discussion. It makes me very sad to see people I know are capable of better posts sink to this level.
Quit trying to guess who is who and stick to the facts and your own opinions about this sad case. Remember this is about what is going on in a child’s life. One or both of her parents is abusing her.
Blessings and peace to you all, I have to get back to moving. And yes, my stalker has found me again.
July 12th, 2009 at 12:14 am
My name is Denise Payne…aka DUHNEICE, as I purposely posted under than name ONCE.
If Karen says she didn’t post her personal info, that’s not hard to believe. We can all choose to be whomever the eff we choose to be on this…blog?
I didn’t make my private blogs public yet someone found a way to make them such. So it’s completely possible for someone to take another’s personal information and publicize it…especially via the net.
If someone knows and/or finds a way, personal info can be obtained and can be posted by anyone that cares to do so.
To my knowledge, not a single so called “Connie supporter” has posted under any name that could not easily be traced back to the supporter. We don’t use “pseudonyms”…we are proud to stand up for and be the voice of a child that cannot do it for herself.
TEAM AALIYAH!! Always and forever more! No matter what. End of sentence, period.
July 13th, 2009 at 9:27 am
HUH, I am so sorry that your ex found you. I hope you stay safe!
July 13th, 2009 at 4:12 pm
But Karen, if someone were to use another person’s user name to post your information, wouldn’t it make more sense to use Beast’s name, or CA’s, or Pattycake’s, or even mine, rather than the name of a Bedwell supporter? Why would someone try to “frame” another Bedwell supporter when it would be so much easier to use an opponent’s name, and then claim that the opposition had posted your personal information? Then it would make sense, and right now, it makes no sense whatsoever. And aren’t you complaining about people calling your house in the first place? That would probably be because you posted your phone number on BNN where anybody could get at it. It IS a public site, after all.
Also, there is no “clan”. To be a member of a “clan”, one has to know at least one other member of the “clan”, which I don’t. I’m not friends, relatives, or associates with anyone else in this case. There is nothing but people with a similar opinion.
July 13th, 2009 at 5:41 pm
Team Aaliyah? You people are on crack. You wanna help this child? Take down all the videos and stories you have posted on the net down. Take down all the disgusting vile things down you have said about HER father. Let the courts deal with it, if there is anything left for the courts to do. GET RID OF THIS CHILD’S NAME ON THE NET! That would be helping her.
July 14th, 2009 at 2:44 am
Keep sticking to the facts like you are doing Bedwell’s and supporters!
The Thompson’s are doing an excellent job of looking like the dishonest twisted people that they are. Any stranger can get on these posts and clearly see that the Thompson’s are guilty simply by their posts (and keep this in mind) these people have also just watched a video that clearly shows Dustin is a child molester straight out of the baby’s mouth not Connie’s. Then these same people get to see the outrageous lengths the Thompson’s go to to hide the truth. It is really sad.
The Truth is evident: Dustin is a child molester and the Thompson’s are liars covering for a child molester.
There are clearly a lot of posts that show the Thompson’s will say anything at any given time they need to defend themselves and clearly not giving a rats behind if it is the truth or not!
So my advice to you all supporting the TRUTH and the Bedwell’s would be to remember this…
Liars operate in a realm that has no boundaries. People that tell the truth are bound by their conscience and by God’s way. Don’t get caught up in the Thompson’s sick ways.
Fighting with the Thompson’s is like jumping into a dryer… They want to tumble you completely dry until you feel dizzy with a disgusting uncountable amount of lies they toss in their with you. It will make you want to puke. It will make you feel worn out. They want to spin you so you don’t know which way is up or down or right or wrong… My advice… don’t get into their dryer. Shut the door they try to pull you in through and stick to the Facts, Truth and Real Issue here which is Dustin is molesting an innocent baby.
Let the Thompson’s be wicked.
Let the Thompson’s be ignorant.
Let the Thompson’s lie.
Let the Thompson’s call names.
Let the Thompson’s set their own trap.
Let God judge each and every one of them for the things they say whether it be good or bad.
Just don’t get in their dryer; their dryer will take you to hell with them.
Just step back from the Thompson’s circus and remember when abusers like the Thompson’s try to Control you too; You have the power to control yourself.
July 14th, 2009 at 3:13 am
Oh Pedophile,
You say Connie’s lawyer is having the internet information taken down. LMFAO
Really? You must have thought only your twisted attorney knows how to work the court system!
Pedophile your intellect shines through brighter and brighter everyday! It’s amazing!
So Dustin Pedophile Thompson, you explain to all of us here, How Connie would go about taking it all down off the net when she isn’t the one who put it up?
Oh wait, that’s right, You think she is a “Princess” because you are obsessed with her.
What do you want her to do? Wave her magic wand and POOF everyone will forget that you are a Child Molester?
Do another line…sniff sniff
TALK ABOUT FAIRY TALE LAND
July 14th, 2009 at 3:29 am
ANYONE SUPPORTING AALIYAH AND CONNIE:
IF YOU ARE WONDERING WHAT YOU CAN DO TO HELP…
YOU CAN MAKE FLYERS WITH THE SAVEAALIYAH.COM WEBSITE ON IT AND START FLYERING CARS, HOUSES, PEOPLE, BUSINESSES, ETC. TO HELP KEEP THE SUPPORT COMING IN TO GET AALIYAH OUT OF THE CHILD MOLESTERS HOME. TELL THEM TO CONTINUE SPREADING THE WORD ALSO.
THANK YOU FOR ALL OF YOUR HELP, SUPPORT, PRAYERS AND DONATIONS.
MAY GOD BLESS AALIYAH’S HELPERS
July 14th, 2009 at 3:52 am
Dustin do you really think people can’t tell who would be posting about Denise? Or posting about Karen? And posing as both of them? Goodness.
You are starting to rip on Denise now because she had the Saveaaliyah.com shirts made! You thought you suceeded in lying to the shirt company huh?
What you didn’t like Connie’s Saveaaliyah.com T shirt she wore to court?
How’s that song go? Cry me a river!
So typical of a child molester… cry about everything for yourself because you know you are busted here shortly but you dont have a soul to cry about the pain you cause your daughter.
Odd, Casey Anthony did the same thing, cried for herself when she got caught but wont cry for her daughter.
Dustin you should hit up Casey Anthony and finally get yourself a girlfriend that just so happens to be just like you.
It’s been 3 1/2 years, you should probably quit getting ass from your daughter and maybe get it from someone your own age (like normal people do).
July 14th, 2009 at 4:13 am
So Dustin tell us all what you are drugging Aaliyah with?
It probably creeps you out knowing that someone knows that you are drugging her huh? You thought nobody sees what you do.
Oh Thompson’s I can just picture you crapping your pants as you read this, paranoid that someone is watching you, wondering if there are cameras in your home or right outside your windows capturing your aweful dispicable evil behavior. I bet it just tweeks the hairs on the back of your neck knowing there is a way to know exactly what is going on behind your closed doors where you think nobody can see what you do.
What’s it feel like when you are guilty of beating, kicking and molesting a baby and knowing someone might be capturing it all on tape to convict you? Does it make it kind of hard to put on a fake front for so long?
Gosh if I was as sick as you people I would hate Connie too for exposing you.
I mean why dislike yourselves when it is so much easier to hate the people who told everyone what you are?
Truth hurts…
Yeah God knows what you are doing too.
July 14th, 2009 at 5:23 am
Pedophile you claim above that Darrel cheats on Connie.
Your divide and conquer plan doesn’t work with any Bedwell or with Connie and Darrel. We see through you like glass.
Everyone knows YOU cheated on Connie, not Darrel.
Why is it that you feel the need to flip your behavior onto other people?
Darrel is a great guy and treats Connie amazing. And if you want to talk about Darrel’s arms that are bigger than yours and your daddy’s put together than let’s talk about them…
Darrel has huge muscles but he’s a real man and doesn’t use them to hit women and babies, yet instead uses them to protect women and babies from P____Y’s like you and your daddy.
What’s funny is we all will never see the Thompson boys talk crap to a man to their face but they will hit women and children and pretend they are tuff behind a computer keyboard and think they are powerful and in control over females and babies.
It must kill you two little boys, yes you Dustin and John David Thompson, that Connie a 26 year old petite, strong, intelligent woman 1/2 your size can stand up to the two of you P____y’s all on her own!
O U C H!!!
Hey I know her personally and I’ll tell you what, she will not back down from the truth until you sick bastards are behind bars and Aaliyah is safe. Connie isn’t like Dina. Connie isn’t going to put up with your crap and stand by while you try to turn another child into what Dustin was raised as. Trying to convince a child of lies at the tender age she is at is sick. You wonder why you people are so sick you can’t tell the truth from your own buttholes. You are so twisted and in need of help so you brainwash a child to try to make her be just as f***ked up as you are to hide what you are. Go to a counselor already. Oh sociopaths dont think they need help, so why on earth would you go get help for yourselves?
Aaliyah wont be like you, Aaliyah wont lie like you, Aaliyah wont be a Thompson by name or behavior ever. She will be raised with morals in a loving environment that doesnt teach her hitting is okay, that doesn’t teach her molesting is okay, that doesn’t teach her lying is okay. It’s just too bad for you Thompson’s that nobody ever took the time to teach any of you that lesson in life. Now here you are as adults acting like psychopaths in every way shape and form just sharing your sick ways with as many as you can push them upon.
Yeah if I were you sickos I would be begging Connie to take the websites and videos down too!
It’s like you Thompson’s have really bad allergies to the TRUTH. Is it making you itch yet? Getting under your skin little boys? It must be to have to be for you to beg for it all to come down.
Dustin you think you are so intelligent to have fooled so many “professionals.” Don’t forget Connie’s psych evaluation shows she is more intelligent than you. You hate that you can fool people but she isn’t buying your wolf tickets.
Your child is more intelligent than you are: She has her mother’s genes and probably will have an IQ that places her in the top one third of the population too. You definitely picked the wrong woman to victimize and have a child with to molest!!
How’s that Britney Spears song go??
Lolipop, Don’t mistake me your the sucker!
Dustin Child Molesting Thompson, You’re the sucker!!
And we will all see it in the end.
July 14th, 2009 at 8:14 am
Icky, you seem to be intelligent, until you say something like you just did. I didn’t post my information and neither did anyone who is supporting Connie. I haven’t complianed about anyone calling me. Where are you getting your information from? No one has called me. You want to ask me anything else, you can email me LMAO! End of discussion.
July 14th, 2009 at 11:22 am
Karen: FROM THIS THREAD, didn’t you read it? Actually it was Melissa saying that people were calling your house, but nvm, the accusation’s there. I have to repeat: Why would they use JustGetAnInvestigation’s name, who’s a supporter, rather than my name, Pattycakes, beast, CA, or any other opponents?
And I see “PeDoPHILe” is adding yet more new accusations to the pile at this late date–drugging the child, as if the child psychologists and social workers wouldn’t have noticed and reported it to the court. There isn’t a rolleyes emoticon big enough for this occasion.
If you wonder why so many people disbelieve the Bedwell chain of events, maybe it’s because there are so many wild accusations tacked on to the end, and salacious details added over time. That’s how liars act–they start with a fairly simple story, then they add more and more detail until it’s finally a wild epic tale. They hope that if they release it a little snippet at a time, people will believe the little snippets, and therefore accept the whole crazy tale. Unfortunately for you guys, there’s plenty of people who didn’t believe the snippets, and now the tale is getting more and more unbelievable by the day.
July 14th, 2009 at 12:34 pm
Icky, I don’t wonder about anything other than why it has gotten this far out of control. Maybe the people who are tacking on new information are sick of hearing they are being called liars and they think if they add new information someone will finally listen. I don’t know Icky. I don’t know who they are unless they use their real names they have been using since the beginning. So I tend to just skim through the posts. I think the name calling and fighting is ridiculous, so as soon as I see that, I stop reading the post. I didn’t read that part where MelissaC said that I was receiving phone calls. I haven’t received one phone call.
Why wouldn’t you or Patty or any of the others use their name to post my information???????? Really, Icky????? Do I really have to explain that to you? Wow.
July 14th, 2009 at 1:12 pm
Icky Retardo go back and read the paperwork on saveaaliyah.com. Aaliyah speaks of “medicine” they give her along with the fact she is dehydrated all of the time. Go read and then you won’t look like such a moron when you open your mouth each time. There was no new little snippet added.
And plus if new info comes out it doesn’t mean it wasn’t documented already genius. Just because it’s new info to your small little world of perception doesn’t mean it’s new to anyone involved. Aaliyah’s pediatrician was aware of the subject genius! But you wouldn’t know that because you weren’t there. Take a step back and realize the world doesn’t revolve around you either, nobody put you in charge of the information that comes out. Then try to use this gift God gave us all, a brain, and realize there is this world around you full of information yet you choose to only see through a little looking glass called your own eyeballs. There is more to this life then your limited perception Icky.
And yes Icky Dustin is still drugging the child to make her sleep through her nightmares because he doesn’t want his roomates to wake up to her screaming bloody murder about his molestation of her. Maybe there should be a video of her nightmares put up screaming about the abuse. Oh but wait, ignorant people such as yourself would just claim that somehow magically Connie coached her to have a nightmare about her dad molesting her, huh? There are videos of that too.
Ever thought to yourself Icky that maybe there is quite a bit of evidence but somebody just needs to do a REAL INVESTIGATION? Of course you haven’t thought of that; an intelligent idea like that doesn’t fit in your little ignorant window of perception.
We will pray for you too.
July 14th, 2009 at 1:37 pm
KarenCCCC We all know who posted your information. It was right after someone posted LL Pa Pa’s name. It hit a nerve with someone… Somebody thought you did it obviously. It was pretty low of them to put your personal info though. It just shows the level these creeps stoop too.
They don’t have THE TRUTH on their side, so therefore they have nothing on their side. How else would they fight an intelligent woman such as yourself without facts? Post your personal information posing as yourself!- That’s how!
My personal guess is that either Dustin did it because of the personal post under his name or LL PaPa and crew got a little butt hurt over his name being posted. Go back and look at exactly when it happened.
People’s intentions of their hearts shine through in everything they say and do, just pay close attention.
Like the people posting as just an outsider, some of those posts are from the Thompsons. It is very easy to see the intention throughout their writings. They say “oh Im nuetral” then a couple of sentences later call Connie a name.
Out of the heart the mouth speaks.
July 14th, 2009 at 4:08 pm
So upon researching this situation and researching Pedophiles and Child Molesters I have come across some interesting information.
With all of my extensive researching I have done, I have to tell you all to quit calling Dustin a Pedophile!!
Dustin is a Child Molester!
There actually is a difference between Pedophiles and Child Molesters.
Dustin falls under a grooming child molester. There are groomers and grabbers. He is definitely a groomer.
Groomers tend to be incredibly charming and extremely helpful, and direct their activities for gaining admission into homes, organizations, or communities where children congregate. Just like a salesman may charm a prospective customer to close a sale, or a politition would be disarming to get a vote, these child molesters often also appear “too good to be true.”
There are 3 types of grooming that is apparent Dustin has used. Child molesters will take extensive measures to groom effectively.
1) Child molesters physically groom the victim
2) Child molesters Psychologically groom the victim and her entire family
3) Child molesters groom the entire community and social environment
Child molesters gradually start out by wrestling, tickling, cuddling, hugging or playing touch games with the victim in front of other adults, children and usually the mother. The child molester does this as an act to confuse the victim that he does it in front of people so later on he can proceed a little further in private. One should never underestimate the degree of sophistication that child molesters will use to entice children as part of the grooming process. It only gets more vile from that point on.
Physical grooming is often accompanied with psychological grooming. Psychological grooming refers to all the verbal statements a child molester uses to reduce the child’s resistance and lessen the likelihood that she will disclose about the molestation. The child molester is always plotting his next steps to progress further with the abuse. He is also always preparing a new litany of explanations for his molestation. Hense, Dustin’s infamous Baby Einstein excuse and taking her to the store to see worms.
The child molester physically grooms the victim and psychologically grooms the victim and the victim’s mother. Most all child molesters take it one step further and groom as many people outside the home as well. (Understanding Child Molesters, p. 26)
“The power of grooming the community is widely recognized by experts in the criminal justice system. Kenneth Lanning of the FBI training academy in Quantico, Virginia, writes in a manual for law enforcement officers that…
PROSECUTION OF MANY CHILD MOLESTERS MAY NOT BE WELCOMED BY THEIR COMMUNITIES, ESPECIALLY IF THE MOLESTER IS A PROMINENT CITIZEN. CITIZENS MAY PROTEST, AND COMMUNITY ORGANIZATIONS MAY RALLY TO THE SUPPORT OF THE OFFENDER AND EVEN ATTACK THE VICTIMS. (LANNING, 1986, P.31)” (Understanding Child Molesters, p. 39)
“Manipulation by child molesters includes everything they do to try to control others without being open, honest, and direct about their true intentions. They particularly try to manipuate their wives or the guardians and parents of their victims, their probabtion officers, and the court. The fullest communication possible among all parties who know the offender is the best defense, although a child molester can sometimes outwit even the greatest efforts of those involved.” (Understanding Child Molesters, p. 91)
Dustin fits the profile over and over again.
Dustin Thompson is a Grooming Child Molester.
For those of you around him daily just watch his behavior. He puts way too much effort into trying to convince you that he isn’t a child molester. Being a sociopath, he tries to use your empathy to get you to feel bad for him like he is the victim. Educate yourself. Don’t be fooled. Protect Aaliyah and other children from Dustin Thompson and other child molesters like him.
July 14th, 2009 at 11:31 pm
Why not just use the tried and true “Anonymous”? I don’t know, Karen, there are so many ways someone could have posted your information that would have been simpler than using justgetaninvestigation’s name, it just seems that the simpler explanation is that you posted it yourself, and now you wish you hadn’t.
Whoever posted it is obviously not afraid of any repercussions, since BTLS does indeed log IP addresses. Unfortunately for you, it’s not illegal to post someone’s personal information, it’s just against the rules of most message boards, and generally an unkind thing to do. Have you tried asking BTLS to delete those specific posts?
I know it’s closing the barn door after the cow’s gotten out, but I hope you won’t ever post any personal information on the internet again, not a phone number, not a name, not anything, not anywhere. One piece of information easily leads to all the rest. Nobody should ever post personal information, especially if they’re an honest person who believes in what they’re saying. If you don’t get a bunch of offers from Nigerian princes who want to share their fortune with you if you’ll only pay a “handling fee”, I’ll be genuinely surprised. If it was me, I’d change my phone number. That’s the best advice I can give you.
July 15th, 2009 at 8:06 am
I didn’t post my information. Thanks for the advice Icky, and yes, I have contacted someone here to look into it. I haven’t heard from anyone about it and the information is still there.
July 15th, 2009 at 2:18 pm
I bet the Thompson’s are going crazy because of everyone investigating them right now.
They are probably having the hardest time trying to put on their fake best behavior for so long.
They are probably trying to put on a show like they are the the Leave it to Beaver family.
What do the Thompson’s think? Do they really think that the child is never going to go to the Police on her own as soon as she is old enough? She could prosecute that pig of a “dad” and pig of a “grandfather” herself.
If the child is a fighter like her mother she will take these pigs down all on her own. The longer it goes on the longer both of their sentencing will be. The child seems beyond intelligent for her age, I’m sure she will remember every single thing those pigs do to her and have done to her. If she could describe her daddy’s worm at that young of an age with such detail and accuracy than these two bastards have no chance.
The Thompson’s should just be apologizing to her and start trying to make it up to her now. I think any time you were victimized as a minor you have so many years to go report it.
The Thompson’s are done for. Connie be strong. Their day is coming and what a merry day that will be for everyone especially that precious baby.
July 15th, 2009 at 2:31 pm
Icky,
How many times does she have to tell you she didn’t post her contact information yet you continue to insist that it was her “name” so it must be her because in your common sense application, there is no other plausible explanation.
I’ve seen obtuse before and you definitely fit that to a “T” on this subject of Karen’s personal contact info.
Only an idiot would post their personal contact information on a public forum board like this and Karen is no such idiot.
She does not come on here and rant and rave like some of the lunatics (and yes I include lunatics on both sides of this issue) posting on here which is more likely who posted her contact information. How did they get it you wonder? Some of them, even in their perpetual delusional state of self proclaimed expertise, are quite resourceful when it comes to digging up information such as this. However, being able to find some stranger’s personal contact over the internet’s vast search capabilities does not an expert make. Sadly (and scary) anyone with a little computer search savy to them can find a person’s personal contact info given the motivation to do so. I’m not suggesting it is easy and quick to do, but a little motivation and vengeful intent goes a long way in motivating some people to do what would disgust others with even a modicum of integrity to think about.
Talina
July 15th, 2009 at 3:01 pm
The Child Molester’s druging of Aaliyah is’nt “a new accustion”. It’s all documented FACTS icky. If your not a Molester clan member by what authority do you speak in regard to this case? Who cares what the Thompsons and their three (3) Molester supporters think or believe. They’ve been proven liars sooooo many times it’s hard to keep track of. BOTTOM LINE!
WE, AND YES MOST, ABSOLUTELY BELEIVE AALIYAH & CONNIE !!!
A decerning mind knows, “WHERE’S THERE SMOKE THERE’S FIRE” -IT DOES’NT TO SEE THE FLAMES in order to yell fire!
Lack of evidence doesn’t mean not guilty!
July 16th, 2009 at 8:23 am
Let me ask you all, on both sides, one question: Do you find it fair that Aaliyah is not able to see her mom? With all the given facts, Connie is a great mom and Aaliyah is a three year old that craves and needs her mohter! Any human being knows this. It seems as if Amara is still playing her games and is stalling the visitations! This is an outrage. Some think that the baby deserves to see and be with her father, FINE, whatever! I don’t agree, but I do think most believe that Connie is not abusing her daughter and has the GOD given right to be with her baby! Amara, let Aaliyah see her mother! What type of damage are you doing to this baby???? Connie believes that the abuse is going on, that does NOT make her a terrible mother. Let the baby see her mother!
July 16th, 2009 at 12:52 pm
Karen- Amara has nothing to do with the visitation. Connie herself needs to make contact with HER attorney to set up the visitation. SHE has an attorney. Why isn’t Connies attorney doing anything? Amara has NO control over Connie not seeing her daughter, her only interest is getting this bull shit off the internet.
In all honesty, regardless what anyone believes- dad guilty or not- the bottom line is this online viscious verbal attack of the father is going to do NOTHING for Connie other than to continue her limited access to her child through the courts. The authorities and courts have stated they are NOT interested, nor do they find ANY CREDIBILITY in the Bedwells ‘alleged proof’ of abuse. So, IF there is any abuse it is going to have to come from outside of the Bedwell family to be taken seriously. Just freaking common sense tells one that. IF it is ongoing, IT will be found out by a pediatrician, a teacher, a friends parent, SOMEONE.
Tell me, if this is not soley about Connies HATRED for Aaliyahs father, why not zip it- get the bull shit offline- get her self back in position to have ACCESS to her child – so at least she can SEE her kid and voice her concerns to teachers, the childs doctor, ANYONE who is in A’s life outside the bedwells who can report this and possibly have it investigated a second time?
I can PROMISE all this infantile online hate campaign will do is keep Connie at a distance from her child AND quite possibly ruin any chance of her having a relationship with her child.
Fact is, Connie HAS the choice- she has two, which is more important- her hatred towards Dustin or her child? Right now it is VERY apparent her hatred of Dustin far outweighs her interest in her child. Else this would STOP and she would act like a caring parent with her childs BEST interest at heart.
July 16th, 2009 at 1:01 pm
I’m sure there is more the Bedwells are not ‘releasing’ as Connie has NEVER come out and given anyone a straight answer regarding why the courts severly limited her contact with her child and restricted it to being supervised by a professional. I highly doubt Connie will ever be forthcoming with the ‘truth’ on that note as it will clearly make her come out smelling less than a rose.
That limited supervision and access to a child is HIGHLY unusual through family court. MOST will do about anything to allow both parents access, unless one is proven a danger to the child. Please don’t try to say this happened because she was without representation, the Bedwell camp has already come out stating she has in fact had a number of attorneys throughout the custody proceedings.
July 16th, 2009 at 2:03 pm
In the June 1 hearing, the court ruled that if Ms. Bedwell couldn’t arrange visitation with her child within 2 days, she should file for an Ex Parte hearing. So far, that hasn’t happened, or there would be a new article on BNN about the new Ex Parte hearing.
Why hasn’t Ms. Bedwell filed for the Ex Parte hearing? All she needs to do in order to resume visitation is to find a visitation center that will accept her and call Ms. Amara’s office and arrange a date. Maybe Ms. Bedwell can’t find a visitation center that will accept her, since she violated the rules of the last center by releasing photos taken inside the place to the press. Visitation centers run under the same rules as battered women’s shelters, so releasing a photo taken inside to the public is a huge no-no.
If Ms. Bedwell is being denied visitation by Ms. Amara’s office, she should file for the Ex Parte hearing immediately, and the court will take care of the problem. The court said they would do this as far back as June 1. The ball is in Ms. Bedwell’s court, and it’s been sitting there for over a month.
July 16th, 2009 at 7:16 pm
I know this is an old topic but I was interested in 730 evaluations.
Dustin’s attorney chose the Custody evaluator who knew that opposing Mrs Family Court Judge Amara would guarantee a cut in referrals/income for that evaluator.
In most cases both parties have to agree to the custody evaluator.
Connie had NO ATTORNEY to oppose Amara’s choice.
A child custody evaluator selection process is often looked at by the attorneys as strategic. This is because some custody evaluators are considered to be “neutral” or “unbiased,” while others may be seen as pro-father or pro-mother. Some child custody evaluators have gained a reputation for their thorough custody evaluations and others are looked at as too hasty, as some 730 evaluators can take months to complete a custody evaluation, and some might finish in several weeks.
These considerations should and most likely will be weighed by the two sides, and play into the negotiations that may take place either between the two attorneys, or alternatively during a court hearing. Of course, each side hopes to get the 730 evaluator who they believe will be more favorable to their case, which can prolong the custody evaluator selection process.
Custody evaluators can take sides and can be biased.
Connie didn’t have an attorney to represent her side.
If either of the parties (parents or attorneys) is not satisfied with the evaluation report, and its recommendations, they may depose the evaluator, and/or have the evaluator placed on the witness stand for cross-examination.
If one does challenge the evaluation report, it may be beneficial to seek out the opinion of an outside expert or mental health professional to review and critique the evaluation process and have this placed into a formal declaration written up by the attorney.
Connie didn’t have an attorney. Dustin not only had an attorney, his attorney is the wife of one of the county court judges.
Dr. Saturley who isn’t being paid by either party and who has no ties to the county or state would be able to do a truly unbiased evaluation.
Dustin doesn’t want that, he already has his unfair, biased,and one sided report.
July 16th, 2009 at 7:28 pm
Karen
I’m sorry for posting your private information.
I think your an idiot for believing those lying, criminal Bedwells, but I hope you’ll forgive me for posting information that could put your family’s lives in danger.
I still think Dustin is innocent and Connie is a liar who exploited her child by posting that obviously coached video on the web for any pervert to see, but it doesn’t excuse what I did. I’m also sorry for trying to convince everyone that it wasn’t possible that someone other than you would post under your user-name.
July 16th, 2009 at 8:37 pm
If visitation is not occuring, I wouldn’t think Amara would be the controlling factor regarding that issue. Doesn’t the child have her own attorney appointed by the court? Wouldn’t it be between the mother and the attorney to come up with a plan that follows the guidelines established by the court previously?
There are so many holes in the statements and allegations being made…whatever happened to common sense? I for one am not seeing much validity in any of them.
July 16th, 2009 at 10:58 pm
It’s not up to Amara to arrange the visitations at all -period!!!! Connie has to go through Aali’s lawyer NOT Amara. Still think you know everything but it always seems you turn up knowing nothing. Connie’s family OMITS NOT telling you things for a reason. Connie’s lawyer has been repeatedly contacted to re-establish but CONNIE is the one NOT replying. THATS A GOOD MOM. Whatever.
July 17th, 2009 at 8:28 am
Before I continue reading your idiotic posts about Amara not being the one to get visitations started, YOU get the facts straight. SHE and Rebecca have to AGREE on where the visitations will take place. THEY will not do that!! So, get off your soap boxes and get it in to your heads, that you have no clue what is really going on. Amara asked Connie to take everything off the net, ie….the saveaaliyah site, the petition site and the videos on you tube. Connie has no control over any of it and told her she wouldn’t take the deal, so now SHE is witholding Aaliyah from her because of that. You all are so BLIND it’s pathetic!
Hey Icky, thanks so much for your apology, but it isn’t accpeted.
July 17th, 2009 at 8:48 am
Connie has asked numerous times for a trial. Has she received one? NO!!!
July 17th, 2009 at 8:50 am
Connie HAS found a suitable place for visitations, and while Amara and Bowman won’t accept it, I’m hoping Connie’s lawyer is finally fed up and will sanction the crap out of them.
July 17th, 2009 at 8:53 am
Get the facts straight, I thought you weren’t going to be posting here anymore? I heard you got your thread closed at WS, why don’t you ask it to be re-opened so you can go back to that hole!!! YOU are not being told the truth, Connie has no reason to lie to me. The person you are advocating for on the other hand DOES. Get your facts straight before you spout your crap to me.
July 17th, 2009 at 8:54 am
Wonder, thank you for being here and helping me to get the truth and the real facts here on BTLS! I greatly appreciate you!
July 17th, 2009 at 9:16 am
Oh good greif, here we go again. ‘Hijacking’ someone else’s user name- and Wonder would like us to believe Connie had NO attorney EVER representing her during the custody hearings. Puhhhhhhlease!
July 17th, 2009 at 9:59 am
Let’s put it in simpiler terms: Who has custody of the baby? Dustin. Who is Dustin’s lawyer? Amara. Who is the baby’s ad litem? Bowman. Connie’s lawyer says to Rebecca Bowman: “We have a visitation center, such and such name, will you agree to this place?” Bowman, “Uh, I have to consult with Amara, since Dustin is the custodial parent, but it may be fine with me.” Bowman to Amara, “They found a place, such and such name, will this work with you and your client?” Amara, “Hell no, we won’t agree to any place until she gets all the stuff off the internet, but don’t tell her lawyer that, just say I’m thinking about it.” Bowman, “You are such a sneaky b**ch, lol.” Get it all of you????
July 17th, 2009 at 10:18 am
Icky – I find it totally wreckless and unconcionable that you would post someone’s personal information and then follow up with posts riduculing them for posting it themselves. This case has certainly brought out the worst in people to say the least.
To everyone else posting here about “facts”: Let’s all be honest about what is often referred to here as “facts”. None of us really know what is factual in this case versus what is alleged. Granted some are in direct contact with one side or the other but even then what is being conveyed can easily be selective conveyance to put that side in the best light. But I dare say that for the majority of us, we are not in direct contact with either side so our actual knowledge of any true facts is nonexistent.
Based on what we have read or think we “know” we have formed opinions. Here’s the thing that seems to keep me thinking there is some merit to Connie’s allegations. She (in the past) and her family, recent and previously, have spoken out directly to the public in varying ways. They have not limited their allegations to anonymous postings on the internet. On the other hand, Dustin’s side has refused to respond to them under his own name or answering any inquiries from any media that ocntacted him. Some of you may say, well he doesn’t have to do that. You’re right, he doesn’t. But to me, that’s like an accused on trial not taking the stand.
Even though the jury is not supposed to take that into consideration during deliberations, human nature is going to make many think that if the accused were truly innocent they’d want to take the stand and let the jury hear it from their own mouth that they are not guilty.
I’ve heard of polls where father’s have been asked this very question, “how would you respond”. Overwhelmingly the response was that they would do whatever they needed to do to speak out about their innocence and take what ever evaluations they needed to take to prove it not only for them but for the child.
Yes, we are all supposed to be abiding by “innocent until proven guilty”. However, there are some situations, more specifically abuse and molestation involving children, where that is very hard to do because of an innocent, defenseless child being at the core of it all.
Talina
July 17th, 2009 at 10:38 am
get the facts straight
If Connie had lost custody as she was a ‘danger’ to Aaliyah as you keep alluding to it would have been ‘leaked’ by the Thompsons by now. They have tried to discredit her in every other way and I’ve no doubt if they had anything else on her it would have been revealed long before now.
Do you agree that a 3 year old girl should NOT be allowed to see her mom, have you seen how much they love each other.
Remind yourself, watch the exchanges video again…
http://www.youtube.com/user/wellsaidjohnsmith
I’m not seeing any love at all from the ‘father’, he doesn’t even console Aaliyah. I hope the Thompsons realise how much this poor little girl will resent them when she grows up for keeping her from her mom.
July 17th, 2009 at 1:05 pm
Perhaps is Bowman thought Connie was capable of discretion, she MIGHT agree to a safe place for her client. Unfortunately discretion isn’t one of Connies finer points.
July 17th, 2009 at 1:12 pm
KarenCCC said,in May 13th, 2009 at 9:06 pm
Amen Simon…..I’m right there with you. I am NOT going away! And I thought the same thing after at least 20 times trying to call Rebecca Bowman I only received an answering machine. It’s amazing…I can’t believe that people think that by not speaking to any of us is going to make us go away. Oh well…..they don’t know me that’s for sure….
Perhaps badmouthing Aaliyahs attorney isn’t exactly the way to win friends and influence people.
July 17th, 2009 at 1:34 pm
KarenCCC said,in May 7th, 2009 at 2:23 pm AnneA, I see there are a lot of posts here, I don’t have time to read them all right now, but I did see someone mention Aaliyah’s lawyer….I’m sorry I forgot your name, whomever you were, but her lawyer’s name is Rebecca Bowman and I think I found her on the internet. I am going to call her and see WHY SHE HASN’T YET VIEWED THE VIDEO! In court yesterday, she stammered all over herself when the judge asked if she had. I think we should contact her and demand she seeks justice for this little one!
I bet she’s ecstatic her name is all over the place with the trash you Connie supporters are spouting. I suppose she thinks this internet garbage is in her clients best interest? I doubt it very much, but if it works for you Connie continue what your doing. It has quite the success rate for you doesn’t it.
Perhaps an update to the Save Aaliyah site indicating to your readers letting them know Aaliyah does in FACT HAVE AN ATTORNEY might demonstrate just a tad bit of honesty? After all, your site is asking for funds for an attorney for Aaliyah, no?
July 17th, 2009 at 2:37 pm
It’s ridiculous to think that someone hi-jacked tardo’s
user name. Based on the comments the poster is obviously a Dustin supporter.
Who else but tardo would make comments like that about the Bedwells ?
I think it’s awful that he would post her personal info, but that apology seemed heart-felt.
Come on Karen, give ick tard another chance…..
July 17th, 2009 at 3:06 pm
LOL Karen, if I’d been the one to post your personal information, I wouldn’t be at all sorry and I wouldn’t bother to apologize.
July 17th, 2009 at 3:09 pm
The ball is in Ms. Bedwell’s court; when is she going to arrange that visitation? If she’s being denied her visitation, she should file for the Ex Parte hearing or stop complaining.
July 17th, 2009 at 7:36 pm
But do you really have the facts? Unless you have been there to witness this situation go down from day one first hand-not based on some person you have never met on the internet, you are passing judgement based on a scorned woman’s word. I find it hard to believe that everyone from the local pd, county, shrinks and courts are all out to get Connie based on the fact the DT’s attorney is married to a judge. Allegations of this nature are taken seriously, peoples lives and welfare are at stake as well as the professional’s reputations and abilities to continue earning a living. If they had any inclination that these things were going on, the child would not be with the father period.
The Thompson’s probably wish they were as influential and well off as they are being portrayed to be. From what I’ve been able to determine, they are just regular blue collar working class people. They may also have alot of friends in the community, but heh maybe it is something as simple as they are really nice people…think about it!
July 17th, 2009 at 11:31 pm
You’re welcome Karen. The truth will all come out and when it does,Dustin’s supporters will owe Aaliyah a huge apology.
Fact is, Amara hand-picked the 730 evaluator along with every expert that sided with her sick client.
July 20th, 2009 at 12:59 am
The truth is that this entire case has been investigated and the accusations are unfounded. Thanks BTLS for allowing the entire story to be posted including Connies DEBUNKED accusations against the little girls father. A good deal of authorities are extremely fed up with her games and BS, maybe one day soon she can find herself between iron bars and she can understand just how wrong she was to do this to her own child online!
July 20th, 2009 at 9:03 am
Clues, why do you keep saying saveaaliyah.com site is mine? I don’t run it, I didn’t put it up. You need to tell whomever put it up what you are telling me.
July 20th, 2009 at 11:58 am
GMA Anne – Regarding your post that the Thompson’s are regular blue collar working people. The regular blue collar working people I have ever come in contact with do not drive Mercedes.
July 20th, 2009 at 12:41 pm
you mean the used mercedes that cost under 25,000? yah, NO ONE in the USA can afford that at all, even lowly blue collar people. Cars make people criminals I suppose? Or does it make Connie’s story any more believable? Nope. the lack of support for Connie online shows how many of us don’t buy her bs. I know there’s very little money coming in online too for her. She deserves everything she gets coming to her, karma’s a btch.
July 20th, 2009 at 5:37 pm
Dustin just take your tiny crooked penis and quit calling it a damn worm and Quit putting it in baby’s mouths and all of this fighting wouldn’t be necessary.
Child Molesting PIG!!
July 20th, 2009 at 6:07 pm
Dustin you are so ignorant.
This is how much the cops care about the saveaaliyah.com website…
You got your ass kicked in court and can’t get the court to order a 15 K sanction….
So like a whiney baby you run to good ol APD to try to have Connie arrested.
Guess what?
They called Connie and asked her, “Hey are you running saveaaliyah.com?”
She said “No.”
Case closed.
It was a great investigation!!! It was just about as good as the one they did on your child molesting ass!
APD asked you, “Dustin are you a child molester?”
You replied, “No.”
And case closed.
APD is REALLY good at what they do.
They don’t care that you are molesting your daughter so why would they care about a restraining order violating Connie’s civil rights to post on the internet?
APD is almost as intelligent as you Dustin…
July 20th, 2009 at 6:14 pm
Dustin is the biggest faggot I’ve ever seen.
Didn’t you see his pictures on Connie’s myspace?
Dustin is a wanna be gang bangin’ Child Molester with his pants sagging to the floor with his crooked tiny worm hanging out! EWWWWWW
It’s YUCKY!
PIG!
July 20th, 2009 at 7:06 pm
Karen, I never said the site was yours, but you are obviously privy to first hand info. Perhaps you could pass it along? Not to mention, I have no doubt the Bedwells read here.
Get a clue, Connie is not willing to cooperate with the courts, so why should anyone cooperate with her? It takes giving a little to get a little. Connie wants to play hardball, why shouldn’t she expect others to play hardball back?
It’s really rather simple. Connie is going to reap what she sows. Let Connie go through the courts… and quit bitching and whining about it online. All you Connie supporters who keep this up, are doing no good for Connie- as you can see by the history of the actions through the last few months. As long as Connie is unwilling to cooperate, I don’t forsee anyone willing to cooperate with her, so she’ll have to file in the courts with whatever means necessary, which anyone familiar with family court knows can take years and years.
July 20th, 2009 at 7:08 pm
So, did Ms. Bedwell file for that Ex Parte hearing today? If she’s interested in seeing her child again, she needs to do that as soon as possible. It’s been almost two months now since the poor girl’s seen her mother.
I checked over on BNN to see if there was news that the Ex Parte hearing request had been filed, but all that’s there are soap opera updates and reviews for movies and bad novels.
July 20th, 2009 at 7:14 pm
No Karen, Connie needs to tell her friends to STFU! and take the site down, which she has already clearly stated she won’t. So this is what Connie reaps…. She can go on and on with this for the next 50 years. Isn’t going to change a damn thing.
Go look up a story titled ‘her right to be obnoxious’ – see exactly where this gets a woman who cries wolf all the time. It gets her right out of her childs life! Connie does not deserve to be in A’s life until she gets this crap off the net- and the courts SEE THAT! Why the hell you all don’t is beyond me, but as long as you keep harping, you keep Connie out of her childs life.
July 20th, 2009 at 7:29 pm
Talina
July 20th, 2009 at 11:58 am
GMA Anne – Regarding your post that the Thompson’s are regular blue collar working people. The regular blue collar working people I have ever come in contact with do not drive Mercedes
So is this about Aaliyah or is this jealousy over what kind of car DT drives? Perhaps if Connie GOT A JOB she might be able to afford a decent set of wheels. But wait, if she got a job, perhaps the state would garnish her wages to pay child support.
Ya, and you can buy a used mercedes pretty damn cheaply. I’m sure for a few grand.
So, keep talking about the issue or what everyone else has or doesn’t have? Sheesh, you all must have run out of things to say, now that you’ve turned this around to what kind of car others drive! LMAO!
July 20th, 2009 at 7:55 pm
Here’s a little snippet from the article titled “Her right to be Obnoxious” for all you Connie supporters. The article is from 2006. As of that time, mom had no contact with her then 16 year old daughter for 4 years. Her daughter is now 20 and still has NO contact with ‘mom’- childs choice.
“Every week, Darel can be found pacing along the 150 William Street block, protesting the way ACS caseworkers have handled her now closed case. In 1997, the department alleged that Darel’s ex-husband, a retired New York City police detective, had molested their daughter. But a series of complicated twists in Manhattan Family Court would cause judges to drop the accusation as “unproven,” find Darel guilty of neglect, and place her daughter in foster care. Eventually, she lost custody for good to the man whom ACS had once accused of abuse. The outcome has fueled an eight-year war of words for Darel/”
Can ya see where this is taking you Connie? Do you WANT to be in your daughters life? Or would you rather follow Ms. Darels example – keep going like the ever ready bunny and have NO involvement in your daughters life?
Keep it up Connie supporters! Because THIS is the road you are leading your ‘friend’ down.
July 20th, 2009 at 8:01 pm
worth reposting:
she lost custody for good
Permanent…. forever, and now this young woman wants NOTHING to do with her mother.
Do you hear that Connie?
Yes, you can protest, and complain all you wish, but the choice very well may leave you FOREVER out of your childs life. I have NO doubt, your attorney, Aaliyah’s attorney, as well as Ms. Amara know the letter of the law. So, you make the choice. I hope it is the right one for your daughter.
July 20th, 2009 at 9:31 pm
Please…check the car ads for used cars prices, then get back to me.
July 20th, 2009 at 9:46 pm
and by the way Simon, here is YOUR free clue. If you bother to read the ‘Her right to be obnoxious’ article, you will see the ‘credible’ journalist LEFT OUT THE CHILDS NAME! Hint, hint, which make the actions legal… they did NOT use the childs name!
July 21st, 2009 at 6:33 am
You can get a 2006 used Mercedes for about $20,000 in Placer County, which is about what you’d pay for a new Toyota Camry or similar sedan. You’re right, Free Clue, it’s sour grapes. Who cares about the stupid car.
Y’all would rather chew on sour grapes than file for the Ex Parte hearing that would get Ms. Bedwell’s visitation back, and I think that’s sad. You’d rather howl and complain than comply with court orders, which are the ONLY WAY Ms. Bedwell will ever get shared custody back. Maybe she’s more interested in hurting Mr. Thompson than she is in raising her daughter, just like Ms. Darel in the New York News article. I for one think it’s sad.
July 21st, 2009 at 8:09 am
Twist, twist, twist away! Incredibly sad and pathetic people you are.
Connie has NOT custody FOR GOOD and the judge had said he WAS NOT taking visitations away from her either.
Twist, twist, twist……
July 21st, 2009 at 9:36 am
KarenCCCCCCCCC has no brains unfortunately because FREECLUE was talking about another woman similar to Connie who lost custody, NOT Connie. LMAO
Yes the website owner of Aaliyah reads here, it’s maramite. That tidbit brought to me by a friendly ‘insider’ in Connie’s itty bitty clan.
Darrel 70six, do you really think the case is closed with the APD against Connie with the 1 phone call? Think again buddy.
July 21st, 2009 at 9:39 am
KarenCCCCCC what the judge said? Connie can FOR NOW keep the strictly enforced supervised visitation. Connie has NO RIGHTS to her child, not even to wipe her nose. Until she changes her ways, it will remain that way for good too Karen. You’re all helping PUNISH Connie, helping KEEP Aaliyah away from her by continuing this. As long as youre here, so will the supporters of AALIYAH TO HAVE HER NAME REMOVED FROM THE INTERNET!!!
July 21st, 2009 at 9:57 am
Guesswhat, I’d agree with you, but I think Connie is very much in control of what is being spread all over the internet. All she has to do is ASK people to stop and go about this through the proper channels.
As long as she is unwilling to do so, she RISKS the possibility of losing ALL contact with her child. She’s already pushed it to the very limited supervised contact she currently ‘enjoys’.
Icky-
“Maybe she’s more interested in hurting Mr. Thompson than she is in raising her daughter, just like Ms. Darel in the New York News article. I for one think it’s sad.”
I think you nailed it! It is incredibly sad for her daughter, but as long as she’s on the path she is, the courts have no other choice than to protect her daughter from the influence and onslaught of this hatred Connie has for her daughters father.
It’s not something I’ll ever understand, but some people are simply incapable of putting their childs best interests first.
It won’t be long until Connie is Ms. Darel Jr. Wait, she already is.
July 21st, 2009 at 10:05 am
Apparently KarenCCCC hasn’t been ‘fed’ a reply from the Bedwells yet, because all she could come up with was name calling. LMAO!
I’m awaiting the usual copy and paste of the same old Bedwell rhetoric which usually appears following anyone posting FACTS about the possibility of Connie’s loss of her daughter as well as judicial punishment for her actions. Anyone else notice that pattern?
July 21st, 2009 at 10:20 am
I don’t see how anything that any of say, even you GUESSWHAT, can sway a judge or a lawyer either way? Don’t you think they have way more important things to take care of? We are just people debating over a very sad and disgusting case….How you think we have ANY clout with the officials is really funny. Connie will do what is right. There are too many children EVERY day being murdered and neglected by their parents. Connie listened to her daughter and did what she felt is right, and you all think it’s wrong for her to do that. If she didn’t do anything about it, you’d be chastising her for that. I believe in you Connie! I believe you Aaliyah! I pray everyday for you both! Keep strong!
July 21st, 2009 at 10:20 am
70SixSpeed-
No one is fooled by your, or anyone else’s attempt to claim the 15K the courts are possibly seeking from Connie. Maybe you, Connie and the Bedwell family don’t understand that would be for the COURT COSTS. As long as Connie can not prove her case in court, SHE is liable for the court costs. You all must think Connie is the first and only person to ever have been through family court or a custody fight. Your limited capability to understand others are familiar with court proceedings shines through. Maybe you all should ASK Connies attorney if you lack understanding of any of the court fees before you continue to spout misinformation.
July 21st, 2009 at 10:24 am
All of you are hilarious. I post one comment responding to someone saying that the Thompsons are just hard working blue collar family, or some such likeness – maybe not exact words. I’m not going to scroll up to see exactly how it was worded. I merely state in response to that post that the people that I know that are hard working blue collar workers don’t generally drive around in Mercedes and you guys twist it to jealousy and say I’m turning this into being about a car, not Aailayah.
Most of you can’t even admit when something as trivial as what I said is more commonly true than not. No, this post is not about a car – it’s about how even the littlest things that are pointed out are so twisted with vitriol that it’s absolutely unreal. I couldn’t care less what kind of car anyone of you or anyone involved in this case drives or don’t drive and that is not what my original post was about.
July 21st, 2009 at 11:05 am
Posted by Free Clue:
No one is fooled by your, or anyone else’s attempt to claim the 15K the courts are possibly seeking from Connie. Maybe you, Connie and the Bedwell family don’t understand that would be for the COURT COSTS. As long as Connie can not prove her case in court, SHE is liable for the court costs. You all must think Connie is the first and only person to ever have been through family court or a custody fight. Your limited capability to understand others are familiar with court proceedings shines through. Maybe you all should ASK Connies attorney if you lack understanding of any of the court fees before you continue to spout misinformation
You are spouting misinformation. Connie is not trying to prove she isn’t the one posting on the internet, Dustin is trying to prove that she is. It is he and his lawyer that keep dragging her to court about the restraining order. Why would Connie have to pay $15k in court costs when she isn’t the one dragging everyone to court? LMAO! And Connie can tell anyone she wants to stop posting, but that doesn’t mean that people who support her will do that. Most of the people I have asked said that they wouldn’t stop posting because they believe Aaliyah is being abused. Doesn’t have anything to do with Connie at this point, as a matter of fact, I don’t think it ever did. It’s about an innocent child.
July 21st, 2009 at 11:20 am
Talina you brought up the mercedes not anybody else, you clearly have an issue with it. Tell Connie to go get a job and quit begging online. She has no more funds coming in so how far will she get now? None of you can see that YOUR actions online SUPPORTING HER USING HER NAME AND AALIYAHS NAME is getting her NO RESULTS.
What don’t you get about that?
IF SOMETHINGS NOT WORKING BUT YOU STILL KEEP DOING IT OVER AND OVER EXPECTING DIFFERENT RESULTS WILL COME ABOUT? Seriously think about that for at least 3 seconds.
NONE of you wonder why you couldn’t get media involved? NONE of you wonder why you can’t get other levels of government interested? Because acting like fools online spouting stuff in such childish behavior has made CONNIE’S case look even MORE SUSPECT and MORE UNTRUTHFUL! NOT the other way around.
That is, unless BNN has 800 people behind their ‘secret’ wall all discussing this case rampantly?? Probably not, I’d guess there’s 4 or 5 of you but since I too can’t view to see, I’ll just assume I’m right.
SO WHY ARE YOUSTILL HERE? WHY IS THIS CHILDS NAME STILL ONLINE? THE CAREFUL ONLINE ‘FIGHT FOR JUSTICE’ DIDN’T WORK BUT YOU’RE ALL STILL AROUND!! CONNIE is NOT getting the results she hoped for, IN FACT, by your very own words that she hasn’t seen AALIYAH in two months – CONNIE HAS suffered even greater hasn’t she?? IT BACKFIRED IN A BIG WAY and she is paying the price.
BUT YOU’RE ALL STILL HERE SPOUTING HER FIGHT. THIS IS HER FIGHT ISNT’ IT??? THIS IS WHY YOU ARE ONLINE?? TO SUPPORT HER FIGHT RIGHT? IT’S NOT WORKING AND WITH THE INCREDIBLE LACK OF SUPPORT ONLINE IT WILL NEVER WORK EVER NOW. TO CONTINUE IN THIS MANNER SHOWS HOW UNPLANNED THE FEW OF YOU ARE. NOTHING IS WORKING, NO ONE IS LISTENING INCLUDING THOSE WHO COULD DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT – LIKE MEDIA & DIFFERENT GOVERNMENT! Am I right or Am I right?
UNTIL CONNIE OBEYS ALL COURT ORDERS SHE WILL CONTINUE NOT TO HAVE ANY RIGHTS TO HER CHILD EVER EVER EVER EVER. Keep posting here will just be going in circles. HOW is that any help to a child you claim is abused?????????????
July 21st, 2009 at 11:34 am
I guess what you could do is keep doing this online BS and Connie will keep NOT getting to see her child, more importantly she’ll never have any rights to Aali either. The same actions will produce the same results time and time again.
I don’t know about Icky or Clue or Patty or Beast or Huh or whomever I’ve left out but I’m not going away until CONNIE goes away online. CONNIE includes you few here because you all are HER VOICE. It will keep going nowhere, upsetting judges, lawyers, police, CPS, counselors, and anyone else involved. Connie will continue LOSING in the courts UNTIL CONNIE AND CONNIE ALONE CHANGES HER WAYS. Get it? Probably not.
IF YOU ALL BELIEVE THE CHILD IS ABUSED, TELL ME HOW CONNIE NOT SEEING HER CHILD FOR 2 MONTHS IS PROTECTING HER CHILD or KEEPING HER SAFE?
TELL ME WHAT GOOD RESULTS THIS ‘CAMPAIGN’ HAS PRODUCED? Instead of getting the world to listen, she has found herself unable to see her kid at all RIGHT? THAT works for her? THIS has accomplished WHAT may I ask?
July 21st, 2009 at 12:41 pm
I find it ironic that people that keep insisting this baby’s name should not be mentioned online are themselves repeatedly saying her name.
As far as me bring up the car issue, I gave it as an analogy to blue collar worker as the Thompsons were described as being- nothing more, nothing less. Anyone that attempts to turn it into anything more than that is grasping for a life line that just isn’t there.
July 21st, 2009 at 12:48 pm
if Connie ends up in jail you won’t stop? if Connie doesn’t get to see her kid you won’t stop? you won’t stop if she asks? Wow nothing about that makes sense. You’ve all helped this get a lot worse for her. Keep doing it lol, I’m sure the Thompsons LOVE not seeing her face and having Aali all to themselves.
July 21st, 2009 at 12:58 pm
Karen, if Connie wasn’t spouting this crap online, DT would have no reason to bring her to court. He won the case, so YES IN FACT, Connie being the REASON for the court cases, as well as the custody battle because she was unwilling and unable to agree to the 50/50 joint custody according to CA law. She in fact created the reason for court and the court costs.
Connies case is NO DIFFERENT than the thousands and thousands of custody cases in this country each year, where the basic principles are the same. To try and present her case as anything different is foolish. Party A cries foul, Party B proves no foul exists, Party A is responsible for court costs. Very simple.
You are not fooling anyone. Family court/child support/cusoty case support and info is ALL over the net. Why would Connie’s case be any different? In a lame attempt to hold her hat out for donations? Beggers can’t be choosy. Keep Begging Connie- it demonstrates your wonderful ability to parent. LMAO
July 21st, 2009 at 1:13 pm
It’s accomplished protecting this child from her mothers venom and anger against the childs father.
IF CONNIE IS INCAPABLE OF LOVING HER CHILD MORE THAN SHE HATES HER CHILDS FATHER, this is best for the child under the circumstances. Awful circumstances for the child. Awful to see a parent act this way, but sadly it happens. I’m just glad the courts see it, and are protecting this child from any more mind games. Poor thing. I can’t imagine the emotional turmoil she experienced at the hands of her mother.
July 21st, 2009 at 2:22 pm
Woah…….Wow????? What has it accomplished? I’m guessing it is giving you something to do with your boring days. 60 more people have signed the petition site in the last three days, I think that’s pretty good. I haven’t seen one judge, police officer, CPS person and whatever else you said, being one bit of “upset” by what I or anyone else is doing on line. I think you need to go take a chill pill (whatever it is you use to calm down after a hard day of yelling on the internet) and take a nap. You seem a little cranky.
July 21st, 2009 at 3:15 pm
1) THE MEDIA IS INVOLVED CHILD MOLESTER SUPPORTERS. CHILD MOLESTING PROSECUTERS FROM LA ARE INVOLVED. CHILD ADVOCATES AROUND THE NATION ARE INVOLVED. STEVE WILKOS WANTS THE WHOLE SITUATION ON HIS SHOW. CHILD MOLESTER SUPPORTERS YOU ARE MORONS. THERE IS A LOT COMING YOUR WAY… KEEP SCREAMING THE MEDIA ISN’T INVOLVED BECAUSE THEY ARE. THERE ARE REPORTERS GATHERING INFORMATION THAT HAVEN’T EVEN POSTED ARTICLES YET. YOU THOMPSONS ARE IGNORANT.
2) CONNIE’S IQ PLACES HER IN THE TOP 1/3 OF THE POPULATION… DO YOU NOT THINK SHE KNOWS WHAT SHE IS DOING?
3) YOU THINK EVEN IF THE COURT PERMANENTLY TAKES AALIYAH AWAY FROM CONNIE FOR GOOD THAT THE TRUTH WON’T COME OUT ANYWAY? THOMPSON’S THIS SITUATION MIGHT NOT LOOK GOOD RIGHT NOW FOR CONNIE TEMPORARILY IN YOUR EYES BECAUSE YOU CAN’T SEE RESULTS UNLESS THEY ARE RIGHT IN YOUR FACE. YOUR LIMITED BRAIN CELLS ONLY ALLOW YOU TO PERCEIVE ONLY WHAT’S RIGHT IN YOUR FACE. INTELLIGENT PEOPLE CAN ACTUALLY SEE THAT YOU THOMPSON’S ARE ULTIMATELY GOING TO PAY THE PRICE FOR ALL OF THIS.
THOMPSON’S YOU ARE BACKED IN A CORNER. THINK ABOUT THIS AS HARD AS YOU CAN, IF YOU DON’T UNDERSTAND, I UNDERSTAND YOU DON’T HAVE THE BRAIN CELLS TO FIGURE IT OUT, BUT WE’LL GIVE IT A SHOT ANYWAY…
AALIYAH IS GOING TO TELL ON YOU AGAIN AND THIS TIME IT WON’T BE HER MOM SHE TELLS. IT WILL BE HER TEACHER OR SOMEONE WTH A CONSCIENCE THAT WILL REPORT ALL OF YOU.
DUSTIN YOU CONTEMPLATE MURDERING HER WELL YOU WILL JUST GO TO PRISON ANYWAY WHICH IS WHAT YOU ARE TRYING TO AVOID BY EVEN CONTEMPLATING THAT.
THOMPSON’S YOU ARE ALL SCREWED BECAUSE IT’S ILLEGAL TO COVER FOR SOMEONE COMMITTING A FELONY. YOU ALL ARE COVERING FOR TWO FELONS.
JUST LIKE YOUR EXAMPLE OF THE CHILD WHO WONT SPEAK TO HER MOTHER NOW… WELL IT’S APPARENT THAT AALIYAH LOVES HER MOTHER, AND CAN’T STAND HER FATHER. SHE WILL RESENT ALL OF YOU THOMPSONS. THAT CHILD IS SMART UNLIKE YOU PEOPLE THAT THINK YOU CAN CONTROL HER LIKE A PRISONER HER WHOLE LIFE.
YOU ALL ARE GOING DOWN NO MATTER HOW MUCH YOU TRY TO ABUSE CONNIE AND AALIYAH IN THE SITUATION. YOU WILL REAP WHAT YOU SOW.
4) CONNIE’S PSYCH EVAL SAYS HER PROBLEM SOLVING SKILLS ARE WELL ABOVE AVERAGE… SHE KNOWS WHAT SHE IS DOING.
THOMSON’S IT’S APPARENT YOU DON’T KNOW WHAT SHE IS DOING.
IT TAKES BRAIN CELLS TO SEE FURTHER THAN YOUR NOSE.
HOPE YOUR ANXIETY EATS YOU…
July 21st, 2009 at 3:52 pm
Guess what..
Are you telling me that Aaliyah can’t see her mother because KarenCCC’s continues to post her opinion that Dustin abused Aaliyah ? That’s all it takes to keep a child from their parent ?
July 21st, 2009 at 4:12 pm
Guesswhatkaren: I just can’t help it, I’m one of those people who, when they see a witch hunt, tries to persuade the villagers to put down their pitchforks and go home. I also try to convince Bigfoot enthusiasts that there isn’t really a 7-foot tall ape skulking around the forests of Northern California, and tell people who believe in psychics that Sylvia Brown is just guessing and really doesn’t know anything. I try to use logic to show people how they’re being tricked by others, but with limited success most of the time. I hate to see honest, caring people taken for a ride and used by others for their own purposes. It’s unfortunate that those same honest, caring people are usually eager to be taken in by a scam that plays on their emotions and their caring nature.
KarenCCC: It’s not unusual at all in civil litigation or family court for the losing party to have to pay the winning party’s legal fees. It’s pretty standard in California, as a matter of fact. That’s one of the ways that California attempts to make people follow court orders. People are much less likely to ignore restraining orders, file harassing lawsuits, and skip out on court-ordered programs if they know they will have to pay all the legal fees if they lose in court.
I’m sure Ms. Bedwell’s lawyer has explained all this to Ms. Bedwell. Ms. Bedwell is either not telling you this part of the story, or she doesn’t listen to her lawyer either.
I sincerely hope, for Aaliyah’s sake, that Ms. Bedwell doesn’t choose “her right to be obnoxious” over her right to see her child, like Dyandria Darel did, but I’m afraid it looks like that’s the path she’s chosen. Y’all should read this article about Dyandria Darel, who has taken a similar path, and how it worked out for her:
http://www.villagevoice.com/2006-04-04/news/her-right-to-be-obnoxious/
The end result: Ms. Darel spent three years in prison, hasn’t seen her child in years, and now that her daughter is an adult, she doesn’t want to see Ms. Darel. All previous court orders against Ms. Darel have been upheld by new courts and new judges time and time again. The California courts can use Ms. Darel’s case as precedent in their rulings in Ms. Bedwell’s case.
You’ve all been scoffing about the idea of Ms. Bedwell winding up in jail because of her behavior, but I’ll tell you: if it’s happened before, like it did to Ms. Darel, it could happen again, to Ms. Bedwell. Court orders aren’t voluntary; that’s why they call them ORDERS.
July 22nd, 2009 at 5:47 am
guesswhatkaren!
So now you’re saying that I’m Simon and also the the person that put up the Save Aaliyah site – you really are deluded, misinformed and downright dumb.
Extracts from the article Icky wants you to read.
“ACS caseworkers are directly involved in giving custody to a pedophile cop!” she booms to the lunch crowd on a recent Monday. Nearly every passerby stares at Darel, who is carrying a sign almost as big as she is. It calls out caseworkers by name and reads: ACS GAVE A PEDOPHILE COP SOLE CUSTODY OF THE CHILD HE SEXUALLY ASSAULTED. But what draws people’s attention isn’t the text so much as the image—an old, blown-up photograph Darel purports to be of her former husband, naked, lying in bed with their young daughter, his hands on his crotch.
This messy saga started in 1997, when the couple’s child told a doctor her father had touched her genital area, and twists its way through to 2002, when Sturm sent Darel to jail. Records of the proceedings are sealed, but Darel and her attorney made them available to the Voice.
Flip backward through hundreds of pages to the winter of 1997, when Darel brought her then seven-year-old daughter to Bellevue Hospital “to evaluate her for emotional problems,” as the hospital’s February report states. At the time, Darel and her ex-husband had been separated for two years, duking it out in divorce court in Queens. During an exam at Bellevue, the report says, the child told a doctor that her father had molested her. The doctor reported finding abrasions on the girl’s genital area—”an adhesion of the base of her hymen to the inferior aspect of her labia minora”—consistent with sexual abuse. According to the hospital document, “The child stated to the psychiatrist that her father touched her vagina on multiple occasions.”
The disclosures didn’t surprise Darel. In the spring of 1995, she says, she returned home one day to find her husband lying in bed with their daughter, naked. “I thought it was disgusting,” she recalls. So she grabbed a camera, she claims, snapping the photograph she now displays in her weekly protests.
So Darel truly believes her daughter was abused. The seven year old girl told on her father but wasn’t believed, the medical evidence pointed towards abuse but still she lost custody. The ‘father’ then spends the next few years brainwashing his daughter against the mother.
Thanks for sharing this with us Icky, it just reinforces my belief that sometimes the courts get it very very wrong.
July 22nd, 2009 at 10:40 am
I never called you Simon or anyone else maramite. You are the person that created the website, deny it is just fine with me. I have no problem with that. :)
July 22nd, 2009 at 2:32 pm
TO POST #698
Everyone look at Dustin’s wanna be rap! LMFAO =0
Just curious…
Dustin did you do a line of cocaine before you wrote that one or did you mix a line with a bottle of Jack Daniels beforehand?
Did you wear your favorite Eminem T-shirt while you wrote it too just to help you “spit your flow?”
You’re still acting like you did in high school. It doesn’t surprise any of us that you are still trying to rap given that your parents never required you to grow up.
Dustin you aren’t a gangster. You are the whitest person in Auburn— Just give it up. Pick your saggy pants off the floor, tuck your crooked worm back in, put a belt on, change your Eminem T-shirt, you can’t rap (so don’t ever quit cleaning canals for Placer County) and quit raping 3 year old children.
Dustin it looks like you went crazy on the posting right after “Daddy’s Worm with Logic” went up. Did you not like that all of your lies and manipulation just got ripped to shreds with LOGIC and TRUTH for all to be unbrainwashed Dustin Thompson? Yeah now what are you gong to say? All of us that know you really well know you are spending countless hours debating on what you are going to say next.
Funny that you won’t even touch on the subject of Daddy’s Worm with Logic.
You think if you just keep the focus on Connie nobody will see what you truly are.
You think the best defense is an offense.
You can’t stand that there are a number of intelligent people that are well and capable of seeing through your thoughts, intents, patterns, and agendas; like most sociopaths and narcissists, they hate when more intelligent people can see through them too.
Dustin we are all looking forward to you being on the stand in Trial… “UHHH UHHH UHHH It’s baby Einstein’s worm”
TO THE ENTIRE ITTY BITTY CROOKED WORM CHLAMYD-TEE
This one word will have you all stupified in silence when the time comes…
TRIAL
Then we will all see that Dustin is an Incestuous Child Molester.
Count on this, the Bedwell’s will make sure that courtroom is packed for anybody who would love to hear all of the witnesses statements that KNOW Dustin Thompson is indeed an Incestuous Child Molester. Sandy Amara couldn’t even trip up Connie’s witnesses she had on the stand when she didn’t have a lawyer and it will be the same story all over again, except this time Connie has a lawyer to rip all your lies to shreds. We are looking forward to trial Thompson’s because we know you are not.
TO SHELBY POSTING
Shelby it is apparent that the post about your baby hit a nerve with you. Instead of posting trying to cover for your incestuous child molesting brother it would be best if you dedicated that time to your poor little baby. Kill two birds with one stone and save two children… Save Aaliyah from a child molester and use the time, energy and money on your baby. Just turn Dustin in. Unravel your families lies to save your baby too. Where is your conscience?
Did anybody else hear that Dustin and his parent’s entire neighborhoods got flyered with saveaaliyah.com flyers? Good now his neighbors will know to keep a close eye on Aaliyah and can keep their children safe from him too.
July 22nd, 2009 at 2:40 pm
Of course, Marmite, you completely ignored the later ruling, which has been upheld time and time again:
“Then, in July 1998, Manhattan Family Court Judge Gloria Sosa-Lintner dropped the accusation against the dad: “The allegations of sexual abuse are dismissed as unproven.” She cited the questionable timing of the disclosures—during a contested divorce—and suggested other possible causes for the girl’s injuries, such as “poor hygiene.” In tossing the accusation the judge wrote: “The medical evidence is inconclusive, the timing of the disclosure suggests an ulterior motive and the child’s statements, by virtue of Respondent Mother’s unhealthy influence, are unreliable.”
Sosa-Lintner devoted 14 pages of her 18-page decision, dated July 30, 1998, to Darel’s “bizarre” behavior. The judge determined Darel had neglected her daughter by socially isolating her, keeping her out of school too often one year and the next providing an “inadequate” homeschooling program that left the girl “below grade level in every subject except math even though she is above average intelligence.” She found Darel had further neglected her daughter “by creating a paranoid scenario of sexual abuse that has impaired the child’s mental stability.” She singled out Darel’s “erratic, peculiar and at times, threatening” behavior—such as leaving “rambling voice-mail messages for the attorneys on the case at 3 a.m.” And she went to town over reports that Darel had a drinking problem. She wrote that the court “enters a finding by a preponderance of the evidence that the Respondent Mother’s alcohol abuse placed the child in imminent danger.”
This is the ruling that counts, Marmite, this is the ruling that has stuck, just like Ms. Bedwell’s case. The final outcome will be the same for Ms. Bedwell if she does not cease and desist her defamation campaign.
“Last October, the New York Appellate Division upheld the 36-month sentence, ruling that Family Court judges can impose consecutive jail terms under state law and that Sturm had “properly exercised the discretion.” It did not address the constitutional issues for procedural reasons; on the First Amendment question, for instance, the court said Darel had failed to raise the issue during the contempt trial.
This month, her attorney, Robin Yeamans, a California family- and constitutional-law specialist, is filing a petition for a writ of certiorari asking the nation’s top court to hear Darel’s appeal. The writ will hinge on the question of a jury trial, asserting that the U.S. Constitution ensures such due-process protections in Family Court even if New York law does not. “The argument is simple,” Yeamans says. “The U.S. Constitution trumps state law.”
Yeamans is no stranger to Darel’s plight. The attorney filed a writ of habeas corpus to try to force Darel’s release from Rikers in January 2005 because, as she explains, “her actions amounted to free speech, whether you agree with them or not.” Now, she’s writing this latest writ on principle too. “The idea that anyone who gets ensnared in a Family Court case can find herself in prison for more than six months without a jury trial is abhorrent.”
Meanwhile, Darel is pursuing her own suit in federal court against Judge Sturm, charging that the jurist incarcerated her “without jurisdiction” and retaliated against her for criticizing her child welfare case. She names ACS officials and her ex-husband as defendants, accusing them of bogus contempt petitions that resulted in her imprisonment. A pro se litigant, Darel wrote the filing herself, arguing the same constitutional claims as her state appeal. She is asking for $200,000 in restitution for the 28 months she spent behind bars. “I’m suing the system for what the system has done to me,” she says.
Her chances look slim. The U.S. Supreme Court only accepts 1 percent of the thousands of certiorari petitions it receives. And her federal suit has to get around judicial immunity, a tough task in even the best circumstances.
For Darel, her efforts have personal meaning. Four years have passed since she has seen her daughter, she notes. And she may never get what she really wants—someone to say her daughter was wrongly taken from her almost a decade ago. But maybe her suits will help vindicate her right to fight, she says.
“Would you walk away and say, ‘The system is corrupt. I give up’? Would you let it go?”
Please note: when the article says “Her chances look slim” that this article was written in 2006, so that line should be edited to read, “Her case was rejected by the Supreme Court.” If it were accepted, there would have been an update to the story since 2006.
Again, the outcome: Ms. Darel has not seen her child in years, her child wants nothing to do with her, she spent three years in prison, and everyone thinks she’s insane. Is this how Ms. Bedwell wants her life to turn out? All she needs to do is keep on behaving the same way, and this is how Ms. Bedwell’s story will end.
July 22nd, 2009 at 3:08 pm
YOU SHOULD ALWAYS TELL THE TRUTH BECAUSE…
The truth always comes out sooner or later.
If you can’t tell the truth about something maybe you shouldn’t be doing it.
If you dont tell the truth eventually you will just look like the Thompson’s caught with your pants down.
Moral of the day… Always tell the Truth.
Thompson’s you should be learning that lesson here shortly.
July 22nd, 2009 at 3:14 pm
Thompson’s claim Connie only has a few supporters.
Have you been to the petition Thompson’s?
And once again, this isn’t about Connie, this is about an innocent baby being abused by a bunch of creeps.
July 22nd, 2009 at 3:19 pm
Marmite ripped you people to shreds.
Ouch I heard the tear through my screen!
Haven’t seen LL Pa Pa around. He must be sitting at home anticipating that lawsuit coming his way.
July 22nd, 2009 at 3:46 pm
So about that APD case…
Tell us Dustin, if APD doesn’t give a shit that you are forcing oral sex upon your daughter, tell us why on this earth would they give a shit about an unconstitutional court order preventing someone from getting help for an innocent baby?
M O R O N I C
Let’s just say for shits sake they looked into it more than just a phone call and one question.
Unlikely but lets just say so.
What would that look like?
We could most likely assume that they could trace IP addresses. Then what? Prove Connie has anything to do with anything. You can’t for one because she doesn’t have anything to do with it and for two you can’t even prove it in court.
Your daddy looked as ignorant as could be on the stand last time. “NO I have no proof Connie is posting”- a good 18 times or more!
We all know if you had a shred of evidence good ol Sand-on-her-face-Amara would have had Connie up on the stand in a heartbeat.
Connie is an honest person and Dustin you know that; You even wrote it down on paper for a Dr Phil exercise. You know putting Connie on the stand would make you all look like the fools you are.
Putting an intelligent honest person on the stand will do nothing good for the Thompson’s BOVINE SCATOLOGY B.S CASE.
Can’t trip up the Truth! Sandy Amara knows that no matter how many screwed up angles you come at a witness that is telling the truth you can’t crack them.
LOOKING FORWARD TO TRIAL
INCESTOUS CHILD MOLESTER
July 22nd, 2009 at 3:53 pm
If anyone is interested to see with their own eyes and in Dustin’s own handwritting how much he obsesses over Connie go here:
myspace.com/saveaaliyah
Free Clue and GuesswhatKaren:
There has NOT been a trial yet. Connie has been denied that right, SO FAR! But now that she has a lawyer to petition for one, LET’S SEE WHAT WILL HAPPEN NOW!!!!!
Save Aaliyah!!!
July 22nd, 2009 at 4:20 pm
GOT A FREE LITTLE CLUE FOR YOU
Think about it…
YOU ARE GOING TO PRISON AT SOME POINT IN TIME.
YOU CAN’T KEEP HER QUIET FOR THE REST OF HER LIFE.
INCEST PERPETRATOR.
FOOL ANYONE IN THE WORLD RIGHT NOW. THIS FIGHT WILL BE OVER LIKE A LIGHT SWITCH. IT TAKES ONE DISCLOSURE FROM THE CHILD. SHE HAS 99 YEARS AHEAD OF HER TO PROSECUTE YOU. AT ONE TIME OR ANOTHER YOU ARE DONE FOR.
SHE IS ONE TOUGH COOKIE LIKE HER MOMMY AND WILL COME OUT OF THE ABUSE STRONGER THAN EVER JUST LIKE CONNIE DID.
PRISON
PRISON
PRISON
PRISON
PRISON
CONTEMPLATING MURDERING HER TO KEEP HER QUIET WILL PUT YOU IN PRISON FASTER THAN YOUR LITTLE GAME YOU ARE PLAYING NOW.
FREE CLUE: GOT YOURSELF IN ONE CLUSTER F*** OF A MESS DIDN’T YOU DUSTIN!!??
WE CAN’T WAIT FOR THE TRUNK TO SLAM DOWN ON THIS ONE.
July 22nd, 2009 at 4:30 pm
Profile of the Sociopath
This website summarizes some of the common features of descriptions of the behavior of sociopaths.
Glibness and Superficial Charm
Manipulative and Conning
They never recognize the rights of others and see their self-serving behaviors as permissible. They appear to be charming, yet are covertly hostile and domineering, seeing their victim as merely an instrument to be used. They may dominate and humiliate their victims.
Grandiose Sense of Self
Feels entitled to certain things as “their right.”
Pathological Lying
Has no problem lying coolly and easily and it is almost impossible for them to be truthful on a consistent basis. Can create, and get caught up in, a complex belief about their own powers and abilities. Extremely convincing and even able to pass lie detector tests.
Lack of Remorse, Shame or Guilt
A deep seated rage, which is split off and repressed, is at their core. Does not see others around them as people, but only as targets and opportunities. Instead of friends, they have victims and accomplices who end up as victims. The end always justifies the means and they let nothing stand in their way.
Shallow Emotions
When they show what seems to be warmth, joy, love and compassion it is more feigned than experienced and serves an ulterior motive. Outraged by insignificant matters, yet remaining unmoved and cold by what would upset a normal person. Since they are not genuine, neither are their promises.
Incapacity for Love
Need for Stimulation
Living on the edge. Verbal outbursts and physical punishments are normal. Promiscuity and gambling are common.
Callousness/Lack of Empathy
Unable to empathize with the pain of their victims, having only contempt for others’ feelings of distress and readily taking advantage of them.
Poor Behavioral Controls/Impulsive Nature
Rage and abuse, alternating with small expressions of love and approval produce an addictive cycle for abuser and abused, as well as creating hopelessness in the victim. Believe they are all-powerful, all-knowing, entitled to every wish, no sense of personal boundaries, no concern for their impact on others.
Early Behavior Problems/Juvenile Delinquency
Usually has a history of behavioral and academic difficulties, yet “gets by” by conning others. Problems in making and keeping friends; aberrant behaviors such as cruelty to people or animals, stealing, etc.
Irresponsibility/Unreliability
Not concerned about wrecking others’ lives and dreams. Oblivious or indifferent to the devastation they cause. Does not accept blame themselves, but blames others, even for acts they obviously committed.
Promiscuous Sexual Behavior/Infidelity
Promiscuity, child sexual abuse, rape and sexual acting out of all sorts.
Lack of Realistic Life Plan/Parasitic Lifestyle
Tends to move around a lot or makes all encompassing promises for the future, poor work ethic but exploits others effectively.
Criminal or Entrepreneurial Versatility
Changes their image as needed to avoid prosecution. Changes life story readily.
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Other Related Qualities:
Contemptuous of those who seek to understand them
Does not perceive that anything is wrong with them
Authoritarian
Secretive
Paranoid
Only rarely in difficulty with the law, but seeks out situations where their tyrannical behavior will be tolerated, condoned, or admired
Conventional appearance
Goal of enslavement of their victim(s)
Exercises despotic control over every aspect of the victim’s life
Has an emotional need to justify their crimes and therefore needs their victim’s affirmation (respect, gratitude and love)
Ultimate goal is the creation of a willing victim
Incapable of real human attachment to another
Unable to feel remorse or guilt
Extreme narcissism and grandiose
May state readily that their goal is to rule the world
(The above traits are based on the psychopathy checklists of H. Cleckley and R. Hare.)
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NOTE: In the 1830′s this disorder was called “moral insanity.” By 1900 it was changed to “psychopathic personality.” More recently it has been termed “antisocial personality disorder” in the DSM-III and DSM-IV. Some critics have complained that, in the attempt to rely only on ‘objective’ criteria, the DSM has broadened the concept to include too many individuals. The APD category includes people who commit illegal, immoral or self-serving acts for a variety of reasons and are not necessarily psychopaths.
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DSM-IV Definition
Antisocial personality disorder is characterized by a lack of regard for the moral or legal standards in the local culture. There is a marked inability to get along with others or abide by societal rules. Individuals with this disorder are sometimes called psychopaths or sociopaths.
Diagnostic Criteria (DSM-IV)
1. Since the age of fifteen there has been a disregard for and violation of the right’s of others, those right’s considered normal by the local culture, as indicated by at least three of the following:
A. Repeated acts that could lead to arrest.
B. Conning for pleasure or profit, repeated lying, or the use of aliases.
C. Failure to plan ahead or being impulsive.
D. Repeated assaults on others.
E. Reckless when it comes to their or others safety.
F. Poor work behavior or failure to honor financial obligations.
G. Rationalizing the pain they inflict on others.
2. At least eighteen years in age.
3. Evidence of a Conduct Disorder, with its onset before the age of fifteen.
4. Symptoms not due to another mental disorder.
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Antisocial Personality Disorder Overview (Written by Derek Wood, RN, BSN, PhD Candidate)
Antisocial Personality Disorder results in what is commonly known as a Sociopath. The criteria for this disorder require an ongoing disregard for the rights of others, since the age of 15 years. Some examples of this disregard are reckless disregard for the safety of themselves or others, failure to conform to social norms with respect to lawful behaviors, deceitfulness such as repeated lying or deceit for personal profit or pleasure, and lack of remorse for actions that hurt other people in any way. Additionally, they must have evidenced a Conduct Disorder before the age of 15 years, and must be at least 18 years old to receive this diagnosis.
People with this disorder appear to be charming at times, and make relationships, but to them, these are relationships in name only. They are ended whenever necessary or when it suits them, and the relationships are without depth or meaning, including marriages. They seem to have an innate ability to find the weakness in people, and are ready to use these weaknesses to their own ends through deceit, manipulation, or intimidation, and gain pleasure from doing so.
They appear to be incapable of any true emotions, from love to shame to guilt. They are quick to anger, but just as quick to let it go, without holding grudges. No matter what emotion they state they have, it has no bearing on their future actions or attitudes.
They rarely are able to have jobs that last for any length of time, as they become easily bored, instead needing constant change. They live for the moment, forgetting the past, and not planning the future, not thinking ahead what consequences their actions will have. They want immediate rewards and gratification. There currently is no form of psychotherapy that works with those with antisocial personality disorder, as those with this disorder have no desire to change themselves, which is a prerequisite. No medication is available either. The only treatment is the prevention of the disorder in the early stages, when a child first begins to show the symptoms of conduct disorder.
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THE PSYCHOPATH NEXT DOOR (Source: http://chericola57.tripod.com/infinite.html)
Psychopath. We hear the word and images of Bernardo, Manson and Dahmer pop into our heads; no doubt Ted Bundy too. But they’re the bottom of the barrel — most of the two million psychopaths in North America aren’t murderers. They’re our friends, lovers and co-workers. They’re outgoing and persuasive, dazzling you with charm and flattery. Often you aren’t even aware they’ve taken you for a ride — until it’s too late.
Psychopaths exhibit a Jekyll and Hyde personality. “They play a part so they can get what they want,” says Dr. Sheila Willson, a Toronto psychologist who has helped victims of psychopaths. The guy who showers a woman with excessive attention is much more capable of getting her to lend him money, and to put up with him when he strays. The new employee who gains her co-workers’ trust has more access to their chequebooks. And so on. Psychopaths have no conscience and their only goal is self-gratification. Many of us have been their victims — at work, through friendships or relationships — and not one of us can say, “a psychopath could never fool me.”
Think you can spot one? Think again. In general, psychopaths aren’t the product of broken homes or the casualties of a materialistic society. Rather they come from all walks of life and there is little evidence that their upbringing affects them. Elements of a psychopath’s personality first become evident at a very early age, due to biological or genetic factors. Explains Michael Seto, a psychologist at the Centre for Addiction and Mental health in Toronto, by the time that a person hits their late teens, the disorder is almost certainly permanent. Although many clinicians use the terms psychopath and sociopath interchangeably, writes psychopath expert Robert Hare on his book ‘Without Conscience’, a sociopath’s criminal behavior is shaped by social forces and is the result of a dysfunctional environment.
Psychopaths have only a shallow range of emotions and lack guilt, says Hare. They often see themselves as victims, and lack remorse or the ability to empathize with others. “Psychopaths play on the fact that most of us are trusting and forgiving people,” adds Seto. The warning signs are always there; it’s just difficult to see them because once we trust someone, the friendship becomes a blinder.
Even lovers get taken for a ride by psychopaths. For a psychopath, a romantic relationship is just another opportunity to find a trusting partner who will buy into the lies. It’s primarily why a psychopath rarely stays in a relationship for the long term, and often is involved with three or four partners at once, says Willson. To a psychopath, everything about a relationship is a game. Willson refers to the movie ‘Sliding Doors’ to illustrate her point. In the film, the main character comes home early after just having been fired from her job. Only moments ago, her boyfriend has let another woman out the front door. But in a matter of minutes he is the attentive and concerned boyfriend, taking her out to dinner and devoting the entire night to comforting her. All the while he’s planning to leave the next day on a trip with the other woman.
The boyfriend displays typical psychopathic characteristics because he falsely displays deep emotion toward the relationship, says Willson. In reality, he’s less concerned with his girlfriend’s depression than with making sure she’s clueless about the other woman’s existence. In the romance department, psychopaths have an ability to gain your affection quickly, disarming you with words, intriguing you with grandiose plans. If they cheat you’ll forgive them, and one day when they’ve gone too far, they’ll leave you with a broken heart (and an empty wallet). By then they’ll have a new player for their game.
The problem with their game is that we don’t often play by their rules. Where we might occasionally tell a white lie, a psychopath’s lying is compulsive. Most of us experience some degree of guilt about lying, preventing us from exhibiting such behavior on a regular basis. “Psychopaths don’t discriminate who it is they lie to or cheat,” says Seto. “There’s no distinction between friend, family and sucker.”
No one wants to be the sucker, so how do we prevent ourselves from becoming close friends or getting into a relationship with a psychopath? It’s really almost impossible, say Seto and Willson. Unfortunately, laments Seto, one way is to become more suspicious and less trusting of others. Our tendency is to forgive when we catch a loved one in a lie. “Psychopaths play on this fact,” he says. “However, I’m certainly not advocating a world where if someone lies once or twice, you never speak to them again.” What you can do is look at how often someone lies and how they react when caught. Psychopaths will lie over and over again, and where other people would sincerely apologize, a psychopath may apologize but won’t stop.
Psychopaths also tend to switch jobs as frequently as they switch partners, mainly because they don’t have the qualities to maintain a job for the long haul. Their performance is generally erratic, with chronic absences, misuse of company resources and failed commitments. Often they aren’t even qualified for the job and use fake credentials to get it. Seto talks of a patient who would get marketing jobs based on his image; he was a presentable and charming man who layered his conversations with educational and occupational references. But it became evident that the man hadn’t a clue what he was talking about, and was unable to hold down a job.
How do you make sure you don’t get fooled when you’re hiring someone to baby-sit your child or for any other job? Hire based on reputation and not image, says Willson. Check references thoroughly. Psychopaths tend to give vague and inconsistent replies. Of course the best way to solve this problem would be to cure psychopaths of their ‘illness.’ But there’s no recipe for treating them, say psychiatrists. Today’s traditional methods of psychotherapy (psychoanalysis, group and one-on-one therapy) and drug treatments have failed. Therapy is more likely to work when an individual admits there’s a problem and wants to change. The common problem with psychopaths, says Sets, “Is they don’t see a problem with their behavior.”
Psychopaths don’t seek therapy willingly, says Seto. Rather, they’re pushed into it by a desperate relative or by a court order. To a psychopath, a therapist is just one more person who must be conned, and the psychopath plays the part right until the therapist is convinced of his or her ‘rehabilitation.’
Even though we can’t treat psychopaths effectively with therapy, it doesn’t mean we can’t protect ourselves, writes Hare. Willson agrees, citing the most important factor in keeping psychopaths at bay is to know your vulnerabilities. We need to “realize our own potential and maximize our strengths” so that our insecurities don’t overcome us. Because, she says, a psychopath is a chameleon who becomes “an image of what you haven’t done for yourself.” Over time, she says, “their appearance of perfection will begin to crack,” but by that time you will have been emotionally and perhaps financially scathed. There comes a time when you realize there’s no point in searching for answers; the only thing is to move on.
Taken in part from MW — By Caroline Konrad — September 1999
THE MALIGNANT PERSONALITY:
These people are mentally ill and extremely dangerous! The following precautions will help to protect you from the destructive acts of which they are capable.
First, to recognize them, keep the following guidelines in mind.
(1) They are habitual liars. They seem incapable of either knowing or telling the truth about anything.
(2) They are egotistical to the point of narcissism. They really believe they are set apart from the rest of humanity by some special grace.
(3) They scapegoat; they are incapable of either having the insight or willingness to accept responsibility for anything they do. Whatever the problem, it is always someone else’s fault.
(4) They are remorselessly vindictive when thwarted or exposed.
(5) Genuine religious, moral, or other values play no part in their lives. They have no empathy for others and are capable of violence. Under older psychological terminology, they fall into the category of psychopath or sociopath, but unlike the typical psychopath, their behavior is masked by a superficial social facade.
If you have come into conflict with such a person or persons, do the following immediately!
(1) Notify your friends and relatives of what has happened.
Do not be vague. Name names, and specify dates and circumstances. Identify witnesses if possible and provide supporting documentation if any is available.
(2) Inform the police. The police will do nothing with this information except to keep it on file, since they are powerless to act until a crime has been committed. Unfortunately, that often is usually too late for the victim. Nevertheless, place the information in their hands.
Obviously, if you are assaulted or threatened before witnesses, you can get a restraining order, but those are palliative at best.
(3) Local law enforcement agencies are usually under pressure if wealthy or politically powerful individuals are involved, so include state and federal agencies as well and tell the locals that you have. In my own experience, one agency that can help in a pinch is the Criminal Investigation Division of the Internal Revenue Service or (in Canada) Victims Services at your local police unit. It is not easy to think of the IRS as a potential friend, but a Swedish study showed that malignant types (the Swedes called them bullies) usually commit some felony or other by the age of twenty. If the family is wealthy, the fact may never come to light, but many felonies involve tax evasion, and in such cases, the IRS is interested indeed. If large amounts of money are involved, the IRS may solve all your problems for you. For obvious reasons the Drug Enforcement Agency may also be an appropriate agency to approach. The FBI is an important agency to contact, because although the FBI does not have jurisdiction over murder or assault, if informed, they do have an active interest in any other law enforcement agencies that do not follow through with an honest investigation and prosecution should a murder occur. Civil rights are involved at that point. No local crooked lawyer, judge, or corrupt police official wants to be within a country mile if that comes to light! It is in such cases that wealthy psychopaths discover just how firm the “friends” they count on to cover up for them really are! Even some of the drug cartel biggies will scuttle for cover if someone picks up the brick their thugs hide under. Exposure is bad for business.
(4) Make sure that several of your friends have the information in the event something happens to you. That way, an appropriate investigation will follow if you are harmed. Don’t tell other people who has the information, because then something bad could happen to them as well. Instruct friends to take such an incident to the newspapers and other media.
If you are dealing with someone who has considerable money, you must realize that they probably won’t try to harm you themselves, they will contract with someone to make the hit. The malignant type is a coward and will not expose himself or herself to personal danger if he or she can avoid it.
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Update: A thorough article.
I, the creator of this site, am not a psychologist and no special expertise in the subject. I created the site as a public service, because no similar site existed in 2003. I occasionally get sad calls and emails. I urge you to consult either a clinical psychologist or the police depending on the problem you face, and wish you good luck.
July 22nd, 2009 at 4:46 pm
Dummies said: AALIYAH IS GOING TO TELL ON YOU AGAIN AND THIS TIME IT WON’T BE HER MOM SHE TELLS. IT WILL BE HER TEACHER OR SOMEONE WTH A CONSCIENCE THAT WILL REPORT ALL OF YOU.
I don’t believe Aaliyah is being abused, but for the sake of your point, if this is the case, then why would Connie position herself to to have such limited and restricted access to her daughter by telling the courts to basically ef off? It appears the above is an acknowledgment the Bedwell camp KNOWS the courts have ruled their ‘evidence’ was fabricated thus inadmissable, and any new evidence must come from an unbiased away from the inner circle source. If that’s the case, again, what point does it serve Connie and her supporters rant, rave, and have a continuous temper tantrum online?
IF Connie is really in the top 3rd of intelligence in the country, she certainly doesn’t have the smarts to see exactly where this took Ms. Darel, and Connies ‘copying’ her path.
Why not just let the unbiased out of the inner circle source report abuse, if abuse is occuring, or is your ‘game’ to try and influence outside sources by the information you post online? Sounds like that’s the game plan to me, but like it did not work for Ms. Darel, it is NOT going to work for Connie regardless of how long and how loud you scream.
July 22nd, 2009 at 4:46 pm
Superficial charm and good intelligence
Absence of delusions and other signs of irrational thinking
Absence of nervousness or psychoneurotic manifestations
Unreliability
Untruthfulness and insincerity
Lack of remorse and shame
Inadequately motivated antisocial behavior
Poor judgment and failure to learn by experience
Pathologic egocentricity and incapacity for love
General poverty in major affective reactions
Specific loss of insight
Unresponsiveness in general interpersonal relations
Fantastic and uninviting behavior with drink and sometimes without
Suicide threats rarely carried out
Sex life impersonal, trivial, and poorly integrated
Failure to follow any life plan.
July 22nd, 2009 at 4:49 pm
Icky Etardo
July 21st, 2009 at 4:12 pm *********
Icky, thank you for the excellent post! Couldn’t have said it better. TY!!!
July 22nd, 2009 at 5:00 pm
Guesswhat, I definitely wouldn’t stop if Connie went to jail. I definitely won’t stop until she gets to see her daughter, but YES, I definitely would stop if she asked me to. Nothing I say or do has ANYTHING to do with how her case is going. I wish I had the power you think I do. And I’m sure the Thompson’s are happy not to see Connie’s face, but I’m sure they hate the fact that they were exposed for what they are.
July 22nd, 2009 at 5:31 pm
“Marmite” Perhaps you should have read a little further into the article.
Excerpt from page 5:
During the 2002 contempt trial, Darel’s daughter, then 12 and living with her father, said she wanted to stay with her dad. On the witness stand, according to court transcripts, the pre-teen recanted her claim of sexual abuse and blamed her mother for putting her up to her past disclosures. “I went along with it ’cause I just wanted to make her happy,” the girl testified.
Also from page 5:
In her 14-page decision, the judge blasted Darel not only for “her flagrant disregard for the court system,” but found “she has acted with total disre- gard for the child’s emotional well- being.” Sturm pointed out that, during in-chambers interviews, the daughter had begged to have a “normal life.”
It was at this time, the mothers war of words and accusations had already been going on 5 full years! And at the same time, the then 12 year old daughter was no longer required to have ANY contact with her mother. (the article, written in 2006, had stated Ms. Darel had not had contact with her then 16 year old daugther for 4 years.) It’s now 2009, and 7 years since this mother had any contact with her now adult daughter, who likely will not ever have contact with her mother- based on her mothers behavior and blatent disrespect for the father and childs wishes.
IS THIS WHAT CONNIE WANTS? IF SO, KEEP CHISELING AWAY AT WHAT LITTLE ACCESS YOU HAVE TO YOUR DAUGHTER CONNIE. DO YOU SEE ANY CORRELATION BETWEEN YOURSELF AND MS. DAREL? MANY OF US ON THE OUTSIDE READING AND SEEING THIS ONLINE DO!!!
Given the precedence already set in the courts, I think those handling your case will clearly see it as well.
July 22nd, 2009 at 6:35 pm
Wow, thanks for proving how corrupt family court really is.
Notice how almost everyone supported the mom and think Dad’s a sick puppy ?
They don’t care what the court or experts say.
They care about what they can see with their own eyes.
Daddy in bed with his daughter holding his crotch. Aaliyah describing how daddy’s yucky worm makes her cough-gag.
I want to thank Connie for not giving up and not giving in.
Unfortunately, it’s gonna take cases like this being exposed to stop the corruption.
July 22nd, 2009 at 7:13 pm
Connie doesn’t hate Dustin she hates his child molesting abusive behavior. She doesn’t believe in hating people even sick people such as the Thompson’s. You don’t think she could harm Dustin in so many vindictive ways if that was who she was? You can’t convince anyone of us that she is vindictive. It doesn’t fit her actions she has taken towards any of Dustin’s behavior.
You say she hates Dustin more than loving her child? You sound like a very distorted Thompson Free Spew. Connie hates Dustin’s child molesting ways that are harming her child permenantly. Connie loves her child enough to stand and fight for the truth to protect her child regardless of punishment. That is love.
Thompson’s don’t have a clue what love is. Love isn’t lying for a child molester (even if it’s your own blood) that is harming an innocent baby. Love isn’t molesting a baby. Love isn’t keeping a baby away from her mother that she desperately needs in her life. Love isn’t covering the truth. Love isn’t hitting, slapping, flicking, spitting, drugging, violating, controlling and threatening an innocent baby. Love isn’t touching a baby’s pee pee. Love isn’t forcing your penis in a child’s mouth. Love isn’t enabling sin. Love isn’t just a word it is an action. You Thompson’s can tell Aaliyah you love her all you want, she knows you don’t. Your actions speak louder than your words to her.
Dustin wouldn’t be so screwed up and begging for Connie’s love if his twisted parents would have given him true love instead of abuse when he was younger. Dustin doesn’t know what love is he was never shown by his parents. Telling Dustin you love him right after you abused him isn’t love. Doing the same to Aaliyah is not love.
Connie treated Dustin better than his parents ever had so he became obsessed with her. That’s why he claims he needs her and can’t be without her in his own handwriting. Abusers abuse the people they care about the most; It’s the only way they were shown to love someone. Dave and Dina only one can wonder what you both did to Dustin to screw him up like you did? Did you molest him Dave? We know you beat him and taught him to lie. Now Dustin is hurting his child because you sick people taught him how to. Is that why you cover for him Dave and Dina? Is it because your guilt of your own behavior makes you feel the need to cover for the monster you created.
Why do you think Casey Anthony’s mother is sticking so hard to her lies and denial? Her mother just choked Casey before she killed her grandchild. She taught her how to choke and abuse her child.
Is that why you cover for Dustin? Because one of you molested him? We know you beat the crap out of him, did you molest him too? Is that why all of you Thompson’s are sticking so hard to your lies and denial?
Cover, cover, cover. It’s a sad story that people like the Thompson’s and Anthony’s won’t get themselves help.
July 22nd, 2009 at 7:33 pm
A woman from Italy said Aaliyah spoke to her in her dream. The lady said in the dream Aaliyah told her “in her cute little voice, ‘Don’t worry I see angels.’”
July 23rd, 2009 at 9:54 am
We can do this all day, I hope you all read the whole article on Dyandira Darel:
Last October, the New York Appellate Division upheld the 36-month sentence, ruling that Family Court judges can impose consecutive jail terms under state law and that Sturm had “properly exercised the discretion.” It did not address the constitutional issues for procedural reasons; on the First Amendment question, for instance, the court said Darel had failed to raise the issue during the contempt trial.
This month, her attorney, Robin Yeamans, a California family- and constitutional-law specialist, is filing a petition for a writ of certiorari asking the nation’s top court to hear Darel’s appeal. The writ will hinge on the question of a jury trial, asserting that the U.S. Constitution ensures such due-process protections in Family Court even if New York law does not. “The argument is simple,” Yeamans says. “The U.S. Constitution trumps state law.”
Yeamans is no stranger to Darel’s plight. The attorney filed a writ of habeas corpus to try to force Darel’s release from Rikers in January 2005 because, as she explains, “her actions amounted to free speech, whether you agree with them or not.” Now, she’s writing this latest writ on principle too. “The idea that anyone who gets ensnared in a Family Court case can find herself in prison for more than six months without a jury trial is abhorrent.”
July 23rd, 2009 at 11:20 am
Yes, Loralei, and if Yeaman’s motions had worked, then Ms. Darel would have won a case, except it didn’t, or there would have been an update. That article was written in 2006, and Yeaman has not won any of Darel’s desperate bids for money or attention.
The outcome: Ms. Darel hasn’t seen her child in at least 7 years now, she spent 3 years in prison, her child doesn’t want to see her, and everyone thinks she’s insane. It doesn’t matter how many defense attorneys think it’s “abhorrent”, it’s still the FACT and also THE WAY MS. BEDWELL’S CASE WILL TURN OUT if she doesn’t change.
Personally I would rather have access to my child than be a bitter, crazy person picketing in front of the family court like Ms. Darel, losing endless court cases about “my rights” while missing my child’s entire life. You can complain about “your rights” all you want, but it obviously won’t get you your kid back, and it also won’t get you your LIFE back.
I guess some people prefer vengeance over motherhood. My choice would be motherhood and my child; obviously Ms. Darel and Ms. Bedwell would choose “their rights” over their children.
I also love how this thread comes alive with irrelevant spam whenever a post hits too close to home. It’s the internet version of sticking one’s fingers in one’s ears and shouting “Lalala, I can’t hear you!” and I think it’s HILARIOUS. This is sooooo entertaining!
July 23rd, 2009 at 1:50 pm
When will you people realize that not one member of the Thompson family has posted anything on the internet regarding this case. There are several people who do and do not know the Thompsons who are posting in defense of an innocent man, who has been subjected to an astonishing barrage of vindictive charcter assasination on the net. It is my understanding that since they are the ones who filed for the restraining order, they are the ones respecting it and not posting anything regarding this case. Make sense so far?. Maybe the Bedwells should think of all of the people they have burned in the past as the ones who are posting unfavorably against the their vindictive campaign. Maybe they should look to members of their own family that they have alientated as the posters. So again, for the record,the Thompsons are not, and have not posted on a single post on any site regarding this case and they never will. I am sure they read all this garbage have wanted to post several times over but I am certain they have not. Again, you people should think real hard about the people in your own lives that you have burned or alienated as the one’s who would benefit from trashing the Bedwell family campaign. The Thompsons have no reason to post, they have 100% custody, what is the point? It would certainly not be in the best interest of the child or anybody for the Thompsons to get into an internet fight about a custody case when it is already being handled in a court of law. So I will repeat it one more time, it is not the Thompsons who are posting.
July 23rd, 2009 at 3:13 pm
DADDYâ€S WORM WITH LOGIC
July 4th, 2009 at 11:35 am
DADDY’S WORM
The pedophile clan wants to try to convince anybody they can that “Daddy’s Worm†is anything but Dustin’s penis. So right here we will rip his “theories†to shreds with this thing called LOGIC.
(Think slowly about each point before you move on to the next point.)
1) Dustin wants you all to believe the child is speaking of Baby Einstein’s worm:
The child is clearly speaking of 3 types of worms throughout the video. Baby Einstein’s worm is the first one she addresses which she states is green and orange. Anyone that has seen B. E. knows that is correct and accurate. The child then adresses “Daddy’s worm†which tastes “Yucky†and makes her cough, he has to wipe her mouth with like a napkin because of “Daddy’s worm†not B. E.’s worm. She states she sometimes gets mad at daddy and then further describes why. At the end she describes how daddy takes her to the store to see worms. She is very descriptive and very clear it is “daddy’s worm†not worm’s from the store. Daddy thinks he is so smart and tried to confuse her by taking her to the store to see worms. Too bad for him that his child is more intelligent than him. The child then concludes she doesn’t like ANY of the worms. She gives the infamous worm an owner, her Daddy. She gives Baby Einstein’s worm an owner B. E., and she tells us where the other worms are that daddy made her go see…at the store.
She addresses “daddy’s worm’s†size. She is holding her little baby doll in her arms and says its giant like her baby. She says she tried to see him, he tries to look big.
“he tries to look big†possibly like an errection? She says “she tried to see him†so apparently it was dark. She says “I tell daddy’s worm dont do that, its yucky, dont touch my mouth worm†And that she has to tell him “dont stop.†It makes her choke and cry. Then tells him “daddy get it off, he has to wipe it off with like a napkin.†This child descibed perfectly the act of oral sex in complete sequencial order entirely on her own. “Daddy’s worm†does it to her. Then she states “daddy wants to have a baby.â€
2) The Child Molester wants you to believe his Worm is an earth worm:
The child is very descriptive and clear. She described it’s size and it is not the size of an earth worm. Why would Daddy be sticking earth worms in her mouth anyway? That is abuse in itself. If you paid attention in the first of his theories it clearly debunks this theory of the child molesters too.
3) The Child molester wants you to believe that she is speaking of gummy worms:
Listen to the child!! She tells you Baby Einstein’s worm is green and orange, not “Daddy’s worm.†Remember she tells you about “daddy’s worm†that she “tried to see him.†It’s kind of hard to see a worm that is getting shoved down your throat in the dark that makes you choke and cry. “It tries to look big†so we know it changes sizes. Plus, kids love gummy worms. “Daddy’s worm†is “yucky,†she has to tell it “dont stop†and then she states “daddy wants a babyâ€!! That is no gummy worm! Why would a child think her daddy wants a baby with her? Think about it. Why would she have to tell a worm that she doesn’t like, “Dont stopâ€?
4) The Wormy Daddy wants you to believe the mother coached her:
Coaching is leading. It is the same as leading a witness with the answer in the question just like the rules in a courtroom. First of all nobody is even talking about the subject of “Daddy’s worm†in the video but ONLY the child entirely on her own. The only question asked is “What does the worm look like? There was nothing suggesting or leading in it. For those of you who do not understand what coaching is, a coaching example would be: Does the worm look like a banana? That would be suggesting an answer in the question. None of which ever happens throughout the entire 27 minutes of the “Daddy’s Worm†Video. The Mother and Aunt aren’t even talking. The child is insisting on telling them why she doesn’t want to go to bed. Any good Psychologist knows that children relate everything to their own knowledge and the world as they know it. They relate their own problems to their dolls having the same problems. This child in the video tells us that “Daddy’s worm makes her sick and cry and it makes her teddy bear sick and cry too.†She tells us that both her and her doll “don’t wants to go to bed right now.†At 2 1/2 she wouldn’t know the word penis instead describes it the best way she knows how “Daddy’s worm.†Don’t forget also there were previous reports made to CPS by others than the mother of the child describing “daddy’s worm†as having hair like the hair on her head, it having one eye, and hurting her tongue. There are previous reports and restraining orders filed because “daddy hurts her pee pee†before she ever talked about daddy’s worm in her mouth.
Child molesters only progress in the sick things they experiment on children. You can see the progression throughout this child’s statements and behaviors. You can only imagine what he is doing to her since he has her alone for a year.
It is very clear to any attentive parent that it is impossible to coach a 2 1/2 year old child to talk for 27 minutes straight relating everything she says to her dolls. Not one time throughout the entire video does she ask what mommy what did you say? The Inotation (rise and fall of ones pitch) is clear this child is speaking of her own valition. Her inotation does not rise like she is questioning each statement like a coached child would sound like. This child is clearly uncoached.
Also it is pitch dark in the room. You can tell that they have to turn on a glowing bear in order to see. Also the infared is on in order to view the video. There is a tremendous amount of detail in the video alone to prove this child was indeed not coached or prompted in any way to say what she is describing about her “Daddy’s Wormâ€.
Help stop this Child Molester!
DUSTIN THIS SLAMMED YOUR ASS! PRINT THIS UP FOR COURT! BRING IT TO TRIAL.
INCESTUOUS CHILD MOLESTER.
July 23rd, 2009 at 3:16 pm
Anyone that has seen that video of the baby speaking of Dustin Thompson’s worm and isn’t throwing a fit belongs in prison with that sick pervert himself.
July 23rd, 2009 at 3:37 pm
Why would you care one way or another if Connie had a job or not?
Because you are the abusive child molester yourself? Abusers always want control over the victims money. Why would you care about Connie’s income?
You want to make her pay you child support for you to go spend at the 160 bar in Auburn and on your cocaine habit.
Why would Connie need to work when she has a real man to take care of her?
Dustin used to try to isolate Connie in the house and now he is screaming get a job! lol
John David Thompson doesn’t let Dina out of the house to work. He keeps her isolated. Dustin did the same thing to Connie. Now screams get a job so he can use the money for alcohol and drugs!
You should be a comedian Dustin. Forget all of this rapping Eminem stuff. You are one funny s.o.b.
How’s your worm? Did you ever go get your chlamydia treated?
Did you find someone your own age yet to perform oral sex on you? Why don’t you just ask your mother? I don’t think she would mind, it seems you all like to keep it in the family.
July 24th, 2009 at 1:46 am
If someone wanted to help pass out flyers how can they obtain one? I can copy them myself, but I would like to help in other areas of the community. Is there a direct link to download a printable version of the flyer? thx.
July 24th, 2009 at 7:22 am
The deeper I dig the more sickened I get. Children like Aaliyah are being placed with abusers by the courts, LE and CPS. It’s happening all the time
Check this site out…
http://www.mothers-of-lost-children.com/MOLC_stories.htm
BRIEF SUMMARIES FROM TRUE ACCOUNTS
Dr. Neustein had divorced her husband, Ozzie Orbach, M.D., in 1983. They had one daughter, Sherry, who continued to live in her mother’s sole custody for three years after the divorce.
After an eyewitness report in 1986 that the father had allegedly sexually abused Sherry, the Child Protection system swung rapidly into action – not against the father, but against the mother, Dr. Neustein.
Sherry, was forcibly removed from her mother’s home, without the legally required proceedings, in October 1986. Dr. Neustein was barred from all contact with her daughter in 1989.
In Sacramento County, Jack told countless therapists, teachers, doctors, social workers, investigators, and adult friends of the family that he was being raped by his father. Over 40 CPS reports were made by mandated reporters. Jack even called 911 from his father’s house to beg the police to come and rescue him. He was not rescued. Jack endured 7 long years of re-victimization. He was alternately placed with, and removed from, his father’s custody.
His nurturing, non-abusive mother finally died of cancer and the CPS social worker recommended that Jack, age 9, live with his father. The juvenile court referee agreed and placed Jack with his documented alcoholic molester father.
EXAMPLES OF EVIDENCE USED AGAINST MOTHERS:
“When my daughter began to tell me about the sexual abuse, I grabbed a tape recorder and taped her conversation. She was crying and I urged her to be a brave girl and talk about what her daddy did to her so we could get help. She told all about the abuse. I gave the tape to the police. Family law court said I had put thoughts in her head and psychologically abused her because she was crying. They forced her to live full time with her father and I have to pay $70 to see her.”
“My 2 year old son said his dad put his ‘penie’ in his bottom. He couldn’t talk very well. He wouldn’t let me look at him to see if he had any injuries. So I waited until he was asleep, and took a picture of his poor little bottom. You could even see where it was torn. I took the picture to the authorities. CPS said I was the one who was wrong, because it was an obscene photograph. He was first put in the custody of the state, and then they put him in the custody of his dad. I wasn’t even allowed to see him at all for nearly half a year.”
July 24th, 2009 at 1:10 pm
Icky Etardo
July 23rd, 2009 at 11:20 am
I also love how this thread comes alive with irrelevant spam whenever a post hits too close to home. It’s the internet version of sticking one’s fingers in one’s ears and shouting “Lalala, I can’t hear you!†and I think it’s HILARIOUS. This is sooooo entertaining!
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You noticed that pattern too? It’s almost like bury the posts which MAKE SENSE and attack, attack, attack, because the Bedwell camp can’t come up with anything logical to prove this isn’t solely about Connies bitter hatred towards her daughters father.
I don’t find it entertaining, I find it incredibly sad a mother is incapable of loving her child more than she hates her childs father. Aside from the sexual violation, EVERYTHING the Bedwell camp attempts to describe the father, point right back to THEM LOUDLY. Very sad for the child. At least the courts are smart enough to protect this innocent child from her evil ‘egg donor’ – who now is gonna bitch and spout about why she shouldn’t have to pay child support for her own daughter. What a dead beat- both financially and emotionally for her child. The child is where she belongs, with her father!
July 24th, 2009 at 1:38 pm
You are a Thompson. You want to know how we can tell:
1) You are lying.
2) You are lying.
3) You are lying.
4) Why would a stranger care to make it known to everyone Thompson’s aren’t posting?? You think again!
5) Only Dustin would care to abusively smother Connie on the net.
6) Only Dustin would care to have his jealous spouts over Darrel and Tim.
7) Only Dustin would try to rap talking crap about the Bedwell’s.
8) Only the Thompson’s would call Dustin The Incestuous Child Molester “an innocent man.”
9) Only the Thompson’s care about the fact that Connie does have evidence of Dustin being a sociopath and a child molester and they don’t want any more of it released to the public.
10) Only the Thompson’s would care to lie about Connie not having a job.
11) Only the Thompson’s care to not address “Daddy’s Worm” but will bash the mother in hopes nobody will look at the fact Dustin is indeed a child molester.
12) The Thompson’s want to pretend that they aren’t posting because they hope Connie’s computer expert won’t prove on the stand that they indeed are posting.
13) It’s not like we all don’t know Dustin’s writing. We all have seen it. It’s posted all over the net.
14) Want me to keep going because I could…?
Thompson’s can’t help but be the sick liars that they are…
Keep posting lies Thompson’s.
You aren’t fooling anyone… (besides inbred Placer County)
Kisses!!
July 24th, 2009 at 2:33 pm
Paying child support is NOT about controlling someones money. It’s the responsibility of each and every non custodial parent to assist in financialy supporting their child. I see the child support is a sore issue for Connie. Is that why she refuses to seek or maintain employment and just begs for donations on the internet?
Hey Connie, TAKE FINANCIAL RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR KID! Go apply at McDonalds if you have to!
July 24th, 2009 at 2:43 pm
KarenCCCC – Think again. All this does is expose CONNIE for what SHE is. A mother who hates her daughters father so much, she can’t let go of that emotion, not even for the love of her child, or to demonstrate love to her child. The name calling, the LIES, AFTER THIS HAS BEEN DISPROVEN time and time again. Is Connie REALLY that stupid to think if she repeats it enough, someone will finally believe her? Talk about living in fantasy land.
Connie – Get over yourself. You are a shitty mother, who is exploiting and endangering your child! The courts SEE it- and have to protect your daughter- which is WHY THEY HAD TO LIMIT YOUR ACCESS TO TWO MEASLY SUPERVISED HOURS A WEEK!
WHEN ARE YOU GOING TO LOVE YOUR DAUGHTER MORE THAN YOU HATE HER FATHER?
KEEP IT UP CONNIE AKA: ‘MS. DAREL ‘JUNIOR’ ‘ – SHE’S A GREAT MENTOR FOR YOU. FOLLOW HER PATH AND YOU’LL BE JUST LIKE HER OUT OF YOUR CHILDS LIFE PERMANENTLY!
July 24th, 2009 at 2:49 pm
Flyers in both the childs father and paternal grandparents neighborhoods? ARE YOU KIDDING? Do you REALLY want children reading that and TEASING/HARRASING your baby daughter at this young of age? How about some young kid reading this and asking Mommy, Daddy, what is child molestation? What is a pedophile? You do realize if you have exposed minor children to any sexual information inappropriate for their age level you can be charged similiarly to someone who has to register as a SEX OFFENDER!
I hope someone in the neighborhood had survellience to provide the police and prosecute you to the full extent of the law for not only endangering your child and her paternal family, but exposing little children to sexually graphic information. You are really beyond sick!
July 24th, 2009 at 3:00 pm
You obviously don’t have a broad enough understanding and education to realize that there is truly only ONE JUDGE throughout all of this and it isn’t a man.
His Name is God: His name is Yahweh in Hebrew. (do a little research on the net and simply read the world’s biggest seller, that book called a Bible)
Everyone’s lies, everyone’s secrets, everyone’s intent of their hearts, every little deed whether it be good or evil will be judged by God: Yahweh.
It doesn’t matter what a man calling himself a Judge thinks and temporarily has the power to ruin childrens lives.
You all will see throughout this that The Truth will be revealed and everything will be made right when God decides so.
There is a purpose in this life. We are all on this planet for one big test. We are put through trials and disturbing situations for a test. You are either going to pass or fail. Lying, molesting, deceiving, evil behavior all in the name of love isn’t going to pass the test. Waiting patiently, fighting for Truth, without murder or abuse towards the abusers and wrongdoers, loving your enemy, and Telling the Truth, etc. will pass the test and with the ONE AND ONLY JUDGE THAT MATTERS IN THIS LIFE. When God: Yahweh lets everyone choose their path, good or evil, through this situation he will judge everyone involved.
Do you find it to be a coincidence that AaliYAH’s name has God’s name: YAHweh in it?
Do you find it to be a coincidence that the Bedwell’s are all hebrew?
Do you find it to be a coincidene that the Thompson’s are all hebrew? (and they didn’t even know it)
Do you find it a coincidence that hebrew is the oldest language known to man?
Maybe God wants people to learn his name.
What do you think that old word HalleluYah means? Praise Yahweh.
Do you find it a coincidence that throughout this entire situation that the Thompson’s have made Connie’s “unusual religion” a spectacle to distract everyone from the Truth which is Dustin is molesting Yahweh’s baby. FYI: Judaism is the oldest religion known to man before there were any other man made religions. (research it)
Do you find it a coincidence that AaliYAH’s name means set apart, Truth, ascending to the heavens, set on high above all.
Every Jew across the world knows what Aaliyah means.
God: Yahweh has a plan and it will play out exactly how he wants it to all for his purpose.
A lot of people worldwide just happen to be praying for lightning to hit the child molester, maybe that is just a coincidence too?
I guess we will all see, NATIONWIDE.
Let’s just say Icky there is a whole lot you and the Thompson’s don’t understand, but soon will see.
Repent, change and love the Truth.
July 24th, 2009 at 3:26 pm
Where can I get flyers, no, there isn’t one already made up. You can make one up yourself. Whatever it is you want to say on it is fine. Thank you for your wanting to help!
July 24th, 2009 at 7:10 pm
How can Connie be delusional when her brain process apparently works well enough to take a test that shows her IQ places her in the top 1/3 of the population especially during the most stressful time in her life? Her brain must function perfectly fine in order to have such outstanding results.
Let’s see Placer County’s so called “professionals” take an IQ test then compare those with Connie’s results. That would be interesting.
It would only make sense that someone who has lived through Dustin’s abuse for 12 years with an IQ of that level would most likely understand abuse more than some “professional” that went to a couple of classes to be told what abuse looks like.
How absolutely insanely stupid and ignorant is every single “professional” in Placer County going to look when this child is old enough to tell them all how wrong they all are.
Placer County will probably just tell the poor child she is delusional too because they won’t fess up to such an outrageous unjustice that they are accountable for.
After listening to “Daddy’s Worm,” It is apparent who is truly delusional, Placer County.
July 24th, 2009 at 7:23 pm
“I SEE DUMB PEOPLE” LMFAO
That reminds me of Connie’s myspace!! Back at the beginning of this year she had wrote something along the lines of
“I am sooo delusional, this is me whispering…I see pedophiles.”
Be prepared you will be called delusional for seeing through people’s b.s. too!
July 24th, 2009 at 8:15 pm
Icky, so true. We post relevant thought provoking questions and Bedwells just would rather barrage everyone with a bunch of crap regarding abusive people having NOTHING TO DO WITH THIS SITUATION AT ALL.
THEY’D RATHER NOT SEE THEIR ONLINE BS CAMPAIGN BACKFIRED IN A MAJOR WAY, CONNIE WILL NEVER EVER OBTAIN SUPPORT ONLINE (and we will make sure about that, won’t we???) AND yet they still have an obsessive need to slander / libel a MAN FOUND COMPLETELY INNOCENT OF ALL CHARGES.
CONNIE WILL NEVER EVER GET CUSTODY EVER AGAIN, DEAL WITH IT CONNIE! You made your bed, sleep in it chicky!
July 24th, 2009 at 8:17 pm
correction!!! INNOCENT OF ALL accusations, never once was a charge ever filed… ever. Bedwells come up with something new because this song and dance is getting old very fast.
July 24th, 2009 at 11:15 pm
LOL! Everything you do, everything you try, makes Ms. Bedwell look even worse in court than she already does. Go ahead and paper the town with defamatory fliers; Ms. Bedwell will be punished for it in court, and in the end, it’s Aaliyah herself who will feel the shame of having every member of her family be the favorite subject of gossip for the whole town of Auburn.
That poor little girl. She’ll never be able to escape the stigma of this case. Even her little friends in kindergarten will see the flyers, will stare and point, will whisper behind her back.
Of course, nobody really cares about Aaliyah at this point; the important thing is CONNIE’S RIGHTS, or the rights that she imagines she has. If the revenge campaign ruins Aaliyah’s life, Aaliyah’s just going to have to understand that she’s “collateral damage” in the pursuit of CONNIE’S RIGHTS.
Another week has passed; has Ms. Bedwell filed for that Ex Parte hearing or visited her daughter yet? Has she done anything constructive towards regaining visitation or custody of her daughter? The ball is still in Ms. Bedwell’s court, and by now it’s growing moss on one side from inactivity.
July 25th, 2009 at 1:52 am
Signs of Sexual Exploitation in Children: Parents, grandparents, and guardians should be aware of the signs noted below that could indicate your child has been sexually molested.
Changes in behavior, extreme mood swings, withdrawal, fearfulness, and excessive crying
Bed-wetting, nightmares, fear of going to bed, or other sleep disturbances
Acting out inappropriate sexual activity or showing an unusual interest in sexual matters
A sudden acting out of feelings or aggressive or rebellious behavior
Regression to infantile behavior; clinging
School or behavioral problems
Changes in toilet-training habits
A fear of certain places, people, or activities
Bruises, rashes, cuts, limping, multiple or poorly explained injuries
Pain, itching, bleeding, fluid, or rawness in the private areas
July 25th, 2009 at 11:16 pm
Tell us how is it going to feel when you are proven a child molester in trial?
Oh the pressure you will have in that court room with all of those people listening to every lie unfold out of yours and your family’s mouths.
What a day that will be.
It’s coming.
July 26th, 2009 at 1:21 am
LMFAO!!
Lie number 5,489
Tell that to the computer expert Thompsons.
July 26th, 2009 at 1:42 am
Someone asked for a printable version of the flyer:
BEWARE: INCESTUOUS CHILD MOLESTER
NOT CONVICTED YET
DUSTIN DAVID THOMPSON
BEWARE: WATCH OUT FOR YOUR CHILDREN
AND DOG’S
EVEN YOUR GOLDFISH AREN’T SAFE
DUSTIN IS A MASTER BAITER WITH HIS CROOKED LITTLE WORM
HE CLAIMS HE IS A PILLAR IN THE COMMUNITY BUT ACTUALLY HE IS A DISHONORARY MEMBER OF THE ITTY BITTY CROOKED WORM CHLAMYD-TEE
KEEP YOUR FAMILY AND ANIMALS SAFE
July 26th, 2009 at 1:43 am
SHE SAID YOU COULD HAVE YOUR BALLS BACK DUSTIN.
July 26th, 2009 at 1:47 am
SHE SAID YOU COULD HAVE YOUR BALLS BACK JOHN DAVID.
July 26th, 2009 at 1:58 am
Dustin Thompson
June 17th, 2009 at 7:05 pm
I moved out of my daddy’s house for the first time when I turned 25 to attempt to be a man. John David Thompson, yep that’s my daddy!! He beats and cheats on my mother; I’ve learned from the best of ‘em! My daddy hold’s my hand through everything I do. If you all ever had the chance to meet my parents you would just love em; they are just like Casey Anthony’s enabling screwed up parents. They lie and protect me from having to go to jail instead of protecting the baby from my yucky, one-eyed, hairy worm.
My baby’s mom left me when our daughter was 4 weeks old because I tried to beat her up with a Louisville slugger baseball bat while she was breastfeeding the baby. She took off to Alaska for the babies and her safety. Oh and I forgot to mention that I wanted to be just like Scott Peterson, and I threatened to kill her while she was pregnant 2 weeks before her due date. She was such a drag because I couldn’t do cocaine and get drunk as often as I wanted.
I filed a false emergency hearing claiming the baby was kidnapped about 3 months after she was gone, but the judge caught me in a bunch of lies about me trying to beat my baby’s mom up with my baseball bat. Then he caught me in some lies about the time I slammed her head in the trunk of my mercedes. So he put a No contact order on me so I couldn’t contact, threaten or harass her… but that hasn’t stopped me even to this day. I still creep and stalk her apartment at night to hopefully get a glance of her beautiful body. Im so good at lying I get these idiots that work for the court system to join in on my scheme to continue to abuse her and the baby. Our 9 other judges weren’t nearly as smart as our first one was; they don’t even read the file. These judges listen to my attorney while she invents and twists the greatest stories.
I started beating my daughter when I realized my baby’s mom wouldn’t come back to me. I’m so psychologically unstable that I threatened suicide two times to jump off the foresthill bridge… just ask Connie, she taped it. Crap I don’t know how I am going to talk my way out of that tape… I can’t claim she coached me too!!
My daughter tells her mommy that I hurt her pee pee and butt. She tells her how I stick my yucky, one-eyed, hairy worm in her mouth even after I have threatened to kill her and her mommy for telling on me… can you believe that f**king little brat? Oh wait, that is what I called her when she was only 8 days old because she was crying when her mommy was in the bath.
I have been trying to brainwash other people like I do to my own daughter in hopes that they will fall for my crap. I’ve tried to convince my daughter into thinking I was a parrot, but her mom caught onto that one so now I wear a scary mask and tell my daughter it’s the monster that is molesting her at night. I don’t want anymore proof of me being a child molester documented in the visitation reports so I am breaking a court order denying Connie her rights of visitation.
My daddy John David Thompson- yep that’s my daddy- the apple doesn’t fall far from the tree, like I said, that’s where I have learned to hit women and babies because my dad does hit my mom and me growing up. My daddy tries to convince my daughter that his name is Papi instead of grandpa because he hits her too. Man, I am a spitting image of my daddy!!
I want you all to go to saveaaliyah.com and watch the video called “daddy’s worm†where my daughter will tell you the TRUTH about what I do to her at night time.
PLEASE SAVE MY DAUGHTER FROM MY CHILD MOLESTING SELF !!!!!
Sending out my pedophile wormy love,
Dustin David Thompson
P.S. Thank you to all of you that support me not even knowing the facts of what I am. Thanks for helping me try to continue to isolate my victims so they can’t get help. I can just feed you a little bull here and there and you completely forget that you just heard my daughter talk entirely on her own about what I do to her at night.
July 26th, 2009 at 2:12 am
Dustin and Thompson’s won’t address the lie detector test…
So Connie is going to take one.
It will just show what liars you all are when she passes it with flying colors.
We will even let you all make the questions. They need to be yes or no questions. Post them here at BTLS.
July 26th, 2009 at 9:12 pm
So obvious the Bedwells NEED DESPERATELY to SPEW hate and lies because Connie has no custody of her child. What better way to get revenge than continue to call the father a child molester. Accusations long found to be untrue and falsified by the Bedwells and Connie’s unfortunate boy friend.
Revenge is an ugly thing, makes those who say the lies even uglier than the words themselves. I pity the Bedwells, sad to read their desperation on here. NO one believing them, just a little tiny group of desperate people online. So very sad.
July 27th, 2009 at 5:14 am
Icky Etardo
It does not surprises me one bit that you do not believe Aaliyah and her mom, as a regular at Websleuths along with Flappy and Cubby you must be used to defending this type of deviant.
http://boards.crimelibrary.com/archive/index.php/t-292805.html
“sharlock
On the 26th of February, news of a moderator who went by the nic Windchime, Terry AnnaMarie Cavalito aka Terri Stipp, has been outed as a pedophile. Unfortunately she’s not on the sexual offenders registry as she missed it by at least a year or two before the “felony registration†rule was imposed. At that news was received by shock in the website Websleuths forums and creating a virtual storm throughout the internets crimesites populace.
Terry AnnaMarie Cavalito aka Terri Stipp has possibly had access to alot of personal information while working as a moderator on a web site that considers itself a child advocate site that also regulary dealt with children related crimes. You might remember seeing her on television at Jaye Blanchard Park yelling at Cindy and George Anthony.
In a concerning turn of events Terry’s sister using the nic Tinker_bell_1967 and tinkerbelle, who is a moderator in a chatroom at MURTWITNESSONE at Paltalk, has stated that the 3 children involved are liars, belittling the victims, even though the charges are public record and Terry Stipp aka Terry AnnaMarie Cavalito plead guilty to two of the four charges. Her husband was jailed for 15 yrs Tinkerbelle publicly vowed to destroy Princess of Beaconhell.com because she believed her to be responsible for bringing this travesty to light. Documetation showing the criminal charge sheets has been made availabe to view through the beaconhell.com site through this link at docstop.com. I have added the link but would like to post a cautionary note advising that the charges she plead guilty to are more than unpleasant and some people might be permanently scarred by viewing them especially if like me they have ever posted on that site and therefor had their IP viewable to such a monster.:flamemad: ”
http://picasaweb.google.com/beaconhell/Offense?feat=embedwebsite
To make matters worse websleuths then allowed tinkerbelle to post in defence of her sister, claiming that the children were lying and that it was all part of a twisted custody battle (sound familiar?). She doesn’t mention the obscene photographs of her sister that were taken by the one of the children involved!
I don’t mean to take the focus off poor little Aaliyah but I think people should be aware of the kind of people that are defending Dustin. Aaliyah has told us in her own words what is happening to her, she MUST be heard.
Justice for Aaliyah!
July 27th, 2009 at 9:36 am
Maramite, what does this have to do with Aaliyah? The posters on Websleuths were never aware of that woman’s past? Suddenly all 20,000 members are full of bs because of that woman’s history? Good God you all have to stretch this so far out of the way to make your case for Connie don’t you? Desperation is right! This has gone to the ridiculous level, Bedwell followers make this case look so ridiculous and bizarre NO ONE IS BELIEVING ANY OF YOU. LOOK at Connie’s incoming money online = 0. You’re all such a sad pathetic bunch who can’t see how this has harmed Connie, not helped her one bit. Weird wackos
July 27th, 2009 at 9:40 am
Lie detector, I’m sure we’ll all believe the ‘answers’ you post. I thought Connie is BANNED from discussing this case, that would include a lie detector wouldn’t it? Dustin hasn’t refused because NO ONE has asked him. He isn’t online and has never posted.
But feel free to continue to LIE extensively on how he does. Makes you feel foolish arguing against a person who doesn’t reply back so you MAKE UP your own stuff, pretend to be him to make it appear like he’s online. Pathetic Pathetic Pathetic Desperate Desperate Desperate
In the end, the guy still has all custody of his kid right? Right, thought so. What is Connie going to do about her behavior in order to see her kid again? THAT is what the discussion should be. She’ll never get it and she’ll never have her kid again.
July 27th, 2009 at 11:26 am
Marmite:
If you’d been paying better attention, you’d notice that my registration date at Websleuths is 5-18-2009, and I have a total of 63 posts, which is far from a “regular”. I have no great loyalty towards Websleuths; it’s just a message board, just like this one, so trying to make Websleuths look bad doesn’t affect me one bit. I have no idea who this “Tinkerbelle” person is, nor do I care. Go ahead and divert more attention away from the real issue. I’ll just bring it back on target now:
What are the exact legal reasons that the court gave for removing Aaliyah from Ms. Bedwell’s custody?
Has Ms. Bedwell filed for an Ex Parte Hearing yet, to get her visitation back? It’s been nearly two months since she’s seen her daughter, and the court said if she filed for an Ex Parte hearing, they would make sure her visitation was restored. What’s the holdup?
The ball is in Ms. Bedwell’s court. No amount of spam or defamation is going to get Ms. Bedwell her daughter back.
July 27th, 2009 at 3:03 pm
Wow, Marmite, how many mothers who falsely accuse their childs father of molestation are you going to post about? From your post about. Here Dr. Neusteins OWN DAUGHTER speaks out! She too has NO CONTACT with her now 29 year old daughter- and hasn’t in ages!
Connie- do you SEE the TRAIL you are following? Read this, maybe one day your daughter too will be speaking out AGAINST YOU AND YOUR ALLIES TOO CONNIE!
(no link – copied from another site, which had no link available)
From The Jewish Press 5/27/2005
Silent No Longer
The Other Side Of Abuse Allegations
by Sherry Orbach
Editor’s Note: In recent months The Jewish Press published two articles by Amy Neustein – the first a feature piece in the Family Matters section, the second an op-ed column – in which she recounted her longstanding allegations that her ex-husband abused their daughter. Ms. Neustein’s daughter, Sherry Orbach, requested this opportunity to respond.
Although I have not seen my mother, Amy Neustein, in sixteen years, I remember her clearly. She claims the reason she repeatedly accused my father in the media of sexually abusing me was to gain custody rather than fame. Yet when she did have custody of me – long before the legal battles began – I remember her voluntarily sending me off to live with my grandmother in upstate New York, after which I rarely saw her.
I remember, on one of my rare visits to my mother’s house in Brooklyn, watching her softly stroking her hair with an antique silver brush as she gazed at herself in her bedroom mirror and wondered out loud whether she was pretty enough to be famous.
I remember my mother sitting with me on the plastic covered couch in my grandmother’s country home at age five as if it were yesterday. We had been rehearsing for hours. She would begin by telling me a sordid – -and false– story about my father, such as a detailed account about how he had molested me or about how he had thrown me violently against a wall. She then instructed me to repeat the story word for word until she was satisfied with my rendition. At the time, my father had indicated he would be filing for custody. My mother warned that if I did not tell these lies to the judge, I would be taken from my grandmother.
After my mother lost legal custody, I visited her once a week. During these visits, my mother used to tape-record me and pose me for pictures in order to gain material for her next media performance. I fought back in the only way I could. Once, I chased her around a table in an attempt to snatch her tape recorder.
For eighteen years (I am now 24); I was silent as my mother spun lie upon lie about my father and me. According to her story, she is the victim of a conspiracy involving my father, Brooklyn Family Court, federal and state appellate courts, the Legal Aid Society, the Brooklyn Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Children, Ohel family services, and several leaders of the Jewish community. These co-conspirators, my mother insists, punished her for revealing that my father had sexually abused me by taking me away from her.
The truth, however, is that my father never sexually abused me, and that reporters and alleged victims’ advocates who supported my mother chose to retell her lies without adequately checking the facts.
The reason my family and I did not seek media attention to counter my mother’s allegations is that we wished to maintain our privacy. My family believed that my mother’s publicity would fizzle out, and that it was best to avoid the media spotlight as much as possible so that I could live a normal life. But my mother has been relentless in her exploitation of me. Recently she embarked on another media tirade, and has published her false allegations in this paper and others.
The worst article I have yet to see this year contains my full name as well as photos of me as a child and as an adult, along with sickening and absurd lies about my father and me. Even if the allegations were true (which they are not), it is a widely accepted principle of journalistic responsibility – and of everyday morality – that it is wrong to invade the privacy of victims (alleged or actual) by publishing their full names and photographs. Kal u’chomer (how much more so) when the allegations are false. Such deceptive reporting is so damaging and hurtful that I feel I no longer have any choice but to break my silence.
I do not hate my mother; I see her as troubled. Nor do I seek revenge. I am only speaking out to stop her, and her supporters who profess to care about me, from continuing to exploit and torment me. With no other recourse, my mother has tried to counter my denial of her allegations by claiming that I am being brainwashed and used by my father and other alleged members of the so-called conspiracy who “desperately fear public scrutiny and government inquiry”
Anyone who knows me well will vouch that I am independent-minded and not the weak character my mother makes me out to be. The only parent who tried to brainwash me is my mother. The only people who are using me to advance their own careers are my mother and her allies. I vividly remember my mother sitting me on the couch at age five and coaching me to lie about my father. These are my memories and not anyone else’s.
I do not profess to know how typical my story is. I hope it is the exception and not the rule. However, the research involving allegations of child sexual abuse in court custody cases indicates that false allegations can occur in anywhere from 2 percent to 60 percent of such cases, and so it is far from an exact science. In these instances the accuser can often be the most vocal, the most sympathetic, and thus the most believable: But sometimes the real victim is the accused. And the one who pays the biggest price of all is the child. What I have learned from my case is that you can find “experts” to say anything, and that journalists are sometimes more interested in a good story and don’t want to be confused by the facts.
The damage caused by the irresponsible reporting and advocacy of my mother and her supporters extends beyond my family. Not only have they stained the credibility of the victims’ rights movement they claim to speak for, but they have diverted attention from the true needs of children in the family court and child welfare systems by misrepresenting what I, and similar children, required. What I did not require, contrary to my mother’s claim, was for the family court to be opened to the media.
I, for one, owe my existence as a normal young adult to the family judges, Ohel foster care, and the Legal Aid Society attorney who helped me reunite with my father in the face of considerable opposition in the media.
Most of all, I am grateful to my father for the sacrifices he has made for me over the years.
July 27th, 2009 at 3:11 pm
Just more examples of mothers falsely accusing their childs father of sexual abuse Marmite. Do you always just pick and choose snippets of what you wish to portray without further investigation?
Her this now grown daughter SPEAKS OUT AGAINST HER MOTHERS FALSE ALLEGATIONS. Connie – you see the trail you are following? Perhaps one day we will hear these same words from your daughter about your false allegations against her father! After yet ANOTHER child refuses ALL contact with her mother. Better get yourself used to it Connie – if you continue with your FALSE ALLEGATIONS it will very likely cost you your relationship with your daughter. Is it worth the risk?
From The Jewish Press 5/27/2005
Silent No Longer
The Other Side Of Abuse Allegations
by Sherry Orbach
Editor’s Note: In recent months The Jewish Press published two articles by Amy Neustein – the first a feature piece in the Family Matters section, the second an op-ed column – in which she recounted her longstanding allegations that her ex-husband abused their daughter. Ms. Neustein’s daughter, Sherry Orbach, requested this opportunity to respond.
Although I have not seen my mother, Amy Neustein, in sixteen years, I remember her clearly. She claims the reason she repeatedly accused my father in the media of sexually abusing me was to gain custody rather than fame. Yet when she did have custody of me – long before the legal battles began – I remember her voluntarily sending me off to live with my grandmother in upstate New York, after which I rarely saw her.
I remember, on one of my rare visits to my mother’s house in Brooklyn, watching her softly stroking her hair with an antique silver brush as she gazed at herself in her bedroom mirror and wondered out loud whether she was pretty enough to be famous.
I remember my mother sitting with me on the plastic covered couch in my grandmother’s country home at age five as if it were yesterday. We had been rehearsing for hours. She would begin by telling me a sordid – -and false– story about my father, such as a detailed account about how he had molested me or about how he had thrown me violently against a wall. She then instructed me to repeat the story word for word until she was satisfied with my rendition. At the time, my father had indicated he would be filing for custody. My mother warned that if I did not tell these lies to the judge, I would be taken from my grandmother.
After my mother lost legal custody, I visited her once a week. During these visits, my mother used to tape-record me and pose me for pictures in order to gain material for her next media performance. I fought back in the only way I could. Once, I chased her around a table in an attempt to snatch her tape recorder.
For eighteen years (I am now 24); I was silent as my mother spun lie upon lie about my father and me. According to her story, she is the victim of a conspiracy involving my father, Brooklyn Family Court, federal and state appellate courts, the Legal Aid Society, the Brooklyn Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Children, Ohel family services, and several leaders of the Jewish community. These co-conspirators, my mother insists, punished her for revealing that my father had sexually abused me by taking me away from her.
The truth, however, is that my father never sexually abused me, and that reporters and alleged victims’ advocates who supported my mother chose to retell her lies without adequately checking the facts.
The reason my family and I did not seek media attention to counter my mother’s allegations is that we wished to maintain our privacy. My family believed that my mother’s publicity would fizzle out, and that it was best to avoid the media spotlight as much as possible so that I could live a normal life. But my mother has been relentless in her exploitation of me. Recently she embarked on another media tirade, and has published her false allegations in this paper and others.
The worst article I have yet to see this year contains my full name as well as photos of me as a child and as an adult, along with sickening and absurd lies about my father and me. Even if the allegations were true (which they are not), it is a widely accepted principle of journalistic responsibility – and of everyday morality – that it is wrong to invade the privacy of victims (alleged or actual) by publishing their full names and photographs. Kal u’chomer (how much more so) when the allegations are false. Such deceptive reporting is so damaging and hurtful that I feel I no longer have any choice but to break my silence.
I do not hate my mother; I see her as troubled. Nor do I seek revenge. I am only speaking out to stop her, and her supporters who profess to care about me, from continuing to exploit and torment me. With no other recourse, my mother has tried to counter my denial of her allegations by claiming that I am being brainwashed and used by my father and other alleged members of the so-called conspiracy who “desperately fear public scrutiny and government inquiry”
Anyone who knows me well will vouch that I am independent-minded and not the weak character my mother makes me out to be. The only parent who tried to brainwash me is my mother. The only people who are using me to advance their own careers are my mother and her allies. I vividly remember my mother sitting me on the couch at age five and coaching me to lie about my father. These are my memories and not anyone else’s.
I do not profess to know how typical my story is. I hope it is the exception and not the rule. However, the research involving allegations of child sexual abuse in court custody cases indicates that false allegations can occur in anywhere from 2 percent to 60 percent of such cases, and so it is far from an exact science. In these instances the accuser can often be the most vocal, the most sympathetic, and thus the most believable: But sometimes the real victim is the accused. And the one who pays the biggest price of all is the child. What I have learned from my case is that you can find “experts” to say anything, and that journalists are sometimes more interested in a good story and don’t want to be confused by the facts.
The damage caused by the irresponsible reporting and advocacy of my mother and her supporters extends beyond my family. Not only have they stained the credibility of the victims’ rights movement they claim to speak for, but they have diverted attention from the true needs of children in the family court and child welfare systems by misrepresenting what I, and similar children, required. What I did not require, contrary to my mother’s claim, was for the family court to be opened to the media.
I, for one, owe my existence as a normal young adult to the family judges, Ohel foster care, and the Legal Aid Society attorney who helped me reunite with my father in the face of considerable opposition in the media.
Most of all, I am grateful to my father for the sacrifices he has made for me over the years.
July 27th, 2009 at 3:20 pm
Bravo Sherry! Aaliyah, the courts hear you! They are doing their best to keep your mommy from poisoning your mind. I’m truly sorry the ‘media’ assisting your mother shout her false accusations lack the journalistic responsibility to avoid invading your privacy just as Sherry had mentioned!
Alliyah, I pray you don’t have to go through the rest of your childhood dealing with your mother spouting these false allegations. You deserve better! If you should grow up and too decide to have no contact with your mother or maternal family, we will understand. I hope that is not the case for you, but your seperation from them now, is in your best interest, even if you are too young to understand.
July 27th, 2009 at 3:21 pm
Looks like the Flyering hit a nerve with the Thompson’s.
Yeah I wouldn’t want everyone knowing I was hurting my own baby’s pee pee and butt and sticking my one eyed hairy worm in my daughters mouth either. Sick F*** Instead of worrying about everyone knowing about it here is an idea…
QUIT MOLESTING YOUR DAUGHTER!!!!!!!!!!!!!
What’s so sad about you Dustin is one can simply pick up a book about child molesters and read exactly what will set you off and it does everytime. It’s like clockwork! Yeah all child molesters hate people knowing what they are; Their narcissistic characteristics don’t like when people have knowledge about them and what they are. It’s funny how we can set you off like a time bomb all for doing a little research. The sad thing is it shows time and time again that you are a child molester by your reactions each time.
Dustin you know Connie has a job and always has had a job. She supported your sociopath ass for years. But keep lying you look as insane as you are.
Everyone can read in your own handwriting how you lie and yell,how trustworthy you say Connie is, and how obsessed with her you are. You can’t change what you documented for all to read.
FREE SPEW
“but exposing little children to sexually graphic information. You are really beyond sick!”
TELL THAT TO DUSTIN! A FATHER SHOVING HIS PENIS DOWN HIS OWN CHILD’S THROAT IS WHAT IS SICK. Like that isn’t graphic!
IT’S NOT THE VICTIM’S SHAME TO CARRY DUSTIN ALTHOUGH THAT’S WHERE YOU THINK THE SHAME BELONGS. THE SHAME BELONGS ON YOUR HEAD. YOU ARE TWISTED.
The Truth that Dustin is indeed an incest perpetrator isn’t defamtion just because he has fooled people at this current time.
We all know, Dustin even knows, his day is coming where he will be exposed completely. You cant control someone forever. You should know that now Dustin Connie got out of your control and abuse and Aaliyah will too. Victims of domestic violence are often hostile when they get out of the abuse. Just wait until your own daughter gets away from you, she will most likely have it in for you and your daddy John David all by herself.
SAN QUINTIN IS WAITING FOR YOU DUSTIN.
JOHN DAVID YOUR TIME IS COMING TOO.
July 27th, 2009 at 3:29 pm
This is how ignorant the Thompson’s really are…
When abused children are away from their abusers they have what is called post traumatic stress.
The Thompson’s are so ignorant they think they can cover their tracks. Everything leaves tracks. The baby will be at school and have a post traumatic stress episode acting out all that you have done to her at no choice of her own and people are going to wonder wow what is happening to that child at home to make her punch some other child in the face, or stick an object up her vagina, or talk about how her daddy has sex with her.
You ignorant curs only have one destination for all that you have done to that innocent baby.
July 27th, 2009 at 3:36 pm
Why won’t you leave your two babies overnight with Dustin Shelby?
You don’t want your two children molested but you will cover for him to molest your niece.
Your parents sure screwed you all up.
Wonder why the Thompson’s feel a need to cover for the molesting. How prominent of a problem is it in that family that they have to lie for eachother when a child is being sexually abused. John David how many of your children did you molest? They all seem to think that what Dustin is doing is ok for a reason.
July 27th, 2009 at 3:48 pm
Profile of a Child Molester
Abusers may:
Have been abused as children themselves
Be Sexually attracted to children (most can’t or won’t resist these urges)
Find positions where children are available (leader of children’s clubs, ministries, etc., coaches, camp counselors & chaperones, daycare centers, school positions, offers to babysit for friends & family, etc.)
Seem to love children, children seem drawn to person
Seek out women with children (or friends with children)
Spend a lot of time with a child
Seem rigid, moral, a pillar of the community (too often accusations of abuse have not been believed because the person seemed to be too good, too outstanding to do such a thing
Groom a child–create a special bond (this may involve giving child gifts, money, or even alcohol, or other ‘forbidden’ things that make it appear he is a special friend and creates atmosphere for secret keeping. Could also include playfully touching, tickling, etc., but moves toward inappropriate touch)
Be an authoritarian or timid and unassertive
Frequent places like video arcades
Be addicted to child pornography
Be uncomfortable in adult relationships (i.e., doesn’t relate well, insecure)
Have symptoms and after-effects of a survivor
Deny or rationalize their behavior
Be Manipulative
Befriend single mothers in order to get to the children.
They prey on the desperation of the woman who has no support system. They often sleep with the mother
“Roughhouse” with children–tickling, slapping buttocks, etc.–and use this playful guise when they are in fact touching inappropriately
Sexual abuse can also be a form of acting out from being physically abused as a child
A large amount of batterers will also commit incest perpetrations
July 27th, 2009 at 4:12 pm
“She’ll never get it and she’ll never have her kid again.”
Only someone as ignorant and abusive as Dustin or John David would threaten Connie like that.
Odd… that’s what abusers do.
How is it Dustin that you have every single sign of an abuser and you claim you aren’t one?
Walks like a duck, quacks like a duck, acts like a duck, must be a duck.
Walks lke an abuser, talks like an abuser, threatens people like an abuser, threatens suicide like an abuser, hits babies and women like an abuser, commits incest perpetrations against the victim’s child like an abuser, slammed the victim’s head in the trunk of his mercedes like an abuser, sticks his one eyed hairy worm in his own child’s mouth like an abuser, hurts his own child’s pee pee like an abuser, has an abusive father himself like any typical abuser, is manipulative like an abuser, is a chronic liar like an abuser, kicks his own baby in the back like an abuser, blames the victims like an abuser, thinks the shame belongs to the victim like an abuser,threatens to kill his victims like an abuser, shifts all his behaviors on the woman like an abuser, wants money from the mother like an abuser, is an alcoholic like most abusers, takes a baseball bat out on the mother and child like an abuser, tries to isolate both his victims like an abuser,
DUSTIN THOMPSON MUST BE AN ABUSER. IT’S EASY MATH. 1+2=3
STRANGE HOW THAT WORKS ISN’T DUSTIN AND JOHN DAVID THOMPSON.
You two little boys can’t stand that there are people that can see through your crap that are more educated than you. Too bad Placer County officials aren’t as educated, but it will soon get to a point where you can’t deny what you have done. Even a blind man will know what you both are.
July 27th, 2009 at 6:10 pm
where is the medical evidence that shows this child has ever been sexually abused? Surely after all her complaints(made while in the sole custody of her mother- with only visits to her father) about her private areas hurting there would be some proof.
Or as Hey Free Spew claims that the father has a sexually transmitted disease- Chlamydia – this child’s doctors should have found and treated such an infection?
Did this mother seek medical help for her daughter? Did this mother ever have any real evidence of abuse, or injury caused by this abuse? Why is there no answers to this question???
I am willing to concede this mother believes there has been abuse- but where is the impartial evidence? She is alleging that this child has been abused sexually for a very long time- was there never an attempt to prove this with medical professionals?
July 27th, 2009 at 8:04 pm
Man, Dustin to say you aren’t posting and then throw fits online looks pretty ridiculous.
Then to go as far as to threaten Connie that she will never see her child again is pretty balsy if you ask me!
We tell you Sandy Amara called and she said you can have your balls back so you jump on the band wagon to make threats to Connie online. Wow.
Your true colors always shine through even when you are being a manipulative charming creep.
Maybe if the court would open their eyes they would see thatcyour whole goal in life is to make sure Connie can’t see her child. It’s your only last thread to abuse Connie too. Get a life some day would you?
Your daughter knows what you are. When she grows up do you think she is going to think to herself “wow I have a great dad he sticks his penis in my mouth that makes me cry and gag and it tasted disgusting. My dad is the best.”
Yeah I think not.
CREEP.
July 27th, 2009 at 11:12 pm
Dustin will not post online because he keeps obeying every single thing the courts ask him to do. The best thing Dustin can do for himself is exactly what he keeps doing. Listening to everything the judges ask of him. Hiring a superb lawyer :) and completely ignore the repulsive online HOAX against him all caused by a family hell bent on revenge and hate.
Every little thing about the guy has been stretched beyond the limits of truth. For example: the Bedwells would have liked for others to believe that Dustin unprovoked beat a guy within inches of his death. TRUTH: Dustin came into a fight already happening to help his friend who just had his nose broken.
SEE HOW THE BEDWELLS TRY SO HARD TO MAKE THINGS APPEAR WHAT THEY ARE NOT?????? THEY DO THAT WITH EVERY TINY THING ABOUT HIM. They think they’re clever but they’re NOT smart.
Shame on Connie for fabricating evidence against her daughters father ONLY after all her other multiple lies were found to be untruthful and full of holes. It was she kept doing for the past 2+ years. Making up stories and when that story was not believable or PROVED COMPLETELY FALSE, she’d just create another more wild tale.
Icky, just like you’re seeing online. The stories and details get crazier and crazier just like the family themselves. Dustin never has had to call the Bedwells crazy, they’ve accomplished that on their very own online for all of us to see.
mmmmmmmmmmmm how much money is coming in Connie? I keep hearing 0 ZERO. No one believes you but you are still around. Hows this online BS going for you? Has it obtained the results you were hoping for? Yah, didn’t think so. Hate is a very ugly thing especially when it supercedes any love for your daughter right??
Doing the right thing would be to OBEY the judge and you can see your daughter. But you can’t understand that can you? Maybe it’s the people you surround yourself with? If you have losers in your own life, how can you ever expect to be successful? I mean, look at the results of what’s happening to your ‘fight’ for justice. What a sick disgusting joke this all is for you to keep playing against a completely innocent man. Even authorities are sick of you!
July 28th, 2009 at 4:55 am
Hear that? I hope Sherry Orbach’s words were loud and clear. 20 years from now, it could be Aaliyah speaking those same words about her mother, her mothers ‘allies’ and the ‘media’ supporting her mother.
20 long years since Connie last had any contact, any opportunity to lay her eyes on her daughter, feel her daughters warm embrace, soft kiss, or an ‘I love you mommy’.
Between Amy Neistein, and Dyandria Darel, that is now TWO mothers who have excersized their right to be ‘obnxious’ at the cost of losing the ability to have their child in their life. Why? I can’t answer that question. As a mother, I could never imagine exploiting my child as these two mothers, and now Connie is doing.
Connie Bedwell, you really ought to think long and hard about exactly what you are willing to ‘risk’ here with your ’cause’, because as the two formentioned mothers learned, they chose to risk their involvement with their children. Both from the age of 5 through adulthood.
IS THIS REALLY WHAT YOU WANT WITH YOUR MOTHER DAUGHTER RELATIONSHIP WITH AALIYAH?
July 28th, 2009 at 8:14 am
Why don’t you ever post all of the information Cubby? Sherry Orbach may NOT have written that article. There have been so many people that believe she is not the author. Someone called her to see if she actually did and she never responded via phone or face – to – face, but in an “email” she “confirmed” it. So, Sherry may NOT have written that.
Goes to show that you are only in this to disprove Connie and not really care that the this baby may or may not be being sexually abused by her “father”.
July 28th, 2009 at 11:56 am
Did it ever occur to you that Sherry Orbach doesn’t want to talk to complete strangers about her childhood? Sherry Orbach isn’t accountable to anyone any more. She OBVIOUSLY wrote the letter hoping that people would FINALLY let it go, but, true to form, there are some obsessive people who are still insisting that Sherry, THE VICTIM IN THIS CASE, is lying. It’s chilling to think that Aaliyah Bedwell will still be dealing with false allegations when she’s 29 years old.
BTW, a reporter from The Jewish Voice and Opinion spoke to Sherry Orbach IN PERSON about the letter and her story. This is what the article about the meeting said:
“The question lingered: Was it Orbach who had written the Jewish Press piece claiming that she had been coached as a young girl?
The Voice arranged to meet Orbach recently at a vegetarian restaurant in the East Village. Soft-spoken and slender, she was accompanied by her fiancé, Jon Lachman, whom she met while completing her master’s degree at Harvard two years ago. Almost immediately, she handed over her driver’s license.
“A lot of people have told you that I’m not who I say I am,” she said.
Why, we asked, had she finally gone to such an obscure local journal with information that, at one time, was a prime-time television case? She said that she’d spent her adult life avoiding publicity, and it was still humiliating to speak publicly about her experiences.
“I hoped that the story would fizzle out and that, if I had a difficult childhood, I could have a normal adulthood,” she says. “The way [my mother] has been able to resuscitate the story is by putting herself as a leader for other victims. I don’t think she cares about the people she claims to represent.”
Orbach says that her mother had confronted her with very disturbing, sexually explicit information as a child, and that had led her to be afraid of her father and, at one point, to corroborate the sexual abuse—a reaction that was described in legal testimony. But when she moved in with her father after foster care, she began to realize “that he was a decent guy,” and the longer she was away from her mother’s home, the more she felt what she’d been told by her mother was irresponsible.
Sherry remembers visitations from her mother as very painful experiences. Around the time when Orbach developed anorexia, she would do anything to not be in her mother’s presence, including scratching herself and screaming. “Throughout my life, my mother was always filming and taping me and taking pictures of me and telling lies. It was profoundly embarrassing. I felt victimized during each visit. She wanted to use me to get the media’s attention,” Orbach says.
Orbach was asked if her father’s strategy of never talking to the press (until he recently spoke to the Voice) had made the situation worse. “My mother has dominated the airtime. She has sought a lot of media attention,” Sherry responded. “My dad’s tactic is a ‘No comment’ tactic. He didn’t want to engage. He knew it was profoundly humiliating to me.”
Followup article available here:
http://www.theawarenesscenter.org/Neustein_Amy.html#Silent
Why is it that so many people are willing to believe a child when they say they were molested, but unwilling to believe that EXACT SAME CHILD when they recant?
July 28th, 2009 at 12:32 pm
At least KarenCCC you state “this baby may or may not be being sexually abused by her “fatherâ€.
That really is an important point- to all of you who are ready to string this man you have never met or heard a word from up for a public lynching- does this thought ever occur to you?
Where is the independent medical proof of even a suspicion of abuse. Where is one mention of any of this child’s doctors ever even saying there may be abuse? This child complained about her “butt and her pee pee” hurting frequently- what was the medical diagnosis of this complaint, surely her mother had a pediatrician check her child immediately? I know I would have. Even if this was the beginning of this mother’s suspicions of sexual or physical abuse. So what did those early doctor visits result in for a cause? From reading Connie’s timeline- it is clear she feared abuse was ongoing. So what did the doctor say back then?
I have been through this with my own child, and I know that medical professionals take this fear or suspicion by a mother VERY seriously.
July 28th, 2009 at 12:49 pm
Wrong again KarenCCCC. Perhaps you should do a little less name calling and finger pointing and do a little more research yourself. Goes to show you too pick up just a snippet to whatever suits your story.
Sherry Orbach was interviewed in January of 2009 – FACE TO FACE- and showed ID!- with her fiance AND a call to Nightline, (but I guess they too are part of the ‘conspiracy’ as you ‘accusers’ like to claim.)
Pages 4 & 5 of the following article, including Ms. Orbach’s statement she would rather have NO mother than a mother who exploits and victimizes her.
http://www.villagevoice.com/2009-01-07/news/my-brother-the-slumlord/3
At least Connie has the foresight to see what happens to other mothers who falsely accuse their childs father of sexual abuse. (and now drugging the child, murder threats murder her, and of all things beastiality – as all else has failed and will continue to fail. )
It’s up to Connie to decide whether she wishes to gamble her opportunity to parent her child and remain an active part of her childs life, or risk losing it all, including her daughter choice to be a part of her mothers life – very possibly permanently.
Perhaps another look at one of the last paragraphs from Ms. Orbachs letter.
…..And the one who pays the biggest price of all is the child. What I have learned from my case is that you can find “experts†to say anything, and that journalists are sometimes more interested in a good story and don’t want to be confused by the facts.
The damage caused by the irresponsible reporting and advocacy of my mother and her supporters extends beyond my family. Not only have they stained the credibility of the victims’ rights movement they claim to speak for, but they have diverted attention from the true needs of children in the family court and child welfare systems by misrepresenting what I, and similar children, required. What I did not require, contrary to my mother’s claim, was for the family court to be opened to the media.
July 28th, 2009 at 2:58 pm
Posting a story online doesn’t show a darn thing.
THE VIDEO OF AALIYAH SPEAKING ALL BY HERSELF ABOUT WHAT A PIG HER FATHER IS SHOWS THE TRUTH.
The Thompson’s think the longer and harder they repeat their lies that someone might buy it as the truth.
How stupid are you people? Do you really think that people can’t follow your garbage you spew on the net and put two and two together that your story is the story that doesn’t make sense? The Bedwell’s side never changes like The Truth never changes. Unlike your multiple cool stories you pull out of your incestuous asses Thompson’s… “oh it’s baby Einstein’s worm, oh it’s an earth worm, oh it’s gummy worms, oh the mother coached her, oh the mother poisened her mind, blah blah”
“It’s baby Einstein’s worm” has got to be the most idiotic excuse you could have came up with Dustin. Now you just flat out won’t address “Daddy’s worm.” It’s a sign of guilt and denial. It’s like you have an elephant standing in the room next to you but you won’t look at it or acknowledge it’s exsistance. Guess what- we all see it and we see you Dustin try to stay as far away as possible from addressing it. You must not have heard Dr Saturley ( who happens to have a massive amount of experience more than Dr Roeder) say that the video appears to be uncoached. Can you believe that he actually watched the entire video unlike Dr Roeder. Amazing how professionals outside of Placer County will do their jobs!!!
Dustin People can see through you. They can read your posts and know for a fact it is you posting throwing hissy fits over Connie’s boyfriend Darrel like a jealous abuser would. Why would any one else on this planet be so insanely jealous over Connie’s boyfriend?
Everyone knows Connie left you and everyone can see you can’t stand it because you are obsessed with her. Quit raping your daughter; She is not Connie.
And Dustin you say there is no physical evidence of the abuse. What a coincidence that you haven’t taken her to her Pediatrician appointments. You’re afraid the Dr will check her hymen.
Or why doesn’t that waste of space public pretender Rebecca Bowman make you take her to her check ups? That’s right- She doesn’t want to be proven wrong either. If that woman even gave half a shit about that child’s well being she would make sure Dustin’s pedophile ass wasn’t in the room at the MFT appointments with Sharon Sloper threatening and intimidating her. Hey Rebecca wonder why Aaliyah is kicking and screaming to get away from her grandfather and then takes minutes to even start playing with him. Why don’t you people use your brains and try to be a little more intelligent than the abusers running the show and take precautions to make sure that child is safe. Even the MFT found the child’s behavior strange enough to want to evaluate it. If Sharon Sloper had a brain she would make sure the abuser isn’t sitting in the room with the child.
What else should we all expect from Placer County but pure stupidity?
July 28th, 2009 at 3:16 pm
For anyone to imply Connie wants fame is laughable. Anyone who knows her knows she doesn’t even bother to read celebrity magazines or watch TV.
Who would want to get famous by having dated a pedophile that is molesting their daughter? Not a believable story Thompson’s just like all of your other stories.
Keep trying.
July 28th, 2009 at 7:13 pm
WHAT ARE THE ODDS THAT AUBURN NEWS KCRA CHANNEL 3 JUST REPORTED THAT A CHILD WAS MOLESTED ONLY A BLOCK AWAY FROM DUSTIN THOMPSON’S HOUSE AT AUBURN RECREATIONAL PARK?
WHAT A MISTAKE TO HAVE SGT PECORARO ON THAT CASE.
July 28th, 2009 at 10:17 pm
Choices bring consequences be they good or bad…a good lesson in life best learned at an early age.
Choosing to spew hateful comments and abominable allegations about her child’s father…after being ordered not to, is not working really well for CB. Am I the only one to find it ironic that she is the one who chose that father in the first place? I find it hard to believe this man could be as horrible as she claims, after all she is purported to be so smart…with an IQ in the top 1/3 of the population…we’ve all heard it over and over in the posts, so how could she make such a choice in the first place?
Rather than work within the systems in place and abide by the guidelines established by them, she chooses to ignore them. The court system has repeatedly given her guidance via court orders. She chooses to continue ignoring them as well. She has chosen over and over not to abide…supposedly based on wanting to save her daughter and obtain justice. Where has this gotten her? She is so far removed from her child there is no way she could have any idea of what is going on in her life at the moment.
I believe she continues to be out of compliance because deep down, she knows her daughter’s father does not pose a threat. That is the only reasonable explanation I can think of for her not following the court orders and doing whatever she can to be able to get back in the court’s good graces and become an active participant in her daughter’s life again. It appears receiving attention on the internet is more important than being a participating parent in her daughter’s life. SAD!
Sad that someone who is supposed to be so smart can’t see the forest through the trees to realize she is only harming her daughter. Regardless of one’s personal feelings towards your ex, putting your child’s face and name on the internet should have never happened. Regardless of which side you choose to support in this matter, anyone who thinks that her action was okay is not thinking of the child’s best interests at all. This will follow her forever. A responsible parent would protect their child, not subject them to more pain and humiliation.
Food for thought…maybe Yahweh has seen the truth and the custody arrangement is the way it is currently because he does know the truth and has given the powers at be the wisdom to make the right choice…think about that.
I hope for the child’s sake, CB seriously considers her next choice and makes it a positive one, taking a much different path than the one she has been on. Continuing on this same old road will only lead to a dead end called loneliness, alienation and misery.
Choose a different path!
July 29th, 2009 at 9:33 am
OK – back to the reason we are all here.
Remember Aaliyah? Beautiful little girl, she’s the one that told us about the sick things that her daddy does to her.
Remind yourself, watch the ‘daddys worm’ video and ‘exchanges’ video again. See how Aaliyah reacts to her daddy, watch her scream as he does absolutely nothing to console her.
http://www.youtube.com/user/wellsaidjohnsmith
We all know what DT is capable of, how he is violent and controlling, how he would do ANYTHING to hurt Connie.
Justice for Aaliyah
July 29th, 2009 at 9:51 am
If you read the evidence regarding Sherry Orbach’s case, anyone can see that she was positively abused by her father. How can a child fool therapists and doctors? The grandmother is the one that witnessed the abuse as well as her foster mother, so I’m guessing they were in on the false allegations too. Read the whole story. It only proves to me that her father brainwashed her as she grew older. One day, something is going to trigger the memories and we’ll hear that part of the story.
July 29th, 2009 at 9:54 am
Why hasn’t Amara answered any of the 26 messages left by Connie’s lawyer?
July 29th, 2009 at 10:23 am
Connie will never get it Icky. She cannot understand that she’s spent months online fighting and it backfired! Continuing to do the same thing over and over will get the same results. OR as we can see, WORSE results like not seeing your kid for more than 2 months. It’s not Dustins’ doing. All the lawyers have agreed to visitation, IT WAS EVEN PUT IN WRITING and ITS CONNIE’S LAWYER NOT replying. WOW! What’s her excuse now?
But here in nowhere land online, we still have a few stragglers hanging onto the FALSE belief this child is abused, yet all kinds of authorities have investigated stating she is NOT abused at all. Connie, give it a rest already. It’s tiring to see how pathetic you are behaving. Not respecting the courts will keep you out of your childs’ life for good. What part of that do you not understand?
NO ONE online believes Connie’s accusations. WHY is no one discussing the dollar amount NOT COMING IN online anymore? I guess because smart people read the ENTIRE story, can see through all the LIES the BEDWELLS TRIED to start about Dustin, SEE THE TRUTH & THE REALITY of the situation and have moved onto something new.
NO ONE IS LISTENING CONNIE…. at least NO ONE NEW. It isn’t working and now that there’s BOTH sides to the story online, Connie will never be believed no matter how many posts 2 or 3 people make under false names KAREN!
Connie Connie Connie, not seeing your child MUST BE WORTH your revenge against an innocent man you once loved so much!
July 29th, 2009 at 10:47 am
If anyone thinks for a moment that Dustins lawyer is stopping the visitation, they are wrong! Aaliyahs lawyer is the one Connie MUST obtain permission from and the lawyers have agreed to visitation in writing to Connies’ lawyer!!
If that was not happening, WHY have they (Connies lawyer) not filed an ex parte hearing? Humm! It would be easy enough to PROVE to the judge wouldn’t it? But alas, Connie is the one NOT responding and no one can imagine why she doesn’t want to see her kid.
Is it possible that she’s just trying to make it APPEAR like Dustin is still keeping her from seeing Aaliyah? Does she think the judge is dumb and will fall for that?
How then will Connie’s lawyer explain the multiple letters showing immediate agreement to restore visitation? Doesn’t she WANT to see her kid? I don’t think so. I think CONNIE would rather live with hate in her heart.
She keeps proving she makes extremely poor choices with respect to her daughter and continues to do so. Connie YOU WILL NEVER EVER GET CUSTODY BACK OF YOUR CHILD. Connie, don’t you realize that even your supervised visitation can be removed IF YOU CONTINUE NOT TO COMPLY WITH COURT ORDERS??
How does that benefit your child you falsely CLAIM is abused? HOW is this working for you Connie? WHY are YOU not answering the letters from Aaliyahs lawyer regarding the agreement to restoration of visitation???????????????????????????????????????????
Bottom line = Connie will NEVER get it! She will be just like the story above, crying WOLF for the next 20 years while Aaliyah grows up in a loving home, enjoying life. Connie will miss out on it all. TIME is the only thing that will truly prove how WRONG you few stragglers here are about Aaliyah!!
July 29th, 2009 at 11:28 am
I’m not posting as anyone but KarenCCCC, what’s wrong, afraied there are more people that believe Aaliyah than your little three? It seems you are more angry with me than you are with trying to see the truth. You are getting your information from someone who lies with every breath he takes. It’s so sad you cannot see the truth. It’s ok though Patty and Cubby, the truth will prevail. As I said before, why don’t you go back to WS and get your thread re-opened so you can speak about your “proof and information” there.
July 29th, 2009 at 11:49 am
Ashley, you obviously don’t know what a hymen is. Poor Aaliyah’s hymen has already been checked. It’s an external piece of flesh, not internal like most people assume. Why don’t you hie on over to Wikipedia and also do a Google image search and take a look at a picture of one. The hymen’s also very fragile; one good fall off a jungle gym is enough to damage it. Some women are born without one. Damage to the hymen or the absence of one does not constitute proof of loss of virginity, sexual behavior, or abuse.
Karen, it’s probably because Ms. Bedwell’s lawyer is supposed to be contacting Mr. Thompson’s lawyer, not Ms. Bedwell herself. I’m sure one of Ms. Amara’s legal secretaries called Ms. Bedwell’s lawyer back and told them to contact Aaliyah’s lawyer after the first message, and of course they ignored the next 25, since the issue had been dealt with. Lawyers are used to being harassed by disgruntled people, and they have strict guidelines on how to handle them. I’m sure Ms. Amara’s office will only respond to calls from Ms. Bedwell’s lawyer and will not respond to Ms. Bedwell herself at this juncture.
Legal secretaries exist to protect the lawyer from harassing phone calls, and to keep people like Simon from BNN from getting through to waste the lawyer’s time. They make generous amounts of money every year for simply not putting phone calls through to the lawyer. Lawyers RARELY take incoming calls; what they do is read the messages taken by the legal secretary, and do one of three things: instruct the legal secretary how to respond to the issue, with a letter signed by the lawyer or a followup call from the secretary; make an outgoing call to the client themselves, which the client is charged for at full lawyer’s rate; or ignore the call entirely. Most of the time lawyers aren’t even in the office to take the call; they’re in court, returning the few calls that require a lawyer’s assistance, or reviewing legal documentation prepared for them by their paralegals and legal secretaries. Honestly, a lawyer’s wife or husband is lucky if they can get right through to their spouse. Most of them don’t bother calling unless it’s an emergency.
The good news is: those 26 messages have been recorded and saved, and will undoubtedly turn up in a future court action. Whether this is to be to Ms. Bedwell’s benefit is unlikely. I sure hope she was polite when she left those messages; if she wasn’t, it will reflect badly on her in the future.
July 29th, 2009 at 12:16 pm
KarenCCCC It is your choice not to believe Sherry Orbachs words. She clearly stated how her mother ‘posed her’ for those pictures. Chased her around with a tape recorder. That just demonstrates you will choose to believe what you wish, AND IGNORE THE TRUTH!
It’s pretty evident 1000 experts could testify AALIYAH IS NOT AND NEVER HAS been abused, and they’d all be called liars and part of the conspiracy against Connie.
Connie is the ONLY person responsible for her prediciment. A situation she clearly caused and got herself into. ONLY by following the requests and order of the courts will Connie ever have a remote chance of being a part of her childs life.
Momentum is Connie is rolling down a hill FAST. It will be a long hard climb back up – IF she so chooses. Otherwise she can continue to snowball down, while the situation she created gets further and further out of her control until she loses ALL rights and opportunity to parent her child.
July 29th, 2009 at 12:40 pm
Yes back to the issue. AALIYAH HERSELF SAID “MOMMY MADE ME SAY THOSE THINGS”
MOMMY MADE ME SAY THOSE THINGS
MOMMY MADE ME SAY THOSE THINGS
MOMMY MADE ME SAY THOSE THINGS
MOMMY MADE ME SAY THOSE THINGS
MOMMY MADE ME SAY THOSE THINGS
MOMMY MADE ME SAY THOSE THINGS
MOMMY MADE ME SAY THOSE THINGS
MOMMY MADE ME SAY THOSE THINGS
MOMMY MADE ME SAY THOSE THINGS
MOMMY MADE ME SAY THOSE THINGS
MOMMY MADE ME SAY THOSE THINGS
MOMMY MADE ME SAY THOSE THINGS
THAT is Aali’s words to all the specialists involved.
Nothing more need to be said because the video is BS, MOMMY MADE ME SAY THOSE THINGS!!!
July 29th, 2009 at 12:41 pm
Icky – I agree. It is quite chilling to think Aaliyah may have to still be living with being made into a victim at age 29. Yes, Aaliyah is a victim – A victim of her mothers revenge and hate campaign against her father.
It’s been asked so many times WHY Connie lost custody of her child. Since Connie refuses to answer, one can only look at the facts as presented and go through a process of elimination. What’s left? There has been no medical proof of abuse. No doctors statement verifying abuse occured. No unbiased witnesses without an ulterior motive to damage the relationship between father and child. A child who clearly stated MOMMY TOLD ME TO SAY THESE THINGS. A home made movie which has been trimmed down to eliminate anything in the video NOT supporting the mothers story. What’s left? one can only believe Connie COACHED this child.
How many hours and hours did you practise this ‘story’ with your daughter Connie? How did you justify the childs emotional trauma with her behavior when you KNEW ALL ALONG it was based on YOUR ACTIONS Connie? How did you justify that? Did you rationalize it in your mind that she would somehow forget? Think again, Connie… she WILL be able to recall and RETELL the story, at 5,6,7,8 and on of what YOU DID TO HER JUST LIKE SHERRY ORBACH WAS ABLE TO TELL THE WORLD HOW HER MOTHER ‘POSED’ HER.
You must have thought long and hard how you were going to concoct this sham of a story. You KNEW medical experts would see tears, SCARRING on your daughters bottom if her dad had in fact violated her. You KNEW THAT WOULDN’T FLY – so you had to come up with something that MIGHT be believable, hence the oral violation. Which too isn’t believable. Those of us who are parents KNOW when a child doesn’t want to eat a particular food, or take medicine they clamp their jaws tightly and it is IMPOSSIBLE to force them open without leaving finger/hand bruises on their face. You must have thought long and hard how you were going to explain that too. Ah! I can say he drugged her in her sleep.
BULL SH*T Connie! Your story lacks ANY supportive evidence other than YOUR INABILITY TO PUT YOUR CHILDS BEST INTEREST AND NEEDS OVER YOUR OWN! Your ‘allies’ continuing to post the same nonsense over and over with the hopes of different results DEMONSTRATES THAT! These people are NOT HELPING YOU! They are adding supportive evidence for the courts which demonstrate YOUR INABILITY TO PUT YOUR CHILDS BEST INTERESTS AHEAD OF YOUR OWN. Until YOU CAN DEMONSTRATE OTHERWISE, YOU WILL NEVER EVER HAVE MORE ACCESS TO YOUR CHILD THAN YOU CURRENTLY HAVE.
July 29th, 2009 at 12:44 pm
Your post!
Ashley
July 28th, 2009 at 3:16 pm
For anyone to imply Connie wants fame is laughable. Anyone who knows her knows she doesn’t even bother to read celebrity magazines or watch TV.
Who would want to get famous by having dated a pedophile that is molesting their daughter? Not a believable story Thompson’s just like all of your other stories.
Keep trying.
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Don’t need to keep trying anything. Its evident Dustin is innocent and all THOMPSON info is truthful. Just WHO HAS 100% custody?
It’s Connie that looks like she has to keep trying but she’s running out of lies to get others to believe her. Now she’s here
>>>> ROCK (connie) HARD PLACE <<<<<<<<
Your move Connie. What will it be? Dustin has your daughter and if you keep doing this you will NEVER get to raise her at all.
KEEP TRYING CONNIE it’ll land you in jail just like your daddy.
July 29th, 2009 at 12:45 pm
PS: Connie is a HUGE FAN of Dr Phil. LOL she even made Dustin go through an article in a magazine by Dr Phil one time. Doesn’t watch tv. lmao!
July 29th, 2009 at 1:07 pm
You know what else is pathetic? Connies inability to understand and accept DT is LONG over her. To offer letters professing undying love from a relationship which ended more than 3 years ago, for others to post on their myspace ( if that is fact ) shows just how narcisstic you are Connie. It only goes to show Connie is incapable of believing for one moment SHE isn’t the center of DT’s life. *Rolls eyes*. You aren’t! Are youjealous of yoru daughter Connie? Jealous of the love DT has for his daughter and NOT YOU?
You BOTH have moved on. Why is it that you simply can not accept that, get over your own pain, hurts, heartaches and disappointments which led to the break of your your relationship with your childs father and only had to do with YOUR relationship with DT. NOTHING to do with DT’s ability to parent and NOTHING to do with the relationship between father and daughter. I think I just answered that for myself. Connie is incapable of seeing her daughter as anything other than a part of herself. Unable to see her daughter as a seperate individual who is her own person with her own thoughts, feelings and needs. I’m sure the courts clearly see that as well based on your actions Connie. You need help. Why don’t you take the recommendations of what the courts suggest which would ALLOW you to be a positive part of your childs life? Until you do, I guess you’ll have to live without being a part of your childs life. Sad……
July 29th, 2009 at 2:55 pm
Dustin you are so ignorant to even think that in the end of all of this that you will come out on top of your own “game.”
You won’t.
Just keep acting like a raging lunatic abuser you are, threatening Connie about never seeing Aaliyah again. It shows your hearts intent and purpose for you crying wolf against Connie.
Everyone knows what a slim bucket Sandy Amara is and knows she is the one playing games over visitation. 26 times Sandy Amara still won’t call back or answer her phone!
Everyone knows Dustin that you are a child molester that forces oral sex upon your own precious daughter. We are sure that since you have had her alone for a year you have only progressed into worse things and have probably full blown raped her already. Just wait util someone in the court wakes up and orders you to have to take her to her routine pediatrician appointments that you have purposely skipped.
There is only one way a child’s hymen would be torn and we all are going to know who did it Dustin.
Getting nervous Dustin aren’t you? That time is boiling down to almost being here.
Connie doesn’t hate people Dustin but you can scream that all you want. You can pretend it will help your case. For someone that hates your family so much she hasn’t done anything revengeful to you at all. She has done nothing but try to protect her daughter from you, your worm and your creep of a dad.
Look at other molest cases, most of the women wind up in jail for murder of the child molester to protect their child. You are still breathing. That only says one thing to me: that Connie has a lot of self control, patience for evil people, and is as moral, loving, trustworthy, and caring as you say she is in your own handwriting. It’s posted all over the net for all to read. You aren’t fooling anyone.
Let’s all use our brain cells here, if Connie wasn’t telling the truth why would her boyfriend of 2 1/2 years stand by her side for the truth too? She could easily turn on him in the exact same way if that was who she was,”a vinditive, delusional, hateful woman”. Instead Darrel stands right by her side and calls you what you are Dustin, a Child Molester, for Aaliyah’s sake. Darrel has witnessed numerous accounts of the aftermath of Dustin molesting Aaliyah. It’s not likely that a man would want to be involved in such a situation if it weren’t the ABSOLUTE TRUTH!
YOU ARE A CHILD MOLESTER DUSTIN.
You want to rip on Connie now for the path she chooses regarding you molesting your own daughter and that is fine, laugh away. In the end of it all, we will see who will be laughing last and I would put my life on it that not a single soul will be laughing at the discovery of The Truth about what you have truly done to your own flesh and blood behind closed doors.
Dustin you and your entire family will carry the shame of what you have done like a glowing, flashing sign on your foreheads. It won’t be something you can deny any longer.
Save Aaliyah.
July 29th, 2009 at 3:02 pm
Rumor has it that Dustin hasn’t been working. Dustin is that why you are throwing a tantrum online falsely claiming that Connie doesn’t have a job?
How much sense that would all make, you always reverse and flip your behavior and problems on Connie.
Sociopaths do that.
Save Aaliyah!
Thank you Marmite…
OK – back to the reason we are all here.
Remember Aaliyah? Beautiful little girl, she’s the one that told us about the sick things that her daddy does to her.
Remind yourself, watch the ‘daddys worm’ video and ‘exchanges’ video again. See how Aaliyah reacts to her daddy, watch her scream as he does absolutely nothing to console her.
http://www.youtube.com/user/wellsaidjohnsmith
We all know what DT is capable of, how he is violent and controlling, how he would do ANYTHING to hurt Connie.
Justice for Aaliyah
July 29th, 2009 at 4:01 pm
There was a study done about how only extremely intelligent people use their conscience and stand up against authority figures.
A large amount of people were told to shock a person in another room, given X amount of voltage each time, by the command of an authority figure. The voltage icreased each time and the people could hear how bad it was hurting the person chose to be the lab rat. They could hear how hard and long the lab rat person was screaming in pain in the other room. The majority of people continued to harm and shock the other person in the other room even through the screaming and pain simply because they were told to do it by someone they thought in their mind was above them. The majority of the people continued to do what the authority figure told them to though their conscience told them to stop hurting the person in the other room.
There was only one man out of all the people used throughout the experimant that used his conscience. He told the authority figure that he wasn’t going to hurt the person in the other room any longer and didnt care what the authority figure told him to do. That man was proven to have an extremely higher IQ than the rest of the people in the experiment. He also didn’t perceive himself as less intelligent than the authority figure since he had knowledge of electricy and voltage. The experiment therefore concluded that extremely intelligent people will continue to use their conscience regardless of what they are up against.
This experiment shows a number of points throughout this situation in Placer County.
After watching “Daddy’s Worm” anybody that is still standing up to these authority figures in Placer County points to their extreme intellect and ability to continue to use their conscience though these authority figures have their head up their own ______ (where the sun doesn’t shine anymore.)
It also sadly, but surely shows me that Placer County officials aren’t that intelligent, nor have the capability to use their own consciences to stand up to the authority figures previous to them that have came to a conclusion afer watching the “Daddy’s Worm” video.
It tells me that Aaliyah, Connie and their supporters “get it” far better than the majority of Placer County “Professionals and Authority figures.”
July 29th, 2009 at 6:44 pm
THOMPSON’S PEOPLE SEE THROUGH YOU LIKE YOU BATHED IN WINDEX. FOLLOW ALONG IF YOU ARE CAPABLE: YOU CAN TELL DUSTIN IS AN ABUSER FROM HIS POSTS RIGHT HERE ON BTLS.
Anyone that is capable of slamming a woman’s head in the trunk of their mercedes is capable of any other repulsive crime such as molesting their own child. Aaliyah’s own words have told us all what Dustin has done to her.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=krihOkBsEt4
http://www.bloggernews.net/121278
“The letter from the Chiropractor can be read here. You can draw your own conclusions. Was Dustin involved?
Simon Barrett
From Editor – Further investigations reveal that the injury referred to in the letter from the Chiropractor is reputed to be as a result of Dustin Thompson slamming Connie’s head in the trunk of the car.”
COMPARE THESE BEHAVIORS WITH DUSTIN’S POSTS: IT SHOULDN’T TAKE A GENIUS TO PUT TWO AND TWO TOGETHER:
http://www.thelizlibrary.org/liz/understanding-the-batterer-in-visitation-and-custody-disputes.pdf
“Contrary to popular belief, children of batterers can be at just as much
risk psychologically, sexually, and even physically after the couple splits up as they were when
the family was still together. In fact, many children experience the most damaging victimization
from the abuser at this point.
DUSTIN BATTERED CONNIE AND NOW IS MOLESTING AALIYAH.
The partner and children of a batterer will, however, experience generalizable
characteristics, though he may conceal these aspects of his attitude and behavior when other
people are present:
The batterer is controlling; he insists on having the last word in arguments and decision making,
he may control how the family’s money is spent, and he may make rules for the victim
about her movements and personal contacts, such as forbidding her to use the telephone or to see
certain friends.
DUSTIN FALSLY SPOUTED OFF IN ABOVE POSTS ABOUT CONNIE NOT WORKING. HE IS STILL TRYING TO CONTROL HER MONEY AND ISOLATE HER.
He is manipulative; he misleads people inside and outside of the family about his
abusiveness, he twists arguments around to make other people feel at fault, and he turns into a
sweet, sensitive person for extended periods of time when he feels that it is in his best interest to
do so. His public image usually contrasts sharply with the private reality.
He is entitled; he considers himself to have special rights and privileges not applicable to
other family members. He believes that his needs should be at the center of the family’s agenda,
and that everyone should focus on keeping him happy. He typically believes that it is his sole
prerogative to determine when and how sexual relations will take place, and denies his partner
the right to refuse (or to initiate) sex. He usually believes that housework and childcare should be
done for him, and that any contributions he makes to those efforts should earn him special
appreciation and deference. He is highly demanding.
He is disrespectful; he considers his partner less competent, sensitive, and intelligent than
he is, often treating her as though she were an inanimate object. He communicates his sense of
superiority around the house in various ways.
The unifying principle is his attitude of ownership. The batterer believes that once you are
in a committed relationship with him, you belong to him. This possessiveness in batterers is the
reason why killings of battered women so commonly happen when victims are attempting to
leave the relationship; a batterer does not believe that his partner has the right to end a
relationship until he is ready to end it.
IN DUSTIN’S ABOVE POSTS YOU CAN CLEARLY SEE HIS JEALOUSY OF DARREL BECAUSE CONNIE MOVED ON.
Most abusers do not express these beliefs explicitly; they are more likely to deny having
them, or even to claim to have opposite convictions that are humane and egalitarian. An experienced
batterers’ counselor may have to spend several hours with the abuser before the underlying
attitudes begin to show. These attitudes are generally evident to victims, however, who often feel
frustrated at the batterer’s ability to present a markedly different face to the outside world.
Because of the distorted perceptions that the abuser has of rights and responsibilities in
relationships, he considers himself to be the victim. Acts of self-defense on the part of the
battered woman or the children, or efforts they make to stand up for their rights, he defines as
aggression against him.
IN ABOVE POSTS DUSTIN KEEPS CLAIMING CONNIE HATES HIM BECAUSE SHE IS TRYING TO PROTECT HER CHILD FROM HIS WORM. HE CONTINUES TO PLAY THE VICTIM.
He is often highly skilled at twisting his descriptions of events to create
the convincing impression that he has been victimized. He thus accumulates grievances over the
course of the relationship to the same extent that the victim does.
The propensity of a batterer to see his partner as a personal possession commonly extends
to his children, helping to explain the overlap between battering and child abuse.
READ DUSTIN’S OWN HANDWRITING. HE SAYS HE KNOWS HE CAN’T BE WITHOUT CONNIE. HE SEES AALIYAH AND CONNIE BOTH AS POSSESSIONS.
He tends, for example, to have an exaggerated reaction when his ex-partner begins a new relationship, refusing
to accept that a new man is going to develop a bond with “his” children; this theme is a common
one in batterer groups.
DUSTIN’S POSTS ABOVE SHOW HIS INSANE JEALOUSY OF DARREL.
He may threaten or attack the new partner, make unfounded accusations
that the new partner is abusing the children, cut off child support, or file abruptly for custody in
order to protect his sole province over his children.
DUSTIN HAS POSTED ABOVE PUTTING THE BLAME ON DARREL. DUSTIN TO CONNIE TO COURT AFTER DUSTIN ABUSED AALIYAH AFTER CONNIE BEGAN DATING DARREL.
A batterer who does file for custody will
frequently win, as he has numerous advantages over his partner in custody litigation. These
include, 1) his typical ability to afford better representation (often while simultaneously insisting
that he has no money with which to pay child support), 2) his marked advantage over his victim
in psychological testing, since she is the one who has been traumatized by the abuse, 3) his
ability to manipulate custody evaluators to be sympathetic to him, and 4) his ability to manipulate
and intimidate the children regarding their statements to the custody evaluator. There is also
evidence that gender bias in family courts works to the batterer’s advantage. (Massachusetts
Supreme Judicial Court Gender Bias Study) Even if the batterer does not win custody, his
attempt can be among the most intimidating acts possible from the victim’s perspective, and can
lead to financial ruin for her and her children.
COULDN’T HAVE DESCRIBED THIS SITUATION BETTER. DUSTIN HAS DONE ALL OF THE ABOVE AND IS STILL TRYING TO FINANCIALLY RUIN CONNIE.
Batterers may continue their harassment of the victim for years, through legal channels
and other means, causing periodic re-traumatizing of the victim and children and destroying the
family’s financial position. Motions by abusers for custody or for increases in visitation are
common forms of retaliation for things that he is angry about.
IN 3 1/2 YEARS DUSTIN HAS FILED EVERY SINGLE MOTION AGAINST CONNIE EXCEPT 1.
(They are also used to confuse the
court; for example, lawyers who represent abusers encourage clients who are accused of sexual
abuse to file for custody immediately; this move will cause the court to treat the allegation as
“occurring in the context of a custody dispute.”)
THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT SANDY AMARA DONE AS SOON AS DUSTIN FIRST ABUSED AALIYAH.
If the abuser meets with periodic success in
court, he may continue his pattern of abuse through the legal system until the children reach
majority.
CONNIE SUPPORTERS “GET IT” DUSTIN.
IT’S PROBABLY DRIVING YOU NUTS THAT COURT IS SO FAR AWAY. YOU CAN’T SEE CONNIE THIS WHOLE TIME. IT MUST BE ROUGH TO BE THAT OBSESSED WITH SOMEONE THAT YOU HAVE TO DRAG THEM INTO COURT JUST TO GET A GLIMPSE OF THEM. THAT ONE LITTLE GLIMPSE MUST NOT FULFIL YOUR OBSESSION SO YOU SEXUALLY VICTIMIZE THE ONE THING THAT YOU HAVE LEFT OF YOUR OBSESSION OF CONNIE, YOUR DAUGHTER, AND SHE IS A HUMAN BEING WITH RIGHTS. IT’S PATHETIC, DISTORTED, AND SICK. QUIT MOLESTING YOUR OWN FLESH AND BLOOD.
GET HELP.
YOUR PARENTS NEVER GAVE YOU THE LOVE YOU DESERVED AS A CHILD AND NOW YOU ARE ROBBING IT FROM YOUR OWN CHILD.
GET HELP.
YOU WOULDN’T BE OBSESSING OVER CONNIE AND MOLESTING YOUR DAUGHTER FANTASIZING THAT AALIYAH IS HER IF YOU WOULD JUST
GET HELP.
AALIYAH ISN’T CONNIE. STOP VICTIMIZING YOUR DAUGHTER.
AALIYAH ISN’T CONNIE. “GET IT.”
CONNIE AND AALIYAH ARE HUMANS NOT OBJECTS, NOT POSESSIONS, NOT YOUR SEX TOYS TO USE WHEN YOU WANT, NOT YOUR PUNCHING AND KICKING BAGS WHEN YOU ARE MAD.
YOU ARE MAD INSIDE FOR WHAT YOUR PARENTS DID TO YOU, STOP TAKING IT OUT ON CONNIE AND AALIYAH.
CONNIE AND AALIYAH AREN’T YOURS. PERIOD.
July 29th, 2009 at 10:49 pm
WOW;
You mean this reported molestation, that’s complete with sketch and description that doesn’t match Mr. Thompson?
Quote:
“The suspect is described as a white male in his late 30s to early 40s, about 5-foot-10 to 6-foot-2, with a medium build weighing about 175 to 185 pounds. He reportedly has short blond or gray hair that possibly falls over his ears and is messy or spiked looking.
He was wearing a red tank top or short sleeve cut-off shirt and shorts, according to a report from the Auburn Police Department. ”
http://auburnjournal.com/detail/125786.html
The attached police sketch looks nothing like the photos (courtesy Ms. Bedwell’s smear campaign) that I’ve seen either.
Way to be hysterical and blame every molestation in the city of Auburn on Mr. Thompson though! WOW indeed. There are 44 registered sex offenders in the 95603 area code, all of whom are more likely to have molested that poor little girl at the recreational center than Mr. Thompson. I’d worry more about them rather than jumping at bogeymen. Why don’t you hie on over to the Meghan’s Law website and memorize the names and faces listed there, if you’re really so worried.
This is what is wrong with the whole case; people jumping to conclusions without any evidence whatsoever. It’s a witch hunt, plain and simple.
July 30th, 2009 at 1:43 am
“But Orbach says that as long as Neustein continues the allegations of abuse, she does not trust her mother: “Of course I would have liked to have a real mother, but I would prefer to have no mother than to have a mother who exploits and victimized me.”
WORDS sadly that will be repeated by Aaliyah herself in about 20 years. Aaliayah too would rather have a mother BUT NOT ONE who exploits and victimizes her. THANK GOD THE COURTS can see through Connie’s lies and hate. For Aaliyah to be raised in the loving home she’s currently in.
Connie continue acting this way and YOU WILL NEVER have custody of your child again. EVER. Can’t you see the writing on the wall?
July 30th, 2009 at 1:50 am
CONNIE!!!!!
SINCE you take advice from so many SUCCESSFUL PEOPLE who’ve helped you achieve all the great results you so desire, here’s Amy’s website. Give her a call why dontcha? She has ALLLLLLLLLLLLL THE answers on how to help your child!
http://amyneustein.com/
She can even ENSURE YOU WON’T SEE AALIYAH EVER AGAIN! HOW DOES THAT WORK FOR YOU CONNIE? HUMMM? GO to the ones who have the answers AND NEVER LISTEN TO THE COURTS EVER AGAIN.
DO YOU KNOW what that’ll getcha? DUSTIN retaining 100% custody for the rest of Aaliyah’s childhood. That is exactly what WILL happen.
July 30th, 2009 at 2:13 am
Here, read this Connie. WILL IT pull at your heart strings?
http://amyneustein.com/childless.htm
“The court took my daughter from me on the fourth day of Succot, 1986, never to return home. For almost a year after that, I couldn’t accept the loss. In the middle of the night, I would wake up and instinctively walk to the bed in my daughter’s room, thinking she would be there. Sometimes I even thought I heard her voice in the house, and that everything would be normal again. I thought if I tried hard enough, I would hear the familiar sounds of her laughing, singing and playing — that she would be back with me.
I yearned to hold my daughter in my lap, to sing to her, to put her to bed, the way I had night after night, when I would sit beside her and she would recite K’rias Sh’ma. But each time I was pulled up against the cold reality that she was gone. I could not see or touch her: I was denied the pleasure of attending a school play, a graduation ceremony, even her Bas Mitzvah.”
CONNIE even if you believe with all your heart that your daughter is abused……….. NOT LISTENING TO THE COURTS will make sure you will NEVER see Aali again.
You have a profound choice facing you. #1 listen and obey everything the courts ask of you OR #2 live out your life like this woman is.
HOW MAY I ASK, does that HELP your daughter in the least?
From what I can tell, Sherry Orbach is a very healthy well-rounded woman who’s accomplished amazing things. One would think if she was sexually abused, she sure wouldn’t have the life she has today now would she?
HOW MANY TIMES are you going to continue to cry wolf Connie?
The one difference between YOU and Amy?
YOU HAVE NO PUBLIC SYMPATHY on your side. So very few believe you at all. I’m still guessing 4 or 5? Take it to the extreme and say 10 people ONLINE (STRANGERS) believe you Connie. WHAT has that done?
NOTHING but continued delay in seeing your child. WHAT KIND OF PRICE WILL YOU PAY FOR THIS? WHY not listen to the courts in order to see your kid? WHY? Does HATE consume you that much? It sure seems like it.
July 30th, 2009 at 8:26 am
I believe when Sherry told her father when she was in the hospital at the age of 11 with anorexia (EMACIATION!!!!) when she said: “Daddy you got me this way you get me out!” I also believe the grandmother and the foster mother when they say they SAW the molestation. I also believe that the father brainwashed the child! As I said, something will trigger her correct memories. It almost ALWAYS happens.
July 30th, 2009 at 9:06 am
Quote:
“The suspect is described as a white male in his late 30s to early 40s, about 5-foot-10 to 6-foot-2, with a medium build weighing about 175 to 185 pounds. He reportedly has short blond or gray hair that possibly falls over his ears and is messy or spiked looking.
He was wearing a red tank top or short sleeve cut-off shirt and shorts, according to a report from the Auburn Police Department. â€
This description from an 11 year old that is terrified and frightened. Also, how many 11 year olds know how old (I’m 36 and my daughter says I’m ancient) someone looks like and how much they weigh? I’m not insinuating that whomever did that to this little girl is DT, but how many sketeches actualy look like the perp ever? Ther are similarities of course, but they are never exact. This is what makes me wonder about all of your “points of information and truth”. At one instance you say don’t believe all you read and then you sit here and bombard this board with written words of other people? It doesn’t make sense! But I can weed through your “truths”. Because I am able to see the truth.
July 30th, 2009 at 9:58 am
Its not surprising in the least that Connie supporters actually believe Amy over Sherrys own ADULT words today. She’s a healthy functioning successful adult. My God, you are all as sick as Amy.
But you don’t have the support like she did! Connie will end up just like her. That works for her? WOW Never being a part of Aali’s life? WOW NOW that’s justice. LOL Seriously, this is what you all planned for a result? Connie not seeing her kid? What a great plan, at least Aali doesn’t have to be around psycho crazies.
Dustin has no issues, he has Aali people. Remember? Unless you have a substantial change in Aali’s life, courts will never remove the 100% custody. The way Connie continues to go, Dustin has no worries about custodial changes. His only issue is to stop Connie from continuing to exploit her daughter in the name of hate and revenge. He cares about his kid that much to get her name and face off the net.
Now that’s a real parent!
July 30th, 2009 at 10:02 am
Saw the molestation Karen? Isn’t that enough PROOF they lied? CHILD MOLESTERS NEVER MOLEST kids in front of anyone.
Really Karen, you continue to prove how weird you truly are.
Of course you are going to believe a couple of family members lying for Amy OVER Sherry’s own words.
This is a perfect example how Connie WILL END UP. But it’s good to know the Thompsons never have to worry about WHO will raise Aali. Keep this plan of yours going, Dustin will be so thankful to you all by helping Connie NEVER get custody back. What a bunch of nuts you all are running around aimlessly trying in desperation.
NOTHING IS WORKING so WHY KEEP DOING THE SAME THING????
It’s like asking a rock that question. DUH
July 30th, 2009 at 10:37 am
Free Clue and Guesswhat:
There are curretnly 1696 people that have signed the petition. I’ll say there are really 1690 because of the 6 signatures claiming the “father” is innocent. So you can go on and on about there are only 4 or 5 people defending Aaliyah, but that isn’t true do the FACT of that petition. The truth always prevails.
July 30th, 2009 at 11:54 am
Really THOMPSON’S DON’T POST HUH???? LMFAO
ONLY DUSTIN WOULD KNOW THAT CONNIE CALLS AALIYAH, AALI.
ONLY DUSTIN WOULD THINK CONNIE STILL WATCHES DR PHIL.
And this is how ignorant you are…
The Sexual Assault department from another Police Department from another county is giving APD a little talk about how UNCOACHED that video is.
You probably didn’t know APD’s sexual assault chief left right before you happen to be reported as the CHILD MOLESTER you are. You probably didn’t know that Sgt Pecoraro wasn’t a sexual assault chief. He doesn’t know what the hell he is doing.
How dumb are you to think that other qualified people with far more experience with child molesters can’t educate good ol APD and Sgt Pecoraro.
The video is on the net. Anyone concerned asks for a whole copy of the video to help. Plenty get sent out.
YOU ARE DONE FOR. DON’T WORRY BUBBA IN SAN QUINTIN WILL BE CALLING YOU PRINCESS HERE REAL SOON.
PRINCESS.
C H I L D M O L E S T I N G C R E E P
July 30th, 2009 at 1:09 pm
You go on believing whatever you want, KarenCCCC, and leave Sherry Orbach alone. She doesn’t want your “help”, she doesn’t want her mother, and she doesn’t want people to spread these allegations any more.
BTW, “repressed memory syndrome” has been almost completely discredited. When someone has “repressed memories” come to the surface, it’s usually because a bad hypnotist implanted those memories. “Repressed memories” are not a sign of coming out of a brainwashed state, rather, they’re a sign of entering a brainwashed state.
You can read about it here:
http://users.ecs.soton.ac.uk/harnad/Papers/Py104/loftusmem1.pdf
http://www3.interscience.wiley.com/journal/119058819/abstract
In addition, there have been many cases based on repressed memories that have been overturned by the courts, here’s quite a few of them:
http://whatstheharm.net/repressedmemories.html
You will note that many of these overturned cases took place in California and cost the state a great deal of money, both to try them in the first place, and again to compensate the falsely convicted victims, so the State of California is rightfully a little suspicious of repressed memory evidence.
Please also note that about half of these overturned cases were against WOMEN. The law protects women against false allegations of sexual abuse as well as men.
Evidence of “repressed memories” in Aaliya Bedwell would be rejected by the courts without further corroborating physical evidence, and of course, there ISN’T any corroborating physical evidence, or Mr. Thompson would not have custody of the child, and Ms. Bedwell would not have minimal supervised visitation that she hasn’t bothered with for nearly two months.
I’m coming to the conclusion that many people don’t bother to investigate evidence that may upset the applecart of what they believe. Neither do they follow up on news or new findings if it might upset that applecart. It’s much easier to continue to hold on to superstitious nonsense than it is to read, to investigate, and to keep up with the news.
July 30th, 2009 at 1:40 pm
Dustin it seems like you are fishing for Connie to just confess her love to you. Hoping so desperately that she will just tell you she loves you while you keep screaming she hates you.
It’s not going to happen. Keep fishing for affirmation.
Dustin you are soooo obsessed with Connie it is creepy.
Who sends their child back to their mother singing “Mommy loves Daddy” and singing “Aaliyah Aaliyah your Mommy is dead” ?
Only a psycho obsessed abuser that wants to murder his victim because she left him. You can’t live with the fact that Connie doesn’t love you. She loves Darrel. That makes you want to kill her. You send your daughter home singing “Mommy loves Daddy” hoping in your fantasy world that Connie loves you and knowing she doesn’t, so you have her sing “Aaliyah Aaliyah your mommy is dead.”
We all know your mindset Dustin. You’ve stated on numerous occasions to numerous people that “Connie and I will always be together NO MATTER WHAT.” (We can make sure all of those get posted for people to read too if you want.)
NO MATTER WHAT??? Even if that means you have to kill her because you can’t have her?
If you can’t have her then nobody else can. Huh Dustin?
What kind of creep threatens to murder their 9 month pregnant girlfriend two weeks before she is due? You were jealous that Connie loved the baby more than you and the baby took attention away from you; Attention that you think you are Entitled to have. YOU ARE JEALOUS of that child and now are using the child as a tool desparately hoping that Connie will come back to you.
It’s once again so TYPICAL of you to confess your true thoughts and place them on Connie. YOU ARE THE JEALOUS ONE OF THAT BABY AND ALWAYS HAVE BEEN. (Everybody following along learn this: sociopaths always drop hints of truth about themselves and the situation throughout their statements. Dustin constantly does it. Just like Casey Anthony stating she felt Caley was close to home. Dustin has always been insanely jealous of the baby. Keep dropping hints Dustin. His hints, inner thoughts, inner feelings, and behaviors are often blamed on Connie. Pay close attention.For those of you supporting him please keep record of your conversations in your emails in case he does decide to severely harm or end Connie or Aaliyah’s life.)
It drives you nuts Dustin that Connie has gotten counselling for you abusing her. She has been unbrainwashed, she doesn’t fall for your crap anymore and you can’t stand it. How dare she stand up for herself. How dare she try to stand up against your authority. How dare her stand up to the person that thinks he owns her. How dare her try to protect her child from your abusive ways. How dare her not go to coparenting classes with you when you thought you could use someone elses authority to control her to your advantage. How dare her keep fighting and not give into what her abuser wants… which is her silent and isolated. How dare her huh Dustin David Thompson. How dare her not listen to the court, your other controlling tool. How dare her not let you slam her head in the trunk of a car again. How dare her not let you pull a baseball bat out on her again. How dare her for leaving you and moving to Alaska. How dare her not come crawling to your feet like you wish just to see her child. How dare her not fall for all of your sick twisted games to try to get her back. How dare her not come back to you even after you threatened suicide? (we all can’t wait for that tape to be released online) How f*cking dare her huh? So in your mind she won’t obey you so she ought to be dead huh Dustin? You can’t control her so you think the only way you can control the situation is kill her. That will show her who is the Boss. Huh Dustin? That will show her who is Control!
If you weren’t out of control you wouldn’t be grasping to control other people. You can’t stand that people online have the full story and aren’t shutting up. They aren’t going to give you the last word Dustin. Claim you aren’t posting all you want. If you weren’t posting we all would have nobody to argue with and we would still post because we can. Want to know why? Because we Control ourselves. You can’t control us all and that just pisses you off!! How dare all of us post huh? Do you want to kill us all because you can’t control us either? Or are you just so obsessed with controlling Connie that she is the only one that deserves death?
You hate that someone can read your inner thoughts just like that post above says… We can see through you like you bathed in windex.
Your “It’s Baby Einstein’s Worm” excuse is almost as good as Casey Anthony’s “there’s a dead squirrel in the engine” excuse.
I can only imagine how you feel right now Dustin. Wondering what to do to cover your ass. You see that people aren’t going to stop fighting for Aaliyah until she is safe, so you know your ending as well as we do. I hope these words ring in your head: Since you are such a gambler and think you can beat the odds even when they are against you remember this, NOTHING YOU DO CAN GET YOU OUT OF THIS. Every way you turn you are screwed. Keep lying they will all unravel at some point in time, try to kill Connie or Aaliyah you will just go to prison the place you are trying to avoid by lying about molesting the child, do any other harmful thing to her you will get caught, people are watching you now. Oh how intense the pressure must be for you to keep up the show in front of everyone, not just the system. It’s probably wearing you out. Paranoia is eating at you huh? It’s pretty weird that you moved in right next door to one of Connie’s friends. Poor poor Dustin huh. That’s what you want everybody to think. Poor poor Dustin. Sociopaths think they are the victim. It’s just like Casey Anthony in jail claiming “I am the victim.” Poor Poor pity party for Child Molesting Dustin Thompson and Poor poor pity party for Killer Casey Anthony.
The number one thing that sociopaths crave from people is pity while they are the ones committing the crimes against other people. Huh Dustin that’s what you want a pity party? Molest and batter your daughter and batter Connie and then instead of wanting people to pity the true victims you want everyone to pity you, “The innocent, cleared of all charges man.”
It looks like we hit a nerve again above, More rants from Dustin. Like clockwork! We can predict since we are calling you out on your next ranting immediately following this post that you will try to do the opposite because you have to be the chameleon sociopath you are, conforming to the part you need to play for the time you need to play it.
KISSES CHILD MOLESTING PRINCESS.
OH POOR PITY PARTY FOR DUSTIN PRINCESS THOMPSON
July 30th, 2009 at 2:52 pm
To elaborate more on Dustin’s sociopath tendencies,
Especially the “GuestwhatKaren” Post
“Pulling on People’s heart strings”
Funny you would use such terms Dustin.
Everyone interested in this situation should read a book called The Sociopath Next Door.
Almost every single post from Dustin and his regurgitated vomit that his Ped Clan spews has sociopath terminology in it right out of the Sociopath Child Molester himself!
Back to “pulling people’s heart strings,” Sociopaths don’t use their conscience but are well aware of the fact that the majority of other people do to at least to a certain degree. Using that knowledge and given sociopaths don’t have a soul they manipulate your soul and your conscience by “pulling on people’s heart strings.”
Strange that you would use such perfect terminology of what you do Dustin. It’s like you wrote a how to book on being a sociopath.
You wish Connie would come crawling to you because of the pain you are causing her by taking her child while she knows you are molesting her. Such a heartless, evil, souless, calloused, cold, calculated way to pull on someone’s heart strings isn’t it Dustin? A great way (at least in your pathetic mind) to CONTROL someone.
You can’t stand that Connie believes in Yahweh (GOD) and believes that he will deal with you and she doesn’t have to succumb to your sick heartless, souless, calloused, cold, evil, calculated GAME of pulling on her heart strings.
It’s a hard concept for you to grasp that Connie believes God is in control and NOT YOU.
Ever heard of a bible verse that says those who lose their life for him (Yahweh) find their life and those who find life in this life lose their life.
It’s speaking of eternal life. People such as the lady you speak of above in your post titled GuessWhatKaren, and multiple other women fighting against evil and standing for the truth, as well as Connie, have followed a Way which is Right and True regardless of persecution from ignorant evil morons like yourself and others. Yahweh (god) will bless those who do his Way which is Right and True, they have found life, you have lost yours. But you are too ignorant to understand such things, because you listen to the evil voices in your head telling you to molest your daughter and lie about it.
Does it seem strange to you that this is happening to people that stand up for the truth all over the country?
It’s happening for a reason. Your little peanut sized brain can’t see past your nose and most certainly you don’t read your bible.
Hey remember how everything Connie has said in court has eventually had the Truth revealed to you right in your face?
Kind of like John and Tanya Bartsch that were forwarded for prosecution for felonies. Yeah princess, you and your daddy are next.
Hate to break the news to you on this one but you and your daddy are going to be the special two that Yahweh makes an example of in front of the entire nation.
Everyone is going to know there is a God and everyone is going to know his name is Yahweh and everyone is going to know THE TRUTH his Way and the Right Way to live. On top of that everyone is going to know you are a child molester and both you and your daddy are baby and women beaters.
And Dustin remember how Connie prayed for Yahweh to make you so sick you couldn’t speak to show her you cheated… it happened. Remember when Connie prayed to get far away from your abuse before the doors opened for her to flee to Alaska… it happened. And now she and plenty of other God and Yahweh believers are all coincidently praying for lightning to hit you in front of the nation as a witness to the Truth. It might just happen too, everything else has.
You basically have two options change and repent or get made an example of in front of the nation.
Signed,
Another person praying for that lightning!!
Save Aali-YAH
July 30th, 2009 at 3:45 pm
Mommy made me say those things because daddy said so
BECAUSE DADDY SAID SO BECAUSE DADDY SAID SO BECAUSE DADDY SAID SO BECAUSE DADDY SAID SO BECAUSE DADDY SAID SO BECAUSE DADDY SAID SO BECVAUSE DADDY SAID SO BECAUSE DADDY SAID SO
BECAUSE DADDY SAID SO BECAUSE DADDY SAID SO BECAUSE DADDY SAID SO BECAUSE DADDY SAID SO BECAUSE DADDY SAID SO BECAUSE DADDY SAID SO BECVAUSE DADDY SAID SO BECAUSE DADDY SAID SO
BECAUSE DADDY SAID SO BECAUSE DADDY SAID SO BECAUSE DADDY SAID SO BECAUSE DADDY SAID SO BECAUSE DADDY SAID SO BECAUSE DADDY SAID SO BECVAUSE DADDY SAID SO BECAUSE DADDY SAID SO
July 31st, 2009 at 8:17 am
You go on believing whatever you want, KarenCCCC, and leave Sherry Orbach alone. She doesn’t want your “helpâ€, she doesn’t want her mother, and she doesn’t want people to spread these allegations any more.
When the heck did I say I was not going to leave her alone? And when did I say I was going to help her? You are one strange person.
July 31st, 2009 at 10:10 am
No Karen dear, Aaliyah ONLY TOLD the child abuse specialists this: “MOMMY MADE ME SAY THOSE THINGS”. Nothing more and you know it.
MOMMY MADE ME SAY THOSE THINGS (IN THE VIDEO)
MOMMY MADE ME SAY THOSE THINGS (IN THE VIDEO)
MOMMY MADE ME SAY THOSE THINGS (IN THE VIDEO)
MOMMY MADE ME SAY THOSE THINGS (IN THE VIDEO)
MOMMY MADE ME SAY THOSE THINGS (IN THE VIDEO)
MOMMY MADE ME SAY THOSE THINGS (IN THE VIDEO)
MOMMY MADE ME SAY THOSE THINGS (IN THE VIDEO)
MOMMY MADE ME SAY THOSE THINGS (IN THE VIDEO)
MOMMY MADE ME SAY THOSE THINGS (IN THE VIDEO)
MOMMY MADE ME SAY THOSE THINGS (IN THE VIDEO)
MOMMY MADE ME SAY THOSE THINGS (IN THE VIDEO)
MOMMY MADE ME SAY THOSE THINGS (IN THE VIDEO)
July 31st, 2009 at 10:15 am
Princess dustin poster……… Just shows how desperate you really are to make up all those things about Dustin. When will it end Connie? When will the BS end? All these lies about Dustin posted on here just shows how low you all feel you need to go to try and get your way.
DEAL WITH IT. Aaliyah will never come back to Connie, Dustin has her and the courts – NOT you or anyone else – the COURTS said the FATHER IS THE BEST PERSON FOR THE CHILD… in the best interests of Aaliyah is to be with her daddy.
So continue all your lies, feel as free as you wish to slander and libel, Dustin holds all the cards doesn’t he?!! So I can see your desperate need to do stuff like this online. Connie, the whole world sees what you’ve done and realizes the COURTS got it right with Aaliyah by removing ALL YOUR RIGHTS to your child. ALL YOUR RIGHTS.
COURTS I applaud your decision! You made the right choice. Bedwells will continue their lies because its all they have. THOMPSONS have the truth AND THE PROOF on their side. Thank GOD!
July 31st, 2009 at 12:57 pm
There hasn’t been a trial yet.
July 31st, 2009 at 12:58 pm
No Karen dear, Aaliyah ONLY TOLD the child abuse specialists this: “MOMMY MADE ME SAY THOSE THINGSâ€. Nothing more and you know it.
Mommy made me say those things, because daddy said so. I don’t love mommy, because daddy said so. I don’t love Darrel, because daddy said so.
Patty, Dear.
July 31st, 2009 at 2:31 pm
All it will take is one appointment with the pediatrician to see that her hymen is torn because you are raping and molesting your own daughter creep. What’s your proof Thompson’s- you have zero proof. You have an idiot judge that gave you custody, because he wouldn’t give Connie a trial to present the evidence. Great Proof.
Keep claiming “Oh the courts have it right.” The entire system and your entire family will be shown exactly what you all are in the end of this.
Once again let’s explain how ignorant you are…
Maybe you should start reading your bible…
All throughout history Yahweh has a certain way of working.
You might want to read a section in the bible in Exodus where it speaks of Moses and Pharoh and learn yourself a little lesson. Yahweh gives Pharoh multiple oppertunities to release his Hebrew Jewish people to Moses and slowly but surely plagues Pharoh 10 seperate times. Pharoh was then killed because he wouldn’t do what was right on 10 seperate occassions when given the oppertunity. Yahweh patiently gave him 10 chances to change and do as Yahweh had Moses ask of him. He wouldn’t, Yahweh then crushed him in the sea by a miracle in front of everyone’s eyes to witness who is God: Yahweh. If you carefully read it Yahweh hardened Pharoh’s heart each time himself just to fulfil his purpose, his miracle in front of everyone to make them believe in him and to test his people’s faith.
Dustin might want to go read that story. You know the truth though you deny it, harden your heart and become more bold each time the Truth is put in your face. Connie knows the Truth and has repeated the Truth time and time again.
Just imagine to yourself how many people truly are aware of this situation. Youtube says what near 44,000. There were 4,000 just on Connie’s myspace in one week, there were 10,000 on cafemoms, probably thousands through child advocates, radio shows, word of mouth statistics show that 1 person will relay a story at minimal 3 times, and who knows how many people recieved it through a forwarding email, People in Italy have put up posters in their businesses, plus all of the other websites on the net, plus all of the people Connie has personally sat down with putting the truth in their face throughout the corrupt system, etc. You can see from the petition how fast it is spreading throughout the entire world.
Yahweh is patiently giving you a chance to change and repent before he is fed up with you hurting his baby AaliYAH who is also Hebrew and Jewish. Yahweh has a purpose for EXACTLY how this entire situation is playing out. As soon as he is ready to take care of you for what you are doing to AaliYAH he will. Maybe Yahweh wants even more people to be a witness to it. Maybe as you harden your heart and lie each time he makes more people aware of what you are doing. Maybe his purpose is to show the entire nation what you are. Yahweh says he patiently sits as he sharpens his sword against those who do wrong and evil and catches them in their own craftiness. You can guarantee that the thousands of people now aware of this has a part to play in the sharpening of the sword. Can’t wait for the big bang in the end in front of the Entire Nation.
Dustin you have two paths to go down.
You can change and repent
or
You can suffer the consequences of your actions on top of all of the multiple hundreds of lies that have easily dribbled out of your mouth. They just keep piling up.
In each of the situations you love to bring to light for your defense, the evil is temporarily prevailing all for a purpose.
Step outside your tiny window of perception Thompson’s and educate yourself.
Lies are temporary and the Truth is forever.
Read your bible.
July 31st, 2009 at 3:08 pm
Nobody has access to what was said in the interview.
Nobody not Connie and not Dustin.
What we do know is Aaliyah was stating to Connie and Cara when they got her back from Dustin is “Mommy makes me say these things, daddy said so.” “I love daddy, I love daddy’s worm, daddy said so” “I dont love darrel I love daddy, daddy said so.”
Aaliyah told Connie and Cara that in the hallway by the bathroom of their apartment. Aaliyah then asked her mommy if she could draw a picture of Daddy’s worm that has one eye on her Dora doodle board.
All of this was prior to the interview. Aaliyah had been stating that all week prior to to interview. So Connie assumes that is what she repeated in the interview.
Nobody knows but backwards CPS.
Dustin knows what he brainwashed her with. Ask “The Parrot” Dustin. Hey Dustin what did you make her say again?
Oh wait, you’re a “Moster” now that wears a big scary mask!
Hey “Monster” Molester Dustin you should post the mask on the internet that you use to molest Aaliyah. Let’s see it.
Creep!!!
What are you going to be next? Hmmm…. Connie caught on to who “The Parrot” was, then caught onto what “The Monster” was after Aaliyah explained how daddy wears his big scary mask with white hair.
Tell us Parrot-Monster-Molester-Dustin why is your daughter almost 4 years old and in diapers still?
Dustin has no purpose of wanting anything off the net for Aaliyah’s sake. His only purpose is to hide what he is: a child molester. Some people in this world actually have brains and can see through his bologna. It just eats at his Narcissism to have anyone know what he is.
It looks like “Princess Dustin” predicted correctly about how Dustin would post immediately following the “Princess Dustin” post. Like “Princess Dustin” said, “like clockwork.”
POOR POOR PITY PARTY FOR PARROT
POOR POOR PITY PARTY FOR MONSTER
POOR POOR PITY PARTY FOR DUSTIN
POOR POOR PITY PARTY FOR PAPI
POOR POOR PITY PARTY FOR GRANDPA JOHN DAVID
POOR POOR PITY PARTY FOR ALL OF YOUR MULTIPLE PERSONALITIES
POOR POOR PITY PARTY FOR BOTH YOU CHAMELEON SOCIOPATHS
July 31st, 2009 at 3:19 pm
Dustin when are you going to follow through with your suicide threats to jump off the Forresthill Bridge?
Oh yeah in the post above it explains how sociopaths don’t follow through with their suicide threats.
CRAP! Had my hopes up. Had all our hopes up.
Really though, you should consider it and spare us all of your psychotic disaster of a game you have made out of robbing your child’s innocence from her.
You jump: Your Game’s over
That simple.
July 31st, 2009 at 3:25 pm
And we know you haven’t jumped yet because you need to “Win” your “Game.” Don’t worry we will say you won and we will be sure to throw you that pity party you so desperately want. We promise.
Jump Jump Jump!! Take your dad with you!
July 31st, 2009 at 3:29 pm
SaveAaliyah.com
Save Aaliyah from the Parrot, Monster, Molester, Yucky one-eyed Wormy daddy.
July 31st, 2009 at 3:49 pm
BEDWELL’S Continue the TRUTH.
Someone should start posting all of the witness letter’s for all to read.
Don’t you agree Dustin?
I mean you want to call people liars so let’s see who’s lying…
There are so many more than what’s on saveaaliyah.com
And you know Dustin, Connie can’t post you have a restraining order on her to try to isolate her from getting help and preventing her from fighting your lies on the net.
And she can talk to who ever she damn well pleases. We can post about you all day long and Connie can’t do anything about it. We all know you are a Child Molester first hand. We aren’t gong to stop until Aaliyah is safe. PRINCESS.
July 31st, 2009 at 4:20 pm
No Karen, there has not been a trial yet, BECAUSE THE CASE WAS CLOSED AS THERE WAS NO EVIDENCE supporting the allegations.
ALREADY INVESTIGATED, NO PROOF, DONE OVER! What exactly is it you people do not understand about that?
There is NO other agency investigating this case, if there were Connie would have posted ALL OVER THE PLACE saying she was appealing this to a higher court, she has NOT!
To think, and dream DT has ‘control’ over how the entire state of California, NO, the COUNTRY handles custody proceedings just goes to show how delusional you people are. You’ve got to be kidding me! The measure the courts use started before Connie and DT were even born.
Wait, next they are gonna say DT has control over the president too! Pretty soon, they will be saying DT has control over all the universe….. You people need some very serious help. It should come in the form of a white coat, a white room, locked doors and some doctors to moniter you very very closely. Those are called delusions!
The good news is the courts are very very smart to protect this child from such a delusional family. Do you all see little green men too? Do they come in space ships that disappear into the sky? Talk about a bunch of goofy wack jobs.
The more of this delusional craziness you post, the more support you provide the courts this child is right were she belongs.
July 31st, 2009 at 4:33 pm
“because daddy said so” – MORE LEADING EVIDENCE INTO CONNIE COACHING HER CHILD. That came from the mothers fabricated evidence that did NOT work and will NEVER work.
Keep trying to push evidence that was already proven as fabricated. Hoping that you might find someone as delusional as you folks. Not gonna happen!
Connie will NEVER EVER regain custody of her daughter, and she is pissing away what rights she has left. How many more chances do you think the courts will give you Connie? WAIT, they aren’t are they? You already haven’t seen your daughter in how long? 11 weeks or so now? And you know what DT will NEVER have to tell her why. She’ll hear it from the kids who snicker at her, and she will SEE HOW DELUSIONAL YOU ARE HERSELF BY SEEING THIS NONSENSE ONLINE. I just hope DT raises her strong enough to be able to handle the emotional ramifications that will come from your delusions Bedwell family.
July 31st, 2009 at 6:15 pm
Aaliyah’s mother, Connie speaking about the abuse:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iQ5AUm9Yj4w&feature=related
SAVE AALIYAH
July 31st, 2009 at 6:23 pm
Not the 1st time I’ve been accused of being Patty. Maybe we have similiar writing style uh? Guess again Karen. There will be no trial Karen, it takes a substantial change for a court to agree to a trial. With Connie disobeying the courts, the courts will never agree to any trial. She has NO REASON for a trial either.
Aaliyah told the sexual abuse specialist MOMMY MADE ME SAY THOSE THINGS. Period. I will repeat that until I’m blue in the face. The video was a fabrication created by Connie and Cara and they forced Aaliyah after 5 hours of video taping to say those things. NOTHING Aaliyah said had to do with her daddy. Aaliyah told them exactly what happened, YOU and the BEDWELLS ADDED THE LIES.
MOMMY MADE ME SAY THOSE THINGS. MOMMY MADE ME SAY THOSE THINGS!
August 2nd, 2009 at 1:15 pm
Karen, your last few posts have made no sense whatsoever. I think you’ve become unhinged by this whole mess. Now you’re posting comments to yourself; this is the internet equivalent of talking to oneself. Perhaps you should give yourself a time-out.
Meanwhile, has Ms. Bedwell filed for that Ex Parte Hearing yet? Has she visited her child? Has she done anything at all except complain about Mr. Thompson, his lawyer, and Placer County officials? I sure would like to see some sign that she still cares about the actual victim in this case—which is AALIYAH, not Ms. Bedwell!
Actions prove louder than words, and Ms. Bedwell’s actions show that she couldn’t care less if she ever sees her child again. Of course, we all know that this isn’t about Aaliyah any more, it’s about MS. BEDWELL’S RIGHTS.
August 3rd, 2009 at 4:47 am
Thompson’s don’t POST lol
July 30th, 2009 at 11:54 am
Really THOMPSON’S DON’T POST HUH???? LMFAO
ONLY DUSTIN WOULD KNOW THAT CONNIE CALLS AALIYAH, AALI
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70sixspeed
July 7th, 2009 at 9:35 pm
Icky…
…….She actually had Aali taken away from her because the judge at that time was punishing her for bringing evidence of child molestation into the courtroom.
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Connie’s boyfriend Darrel wouldn’t know Connie calls her daughter Aali? He used the name Aali above. In fact several of Connies family have used the name Aali since the story first broke.
You must be either very paranoid, or grasping at straws in th attempt to convince people DT is posting here. Which he isn’t, never has, never will. Like Sherry Orbachs father the T’s have taken the “no comment” route. Did you miss the numerous articles at BNN about “no comment”? Or have you just spoken so many lies you can no longer keep them straight?
August 3rd, 2009 at 10:58 am
There have been no messages left for DT’s lawyer from Connie’s lawyer at all Karen. Lies and fabrication and you state 26 messages, lol.
Just WHO is it Karen that feeds you their crap of lies? Probably Connie herself. Thank GOD you write them down here so Connie can remember what she told you.
Not 1 phone call to DT’s lawyer. Zip, zero, nada. WHY is Connie’s lawyer NOT working for her huh?
August 3rd, 2009 at 11:23 am
Still waiting for anyone to post there is any medical evidence or a single medical examination that even hinted at the ‘abuse’. Connie has alleged this abused caused her daughter to say her bottom and her ‘pee pee’ hurt her as far back as January of LAST year. Surely there was some sort of doctor she took her to for this complaint. So what was the diagnosis. Is it just because it does not support the claims of abuse that this information is not provided?
As far as coaching that video- Connie had her daughter for the week before that video was made. Why did she wait to capture this story on tape until the last night before this child would be back visiting her father? Did it take a week of talking about worms to produce the conversation? Or was there just a camera rolling that one night by coincidence? It has always seemed odd that the video camera was running in the first place.
Children should be taught the real names of their anatomy- this would have gone a long way towards proving claims of molestation.
And as far as Connie’s witness statements being posted- they are- on the child protection community blog. I have read them. All I see is people who believe this child has been molested, but who were led there by the mother’s fears. I see a mother who let her belief in molestation color every action or statement made by her daughter interpret everything to lead towards her own belief. I also see one that did not take her daughter to a medical doctor for examinations or proof, or if she did- she was told there was none. I for one, can’t imaging not taking a child with these complaints to the doctor’s immediately and repeatedly if need be. What is the explanation for the lack of medical records/visits/evidence?
Consider how much this mother’s fears that there was a problem led to the stress this child felt every time she went to visit her father. Consider how fast you would have your own attorney(should you be in that situation) file an ex-parte hearing for visitation. Consider how these allegations keep growing more extreme as time goes on, is it desperation that is driving them, or facts?
August 3rd, 2009 at 11:33 am
It also seems that Connie’s attorney should be contacting the guardian ad litum (the legal representative of the child) to arrange visitation. Is that who her attorney can’t reach? Or is it supposedly the father’s attorney who is being difficult?
An Ex-parte motion should have bee filed, what is the reason Connie has not had this done?
And what is the legal reason stated for removing all custody from this mother? Was she in violation of court orders or was she found to be unfit?
August 3rd, 2009 at 1:28 pm
JustMe, you are very right about the phone call fabrication lies. Allow me to expand on this….
It is fact that Connie’s lawyer has not placed 1 phone call to DT’s lawyer, not 1. DT lawyer however has agreed to immediately restart visitation for Connie, in writing. DT is patiently waiting to hear from Connie’s lawyer to resume visitation. Connie’s lawyer is doing nothing for her.
I guess the online money well must have dried up and Connie hasn’t paid her bill. That or this lawyer too has dumped her for non-compliance of court orders and Connie refuses to follow his advice too. This will be a repeated trend we will continue to see until Connie either goes to jail or gets with the program.
The courts have all the power here Connie. WHEN will you bow down and obey that power? This is after all, your child too. Do you not care about her enough to stop your crap online? You’re certainly showing the Judge you don’t give 1 piece of sh*t Connie. How is the Judge ever going to side with you?
For a woman who thinks her kid is abused, she sure has one of the worst strategies possible in order to do what’s necessary to see Aali.
This crap online isn’t working how you planned so what’s the point now? To let your nutty clan post on your behalf for fun? Aali probably misses her mommy but I think that will fade more and more each day.
I wonder when Connie will follow through with her threat BNN made on her behalf and file an ex parte if visitation was not restored immediately. I recall that threat was back in early June. It’s August 3rd now, what’s the problem? Maybe we should ask the great Simon for an answer to that. He likes to strut his stuff like he’s the press or something, lol.
The problem is with you, NOT DT’s lawyer, not Aali’s lawyer. YOU Connie have nothing to take to the courts for an ex parte because DT’s lawyer can show full compliance and willingness on their end with various attempts to restore visitation.
Karen, you can claim 1600+ people signed the petition but I for fun, signed it 4 times myself with different alias’s.
Going to count me too? If 20 of you over the past 3 months signed 1 per day, it would equal over 1600 signatures. It only takes 10 seconds to do… THAT’S not PROOF of any support otherwise a HUGE number of those 1600 people would be online dishing it out too with us. If she had that much support, we’d see a huge uproar on the internet gaining each day. In fact the opposite happened and it shows in her bank account, doesn’t it. (no need to answer, I already know)
Hows the fraud investigation going daddy Tim? The one you claim isn’t happening with the FBI looking into this online money scam? I was just updated, how about you. ;)
What other excuses and lies will come about. How all these stories of DT have morphed and changed over time, documents altered, letters fabricated.
Gee if CURRENT information got out anywhere, what an embarrasment that would be on Connie and BNN. Where’s the professionals supporting Connie’s claims? She did, after all, take her kid to countless doctors and sex abuse experts to make sure she had all the evidence needed right?
hmmmmm (chirp chirp) silence
These experts would find evidence EVEN if it was oral. BUT YET, I’m soooooooooo confused. If it was oral abuse, why does Connie repeatedly post how Aali talks of her pee pee and bum hurting? What’s the point of those words when they cannot be followed up with medical evidence? The point is the mother who lost all custody FABRICATED THIS STORY and Aali told the truth to the specialists, didn’t she!
August 3rd, 2009 at 1:45 pm
PS: Karen, there’s so little support. Your little BNN group has about 6 people posting so I’ve been told. That’s not quite 1600 is it? In fact, you all sound like you’re going in circles getting nowhere.
I like the earlier post. “Keep doing what works” Makes sense to me. DT keeps listening to the courts and following through with ALL recommendations and he has 100% custody.
Connie keeps disobeying court orders and hasn’t seen her kid since late May.
Wonder WHAT WORKS???
August 3rd, 2009 at 2:11 pm
Becky Egan Nunez
See you next tuesday!
August 3rd, 2009 at 2:21 pm
Not one time does saveaaliyah.com mention Dustin’s name. The media articles do, but NOBODY IS SMEARING DUSTIN’S NAME!
How is it a witch hunt?
Oh yeah IT’S NOT!
It’s a fight for TRUTH for an innocent baby being molested by her monster wormy daddy and beaten by both her grandfather and daddy.
How much the Thompson’s would love to make it look like so many people just have nothing to do but try to make them look bad. Get over yourselves!!
SAVE AALIYAH.
August 3rd, 2009 at 2:23 pm
DUSTIN SMEARED HIS OWN NAME BY MOLESTING HIS DAUGHTER.
August 3rd, 2009 at 4:15 pm
For the ignorant people assisting the Child Molester:
Thompson’s we know why you post: You feel you have to lie and cover for your child molesting family member.
But to those few other ignorant people posting on the Child Molester’s behalf…
You spend so much time defending a child molester that you have never met. I would suggest doing something a little more useful and productive with your time instead of blogging and spreading the child molesters lies even further.
Try doing something such as ordering a few books online about child molesters to educate yourselves on what you are actually dealing with.
Try ACTUALLY Having knowledge about child molesters before you run your flappy cakes, lying libelous lips, Your “see (C) you (U) (N)ext (T)uesday” mouth’s, and keep Your Free spew to yourselves UNTIL THEN!
If you need a little help to gain a few brain cells; There are a few excellent books on child molester’s called
The Socially Skilled Child Molester
or
Understanding Child Molesters
After you have retained some knowledge about child molesters then you might possibly be worth arguing with.
August 3rd, 2009 at 9:28 pm
The entire county is corrupt. Police, lawyers, social agencies, courts, everyone.
Allegations have been made for +2yrs and nothing has been done
The child has herself accused daddy and nobody believes
Connie is the only person that knows the truth, not doctors
These are the circumstances this case is built around. Judge for yourself.
August 4th, 2009 at 12:15 am
AKA Princess Thompson:
After you got your balls back from Amara you then predict the future or what most likely happened is you personally claimed you will “never” post on here. Yeah- and women don’t shit right?
Only the people closet to her call her Aali, hense Darrel calls her Aali, Connie calls her Aali and surprisingly Dustin calls her Aali too. And nobody else has called her Aali on any other posts but way to try to cover your ass Dustin!!
Keep splashing around in that windex princess!
The lack of intelligence and/or incapablity of telling the truth for some people on here is unbelievable.
August 4th, 2009 at 6:49 am
“SYBIL” – aka for those of you who need to post here under 20 different user names pretending to be various Connie supporters. Ya’ll look so silly, you make the Jerry Springer show look like a well produced PBS documentary.
If you present yourselves online NATIONWIDE to complete strangers with no ties to any players in this case like middle schoolers using profanity and threats, imagine what FOOLS you must look like to the courts and those professionals directly related to this case. Additionally those YOU have to live with daily in YOUR community Connie. You know the people you want to BELIEVE your story. Maybe hire you one day?
Loose Cannon.
Connie- you are the one who is going to to be laughed the hell out of Placer County…..
August 4th, 2009 at 6:53 am
Court is less than a month away…. What kind of justice will the NEW judge order for Aaliyah?
tick, tick, tick, tick, tick, tick, tick, tick…
August 4th, 2009 at 12:15 pm
Hey Ashley, Whitney or whoever you decide to be today. What Dustin has behind him the truth. He’s been cleared repeatedly. No one here has to learn about child molesters because we’re not supporting a molester. We are angry that Connie exploited her kid all over the net. We’re supporting an innocent man who’s been ripped into pieces by a revenge-filled hateful woman who lost custody of her kid.
It’s that plain and simple.
If some authorities were standing up for Connie and siding with her, it would be a different thing. That ain’t happening. Connie will never get her kid back.
August 4th, 2009 at 5:37 pm
I call the child Aali and I don’t know her. What’s your point? My God the lengths you Bedwells go to is pathetic.
August 4th, 2009 at 6:08 pm
You are a moron. Court is no longer on the 28th. The Child Molester needs more time to come up with Bovine Scatology to try to make his case because he doesn’t have one.
Cubby do you want to be in the same boat as Eddy Craig and Becky Egan Nunez?
Keep talking out your rear!
August 4th, 2009 at 10:11 pm
LOL another person told Bedwell opponents to find something more productive to do and then wrote a 10 paragraph essay about it. That one never gets old! Good job, Whitney.
Meanwhile, Aaliyah hasn’t seen her mother for almost two months. I remember when I was about four or five, my father went on a business trip to another country for two months. It seemed like an ETERNITY to me at that age, and by the time he got back, I barely remembered what he looked like.
Aaliyah is a couple of years younger than I was. I imagine that soon she won’t remember her mother at all, the way things are going. What a shame, that Ms. Bedwell hasn’t filed for that Ex Parte hearing yet. If that isn’t parental neglect, I don’t know what is.
August 5th, 2009 at 1:50 am
You know whats sad to us looking at this from the outside? People on the internet are quiet because we can see this mom is totally out of control and is making no sense. If there was any rhyme or reason to her some people might have listened. But this?
August 5th, 2009 at 6:10 am
To the person who wrote post 986:
WTF? Going after someone’s personal data, and then posting their real name and personal information on the internet is wrong. You never know when that person may have a real life stalker- one who will do searches on then name and then come after them!!!!!!!
It can cause someone you don’t even know physical harm (up to and including death!). Calling their employer?? WTF??? This is wrong on so many levels. The Bedwell’s put their own name and information out on the internet. Dustin Thompson’s name was put out there by the Auburn Journal and the Bedwell’s. But it seems you have actually cyberstalked this person’s information. Just because you can find this sort of personal information does not mean you should post it to get even.
What if you are wrong? What if you actually are endangering this person????
All because you do not agree with something posted on a blog???? This is just one more reason Connie’s supporters are losing all credibility, and showing how little they really care about anyone but themselves. You at the very least have shown how truly out of control you are, and how truly without any real evidence to discuss you are.
Very Christian, you hypocrite. I suggest you spend the time reading your own Bible.
I do not usually sink to the level of mudslingers and low-lifes, I stick to the facts of the case. You have crossed the same line as the person who went after KarenCCC’s information and attempted to use it to bully her.
WTF?????
August 5th, 2009 at 6:16 am
And I do not know who the ‘we’ is you reference in your post (986)- but you should all be ashamed!!
I don’t even care if you are right or wrong about the person you have posted all this information about. This is just all out stalking and bullying. There is no justification for this!
Read your bible- learn the commandments…DO UNTO OTHERS is a pretty big concept to have missed.
I pray there are no consequences from your idiocy, and spite.
August 5th, 2009 at 6:33 am
This is getting ridiculous now.
Anyone posting other peoples personal information is totally out of order.
This is supposed to be about Aaliyah – remember her??
http://www.youtube.com/user/wellsaidjohnsmith
Justice for Aaliyah
August 5th, 2009 at 8:01 am
Yeah. Anyone posting other people’s personal info is out of order, but it didn’t stop those on the pedo-team.
A lot of posters have been doing unto others, but don’t like it when others do back unto them.
That commandment you quoted thinkaboutit also says love thy neighbor as thyself.
Do you love Connie ? If not, shut up and stop quoting scripture that you don’t follow, you hypocrite.
August 5th, 2009 at 8:14 am
Connie doesn’t know the ins & outs of the legal process.
Her attorney isn’t doing his job and she needs to report him to the bar association and ethics committee.
A lot of parents lose in family court because of inept legal counsel.
If anybody is neglectful it’s the attorney.
You know, if Dustin really cared about his daughter he would make some kind of arrangement with Connie so that Aaliyah could see her mom. He’s do it for his child. I don’t expect it from him as he wouldn’t even comfort his crying baby during the custody exchanges.
When I was 6 and my father was dying, I spent the summer with my aunts while my mom was spending most of her time at the hospital. I was afraid of my mom when I saw her again. She was like a stranger and I wanted to stay with my aunt.
It’s sad what is being done to Aaliyah by ALL parties involved with not allowing this child to have a relationship with a mother who NEVER ABUSED her child.
It’s another reason I think Dustin is not only selfish, but guilty.
I also heard that Amara isn’t returning the numerous calls being made by Connie’s attorney.
August 5th, 2009 at 12:14 pm
To post 993:
I realize responding to you is pointless. If you read my posts, I do not attack Connie. I think resumption of visitation is important for this mother and child. I respect her right to have her own beliefs and interpretations of events.
It is also important to care about people you do not agree with, and I find your willingness to bully and coerce to be offensive. I found it equally offensive when it was done to KarenCCC. While I may not agree with KarenCCC, I was equally concerned and even worried for her. She knows this.
Heck, I will even apologize for calling you a hypocrite. You are more than capable of defining yourself through the quality and content of your posts. It was not nice of me to point the obvious out. Feel free to sink to any level you wish. Disagree with me all you want. It is your right.
The bigger point is, I am a victim of a stalker. I have had to move recently for the very reason that someone posted too much real life information about me. The whole point in using aliases is to protect one’s identity.
I believe you can make your own opinion heard, and thereby influence or inform others, allowing them to make up (or change) their own mind without resorting to name calling, and/or posting (or contacting their employers) information about the individual you disagree with.
Quite literally, you may actually endanger someone’s life, and/or livelihood and/or family. For what? Because you disagree with how they think? Or what they say?
This is a blog- it is for the exchange of ideas and opinions. It is for discussion of this situation. I agree with Marmite, how does your attack of an individual poster help this child?
August 5th, 2009 at 1:26 pm
It is truly sad to see the same thing happening to this child as has happened to her mother.
Connie did not have contact with her own mother, and now it is happening to her child. Children need both parents. This is becoming another nightmarish custody battle.
Once again, I ask- where are the medical results from what should have been doctor visits to discover the cause of the complaints this child made about her private parts hurting?
Why has there been no Ex-parte motion filed? Why has visitation not been restored? It does not require the cooperation of Amara to file the motion…they(the father and his attorney) do not even have to be present in court for this motion to be granted or heard.
August 5th, 2009 at 1:54 pm
That’s not who Patty is you circus side-show idiots. How can you do this to an innocent woman? DumbAzz.
Now Connie’s latest lawyer isn’t doing his job? There’s a shocker, she surrounds herself with losers. The choices Connie continues to make. Report him to the bar, lmao! Now there’s a conspiracy with Connie’s own lawyer right?
EVERYONE is to blame but Connie right? Every last person around Aali is to blame BUT Connie. Sure I can see that.
August 5th, 2009 at 1:58 pm
Why would you post your own information on the net and try to make it look like someone else did it?
…Isn’t that exactly what your cult did to Karen CCC?
…Post her information and then blame it on her?
HYPOCRITES.
Do unto others as you want done to you.
It’s always the sick twisted coniving people that do wrong to others and then throw a fit when it is done back to them.
If you don’t like it, don’t do it to others.
Respect is a two way street.
Let’s get back on the real issue…
SAVEAALIYAH.COM
August 5th, 2009 at 4:23 pm
MelissaC
July 11th, 2009 at 9:20 am
BEAST:
Here is just a PS for you to think about.
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Let me make this clear to your missy! We were a family at BNN for many many months and that INCluDES praising PIckles for her “effort IN WRITING” and caring for the children and developing her writing skills.
You don’t start out being really “great” at anything..nobody does..supporting her makes us hyporites..I don’t think so… What would you have done to support someone you cared about Missy? Told them they sucked at it? Way to support girl…just the kind of person I would love to have around our kind and intelligent bloggers. Your lack of compassion and concern would have made your stay at our respectable blog a VERY SHORT ONE… Someone without a conscience or morals and quick to judge people would not fit in. BUT YOU FIT IN JUST FINE HERE! You have alot of company…KNOCK YOURSELF OUT!
YOu support people YOU DON’T SLAM THEM FOR NOT BEING PERFECT!
That site was a wonderful place to be for a year until your so called “good People” anneA and Karen tore it apart. The only reason they were allowed to do that was because Jan had a personal dog in the fight. She allowed them to ruin the blog and alienate anyone who didn’t jump on the band wagon OR DARED TO ASK questions to feed her own hunger.
The blog died with baby A hoax. I have never seen ONE bit of proof that the allegations of this mother are real and I REFUSE to believe the entire Placer County officials and courts are corrupt WITHOUT PROOF.
It’s people like you MISSY that we would NOT want on our blog. DO YOU SEE ANY FIGHTING ON OUR BLOG…NEVER NEVER…THAT’S NOT WHAT WE ARE ABOUT…so many on here would just not fit in as it’s clear that many people make this case about themselves…the dysfunction is so very rampid here..IT’S HATEFUL..It’s people like you that form irrationally based opinions on people you don’t know and that includes your white knights of BNN and . So you have done us a favor by not posting on our site! Thank you very much!
We deal WITH FACTS…not “opinions”…we post PROOF not simply opinions that slam everyone and everyone that doesn’t have the same opinion…in case you haven’t noticed…until I actually see some proof of abuse…which there is NONE…then I don’t waste my time…I will let the courts do what their intended to do…what have you ever read that has ever been verified that DT has ever done a thing to his child.
Why does Connie have only “basic” visitation rights??? Whatever…the rest of the bs on this story is only what you read and NOT in the news..
So you can stay her MISSY with all the degenerates who think they know what went on and are above all in intelligence and knowledge on this case. CAUSE THEY WERE THERE RIGHT!!
They were there when DT molested his daughter RIGHT…cause other then that NONE OF YOU KNOW CONNIE OR DT OR BABY A AND YOU NEED TO STOP….ALL YOU HAVE IS HERESAY AND A VERY POOR VIDEO…NO DOCTORS REPORTS…If this child was being abused..there would be proof and it would be documented.
Why don’t all of you leave all the bs in between out of this..you have turned this into a bar fight..against eachother…one side of “believers” against those who will not crucify without proof…PROOF PROOF PROOF.
What would you do MISSY if you son was being accused of the most horrific crime in the world besides murdering a child? WOULDN’T YOU DEMAND PROOF…???
I know I would DEMAND more then a pissy video and more doctoral evidence.
So if DT is abusing his daughter..it must be ongoing …a simple doctor examination would prove yes or no…
think about it..You make yourself out to be above the rest. Yet you are judge-”mental”
YOU HAVE PLENTY TO THINK ABOUT BEFORE YOU TELL OTHERS TO …
August 5th, 2009 at 6:39 pm
It is becoming exceeding apparent that the Bedwells will use intimidation and bullying in order to put fear into others.
Why would it be necessary for them to put fear into people? Because those people must speak the truth. If Connie had the truth on her side, her ‘peeps’ would have no need to intimidate now would they?
Why the fear? Why attack Papa, Patty, Cubby, Beast, CA or any of them? What are you so afraid of Bedwells? Why the need to intimidate?
You know what this does? Gives more credence as to why Aaliyah should never be in her mothers arms again. Keep it up because all you’re doing is making Dustins case stronger and stronger everyday my friends.
August 5th, 2009 at 7:10 pm
To the site administrator, thank you for removing the post containing the personal information about a person not involved in this story.(missing now is post 986)
It does of course also alter my comments above as I referred to the posts by number. So my comments referencing post 993, are now intended for post 992.
Turns out that the person whose personal information was posted was an innocent bystander- and was not actually the intended target of the bullying or attack. Imagine that!
This is why going after the content of the comments and not the poster of the comments is so important. I truly hope this woman’s employer was not actually contacted, and her job jeopardized by someone intent on silencing another person posting here.
August 5th, 2009 at 7:59 pm
MelissaC
July 7th, 2009 at 4:31 am
Hey there CeeA
What is your problem? Who the hell do I think I am?
Who the hell do you think you are? The net is riddled with your trash about Connie and her daughter compliments of none other then CeeA.
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oh boy…you just don’t stop do you…HEY…TWIT…show me ONE POST DIRT BAG ….(riddled!) Your such a lying twisted fuktard.
I have not said one bad thing about connie bedwell..
I just have not decided yet what is truth because all that is out there is TRASH….
POST YOUR BACK UP TO YOUR BIG MOUTH…WHY DO YOU FEEL YOU HAVE TO LIE?
Funny how you are not the only one that spreads lies and can’t back it up!
DO YOU KNOW WHAT RIDDLED MEANS? I have maybe posted a handful of posts and mostly responses to you and your little “mental patiet” friends attacks.
ALL YOU DO IS ATTACK AND LIE…you accuse me of doing something…BACK IT UP DIRT BAG!!
August 5th, 2009 at 8:56 pm
Bad choices = Bad consequences.
Now the story is that Mom is being victimized by yet another inept attorney, how many does this make? See a trend here? Is she not responsible for anything that has ever happened to her in her whole life?
I do believe that is the problem in a nutshell…it is always someone else’s fault…heaven forbid one take responsiblity for one’s own actions!
Rules could have been followed…they weren’t. Visitation would have been ongoing and never have been stopped if they had been followed.
Instead it is more important to spend time fabricating stories and lies…to think of all the time wasted when you could have been spending it with your daughter instead.
For your child’s sake, please choose a different path!
August 5th, 2009 at 10:43 pm
Connie no one wants to listen to you on the internet how come you can’t see that? Your lawyer won’t return your calls, authorities have stopped listening, child specialists have figured out your kid was coached, no one is listening. You’re a joke, a flake and belong on the Jerry Springer show. Go away you useless excuse for a mother.
August 6th, 2009 at 9:57 am
How is it her fault if her attorney hasn’t filed necessary paperwork ? Good attorneys do what they’re supposed to do for their clients.
Regardless of whether they agree with them or not.
August 6th, 2009 at 12:00 pm
Connie picked her attorney. Everyone is to blame but Connie
How many excuses do you have Connie for why no one will help you? boo hoo hoo hoo
You get what you deserve. No one else but Connie is to blame for the place she finds herself in. Reap what you sow.
The basic nature of God’s Justice:
GALATIANS 6: 7-9 (KJV)
7: Be not deceived; God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap.
God is the decider Connie, he’s deciding you are not a fit worthy mother Connie. He shall NOT BE MOCKED Connie! All your lies have come full circle Connie.
August 6th, 2009 at 12:02 pm
1. Everything that you do has repercussions. It comes back to you one way or another.
2. You cannot escape the consequences of your actions. What you do comes back to you.
3. You will see the long-term effects of your actions.
4. KARMA – The total effect of a person’s actions and conduct during the successive phases of the person’s existence, regarded as determining the person’s destiny, especially, in his next incarnation.
5. What goes around comes around.
6. Your actions all have consequences. Don’t ever be fooled into thinking that your actions don’t have consequences. Don’t think you can get away with bad choices even if you don’t seem to get caught. Remember verse seven tells us that God cannot be mocked. He sees it all. You reap what you sow.
Karma’s a btch ain’t it? Can’t you understand the nature of your consequences yet?
August 6th, 2009 at 8:01 pm
and this attorney just might be doing what IS best for his unstable client!~
August 6th, 2009 at 8:04 pm
LMAO – I totally agree…firm believer in what goes around comes around…
August 6th, 2009 at 8:08 pm
Oh yeah, she should have known that he wasn’t going to do his job.
Karma ?
What’s happening now is a victim being abused by her abuser with the help of people who act like they’re in the know but can’t possibly since they live in canada, New Jersey, Chicago, Texas, and other far away places.
Karma has yet to bite the guilty pervs in this case.
I’ll be LMAO when it does.
August 6th, 2009 at 11:56 pm
What I have trouble understanding is why there is no medical evidence to back up the many claims made by this mother. Or why she(or her family and friends) can not or will not give the legal reason she lost her custody and was reduced to only supervised visitation.
I have looked into supervised visitation, and it is not something the court doe casually or without some sort of cause (usually it is done to ensure the child’s mental or physical health). So what was the reason??
I also do not understand why this mother is not doing everything in her power, everything the court asks, everything and anything – in order to regain her visitation with her child. Why has no Ex-Parte motion been presented to the court? Is there no visitation center that will allow her to use their facilities? If it were me, I would be spending every waking hour jumping through whatever legal hoops I had to in order to regain visitation.
What is she doing? Where is the medical evidence to prove her case? Why did this mother lose custody? What is the real truth?
August 7th, 2009 at 1:12 am
Consider the Evidence.
Connie makes various allegations against Dustin – none of them starts with child molestation. Child molestation accusation comes wayyyyyyyyyyyyyy after her first few accusations, after she beats the crap out of any woman who’s seen with Dustin. After she threatens the lives of Dustin and Aaliyah. THATS who Connie is folks!
Authorities don’t believe her. (that didn’t work, darn)
SO Connie makes another allegation and another and another alllllll eventually leading to the worst of all allegations – child molestation. (ah HA! that’s gotta work, says Connies feeble brain).
But no………
Court documentation shows us this! 11 allegations = 11 thorough investigations.
18 police involved
12 CPS various staff
5 different counselors
2 child specialists
5 different doctors
4 judges
6 lawyers (4 of them being Connies because she refused their helpful legal advice and fired them)
= one brain dead woman who wants revenge not safety or concern for her child.
Several individuals out of the county brought in to assist with this complex case in order to determine what is going on with Aaliyah.
Lets evaluate Connie’s calculated methodical plan to destroy Dustin. OH NO NOT for any real abuse but for revenge! Mighty revenge she must seek.
She lost custody so she sets out seeking revenge to get her way.
Plan backfires. Connie scrambles.
Connie continues to make up bigger and better stories about Dustin so people believe her…….. OHHHHHH THEY MUST believe her. Lets take it to the internet, THEY will believe, OH THEY MUST believe!
But no one does :( The money stops coming in so her family turns to bullying tactics to get their way. SOMETHING MUST WORK, ANYTHING. They’re desperate. OHHHHH SO Desperate.
Folks, you’ve read a true story of a woman who will do anything to destroy a man by exploiting her kid.
Is it any wonder to anyone WHY the mother has only supervised visitation with her kid?
AAAAHHHHH YES of course the answer. EVERYONE BUT EVERYONE is to blame but Connie including her multiple lawyers. EVEN Connie’s lawyers are to blame, YES indeed! But no, never Connie, no indeed. :(
Now I await the accusations to come. NO I’m not Dustin. NO I’m not Patty. NO I’m not anyone at Beasts’ site. Feel free to throw your thoughts around, I do not care. You all support a pathelogical psychotic liar who will end up in jail just like her father a sick religious zealot who methodically kept Connie away from her own mother EXACTLY LIKE Connie tried to do to her kid too.
Pattern emerging? hmmmmmmmmmm
August 7th, 2009 at 1:17 am
If you can’t do the math Bedwells, it equals more than 52 people involved.
THAT amount of people would never protect a child molester.
Could it be everyone that Connie is THE ONE TO BLAME?
tick tick tick tick tick tick time running out Connie whats your next move?
August 7th, 2009 at 9:12 am
Does this woman still have an attorney? Why has visitation not been resumed? I don’t buy the “his attorney won’t return phone calls” story. Why doesn’t her attorney just go directly to the other attorney’s office and serve her with an Ex-Parte hearing subpoena? Send notification of the new visitation arrangements and schedule via certified mail, and copy the courts and the attorney and the father.
Prove to the judge the mother is complying, and that there is no reason for this delay in getting visitation started back up!
This is just silly! and sad.
August 8th, 2009 at 12:51 am
Oh, dear, it looks like the Bedwells have driven away more potential supporters/donors with their antics. What a foolish turn of events! And all for nothing, since the posted personal information was for a complete stranger who has nothing to do with this case. I’d laugh except I feel sorry for the innocent bystander.
And now we hear that Ms. Bedwell has hired YET ANOTHER incompetent lawyer? How many incompetent lawyers has she had so far? Four? And so near Sacramento, why, she could have her pick of brilliant and capable lawyers, but somehow she keeps betting on a losing horse. How peculiar! She must have the most terrible luck! Why, the Placer County/Sacramento area surely must be running out of incompetent lawyers by now, so the next one just HAS to be good!
Meanwhile, Ms. Bedwell still hasn’t filed for the Ex Parte hearing. As Think About It said in post 995, Ms. Bedwell doesn’t need anything from Ms. Amara or Mr. Thompson in order to file the Ex Parte hearing request. The hearing will be held with or without the both of them—Ex Parte means “without the other party”, so the Thompsons presence is not required. Ms. Amara and Mr. Thompson simply don’t have the power to withhold visitation from Ms. Bedwell. There is a court order in place, and if Ms. Bedwell filed for the Ex Parte hearing, the court would personally see to it that the visitation was arranged before court was dismissed.
The Ex Parte paperwork is a fairly simple filing; a legal assistant could fill it out, a lawyer could sign it, and a filing clerk could submit it to the court in a matter of hours if they all worked together. It still shouldn’t take more than a couple of days even if everyone in the office drags their feet about it and lets it sit on desks for a while. There’s really no valid excuse for not filing this paperwork.
As a matter of fact, the judge’s offer to arrange visitation via Ex Parte hearing has set Ms. Bedwell up quite neatly; by not filing for the hearing within a few days, as ordered by the court, Ms. Bedwell demonstrated a lack of interest in seeing her child. I wouldn’t expect much sympathy at the next hearing, considering the court’s previous offer.
August 8th, 2009 at 1:14 am
How interesting that posts 663 and 680 are still there, when post 986 has been deleted due to personal information! I wonder why BTLS would leave two previous posts with personal information but delete a new one immediately? How very curious.
August 8th, 2009 at 5:46 pm
ANNE AMBROSE WROTE THE FOLLOWING @ POST 608
Something has occurred to me and I would really like an answer from those who support the father.
Many of you keep repeating that Connie is making these accusations against Dustin because she is bitter. Others say she is a scam artist out for money. Then there are those who say she is mental. So which is it?
Let me address the first reason you say she makes these claims. She is just bitter. What is it she is bitter about. SHE LEFT HIM. There is documentation, (you all have not seen I’m sure) in his OWN handwriting where he swears his love for Connie. Where he states he screwed up and will do WHATEVER she wants him to do to make up for all his “mistakesâ€. He states he KNOWS he was wrong and he is sorry. In his OWN handwriting he praises her for her kind and loving nature. He talks about how honest and pure her heart is. All he wants is for her to give him another chance. This documentation is NOT a letter to Connie. It’s something very official and as I said it is HIM admitting his wrongs NOT Connie accusing him. Again SHE was the one that wanted out. She had NOT met someone new, she just had all of the abuse she could take. She wanted him to move on and she wanted to do the same. She wanted him to acknowledge Aaliyah as his daughter and help her raise the child they both created. She NEVER wanted to exclude him from Aaliyah’s life, she wanted him out of hers. She would have been happy to co-parent with him UNTIL Aaliyah told her what he was doing. Then and ONLY then did she want to limit his access to this child. He has threatened suicide and when that failed he threatens to kill Connie and Aaliyah. He is as desperate as a man can get to have Connie with him. Forcing her is no problem to him, just so she is there. So I ask, what is she bitter about? It’s not like he left her and she is trying to get HIM back, she don’t want him.
Ok the whole money thing, lets see here is a woman who has sold ALL of her belongings to get money for an attorney. She has sold everything she didn’t have to keep to live. EVERYTHING. So obviously material goods have little meaning to her. Her child is the most important and keeping her safe is her only goal. You have her painted as a materialist money grubber who is trying to get people to send her donations. What would she do with them? Buy toys and goodies for herself? But yet she sold everything she had EVERYTHING to try and spare her child from abuse. So that reason don’t really cut it either.
Now the mental illness claim. She has been evaluated up, down and sideways and shows no sign of mental illness. She is stressed but any mother who believes her child is being sexually and physically abused who ISN’T stressed is a mother who is mentally ill.
Now that I have gone through all the reasons you say Connie has for saying Aaliyah is being abused, and none of them make common sense, what’s next?
In Dustin’s own handwriting he talks about Connie’s kind, gentle and loving nature. He talks about her honesty and goodness. He admits he did all she claimed and more BUT he is sorry. There is a number of witnesses to his abuse and threats of killing both Connie and Aaliyah. His mentality is if he can’t have her, nobody can. His abuse of Connie during her pregnancy clearly proves he had no problem hurting his unborn child. Aaliyah could have died from the physical assaults he perpetrated on Connie. He didn’t succeed in getting rid of Aaliyah before she was born. He can’t stand the thought of Connie loving anyone else, not even this innocent child. If you were EVER the victim of domestic violence, of a man who wanted to contol and own you. Abusive men are sick and will do ANYTHING to punish the woman who walks out. They know what hurts and scares you the most. The anger they feel for the victim extends to the person they THINK got between them and the woman they abuse. Women and children die everyday at the hands of a man like this. Connie found her strength and got away, she has ONE weakness, Aaliyah. This innocent child is Dustin’s way to hurt Connie, he is destroying both of them. You all believe he loves Aaliyah, but he don’t. If you watch the exchange video’s you can see how cold and unfeeling he is. It would break my heart to see my child in the state Aaliyah is in, NOT HIM. He callously ignores her plea’s and tears. Not something a person who loves a child can do. If the judge said they had to share the child so cut her in half. Dustin would have the knife, Connie would walk away. Now which parent really loves this baby girl?
An average of 3 out of 5 girls are sexually abused before they reach 18. Those statistics are old and I don’t have the latest results from that research. The last numbers I had also showed 1 in 5 boys also had the same fate. The numbers have not gone down but have surpassed those reports. With all the children who are sexually abused why are so FEW men in prison for it? Why do so many get accused and walk away from the charges? The reason is because pedophiles are the most manipulative crimminals in the world. They are calculating and cunning. They know who to charm and how to do it. They confuse their young victims and they get off free and clear. They ALWAYS come up with a hundred reasons why their accusers are accusing them. It is easy to convince people they have not done what they are being accused of. None of us really want to believe this stuff happens. When you don’t WANT to know the truth, the truth aludes you. For all these reasons, child molesters are free to keep hurting kids. And all the good and decent people sit around trying to figure out how these things KEEP happening.
They say its better to let ten guilty men go free then to wrongfully convict one innocent man. I don’t agree with us for crimes against children. Thinking like this is why are children are being raped and murdered. Until good and decent people are willing to see the ugly of these crimes, our children will continue to pay the price. We have to find the way to level the field. As it is now, a sweet innocent child is expected to do battle with a grown man who is skillful in deceit and crimminal behavior. It is equivalent to putting a newborn baby in the water with a crocodile. I will fight for the baby, you all keep helping the croc. But PLEASE don’t fight under the child advocates banner, it don’t compute.
August 9th, 2009 at 5:19 am
009 commenter…
The Perv? Where’s the evidence?
Then read 011 post…BALANCE THEM OUT!
WHAT DO YOU SEE
August 9th, 2009 at 4:51 pm
Daddy’s Worm says it all. There is no need to even argue with people like you that can’t tell fantasy from reality.
If 10,000 people do a wrong thing it still makes it a wrong thing. It happens to be that there are a lot of wrong people in this situation due to lack of an education and experience.
You want to name off 52 supposed people that think they haven’t put a child with a child molester. There are over 1700 people on the petition alone that think Dustin is a child molester because he is one.
August 9th, 2009 at 5:35 pm
And yes God does see all things even though Placer County is incapable of seeing what’s in front of their faces.
And at some point in time God will reveal the truth and many of you will be gnawing on your own tongues. You all will be judged with Dustin Thompson’s sin on your head for supporting a disgraceful excuse of a man that is secretly molesting and forcing his penis in his daughter’s mouth behind closed doors. Let judgement fall on all of your heads accordingly. Amen.
August 10th, 2009 at 9:21 am
There are over 1700 people on the petition alone that think Dustin is a child molester because he is one.
Think again. 1700 people who DID NO RESEARCH into the validity of this fabricated story. 1700 people who did NO MORE than spend a few seconds of their time to add their name to a petition, which means absolutely NOTHING, but wouldn’t bother to spend any more time than a few seconds of their time if in fact this child was being abused. Which RESEARCH AND A THOROUGH investigation has prove FALSE.
Connie, Bedwell family, you KNOW these allegations are lies! Lies which make NO SENSE, because you can’t explain the lack of medical proof this child was being abused. JUDGEMENT will be on YOU! for doing this to an innocent man and exploiting an innocent child. You all even suck at lying! See, God DID EXPOSE THE TRUTH! Not only the truth that this child is NOT being abused, but the TRUTH ABOUT WHAT THIS BEDWELL FAMILY IS ALL ABOUT! Nothing but liars, nothing but selfish foolish people who CAN NOT for anything realize this child deserves both parents, and to the point the BEDWELLS ARE NO LONGER able to participate in this childs life. GOD has control over that, not your internet scams and lies to alienate this child from her father. Instead YOU HAVE ALIENATED YOURSELVES from this child based on YOUR ABUSE and EXPLOITATION of this child. God IS protecting Aaliyah FROM YOU! Get yourselves right with GOD and for this child so you MIGHT be able to actively be a positive part of her life. Otherwise, she’ll become a distant memory and she’ll forget you – as she is so young, she’ll have few if ANY memories of the Bedwells.
August 10th, 2009 at 10:03 am
gnawing on tongues
sins of another on our heads? yOUR WHACKED!
Wow….how is it that you can say I have “sinned” by not believing in something? How does that make me a sinner..not that i care what you think as you obviously are more judgemental then you claim I am…YOU WILL BE JUDGED ALSO MY FRIEND.
fORCING his penis in his childs mouth…OH YOU WERE THERE..
OH YOU SAW THAT RIGHT TO BE ABLE TO JUDGE AND CRITISIZE OTHERS WHO THINK CONNIE IS A FAKE! IT’S OK FOR YOU RIGHT..CAUSE YOU SAW PICS AND THE DOCTORS HAVE BACKED UP ABUSE…RIGHT…SUPPORTING DOCS OF THE ALLEGATIONS..
YOUR CERTIFIABLE!
August 10th, 2009 at 10:57 am
Beleive it people wrote:
But PLEASE don’t fight under the child advocates banner, it don’t compute.
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And nor should you who support and promote the mothers lies! It is a complete mockery of those who really do advocate for children. Assisting this mother bear false witness against this child demonstrates what LITTLE you know about advocacy for children. Don’t EVER use that title with supporting a mother whose only interest and reasons for creating this fabricated story are to alienate a child from a fit parent who by all rights deserves equal access to his child.
You should ALL be ashamed of yourselves for promoting this FALSE FABRICATED SHAM OF A STORY.
August 10th, 2009 at 11:02 am
and yes Connie IS bearing false witness against both her CHILD and this father. What Connie has put her child through emotionally by forcing her child to demonstrate actions of and saying things a child Aaliyahs age should never know, is SICK and just goes to show how little Connie cares about her daughter, that she would go through such lengths to USE her child to harm her daughters father.
And people wonder why this mother has lost custody and access to her child without being closely supervised and monitered to not cause further harm to her child. That computes!
August 10th, 2009 at 11:04 am
It’s a wonder Connie hasn’t been charged with sexually exploiting her child with this trash she’s blasted all over the internet. Perhaps those charges are coming soon.
tick, tick, tick, tick, tick, tick,
August 10th, 2009 at 1:03 pm
Icky it is interesting that BTLS management removed the innocent person’s name but left Karen’s up. Could that be linked to her own email address or IP? I wonder what Bubba knows behind the scenes.
Plotting step by step to attain revenge against Dustin hasn’t worked for Connie all the way through.
We need to remember the evidence has shown otherwise. Aali is not being abused and experts CONTINUE to see her and continue to conclude currently she is safe in her environment. YES Aali still sees experts TODAY/CURRENT!
Connie tried a lot of lies before child molestation. She tried very hard.
There are police reports on file WITH A FIRE DEPT CREW who were witnesses that CONNIE beat the snot out of a woman Dustin was in love with. CONNIE did this in front of a group of people, ALL credible people. PEOPLE who added their own witness statements to the police file.
THAT does not sound like CONNIE was over Dustin, does it? CONNIE IS THE ONE who could not handle losing Dustin. She was the one who kept coming back.
Isn’t it interesting that these stories come out about Dustin when IN FACT they are really about Connie and what SHE’S done in the past? Connie WHY DID YOU BEAT UP THAT WOMAN? WHAT DID SHE DO TO YOU?
OH YAH I FORGOT, she TOOK Dustin from you that’s right! Connie GO FAR FAR AWAY NO ONE IMPORTANT BELIEVES YOU and this sick stuff on the net, NO ONE IMPORTANT WILL EVER BELIEVE YOU.
WHERE IS NANCY GRACE? WHERE IS OPRAH? WHY AREN’T THE IMPORTANT PEOPLE LISTENING? THEY’VE DONE THEIR OWN DIGGING AND FOUND THE TRUTH!
August 10th, 2009 at 1:05 pm
The smart people on the internet keep asking themselves, BUT WHY does the mother have NO ACCESS to her child? WHY did she lose ALLLLLLLL CUSTODY? WHY does she have no rights?
NO it has nothing to do with the fathers’ lawyer being married to a judge. How ridiculous. Placer County brought in Judge Smith WHO DOES NOT KNOW A SOUL in Placer.
Connie’s team was cheering early on for this change of events. That is until Judge Smith TOO sided with the father in the case.
Dustin has the evidence and proof on his side. Dustin has the child in his care. There is NO CONSPIRACY, THERE IS NO ‘GOOD OLE BOYS’ (JUDGE DOESN’T KNOW THESE PEOPLE), THERE IS NO EVIDENCE AND AALI says MOMMY made me say those things.
The video is a joke, made by a mother proven she coached her child. All it shows is Aali is a very very smart little girl who can play along with mommy’s games of a worm. That is Connie’s only evidence, there is nothing more. The internet has moved onto REAL stories of abuse because they can see the video is a joke made for revenge, not evidence of ANYTHING!
Connie’s lies and calculated plot has been exposed step by step, piece by piece.
August 10th, 2009 at 5:01 pm
Hello
I don’t see the video as any evidence when I read the police found evidence the mom coached Aaliyah. If the mom has more evidence to show abuse I may listen to her or if she has a video made by the childs counselor I may listen.
Until then the mom looks very suspicious imo.
August 10th, 2009 at 6:35 pm
What are you Dustin supporters going to say when the video of “Daddy’s Worm” is proven by a World Renowned Audio and Video Forensics Specialists that the 27 minute “Daddy’s Worm Video†is not coached (NO whispering in the background), unedited, uncut and absolutely authentic, being proof Aaliyah was un-coached, therefore telling the TRUTH about what her daddy’s doing to her!
Aaliyah and Connie ARE NOT LYING! The proof is on it’s way!
August 10th, 2009 at 8:16 pm
CONNIE some reading before bed!
The basic nature of God’s Justice
GALATIANS 6: 7-9 (KJV)
7: Be not deceived; God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap.
God is the decider Connie, he’s deciding you are not a fit worthy mother Connie. He shall NOT BE MOCKED Connie! All your lies have come full circle Connie.
Connie you are living the consequences of your actions.
Connie you made your own child suffer in HER FUTURE because of your actions TODAY. Don’t you think God can see the future Connie?
He see’s Aaliyah reading the internet and all the things mommy said and did to her and her father. He see’s Aaliyah heart-broken and feeling betrayed CONNIE. YOU DID THIS TO YOUR CHILD WITH ALL YOUR LIES CONNIE. ONLY YOU ARE TO BLAME AND THE RIGHT PERSON IS BEING KEPT FROM THEIR CHILD!
August 10th, 2009 at 9:42 pm
Dear Consider the evidence, you said
“court documentation shows us this! 11 allegations = 11 thorough investigation
I’ll consider the evidence when I see it. Please post links to these thorough investigations.
Don’t forget the names of the investigors, their qualifications, a list of everyone contacted and their statements.
Based on the number of children who are dead or abused as a direct result of family court decisions, I’d like to see the evidence that lead to Aali’s dad having sole physical custody for myself.
Two officials responsible for the welfare of Dominic James — his court-appointed guardian and his juvenile officer — didn’t want the 2-year-old returned to the foster home in Willard where prosecutors say he was later fatally injured, a News-Leader investigation shows.
August 10th, 2009 at 10:03 pm
Oops, hit enter before I was done.
Poor Dominic was a victim of the system.
So was Marcus Feisel.. He was placed in a foster home chosen by ‘experts’ and investigated by CPS. Family court decided what was in his best interests, now he’s DEAD.
Last week, Liz and David Carroll Jr. were accused of pinning the small boy’s arms behind his back, wrapping him in a blanket and encasing his slight form in tape. They wrapped him like a mummy in a small 5-by-7-foot closet with a fan and took off for a family reunion in Kentucky, police say. The temperature was in the high 80s and low 90s.
He was dead when they returned.
There are hundreds, if not thousands of cases where Family Court and the experts have made decisions that cost children their lives.
Without seeing those reports how do I know that they’re not making the same poor choices for Aaliyah?
Did you not hear her ? Daddy’s worm hurts her mouth,Daddy’s worm is yucky, Daddy’s worm makes her cough, followed by a gagging noise that any woman whose performed fellatio would recognize.
August 10th, 2009 at 10:26 pm
Killed by a highly RESPECTED former CPS worker.
Is everyone comfortable leaving Aali’s fate in the hands of the same system that ensured that this beautiful 5 year old wouldn’t live to celebrate her 6th b-day ?
Look at her picture. She WAS beautiful.
Now she IS DEAD.
http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/pages/frontline/shows/fostercare/marr/
On Jan. 31, 2001, 5-year-old Logan Marr was found dead in the basement of her foster mother’s home in Chelsea, Maine. The foster mother, Sally Schofield, a highly respected former caseworker for Maine’s Department of Human Services (DHS), would later be tried and convicted of manslaughter after police determined that Logan had died from asphyxiation after being bound with duct tape and strapped into a high chair in the basement.
Her mother’s life was dysfunctional but she wasn’t even accused of abusing her child.
See what these cases have in common — Family court, CPS, experts and DEAD CHILDREN.
Go ahead and trust the professionals without knowing who they are or reading their reports.
I’m not that dumb.
August 11th, 2009 at 12:07 am
Karen girl you can keep posting your 1/2 truths and misconceptions. The baloney of educating the public about child molesters makes no sense because there is no child molester around Aali.
Connie will never get her kid back because Connie will never get with the program and obey court orders. End of story.
August 11th, 2009 at 8:32 am
Guess what
Case law has established that custody and visitation can not be used as punishment in family court.
If you can find any law that cites losing all rights to your child as as a consequence of disobeying a court order, please post it.But exactly how is she disobeying court orders ? Do you really think Connie can stop me from posting on the internet or make me erase my copy of the video from my hard drive ?
This isn’t about Connie or Dustin. It’s about Aaliyah.And Aaliyah should be able to see her mom.
August 11th, 2009 at 10:22 am
Chicana I am very comfortable where Aali is. Her case has been investigated repeatedly. She is safe where she resides. I do not know about the cases you post but it has nothing to do with Aali, they are not the same circumstances either.
Many people were and are still involved in Aali’s life to ensure she is safe. She is not being abused and whatever the child says on the video, the mother coached her. There is no evidence of abuse, these arguments are getting old.
August 11th, 2009 at 10:24 am
Connie go read about yourself. When you take Aali’s webpage off the internet, I’ll close mine about you. Until then….
thetruthaboutconnie.blogspot.com/
August 11th, 2009 at 10:29 am
#1028 The video is not evidence and all authorities involved have concluded LONG AGO this case is closed. You will not be able to reopen the case with anything you THINK you’re going to bring from anyone, world renowed or not. LMAO You’re such a joke and your threats are weak and feeble. Shooo shooo go away little fly.
August 11th, 2009 at 10:51 am
Chicana you seem to be blinded by your own CPS issues in your life. It does not matter how much evidence or proof I show you, you will refuse to ever believe it because of the wrongs done to you.
There are women who lie in cases like this and you’ve attached yourself to one of them. You fight this issue because ‘it happened to you too’. No wonder you believe her. Most of Connie’s followers had previous bad experiences with CPS by their own words.
The police & experts decided Aali is safe. The judges decided that too and took away Connies custodial rights because of concerns about her behavior towards Aali. Connie cannot UNDO that until she starts to make different choices. Aali was never abused and you’re following a liar.
August 11th, 2009 at 11:11 am
I just got this in an email. thetruthaboutconnie.blogspot.com
Consider the Evidence.
Aaliyah’s case has been looked into and investigated about 10x’s more than the average abuse claim of any child in California. Connie will not stop digging in her heals. She’s let this lie morph into something bigger and it’s out of control. Aaliyah is doing just fine.
Sometimes people have a need to keep a lie going. It gives them a false sense of control when nothing in their life is in control.
There are so many excuses why things keep happening to Connie. Its always someone else’s fault or doing. She cannot see how her own behavior put her where she is.
What she feared most came true, it’s called a self-fulfilling prophecy. She feared she would lose custody to Dustin because he’s the better parent and she created that reality. No one did anything TO Connie. SHE accomplished this by repeatedly refusing to do ANYTHING the courts requested of her. Lessons in life are very tough some times.
It’s good the online masses of people stopped listening to this woman. There is no momentum to help her since everyone knows the truth about Connie.
http://thetruthaboutconnie.blogspot.com/
August 11th, 2009 at 12:53 pm
God’s justice usually isn’t swift.
I keep hearing “what goes around comes around”, well it hasn’t come full circle yet.
But it will.
And when that happens Dustin and those who supported his abuse will reap what they sowed.
It’s sad that Aaliyah has to suffer til that happens.
August 11th, 2009 at 2:09 pm
Its getting old, this game of he said/she said. That’s all this was, is a nasty custody fight the mom brought to the internet. There is no molester, there is no monster. Its getting old listening to the bs going nowhere fast.
The mothers game didn’t work and her followers are p*ssed that no one wants to help the mom with her fight. Who cares! There’s no abuse going on so what’s the problem? Why is the mom still trying so hard? It’s getting old and people are very sick of this BS story.
August 11th, 2009 at 3:37 pm
Oh, for pity’s sake, leave God out of this. Anyone can twist a Bible quote until it seems to support their side. Unless God himself comes down and personally chooses a side, nobody can say what’s in God’s mind. It’s turned into Sunday School for the developmentally disabled in here. Give it a rest, everyone.
August 11th, 2009 at 5:17 pm
Well why didn’t the mom file her ex-parte? It’s a very easy thing to do. I heard another excuse from Connie’s side that said Amara is friends with all the visitation centers in Sacramento.
My oh my a brand new excuse people. Connie can’t get a visitation center because Amara controls the world.
*shaking head*
Excuses is all you will have Connie. It doesn’t make any of this right what you decided to do online.
Shame shame shame
August 11th, 2009 at 10:18 pm
Well why did Connie lose custody in the first place. Its very hard for a mother to lose all of her rights even in California.
Well Why?
August 12th, 2009 at 3:42 am
Dustin’s one liner coached statement of “mommy made me say these thing – daddy said so) does not and will not stand up to a World Renowned Audio and Video Forensics Specialists that says the 27 minute of “Daddy’s Worm Video†is not coached…..PERIOD!
Connie will get Aali back!
August 12th, 2009 at 5:09 am
Icky Etardo aka. lying libelous papa
August 8th, 2009 at 1:14 am
How interesting that posts 663 and 680 are still there, when post 986 has been deleted due to personal information! I wonder why BTLS would leave two previous posts with personal information but delete a new one immediately? How very curious.
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Because Karen didn’t run to BTLS like the little lying nut job Rebecca (Becky) Egan Nunez from New Jersey did, She left the info you slime balls posted as her personal info. so the everyone can see what lying hypocrites the Thompson’s and their supporters. The same reason I guess Mr. Bedwell left up the ALTERED list of DISMISSED CHARGES you posted as a “criminal record” Edward A. Craig from Brandon, FL…
How very curious neither you or becky post under your former user names of LLPaPa and Pattycakes aka flappycakes.
Is it because I have exposed both of you as the liers that you are?
August 12th, 2009 at 5:51 am
OOOOOOHHHHHHH AND BY THE WAY, I’M NOT A BEDWELL AND I DON’T KNOW THEM EITHER!
I’m Just lookin at who’s really telling the TRUTH AND EXPOSING THE LIARS!
Now Thompson’s aren’t you just so proud to have these two proven lying slanders as part of your team. They fit right in with you Thompson’s don’t they?
BIGGEST LIE YET….”THE THOMPSON’S DON’T POST” ya right!
You Thompson supporters are about to be blown right out of the water with what’s coming up next!
And Becky EGAN Nunez, those police reports about Connie you keep talking about, I would love to see you post them.
I’m just wondering how you got them clear out there in NJ?
WHERE THERE’S SMOKE….THERE’S FIRE!
August 12th, 2009 at 9:03 am
Once again, where is the evidence from the many times Connie should have taken her child to a pediatrician to investigate the complaints this child made of pain to her private parts? Or for the mysterious rash around her mouth? What are the results of these visits? Was anything ever found that would in any way help support this mother’s claims?
And what was it the police were supposed to authorize in her visit to the hospital that her doctor is supposed to have referred her there for? Did a doctor refer this child to the hospital for an extensive sexual and physical abuse exam or did Connie just take her there and ask for an exam?
August 12th, 2009 at 9:16 am
Chicana, are you alluding to all CPS workers being incompetent? Are all CPS workers out there doing wrong for the hundreds of thousands of children across the country?
I agree there are tragedies across the country involving child abuse, all you have to do is read the headlines to see children abused and murdered by adults. It is a sad statement on this world that this goes on daily. Women and children are beaten, mentally abused and even murdered. The number one cause of death for pregnant women is death at the hands of a husband or boyfriend. This does not mean that all husbands and boyfriends are dangerous, or abusive.
There are many CPS workers who take this job to heart, and do the best they can. They see sadness and horrors we can not even imagine on a day to day basis. The cases that go horribly wrong, are not always the fault of a CPS worker.
Perhaps we need to stop cuttng funding and improve training and support for screening of foster parents and CPS workers alike.
This case has no proof that the CPS workers have failed to find evidence of abuse. So far, there is no medical proof that has been provided. There is a lot of suspicion by a mother, and I too think this child should have been placed in a foster home while this case was investigated.
I just don’t see a reason to jump to the entire Auburn CPS department is incompetent. What about the professionals at the STEP program or the MDIC center? Are they supposed to be incompetent too??
August 12th, 2009 at 9:20 am
Chicana, or is your complaint solely with the foster care system? I have to say there are major flaws and problems with the screening and followup of all foster homes. And any mistakes made are beyond serious, and can and do make headlines.
However, I also personally know people who have provided foster care who did so wonderfully. No system is perfect.
August 12th, 2009 at 10:56 am
Threats and bullying will get you nowhere poster Bedwell world renowed NOTHING. How stupid does that sound? Someone says “oh yes the child doesn’t seem to be coached in the video”.
Judge Smith “Oh, okay, if that’s what the piece of paper says, lets give the child back to the mother”.
Ridiculous pathetic. Nice try but idiotic threats don’t work.
You do not understand the court system. Dustin DOES!
Connie won’t get her kid back.
thetruthaboutconnie.blogspot.com/
August 12th, 2009 at 11:04 am
Chicana, Polygraph and a couple others who follow Connie ALL HAD PREVIOUS CPS ISSUES with their own kids.
CPS tried to destroy their family so HOW DARE THEY DO THIS TO THIS WOMAN TOO.
None of you have credibility because of your personal issues. Some of you were abused women, some of you had kids removed from your house. THAT does not make Connie’s claims any more believable just because of your past.
Connie did this to her kid. She exploited her and forced her to say things on a dark video. There is no evidence of abuse. Get over your own problems and go help someone who really needs it. All Connie will be getting is to see her kid less than 2 hours per week for eternity. Connie is a liar. Connie started this on the internet. Its up to Connie to stop the BS.
August 12th, 2009 at 11:09 am
Chicana has the same problem her follower Polygraph has. They both had CPS issues in their personal life so they think they’re fighting for some wrong done to another mother.
They have not seen everything and do not realize what Connie really is. A Pathelogical Lying Sociopath. Why won’t Connie answer any questions why she really lost custody? Why doesn’t she tell you, Poly and the sad little creature with no life Karen the whole truth about this? Why has she hidden so much from all of you?
If she told you the truth none of you would be here. Connie coached her kid so the video will never be evidence of anything. Authorities are done listening to this woman. Everyone is done listening to her.
August 12th, 2009 at 11:19 am
LOL you couldn’t be more wrong about who you think some of us are so take your notsoscary little words and blow away.
You’re so upset because some people finally started to tell the truth about Connie. You wouldn’t be so threatened if some of us weren’t RIGHT ON THE MONEY! Blow away little thing. There’s much more than 2 people fighting for real justice. To protect Aaliyah from exploitation by her mother & the crazy Bedwells.
I repeat, you wouldn’t feel so threatened if you had the truth behind you.
August 12th, 2009 at 11:33 am
Authorities proved the mother coached her kid. Judges agreed. The mother has no rights to her child so she makes up a story to put on the internet thinking it would help her get back custody. WRONG
The truth about this story is here. thetruthaboutconnie.blogspot.com/
August 12th, 2009 at 3:54 pm
So why don’t we all do a little test to see if there is a God?
All of you start praying every single day and night that God strikes the liar with lightning whether it be Dustin or Connie.
Start praying people.
We will let God choose a side.
Start praying for lightning to hit the liar so we all can see the truth as bright as day!
August 12th, 2009 at 3:56 pm
Anyone know how to post an audio clip of Dustin threatening suicide?
August 12th, 2009 at 4:00 pm
Chicana your points about CPS are 100 percent correct.
If all of you ignorant people want to do a little research goolge CPS Sacramento Bee and keep up with those reports.
8 kids dying in an 11 month period.
It really sounds like CPS knows what they’re doing huh?
Murdering children is CPS’s job.
August 12th, 2009 at 4:17 pm
To think that Connie would even care that there is a blog spot about her is funny.
Like a bunch of people that know nothing about her saying whatever comes to their tiny minds makes any difference to her. Like calling her a name would make her stop fighting for her baby that is being molested.
Saveaaliyah.com doesn’t smear Dustin one time or call him a name one time.
It just shows the lack of maturity Dustin supporters have.
So sad.
For people like that that feel the need to smear someone’s name like Connie’s is sad. She is the type of person that prays for the people that do her wrong. She is probably just praying for you sick people.
Do you think one more name you call her is going to matter? Do you people not understand that Dustin used to call her every vile name in the book to verbally abuse her and still does? How are you any better than the abuser himself?
Do you think that she cares what random people like yourselves think?
How narcissistic of you! Becky Egan Nunez from New Jersey probably made it herself! lol
Think outside that little limited box some of you call your brain.
August 12th, 2009 at 4:46 pm
And Mr Molesting Monster Thompson,
Just wait until Aaliyah is a grown woman and can tell on you herself. How are you going to blame Connie then?
Just sit and think to yourself princess:
That baby is insanely intelligent, now with that in mind princess think back to the time you started molesting her when she was 15 months old. Now think about every time you have touched her inappropriately since then.
I would put my life on it that she remembers almost every account of molestation you’ve committed against her. And we all know you are well and capable of continuing the molestation at this point in time which I wouldn’t doubt given that molesters only progressively get more sick. Now think to yourself princess Dustin, how many counts of molestation, rape, and lewd acts you will have against you. Then princess I want you to think of all of the accounts of physical abuse you have acted upon her also.
Start adding it up pretty princess! You forget that just because Connie wasn’t there to eyewitness it that your child was there EVERY SINGLE TIME. She may not be able to help herself right now but there will come a time. And until that time comes you just remember how long your prison sentence is going to be. It won’t be Connie who can put you away that long Princess. It will be your other vicim: Your own daughter. And same goes for you Princess John David. Start adding it all up Princesses.
I bet you already worry about that. I bet you worry every hour of the day how you are going to hide this forever.
Oh Princess Dustin everything you do leaves tracks.
When are you ever going to learn? The sad thing is even after you sit in prison for 25 years you probably still won’t get it. I would highly recommend the Foresthill Bridge idea. People like you should put themselves out of their misery and spare us all.
August 12th, 2009 at 5:29 pm
Dina why don’t you have one moral in your body telling you to protect your innocent grandbaby from having your son stick his penis in her mouth and beat her. How would you like it if your dad was sticking his penis in your mouth and at 3 years old you were telling your grandma to help you from your dad? How would you like it if your grandma told you “hey dont tell your mommy tell me what your daddy does?” Then you do NOTHING to protect her. You’re one sick twisted soul Dina.
Your husband doesn’t love you. If he did he wouldn’t cheat on you all the time. He wouldn’t beat you and control you Dina. Are you that big of a coward that you have to let these boys beat your grandbaby because you are too chicken shit to stand up to them and do what is right for that child. If you would have stood up to John David when he was beating the crap out of Dustin growing up your son wouldn’t be such a screwed up mess. So Dina go ahead and ruin another persons life, go ahead and stand by knowing the truth and watching these monsters beat and molest your grandbaby because you are too chicken shit to call the police and put them where they belong.
You think keeping the family looking like the leave it to beaver family in front of other people’s eyes is more important than protecting an innocent child’s mental health and physical wellbeing that will affect her the rest of her life. You should jump off the foresthill bridge too.
Doesn’t it break your heart to know that Aali has told her mommy that grandma doesnt love her anymore because she watches grandpa hit her and doesnt save her? Where is your soul Dina? Are you going to let John David your excuse of a husband beat your soul out of you some more?
John David doesn’t love you. Do you think while he is screwing another woman he is thinking about how much he loves you? Do you think that when he hits you it’s because he loves you? He doesn’t love you or he wouldn’t treat you like that so why are you protecting him? Why would you sit back and let him beat the soul out of your granddaughter too?
How can you let Dustin continually rape and molest your granddaughter? You watch her during the day. You can see the damage he has done to her when you change her diapers. You know why she is still in diapers. She has told you he hurts her pee pee and you don’t even care to protect her because of your own denial because it reflects what a crappy mother you were to Dustin to make him the monster he is.
As much as you try to hide the truth Thomson’s it’s still there. You can’t bury Truth because Truth is eternity. Your little scheme is going to come crashing down and when it does just remember every one will know what you all are. What an embarrassing shameful day that will be for you all.
Dina, Aaliyah clearly remembers the brainwashing you have fed her to hide her pain and suffering she’s begged you for help about. She is going to resent you as well as her own dad and John David for what you all are doing to her. You might want to keep that in mind that you have put yourself in the same boat as her abusers. You will be a part of the disgusting flashbacks of her being beaten and molested as she remembers you standing there watching not helping her and thinking you don’t love her. Where’s your heart Dina? Where’s your soul Dina? Did you sell it to the devil?
Do what’s right. You might save your relationship with her at least.
August 12th, 2009 at 5:52 pm
You are a Pussy.
Pointblank. Anyone that puts their hands on women and children is a straight up PUSSY.
The funny thing is that you are such a pussy that I know as an absolute fact as you read this your about to pop your lid.
Grow up.
Face the facts: You are a PUSSY!
I can just picture your reaction now, you are predictable, sitting there theating to kick someone’s ass whoever you think this is. ;?)
August 12th, 2009 at 5:58 pm
You are a spitting image of your daddy!
Read the Dear John David Post!
Go buy yourself a fake pussy at a porn shop and attach it to a blow up doll. I’m sure you can find a blow up doll the size of a 3 year old. Spare your poor daughter her sanity you pig!
;?)
August 12th, 2009 at 6:29 pm
Just to blow some of you morons arguements out of the water…
Think hard and read slow…
If someone slapped you across your face behind a closed door without witnesses and you weren’t able to show anyone the mark on your face until a week later because you were stuck with that person who slapped you. Does it therefore mean that later the next week when you told someone about the mark on your face from being slapped didn’t exist?
Does it mean you never got slapped?
Does it mean it never happened?
Does it change the facts?
Does it change the Truth?
NO!!!
So if you took yourself to the Dr when you finally got away from the person who slapped you and the mark on your face was gone and the idiot so called “Dr” told you “In my professional opinion, No, you were never slapped”
Does it mean you never got slapped?
Does it mean it never happened?
Does it change the facts?
Does it change the Truth?
NO!!!
So…
If Dustin had Aaliyah for a week and molested/beat her behind a closed door without witnesses. When Connie got her back from Dustin and when Aaliyah told Connie, Cara, Darrel, her cousins etc about Dustin having molested/beat her does it mean that such an event did not exist?
Does it mean she never got molestedand beat?
Does it mean it never happened?
Does it change the facts?
Does it change the Truth?
NO!!!
If she was taken to the Dr a week later after Connie got her back from Dustin and the mark wasn’t there or was faded…
Does it mean she never got molested/beaten?
Does it mean it never happened?
Does it change the facts?
Does it change the Truth?
NO!!!
Some people just dont have the brains to successfully completely process a scenario logically.
Most of those people either work as “professionals” for Placer County and the few others support the child molester right here on BTLS!
Genius’
August 12th, 2009 at 6:39 pm
Here’s another one for you:
Dustin take the baby to the pediatrician and have her hymen checked.
Oh yeah, you wont do that because you would then be bent over by Bubba in San Quintin for the rest of your life.
To all the morons arguing for him and with him because DUSTIN IS INDEED POSTING!!
Get him to send you a copy of the pediatrician record of getting her hymen checked at her last pediatrician appointment he skipped.
That’s all it’s going to take Dustin… one appointment.
G U I L T Y
Dustin your behavior smells fishy (like your daddy) even through my computer.
August 12th, 2009 at 8:36 pm
I think some posts have been deleted, I missed all the scary, scary threats!
Also I have no idea who LL Papa is, but it’s certainly not me. Let LL Papa take responsibility for their own posts, I’m only responsible for mine.
I’ve never posted about this issue on BNN because I didn’t care for their habit of deleting posts. I’ve never posted about this issue on Beast’s site, because it’s a private site and I haven’t been invited to join.
I’m just an individual who thinks Ms. Bedwell’s story stinks based on the evidence she herself provided. I know some of you would like to believe that I’m posting under a sock puppet account because then Ms. Bedwell would have fewer opponents, but unfortunately for all of you, I’m not.
BTW, has Ms. Bedwell filed for that Ex Parte hearing yet? Time’s a-wasting. It would be preferable if she filed for the hearing before poor Aaliyah graduated high school. At the rate Ms. Bedwell is going, I’ll be surprised if she does anything constructive regarding visitation with her daughter before Aaliyah is retirement age.
August 12th, 2009 at 9:57 pm
Connie do you sleep at night?
tick tick tick tick
Games can be played both ways.
What do you want the world to learn about you?
August 12th, 2009 at 10:38 pm
Whatisup
I’m sure not every CPS worker is incompetent.
I’ve talked to good ones but unfortunately they don’t last long in a system where they are forced to cover for the bad ones who’s errors result in kid’s getting hurt.
Being ordered to rip a screaming child from the arms of a screaming mother because she was too poor to pay the light bill or because her house was a mess isn’t something that a person with a heart can do for very long. Instead of paying for foster care, pay the mom’s bill and help her clean her house. Or leave her alone and she’ll probably fix it herself. It’s a lot less traumatic and expensive than taking the child kicking and screaming to live with strangers.
My personal opinion is that some CPS agencies in some counties are managed better than others. A friend of mine who lives in a different county was talking to a neighbor who works for CPS. She was talking about a case and that worker knew right away what county’s CPS she was talking about. The CPS worker asked if it was in —- county and said that they were famous for covering up their messes.
A good agency would acknowledge and accept responsibility when they make mistakes. Because only then can you fix them.
I also think when there is corruption it is broad and involves the majority of workers in a particular agency.
I disagree that throwing $$ at this system will fix it. Training is a waste when the people they hire lack common sense. I just can’t support spending more money on a flawed system that isn’t working.
I think a person should be criminally charged with abuse and that Law enforcement should refer cases to CPS and spend money to save children who are really abused.
As far as evidence goes, I think the videos are evidence.
If I give my husband a blow job tonight, what kind of medical evidence could my doctor find next week ?
August 12th, 2009 at 10:56 pm
I’m a curious reader. Is this going to keep going back and forth like 1st graders school fight or will someone post something of benefit? None of this is believable can’t you see that?
Talk about a he said – she said smackdown WWE competition. Are there grown ups around?
August 13th, 2009 at 10:03 am
The web blog must really bother you poster since you’ve posted more lengthy posts about nothing. Threatened? When you don’t have the truth behind you, you decide to bully and write endless posts as a way to counter.
No evidence No proof No one listening No custody
End of Story
August 13th, 2009 at 10:07 am
Making up more things again on btls doesn’t make it true #1065.
Aali has seen all kinds of doctors, all complete tests were done to the poor child all because of Connies lies. Not one doctor found 1 piece of evidence of abuse.
Keep making things up, it does not make it true.
Just why do you have to lie? Oh OH YAH I remember because you have NO EVIDENCE so you MAKE UP THINGS.
I keep forgetting that.
Dustin doesn’t post, get a court order to pull the IP addresses at BTLS and you’ll be sadly mistaken :(
August 13th, 2009 at 10:45 am
Dear Aali’s daddy trasher:
Dustin isn’t online and doesn’t read your BS. Is there a reason for you to call names and act like that? Does it make you feel good about yourself to say such things?
When the judge reads stuff like this it only makes the case against Connie easier. Aali doesn’t need to be in an environment of hate. It shows Connie’s inability to consider co-parenting.
When you do this – it HELPS Dustin, not harms him. DO YOU UNDERSTAND? DO ANY OF YOU GET IT? Continue your campaign of hate against the father, its just another mark against Connie in court.
August 13th, 2009 at 12:28 pm
Does anyone have any questions why the mother doesn’t have custody? Probably not, its pretty easy to see why she has no rights to her kid. Are there any questions why she has strictly controlled supervised visits?
Check for updates. The blog just opened and already 15 followers? Interesting
thetruthaboutconnie.blogspot.com
August 13th, 2009 at 1:51 pm
#1065 Ummm to blow you out of the water – Connie has NO ONLINE SUPPORT AND IT WILL STAY THAT WAY!
(your little BNN groupies are desperate to figure out how to restart the money coming in, good luck with that)
Sorry you’re so upset our voices shut Connie’s revenge scam down!
Blow what out of the water? lol Everyone LEFT, no one is listening because NO ONE believes her. Don’t forget to turn the lights off when you leave.
August 13th, 2009 at 1:55 pm
It seems when either side runs out of things to make their points, they digress into name calling and bullying. Sinking to the level of name calling just negates anything else you are trying to say. Why not try responding to the facts and statements to make a point or change the opinions of others? This childish behavior is only making it look like you have nothing of value to say.
I agree with Lee Anne, this is starting to look like a school yard name calling contest.
August 13th, 2009 at 1:59 pm
Thankfully everyone learned the truth about Aaliyah and the fraud abuse claim. Pretty intellectual of you to think Connie has any success with this. :-O :-* ;-)
August 13th, 2009 at 3:07 pm
Did Connie lose custody because she refused to co-parent? Or was it because she did not attend the required parenting classes(STEP program) ordered by the courts? Or was it because she kept videotaping conversations with her child trying to prove abuse?
According to her, the STEP program took her child away, how does this equate to her ex’s attorney doing it?
August 13th, 2009 at 3:12 pm
From Chicana above
“I’ve talked to good ones but unfortunately they don’t last long in a system where they are forced to cover for the bad ones who’s errors result in kid’s getting hurt.
Being ordered to rip a screaming child from the arms of a screaming mother because she was too poor to pay the light bill or because her house was a mess isn’t something that a person with a heart can do for very long. Instead of paying for foster care, pay the mom’s bill and help her clean her house. Or leave her alone and she’ll probably fix it herself.”
So you think that having a child in a house where there is no refrigeration for food, or light at night, or heat(all require power) and/or in a dirty house is okay???? That this is preferable to placing the children in a safe environment until the mother can actually provide these things for her child? How does this protect children?
August 13th, 2009 at 3:17 pm
Another day goes by and still no visitation for this mother. What is the holdup? Does her attorney return her calls about this? There is no excuse for this not to have been turned into an Exparte motion by now.
August 13th, 2009 at 4:29 pm
TooIntellectual4U2GetIt: You are a MORON. The child HAS had her hymen checked. She’s had a FULL PHYSICAL EXAMINATION.
Furthermore, lack of a hymen or damage to the hymen means NOTHING in respect to virginity or abuse. Some women are born without them. They can be broken or damaged from a simple fall from a jungle gym. The hymen is an external piece of skin—it’s not inside the vagina, so it’s subject to all kinds of damage, just like a man’s testicles.
Of course, the status of Aaliyah’s hymen has NOTHING TO DO WITH THIS, since she’s already been FULLY EXAMINED and NO EVIDENCE OF ABUSE WAS FOUND.
August 13th, 2009 at 4:33 pm
POST 1055 – The TRUTH – The Thompson’s refuse!
August 12th, 2009 at 11:33 am
Authorities proved the mother coached her kid. Judges agreed. The mother has no rights to her child so she makes up a story to put on the internet thinking it would help her get back custody. WRONG
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I HEARD the Thompson’s are going to get to hear the testimony of a Computer Internet Expert (I wonder what that’s about?) and NOW a Audio Video Forensic Specialists in a future trial/hearing! I wonder if that’s why Ms. Amara keeps postponing the next court date?
No Judge has ruled the “Daddy’s Worm Video is coached” OR Connie has “NO RIGHTSâ€. Keep blown that smoke screen Thompson’s with your two (2) supporters.
The TRUTH about Dustin is told by Aaliyah in the “Daddy’s Worm Video”!
AALIYAH IS TELLING THE TRUTH! …… Dustin and the Thompson’s are trying to make this solely about Connie with their unwarranted smear job, but what would you expect from the Thompson’s. THEIR QUILT IS EXPRESSED BY THEIR LIES AND DENIALS … Their house of mirrors is cracking!
Connie my advice to you is DO the Polygraph Examination for the establishment of TRUTH! Once you do it will clear the Thompson smoke screen! I saw in an above post a offer for Dustin to write his yes or no questions for your Polygraph Examine, which was quickly repelled.
Dustin this is your last chance to submit your questions. You have until 8/21/2009 @ 2400 hrs. to post your questions here on BTLS.
Time to put up or shut up Dustin and the Thompson’s.
THE TRUTH IS ON AALIYAH’S SIDE BECAUSE SHE’S TELLING IT!
August 13th, 2009 at 6:11 pm
Awww.
Connie should feel flattered that she is important enough to Dustin supporters that they started a blog all about her.
I believe most of us who dislike Dustin because of what he has done are not here to support or defend Connie,we’re here to support her efforts to protect her daughter. We are AALIYAH supporters and I don’t think any of us would waste our time to start a blog about Dustin.
Nope… it’s all about Aaliyah.
August 13th, 2009 at 10:19 pm
The Video of Daddy’s Worm will be used as evidence!
You’ll see!
August 13th, 2009 at 11:34 pm
#1059 Ashley aka ????????????
If Connie didn’t care about a blog then why does she invest so much time & energy worrying about what Patty & Papa say about her huh?
mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
waiting for a smart answer
August 14th, 2009 at 1:21 am
Aali’s name wouldn’t be out there if it wasn’t for a mother who was seeking revenge.
Do any of you want to take a chance spending your money on a scammer? Authorities LONG proven Connie Bedwell lied about everything you’ve read.
Take your chances on a mentally ill mother with no custody rights? or Take your chances on what professionals and authorities proved?
Connie what does your bank account tell you? The result is = :D
August 14th, 2009 at 9:57 am
#1081
Unfortunately there is no future trial.
First Connie has to approach the courts with reasons for a substantial change of custody to get A hearing. She cannot do that until she complys with previous recommendations and court orders. Then Connie needs to prove to a judge why your ‘info’ about a video is admissable.
Since the judge has ruled in the past on this issue (video)Connie will not be able to bring it into court repeatedly. It is an issue handled and dealt with.
Your video proves nothing. It was completed by a mother in the dark and you still cannot see a child talking. No amount of ‘experts’ will change a judge denying Connie’s order to 1. have a trial & 2. to have a judge agree that this OLD VIDEO should be admissable when authorities have investigated and closed the case.
Do you want me to continue the court process lessons or are we done for today?
August 14th, 2009 at 10:02 am
#1081
Your computer expert ‘forgot’ to show up in the last hearing and Connie’s lawyer was quite embarrassed. Maybe this time pay the guy to show up?
The judge changed the court date to September, not Dustins lawyer. spin spin spin Bedwell/Darrel lol you’re funny when you write like that.
August 14th, 2009 at 10:31 am
Answering 1079 Connie’s lawyer isnt’ returning her calls. She doesn’t understands she cannot order her lawyer around. Connie you hire a lawyer to give you advice not for you to demand him to do whatever you want. Someone please explain to Connie why her lawyer doesn’t talk to her.
August 14th, 2009 at 1:23 pm
Icky, it’s not a private site. It’s only closed to A-holes, you may post when ever you like :)
August 14th, 2009 at 1:42 pm
Why does this woman not explain why she lost her custody? When asked in the Auburn Journal article, she declined to answer. What is so difficult about this question? What caused her to be switched to only SUPERVISED visits, and limited ones at that?
Why is there never an answer to what did the many doctor visits come up with to explain the repeated complaints of a rash, or pain in this child’s bottom? What did the doctors say? Is it only because the answer does not help Connie prove her case that no one knows?
What is going on with visiting this child? An Exparte motion should have been filed, if only to prove to the courts that Connie is doing everything she can to see her daughter.
Where is all this evidence of corruption of CPS, the medical community, the police, and the courts? Just because they can’t find any evidence either to support this mother’s fears and suspicions and rule against her due to lack of evidence, does not lead me to believe there is corruption. In fact, there have been so many investigations, interviews by professionals, and medical examinations, as well as therapy for this child- how can it be there is no independent proof of physical or sexual abuse of this child?
There is nothing left to discuss about any abuse. There is only a mother who still has no visitation in place. A mother who has decided she must be right at all costs. A mother who wants to fight the system instead of use it, and who refuses to respect the orders set in place by the court. Rather than work with the courts, and jump through any hoop they want to restore visitation, she has reached the point of no custody rights, and no visitation. And she has let that stand. There is still no seeing her child. Why is that?
Whether I agree with it or not, the visitation facility has the right to set their own rules, so Connie lost her access to that facility. Surely there are others in the Sacramento area? It is ironic, that even with the judge telling her to file an exparte motion if needed, that this woman still has no visitation, and no motion filed. How many weeks has it been?
Does this woman still have an attorney? Does this woman still want to see her daughter?
August 14th, 2009 at 4:16 pm
Dustin and the Thompson’s DO POST and I have convincing proof that they do. It’s been forwarded to Connies attorney!
AS for your, “No help from online” …. “No donations”…. Keep dreaming those delusional dreams dustin. Your rude awakening is at the next hearing, courtesy of this helper and online donator, who has by the way recruited 2 other important people for this effort. Funny, the FBI hasn’t contacted me to inform me http://www.saveaaliyah.com is a “internet money scam.”
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TO post #947 My2cents
“Hows the fraud investigation going daddy Tim? The one you claim isn’t happening with the FBI looking into this online money scam? I was just updated, how about you. ;)”
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AGAIN, I’M NOT A BEDWELL AND YOUR FULL B.S. My2cents why would FBI give you an update? ~ JUST ANOTHER BOLD FACE THOMPSON LIE!
I did my own investigation regarding this FALSE CLAIM of scam, hoax and a FBI investigation. I contacted the FBI and asked if there was an FBI fraud investigation into http://www.saveaaliyah.com before I donated to it. They said; “NO THERE’S NOT AN INVESTIGATION”
Keep blowing that smoke screen Thompson’s! You people are so full of crap!
NOW WHO’S DESPERATE WITH NO TRUTH ON THEIR SIDE?
REMEMBER……WHERE THERE’S SMOKE …. THERE’S FIRE!
August 14th, 2009 at 6:12 pm
Go ahead and waste your money on video examiners and lie detector tests. It will do you ABSOLUTELY NO GOOD. The court has already examined the original video and deemed it evidence of nothing, so an examination of evidence the court has already rejected will also be rejected.
Polygraph examinations are already not admissible in court. The court will not accept the results of any polygraph exam, so whether Ms. Bedwell fails or passes the exam will make no difference.
If I were Ms. Bedwell, I’d put that money to good use in hiring a 5th (5th!) lawyer to represent me and file that Ex Parte hearing request. If there was any money left after that, I’d spend it on paying the visitation center’s hefty fees. Ms. Bedwell’s failure to re-establish visitation of her child is harming her case FAR MORE than anything else at this juncture.
Stop jerking around trying to win a dumb internet war against your ex and get to work on re-establishing your relationship with your child, Ms. Bedwell. Aaliyah is far more important than your rights or your reputation, and I wish you could see that.
August 14th, 2009 at 6:59 pm
Dear WOW,
It’s wrong to separate families because they’re poor. It does a lot of damage to children to be forcibly removed from their parent and the law doesn’t give the state the authority to take a child for the reasons I stated. They do it anyway though.
You can wow me all you want, but if we the people have a heart we should help those in need. Those wonderful, caring CPS workers could take the entire family to a shelter or help them get financial assistance for their needs.
You’d have to be heartless to drag screaming children from their screaming mother because they can’t pay a bill. Then they take NO responsibility when a child is killed while in their care.
They pay foster parents to take care of a child. Why don’t they help the real parents if they fall on hard times.
Another negative impact your thinking has, is that if someone needs help, they won’t ask for it if they risk losing their kids. Someone with a drug or alcohol problem might not get help out of fear, causing damage to the entire family.
This is why I highly recommend not allowing a CPS worker in your home without a court order.
A lot of people think they have to let them in. An anonymous hotline call isn’t sufficient to get a court order to enter a person’s home in real court.
It’s the parents that talk and believe the worker is there to help (LOL) who lose their kids.
August 14th, 2009 at 7:05 pm
Let’s see the evidence. Show me the reports.
Show me where an analyst has said the video was coached.
You just run your mouth with nothing to back up your claims.
Connie needs to sue. They don’t have a legal right to deny her access to her child. It’s a fundamental right guaranteed by the constitution. There’s tons of case law on this.
August 14th, 2009 at 7:14 pm
OMG you’re funny. Online bloggers have an impact on custody cases.
How ridiculous.
I don’t know how mentally stable someone could be knowing their child was with a yucky worm. But show us the expert’s
reports.
BTW, authorities don’t PROVE anything.
I just had a great idea.
Connie, excercise your due process rights and get this put in front of a jury.
August 14th, 2009 at 11:29 pm
WHY DON’T YOU HAVE EVIDENCE? WHY DON’T DOCTORS BACK YOU UP? WHY DON’T YOU FILE FOR EXPARTE ORDER LIKE YOU HAD BNN THREATEN FOR YOU? WHY DON’T YOU WANT TO SEE YOUR CHILD? WHY DOESN’T YOUR LAWYER ANSWER YOUR CALLS? WHAT DID YOU DO TO YOUR KID FOR A JUDICIAL SYSTEM TO REMOVE ALL YOUR RIGHTS?
I await the accusations. I’m not Dustin, A Thompson, Papa, Patty, Cubby, CA, Beast, Icky, Maureen etc etc etc.
I DEMAND ANSWERS BECAUSE YOU TOOK MY MONEY AFTER BEGGING FOR HELP! I DESERVE ANSWERS AND SO DO A LOT OF OTHERS WHO PAID YOU CONNIE! YOU HAVE MY MONEY AND I WANT ANSWERS. THE BLOG STAYS UP AND I WILL POST AS LONG AS IT TAKES SO NO ONE ELSE WILL BE TAKEN IN BY A SCAMMER LIKE YOU.
August 14th, 2009 at 11:31 pm
DO YOU NEED HELP TO GET YOUR MONEY BACK FROM CONNIE BEDWELL? GO HERE AND YOU WILL READ THE WHOLE TRUTH AND NOTHING BUT THE TRUTH. DON’T BE STUPID LIKE I WAS.
http://thetruthaboutconnie.blogspot.com/
August 15th, 2009 at 2:39 am
Dustin go ahead and try to post something about Connie…
We would love to see…
You can’t. You have nothing.
You keep saying Connie did something to have her child taken away. Go ahead tell us what she did…
ABSOLUTELY NOTHING BUT REPEAT AALIYAH’S ACCUSATIONS TOWARDS HER FATHER.
If you had anything on her you would have been screaming it from the roof tops from the get go! Since you have ABSOLUTELY NOTHING on her you scream 10 other stories
Let’s count the Thompson’s stories:
1) Fraud
(Saveaaliyah.com is still up and Connie hasn’t been charged with fraud. This claim is untrue.)
2) Scam artist
(Once again, saveaaliyah.com is still up and hasn’t been charged with fraud or a scam. This claim is untrue.)
3) Kidnapper
(Dustin claims Connie kidnapped the baby, yet the judge put a restraining order on Dustin after Connie went to Alaska. Only the mother’s name is on the birth certificate. It would be impossible for it to be kidnapping. This claim is untrue.)
4) Coacher
(Forensic Analysist’s are able to prove the Daddy’s Worm video is uncoached)
5) Mentally Ill
6) Munchhausen
7) Delusional
8) Crazy
(Dr Saturley has copies of Connie’s psychological evaluation and her actual results straight from Dr Roeder’s office. It’s proven these 4 claims above are also untrue.)
9) Unfit mother
(Connie isn’t an alcoholic. Connie has never done drugs; easily provable by drug tests done on hair samples to show years and years prior to now given her hair’s length reaches her hips. Connie has no criminal record. Connie is not any of Dustin’s mental claims above. Therefore there is zero proof of her being an unfit mother in any area.)
10) ___________ What are you going to make up next Thompson’s? This spot’s open for your next aliby.
Only one consistant truthful claim comes from the Bedwell’s and from little Aaliyah: Dustin Thompson and John David Thompson are abusers.
August 15th, 2009 at 2:45 am
Dustin moved with the baby and has not notified the courts or Connie.
Can’t he get in trouble for this?
Maybe his neighbors are catching on to him. He’s moved 2 times in less than one year.
August 15th, 2009 at 3:01 am
Icky Etardo
August 13th, 2009 at 4:29 pm
TooIntellectual4U2GetIt: You are a MORON. The child HAS had her hymen checked. She’s had a FULL PHYSICAL EXAMINATION.
Furthermore, lack of a hymen or damage to the hymen means NOTHING in respect to virginity or abuse. Some women are born without them. They can be broken or damaged from a simple fall from a jungle gym. The hymen is an external piece of skin—it’s not inside the vagina, so it’s subject to all kinds of damage, just like a man’s testicles.
Of course, the status of Aaliyah’s hymen has NOTHING TO DO WITH THIS, since she’s already been FULLY EXAMINED and NO EVIDENCE OF ABUSE WAS FOUND.
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Icky what makes you think the child has ever one time been fully physically examined?
She hasn’t been.
What would you know? You just read at BTLS and think you know it all. Gosh you sound like Becky Egan Nunez and Eddy Craig!
For someone to sit and defend why a baby’s hymen wouldn’t be intact like you just did shows how truly sick you are.
As I read that repulsive post of yours I just pictured you flipping back and forth on your screen looking at kiddy porn as you type here on Btls defending a child molester.
Your words say so much about what you are…
Eww!
Go try to tell a Sexual Assault team that stupid arguement, better yet tell that to a Psychologist.
That psychologist will probably ask you one question…
“Icky how long have you been attracted to children?”
It takes one to defend one, ask John David.
August 15th, 2009 at 3:17 am
Chicana
August 13th, 2009 at 6:11 pm
Awww.
Connie should feel flattered that she is important enough to Dustin supporters that they started a blog all about her.
I believe most of us who dislike Dustin because of what he has done are not here to support or defend Connie,we’re here to support her efforts to protect her daughter. We are AALIYAH supporters and I don’t think any of us would waste our time to start a blog about Dustin.
Nope… it’s all about Aaliyah.
Save Aaliyah!
I know Chicana isn’t it pathetic that these same 2 people of child molester supporters made a site all about Connie? I talked to Connie about it today and she laughed. She doesn’t care nor has bothered to read it. To make a site about Dustin would be the biggest waste of time when his own daughter just told the world what he is. Why need a bashing site for adults to bash him when an innocent baby with no agenda told the world what he is?
I agree with you Chicana!
Some of these people won’t ever get it.
It’s about Aaliyah.
Save Aaliyah.
August 15th, 2009 at 4:32 am
BELEIVE IT
1)There is NO future “trial”. Future court dates are regarding Connies contempt of court.
2)IF there was a computer specialist, (just like all the other specialists that never happened ) there is NO chance a computer specialist can ‘prove’ the video was not coached. They weren’t around during the weeks and weeks Connie rehearsed this ‘show’ she forced upon her daughter. Over and Over and Over just like a preschool play or holiday program. How much time did you, Cara and Aaliyah spend rehearsing this show of yours Connie?
3)Connie will NEVER have visitation restored unless she COMPLIES WITH THE ORDERS OF THE COURT, which she has already demonstrated she has no intention of doing, so no chance at being part of her childs life. Better save those pictures Connie, they might be all you have to see your daughter unless you stop your lies.
Go back to your make believe land with Connie, her boyfriend and family. You’re not intelligent to make up fabricated stories, nor were the Bedwells.
August 15th, 2009 at 4:49 am
PaRRoT MonSteR
July 31st, 2009 at 3:08 pm
Oh wait, you’re a “Moster†now that wears a big scary mask!
A little truth always slips out with lies.
So Aaliyah said “Moster” instead of Monster,
just like she said “parrot” instead of Parent.
Sounds like a normal two year old with difficulty pronouncing the n in the middle of some words.
Parrot = Parent
just like
Moster = Monster
Boy, Connie you couldn’t even figure that out could you?
OR was that just another opportunity for you to really stretch your interpretation of what your child was trying to tell you. Shame on you Connie for putting your child through this and getting yourself so messed up the courts had to remove you from your childs life. Great job!
August 15th, 2009 at 8:38 am
Icky, your post was very interesting.
Can you tell me where to find statistics showing how many 2-3 years olds lose their hymens after falling off a jungle gym ?
I’ve never even thought to research something like that.
August 15th, 2009 at 11:15 pm
The mother made up the entire story and should be in jail for fraud. Her last response to my concerns was so vulgar bubba staff refused to post it. You couldn’t be more obvious Connie take peoples money and hurt your sweet babychild? I can see why no one lets her near her babygirl.
http://thetruthaboutconnie.blogspot.com/
August 16th, 2009 at 4:37 pm
How old is this baby in the exchange videos? Isn’t this when she was first going to visit her father for more than a couple of hours at a time? She is definitely not happy, and is throwing a tantrum, but how should this have been handled? It looks more like she was still adjusting to being away from her mother for visits to dad, than it does like she hates him.
Mom does not seem to be helping her child adjust to the exchanges by encouraging her daughter to see this as fun. Instead of saying ‘you got your mommy back’(like daddy kept you away), why not ‘here comes daddy’ or ‘look, there is daddy’. Don’t discount how much this mother’s anxiety and emotions about the visitation are picked up on by the baby. She could have been doing so much more to help her child with the transition.
What should the dad have done? Would have helped if he was more positive too. Neither parent is happy to see the other, but the child’s needs should have come first. They both handle it badly. But then again, imagine how the dad felt having the exchanges video taped, or when out numbered by all those family members there for the exchanges! This baby does look happy and well cared for when she returns too.
August 16th, 2009 at 6:33 pm
Believe It said:
“Connie my advice to you is DO the Polygraph Examination for the establishment of TRUTH! Once you do it will clear the Thompson smoke screen! I saw in an above post a offer for Dustin to write his yes or no questions for your Polygraph Examine, which was quickly repelled.
Dustin this is your last chance to submit your questions. You have until 8/21/2009 @ 2400 hrs. to post your questions here on BTLS.”
Was it repelled? If so by whom? So does this mean Connie will be taking a polygraph soon? I agree, it would help prove her point…but only that she believes what she is saying, not that it is proof of abuse. They would be able to prove she did not coach the child though!
August 17th, 2009 at 6:26 am
Wait a minute said:
Don’t discount how much this mother’s anxiety and emotions about the visitation are picked up on by the baby. She could have been doing so much more to help her child with the transition.
I agree. It’s apparent in this case, at least Connie can not put her childs needs first. That being the case, they should have taken the opportunity to utilize the visitation center for exchanges. Visitation centers not only provide a place for supervised visits, but also exchange services which provide a smooth transition for the exchange by providing someone to bring the child to the other parent. Thus, neither parent has to see each other at an exchange. I don’t know whether the parents would have been willing to go that route. All we see from outside the situation is Connie is a mess. A broken down, out of control, unable to put her child first parent – who has created one hell of a mess for everyone involved.
Connie, get your HEAD OUT OF YOUR ASS and get yourself together so you can be part of your daughters life! You’ve slid down a mountain, girl! You have a HELL of a climb back up, IF you choose to and WANT to be part of your childs life. Stop this bull chit nonsense NOW and do what is RIGHT for your child! Grow the ef up, and accept you can not control your childs father and stop trying to the detriment of your child and yourself!
August 17th, 2009 at 8:53 am
the Truth said
“I just had a great idea.
Connie, exercise your due process rights and get this put in front of a jury.”
You do know that family law cases are not jury cases, right?
The only way any of this would be before a jury is if the DA files charges against one of the parents.
There is no case pending, and there will be no jury for either parent. Only a Judge…you know the one that Connie keeps ignoring?
Another week has gone by and this mother still hasn’t managed to get a visit with her daughter!
I also agree that this child was so young in the exchange videos that she may have just been adjusting to being away from her mother for more than a few hours. I also agree that Connie is not helping her child with the transition, and that the father too needed to encourage this child. She throws a tantrum, and neither of them do anything but ignore it. Must have been great having a video camera in your face too.
This mother needs to get a grip on following the court orders whether she wants to or not. I listened to her interviews, and she admits that she doesn’t care about the court telling her to do anything. Great attitude, she doesn’t like what they say so she ignores it? Way to get far with the judge and the court system!
August 17th, 2009 at 9:03 am
and Chicana,
Do the research, a hymen is not proof of virginity, and it can be damaged. Some women are even born without one. And this child’s is reported to be intact.
This will not prove abuse, and can’t guarantee lack of abuse either.
To Talkaboutamoron…you need to research this too, and get over your own issues. Her own pediatrician can, and I believe I read did, verify that this child’s hymen was undamaged. And a ‘Sexual Assault’ (?) team, I am assuming you mean the specialists who investigate these cases, would already know this about a hymen. It is not perverse, it is biology and anatomy. This lack of damage just did not help Connie prove her allegations, so it is not brought up.
Please stop trying to bully people by posting names. It just makes you look desperate and without anything valid to say. Oh wait, you are.
August 17th, 2009 at 9:24 am
Actually reading Icky’s posts I looked up that the hymen can break without sexual intercourse. If you look it up online there are numerous sources and medical professionals who have answered this. Although how would you know if the hymen is broken if Connie never took her daughter to a pediatrician or doctor to examine her?
Chicana some people need to close their legs and not have kids if they cannot provide electricity,clean water or food for their children. Its their responsibility to take care of their children not someone else. I understand being poor and needing help but if you cannot even provide the basic essentials and its SO bad that CPS is called, I say that you need to work hard to get your kids back(get a job) or not have them at all. And I know a handful of foster parents who are WONDERFUL to the children they have and raise them well.
Why do you Connie supporters make this so personal for yourselves? Waa! your CPS stories are sad but come on, get over yourselves and realize to slander a man who has the county and CPS on his side isn’t the route to “heal” your wounds.
August 17th, 2009 at 10:33 am
Bedwells have no proof regarding Dustin or his dad being abusive, just the lies they post online.
Dustin and his family on the other hand have evidence and proof there was no abuse and they are backed up by HIGHLY EDUCATED child experts, authorities, doctors and HEY EVEN THE DA’S office cleared the guy.
mmmmmmmmm
By the way, whoever made up the blog GOOD 4 U! Tell the truth about Connie so this baby can have a voice against what her mother did to her!
Save Aaliyah – INDEED – FROM THE BEDWELLS
(oh wait the courts already did that by removing mommy’s rights)
August 17th, 2009 at 10:35 am
Maybe everyone that knows the truth about the mom should put the blog in the website location.
psssssst uh no one believes Connie. OH WAIT her bank account is flush with money? lol didn’t think so
August 17th, 2009 at 10:46 am
With all the threatening to sue llPapa or Pattycake I doubt Connie is laughing about the website blog. Bedwells are furious the THE TRUTH is getting out and it shows they’re scared and furious with their bullying and name calling. It’s called intimidation and it won’t work.
The truth is on the father’s side.
None of you seem to understand the court process. None of you can see the courts are siding with the father?
Why did the mother lose all her rights then?
Don’t you think (Chicana or Polygraph or Karen) the judge would require documentation and testimony from child experts in order to render decisions?? WOW how could you not know that?
But you do this to the father, someone you do not know all because you yourself haven’t personally seen any documentation the courts have seen. You can’t think for one second you’re completely wrong about this abuse allegation?
If Connie is successful online why has all the money stopped pouring in?
http://thetruthaboutconnie.blogspot.com/
August 17th, 2009 at 11:09 am
Icky there was a full medical exam by doctors on Aali. The doctors information regarding the exam are found in the court documents. Findings? No abuse
August 17th, 2009 at 1:38 pm
YOU THOMPSON’S AND SUPPORTERS ARE IN HARD CORE DENIAL!
POST 1094 – LMAO @ YOU and dustin.
Your going to get to see it in court, in the trial that you say that isn’t going to happen!
To POST 1096 and 1097
PROVE YOU DONATED – Submit your receipt number here on BTLS -without it your just another blow hard LYING THOMPSON, which in fact you are!
POST 1102 FREE CLUE – Name the specialists you claim that have been alleged?
I paid for the audio video forensic testing and after it’s used in court/trial it’ll be posted. You can count on IT!
Do you know what DEDUCTIVE REASONING is? The polygraph test will prove everything that Connie has said is the truth, therefore Aaliyah is telling the truth – Therefore dustin is a child molester! Now that wasn’t to hard for you was it?
Again, dustin you’ll get to see it in family court and then quite probably in criminal court.
Again, no judge or anyone else has ruled the video as coached. dustin bases his “innocence” on CPS reports? Great foundation for truth.
Keep blowing that smoke screen Thompson’s…
WHERE’S THERE’S SMOKE….THERE’S F I R E !
You Thompson’s are going to BURN!
August 17th, 2009 at 2:50 pm
Try again.
You might be right to an extent. I’m still researching and I know jury trials are allowed in certain cases.
For example, a parent is entitled to a jury trial in termination of parental rights cases.
She can also do something about the obvious constitutional rights violations involved in denying her access to her child.
August 17th, 2009 at 2:55 pm
the truth
Great. I cant wait to see the court docs. I’m sure I will then know the truth.
Are you going to post links to the docs or upload them and attach ?
Please tell me how I can see this evidence, so I can apologize for being wrong about everything.
August 17th, 2009 at 2:58 pm
I know that the judge would require that truth. But I want to see what he saw and know that he’s not another one of those screwed up judges who leave kids with their abusers.
August 17th, 2009 at 3:31 pm
Oh, I know, The Truth. Apparently I’m now a child molester for reading about the hymen on that bastion of child pornography, Wikipedia. Does it matter that medical science has disregarded damage or loss of the hymen as proof of anything since the Dark Ages passed? Not to the many ignorant people on this site.
Of course, we all know that the child has had a full physical examination and absolutely no proof was found. The Bedwells know it too.
I often wonder about how some of the Bedwell supporters would feel if it was THEIR son that was falsely accused of a crime and slandered on the internet with false charges of being a drug addict, a rapist, and a child molester. I wonder how they would feel if THEIR GRANDDAUGHTER was the one being paraded about in public as a victim of child abuse when none had happened. I’m sure a lot of them would change their tune then.
August 17th, 2009 at 9:10 pm
Connie,
What is it going to be like for you to miss your daughters first day of preschool? First day of Kindergarten? First day of 1st grade?
Fast forward to her Junior High/Middle School and then High School dances? Her first crush, first kiss?
Graduation, going off to college, her wedding, first child….
Your mom missed out on HOW MUCH of that Connie? Why? Because you are following your nutcase father TIMOTHY BROCK BEDWELL’s behavior. Do you want to follow HIM – or – BREAK THE CYCLE within your own family Connie? YOUR choice! take the heat man, break that cycle for your child! – or – continue and be on the short end of the stick.
Are you THAT willing to forgo those milestones in your daughters life – just to keep up this charade of hostility you have against her biological father?
That willing, that you will chose the ‘false allegations’ just like Dyandria Darel, and Amy Neustein? Look at what these TWO woman – who gained media attention unlike the thousands like them- lost out on EACH AND EVERY MILESTONE of their childs life. Connie, unlike them, your daughter is at an age she will NOT remember you! Is that what you want your daughter to learn about and KNOW OF her maternal family? Oh ya, get tough, threaten, bully, slam, toss out the UGLIEST words you can to hurt everyone and anyone who gets in YOUR way! How’s that working for you Connie?
If this is what you want to do for your child, no problem….. YOU and your family are the only ones to really lose anything here Connie. Your choice.
August 17th, 2009 at 11:04 pm
lol #1107
they want Dustin to submit questions? Kinda hard when the guy doesn’t read a shred of the BS online. Kinda pointless when it wasn’t a request by the judge. Kinda pointless since these are such old allegations already proven no abuse, case closed end of story.
Connie what part of these do you not get?
‘end of story’
‘its over’
‘video can never be resubmitted after judges ruled on it’
‘the father has all custody’
‘the internet will never be the place to fight your case’
‘all the experts disagree with your claims’
‘your own child said you coached her’
……….shall I go on?
What part of the above do you not get? That’s MY question Connie WHY don’t you get past the fact that your ‘online hoax’ did not work? Your child IS NOT AN ABUSED CHILD.
August 18th, 2009 at 1:18 am
Reality time.
When a story is deemed a fraud it means there is no story.
Reality no child is being abused so the story becomes what the mother said & did and why she did it.
Reality. You will not be able to go anywhere on the internet and convince any group of people Connie Bedwell is telling the truth. Too much relevant information & evidence exists to show she lied continously.
Reality folks is this story is not about any child abuse – its only about Connie Bedwell and her Daddy Tim Bedwell creating a hoax to earn money and get revenge.
Move on everyone, games over folks. Reality bites doesn’t it?!
August 18th, 2009 at 8:50 am
Free Clue
I can’t help but feel bad for the people around you.
Of all the posters here, you’re just the meanest.
Regardless of whether they think Connie is wrong, Icky, CeeA
and most of the others don’t revel in the fact that Aaliyah can’t see her mom. They know that it hurts not only Connie but Aaliyah as well and I don’t think any of them are glad about that. They might blame Connie, but for that they’re not cheering.
Except for you. You seem to think it’s a good thing, even funny that a child would grow up without her mother.
We all know this is traumatic except for you.
Aaliyah is the biggest loser in this whole thing.
You don’t seem to care about that, as long as Connie suffers Aaliyah doesn’t seem to matter.
You are really the only poster that seems heartless.
And you’re wrong, there are always new motions to file and if there’s new evidence, chile custody can change in a heartbeat.
Connie can appeal any decisions made in family court. Her right to her child is being violated.
August 18th, 2009 at 9:26 am
Free Clue: That’s really the sad part, isn’t it? At three months with a three-year old, the forgetting is already well on its way. At this point, Aaliyah probably only has the haziest memory of her mother’s face.
If Ms. Bedwell ever does show up for visitation again, she can expect the same type of scene enacted in the parking lot exchange video—a weepy child who doesn’t want to go with a virtual stranger. If Ms. Bedwell filed for the Ex Parte hearing now and resumed visitation at once, the damage might be reparable, but with only two hours a week, it would be a hard row to hoe, to re-establish her relationship with her daughter.
Maybe that’s why Ms. Bedwell hasn’t filed for the Ex Parte hearing—she’s not interested in doing the hard work that it would take to repair her relationship with her daughter. It’s much easier to declare her “brainwashed”—mentally defective—than it is to fix things. Plus, that visitation center is EXPENSIVE. Easier to vent your rage on the internet and play the victim than it is to do the right thing and pick up the pieces, isn’t it?
August 18th, 2009 at 10:49 am
Responding to #1116
A trial? Here you go again not understanding 1 thing about court process and the system. Criminal? That’s the funniest of all your statements.
Connie will never be able to approach ANY judge to request even a hearing unless she has a substantial reason BIG HUGE GIGANTIC reason for custody to change.
Criminal? I don’t think so there big guy because the DA’s office closed the case and there won’t be another ‘retake’ of the old video no matter the amount of computer people you have looking at it.
The video, as I recall the police saying ‘is only one piece of the puzzle’ and collectively the authorities & DA’s office refused to pursue any charges due to NO EVIDENCE!
Impossible for Connie to get a trial in her current state of mind. Still don’t get it and sadly never will.
August 18th, 2009 at 11:12 am
HEY THOMPSONS
CHICANA & KAREN are trying to find a way to have a private investigator follow all of you around. Its very funny to read. Good luck with that Karen, takes big money and some illegal tactics in order to invade ones privacy. Oh wait Connie has no money.
August 18th, 2009 at 11:16 am
oopsies Forgot to post my site. More updates coming soon.
http://thetruthaboutconnie.blogspot.com/
August 18th, 2009 at 12:58 pm
We’re going to see who has a proper understanding of the judicial system real soon!
I just thought you should know what’s coming at you dustin!
As I’ve said, Thompson’s do post!
There’re several of us who are working to find the truth apart from the Bedwell’s and their online supporters. We now know the video isn’t coached and Aaliyah is telling the truth, so we’re focusing completely on you dustin.
We know you read these posts and we know you’re posting.
Aaliyah will have plenty of time to get reacquainted with Connie while dustin sits in prison!
Lookin forward to court ;)
Keep blowing that smoke screen dustin.
WHERE THERE’S SMOKE….THERE’S F I R E !
August 18th, 2009 at 1:40 pm
I thought they had those comments about getting a private investigator to follow Dustin around deleted! Doesn’t matter, they don’t have anything to find. They also do not have anything to talk about in terms of evidence. The word desperate comes to mind!
August 18th, 2009 at 1:51 pm
More than ‘too much evidence she lied’ (not sure I agree with that)- it is the total lack of evidence to support her statements, and the huge lack of physical evidence of any kind.
I was floored when I read elsewhere that there was a physical exam, and this child’s own doctor found not only her hymen intact, but there was no evidence of any abuse or trauma. After all those complaints of how daddy hurt her??? There is no story here, except about this mother and her lack of respect for authority or professionals(all those trying to tell her she is wrong).
Somehow, she is convinced she is the only one who is right in the entire of Northern California. And she feels she is above the law to boot. I see court orders and procedures are not something she feels applies to her or her problems.
WOW, get a grip, and do what it takes to see your child again. Put your obsession on hold long enough to at least see your child you loon.
August 18th, 2009 at 1:53 pm
I admit to a basic skepticism of anyone who uses ‘conspiracy theories’ to as proof of what they want you to believe!
August 18th, 2009 at 2:15 pm
This will never be a jury trial in California family courts…do the research on the laws!
August 18th, 2009 at 3:04 pm
LMAO, are you an attorney ?
There are all kinds of legal remedies she can take.
She just needs help to figure out what they are.
Everybody is forgetting that she has rights and they are being violated.
It’s been a long time since I researched case law on custody issues, but you’ve motivated me.
August 18th, 2009 at 3:56 pm
Stop Connie from scamming
August 18th, 2009 at 11:12 am
HEY THOMPSONS
CHICANA & KAREN are trying to find a way to have a private investigator follow all of you around. Its very funny to read. Good luck with that Karen, takes big money and some illegal tactics in order to invade ones privacy. Oh wait Connie has no money.
____________________________________________________________I don’t know where you come up with this stuff.
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August 18th, 2009 at 5:47 pm
Dustin has signed the petition a number of times trying to further abuse his victims and distract people from the truth. Poster 1717 and 1716, Lies, lies, and unsurprisingly more lies from Dustin Thompson himself. Here is what he doesn’t want you to understand… DADDY’S WORM WITH LOGIC July 4th, 2009 at 11:35 am DADDY’S WORM The pedophile clan wants to try to convince anybody they can that “Daddy’s Worm†is anything but Dustin’s penis. So right here we will rip his “theories†excuses, lies and alibis to shreds with this thing called LOGIC AND TRUTH, something Placer County “professionals” lack. (Think slowly about each point before you move on to the next point.) 1) Dustin wants you all to believe the child is speaking of Baby Einstein’s worm: The child is clearly speaking of 3 types of worms throughout the video. Baby Einstein’s worm is the first one she addresses which she states is green and orange. Anyone that has seen B. E. knows that is correct and accurate. The child then adresses “Daddy’s worm†which tastes “Yucky†and makes her cough, he has to wipe her mouth with like a napkin because of “Daddy’s worm†not B. E.’s worm. She states she sometimes gets mad at daddy and then further describes why. At the end she describes how daddy takes her to the store to see worms. She is very descriptive and very clear it is “daddy’s worm†not worm’s from the store. Daddy thinks he is so smart and tried to confuse her by taking her to the store to see worms. Too bad for him that his child is more intelligent than him. The child then concludes she doesn’t like ANY of the worms. She gives the infamous worm an owner, her Daddy. She gives Baby Einstein’s worm an owner B. E., and she tells us where the other worms are that daddy made her go see…at the store. She addresses “daddy’s worm’s†size. She is holding her little baby doll in her arms and says its giant like her baby. She says she tried to see him, he tries to look big. “he tries to look big†possibly like an errection? She says “she tried to see him†so apparently it was dark. She says “I tell daddy’s worm dont do that, its yucky, dont touch my mouth worm†And that she has to tell him “dont stop.†It makes her choke and cry. Then tells him “daddy get it off, he has to wipe it off with like a napkin.†This child descibed perfectly the act of oral sex in complete sequencial order entirely on her own. “Daddy’s worm†does it to her. Then she states “daddy wants to have a baby.†2) The Child Molester wants you to believe his Worm is an earth worm: The child is very descriptive and clear. She described it’s size and it is not the size of an earth worm. Why would Daddy be sticking earth worms in her mouth anyway? That is abuse in itself. If you paid attention in the first of his theories it clearly debunks this theory of the child molesters too. 3) The Child molester wants you to believe that she is speaking of gummy worms: Listen to the child!! She tells you Baby Einstein’s worm is green and orange, not “Daddy’s worm.†Remember she tells you about “daddy’s worm†that she “tried to see him.†It’s kind of hard to see a worm that is getting shoved down your throat in the dark that makes you choke and cry. “It tries to look big†so we know it changes sizes. Plus, kids love gummy worms. “Daddy’s worm†is “yucky,†she has to tell it “dont stop†and then she states “daddy wants a babyâ€!! That is no gummy worm! Why would a child think her daddy wants a baby with her? Think about it. Why would she have to tell a worm that she doesn’t like, “Dont stopâ€? 4) The Wormy Daddy wants you to believe the mother coached her: Coaching is leading. It is the same as leading a witness with the answer in the question just like the rules in a courtroom. First of all nobody is even talking about the subject of “Daddy’s worm†in the video but ONLY the child entirely on her own. The only question asked is “What does the worm look like? There was nothing suggesting or leading in it. For those of you who do not understand what coaching is, a coaching example would be: Does the worm look like a banana? That would be suggesting an answer in the question. None of which ever happens throughout the entire 27 minutes of the “Daddy’s Worm†Video. The Mother and Aunt aren’t even talking. The child is insisting on telling them why she doesn’t want to go to bed. Any good Psychologist knows that children relate everything to their own knowledge and the world as they know it. They relate their own problems to their dolls having the same problems. This child in the video tells us that “Daddy’s worm makes her sick and cry and it makes her teddy bear sick and cry too.†She tells us that both her and her doll “don’t wants to go to bed right now.†At 2 1/2 she wouldn’t know the word penis instead describes it the best way she knows how “Daddy’s worm.†Don’t forget also there were previous reports made to CPS by others than the mother of the child describing “daddy’s worm†as having hair like the hair on her head, it having one eye, and hurting her tongue. There are previous reports and restraining orders filed because “daddy hurts her pee pee†before she ever talked about daddy’s worm in her mouth. Child molesters only progress in the sick things they experiment on children. You can see the progression throughout this child’s statements and behaviors. You can only imagine what he is doing to her since he has her alone for a year. It is very clear to any attentive parent that it is impossible to coach a 2 1/2 year old child to talk for 27 minutes straight relating everything she says to her dolls. Not one time throughout the entire video does she ask what mommy what did you say? The Inotation (rise and fall of ones pitch) is clear this child is speaking of her own valition. Her inotation does not rise like she is questioning each statement like a coached child would sound like. This child is clearly uncoached. Also it is pitch dark in the room. You can tell that they have to turn on a glowing bear in order to see. Also the infared is on in order to view the video. There is a tremendous amount of detail in the video alone to prove this child was indeed not coached or prompted in any way to say what she is describing about her “Daddy’s Wormâ€. Help stop this Child Molester!
August 18th, 2009 at 5:49 pm
ARE YOU SERIOUS?? They want to have a private investigator follow this guy? What do they think he does this in his car now too???
Another week and this mother still can’t get her act together enough to see her child! But she is such a ‘great mom’. Whatever…
August 18th, 2009 at 6:09 pm
This is how crazy some of these posters are:
1) Have you seen the baby’s hymen? No
2) Have you seen the baby’s pediatrician reports? No
3) Do you run saveaaliyah.com and have access to the funds to state money isn’t coming in? No
4) Are you in the room while Dustin forcefully shoves his crooked penis in his daughters mouth? No
5) Do all of you child molester supporters talk out of your ass? Yes!
Get a life.
August 18th, 2009 at 6:18 pm
Could you also elaborate on your “Worm” for us Dustin while you are at it trying to explain away Aaliyah’s “Monster and Parrot” comments that are video taped and documented in visitation reports?
A little defensive for being so innocent…
What’s your Worm again Dustin? Help us understand how innocent you are.
August 18th, 2009 at 6:36 pm
Sgt Victor Pecoraro is German and it’s rumored he has a swastika tattooed on him.
He hates Jews.
Instead of throwing Aaliyah in an oven he just threw her in the arms of a Child Molester.
There is a major hate crime going on throughout the paperwork of this case. It’s quite interesting.
August 18th, 2009 at 9:03 pm
Chicana
Maybe reality is a little too tough for you. Connies CHOICE of actions may very well leave her without the opportunity to celebrate and share in numerous milestones in her childs life. If ASKING Connie, if she is WILLING to forgo those milestones to keep up her hate campaign, is a little too rough for you, go back to wherever you and Connies supporters can share in her pity potty, console and comfort a vindictive liar.
No one but Connie is responsible for Connies choices and actions, or lack of action. No one is ‘celebrating’ the fact an innocent man and his family have been victimized and a child loses out on having her mother in her life as a result of her mothers very sick and vindictive actions. But asking Connie the tough realistic questions regarding the consequences of her actions, I have no problem asking them. Her family and supporters certainly aren’t. Reality is, Connie MAY very well lose out on each and every one of those milestones if she CHOOSES her vindictive hate campaign against her childs father OVER her child. Plain and simple, Connies choice, Connies consequences to pay for Connies actions.
I could care less what you think of me personally, this is about a child. Keep it about that, not me. I’m not your concern.
August 18th, 2009 at 9:05 pm
Why didn’t the previous judge watch the video ?
Didn’t he want all the facts ?
August 18th, 2009 at 9:19 pm
Icky Etardo
August 18th, 2009 at 9:26 am
Free Clue: That’s really the sad part, isn’t it? At three months with a three-year old, the forgetting is already well on its way. At this point, Aaliyah probably only has the haziest memory of her mother’s face.
If Ms. Bedwell ever does show up for visitation again, she can expect the same type of scene enacted in the parking lot exchange video—a weepy child who doesn’t want to go with a virtual stranger. If Ms. Bedwell filed for the Ex Parte hearing now and resumed visitation at once, the damage might be reparable, but with only two hours a week, it would be a hard row to hoe, to re-establish her relationship with her daughter.
Maybe that’s why Ms. Bedwell hasn’t filed for the Ex Parte hearing—she’s not interested in doing the hard work that it would take to repair her relationship with her daughter. It’s much easier to declare her “brainwashedâ€â€”mentally defective—than it is to fix things. Plus, that visitation center is EXPENSIVE. Easier to vent your rage on the internet and play the victim than it is to do the right thing and pick up the pieces, isn’t it?
I agree. I think it will be very tough for Connie, but why wouldn’t any parent go through hell and high water for their child? Perhaps, and very likely, Connie doesn’t have the skills to get herself together. She’s been offered and has rejected ALL assistance from the courts? What is it about this woman, that she seemingly can’t put her ‘pride’ aside, admit she was mistaken ( even if she really believed her daughter was being abused and it wasn’t a lie from day one to control her childs relationship with her father) and start the healing process and pick up the pieces of the relationships she destroyed? Sometimes pride is stronger than blood.
August 18th, 2009 at 9:59 pm
Oh please do fill us in on this private detective thing in post 1127, Stop Connie from Scamming. Where did you hear that? I want to read it too :(
I hear that private investigators charge an average of $100 – $200 an hour. It would probably be more effective to just hire a good lawyer, since they charge about the same. Still, it’s their money. If they’d rather blow it on video analysts, private detectives, and polygraphs tests that will make no difference in court, rather than invest it in good legal representation and visitation center fees, well, that’s their decision to make, no matter how poor I think their decisions are.
Personally I would budget my limited funds towards things that would have an effect on the courts or get me in to see my daughter, but that’s just ME. Obviously other people have different priorities.
August 18th, 2009 at 11:22 pm
OMG Believe it! What proof can you give that would ever EXCEED what’s already been investigated and the case file closed!
Connie is going on 3 months not seeing her kid what possible evidence does she ever think she’ll get her hands on?
Connie chicky poo dear get with the program okay? If you’re not seeing your kid and you’re telling the world you’re okay NOT respecting the courts then shut the hell up and go away. You can’t and won’t have it both ways. Good god no Thompsons have ever had to say the Bedwells are nuts, Bedwells have done that all on their own.
August 19th, 2009 at 12:30 am
CHICANA & KAREN are trying to find a way to have a private investigator follow all of you around. Its very funny to read. Good luck with that Karen, takes big money and some illegal tactics in order to invade ones privacy. Oh wait Connie has no money.
That’s actually not a bad idea. Perhaps Chicana and Karen would be interested in using their own funds, and when the PI gets back to them to advise them, just like APD has advised, this child is NOT being abused they’ll finally get with reality. But then again, if that were the case, they’d just say the PI was in on the conspiracy as well.
August 19th, 2009 at 9:11 am
The fact that Connie hasn’t been allowed to see her child is the very reason I know that this court is corrupt.
There is nothing that shows that Connie abused Aali. Nothing.
Telling the world that you think your ex is abusing your daughter should have no bearing on custody.
I already showed you the case law that states that custody and visitation can’t be used as punishment.
Is it in Aaliyah’s best interest to be kept away from her mother ? No.
Regardless of what Connie says about Dustin, there is a bond between mother and child that is unlike any other. It’s selfish (and illegal) to deny Aaliyah her right to see her mother because her mother video-taped her talking and thinks her dad is a molesting her.
Connie needs to see if she has time to appeal the judge’s order.
And yes, you can appeal family court decisions.
Most of the time, these appeals are won because family court isn’t ‘real court’ and doesn’t work under ‘real laws’.
I know they get away with this ALL the time, but that’s only because a lot of the parents are poor and can’t afford to fight. It’s time to stop pretending that family court follows the same rules as ‘real court’ and therefore must be basing their decisions on the law. That is utter BS.
Not everyone can afford justice.
August 19th, 2009 at 9:16 am
Everyone who claims that they know that the judge’s decisions were based on facts and expert reports needs to provide copies of these documents, court orders, reports,etc.
If they can’t they should give their relationship to the parties involved or who’s providing their ‘proof’.
Otherwise, the only solid evidence is Aali’s video.
August 19th, 2009 at 9:36 am
In response to Icky’s
“Oh please do fill us in on this private detective thing in post 1127, Stop Connie from Scamming. Where did you hear that? I want to read it too”
I’d like to see that too.This poster is lying to you and twisting the facts.
This person needs to put their money where their mouth is and prove what they say.
August 19th, 2009 at 9:44 am
Free Clue
Reality is Aaliyah saying Daddy’s worm is yucky, it hurts her mouth, he has to wipe it off, like with a napkin.
It’s a sad reality, but reality all the same.
Saying that it’s coached or untrue is only an OPINION.
Many who signed the petition were sexually abused as children and they all believe Aaliyah.
They know what it feels like and they know the signs.
Do you ?
August 19th, 2009 at 10:11 am
Chicana
August 19th, 2009 at 9:11 am
The fact that Connie hasn’t been allowed to see her child is the very reason I know that this court is corrupt.
Chicana go back and reread. The court has NOTHING to do with why Connie doesn’t currently have visitation. Straight from Mr. Bedwells mouth, HE stated the owner of the visitation center told Connie she was no longer welcome to use their services. Mr. Bedwell gets into the details as to why. Now, if you think that is a result of the courts decision, you are then calling the Bedwells liars too.
Why hasn’t Connie filed that ex parte hearing? Why hasn’t she secured an acceptable visitation center? Why isn’t Connies attorney returning Connies calls? Why is he ignoring Ms. Amara’s calls, faxes, letters attempting to reintstate visitation?
August 19th, 2009 at 10:27 am
I’ll make it simple for you Chicana. Post#328 – posted by Mr. Bedwell himself. It even explains that the courts ruled Connies actions as child abuse. His words, not mine.
August 19th, 2009 at 10:29 am
interesting
August 18th, 2009 at 6:36 pm
Wow did you think that up all by yourself wow you are a smartie! German = Nazi? What an ignorant piece of trash you are. That will DEF. get baby A back to Connie saying things like that right? Sike. Shoo shoo loser!
August 19th, 2009 at 10:53 am
I’m feeling better about Connie’s attorney. I found some client revues. Apparently he’s not good at returning phone calls because he’s too busy WORKING on his client’s cases.
Looks like I was wrong and owe him a BIG apology.
Looks like there’s hope for Aaliyah after all.
Below are a couple of his reviews
have hired ron on two separate occasions. He is a challenge to get in touch with but I don’t hold it against him because you don’t lift a finger with him on your case. He works very hard for you and is more than fair. I don’t ever want to need an attorney again but I will absolutely hire him again if the need arises. I will always recommend him to anyone.
Another says “He has a great relationship with the Judges and usually gets what he wants. How can you argue with that?”
I can’t…..
August 19th, 2009 at 10:56 am
The comments about the private eye are posted on savebabyab on blogspot. They were in support of hiring a private eye, not arrangements for doing so.
The proof most people have Chicana, is the same that you have- it is all based on what is posted on the internet. Many of us base it on what is posted by the bedwells witnesses, and their written and/or recorded(audio) statements. Some of us throw in the statements made by posters claiming inside information provided by the Bedwells. I for one do not add in the information of those claiming to be against this woman.
I still come up with the same results. No one is stopping this mother from filing the exparte motion to get immediate restoration of visitation. Her and her attorney are the ones dropping the ball here. Why is it that she can’t after all this time(it was June 1 the Judge told her to use an exparte motion if visits were not restored in I believe 2 days- this is per her own family’s statement of what went on in court) manage to follow the instructions the out of county Judge gave her. There is no answer for this, just like there is no answer to many other questions.
August 19th, 2009 at 11:43 am
Another rumor posted out there hoping it too will stick #1140? LOL It just gets more ridiculous every day with the Bedwells doesn’t it people? Once again desperation rising to the top of their insanity to make up more lies.
Icky I think I read at the BNN site board about Connie’s followers wanting to hire a PI. If they deleted their posts they must be afraid of something. Weird reaction
Hey Chicana in order to appeal any decision you first need to follow your own lawyers instructions! Second need to comply with all court orders and third have a substantial reason to bring an appeal. Courts don’t just ‘hear’ all appeals, they make decisions on the application sent to them. Connie and all she’s done wrong will have the longest hardest and very very expensive hill to climb. Do you have deep pockets because it’s next to impossible for Connie to do anything.
I’ll add the website too. I can’t wait for an update please!
http://thetruthaboutconnie.blogspot.com/
August 19th, 2009 at 12:01 pm
to “nothing tops this logic and truth’
It is redundant to re-post the same comment that was left here on this blog before. Just because you just read it, does not mean we haven’t. And yes, I already noticed it also copied onto the petition site.
August 19th, 2009 at 12:05 pm
I meant to say why is it after all this time, she still can’t manage to follow the instructions the out of county Judge gave her.
August 19th, 2009 at 12:37 pm
I’m still waiting to see those reports.
August 19th, 2009 at 2:44 pm
I would certainly be interested in seeing that proof as well, Chicana. As far as I know, it’s just a tidbit of unsubstantiated gossip.
I doubt that you, Karen, or the Bedwells have the money to follow through on such an idea unless one of you is secretly filthy rich. Plus, there are far better ways to spend your money that would actually have an effect on the outcome of the case, whereas hiring a private detective to follow the Thompsons around would not.
The majority of a private detective’s job is to search the public records, and if there were anything compelling there, that information would have already been found long ago. As for “tailing” someone, the private detective is still bound by the laws of the State of California. They don’t have free reign to trespass, break into houses, etc. About the best they can do is follow someone around on their daily routine and go through their trash. It would be a horrendous waste of money. The Thompsons don’t strike me as idiots; they’re unlikely to do anything openly that a private investigation would reveal.
Still, if anyone has evidence that hiring a private detective is being planned, I’d be interested to see their evidence.
Meanwhile, how’s that Ex Parte Hearing paperwork going? Time’s a-wasting. Aaliyah’s not getting any younger, and Ms. Bedwell’s failure to make the appropriate arrangements is definitely making it look like she doesn’t care. The court counts these things, you know.
August 20th, 2009 at 6:49 am
I was just looking to see if Beast and C~A have updated their trashy site with more lies about Aaliyah – I feel sorry for him, he needs the web hits!!
It was interesting to see that more Aaliyah articles and comments have been deleted there – worried about something guys?
Even more interesting was the latest self pitying article from Beast complaining that they want to stop his welfare and send him back to work :o( gutted for him, no doubt he won’t be able to spend so much time online spreading lies and innacuracies about this poor little girl.
Beast has admitted that he has been on a number of medications since October last year, including Oxy Contin, Codeine, Amiytriptiline, Demerol and currently 2 strengths of Morphine (more in common with MJ than we previously thought, he relates on more than one level).
Beast admits that the drugs make him spaced out and is unable to concentrate for long periods of time, yet he expects us to believe his views on this case. No wonder C~A is so stressed out, having the kids and Beast to look after as well as her bus driver job and money problems. It explains a lot of the misdirected anger towards Connie.
Sorry Beast, I dont trust the judgement of someone under the influence of drugs. Thats one of the reasons I don’t believe Dustin tells the truth either.
I hope the people at the WSIB check Beast out throughly, for someone who claims he is unable to work as he can’t sit for than 10 – 15 minutes at a time he spends an awful lot of time online meddling in things he knows nothing about.
http://www.thepetitionsite.com/1/help-save-aaliyah
August 20th, 2009 at 9:39 am
#1161 How sad you stoop to such low levels. Beast didn’t delete anything, he took Aali off his front pages. Use a search feature once in awhile you’ll find everythings there.
Keep attacking other posters, it’s the only defense Connie has since she has no evidence her child was abused.
“Steer people to information about other posters and maybe Connie’s story will become more believable” yah that’ll work, it must work, it has to work!
Whatever. You’re such a sad individual I have such pity for you #1161
http://thetruthaboutconnie.blogspot.com/
August 20th, 2009 at 9:42 am
Truth is the truth, Connie made up her entire story about her child.
Truth hurts and it shows in how Connies family replies.
They have nothing so they attack & bully instead.
Everyone can see right through you. You make it so clear to all why Connie has no rights to her kid. Crystal clear
August 20th, 2009 at 10:01 am
Last time I checked, Connie still won’t do anything to see her kid. Connie what did your sister say in court to your lawyer and why was Cara so mad? What happened? Cara? Is that why your lawyer doesn’t talk to you Connie? What will you say in September at the hearing to explain yourself Connie? The judge expected you to follow through with your promises and you left court holding up your middle finger instead.
No respect for the courts, no respect for putting her child through so much either. Connie time to grow up and be a big girl. Daddy is stuck in Alaska and has no money to help you. Start helping yourself Connie so you can see your kid 2 hours a week.
Then again being a victim is more important than even your child.
Please save Aali from the Bedwells and her mother. Aali doesn’t need this drama in her life!
August 20th, 2009 at 11:14 am
Seems desperation is striking again, instead of sticking to the facts(or lack there of) in this story, people like you want to attack those you disagree with.
Way to make your point about Connie, she has no facts to back her up. Just a whole lot of anger and desperation.
It is not the judge stopping visitation, it is Connie and her lawyer who are not filing the motion, or following up. And another day goes by where this mother can’t manage to get her act together and get the visits restarted.
August 20th, 2009 at 12:15 pm
Typical response from a Bedwell supporter; if you can’t prove your case, start a smear campaign against your opponent.
Way to castigate a disabled guy for doing what the doctor has told him to do though—NIIIICE.
Meanwhile, how’s that Ex Parte paperwork going? I assure you that the judge doesn’t know or care who Beast is or what legal prescription medications Beast takes. The judge WILL notice that Ms. Bedwell still hasn’t seen her daughter or made the appropriate motions to see her, though. After a certain amount of time they can terminate her parental rights due to abandonment, hope y’all knew that.
August 20th, 2009 at 12:38 pm
LMAO…
You are wrong.
Filing an appeal has nothing to do with following your lawyer’s instructions! Second appealing has nothing to do with complying with court orders, the court order is what you’re appealling.They are two separate things. Third the only substantial reason you need to bring an appeal is that the court order didn’t comply with the law.Since I already found case studies that show custody can’t be used as a punishment for talking smack on your ex, she has an appealable issue.Since I can’t find a single definition/criteria that video taping your child talking about what her daddy did to her is abuse, that could also be an appealable issue. Especially when her intent was to provide evidence in order to protect her daughter.
There are time limits and I don’t know if her time has expired.
Nothing is impossible. And you just as much said that Connie doesn’t have, and will not have custody because she can’t afford justice.
If the law is followed, Connie will regain custody of Aaliyah.
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August 20th, 2009 at 12:49 pm
Wait a minute
Aaliyah’s words back up Connie’s points. Her Daddy’s worm was yucky, it hurt her mouth, he had to wipe it off.
IT MADE HER COUGH then Then she made that gagging noise that sounded like that of a woman performing oral sex on a man.
Go ahead LMAO , TELL ME WHAT KIND OF WORM was Dustin shoving in Aaliyah’s mouth hard enough that it made her gag and cough ?
We really don’t know what might be going on behind the scenes, maybe something of more significance than the ex-parte ??
August 20th, 2009 at 1:33 pm
Icky
Terminating her rights might be part of their grand plan.
She’d then be entitled to a jury trial and I don’t think they would want a lot of the facts in this case to become public record.
IDK, but IMO, they will never move to terminate her rights.
August 20th, 2009 at 1:37 pm
Oh pluuueezzeee
Connie’s lawyer won’t do a damn thing for her unless she follows HIS advice. IT won’t work the other way around but after going through 4 other lawyers she still hasn’t figured it out? You don’t demand a lawyer to obey your every request, you hire them to give YOU the best legal advice and then if you’re smart enough, you follow it!
Connie’s rights were removed because of her refusal to comply with so many orders by the judge, not just the restraining order.
You don’t know this woman and you don’t know at all the court’s system, its evident you don’t know what you’re really talking about or who you’re defending. Give it a rest Chicana and go deal with your own CPS issues.
Connie’s a fraud and none of us will shut up until she goes away! Live with it!
August 20th, 2009 at 1:50 pm
oh and Chicana – YES if Connie needs to approach the judge with an appeal of anything she absolutely damn rights has to show the judge just WHY the judge should rule in her favor and allow an appeal. You cannot separate the issues when its all the same issue – the best interests of the child.
Go read a law book before you spew stuff you know nothing about. She will not be allowed to bring anything to the judge to rule for her if she hasn’t shown compliance with regards to previous orders to her child.
It just won’t happen, it IS how family law works. You can’t keep getting new lawyers and new judges, after some point in time she will not be able to bring anything to the judge because eventually she’ll be deemed a vexatious litigator.
http://www.leginfo.ca.gov/cgi-bin/displaycode?section=ccp&group=00001-01000&file=391-391.7
Here do some reading to actually learn before you speak Chicana. Connie is working towards this title and fast if she brings friviolous orders to the court BUT REFUSES ALL OTHER ORDERS against her.
She can’t have it both ways and the courts are TEACHING HER THAT THE HARD WAY AREN’T THEY!!
Connie grow up and start OBEYING THE COURTS. THEN SOME DAY you can bring appeals to attempt to change rulings. Until then……. you sleep in the bed you made!
August 20th, 2009 at 1:51 pm
If Dustin or Thompsons read here, make note of the above so Amara can file against Connie if necessary!
August 20th, 2009 at 2:00 pm
If you can’t read, it doesn’t take the courts a lot to deem Connie a vexatious litigator.
She will not be able to bring the video repeatedly forth in court system when it’s been ruled on previously (WHICH IT HAS BY THE JUDGE)
She will not be able to bring her false accusations of the father being an abuser to the courts because its a ‘non’ issue for the judge, he’s ruled the child is safe with her father.
She will not be able to bring forth a change in visitation/increase or increase in her rights to custody UNTIL she complies with the judges previous orders.
I could go on and on but if she attempts to bring applications forth and the judge repeatedly denies them until compliance is shown on Connie’s side, eventually she will not be allowed to bring ANY order to the courts if they get Connie labeled as a vexatious litigator.
Get it? Probably not but I thought the Thompsons and Amara would take this info and consider it for the future issues Connie may attempt to pull off.
FAMILY COURTS work this way Dear, it’s why Connie is being PUNISHED as you call it – she has NO RIGHTS to her child right? RIGHT!
hmmmmmmm wonder why?
August 20th, 2009 at 5:01 pm
So how many months has it been since this mother saw her child? And what is her latest reason for not following court procedure and entering an ex part motion? Can’t have anything to do with opposing council, as an ex parte motion can be heard without input from the opposition.
So why is it there is no motion filed, or visitation going on 2 1/2 months after the judge told this woman to use an ex parte motion to restore visitation if needed???
Seems like this story not only lacks proof, but the effort needed from this mother. Shameful! Any sympathy I had for her is gone now.
August 20th, 2009 at 5:08 pm
Maybe the story was pulled off of Beast’s site because it is such an old story. One without any updates, and with very little evidence. This story has very little activity on any blog but this one. And there is no new news or any evidence to discuss.
We can all have our opinions, but this story is pretty much over if and until something changes. No one can even explain why there is still no visitation. Support for a mother who can’t follow through and arrange visitation is not going to grow. So how hard is this mother trying to restore visitation after this long without? Obviously not hard enough.
August 20th, 2009 at 5:52 pm
I have watched this sad story of this precious child ever since KarenCCC brought it to BNN. I could not fathom what was being said. I was angry and amazed with the hysteria that now seems to be the base of this story. I have watched hysteria destroy friendships and almost close comments on a blog that had kind caring friends who fought for the rights of children. I don’t understand a mother who put her child’s face and name all over the net, begged for money for her child and is still not following the courts orders. I have read where the kind folks at BNN have written about talking with this mother who has a gag order over her head, this has been after the gag order not before. I feel sorry for her that she has had to go to this extreme. Something is just not right. One side is wrong and this child is the one that is paying. I have heard where a blogger has had to say a big sorry to all that she has gone off on due to the fact that she wants so badly for all to believe her that she is hysterical. She is not a family member, dose not live anywhere near this child, did not know this family before she brought this story and demanded for all of us to send money, ask no questions and belittle others only for her to be right. I hope that she and this mother are wrong. I hope this mother has a screw loose and gets the help she needs to be a good mother. That would mean this child is not being sexualy abused by her father. I see where so many so called adults want to be right so badly that a poster here is saying mean things about Beast and his health matters. Are you proud of yourself. Did it make you feel better about who you are. Did this help this little girl. Just ask yourselves is your behavior on the net helping this little girl or are you self serving. I am a retired Social Worker and an RN. This has been so hard to watch. There are bad people who are hurting children and we as adults can do nothing to help any child while child like behavior is being the core of the issues. I am pleading to anyone who is really in a position to help this precious child to act like an adult not an teenager and help her. No matter who is right or wrong this little girl needs help. Believe me I have seen some terrile things done to children and elderly folks and it is heart breaking. So grow up. Stop the mud slinging take action if there is any to take. I still have a hard time believing that so many people have looked into this case and the dad is cleared time and time again. No one has enough money to pay everyone off. Perhaps one or two but not this many experts, MDs, and legal folks can all be wrong with the same findings. Take a deep breath, hold it a minute and think what you are doing. Karen, I know that this case is close to your heart but you get more with honey than vinger. Be nice and kind. You claim that you want to help this child so badly, what are you doing and how are you treating others. They way that you are acting shows people that this mother is not stable. Of course this is MOO. Believe me I do respect you for wanting to help this child and I understand your frustrations but when you act out with your words if dose make people wonder what this is really all about. I wish for only the best for this family and the poster who do as well. Stop the hysteria, help if you can, if you can’t be a good support system to those who can help. Act like adults.
I hope that I will not be bashed for this post but the way that things are going to fell a lot of people here are not for this child but for their own well being. Isn’t that just sad.
August 20th, 2009 at 6:42 pm
Almost all appeals in California must be filed within 60 days of the date of the ruling, so it’s unlikely that there’s going to be an appeal.
In addition, an appeal is not a retrial of a case. Instead, the appeal addresses the way the law was applied rather than the evidence itself.
From the Superior Court of California, County of Sacramento (where Ms. Bedwell’s appeal would be filed):
” An appeal is a review of the trial court’s decision by another court. A party may appeal an unfavorable judgment and certain orders. Generally, the appeal must be based on an argument that a legal error was made by the trial court.
An appeal is not a retrial. You will not be permitted to introduce new evidence, and the appellate court will not reassess conflicting evidence.”
http://www.saccourt.ca.gov/default.aspx
So it’s very unlikely that any judgments or rulings would be overturned on appeal in this case, especially when you consider that a second judge was brought in and upheld the first judge’s ruling. None of that matters, though—the 60 days has already passed, so it’s too late to appeal.
August 20th, 2009 at 9:28 pm
Isn’t that something! Attack Beast to push focus off of Connies lies? What grade are you in?
No one is worried about a darn thing. What you going to threaten next? None of your BS changes the fact that Connie coached her babygirl. What possible does anyone have to be worried about? None of us are the liars, we are trying to get Connie to stop exploiting her child and save the child from future harm with her name being all over the place.
Save Aali from Connie. Oh fudge, forgot. The judge already took her rights away. Oh well, no worries ;)
August 21st, 2009 at 2:51 am
With reference to #1161 ‘Is Beast High’ they are correct in that articles have been removed from Beasts site.
“Aaliyah Bedwell-The Truth is Here.†article dated July 3rd is no longer there, nor is the ‘A Bedwell’ blog that he set up in June. I have copies of both and saw the misinformation and lies that were posted.
Perhaps ‘Is Beast High’ is correct in thinking it was removed because they were worried about possible legal action.
Why no update Bubba, has anyone heard anything else from Dr Saturley, why is everyone letting this little girl down?
~ I believe Aaliyah when she told us about Daddys worm ~
August 21st, 2009 at 7:09 am
Dose anyone besides me wonder why Connie lost her visation. I have read where so many have asked this question. Karen tells us that SHE knows why but will not tell anyone. Strange. Why? Why has she not seen her baby that she is fighting for. Why? Why has there been so many involved in this case say that the child is safe with her daddy and not her mother to the point that she can not see her child. Dose she want to see her child? If she dose she has a funny way of showing it. Why? What is she really fighting for. If it is for her child why has she not done everything the courts have told her to. Why? Why did she need money for yet another laywer. How many has she had? Why? Has she done one thing that the courts have told her to do. Why is she always playing the victim does she need the attention so badly. Was she wanting her pound of flesh of the dad? Did she think that she would make a bunch of money off of good caring people for her own gain? Why was she talking to Karen and BNN when she had a gag order in place. What is her deal. I don’t think we will ever know. Bless this child she needs all of the help that she can get. I don’t know about how others feel but, I am sick to death of people wanting to be right to the point that they are making anyone who wants to help run for the hills. This has blown up in the mothers face. Her plan has not worked. Everyone in the system can not be wrong. Why? Why did she loose visitaion? Perhaps it is because she just will not do what the courts are telling her to do. She is not above the law, if she wants to ever she her baby again she needs to do just what the courts tell her to do or she can just kiss her child good by. So Sad. Why? Oh and by the way in mho, the dad’s family dose owe anyone any answers. But I do ask why of the mother and her family. JMHO
August 21st, 2009 at 7:23 am
‘Whatever’ #1162
Beast HAS deleted the two blogs I mentioned from his site, you can search all you like but they are NOT there. I know they exist as I have copies, so why lie?
‘okay then’ #1175
You CLAIM that the article was removed as it was an old story, now we both know that’s not true.
There are other older Aaliyah articles still on Beasts site, some going back to May 13th so why lie about it?
The fact that you lie about small things like this which are easily proved seriously makes me question your credibility.
Back to Aaliyah, she is the only victim here.
~ I believe Aaliyah ~
August 21st, 2009 at 7:32 am
Marmite do you read before you post or do you just post lies because you want to be right about this dad. Just a suggestion before you trash Beast site. Go and read and understand before you trash someone. The articles are not removed from the site. The mothers side of this are so out of control they are just grabbing at straws to show that this child is in danger. This baby is safe with her daddy. Why do you want this child to be abused as you all claim? I know that the system dose not always work for the good of the child. However it is becoming very clear that this time the system has done the proper job for this precious baby. IMHO only. I still ask the question why? If you all know so much why not answere the question of why?
August 21st, 2009 at 10:39 am
It’s because there’s no good reason why she lost visitation. Family court doesn’t work like civil or criminal court. There doesn’t have to be real evidence.
Decisions are made based on “so called expert” opinions.
The attorneys find and then pay someone to give the opinion they want.
You can have 5 ‘experts’ and they can come up with 5 different opinions on the same issue.
There are ‘experts’ who have reported their opinion that Aaliyah was abused, however Amara is not going to submit a report like that to the court and at that time Connie didn’t have an attorney.
When will this stop….
I haven’t seen the reports to know that Dustin has been ‘cleared’ every time by every one, but it’s not hard for me to believe that they could all be wrong, it depends on who pays them.
There could also be reports that weren’t in favor of the father that weren’t admitted as evidence and therefore would wouldn’t be a factor in the judge’s decision.
Have you seen the Sacramento Bee’s expose’ on CPS & Family Court ?
The truth is coming out.
The whole system fails children all the time.
My opinion in this case is based on Aaliyah’s own words and my belief that there is no way she was coached.
I don’t know Connie or Dustin and for all I know they could both be scamming, lying losers, it wouldn’t change my opinion that Aaliyah was abused.
I could very well believe that Connie was a lying scammer who is bitter because her ex got custody,….. if I hadn’t seen the video.
August 21st, 2009 at 10:55 am
WOW –
Her rights haven’t been terminated.
August 21st, 2009 at 11:01 am
When will this stop – I believe the answer to your questions are simple.
Connie fabricated a story and earned a great deal of money off the start.
How do you come full circle and admit it was all a lie in the first place? What level of courage does it take for someone to admit they were wrong and they lied and made the whole thing up?
Most people never admit to their lies and its more important for Connie to hold onto her lies and her ‘victim’ stance than undo all the damage she’s done.
Do you know the effort it would take for her to undo this all? It would be very hard to right all her wrongs!
It’s much easier to sit back and play the poor victim mother and make endless accusations against every last player, expert, father’s lawyer, judges & authority involved instead of doing the right thing. Even posters who feel it’s wrong to exploit the child is attacked.
Everyone and everything is to blame BUT CONNIE.
It doesn’t take a rocket scientist to see why she has no rights to her kid and I for one feel it should stay that way for good!
August 21st, 2009 at 11:02 am
Ummm Marmite, there is no legal action possible against Beast, or for that matter BNN and BTLS for the blogs. They are opinion pieces. LOL
The slam against Beast is a low-life attempt to discredit someone with an opinion that does not support the Bedwell’s claims. We keep seeing these attempts to discredit individual people who post about this story.
August 21st, 2009 at 11:11 am
http://thetruthaboutconnie.blogspot.com/
Connie you are the only one in control of your future. The choices you make today will decide what happens in the future.
It’s all in your hands Connie! Continue down this road you’re on and you will have exactly what you have today at this moment!!!!!
Get it? Will there ever be a time you get it?
August 21st, 2009 at 11:11 am
And yes ‘when will it stop’ many of us wonder why this mother lost custody, and why she has not managed to get visitation restored yet. There are many unanswered questions about this story. There are many conflicting opinions and points of view.
There is a child in the center, one with parents that hate each other it seems. We will never see the evidence the court sees, family law cases are rightly sealed.
I would hope that we can all agree that the amount of information posted on the net, and linked to this child will not be in her best interest. There was never a need to post this child’s face. There was no need to use the child’s full name. It could have been done without using her name. Now this child has a legacy- because what gets put on the net, stays on the net. How will she feel when she reads about herself? What will her friends think when they google her name some day? And don’t give me that she will be proud crap- for once think of this like this child will. She will be mortified, and embarrassed and want to change her name after she sees all this. If it were your own child, how would you feel 10 years from now when your child read about herself this way?
August 21st, 2009 at 11:24 am
Chicana,
If Connie’s lawyer is trying to get a jury trial by having the courts seek to terminate her parental rights, she will for once be correct in saying losing her child was not her fault.
First, I can find nowhere that says California allows a jury trial in any family law case- and termination of parental rights is a family law matter. Even if a jury trial were in the realm of possibility, What makes you think a they would agree with her? There are many out here who do not, more if not equal to the number that do at least. Not everyone buys into the validity of the only ‘proof’- the video. I know I don’t see it as absolute proof of anything except this mother once again violating a court order.
Second, she would have to be nuts to agree to risk losing all her parental rights in order to try to get what she wants. Although many here feel she is nuts, I still don’t think she would risk parental rights, but I could be wrong.
Third, why is there still no visitation? This alone should send up red flags to those who so absolutely support this woman.
Maybe you are right, and this lawyer has something up his sleeve, but really, risking parental rights should not be a game plan!
August 21st, 2009 at 11:26 am
Icky
An appeal isn’t a retrial, but it will reverse a court’s order if it’s not lawful and based on the constitutional rights of the parent.
The FLDS case was a perfect example.
The evidence presented didn’t warrant the court’s actions.
August 21st, 2009 at 12:17 pm
I suspect that Bubba hasn’t updated and Dr. Saturley hasn’t commented because they’ve figured out that Ms. Bedwell scammed them.Meanwhile this thread remains open. Have you ever wondered why, when every other website and blog on the internet has closed or deleted their threads on this subject, this one remains open? I think it might be because BTLS is harvesting IP addresses for potential use in court. JMHO of course.
Meanwhile, how’s that Ex Parte Hearing motion coming along? It’s a 2 page document, and half of it is check-boxes. Shouldn’t take that long to fill out and file. Why has it taken almost three months?
August 21st, 2009 at 12:35 pm
If the court gave you a way to restore visitation- the ex parte motion- would you do whatever it took to get that motion filed and see your child?
I would. I just don’t understand this woman. She was willing to put her child’s story and picture and videos out there on the internet, but she can’t manage to follow the judge’s advice and see her child?
No one seems to know why, but the fact is she is still not putting forth the amount and type of effort needed to see this little girl. That tells me a lot about her.
August 21st, 2009 at 12:54 pm
The arguement that Aaliyah is SCREAMING when she goes to her Monster/Parrot/Molesting Wormy Daddy is because she hasn’t seen him, is complete bologna. Dustin has had visitation with his daughter since she was 8/9 months old plenty of time for him to have developed a relationsip with him.
She is screaming because he is hurting her pee pee and butt and sticking his one eyed hairy yucky worm in her mouth then kicked her in the back for telling on him.
We will make sure it is taped for the first time Aaliyah sees Connie again after 3/4 months of not seeing her and post it on the net for all to see that Dustin’s bs claim is simply that, BS. Aaliyah wont be crying going to Connie- She never has never once. But watch she will be crying going back to Thompson’s because they are abusers.
Aaliyah will never forget the one person in her life that made her feel safe. We all know Daddy, Papi/Grandpa beat and molest her and Dina/Grandma doesn’t protect her. She won’t forget her Mommy.
Dustin would love to try to make her forget her mother but the more he tries the more Aaliyah will flip out when she has to go back to him from visiting her mother.
We all can read about it in the visitation reports.
Hey John David and Dustin Thompson can you explain to us why Aaliyah still flips out and tries to kick her way out of your arms even after having full custody for about a year. Can’t use the excuse she hasn’t been aquainted with you… now what are you going to say?
Try just telling the truth.
ABUSERS
Tell us why Aaliyah is almost 4 years old and still in diapers.
Here’s an idea quit molesting her and beating her.
And John David you can’t stand the Dear Dina post can you? You don’t want Dina to be unbrainwashed from your control.
Better go beat her again before she stands up to you!
August 21st, 2009 at 1:31 pm
Dose, it is spelled does.
It’s sad that people like you “When will this stop” support a child molester.
The Thompson’s won’t answer because they are guilty. They don’t want their lies to continue to unravel.
Nobody is buying their ten seperate stories of daddy’s worm being an earth worm, baby Einstein worm or coaching and so on.
Individual thinkers that aren’t followers can see for their own two eyes that that baby isn’t coached which then means she is being molested. Which also means the baby is telling the truth and the mother is telling the truth.
This fight is going to be going on until that baby is out of that child molester’s care.
How you can’t see that for your own two eyes is a puzzle in itself.
August 21st, 2009 at 1:41 pm
Maybe Connie’s lawyer is talking with the DA.
August 21st, 2009 at 1:51 pm
The video has never been seen by a Judge or rejected by a judge there hasn’t been a trial in order for a judge to see it.
Trial time. Thompson’s are so afraid of a trial. They are trying to dodge it at every oppertunity. Sandy Amara sounded like she was crapping her pants when Judge Nichols drilled her on why would she be fighting so hard to not have a trial.
We all know why Sand-on-her-face-Amara would be afraid of a trial, don’t we Thompsons?
The traces of GUILT
August 21st, 2009 at 3:56 pm
Oh Icky-poo,
Dr Saturley had a long convo with Connie yesterday. If you had any inside info you would know that.
You should make sure you wake up every morning to hear BTLS.
There are actually people on here that care about AALIYAH and realize this is about AALIYAH!
http://SaveAaliyah.com
August 21st, 2009 at 4:06 pm
There’s never been a trial so why would the Thompson’s be afraid of anything? The judges RULE on the evidence and the JUDGE requested EXPERTS to view and provide information to the JUDGE.
A JUDGE DOES NOT MAKE DETERMINATIONS ON VIDEOS, HE/SHE GETS EXPERTS TO PROVIDE OPINION. GOOD GOD YOU KNOW NOTHING! There won’t be a TRIAL because Connie has no applicable reasons for any TRIAL. Trial Trial trial, lol. It’s getting so old threatening to have a trial yet Connie doesn’t even bring an application to see her kid. Whatever you’re all a huge joke. NO ONE SUPPORTS ANY CHILD MOLESTER BECAUSE THERE IS NO MOLESTER. WHEN WILL YOU ALL GET THAT THROUGH YOUR HEAD??
WE SUPPORT AALI NOT BEING EXPLOITED AND AN INNOCENT MAN NOT BEING TORN TO SHREDS.
Nope Connie isn’t seeing any DA’s office other than for her own potential criminal charges so quit the idiotic ‘hint’ of threats. YOUR WITCH HUNT IS NOT WORKING and bringing OLD evidence that has already been ruled over repeatedly will never work. What part of that can’t any of you get past? NO JUDGE WILL LOOK AT ANY VIDEO, 2 JUDGES ALREADY HAD ASKED EXPERTS TO DO THAT FOR THEM.
THE JUDGES HAVE RULED AND YOUR GAME IS OVER CONNIE
August 21st, 2009 at 4:11 pm
Kari?? Just where in your little world do you see “no one is buying the Thompsons story???”
WHERE?
Because last I looked, Connie had all rights to her child removed, she had strict supervised visitation she doesn’t do anything about and NO ONE IS SENDING IN ANY MORE MONEY TO HER.
WHERE?
Judges agree with Thompsons, DA’s office agrees with Thompsons, Police, CPS, child experts, doctors, and on and on and on.
All I see is a few people with no life who believe in the mother because of their own CPS issues in their lives.
NO ONE BELIEVES THE THOMPSONS?
Better get your facts straight before you speak again. Sure looks like every last person around this child believes the FATHER and the CHILD.
Child coached = NO ABUSE!
JUDGES AGREE WITH ALL INVOLVED = RULES IN FAVOR OF FATHER.
WHERE IS NO ONE BELIEVING THE DAD?
CAN’T FIND IT
STILL LOOKING
What a sad story you try to tell yourself Kari, so so very sad. That’s the kind of world the mother lives in? Sure not reality is it!
August 21st, 2009 at 4:12 pm
Http://SaveAaliyah.com is the truth about Dustin.
Nobody needs to put a bash site up for him.
His own daughter stated enough facts about him for us all.
Aaliyah said it not Connie.
Connie is simply advocating for her daughter like any good mother would.
August 21st, 2009 at 4:35 pm
Let me reiterate 1 fine point.
THE JUDGES have seen the video! THEY asked experts to watch the video and give the JUDGE a determination. That is what occurred. THE JUDGES WILL NOT repeatedly address the video issue, it’s been addressed more than once and Connie has had about 5 opportunities to refute/appeal/address/re-examine these experts. She did not do that in those 5 opportunities.
She can’t just wait and wait and wait on these issues. It’s at the TIME of the expert testimony to the judge about the videos is WHEN her lawyer THEN should have addressed / cross-examined the experts.
If she did not do this, she cannot FORCE the courts to re-address it just because she missed 5 different occasions.
The time has come and gone. There are things she really cannot approach the courts with any longer.
First things first? Visitation! Her own lawyer isn’t even talking to her so how can she ever expect to resolve any other mountainous issues facing her?!!
Chicana – Connie may some day get some semblance of custody restored but SHE MUST FIRST OBEY COURT ORDERS, PARENTAL CLASSES AND ALL OTHER THINGS THE COURTS INITIALLY DEMANDED OF HER. UNTIL THEN Chicana – the courts WILL NOT SIDE WITH HER period! They will not and that’s CONNIE’S PROBLEM.
SO TAKE YOUR LITTLE SUPPORT GROUP AND CHALLENGE CONNIE TO DO THE RIGHT THINGS TO GET VISITATION DONE INSTEAD OF babbling here. It’s Connie you need to force to adhere to things, not the father, not lawyers, not experts and no ‘letter’ writing to judges will even change their minds.
CONNIE AND CONNIE ALONE has all the power to CHANGE and DO THE RIGHT THING.
WHY WON’T SHE??
August 21st, 2009 at 5:41 pm
There isn’t going to be a trial because Mr. Thompson hasn’t been charged with a crime. The case has already been investigated again and again, without a single charge being filed. There’s nothing to try. It’s really, really simple—no charges, no trial.
The Thompsons don’t answer because they have a restraining order against Ms. Bedwell forbidding her from discussing the case. This same order also forbids the Thompsons from discussing the case. If they discuss the case, they violate the terms of the restraining order. Also very, very simple.
I think it’s funny that y’all hate on Ms. Amara. Ms. Bedwell would be lucky if she had half as good a lawyer as Ms. Amara. Oh wait, maybe she did, and she just ignored all the good advice the lawyer gave to her. Maybe that’s why Ms. Bedwell has been through so many lawyers. Lawyers aren’t required to continue representing you if you don’t follow instructions. All they have to do is give whatever money is left from your retainer back, and it’s sayonara to you.
Dream on, y’all, and ignore the reality that if Ms. Bedwell doesn’t file the Ex Parte Motion she will never see her child again.
August 21st, 2009 at 6:07 pm
Would you, I agree. Why is that this mother has not complied with all of the courts orders? At every turn she has had disregaurd for the court. That will get her no where. IMO, she is showing that she is not very upset about not seeing her child based on what is on the net. I don’t know any of these people. I am just seeing a mother who is not doing everything possible to see her child. That speaks loud and clear to me. Yes I am basing this on what I have and have read on the net. It may be wrong but it is all that I have to go on. She is yelling about abuse and not doing what she can to help her child in one breath and in the next she is screaming about something else. She can not have it both ways. Dose she want to see her baby? Yet another question that dose not seem to have a verbal answer but her ations speak loud and clear to me.
August 21st, 2009 at 7:29 pm
Karen I went back and read the site at the bnn site when you first brought this to everyone’s attention. You might want to refresh you memorey. It is so very sad.
August 21st, 2009 at 7:33 pm
Okay, so what is the date the exchange video took place? How long had this child been leaving her mother for overnight (4-5 day) visits with her father?
The answer should refute any claim that this child was adjusting to leaving her mother and staying with her father.
Simple question, how long had this child been leaving her mother for 4-5 days to go on the 50/50 visits to her father?
August 21st, 2009 at 7:38 pm
No legal action
I didn’t say anything about Connie’s attorney, I said it might be Amara’s plan in regards to TPR.
I’m checking California statutes and they really trample all over parental rights. What’s sad is a lot of kid’s under their watch end up dead.
August 21st, 2009 at 7:38 pm
Actually Kari, individual thinkers such as myself have considered this story from multiple angles, and still come back to the lack of any physical evidence to support this mother’s claims. This child was in her mother’s care for 4-5 days before this video was (illegally) recorded. There is no telling what sort of questioning led up to this recording being made. There is only the word of a mother who just happened to have a video camera at the ready to record statements made by her child. Notice I do not deny they are the child’s statements. I question the events leading up to this recording. And the mother’s need to see every bruise and incident as implying abuse.
August 21st, 2009 at 7:40 pm
Maybe the judge will ask why no one bothered to file the ex parte motion to restore visitation after all this time. It can’t be the usual excuse of conspiracy, or that her own lawyer is against her, can it. Why has this mother not bothered to arrange to see her daughter? Anyone have any sort of answer for that?
August 21st, 2009 at 7:41 pm
The only lies that are unraveling are those of the mother
August 21st, 2009 at 7:42 pm
Icky
I have no idea why the exparte hasn’t been filed, I can only hope that her attorney is working on something more beneficial than the exparte.
August 21st, 2009 at 8:01 pm
If the mother loved the child, she would stop accusing the father of such BS accusations and apologize so she can start working towards co-parenting!!!
August 21st, 2009 at 10:08 pm
All the video would do is be further proof of Connie abusing and coaching her daughter.
I say let the judge see it.
Let the judge AGAIN tell Connie what NOT to do.
Let Connie ‘flip off’ the judge ( and inadvertantly her child in the process while she refuses to obey court orders protecting her child ) yet again……
……eventually the judge is going to have enough and sanction this mother for her continuous violations and contempt of court.
Connie, why not put all this effort into seeing your child, rather than smearing her fathers name on the internet? Don’t you WANT to see your daughter? why so busy, busy, busy with the smear campaign and not filing that ex parte hearing?
My God are you pathetic!
At least we know where your priorities lay, and they are not with your child.
August 21st, 2009 at 11:07 pm
Her rights are terminated Chicana!
She can’t see her child without severe restrictions. She can’t go to the park, bath the child, take the kid for a check up, decide on a daycare, decide which doctor she can see, decide on a playschool or even wipe Aali’s nose without a supervisor watching her every move.
Just where does she have any rights? Of course they were removed. The father has 100% full custody and he does not need to refer to the mother about zip!
Judges orders!
August 22nd, 2009 at 1:07 am
What’s unbelievable is that the judge ordered visitation and told Connie’s attorney to file an exparte’ IF Dustin and Amara didn’t allow the visitation.
This would mean that Dustin is the one not following court orders.
August 22nd, 2009 at 1:28 pm
Wow here we go again more questions pressed on Connie’s side and here come the insults! Wow you guys are so predictable!!
Oh and if you are not a complete idiot you would of done this marmite:
http://djxtreme.wordpress.com/?s=Aaliyah
oh wait what?? THEY ARE NOT DELETED!? WOW!!
August 22nd, 2009 at 7:51 pm
Post 1102 – Free Clue !!!
August 15th, 2009 at 4:32 am
******** SNIP OF POST**********
BELIEVE IT;
“Go back to your make believe land with Connie, her boyfriend and family. You’re not intelligent to make up fabricated stories, nor were the Bedwells.”
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
THOMPSON’S HAD A MOMENT OF CLARITY? Thompson’s Freudian slips are so truthful and they don’t even realize it.
Let me expound; Thompson’s state to BELIEVE IT; You’re not intelligent to make up fabricated = (lying) stories, nor were the Bedwells.”
LOGICAL CONCLUSION; Thompson’s think they’re “intelligent LIARS” and the Bedwell’s and I are aren’t intelligent enough to be liars, therefore “TRUTH TELLERS“. Simple logical deduction.
Thompson’s, thanks again for acknowledging THAT AALIYAH’S TELLING THE TRUTH and by your own admission you Thompson’s are LIARS!
THAT’S WHAT AALIYAH, HER SUPPORTERS, CONNIE & THE BEDWELL’S HAVE BEEN STATING ALL ALONG AND WHAT I HAVE PROVEN AS A FACT!
August 23rd, 2009 at 8:16 pm
Nothing has been deleted from my site, just removed from public viewing, not even the members can see it now. And why would I be afraid of legal action, in Canada we are free to have an opinion. I’m not sure about where ever you live.
I see no reason to keep this child’s name on the net. End of story.
I’m not going to bother commenting on anything else you have said, you’re an idiot. Obviously you have been there, and read the articles. Yet accuse me of being on welfare. I suppose you are not intelligent enough to know the difference. God forbid you are ever injured at work and ever have to deal with that bureaucracy. I wouldn’t wish that on anyone. Not even you.
One of the things I could never understand about the Connie Clan, how they attacked everyone that disagreed. That’s not how to win friends and support. If there was enough proof and intelligent conversation maybe people would feel differently. But because of the antics online, coupled with the police and court reports, there really isn’t anything left to talk about.
August 23rd, 2009 at 8:54 pm
Thanks for pointing out the older articles still visible. That has been corrected.
August 24th, 2009 at 5:51 am
StopConArtist
I think you owe me an apology for calling me an idiot, some of us are educated enough to know how to use the search function. I won’t hold my breath waiting for a ‘sorry’ though as you never admit it when you’re wrong.
Beast has admitted he removed the articles, he has now removed the rest of them. I still have copies if anyone wants to see them.
I wouldn’t have posted about the missing articles if I hadn’t checked and triple checked my facts – I only wish the same could be said about the people that keep attacking the Bedwells and defending the Thompsons..
~ This is about Aaliyah – she told us about her ‘daddys worm’ and I believe her ~
August 24th, 2009 at 7:15 am
“Go back to your make believe land with Connie, her boyfriend and family. You’re not intelligent to make up fabricated stories, nor were the Bedwells.â€
Typo: Should have read
You’re not intelligent to make up BELIEVABLE fabricated stories, nor were the Bedwells.â€
For the record, coaching and leading are two different things. Quit trying to distract readers from understanding what coaching really is….. repeated PRACTICE.
How long did Connie and Cara practise and rehearse this charade for the video? Why was Connie crying in the video? Guilt catch up with her?
Keep trying Connie Supporters, NO ONE IS BUYING IT!
August 24th, 2009 at 7:23 am
I’m going to bet there are stipulations required to reinstate visitation. Because Connie has not met those stipulations she has no legal grounds to bring an ex parte hearing before a judge, nor does she have any legal grounds for visitation interference. IF she did, she would have already done so, and we would have had an update.
Connie the BEST thing you could do for your daughter is to FOLLOW THE RECOMMENDATIONS and ORDERS of the court.
Thus starting that long climb towards proving to the courts you are a fit parent and restoring your relationship with your daughter. Your NOT doing so, only tells the courts you are not interested in participating in your daughters life. So sad.
August 24th, 2009 at 8:38 am
This woman is no mother! Its funny how you try so hard to put her on some pedastal. When authorities stopped believing her endless charade of lies she started the smear online campaign.
Remember? When one story didn’t work, she’d go back to police with another and another and another and another. Eventually ‘molestation allegation’ came into the picture but that was way after all her other ‘claims’ were investigated & closed for insufficient evidence or cops found she outright lied.
(remember her picture of the TRUCK LICENSE PLATE on myspace? the truck that was following her?…. huh Connie… that was a picture of a BACK of a truck. If it was following you, you’d have a pic of the front of the truck right?)
and on and on and on and on… she’d run to the police with taller and taller tales to tell. Of course she did this after Dustin was dating a woman she hated so revenge indeed it is.
If Connie loved her kid she would apologize for making this up so she can work towards seeing her child & co-parenting!
If Connie loved her kid that is……..
August 24th, 2009 at 8:59 am
marmite I owe you no such apology,for what I have said is nothing compared to what you and others have said to people who ask questions.
I really hope you Connie supporters love spreading her daughters lovely face and name all over the internet for future emotional distress for baby A. Beast took the high road and removed his articles. Baby A’s mother has no problem exploiting her child and that is evident.
Wonder what you guys are all going to do when this sweet little girl remains with daddy no matter what…you gonna get a clue then?
August 24th, 2009 at 10:17 am
Have there been any charges filed against Connie for these false allegations? For teaching her then 2.5 year old child sexual information which is clearly inappropriate for a child of that age? If not, there should be.
August 24th, 2009 at 10:22 am
Wow said “(remember her picture of the TRUCK LICENSE PLATE on myspace? the truck that was following her?…. huh Connie… that was a picture of a BACK of a truck. If it was following you, you’d have a pic of the front of the truck right?)” If you listen to the audio from Child Protection Community, I believe that Connie said her sister or her photographed it while it was sitting in their parking lot or something like that.
And Free Clue said “For the record, coaching and leading are two different things. Quit trying to distract readers from understanding what coaching really is….. repeated PRACTICE.” Exactly my point previously, Connie had her child for 4-5 days before that video was recorded and waited until the night before she was to turn her over to her father for visitation to make this video.
Also, Connie saying her child has never been physically examined also doesn’t work(or shouldn’t). The written log (Connie’s timeline) says these complaints of pain and rashes started back in January of LAST year. She had custody then, and should have taken her daughter to her own pediatrician for a physical exam if she was complaining of repeated pain in her bottom and ‘pee-pee’ and had a recurring rash on her face. But there was nothing found, so she says there was no exam. So which is it- is she neglecting her child by not taking her to the doctor (she also states she took her to checkups) or is she lying because these visits did not provide her with the proof she wants to justify her fears and allegations? She can’t have it both ways.
So are we to believe she feared abuse and never mentioned it to her child’s doctor? Oh and if she did have a referral to have an exam done on her daughter, the police would not have been involved until after. She said she called the police to authorize the exam and was told no? And yet she claims to have a referral from her child’s pediatrician to have the child examined for sexual abuse? Not gonna fly, that is not how it works. The cops are not involved until after there is evidence…unless it is the police you go to for help first. The pediatrician would have notified CPS about his suspicions (if he/she even had any which I doubt). There are details being added, or changed in this story by someone.
August 24th, 2009 at 10:30 am
And Marmite, the story was pulled off Beast’s site because it is not in this child’s (or even her mother’s) best interest to keep these unfounded allegations out on the net. If you want to share those posts, you go ahead. Nothing stated there was fabricated, or lies. There were some very interesting comments and conclusions made after review of the available pieces to this story ‘puzzle’.
He is thinking of what is best for this child and her future- and that does not include having her information out here on the net to be copied into even more websites. And I say copied because many good points were made.
It has nothing to do with his legal right to have an opinion or write about it. It has to do with his moral decision to try to protect this child’s world. Something everyone who claims to care about this child should consider.
August 24th, 2009 at 10:38 am
Marmite, you said
“Beast HAS deleted the two blogs I mentioned from his site, you can search all you like but they are NOT there. I know they exist as I have copies, so why lie?”
LOL, I think that is why Stop Con Artist said,
“Oh and if you are not a complete idiot you would of done this marmite:
http://djxtreme.wordpress.com/?s=Aaliyah
oh wait what?? THEY ARE NOT DELETED!? WOW!!”
To which you replied,
“I think you owe me an apology for calling me an idiot, some of us are educated enough to know how to use the search function”
Does that help? LMAO, ummmm yeah. So you do not fall into the “educated enough to know how to use the search function group” since they were inadvertently not removed from all public access, until today per Beast.
August 24th, 2009 at 10:44 am
As far as checking and triple checking facts…there are so few to check. There is a whole lot of opinion and allegation, but very little in the way of facts.
The facts do not support this mother’s claims. There have been numerous investigations, and there is a 730 report filed with the court. According to her own words: The STEP program took her daughter away, after talking with her during meetings. There have been 2 MDIC interviews, and this child was/is in therapy with a social worker (not a doctor) who still can’t come up with more than there may or may not be abuse because of what this child’s facial expressions do or do not show???? What is that even supposed to mean?
August 24th, 2009 at 10:50 am
Let’s not forget that pesky fact that the judge gave this woman a way to resume visitation- FILE AN EX PARTE MOTION…and it still has not been done. Visitation ended because her mother was denied the services of a supervised visitation facility. Not because of the father, but because Connie broke their rules by posting a picture on the web. Their rules, and their decision to deny her. She was told to find another facility, and to file that motion if needed. Seems she can’t follow the judge’s recommendations, or the visitation facility rules. So who is to blame?
There are many facilities in Placer County and Sacramento County. She has a lawyer who can file the motion. So what is her excuse now?
August 24th, 2009 at 6:30 pm
Food for thought for the clueless:
~ Caley Anthony might still be alive if someone in her family came forward with the problems they were all having prior to her murder. Instead the Anthony’s, just as the Thompson’s, think it’s best to cover their problems and live in denial even at the cost of the baby’s life.
~ Aaliyah has been playing games (just as Kelsea Briggs another child murdered by her abuser) killing, hitting, kicking, burying, her dead toys. Games baby’s shouldn’t know about, or understand, let alone play for 2 years.
~ If any of you people had access to the paperwork you would see that Dustin Thompson has been threatening to kill Connie Bedwell since she was pregnant with Aaliyah. Aaliyah continues to play games of death even documented in visitation. Dustin Thompson threatens to kill Aaliyah for telling on him for what he is doing.
~ If anyone defending the Thompson’s had a heart or soul they would understand this isn’t a bitter fight for custody, nor smear campaign, nor a witch hunt, nor a scam, nor fraud, nor coaching, nor anything the Thompson’s want people to believe. This is about keeping one more innocent child alive and out of the hands of two abusers, her father and grandfather.
~ No matter what you believe, understand you’ve all been made aware of the extreme danger this child is in. If Dustin Thompson does indeed murder Aaliyah, I hope you all sit and reflect at your behavior towards the situation and how you had a part in supporting him achieve it. And ask yourself, all for what? Because in your selfish hearts you can’t humble yourself and say what if these “professionals” are wrong just like in Kelsea Briggs case?
Ask Lacy Peterson and Conner Peterson if they wish someone would have helped them, you can’t, their dead, because of their abuser.
Some of you people just really need to look at abusive situations and realize that what you are seeing about the Aaliyah Bedwell case is exactly what goes on behind closed doors before the victims wind up like, Caley, Kelsea, Lacy, Conner and so many other victims that have lost their lives to their manipulative abusers.
Before the big shock of their deaths hit national TV, understand their was a lot more behind the scenes prior to their deaths that you weren’t able to see. Now you have a chance to see what abuse looks like before the big shock of death because a protective mother decided to come forward and make the situation public now instead of after her daughter has been murdered by her abuser.
Aaliyah’s name is on the net and made public for this purpose…
to prevent her death.
And just for you all to focus on her, to help her, before and if Dustin Thompson selfishly decides to take her life and/or Connie’s.
For those who selfishly choose to ignore someone’s pleas for help, How are you going to feel if he does in fact murder one or both of them?
Just say oops it’s too late? Or oops I really thought I’d be a follower? Or well Placer County said so? Or what? You have an individual mind, stop letting people think for you.
At minimal people should be helping get an outside investigation going on since there are multiple witnesses stating they know Aaliyah is being molested and Placer County officials won’t even contact them or speak to them.
Where are your souls?
Where are your consciences?
Where are your hearts?
I hope when some of you find yourself in such an aweful position as this that the people around you that you cry out for help to, actually choose to have a heart.
Bless those who help Aaliyah before it’s too late.
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August 24th, 2009 at 7:23 pm
Stop you are so right. One of the things that I do have a hard time with, is the way in which the mother has handled things. She wants help but is not willing to answer questions. Like, Why did she loose her child. No one will answer that question with any back up. It is only their opnion. But they talk like it is fact. She wants and needs money. When anyone talks about the money the mother supporters scream. Why are so many yelling about the money. Well, for one it is against the law to scam people out of money. It may not be a law that this so called mother can put her childs picture and name on the net where it will always stay. It maybe should be. This will follow her the rest of her life. How many of you have search you own name or names of people that you know. Bing there it is. I feel for this child and her future. She will have a horrible burden for life because of her mothers behavior. All of the mothers support system talk facts like they really know. All should really think about what you say if you care about this child. She will probably read all of this when she is older. I just hope that someone in her life will give her the support that she will need. Parents are suppose to put their childs feelings above their own. I guess that this mother is following in her fathers foot steps. I wish for only the best for this child. I do not know what really went on in her little life but when you start to put the facts together that are facts in dose not look good for the mother. This baby will loose no matter what. So sad.
August 24th, 2009 at 10:47 pm
Of course not, StopConArtists. They will never stop hounding Aaliyah or Mr. Thompson.
The only way that Aaliyah will ever be free of Ms. Bedwell and her supporters is if Aaliyah’s father changes her name and they both leave Placer County. It’s sad that they’ll have to lose their home, but I believe it’s the best chance for Aaliyah to lead a normal life. If Mr. Thompson does it immediately after the end of the court case, there may still be time for Aaliyah to forget that any of this ever happened and grow up as a normal child. As it is now, she will need counseling for years in order to undo the damage that has already been done.
They have already thrown Aaliyah under the bus, calling her brainwashed and implying that she’s lying about her mother making her say those things. They’ve already spread her picture and her real name far and wide. Those two acts alone show that they will stop at nothing.
August 25th, 2009 at 6:18 am
to Http, This is not the Kelsey Briggs case, or the Peterson case(Scott was a straight up cheater and murderer, not an abuser- so I have no clue where this analogy even comes from). Casey Anthony is a whole other type of murderer, and there was no sexual abuse even hinted at.
Your comparisons to these cases do not even make sense. And now you are throwing out allegations of death threats to this child? From her father?? Really? So since the story about sexual abuse didn’t work, the Bedwells are now claiming death threats against Connie and her child? WOW- way to support the supposition that Connie keeps escalating the claims of abuse.
Your unfounded spreading of yet another rumor is a prime example of why no one believes this woman. Add to that your baseless comparisons and you have just given another person who may have been ‘on the fence’ about this case a reason to not believe your many claims about this child, and her father.
There are NO FACTS to support any of these allegations. Her father is doing what is best for her, and so are the courts.
I notice another week without her mother bothering to see her or arrange visitation has gone by. How many months has it been now?
August 25th, 2009 at 6:26 am
And Http, it’s CAYLEE not Caley- if you are going to use this child’s name, at least spell it right!
August 25th, 2009 at 6:32 am
Http, I forgot to add that IMO this child’s name and face were put out there to raise money for an attorney. There was never a reason to put her face out there. Ironically the picture of Connie and her child seen most is the one that cost her the use of the visitation facility- you know the one that booted her out for violation of their policy and rules because she posted it on the net. It might help her find another facility to use to see her daughter if she made an effort to remove at least some of the copies of this photo.
Sadly there is so much out there with this child’s full name this story has become her legacy. In 8 or 10 years she will find this story and all it’s comments herself. Shame on her mother for exploiting her like this. It was never necessary to have her full name and photo out there. There are other ways her mother could/should have done this.
August 25th, 2009 at 8:28 am
LMAO
PREVENT HER DEATH?
OMG You’re so far out of your mind its pathetic. What a idiotic stupid statement only a Bedwell could make. Prevent Aali’s death, ROLLING EYES ROLLING EYES
give me a break.
There’s not a darn thing wrong with the child SHE WAS NEVER ABUSED SO GET OVER YOURSELF and go get some mental help please.
August 25th, 2009 at 8:43 am
Hey! No one is listening! DO you understand?
6 posters at BNN ‘secret’ message board does NOT EQUAL THE WORLD LISTENING. LOL That was a funny statement by Polygraph who seems to have her snitty tied in a knot because people are talking about her here. (psst, she wants to hire a lawyer to sue us all)
HERE’S POLY’S LITTLE RANT:
“I am kind of mad right now that my name is being thrown around on the btls site without my knowledge and statements have been made that are UNTRUE, such as mine was a cps case, there was no such thing, there was never an open case with cps, just an illegal kidnapping charge that was DISMISSED that was brought forth my childrens father and his rediculous radical fathers rights groups who had no idea who they were dealing with!!! So whoever posted on btls that mine was a cps case has libeled me and Im none to happy about it, consiering looking into a lawyer…I do not like being violated this way, Im a VERY private person and I dont even post there so why in the hell would they even mention my name??? Im getting madder as I type this so Im going to go now, I must remember this is about aaliyah and NOT about me. Sorry guys Im a little miffed right now.”
END OF POLY’S RANT…………
Poly you threw yourself into this never having met the mother, not knowing HER TRUE REASONS FOR SLANDERING THE FATHER and have your own WORLD ISSUES with your kids and hubby BUT IT DIDN’T GIVE YOU THE RIGHT TO FURTHER EXPLOIT THE CHILD!!!!!
Aali is A CHILD WHO ISN’T ABUSED, NEVER WAS! A CHILD WHO continues to see a counselor ala court request.
A CHILD WHO IS THRIVING TREMENDOUSLY in her environment. A CHILD who is loved beyond your imagination.
AALI IS SAFE. AALI IS LOVED AND YOU’RE ALL ON SOME WICKED LITTLE WITCH HUNT because of your own past issues. Quite the little clan ain’t cha? 6 people do not equal the world POLY!!! the world ISN’T LISTENING POLY.
Call your lawyer, have a hissy fit, do whatever you want to, no one cares okay.
Instead of trashing a wonderful loving family like the Thompsons, why don’t you go take care of your own life and problems? Maybe your kids need your attention if they’re in your care OKAY and mind your own business.
Aali is in the best home she could ever be and that’s all that will ever matter. OH and authorities LONG AGO CLEARED THE FATHER. NOTHING YOU WRITE, INCLUDING TO A JUDGE, WILL MAKE 1 BIT OF DIFFERENCE TO THE RESULTS. Dustin has all custody and it WILL stay that way.
August 25th, 2009 at 8:56 am
Poly if you were a VERY private person you wouldn’t have talked about your little lifes’ problems on a message board anyone could read. *shaking head*
Either way this isn’t anyone’s business online. There’s nothing wrong with Aali other than having a mother hell bent on revenge.
Taller tales over the past 3 years, molestation was just a much later claim she made when authorities wouldn’t arrest Dustin for other lies she made up.
That’s it that’s all nothing more to see or know. It IS that simple! She coached her kid! THAT folks is the truth.
August 25th, 2009 at 8:57 am
Where you might see as a clueless poster #1230, I see you as clueless and a follower. Just because you yell abuse doesn’t mean abuse is happening. How dare you even compare any of this to those children who have been murdered? So JUST because a few anonymous people online choose to believe what is happening in family court and with professionals, Aaliyah is going to die? Wow you are all twisted and I feel sorry for you, I do.
August 25th, 2009 at 9:18 am
I’m no follower. Used my own brain thank you very much! No one convinced me either way.
BUT BUT BUT THE reaction from Connie when asked basic questions about her story from the onset was to call total strangers pedo supporters INSTEAD of simply answering the questions… THAT made me suspicious enough to dig more.
Dig dig dig I did and found out just how many experts have personally seen and evaluated Aaliyah. Found out the police in fact DID COMPLETE A MAJOR investigation against the father.
DID find out the DA’S OFFICE CLEARED THE FATHER of any wrong doing.
DID find out IN FACT JUDGES ORDERED & HAVE several professional statements & evaluations regarding the video in question!
DID find out there was no abuse to begin with.
I have my own brain and I used it logically, without some crazed emotions screaming to others ‘the sky is falling’…
Well chicken little, the sky didn’t fall and Aaliyah was never abused.
I’m not a follower, I used my money and my time to find the truth about Connie.
http://www.thetruthaboutconnie.blogspot.com/
Sorry the update is taking long. I’m waiting for one of Connie’s friends to finish providing info.
August 25th, 2009 at 9:32 am
ANOTHER LIE OF CONNIE’S #1228
CONNIE never attended 1 STEP meeting, not 1. Never showed up even though the judge ordered her to attend.
Another middle finger to the judge from Connie wanting her way or nothing!
STEP didn’t take the child away, the JUDGE took the child away from the mother for not following many many orders, parental classes, testing and programs. It was her continual repeated refusal to participate in anything.
The 1 thing she FULLY participated in was the 730 Exam. She could have at any time provided her ‘family’ statements to the highly trained specialist to consider. Connie had every opportunity to give the 730 Evaluator ANYTHING AND EVERYTHING her heart desired…
If she did not for whatever possible reason, she’s to blame.
Connie will never do the right thing so people need to stop begging her to change. Connie will forever remain Connie. What you see is what you get. Connie what are you going to tell the judge in September huh?
August 25th, 2009 at 9:36 am
I am stunned by the new low of Bedwell supporters. It is not enough that they state their opinions(of abuse) as facts. It is not enough that they have no answers to valid questions. It is not enough that this mother can’t manage to resume visitation because she is not following the process/procedure. Now they have to come up with death threats?
And to say that these were happening since she was pregnant? Okay, say that was true- this is the man she wanted to be a father to her daughter and to know him? She came back to California because he offered to pay for an apartment for her and she missed her family, not because she thought this man should be in her daughter’s life. There are so many holes in her story, so many things people are just supposed to believe ‘because she says so’.
To Connie and her supporters, just because you want us to believe it, does not make it true or believable. Keep practicing those lies like you did with your daughter before you made your video.
August 25th, 2009 at 10:44 am
Thanks WOW,
She never went to step classes, but I thought I read on her timeline about how her meeting with the intake person went badly because she did not like being told she was hyper(sensitive and seeing abuse in everything) and she told the woman she knew more than the professionals and would never agree to co-parent. She also said Step took her child away, which I assumed meant they told the judge she refused to participate in any parenting plan or classes.
LOL, that’s what I get for believing a Bedwell about anything!
August 25th, 2009 at 10:50 am
You are right about one thing, the more you dig, the more lies and/or omissions and Connie spin you find on things.
And if you question it, you are immediately a member of the father’s family or a pedophile/molester supporter.
I wonder how any of these people would react if the roles were reversed and it was a mother who was being accused of this abuse instead of a father. I also wonder how they would react if this was happening to them. How many would ignore their attorney(and defend themselves out here on the net) and be worried more about the internet and bloggers than what was best for the child, and in line with the court?
Do any of the bedwell people think that what they post matters to the outcome of this case, or to the courts (except as it pertains to violations of court orders)? Bottom line folks, we make no difference, we are only discussing our opinions. And we all get to have one! LOL
August 25th, 2009 at 10:52 am
Looking forward to your update on thetruthaboutconnie !
August 25th, 2009 at 12:03 pm
to #1237:
Prove it, prove it, prove it, prove it.
August 25th, 2009 at 2:02 pm
Do not need to PROVE to you anything do I? Just who may I ask has the child in HIS custody 24/7?
Just WHO may I ask makes all the decisions?
Just WHO may I ask has NO RIGHTS to her daughter?
Where is the onus on ME to PROVE ANYTHING?
It is you and Connie needing to PROVE TO ME why I should believe 1 sentence of her ‘story’. Connie can’t answer any more questions because no proof exists.
If the video was made by someone other than the mother it would have some credibility as long as it was conducted by a professional in the appropriate manner.
LOL you have it backward…
ONUS IS NOT ON ME TO PROVE THERE WAS NO ABUSE. THE EXPERTS ALREADY ACCOMPLISHED THAT.
August 25th, 2009 at 2:05 pm
… and Karen says she doesn’t post here anymore, lol. Sure you don’t Karen.
August 25th, 2009 at 3:35 pm
LoraLee,
You are demanding the person who posted at #1237 to prove it. Who has custody? Its not Connie. Is that not proof? If there was ANY truth to any of these accusations don’t you think the child at the very least would be in care of the state until resolved? Oh but they are ALL corrupt right? What a joke
August 25th, 2009 at 5:00 pm
Well LoraLee, I guess we can’t ask Connie how her daughter is, because she has still not managed to restore visitation by finding another visitation facility and having her lawyer file an ex parte motion if the schedule is not agreed to.
Go ask Connie why that is. The last judge told her he expected her to have this all arranged or be back in court with an ex parte motion which would be granted forcing visitation if need be. So far, no visits between Mom and baby.
Connie is not big on following rules, court procedures or working with people. She is big on making escalating claims without any proof to back it up. After 3 years, I would hope she could at least get one shred of real evidence to back up her story. To date, there is none.
August 25th, 2009 at 5:08 pm
I think it would be friggin’ HILARIOUS if Poly starts trying to E-sue people for posting on the internet. No lawyer in their right mind would touch the case.
August 25th, 2009 at 5:23 pm
If this child is going to need counselling the rest of her life ask Dustin Thompson why he has repetitively asked the courts to keep her out of counselling.
Such an odd request from such an innocent man that is claiming her mother is coaching her.
He is a child molester folks!
End of story.
August 25th, 2009 at 5:40 pm
WOW
August 25th, 2009 at 8:28 am
LMAO
PREVENT HER DEATH?
OMG You’re so far out of your mind its pathetic. What a idiotic stupid statement only a Bedwell could make. Prevent Aali’s death, ROLLING EYES ROLLING EYES
give me a break.
There’s not a darn thing wrong with the child SHE WAS NEVER ABUSED SO GET OVER YOURSELF and go get some mental help please.
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Okay Thompson’s now she’s never been abused???
What happened to your coaching claims?
Your lies and denial just unravel and leave tracks.
You Thompson’s are so guilty it’s not even funny.
Ask APD how their talks with the other Chief’s of Sexual assault are going with other counties that are telling them the video isn’t coached!
It is funny to you Dustin that you are threatening their lives huh? Does it make you feel in control?
And to address “No legal action”
Get an education.
Ever heard of the saying “It’s better to be perceived a fool than to open your mouth and remove all doubt.”
You just removed all doubt.
You might want to read up on abuse before you spout how murder, abuse, and all three cases don’t relate. They all relate more than your little mind can conceive.
People just don’t one day wake up and say to themselves “oh I’m going to go murder someone today.” There is always a very lovely trail of abusive behavior beforehand before they progressively get that sick.
Try reading before you speak ; ).
August 25th, 2009 at 6:08 pm
And 1241 Princess Dustin David ~
You wanted Connie so bad to be in those STEP classes with you!! You are sooooooo sick!
Get over her. Seriously.
You wonder why she told the judge she wouldn’t sit in a room with a child molester such as yourself. Who would want to sit in a room with a psychopath OBSESSED abuser that is going to go home and rape his daughter’s face to the thought of starring at her in a STEP class.
You are a creep.
Let’s hear more of your excuses online about your alibis!
We all would love to hear more excuses about “The Parrot” “The Monster” your “Scary Mask” You wear while you do it to her. And we are all still dying to hear what your worm really is…
Bring on the alibis Dustin!!! We are waiting!!
Glad to see you think it’s funny to threaten people’s lives. It’s all a game to you because you are a sociopath!
Oh Dustin, Connie is not ever going back to you. Get over it and quit molesting your daughter, she isn’t Connie.
And Dustin you want to talk mental help, let’s talk mental help…
All the mental help you need princess is one big SPLAT away following your long jump off the Forresthill Bridge!!
PS. Waiting prayerfully and patiently!
August 25th, 2009 at 6:26 pm
What does everyone think about that Police report circulating the net?
Let’s hear some feedback!
Oh how sweet the TRUTH is!!
And Dustin since I know you personally. I will in fact state right here as a witness that yes indeed you have threatened their lives.
Your statements above saying Aaliyah has never been abused are quite interesting. I’m sure the police will find them interesting as well. Especially since you can’t keep your claims straight. Well which story is it?
Any child that has been abused wouldn’t be “THRIVING” yet you claim she is in your house? How is that if Connie coached her?
See Dustin, Connie came forward with the problems she was having because of your abuse. If Connie was guilty she’d be doing what you are doing and claiming Aaliyah was “THRIVING” at her house, but she wasn’t because you were molesting, beating and brainwashing her.
So how is it that if Connie coached her she is “THRIVING” after being abused?
You are lying. A person that wasn’t lying wouldn’t feel the need to hide her symptoms she is having from being abused.
A person lying would be trying to keep her away from therapy JUST LIKE YOU ARE DOING DUSTIN Why is that?
HMMMMMMM…
One answer to all of these questions…
DUSTIN THOMPSON IS A CHILD MOLESTER!!!
Truth is the Truth is the Truth is the Truth
Truth is the Truth is the Truth is the Truth
Truth is the Truth is the Truth is the Truth
How is it that the Bedwell’s are NEVER inconsistant?
It’s that thing called THE TRUTH!
August 25th, 2009 at 9:01 pm
No follower ?
The judge didn’t see the video. It wasn’t allowed into evidence.
If it were, he couldn’t have given Aaliyah to Dustin.
You say you questioned her story and had to dig more ?
Show me the facts.
SHOW ME THOSE PROFESSIONAL STATEMENTS AND EVALUATIONS!!!!
Answer this, can you show me any documentation to prove what you say at all ?
Because there’s plenty of evidence of abuse !!!
LISTEN TO AALIYAH !!!!!
Prove she was coached.
Have those expert reports ?
August 25th, 2009 at 9:03 pm
Looking forward to seeing those expert reports.
What was that ?? You can’t provide them ?
August 25th, 2009 at 9:18 pm
WOW
Her rights aren’t terminated.
The judge wouldn’t have ordered visitation if her rights had been terminated.
August 25th, 2009 at 10:42 pm
Nothing new huh? Sitting back waiting for Connie or her followers to invent another version or story. Just where did her felon father head off to? He was so upset when someone brought up the money issue. Guess he was trying to keep the money coming in. I can only hope people are smarter than to just hand over money without first googling Connie’s name. Cara was dumb enough to use her real name too, lol.
Looks like the FBI really is investigating the money. Good to know Connie will somehow someway end up behind bars right where she belongs. Let her give the finger to guards in jail and see how far that gets her.
Tick tock Connie. Do you jump at every phone call or every knock at the door? Something tells me you do! Tick tock time to learn a lesson or two. Somethings happening Connie wonder what? mmm
August 25th, 2009 at 11:41 pm
When will the spreading of unsubstantiated claims end? What next?
It would help if there were facts to discuss, but there are so few. To now claim that this child may be murdered in order to hurt Connie or silence her is beyond a stretch!
And to go after individual people who post here instead of just disputing their comments? I thought we were past that.
They are not the story we are here to discuss. They are just another person with an opinion. So what if their opinions are colored by their own experiences and past- aren’t yours too?
Quit trying to bully people please. They are entitled to an opinion like anyone else, even if you don’t agree or think they are nuts. Actually, these attacks make both sides look like nuts!
Geeze, try arguing the important stuff. Like the lack of evidence of abuse. The failure of this mother to arrange visitation yet. The holes in either side’s basis for their opinions. But quit making up stories like this child will be murdered, and posting slams on peoples personal lives just because you don’t like them.
August 25th, 2009 at 11:54 pm
LoraLee, back in june you said you know Connie, you also said he raped her when she was 15 and he was 18. So why the hell did she stay with him after that? Why would she want to have him be a part of her daughter’s life like she claims? You said you know this, and you know her- so how about you explain that. Why would she want a man who had raped her, and abused her to be in her daughter’s life?
How about you ask her why with all the abuse she believes happened, there is not one doctor she ever took her child to see that saw evidence of abuse?
And tell us why you think this child is miserable where she is, have YOU seen her? Or are you getting this from Connie?
And ask her why she can’t manage to pull off supervised visitation yet. The judge told her how.
How about some proof for some of Connie’s claims? I really would love answers from you since you ‘know’ her.
August 26th, 2009 at 3:00 am
There are many unknowns and holes in this story that cause people to question it, in my opinion of course. I don’t see it all as black and white. This story seems to polarize people’s opinions, on that we probably can agree. But not all who do not agree are evil, and at this point no one knows who is right or wrong.
I was one of the people who was attacked, and not just by those who support the mother. But by the family of this woman who were convinced, because I did not believe, that I was related to the Thompsons(sound familiar?) It was done in emails (after I tried to contact them and politely explain that I was not male, not a Thompson), as well as on blogs. It is similar to what is going on here with people being identified as Thompsons(and others) because of their posts/opinions. I asked them to stop trying to trace my ip, because I was in hiding from a stalker. They did not care, and their response was filled with disgusting allegations about me. I got over it.
Still, I saw the emotional motivations, and did not just jump on the bandwagon of alleged ‘Connie Bashers’. I tried to support the needs of this child, and do what little an internet blogger can to help. In fact, some of my responses and suggestions and links I collected ended up on the front page of saveaaliyah.com. I tried to help them find what resources they could, and suggested other outlets (besides attacking phantom Thompson posts/posters) for them.
Then I began searching for more information, and documentation about this story. Like many here and elsewhere, I formed my own opinion.
There are those of us who after looking at the lack of medical/physical evidence, the video, and the documented statements and other available information just do not believe this is the whole story. Some of us have made up our own minds, and done the research. Some of us have valid questions. Some of us see deception.
There are allegations, and opinions, and emotions on both sides of this story. Some of them quite extreme- IMO on both sides of this. People care, and some are not able to focus on the facts, and instead resort to bullying and intimidation to stop others from having their own voice about this child and her situation. Personal attacks and posting of real life information and cyberstalking has been coming from both sides. None of this helps anyone, especially this little girl.
IMO it is more important to focus on this child and to find the truth about her well being and situation. But to say that this entire county and all the professionals involved are corrupt, and that they are risking their careers, licenses to practice and reputations to support this father- how realistic is that?
I do not agree with the posting of this child’s real name, and face on the internet was the right way to do this. I wonder what she will go through when she grows up and reads all these blogs, and the many vile comments made about her parents and family. I may not agree, but not only is it not my choice, and it is a fact that will not be undone.
I fully support this woman’s right to see her child. But she has not done what it takes to restore her supervised visitation. No one has an update on why. You see, there is so much we don’t/can’t know about this family. Court reports, records and evaluations are sealed because this is a family law case.
In the end, there is very little we spectators and speculators can do to alter the outcome of this custody and court case. We are only out here in cyberspace, voicing opinions, and seeking facts. We can all pray that this child is safe, and that her life is all it should be. Hopefully she will be returned to at least shared custody, and this will all be unfounded allegations of abuse.
Keep her in your prayers. And try to remember that we are all allowed our own freedom of thought, and should all be shown respect.
I am done posting on this story. There is nothing left to say. We all have to wait and see.
August 26th, 2009 at 5:32 am
You have to admit that the nut posting under the saveaaliyah site name is really not helping Connie, and seems to be proving the point of how accusing anyone who’s post they can’t dispute resorts to calling them Dustin is making the Bedwell supporters look like the fixated and irrational bunch.
Way to go, and thanks for proving why this child should not be allowed anything but professionally supervised visits there saveaaliyah. Or at least they would be visits if Connie could actually manage to do what the judge told her to do to restore visitation.
I have to say, this display of desperation and delusion (of seeing Dustin everywhere reminds me of Connie). She sees abuse in every little quarter sized bruise and every game her daughter plays. And the control of the temper really helps prove how stable y’all are too. ROFLMAO – thanks, I needed that.
Are you hearing voices too???
August 26th, 2009 at 5:39 am
Ashley, if there is a police report circulating the net, why hasn’t it been posted on the newly remodeled saveaaliyah site? So, do tell, what does it say? Seriously, I am curious.
Maybe this child would be thriving because she is away from the drama of her mother and the constant questions and the anxiety of the tension between her parents and their families. She has a routine, and is not going back and forth while seeing her mother wig out each time. She has something called stability.
But hey, this is just a guess and I will admit, I do not know these people. I just know what I have found in the way of documented facts and not opinions from either side.
August 26th, 2009 at 5:47 am
I have to agree with Chicana…Connie has not completely lost her parental rights. She just does not have custody, and doesn’t bother to arrange visits. She still owes child support payments(is she making those?) because Dustin has 100% physical custody. She is still legally this child’s mother.
If she does not get her act together and stop with these allegations, and show some interest in seeing her child, who knows.
There are plenty of visitation facilities in Placer and Sacramento counties, and she has a lawyer. Why not file that ex parte motion some day soon?
August 26th, 2009 at 6:00 am
So Http, when you said
“Okay Thompson’s now she’s never been abused???
What happened to your coaching claims? ”
Does this mean you now agree that connie coaching her daughter is abuse? By the way, coaching is not whispering in her ear, it is practicing the talking about a worm.
And than you for confirming how clueless you are about your analogies. You seem to be missing the obvious about why your examples are not valid or appropriate to this story.
August 26th, 2009 at 8:57 am
Make your own phone calls Chicana because all you’re doing is making assumptions the mother’s telling the truth. If you actually did some background checking into it you’d find out things for yourself.
That’s the whole problem with Connie’s followers. They’re too lazy to dig into this themselves, they want it all done and given to them.
Http Aali was never abused that’s right!
Her mother coached the child to make it appear like she was.
Does that make any sense to you now? *shaking head*
August 26th, 2009 at 9:03 am
I’m wondering how many times HTTP you have to hear I’m not a Thompson? Dustin doesn’t post online. Never has never will. He can’t be bothered wasting time reading all the lies and BS about him and his precious daughter.
lol
August 26th, 2009 at 9:26 am
hmmmmm Dustin didn’t ask the courts to keep Aali out of counseling. The courts asked him to keep her in counseling because of what her mother and the Bedwells did to the poor child and that’s exactly what he’s doing. It’s called COMPLYING with the courts. Aali currently still sees a counselor so you Bedwells can’t claim he keeps her from the world. She also goes to a babysitter every day that isn’t a family member. hmmmmmm
If he has something to hide you’d think he wouldn’t be doing these things hey? I mean she’s 3 1/2 now, her vocabulary must be pretty amazing since the video was made 16 months ago.
Spin spin spin The Bedwells and their website sure tell quite the tale but that’s all it is. Just Connie’s words over Dustins, nothing more.
Http why don’t you get a new hobby, your old song and dance is very old and boring.
The judges know the truth and OH CHICANA UH YES THE VIDEO WAS ALLOWED INTO THE COURTS. The judge requested an expert to provide him with an evaluation of the video. So how did he DENY the video when he asked the expert to provide that? huh You still believe everything Connie says hey?
LOL
Any wonder why he has custody?
August 26th, 2009 at 9:57 am
Aali do you want to play a fun game with mommy?
Mommy comes up with a game using a stuffed animal that looks like a hairy worm.
(Aali enjoys mommy’s attention)
Mommy keeps putting it in Aali’s mouth saying Yucky worm bad worm.
Mommy keeps wiping Aali’s mouth with a napkin Yucky worm bad worm daddy worm.
(Aali doesn’t notice mommy throwing in words, she just enjoys mommy’s attention)
Mommy keeps saying worm yucky bad worm daddy worm and keeps poking it in Aali’s mouth.
(Aali thinks she’s playing a game with mommy)
Mommy plays the game a lot with Aali until Aali repeats it back to her and remembers all the things about the game.
Mommy video tapes Aali until Aali gets it right.
Its why Aali is monotone and not crying. It’s not scary to her, its a game she plays with mommy.
Mommy fake cries in the background to make the viewer believe she ‘fears’ for her (NOT) abused child.
Mommy after all has a very high IQ and knows exactly what she’s doing. This of course is an example of how she coached Aali, she could have used another method. There’s many ways to coach a child and doing it through play is the best way for a child to mimic the mother doing the same things.
If Aali didn’t get it right mommy would STOP playing with her until Aali did and said the right things. Aali learns quickly mommy won’t play unless she says the right things. Aali wants to please her mommy like all children do.
This is how to coach a child. It’s easy enough to do. If it wasn’t, no child would ever learn anything. Not pattycake bakers man, not the hokey pokey or even simon says.
Huh
August 26th, 2009 at 10:11 am
Connie since you claim to be spiritual:
Don’t ask God to guide your footsteps if you’re not willing to move your feet!
God only helps those who help themselves.
Do either of these ring a bell? :/
August 26th, 2009 at 11:56 am
#1263 I just read your post.
Your points even through humor are very valid.
The mother seems to be hypervigilant for every bruise and owie the child ever had. Didn’t it occur to her to take her child to the doctor re: her bottom bothering her and not wanting her diaper changed – for a bladder infection or children are very prone to worms.
I do not see abuse anywhere in her notes online. She has no doctors records to show evidence of abuse.
Beast? Conspiracy theories go along with people who are paranoid or delusional. I suspect the mother must suffer from one of these.
August 26th, 2009 at 12:06 pm
How’s that Ex Parte paperwork going? Is it being worked on? Does Ms. Bedwell even care if she sees her child again?
August 26th, 2009 at 12:37 pm
Prove that Aaliyah was abused. Show me the doctors reports and child sexual experts documentation agreeing with the mother’s verson.
Prove it prove it prove it
August 26th, 2009 at 1:16 pm
Careful food for thought- the saveaaliyah site wants people to report back to them when anyone says Connie is paranoid or delusion LOL. It is posted on their site.
You’re so right about a normal mother taking her baby to a doctor to find out why she is complaining of pain, and why she hates her diaper changed(maybe there is an infection or other cause for her ‘butt’ to hurt like constipation). Same for the rash on her face. A normal mother does not see a quarter sized bruise on a 2 year old and scream abuse. How many bruise free 2 years olds are there? A normal mother doesn’t bring her child back to Ca. to get to know a man she says abused her, and threatened to kill her and this baby(allegedly of course) or one who she says raped her when she was 15. She did it because he was going to pay child support, and pay for her rent so he did not have to go to alaska to see his child. He went to Alaska to see the baby, but Connie can’t manage to follow the judges instructions to see her child in the same town. Hmmmm
August 26th, 2009 at 1:24 pm
to How to Coach a child…yep, that would be practicing. And she had the baby for 4 days before the recording was made. She explains her technique when she describes how the baby would tip over her rocking horse and hide behind it and beg mommy to come save her. She played that game any time she wanted mommy to play. She learned how to get mommy’s hugs and responses. It wouldn’t be hard to ‘teach’ her a new game about a worm. Listen to the video again, without watching the words. Listen to how the baby responds to questions like what did the worm look like. Also listen to the tone, this child wasn’t in distress, she was stalling going to bed.
The escalation of allegations is a perfect example of Connie trying to ‘learn’, each time one story didn’t fly, she upped the anti.
August 26th, 2009 at 2:41 pm
DUSTIN NICE POST #1247! AND THEY SAY DUSTIN AND THE THOMPSON’S DON’T POST…..LOL
August 26th, 2009 at 3:37 pm
Coaching is abuse. It would fall under emotional and mental abuse.
You say Aali has never been abused.
You say she was coached…
Yet… all at the same time you contradict yourself because YOU YES YOU DUSTIN THOMPSON, are trying to cover the fact that you physically and sexually abusing your daughter and thus therefore feel the need to say she isn’t abused.
The GUILTY speak in such ways. Covering the truth up to make it look too perfect to be true and state she’s “THRIVING.” An abused child would have symptoms of abuse the rest of her life yet this child is thriving somehow??? Imagine that. Or the most logical answer of them all- You are a lying child abuser! I like logic and reality and truth! So I’m going to stick with logic here.
You can’t coach a two year old child to say more than one line. Ask Dustin! He knows. He would send baby A home all the time with one liners! Not 27 minutes! That is Aali talking all on her own about her pig of a father.
Some of you sit and post on here like you have first hand information and I personally know for a fact that you don’t. Some of you that do post are supporting Aaliyah because they have vistitation reports in their hands along with more paperwork that prove Dustin is an abuser.
The rest of you will see it all on saveaaliyah.com, I heard it’s coming.
Mermaid ask Dr Saturley if Dr Roeder is being misleading in his report. He will tell you he is. And when you get that info ask yourself why on earth would a professional in Placer County feel the need to lie about the mother? Odd isn’t it? The mother gave her official personal results from Dr Roeder’s report to Dr Saturley and Dr Saturley says he is being misleading at best.
Corruption? Just as the mother claims. Imagine that.
Just wait until it’s all said and done. Child Molester? Imagine that. Just as the mother claims. It’s next!
Paranoid and delusional: It can’t be paranoia or delusions when in reality there truly are a group of people conspiring. Dr Roeder has been proven misleading aka a liar. They will all be debunked one by one.
For those who don’t understand what it takes to diagnos paranoia and delusions go to the book store get a psychologist training book for interviewing patients on MMPI tests etc. It’s not hard to educate yourself before you speak.
Use the left side of your brain.
It’s like arguing with bricks on here…
HTTP://SaveAaliyah.Com
And Yes Dustin does post. Only Dustin would bother to sit here and claim multiple times.
“Dustin doesn’t post”
“Dustin doesn’t post”
“Dustin doesn’t post”
“Dustin doesn’t post”
You don’t see Connie screaming, “Connie doesn’t post.”
ONLY A GUILTY PERSON WOULD BOTHER TO THROW A COVER UP OUT THERE. Some of you aren’t capable of seeing that or understanding that. It’s called psychology, the understanding of human behavior. Take the time to research it, you don’t need a “professional” to tell you he is guilty, his own behavior spells it out for you.
Some of you apparenty didn’t read all of the info on saveaaliyah. The death threats were addressed from day 1.
To Mermaid, you claim you have a stalker yet you fail to understand what Dustin does; It doesn’t add up. Imagine if you had a child with your obsessed abuser. You would then be in Connie’s position where he would use the child as a tool to control you. The fact you continue to post although you claim you are afraid your abuser will find you makes absolutely zero sense; yet that’s how the abused work with the abuser; it’s a confusing mess the way the abuser likes to keep their victims. I don’t judge you.
P.S. You know who you are: Hacking into one’s email is a crime that results in jail time. An IP Address can solve that problem real quick! ;)
August 26th, 2009 at 5:15 pm
Oh that sounds so intelligent! You’re a genuis.
You’ve got it all figured out!
Tell us Genius~
How would a child know to make a gag noise?
How would a child know a perfect script at 2 1/2 for 27 minutes?
How would a child perfectly describe the act of oral sex in perfect sequence?
How would the mother even get a child to continue to talk about daddy’s worm even though she keeps telling her to go to bed?
How could a child when asked to describe what it looks like not say “its in your hand” or “you know mommy” or any other suggestion of reality? Instead states on her own she tried to see him?
Why would the child start out Mommy remember my daddy sometimes I get mad at daddy? It does upset her.
Poster 1270~
It must be an odd coincidence that child molesters make the sexual abuse a game to the child and that you are calling it a “GAME.”
It must be an odd coincidence that child molesters love to blame the mother with their own thoughts and behavior.
It must be an odd coincidence that you could right here on btls spell out what it takes to convince a child of something that isn’t so. It just happens to be exact steps of a child molester’s acts of brainwashing their victims after the abuse.
It must be a coincidence that sociopaths that molest find this all a simple “GAME” to play.
It must be a coincidence that abusers do what is called preemptive strike, where they place their own behavior on their victims and that you were able to cleary spell out how easy it is to brainwash a child, almost like you’ve done it before… “Abusers increasingly use a tactic I call “preemptive strike,” where he accuses the victim
of doing all the things that he has done” (Understanding the Batterer, 6)
It must be a coincidence that you use “Aali” the name only close people to her use as her name in your post along with all of these other odd coincidences like you are close with her maybe like her parent.
It must be an odd coincidence that you state “(Aali doesn’t notice mommy throwing in words, she just enjoys mommy’s attention)” Especially since YOU might possibly know that if YOU were to teach Aaliyah some VERY AWEFUL things in a fun sounding song she wouldn’t understand that you are threatening to kill her mommy whom she dearly loves. A song such as “Aaliyah Aaliyah, your mommy is dead” all in guise of a great song with a fun beat. Huh? It must be an odd coincidence how you would know and understand so much of how that brainwashing actually works.
You post… CAPS OF REALITY ADDED TO YOUR POST
How to coach/BRAINWASH a child
August 26th, 2009 at 9:57 am
YOUR BRAINWASHING MOST LIKELY WENT JUST LIKE THIS DURING AND RIGHT AFTER YOU MOLESTED HER…
Aali do you want to play a fun game with DADDY?
DADDY comes up with a game using a stuffed animal( OR GUMMY WORMS OR EARTH WORMS: DUSTIN’S ALIBI’S) that looks like a hairy worm.
(Aali enjoys DADDY’s attention)
DADDY keeps putting HIS PENIS/AND BRANWASHING PROP in Aali’s mouth AND AALI sayS Yucky worm bad worm.
DADDY keeps wiping Aali’s mouth with a napkin Yucky worm bad worm daddy worm. FOR BRAINWASHING PURPOSES AFTER HE FORCED HER TO GIVE HIM ORAL AND WIPED HER MOUTH, THEN TRIED TO TURN IT INTO A FUN GAME.
(Aali doesn’t notice DADDY throwing in words, she just enjoys DADDY’s SECRET GAME)
AALI keeps saying worm yucky bad worm daddy worm and DADDY keeps poking HIS WORM/ HIS PENIS in Aali’s mouth.
(Aali thinks she’s playing a game with DADDY WHILE HE MOLESTS HER AND THEN BRAINWASHES HER)
DADDY plays the game a lot with Aali until Aali repeats it back to her and remembers all the things about the game TO THEN REPEAT TO HER MOMMY.
Mommy video tapes Aali WHEN AALI TELLS HER MOM WHAT HER DADDY HAS DONE TO HER AND EXPLAINS HOW HE TRIED TO BRAINWASH HER BY TAKING HER TO THE STORE TO SEE WORMS.
Aali is NOT monotone and not crying BECAUSE SHE IS SAFE AT HER MOMY’S HOUSE. It’s scary to her AND MAKES HER CRY, its a game she plays with DADDY, SHE IS CONFUSED LIKE THE CHILD MOLESTER LIKES SO PEOPLE THAT DONT UNDERSTAND HOW SICK CHILD MOLESTERS LIKE DUSTIN OPERATE WILL BE JUST AS CONFUSED AS THE CHILD. SHE DOESN’T UNDERSTAND WHAT A CRUEL ACT HAS JUST BEEN ACTED UPON HER BECAUSE THE MOLESTER TRIES TO MAKE IT A FUN GAME.
Mommy REALLY cries in the background BECAUSE SHE HAS HAD TO HEAR OF A NUMBER OF THINGS HER DADDY DOES TO HER WHILE NO ONE WILL HELP THEM. she ‘fears’ for her abused child.
Mommy after all has a very high IQ (HIGHER THAN DADDY’S)and knows exactly what she’s doing WHICH IS WHY SHE WON’T SHUT UP LIKE THE CHILD MOLESTER WANTS SO BADLY SO HE WON’T HAVE ONE INTELLIGENT PERSON MORE INTELLIGENT THAN HIMSELF EXPOSING HIM FOR WHAT HE IS BECAUSE SHE CAN SEE THROUGH HIS B.S. This of course is an example of how HE coached Aali, AFTER HE MOLESTED HER, HE could have used another method, EXCEPT AALIYAH ALREADY SPELLED IT OUT FOR US OF HOW HE DID IT. HE STUCK HIS PENIS IN HER MOUTH IT MAKES HER CRY , CHOKE, IS YUCKY, AND HE HAD TO GET IT OFF BY WIPING HER FACE WITH A NAPKIN THEN HE TOOK HER TO THE STORE TO SEE WORMS AND BABIES SINCE HE TOLD HER DADDY WANTS TO HAVE A BABY WITH HER. There’s many ways to coach a child and doing it through play is the best way for a child to mimic the FATHER doing the same things AFTER HE MOLESTS HER TO CONFUSE HER.
If Aali didn’t get it right DADDY would STOP playing with her until Aali did and said the right things TO ENSURE THAT HE WON’T GET CAUGHT BECAUSE WHEN HE DOES PRISON IS THE END ALL BE ALL OF HIS SECRET GAME. Aali learns quickly DADDY WILL HIT HER OR KICK HER unless she says the right things TO KEEP HIM OUT OF JAIL. Aali wants to NOT GET BEAT BY her DADDY like ALL children DESERVE.
This is how to coach/BRAINWASH a child. It’s easy enough to do. If it wasn’t, no child would ever learn anything. Not pattycake bakers man, not the hokey pokey or even simon says.
Huh
THANKS FOR THE LESSON CHILD MOLESTER.
FOR THOSE OF YOU IN DOUBT READ A BOOK CALLED UNDERSTANDING CHILD MOLESTERS LIKE SAVEAALIYAH.COM SAYS TO DO THEN THE ABOVE 2 POSTS WILL MAKE PERFECT SENSE TO YOU. IT WILL UNLIFT THE CLOUD OF CONFUSION CHILD MOLESTERS LEAVE BEHIND TO COVER THEIR TRACKS.
OH DUSTIN IT MUST SUCK TO BE IN YOUR POSITION TO REALIZE THE VICTIM YOU CHOSE TO BREED YOUR SECOND VICTIM WITH IS A WOMAN MORE INTELLIGENT THAN YOURSELF WHOSE GENES WERE THEN PASSED ONTO HER CHILD WHOM ALSO IS MORE INTELLIGENT THAN YOURSELF.
MAYBE YOU SHOULD DRAG YOUR NEXT VICTIMS INTO A PSYCHOLOGICAL TESTING FACILITY TO HAVE AN IQ TEST PERFORMED ON THEM TO SEE IF YOU COULD KEEP THEM QUIET THROUGH YOUR ABUSE OF THEM. SHOULD HAVE THOUGHT OF THAT ONE BEFORE YOU CHOSE TO VICTIMIZE CONNIE.
IT MUST BE FRUSTRATING TO HAVE THIS ONE PERSON MORE INTELLIGENT THAN YOURSELF THAT UNDERSTANDS WHAT YOU ARE DOING. THAT MUST BE PART OF THE REASON YOU WANT HER DEAD. IF SHE WASN’T ALIVE WHO WOULD BE KEEPING YOU FROM BEING UNDER THE SPOTLIGHT FOR WHAT YOU ARE DOING TO YOUR OWN BABY?
OH THE STRUGGLES A CHILD MOLESTER MUST ENDURE TO KEEP SUCH A FUN LITTLE “GAME” A SECRET.
IT’S OKAY DUSTIN WE FEEL FOR YOU, REALLY, YOU POOR THING THAT IS GOING TO GET CAUGHT FOR MOLESTING YOUR OWN DAUGHTER, ITS SUCH A SAD STORY FOR YOU DUSTIN, POOR POOR DUSTIN, THE POOR GUY WON’T BE ABLE TO CUM ON HIS DAUGHTER’S FACE ANY MORE, GOSH I FEEL SO BAD FOR HIM, WHAT’S HE GOING TO DO WITH HIS ADDICTION IN PRISON, IT’S OK DUSTIN BUBBA SAYS HE PITY’S YOU TOO AND HAS A SECRET GAME TO PLAY WITH YOU! AT LEAST YOU HAVE SOMETHING TO LOOK FORWARD TO …
IS THAT ENOUGH OF A PITY PARTY FOR YOUR SOCIOPATHY? JUST LET US KNOW… WE ALL UNDERSTAND NOW THAT WE WERE JUST PUT ON THIS PLANET TO SERVE YOUR SELFISH NEEDS PRINCESS ;?)
HTTP://SAVEAALIYAH.COM
August 27th, 2009 at 12:25 am
CONNIE DOESN’T POST!
CONNIE DOESN’T POST!
CONNIE DOESN’T POST!
CONNIE DOESN’T POST!
BUT THE REST OF THE BEDWELLS DO! ANYONE WHO DOES NOT SUPPORT CONNIE IS DUSTIN. YOU ARE ALL DUSTIN OR HIS FAMILY!!
YOU WILL LOVE JAIL DUSTIN! MAYBE YOU AND YOUR FATHER CAN SHARE A CELL!
THE END IS NEAR!
August 27th, 2009 at 12:50 am
Wonder who let all the crazies out? Y’all are either on some serious drugs and losing it, or not enough drugs and need to adjust your meds.
AND YOU ALL TALK TOO MUCH!
August 27th, 2009 at 1:57 am
This child need to get away from both parents and their crazy families and friends. None of you are acting like you care about her or what she will think when she reads how you went after each other. Then we know she will be safe!!!!!!!
None of you sound like stable people. I wouldn’t want you around my dog, much less my kids.
Screw the investigations, just put her somewhere far away from all of you. Then just beat the crap out of each other. She has to be better off away from all this hate and anger and self serving ranting.
And be sure and tape it and post it on YouTube so we can decide who wins since what we think matters so much to you nutjobs.
August 27th, 2009 at 3:01 am
Mothers never lie about this stuff, only men do.
Give Connie and her family back this baby, little girls aren’t safe around men. Just cut off that worm and make him eat it.
August 27th, 2009 at 5:50 am
How long has it been since the baby has seen her mom? How come there is not more proof from doctors? Is there any? Does this kid still see a therapist? Is there anyone who has seen this child and knows how she is doing? Can’t someone from the Bedwell family go see how she is or talk to her on the phone, or do they have the rights to do so? What is the next court date for? Is there anything that we can do to help make them let Connie see her baby? When will Dr. Saturley get to California and talk to the parents and baby? Have the courts agreed to this? Are there better places to get answers or updates than this site? There isn’t much information with solid answers I can find, just the same questions and no one answers them……..
August 27th, 2009 at 6:37 am
Little girls are not safe around men? That is the dumbest thing that I have ever heard. What about little Sandra Cantu? That makes no sense at all. Much like this case. Oh wait there is no case really. The Daddy has his baby. The mother has not even tried to see her. The FBI are looking into her scam. So I hear. The warrior Karen who brought this to light is hiding out on BNN. Saying if we don’t believe this baby we are not different than someone who is abusing this child. Well, guess what. The MOTHER is the one abusing this baby according to me, NO. According to the courts. She is not male, she is female.
I have never in my life seen adults act like some are acting due to all the lies and hysteria in this horrible tradgey that is happening with this child. She is a minor however, her sweet face and name and location where she lives out on the net for all to see. If this were my child, I would be seeing my attorney and let the courts decide who should be put in jail for putting her PERSONAL info for all to see. As most of us know there are some really sick people out there. Just read how adults are acting all for the sake of this baby and these people say they are on her side. I think no. IMO
All of the people who are on the mothers side, how are you going to feel if someone kidnaps this child and really hurts her. She can be so easily found. She needs protection. She dose not need all of these sick people who are hysterical about this.
You know life is so short and we are suppose to be good to one another. Children are a gift from God. We need to protect them as a society not carry on like this. I do believe that when this first came out that most did believe what this mother claims. As time went on and the facts began to come out people stopped and decided for themselves what they believed. No one wants this baby to be hurt in any way. Now this is nothing but a pissing match. The baby has been lost in all of this.
Karen you probably had your heart in the right place when you came out with this info. What happened. Just because others in this free speaking and thinking world did not believe the mothers claims this seemed to change. Now it is about who can out witt the other. I pray that this is a scam and a mother who for what ever reason has done this to her baby is just that. A scammer. I pray that this child will have all the support she can get when she is older and reads about her life. I know that I would not want any of my children to have this ahead of them. Why are we not a society who protects our children. You read every single day about real abuse of our children. They are our future. What a world they will have to deal with. So very sad. This is not about who is who in all of this and who can control how other decide what is true and what is a scam by using this precious baby.
When will this stop.
August 27th, 2009 at 8:34 am
Where is your evidence Connie because all I see is babble going on again.
Any time we ask for REAL CREDIBLE evidence we get babble instead.
Huh.
A mother would never lie? Isn’t there a Casey Anthony in jail right now who was a mother of a sweet little girl?
This is what happens
We ask for EVIDENCE and get bombarded with a bunch of nonsense from the Bedwells and Connies followers. It usually ends up being more intimidation and bullying.
Who has Aali?
Who did the courts give Aali to?
Remind me which parent the doctors support?
Remind me which parent CPS supports?
Remind me which parent the DA’s office AGREES with?
Remind me which parent the police CLEARED of abuse?
Remind me who the judges are siding with?
Remind me which parent the counselors and experts with the 730 exam support and agree with?
Remind me because I’ve forgotten…..
Aali is in a beautiful home with a beautiful family surrounded by love and most of all stability.
Bedwells can’t handle the fact SO MANY people agree and support the Thompsons is the best place for Aali.
Too bad. Where’s your evidence Connie?
August 27th, 2009 at 8:37 am
hey 1282
You don’t seem to understand Aali is doing well and thriving in her current environment away from the Bedwells and all they did to the poor child.
She’s doing remarkable and her current counselor agrees she’s come a long way for the better. She does not need to be removed and with the current counselors documentation to the judge, she won’t be removed from her father.
She’s thriving! Deal with it already.
August 27th, 2009 at 9:01 am
There’s no contradiction.
The child was not abused but the mother coached the child so it would make it seem like she was.
Where in the sentence is a contradiction? You have me confused.
You’re screaming the baby was abused, I’m saying she wasn’t and the courts & experts back up my statement. The judge agrees because he awarded Dustin custody. I have the proof on my side to support my comments. The proof is many people involved around this child agrees she was never harmed.
The mom can scream and rant all she wants, it won’t change anything.
August 27th, 2009 at 9:05 am
Little girls aren’t safe around men? Quite the statement there.
The courts are full of lying mothers who tried to accuse fathers of molestation. It happens all too often and your following just such a woman who’s doing exactly that. Lying
August 27th, 2009 at 11:49 am
Why has the mom tried so hard online after all this time?
How come she cannot get it together? Why doesn’t she do something productive to work towards seeing her child? Through her website about her kid she tries to hard to teach people about molesters and abusers. I don’t see any molesters or abusers so what is the point about the information on there? Why does have a need to focus so hard on the father? He’s done nothing wrong. She tried going to authorities many times with all kinds of tales to tell. They were all investigated, police even proved she outright lied in some of her police reports. She’s lucky she didn’t go to jail for filing false reports. What’s the point Connie? Why didn’t you talk of molestation with police early on? Why was that the last of your accusations? Why after so many different stories and police interviews where you couldn’t keep these stories straight, did you then shout molestation? Why? Is it because the father has custody and you have no say in your childs’ life? Is it because of the woman he was dating? Is it because he stopped paying for your lazy lifestyle of partying it up every night instead of you getting a job? Why? What’s the point?
You haven’t seen your kid in 3 months. To a 3 year old that’s an eternity. Why are you working so hard online to slander the father instead of doing anything that would help you see your kid?
If you keep doing what you’ve already done and expect different results, there’s a big problem with your thinking.
At every turn you’ve thumbed your nose at the judge or rather your finger literally. What has that done? You have no ability to see your kid without a supervisor watching your every move, every word, every touch and hug. Your family can’t see your kid at all. Why? Why has the courts refused the Bedwells all access to her. People are asking so answer them already!
All you have is very old accusations, your word only. Its very easy to coach a child, I agree with the poster above. Children are so easily coached. You have no doctors agreeing with you, not a one. No child psychologist agrees with you, not a one. No investigators agree. No judges either. I’m sure your previous court attire was not a welcome site to even your own lawyer was it? Why do you keep doing things that are so self-destructive? Look at the type of people you attract online to help you! They’ve only harmed your current situation. They think their actions help? Can’t they see what damage they’ve done? You haven’t seen your kid in 3 months. But they don’t think their actions have harmed you. They think they’re marching aimlessly towards some mythical justice for a child who was never abused.
Your online friends have spun their wheels since May and it got no where fast. They still think they can accomplish something. What? What do they think their words online on a message board or blogger room will do? Are they that niave to think anything they say will sway a judge? Really? I don’t know if I should laugh at the thought or feel bad for them. Your friends have probably added to the current situation of you not seeing your child for 3 months. How’s that helping? They pray and hope and they can do that all they want, it won’t change reality.
Judge Smith is looking at everything collectively. He sees the people you surround yourself with. He agrees to keep your friends and family far away from your child. Why? Why won’t you tell your online friends? Why do you hide so much from them? Why not tell them everything? Why oh why are you so self-destructive?
Why can’t you see how your current actions will only keep your child further away from you? Why can’t you understand the courts hold all the cards and you either obey the courts or you don’t get to see your kid.
Why are you so self-destructive Connie? Don’t you feel you deserve to be a mother? Does it have to do with what your daddy did all of you long ago? Do you hate yourself that much deep inside? Why keep doing things that only further harm you and further keep you from your daughter? Why Connie?
August 27th, 2009 at 12:31 pm
I heard a rumor that Connie will be seeing the baby next week! Anyone know if this is true???
August 27th, 2009 at 12:41 pm
Dustin is a molester because Connie says so, so does her sister her father and her friends. They know him and you dont. How can you question this and the safety of this little girl? Judges get it wrong all the time.
August 27th, 2009 at 12:47 pm
I have to agree that all this arguing online isn’t going to change this child’s fate. Nothing said here matters to the courts, and they have made up their minds. All it is doing is leaving more for this child to eventually see about how much her parents hate each other. There isn’t any proof of any abuse that backup this woman’s claims. But it won’t stop her from continuing to fight her case on the internet…no wonder she is losing her child- she should have tried to win it in court instead!
August 27th, 2009 at 1:19 pm
Did Connie do anything so she can see her kid yet? I thought Karen spoke to her. Why doesn’t her lawyer speak to her any longer?
August 27th, 2009 at 3:07 pm
This is how you can tell how nervous Dustin is about getting caught…
His babbling on the net is never ending! When Dustin is guilty of something, anything, he babbles in confidence, with utter lies so boldly, to shift the focus, to stay on the offense like he is above reproach.
Dustin makes up lies such as Connie flipped off the judge in hopes people will argue about that and believe it to side track people from the truth, the fact that he is molesting his daughter.
Dustin has you all so worried about “why isn’t Connie doing something about visitation.” Yet the Truth of the matter is he is purposely not giving her visitation while he is violating a court order.
Dustin does what is called Preemptive strike where he flips his own thoughts, intentions, and actions on his victims. He will spell out for you what he is ACTUALLY doing in each of his posts and statements.
If some of you talk to him or email with him you will notice he is a very wordy babbler and controls the conversaton. He doesn’t give you a chance to ask questions as he is already filling your head with BS the way he wants it. Casey Anthony does the same thing. Guilty people do it as a nervous tick to feel the need to cover up their crime. Pay close attention to how he never just directly answers a question it is a long drawn out babble yet the actual question never gets directly answered, he has you so side tracked on the babble you dont even realize what he just did to you.
If you pay attention he will talk about Connie and bash Connie the whole time with what he is doing in REALITY.
He understands that some of you people will be ignorant enough to believe anything put out there and you do. Ask yourself what proof of anything does he have? Nothing. He’s just a babbler to take the focus off the TRUTH: That he is molesting his own baby.
He hopes Connie will get online and answer his questions just so he can feel like he is speaking with her. He hopes to change the subject, the focus, the reality, the real issue… but there are some of us that know him all too well and know exactly what he is doing. Some of us have been around him to know what he is going to do before he does it.
Someone made a statement about this being a battle of who is more intelligent. It is a battle of protecting the life, soul and sanity of a child from her abusers Dustin and JD Thompson. The reason why you would think it looks like a battle of who is more intelligent is funny you say that especially since you support the father. Abusers think this is a “game,” that YOU each of you personally are just a pawn to manipulate in his game, he feels he is above you, that he is above reproach, that he is more intelligent than you. He feels that if he doesn’t have you under his control you are then a threat to him such as he sees Connie. He sees Connie as more intelligent than himself and it drives him crazy. Crazy to a point he wants to keep claiming the Bedwells aren’t accomplishing anything by blogging …if you only knew princess ;) All the while blogging himself. If it weren’t doing anything, what are you blogging for Dustin? For it not doing anything you are doing your nervous babble of bold talk quite a bit! Ever thought to yourself Dustin that Connie has you figured out? Ever thought that she will get you caught at what you are doing? I think you have thought that, I think you know that, hence is why you are at your nervous bold babble on btls pretending to keep yourself above reproach. How dare someone actually see the truth that you are molesting your daughter? That means they aren’t under your manipulation and you hate it. Dustin thinks he is more intelligent than all of you which is why it looks like an intellect match. Dustin thinks life is a game so guess what Dustin we decided to play it with you! And when YOUR game is over, it will be worth every bit of the fight against every ignorant person that falls for your crap in the meantime.
Aaliyah will be safe and away from all of the Thompson’s when your game is over. Your Dad will be in jail right along with you Dustin. Anyone in your family will be in scewed for enabling, aiding and ebbeting a felony against the victim.
Maybe you should go back and read through the Kelsea Briggs story. Maybe you should just whip out Tanya and John Bartsch’s Police report. John was trying to cover for his crook of a wife and look where it got him! Thompson’s your next pumpkin’s! Keep defending the Child Molester it will get you where it got John Bartsch sent right to the DA’s office for prosecution along with his now ex-wifey.
And for those of you that haven’t seen that report circulating I heard it’s on it’s lovely way to saveaaliyah.com for you all to read.
Thompson’s the truth always comes out…
What a day for Aali that will be!
August 27th, 2009 at 3:39 pm
Court should be exciting! I can’t wait for Sand-on-her-face Amara to put Connie on the stand!
Amara:
Connie did you post that police report of Dustin slamming your head in the trunk of his mercedes? NOPE
Connie did you post the Dr’s letter from Dustin slamming your head in the trunk of his mercedes? NOPE
(Judge Smith will think to himself What? He has full custody and he has slammed her head in the trunk of his mercedes?)
Connie did you post the police report forwarded to the DA for prosecution of multiple felonies of Dustin’s lying, star witness’s that say you coached Aaliyah, John and Tanya Bartsch that were finally proven as exactly what you said they were? NOPE
Connie did you post ALL of those PUBLIC court documents? NOPE
Connie did you give permission to someone to post them? NOPE
Connie did you post the posts on btls about Dustin molesting his daughter? NOPE
Connie did you post all of those witness’s letters of people that know Dustin is molesting his daughter and were never contacted by corrupt Placer County Officials that call themselves professionals that all need new jobs they are actually good at, on Saveaaliyah.com? NOPE
Dustin’s turn on the stand
Dustin why are you posting trying so hard to defend yourself about The Parrot and Monster statements your daughter makes about you? Isn’t that a completely different story than what you told the police?
ETC.
ONE MORE POINTLESS DAY OF COURT FOR DUSTIN WASTING HIS MONEY TO TRY TO PUT CONNIE IN JAIL TO SILENCE HER YET IT GETS TURNED INTO PROVING HE IS A LYING ABOUT HIS MOLESTING OF HIS DAUGHTER.
Sandy what are you going to do when we put your client on the stand? Better post pone the date again…
Connie’s attorney:
Judge Smith these ridiculous wack jobs have no case and are wasting my precious time I would like the 15 k they are requesting granted to my client for them bringing a frivolous case to court to pay for the Trial we are about to have to prove Dustin is molesting his daughter. Thanks.
Can’t wait!
August 27th, 2009 at 3:43 pm
Connie’s attorney is busy with the DA. Cry about it Dustin.
August 27th, 2009 at 5:37 pm
You are once again assuming that those of us that do not believe this story are in contact with the Thompsons. It simply is not true. I can’t help it if Connie has no real proof beyond her own word. And I don’t know her. As far as I know she doesn’t post online due to the court order. I don’t know the Thompsons either. What I do know is based upon reading the available information, and it isn’t enough to prove anything.
If you are going to use a case and an example, spell the child’s name correctly- it is KELSEY. And, I’d like to point out that Connie supporters are the ones who keep saying she is smarter than everyone. I have news for you, there are many people in the top percentages of intelligence. Sadly, it has not made her able to deal with the issues or process of this story has it?
We ask why she has not managed to see her child because it is important. Her supporters are the ones who told us about what the judge said. Those of us with any real intelligence are asking why she is still not seeing her child, and why she isn’t filing the ex parte motion. She is the one who complained about not seeing her child, and she is the one doing nothing to accomplish visitation. She doesn’t need the opposing attorney, she only needs her own and a judge. Or do you not understand the concept of what and ex parte motion is.
August 28th, 2009 at 12:29 pm
Poster 1295- are you dustin?? because you never answer a question, and you SURE BABBLE alot!! LMAO. You think we ask why Connie hasm’t seem the baby because it is a distraction from abuse? NOPE, we ask because it is an important question. One no one is answering. WTF? Does she have a reason for not seeing her child? The judge told her she could, and how to do it.
August 28th, 2009 at 2:14 pm
I know I said I wouldn’t post here anymore, but I found this very interesteing.
Thanks to whomever posted my email on BTLS and Ireport, I have now received three emails this morning regarding an altercation between Dustin’s brother Adam, his Girlfriend, Danielle Simon and Connie’s lawyer’s son (they didn’t give me their names).
Supposedly, Adam and Danielle got in Connie’s lawyer’s son’s face yelling and threatening that Connie is insane and his father should drop her. I was told it almost became physical.
Adam, if this is true, it only supports Connie’s claim that Dustin is abusing his child. IMO
Why would anyone go to the lengths of violence if there is nothing to hide?
By the looks of all the documentation on SaveAaliyah.com the Thompson’s have PLENTY to hide.
And why didn’t you go directly after her lawyer and not his son? That is sad and pathetic.
If Dustin was so innocent, I don’t think you would be defending him with violence or threats of violence, screaming and intimidation.
Connie nor her family have threatened anyone with violence!
In one of the emails I received, it says the Trocodero wants you to come back, but they think you won’t because you are a pussy like Dustin and your father JD Thompson, all tough talk and no action….(not my words, I’m quoting).
Do you think threatening the son of her lawyer is going to stop the legal actions toward Dustin?
She is entitled to legal council. Your actions have totally proven to me that you Thompson’s have so much to hide. Again, their words not mine.
I don’t think I would have received this in my email unless they wanted it on BTLS because obviously Adam and Danielle post and read here…..
Also it said something about how Adam and Dustin both have slept with Adam’s girlfriend Danielle. That’s just wrong.
Don’t shoot the messenger.
August 28th, 2009 at 3:09 pm
“Connie’s attorney is busy with the DA”
LOL!
Like that would prevent her lawyer from being able to sign a form that takes a half hour for a legal secretary to prepare. As if there weren’t enough time in his busy day to schedule an hour in court to get Ms. Bedwell’s visitation restored.
Yes, Ms. Bedwell’s attorney has spent the last THREE MONTHS talking to the DA, preventing him from doing any other substantive work on Ms. Bedwell’s case or the cases of his other clients. Give me a break!
The DA already considered charges against Mr. Thompson and no charges were ever filed due to LACK OF EVIDENCE. If Ms. Bedwell’s attorney is spending all his time talking with the DA, perhaps it’s to get Ms. Bedwell off the hook for contempt of court charges due to her repeatedly violating court orders.
August 28th, 2009 at 3:33 pm
You know it is so funny how a few people at BNN say they are not going to post here ANYMORE because the people who do not support this mother are carzy. Due to the fact of what is said here. The funny part is that I have read Karen and her merry band of followers have yelled, sceamed, and cussed others out even for asking a proper questions (karen especially if she is asked the same question from more than one person). She dose not like to be questioned and feels that people who do not agree with here abuse children. They are over there doing thier put downs of us and think that is ok. We are insane but they can cuss and scream and carry on this hysteria and they are the normal ones and we are isane. Happy Friday, aren’t they just great. They can not wait until the facts come out and prove that his child is being abused and how happy that will be. I am sorry that is just sick. Oh well I guess that will make all of the ones who support the mother happy. I think there are some real sick puppies hiding at BNN.
August 28th, 2009 at 3:49 pm
Thanks for the info, it’s about darn time the DA’s office talks to Connie’s lawyer about her impending criminal charges. Guess the FBI works faster than I thought. He’s probably trying hard to keep her out of jail.
Good tidbit to know :)
August 28th, 2009 at 9:21 pm
Lengthy posts from Darrel again above I see trying to claim Dustin posts online. Its FUNNY.
Thought I’d mention, one of Connie’s so called court documents posted on her daughters site is a simple form a parent fills out at a doctors or psychologists office. The mother (Connie) filled it out and checked off a bunch of things.
People not familiar with the case may believe a doctor actually filled it out but it was done by Connie. So how’s that proof?
Then there’s a few witness statements that have been posted online before, nothing new to see. They’re from Erin, Jen & Juilette. (More about them later too).
Connie does spend some time really trying to discredit a friend of hers. A friend who personally witnessed Connie talk about her PLAN AND PLOT to accuse the father of child molestation. A PLAN to destroy him. It’s a wonder why she needs to discredit her so badly, the friend has some goods on hers too.
So still no evidence. No doctors reports from an actual DOCTOR, just a NOTE in a doctors files. The note made by the doctor put a BIG ? question mark beside bruises/visit to fathers? Meaning the doctor questions the mother’s statement. The doctors notes are not fact, it’s simply a note from a comment made by the mother.
Still NO Doctors notes to PROVE ABUSE. NONE.
Still NO child sex experts documentation to PROVE ABUSE. NONE.
Still nothing new… notice the dates please too.
ALL of this information on the SaveA site is in the police files, all of it in the DA’S office too. It was all investigated, every last piece!
The DA’s office closed the file on all the abuse and CLEARED THE FATHER COMPLETELY.
So nothing new ever, just same ole same ole stuff, certainly no evidence. No wonder the judges and everyone else around the child has decided she belongs with her father.
SIGH now I wait for accusations that I’m Dustin, a Thompson or a ‘pedo supporter’, LOL. Funny every time I read that.
There’s no child molester but Connie sure has a deep need to continue her slander against her childs father instead of doing anything about seeing her baby.
PS: TO remind the intelligent readers. When you read a POLICE REPORT, it’s created by the accuser. It does not mean it’s factual or true, it’s simply written by the person coming into the station making the complaint.
Filing false police reports is against the law and it states right on most of them a warning about writing a false report. Didn’t stop Connie from doing it repeatedly.
She always had bigger tales to tell the police every time she walked in. Molestation claim came much MUCH later. You think if the child was being abused and she feared that for so long, it would be somewhere in the earlier reports.
She can sure be convincing to a lot of people around her but if you look at everything collectively, it shows a clear pattern of deception on her part. The TOTALITY of the evidence about Connie’s story PROVES SHE LIED ABOUT MOST EVERYTHING PERTAINING TO HER CHILDS FATHER AND HER CHILD.
It’s why the father has full custody.
August 28th, 2009 at 9:25 pm
Okay a correction since we cannot edit here.
The DA’s office closed the case on the abuse ALLEGATIONS (it was meant to say). Typing too fast but thought I’d clear it up before Darrel tries to ‘correct me’. ;)
August 29th, 2009 at 12:31 am
“If some of you talk to him or email with him you will notice he is a very wordy babbler and controls the conversaton. He doesn’t give you a chance to ask questions as he is already filling your head with BS the way he wants it. Casey Anthony does the same thing. Guilty people do it as a nervous tick to feel the need to cover up their crime. Pay close attention to how he never just directly answers a question it is a long drawn out babble yet the actual question never gets directly answered, he has you so side tracked on the babble you dont even realize what he just did to you.
If you pay attention he will talk about Connie and bash Connie the whole time with what he is doing in REALITY.”
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After reading on saveaaliyah.com about the two false witnesses that lied for Dustin this post above proves that point even further. Look at how Tanya is a rambling nervous bold tick of a babbler also and completely ignores the detectives question and bashes Connie instead just like the Thompson’s do.
OH THE SIGNS OF THE GUILTY.
LIKE CLOCKWORK.
HUH DUSTY POO?
Aali baby you’ll see your Mommy, your Darrel, your Aunties, Uncles and cousins soon honey.
Us sane people are praying for you baby.
August 29th, 2009 at 2:33 am
Just wondering why some people get irritated that someone would call them a Thompson!
Trust me I wouldn’t want to be called a Thompson either. EVER.
I’m sorry but it’s kind of funny only because if people only knew the Thompson’s like some of us do you would see why certain people get accused of being a Thompson!!
We will call this one…
YOU MIGHT BE CALLED A THOMPSON IF:
If you lie, you might be called a Thompson.
If you are going to state lies as a fact you might be called a Thompson!
If you speak of things as fact that you were NOT there for, you might be called a Thompson!
If you have no other arguement besides calling your fellow bloggers “mentally ill” for speaking Truth, you might be called a Thompson!
If you lie, you might be called a Thompson.
If you try your hardest to stay on the offensive because you think the best defense is an offense you will call you a Thompson.
If you bash Connie with abusive language such that Dustin has used against her for years, you might be called a Thompson!
If you can’t see that a two year old baby could NEVER repeat a script of what she said in the video , you might be called a Thompson!
If you speak of 4th hand relayed information as fact, you might be called a Thompson!
If you believe your own lies you might be called a Thompson.
If you speak out of the opposite end than your mouth, you might be called a Thompson!
If you threaten, intimidate and yell, you might be called a Thompson!
If you defend Dustin even though you really have no clue as to who is really telling the truth of the matter and there is a possibility this child is being molested, the county is corrupt as the mother and numerous other people claim, the father truly is that manipulative and you can’t see there is a possibility the professionals are wrong, people might assume you are not too bright or just a straight liar… hence why… you might be called a Thompson.
If you believe it is more important to keep the family together than turn in a child molester, you might be called a Thompson.
Did I mention If you lie, you might be called a Thompson?
When you take a problem to a police officer all witnesses should be spoke to to have a full understanding of the entire crime before you clear ones name and before you even ask a perpetrating child molester if he’s a child molester. How does an officer interrogate without the information to go interrogate? If you can’t understand that you might be assumed a lying Thompson.
If you cover, aid, support, defend, enable and lie for a child molester you might be called a Thompson.
If you make IGNORANT statements that only a child molester would make such as how a baby’s hymen wouldn’t be intact because of a fall even after you watched the Daddy’s worm video and read witness statements, you might be called a Thompson or Dustin himself.
If you try to control everyone, you might be called a Thompson.
If You aren’t intelligent enough to understand that stating to the mother that “she will never see her child again,” Is an actual threat (and one abusers use) you might be called a Thompson.
If you think this is a “game” like sociopaths do, you might be called a Thompson.
If you scream out “Dustin doesn’t post” (when why the heck would an innocent by stander care if he was) then you might be called a Thompson.
If you make excuses for Dustin’s alibi’s such as why he would brainwash his child into thinking he was a parrot or a monster that wears a scary mask while he molests her, you might be called Dustin Thompson.
If you scream the child is “thriving” when in fact she is not and you can clearly read the visitation reports about how she is almost 4 in diapers and refusing the bathroom, crying about how she wants to go home with her mommy because her daddy is mad, you might be called a Thompson.
If you lie in a post 5 posts down from your last lying post or lie about the lies in your posts, you might be called a Thompson.
If you lie about your lies about your lying posts full of lies you might be called a Thompson.
If you make excuse after excuse after excuse for multiple undeniable signs of sexual and physical abuse and excuses of why the child tries to kick her way out of the fathers and grandfathers arms while screaming at exchanges, you might be called a Thompson.
If you have changed your story 20 times about saveaaliyah and or Connie being a scam, fraud, coacher, kidnapper, crazy and the list of “stories” go on and on… all proved untrue, you might be called a Thompson.
If you scream “Shut up Darrel and Tim” (two men in Connie’s life that Dustin is insanely jealous of) you might be called Dustin Thompson.
If you try to rap on BTLS you might be called Dustin Thompson.
If you post 9 times in a row on btls drunk off your rear right after July 4th we know your Dustin Thompson!
If you are abusive enough to call an elderly lady names like a comment left on the Auburn Urinal you are Dustin Thompson.
If you support abuse you will be called a Thompson.
If you really think that a man that has slammed an injured womans head in the trunk of a car that he claims he loves isn’t capable of doing the same and worse to his own baby that he claims he loves… you might be called a Thompson or ignorant or in denial or…
If you call your baby a F@#king little brat at 8 days old we will call you Dustin Thompson.
If you kick your daughter in January of 2008 on her back for telling her mom about hurting her pee pee you are Dustin Thompson.
If you write a big long detailed post of how to coach a child because in fact you have coached/brainwashed a child on numerous occasions over the last two years you will be called Dustin Thompson.
If you make a trip into Roseville to verbally and mentally attack Connie’s lawyer’s son for his dad defending Connie when you know the truth is going to come out about your brother being a child molester you will be called Adam Thompson. (Thompson’s are mighty fightened that Connie has an attorney to finally present all of the evidence to the judge. Getting uneasy I see huh Thompson’s?)
If you are sticking your hairy one eyed yucky worm in your daughter’s mouth you will be called Dustin Thompson the Child Molester.
If you threaten to kill your pregnant girlfriend two weeks before her due date we will call you Dustin Thompson (or Scott Peterson)
If your girlfriend had to move to Alaska to protect herself and her child from getting battered by a baseball bat we will call you Dustin Thompson.
If your parents always enable you we will call you Dustin Thompson (or Casey Anthony).
If you walk, talk, act, yell, threaten, intimidate, isolate, are jealous, or type like an abuser we might call you a Thompson.
(If you would like to avoid being called a Thompson read about signs of abusers and try not to type like one or use abuser language. By that I don’t just mean abusIVE language, I mean abusER language. They all talk the same ie: they call women crazy, mentally ill etc.)
Shoot this could go on all night…
Hope you all get the point…
Thanks to all supporting Aaliyah’s safety.
Trust me I would be pissed off too if someone called me a Thompson.
S A V E A A L I Y A H
August 29th, 2009 at 8:04 am
A trial for molestation? hehehe seriously give it a rest already. You want the readers to believe some trial will happen?
What part of this do you NOT understand?
The father was investigated.
The father was cleared. The DA’S office does NOT HAVE AN OPEN FILE on the father about anything. Fact!
You cannot have a trial unless there are criminal charges. That won’t happen because this is a NON ISSUE. This has been investigated extensively. The DA’s office passed on pursing charges. There will not be a trial but you seem so confused about the entire process and the REALITY OF WHATS TRULY OCCURRED HERE BUDDY!
You cannot deal with that for some reason Connie, I’m just not sure why.
*shaking head*
August 29th, 2009 at 10:43 am
Would it interest you to know there are as many if not more witness & character statements with the courts in favor of the father? Friends, family & co-workers have come forward to provide their account of how the father interacts with the child and how well the child has been doing since being in his care full time?! How happy she is being around him!
Would it interest you to know there are police reports about Connie and her violence? Witnesses that do not know the father or Connie have provided statements to the police about her actions and violence and what they witnessed?!
Would it interest you to know the counselors have provided CURRENT statements to the courts regarding dramatic improvement of the childs behavior and actions since being in the fathers care full time?!
PARTIAL QUOTE: “The subject child is thriving under the care of the father. It is suggested the status quo custody arrangement not be disrupted.”
This is a current May 2009 quote directly from those who continue to see the child.
The Bedwells, Darrel and Connies supporters can attempt to sway and spin however they feel about the situation. The fact remains the father has full custodial rights and the current family evaluation, current counselors, doctors and other experts who have very recently seen the child insist the child remain with the father.
Connie had fully participated in the 730 Family Exam, she cannot deny that. She DID try and HIDE IT FROM EVERYONE ONLINE including Dr Saturley. He was never made aware of the extensive evaluation conducted and the level of in-depth process taken to ensure the child was safe, healthy, loved and in a stable environment. It is what he said he wanted to do however it was already done and the courts agreed and accepted ALL RECOMMENDATIONS by the evaluator.
The father brings the child to many family and non-family functions. She is not hidden away like they’d have you believe. She has a very normal day to day life, visits cousins and friends, interacts well with all around. She responds and acts normally and enjoys life.
It is only when the mother is involved when the child demonstrates some erractic behavior. It is why Connie has only supervised visitation and there are recommendations to the courts by the counselors that the mother NEVER HAVE ANYTHING MORE than supervised visits with the child. Upon their evaluation, they do not feel the mother is capable of providing a stable environment for the child.
The courts have made repeated decisions to keep the child with the father because of the unstable atmosphere surrounding the mother.
The reader needs to keep questioning why the mother is not believed by the authorities and doctors. Keep questioning why the mother has only restrictive supervised visitation placed on her. Keep questioning why a judge who is a complete stranger to all involved, not even from the area… also agrees the child should remain with her dad.
What has this unbiased, out of county judge seen & read to agree with all involved?
Connie time to come clean already and turn things around. Its not too late YET to start obeying the court process and orders on you so you can have more access to your child. One day it WILL BE TOO LATE.
August 29th, 2009 at 11:40 am
Of course Connies family will back whatever she told them about her daughter. If the child over-reacted to anything her sister & father assumed it was because of some fictional abuse. Family would do and say anything for me too if it would help getting my kid back in my arms.
You can argue judges get it wrong but you forget there are so many people involved in the little girls life. It hasn’t been just 1 judge or 1 investigator. There are over 50 people who have been directly involved in ensuring the childs safety.
Yes judges sometimes get it wrong but in this case because the mom made such a huge deal, they all made sure they got it right
August 29th, 2009 at 6:03 pm
1302 Very funny. She’s so obsessed with a ficticious case of abuse online, its a wonder she’s only 37 and on her 3rd divorce. There’s a shocker!
1307 Ah yes Darrel’s in the house. Does anyone read the previous posts at BNN? He was wordy there too. Always babbling endlessly on and on thinking he’s fighting against Dustin. Uh Darrel, when is Connie going to stop her hoax online and attempt to see her kid? When is Connie going to start listening to the judge? When is Connie going to admit her lies and undo all her wrongs?
Continue your threats against the Thompsons and bullying and blabbering about Dustin. Apparently Karen has a hard time reading your posts because she only see’s Connie bashers on the board… but she can’t see how others continue to exploit, bash and trash away an innocent man. She must be blind… lol it’s all Darrel and the Bedwells have in their corner is to intimidate every last person who wants this nonsense ended online so the little girl and her daddy can live in peace.
Karen you are the truest form of a patsy, they use you like a puppet. There’s so many things they kept from you and have not told you. If you only knew…. it’ll take you 2 or 3 years before your obsession slows down and you lurch onto something else but you will find nothing has changed. I guess it gives you the attention you so desperately seem to crave.
August 29th, 2009 at 7:21 pm
Warning Signs of an Abusive Personality
It is sometimes possible to predict the likelihood of the person you are currently or are about to become involved with being abusive. Below are a list of behaviors and traits which are common in abusive personalities. These are commonly known as Warning Signs.
While not all abusive people show the same signs, or display the tendencies to the same extent, if several behavioral traits are present, there is a strong tendency toward abusiveness. Generally, the more signs are present, the greater the likelihood of violence. In some cases, an abuser may have only a couple of behavioral traits that can be recognized, but they are very exaggerated (e.g. extreme jealousy over ridiculous things).
Often the abuser will initially try to explain his/her behavior as signs of his/her love and concern, and the victim may be flattered at first; as time goes on, the behaviors become more severe and serve to dominate, control and manipulate the victim.
Jealousy
At the beginning of a relationship, an abuser will always say the jealousy is a sign of love. He/she may question you about whom you have spoken to or seen during the day, may accuse you of flirting, or be jealous of time you spend with family, friends, children or hobbies which do not include him/her. As the jealousy progresses, he/she may call you frequently during the day or drop by unexpectedly. He may be unhappy about or refuse to let you work for fear you’ll meet someone else, check the car mileage or ask friends to keep an eye on you. Jealousy is not proof of love, it is a sign of insecurity and possessiveness.
Controlling Behavior
Controlling behavior is often disguised or excused as concern. Concern for your safety, your emotional or mental health, the need to use your time well, or to make sensible decisions. Your abuser may be angry or upset if you are ‘late’ coming back from work, shopping, visiting friends, etc., even if you told him/her you would be later back than usual. Your abuser may question you closely about where you were, whom you spoke to, the content of every conversation you held, or why you did something he/she was not involved in. As this behavior gets worse, you may not be allowed to make personal decisions about the house, clothing, going to church or how you spend your time or money or even make you ask for permission to leave the house or room. Alternately, he/she may theoretically allow you your own decisions, but penalize you for making the wrong ones. Concern for our loved ones to a certain extent is normal – trying to control their every move is not.
Quick Involvement
Many victims of abuse dated or knew their abuser for less than six months before they were engaged or living together. The abuser will often claim ‘love at first sight’, that you are ‘made for each other’, or that you are the only person whom he could ever talk to so openly, feel so at home with, could understand him so well. He may tell you that they have never loved anyone so much or felt so loved by anyone so much before, when you have really only known each other for a short amount of time. He needs someone desperately, and will pressure you to commit to him or make love before you feel the relationship has reached ‘that stage’. He may also make you feel guilty for not committing yourself to him.
Unrealistic Expectations
The abuser expects you to be the perfect husband, wife, mother, father, lover, and friend. He is very dependent on you for all his needs, and may tell you he can fulfill all your needs as lover, friend, and companion. Statements such as: ‘lf you love me, I’m all you need.’, ‘You are all I need.’ are common. Your abuser may expect you to provide everything for him emotionally, practically, financially or spiritually, and then blame you for not being perfect or living up to expectation.
Isolation
The abuser may try to curtail your social interaction. He may prevent you from spending time with your friends or family and demand that you only go places ‘together’. He may accuse you of not be committed to the relationship, or view people who are your personal friends as ‘causing trouble’ or ‘trying to put a wedge’ between you. He may want to live in the country without a phone, not let you use the car, stop you from working or gaining further education or qualifications.
Blame-shifting for Problems
Very rarely will an abusive personality accept responsibility for any negative situation or problem. If they are unemployed, can’t hold down a job, were thrown out of college or University or fall out with their family, it is always someone else’s fault, be it the boss, the government, or their mother. They may feel that someone is always doing them wrong, or out to get him. He may make mistakes and then blame you for upsetting him or preventing him from doing as they wished to.
Blame-shifting for Feelings
The abuser will deny feelings stem from within him but see them as reactions to your behavior or attitude toward him. He may tell you that ‘you make me mad’, ‘you’re hurting me by not doing what I ask’, or that he cannot help feeling mad, upset, etc. Feelings may be used to manipulate you, i.e. ‘I would not be angry if you didn’t …’ Positive emotions will often also be seen as originating outside the abuser, but are more difficult to detect. Statements such as ‘You make me happy’ or ‘You make me feel good about myself’ are also signs that the abuser feels you are responsible for his sense of well-being. Either way, you become in his mind the cause of good and bad feelings and are therefore responsible for his emotional well-being and happiness. Consequently, you are also to blame for any negative feelings such as anger, upset or depression.
Hypersensitivit…………y
Most abusers have very low self-esteem and are therefore easily insulted or upset. They may claim their feelings are ‘hurt’ when they are really angry, or take unrelated comments as personal attacks. They may perceive normal set-backs (having to work additional hours, being asked to help out, receiving a parking fine, etc.) as grave personal injustices. They may view your preference for something which differs from their own as a criticism of their taste and therefore themselves (e.g. blue wallpaper rather than pink, etc.).
Cruelty to Animals
The abuser may punishes animals brutally, be insensitive to their pain or suffering, or neglect to care for the animals to the point of cruelty, e.g. not feeding them all day, leaving them in areas he/she knows will cause them suffering or distress. There is a strong correlation between cruelty to animals and domestic violence which is still being researched. (For more information and personal experiences, see Domestic Violence and Cruelty to Animals.)
Cruelty to Children
The abusers unrealistic expectations of their partner are often mirrored in their attitude toward children. He will think of children as ‘small adults’ and blame the children for not being responsible, having common sense or understanding. He may expect children to be capable far beyond their ability (e.g. is angry with a two-year old for wetting their pants or being sick on the carpet, waking at night) and will often meet out punishments for ‘naughtiness’ the child could not be aware of. Abusers may tease children until they cry, or punish children way beyond what could be deemed appropriate. He may not want children to eat at the table, expect them to stay quiet, or keep to their room all evening while he is at home. Since abusers want all your attention themselves, they resent your spending time with the children or any normal demands and needs the children may have. As above (cruelty to animals), there is a very strong link between Domestic Violence and Child Abuse.
‘Playful’ use of Force in Sex
He/she may pressurize you to agree to forceful or violent acts during sex, or want to act out fantasies where you are helpless. A male abuser may let you know that the idea of “rape” excites him. He may show little concern about whether you want to have intercourse and uses sulking or anger to manipulate you into compliance. Starting sex while you are sleeping, demanding sex when you are ill or tired, or refusing any form of intimacy unless you are willing to go ‘all the way’ can all be signs that he could be sexually abusive or sexually violent.
Rigid Gender Roles
Abusers usually believe in stereotypical gender roles. A man may expect a woman to serve him; stay at home, obey him in all things – even things that are criminal in nature. A male abuser will often see women as inferior to men, more stupid, unable to be a whole person without a relationship.
Verbal Abuse
In addition to saying things that are meant to be cruel and hurtful, either in public or in private, this can include degrading remarks or running down any accomplishments…………. Often the abuser will tell you that you are ‘stupid’, could not manage without him. He may keep you up all night to ‘sort this out once and for all’ or even wake you at night to continue to verbally abuse you. The abuser may even say kindly things to your face, but speak badly about you to friends and family.
Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde
Very rarely do abusers conform to the stereotypical image of a constantly harsh, nasty or violent person, either in public or in private. More frequently the abuser portrays a perfectly normal and pleasant picture to the outside world (often they have responsible jobs or are respected and important members of the local community or Church) and reserves the abuse for you in the privacy of your own home. Nor are abusers always overtly abusive or cruel, but can display apparent kindness and consideration. This Jekyll and Hyde tendency of the abuser serves to further confuse the victim, while protecting themselves from any form of suspicion from outsiders. Many victims describe “sudden” changes in mood – one minute nice and the next explosive or hysterical, or one minute happy and the next minute sad. This does not indicate some special “mental problem” but are typical of abusive personalities, and related to other characteristics………… such as hypersensitivit…………y.
Drink or Substance Abuse
While neither drinking or the use of drugs are signs of an abusive personality, heavy drinking or drug abuse may be a warning sign and do increase the risks of abuse, especially violence, taking place. Often an abusive person will blame the drink for his abuse. However, a person who, knowing there is a risk he could be violent when drinking or on drugs, chooses to get drunk or high, is in effect choosing to abuse. The link between substance abuse and domestic abuse is still being researched, and it is apparent that while neither alcohol nor drugs necessarily cause violence, they do increase the risk of violence. (See What about alcohol and domestic abuse?)
History of Battering or Sexual Violence
Very rarely is abuse or violence a one-off event: a batterer will beat any woman he is with; a sexually abusive person will be abusive toward all his intimate partners. Situational circumstances do not make a person an abusive personality. Sometimes friends or family may try to warn you about the abuser. Sometimes the abuser may tell you himself/…………………… that he has hit or sexually assaulted someone in the past. However, they may further go on to explain that “she made me do it by …” or in some other way not take responsibility and shift the blame on to the victim. They may tell you that it won’t happen with you because “you love them enough to prevent it” or “you won’t be stupid enough to wind me up that much”. Once again, this is denying their own responsibility for the abuse, and shifting the responsibility for the relationship to remain abuse-free on to you. Past violence is one of the strongest pointers that abuse will occur. If at all possible, try to speak to their previous girlfriends.
Negative Attitude toward Women
Some men may tell you that you are different to all the women they have known before, who display a lack of respect of women generally or who talk negatively and disrespectfully………… of their previous wives or girlfriends. They may tell you that you are special, not like the others and that they consider themselves to be the luckiest man alive to have found the last decent woman. It is not likely to be long before they remember that you are a woman and don’t deserve their respect.
Threatening Violence
This would obviously include any threat of physical force such as “If you speak to him again, I’ll kill you”, or “If any wife of mine acted like John’s did, I’d give her a right seeing to”. Threats are designed to manipulate and control you, to keep you in your place and prevent you making your own decisions. Most people do not threaten their mates, but an abuser will excuse this behavior by saying “everybody talks like that.”, maintaining he is only saying this because the relationship or you are so important to him, tell you you’re “over-sensitive” for being upset by such threats, or obviously want to hurt him. Threats can also be less overt, such as “If you leave me, I will kill myself”, or “You are so wonderful, I will never let you go/couldn’t live without you”.
Breaking or Striking Objects
The abusive person may break your treasured object, beat his fists on the table or chair or throw something at or past you. Breaking your things is often used as a punishment for some imagined misdeed on your part. Sometimes it will be justified by saying that now that you are with him, you don’t need these items any more. Breaking your possessions also has the effect of de~……personalizing you, denying you your individuality or literally trying to break links to your past. Beating items of furniture or throwing objects will often be justified by saying you wound him up so much they lost control, once again shifting the blame for this behavior on to you, but is actually used to terrorize you into submission. Only very immature or abusive people beat on objects in the presence of other people in order to threaten or intimidate them.
Any Force during an Argument
An abuser may physically restrain you from leaving the room, lash out at you with his hand or another object, pin you against a wall or shout ‘right in your face’. Basically any form of force used during an argument can be a sign that actual violence is a strong possibility.
August 29th, 2009 at 7:46 pm
Look at the Thompsons trying to cover their ass.
Thompson’s do you think people can’t see for their own two eyes that a DR isn’t a family member or read all of those letters on their own and see half of them aren’t family.
Reader’s those witnesses were NEVER contacted by the APD.
Reader’s that Dr was never contacted by APD.
Thompson’s you can’t deny that the baby only acts like that in front of the mother.
You all are such liars it’s so sad that the baby is growing up with you sick people as role models.
Understand Thompson’s there are sexual assault detectives on this case still that aren’t a part of good ol corrupt PC.
MAYBE YOU HAVEN’T FIGURED THAT OUT!
Keep posting with all your lame excuses so everyone can see how certifiably insane your whole family truly is.
MORAL OF THE DAY:
LIARS OWN WORDS SET THEIR OWN TRAPS. (Just ask Tanya, Dustin)
KEEP IT UP THOMPSON’S
Blah blah blah blah blah
August 29th, 2009 at 8:17 pm
Karen I had to repost this because it is so true…
“I just watched that video Poly, I did cry. It is so sad!
BTLS just updated, does anyone see anything about little Aaliyah? I don’t, I still see all of the crazy nuts screaming about Connie. When will they ever learn that we support Aaliyah? Never, I guess. And they are so infatuated with me, they keep talking about me. I feel so flattered. It’s so funny how they try to hide behind new screen names. Don’t they all understand that they have a distinct pattern of writting? *shaking head* (anyone know how that is??? I DO!)
Now, if all the crazies will just stop posting about Connie, maybe we can figure this whole thing out. Did you see where one poster said that the police report was MADE for CONNIE???? LMFAO!!! That police officer made a judgment to send it to the prosecutor! WTF! How can that crazy poster think that Connie had ANY influence on that?? OMFG! They will twist and twist until it breaks and twist some more for good measure. CRAZIES…..they make me laugh….
Hope you guys have a great time reading BTLS…..it never dissappoints!!!”
LMAO
Karen if only people were as intelligent as you!
You are an amazing woman with your heart in the right place and your head straight on your shoulders.
Save Aaliyah
Did you hear anything else from Connie about the new detectives on the case? I hope they blow Placer County right out of the water like they deserve.
The Thompson’s are ridiculous. They tell themselves there isn’t a trial. lol. It’s clear they will tell themselves and anybody else anything to fit ANY situation.
It’s so apparent Aaliyah wants to be back with her mother and not her mad wormy daddy.
I hope it’s soon!
Oh and Karen don’t you have that 75 page timeline Connie sent to the DA, Dr Saturley, and a number of other people? You should confirm to others and the Thompson’s that Dr Saturley and all of us posters knew about the 730 months ago; It’s in the timeline. It just shows Thompson’s will say anything at all.
All Thompson credibility has flown out the window.
*shaking head* ha ha =)
August 29th, 2009 at 8:29 pm
I believe this child is where she belongs, and yes 309 the points you have made are interesting. This mother keeps screaming abuse and never thinks about the possibility she is wrong. It is her nature to believe she is smarter than everyone, and right. LMAO, seems she has a higher perception of herself than the rest of us.
CONNIE, WHY HAVEN’T YOU ARRANGED VISITATION OR FILED AN EXPARTE MOTION YET??
August 29th, 2009 at 8:30 pm
If this child is doing so much better with her father, then the mother is not going to get her daughter back, except for visitation. She does not seem to care about that, just winning. Shameful!
August 29th, 2009 at 8:39 pm
This is a collect call to Dustin Thompson from Bubba in San Quintin.
Dustin Bubba wants you to know he’s ready to make a movie with you called
“How Dustin Got His Tubes Packed.”
August 30th, 2009 at 8:36 am
Karen,
You do realize your actions are providing the courts with information as well as supporting their evidence that Aaliyah is NOT safe with her mother and her mothers family don’t you?
After all, you are the one who has the C word on your myspace.
You are in contact with Connie, WHY would it make sense that someone would choose to contact you by way of ‘anonymous’ email – which they found posted here? It wouldn’t. All that sounds like is a bull shit cover up for an excuse from you to cover up your posting more rumors, threats and LIES you heard directly from Connie or her family.
Are you that gullible? Are you that blind you cant’ see exactly what this is?
Karen, Let me ask you this question. If a mother believed with all her being her child was being molested and she was unable to prove this with the evidence she collected, why would she not do EVERYTHING in her power to collect evidence that WOULD prove it, rather than to keep trying ten, ten thousand or ten times ten thousand times to KEEP providing information/evidence ALREADY denied by the courts?
Instead of trying to protect her daughter 50 percent of the time by COOPERATING with the courts and allowing her time to get unbiased proof the courts would accept, she’s decided it is BETTER for her to NOT participate in her childs life – thus allowing the father to have the child ALL the time, and focus 100% of her energy on destroying the fathers name, all the while it gets her NO closer to having evidence the court would accept.
What does this tell us? The mother KNOWS the child is not being abused, otherwise she would truly make this about saving aaliyah, not destroying Dustin.
Come on Karen, take your blinders off. If not Connie, what would ANY parent do in this case? GET NEW EVIDENCE or hope to provide new evidence from an unbiased source proving their case, NOT spending ALL their time bullying, threatening, and making up more rumors.
No this is not Save Aaliyah, this is Destroy Dustin. Take off the blinders and see it for what it is. We do, the courts do, and ALL this does is continue to prove Aaliyah would still NOT be safe with her maternal family.
August 30th, 2009 at 8:42 am
Why wouldn’t Connie accept that her evidence has been proven by the courts as non reliable and seek other credible evidence the courts WOULD accept IF she knew her daughter was being abused? She would! Because she can’t and refuses to, all that proves is Connie KNOWS that no evidence outside what she fabricated exists. If she lets this go, she knows she will NEVER EVER find credible evidence the courts would accept because it DOES NOT EXIST.
Anyone can see that! Take the blinders off.
Karen, and the rest of you Connie supports do you want to know how you REALLY appear? You look ANTI FATHER! Anti father to the point that you believe NO MAN, even if HE is the better parent, should have primary custody of a child. All you are is Anti father. Nothing more, nothing less and NOT A DAMN thing to help children, though you try to disquise your hatred for men under that umbrella. Keep finding children to use, just to promote your anti father agenda.
August 30th, 2009 at 8:50 am
To the readers said:
Connie time to come clean already and turn things around. Its not too late YET to start obeying the court process and orders on you so you can have more access to your child. One day it WILL BE TOO LATE.
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I hate to say it but you are wasting your breath. Connie can’t nor will she ever see past her hatred for Dustin. Even if it costs her relationship with her daughter. She will NEVER be able to see past her denial and the real costs of her actions.
August 30th, 2009 at 6:03 pm
Nothing said here on this blog will change the custody of this child. All you are doing is waging a blog war trying to outdo each other with idiotic posts. I especially think the really disgusting ones with statements about “THE POOR GUY WON’T BE ABLE TO CUM ON HIS DAUGHTER’S FACE ANY MORE”
are truly an example of why this baby needs us to stop posting about this on the internet. You all say you care about this child? Well act like it and think how she will feel when she reads this crap!
This will be and needs to be decided in a courtroom, and not on the internet by an angry mob that is not party to this case, or all the facts.
August 30th, 2009 at 7:23 pm
More lies Karen? post #1300 tsk tsk tsk
I’d suggest everyone contact Logan Britt. Logan is the son of Ronald Britt. Ron is Connie’s lawyer. Karen told quite the lie this weekend.
Seems Logan, Adam and Danielle had a very nice evening the other night at the bar and that’s exactly what he’ll tell you. Nothing Karen posted was true, not one shred. Nothing surprises me about this group.
August 30th, 2009 at 7:29 pm
Karen posted here as “Justgetaninvestigation” and that was cleared a while ago.
She didn’t know about the 730 exam #1314. Here’s her earlier post right here at btls.
Partial post of #425 below
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Justgetaninvestigation
June 2nd, 2009 at 7:00 am
This is to the other site I was talking about previous:
No, there isn’t a 730 examination ordered yet, you should read the entire article before jumping to conclusions.
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So you all knew about the 730 exam? I don’t think so. Even Dr Saturley admitted on the radio show that one was not completed. It had to be forwaded to him.
Yes Connie lied and kept it from him.
You were saying????????
August 30th, 2009 at 7:36 pm
If you’d like me to find a link where Dr Saturley states word for word a 730 Family Evaluation was never completed, I’ll get that for you tomorrow okay?
Karen was asked repeatedly about a 730 Exam and Karen kept saying one was never done. Okay then…..
August 30th, 2009 at 11:44 pm
POST #1280 wasn’t written by me….way to highjack a user name!
August 31st, 2009 at 7:50 am
Karen #1300 post lies lies lies lies
Why do you hang on to every word Karen belches out? Here’s Logan’s facebook account page. Go ask him what kind of good time he had with Danielle and Adam. I did!
http://www.facebook.com/search/?init=srp&sfxp=&q=logan+britt&o=2048&ne=67108899&=Sacramento%2C+CA&ed=&=School&wk=&=Workplace#/profile.php?id=1166200039&ref=search&sid=571011027.2419728746..1
Lies the Bedwells and their little patsy puts out there is sick.
Lies lies and more lies thats all you get from Karen the messenger of Connie. Karen why do you have to lie so much?
August 31st, 2009 at 7:53 am
Lies lies lies
Anyone want to catch a Bedwell and their patsy in a lie? Go to facebook and search for Logan Britt in Sacramento. In his friends list is his father Ronald.
Email and ask him how his night went with Adam and Danielle. He’ll tell you Karen is full of chit!!
Lies lies lies its all Karen does for the family.
August 31st, 2009 at 9:01 am
http://www.blogtalkradio.com/djxtreme/2009/06/13/Current-Events
Here’s where Dr Saturley states clearly there was absolutely no 730 exam done. He said this on June 13, 2009. Doesn’t sound like he’s known for months to me.
Let me quote you #1314
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“Oh and Karen don’t you have that 75 page timeline Connie sent to the DA, Dr Saturley, and a number of other people? You should confirm to others and the Thompson’s that Dr Saturley and all of us posters knew about the 730 months ago; It’s in the timeline. It just shows Thompson’s will say anything at all.
All Thompson credibility has flown out the window.”
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End of quote
Connie’s kept a lot from the Doctor and a lot from the online public. There’s so much she’s hiding and it’s why she’ll never answer the questions asked of her.
You were saying???
August 31st, 2009 at 10:39 am
Why are you surprised Bedwells and Karen lied?
August 31st, 2009 at 11:37 am
Karen it is so funny that you have done what you are claiming that we are all doing. Even if you do not know who we are. We are not about this baby.
Oh well, let me just say this. You started all of this when you started treating everyone with a question like dirt. You have cussed folks out, you have SCREMED at folks. You have changed you name on the net. I love how the WE in all of this, think it is terrible what is being done to this child. One way or another this child is being used for an adult gain. Yes this mother is showing a side that will probably not be looked on as good by the court.
Stop you rants and know that you started this. If and I doubt that anybody that can help this child in the courts are reading this nightmare. But you are not helping this woman or this child. I hope that you are big enough to know this. You have started this war by your actions Others are following your lead that you put out on the start of this.
Oh well no skin off of you nose. You live in the south with your little life. This child needs help and what you are dishing out just is not helping.
This seems to be a game to you. This is not a game for this baby. This is her real life. She will see all of this and she will know just who you are.
Oh well, just leave you garbage and run. This baby has no choice.
Just stop
August 31st, 2009 at 2:47 pm
Interesting that you want Connie to answer questions while at the same time saying she needs to follow court orders.
Maybe you should write the judge and ask him to reverse the unconstitutional GAG order.
August 31st, 2009 at 2:56 pm
Just heard that charges will be filed against Dustin before the week’s out. Thank God someone is finally listening to Aaliyah.
August 31st, 2009 at 3:10 pm
Rumors and lies, that’s all this case ever was.
August 31st, 2009 at 8:17 pm
There is no surprise at either side of this sad story lying. Everyone seems to put being the winner over what is best for this child. It seems this child is fine where she is. She plays with other children in day care(contrary to the claim she is isolated), and is doing well in her current home. I would like to see her return to visits with her mother, and I do believe her mother loves her. But her mother needs to make seeing her daughter the priority, and focus on that instead of her campaign against this man she obviously hates. Maybe someday she can return to shared custody, and her parents will grow the hell up. The courts will decide, without all the looney tunes out here on the net. In the mean time, no one has yet to prove this child is not doing well, or is in danger.
September 1st, 2009 at 5:46 am
Suprise, Thank you for your words. You are so right. The child is where she belongs and it is very important for her to see her mother.
I hope that they all get the help that they need. I feel for all of them. Baby A needs both of her parents.
September 1st, 2009 at 8:03 am
I’ll be back at the end of the week #1332 to laugh and laugh at your comment is yet another BS lie. How ridiculous it gets around here.
September 1st, 2009 at 12:59 pm
I have read several times that Connie’s attorney is speaking with the DA. So this attorney is working with the DA but this attorney can not do what needs to be done for this mother to see her child that she has not seen in months. This case makes no sense. Most of us that are posting about this do not know these people. I don’t. MHO is what happened to this child is from what I have read and seen on the net. That is the only info that I have had. The thing that I don’t understand that all of these people and I beleive that a Karen gives most updates speak with words and comments that they are getting from the mother or her family. Who is starting rumors and who is telling real facts. Like the mothers attorney is talking to the DA. The mother is seeing her child on this date. To the grandfather is going to jail with the father. I think that most of the info out here are more rumor than fact. I would like to find someone who knows the true facts. The facts that have really happened or not happened. I wish there was a site that had just that. Wishful thinking I guess on my part. God bless this baby and her family.
September 1st, 2009 at 5:27 pm
Oh Karen now you are the Game player. Like we said the Thompson’s take their intents and flip it on you.
Same shit different pot with the Thompson’s.
So typical of a Thompson to take something so sick that they do to someone else and twist it into a sympathy show for them…sociopathic tendencies like we’ve been saying all along.
The child isn’t going to carry her Wormy Daddy’s shame for him Thompsons. She is going to grow into a strong woman like her mother did and talk about what her dad did to her just fine because she will heal. She will continue to speak out about it and do radioshows and writing books, like Connie is doing to help other people from sick people like the Thompson’s. It won’t bother the child to read about it because there is nothing worse than Dustin actually doing it to her. It’s all Dustin’s shame to carry not the baby’s.
Dustin you should probably go back to work. Stop blogging all day with lies about how Aali is in daycare when she’s not.
Quit attempting to make this a poor pity party because you want everyone to feel bad for you like the sociopath you are.
This isn’t about you Mr Narcissist it’s about Aaliyah.
Question for the Thompson’s:
Do you really think involving Connie’s lawyers son’s name and lying about something he was there for really makes him think you people are innocent. You people are such liars you would lie about the color of the sky to someone standing outside that can see the truth for themselves.
See you sickos at TRIAL!
You know what’s going to be interesting, Dustin Thompson on the stand for the first time ever with a whole line up of sexual abuse experts listening to his lies before they testify. Guess where you are going right after trial Dustin?
I can here it now…
Uhhhh Uhhhhh Uhhhh it’s Baby Eienstein’s worm, Uhhh I mean it’s an earth worm, Uhhhh I mean it’s a gummy worm…
It will be just like the hearing in front of Peneschi when the restraining order was put on you…
Uhhhhh Uhhhhh Uhhhh Well I slammed her head in the trunk but Uhhhhh Uhhhhhhh Uhhhh Uhhhhhhh
Save Aaliyah from daddy’s worm.
See you at Trial.
September 1st, 2009 at 10:47 pm
You can keep having your sick fantasies about how this healthy, happy child is abused and how her father is going to somehow wind up on the stand in some imaginary trial, but it’s never going to happen. The case is CLOSED. The father has been CLEARED. All your hopes and dreams of Aaliyah being molested are in your own gutter minds. It’s clear that some of you DO wish that Aaliyah was being molested so you could be proved RIGHT.
None of you care about Aaliyah, not even her mother. If Ms. Bedwell cared, she would have filed the Ex Parte Motion no later than June 4th. It’s now September 1st, no paperwork has been filed, and Aaliyah has clearly been abandoned by her mother for months.
You would all rather get even with Mr. Thompson than do the right thing by Aaliyah. In case you’re unclear about what THE RIGHT THING is, it involves following court orders and filing the Ex Parte motion IMMEDIATELY. It does not involved ABANDONING AALIYAH because Ms. Bedwell feels entitled to some imaginary rights that she’s clearly not entitled to, or the court would have granted them.
Go on dreaming of revenge and wasting time, though. The longer Ms. Bedwell fails to visit her child, the easier it will be for the court to sever her parental rights permanently. Every day that passes makes it clearer and clearer that severing Ms. Bedwell’s parental rights is in Aaliyah’s best interest.
September 1st, 2009 at 11:06 pm
#1338 your post is just a way to side step the latest issue. Karen LYING for the Bedwells.
#1300 post shows just how far Karen will go to destroy others she doesn’t know and she doesn’t care who she hurts. Danielle is an innocent party to this but Karen loves to spew her chit doesn’t she.
#1338 Having the readers contact LOGAN BRITT (Connie’s lawyer’s son may I remind you) to tell everyone Karen is full of chit and she lied. She lied and its all she’s been doing for the Bedwells from the start.
#1338 it just proves to the reader definitively WHAT’S REALLY GOING ON and who’s doing the lying. Why the desperation to destroy Danielle’s reputation? Why bring an innocent party into this mix? What’s the point Karen and Bedwells? Why would you do that?
Karen has a FIT when anyone uses her REAL NAME anywhere or blames everyone but herself for her own personal info being put out there but GOD FORBID KAREN EVER STOP TO THINK she’s hurting innocent people with her rants and lies. GOD FORBID KAREN ever think of anyone else, she’s just out to destroy everyone’s reputation remotely connected to Dustin. It’s sick and disgusting.
Please everyone AGAIN contact Logan to find out about Karen’s #1300 post and you will find where the truth really lies in this story!
September 2nd, 2009 at 6:11 am
#1339. Straight to the point and spot on Icky!
How DARE the Bedwells have so little thought for this child as an individual – with her own thoughts, feelings and idea’s. No, instead to completely dismiss how A would FEEL about her name, face, personal information being blasted ALL over the internet and then decide the outcome of what A will do and HOW she will feel? Wow! I didn’t know we had the right to do that for others.
The courts GOT IT RIGHT! They saved this poor baby from her mother and the Bedwells! It just breaks my heart for little A her maternal family thinks so little of her, they’ll continue to exploit this little innocent girl all because of their hatred towards her father.
The courts GOT IT RIGHT when they decided the father IS the BETTER parent and the very best place for this child to be to flourish and grow into a healthy productive adult.
One can only wonder how long the courts will allow this to go on without permanently severing Connies parental rights.
September 2nd, 2009 at 6:20 am
No hope of reunification of this child and her mother.
Which is incredibly sad. Can someone remind me how long the laws in California allow the parent to demonstrate they are making efforts towards reuniting with their child? I seem to recall a year, or was it 8 months?
When was Connie ordered to STOP her behavior attempting to create and influence her child with this ficticious story? It’s been over a year since Connie lost custody and had her rights to her child severly limited. Did the clock start then?
Connie, once your parental rights are terminated, should it come to that, you will have NO chance EVER at reconciling with your daughter. Is all this worth the risks? Thus far, you have demonstrated they are. Wow, just wow…….
I’m sorry baby A’! Maybe your daddy will meet a nice woman someday and you’ll have a wonderful step mommy. I wish you the best, and pray for you daily.
September 2nd, 2009 at 9:02 am
It makes you wonder why we have not heard from any of the mothers family. The sister, boyfriend and father were all on here screaming when they were wanting money. Now that everyone has learned that this is a hoax and the money has stopped the family is now quite. The mother has not done what the court told her to do. See her child. It seems that they are hiding. They are the ones that brought this to the net. Makes you wonder if this family has wished that they had not done this to this precious baby. I do hope that this baby is doing as good as some people are saying. I pray that she has a good life. So much of this story dose not make sense.
September 2nd, 2009 at 9:08 am
I just read at a site that appears new about this child. This Karen person can not wait until the posters here find it. Just goes to show what Karen is about. This is a hoax. Just a hoax. This mother has not even seen her child. This woman wanted money. This seems to me to be a hoax. I hope that if people sent money that they can get it back. This just seems to be a hoax in mho.
September 2nd, 2009 at 9:42 am
Yes it is a year in the California court of law. If Connie continues to demonstrate the inability to follow court orders that lend towards reunification with her daughter including parental classes and counseling, she will lose all access to her child permanently.
Quite possibly it would be the best result for Baby A not to be surrounded by such a hostile environment the mother continues to demonstrate, including those she surrounds herself with. I too pray the child will one day be left alone and the exploitation of her online will cease.
One poster above is correct, coaching & exploitation is abusive. If the mother continues to abuse her daughter in these manners, there will be no options for the courts other than to permanently severe all contact from Connie.
I for one guarantee this will be the final result unless Connie changes her ways immediately. But it’s her, not I, that has to live with that result. Sadly Baby A is the ultimate loser but she can’t help who her mother is.
September 2nd, 2009 at 11:01 am
Rumor: Connie Bedwell purports Aali was sexually abused by her father.
Fact: Not 1 doctor or child psychologist concur with Connie. The opposite has happened, doctors and child psychologist that have personally evaluated Aali have ensured the courts no abuse by the father occurred.
Rumor: There’s an investigation or charges coming on the father.
Fact: Authorities have every piece of documentation including videos in the investigation file. Police and the DA’s office closed the file after a full investigation after finding no abuse by the father. They fully cleared the father.
Unless Connie is able to bring forth NEW evidence, an investigation is never re-opened. That has not happened and there is no investigation regarding the father.
What you see methodically for months now is the Bedwells, Darrel and Connie put out a bunch of rumors hoping some of them will stick and morph into some form of the truth.
Any documentation you see online, the authorities have in their files. All of the documentation is old and the DA’s office looked into every aspect Connie brought to them.
Nothing in the documentation shows abuse. It simply shows the mother FEELS abuse occurred and it was noted as such. Any witness statements are from what the mother had friends or family believe. If you look or listen hard enough, anything Aali would say or do was turned into some type of abuse or ‘mind control’.
The Bedwells scream a child her age cannot be coached but then they scream the Thompsons used mind control on Aali. So which is it? Mind control is a form of coaching. Is Aali coached or not?
They wonder why none of this makes any sense to anyone. If it was so cut and dry with all kinds of medical professional evidence showing abuse, where is it? mmmmm
September 3rd, 2009 at 1:18 am
Free Clue! I did a little checking around about the reunification thing. All the information I found is available here:
http://www.courtinfo.ca.gov/selfhelp/family/juv/depcourt.htm#permanent
From California Courts: Self-Help Center:
“If your child was under 3 years old when he or she was taken from you and you have not participated regularly in the treatment ordered in your case plan, or if you have not talked with, written to, or visited your child during the 6 months, the court can end services that help you get back together with that child. ”
Uh oh, time’s a-wastin. Half of that time is already gone.
Furthermore:
“ALERT! If you want the court to let your child return to your care, you must follow court orders and meet deadlines. If the court orders a hearing for a “permanent plan,” you will not get your child back. The court will consider adoption or a guardian for your child.”
Oh shiiii—
And in conclusion:
“The Case Plan
You and the social worker will make a case plan and present it to the court. The court will probably order that all or part of the case plan be carried out.
The case plan may include:
Parenting classes
Individual counseling
Family counseling
Alcohol or drug abuse treatment
Special programs and classes
Visits with your child”
So—Ms. Bedwell has done everything possible to ensure that she will lose all rights to her child.
I’m sure that more than one of her lawyers has explained all this to her. Too bad she didn’t care more for her child and less about revenge. Maybe motherhood is just too hard for her, so she HAD to act up so that the courts would take the child off her hands.
Oh wait:
“If your child is taken from you and you decide you don’t want to get back together (“reunify”) with the child, talk to your social worker.
Also talk to your lawyer about your right to:
Say you don’t want services that will help you to get back together;
Give up your parental rights; and
Help develop a permanent plan for your child.”
So really, there’s no excuse for her behavior. Tragic!
September 3rd, 2009 at 10:21 am
Why no visitation arrangements yet? Your daughter misses you!
September 3rd, 2009 at 11:39 am
Is your anger and fear more important than seeing your daughter…You went to court on June1, and could have filed that ex parte back then (like the judge told you and your lawyer to do!)
It has been 3 months since then, and weeks before that since you have seen your daughter! Get off your ass and do what it takes to see your baby! Unbelievable!
September 3rd, 2009 at 6:52 pm
Is it just me or all other Connie and Bedwell supporters so sick of arguing with all these Thompson’s and their lying pile of steamy bull?
It’s almost not worth posting back and forth with these psychos.
It’s like talking to a brick.
Actually let me correct myself: I would rather talk to a brick than these cracker jacks!
And Thompson’s keep posting to yourselves on here! lol
Loooookkinnnnggg aaaaa littttttllleeeee ccccrrrraaaaazzzzyyyyyy!
We’ll make sure to send you a copy of the book Connie is publishing.
And I hear Dustin that the judge gets to pick 1 out of 3 sexual assault experts for Aaliyah to have visitation with her mother in front of!
Your day is a coming princess!!
September 3rd, 2009 at 6:56 pm
Hope you have 10 k plus for trial to defend your child molesting son in trial Thompsons.
September 3rd, 2009 at 9:01 pm
Karen will never take any responsibility for LYING about innocent people and slaughtering Danielle’s name, an innocent party to all of this.
Karen does not care or give a crap about anyone she hurts along the way as long as she helps the Bedwells destroy everyone surrounding Aali.
Karen brought this to the internet and now has been caught in a lie she cannot ever hide from nor explain away. She still thinks she’s doing the right thing by examples of her #1300 post above, she thinks its okay to spew BS like that all in the name of Aali.
I will never understand what mental issues she must suffer from or how she can sleep at night. STOP EXPLOITING AALI KAREN, IT’S NOT A GAME. SHE’S A REAL CHILD. QUIT hurting innocent people, IT’S NOT A GAME KAREN.
Most of all QUIT LYING for the Bedwells. Connie STOP your online hoax, it’s absolutely sickening what you’ve done to your poor little babe!
September 4th, 2009 at 6:22 am
Wow! So much arguing and so little factual information here.
Has anyone read through the “court documentation” drop down selection at the saveaaliyah.com site? If one has, I don’t know how anyone, including Connie, can perceive this childs behavior as emotionally disturbed. What Connie describes as very troublesome disturbing behavior playing “safe games” and burying and killing games by her daughter my immediate reaction was this child imitating something she may have seen on the movie Shrek, the Shrek Christmas special which came out about that time, or even something the child may have seen on the PBS preschool aged show “Dragon Tales”. There are plenty of preschool aged “save the princess rescue the princess from the dragon, castles, moats around castles” types of childrens fairy tales and cartoons.
The section titled, “Dustins writings”. I had to laugh, are the Bedwells kidding? Dustin sending his childs mother a mothers day card from their daughter implies nothing more than he is willing to work with and cooperate with his childs mother.
The rest appears to be Cosmopolitin, or phyciatric type ‘surveys’ one might take on their own and outside the care of any professionals.
What reading that information demonstrated to myself, was Connie has some very irrational fears, and possibly an undiagnosed psychiatric illness which she refuses to acknowledge for whatever reason. The information posted on the save a’ site further confirms the post at the petition site about Connie being diagnosed borderline schitzophrenic and Dr. Saturley’s comment Connies psychiatric eval. was ” a mixed bag of goods”.
I’m left wondering if Dr. Saturley has read through this ‘court documentation’ selection from the Save A site and his thoughts about such.
Connie, I think you can benefit from a psychiatric evaluation and possibly some antianxiety or other medication. Your fears may be very real to you, but based on the desription your supporters have provided they are very unfounded. Why are they not supporting you and suggesting the very difficult and tough reality that you 1)May benefit from psychiatic care, and 2)Without doing so, you may very well lose your opportunity to parent your child.
Connie, I would HATE to see that happen to you and Aaliyah, but only you can help yourself. I hope and pray you make the right choices for yourself and your child.
I’ll await the usual backlash for not fully agreeing with Connie and her supporters. But sadly, SOMEONE needs to tell you people the truth- even if it is difficult to digest. I didn’t post the above to be mean or hurtful, but after reading that information, I have some concerns which I chose to share here, with the hopes Connie gets herself the help she needs for both herself and her child.
September 4th, 2009 at 10:00 am
marmite
June 16th, 2009 at 7:39 am
Some quotes from Dr Joe Saturley taken from the radio broadcast 13 June.
‘Connie believes that the childs father is sexually abusing this child, has or continues to. It doesn’t make it so but Connie truly believes that and therefore appears to be quite motivated in trying to gather evidence and to prove to the court system and other people, the people at large that this is going on. As any parent that feels that they are in the right and the system is wrong she has fought in a variety of ways to bring attention to this matter.’
‘As far as Connie Bedwells psychological evaluation, theres nothing particularly of concern in it. There are certainly some comments by the psychologist that wrote it up that I take exception with. I have also obtained the testing or at least I believe I have the testing that Connie went and got what we call the protocol, I have rescored them, you know every psychologist has there own little spin on interpretation but theres nothing of any true significance in Connies profile that would cause me concern.’
‘Now what I am proposing to do is go to California to do psychological testing on both parents, interview them, collect collateral data from other people and some of the court records. And also to observe the behaviour of the parents with the child and interview the child and do a complete family evaluation. That has NOT taken place yet. There has been NO thorough family evalution that looks at all parties and looks at the child and looks at the relationships. There have all been kind of these piece meal things that have taken place.’
‘If you watch the Daddys worm video Connie really did not, or at least from what I’ve seen of it, I don’t know what was occuring before the video was being shot but there was no prompting of the child to talk about this. She seemed to be talking about it fairly easily.’
‘I have spoken with Connie over the telephone, she comes across as very sane.’
‘Connie has already been evaluated and until a full family evaluation takes place this case is just stuck in the mud.’
‘I placed a call to the father, he’s not returned it. I have recently sent an email offer to Connie to offer to her attorney and to the court system, a free evaluation. Connie is certainly on board for a full family evaluation. I have no contact with the dads side so I don’t know their position or whether they have any interest in participating yet.’
September 4th, 2009 at 10:15 am
A judge doesn’t ‘get to pick’ one of 3, he’s the guy that MAKES THE ORDERS. LOL your post is so funny its almost sad really.
Crazies? Really? Why did your lying Karen leave and not explain why LOGAN BRITT was never threatened by anyone? Why hasn’t Karen explained her latest lies?
Back to your ficticious trial that doesn’t exist. I’m back to laugh at the poster YOU who said Dustin was to be arrested before the end of the week. more and more lies more and more bullying threats
Crazies? Go look in the mirror and deal with your pathelogical lying problem. There’s no investigation against the father and the JUDGE doesn’t GET TO CHOSE any specialist. If he wants a specialist to see the baby, HE’LL BE THE ONE MAKING THE ORDER for that to happen.
Do you know ANYTHING ABOUT THE COURTS or do you just like to make things up? Why not bring back your patsy to do more lying for you!
September 4th, 2009 at 11:41 am
Connie, do something for your child, go visit her! Find a place, set it up, and get that new court order to make it happen. Doesn’t anyone else wonder why this isn’t happening yet? How badly can this woman want to see her child when she has the means to enforce the Jun 1 order, and it is now Sept and she still hasn’t done what it takes to see her?
There hasn’t been evidence of abuse by this mother, but her choice to not do what it takes to see her makes it seem like she doesn’t really care more about her daughter than she does about slamming her ex. Her priorities are all screwed up.
And why would Connie need to be watched by sexual abuse experts interacting with her child? Is she suspected of doing something? It makes no sense that the Bedwell supporters see this as a victory(of sorts). It would be different if it was to watch this child with her father. I think it would clear him of these charges, but with the mother? Come on, tell us why Connie needs to be evaluated! It isn’t to restore her visits- the judge already granted her that Jun 1(not that it mattered). So the point in seeing how Connie is with her child is what? It won’t help her prove anything about Dustin.
September 4th, 2009 at 11:45 am
Dr Saturley misunderstood and did not realize the 730 Family examination was actually completed.
Dr Saturley proposed to complete a full family evaluation however he did not realize the courts already ordered one. That is what the recently completed 730 exam is and Connie fully participated in. There is no reason for a court to re-order the same family evaluation when it was already done by a very highly respected forensic child psychologist.
What more do you want the courts to do? How many family evaluations need to be done before Connie can understand everything she’s screaming about WAS IN FACT DONE?
Everything the mother has said was NOT DONE actually WAS! She just lied about it online in order to gain sympathy and make it appear NO ONE WAS HELPING HER. Her accusations and conspiracy theories are bizarre and ridiculous. The courts have gone to extensive lengths to ensure the safety of Aaliyah!
No amount of evaluations or investigations will ever make the mother happy because her reasoning for doing this in the first place was hatred and revenge.
September 4th, 2009 at 11:50 am
Marmite/1354
Thank you for the above post, but Connie was not honest with Dr. Saturley when she did not share with him the 730 evaluation had been done- and left him to believe a full family evaluation had not been done, when in fact it had.
Why did Connie mislead and misinform Dr. Saturley?
That leaves me to believe she is desperate to find someone to confirm her beliefs regarding what she “sees” happening- and she was hoping Dr. Saturley would be that person despite what he offered to do for the courts having already been done and completed. Not to address the situation for what it is, clearly, an ugly custody battle with a mother who either had/has delusions and misinterpretations regarding her daughters behavior.
We don’t know if Dr. Saturley has read or offered comment on the visitation logs, and his interpretation of the childs behavior based on those logs. What he said prior to having the additional information – we know know exists – is “old news” imo. What does Dr. Saturley have to offer now that he has additional information available to him?
September 4th, 2009 at 11:56 am
Does anyone know how the child is doing now that she has been in a stable environment and living in one home for the last year? You say the Thompsons and their friends post here, so I would think someone could tell us details about how she is.
Why doesn’t her mother have visits? What would she have to do to get shared custody back? When does this go back to court?
September 4th, 2009 at 11:57 am
What does Dr. Saturley have to offer now that he has additional information available to him?
I should have added, what does Dr. Saturley have to offer now that he has additional information the 730 evaluation was completed and the visitation logs were made available online at the saveaaliyah.com site?
I’d be curious to know….
Wasn’t it posted that Connie has recently been in contact with Dr. Saturley, since the information became available a 730 eval has been done? and possibly since the visitation logs have become available to view? I have no idea how long those visitation logs have been available as I just stumbled onto them two days ago.
Hopefully Dr. Saturley will add some additional input.
September 4th, 2009 at 12:04 pm
1356- And why would Connie need to be watched by sexual abuse experts interacting with her child? Is she suspected of doing something?
Call me completely confused. Is Connie being ‘watched’ by sexual abuse experts while interacting with her child? I was under the impression she was simply being observed by a supervisor and the supervisor provided a log or notes of what occured during the visit for the courts. Why would the supervisor at a visitation center be, or need to be, a sexual abuse expert?
September 4th, 2009 at 2:26 pm
Have a heart, Ms. Bedwell. Go see your daughter while there’s still time. Otherwise, the court will make a permanent placement plan for Aaliyah that doesn’t include you. Don’t let Aaliyah grow up without a mother just because you hate her father. It’s not right. It’s not what’s best for Aaliyah.
Deep down in your heart, you know this.
September 4th, 2009 at 7:44 pm
Never Takes Responsibility
September 3rd, 2009 at 9:01 pm
Karen will never take any responsibility for LYING about innocent people and slaughtering Danielle’s name, an innocent party to all of this.
Karen does not care or give a crap about anyone she hurts along the way as long as she helps the Bedwells destroy everyone surrounding Aali.
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Danielle isn’t an innocent person. The majority of us posters went to high school with Adam, Dustin, Danielle, Connie etc.
What Karen relayed happens to be true. I say if Danielle doesn’t want to be in this mess she shut her mouth. It’s that simple.
If Danielle wants to claim she is innocent than maybe her sister, mother and her should plug their pipers.
September 4th, 2009 at 7:50 pm
Dr Saturley had access in his email about the 730 prior to his response on the show.
Just because he hadn’t read it yet doesnt make Connie a liar! Genius. You claiming that makes you a liar though.
Once again Thompson supporters lying. Go figure.
September 4th, 2009 at 7:59 pm
The Thompson’s are so ridiculous they posted Dustin will be in jail by the end of the week just to call the Bedwell’s liars.
LMAO
Get a life already!
September 4th, 2009 at 8:02 pm
Funny #1350
September 4th, 2009 at 10:15 am
A judge doesn’t ‘get to pick’ one of 3, he’s the guy that MAKES THE ORDERS. LOL your post is so funny its almost sad really.
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Dustin did you miss court? LMFAO
September 4th, 2009 at 10:11 pm
Connie will keep pressing for more tests until she gets what she wants, and that would be proof that she is right. If Dr. Saturley’s results were not in agreement with her, she would find a way to discredit them. Possibly another conspiracy.
September 4th, 2009 at 10:18 pm
Dr Saturleys own words about this situation…..
September 4th, 2009 at 10:00 am
marmite
June 16th, 2009 at 7:39 am
Some quotes from Dr Joe Saturley taken from the radio broadcast 13 June.
‘Connie believes that the childs father is sexually abusing this child, has or continues to. It doesn’t make it so but Connie truly believes that and therefore appears to be quite motivated in trying to gather evidence and to prove to the court system and other people, the people at large that this is going on. As any parent that feels that they are in the right and the system is wrong she has fought in a variety of ways to bring attention to this matter.’
‘As far as Connie Bedwells psychological evaluation, theres nothing particularly of concern in it. There are certainly some comments by the psychologist that wrote it up that I take exception with. I have also obtained the testing or at least I believe I have the testing that Connie went and got what we call the protocol, I have rescored them, you know every psychologist has there own little spin on interpretation but theres nothing of any true significance in Connies profile that would cause me concern.’
‘Now what I am proposing to do is go to California to do psychological testing on both parents, interview them, collect collateral data from other people and some of the court records. And also to observe the behaviour of the parents with the child and interview the child and do a complete family evaluation. That has NOT taken place yet. There has been NO thorough family evalution that looks at all parties and looks at the child and looks at the relationships. There have all been kind of these piece meal things that have taken place.’
‘If you watch the Daddys worm video Connie really did not, or at least from what I’ve seen of it, I don’t know what was occuring before the video was being shot but there was no prompting of the child to talk about this. She seemed to be talking about it fairly easily.’
‘I have spoken with Connie over the telephone, she comes across as very sane.’
‘Connie has already been evaluated and until a full family evaluation takes place this case is just stuck in the mud.’
‘I placed a call to the father, he’s not returned it. I have recently sent an email offer to Connie to offer to her attorney and to the court system, a free evaluation. Connie is certainly on board for a full family evaluation. I have no contact with the dads side so I don’t know their position or whether they have any interest in participating yet.’
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Still avoiding Dr Saturley huh Thompson’s? Connie talks to him why won’t you?
Being the Guilty party must be so hard.
Does it feel like you are walking on eggshells all the time?
All those lies you have to try to keep straight must be eating you alive.
And then knowing that one day they will all catch up to you and bite you in your ass. And when it does it’s going to cost a lot of you your freedom: Aiding, abetting, enabling, covering up a felony. Looks like all of you Thompson’s will be playing with Bubba, John and Tanya right along side Dustin.
Is your life worth ruining to lie for him?
But you have already lied for so long now you would look absolutely ridiculous if you tell the truth now.
Maybe some of you should think twice before taking the stand at trial huh?
September 4th, 2009 at 10:21 pm
Someone’s going around spreading more lies on another blog stating INCORRECTLY there’s some type of ‘trial’ coming up for Aali.
That is the furthest thing from the truth and I cannot wait for time to tick by to show this liar up for what they are. I guess tricking people into believing more lies is all they have left in order to retain the little support left for Connie.
I don’t know whether to laugh or cry. A trial, LMAO sure, I’ll believe it when I see the real deal.
September 4th, 2009 at 10:26 pm
Just how do you accomplish having a trial when there was extensive investigations that cleared the father? Just how do you have a trial on OLD limited documentation that does not show 1 shred of any doctor emphatically stating Aali was abused? Just how do you have a trial when NO CRIMINAL CHARGES HAVE BEEN PRESSED and the DA’s office cleared the father on all evidence put forth by the mother.
A trial, is there anything you won’t be so desperate to falsely report? OMG It really is sad the fantasy island you live in. A trial against the father? What another sick joke to play so you can keep the ‘story’ going.
Well your groupies will be waiting with baited breathe, oh what will you do when the trial doesn’t ever happen?
o o o o OH I know the answer, you’ll blame the ever so rich and powerful Thompson family for STOPPING your pretend trial right? LMAO so so sad
September 4th, 2009 at 10:32 pm
Dustin,
Connie isn’t going to talk to you princess get over your sick obsessive fetish you have of her.
You can post what’s up to her all you want. She can’t post child molester remember? You put a restraining order on her because and I quote she “is reeling in the nation” against you.
Oh pity party time for Dustin Thompson.
Dustin ever put this thought process together?:
If you weren’t molesting your own child Connie wouldn’t have had to make this a public matter.
If you would just go get help, Connie wouldn’t have had to make this a public matter.
If you weren’t such a scumbag liar raised by your scumbag lying parents, Connie wouldn’t have had to make this a public matter.
And like an intelligent poster said above, “Your lies are going to unfold in front of the nation.”
The Truth will be made known and your child will be made safe from your “yucky” family.
September 4th, 2009 at 10:37 pm
what’s up Connie?
September 3rd, 2009 at 10:21 am
Why no visitation arrangements yet? Your daughter misses you!
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Why wouldn’t she miss her mother when she is stuck with a child molesting freak such as yourself Dustin?
The sick thing is is you miss Connie too.
Get over it.
Go get a girlfriend your age and stop raping your own child.
September 4th, 2009 at 10:41 pm
Troy from Illinois has his head on straight!
It’s good to see that there are some sane people left in this world!!
Thanks Troy!!
September 4th, 2009 at 10:47 pm
In a post above the Thompson’s complain how Connie filled in the Behavioral chart of Aaliyah’s symptoms:
1) Moot point, who cares if she did.
2) Why it’s moot: Because you can see in all the visitation reports that ALL of those symptoms are present.
3) Dustin Thompson is a CHILD MOLESTER
4) Thompson’s are trying to hide those symptoms!
Aiding and Abetting Thompson’s equals Jail time
September 4th, 2009 at 11:31 pm
It looks like the Thompson’s went all buck wild on here!
It’s just like what they do to Placer County officials to distract people from the Truth.
BOMBARD THEM WITH LIES.
People can follow your lying snail trail online though Thompson’s.
September 4th, 2009 at 11:39 pm
Princess Dustin Thompson of Placer County has been arrested. Hows prison pussy molester?
September 6th, 2009 at 1:54 am
Yeah right
Where is this evidence of abuse against the mother ?
Got a police report ?
And yes, it is a victory for sexual abuse experts to supervise visits.They can’t observe how she acts around Dustin while he has custody. It’s definitely not to see if Connie is abusing her after spending all this time alone with her dad. It would be to watch Aali’s behaviors. Why would that bother anybody ?
I’d think everybody would be happy to have experts that Connie chooses investigate.If they say Aali wasn’t abused, Dustin supporters will be able to gloat and say “I told you so”.
September 7th, 2009 at 2:26 pm
You obviously wouldn’t know child abuse if it slapped your own kid in the face.
Only abused children play those games smarty pants!
Why don’t you do a little research on traumatized children or research play therapy?
Cubby this is how ridiculous you are:
If someone has threatened to kill you numerous times and then your 15 month old all the way to 3 1/2 years old is playing Death games when they shouldn’t even understand that word, all the while telling you her dad is molesting her and making her sing songs such as Aaliyah Aliyah your mommy is dead…
YOU’D BE A STRAIGHT MORON TO NOT BELIEVE YOUR CHILD OR UNDERSTAND HER BEHAVIORS.
That probably doesn’t even make sense to you.
The Bedwell’s don’t need to convince uneducated, inexperienced average Joes such as yourself of the TRUTH.
And just to further prove that your perception is limited there are 10 months of reports that aren’t up on the site. There are more videos that aren’t up on the site. There are more witnesses that haven’t been spoken to.
I hope you don’t have children Cubby because a pedophile would clearly manipulate you easily.
Here’s a little scenario:
All pedophiles threaten children to keep the abuse a secret usually by death and or death of a person most dear to the child. Just like our little pedophile Dustin Thompson has done here.
On top of that then they use a method of brainwashing to decieve and confuse the child and adults. Such as our little pedophile Dustin Thompson has done. For instance, he threatened to kill her and her mother for telling on him for hurting her pee pee and sticking his one eyed hairy worm in her mouth.
Dustin Thompson, as explained by the child thoroughly in visitation, then “makes her” watch movies such as sleeping beauty, and a number of others she described, all JUST happening to have death in them “that daddy makes her watch.”
It’s called attentive and intelligent, not paranoid Cubster!
We don’t expect you to be able to understand the same things that we have all seen, know as fact and truth or understand things that someone with an IQ in the top 1/3 of the population understands.
We don’t expect you to understand the mind of a Child Molester or pedophile given you’ve probably never picked up a book about one.
We don’t expect you to be capable of seeing through the cunning games of a manipulative child molester.
Not all people have the capacity to see what is REALLY GOING ON, we understand that.
Dustin hates that some people are well and capable of understanding his kind just like all other child molesters hate it. If people actually understood how remotely sick and decieving these child molesting creatures are then they couldn’t be able to molest helpless children, huh Dustin?
And it would be so much easier to kill Connie then to have to deal with her exposing you for what you are, huh Dustin?
You must be going insane inside not being able to CONTROL us all huh Dustin?
We all know where your road ends and you won’t be able to control a fly in there.
September 7th, 2009 at 3:27 pm
I would love put you in a room full of people,
have someone sock you in your face right when nobody is looking,
and then call you crazy when you tell everyone what just happened because they were all busy looking the other way, yet they were standing right there!
And who cares if you have a big red mark across your face, you could have fallen the day before and maybe nobody noticed it. Or maybe you have red marks on your face all the time. Or maybe you have razor burn. Or maybe a flesh eating disease. Or maybe you have bad acne. Or maybe it was hot in the room and you turned a little pink. Or maybe…(hopefully you get the idea by now; that is how some of you sound)
And who cares if you are truly acting like a person that really just got socked in their face. Maybe you are just so crazy you believe it happened. Maybe you have munchhausen. Maybe you need psychiatric help. Maybe you are just Paranoid. Maybe you are just on a witch hunt against the person that slapped you. Maybe you are vindictive. Maybe we’ll all call you a liar even though nobody in the room saw it one way or another. (Hope you are catching on to that one too because some of you sound like that as well.)
And the person who socked you in the face is sitting there laughing at you because they thought they’d play a little Game. They are what is called a sociopath who thinks life is like a game of gambling. They think they are so smart they can beat the odds that if someone saw them sock you in your face they’d be in jail for assault. Yet they think it was such a thrill to sock you while nobody was looking, then laugh at you, paint you out like you’re crazy, and call you a great actor because you are acting like a REAL person that REALLY got socked.
As this person laughs and smiles at you acting like they care about you in front of the other people in the room. Everyone begins to wonder how could such a seemingly happy, fun, giggly, kind person just sock somebody in the face like this other person claims. Then they will look at your emotional reaction to being socked even though nobody saw it happen, and think to themselves, Wow what an angry person he is at that super nice giggly kind person; He must be vindictive or crazy.
The person who socked you successfully got away with socking you right in your face and made you look like a nut case, simply playing on idiotic people’s limited perceptions, knowing everyone in the room just isn’t intelligent enough to understand what he just did.
It then satisfies the sick sociopath of gambling such a consequence for his actions if he were to get caught. Thus he just “controlled” an entire room of people in his sick little game. He then thinks He’s so intelligent, manipulative and cunning that he thinks he’s ready to gamble something bigger, more daring, more challenging. If he just beat those odds of getting caught how many other people can he fool.
He eventually gets to a level of thinking to himself that he can fool and “control” an entire community. What a fun risky Game it would be to molest his own child and try to paint the mother out as crazy, vindictive, mentally ill, on a witch hunt, seeing things that nobody else might not see. He makes people think, well she’s acting like a REAL mother would act if her child was REALLY being molested because she REALLY believes it’s happening because she has munchhausen.
He thinks to himself he can control an entire community (called Placer County). Since the mother is making the nation aware, he thinks to himself that he can continue to fool and “control” the Nation as well. He thinks what a risky gambling fun game! And if he were to get caught the consequences would be prison, but he thinks he can fool the world. He thinks he is smarter than every single one of you.
He plays everything in life like one big fun game.
Molesting his daughter is just one more fun game of risks, thrills, and gambling the odds.
You all just met Dustin Thompson.
September 8th, 2009 at 4:38 am
Well, I see someone has hijacked my user name. I did not post the above reply 1379.
I also see once again, NONE of the dialogue is about Aaliyah. What happened to discussing Aaliyah?
Instead more threats, more nonsense analogy’s about situations that do not nor have ever occured.
I might be back if anything regarding Aaliyah is discussed. Until then have fun blasting people who have nothing to do with Aaliyah or this situation.
September 8th, 2009 at 5:52 am
I know, Cubby, it’s sad that nobody cares about that poor child. It’s all revenge and no parenting.
Also, I’ve checked the Auburn Journal Crime logs here:
http://www.auburnjournal.com/crime_logs.html
and there’s no record of an arrest for Dustin Thompson. I don’t know why I’m giving the benefit of the doubt to people who have lied so damn much, but I’ll be checking it just in case they haven’t printed it yet.
I doubt that #1376 realized it was so easy to check these little stories. Nearly every local paper prints a crime log.
September 8th, 2009 at 11:04 am
Connie, for goodness sake, make arrangements and see your child! Still not happening? Why??
September 8th, 2009 at 11:09 am
How is your daughter these days? Any information? Oh wait, you have no idea, because you still aren’t seeing her! Why is that? Why make your daughter unhappy because you aren’t seeing her yet? That should be the only thing you focus on- so get on it and make the effort for your child.
September 8th, 2009 at 11:28 am
Chicana,
“I’d think everybody would be happy to have experts that Connie chooses investigate.If they say Aali wasn’t abused, Dustin supporters will be able to gloat and say “I told you soâ€.”
LMAO, no, more likely would be Connie saying it is another conspiracy against her and that the Thompsons somehow control yet another person who disagrees with her version of reality. This mother will never accept that no abuse can be found, because none has occurred. It doesn’t matter if she chooses the ‘expert’…if they don’t find her ‘proof’ she will call them an idiot, or liar, or say they are related to the Thompsons.
And Chicana, read my post again. I said there has been NO proof of abuse by this mother, so why would you ask for a police report dear?
I do welcome the presence of another expert seeing this child. But for that to happen, Connie would actually have to see her child. Seems that is still not happening, unless you have heard different.
September 8th, 2009 at 1:03 pm
#1378 I’ve been awaiting your ‘murder’ claim. It’s just a long list of allegations Connie has tried to make over time. Every time one allegation wasn’t believed, we head to a higher more serious allegation.
If stories of violence were true to begin with, you’d think it would match up with older police reports? Now you say Dustin wants to murder Connie. My god the lengths of insanity existing on this forum is abhorrently baffling.
Readers following this step by step can clearly see a pattern of deception by Connie. Ever increasing stories and changing allegations.
How do you go from Connie’s friend seeing Dustin hit his HAND to slam the trunk (as per her own police report) to she saying Connie’s head hit the trunk.
Did she lie in the police report or do you lie here?
There’s so many examples of where Connie has stated one claim but twisted her story to ‘fit’ a harsher picture of Dustin.
You now head to him murdering Connie. Please go get help #1378 because your mental illness is very evident and pronounced with every post you write. You’re the one who scares me the most.
September 8th, 2009 at 5:53 pm
I checked the Auburn Journal crime log again this afternoon. It’s up-to-date from 8/29/09 through 9/7/09, and Dustin Thompson’s name is not listed as having been arrested. Post #1376 was made on 9/4/09, so obviously it was a bald-faced lie.
Way to discredit yourself and make yourself look like a vengeful lunatic! Good work.
September 8th, 2009 at 8:07 pm
http://www.placer.ca.gov/jail/jailreports/incustody_BD.htm
Why wait for the Auburn Journal crime reports…go straight to the Placer County website…they have all kinds of information posted for the whole world to see.
Guess who’s name is NOT listed anywhere???
September 8th, 2009 at 10:42 pm
“Dustin Thompson, as explained by the child thoroughly in visitation, then “makes her†watch movies such as sleeping beauty, and a number of others she described, all JUST happening to have death in them “that daddy makes her watch.—
Okay, I’ve got to ask, has anyone noticed how cruel Disney is to mothers? They are dead, missing or die in movies such as that evil Bambi, and what about Snow White?? Or Cinderella…yep he must be evil and manipulative to make that child watch Disney movies like Sleeping Beauty…LMAO
Y’all are really reaching there!! How many kid movies and stories have death in them? And letting a child watch them is somehow brainwashing?? PLEASE!!!
September 8th, 2009 at 10:47 pm
#1378
And you got this information about his forcing her to watch movies where???? And you think this is threatening this child? You make no sense.
Don’t spout off about Connie being in the top 3% of intelligence either….it is a bogus statistic. Does it mean the top 3% of all Americans (that’s over 9 million) or does it mean in the top 3% of those that took a specific test, or does it mean the top 3% of her high school??? It means nothing, especially when she isn’t smart enough to follow the judges orders to file an exparte to see her daughter. It has been 4 months and she still can’t figure it out!! Sad, but true.
September 8th, 2009 at 10:52 pm
I want to know why after all this time, and the numerous doctors and specialists this child has seen, there is still absolutely no evidence of abuse. There is not one doctor that has provided independent proof of this child being abused.
September 8th, 2009 at 11:03 pm
Maybe the Bedwells can get a group therapy rate to deal with their problems with reality.
September 8th, 2009 at 11:09 pm
#1387 Hmmmmm….What a great resource! Thanks! They don’t have anything like that for my county. You can search for a specific name, but a result of “no records found” doesn’t have the same impact of searching a whole list of EVERY PERSON IN CUSTODY FOR THE ENTIRE COUNTY and not finding your person of interest. Dustin Thompson is NOT in custody.
Yet another lie by the Bedwell supporters. I suppose they think they’re smarter than everyone else—the cops, CPS, the judges, and the general public, but they keep getting busted at every turn! Maybe they never expect anyone to check their little stories. Doesn’t seem like they’re altogether that smart to me.
September 9th, 2009 at 3:58 am
I did not post 1364 or 1365 either.
I don’t understand why someone has to hijack a user name. Why not use FOR CUBBY as the user name, or use my SN in the first sentence, so I know someone is addressing me.
If this is any indication of how Connie and her “witness’s” addressed the courts it’s quite obvious why they got no where. No one addresses the issue.
For one, no sexual abuse specialist could be observing the supervised visits, BECAUSE THEY HAVEN’T HAPPENED IN 4 months now!
More twists, more lies, and absolutely NOTHING to rectify the situation.
September 9th, 2009 at 4:05 am
For the person who hijacked my user name “Cubby”. Why are you concerned whether I may or may not encounter a pedofile? Shouldn’t we address the issue at hand, not some what if that may or may not happen in the future?
Aaliyah should be of more concern to you, than an obstacle I may or may not ever face and have not yet.
Is it because you simply have no ability to answer the question? and the only thing you know how to do is twist the subject, turn it around to avoid the REAL issues, being a mother and child who have NOT seen each other in 4 months. A mother who has lost the right to parent her child without close supervised observation. Unless this is now, they lets worry about Cubby Sr. and Cubby Jr. thread. I appreciate your concern, but I’d really like to stay on the topic of this child.
September 9th, 2009 at 4:17 am
Back on topic please!
What is Connie currently doing to rectify the situation of her no longer having access to her child? Why hasn’t she filed the ex parte to reinstate visitation? Why is she continuing to allow her supporters to come here and bully, bash and lie? Does she think those things will assist her case? Does she not see the efforts she has made for the past 3 years have not worked?
Now, back to the supervisor who monitored the visitations while Connie had visitation. What education and back ground requirements did they have? Did they specialize in observing possible abuse? NO ONE has answered that question. Also, why did the visitation logs show a happy child having fun with her mother and only some distress when the visit ended? Why didn’t the visitation records/logs
indicate any concern by the person monitoring the visits? Why did Connie have to add her own notes with her perception of the childs behavior? Why was Connie the ONLY one who seemed to percieve these ‘disturbing’ behaviors when clearly there were ‘professionals’ observing?
And for those who wish to add another Cubby analogy, or slam. We are doing quite fine thank you. Let’s keep it on the topic of Mother and daughter. Thank you!
September 9th, 2009 at 8:37 am
Clearly this mother would rather blame the father for not seeing her daughter. The SaveAaliyah site says:
“The abuser’s family continues to lie and hide the truth from the system. Currently the abuser has not let the mother see the child in 4 months, violating the court order. The abuser is isolating his victim to further abuse her and trying to make a wedge between the mother and daughter’s relationship in hopes she won’t tell her mother it is still happening to her.”
She just does not grasp the fact that she has a court order, and a legal remedy to her lack of visitation. The ‘wedge’ is being created by Connie not following through with the exparte order as the judge told her to.
“The very disturbing statements generally came from the child while it was bathtime, bedtime or while her clothes or diaper were being changed most of which aren’t part of a visitation routine, although you can still see a number of other symptoms, behaviors and statements made by the child in the reports that show the mental, physical and sexual abuse.”
I have read the visitation notes posted. I just do not see these “symptoms,behaviors, and statements” that show “mental, physical and sexual abuse”. I see a child who loves her mother, and enjoys playing with her. One who misses her so much she does not want the visits to end. Sadly, her mother can’t manage to follow the court’s instructions to restore her visits.
I do notice that no one comes here from the Bedwell side to explain this, or the lack of medical evidence. They would rather lie about someone being in jail, or attack posters here.
September 9th, 2009 at 9:07 am
“The 2 pages from the Dr. attached to the link are from a visit after the abuser kicked the baby in the back and hit her head on a table. We believe he did this as intimidation to keep her quiet because right around that same time frame she told her mother about her daddy hurting her pee pee. As you can see for yourself in the Dr’s notes she was so afraid of him to even touch her even though he has been around her a lot which is another one of her many symptoms from the abuse. This Dr was never one time contacted by the Auburn Police or any of the so called “professionals” involved in this child’s case.”
So this Doctor saw enough to report suspected abuse? But she saw this doctor ‘a lot’. I would hope that was to find the cause of all these complaints of her ‘pee pee’ hurting. Was there was nothing to find, or that was never brought to the doctor’s attention. Was this child prone to yeast infections or unrinary tract infections? What are the results to all those visits to this doctor? Doctors are mandated reporters…so if there was signs of abuse found- he/she is in trouble for not reporting it.
again from that site:
“Auburn Police Department obviously doesn’t think that contacting all of the witnesses before interrogating the physical and sexual abuser was important. How do you interrogate someone without the full picture to interrogate the criminal? APD didn’t follow procedure in a number of ways. APD’s sexual assault detective had just left APD prior to this case being opened which therefore left it up to Sgt Pecoraro to handle the case. Placer County has been covering their mistakes and then covering more mistakes.”
So what is stopping them from correcting this ‘mistake’, and doing the investigation? Could it be the total lack of any hard evidence, and the fact that they have experience with Connie and her demands and claims of abuse? You don’t get to tell the police who to talk to, or who to investigate without having any proof of your claims. If the information you take to them doesn’t warrant a further investigation, and the DA agrees, then there is no investigation. It has been stated that the DA found no basis to file charges, and the police had no evidence of abuse. That would include the lack of any of this child’s medical providers from seeing anything they needed to report as ‘suspected abuse’. The courts ordered the 730 evaluation, which agreed. So I guess Connie just wants these officials to believe only her, and not the lack of evidence.
Oh wait, according to Connie, the judges, cops, doctors and everyone else in Placer County is part of a conspiracy to stop her and abuse her daughter. All those medical officials and judges put their careers and degrees on the line to stop the truth. Because they don’t care about their own lively hood, only about enabling child abuse and helping those all powerful Thompsons
September 9th, 2009 at 9:33 am
California rules of the Court Standard 5.20. Uniform standards of practice for providers of supervised visitation:
http://www.courtinfo.ca.gov/rules/index.cfm?title=standards&linkid=standard5_20
There is also a statewide directory of Visitation Service Providers available:
http://www.svdirectory.com/state.htm?st=ca
Understanding supervised visitation link:
http://www.courtinfo.ca.gov/selfhelp/family/custody/visitation.htm
Simple information to find, so why hasn’t this mom taken care of seeing her baby???
September 9th, 2009 at 9:39 am
Does this mother have to pay child support for her daughter even though she doesn’t get to see her? Is she current? Did the father pay support while she had custody and he only had visits? Was he current? Did support payments stop when they had 50/50 custody? I have no idea how this works, or what was done in this case.
September 9th, 2009 at 3:19 pm
Dustin Thompson is a child molester.
Http://SaveAaliyah.com
September 9th, 2009 at 3:21 pm
Dustin does indeed have an arrest record. He was 17 and 2 records are sealed.
The Auburn Urinal can’t post about a minor.
Use your head.
September 9th, 2009 at 3:23 pm
YOU SURE ARE BUSY TRYING TO CALL ALL OF CONNIE’S SUPPORTERS “MENTALLY ILL” JUST LIKE ALL ABUSERS DO.
COINCIDENCE?
NO.
YOU’RE A CHILD MOLESTER
September 9th, 2009 at 3:28 pm
For the not so intelligent on here:
Connie has about 3 trials she is lawfully entitled to.
And yes there is a Trial coming Dustin.
And yes Princess your child molesting ass will be on the stand stuttering.
September 9th, 2009 at 3:45 pm
Anyone else feel half way retarded arguing with the Thompson’s and their supporters or is it just me??
It reminds me of a saying…
“The more you play with a turd the more you smell like one.”
It’s all just circle talk with the Thompson’s lies and they obviously don’t care about the child.
Http://SaveAaliyah.com
September 9th, 2009 at 9:53 pm
To Save the Baby post 1397:
Actually, I was thinking how pointless it is to try to ask questions of the Bedwell supporters. So let’s not go in circles, I have direct questions that I believe are relevant to helping anyone understand this story. With answers we can make up our own minds. There is really no need to argue.
Direct questions like why Connie still hasn’t seen her child- why doesn’t she have her attorney follow the judges instructions and file the damn exparte hearing to arrange to see her child? What is going on and what is the delay in restarting visitation? Is she going to wait until she goes back to court later this month to take care of this?
Questions like what did this child’s doctors give as an explanation for all the repeated complaints of her ‘pee pee’ hurting. Surely her mother took her to her pediatrician for this. Was there injury, infection(like yeast or urinary tract) or a rash, or any indication of abuse? How many doctors have seen this child while Connie had shared custody? What did they find? Seems like there should be some sort of answer to these queries.
Questions like why did this Dr. Harding not report suspected abuse (as claimed by the SaveAaliyah site) if he saw it. He is mandated to by law, and if indeed he saw proof of physical abuse- he would not wait for the police, he would report it. So is this claim of clear proof of abuse just an interpretation by Connie? I really could not read the handwriting on the docs from the doctor posted there.
If there are so many other visitation logs that will support the claims of this child exhibiting symptoms of abuse(from the neutral observer of the visits), why are they not posted? Those that are posted offer very little in the way of proof of abuse, but it is clear this child loves playing with her mom and hates for the time together to end.
Questions like how old was she in the exchange video, and how long had she been seeing her father for extended visits(overnight for several days) at that time? Another simple question.
New questions like why does the police report of the trunk story differ from what is now being reported? Does it tell a different story?
Questions like why lie and say Dustin is in jail?
Questions like when did Dustin say he was going to kill this woman and/or her child? Why isn’t there a police report- because that is a threat. Is this a new issue, or is it left over from the breakup of their relationship or the restraining order Connie filed when she returned to CA?
These are but a few of the many questions that do not get answered by Bedwell supporters. I would suppose that is because they do not know. Her family/friends have posted here in the past. So why no answers?
Feel free to answer any of these direct questions- no circle talking please.
September 9th, 2009 at 11:52 pm
Arguing with who? It’s the Thompsons who have the truth on their side. With no money coming in for Connie its clear who the internet public has sided with. The ‘child’ is what they care the most about and the child is cared for. It’s so tough for those who THINK they support Connie’s ‘campaign’ of lies to understand how safe and loved Aali is. Too many professionals have their entire careers on the line for this very baby and they remain steadfast that this is a child who was never abused by her father.
Tell me why the mother has zero custody? mmmm
September 10th, 2009 at 9:04 am
Yo the saveaaliyah.com poster—Posts 1402, 1403, 1404
So why is it this woman can’t see her daughter? Does she want to? How can this very basic question not matter to you people????
What 3 trials is Connie planning on? She can’t even manage to arrange visitation, or follow the judge’s recommendations.
And why is it Connie’s friends and family have no answers to why this has taken so long? I remember the reporting of the judges support re-stating that she has every right to supervised visitation back in June- the Bedwells were very happy the judge agreed. So why are they not doing what he told them to?
Is there anyone who cares that this child would like to see her mother? I find it is this child I care about- not her parents…and I am sure she misses her mom.
Strange how there is no answer to this important question, but plenty of statements like Dustin was supposedly arrested last weekend and is in jail. Or he is threatening the baby and her mother’s life. or that all those that do not agree with Connie’s views must be Dustin or Thompsons.
September 10th, 2009 at 11:54 am
Almost 4 months gone and BNN’s blasting of the mother going to get an ex-parte order has not happened. Judge Smith has not received any request from Ron Britt for visitation NOR has Judge Smith had any request for a hearing about any issues.
Just what is Connie’s lawyer doing? She doesn’t have any money to even pay for a hearing so how will she pull this off? Why will the Judge AGREE with Connie’s ‘request’? When the Judge sees Connie’s multitude refusals to follow anything the courts order her over the past 24 months, where is her GOOD STANDING and GOOD FAITH for any judge to side with her?
Why can’t Ron get through to his client and TEACH HER how the system works so she can see her kid instead of making it seem like the father has YET AGAIN yield some power over now Judge Smith not to allow Connie to bring a simple order to reinstate visitation. September 21 will be an interesting day. I wonder if Cara will scream at Ron again? She still hasn’t said what Connie’s lawyer did that made her so furious.
I wonder what Ron will have to say to the judge this time after making promises on behalf of his client only to approach the courts this time around and admit she AGAIN never followed through with any of her promises. LYING to a judge that has control over her child is a serious thing to have done Connie. September 21 is not going to be a good day for the mother.
September 10th, 2009 at 3:23 pm
#1406: So true, we could actually have some sort of discussion going here if the Bedwell camp would provide us with any facts whatsoever instead of baseless accusations and untruthful rumors that have nothing to do with Aaliyah’s case whatsoever.
Instead they refuse to answer any of our (reasonable) questions and engage in personal attacks on posters who don’t blindly support their every allegation. It’s a little twisted how they wish child molestation upon children whose parents don’t agree with them. They seem to get a real kick out of imagining child molestation around every corner. Personally, I’m GLAD that Aaliyah isn’t being molested and seems to be healthy and adjusting to the situation between her parents. Apparently others wish she was molested so they could be RIGHT when they post.
Pretty pathetic really.
September 10th, 2009 at 3:59 pm
ATTENTION ALL READERS:
THE PEDOPHILES SUPPORTERS ARE THE ONES STATING ON HERE THAT DUSTIN HAS BEEN ARRESTED IN HOPES THAT AN OUTSIDE READER WILL HAVE NO CLUE AS TO WHY DUSTIN’S OWN SUPPORTERS WOULD POST THAT.
THOMPSON SUPPORTERS ARE YOU REALLY THAT DESPERATE TO TRY TO MAKE THE BEDWELL SUPPORTERS LOOK LIKE LIARS?
THE SAD BUT CORRECT ANSWER TO THAT QUESTION IS YES.
WHEN YOU DON’T HAVE THE TRUTH ON YOUR SIDE, I SUPPOSE YOU WOULD HAVE TO STOOP THAT LOW.
YOU PEOPLE ARE STRAIGHT INSANE!
IT JUST SHOWS HOW LOW YOU THOMPSON’S HAVE TO GO TO TRY TO DECEIVE PEOPLE.
IT’S MORE THAN OBVIOUS DUSTIN ISN’T IN JAIL YET HE IS STILL POSTING LIES RIGHT HERE ON BTLS TALKING TO CONNIE BECAUSE HE’S OBSESSED WITH HER. IT’S JUST ANOTHER FUN WAY FOR HIM TO ABUSE HER, KEEPING THE CHILD FROM HER AND FLIPPING EVERYTHING HE DOES ON HER. RUBBING IT IN HER FACE THAT HE WON’T LET HER SEE HER YET BLAMING HER.
THOMPSON’S YOU ARE PATHETIC BUT WE ALREADY KNEW THAT. YOU MOLEST CHILDREN AND THEN LIE ABOUT IT TO COVER IT UP.
PS. TO TROY OF ILLINOIS: COME ON BUDDY I THOUGHT YOU COULD SEE THROUGH THE INSANITY OF THE THOMPSON SUPPORTERS? PLEASE START CATCHING ON TO THEIR GAMES AND DECEPTION A LITTLE QUICKER!! TROY YES THE BEDWELL SUPPORTERS ARE NOT POSTING ANYTHING NEW FOR A PURPOSE AND THEY MOST CERTAINLY WILL NOT AND DO NOT POST LIES.
THE THOMPSONS ARE HIJACKING THE BEDWELL’S SUPPORTERS NAMES AND POSTING AS THEM TO TRY TO MAKE THEM APPEAR TO BE LIARS.
HEY THOMPSON’S THERE IS THIS THING CALLED YOUR IP ADDRESSES.
THIS IS THE KIND OF GAMES, LIES, DECEPTION AND IMMATURITY FROM THE THOMPSONS THAT CONNIE HAS BEEN FIGHTING ALL ON HER OWN FOR A VERY LONG TIME.
IT WILL ALL CATCH UP TO YOU SOON THOMPSON’S.
September 10th, 2009 at 4:08 pm
1376 HIJACKER
September 10th, 2009 at 11:05 pm
Is there a hero here? Aaliyah needs one but I can’t find them. I see people who are hell bent on slaughtering Aaliyah’s father who doesn’t have a criminal background or charges on child abuse.
I see people who are hell bent on making the mother seem crazy or delusional.
I don’t see people who are simply here for Aaliyah with no agenda to destroy the other. Aaliyah needs a hero who will not hang her (innocent) dad out to dry or vilify her mother.
Aaliyah will read these words one day because the internet has no delete button. Aaliyah is the one who holds the truth and no matter who’s right or wrong, she’ll pay the biggest price of all.
Who’s ready to grow up and be her hero?
September 11th, 2009 at 7:19 am
I’m sorry 1410 you must be wrong. You’ve been making claims for months Dustin was going down, not like it was 1 post. For the past 2+ months you’ve posted threads about his time coming so now you look foolish and feel stupid for putting it up there and blame the Thompsons? Do you know how crazy that sounds? Do you know how all your posts look to outsiders? I don’t think you really do.
Its been months and months you keep saying things will catch up to the Thompsons but I only keep seeing repercussions for Connie. She’s the one that isn’t seeing her kid and not bringing any exparte orders to the courts. She’s the one who’s made it worse for herself.
All that’s going to happen is months and months from now, you’ll still be on here making your claims about the Thompsons but nothing will happen, the child will still be in Dustins care and Connie will still be doing exactly what she’s always done.
Attacking and bullying is what you know best and whoever you’re ‘troy’ is you’re speaking to, I guess even he cannot see how much you attack everyone on here. We all see what we ‘want’ to see and I read nothing but endless attacks from you with NO PROOF EVER POSTED AND NOT 1 QUESTION EVER ANSWERED. See you in a few months from now with your same ole song and dance there buddy boy.
September 11th, 2009 at 7:25 am
Reality- do you think the use of caps makes you special??? LMAO- or do you just like to look silly?
I have posted here many times, and been called Dustin many of those times. Yet I am not Dustin, nor do I personally know him, or am I in any way related to him or any of his friends. Sorry to disappoint you, or poke another hole in your many theories and accusations.
Seems like every time you don’t like a question or a post you resort to assuming the person must be Dustin. If you are that concerned about this, maybe you and the Bedwells should contact BTLS and have them tell you if there are any IP addresses from Placer county. Of course you won’t do that because you would not get an answer you like. Your only concern is blaming people, accusing them of being Dustin, and or his family. Do you know how crazy you appear when you are calling so many different people Dustin? I know how many times I have been called Dustin- and I know how far from the truth and reality that is.
You are not helping Connie, and you are proving the point many of us have. Y’all are into conspiracy theories and unfounded accusations- yep we all must be one person- and that has to be Dustin and we are all out to get Connie! Are you serious???? That Connie sees abuse in everything and everyone(an entire county is out to get her??) and that she is now obsessed with her own beliefs to the point of excluding any other possibilities. looks more plausible when we read these rants from supporters like you. Keep it up.
Just because we see this differently does not make us DUSTIN. Instead of blasting people, how about you provide some answers to all the questions above- Like why hasn’t Connie seen her child in 4 months? Like what the doctors diagnosis was for all the physical complaints that Connie calls sexual abuse. Instead of trying to control everyone here and force you beliefs and opinions on us(gee you sound like an abuser now) try providing answers and actual evidence to convince us your statements are truthful. The questions being asked are reasonable.
You will never change anyones mind with your bullying and accusations. Pass that along to your friends. What the hell is wrong with you that you are now attacking Troy??? He has a right to his own opinion and his own blog- if you don’t like it – avoid it. Nothing you say here on the internet will change what happens with this child- unless you are Connie– LOL – and no I do not think she would post here or on the internet due to the restraining order.
I will also point you back to the posts above- the ones where you or another Bedwell groupie claim Dustin is intimidating his daughter by MAKING HER WATCH SLEEPING BEAUTY!! Do you have any idea how ludicrous that sounds? It is right up there with calling everyone here Dustin.
I hope this is not beyond your ability to comprehend- we are not Dustin, and we still disagree with you.
September 11th, 2009 at 7:28 am
Oh, and have a nice day. Step away from your caps lock key for a bit.
September 11th, 2009 at 11:02 am
Has anyone ever read a reasonable and rational post that was typed in all caps? I sure haven’t.
September 11th, 2009 at 11:39 am
Are you serious? You mean to tell me someone’s bothering to post under another name to appear they’re lying? Just like Karen on #1300 posted elsewhere on the internet about a ficticious bar fight she CLAIMED happened against Ron Britt’s son? Contacting Logan Britt, I found out NOTHING ABOUT HER POST WAS TRUE.
Now you’re saying people are trying to make it seem like Bedwells are lying? Don’t you realize how far back we can go to see your lies and BS stories? You’re going to claim the Thompsons have been doing this? OMG how ridiculous that sounds to so many.
NO I’m not Dustin. NO I’m not a Thompson. I’m a person that cannot understand why there are so many unanswered questions and why the BEDWELLS DEMAND the internet public to simply believe their story without anything to back it up. Nothing on your website about this child shows me PROOF OF ABUSE. There’s no professionals laying it out in black and white showing emphatically.
You Bedwells even have to mark up some documents to stress your PROOF on some documents. Well if it was so straight forward for all to see and understand, you wouldn’t have to make your own notes on those documents right? You make those notes so people can be swayed to your version. I’m not swayed one bit by the mothers claims UNTIL PROFESSIONALS GO ON THE RECORD WITH CERTAINTY this baby was abused by her daddy.
Until then….. I guess you keep lying and twisting things. I guess you keep blaming the amazingly powerful fithly rich Thompsons. Yeah, more lies made up by the Bedwells back in May, until we found out the truth that the Thompsons are a normal hardworking middle class family that has no power NOR large bank account.
September 11th, 2009 at 1:00 pm
I think the reason that we have not heard anything from this mother and her family is everyone is seeing this family for what the are. This is a scam. I would imagie that they are worried about the law. You notice there is no more talk about money.
If this were true she would of taken the baby to HER md the minute that she thought sometime was going on. He would of taken it from there. There have been to many to many people who have seen this child, they say no abuse. All of these people are not going to put thier jobs on the line for this mother.
The mother got people riled up about this precious baby being abused. The Karen lady is probably in on this as well. I don’t believe with all of the personal info that she knows is in on the scam. You know that mother is not suppose to talk to any one about this and yet all over the net people are talking about speaking with this mother.
A judge told her to see her child. She dose not want to see her child or she would be. She and followers just wated to scam money out of good kind, loving people. I hope all involed in this scam go to jail. Perhaps next time they will just go out and get a job like the rest of us have to.
It makes me sick that this child is being used be her family. That is true abuse. I have read the she would not go
to the step program because she did not want to be in the
same room with the daddy. It would not matter if she had to
be in the same room with the devil himself. If it would
allow me to be with my child.
It is ovious to all that all this mother wants is our money
She dose not want to see her child. I hope this family and
followers will go to jail and have to think about what
they did to this baby. The gig is up. Let this child have a mnormal life with her daddys family.
September 11th, 2009 at 1:18 pm
You mean proof like ‘the expressions and facial affects this child may or not may make during visitation, may or may not be symptoms of abuse’ in the letter BNN posted that was from a social worker isn’t enough? LOL, what is that even supposed to mean? And before you jump on me, it is not an exact quote. But seriously, that is as close as it comes to black and white proof- seems sorta gray and murky to me.
It is possible there has been abuse. It just has not been proven with facts or physical evidence from a medical professional, or even a sexual abuse expert. This child has seen her own doctor- and supposedly was referred to the hospital for an exam that the police supposedly would not ‘authorize’(sorry that one still makes no sense). Yet the Doctor never complained when there was no exam? A mandated reporter never filed a report? He risked his medical license by not doing so? And this is her regular pediatrician?? Connie never went back and told him this or got a copy of this ‘referral’? A mother who is told to take her child for this sort of exam is also under suspicion until the results are in. While I do not think Connie abused her child sexually or physically, her version of this just does not make any sense. I know the process, and how it works. Once a doctor suspects abuse- there is a paper trail- and there will be an exam which does not require the police to be involved until after the results of the exam are reported. It is the lack of this type of documentation that is and has been the problem. We are not getting the entire story. This is just one example of the holes in this whole thing. So many unanswered questions, so many professionals who do not agree with the mother at this time. And still no visitation going on!
So once again, if you expect to be believed, we need the whole truth. Not that it matters what we believe, this is out of our hands, and always has been. The courts will handle this one way or the other.
September 12th, 2009 at 2:56 pm
JUSTICE FOR AALIYAH is the only thing the supporters of Aaliyah are interested in … Whatever happens to dustin and JD Thompson is iceing on the cake.
Thompson’s claim Connie’s lying, so list the lies! Not your circle jerk of baseless accusaions but solid proof of lies or even a single lie. I see in above posts how well that worked out for “llpapa” aka Eddy A. Craig and “Pattycakes” aka. Rebecca Egan Nunez who no longer post here under those names because I’ve proven them to be the lying, slanders and frauds that they are.
Do the Thompson’s and their 2 supporters really think the Judge reads your B.S. you driveling idiots write on this thread, or that anything a Aaliyah supporter says reflects upon Connie to cause him to take action against her?
My recomendation to Aaliyah supporters is cut the discourse with dustin and the thompsons they haven’t answered one question or accuasion. They sit back and spin webs of lies and distortions, acting as if their speaking directly to Connie. Highjacking Aaliyah supporters user names to make up lies and slander against dustin and the thompsons that no Aaliyah supporter ever wrote, and they do this to support a “innocent man”? YAH RIGHT!
September 14th, 2009 at 6:24 am
List the lies Connie has told? The poor moderator here would quit work if I tried. But I’ll start with 1. Connie’s entire ‘abuse claim’ against Dustin is a fraud, a hoax, a LIE.
You are doing the same thing BTW as others who post, you don’t use your name either. When you point a finger at others, 3 other fingers are pointing right back to you.
You DON’T WANT JUSTICE FOR AALI, You want to slaughter the name of a man who hasn’t even been charged with a crime. You want to destroy him. That’s been your agenda from day 1 and I can’t imagine how you can live with yourself at all.
September 14th, 2009 at 6:28 am
Nice try Karen, your other post online recently almost matches your #1420 post. BTW WHY can’t you explain how Logan Britt was NEVER EVER THREATENED by Adam or Danielle? Why make up such a sick story to make it appear the Thompsons are ‘violent’ people when they’re the opposite? Why do you do that? Mmmmmm Lies are all you know
September 14th, 2009 at 7:34 am
Connie won’t answer so many questions because the answers ‘don’t jive’ with the information she carefully put out there. She can’t answer them or provide doctors info because none exists. Look in the police reports yourself and you’ll see no evidence exists that point toward abuse. Nothing
The mother lied.
The mother has no custody.
What did she do to lose all rights to her child?
~silence as usual~
September 14th, 2009 at 8:36 am
replying to number 1418, I agree the mother wanted money. No money has been coming in now for most of the summer and it is because everyone online has seen this for what it is, a sham hoax story!
It’s the LACK OF MONEY coming in that shows zero support for Connie. That in itself shows how no one believes her. I too can’t wait to see her behind bars where she belongs
September 14th, 2009 at 9:05 am
Do you all want to know why Karen keeps up her lies. She is in on the hoax. They just want to steal money from kind and loving people. She and this mother and her family just wanted our money. This is against the law and they should all be in jail. Karen is the front person. She would not know what she dose if she is not in on the scam. I have read all that is out on the net. No way would anyone know all that she dose if she was not in on this scam. The only thing that they did not expect was to be found out. They are found out. They do not care about this child but have used her for thier own gain. This child is where she needs to be. She is with her family that loves her and is not using her for money. Shame on all of you. This is a real child not a money machine. She will know what you are all are about when she gets older and will hate her mother and family for what they have done to her. I know that people are having money problems in this day and time. To use this child is not an excuse. There is a reason as to why this baby is with her daddy’s family and her mother has not seen her. She has no desire to see this precious baby. If they had gotten thier way they would of kept on using her. There is a reason this mother has not seen her baby. She dose not want to. She has no desire to see her child. If she did she would be seeing her. This mother would of done everything in her power to be with her. The baby did not bring in the money that they expected. The people who were out raged that this was happening to this child found out this is a scam and a horrible scam that is why we are not hearing anything about this prcious child seeing her mother. They all need to be in JAIL. Shame on you all. This is all moo. I feel for this baby and her family. To be uses by one’s family for financial gain is horrible. I think the father’s family should bring charges against this mother and her family and all that is on this money scam. This father has been proven to be the best parent to raise this child. MOO
September 14th, 2009 at 11:41 am
Let’s go over some of the lies in brief shall we?
1. Aaliyah was abused (physical and psych evaluations have not back up this allegation)
2. Aaliyah’s “abuse” was never investigated (in fact, it had been investigated 11 times and the father was CLEARED)
3. There had never been a comprehensive psychological exam of all three family members (in fact there was a 730 exam, it must not have been favorable towards Ms. Bedwell which is why she tried to trick Dr. Saturley into doing another one)
4. Mr. Thompson is a drug addict (totally unfounded, if it were true, he’d probably have a criminal record and/or the court-ordered counseling would have discovered this)
5. Mr. Thompson raped Connie when she was fifteen(go ahead and prove that, people, because nobody believes it due to the fact that she stayed with him for another decade)
6. Mr. Thompson assaulted Logan Britt in a Placer County nightclub (Mr. Britt denies it)
7. Mr. Thompson was arrested on 9/4/09 (He wasn’t, I guess y’all didn’t think we could check on that little lie quite so easily, did you?)
So right there, that’s 7 major whoppers. Refute them with EVIDENCE, please, not a reiteration of the talk-talk-talk nonsense y’all originally posted, since we’ve all already read it.
September 14th, 2009 at 12:32 pm
Does anyone find it strange Connie’s supporters are dwindling or stop posting on here?
According to 3 posters on another blog site, they seem to be bothered by us who are against exploiting Aali!!
But really if they were FIGHTING FOR JUSTICE for Aali, nothing should stop them, even my words.
Maybe some of them are starting to think on their own and wonder just why Connie has not filed an ex parte and why she has no custody of her kid. Even BNN has been desperately quiet since beginning of July. I thought they were in this to the end. I see Janny from BNN claims she has heart problems and shouldn’t write about Aali but it doesn’t stop her from writing about her soaps OR her hubby Simon writing about all the other cases he follows.
Where’s the support? Why would they leave here just because of my words? Does it upset them when I ask repeated questions that everyone wants answers too? They cannot answer anything because there’s no proof, no evidence. If they had some bombshell, they would have used it long ago. It doesn’t exist.
Its’ about time people start shutting up and leave this baby alone. She never deserved to be exploited and tossed all over the internet with the word Pedophilia linked to her name. Maybe they’re losing sleep over their guilt of hurting an innocent man and supporting a delusional woman who really does have mental problems.
Alas, if they are to return, you can bash away and make claims I’m Dustin or a Thompson. I’m neither. I’m just an angry person who was disgusted to see how the mother decided to do this and bring her baby’s face all over the net. She’s no mother. No caring loving mother would do everything against the courts to further harm her ability to even see her kid and lose all rights. A mother would go the other way and beg and plead to the courts so she could make sure her kid was safe for certain!
September 14th, 2009 at 7:18 pm
Lookie what I found! Placer County DA’s office, prosecution and top investigators win several state-wide awards. Not bad for such a corrupt place to live. These are the same intelligent people who investigated and cleared the father. Certaily people of this caliber would never put their careers on the line for a man in his 20′s who has no connections and no money.
sacbee.com/static/weblogs/crime/archives/2009/06/two-placer-coun.html
rocklintoday.com/news/templates/community_news.asp?articleid=8098&zoneid=4
But for Connie’s BELIEVERS… you can keep thinking these fine outstanding people have not done their job. Your info comes from Connie’s word only with NO PROOF.
Apparently the State of California thinks otherwise. Huh
September 15th, 2009 at 3:33 am
1426 E-Tardo I thought you might have better reading comprehension than your 7 point, circle jerk, drivel of a reply … You’ve not provided one FACT of EVIDENCE to any of your assertions….
a.) Connie stated it.
AND…..
b.) It was lie? (showing direct first hand contradictions)
Without direct contradiction of a “Connie statement” you can’t TRUTHFULLY claim she lied! …. A simple fact!
I know that word “TRUTHFULLY†might have thrown you off as a requirement of proof but in the real world it’s a necessity.
Would you like to try again now that you may have a little better understanding of the rules of proving a lie?
As for me I KNOW AALIYAH IS TELLING THE TRUTH!
WHERE THERE’S SMOKE….THERE’S FIRE!
September 15th, 2009 at 3:49 am
THAT’S GREAT FOR MURDER AND NARCO CRIMES ….
What about CHILD MOLESTATION …. No mention of that?
WONDER WHY?
September 15th, 2009 at 6:25 am
For the life of me I can’t understand your post.
It just goes to show you Icky, Connie and her ‘team’ will continue to go in weird circles never answering the simplest of questions. That reply proves once again just why no one believes her.
It’s okay because the multitude of experts that have personally seen Aali already determined 1000% the child wasn’t abused by her father and all the people involved (over 50 of them) would never put their careers on the line for one middle class working man accused of child molestation. They got it right and thank goodness Aali is in the right hands safe and loved. I can’t imagine what would happen to her if her mother had her and how messed up that poor baby would be.
OH and it’s fine by me to accuse me of being a Thompson or Dustin. I’m neither but its okay to bully and accuse, I’m used to it. Connie doesn’t know how to act any other way than surround herself with posters like #1429 so does anyone wonder why the mother has no custody? Not a hard thing to figure out.
September 15th, 2009 at 6:28 am
One day I hope Connie and her team would answer a question straight forward and simple. If she did that from day one, it would have made her much more believable and credible. But posts like that? kinda sad to see who Connie surrounds herself with.
September 15th, 2009 at 6:55 am
Where’s the maturity it takes to be a good mother? How can she continue to behave online like this? Why has she waited 4 months and still no ex parte order? Why won’t Connie obey the courts so she can start to see her child more? I know I’d do anything it took to see my kid, even beg the judge to have mercy on me. I’d promise the world to the courts and deliver if it meant I could see my child. I’d do it all no matter what they’d ask of me because my child would come before even me. My agenda, my anger, my feelings would not matter. Only my child and her safety and well being would matter to me. Connie put herself between a rock and a hard place where she has no idea what’s actually going on with her child. Instead she behaves like this online, I don’t get it. What kind of mother is that?
September 15th, 2009 at 8:09 am
I would like simple clear answers.
Why don’t you have a doctor backing you’re accusations up?
Why hasn’t any doctor filed a complaint of possible abuse to the police? It’s the law, they could lose their license.
Why isn’t the social worker Mitzi Nay helping you? What was her response to the courts?
Why did your own kid tell the specialists “mommy made me say those things?” – I don’t buy the previous answer that ‘daddy’ coached her because you’ve also said your kid can’t be coached. Which is it?
Why has everyone, including the judge and specialists around your kid disagree with your ‘version’?
Why did you lose all custody? Why do you have severe restrictions placed on you? Did you threaten your kids life? Put her in danger? It takes some serious action and behavior of the mother to place restrictions like the judges have.
You had months to tell Dr Saturley about the 730 exam so why did you hide it from him?
Why aren’t you doing everything to see your kid?
Why have you gone through so many lawyers? Did they “fire” you or did you disagree with their professional advice?
Where is real evidence showing clearly your kid is abused? Concrete hard proof from doctors and child sexual specialists? If I feared my kid was abused, I would have taken her to a ton of specialists to get it all on the record and confirm if my worst fears were true or not.
Will I get simple answers or spin in circles replies?
September 15th, 2009 at 11:31 am
Facts:
There have been 11 cps reports and 2 mdic exams as well as a 730 evaluation. I believe those qualify as investigations, even if Connie does not think so.
Let’s not forget that the police did investigate these claims of abuse and the DA did not file charges. Once again Connie and family may not agree with the results.
Seems you fail at refuting the items listed in Ickey’s reply Believe IT.
September 15th, 2009 at 11:32 am
Another week and still there is no visit between mother and daughter. Tell us Believe It…why is that??
September 15th, 2009 at 12:31 pm
#1429: Prove ONE truth that she’s told. JUST ONE. I don’t have to prove anything; Ms. Bedwell is making the accusations, so the burden of proving them is on her. She’s failed to do so at every turn. NONE of her allegations have a shred of proof to back them up.
Besides, I’m satisfied that the child is safe with her father. You’re the one who is unsatisfied with it, so YOU do the work that’s necessary to change the outcome of this case. If I sat back and never posted again, the outcome of the case would still be satisfactory to me. There’s nothing that I NEED to do; the courts have already found the truth and acted accordingly as is meet under California law.
BTW how’s that Ex Parte Motion going? Can Aaliyah expect to see her mother any time soon? Or should Aaliyah start thinking that she doesn’t have a mother any more?
September 16th, 2009 at 2:55 pm
Ick it is very very simple. What would you do if you thought that your little baby girl was being sexual abused. Go straight to your childs md. Straight away. He HAS to report all findings. If the md office is closed you go straight to the ER. They HAVE to report findings. Simple. you don’t do this in the way that this mother has done. Simple. You do not have to have to go to the extremes that this mother has gone. I do know that some children slip thru the cracks, not this baby. To many people have been involed. Every single person who has seen this baby and her parents have come to the same point. This child has not been abused by her father. Simple. This mother wants her pound of fless against this father and his family. Perhaps she has mental issues. The list can go on and on for the reasons behind this scam. Money plays a part in it I think. I know when I heard of this scam at BNN I was so angry and sick that this man could be doing this. Then I researched the facts for myself and was sick to learn that this mother is using her child as a pawn. For what ever her reason she only knows. Possibley attention seeking who knows. I beleive that Bnn and some of the others that have supported this mother have come to learn that this is in fact simply a scam and are pulling away from this. What is there to say. What is there to blog about. I am at peace that this child is where she belongs. Her mother has done absoutly nothing to see this baby. What dose that tell us? Simply that she has no interest in seeing her. I understand the people who believe this mother wanting to help save this child. They were sick to think that a father could be guilty of doing this sick act. I do understand that. It seems to me that they would be glad that this is a scam. That means this child has not been abused by the worm. It is just sickening. Please look at the facts and hold this mother’s feet to the fire. She has tired to destroy her child’s family, she has commited a money scam, she has abused her child. She is the one who has done this. Simple.
September 16th, 2009 at 2:57 pm
Forgive me. I forgot to say that this is MOO. I arrived at these claims from what I have read on the net. I do not know either side of the famlies and I so not even live any where near this child. These are just my thoughts and this sad scam.
September 16th, 2009 at 6:55 pm
1437 – E-Tardo,
Aren’t you all the same people who accuse the Bedwell’s and or their supporters of calling you thompson supporters dustin or a thompson?
I’m not a Bedwell, nor do I know them. I’ve researched these issue all on my own and have invested my time, and my money to prove who is telling the truth in these matters and expose the liars! Right LLPapa aka. Eddy A. Craig of Brandon, FL.and Pattycakes aka. Rebecca Egan Nunez of New Jersey and dustin and the thompson’s who DO POST!
AALIYAH IS TELLING THE TRUTH! The “end of the matter†will prove this! You who support the thompsons need to study up on audio and video forensics’and learn how it will apply to the “Daddy’s Worm Video”. What it is and what it will prove. This will answer many of your up coming questions of “SOLID EVIDENCEâ€. Obviously, there’s nothing that will prove dustins guilt to you thompsons….but it’s a PROVEN FACT …. those who have been molested….MOLEST!
E-Tardo, funny how you slink away from any evidence of your diatribes of Connie lying by attempting to spin the onus of evidence on Connie. The onus is on dustin despite his many denials. It’s HIS daughter who claims HE’S MOLESTING HER. The accusation did not originate from Connie. IT CAME FROM AALIYAH at the tender age of 2-1/2 years old! Furthermore, filed court documents state that Aaliyah tells grandma dina what dustin and dave are doing to her? Someone in the Thompson family needs to BREAK THE SILENCE about your history of abuse!
IT’S BEEN PROVEN beyond any reasonable doubt that Aaliyah has told the truth in the “Daddy’s Worm Video” and after the trial has concluded THIS EVIDENCE will be posted everywhere I can get it posted! I invite you all to come to court that trial and hear the evidence given against dustin and the Placer County Professionals dustin’s hiding behind.
There is evidence that can’t be argued or posted on the net until it’s been revealed in court. I know reasonable people understand this.
I have a few predictions for you thompson’s.
1.) A trial date regarding among other things, the unlawful removal custody from Connie will be set in next Mondays hearing. (You know …. one of the trials that will never happen …. huh dustin!)
2.) Visitation between Aaliyah and her mother will be reestablished after this next Monday’s hearing by mid week or shortly thereafter. Thompson’s should video this reunion between mother and child to see if it compares to the child’s reaction of having to go with her daddy as seen in the 7+ months of visitation exchanges. (especially since you claim Connie’s the one abusing her.) Then Adam can post it on Adams website “thetruthaboutconnie” (you know the one that just recently obtained it’s 19th. member in a month and a half … lol.) I for one, would love to see that. Additionally, Aaliyah will always know who her mother is contrary to the thompson’s wishes. How crass of those who wish otherwise. It shows the true intentions of your sick hearts!
3.) Amara WILL NOT PROCEED with her alleged claims of “Connie’s Contempt of Court” because it’s baseless. If my reading is correct, dave thompson did a fine job of convincingly proving just how baseless it is!
Amara has put thompson’s in a loose, loose position if she proceeds, not to mention ….well …. you thompsons will get to see for yourselves! (don’t want you to claim it’s a threat)
Amara will try to mediate some kind of compromise in order to back out of her current untenable position. “Amara will again try to barter with Connie’s attorney to have http://www.saveaaliyah.com taken down is my guess. It’s my understanding the site is scheduled to be revamped shortly anyway. I say this now so thompson’s can’t claim they had it taken down when it’s temporarily down. Saveaaliyah.com has been an extremely affective tool and will be more so after the updating from what I hear.
Thompson’s claimed justification of dustins innocence due to “sole custody” and claims of “through investigation” will “blow away†vaporizing as these future court dates and trials proceed.
Again, I’m not a Bedwell, nor do I know them. I’m not Karen etc., etc.….I’m just a person and part of a independent group that’s seeking the truth and exposing the liars for AALIYAH’S sake, working towards the prosecution of the guilty.
WHERE THERE’S SMOKE……..THERE’S FIRE!
September 16th, 2009 at 7:33 pm
POST #1438 & 1439 Icky, I will tell you why……….
Thompsons …. no one is listening to you … that’s why you people write to yourselves for support …. high jack other peoples user names …. open MySpace accounts asking for donations for Aaliyah under KarenCCCC name with the proceeds going to the thompson’s …. etc., etc..
THE THOMPSON’S ARE TOTAL LOSERS!!! Maybe you can add this person as a member to your website hey adam?
CONNIE’S VISITATION WILL BE RESTORED BY MID NEXT WEEK!
WHERE THERE’S SMOKE …. THERE’S FIRE!
September 16th, 2009 at 11:09 pm
A misconception. A judge did not ‘order’ a 730 family evaluation. The father demanded one. He had no control over who would conduct the exam nor the outcome of it.
He was tired of dealing with endless accusations from the mother and needed a team of experts to decide once and for all where the little girl should be.
It’s why he had to pay for the entire family evaluation but felt Connie should have contributed because Connie was the continuous problem always making up new lies about him every time he turned around! Can you blame him? He wanted to protect his daughter and have it backed up by a team of experts.
Now just think about that for a second. A single man in his 20′s with a huge lawyers bill to pay, demands for a very expensive evaluation where experts he knows nothing about will decide his child’s future. HE RISKS KNOWING his little girl will be privately evaluated extensively without his presence.
Think about that. IF he ever abused her, is this how an abuser acts? I can’t see it for one second. No person who really abused their kid would ever demand an extensive evaluation.
The evaluation proceeds for months and he assumes all costs. Once the evaluation is completed, several judges review it repeatedly. Connie at that time has the opportunity to exam and question them. She DOES NOTHING AT ALL. She instead fires another lawyer because of his advice to her. She disagrees and another lawyer hits the dust with an unpaid bill from Connie.
Time comes, time goes. Connie misses her opportunity to examine the 730 experts. The multiple judges reviewing the 730 examination agrees with the experts and find the father should retain all custody of his daughter (to his relief no doubt). Once an order is in place where a judge accepts the recommendations, it’s a massive mountain to battle to have it overturned.
Based on Connie not bothering even with a ex-parte order to see her daughter for 2 hours a week, one has to wonder just how she thinks she can accomplish facing the mountain.
There was a time and a place to refute the 730 evaluation and that time has come and gone. I believe Connie’s previous lawyer tried to explain that to her but alas, she never listens to intelligent professional advice because its all about HER AGENDA and no one elses’.
Take your pick? Why would a dad demand such an evaluation when it was not necessary? If he actually abused his baby, what an incredible risk it was for him to take.
Still no ex-parte for visitation. I have to wonder if Connie will bother showing up on September 21st at all. After all of this, what would be the point? To wear her T-shirt again so she can give the finger to the judge? Maybe Cara can scream at Connie’s lawyer again. Maybe they show up for the pure entertainment because NOTHING THE MOTHER HAS DONE HAS EVER BEEN FOR HER CHILD.
September 16th, 2009 at 11:28 pm
You can wonder who I am all you want and why I posted DO NOT CARE. I know the father has been battling a nightmare since his daughter was born.
They accuse him of not being on the birth certificate. HUHHHH California LAW does not allow unmarried fathers to be put on the birth certificate until other filings are done, which he completed.
They accuse him of abuse so he stands up to the accusations and provides his daughter at every opportunity to talk to a multitude of experts WITHOUT HIS PRESENCE because he knows he did nothing wrong.
They accuse him of violence and beatings YET there is NO criminal convictions at all. The father has a clear record. Connie’s father however DOES HAVE EXTENSIVE criminal convictions. (The spin Connie puts on here about his ‘reasons’ for her daddy’s convictions is laughable).
They accuse and accuse and at every step the father has stood up against the accusations, spoke to every investigator, every counselor, every judge, everyone ever demanding answers. He’s faced them all without refusal.
Connie on the other hand has refused to answer questions and talk to experts many times or obey court orders again and again and again. Instead she brings her lies to the internet, brings her ‘documents’ of lies to the net too, in hopes someone will help her further her agenda.
Food for thought. No specialist has found any abuse. The baby has been evaluated in private without any parent in the room multiple times. CPS, Police, DA’s office ALL INVESTIGATED separately and thoroughly (although Connie LUVS to say it was not thorough) and all professionals involved in the childs life has found the father never abused his baby.
Food for thought
September 17th, 2009 at 7:56 am
“Pattycakes aka. Rebecca Egan Nunez”
Yeah thats not even her real name and she doesn’t like in New Jersey.. thats a ridiculous lie.
Another lie by the Bedwell huggers!
September 17th, 2009 at 11:19 am
Simply put if your statement was correct -
“IT’S BEEN PROVEN beyond any reasonable doubt that Aaliyah has told the truth in the “Daddy’s Worm Video ”
- Then authorities would have charged the father and he would be facing a criminal trial. He has not and will not because the video was investigated, more importantly the child was examined and they cleared the father.
Where is your ‘beyond a reasonable doubt’ when the child herself told everyone “mommy made me say those things”. All your video proves is Aaliyah is a very smart little girl and was coached well by her mother.
Keep your ‘predictions’ because it’s all you’ll have. Connie cannot explain away to the judge why she never bothered since July 1st to even file an ex-parte to see her kid.
My prediction (and I know I’m right) she definitely will not see her kid by mid-week next week. Why don’t you go crawl into your hole #1440 because CONNIE – YOU LOST LONG AGO. Nothing you or your clan says on here changes anything. Everything is done in the courts, not here, and the courts keep siding with the father.
Very clear why that keeps happening when you see ridiculous posts like #1440.
September 17th, 2009 at 11:23 am
Your quote “I invite you all to come to court that trial and hear the evidence given against dustin and the Placer County Professionals dustin’s hiding behind. ”
What date and time is your ficticious court being held? Because there’s nothing on the courts books, Connie’s filed for nothing and there are no pending charges or investigations against the father.
I would however love to attend your ficticious trial you keep blabbing about. Trying to make the public think somethings going down when it’s not? Its sad when you post lies like that.
If you have a date and location, you would post it. If there were charges, you’d post it. If there were hearing FOR Connie, you’d post it. There is NOTHING. All you have is your endless rantings on BTLS. Sad :(
September 17th, 2009 at 11:28 am
Why is it necessary to say you’re not Karen? mmmmm
If your not a Bedwell and do not know them, it’s sad you keep posting here like you do. You know nothing behind the scenes and what you will find a year from today is the same thing you have right now.
Aaliyah will remain with your dad and you will just have to deal with it and move on to another innocent family you can destroy.
September 17th, 2009 at 11:36 am
I’d like a link Karen, to your ‘ficticious’ site where the Thompsons are using your myspace to raise money. Nothing about that comment makes any sense. They use YOUR name to make money for themselves? HUH? Sure you’re not Karen, whatever #1440
September 17th, 2009 at 1:18 pm
The strange poster makes sense now. He/She poster 1440/1441 doesn’t know the Bedwells or Connie. The claims “believe it” has made over the months that keep turning out untrue now makes perfect sense. They do not know what they’re talking about.
Thanks for clearning that up “Believe it” poster. Now I know I don’t have to listen to a ‘blogger’ like you online who knows NOTHING.
September 17th, 2009 at 2:45 pm
Beleive It I would just like to say to you that it dose not matter to me who you are. I do believe that no matter what side of this coin you are on we all want what is best for this child. I know that I do and who in their right mind would blog, pray and think about this. That would make no sense to me. So at least we do all care about this child. It is so terrible to know true facts that some children are abused. However, being molested dose not always make someone molest. I am proof of that. I am a mother of 6. My children are all grown and not abused. Although there were times that I wanted to strangle one or more of them from time to time.
It breaks my heart that this child is being put out on the net like this. We must all rember that what is put on the net stays on the net. No one should call anyone by their real life name. I can be dangerous. I believe that people who a as woried about this child that are do not want anyone to come to harm. So please think about that.
Some of you talk about a trail. I think it will be a hearing not a trail. I could be wrong.
My questions are, Why did this mother loose this baby? That has not been answered. I have read it was due to the mother having her rights taken away by the judge. I don’t know if that is true or not. The famlies and the judge know. But I don’t understand that.
Why did this story take so long to reach all of us? If this happened so long ago why this time frame? Just seems to me that if this is true then this would long be over. Surely if this man is abusing this baby he would never even think about it with all of the fingers pointing at him. Dose that make sense.
When did this mother first take this child to her md? If you think that someone is hurting your child, you go straight away to the md. They have to follow thru with protocol. I do not believe that all of these profesionals would put their carrers on the line for this father and his family. A few perhaps but not this many. Just dose not add up.
Why asking for money for an attorney and why dose she need so many. Now that this case has moved to this point why is all of the news stalled and talk of money not coming in any longer? I know that it is none of my business but I would love to know how much money this family have recieved.
You know in the begining several sites were on fire with this story. Updates from the child’s family. The mothers boyfriend, her daddy and her sister to name a few. Now nothing.
Why has this mother not seen her baby. If the judge told her what to do to see her baby then what is the hold up. Why are the family members no longer online telling what is going on. It seems that now more and more people are figuring out that this is a scam and all talk has stopped. That is one of the many reason that I believe that this is a scam.
In closing I just would like to say that I do think that most of us that are following this case with held breath pray that this is a hoax. I know that I do. I am a retired Social Worker and know what abuse dose to children. I would never want any child to hurt because I wanted to prove to strangers that I was right. I would want to be proven wrong. I do not understand when I read from a person who has be involed in this case that she can not wait until she proves that she is right. She has stated that she is a mother and I just do not get that. I have never known of anyone hoping that a child was being abused by anyone in any way. Let us all pray that this is a scam for money or atention or what ever. Not that this child is being abused by her father.
September 17th, 2009 at 3:38 pm
There is no ‘rabbit’ Connie can pull out of her hat for any reason why she did not get her lawyer to do a quick easy ex-parte order to restore visitation. I wonder what her reason(s) will be to Judge Smith come Monday morning.
Could it be quite possibly that Dustins’ lawyer and Aali’s lawyer has been attempting to contact Britt all along and he’s the one that never bothered to respond? Connie cannot file an ex-parte order when the father & Aali’s lawyer have shown full willingness, compliance and has expressed several times in writings and phone messages agreeing to restoring visitation. If the ‘other side’ is complying and the MOTHER isn’t doing anything, she cannot bring an ex-parte order to the courts.
People love to come on here pretending to act as if they know whats going on with Connie, its laughable to read. Truth is she HAS NOT BOTHERED AT ALL for the past 4 months to respond BACK to Aali’s lawyer with a suitable location for visitation.
These lawyers will show in their files to the courts just how many times they’ve attempted to contact Britt and show full compliance to restoring visitation. It IS THE MOTHER who has chosen not to bother responding for 4 months. Does she think the judge is stupid and will fall for some story like ‘the father won’t let me’… when there’s a 4 month track record showing the opposite? What will be your excuse this time Connie, Huh? Maybe, come Monday morning all remaining rights the mother HAD to her child will be eliminated and the BS will finally end once and for all. Can’t wait.
September 17th, 2009 at 8:57 pm
No amount of blogging or bullying will change the outcome of the situation. Connie will always be the way she is and Dustin will retain all custody of his little daughter. Authorities cleared the guy long ago and authorities won’t change their minds with ‘old’ info. End of story.
September 17th, 2009 at 8:57 pm
#1440: You don’t seem to get it. The accuser has to prove that their accusations are true. The accused person doesn’t have to prove anything. The accuser must provide the evidence, and the accused person refutes the evidence.
In this case, Ms. Bedwell makes the accusation, but Ms. Bedwell can’t prove it. There’s no evidence for Mr. Thompson to refute. He doesn’t have to refute anything until there’s evidence brought against him. He doesn’t have to explain anything to anyone, except the court. There’s nothing to defend, because there’s no evidence against him. Since there’s no evidence against him, there are no charges to be filed.
The video is an invalid piece of evidence. It’s been gone over by many professionals and analyzed thoroughly. The courts have rejected it as evidence of abuse. Further analysis of the video is a waste of time and money, frankly.
Unless there is new evidence, there won’t be a trial. Unless Ms. Bedwell gets her act together, her parental rights will be terminated because she’s not visiting her child.
Unless Ms. Bedwell finds another way of doing things, Mr. Thompson will end up with complete and total custody of Aaliyah. Ms. Bedwell and her supporters don’t seem to understand this. If she doesn’t start visiting her child and complying with court orders, she will lose all custody of her child and Mr. Thompson will have Aaliyah permanently.
September 18th, 2009 at 8:04 am
Losing all rights is exactly what will happen. Connie is notorious for digging a deeper hole for herself. She grew up with chaos and it’s what she’s comfortable with. She’s very self-destructive. She’s never put her child first, it’s always about her agenda, her needs and her demands. If she ever put Aaliyah first, then Connie would have done everything the courts asked of her and more!
September 18th, 2009 at 10:55 am
Icky, I wouldn’t waste my breath with “Believe It” because he/SHE said for herself she doesn’t even know the Bedwells. She must just have mental issues babbling on about people she knows nothing about or has never met. “Believe It”, get a new victim to focus on because you never make any sense here.
September 19th, 2009 at 12:45 am
Believe it- I am sure you are an idiot after your comment about KarenCCC’s myspace page being used to raise money- it is not, has not been used to raise money for the thompsons or anyone else, and is in fact Karen’s page. You are now maligning one of Connie’s most loyal supporters. LOL
But then you already admit to knowing nothing, and all you have is your own opinion. While you are entitled to that, it doesn’t stop me from laughing my ass off at your idiocy!
You fail as always at making any point!
September 19th, 2009 at 12:54 am
Believe it- you state you want to post this video in even more places??? WTF? Do you not understand that this child will be victimized by further posting of this video? That all of these things will turn up in this child’s future internet searches? You think this is a good thing??? You are only out to destroy this child’s family, and her future. You have no sense of what this video being posted will do to this child in her future. This is not an internet game- this is a child’s life you are messing with! Get a life of your own to mess up!
September 19th, 2009 at 12:57 am
another week and still no visits. Yep, this mother really jumps through the hoops to see her daughter. It has been months, and still no mom/baby visitation. No more excuses- not that there are any being offered- get off your ass and see your daughter!!
September 19th, 2009 at 12:53 pm
Just thinking out loud. Did anyone research Connie’s attorney? It appears he has a complaint against him from a client. Having only what the client posted in late August of this year, here’s a copy of this complaint.
Ronald J. Britt has failed to complete the trust that
he has been paid to set up. He and his worthless
sons have failed to transfer my home into the trust.
They have failed to return my calls and have not
responded to my many requests by mail. They are
worthless, no worse than worthless. Three of them,
and not one of them could go downtown and finish
what I paid them to do some 10 months ago. If I
had my way they would be disbarred and forced to
perform community service for the rest of their
lives. I hope one day that I have a chance to
return the favor to all of them.
It appears this guy has a history? of not returning calls and emails. From what has been posted he is not returning Connies calls, not returning Amara’s calls, and not returning baby A’s atty’s calls. Is he still officially on the record as representing Connie?
On that note, how do we know Connie did NOT have a suitable place for visitation and her attorney dropped the ball? Amara and A’s atty would not deal directly with Connie if she had representation, and was not handling her case pro se.
I guess, I am just thinking here, because this does not mean Connie did not make attempts through her attorney. Especially seeing a complaint about this attorney from someone not at all related to or having knowledge of this case. (as far as I know)
September 19th, 2009 at 1:09 pm
More thinking outloud. If Connie did have access to a suitable visitation site/center and her atty dropped the ball on following through, then Connie would have this proof for court correct? She would have something in writing to prove X visitation center agreed to provide their services.
Please don’t slam me, for this next thought. Just thinking outloud. (I do not wish ill on Connie in anyway. This entire situation is very sad, all around for all involved, imo.) If the father has been cleared, and baby A IS in fact describing sexual behavior which is clearly NOT age appropriate for a 2.5-3.5 yr old, then why hasn’t Connie been charged with ‘sexual abuse’? Clearly, teaching such a young child how to perform masturbation with her hands, as described on the first page of the save A site would constitute sexual abuse, no? If A’ has demonstrated this behavior as Connie indicated she had to learn it from somewhere, right? If so, did she demonstrate this behavior in front of any of the professionals who observed the child? or was that more of Connies tall tales? Surely Connie would not have been that stupid to have actually taught her daughter how to use her hands to masturbate a man.
That leaves the question, or comment this child is clearly being abused, but by which parent? and if Connie is ‘guilty’ of teaching her child inappropriate sexual behavior for her childs age, why has she not been arrested?
Before anyone slams away, I think it is a reasonable question, take Connie and DT out of the equation, and put two other parents X&Y in their spot.
It sure does leave one to wonder, with false (ok, pretend they are false, if you believe DT is abusing his child) why are those who make such allegations not prosecuted criminaly?
September 19th, 2009 at 9:21 pm
Judge Smith isn’t the Judge on Monday.
September 19th, 2009 at 10:21 pm
I take a break from posting and I come back and looky what we have here…
The Thompson’s splattering crap all over BTLS like their having a chronic diarrhea attack!
My goodness.
“Believe it” You sure got the Thompson’s all flustered. It’s pretty easy to do; State the Truth and they will jump all over you ALMOST like their trying to “RISK” not going to jail. HUH Dustin?
Pretty “RISKY” leaving your daughter all alone in a room with a DR where she could tell on you Dustin huh?
Tell us Dustin how is it when you are innocent that you have ANY TYPE OF “RISK”?
Oh that’s right when you are a sociopathic pedophile “RISKS” are fun, aren’t they Dustin?
How’s your child molesting days going living with your mommy and daddy?
What a perfect way to ensure that all of your lies stay right in the comfort of your parents home with nobody to expose you.
We all know your mommy and daddy won’t tell on you. They’re part of enabling the crime.
Like that one poster said, “the more you mess with a turd the more you smell like one,” honestly I feel like I’m splashing around in a bath of crap arguing with you Thompson’s online.
The only reason I’m back is to keep you Thompson’s all worked up and expelling your B.S. for the detectives.
So Dustin could you explain to us again what that scary mask is that you wear at night while you molest your daughter?
Or wait why don’t you explain to us why your name is Dustin AKA The Parrot?
What’s your one eyed worm’s name now?
Enlighten us Child Molester…
September 19th, 2009 at 10:50 pm
“Believe it” so who are you Karen or Connie? LMAO It’s okay I know you are neither. I just had to laugh about it.
The funny thing is people defending the Bedwell’s don’t care if you call them by honest people’s names such as Karen or Connie or simply being called a Bedwell period.
You call a Lying Thompson or a Liar defending the Thompson’s by the name of a Thompson and they will bite your head off!! ha ha It’s no wonder though, who wants to be called by that name with that reputation?
Jokes aside,
Dustin when you hijacked our lingo, you got the p***y part right and you got the princess part right but we all know your child molesting butt is still right here on btls typing up alibis. Next time you want to hijack our lingo and attempt to try to make us look like liars or look crazy at least do a better job. We will youtube your butt going to prison when it happens princess. Count on it.
Keep on telling us Dustin how “RISKY” it was doing the 730 evaluation?
You know, the one you didn’t request.
Just FYI Thompson’s aren’t using *shaking head* anymore now it’s just *sad*
Come on Thompson’s you wanted to play a game, let’s play a game.
You think your man enough to beat women and children, keep showing us how manly you are behind your key board.
Go ahead Thompson’s tell the detectives all you would like to keep telling them.
September 20th, 2009 at 11:22 am
It’s such a relief to have Connie and her scam artists stop posting on here. Just goes to show you if it was real, they wouldn’t ‘stop’ fighting for ‘fictional’ justice like they screamed back in May! I’ll keep posting here because it keeps the ‘search’ on Google on the first page if people are ever researching whether Connie Bedwell is a scam artist or not. Until Saveaaliyah site is gone, I’m not stopping. Connie Bedwell, Cara Bedwell and Tim Bedwell (father who has no money and is a convicted felon) all created this hoax to earn money. Scam Scam Scam Can’t wait to hear an update about Mondays hearing. Connie should be getting whats coming to her but good.
September 20th, 2009 at 3:53 pm
HEY POLY! You are very confused. Tomorrow’s hearing is to render sanctions and decisions against Connie based on her multitude actions against JUDGES ORDERS!
Custody POLY… has already been established. The courts accepted the findings of the 730 family evaluation and ADOPTED ALL RECOMMENDATIONS in favor of the father. Connie already had her opportunity to cross-examine the specialist on the findings for 730 evaluation and her time has come and gone. It’s not like she can wait and wait for months on end when it’s good for her to recall the specialist.
The courts allowed her the ability to do that and she did not follow through. The father has all custody of the child and Connie cannot make any decisions for the baby at all.
Is that clear enough for you?
September 20th, 2009 at 8:18 pm
If anyone can update us, there’s a lot of people who keep checking here to see if Connie gets her hiney tossed in jail for creating her hoax!!! Let us know how Monday goes thanks
September 21st, 2009 at 7:17 am
Its too easy to pick out BELIEVE IT poster. You know, the person who knows nothing about the case and doesn’t even know the Bedwells?! Somehow 1463 is trying hard to post about the Thompsons and the 730 Exam as if they were ‘in the know’. 1463 you’re post is wrong! OH and 1463 BELIEVE IT is also Troy blogger. Talk about bringing credibility to the story. Uh sure. Notice how both posts also use ‘RISKY’. Troy talks about how he doesn’t buy the 730 version that Dustin requested it. Funny you talk to yourself on here. Somehow you don’t get no one is listening to Connie, there’s NO MONEY AT ALL COMING IN.
Dustin did request it Troy!Its why Amara is seeking Connie to pay for 1/2 of the evaluation. If it was a JUDGE requesting the 730 exam, the JUDGE would make BOTH PARTIES pay for it. Make sense to you now?
Nice try there Troy,Believe it! BTW take a spelling lesson, you must be around 12 years old. I’m not sure you realize how many times you spelled “believe” wrong. BELEIVE IT KNOWS ANYONE IN THIS CASE. A POSTER NOT TO LISTEN TO.
Enjoy your day Connie, it just might be a doozie!
September 21st, 2009 at 7:21 am
oops supposed to say 1462 poster
Gotta love when credibility comes from an online blogger who’s never met anyone in the case. Whatever there BELIEVE it Troy. Not sure just how you enjoy destroying innocent people but its not a wonder why so many of your posts come at 2 or 3 am. You must not sleep well. Guilt?
September 21st, 2009 at 7:58 am
I don’t see any ‘flustering’ Thompsons here. I see people proving lie after lie after lie against Karen, Connie and her whole scam artist team. Where do you see flustering? lol
September 21st, 2009 at 9:09 am
Looking at Troys funny website Karen puts “RISK” there in quotes. “RISKY” on here. Thought you were never coming back here Karen? Can’t stay away lol. Sweetie, Connie never ordered the 730 exam. You know, the one YOU KNEW NOTHING ABOUT? You even said right here on BTLS there was never one ordered. I thought you talked to her family, you’d think they wouldn’t HIDE THINGS from you. They use you as your patsy. Since your back, can you explain to the followers why you lied about Ron Britt’s son being physically assaulted by Adam? Logan Britt said NOTHING LIKE THAT HAPPENED AT ALL, IN FACT THEY HAD A VERY NICE EVENING TOGETHER VISITING WITH Danielle.
I KNEW WHY you never used Logan’s name. SO WE COULDN’T CHECK THE FACTS. But we did and we found you lied. You lied about that and you keep lying about everything else about the story. The 730 exam was certainly not $1000 honey. It was in excess of $15,000. WHY DO YOU THINK AMARA was demanding the judge order CONNIE to pay that? HUH? BECAUSE one was done on the father’s request and found in favor of the father. It had to be done because Connie continued to ‘up the ante’ and make newer bigger allegations and Dustin needed experts to get to the truth.
Your interpretation of my post regarding RISK is for YOU CONNIE SUPPORTERS! WHY WOULD A FATHER WHO YOU SAY IS ABUSING A CHILD RISK doing a 730 evaluation? If the abuse was true, IT WOULD IN FACT BE A MAJOR RISK RIGHT?
It wasn’t any risk at all because Dustin KNEW THE TRUTH WOULD CONTINUE TO COME OUT.
SO KEEP LYING KAREN, IT’S ALL YOU KNOW HOW TO DO. I have more ‘proven lies’ you’ve posted around on the net Karen. But I’ll sit back and wait for Simon to post a new article first, then show the readers more TRUTH.
Funny Karen, you never thought we could FIND LOGAN’s name to ‘verify’ your #1300 post here, but we did. AND VERIFY WE DID :) IT WAS A COMPLETE LIE. LIE LIE LIE Just who can believe ANYONE in the Bedwell camp. Enjoy your day hon. Can’t wait to show readers on BTLS MORE KAREN LIES in the future(OH and with PROOF too).
September 21st, 2009 at 9:20 am
Oh Karen, you just can’t let the scam go, can you? I’ve exposed you as a liar, rather LOGAN BRITT himself exposed you as one. There won’t be any SANCTIONS against Dustin’s lawyer today MY DEAR because it’s CONNIE who has not followed through. Amara has attempted many times to contact Britt with ZERO response. Keep posting lies elsewhere Karen, calling us writers whatever names you want, you do seem to be mistaken who I am though…. BTW hon no one is angered here. We’re FIGHTING FOR BABY AALIYAH to stop the exploitation of the poor child all over the net. Stopping Connie Bedwell & Karen Nargi Daley from scamming innocent people out of their money is also important too.
Post more lies Karen dear. Keep doing it. I know a few people are going to stick on the story until the website is down. People need to know the entire story about Aaliyah is a fraud, a hoax, a scam scam scam!
We’ll see exactly what’s going to go down today, won’t we :)
September 21st, 2009 at 10:55 am
I wonder if Aaliyah will get a glimpse of her mother at the courthouse today. Sadly, I doubt it.
I wonder if Ms. Bedwell will make an ugly scene when she realizes that she’s lost this game for good. Signs point to YES.
September 21st, 2009 at 10:55 am
Karen must be Troy then. LMAO shes had so many alias’ i can’t keep up. no wonder troy put her on a pedastle. lmao kinda pathetic she has to make up bloggers and people toappear Connie has more supporters
September 21st, 2009 at 11:07 am
Belive it. In regards to your post # 1440. You said that you have spent you own time and money proving who is telling the truth and to expose the liars. You have PROVEVN FACTS that this baby is telling the truth and this dad is guilty. PROVEN FACTS. Where are these PROVEN FACTS. What are they. If you have them lets hear them. This should be good. That what the baby has said is a PROVEN FACT. PROVEN FACT
If you have so many PROVEN FACTS then answer some quetions that many of us would love to have answeres to. Glad that you are not Karen. When asked to hear her facts you better understand them the first time or she will have you banned from all of the sites that are blogging about this sad child. Better clear out the cob webs. This will be big.
Why did the mother loose the baby in the first place.
Why has this mother not done what she needs to do to see this baby?
These are only a couple of questions that many of us would love to have PROBEN FACTS about. Please put a link up to the PROVEN FACTS sites. We need to see the PROVEN FACTS, no hear say.
Another simple question. You talk of the save baby site being taken down and that are going to revamping it. I read on another site that they had already done that. That it looks so much better etc. etc. So why do they have a need to revamp it again. It has been a very short time to have to do it again. That statement tells me that this mothers family is worried about the courts having this expolited child being removed from prying eyes on the web.
Finally the thing about your post that is heart breaking to me is when you talk about posting this sad case all over the net.. Why is this. This child might as well have a tatoo on her head bringing attention to her sad childhood. If this was your child would you smear her name and pic all over the net for her friends and herself to read. What a gift you are giving her. I would rethink that if I were you. That statement alone makes you appear petty and shows that you have zero respect for this child.
Moving on, Are you saying that all people who molest will molest others. You state that as a PROVEN FACT. You need to research this. All victims who are molested do not molest.
I am sorry that someone has lead you to belived this as a PROVEN FACT you may of judged someone who has been molested bacause you know as a PROVEN FACT that they will molest you or someone you love. This is scary and sad for you.
You have invited all of us to court to hear and see these PROVEN FACTS. I would think that with this child being a minor that the hearings would be closed. You know because she is a minor. Some one needs to protect this child as much as possible due to the fact her family has her all over the net. Precious baby for all of the world to read and see about her. I am so sorry that she will have to live with this. If I was this father I would sue the mother a $ amount to at the very least to pay for her medicals bills that she will have to pay due to psych help.
Sorry for the long post. I had just started reading and all I saw was PROVEN FACT and that really caught my eye. There have not been any PROVEN FACTS in this case that I know about except that the courts have ruled that this child is safe with her father. IMHO it is showing that this mother and her family and others are making money off of this baby. If anyone has sent this family any money I hope that they will sue her and her family for their money back. This is against the law. You know the law. The law where rights are based on REAL PROVEN FACTS.
50 or so legal reps have PROVEN FACTS that child is where she needs to be. If this mothers attorney was not calling her back about fileing the motion to see this baby all she had to do to contact the Judges clerk and they will tell her how to move foreward to see her baby. With no movement from the mothers family and even Karen and her group it lead me to believe that this is nothing but a hudge money scam. Just for money. This mother will most likely loose this child because of money. What a gift this baby has been given. Her little life will be marked by this forever. I read where someone said to Karen that this child will give her a big hug when this is all over. I do have my doubts on that. When you yell and scream listen to me, belive my lies and then silence. The silence speaks loud and clear to me.
All of this is imho.
Sorry for the ramble.
September 21st, 2009 at 11:30 am
LMAO BELIEVE IT where’d you go? Burden is on the accuser to prove facts. Troy mentions on his site wanting documents from posters here. The only guy asking for documents is BELIEVE IT. LMAO a guy who has never spoken to the bedwells but tried to hire a world renowed specialist for Connie? LMAO see #1028. Where’s your ficticious trial you keep posting on the internet in forums? Waiting for links you never provide. Connie will get whats coming, there is a criminal investigation against her with the FBI internet fraud unit whether you BELIEVE IT or not. Your weird rants won’t change a thing.
September 21st, 2009 at 12:53 pm
So today is just about how connie refuses to follow court orders? Or is it about the continuance of the current RESTRAINING ORDER? I hope she has to explain why her attorney hasn’t bothered to follow the simple instructions from the judge about filing an ex parte order to restore visitation.
Family law cases are not open to the public, thank goodness! So we will have to wait for an update from the Bedwells. Court starts in a few minutes!
September 21st, 2009 at 1:31 pm
Seems Karen’s in a snitty about being proven a liar. Logan Britt indeed emailed me by facebook saying he had a very nice time with Danielle and Adam. It was the first time he met Adam in fact. The evening was pleasant. Nothing about Karen’s post was true and Logan Britt stated that himself. I could post his comment here but Karen would just say I made it up, so what’s the point.
The point is Karen at BNN just ‘blasted’ people she thinks is posting here about her. She’s wrong about the author but whatever, makes no difference to me.
The fact remains: KAREN NARGI DALEY has lied from day one about this story! It’s a hoax created by a delusional woman with mental problems who was furious Dustin was dating another woman. It’s called REVENGE.
Molestation accusations happen in the courts all the time and it’s happened here too. The authorities back my statements up, the child specialists do too! EVERYONE surrounding Aali KNOWS SHE IS SAFE in her fathers’ arms.
Karen have your rants, it sure upsets you to be proven a liar. I encourage people to contact Logan Britt yourself to get the answer out of the horses mouth and you will find out what a liar Karen really is. If she lied about the night out with Danielle & Adam, she’ll lie about everything else.
Karen please go crawl into your hole and go destroy another family. It’s clear your post on Troy’s site with the word “RISK” in quotes does actually match the post here too. YOU DO post here, and its clear to see when you do. Why deny it? You come here to read, that’s obvious. Geesh you like to rant a lot. Its funny to see how much my words bother you. Whatever Karen, feel free to rant away. The truth is with the father.
He’s been cleared of all accusations.
He has all custody.
He’s the one who obeys the courts.
He’s the one who the specialist sided with and the courts agreed.
It seems to be such a game to you Karen, but its not. You’re helping to destroy a little girls life & reputation by ‘labelling’ her a victim of child molestation. You should be extremely ashamed of yourself for how you behave and conduct yourself online.
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In case she deletes it, for anyone interested, here’s Karen’s RANT:
Hey Douche Bags – Banned BNNers, FlappyCakes, Cubby and all else who think they know so much…..You are pathetic, I have not lied about one damn thing. Adam, quit trying to down play what you and your girlfriend did, Mr. Britt hasn’t said to anyone that it did not happen. When he comes on here or BTLS or anywhere else for that matter that YOU and Danielle did not attack him, then you can say I am a liar. Second, I haven’t posted on BTLS since the day I exposed what was told to me in an email about Adam. So go ahead and keep lying and twisting and whatever else you do all day long. You’ll soon learn that what you say does not make it true. There are intellegent people out here in the world, and they can see through your crap. Does it bother you THAT much that I don’t post anymore. You people make me laugh so incredibly hard!!!!!! Why don’t you do me a favor and call BTLS, like you asked us to do, and get the IP addresses of the posts you BELIEVE to be mine. THEN you can tell everyone on BTLS that it was not me. Dumb shits! You say you have proven I lied….when and where??? Adam, you are just as bad as your brother. IF you ever have children, I hope CPS will be on your ass every waking hour to make sure you don’t end up doing what Dustin is! Sick family you all are. Lie after Lie after lie!!!!!!! Psycho! Psycho! Psycho!!!!!
Troy…if you are reading this, I take great pleasure in being called you!
You people are sick and you need help! Love ya, much kisses and hugs….hope you all are doing great!
Praying for Aaliyah and Connie and hope that visitations get RESOLVED today!!!!!!
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Pretty unstable Karen, better go get some psychological help, you really need it.
September 21st, 2009 at 1:37 pm
I think that Karen is getting scared. This just screams SCAM to me. At first BNN supported Karen. Then she got crazy when so many different people started to asking questions. Then the fight was on. Good people at BNN were banned. (Everybody has their on take on what happened on BNN but a little research and looking at their #s tell me what I need to know). I followed this from site to site. Guess who had problems at all of the sites I read? You got it Karen. From Karen to the mothers family members to her boyfriend were all on here daily talking about this and telling all to hear where the money button is at.
This group of people never gave one thought (that I can tell) about this childs name and face all over the net.
But they all know where that money button is.
Going site to site Karen keeps showing what she is all about. Now that we are all seeing this for what it really is Karen is screaming I am done being mean to you now lay off of me and be nice. Well Karen it dose not work that way. You seem to be answering all the mean email on BNN. Just another way to use them. You say nice things on save baby’s A site. Then you still use this site to put your trash out under another name. No more talk from the mothers family. No more updates from Karen. Nothing at all. It may of taken some time for most of us to figure out this is about money but most of us have. I hope that you all go to jail for exploiting this child on the net. I guess that you regret trying to sucker good people out of money. You all make me sick.
I hope that the judge will make this mother pay for what she has done to this child. If not for her no one would of ever heard of this horrible game they play.
September 21st, 2009 at 1:46 pm
You can find Karen’s rant here:
http://z3.invisionfree.com/Blogger_News/index.php?showtopic=9&st=330&#last
This is the type of woman who Connie surrounds herself with. This is the type of person who the judge is protecting Aali from. Karen in her rants, shows the world how unstable she is. She’s apparently sent death threats to Pattycake and LLPapa. She comes on here making claims that keep getting ‘refuted’ then she ‘hides’ for a week or so thinking people will forget before coming back online, you can see a pattern each time she posts her ‘proof’, she disappears when it’s seriously challenged with evidence!
This is the type of woman who is leading a campaign of lies. She supports a scam artist like Connie Bedwell Cara Bedwell Tim Bedwell and Darrel Payne so they can earn money. None of them work, the ENTIRE FAMILY has no job. It’s why they took to the internet to E-BEG. What a sad existence to be connected to a woman like Karen.
September 21st, 2009 at 1:48 pm
Here’s Logan Britt’s facebook page, send him a message and find out who’s the liar.
http://www.facebook.com/search/?q=logan+britt&init=quick#/profile.php?id=1166200039&ref=search&sid=571011027.2419728746..1
September 21st, 2009 at 2:03 pm
Proven fact that those who where molested molest????? WTF????
I was molested, and I do not molest! I fight against it and push for education to help those who have been through the same thing! I am offended by your words and your assumptions. Way to re-victimize those of us who have been through hell with your lame and ignorant judgments!
September 21st, 2009 at 4:40 pm
aah-hem poster #1461 Judge Smith was there today.
More lies. What was the point of lying about this judge not being there?
September 21st, 2009 at 7:37 pm
Want to tell the good people about Connie’s hearing on Monday? Come on, give us an update Karen. lol Lets see how you spin some more lies please oh please oh please!
September 21st, 2009 at 9:07 pm
Since there are no victory posts anywhere I can find, I am guessing that today did not go as planned for Connie. IMO if there had been good news, it would have been posted today after court finished.
September 21st, 2009 at 10:52 pm
Karen why are you disappointing people? They look up to you as the GO TO person about Connie since you talk to her and all. Why leave them begging all day today for an update? You like to torture Connie’s followers? Does it give you the sense of control and power?
Silly people, LOL If there was major news in the court hearing Monday in favor of Connie, you would have already heard. Karen what grand things happened in court Monday huh? People are waiting Karen. What spin will you put on Monday’s events huh? I know what went down Karen babe but you first. Lets see how much you lie about Monday!
a scam is a scam is a scam
SaveAaliyah website is a scam! Connie Bedwell is a scammer. Karen Daley is a scammer. Tim Bedwell is a scammer. Cara Bedwell is a scammer. The world can read here and know never to give money to these scam artists! Stop exploiting Aaliyah!
Its enough, time to move onto your next victim, game over Karen. Your post on BNN shows it’s about your rage because you never focus on Aaliyah. You focus on YOU!
Yes indeed you are a liar. People can even phone Logan Britt to find out what a liar you really are. Logan Britt of Sacramento CA: (916) 772-4927
Ask Logan what the truth is! He’ll tell you what a lying witch Karen is!
September 22nd, 2009 at 1:59 am
Neither Bedwell or Thompson are in the Placer County Jail tonight, so the court session couldn’t have been that bad I suppose.
http://www.placer.ca.gov/jail/jailreports/incustody_BN.htm
September 22nd, 2009 at 2:44 am
Any update on what the judge did to Dustin? Did Connie get custody or just more visitation? When will this mom get her baby back? Did the restraining order get lifted yet? Did the thompsons get in trouble for not allowing visits?
September 22nd, 2009 at 7:00 am
Poster 1487, since you believe everything you read about the Thompsons, I guess you’d want that to happen, lol.
If there was earth shattering news in Connie’s favor, Karen and her clanny clan would be screaming VICTORY from the roof tops. Can’t wait for their version. lol Poor 1487 you’ll be waiting a long time. The father has permanent custody so I’m not sure what you think you’ve been told, custody was decided long ago. lol where’s your victory dance Karen?
September 22nd, 2009 at 7:54 am
1440 is wrong, have you noticed that Karen is fighting for this baby who she(Karen) has said is being molested by her father out of one side of her mouth and out of the other side she is stating horrible, untrue statements about if you have been molested then you will molest. She claims this as aa prove fact because everthing that she has said and conts. to say are proven facts. I as well have been a victim of these horrible sick act. Believe me if I thought that this baby was being molested you would all know it. Know what I mean?
Karen you say in your rant that you have not posted since you brought the email about Adam. Where are you proven facts to back up that this email if truth or rumor. Just about everything you post you lead people to believe that you have proven facts. This mother has the buren of proof on her. Not the other way around. If this baby means something to you other than money they why so quite. I thought that you were going to print everything that you can about this case. Even if it conts. to hurt this child. If you were not all about the money then you would not care what is said about you. You have proven facts. I would love to see your proven facts.
This is a real life child. That seems to be forgotten by this mother and her followers.
I as so glad that they truth is finally coming out about this scam.
I can tell this went badly for this mother with out having to read about it. No one one this mothers side is worried about this child. They are worried that the money is not coming it.
Silence speaks so very loud at times it nearly bust your ear drumbs. I am so glad that eveyone is finding with proven facts that this is a scam. I hope and pray that the judge will be told about this scam and this case can be over and that web page of her taken down with her name and picture. You notice that the mother has her fact on the net as well. Her 15 of fame. What some people will do for money and fame. Sad, sad money scam. The child is the one who suffers the most. This is all imo only, what I have written is my belief from what I have read online.
September 22nd, 2009 at 8:12 am
So whats the news on Connie? Eh? It must of been a huge victory for Connie huh? Yeaaah right.
September 22nd, 2009 at 8:19 am
It is funny now that the facts a proving that Karen has lied and been a part of this scam the louder she yells. You know even if Karen started off believing that this child was really being molested and then figured out that this is a scam like the rest of us and just told the truth. The truth that this is a money scam most of us would understand.
The followers of this mother are finding out how people react when a scam has been pulled. Pullled and stopped. They want everyone to shut up and go away so that they can cont. to make money off of this baby. This is just wrong and ugle. God don’t like ugly.
How is the truth working for you Connie followers?
September 22nd, 2009 at 8:20 am
Doesn’t appear Connie got her way in court so everyone please leave the child alone. It’s so obvious this is a scam, just quit it already.
September 22nd, 2009 at 8:48 am
Don’t ask for proven facts- there are none in this case beyond Connie being unable to work with the judge, or the attorneys, or the visitation facilities in order to see her child.
There is not one shred of independent proof of any abuse. We are all supposed to believe it purely because she says so.
There is no news because nothing has changed…
September 22nd, 2009 at 9:15 am
So what did happen in court? I really don’t care about Karen’s story, or proving her to be a liar or a puppet.
I am interested in this child being safe, happy and loved. While I doubt there’s been ANY change made in court yesterday, I am curious as to what happened. Instead of playing this game with Karen, how about just telling us what happened instead?
September 22nd, 2009 at 9:49 am
Karen what do you have to say for yourself? You were sure high and mighty on BNN yesterday with your rant, then you disappear from the net right after court was over. How come Karen? Come on tell the public about Connies great day, we’re waiting.
tick tick tick tick tick tick
~doesn’t silence speak volumes people?~
Lesson learned! Don’t believe everything you read on the net. Theres a reason why the father has all custody and yesterday proves exactly why!
September 22nd, 2009 at 10:34 am
Nothing, No & No, Never, No and No. Anymore questions?
September 22nd, 2009 at 10:40 am
Did you bring your world renowned specialist to court yesterday? LMAO thought so.
September 22nd, 2009 at 11:08 am
At this point, I swear it would be easier for Ms. Bedwell to simply have another child with that Darryl/70sixspeed fellow who’s always taking up for her.
However, the courts would just take that one too; having previous children in care within the past 2 years is probable cause for the State to remove a newborn from the home as well.
I hope Ms. Bedwell has adequate birth control.
So, how’s that Ex Parte Motion going? Surely the visitation problems were sorted out in court yesterday?
September 22nd, 2009 at 11:48 am
She’s trying to say the Thompsons never went to court on Monday, nice try. OH KAREN sweetie, you really are clueless. Guess you don’t have the ‘inside’ knowledge you claim you do. Funny. **SIGH** IF you only knew…
September 22nd, 2009 at 12:54 pm
#1494 I post to expose Karen as the liar she is because she brought this scam to the internet. I am determined to stop people from exploiting the child any further, they’ve already done enough damage to hurt her future!
The child is safe, happy and loved with the Thompsons. If you don’t believe that, then write a letter to the judge, to the government, to the media. The onus is on the ACCUSER to supply proof to say otherwise. Counsellors, authorities and judges have already decided where the little girl should be!
Yesterday just proved what a scammer Connie is, if she or Karen wants to enlighten the public further about the court hearing, I’m sure they would have done that by last night if it was ‘good’ for Connie.
September 22nd, 2009 at 1:14 pm
Theres no way a judge would stop a mother from seeing her daughter Connie must have been able to finally see Aaliyah so you can all go to hell. Karen please shut these asses up for good. Connie must have won something huge maybe a TV show got the exclusive and that’s why she’s quiet I know there’s no way Connie wouldnt have done everything possable Aaliyah. God bless them both
September 22nd, 2009 at 1:19 pm
Same story, different day. What you read now is what you’ll read a year from now. The mother probably couldn’t prove a damn thing to the judge. I don’t need any details to know she bombed big time
September 22nd, 2009 at 1:28 pm
What is up with this Karen thing? She is not the topic that is important, and it is really getting silly. I am more interested in what happened in court, and what is going on with this little girl.
September 22nd, 2009 at 1:56 pm
I guess that Jan and Simon have figured out that this is a scam as many are finding out the truth. They had said that they would see this to the end. I say this because they were used like we all were. The BNN site has not been the same sense the day that this story was brought to BNN. In the past if there was anything going on in court or something was happening they would let us know at the BNN web site.
They tried so hard to help this child and mother. No one deserves to be scamed. In the begining most people did what they could to help this baby. Some sent money other wrote emails, made phone calls etc. Lots of people prayed for them. No matter what any of us did it was done out of love for a baby in trouble. No one should be scamed this way, I can live with all of that however, look what this sweet baby has been through. Believe this she is the one who has lost so much. This scam will follow her for the rest of her life. This is MHOO. I do not know either family. I have arrived at this infor. from what I have read on the net.
September 22nd, 2009 at 2:14 pm
Would you look at that BELIEVE IT aka Troy, none of your predictions came true.
Wouldn’t you like to know what this kind – God fearing – wonderful -amazing – justice fighting – do anything for her child – MOTHER DID yesterday? I’ve said it time and time again, Connie is NO MOTHER and yesterday proved it all over again. Poor little child has to live a life with her name scattered all over the net because of a sham of a mother.
September 22nd, 2009 at 3:51 pm
This is odd, no one seems to know what happened in court yesterday. Seems the Thompsons don’t post here, or they would be telling us what happened- same for the Bedwells.
This lack of an update gives us something to ponder. What could have happened that neither side wants to say anything?
One thing for sure, there was no major change.
September 22nd, 2009 at 8:20 pm
You’re right, Thompsons don’t post here and they don’t owe anyone any answers. They didn’t start this fiasco!
However, some of us know exactly what happened in court!
Since Karen brought the story to the internet for Connie, she can tell you. She denies knowing anything but that’ll be a first.
Stop and think!
IF IT WENT WELL for Connie, don’t you think BNN, Karen, Darrel and daddy Tim would be on here to ‘stick it’ to the Thompsons?
mmmmm so? Where are they?
We’ve been saying for months this is a scam story you’re needlessly following. There is no daddy child molester. Aali is loved, safe and is a happy sweet 3 yr old surrounded by her dad, grandparents, aunties, uncles, cousins and friends galore. She leads a normal regular life, has babysitters and playdates. Goes to birthday parties and all kinds of fun activities, sings songs, does arts and crafts, jumps in puddles and rides her bike.
If you want to sit back and think otherwise, nothing I say will ever change your point of view.
It’s a shame her mother is missing out on all the fun but it’s the choices Connie has made that gives her the results she has at this moment.
Connie, time to admit to the public what a superb outstanding mother you are. You begged for MONEY to fight for justice for your baby right?
If you ask the public for donations, don’t they deserve the truth at the very least? After all, they sent you their hard-earned money to help. Kind well-intentioned people have the right to know what went on in court.
I suspect ~~~~ SILENCE ~~~~ will be your answer 1506
September 22nd, 2009 at 8:50 pm
BNN PLEASE UPDATE US AND SHUT THESE ASSES UP
September 22nd, 2009 at 8:52 pm
#1506: I believe that the Thompsons don’t post here. There’s no way Mr. Thompson’s lawyer, Ms. Amara, would allow it. Ms. Amara is a good lawyer, and Mr. Thompson does what Ms. Amara tells him to, so no reading/posting for Mr. Thompson. I can believe that the other Thompsons wouldn’t want to do anything to interfere with Mr. Thompson’s custody award so they didn’t post either.
Another thing that strikes me is that we’ve never heard Mr. Thompson’s side of the story. Not one word of this thread is about Mr. Thompson’s version of events. If he and his family had been posting here, one of them would have eventually let his version of the story slip. We’d have had a “he-said, she-said” rather than a “she-said, she-said”.
As for the Bedwells, they’re either trying to prepare a spin on what happened, or maybe they’ve just abandoned this particular war entirely. I think maybe there WAS a major change, and nobody wants to tell us about it. I think the Thompsons don’t post here, so they can’t tell us what happened in court, and the Bedwells aren’t telling us what happened.
September 22nd, 2009 at 10:41 pm
Hi 1501, I’ll pass on the trip to hell, thanks though for the offer. Connie could use a one way ticket from you for the scam she pulled on innocent caring people. When you realize you’ve been scammed, the scars left on ones’ heart lasts a lifetime and it hurts others who truly need help!!!!!
September 23rd, 2009 at 1:45 am
The judge already ruled on the visitation restoration back in June. If Connie had done everything possible, she would have been seeing her daughter since early June..you know, back when the judge told her if there was a problem getting visits restored to file an ex parte motion (the one that never was filed). Heck, we don’t even know if she found a visitation facility willing to take her after the last one booted her for breaking their rules. So what makes you think she has seen her daughter other than wishful thinking?
If she had ‘won’ in court, you can bet that information would be posted somewhere by now. As far as a TV show ‘exclusive’ goes, lol- you better hope not, because the current restraining order prohibits her from publicizing this case herself. The saveaaliyah site is run by her family and friends. Can you imagine what Judge Smith would say if she violated that court order?
More than likely, there was no change in anything. But I bet her complaints about no visits fell on deaf ears after not following the judges instructions about filing an ex parte motion. Bet the judge wanted to know why she had not done so yet.
Maybe Connie will manage to do whatever it takes to get visits again, but it is not going to happen until she makes the effort. I really hope she does, as her daughter likely misses her.
I do find it hypocritical that you tell everyone to go to hell, but you are right, the judge has not stopped her from seeing her daughter in the past. It really has nothing to do with any of the opinions expressed here or elsewhere, this case is where it belongs in the courts.
I actually found your post to be quite funny. LMAO
September 23rd, 2009 at 6:19 am
I think there’s a lot to worry about Poly but I guess you have to wait it out. The mother you think you’re helping fight for justice so hard, isn’t what she seems to be. That’s what happens when you fall for a scam.
September 23rd, 2009 at 6:34 am
So we still don’t get to know what happened in court yet?? It must have gone against Connie in some way- cos you know there would be information out by now if it had gone well for her. The lack of an update makes it obvious Connie did not get anything she wanted- whatever that is.
Maybe they are done with Karen, and she really doesn’t know. That has to hurt!
So how about you(whoever does know) tell us what happened since Karen can’t or won’t.
September 23rd, 2009 at 7:05 am
I understand that the most important issue is this child. The courts have already ruled on this and this child is safe. She is with her daddy and her family. The judge has told this mother what she must and will do to see her child and she has chossen what is most improtant to her. By reading the info. on the net she dose not love her child enough to do everyting in her power to see her baby. All most of us wanted was for this child to be in a healtly and in a stable home. This has happened. However a lot of us have been scamed out of money, time and emotion. This is against the law and all the people who have had a hand in this need to be exposed. This is what why people are so upset with this mothers family and followers. This is against the law. This is a scam. Should these people be allowed to use good kind people for their own gain? Use this child like this for the almighty dollar no.
September 23rd, 2009 at 9:11 am
1502 Thank you for the invite to go to hell but I will pass. You need to speak with someone. A judge can and has ordered that this mother not see this child until she can do what he tells her. It has been four months since this mother has seen this baby. This came from the mothers side of this horrid story. She will not do what the court has ordered her to do from the get go. She has more excues not to follow the courts orders than a 5 year old wanting to stay up all night. If you read back thru this mess you will find what I am saying is true. I form my understanding of this case from what I read. This mother could of been seeing this baby for months. No excuse that she could dream up would be enough for me. If this were my child there would be nothing that I would not do to be with my baby, nothing. Why would you think that it would be a good thing for this to be a tv show. Do you know that this mother has a gag order that the judge put in place to protect this child. She is not suppose to talk to anyone about this. Do you want her to go to jail? Who would think this story is worthy of sitting down and watching on tv. That is outragous and sad to think how some people get thier jollies, at the expense of an innocent child. This is a sad sad scam. Bless this child and her family.
September 23rd, 2009 at 9:23 am
Psst BNN hasn’t written a single thing about Aaliyah since July 2nd.. What makes you think they will now?
September 23rd, 2009 at 11:46 am
What I find odd, is Karen has NO update to post, but she sure posted a rant at BNN which was copied here. Why is she so concerned about me, or anyone else and NOT this child? Why the concern for us and and not Aaliyah or an update Karen? Does it matter THAT much to you what others have to say or think? Shouldn’t your time and energy be focused on Connie and Aaliyah? why waste the time on US? We are and should be NOTHING to you.
Interesting how prior to court someone posted at BTLS judge Smith would not be at court. How dumb do you think we are? If Judge Smith was unable to be at court they would have cancelled Mondays hearing. In fact, you’ve posted the Thompsons did not appear for court so surely the court date DID happen.
So the ‘facts’ as posted by Connies supporters, either no judge or a different judge showed up. The Thompsons did not show up. If that were the case, why no victory cries for Connie’s cause?
We are awaiting an update on what REALLY happened Karen. Why the silence? or was it that bad you wish to keep it secret?
September 23rd, 2009 at 11:52 am
or are you at a loss for words Karen? Trying to find a way to explain what did happen?
I as well as others would really like to find out what happened. Especially as this mother has been crying online for months now both her and her daughters lives are at risk.
So what happened at court on Monday? Why the silence regarding this mother and child whose lives are at risk?
Don’t Connies supporters DESERVE and update?
September 23rd, 2009 at 11:56 am
If not Karen, where is Darrel or Cara? Why no update from them? Don’t Connies supporters, those who have sent their hard earned money, those who have gone without to help this mother DESERVE to know what happened?
Hmmmmm………
I’d think if Connie wants ANY support her supporters deserve acknowledgment and answers.
September 23rd, 2009 at 1:01 pm
But they have a great update about the Young and the Restless! Sit and wait maramite, Karen, Poly, Chicann. Its time to move on people youve all been scammed but good. When the info gets out about Monday’s court… well lets just say we won’t have to meet up like this any longer. I just wish I had a camera when you hear what happened.
PS BNN people: You’re assumptions that something must have happened that BOTH SIDES want to keep it from the public is so very incorrect. Its hilarious to watch everyone squirm. Now do everyone a favor & please leave the child alone and stop exploiting her.
September 23rd, 2009 at 6:10 pm
Dooty & Karen & Poly, this isn’t about WINNING so what a ridiculous thing to say!
I assure you there’s NO POSITIVE spin or outcome Connie can say about Monday. There’s DEFINITELY NO TV exclusive, that was hilarious whomever put that out there. No WIN for Connie either. WHEN you hear what went on, it’s my hope you actually move onto a case where there is true child abuse.
Say what you will about me or any other poster here, it clearly doesn’t bother me one bit. There’s a reason we’re sticking on this. The exploitation of little girl AB needs to stop and stop NOW! She is not an abused child.
One of the sadest things about watching these people who follow Connie is the time and energy they’ve helped put into a scam. There is no child to rescue, there’s no winning either. Little girl AB is the biggest loser of them all because she’ll live out her life without her biological mom’s participation.
Spend your energy with Connie and her ‘fight’, help her beg for more donations. But once you hear about Monday, I really hope it doesn’t damage your soul and trust in others so deeply that you’ll stop helping other children. Connie’s already done enough damage to so many people and she clearly doesn’t give a crap about coming online to explain herself after so many gave her money for her ‘fight’ in court. Its terrible to see people scammed.
September 24th, 2009 at 1:44 am
To Thompson’s and their 2 supporters ….
Reading “COMPREHENSION and RETENTION†is a “NECESSITY†for INTELLIGENT debate! Your perpetually demonstrated inability to do so shows what inept buffoons you thompson’s and your supporters really are!
You can speculate who I am all you want …. AGAIN …. I’m not Troy, Karen, Anne, Jan, Simon or anyone else who supports the bedwell’s that you think you might know.
I exposed pattycakes and llpapa’s lies against Connie, Mr. Bedwell and KarenCCC and the colossal lie that the thompson’s claim “they don’t post.†The fact is the thompson’s DO IN FACT POST and they do it regularly under various poster names.
In Answer to MY POST 1440 (bottom of 4th pp.)
“…but it’s a PROVEN FACT …. those who have been molested …. MOLEST!”
Does this say ALL who have been molested molest? …. NO…. Without the word “ALL” the thought goes to those who molest have been molested. Simple English grammar. Sorry it confused some of you.
THOMPSON STUPIDITY – ANOTHER EXAMPLE *********************************************
Post 1467 (Quote is from the last pp.)
“Nice try there Troy,Believe it! BTW take a spelling lesson, you must be around 12 years old. I’m not sure you realize how many times you spelled “believe†wrong.
BELEIVE IT KNOWS ANYONE IN THIS CASE. A POSTER NOT TO LISTEN TO.â€
**********************************************************
Check your own spelling and sentence structure you IMBECILIC MORON! You misspelled believe as “BELEIVE†in the sentence just after correcting me? Those who can’t spell or write coherent sentences shouldn’t correct others spelling. LMAO@U Thompson’s ….
Dumb da dumb dumb .. DUMB!
To Post #1509 E-Tardo
You mean to say all the debate about dustin and the thompson’s isn’t from the thompson’s and their supporters??? You really do have IMBECILIC MORON stamped on your forehead!
It’s interesting how the Thompson’s cuddle up to liars and those who blindly support their B.S. lies in answer to Aaliyah’s accusations regarding her daddy’s worm. They NEVER presented one shred of evidence to back up dustin’s B.S. alibis. Their B.S. campaign against “what Aaliyah has said†maybe, just maybe produced 19 supporters in almost 5 months by trying to sway readers that this is a scam. After all that’s been written to defend dustin, you claim thompson’s don’t post and their side hasn’t been told? Again …. Dumb da dumb dumb .. DUMB!!!!
Readers BELIEVE IT …. IT’S NO SCAM! ….. DADDY’S WORM VIDEO IS THE ABSOLUTE TRUTH! A World RENOWNED Audio Video Forensic expert has proved it! This evidence can only be posted on the internet after it’s been used in court.
THOMPSON’S LIES;
Roseville Police investigation concerning internet fraud and child exploitation?
Rocklin Police investigation internet fraud and child exploitation?
FBI’s investigation internet fraud and child exploitation?
22 donators wanting their donations back?
No money coming into saveaaliyah.com?
Mr. Bedwell being convicted of any criminal act?
Connie posting anywhere on the internet in violation of the restraining order ?
John & Tanya Bartch’s Rocklin Police reports are fake?
Dustin handwritten Dr Phil workbook notes are fake?
Dustin’s threats of suicide never happened?
Dustin doesn’t have a criminal record?
I can and will go on and on and on, but for now I’m more then content to LMAO@U lying thompson’s and their 2 supporters exposing your lies.
WHERE THERE’S A THOMPSON BLOWING SMOKE …. THERE’S IMBECILIC MORONS ON FIRE!
September 24th, 2009 at 2:23 am
Post #1505 – Thompson you were in court Monday and know nothing happened because the all the necessary participants weren’t able to attend. So you Thompson’s keep playing the ex-party hearing and visitation issues for all you think you can get out of it. It’s rather entertaining in disgusting sort of way, but what would we expect from a Thompson?
LMAO@U Thompson’s and their 2 supporters.
Keep blowing that smoke screen …. cause
WHERE THERE’S SMOKE …. THERE’S FIRE!
September 24th, 2009 at 3:27 am
To Post #1444
Pattycakes is Rebecca Egan Nunez that’s why she asked BTLS to take down her personal info that I posted and why she doesn’t post here under Pattycakes aka Flappycakes anymore.
She a lying slimebag and she’s been exposed that’s why you thompson’s are falsely accusing KarenCCC of lying.
LLPapa aka. Edwaed A. Craig from Brandon FL. was such a dumbass he posted altered information about about Mr. Bedwell and ran away like the little bitch he is.
You didn’t see KarenCCC or Mr. Bedwell run to BTLS to have what was posted about them taken down …. because what was posted were lies and there still on the board for everyone to see.
So blow that out you tail pipe poster #1444 you Dustin worm sucker! LMAO@U Rebecca Egan Nunez from New Jersey and Edward A. Craig from Brandon, FL.
If Dustin David Thompson is innocent why do you lie for him?
WHERE THERE’S SMOKE …. THERE’S FIRE!
BELIEVE IT!
September 24th, 2009 at 4:06 am
To Poster #1497
Reading “COMPREHENSION and RETENTION†is a “NECESSITY†for INTELLIGENT debate!
Obviously another Thompson …. HUH Adam! I hear you gave up baseball which you couldn’t play worth a shit …. for creative writing classes (twist and spin) which you really suck at too. Your daddy must be so proud of his little boyz. Always LMAO@U Thompson’s.
September 24th, 2009 at 6:12 am
You’re exposed to be a liar and you don’t even know the Bedwells, you never brought any world renowned expert to the courts either like you brag so why keep saying your BS crap? Why would you come back? Go get some help, your posts show serious mental deficiency.
September 24th, 2009 at 6:28 am
I think the name calling shows you are about 8 actually. My son uses the same terms that jump out in your posts. Your so hilarious, I die with laughter every time I read your stuff. There is someone getting the last laugh after all
September 24th, 2009 at 6:50 am
~~~~~~~~~~ SILENCE ~~~~~~~~~~~
I knew Connie or the Bedwells wouldn’t come back to explain
Don’t you hate it when people say I told you so?
September 24th, 2009 at 7:04 am
After reading what has been posted since yesterday I just have to say please stop. I am just as angry as the next about this precious baby being put out on the net. Her little sweet face, her name for all to see. What are we really do for or to her. I understand the scam. I hope that I am right by saying this but I do feel that perhaps the people who support this mother are finally finding out that they have been scamed. The anger needs to be placed on the person who started this. She has done this horrible act to her child and to good people who just wanted to help. Yes we have been scamed. I for one am glad that this has turned out to be a scam. Do you understand what this means? Let me lay it out for you. You have been scamed in the most horrible way. Our hearts bled for this baby, we sent money, prayed and had hopes that we could help this child. There is not baby to help. She is the losser in this whold scam. The good thing is this, this baby has not been abused by anyone other than her mother. Put your name calling and anger where it belongs. No tv show, no money, no nothing. This child will loose half of her parents. It is sad.
Please stop fighting between people who only wanted to help. Karen I do believe that your heart was in the right place when you brought this to BNN. It is hard to accept as hard as you have worked to help this mother and child. The only one you need to help is this mother. Help her get the help that she needs. Take a deep breath and be happy that this baby is not being abused sexualy. She has been exploited by this mother. We have been scamed it is not hard to say. Just accepet it and move on and help a child who really is being abused. Pray for this mother.
Stop putting other real names out for all to see. I hope that your anger will calm down and you can accept this. It is horrible I know. I am just glad this is a scam. Lets all play nice and move on to help someone who really needs help. Show to everyone how this happens. Help to stop other scams. Use this one wihout this babys name and face to stop others from doing this.
Who cares who can spell or who can write to best. Why do you care. Why do you put crap out here that can hurt good people. I really did think in the begining of this that we all had the same goal. Accept. This is a scam. No one has hurt this child but her mother. No one has sexualy abused this baby thank god. Scam This mother should be ashamed.
September 24th, 2009 at 7:34 am
Believe IT is back? None of your predictions came true – would you look at that! LMAO Huh Guess you really don’t know the Bedwells or anything else for that matter. LMAO
Well gotta run, there’s really no need to be here other than for some laughs.
Keep hitting F5 key Karen (you know, it refreshes the page). For someone who hates BTLS so much, you sure spend a lot of time coming back to read. Let me know when you figure it out okay, thanks a bunch. he he he (yes, that’s smugness)
Oh and Karen (re: BNN post), you can blame Connie’s lawyer all you like but WHEN you find out about Monday, mmmm you’ll realize how wrong you are about that too. he he he
Keep guessing, its fun to read.
Time to go, after all it is in fact……. all over :)
Enjoy your day all!
September 24th, 2009 at 7:42 am
“Thompson you were in court Monday and know nothing happened because the all the necessary participants weren’t able to attend.”
So spell it out what happened Believe It? I know what happened, quit being so vague and spit it out. Its not good for Connie.
I do not care if you are Karen etc. I don’t care to know who you are but you do sound like a nutcase like Karen!
No answers for any of the Connie followers? Of course not you are just going to blast everyone on the board and accuse us all of being people were not. Yeah there are quite a few more than 2 people who believe D Thompson. Go ahead and enjoy feeling like you’re better than everyone and that you are “winning” while you can. Come Nov. I am sure this whole thing is going to be dropped completely off the internet. As the father has full and permanent custody and baby A is happy.
Hope you all can get a life outside of this case soon! Hate to see you trying to battle the “corrupt system” in a few years still lol.
September 24th, 2009 at 8:17 am
BELIEVE IT – LMOA @ dustin and the thompson’s
September 24th, 2009 at 2:23 am
Post #1505 – Thompson you were in court Monday and know nothing happened because the all the necessary participants weren’t able to attend. So you Thompson’s keep playing the ex-party hearing and visitation issues for all you think you can get out of it.
Interesting comments. “Ex-Party” hearing? Good one, maybe you ought to think about being an “ex partier” after reading what you rambled on about here for two hours in the wee hours of the morning.
September 24th, 2009 at 8:43 am
Believe It, I would like to see where you have PROVEN FACTS about the ones that you claim have lied. You ramble about where there is smoke there is fire. What facts have you proven. I have seen no where that has been proven. What did I miss. Has anyone noticed that AnnA has stoped posting. This lady was outraged and took up with karen in her fight. I do believe that she was true in her worries. Do you see her now. BNN do you see them anywhere talking about this baby. Do you know why all of the mothers supporters have not been yelling and have dropped out of site.
They know just by watching what is going on have come to see this is a scam. So simple.
You know one way that this has been shown that this is a scam is a while back when everyone was yelling for thier money back. The mothers father came on line and said if anyone wants thier money back just let me know and you will get back et. How if this mother used out money for her attorney and the granfather has no money how can they pay it back. If he has to pay back then why did she need money for an attorney. Can anyone exlain this to me. I just find that strange.
September 24th, 2009 at 8:53 am
Karen I have tired and tried to see this your way and understand that this has broken your heart. I just read at BNN that you think that Connie’s attorney is messing this up for her. Damn how amny attorneys dose this woman need.
No one can help her when she is keeping this scam going. Until she is made to stop and come clean there is nothing anyone can do for her.
I don’t understand why the mother supporters can not get any info on what happened on Monday. I know for a fact that I have read where Karn, BNN etc. have talked with this family in the past. Have they changed their phone numbers. Are they not taking your calls. On one hand you think that you know everything that is going on and on the other you can no longer know what is going on. In the begging when most were believing this was happening there was talk with this family all over the net. Now nothing. I think they know that most of us have found them out. Running scared. I don’t fell sorry for any of them. I do feel for this baby.
Just stop there is no story here except for this scam
September 24th, 2009 at 10:21 am
IA It wasn’t good for Connie at all and it did prove once and for all it was a scam she’s been running all along. I think Karen suffers from MPD so we should leave her, it, them alone.
September 24th, 2009 at 10:31 am
It’s Connie who’s been screaming she can’t see her kid. Its SHE who posts how Dustin has stopped her for the past 4 months as per her website she runs. Yet the judge told her exactly what to do and BNN told us all WHAT SHE WOULD DO to see her kid. She didn’t do it. In fact she hasn’t done one damn thing about her child at all, nothing. She’s NO MOTHER believe IT!!! A mother would go to the ends of the earth for their child but Connie won’t even lift a finger for hers. Speaks volumes Believe IT. The fact is, the game is very much over Believe IT! It’s o – v – e – r. Would you like a dictionary to help you understand that word? Why don’t you enlighten us about the great superior fabulous mother you support so deeply???????
There’s nothing worse for Connie and her ‘fight for her child’ than what happened Monday. You, I and a few others know just that don’t we! How many more people will donate after they hear about your little scammer.
Don’t worry, while I won’t post the baby’s name all over the net like you keep threatening to do, I WILL HOWEVER tell everyone on the net what a scam artist Connie Bedwell, Tim Bedwell, Cara Bedwell and Darrel Payne truly are. I’ll do my part to save others from losing their hard earned money from this scammer mommy. Bye now, I’ll miss you, it’s been fun.
September 24th, 2009 at 11:28 am
~*”All the necessary participants weren’t able to attend”*~
Unless the “necessary participants” that “weren’t able to attend” have a note from the local emergency room saying they’d been in a car crash on their way to court on Monday morning, the “necessary participants” are in deep doo-doo for not showing up on Monday.
NO OTHER appointment supersedes ANY court date EVER. It doesn’t matter if YOUR MOTHER’S FUNERAL conflicts with your court date, you are obligated to GO TO COURT before -ANYTHING- else. If you have a doctor’s appointment, you RESCHEDULE THE DOCTOR, not court. If you have a job interview, TOUGH LUCK, looks like you’re not getting the job. NOT APPEARING IN COURT when you’re scheduled to appear is one of the worst things you can do. It pisses off the judge, and it makes you look guilty. Unless your lawyer can say, “I’m very sorry, Judge, my client is having emergency open-heart surgery right now and that’s why they can’t appear in court today,” your excuse for not appearing in court isn’t going to fly.
I doubt that the judge is going to show any patience or sympathy for any lame excuses.
September 24th, 2009 at 12:05 pm
It sounds like it did not go well for Connie in court. I will keep checking back to see if anyone updates us with what did happen.
I really want to forget about this case, and since the Bedwells and their friends choose not to tell us what happened, I will make my own guess and say Connie has been told by the court to STFU or loose custody permanently.
Loosing custody permanently would be the ultimate loss for this mother, and while she will blame corruption and conspiracies for this- she is ultimately the cause. There is no conspiracy against her, except in her own mind. There is no abuse of this child, except in her own mind.
September 24th, 2009 at 12:15 pm
“No Comment”- wasn’t that the answer Simon got that infuriated him and Connie’s believers at BNN when it came from Ms. Amara’s office?
So why doesn’t the same answer from Connie spark any anger from her followers? After all the time and effort you’ve all put into this, don’t you deserve an answer or update?
Even if the answer is not one that makes you happy, you could at least be told they will no longer be saying anything because the restraining order is being expanded.
To BELIEVE IT: you said “all the necessary participants weren’t able to attend”. LOL, you mean with weeks of advance notice, Connie had someone who did not show??? Wow, way to manage her resources! So who was it that failed her this time? Shall we add their name to the corruption or Thompson supporter lists you keep?
Oh, and I am not a thompson either!
September 24th, 2009 at 12:42 pm
I donated money, and I want to know what happened. So yes it does bother me that no one is telling! There is no response to my email asking what happened either!!!!! Maybe I was scammed- and yes it does make me question ever donating again! Sad, isn’t it!
I can only hope that this child is safe and happy. I am walking away from this a bit more cynical.
September 24th, 2009 at 12:53 pm
This isn’t even close to being over with! I will be exposing you people who act like 8 year olds for what you are …. LIARS plain and simple!
You Thompson’s and 2 supporters have been screaming scam, hoax for 5 months and what a following you have generated …. You thompsons have shown the world what lying child molestering abusers you really are.
LMAO@U lying thompsons. ;?)
September 24th, 2009 at 1:48 pm
#1523 BELIEVE IT – LMOA @ dustin and the thompson’s
September 24th, 2009 at 2:23 am
Post #1505 – Thompson you were in court Monday and know nothing happened because the all the necessary participants weren’t able to attend
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Why don’t you enlighten us BELIEVE IT and tell us who was not in attendance at Mondays court hearing?
September 24th, 2009 at 3:36 pm
RETARDO SHOVE IT UP YOUR BUTT AND KMA. PUSSY PEDO FOLLOWERS WOULD LOVE TO HAVE US THINK CONNIE DIDN’T SHOW BS BS BS BS BS BS BS RETARDO SHE WOULDN’T DO THAT TO AALIYAH
September 24th, 2009 at 3:58 pm
Amazing! The Save Aaliyah site has enough time to update to add info about and actually try to compare Aaliyah’s situation to Jaycee Dugards situation, but no time to update Connies supporter’s. Those who have spent countless hours of time, money, tears and sleepless nights worrying over this mother and child.
Maybe Connies silence means she’s A)Walking away from this entire situation or B)Giving her supporters the same ef you, thanks but don’t ask anything of me she’s giving to the instruction, recommendation and requirement of the courts.
What a way to thank your supporters Connie! I bet your daughter will be thanking you for your hard efforts to see her and save her too.
September 24th, 2009 at 4:56 pm
Hey Thompsons teach all of us “dumb truth tellers” how to talk out our ass like you do!
It must be fun to be able to say anything and everything you want at any given time in order to attempt to fit your lies with each and every situation.
It must be fun to not use the guilt your conscience would provide (if you had one) to chose to be moral human being.
Tell us Thompson’s since court went so bad for Connie, tell us what happened?
Your restraining order was delayed? Big deal.
Tell the Truth Thompson’s: You are so angry that the website is still up exposing you liars for what you are.
It’s kind of hard to keep your lies straight you tell to your own friends when there is a website up putting your lies right in their face. I’d hate Connie too for exposing me if I was scum like you Thompson’s.
TO ALL READERS:
THE TRUTH OF THE MATTER IS DUSTIN THOMPSON DESPERATELY WANTS SAVEAALIYAH.COM DOWN SO HE CAN FURTHER MOLEST HIS CHILD. COURT WAS SUPPOSED TO BE ABOUT HIS RESTRAINING ORDER. COURT WAS DELAYED WHICH PISSES THE THOMPSON’S OFF BECAUSE SAVEAALIYAH.COM IS STILL UP. OUCH THOMPSONS, KEEP FEEDING PEOPLE YOUR B.S. YOU LOOK AS INSANE AS YOU ARE.
Bedwell Baby supporters are sick of talking to a brick wall. That’s why they don’t post here like it’s a crack addiction like you psychos.
Liars babble, Thompson’s babble, Thompson’s 2 supporters babble (Dustin’s daddy and brother), John and Tanya Bartsch babble:
It’s a simple plain fact: LIARS BABBLE.
Which is exactly why the Thompson supporters have the need to babble.
BABBLE AWAY THOMPSON’S
BABBLE YOUR WAY TO PRISON WHERE YOU BELONG
September 24th, 2009 at 5:01 pm
Look how mad the Thompson’s are because money is being raised through a website to fight them.
Abusers hate when people can see through them. Oh Thompson’s screaming it’s a scam isn’t working.
Now what are you going to scream?
Quick come up with another lie!
Hopefully nobody will notice that you’re on lie number 3,436
September 24th, 2009 at 6:02 pm
Dustin you’re not a child molester, only in your own mind.
September 24th, 2009 at 6:50 pm
Strange how the Thompson’s tried to make it appear like Karen CCC posted that the Thompson’s weren’t in court on Monday.
FACT: A certain person important to the case didn’t make it to court.
The Thompsons, Bedwells and attorneys were the only ones who knew the above fact at the time.
Funny how there’s a post about ‘a Dr’s note’ to give to the Judge. Huh Thompson’s?
Let’s do the math here reader’s:
The Thompson’s are KNOWN for FLIPPING the Truth around into it’s opposite.
Only a few people at the hearing knew what happened at the hearing.
It’s apparent across the net nobody has said much about what happened at court.
So how would the Truth get flipped around by someone other than a Thompson if they weren’t there?
It wasn’t Karen.
Karen wasn’t at court to know that.
But people guess who was at court to know that somebody was missing at court on Monday? The Thompsons would know.
Hey and Thompson’s don’t you people claim you don’t post?
The fact of the matter here people is the Thompson’s want to lead you to believe something major happened. They hint at the truth through their lies, but won’t tell you what really happened. And while they do this they claim they don’t post.
Weave your trap to get caught in more lies Thompson’s.
It’s pathetic.
Thompson’s post on here like it’s an addiction.
Their lies never end because they have something to hide:
Dustin Thompson is a child molester.
September 24th, 2009 at 6:59 pm
“The restraining order is being expanded.”
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The restraining order isn’t being expanded any further than Dustin’s yucky crooked little worm can expand.
Nice try.
September 24th, 2009 at 7:15 pm
The Thompson’s won’t log into certain accounts where Baby A supporters can see their IP’s so they spout their lies on BTLS under numerous posters names.
Come on Thompson’s come post over at Troy’s Blog or Baby A’s blog!
It’s ok we know you won’t. Deceiving people would be too hard for you over there.
The Baby’s supporters post everywhere. They own what they say. It would be mighty funny to see some of you sick ***** have to own up to some of the crap that dribbles from your mouths.
Some of you need to go see a Dr and get on drugs for D.M.S. Diarrhea of the Mouth Syndrome.
September 24th, 2009 at 7:20 pm
Dustin Thompson is trying his hardest to delay visitation because it will be in front of a sexual assault trained Therapist.
Your day is coming princess. You can’t avoid visitation forever.
September 24th, 2009 at 7:29 pm
Dear Believe it,
I love how you can call Eddy Craig, Thompson’s, Becky Egan Nunez, and ped clan pals on their crap and they come flying out of the wood works at you!
It just shows the guilt of these people that feel the need to attack you.
Exactly as you said, Why the need to lie for an innocent man?
The crazies always come out to play… ;?) We already know this!
September 24th, 2009 at 8:05 pm
Dustin,
It must drive you insane to know that you have to be fake to everyone around you for fear they have the power to turn you in for what you are doing to your little own little girl.
It must drive you insane to know that people you think you can manipulate around you, might be manipulating you.
Do you really think people are as dumb as you think they are?
Do you really think it’s not obvious to people that aren’t even aware of you being a child molester and you start being so overly defensive about it? Ring a bell Dustin, “It’s all about Aaliyah” ? Do you think people can’t see through your B.S.? You’re trying a little too hard. It’s funny though watching you try to come up with ‘what a normal person would say if they were innocent.’
People are watching you. People know what you are doing. It won’t be long until you are busted. Just keep running your overly defensive blabbery mouth. You are making people more aware of what you are more than saveaaliyah.com.
Man the paranoia of being a child molester. It must be rough.
It’s kind of hard going anywhere when you’re a child molester; everywhere is so “risky” isn’t it?
It must be rough being a 29 year old man living with your mommy and daddy again because everywhere else is too much of a “risk.” Like all parents of sociopaths you know that you can continue to manipulate your parents to enable you all the way. So, why the heck not move in with them? Why “risk” getting caught with roomates?
Living at your parents probably feels like home again since you only moved out for your first time when you were 26.
You’ve got people seeing your atypical behavior, all on your own.
We love it. Keep it up.
Bubba can’t wait to show you his worm.
He promises it will taste just like your daddy, John David’s did when he did it to you.
September 24th, 2009 at 11:34 pm
whatsup BNN? you let Karen poo destroy your site with her endless lies about a hoax fraud child abuse story, you’ve lost most of your writers now left begging for more and for what? A scammer. bwhaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
Toughest lessons in life can sometimes be a true blessing.
September 25th, 2009 at 6:18 am
Poor BELIEVE IT. His predictions didn’t come true, his trial didn’t come true, even his world renowned video specialist is ficticious. All of his posts are #1545 to 1553.
This is a person who doesn’t even know the Bedwells and no one knows why he continues to post.
Notice he never posts one positive thing about Aaliyah or helping Connie see her kid. Only lies & bullying & ridiculous laughable threats. His posts show fear, rage and mental illness. It truly is over Believe IT. O V E R
No one’s listening anymore Believe IT other than the voices in your head.
September 25th, 2009 at 6:31 am
YES FINALLY Something we can agree on. LOL
We’ve been ‘screaming scam’ for 5 months now and Connie PROVED on Monday all on her own what a scammer she is. Bye bye
September 25th, 2009 at 8:57 am
LOL wow Believe it etc you guys need therapy, I don’t get how you get your info either if you do not know the party involved. So I can only assume you are Bedwells. That makes no sense either. I mean you could be but I do know Karen gets her info from the Bedwells as do others get some from people on the Thompson side. It does not mean they post here.
Ya know calling all of us Thompsons is a GREAT compliment because I rather be a Thompson than a dead beat mom like Connie.
Keep rattling on about pedophilia and some alternate world you live in.
September 25th, 2009 at 11:04 am
It’s Pattycake, miss me.
Yah know spew away with your ranting. I know the truth and I have from day 1. I’ve never lied, only informed the greater public of what the truth is. You want to accuse and threaten me, please bring it on BelieveIt. I’d love to take you, Connie and whoever else on.
Here’s the thing BelieveIt. You accuse so many posters of being a Thompson and they’re not. I’ve always been honest to people that I am in fact in contact with someone close to Dustin. I do not have to explain myself further.
You in fact are the greatest coward. Hiding behind your BelieveIt post but never having the balls to say who you are. Why is that BelieveIt? Are you afraid? Because your ranting shows a lot of fear.
I have nothing to hide, neither does the Thompsons. They don’t post and I’ve had that confirmed time and again.
Do you know why? Because there’s not 1 thing they will do to jeopardize the position Dustin has with his daughter. He follows every last court order and request asked of him, Connie follows nothing. I have to agree fully, the ongoings of Monday do in fact show Connie to be a scammer.
There are things being kept from Connie’s followers and that’s been stated for months and months.
BelieveIt coward, why don’t you man up or woman up and send me lawsuit papers if you think I’ve lied. I have the money, the time and the energy to take you on. I’d love nothing more than to have Connie in a deposition too. There’s a 1000 and 1 questions she’ll be forced to answer and I’d love to give that as a gift to Dustin for further court hearings if there ever should be one!!!
Bring it on or shut the hell up because your a sad sick lonely human being that doesn’t even know the Bedwells and you’re only purpose here is to continue to hurt and destroy a wonderful innocent great family and you’re destroying the little child in the process too.
So cut the shit, cut the threats and put your money where your mouth is. BRING IT ON freak show! I’m ready!
September 25th, 2009 at 11:18 am
#1543: LMAO, you’re really ‘spergin out about that post, aren’t you? It was based on the information your buddy Believe It leaked in his post #1523.
I die laughing every time one of you takes offense to generic legal advice that any lawyer would tell their client, such as “You have to show up to court no matter what comes up”. No wonder Ms. Bedwell can’t win a case, if she blows a gasket every time her lawyer tells her what she needs to do to win.
Stay classy, 1543.
September 25th, 2009 at 11:18 am
There really isn’t anything further to add to this. BTW BelieveIt, I’m really not Becky. Feel free to think otherwise. I’ve never cared about anyone calling me names or slamming me at all. Because it’s not about me, it’s about the little girl being exploited with her name connected to the word pedophile for the rest of her life. I’ve worked my ass off from day one to ensure this little child is safe. I’m so confident in my position and I knew it would take less than a year for Connie to show the world what a scam artist she is. There is so much the public does not know that’s been hidden from you all by Connie and the Bedwells. But because of the order in place, no one on the Thompson side will ever release vital documents & counselor evaluations. They don’t care about the online public, they really really don’t. They only care about protecting their grandchild & daughter from further harm.
I just didn’t think Connie would show her true colours this early on but she has. I’ve known all along much of what’s been hidden from the rest of you and that’s why I’ve always been strong and confident in my position on what I choose to say to the public on the internet. Now my energies are moving to another case because like others here, I do strongly feel Connie’s sealed her fate and there’s nothing left to do about any of it. I also knew only TIME would be the ultimate proof.
I welcome anyone to keep threatening to sue me. I in fact, do have the time and money to take you on BelieveIt or Bedwells or Darryl or whoever else wants to call me a liar but won’t back up your threats with TRUE LEGAL ACTION.
Time to end the charade. Connie can have her few little followers, people can keep attacking me and calling names. The truth is what the truth is. There’s nothing that occurred Monday in favor of Connie. With that, have at it.
Spin, scream, accuse, call me names. It’s never bothered me and never will. I have the truth in my corner.
September 25th, 2009 at 11:27 am
Just so you don’t try and spin my words, the Thompsons aren’t hiding documents from the public, they just won’t release them because they’re confidential. All the counselor evaluations are in full favor of the father. Just thought I’d make that final point clear.
September 25th, 2009 at 2:02 pm
If there was nothing to tell and nothing to hide about Monday’s court hearing then doesn’t anyone think the Bedwell family would have simply called Karen or BNN to say at least that much? “well nothing happened, everythings okay”.
~~~~~~~~~~SILENCE~~~~~~~~~~~~ speaks volumes
September 25th, 2009 at 2:09 pm
Thanks for that info Patty. It is good to know that at least one side of this child’s family understands that this is a horrible legacy to give any child. Her face, in both pictures and video is out here on the internet associated with unfounded claims of sick abuse. Her full name and the names of her entire family have also been posted. There will be no escaping this internet campaign for this child in her future. Because her mother and family made sure it was posted all over the net- too many places to ever be taken down.
There never was a reason to do this- most parents would have blurred her face, and used an initial instead of her full name. Her grandfather says she can always use her middle name instead(on bnn), and then proceeds to tell people what it is too.
There were/are resources out there to have helped with this case that would NOT have required this child’s life/face be posted on the internet. Of course those same resources would not allow the public humiliation of this child’s father. Put it together yourself about what this tells us.
And no, I am not a Thompson either.
September 25th, 2009 at 4:01 pm
Oh FlappyCakes is back, well, using her name this time, anyway.
Becky, sweetcheeks,
Let me show readers what a LYING IGNORANT soul you are:
Becky Egan Nunez was ignorant enough to email saveaaliyah.com from her work email.
I can post your IP address, your work place, your home address, your phone number, your arrest record and your traffic violation and so on and so on if you’d like Becky?
So readers, there have been a number of people following this story since it broke. We have all seen Becky’s lies unfold from the beginning.
Little miss thing here thought that she would post a certain conversation that we forwarded to the FBI on a different site using her poster name Patty Cake.
That conversation just so happens to be in Becky Egan Nunez’s email and “Patty” posted it right away.
All of Patty’s posts are from the same IP that Becky Egan Nunez’s emails were from.
So folks, Becky Egan Nunez is a lying C.U.N.ext T.uesday.
Aren’t you Patty?
There are PI’s involved Patty so you should consider shutting your lying mouth.
September 25th, 2009 at 4:59 pm
Patty/Becky do you think we don’t know you speak to John David’s lying ass as well?
Sure Patty/Becky you might have certain documents from them.
John David forgot to mention they went to high school and are friends with those “professionals.”
They must have forgot to send you the one of the baby screaming to get away from him.
Patty/Becky you are pissing up a rope.
Thompson’s are only giving you part of the picture genius.
Don’t quit your day job at SUPCO honey.
September 25th, 2009 at 5:53 pm
Hey Becky,
No we didn’t miss you, you never left.
You most certainly don’t have the truth on your side.
If the Thompson’s cared about the baby they wouldn’t be slapping the baby in the head, hitting her in the stomach, molesting her or kicking her in the back.
Patty tell us have you talked to the baby?
No you haven’t because you live in New Jersey.
Becky, I’ve personally talked to this child and she is indeed being molested and beat by her father and grandfather.
Becky get a life!
Firsthand, information is something you don’t have and never will.
September 25th, 2009 at 6:00 pm
HIJACKER
How lame do you have to be to pretend you’re on the opposite side posting crap like that Thompson’s?
Tell us what it’s like to talk to yourself on BTLS?
So much fun you do it all day?
September 25th, 2009 at 6:03 pm
Talk to yourself much Icky Retardo?
September 25th, 2009 at 6:19 pm
Bring it on or shut the hell up because your a sad sick lonely human being that doesn’t even know the Bedwells and you’re only purpose here is to continue to hurt and destroy a wonderful innocent great family and you’re destroying the little child in the process too.
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A wonderful, innocent, great family?????? lmao
Becky how would you know if the Thompson’s were any of those things all the way out in New Jersey?
California is slightly far from where you live!
That line sounds exactly like a line the Thompson’s would feed you when they speak about themselves.
They have to make an effort to convince people of such things by their words because their actions show otherwise.
A little hostile Becky for not posting for so long! lol
What? Did “Believe it” get under your skin a little bit?
I’d have to say so!
Flying out of the wood works everytime. You people are predictable.
Patty shut your worm holster; There are people trying to save a baby here.
And no I’m not “Believe it” nor Karen CCC, nor Troy, nor a Bedwell.
I’m your bff remember me. Did you miss me?
Becky the only ones destroying the child are John David Thompson and Dustin Thompson and the morons that support abusers such as yourself.
September 25th, 2009 at 6:34 pm
I wonder if Aaliyah will ever see her mother again. Too bad Ms. Bedwell couldn’t follow the legal advice she was given, or things would have turned out differently.
September 25th, 2009 at 6:53 pm
Just so you don’t try and spin my words, the Thompsons aren’t hiding documents from the public, they just won’t release them because they’re confidential.
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They aren’t confidential when they are available to the public. Patty sit on that and spin.
Thompson’s don’t want people to see that saveaaliyah.com provides the truth.
The child is afraid of her father and grandfather.
Wonder why that is?
If you had any of the documents you say you have, you would see that even in those the child is afraid of them.
You talk out your ass Patty like it’s your day job.
September 25th, 2009 at 7:01 pm
Oh my, I just read that ‘father supporters’ are being told to keep the focus off of the baby. LMAO!!! Now we get told what to post, and are an organized group!
Sorry to be the one to break it to you- but no, we aren’t being told anything. Are you Connie supporters being told what to post? This is right up there with thinking the Thompsons are behind the posts here! ROFLMAO!! Oh my, I needed that!
Bottom line is this child is happy, protected, and there have been exams, investigations, and there still is no evidence of abuse. This is good news, really it is!
September 25th, 2009 at 9:26 pm
Y’all want to spin it like that? Sure Karen hang on to whatever lies you’re told to report – it makes no difference. CONNIE THE GREAT is NO MOTHER and she stole money from innocent people who thought they were assisting her for court. Give it a bit and you’ll discover the entire picture Karen. Patience and you’ll know
For those who want to make an FBI Internet Fraud report, please go here. You will be given a file number and with that joined with the other multiple complaints for fraud against Connie Bedwell, the owner of SaveA website and others who assisted.
http://www.ic3.gov/default.aspx
September 25th, 2009 at 9:38 pm
Icky that’s hilarious 1559, I didn’t even see the earlier post. OMG lmao
September 25th, 2009 at 9:50 pm
So connie was too sick to make it to court- she had the flu? Wow, sorry, but no matter how sick I was, I would have made it to court if I was in her position. But hey, that is just me.
So when is the next court date? Why hasn’t the ex parte motion been filed? Does connie have a visitation facility lined up? Why hasn’t this been answered?
September 25th, 2009 at 10:12 pm
I just got the email about Karens update.
hooooooo it took 5 days to make that up? Lame
Connie is a scammer and Monday was the end of it all.
Karen hoooooooo hilarious.
Even she has no clue.
FREE CLUE whoever you are please help Karen.
BNN waiting for your spin.
Careful though I’m already dizzy
September 26th, 2009 at 12:22 am
Connie did not show up on court on Monday because she was to “SICK” to come to court :( Her attorney had to explain to the judge that she has been sick for 5 days & was unable to make it to court. I don’t care how “SICK” I am, if I felt my child was being abused I would show up to court no matter what. I would put a bucket beside me to vomit in if I had to. Now court has been continued to Nov. Shows how much she really wants to see her little girl & prove the father is guilty. Someday you will all realize you were wrong to support Connie & all us father supporters will have to say “I TOLD YOU SO!!!”
September 26th, 2009 at 2:53 am
Just curious Becky,
How are you going to pay to fight a lawsuit when your house just foreclosed?
September 26th, 2009 at 9:28 am
She is saying on Troys blog and Polys that the father supporters are being told to keep the focus off the baby…. Wow thats rich and really funny. Seeing as I don’t even have contact with the Thompsons or anyone who really knows them. Oh and apparently Connie had the flu everyone so she wasn’t there THATS a horrible and dumb excuse to not show up for your daughter. IF YOUR DAUGHTER was being molested you would show up near death for her.. so its BS!
September 26th, 2009 at 10:22 am
It seems to me that the few people who still support this mother need to read about the laws where minors are conerned. All of it is sealed. You may get info from a friend or family but you will not get sealed info and a child. This is to protect the child from people like you. It is they do not deserve to have thier name and pictures all over the net along with thier personal info.
Patty if you know a family member or someone who knows them you need to tell them that Karen is saying that she is still talking to this mother who is not suppose to talk about this case. Not sure where I read that perhaps BNN or one of the others. Just by knowing that people have talked to this mother shows me that she has no regard to the courts. The courts need to know what this woman is. Although they probably already know.
Karen did in face destroy the BNN site. They have not had the hits that they used to have and all have gone where that can talk freely with being banned. I know that some of the banned ones said things off the cuff however Karen did as well and she was allowed to destroy the entire site.
Connie needs to change her name. Everyone knows that she is a scam artist. As well as her family. Scam.
September 26th, 2009 at 10:54 am
Sorry for all of the typos and crazy sentences. I am so enraged today and sick for this child that my mind is going faster than my fingers. Sorry
Oh and another thing. If in fact Connie was to sick to go to court so she can see her child. All that would of had to happen is her attorney would call the clerk to the judge and another date would be set. Happens every day. Believe if that is all that had happened it would be all over the net and the silence would not be so very loud.
September 26th, 2009 at 11:08 am
I need to clear something up that I said. I said that Karen stated that she had talked to the mother. That is not right. She said that she had been talking with the family for 5 plus months. Sorry I thought that I had read that but can not find it. Just wanted to clear that up. There is enough BS going on as it is. Thanks.
September 26th, 2009 at 12:13 pm
Isn’t that sweet? A whole article written about me. I’m always flattered when people focus on the need to point fingers at me in order to sway focus off Connies ongoing scam. I thought this was a ‘fight for justice for the little girl”????
If Connie was telling the truth, there’d be zero need to attempt to discredit me. Right? Right :D
Hey Troy uhhhh it’s not just ‘documentation’ that backs my statements up. It’s the fact that 50+ people have been involved ensuring the safety of the child and many of those people have their evaluations about the little girl into the courts. All those evaluations (EXPERTS – human beings who’ve personally seen the child) have agreed she is not abused by her father and never was. Even the DA’s office agreed.
PEOPLE, not pieces of paper. Understand better Troy?
This is a hoax not so carefully plotted by the mother. Her whole story is full of holes and the EXPERTS have seen through her, not me, the EXPERTS.
If I was wrong about their recommendations and evaluations given to the judges, then the father wouldn’t have all custody and the mother wouldn’t have her visitation supervised. I’m not wrong, there’s no conspiracy and there’s no corrupt system.
My words must be quite powerful otherwise you wouldn’t waste your breath on me at all.
So what’s Connie’s excuse for not appearing in court Monday.
SUCH A VITAL HEARING, VERY VERY VITAL.
I see Karen comes up with a lie like Connie was in bed, sick. Sure she was Karen. Just took you 5 days to make that up??? Not so clever.
… more to post
September 26th, 2009 at 12:23 pm
The mother screams on ‘saveA’ site for months with lies like the father is preventing her from seeing her child.
Judge Smith told her how she can see her child, file an order. Connie didn’t do it, Connie hasn’t done a damn thing at all.
Connie has to go through Little A’s lawyer for visitation arrangements, NOT the father or the fathers’ lawyer. Got it?
Connie hasn’t done one damn thing for almost 5 months other than post more lies on her site and beg for money.
She didn’t even give a damn about her kid enough to bother showing up for court. THAT’S HOW MUCH SHE CARES FOR HER CHILD.
Such an important day!!!
Lets explore Karen’s EXCUSE.
1. Connie doesn’t have a job so she can’t miss a week of work. If she has a job, then she’s lied to the courts about her employment status. BIG MISTAKE
2. Judge Smith’s clerk called BOTH PARTIES ON FRIDAY to ENSURE THEIR ATTENDANCE. CONNIE PERSONALLY SPOKE TO THE CLERK AND SAID SHE WOULD BE THERE.
Connie NEVER MENTIONED ANY ILLNESS TO THE CLERK. She stated she’s attending and CONNIE’S OWN LAWYER EXPECTED HER TO BE THERE MONDAY AS WELL.
If she was ill, why wouldn’t she inform her lawyer? mmmmm
So Karen’s ‘version’ is an absolute lie once again.
Connie never showed for court PERIOD. THAT’S NO MOTHER.
What you’re not saying Troy, BelieveIt or Karen is what went on in court on Monday. WHY DON’T YOU TELL EVERYONE WHAT THE JUDGE HAD TO SAY ABOUT HER ABSENCE?
hmmmmm wonder how angry Judge Smith was? Let people guess on a ratio from 1 – 10.
Its safe to say once again…. CONNIE SEALED HER FATE WITH JUDGE SMITH on Monday. Her SCAM, HER GAME IS ALL BUT OVER.
September 26th, 2009 at 12:36 pm
Tell me those who’ve given the mother money…
CONNIE begs & pleads with online public to help her raise money to fight in court for her child.
WHEN SHE DOESN’T EVEN BOTHER TO SHOW UP FOR COURT AFTER TELLING JUDGE SMITH’S CLERK SHE WOULD… NEVER PHONES IN THE MORNING TO LEAVE A MESSAGE SAYING SHE WON’T SHOW… SHE JUST DOESN’T SHOW
WHAT DOES THAT TELL YOU?
DOESN’T THAT SHOW SHE SIMPLY DOESN’T GIVE A CRAP ABOUT HER KID?
THEN IT TAKES KAREN 5 DAYS TO MAKE UP AN ‘ILLNESS’ EXCUSE FOR CONNIE. WOW 5 whole days to think of something to tell the public.
BOO FRIGGIN HOO. THE MOTHER hasn’t seen her kid in all this time and she doesn’t show.
THIS WAS HER TIME to talk to Judge Smith again about visitation.
GUESS WHAT! HER OWN LAWYER who was in attendance NEVER UTTERED ONE THING TO THE JUDGE ABOUT visitation at all.
NOTHING. He could have taken the time with or without his client to figure out visitation.
NOTHING WAS SAID FROM HIM AT ALL.
So you all can decide WHAT YOU THINK ABOUT CONNIE’S LATEST INACTION. She’s used your money for God knows what and doesn’t bother showing up. Whether she had the sniffles or not is definitely NO EXCUSE and the judge was not pleased at all.
I’ll leave you to guess the rest…
Have at it Troy whoever you are, feel free to keep poking at me. All I know is Connies support has dwindled to nothing. From all the chatter back in May in various forums, you can see NO ONE on most of those boards are bothering with this crap story anymore.
CAN YOU BLAME THEM? Connie nice going. Your E-BEGGING FOR MONEY TO FIGHT FOR JUSTICE FOR YOUR CHILD IS A SCAM.
IF YOU CARED SO MUCH ABOUT YOUR CHILD, YOU WOULD HAVE BEEN DRAGGED IN WITH A WHEELCHAIR if that’s the lame excuse you’re going to use for not attending.
September 26th, 2009 at 12:49 pm
Go ahead, argue and post more lies. You’re supporting a mother who doesn’t even give a shit about her kid and her NON-ATTENDANCE should tell you that.
If you want to believe ‘boohoo’ Connie had the sniffles and was sleeping on court day, go ahead. Karen, there’s more you don’t know but you will soon understand with 1000% clarity why I’m so confident in my position.
I’m sure come Monday, there’ll be more rants from BelieveIt and more excuses from Karen. It doesn’t change the fact that Connie never showed up for her own kid. Even hookers and druggies show for court for their kids, but Connie?
well she had the sniffles.
Now I’m done for the day, feels good to get it off my chest. Thanks for reading as usual.
September 26th, 2009 at 3:34 pm
Post #1545,
May I ask you a honest question? Keep in mind that I do believe that when this came out that most of us that do not know either family only wanted what is best for the baby. Now the question. Do you really think that it is a good thing for this web site to be kept on the net? Have you given any thought how this will affect this child down the road as she learns to read and understand what has taken place for the world to see. What a great gift she has been given by her mothers family and friends.
Put aside all of the name calling. Don’t think about what side you are on. Just for the sake of this angel. Please think only about her. What are we really doing? Is it important who can be the most hateful. What is this family really trying to do? It beats the hell out of me. If this woman was scared of this man why would she come back to the states. Why would she go thru so many attorneys, why has she not seen her baby, why did she ask for money? All of that aside, is this web site going to help this child. Will it bring her pride in her family when she is old enough to understand. Has it made her home life safe? You can go on and on and outwit the next one.
You do for you children so they can build on their self esteem and become good, safe, stable adults. Do you really think that all of this is going to help with that? Dose it really matter to you? Or is this really just turned into a pissing match?
September 26th, 2009 at 5:30 pm
Fact Just to let you know. I personaly I would never post on those sites. The reason being I do not want any of my personal infomation all over the net because one of you might not like what I have said. I think that is dangerous and very child like. I will say what I want to say. It dose not matter who I am. What I say has no bearing on this case. I know about these people from the net. All that I say is MOO. But so many childess people carry this to far to trust. I have seen to much crazy over the top crap from hateful people. No I do you trust any of the mother supports. You are not out for the proper thing even when it hits you in the face. I am not hiding I just simply do not trust you people. Honest as I can get.
September 27th, 2009 at 1:54 am
TO POST #1532 – Cub Fan
September 24th, 2009 at 8:17 am
“BELIEVE IT – LMOA @ dustin and the thompson’s
September 24th, 2009 at 2:23 am.
Post #1505 – Thompson you were in court Monday and know nothing happened because the all the necessary participants weren’t able to attend. So you Thompson’s keep playing the ex-party hearing and visitation issues for all you think you can get out of it.
Interesting comments. “Ex-Party†hearing? Good one, maybe you ought to think about being an “ex partier†after reading what you rambled on about here for two hours in the wee hours of the morning.”
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Cub Fan, – Thompson’s you prove yourselves to be “DUMBER THAN A BOX OF ROCKS on a perpetual basis!â€
Read and enjoy you dustin thompson worm suckers –
QUOTE FROM;
(legal-dictionary.thefreedictionary.com/Ex-Party+Judgement)
“ex parte (ex par-tay, but popularly, EX-PARTY) [capitalized emphasis is mine]
adj. Latin meaning “for one party,”…. etc..
Copyright © 1981-2005 by Gerald N. Hill and Kathleen T. Hill. All Right reserved”.
Now maybe you’ll no longer be an “EX-PARTY†moronic illiterate idiot …. hey Cub Fan?
ALSO …. Ever heard of different time zones … please don’t tell me I have to explain that to you too! Yes .. I do sleep very well …. Thank you
READERS how can anyone really believe one single word from these thompson’s who don’t produce one single factual point of evidence to back anything they say? They’re confused by the most simple usage of the English language. How can anyone put any faith in the Thompson defensive conclusions they draw when they obviously have significant trouble in their reading comprehension and retention? Arguing with them is worse then talking to a box of rocks.
Look at the difference between what evidence that has been put out for Aaliyah on http://www.saveaaliyah.com verses what the thompson’s have put out for evidence …. Thompson’s have presented not one piece of evidence. NOT ONE!
Don’t be fooled by the Thompson twist, spin, stretch and lie. Study up on “Audio Video Forensics†and see what it can prove. Then maybe you’ll understand the information that will be released after it’s used in the up coming trial of unlawful removal of custody!
Thompson’s tell us what happened that was so detrimental to Connie position as you claim.
LMAO@U Thompson’s
WHERE THERE’S SMOKE …. THERE’S FIRE!
September 27th, 2009 at 2:03 am
WTHConnie never showed up for her baby? i’m done
September 27th, 2009 at 11:25 am
I am with Patty, how could a mother be so very sick that she could or would not show up for court. It just goes to show that she has been caught in her own web. She has scamed the public and had no interest in her child. She can scream all she wants but her actions or lack there of show what she is all about. I am angry that not only has she exploited her child which is the worst thing that she can do she also is a scam artist. She is a dumb idoit. If she thinks that she is smart enough to scam the public with her story she thinkgs to highly or herself. She is not that smart, and adding her baby to the mix. Shameful. She brought this to the net and she will have to take the heat. I am sorry but I have never in my life heard of such a horrible person as this mother. If she is right in all of this then why is she acting like this. She tells the truth on herself. I hope that she gose to jail and her baby name is changed so that she dose not ever know what her mohter and family really are. So Sad
September 27th, 2009 at 12:21 pm
On Monday visitation could have been resolved for Connie if she asked her lawyer to take care of it.
SHE DID DO THAT during another hearing – a hearing that was about sanctions against her! Her lawyer spoke at length to the judge about visitation and the judge told Connie exactly how to fix it. MONDAY WAS NO DIFFERENCE AT ALL. CONNIE COULD HAVE DONE SOMETHING FOR HER CHILD ON MONDAY IF SHE SHOWED. Keep spinning and twisting Karen, it already took you 5 days to invent the lie about Connie being sick.
WHO CARES SHE WAS SICK? THIS IS ABOUT HER CHILD, REMEMBER SHE’S E-BEGGING FOR MONEY SO SHE CAN ATTEND COURT!
SCAMMER TO THE END
Hey Believe IT! She’s had months to file an ex-parte order and has done nothing about it. Either way the mother is a sorry excuse low life trash nothing who’s using everyone online for money.
September 27th, 2009 at 12:29 pm
All family court documents are not available to the public. If they were, you’d have realized even quicker what a scammer Connie Bedwell is. You would be able to read the experts evaluations and the judges recommendations.
Another lie Connie wants you to believe. If its public then we would have been gone long ago because they speak for themselves loud and clear.
A funny thing I read at Troys site… The court expert used to determine who should have full custody is a highly regarded expert used all over California for Family courts. I find it funny they are now trying to say the Thompsons are somehow ‘friends’ with someone of that caliber.
Conspiracy theories folks LOL. It’s all they have to fight with. No proof, no doctors, no one siding with Connie. Whatelse do you expect from a mother who doesn’t have enough of a heart to bother appearing for Monday and never bothered to inform anyone about it.
SHE JUST DIDN’T SHOW AND HER LAWYER WAS LEFT STANDING THERE LOOKIN’ LIKE A FOOL.
September 27th, 2009 at 12:36 pm
Connie’s claim of being too ill to attend, and the reports that she did not call in ahead of time to report this, in all likelihood has just burned her relationship with the out of county judge she finally got.
Way to go Connie. So expect to hear how this judge is now part of the conspiracy against her and her family. You know, the one where all the cops, lawyers, judges, CPS, STEP program, doctors, psychologists, and other specialists (that contributed to the 730 evaluation) are all part of a corrupt group out to ‘get’ Connie, and help an alleged child molester. Because we all know how all powerful this blue collar Thompson family is.
And to the idiot who does not know Patty’s real name, or ip address, way to pull another innocent person’s name into this discussion(or in your case rants). Your attempts at bullying, and your threats to this uninvolved B Nunez person really do not help Connie. In fact it is one of the reasons I will NO LONGER DONATE MY MONEY to help this mother pay for an attorney. You see whether I agreed with her or not, I felt she should be represented legally. I was foolish enough to donate to assist her in getting equal footing in court by having a lawyer. Name calling, and bullying do not help this mother. In fact, nothing posted on this site helps the mother. She needs to talk to her friends and tell them to stop with the rants and lies and libelous comments. In fact your attempts to silence a poster who you do not like, by posting info on their name, location, job, home foreclosure, or any other information- and then being wrong about the person’s name(meaning you are ‘outing’ the wrong person) is reprehensible. It leads many to believe you have no facts to argue your case with- and that all you can do is threaten people to shut them up. You are making their case about the validity of this mother’s evidence(or lack of) for them fool.
Another reason not to donate again is your lie about having IP addresses on people who post here, because if my donation is going towards creating subpoenas to track something as unimportant as internet poster’s names down on this website then I have indeed been scammed. This money is supposed to go to an attorney to represent this mother- or did the Bedwells lie?
Th other reason I will no longer donate is the lack of the ex parte motion as the judge told Connie to file if visitation was not restored. NOTE: on legal documents it is never spelled ‘ex party’ LMAO!!!
The money donated should have been used to pay her attorney to file this important motion and restore visitation!! Bottom line, there is no excuse that is even being offered as to why this has not been done.
You need to think before you post. And you need to get your facts straight. Focus on this child, and on what is best for her. Stop trying to fight individuals on this blog, and post your evidence and facts to make your case. Quit with the childish behavior. Because if you are one of Connie’s family or friends, you are not someone I would ever want around this child.
September 27th, 2009 at 12:40 pm
Karen enlighten us all please. What did the judge say/do about Connie’s no-show? Did you guess yet on a scale from 1 – 10 how furious the man was?
Sure he gave AMARA one more hearing to prepare EVEN MORE stuff against Connie and Monday gave her all the power & ammunition she’ll need to end it forever! Nice of Judge Smith hey?! But what about Connie? It was a terrible terrible day for your wonderful amazing DO ANYTHING FOR HER CHILD Mother! Wait and see, you’ll understand it all shortly. Enjoy your day now
September 27th, 2009 at 12:55 pm
Connie took your money and ran.
There’s no doctors note to Judge Smith and Connie never told anyone she wasn’t going to show. Its so sad to see how much Connies followers will make up lies for her.
The mother didn’t show for court after begging for everyone to give her money.
What’s that called? OH YAH scam!
September 27th, 2009 at 12:56 pm
Aww everyone give Believe it some attention they never got as a child! Its obvious they will say anything for attention and even pee their own pants for attention..
Thompsons don’t have to prove a thing.. Connie does!
September 27th, 2009 at 1:31 pm
Per Karen on Troyofillinois site :
“she didn’t need to be there on Monday. If she HAD to be there, she would have been.”
So it doesn’t matter that Connie was not there.
and “That court hearing was pertaining to the restraining order placed against her. It had NOTHING, absolutely NOTHING to do with her seeing Aaliyah. her lawyer needs to file the ex parte and file sanctions against Bowman for NOT following the judge’s order. That will be QUITE soon.”
So because this hearing was about the restraining order in place to keep Connie off the internet..she didn’t have to be there. Connie doesn’t post on the internet. And the ex parte motion will be filed soon. Karen doesn’t post here, so I thought I would help her get the message out.
September 27th, 2009 at 1:55 pm
Man if I ACTUALLY BELIEVED MY KID WAS MOLESTED I’d be in court! COURT is where it matters, not any internet blogs! Courts have heard the experts & read all the documents it needs, that’s how judges make decisions. I think that’s evidence enough.
COURT is where Connie must fight to see her kid, not online.
If you don’t know what went on inside the courtroom thats your problem Karen aka BelieveIT aka Troy. Worried? I’d be if I were you.
Dontcha all love how Karen keeps inventing people online making it appear ‘new’ people support Connie? I find it so hilarious it hurts my tummy to see her multiple personalities bounce about.
September 27th, 2009 at 2:23 pm
Believe I do believe that Ms Bedwell is the one who has to prove something. He owes no one anything. Especially to a bunch to pissed off people that don’t and want make one damn bit of difference in his life. This will a pissing match. Nothing is going to change this. This is what it is.
September 27th, 2009 at 3:48 pm
Is it me or when Karen posts she never mentions about how to help Aaliyah, she’s only worried about herself and what others say about her. Its only about winning for Karen.
Food for thought: When the mother you’re supporting begs for money to go to court and then pisses off and doesn’t go to court… Thats when you know you’ve been scammed.
September 27th, 2009 at 7:40 pm
Wow, so Connie totally blew off court. Now, not only is Karen trying to downplay Connie blowing this off, she insists Connie didn’t even NEED to be there.
Why would Connie blow off ANY court date regarding her dauighter if she felt her daughter was being abused? It makes no sense. Connie blows off the judge, court, the recommendations of the courts, the judge, her own attorney- that she is paying for with donated money from her crying and begging online, her kid, and now this last opportuntiy to address visitation this past Monday, and Karen simply says Connie DID NOT NEED TO BE THERE.
Good try mopping up Connies mess Karen, but I think Connie has created far more of a mess for herslef than you are going to be able to clean up. People SEE This for what it is, esepcially when this mother blows off court with the excuse she didn’t need to be there.
Hmmm…..
Game over Connie! Why don’t you be honest, and let everyone know their donations are going to pay for your defense for the BS you’ve put online and have done nothing for your child. That’s the TRUTH!
September 27th, 2009 at 9:06 pm
Connie supporters , make no mistake, EVERYONE regardless of which parent they support, SUPPORT THE BABY. To claim otherwise simply distracts from the mother having NO PROOF her child was or has ever been abused. THE MOTHER BLOWING OFF COURT doesn’t say much for her claims either, but EVERYONE following this story ONLY WANTS WHAT IS BEST FOR THIS CHILD. Because people disagree on what is best for this baby in NO WAY means they do not support the baby.
September 27th, 2009 at 9:18 pm
You couldn’t be more wrong — Connie would and did do that to Aaliyah. She never showed, no excuse, no call, nothing.
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For a mother thinking her child is molested then doesn’t go to court tells me she knew it was a lie. She just wanted your money and y’all fell for it. LMAO
September 27th, 2009 at 10:30 pm
Neither Amara nor BabyA’s lawyer received documentation for filing for anything new from Connie regarding Aaliyah. There’s no upcoming trial. Seems Believe IT would know all parties would be notified about future hearings.
A trial = criminal. A hearing = civil & family. Seems Believe IT needs more education in the court system before he/she babbles with more lies. But then look at the source. Believe IT already told us they don’t even know the Bedwells but they love to spew bullshit abound for fun, don’t they?! Seriously mentally ill there Believe IT!
September 27th, 2009 at 10:32 pm
Connie won’t even show for court hearings that are currently held. Judge Smith could decide to award her various things regarding her child if she had a case but she first has to appear. To think there’ll be a trial? LMAO
You have no idea what’s coming Believe IT. Patience and you’re about to find out. LMAO
September 28th, 2009 at 3:47 am
Good for you PattyCakes, aka. FlappyCakes, aka Rebecca (Becky) A. Egan Nunez from New Jersey … you finally grew some short hairs on that clam you claim you have. Your fighting under your pseudonym Pattycakes and call me a coward for using one? …. LMAO@U …. You claim you’re not Becky? But you are Rebecca A. Egan Nunez a lying imbecilic moron who thinks she can talk her way out of her (thompson) lies.
First order of PROOF since this is about protecting Aaliyah.
You’ve claimed Aaliyah is coached and the Daddy’s Worm Video is a hoax.
PROVE the Daddy’s Worm Video is coached! Not by your word but by actual physical third party evidence! Since you claim you have money, take the video of “Daddy’s Worm†to a Audio Video Forensic expert and then publish their report. It’s that simple!
Post your proof of regarding your claimed police report of Connie’s beating some girl up. I would love to see you and Connie meet. LOL Connie looks like she could beat your cellulite cottage cheese ass into butter and feed it to you with a straw! Hey BTLS a Aaliyah promotional fund raiser?
It would be a sure knock out! Bookem Bubba!
Post your proof that Mr. Bedwell has been convicted of anything regarding your lying claims that he has an “extensive criminal record.†List of convictions verifiable by third party proof.
We saw how well that worked out for LLPapa aka. Edward A. Craig. of Brandon FL., posting the list of dismissed charges that he altered.
Remember, “LIST OF CONVICTIONS†…. Not dismissed charges ;?)
LMAO@U thompson’s and CrappyCakesUselessNunezTalker
WHERE THERE’S SMOKE …. THERE’S FIRE! BELIEVE IT!
September 28th, 2009 at 5:16 am
HEY PattyCrappyCakeUselessNunezTalker – (P.C.C.U.N.T)
Where’s that affidavit you said you filed with the court to Judge Smith …. Don’t lie to us by saying it’s confidential.
Post it for us with a filed date on it …. LMAO@U thompson’s & P.C.C.U.N.T
50 professionals …. name them! …. thompsons can’t so lets see you!
YOU’RE SUCH A LIAR P.C.C.U.N.T …. You have no shame whatsoever!
#1590 HELLO – You promise …. Good riddance!
WHERE THERE’S SMOKE …. THERE’S THOMPSON’S and a P.C.C.U.N.T ON FIRE!
BELIEVE IT!
September 28th, 2009 at 6:07 am
You couldn’t be more wrong. The judge was beyond furious and Connie HAD to be there because it was her time to take the stand to be questioned. IF THERE WAS A MORE IMPORTANT TIME TO BE IN COURT, IT WAS THIS MONDAY.
I love the lies and the newer spin now.
First she’s sick and now OOops she didn’t have to show. Uhhhhhhh her lawyer got his ass reamed for her NON ATTENDANCE so you tell me why the judge would do that if she didn’t have to attend.
OMG you’re so pathetic. Nice try. Next lie please?
September 28th, 2009 at 8:05 am
Look at BelieveIt so desperate all the time to take down other people who have nothing to do with baby A other than they want the best for her.
Aww and they are defending Karen why would they do that? Obviously speaking towards Pattycakes like Karen does. Karen go take another ambien and get lost.
September 28th, 2009 at 8:09 am
Ok which is it? Did this mother need to be in court or was she to sick to get out of bed? You can not have it both ways. Just goes to show that the people on the net are more worried about this mother seeing her child than the mother. Just think about that for just a minute. What dose that tell you? It tells me that this is a scam and a horrible thing that this woman has done to her child and family.
Why is it that you people no matter what side thinks that anyone other the Connie has to prove anything. The burden of proff is on this mother who according to the net was to sick to attend and the md said that she could not get out of bed and she had missed one week of work or did she not have to be there. We have all been taken advantage of and scamed no matter what side. All the good intentions have gone by the way side. I don’t think there is anything for her to prove, except the fact she has lied and expolited her child and stolen monies from good people who only wnated to help. No matter what side you are on.
September 28th, 2009 at 12:34 pm
LOL! “The flu”. What a lame excuse. Whoever said that they’d show up in court and throw up in a bucket is right; that’s what you do! You have to be seriously close to death to avoid a court date due to illness. A doctor’s note saying you had the flu is simply not enough. In addition, your lawyer can call the court and ask for a postponement due to your health issues, if they really are severe. If Ms. Bedwell was sick for five days, she had plenty of time to contact her lawyer and ask him to handle the problem for her. Instead, she simply didn’t show up.
Wasn’t this the court date in which Ms. Bedwell was going to take the stand? Wasn’t this the one in which she was going to pull the wool off the judge’s eyes and make him see how awful that Dustin Thompson is? Wasn’t this the one in which Ms. Bedwell was going to tell the world “the truth”?!?
I wonder if the ex parte motion offer is even still on the table after all this time. Considering the “no-show” on Monday, the offer has probably been rescinded.
It’s also interesting to note that the next hearing is scheduled for November. By then, six months will have passed, and under California Family Law, the court has the right to terminate the parental rights of a parent for not visiting their child.
“If your child was under 3 years old when he or she was taken from you and you have not participated regularly in the treatment ordered in your case plan, or if you have not talked with, written to, or visited your child during the 6 months, the court can end services that help you get back together with that child.”
It’s all right here, read it for yourselves:
http://www.courtinfo.ca.gov/selfhelp/family/juv/depcourt.htm#nextsteps
It’s likely that, come the November hearing, Ms. Bedwell’s parental rights will be terminated, not for the internet campaign or for her coaching of the child, but for not visiting the child in the past six months and not participating in the treatment plan.
The decision can be appealed, but there would really be nowhere to go with an appeal. I’m sure Ms. Bedwell’s many lawyers have told her about this feature of the law. The sad thing about this is that prisoners who are incarcerated manage to keep their parental rights while in prison by calling and writing to their children, and Ms. Bedwell is going to lose her rights to her child WHILE FREE.
I really do have sympathy for those of you who donated money to Ms. Bedwell. Your heart was in the right place, but you got completely scammed.
September 28th, 2009 at 3:55 pm
connies lawyer ronald britt dropped the case. does that make him lawyer number 7 or 8?
September 28th, 2009 at 4:36 pm
Only a JUDGE can excuse people from a courtroom. A doctor has no authority and Connie didn’t notify anybody about not attending. She just didn’t show. Another lie courtesy of Karen Nargi.
Can’t have your lies both ways. She was either sick or she didn’t have to attend.
Since we know she never told anyone she was sick and we know her attendance was mandatory because the judge was putting Connie on the stand Monday.
Hmmmm DOESN’T EVERYONE THINK IF CONNIE DIDN’T HAVE TO ATTEND, THAT WOULD HAVE BEEN STATED CLEARLY ON VARIOUS FORUMS ALL OVER THE PLACE PRIOR TO LAST MONDAY SO THEY WOULDN’T LOOK FOOLISH?
Instead “BELIEVE IT” WAS MAKING PREDICTIONS GALORE BECAUSE BELIEVE IT/KAREN WAS SO CONFIDENT ABOUT MONDAY’S OUTCOME IN FAVOR OF CONNIE.
yah Connie made a fool of you all, didn’t she and now you have to cover and make up stories. lol
Wow maybe she didn’t show because she’s scared her lies will result in criminal charges?! Under oath and lying is another big no-no.
Tell us Karen pathelogical liar, what happened inside the courtroom? I know what the judge said and did. Bad for Connie.
If I were you, I’d be very worried about posting anything at the moment. You may just put your foot in your mouth speaking too quick without all the details.lol
You’d hate it terribly if I use your words against you Karen, since its all about you and how we all get you so riled up and angry. Careful now, you don’t have the knowledge that I do or you would not be talking. lol
You have no idea. It’s all over for Connie
September 28th, 2009 at 5:46 pm
Karen/Believe It get over yourself, I’m not Becky and I really wish you’d leave a innocent person alone.
Let me enlighten what a bunch of idiots you are. (my friends will kill me for doing this but whatever). If you’re so desperate to track me down, start digging.
I’m Canadian!
I was born in Alberta. I grew up in Edmonton and my dad’s house was just off Hermitage Road on the north-east side. Its near where the 1987 tornado hit and destroyed an entire trailer park in Claraview. I think if memory serves me right, 28 people died. Tornado was a major thing since we don’t ever get them. We eventually moved to the south side in a sub-division called Millwoods and from there, my husband and I lived in Strathcona County area for many years.
I love visiting the Gigantic Ukrainian Easter Egg in Vegreville. The egg is actually called a Pysanky (pronounced pisanka). If you find an itty town called Glendon, their ‘landmark’ is a perogy. If you don’t know what that is (because most americans don’t) look it up. A great strip of streets in Edmonton is just south of the river called Whyte Ave. A very eclectic place to hang out, old buildings, tons of unique shopping and a ton of bars for the University students in the area. I loved shopping at a place called “When Pigs Fly”. My fav place to eat is the Creperie and I’m a die hard fan of the Edmonton Oilers but I’m pissed they decided to bring back “cry baby Comrie” to the team this year. Bad choice… Oh and we’re known as the city of festivals too as well as the city of champions. I miss K-days in July but now they just call it Edmonton Capital EX. K-days stood for Klondike days. People would go to a huge ride park (like 6 flags) that is set up each year for 2 weeks. People used to dress in old ‘gold mining’ clothes (thus the Klondike gold rush in the 1800’s).
When the kids were little, there was a perfect place to spend the day in the sun near Red Deer. A river that’s blocked off with a waterfall. You take tire tubs and the little ones’ can tube down the slow river. Near Red Deer is a beautiful place called Sylvan Lake. We love to downhill ski, Banff of course is the place to go. BUT if you ever go to Banff I’d recommend Mt Norquay instead of Sunshine Village because its a lot quieter and you have more time to take in more runs. Sunshine is way too busy.
My husband is an oil specialist consultant and the worst place we’ve ever been is in Fort McMurray. It can go about -minus 35 celcius for 6 weeks. I don’t know what that is in farenheit, look it up. But its damn cold.
We live in the USA and part-time in Mexico when my hubby finishes contracts. Italy is probably next on our list. While I think NJ is a nice place to visit, I’ve never even been there. I think the Poconos is in NJ right? I’ve heard lots of nice things about Poconos.
There you are, if you want to try and find me, go right ahead. I’d still welcome your defamation lawsuit too.
So really shut the hell up about this innocent Becky whoever she is, you have the WRONG PERSON.
THEN AGAIN, YOU’RE WRONG ABOUT EVERYTHING ELSE, CAN’T BLAME YOU FOR BEING SO WRONG ABOUT ME TOO. Give it a rest already.
Have at it Karen, find me if you can but stop hurting innocent people!!!
September 28th, 2009 at 6:58 pm
To Post #1591 OF COURSE YOUR WITH PattyCrappyCakeUselessNunezTalker – (P.C.C.U.N.T)
PCCUNT is a liar and so are you!
Come on PCCUNT WHERE’S YOUR PROOF THAT YOU’RE NOT A LIAR that just spews thompson’s lying bullshit?
Thompson’s have quite a rock collection going on … PCCUNT, E-Tardo and Shelly …. OH MY!!!!
Tell me why do you Box of Rocks think that one drivel of the thompson shit that you spout is going to make one bit of difference in this case. Thompson’s nor ANYONE OF YOU ROCKS HAVE EVER PRESENTED ANY EVIDENCE WHATSOEVER! Only satire, hyperbole mixed with thompson bullshit lies spewed out before the world.
Now you Hyenas ridicule Connie for not being able to make it to one (1) court hearing in three (3) years because she had the flu. Yea, according to you imbecilic moronic idiots Connie should be in court puking and crapping her pants to prove she’s not posting when Dave Thompson did in fact figuratively PUKE AND SHIT ALL OVER HIMSELF while convincingly proving she wasn’t posting.
Thompson Box of Rocks Logic shows thompson’s wear imbecilic moron idiot with pride and can’t figure out why Connie doesn’t and won’t! I Believe It’s called truth and integrity something the Thompson’s know nothing about, much less practice.
TO POST 1594 – SOOOOO we’re to believe you over the below quote? …. OK …. LMAO@U Rock heads…
QUOTE FROM;
(legal-dictionary.thefreedictionary.com/Ex-Party+Judgement)
“ex parte (ex par-tay, but P O P U L A R L Y, EX-PARTY)
[capitalized and DBL. spaced writing emphasis is mine]
adj. Latin meaning “for one party,â€â€¦. etc..
Copyright © 1981-2005 by Gerald N. Hill and Kathleen T. Hill. All Right reservedâ€.
LMAO@U Thompson’s and their dumber then a Box of Rocks supporters!
WHERE THERE’S SMOKE …. THERE’S THOMPSON’S, PCCUNT,
E-Tardo and Shelly ON FIRE!
BELIEVE IT!
September 28th, 2009 at 10:05 pm
Patty doesn’t live in NJ so whatever freaky circus side-show. Keep up the scary posts and someone will come and take you away ha ha ho ho he he to the funny farm.
September 29th, 2009 at 6:17 am
patty we knew you’re Canadian eh. it was funnier watching the idiots babble
September 29th, 2009 at 6:24 am
Patty, I am not Believe It! I am not the one that keeps using that Becky’s name. I cannot believe how stupid yu are. You should get that post taken off. No one needs to know that much information. I don’t care if you believe me or not, I don’t care WHO you are. For your safety, take that post off!
September 29th, 2009 at 6:47 am
copying a portion of your post 1607
“LMAO@U …. You claim you’re not Becky? But you are Rebecca A. Egan Nunez”
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LMAO @ “BELIEVE IT” you were saying? Looks like Pattycake is Canadain. bwhaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa I needed a good laugh today
September 29th, 2009 at 8:12 am
lmao who is Shelly? I know my name isn’t Shelly. HAHA this is hilarious!
BelieveIt cant even get info about other posters right.. LOL
September 29th, 2009 at 11:05 am
#1616: Read it and weep:
“If your child was under 3 years old when he or she was taken from you and you have not participated regularly in the treatment ordered in your case plan, or if you have not talked with, written to, or visited your child during the 6 months, the court can end services that help you get back together with that child.â€
It’s all right here, read it for yourself:
http://www.courtinfo.ca.gov/selfhelp/family/juv/depcourt.htm#nextsteps
Not all the raging and calling people cunts in the world is going to change this law and get Ms. Bedwell her kid back. You can swear all you want while Aaliyah grows up in her father’s house, it’s not going to make one bit of difference. I guess it gives you something to do with your free time though!
September 29th, 2009 at 11:24 am
Oh and nobody wanted Ms. Bedwell to go to court “puking and crapping her pants” to prove she isn’t posting. WE WANTED HER TO GO SO SHE WOULDN’T LOSE HER CHILD.
Jeeeeesus. How dense can people be?
September 29th, 2009 at 11:29 am
Oh my Believe It- do you understand what a nutjob you are making Connie into by your twisted rants…any association with someone like you- even if it is only in your mind is hurting Connie’s position. If you care at all about what is going on please stop these ridiculous and abusive posts.
September 29th, 2009 at 11:33 am
LMAO,no you don’t have to believe my about EX PARTE motions, you are just too funny! Continue to use ‘ex PARTY’ all you want. It helps people understand you better.
September 29th, 2009 at 2:14 pm
I think Connie supporters get the rest of us wrong, we DO care about baby A. I know personally I don’t want her to lose any contact with her mom. Even though I believe strongly that Connie is scamming and is exploiting her child.. that child shouldn’t have to pay the price for the actions of her mother.
September 29th, 2009 at 6:42 pm
Flabby Cakes what you don’t understand pumpkin is I’m not Believe it, nor Karen, nor Troy, nor any other person you have accused me of being.
You can’t paint some fairy tale picture all you want of where you say your from, but it’s not the Truth.
We all know and have seen the emails you send to saveaaliyah.com that you posted on websluths.
You emailed them from your work email. It wasn’t exactly a brilliant move on your part when you lie like you do.
And I am fully in agreement with Believe it. I think a fund raising match would be comedy.
I LOVE the new name for PattyCake Believe it. I’m jealous. I thought I had some good ones! lol
Believe it it looks like you are the new subject of attack.
What’s funny is these people talk about court like they were right there in California.
Any brilliant individual that is not a part of dumber than a box of rocks clan can figure out that these posters talk out there ass.
You don’t run saveaaliyah so how would you know a thing about the funds? That’s right- You don’t!
You don’t know the Thompson’s or the Bedwell’s.
If the mother was a scammer like you’ve been screaming for the last 5 months she would have been in jail already.
If Mr Bedwell had a record you wouldn’t have needed to alter a dismissed accusation.
Saveaaliyah hasn’t had one request for a refund. Your lame attempts aren’t working.
Are you people that stupid?
Yes!
I believe it!
September 29th, 2009 at 6:49 pm
All that say Connie should have gone to court crapping and vomiting on herself I hope God blesses you with diarrhea and vomiting this week just to make you come back on this board to say that there is no way in hell Connie could have went to court like that!
September 29th, 2009 at 6:53 pm
One word for you: Narcissistic
September 29th, 2009 at 7:06 pm
Thompson’s don’t post?
Yeah and your not Becky.
You sound like that lying girl Tanya in that police report on saveaaliayh, “I’m honest ask anyone that knows me.”
BLOWHARD!
September 29th, 2009 at 7:10 pm
Troy’s article was AWESOME! It needs a repost!
Some Facts – Baby A Case
September 28, 2009 by troyofillinois
Monday’s court hearing was in regards to the restraining order Dustin Thompson placed on Connie Bedwell. This restraining order clearly violates Connie’s civil and constitutional rights to freedom of speech by prohibiting her from posting on the Internet. This ludicrous order was placed on Connie Bedwell on a whim back in April by Judge Francis Kearney, the Placer County Judge that immediately recused herself following the hearing. It is speculated that she recused herself after realizing that she made an unconstitutional order. My question to Placer County is if this mother is “delusional†why the need to silence her? Why not let us see how delusional she is? After researching this case through all I can get my hands on, it appears that Placer County has a really good reason to try to make this woman disapear. She is shining a bright light on quite a number of corrupt people behind the scenes of this revolting case. The more factual information I find, the more I continue to lean towards helping this poor child and mother.
Through research of this court case you wouldn’t believe what Placer County is hiding! It’s no wonder they want this woman silenced. Just so the public knows what I have found through court documentation, the very first hearing involved between these parents involved the Judge placing a No contact, no threats and no harassing order on the father to protect the mother and child from him after they fled to Alaska for safety in 2006. Dustin Thompson admitted in open court to slamming the mother’s head in the trunk of his Mercedes in 2004. You can also find a Dr’s letter, 911 call, and police reports on that incident. The order was placed on him for this incident, and others for brandishing a baseball bat on the mother while she was holding the child at 4 weeks old, which caused her to flee to Fairbanks, Alaska for safety. Folks get this, there has been a total of three other restraining orders filed by the mother trying to protect her child and herself prior to this child speaking of her infamous “daddy’s worm.†That makes a total of 4 orders of the mother requesting protection from this man prior to his request of silencing her. Not only did I come across this outrageous information, but some more alarming facts. Not only does this father have a history of abuse towards the mother and child, but quite a history of alcohol abuse. He was on court appointed alcohol testing which means he had to be tested for any traces of alcohol before he could visit with his daughter. My advice to the current judge is READ THROUGH ALL THE PAPERWORK. The deeper I dig, the more horrifying the facts I find. Throughout the court paperwork, I’ve also found that Dustin Thompson was the one on supervised visitation. But there is no reason as to why he was granted 50/50 visitations when the new judge was in place. I can only state what has been placed on the net how Amara had lied to that judge and said he already had it. How did this case turn backwards? The only thing I can find is that the mother won’t stop trying to protect her daughter. It’s been reported that the mother has been threatened by the system to quit reporting what her child was telling her mother, family members, friends and therapist. And what I mean by threaten is that they told her that if she did not stop reporting the allegations, her daughter would be taken from her. From all that I’ve read Placer County has unlawfully taken this child from her protective parent. There is no criminal record for the mother, no record of alcohol or drug abuse, and contrary to the father’s claims of mental illness, there has been a psychological evaluation of the mother. It has been reported that Dr. Saturley has seen Connie’s psychological evaluation and her actual psychological test results. All of which Dr. Saturley states has nothing alarming in it (as stated in his own words on a radio show back in June I believe). Not to mention the radio show done by BNN, the mother’s family and boyfriend confirmed the court evaluated her only 13 days after they placed the child in the father’s home following the disclosure of “daddy’sworm.†How thoughtful of the court to rip this child from her mother, give her to a documented abuser, documented alcohol abuser and right after the child alleges her father is molesting her. I’d be enraged and a little insane at that point.
When someone is innocent they will scream it from the rooftops. Why won’t this father answer Dr. Saturley’s kind offer to evaluate all parties? The mother is fully willing to cooperate. It’s important this case gets evaluated fully, in it’s entirety. Numerous witnesses have claimed in court letters on saveaaliyah.com that they were never even contacted by authorities. I believe Placer County and this father do have something to hide. By the looks of it, a lot to hide.
As we all now know, the mother was unable to make it to this last hearing due to Dr’s orders excusing her from work and court. Hopefully, at minimal, visitation will be re-established for this mother and child soon.
To all the posters on BTLS, if you say the judge is angry with this mother for missing a hearing in which she clearly didn’t have to attend, where is the proof? From what I have uncovered, the mother and her lawyer did not promise the judge anything at the last hearing. They were contemplating taking the videos and website down. But it seems that the mother and her lawyer believe that it would be a detrement to finding the truth to do so. If I were her lawyer, I would say to Amara and Bowman, “Agree to visitations at XXX place, and we will be willing to try and take down the site and video.†It’s very evident that the mother’s friends and family will do all that is necessary in order for this mother to see her daughter. But I think that the lawyer is wise in not letting them get what they want without giving something to this mother. Mr. Lawyer, I am still confused as to why an ex parte has not been filed yet. It has been since June 1st. This is an outrage, Mr. Lawyer. Please do your job and get this done, today.
Thank you to all who read! Trust me there is a lot more I will be informing the public on as I continue to dig. With all the information I receive via email, I follow up. Just so you know, I am not taking ones word as the truth.
Tags: Aaliyah Bedwell, Baby A, BTLS, child abuse, Connie Bedwell, Dr. Saturley, Dustin Thompson, Placer County California, Sexual Child abuse
Posted in Uncategorized | 16 Comments »
September 29th, 2009 at 8:44 pm
Ha ha PattyCake someone is onto you.
Troy’s Blog has a Baker’s Man! Haaaaaaaaaaaaa That’s funny.
Patty Cake, Patty Cake, Baker’s MAN.
Patty talks out her ass as much as she CAN!
She spews it, brews it and marks it with a B.
Oh Patty don’t forget that S. to make BOVINE SCATOLOGY.
She splats it ALL on the NET,
Like the Narcissist she is on B. T. L. S.
She Cries wolf- “It’s THE TRUTH INDEED”
BUT BELIEVE IT!! She’s twisting REALITY
Come on, believe God sent her here, JUST FOR YOU AND ME.
Okay now back to what the discerning can see,
Don’t be deceived by Satan herself,
Be sure to pray for poor precious Baby Aali
And for strength for her very protective Mommy
IT’S HEART WRENCHING BUT TRUE
WHAT BABY AALI TOLD US ABOUT HER YUCKY WORMY MAD DADDY.
September 30th, 2009 at 12:09 am
To #1622 E-Tardo, who did I call a “cunt”? PCCUNT IS AN ACRONYM of PattyCrappyCakeUselessNunezTalker – (P.C.C.U.N.T)
For me to have called someone a “CUNT†I would have had to say, i.e. = (for example) The Thompson’s, PCCUNT, E-Tardo and Shelly are CUNTS! ….
E-Tardo, show me anywhere I called anyone a CUNT?
Once again, lying accusations from a ROCK IN THE BOX!
E-TARDO your living up to your name especially if you put an “R†in front of that “Eâ€.
The Rocks In the Box are confused over simple English language usage and terminology.
It’s no wonder, you Rocks Don’t Understand Dustin David Thompson Is A Incestuous Child Molester. You Rocks just don’t have the intellectual capacity to sort it all out and come to the obvious, correct conclusion! You’re all lost in the Thompson smoke screen!
AALIYAH IS TELLING THE TRUTH, it’s so BLATANTLY IN YOUR FACE, you would have to have Rocks for brains not to see and understand it.
Instead of all the blathering B.S. you rocks put out, why don’t some of you pool your money and do some real investigation by hiring an Audio Video Forensic Expert (AVFE) and have the Daddy’s Worm Video examined for every conceivable question you might have. You won’t believe anyone else’s evidence so if you’re really concerned about this little girl well-being, do it yourself!
Dustin Incestuous Child Molester, when one of your supports does this your gig’s up for good molester!
Come on Pattycakes put your money where your mouth is and do some real investigating. I’m sure saveaaliyah.com will get a first hand digital copy to your AVFE. They did it for me and they’ll do it for you.
WHERE THERE’S SMOKE …. THERE’S FIRE!
BELIEVE IT!
September 30th, 2009 at 12:31 am
I too, want this mother and child to have a relationship. I am at a loss as to why this attorney(Connie’s) has failed to file the ex parte motion. There is no excuse offered for this major screw up on this attorney’s part.
I would love to hear that this baby gets to see her mother, and it would be wonderful if this happens!
September 30th, 2009 at 10:40 am
thetruthaboutconnie.blogspot.com
Two sides to every coin. The reader can decide what to believe.
September 30th, 2009 at 11:29 am
Big deal with all your swearing and namecalling. Everybody else who posts here has custody of their kids.
Swear all you want. It’s not going to get Ms. Bedwell her kid back.
September 30th, 2009 at 6:23 pm
Icky Etardo
September 29th, 2009 at 11:24 am
Oh and nobody wanted Ms. Bedwell to go to court “puking and crapping her pants†to prove she isn’t posting. WE WANTED HER TO GO SO SHE WOULDN’T LOSE HER CHILD.
Jeeeeesus. How dense can people be?
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Icky you wanted Connie to go to court so she doesn’t lose her kid?
The hearing would have to be a custody hearing.
How dense can people be? KEEP SHOWING US ICKY!
September 30th, 2009 at 6:28 pm
Hey Icky do you think certain people aren’t capable of comprehending that you post rants under different names?
Believe it obsession?
R-E-Tardo.
I love the poem about Patty!
September 30th, 2009 at 6:49 pm
http://troyofillinois.wordpress.com/2009/09/28/some-facts-baby-a-case/#comments
The truth leaves footprints ladies.
Next time you post on the Petition site advertising your website at the same time you post on Btls, try to space it out a little.
I catch criminals for a living. ;)
Becky, people know you are from New Jersey and Shelly people know you are from Canada. Shelly that was a great article you wrote for Becky about grand ol Canada, descriptive with detail to deceive the outside readers about who is who. I had a great laugh.
What other kind of scams do you ladies do in your real lives?
Diabolical liars like yourselves always have juicy crimes to hide or you would have no reason to practice the act of pathological, compulsive lying.
If you are defending an innocent father why are lying?
The readers can decide for themselves ladies. I will be sure to inform them of your deceptive acts.
Leave this mother and child alone and do something productive with your lives.
October 1st, 2009 at 12:47 am
To Post 1633 Adam Thompson
Your website about Connie is a joke …. You need to rename it thethompson’slyingbullshitaboutconniethattheyalreadypostedonbtls …. LOL.
Funny you don’t name Connie’s “supposed friend” you supposedly quote ….
WHY’S THAT?
Interesting you presume everyone is as illiterate as your Box of Rocks followers but those of us who are educated and literate don’t believe an “unnamed Connie friend” especially over Dr. Saturley psychological evaluation rescoring.
In FACT yours, and your unnamed “Connie friend†claims don’t match up to your vaunted Dr. Roeder psychological evaluation scoring. You people are unbelievable lying morons!
No one’s listening to you lying thompson’s or your tag along Box of Rocks.
Always LMAO@U thompson’s
WHERE THERE’S SMOKE …. THERE’S FIRE!
BELIEVE IT!
October 1st, 2009 at 1:57 am
ICKY RETARDO’S CONTRADICTIONS
Post 1612 Icky Etardo
September 28th, 2009 at 12:34 pm
“LOL! “The fluâ€. What a lame excuse. Whoever said that they’d show up in court and throw up in a bucket is right; that’s what you do! You have to be seriously close to death to avoid a court date due to illness. A doctor’s note saying you had the flu is simply not enough.â€
Post 1623 Icky Etardo
September 29th, 2009 at 11:24 am
“Oh and nobody wanted Ms. Bedwell to go to court “puking and crapping her pants†to prove she isn’t posting. WE WANTED HER TO GO SO SHE WOULDN’T LOSE HER CHILD.
Jeeeeesus. How dense can people be?â€
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RETARDO – Your two above posts show exactly HOW DENSE YOU ARE! In your own words no less …. Not to mention you apparently had no idea what the hearing was calendared for, and don’t give me the EX-PARTY crap. It’s obvious to everyone that if Mr. Britt was going to file one he could have done it then and there! LOGIC AND COMMON SENSE says there must be a good reason or strategy for him to not have filed one yet! Only time will tell.
LMAO@U thompson’s the DENSEST Rocks in the Box.
WHERE THERE’S SMOKE …. THERE’S FIRE!
BELIEVE IT!
October 1st, 2009 at 5:02 am
HEY DUSTIN; IN REREADING THE POSTS Thompson’s say polygraph/stress tests aren’t admissible in court. THAT’S NOT TRUE!
If both parties agree that the results are to be considered by the court as EVIDENCE they are admissible as evidence FOR OR AGAINST THE PARTY!
So come on Dustin David Thompson have Amara stipulate to the court that the results of your polygraph test/stress test will stand as evidence either for or against you and I’LL GIVE YOU $10,000.00 dollars cash if Connie will not agree do the same.
HEY PCCUNT; If you can afford to pay 50K to defend yourself against a slander/defamation suit then you surely can put up 10K too. Hey, and get that little bitch LLPapa aka. Edward A. Craig to pitch in 10K too, and I’ll match it.
If both parties agree to the tests then the 40K stays in the pot to be paid to the one who’s telling the truth as determined by the tests results. Any answer, by either party that indicates “deception†will be considered as a lie …. Fair enough??
BTLS can hold and pay out the money to the winner.
MY MONEY’S WHERE MY MOUTH IS …. HOW ABOUT YOU LIARS?
LET’S GET TO THE TRUTH! QUIT BLOWIN SMOKE YOU THOMPSON LIARS!
WHERE THERE’S SMOKE …. THERE’S FIRE …. BELIEVE IT!
October 1st, 2009 at 6:54 am
If IT is in Connie Bedwells inner circle she’ll never get to see her kid. WTG IT. Stay mental.
thetruthaboutconnie.blogspot.com
October 1st, 2009 at 7:16 am
awake at 1:57 am and again at 5:02? or did you just pass out from all the alcohol you drink?
October 1st, 2009 at 8:21 am
Shelly as far as I am concerned doesn’t even post here anymore.. I know I do but I am no Shelly..
And Patty is not named Becky..
Whatever you can go ahead and pretend to know who you are talking to.
lol
All I see is cussing and yelling.. a lack of intelligence on your part BelieveIt.
October 1st, 2009 at 8:56 am
IT needs a geography lesson. Canada’s 2nd largest country in the world. Shelly lives in Ontario and Patty in Alberta. “Good catch” criminal finder. LMAO seriously mental
October 1st, 2009 at 9:56 am
#1641: The two quotes you posted agree with what I’ve been saying all along!
1. The flu is no excuse for missing court and a doctor’s note is not good enough
2. Ms. Bedwell can lose her kid from not showing up in court
You have yet to learn the full repercussions from Ms. Bedwell’s non-appearance in court. You won’t find that out until the November court date—-IF MS. BEDWELL SHOWS UP ahah ha ha *belch*
October 1st, 2009 at 9:57 am
Oh, and there was a STRATEGY to not filing the ex parte motion? Well, unless the strategy was “lose this kid as soon as humanly possible” I don’t think it’s going to work. You’ll find that out in November too.
October 1st, 2009 at 11:50 am
Oh so now it is strategy to NOT file the ex parte motion to see her child. LOL!! That has to be the dumbest thing you have said so far. The ex parte (not ex party- that was the pronunciation you idiot- not the term) motion relates only to her rights to see her child as granted by the court. It is to enforce her ability to see her child in supervised visitation. So tell us again Believe It how not seeing her child helps her case! Please…explain any strategy that helps Connie by not seeing her child.
October 1st, 2009 at 2:49 pm
Thanks for the plug Troy. Media knows good or bad press makes people curious.
October 1st, 2009 at 3:52 pm
And no I am not Icky Etardo, or Shelly, or this uninvolved Becky person, and/or anyone else you have named. I have been following this case, had donated money, and will no longer do so. I expected my money to be used to restore visitation to this mother. Since that is not the case, and Connie can’t be bothered to show up in court(sick or not) I see no reason to continue to support her efforts. Deal with it Believe It- your posts are a part of why I choose not to help this mother financially any longer. You really are unhinged and have nothing to say except nonsense that does not help this woman with getting her problems resolved.
October 1st, 2009 at 3:54 pm
And Believe It- I doubt Connie appreciates this ‘help’!
October 1st, 2009 at 4:24 pm
Hey DUMB ASS Re-Tardo – THEY’RE YOUR CONTRADICTING STATEMENTS quoted in my post #1641 you imbecile …. Of course you agree with your own contradicting statements. That’s what SPLIT PERSONALITY IMBECILES DO!
Once again; Dumb Da Dumb Dumb .. DUMB!
Apparently, Connie having the flu was justification to miss court. Connie didn’t lose any rights to the baby for not being able to make it to court for the AMRA/Thompson “Connie Is Posting†charade!
It was simply rescheduled to Nov.. Big Deal!
Are any of you thompson’s or you Daddy’s Worm Suckers going to answer my challenge and offer? All I’m perceiving is the AIR PRESSURE CHANGE CAUSED BY THE DEAFENING SOUNDS OF THE RAPID SUCCESSIONS OF YOUR @SS HOLES PUCKERING!
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PCCUNT Post #1558 – excerpt
“BelieveIt coward, why don’t you man up or woman up and send me lawsuit papers if you think I’ve lied. I have the money, the time and the energy to take you on. I’d love nothing more than to have Connie in a deposition too. There’s a 1000 and 1 questions she’ll be forced to answer and I’d love to give that as a gift to Dustin for further court hearings if there ever should be one!!!
Bring it on or shut the hell up because your a sad sick lonely human being that doesn’t even know the Bedwells and you’re only purpose here is to continue to hurt and destroy a wonderful innocent great family and you’re destroying the little child in the process too.
So cut the shit, cut the threats and put your money where your mouth is. BRING IT ON freak show! I’m ready!â€
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MY MONEY IS WHERE MY MOUTH IS …. WHERE’S YOURS?
WHERE ARE YOU PCCUNT? BRING YOUR MONEY AND LLPAPA’S TOO!
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LMAO@U thompson’s and the Daddy’s Worm Sucking Box of Rocks!
WHERE THERE’S SMOKE …. THERE’S FIRE!…. B E L I E V E I T!
October 1st, 2009 at 7:06 pm
thetruthaboutconnie.blogspot.com
DO NOT DONATE MONEY TO ConArtist Connie.
October 1st, 2009 at 7:22 pm
Once again, your total lack of any information and your total disregard for any point that helps this mother makes it clear how useless your posts are Believe It. YOU ARE NOT HELPING THIS MOTHER OR CHILD.
October 1st, 2009 at 7:24 pm
Your challenge offer is as ridiculous as you are, Believe It.
October 1st, 2009 at 8:19 pm
LOL BelieveIt why would anyone give Connie any more money to prove anything?
She already has gone through several lawyers, doesn’t file an ex parte and is too sick to show up for her daughter in court..
No one is going to waste their money on a polygraph.. And if they did and the results were not in favor of Miss Bedwell.. I am sure you would have an excuse like Dustin chose the polygrapher etc etc BS BS.
October 1st, 2009 at 9:21 pm
Icky thought this would be funny. I found “believeIT’s” world renowed expert.
here’s a link LMFAO Ooooo “IT” you’re officially credible.
http://eyesforlies.uservoice.com/pages/14727-topic-suggestions/suggestions/274704-connie-bedwell-dustin-thompson-daddys-worm-
“eyesforlies” the infamous online human lie detector DECLINES to provide an opinion to believeIT.
Below is “Eyesforlies” official opinion on the video.
“The video doesn’t tell me much because the two don’t talk. The child’s reaction doesn’t say much to be me because there are ways other than sex abuse that could cause this response.
I will say that I was surprised I didn’t see disgust or fear in the mother’s arms as she waited and handed over her daughter. Instead I saw positive emotions which was perplexing. If she is handing her daughter over to someone who abuses her daughter, you would expect her to feel very negative emotions. Why wasn’t she? It appears a young woman next to her (which I suspect is her sister) did have these emotions, which I would expect the mother to have.”
_____________No kidding EyesforLies___________ even you seem to see through the mother’s academy award performance.
October 1st, 2009 at 9:36 pm
Connies words:
““I’m fighting for my daughter – I’m her advocate,†Bedwell said. “What kind of mother would I be if I didn’t fight for her?â€
-per Auburn Journal interview
I dunno Connie what kind of mother doesn’t show up for family court for your daughter after (falsely) telling the world your child was abused??
October 2nd, 2009 at 4:01 am
To Poster LOL #1649 & #1651 – You’re morons and you prove it over and over and over again!
Post #1649 LOL –
excerpt –
“Oh so now it is strategy to NOT file the ex parte motion to see her child. LOL!! That has to be the dumbest thing you have said so far. The ex parte (not ex party- that was the pronunciation you idiot- not the term)”.
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Really LOL you imbecilic moron! I guess you missed the address of the website.
(legal-dictionary.thefreedictionary.com/Ex-Party+Judgement)
Additionally, I guess you missed the spelling of the term “ex parte†with the noted pronunciation of (ex par-tay, but P O P U L A R L Y, EX-PARTY) Your insistence that “ex-par-te and ex-party are two different terms, with two different definitions is incorrect! Ex par•ty
[ex pa’ar-tee] in English is “ex parte (ex par-tay) in the Latin both meaning (one party) in English and Latin. Both are correct terminology decided by preference of the user. The court mandates neither term. Therefore, both are acceptable you IMBECILIC MORON!
BELIEVE IT!
October 2nd, 2009 at 6:47 am
And knowing how to spell or pronounce a word has what to do with Connie the scammer? lol
October 2nd, 2009 at 7:09 am
Ok believe it you can spell. I can’t so leave me alone. I just need to say this. It dose not matter in family court what they were there for. If she needed to bring up that she has not been able to see her child then all her attorney had to say was Judge we need some help with this and it would of been handled. More than just what is on the calender can been handled. Especially a matter such as this mother and child not seeing each other. Now if the dads side had a reason they have not done their part then he may reset it but I have serious doubt that he would after what he told this mother in pior court. It is not hard.
I do believe that this has become a pissing match between all. How is this helping this child. I personaly no longer believe this mother. I was outraged when Karen brought this to the net. I sent money, cried, prayed. Then I started to do a little research myself. I am sorry a mother dose not act like this IMHO. I may be wrong but I pray that I am right. This is not about all of us here. It is not about this father. This is about a baby. This baby is being exploited her mother has found a way to make a little money and a way to recieve attention. I have seen it to many years. I thank God that this baby is not being abused by her father. If he did he sure as hell would not being doing it now unless he is stupid and has a death wish. I am sorry for all of the parties in this horrible story. This baby has this story of her young life to read about. Her family. This is a horrible thing to do to her. Her little face and name all over the net. There are other ways to handle this if it were true. Either this mother and her family do not have the tools to get the help they need or they are seeking attention and monies. There is a reason that this mother was told to take the web site down. Regardless if she agreed or not. The judge knows what it will do to this baby in the future. But, no her family decicded that it was in her best interest to inore the judge. It is called money. I do believe that is why this family decided to carry this out.
I do hope that this family is proud of their actions. Please keep in mind when putting out personal info and trying to out whit each other that a little girl will read all of what you are saying. If she could find out who you are what would she say to you. If you can look yourself in the mirror and say well I did it for your own good. Then more power to you. I know that I could never do any of this to this child.
It would be nice if a blog could be put up and all could just cuss and out whit each other. Leave the baby and her family name out of it. I know that we all hate that this has even come to the net. Look what we have given this child as a big girl gift. IMHO this started out for the right thing a baby in trouble. No matter what side you are on. This is a hoax. We all know it. First the mother was to sick to go and then she did not have to be there. On, and On and On. What are any of you really doing to help this child. Sweet baby will be talked about for years to come.
October 2nd, 2009 at 9:03 am
Enough you are right. Believe it can spell and talk better that anyone here. And this helps this baby how? I see what you are saying about the fighting. This site is no longer about this baby. It is sad. I really don’t know who to believe but this site is not the place to find out anything. Do you know where there is a site that has the real news about this child. One day I believe the mother and the next I believe the dad. I will say that my heart is leaning towards the dad. Mothers that I know do not act like this woman. I would just like to read somewhere the real facts are posted unless this is nothing but a game and none of this is really happening. Perhaps this is just old news and the child has been taken care of. A money scam perhaps this mother keeps using. Did she loose her child all together?
October 2nd, 2009 at 11:18 am
I think you are so busy being defensive about the term, you are missing the point Believe it…the question was and is- how does not filing the ex parte motion help this mother. She is still not seeing her child. How does this help?
October 2nd, 2009 at 12:09 pm
Believe It: Read the two sentences again. Nobody wanted Ms. Bedwell to go to court to prove she’s not posting; everyone wanted Ms. Bedwell to go to court so SHE WOULDN’T LOSE HER CHILD. There’s no contradiction there.
While you’re dilly-dally around with this pedantic nonsense, time is fleeing. After six months of no visitation, the court can legally terminate Ms. Bedwell’s maternal rights. Sept. 24 was Ms. Bedwell’s last chance to work out a deal to resume visitation before she’d gone six months without seeing her child, and she didn’t even bother to go to court.
What does that tell you about Ms. Bedwell?
October 2nd, 2009 at 4:24 pm
Oh and you are still an idiot- the term ex parte :ex parte (ex par-tay, but popularly, ex party) adj. Latin meaning “for one party,” referring to motions, hearings or orders granted on the request of and for the benefit of one party only. This is an exception to the basic rule of court procedure that both parties must be present at any argument before a judge, and to the otherwise strict rule that an attorney may not notify a judge without previously notifying the opposition. Ex parte matters are usually temporary orders (like a restraining order or temporary custody) pending a formal hearing, or an emergency request for a continuance. Most jurisdictions require at least a diligent attempt to contact the other party’s lawyer of the time and place of any ex parte hearing.
The definition for the term, along with the pronunciation- the part you insisted on copying is in reference to the pronunciation. Talk about reading comprehension!! LOL at you Believe It.
October 2nd, 2009 at 5:40 pm
Where is the medical evidence this mother must have collected along the way (considering this has been alleged to have been going on for 2 years at least)? Is there a doctor anywhere who has seen this child and can back up this mother’s claims? Has the court been supplied with this evidence?
Why is this mom not seeing her child if the judge granted her the right back in June? Wasn’t she already able to see her baby in supervised visits?
What is going on that this hasn’t been fixed yet?
October 2nd, 2009 at 5:48 pm
I filed my complaint and tried to post here but didn’t work. I gave Connie 100 for Aaliyah. I wish I could undo it.
IC3 Complaint: I0909191545902â€
From: no-reply@ic3 . gov
Sent: October 1, 2009 11:19:19 AM
To: omitted
Thank you for filing a complaint with the Internet Crime Complaint Center (IC3).
Your complaint has been successfully submitted. Please retain the following information for future contacts with the IC3:
Complaint Id: I0909191545902
Password: **********
If you wish to view/download your complaint or have any additional information to provide to the IC3, please use the following link and login with the above complaint id and password.
http://complaint.ic3.gov/update
The IC3′s mission is to serve as a vehicle to receive, develop, and refer criminal complaints regarding the rapidly expanding arena of cyber crime. The IC3 aims to give the victims of cyber crime a convenient and easy-to-use reporting mechanism.
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October 2nd, 2009 at 5:56 pm
I wish everyone could get there money back. I wish I could undo my donation, thought I was smarter. The mother is a terrible person.
October 3rd, 2009 at 1:00 am
Liars and child molesters need to croak!
October 3rd, 2009 at 3:10 am
Posr #1666 LOL
Ya, ya, LOL nice try to shift the direction of the conversation. You would rather regurgitate the legal application rather than be corrected about the two allowable, differently spelled usages ie., ex-parte or ex-party. Once again you ignore the usage of the spelling ex-party in the legel dictionary address;
(legal-dictionary.thefreedictionary.com/Ex-Party+Judgement)
^^ ^^^^
GET IT
I’ll say ex-Party and you can stick with ex-parte, with both having the same meaning (one party) and legal application.
However, it doesn’t change the fact that you’re in fact an inveterate imbecilic moron! :?)
WHERE THERE’S SMOKE …. THERE’S FIRE! BELIEVE IT!
October 3rd, 2009 at 3:48 pm
OFFER TO THE thompson BOX OF ROCKS FOLLOWERS;
Any two (2) of you who will step forward and put your name(s) on the request form/contract for a Audio Video Forensic (AVF) test request, along with your agreement to publish the results and findings under your true names stating all the user names you’ve posted under and where you posted regarding Aaliyah and Connie. If you agree to, and comply to this, I’LL PAY FOR THE AVF TESTING!
If you really are concerned about Aaliyah’s safety and the truth, then what’s stopping you? Surely, it’s not the embarrassments of being so very, very wrong …. Would it?
WHERE THERE’S SMOKE …. THERE’S FIRE …. B E L I E V E I T !
October 4th, 2009 at 12:09 am
http://troyofillinois.wordpress.com/2009/10/04/some-facts-baby-a-case-part-ii/
Here is the mother’s side of the story.
October 4th, 2009 at 12:44 am
Troy if you actually had all the documentation you’d see clearly why the mother has no rights to her kid. Keep spinning the lies Troy. BTW did you know obtaining sealed court records in a family juvenile case is illegal no matter who provided them to you?
Lets take a look see at the 730 evaluation for all to see in black and white – post it for everyone please :)
Why not post Connie’s previous counselor’s details whos on the record in the courts too? Connie ‘quit’ the counselor because Connie didn’t like what she was being told. mmmm Posting a current counselors notes and position is a big no-no too without the counselors written permission so I doubt you have any file directly from the counselor, more like Connie told you what to say.
I know for a fact you do not have the entire court file. If you did, you certainly wouldn’t be writing the garbage you’ve tried to recently. Talk about spinning & twisting lies. We can start with your statement regarding doctors.
There is not 1 doctor on the record agreeing to abuse allegations. NO DOCTOR Connie took the baby too ever filed a report of ‘suspected’ abuse. The only thing 1 doctor wrote is basic ‘notes’ commenting on the mother’s words, not verifying abuse. The ‘checklist’ on saveA’s site is simply a checklist Connie filled out after finding it on the internet. NO DOCTOR filled that checklist out and the court files show that too.
If you had the entire courtcase files, you’d see all the doctors & experts on the record to the judges regarding their firm position about babyA and the fact they all confirm she was never abused by her father. But leaving that part out of your article doesn’t help Connie right?
Sure you have all the documents, the Bedwells give you what ‘looks good’ for Connie and nothing more. Wow your article is just full of lies Connie has tried unsuccessfully to get others to believe. I guess she has you suckered in too.
October 4th, 2009 at 4:34 am
For those of you who seek the truth like me check out the following:
http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/43819/placer_county_judicial_system.html?cat=17
October 4th, 2009 at 6:45 am
LOL I do think that is all this person has anything to add to this blog. Perhaps he works in education. He/she has missed the point to the point I don’t even read their post any longer. Who wants an english lesson. Do they even know about this child. I think that they are what we call show boating. Acting like an idot. Who the hell cares. Go find you and english blog or perhaps help a child with homewrok. Perhaps that is something positive that you can do.
October 4th, 2009 at 10:46 am
Seems troy has been speaking to the Bedwells…he has a new article out
October 5th, 2009 at 2:56 am
To Post #1665 Re-Tardo
Are you for real? …. You really are dumber than a box of rocks!
BELIEVE IT!
October 5th, 2009 at 6:14 am
#1675
Do you realize ‘associated content’ is a blog style website? Connie loves to quote that as if it’s a credible news source. You confuse it with Associated Press.
Did you know anyone can write and submit an article as young as 14? You’re piece you keep depending on was not written by a journalist.
Troy’s ‘version’ is right out of the lying mothers mouth.
thetruthaboutconnie.blogspot.com
Good for you #1668
October 5th, 2009 at 9:20 am
1675- “Truth” Seeker
An article from 3 years ago and not specifically mentioning this case has no real merit..
October 5th, 2009 at 10:51 am
Karen – I am a Child Advocate and I have permission from someone with direct authority over BabyA. The courts also have my affidavit and are satisfied with my background.
Gotta go, far more important things to do than go in circles with scammers.
Troy thanks again for letting everyone know you’ve seen the court files. Connie has no custody over her daughter therefore she cannot release sealed court documents pertaining to a juvenile without permission from BabyA’s lawyer or the custodial parent. It was very helpful to know. But keep following Karen’s advice, it works well for everyone!
Oh and Troy, if you believe Karen when she says it’s an ‘open’ file, you need to phone Placer County Family Courts and discuss it with them.
October 5th, 2009 at 3:37 pm
Help stop ConArtist Connie Bedwell. Go to the FBI Internet Fraud division and fill your complaint. I did and so have many others. She is a criminal and she needs to be stopped.
http://www.ic3.gov/default.aspx
October 5th, 2009 at 10:54 pm
CCC stands for CCCuntConartistConnie Can’tCome to Court.
Liar scammer criminal. She must be charged and thrown to the wolves. Trailer trash low life spread her CCC for everyone. KarenlovesCCConnieCunts
October 6th, 2009 at 12:22 am
Still no answer about how not filing the motion to see her child is a form of strategy Believe it. Please explain how not seeing her child is helping in any way at all.
Still waiting to hear of the one doctor who has seen this child and agrees there is any chance of abuse from either parent.
Still waiting for this mother to make the effort to see her child.
October 6th, 2009 at 4:44 am
Pat these people do not understand minor cases. This is not for all eyes to see. Do you know why they are sealed? It dose not matter who you are or what you thinks you know. This is a child. I think that most of you have forgotten this. You people who support this mother need to understand that this father has full control what goes on with his child. The mother has let go of all of her control of what is to happen to this child. One of the reasona why the judge watns the web site down and SEALED COURT docs sealed is because she is a minor. At the very least leave this alone. God knows that you people leave nothing alone including horrible things that this child will one day endure. Even though I do want to know what is going on since I did donate money for this child. I understand that what goes on in the court room the docs are not any of out business. I know that is hard for people like Karen and her band of followers who are reacing at anything just so they can keep this scam going. I have faith that the police that they will handle this bunch of scammers. Oh and by the way it is against the law not to mention what this mother and her family has done to this child.
October 6th, 2009 at 6:07 am
1683 hijacker
Are you trying to make it appear like I wrote that?
I don’t have to swear to get the truth out.
October 6th, 2009 at 6:18 am
#1685 poster I agree if it wasn’t for people like Patycake Connie would still have money coming in. We all see how Connie abused and damaged her childs future. Connies followers get defensive because they’re angry the truth is out. No one needs to explain to me why she has no custody.
October 6th, 2009 at 12:36 pm
#1686: Believe It is the only one who’s been going around calling everyone cunts and making up lewd acronyms as if they were clever, so it’s safe to say that Believe It hijacked your user name to make post 1683.
October 6th, 2009 at 1:36 pm
Believe It, are you so very desperate to know the legal name and personal info that you would go to such great lengths. That says a whole lot to me about you. If you care so much and have the monies then you do it. Post the legal doc. we can tell if it is real or not. Why do you want others personal info. You scare me. Really. This is gone way beyond normal for an adult no matter what the issue is. Are you in on this money scam as well.
People all beware of Believe. He/She is asking for personal info. That is not safe. This is a bait to gain personal info. You never know if this person could find you and your bank account but most of all your family. You can not be to careful. Do you fall fall for this. All that has happened to this child is horrible. Please no one else fall prey to this sick family. This mothers family must be the best cons in the world. This is MHOO. Do not give anyone your personal info.
October 6th, 2009 at 5:35 pm
To 1683 LOL IMBICLE;
LETS START WITH THE OBVIOUS FOR THE OBLIVIOUS; I’m not Connie’s attorney. I don’t plan or implement her legal strategy. Nor do I answer for what Mr. Britt does.
If you had any reading comprehension combined with the slightest amount of intelligence, you would already know that. Instead, you ask stupid, idiotic nonsensical questions!
Actually, I’m surprised to hear from you again after your last moronic imbecilic episode. OH YA, Rocks have no memory, no reading comprehension or intellect, and bare no shame!
PattyCrappyCakesUselessNunezTalker (PCCUNT) has repeatedly been proven a LIAR! It’s so typical of you worm suckers to hold her up as your banner when in fact I’m busy mounting her head on the Wall of Shame! She talks tough but she doesn’t and can’t back up what spews and drivels out of her mouth with any evidence. Nothing but innuendo.
Then silence. NEVER ANY EVIDENCE!
Actually, if it weren’t for PCCUNT and LLPapa’s blatant lies and defamation, I and two other investigators, who by the way make significant monthly contributions, would not have bothered to find the TRUTH of this matter! So dustin, IN THE END, you will get to see Aaliyah taken from you and your family permanently because you will be going to prison for a very, very long time!
IN THE ULTIMATE END OF THIS MATTER DUSTIN, HOPEFULLY, AALIYAH’S MEMORY OF YOU WILL BE LIKE A FART IN A HURRICANE!
OUR GOAL IS TO THIS END !
WHERE THERE’S SMOKE …. THERE’S FIRE!
BELIEVE IT!
October 6th, 2009 at 8:30 pm
To 1679 NOT-The Truth & 1680 StopConArtists
WHAT? Now we all have to be members of Associated Press to write the truth? You thompson Worm Suckers truly are DUMBER then a Box of Rocks!
PLACER COUNTY HAS A VERY LONG AND DISTINGUISHED RECORD OF CORRUPTION LONG BEFORE THIS CASE!
TO POST# 1681 PATRICIA IS MY NAME, so is Rebecca, so is Becky, so is Egan, so is Nunez.. Just how many alias’s do you have?
THE COURT FILE IS NOT SEALED!
The majority of the file is open to public review. There are a several sealed manila envelopes that are clearly labeled as “Sealed”. There are two (2) full file boxes that hold this case file. My associate electronically scanned in the entire case file with the exception of the sealed documents. So why all the buffalo bullshit and lies about this case and it’s file? It’s there for ANYONE TO READ AND COPY!
SO FAR, TROY’S INVESTIGATION ARTICLES STATE THE TRUTH!
The time line on Saveaaliyah.com is corroborated by court documentation. This once again points to Aaliyah and Connie telling the truth! Thompson’s and their box of rocks do nothing but try to confuse, contort, twist, spin and lie, blowing a smoke screen over the true facts of this case.
Look at ALL THE DOCUMENTATION Aaliyah’s supporters have laid out about this case. Thompson’s nor any of the worm sucking Rocks in the Box have proffered one single piece of evidence to support their defense or allegations …. NOT ONE!
Dustin’s Thompson’s defense consists of nothing but A SMOKE SCREEN of Thompson blathering hyperbole.
******* NOT ONE ROCK IN THE BOX HAS TAKEN ME UP ON MY OFFER OR CHALLENGE! *******
WHAT ARE YOU AFRAID OF? You are you looking for the truth? …. RIGHT!
Just in case you missed IT the first time …. Here it is again!
Any two (2) of you “ROCKS” who will step forward and put your name(s) on the request form/contract for a Audio Video Forensic (AVF) test request, along with your agreement to publish the results and findings under your true names stating all the user names you’ve posted under and where you posted regarding Aaliyah and Connie. If you agree and comply with this, I’LL PAY FOR THE AVF TESTING!
If you really are concerned about Aaliyah’s safety and the truth, then what’s stopping you? Surely, it’s not the embarrassments of being so very, very wrong …. Would it?
Is there truly no one in the molester camp that will think outside the box by seeking independent third party investigations and analyses TO ESTABLISH TRUTH? How can any of you people ever again truthfully claim to be child advocates? What exactly are you doing to advocate for Aaliyah? YOU ALL ARE AGAINST WAS SHE SAYS! You all claim the video is a coached sham, fraud, hoax and a lie?
Post #1681 PATRICIA you claim; “Karen, I am a Child Advocate and I have permission from someone with direct authority over BabyA. The courts also have my affidavit and are satisfied with my background.â€
PCCUNT YOUR NO CHILD ADVOCATE! …. You’ve heard what Aaliyah has said and continues say about her worm daddy? ALL I EVER HEAR YOU ADVOCATE ie. (supporter, backer, promoter, believer, activist, campaigner, sponsor) FOR IS THE INCESTUOUS CHILD MOLESTER AND HIS FAMILY. The last I heard he was 28 years old! HARDLY A CHILD even if he moved back into his parents’ home!
So what CHILD are you advocating for? What you’ve shown yourself to be is a INCESTUOUS CHILD MOLESTER ADVOCATE!
Yea; PatricaCrappyCakesUselessNunezTalker, my associate specifically looked for your claimed “FILED AFFIDAVITâ€, and neither my associate nor the court clerk could find it? WHERE IS IT? Youwold have surely keep a copy of thr filed document …. RIGHT?
YOU HAVE QUITE A TRACK RECORD GOING ON HERE. You’ve claimed you have a copy of;
1.) A police reports about Connie beating up some girl.
2.) Mr. Bedwell’s criminal record of convictions for kidnapping, drug charges, etc..
3.) You claim you filed an affidavit to Judge Smith but it’s not in the court file!
P O S T T H E M O R G E T L O S T A G A I N !
YOU HAVE NO CREDITABILITY!
WHERE THERE’S SMOKE …. THERE’S FIRE!
BELIEVE IT !
October 7th, 2009 at 2:11 am
1683…lmao, so you think anyone bought your lame attempt to hijack a name??? FAIL !!
That was the worst attempt to impersonate anyone I have ever seen! ROFLMAO
October 7th, 2009 at 2:51 am
To #1683 ConArtist Connie ISN’T! –
No Aaliyah supporter wrote that! …. They’re much more intellectually literate than that! And they can count too!
That Post has IMBECILIC ILLITERATE MORON WRITTEN ALL THROUGH IT! High-jacking a user name has always been a thompson Box of Rocks Puppet ploy!
Do I sense a little hostility coming from the Molester and his DUMBER than a Box of Rocks Worm Suckers? …. AH, PattyCrappyCakesUselessNunezTalker and Butters!
It looks like a little 2-1/2 year old AALIYAH’S WORDS ARE KICKING YOUR CANS ALL OVER THE PLACE! You think it’s bad now? …. Just wait till her video gets its day in court!
Still waiting for a response to my challenge and offer from you want-a-be child advocates!
LMAO@U Molester and the Worm Sucking Rock Puppets! ;?)
WHERE THERE’S SMOKE …. THERE’S FIRE!
BELIEVE IT!
October 7th, 2009 at 4:26 am
http://www.protectiveparents.com/cases.html
October 7th, 2009 at 4:59 am
To Post #1656 LOL
October 1st, 2009 at 7:24 pm
Your challenge offer is as ridiculous as you are, Believe It.
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Oh please expound on how ridiculous I am. I can hardly wait! If the molester was innocent he would begging for a poly/stress test and that slime ball Sandy Amara would demand one for him!
All the legal maneuverings Amara’s doing for the Molester shows she knows dustin’s GUILTY! It’s absolutely despicable!
To Post # 1657 StopConArtists
October 1st, 2009 at 8:19 pm
LOL BelieveIt why would anyone give Connie any more money to prove anything?
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I except your comment as your acknowledgement that Connie would win the Poly/stress test bet simply because Aaliyah’s telling the TRUTH therefore, so is Connie. Whoever said Connie would be paying for the poly/stress test? WHAT DARK HOLE OF YOURS DID YOU PULL THAT OUT OF? CRAM IT BACK IN THERE AND SHUT IT!
THE DULLARD THOMPSON’S CAN’T HANDLE ME …. WHAT ARE THEY GOING TO DO WHEN MR. BRITT HAS THEM ON THE STAND UNDER OATH? AGAIN! AH Dave Thompson? The court transcripts of JDT on the stand are ten (10) times funnier than what’s been written about it so far. It’s comedy pure and simple!
The next hearing the Molester will get to take the stand …. O’ Boy!
Hey Rocks In the Box, anyone stepping up to accept my offer? All you self proclaimed “Child Advocates†are as silent as a vacuum chamber! WHERE ARE ALL YOU WHO PROFESSED YOUR CONCERN FOR AALIYAH AND YOUR VEHEMENT DISCOURSE THAT CONNIE COACHED THE BABY?
This is your chance to try to prove it …. Let’s do it!
WHERE THERE’S SMOKE …. THERE’S FIRE!
BELIEVE IT!
October 7th, 2009 at 6:43 am
thetruthaboutconnie.blogspot.com
Help stop ConArtist Connie.
Thanks for the email update yesterday from your ‘save’ site Connie Bedwell. You continue to e-beg for money and we continue to report your fraudulent efforts.
Stop Connie Bedwell from scamming others with her hoax ‘daddys worm’ video. Report her to FBI Internet Fraud Unit. http://www.ic3.gov/default.aspx
October 7th, 2009 at 7:06 am
Let’s try this again Believe It, you stated that Connie’s attorney was not filing the ex parte motion to restore visitation as a matter of strategy. The question I post next is directly related to that. What would that strategy in your opinion be, to NOT file to restore visitation for Connie?
I hope that is simple enough for someone obsessed with vulgar language, and name calling.
You claim to have read all the court documents, and have all these private eye skills- so do tell, what is the name and/or date of the exam from one doctor that agrees there is indeed abuse going on from either of these parents?
October 7th, 2009 at 7:50 am
Believe It:
Enough already. Resorting to name calling, vile acronyms and insults achieves nothing. How is this productive for the child?
There are two sides to every story, it is very evident that you don’t really want any details from the Dad’s side out. Get over it…the truth will prevail in the end.
If you are so absolute in your convictions, pay for the AVF, have Connie take the Poly and put your own name on it and publish it for all to see.
My guess is, there would be nothing to see.
October 7th, 2009 at 8:04 am
Out of the 49,922 views of the You Tube version of the video- only 1,871 people have signed the petition(and clearly some of those signatures are duplicates and/or from people who do not support the petition). So it seems that there are many people who do not feel this video is enough proof to even sign a petition.
There is a whole lot of opinions, and nothing in the way of concrete evidence in this story. This lack of hard independent evidence, and all the conflicting statements made by people on this blog make it hard to come up with an informed opinion. The courts will eventually figure things out, and guess what- they don’t need any of you to do it.
It is pretty entertaining to watch this forum war between some of the posters here though. Keep it up folks! I come here not to support either side, but to watch the idiocy of both sides thinking what they say will matter at all.
October 7th, 2009 at 8:17 am
Believe It’s post always look like a bunch of cuss words and threats. Nothing of real importance in there.
I don’t think she would pass a poly on this and asking people for money to pay for it just sounds like a desperate attempt to make people look like they do not care if they do not. And to make it seem like they are scared of the results when in fact they have better ways to spend their money such as gambling it away in Las Vegas because essentially it would be a gamble to send money to Connie.. you wouldn’t see any results just know that she would be living off of your money.
So when is she going to try to see her daughter? Its been how long now?
Ex-parte going to be filed?
October 7th, 2009 at 9:28 am
SHOW ME the 730 exam. I want to read what the evaluator says about Connie. If she has nothing to hide -post it-!
October 7th, 2009 at 11:20 am
“Send more money so Ms. Bedwell can prove she didn’t cheat you out of your money”
Yeah right. What a stupid challenge.
October 7th, 2009 at 1:05 pm
CAL. FAM. CODE § 3111 : California Code – Section 3111
(b)The report shall not be made available other than as provided in subdivision (a), or as described in Section 204 of the Welfare and Institutions Code or Section 1514.5 of the Probate Code. Any information obtained from access to a juvenile court case file, as defined in subdivision (e) of Section 827 of the Welfare and Institutions Code, is confidential and shall only be disseminated as provided by paragraph (4) of subdivision (a) of Section 827 of the Welfare and Institutions Code.
(c)The report may be received in evidence on stipulation of all interested parties and is competent evidence as to all matters contained in the report.
(d)If the court determines that an unwarranted disclosure of a written confidential report has been made, the court may impose a monetary sanction against the disclosing party. The sanction shall be in an amount sufficient to deter repetition of the conduct, and may include reasonable attorney’s fees, costs incurred, or both, unless the court finds that the disclosing party acted with substantial justification or that other circumstances make the imposition of the sanction unjust. The court shall not impose a sanction pursuant to this subdivision that imposes an unreasonable financial burden on the party against whom the sanction is imposed. This subdivision shall become operative on January 1, 2010.
(e)The Judicial Council shall, by January 1, 2010, do the following:
(1)Adopt a form to be served with every child custody evaluation report that informs the report recipient of the confidentiality of the report and the potential consequences for the unwarranted disclosure of the report.
(2)Adopt a rule of court to require that, when a court-ordered child custody evaluation report is served on the parties, the form specified in paragraph (1) shall be included with the report.
(f)For purposes of this section, a disclosure is unwarranted if it is done either recklessly or maliciously, and is not in the best interests of the child.
Source: Findlaw.com
Additionally, you should look at the California form FL-328. There are penalties for disclosure of the information in the 730 report. While these penalties do not go into effect until Jan 1, 2010, it is probably not a good idea for this mother to be publishing this report in any form, let alone sharing it with other than her attorney.
October 7th, 2009 at 1:15 pm
Believe It, if you feel so strongly that the examination of the video will help Connie, and that a polygraph test will help, what is stopping you from doing so. You say the money is not a factor for you. Instead of trying to elicit peoples names (which given your track record for the use of names shown here in your posts, anyone would be nuts to give you their name) and trying to get them to sign a contract for the evaluation of the video(really?? you will pay, but they are legally bound to pay, once again anyone would be nuts to agree to this)- just do it yourself.
Back up your own opinions and statements. Provide the proof yourself instead of blaming others for not wanting to play your childish games.
October 7th, 2009 at 1:15 pm
Cripes people quit giving the skank attention, we know shes slummin for a buck.
October 7th, 2009 at 4:36 pm
I am more amazed with this site everyday. Why is it that some of you people think that you are intitled to others personal med. info. Show me the 730 exam? What? What in the world are you talking about? You just can not have a looky see at medical files. This is done by an MD. Not an attorney. I don’t get a rats ass who you are or what side you are on but that is none of you business. And while I am at it who in their right mind would any idot send this woman any more money for anything. I raised four children on my own and was able to retire at 42. This woman needs to take care of her own financial needs. I was stupid enough to send her money at first and I can assure you that I will never send this money hungry person another damn dime of my money that I worked very hard for.
Everyone keeps asking about this mother seeing her child. It is ovious to me that she has no desire to see her. If my attorney was using this to help me I would have a new attorney.(I have never seen anyone who has had as many attorneys as she has had) All of this mess is this womans fault. I hope that she goes to jail for what she has done to her baby and for the money scam that she is running and still is. She is a begger.
October 7th, 2009 at 6:00 pm
Comment listed below found elsewhere on the net. Hi TitsMcGee. Don’t know the Bedwells? You are a Bedwell.
LMAO@TitsMcGee (that’s what she calls herself on myspace). BELIEVE IT ahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa so you’re a criminal finder and have a world renowed video expert at your disposal? Pathetic. You don’t even have a job lazy ass.
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Cara Bedwell said,
in May 5th, 2009 at 9:14 pm
The saying is so true… where there is smoke there is fire!! The entire nation should be able to see the smoke coming from the whole State of California because the whole County of Placer is on fire!!
October 8th, 2009 at 6:15 am
Troy’s blog states all the documents are public domain. He refers to documents in his blog.
If they’re public domain and not sealed like Paty warned then show me the 730 exam. I want to see what the mother is hiding! Let everyone see the 730 exam Troy.
October 8th, 2009 at 6:49 am
Figured “Believe It” was a Bedwell, didn’t know which one until now. Makes all the more reason to protect Aali from the Bedwells. No wonder the judge refuses to allow Cara to see her own niece. Huh!
October 8th, 2009 at 8:09 am
lol I knew Believe It was Cara.. makes sense she has a mouth on her and no class. Tits Mcgee! bwahahaha!
October 9th, 2009 at 3:12 am
You THOMPSON’S and your Worm Sucking Box of Rocks Puppet MORONS REALLY ARE COMEDY!- wow, what great detective work. …. KEEP GUESSING! I’M NOT A LIAR LIKE YOU DULLARD THOMPSON’S AND THEIR ROCKS! … I’m not a Bedwell or anyone else you think you might know …. I’m an independent third exposing the LIARS in this case, no matter who’s side their on! So far the THOMPSON’S, PCCUNT, LLPapa, and others soon to be named “LIARS” … HOLD THE TITLE, HANDS DOWN!
Why is it you didn’t name the location of your found quote? Your quoting from Cara Bedwell witness statement on saveaaliyah.com.. According to your faulty reasoning of; Only Cara can agree with the truth of the statement of “WHERE THERE’S SMOKE – THERE’S FIREâ€? What geniuses! …. Oops, someone else used that saying too …. OH MY! …. That one too! …. I guess I’ll stick with WHERE THERE’S SMOKE …. THERE’S FIRE! It fits the thompson’s so well! THEY’RE ALWAYS BLOWING SMOKE! First you call me Karen, then Troy, then Karen/Troy and now Cara. …. You thompson’s are too much …. LMAO@U ???? I’ve run out of labels OMG!
So geniuses explain this …. If I were Cara Bedwell how would that change the truth that has been said and proven about the thompson’s and their rock? …. TRUTH IS TRUTH …. IT STANDS ON ITS, OWN NO MATTER WHO TELLING IT! I’m ALL FOR THE TRUTH! In this case a 2-1/2 year old little girl is telling the TRUTH about her daddy’s worm and what he does to her with it! THE TRUTH’S kicking dustin’s ass, exposing him for what he REALLY is …. A INCESTUOUS CHILD MOLESTER! You Worm Sucking Rocks just can’t comprehend it!
JUST SO YOU READERS KNOW! Once again the Thompson’s and their Rocks are lying! Our records indicate Cara Bedwell works (2) JOBS, generally, a total of 16 hours a day, usually, 6 days a week! [Cara’s one hard working lady!] Dustin you claim Connie doesn’t work but court records show your dad Dave tried to serve her at work. Just another lie huh dustin and the thompson’s.
ONCE AGAIN …. Dumb, Da Dumb Dumb .. DUMBER BY THE DAY!
LMAO@U LYING THOMPSON DULLARDS!
So MOLESTER, who is it that’s unemployed, collecting unemployment, living with their parents A G A I N? Waiting for his Denali to be repossessed? Huh DUSTIN?
FACT; Dustin is 28+ years old and has only lived outside of his parents home for less than 2-1/2 years.
READ DUSTINS “SELF DESCRIPTION” IN HIS DR. PHIL WORK BOOK AT http://WWW.SAVEAALIYAH.COM IN HIS OWN HAND WRITING NO LESS!
Most consider it equal to a hand written confession of being the physically abusive psychopath the Bedwell’s claim he is. Don’t forget all the good things dustin says about Connie too. Compare it to what he says now!
Dustin, when they take you for the last time out of the court room heading for prison. Know this; THE TRUTH sent you there and I’ll be in the courtroom to witness it, waving goodbye and good riddance! Then off to post it on YouTube, possibly helping to promote the book(s) I hear Connie’s writing. You know Dustin, since you’re a gambler, I’ll bet you 10 to 1 odds, Connie repays everyone who donated to Aaliyah’s cause! “People say that’s just how Connie isâ€. I BELIEVE IT TO THE POWER OF 10 ;?)
WHERE THERE’S SMOKE …. THERE’S FIRE!
B E L I E V E I T !
October 9th, 2009 at 8:20 am
It still wouldn’t prove truth of any sort if you were Cara or anyone else. I really do not care who you are seeing as you cannot even write or speak it seems without any profanity or a bit of intelligence.
October 9th, 2009 at 9:42 am
Your comment sums it up perfectly. Believe It appears highly unstable and their posts do not help Connie or Aali. Believe It makes Connie look erratic and crazy.
October 9th, 2009 at 2:21 pm
I always thought Believe It was Tim Bedwell. Whatevah, makes no difference, Ms. Bedwell’s never going to see her kid again no matter who Believe It really is.
October 9th, 2009 at 5:05 pm
why would anyone care who Believe It is?
October 9th, 2009 at 5:07 pm
Oh Believe it, you really think Connie has any intention of repaying the money she has gotten? LMAO- yeah that’s gonna happen! ROFL- yep, you are funny!
October 9th, 2009 at 11:37 pm
Where do I start?
I’ve never posted (but from what I can tell I will be accused of being the father).
None of these posts are conducive to supporting the mother and her version of the truth. I see no proof and without proof there is no case. Proof is definitive regarding the courts. ‘Daddy’s Worm’ video has been discounted by the courts it appears. The mother cannot see past her blindness and in return she will not reunite with her daughter because of the blindness. The father holds permanent custody it appears essentially holds all the cards. I do not see any media stepping to the plate. I do not see any mothers of Placer County stepping to the plate to fight side by side with the mother of Ms. Aaliyah. I see a blog that has degenerated to the pits of hell none of it lending a hand towards proof from the mother. For all the world to see none more important than Ms. Aaliyah to read this when she is older. Can you imagine the heartache she’ll feel then reading your words? When will this end? When is it enough to walk away?
October 10th, 2009 at 10:55 am
Oh yeah, I almost forgot: If the timeline on Child Protection Community is an example of Ms. Bedwell’s writing, I doubt she’s capable of writing a book that she wouldn’t have to pay someone to print.
October 11th, 2009 at 7:14 am
The pedophile clan wants to try to convince anybody they can that “Daddy’s Worm†is anything but Dustin’s penis. So right here we will rip his “theories†to shreds with this thing called LOGIC.
(Think slowly about each point before you move on to the next point.)
1) Dustin wants you all to believe the child is speaking of Baby Einstein’s worm:
The child is clearly speaking of 3 types of worms throughout the video. Baby Einstein’s worm is the first one she addresses which she states is green and orange. Anyone that has seen B. E. knows that is correct and accurate. The child then adresses “Daddy’s worm†which tastes “Yucky†and makes her cough, he has to wipe her mouth with like a napkin because of “Daddy’s worm†not B. E.’s worm. She states she sometimes gets mad at daddy and then further describes why. At the end she describes how daddy takes her to the store to see worms. She is very descriptive and very clear it is “daddy’s worm†not worm’s from the store. Daddy thinks he is so smart and tried to confuse her by taking her to the store to see worms. Too bad for him that his child is more intelligent than him. The child then concludes she doesn’t like ANY of the worms. She gives the infamous worm an owner, her Daddy. She gives Baby Einstein’s worm an owner B. E., and she tells us where the other worms are that daddy made her go see…at the store.
She addresses “daddy’s worm’s†size. She is holding her little baby doll in her arms and says its giant like her baby. She says she tried to see him, he tries to look big.
“he tries to look big†possibly like an errection? She says “she tried to see him†so apparently it was dark. She says “I tell daddy’s worm dont do that, its yucky, dont touch my mouth worm†And that she has to tell him “dont stop.†It makes her choke and cry. Then tells him “daddy get it off, he has to wipe it off with like a napkin.†This child descibed perfectly the act of oral sex in complete sequencial order entirely on her own. “Daddy’s worm†does it to her. Then she states “daddy wants to have a baby.â€
2) The Child Molester wants you to believe his Worm is an earth worm:
The child is very descriptive and clear. She described it’s size and it is not the size of an earth worm. Why would Daddy be sticking earth worms in her mouth anyway? That is abuse in itself. If you paid attention in the first of his theories it clearly debunks this theory of the child molesters too.
3) The Child molester wants you to believe that she is speaking of gummy worms:
Listen to the child!! She tells you Baby Einstein’s worm is green and orange, not “Daddy’s worm.†Remember she tells you about “daddy’s worm†that she “tried to see him.†It’s kind of hard to see a worm that is getting shoved down your throat in the dark that makes you choke and cry. “It tries to look big†so we know it changes sizes. Plus, kids love gummy worms. “Daddy’s worm†is “yucky,†she has to tell it “dont stop†and then she states “daddy wants a babyâ€!! That is no gummy worm! Why would a child think her daddy wants a baby with her? Think about it. Why would she have to tell a worm that she doesn’t like, “Dont stopâ€?
4) The Wormy Daddy wants you to believe the mother coached her:
Coaching is leading. It is the same as leading a witness with the answer in the question just like the rules in a courtroom. First of all nobody is even talking about the subject of “Daddy’s worm†in the video but ONLY the child entirely on her own. The only question asked is “What does the worm look like? There was nothing suggesting or leading in it. For those of you who do not understand what coaching is, a coaching example would be: Does the worm look like a banana? That would be suggesting an answer in the question. None of which ever happens throughout the entire 27 minutes of the “Daddy’s Worm†Video. The Mother and Aunt aren’t even talking. The child is insisting on telling them why she doesn’t want to go to bed. Any good Psychologist knows that children relate everything to their own knowledge and the world as they know it. They relate their own problems to their dolls having the same problems. This child in the video tells us that “Daddy’s worm makes her sick and cry and it makes her teddy bear sick and cry too.†She tells us that both her and her doll “don’t wants to go to bed right now.†At 2 1/2 she wouldn’t know the word penis instead describes it the best way she knows how “Daddy’s worm.†Don’t forget also there were previous reports made to CPS by others than the mother of the child describing “daddy’s worm†as having hair like the hair on her head, it having one eye, and hurting her tongue. There are previous reports and restraining orders filed because “daddy hurts her pee pee†before she ever talked about daddy’s worm in her mouth.
Child molesters only progress in the sick things they experiment on children. You can see the progression throughout this child’s statements and behaviors. You can only imagine what he is doing to her since he has her alone for a year.
It is very clear to any attentive parent that it is impossible to coach a 2 1/2 year old child to talk for 27 minutes straight relating everything she says to her dolls. Not one time throughout the entire video does she ask what mommy what did you say? The Inotation (rise and fall of ones pitch) is clear this child is speaking of her own valition. Her inotation does not rise like she is questioning each statement like a coached child would sound like. This child is clearly uncoached.
Also it is pitch dark in the room. You can tell that they have to turn on a glowing bear in order to see. Also the infared is on in order to view the video. There is a tremendous amount of detail in the video alone to prove this child was indeed not coached or prompted in any way to say what she is describing about her “Daddy’s Wormâ€.
Help stop this Child Molester!
October 11th, 2009 at 7:00 pm
So this child’s guardian ad litem wants Connie to find a supervised visitation site with a metal detector(as reported by Karen). WTH? Why would they think they need a metal detector? Why would this person think the judge would buy that requirement? What is the justification for this? Several thoughts come to mind, but that would just be baseless speculation.
I personally don’t buy this as the excuse for why the ex parte motion was not filed. It has been 6 months since this mother has seen her child. The ex parte motion could/should address the issue of the lack of restoration of visitation, including the issue with the type of facility. So what is the hold up really?
October 12th, 2009 at 8:06 am
1720-
It sure is an odd excuse! And sounds like another lie, I mean look at all the EXCUSES they have for every single thing that doesn’t go Connie’s way. It gets old and I am surprised Connie’s supporters don’t see through them all. First she was too sick for court then its she didnt have to be there.. she yells abuse and corruption of entire county, her lawyer is the reason the ex parte is not filed.. Dustins Lawyer is the reason.. Now its because of a metal detector at the visitor center.. BNN dropped this like a hot plate,so did Bubba and eventually Troy will too I am sure.
October 12th, 2009 at 8:50 am
Do you know why that excuse doesn’t hold water 1720? Connie has had 6 months to file the ex-parte order and could have done so no matter the reasons for the delay in visitation. Her lawyer has not answered or replied to numerous registered letters sent to him nor phone calls. The latest excuse from Karen is a joke. It takes Connie 6 months to come up with that story but not once did she try to head back to court to ask the judge to restore her visitation? hummm sure, now that’s a mother truly fighting for justice for her child. Truly willing to do anything it takes to get her kid back. Does anyone notice she hasn’t bothered to make any attempts see her kid since she got an influx of money from the internet in May? Why is that do you suppose?
1719 your post is only ‘very clear’ in your head. The authorities say otherwise. Isn’t your game and story telling getting old 1719?
I agree with 1717 poster – Where’s all the other mothers who’ve been tossed to the lions by the so-called corrupt system in Placer County? You’d think there would be a couple hundred women standing behind Connie with the same kinds of stories. Even BNN has had nothing to say since July 2nd and they ‘were in this fight to the end’. 5 Connie clan supporters won’t get the story started again no matter how many times they attempt to repeat the same old lies in ‘new’ blogs and boards.
That’s the great thing about “google”. People can read all the stuff out there and they are. Otherwise Connie would have a couple thousand people helping her all over the internet world and its ‘very clear’ to see that’s not happening.
October 12th, 2009 at 9:01 am
Connie would rather write a book than try to see her kid? Oh I see, she’s found a new way to make more money off her scam.
October 12th, 2009 at 5:55 pm
I knew when this scam ran out that we would no longer hear from this mother or her family. Months ago this mothers sister, boyfriend, daddy and friends all over the net answering questions offering refunds on any money that was sent and requested back. Now nothing. The baby has not seen her mother and I doubt that her family has either. Shows exally what this story is all about, a money scam and a horrible family who have used this baby for financial gain. I hope that someone somewhere will shut this woman and her family down and they go to jail. This baby is so much better off not seeing this woman who some have been calling a mother. She has used and abused her for her own gain. That is so terrible.
BNN was going to be in this until the end. I would say that the end is here. No news, nothing but excuses. I feel for all that tired to help this woman run this scam because it is and was a scam. It is over until the next time.
October 13th, 2009 at 10:33 am
I just want to ask a question here if I can without getting cussed out. We will see.
Can somone who has been talking with this family for all of these months speak with them and find out what in the world is going on? I know that some have talked to the mothers family in the past. Have they stopped taking phone calls and stopped answering questions. Like why has this all stalled if not a scam for money.
I have flipped flopped on this case since the start. I don’t know what the truth is. I do still believe that most all of the peeps that found out about this in the beggining wanted only what was good for this family. When money is invloved peeps look at things differently. Just a fact.
Thank you for anyone who can or will answer this question.
God sped to all.
October 13th, 2009 at 6:36 pm
I heard Troy has a fantastic article coming about the 730 exam! You morons won’t have the slightest bit of intellect to refute it. It should be interesting.
I heard that Connie has already written a Book exerpt to be published for an author here shortly. And I heard Connie’s Book already has approx. 100 pages to it already. I bet that puppy will sell. I know you lying idiots will buy it just to read it.
Oh and make sure to keep a look out for Connie on TV exposing corrupt Placer County and that incestuous child molester. I bet he is too chicken shit to appear on TV to get caught up in his lies.
Remember what that poster said about his lies unfolding in front of the nation; it’s a heartbeat away.
Why would Connie’s notes on her timeline have anything to do with her capability of writing a book? Jotting notes would be slightly different genius’! As Believe said Dumb da da da dumb.
Oh look I used Believe it’s lingo. Maybe I’m Believe it?
MORONS
I don’t see a single one of you taking up Believe it’s offers???????
October 14th, 2009 at 12:08 am
The Blame Game continues
Connie Bedwell has blamed everyone. She insists everyone but her is lying or conspiring and only she – Connie Bedwell – is telling the truth. Lets take a peek at the ever growing list of the BLAME GAME by Connie Bedwell:
Falsley claiming an entire county is corrupt and wants to protect a child molester
Blaming 3 judges including the unbiased out of county Hon. Judge Smith
Blaming lawyers spouses
False claims the fathers family are friends with the experts and judges
Claims the fathers family works for the county therefore have some kind of power
False claims the fathers family is wealthy. (If they were wealthy what are they doing working for the county? You sure can’t get rich by being any kind of county worker).
False claims of no investigation. Court records show 11 separate investigations, CPS investigators contacted Bedwell family members.
Blaming all the staff at CPS
Blaming the entire DA’s office
Blaming all the staff at STEP
Blaming all the staff at MDIC
Blaming Sergeant P. and his staff
Blaming the father
Blaming the grandfather
Blaming the grandmother
Blaming the fathers’ siblings and their girlfriends/boyfriends
Blaming every worker at the supervised visitation center
Lying about the fathers’ lawyer being friends with the visitation center to kick Connie out
Blaming Tanya B.
Blaming the doctors in the emergency room
Blaming the same doctors Connie brought her daughter to see
Blaming the doctors who’ve examined LittleA and reported no findings of abuse
Blaming the child psychologist experts who’ve extensively examined LittleA and determined the mother coached her child to ‘say those things’.
Falsely claiming the father is sleeping with one counselor and the father is sleeping with a clerk of the judge and the father is sleeping STEP program director
Blaming prior counselors of Connies
Blaming the 730 Evaluator
(the 730 Evaluator who determined LittleA is safe and belongs with her father is a highly renowned child expert and this renowned forensic child psychologist evaluator is used all over the state of California in Family Courts). Judge agreed with the 730 findings and ordered 100% permanent custody to the father. Connie Bedwell participated fully in the 730 Evaluation.
Blaming the lack of money (legal aid is available to the mother) The mother has had 4 lawyers in less than 2 years.
Blaming her own previous lawyers
Blaming her current lawyer R. Britt
Blaming the father’s lawyer
Blaming her car accident injury on the father
Blaming the father’s girlfriend and ex-girlfriends
Falsely claiming all doctors and child psychologists are incompetent and have no experience with child sexual abuse
Blaming her own daughter who told the experts how her mommy forced her to say things
ARE WE SEEING A PATTERN YET?
If you count all staff & authorities involved in protecting the child – LittleA – Connie Bedwell insists over 250 people are conspiring & lying to protect a non-existent ‘child molster’.
YES CONNIE BEDWELL – Everybody but you is lying.
(there’s many more she’s blamed but my fingers got tired)
October 14th, 2009 at 1:04 am
You people that keep changing your names posting the same lies are pathetic. Just stop it okay, no one believes you. Most people are starting to realize what we have known from the beginning. This is a hoax, a scam. THAT’s why BNN has said nothing, and they don’t have the balls to admit it. OR apologize to the people they insulted, attacked, and drove away for what they now know we were right. So flock off Karen, Connie, and whomever else is spewing these lies. The jig is up. Buh bye.
October 14th, 2009 at 6:09 am
Troy’s article does not discuss why the mother still never bothered to file an ex-parte order to see her child for the past 5 months.
Every last mother on the face of the earth who believed their child was being abused or ‘her life at risk’ would have tried everything and anything to see her kid including appearing in court while ‘deathly ill’. SO WHY no ex-parte order Connie? Did Amara or Bowman hold a gun to your head and prevent you from talking to the judge the past 5 months?
Just another lame sorry ass excuse yet again.
October 14th, 2009 at 6:14 am
Hey Beast I think BNN has no balls to admit anything. “No comment” speaks volumes doesn’t it. So Karen invents Troy to make it appear new people are paying attention. yah right. The jig was up the moment the mother didn’t show up for court in September.
October 14th, 2009 at 6:50 am
bhwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa Connie on TV? Sure what’s her lie going to be when that doesn’t pan out? Dustin controls ‘Dr Phil’ and ’20/20′? (psssst: we already heard the lies Connie’s spreading around Roseville about her TV appearances). Hilarious. Man if she wants people to understand how delusional she is, this is the perfect way to do it. More pathetic than hilarious actually.
Imagine that? 20/20 & Dr. Phil (Who Connie is obsessed with) will be doing a show about Connie. lol Bubba won’t even utter her name anymore but Connie has 2 national shows doing an ‘expose’ on Placer County. I repeat bhwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa.
October 14th, 2009 at 11:44 am
LOL Connie cant manage to file an ex parte BUT can some how get her some on a nationally televised show? Oh yes that is so believeable..
October 14th, 2009 at 11:53 am
#1726: Oh, yes, Ms. Bedwell is going to withhold her GOOD writing while trying to convince the nation that her child is being molested and Placer County is corrupt. I mean, why waste your GOOD writing on convincing people to send you money? Give me a break.
She hasn’t gained any literacy when she wrote this letter, posted on CPC on 5/3/09, which is written in a prose style:
http://www.childprotectioncommunity.com/blog.asp?action=details&page=41327&int_blogid=348
There’s not going to be a book, there’s not going to be any TV appearances, there is simply going to be a final court date in which Ms. Bedwell’s parental rights are severed.
October 14th, 2009 at 8:08 pm
I am sorry that yet again another article has been written about poor poor Connie. The Troy article is just another excuse for poor Connie. When will this stop. I will tell you when. It will all stop when we all stop blogging about it. The net is making it look really bad for this mother. All of the exuses are building against her just make her look guilty.
I don’t understand why the mother supporters can not see they they are making her look sooo bad.
She sounds guilty, looks guilty, acts guilty. You all know the duck saying. Quack Quack.
All I see are opions not facts.
Quack Quack
October 15th, 2009 at 9:25 am
Hey since Karen reads over here and “doesn’t” posts..
I am only StopConArtists and Butters on blogs so if you really wanna say that I am the stopscammers person too thanks for a compliment since they are quite smart.
Also on the blog http://thetruthaboutconnie.blogspot.com/ there are 29 followers.. and on polys you have what 13? The same 13 on Troys?
That is quite a bit more than 2 people ;)who believe the baby is safe with her daddy, but go on and believe Connie will get baby A back. I hear soon her parental rights will be severed for not showing up in court…
She has the control to get a new lawyer to file the ex parte or have her current lawyer do it. Its not as dumbfounding as you make it.
Has anything gone Connies way thus far AT ALL? I wonder why! And oh and don’t forget to blame it all on everything and everyone but Connie.
October 15th, 2009 at 9:27 am
Btw has anyone heard from Dr.Saturely? Or did he hightail it out of this mess as quickly as BNN and Bubba?
October 15th, 2009 at 11:38 am
Now the explanation has been expanded to require not only a metal detector at the visitation site, but bodyguards too? Wow, anyone else see a trend here?
October 15th, 2009 at 11:49 am
How do these ludicrous requirements(if true) prevent Connie from filing the ex parte motion with the court? If anything, they are the reason to file one immediately. There is no excuse for this mother not being able to see her child-from either side.
October 15th, 2009 at 8:30 pm
Posting to a comment to Karen & clan at Troys…
The DA’s office takes criminal activity very seriously. So does the FBI. Connie I’d love to see your ass behind bars for exploiting and hurting your daughter the way you have. NONE OF THIS IS A GAME!
Karen and Connie’s little ole clan, you AIN’T SEEN NOTHING YET. Thanks for helping build a case against Connie, your actions have been appreciated. Karen, like I said a few weeks ago, you DON’T have a clue what’s coming…. patience.
October 15th, 2009 at 9:38 pm
1738 it doesn’t stop Connie at all from filing an ex parte order. It is purely another excuse that was created to blame someone other than Connie and her behavior. She didn’t even need a lawyer to approach the judge with an exparte to re-establish visitation. Poor helpless blameless Connie. Of course NONE of her actions brought her to the results she currently has in her lap. lol talk about dumb.
She’ll never get it and she’ll never understand the courts, NOT HER, decides where to place control and custody of her child. Its the courts she needs to obey. Good to hear they’re one step closer to throwing her hiney in jail!
October 16th, 2009 at 12:04 pm
Who is this “Troy” person and why should I care what he says? Is he a lawyer? A judge? A person with an interest in this child or this case? Does his opinion make any difference at all as to whether Ms. Bedwell gets custody of her child back? Is his opinion any more valid than my own? Or is he just some guy white-knighting for Ms. Bedwell in hopes that some day she’ll repay the favor by being his friend (or more) rather than just dropping him like a hot potato once she’s finished losing custody of her child?
Enquiring minds want to know.
October 16th, 2009 at 2:49 pm
Oh Icky I think Troy is just the new BNN, BTLS… either they will be duped and dropped by Connie or they will figure it out themselves and drop her.
October 16th, 2009 at 6:49 pm
None of this(on the blog) makes a difference on the custody of this child. Custody has been decided. The mother has not even filed the motion to force resumption of her supervised visitation. There is no excuse for this.
The only damage being done by the blogging is if it comes back to haunt Connie for violation of the court order. The bigger issue is the damage done to this child’s future from all of the graphic and disgusting posts made trying to prove abuse where there is none. What is put out here will come back to haunt this child when she reads it. None of this was necessary- there are courts that handle this and seal the records for a reason. Connie should have stuck to the courts, instead of posting her child’s face and name on the net. Raising money by exploiting her child was/is wrong.
There are other ways for her to have done this, and not used her daughter’s name and face. She made this choice, but her daughter will have to live with it. And none of this exploitation has changed anything for this child. Except for her mother no longer being able to see her, because she put the pictures out there. Pictures that are still out there.
What exactly has this woman done to see her daughter in the last 5 months? I know she took my money to pay for a lawyer, you know, the one who still hasn’t managed to do anything productive.
October 17th, 2009 at 1:08 am
Patty we are all so glad to finally see that you can finally see this isn’t a game!
I applaud you!
Took you long enough!
Now tell the molester with the worm attached that you talk to to quit playing a game with his child’s life!
Patty Backwards
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October 17th, 2009 at 1:11 am
Troy making more sense than your little mind can fathom?
Weird how that TRUTH shit works isn’t it?
October 17th, 2009 at 1:22 am
Now Troy is Karen! ha ha
Karen anyone who gets under these lying idiots skin must be you! lmao
Look how Believe it made fun of their two supporters so they all made up new emails to make it look like their blog has supporters! Thats why their post thread is closed down. Nobody would be posting!
BWAAAAAAHHAAAAAAAA
e have more supporters than you do Nah nah nah nah nah nah!! Really? Grow up!
The petition speaks louder than words.
Come over to Troy’s blog and try to have decent civilized conversations.
October 17th, 2009 at 1:31 am
Believe it was Cara, Tim, Karen, Connie, Troy…
Now Troy is Karen!
We know who you all are but you don’t have a clue who you are arguing with.
Coo coo clan hates having their dribble proven as lies by people they can’t even put a name to.
Believe it I miss you where are you?
You crack me up!
October 17th, 2009 at 3:52 pm
I am curious what the father’s explanation for the comments made in the video by his daughter are. It seems that many people get accused of being part of the father’s family/friends, but no one ever states his position.
Curious that after this long, no one has spoken for him – except for those that seem not to believe the mother. Does this make them Thompsons? Then why no defense of any of the claims of the mother and her family?
There is no restraining order on him, or his family/friends. Does his lack of comment show he cares or that he has something to hide? I am pretty sure his attorney has told him to stay quiet, but I am still curious why no one really explains his side.
October 18th, 2009 at 11:01 am
Civilized? I see a level of immaturity even my 5 year old no longer displays. Name calling? Seriously how old are you?Your sweet helpless Connie is going down for fraud & then some. Deal with it.
thetruthaboutconnie.blogspot.com
Yes StopConArtists where is the holy BNN? Dropped Connies farse scam like the rest of us. The level of desperation to keep Connies scam going is astounding. The level of immaturity in their group behaving like 3 year olds won’t get different results for your scammer queen either. Go sell crazy somewhere else Cara & Karen. Everyone’s done listening.
October 18th, 2009 at 11:42 am
Way to call the kettle black there! You need to grow up yourself. LOL, your posts are very childish, and have nothing to say. Try posting a statement about your opinion of this story instead of games bashing posters. Stick to the facts(what few there are). You only make the mother’s side look crazy and vindictive. IMO
October 18th, 2009 at 11:50 am
Troy has a right to his opinion, but he is just restating the parts of the story told to him by the Bedwells. There is nothing new there. Just like there is nothing new happening. Connie still hasn’t seen her child, the court case goes on and on, and there still is no proof of abuse by any credible independent source. Just more he said/she said- with nothing in the way of evidence.
There is another blog out about this story…
http://kidsinperil.blogspot.com/2009/10/aaliyah-bedwell-tragedy-in-progress.html
October 18th, 2009 at 1:38 pm
Wow, just when you think things are settling down. Connie wants to be on TV and write a book?? I am always disgusted by people who try to profit off of children- the Anthony’s come to mind. They love being on TV and want to write a book- ya know, to help kids! Makes about as much sense as Connie writing a book does.
Unless she titles it “What not to do in Court custody cases”, or “Mom, You can make money with your computer”. LOL
Sadly there is a real child whose family is torn apart here. There is a child whose mother can’t figure out how to restore visitation even after the judge told her he would help. There are people who are wanting to help this child who are not getting the whole truth- on both sides. There is a whole lot of spin, and omission going on. And of course a bunch of name calling and personal attacks. Why can’t y’all stick to the facts, and your own opinions? Why not just convince people of your point of view instead of these lame rants at each other? Is it because you have no facts to argue your case?
The important questions, like why no medical evidence after all this time? and Why no ex parte motion so mom can see her child? never seem to get answered.
And Troy, where is your article about the 730 exam? From what is being said on other blogs, it may not show Connie in the best light. Is that why you have not written an article yet? You allude to reading court documents that support this mother, yet you offer no details. If other bloggers are to be believed, the judge has seen ALL of the court records, plus 5 hours of video, and all the evidence to date. He still has not returned custody to this mom, and has not changed any of the current orders. Seems that the judge would be the best one to decide…oh wait, I bet Connie claims that this new out of county judge is under the influence of the Thompsons!! LOL- yes, judges risk their reputation and careers to support anyone who is not a Bedwell!
Let us know when Connie finds a tv show, or publishes her book!! LMAO
October 18th, 2009 at 5:50 pm
Why would he explain anything when he has his daughter in his custody and the courts are ruling in his favor?
He has nothing to prove to bloggers.
October 18th, 2009 at 9:30 pm
People quit givin skank attention we know shes slummin for a buck. Shes headen to jail where a new bubba is bout to be her friend. Trailer trash at its finest check skanks slutsister pics titsmcgee. Jail time smellyskank
October 18th, 2009 at 10:15 pm
Imatturity prevails over everyone calling others names and swearing and attacking and hurting and putting real names or addresses and not one soul acts as if abused children matter and no gracious person is heading the lead for abused Aaliya and I cannot be a particapant to imatturity of this magnatude and I did all humanely possible for Aaliya and every morning I said a prayer and took my coffee to the computer to think of new ways to help Aaliya and seeing attack after attack it dawned on me Aaliya has no leader hero at the plate but she has a family filled with hate so large they don’t see her pain but every day I wrote letters and made calls and when my coffee pot was empty I went through my day knowing I did what I can and when hate prevails so deep in ones hearts its time for me to let go and let God and I pray for all souls here I pray for Aaliya most.
October 19th, 2009 at 6:17 am
What a turn there.
The bedwells pray for dustin? Oh sure, they coach and exploit a baby to make scam money instead of getting a job, come out calling an innocent man an outright pedophile baby raper without any proof, without any charges or convictions, come here bullying & threatening everyone who won’t drink their kool-aid krap and they pray for dustin? I’m sure they do.
October 19th, 2009 at 6:36 am
With all the spin needed to keep things going for the Bedwells they must be dizzy. Now it’s praying for the man they are determined to libel, and want to see jailed. LOL, next they will be trying to sell that bridge that they wanted DT to jump off of.
I don’t think they will be able to come up with anything that will change the results they have gotten so far. What is it they say about trying the same thing over and over and expecting different results??? ROFL -
October 19th, 2009 at 7:41 am
Source: SaveBabyA blog
posted by PleaseHelp
“We brainstormed ideas specifically for you people that want to help can. Connie thinks it would be beneficial and time saving for her if you all could start researching as many media contacts and their addresses together and begin posting them here ( and to the stupid DA no Connie didn’t give me consent to tell people to post although you should attempt throwing her in jail she could sue the crap out of you people even more for what you’ve done) Ok back on track- It would save Connie more time to make the massive amounts of copies of daddys worm and other videos and documents to put together packets to send to the media.”
Seems that the restraining order is about to be violated, and one of her supporters is sharing that info with the internet. Along with a few jabs at the Placer DA (that should help Connie bunches!)
And there is a need for more money.
“We desperately need to get it all out there and fast. Placer County DA needs a spotlight on their crookedness. Another thing people can do is help brainstorm ideas for fundraising. The trial alone to prove he is molesting her is easily going to cost 10,000 dollars. We are open to ideas, moral, legal ideas ”
Here is the link for those who want to see how Connie is trying so hard to obey the courts and see her child. Wonder what is going on about the ex parte and visitation. There is no mention of that, just the plea for help with press packets, media contacts and of course raising more money.
October 19th, 2009 at 7:57 am
Hey Connie Groupies. Do all the work for the lazy ass mother who can’t get it together long enough to bother going to court. HEY Connie Groupies did you know media isn’t listening, you’ve already tried that route months ago. In order for media to listen, Connie will have to prove she’s done everything possible for her child, attending classes, obeying court orders, filing exparte orders, going through the system BEFORE you can claim conspiracy and corruptness. Connie needed to do the work FIRST before attempting to scam the media. Is her Dr Phil show going well? The one she’s telling everyone about? I hear Dr Phils legal team is none too pleased about Connie using his name.
LOL you’re latest ‘momentum’ is very funny Cara but I guess you need something to put out to keep what groupies you have left for your sister. LOL poor sweety, did the bars close early last night?
October 19th, 2009 at 8:02 am
You have no idea what’s headed your way. Have fun mailing packages of your ‘original’ copies out to media who will do the research and discover its a scam.
BTW if its copies, they cannot be original too. LMAO
Enjoy your day groupies, do all the work for the mother who won’t even appear in court for her ‘almost dead’ child (according to karen on facebook). So sad and pathetic the few followers you have are leaving one by one. Soon Connie will be talking to Dr Phil every day in her livingroom all by herself.
October 19th, 2009 at 8:43 am
Gotta say, if this pleasehelp is one of Connie’s close friends(does she run the saveaaliyah website?)- she needs more help than anyone can give her. Unbelievable, her cohort is admitting Connie intends to violate the restraining order by sending out copies of videos of her daughter to any and all media contacts that her internet supporters find and post on that other blog. She admits Connie participated in the planning and will be doing the video copies and mailings to the media.
Guess that talk with the DA didn’t make an impression, or she was lying when she said she understood what the court order meant. Or was it her lying when she first told BNN about the restraing order prohibiting her from going to the media for help or talking about the case with them. Guess it doesn’t apply to the TV shows she expects to be on. LMAO.
And they need to raise more money??? Big surp