Save Baby Aaliyah

May 14th, 2009 by admin

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The case of Aaliyah Bedwell:

SaveAaliyah.com – read about it here. It is not a hoax, this is a real girl, with a real mother trying to protect her daughter.

Write the District Attorney of Placer County, California:

Bradford R. Fenocchio
Placer County District Attorney
10810 Justice Center Drive Suite #240
Roseville, CA 95678

(916) 543-8000
(916) 543-2550 fax
bfenocch@placer.ca.gov

Date:

Mr. Fenocchio,

I am writing you to express my concern about your apparent lack of attention in a case involving the sexual abuse of a three year old girl named Aaliyah Bedwell. The video seen many places on the internet titled “Daddy’s Worm” is disturbing to say the least. What’s more disturbing is the way this case has been handled by your office. You are the highest Law Enforcement Official in Placer County, California. You have the responsibility to protect this child when the allegation of sexual abuse is brought to your attention, which this was over eight months ago by all accounts.

The suspect in this case has an attorney named Mrs. Sandra Amara, whose husband is also a judge. If Judge Dirk Amara is meddling in this case, it is also your duty to investigate him. Judge Frances Kearney, removed herself from this case, and stipulated that a judge from a different county would hear it. Which is a step in the right direction, however, it does not absolve you of your responsibility of investigating credible allegations of serious violent sexual crimes like this one.

Mr. Fenocchio, it is paramount for the well being of children in your county that you prosecute those suspected of child sexual abuse to the fullest extent of the law without exception. Anything else is unacceptable for a District Attorney. Protect this child, prosecute the offender, and uphold the laws of your state. These are all part of your responsibility as the District Attorney of Placer County, California. You need to take this very seriously before this child is beyond the help and protection she deserves.

Sincerely,

Your name
City, State

Read here about how broken the Placer County, California Superior Court really is:

http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/43819/placer_county_judicial_system.html?cat=17

Blogger News Network Update:
Aaliyah Bedwell – Accused’s Lawyer Plays Dirty


1,991 Responses

  1. Rebecca

    Bubba we need to help this child, I myself am a abused child and this poor baby girl is being abused in the worst way! We need to pull together, and get this son of a bitch.
    This is awfull. My God please save this child!! This is so sad now she has been pulled out of her home and now with strangers. I hope she is home with here mom now.? HE IS HURTING THIS LITTLE GIRL! HELP!!

  2. Don Bischoff

    They really ought to get to the root of this sicko. Just because he seems well connected doesn’t give him the right to do things to this poor innocent child.
    GOD will take care of this man come judgement day.

  3. Rebecca

    rather when I was as a child.

  4. heather

    this is so disgusting. this man needs to be hurt the same way he has hurt his little girl!!!!!!!!

  5. Ryan

    Man, I feel bad for you two. I hope that somebody in the court system hears you and sees that video.

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  6. Crystal U

    This is not staged. You can tell. I am a parent of a beautiful little girl as well & couldn’t imagine anyone doing this to my child. I can just understand how her mother feels right now. I would be in rage mode & stopping at nothing to make sure something is done to protect this child. What kind of sick bastard would do this to a child let alone his own. What a sick F***. Someone needs to do something about this. If this little girl stays in his custody she could end up dead like the rest or these poor babies out there that keep getting murdered by their parents. What is wrong with people? What is wrong with this society? This child will probably be scarred for life over this. Legal actions must be taken. I’m just in shock!! WTF?

  7. JC

    Hi I’m from Miami and I was extremely disgusted. I am a father of 3 and the benefit of the doubt is that a 2 and a half year old cannot be train or coach to say all all this. The little girl was brutally honest as all the kids are…… they just say as it is. Please send this to the proper authorities and get the Deacos involve.

    Thanks for your time.

    JC

  8. BrookeC

    This is so eff’ed up….I cannot believe what I am hearing…I had to turn the volume down…I am in tears….I contacted my husband and he said he had to turn the radio off in the car just during Bubba’s intro…..I want to eff’ing kill this guy, this is so wrong!!!!…….WHY?!?!?! does our justice system continue to allow our beautiful children get hurt and violated like this…..this beautiful lil girl is going to be mentally damamged for life…I am in tears, my heart aches for this lil girl and her mother……..I want to post this to my Facebook to spread the word!!!

  9. Robert

    That sicko needs to be exterminated. God bless this beautiful little girl and help her to overcome this horrible experience.

  10. Dan Adams

    Dear Guys,
    I have never called or mailed you guys, till now. I am moved to at this time. To keep it short, just let me know when you load the bus going to California. I’am with you, bat in hand.

  11. Dan

    OMG! This guy is sick ,his parental rights should be taken until a full investigation has been conducted. And from what I have heard,they should be taken away for good.

    Bubba army, keep up the great work by bringing awareness of these issues to your listeners.

    Look out Nancy Grace, Bubba’s got radio:)

  12. Denise

    I am absolutely sickened by this video! Her father’s “worm” should be cut off and fed to him!!

  13. Dr Jay Flens

    I can only hope that Dr. Saturley is well trained in the literature on tainting of very you children’s memories and the manner in which very young children use language…on top of that, he should also be well trained in the forensic evaluation of child sexual abuse…in my opinion, the country’s leading expert is Tampa psychologist, Dr. Kathy Kuehnle [pronounced keen-lee]…

    I’m a forensic psychologist in the Brandon area and have seen way too many cases that sound legitamite but later prove to be staged or tainted memories…children this age are incredibly sensitive to inappropriate questioning and once tainted, their memories cannot be untainted…

    The problem is that this video already suggests that the child’s memory may be tainted by the mothers seemingly harmless questioning…this questioning may have no malicious intent, but can alter the child’s memory without meaning to do so…

    The appropriate questioning of a young child takes years of training, a thorough knowledge of the research on how young children use language, and techniques to prevent tainting or confounding of memory…

    That being said, if this case proves to be accurate, then the child should definitely be protected…the more people who question the child the greater the likelihood that the father could win a “taint hearing”, which is when the reliability of the child’s statements is challenged…please, do not allow any more questioning until a well-trained specialist gets involved in the case…

    Thanks…

    James R. Flens, Psy.D., ABPP
    Diplomate in Forensic Psychology

  14. Dania Herbella

    I can’t believe that man would be allowed to have custody of this child. And I can’t believe this county would not at the very least investigate. What are they waiting for this child to be killed by that monster??? That entire county is corrupt!

  15. Claire Ballard

    This is OUTRAGEOUS!!! Dr. Joe or whomever needs to contact Gov. Schwartnegger or someone! I am sickened by this.
    Please help this poor little girl and mother.

  16. candice

    hey bubba, i am also a survivor of child abuse. after hearing this story on your show, then watching it for myself, i am sure that this little girl was not told what to say and she needs help. i am willing to write any letter or send any e-mail in order to help save this baby from any more abuse. thanks for your show bubba. god bless.

  17. Kelly Campbell

    I am so thankful that you guys got a hold of this story. Now, this little angel will get the help she needs. I am still just speechless. I am not a “professional” but I don’t think she would be suddenly so scared of the baby Einstein worm just from “coaching”.

    Thanks for coming to New Smyrna Beach! BUBBA ARMY! BUBBA ARMY!

  18. Alan

    This guy is a sick bastard!!! He should be castrated, and then have his own member shoved down his throat!!!

  19. Brandy

    I’m from Richmond, VA and I think this situation is down right disqusting! Something more needs to be done and with this really happening and there is proof of it from the child this no staged act. Why isn’t something being DONE! That lil girl is going to be messed up more in later years. Instead these damn people in the world are more concerned about the damn beauty pagents and pictures coming up, who gives a crap about that garbage!?!? No one!!!!!!!!!!! WE CARE ABOUT THIS LITTLE GILR & ACTIONS NEED 2 BE TAKEN!!!

    I feel as if the Daddy’s “WORM” needs to be chopped off and someone needs to put it in his face and make him play with it and shove it down his throat and choke on it.. This story listening to it made me want to throw up on my ride to work, I don’t understand how people can do something so SICK!!!!!!

  20. Claire Ballard

    Bubba needs to pull out ALL the stops. I mean get Charlie Crist on the case, Tucker and anyone else who can draw attention to this case.

  21. Brian

    I say we cut this guys ‘worm’ off, put it in HIS mouth, and make him clean himself up with a f*n napkin…. that is of corse before we handcuff him to a telephone pole and let every good, honest, mother and father in america unload a few rounds into his @$$. sick bastard.

  22. Frankie

    I have sent an email to the District Attorney and the Office of Victim Services. At the very LEAST, this evidence and case needs to be investigated thoroughly and without prejudice. Anything less would be a travesty and unacceptable.

    Bubba and staff….you are good people for taking this situation and making it known to all outside of the local area. Our children need to be protected and kept safe…even if that means from their own parent.

  23. Tom & Jennifer

    This is so terribly sad. My husband and I cannot have children, but adore them. I think this father should have his “rights” taken from him, and now! This child does not deserve such hell…there is enough of that when she gets older. I agree, cut it off and fed to him!

  24. Roxanne

    I am a criminal investigator in Georgia and I work on child molestation cases on a weekly basis. I wish I worked in CA right now so I could help this child. Has the mother taken the child to a Child Advocacy Center and had a Forensic Interview done with the child? This is one of my first steps in getting a child away from the offender and being counseling for the child and the mother.

  25. John

    “my daddys worm touches my fingers”? WHAT THE F**K? how could this monster get custody? someone needs to kick the judges AND the fathers ass. DROP THE PEOPLES HAMMER!

  26. KT

    I have never cried on my way into my office until today, it took every ounce of me to convince myself not to drive straight out west..

    Great Show bubba

  27. Mike

    Bubba this makes for great Radio, and child services should have investigated this immediately and on face value its sicking. Their are a couple other things wrong though. First we don’t even know if that is a real child’s audio in this video because you never see the child’s mouth or face. Then at the end when the mother comes in it’s to convenient. It really seams like a magicians trick. There is no evidentiary value in this at all. Also what are the Mother and aunt lesbians sleeping together also? Also the picture of the mother and baby the mothers not showing any concern for what is probably a abused child. Frankly it’s in my opinion probably all a scam to get this woman money and custody of the child. The only good thing that could come of this is to high light the plight of child abuse and government that doesn’t immediate investigate allegations of this type!

  28. Janet

    Someone needs to do something about this!! OMG!! The truth needs to be told and if the father really did this, someone needs to do the right thing for this little girl! She has been damaged for the rest of her life and that is not fair to her. Someone please help this little girl!!

  29. Coppersneak.com

    I want to add to my first statement.When I heard the audio on the air I felt the same way as first as you guys.( my blood was boiling) I felt discussed and wanted to kill the guy, but after seeing the video I had my doubts.

  30. Myriam

    I listened to your show this morning, where you played the tape, and it made me sick to my stomach. Thanks for posting the letter which I am going to send immediately. There is strenght in numbers so please everyone get involved and send this letter ASAP – it just might help.

    Thank you.

  31. Melissa

    Thank you so much for making this available. Without outlets like you, we would not know of such horrid acts of violence against children. I think this Bastard needs to be punished and everyone needs to stand up for this defensless girl and her mother. Shame on the court system for turning the other cheeck to this video. You can obviously tell it is not coached or staged. Hopefully justice will come to this little girl and her family. And for her good for nothing father, may he suffer through the endless ass raping he deserves when he gets to jail. THANKS BUBBA!!

  32. Tammy

    I have contacted ABCnews, Oprah Winfrey and Governor “Arnold” of California imploring each to take action. The more media coverage, the better for this little girl and that corrupt system in which she lives. I am a victim myself, of sexual and other forms of abuse and can tell you with near certainty, this is real and my heart goes out to Aaliyah and her Mother. I am 40 and have a daughter (7years old)….if anyone touched her…..well let’s just say, my innocense was taken from me as a child, I won’t tolerate it happening to my child. With the Grace of God, if it stops now, the memories may fade and she can have a normal life……thank you for airing this. Social Responsibility is up to all of us.

  33. Patick

    I’m with everyone commenting. SICK F***!!!!!!! Let me know when the bus to California leaves. I’ll be there!!!

  34. Deb

    Heard this this morning driving in to work… Not a great way to start off the day. :( As a mother, my Heart broke just listening to that little babies voice. As a HUMAN BEING, my Sicilian blood just about boiled over in my truck. I have sent the following to the Attorney General’s office per the link above, and will today send a certified letter to the California Review Board. A true investigation may very well prove the mother to be “out there” – but only a REAL investigation, looking at all of the facts can determine that. Personally, I’ve read all the info here, and on her website ( saveaaliyah.com) and I don’t think she is anything but terrified for her child. Thanks for helping spread the word about this. I enjoy listening to you kick the midget around, but THIS.. THIS is the kind of thing you guys excel at.. I realize that idiot is making life hell for you, and I support you going after him; I’m just saying that the passion you have for your career choice, and your ability to fire up others and get them involved, shows it’s true importance with stories like this. Deb

    “I just this morning learned of the case of Aaliyah on my local Tampa radio station. I AM APPALLED that the courts have not even LOOKED at this video, or taken the abuse seriously. AN investigation SHOULD be done – PERIOD. Are you people crazy or just uneducated in your profession? HOW do you disregard potential child sexual abuse without even LOOKING at the evidence? And that baby is STILL with her FATHER? NUTS! An investigation.. a REAL ONE, may very well prove the mother to be a loon – but you won’t and CAN’T KNOW that until you INVESITATE IT FULLY. And as a mother of now teenagers, I can attest that a 2 1/2 year CANNOT be coached to say the things that poor baby does in that video. The ONLY leading remark I noticed in listening to it was the aunts “daddy shouldn’t make you touch his worm” but that is at the END of the video. And Auntie is right. Placer County disgusts me, and I hope through all of the people who are now becoming aware of this case country wide due to the new media presence, that Placer County, its judges, court officials, attorneys and police department are put under a microscope and that those who have abused their power, are made to pay highly for the transgression.”

  35. Ron

    Bubba, I’m with you….get out the GLOCK. I just forwarded the video to Nancy Grace and asked her to expose this video to save this little girl before it is too late. Others should do the same, before it is too late !!

  36. ken f.

    Watching this video is absolutely disturbing!!! If California isnt going to step up and take care of this Beautiful little girl, then the mother needs to take her away from California, she needs to be a mother and do what ever it takes to save this baby from a life of hell!!!

  37. Reina

    Good Morning Bubba,
    I listened to the video when it was played this morning on my way to work and I couldn’t believe what I was hearing. As soon as I arrive at work I went onto your website to watch it for myself. I have never left to sick to my stomach. Something needs to be done to help this little girl, fast! I hope and pray that she will get all the help she needs to overcome her fears, because definetly something is wrong. God bless her and my prayers are with her.

  38. Jessica S.

    To read about this case, watch the video made me sick and upset.How can a father or anyone for that matter do this to there child.This is defentaly a case of Sexual abuse and this man needs to get the death sentance.You can tell that this is not coached or that the daughter is not making this up.A 2 1/2 year old has an imagination but not to this extent.I have 8 neices,nephews and expecting my 1st child, to know that this mother is not being herd goes to show how messed up our systems really are. This is a serious case and the judge should be investigated as the letter above states.I would do anything to help this mother as far as donating money or just her knowing that she has my support.I can only imagine how hard this must be on her to be passed off as crazy, knowing that this has been going on for god knows how long and if it still is happening.He should get the death sentence and be left to rot.or maybe put in prission to get raped and see how it feels.This child will never be right and have to face a life full of therapy.Please everyone help any way you can! Pray for the child and mother and that this child is saved.

  39. Sheri

    As I sit hear and listen to this I am so disgusted and saddened.I was a pre teen that was molested and cried out for help and was not believed,it was defastating and still at times affects me till this day and I am now 35 yrs old,to be believed and her Mother trying to help and no one listening is even more devastating.As a Mother now of a 10 yr old beautiful little girl I am always on gaurd for the digusting people like this man that are out there.And you can bet if she ever came to me with this type of crap I would believe,react and probably spend the rest of my life in prison.This is so sad and something has to be done,should’ve already been done.If there is the slightest doubt what would it have hurt to take the time to investigate this,shouldn’t even be a question.I will write the system and follow this story,the sad thing is that there are so many that go untold and unheard!

  40. Autumn

    I can only say one thing about this and that is This world is very messed up i hope the mother runs away somewhere where the father never sees her again this is sick if this in fact is true godbless this little girl and i pray that all of this goes away for her sake.

  41. Kevin

    Have you all forgotten that this man is innocent until proven guilty? Yes children can be coached to say these things and often are. Thank God for DNA as it has released numerous men from prison when people just like you all jumped to conclusions and put them there out of disgust at what is alleged rather than based on the evidence. There is no one here (Crystal U & Rebecca) qualified to determine if this girl has been coached or lead in any way. If this man did this to this girl then all the things suggested for him here should be done to him. If however the mother staged this, which vindictive mothers do (and worse) on a regular basis, then the things that should be done to him should be done to her instead. Either way, one of them should pay with dearly.

  42. brandon a

    this guy is sick. I have a daughter about this little girls age and it is to even think of someone doing that to her. this guy needs to be locked up.
    i can’t even say what I would do if that happend to my little girl. but people have to step up and save this little girl before it is to late.

  43. Eileen

    GOOD MORNING I AM CRYING AS I TYPE THIS. I AGREE WITH THE OTHER COMMENTS AND WITH WHAT YOU SAID ON AIR BUBBA. WE NEED TO MAKE SURE THIS IS REAL AND REALLY HAPPENED. IF IT IS PROVEN THAT SICK S.O.B. DID THIS TO HIS OWN LITTLE GIRL HE SHOULD BE PUT IN A JAIL CELL WITH A REVOLVING DOOR THEN HE CAN BE THE ONE TOUCHING AND COUGHING ON WORMS. HOW DISGUSTING AND HOW SAD. GOD BLESS AALIYAH AMD MOM

    BUBBA AND CREW KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK BUBBA ARMY!!!!!

  44. Aj

    This is Disgusting, either if The Daddy is guilty or if the mother is playing mind games with this child…I say we SICK GRADY JUDD on them!…
    Grady Grady!!!!!

  45. VITA

    OMFG!!! This man doesn’t deserve prison, he deserves to die!!! A slow and painful death! How anyone could harm a child in any way is beyond me, but a parent! That is just unspeakable. I agree that we should load the bus and find this pond scum that thinks he is a man. Yes, I am a mom of a beautiful 16 yr old girl. And she is ready to jump on the bus with us………Let’s get’em!

  46. Amber & Adam

    My husband and i listened to this show this morning and not only were we appalled and disturbed, but angry as well. If that little girls father had been in front of us, I’m not sure which one of us would’ve beat him to death faster. I hope for the child’s sake something is done soon.

  47. willard wiseman

    i just watched the video it is disturbing that this kind of abuse can happen with no investigation i hope its not true but if it is put the sick bastard under the jail i have a daughter of my own and my heart goes out to the child the video made me tear up and something needs to be done

    mr wiseman

  48. Candice

    I have written the attorney, signed the petition to get her home to her mom and forwarded your site and hers to my networks.

    I can’t even begin to say how much I support and continue to appreciate your show everyday.

    Thank you!!!

  49. Flo Kushner

    I AM EMAILING YOU TO EXPRESS MY CONCERN ABOUT YOUR APPARENT LACK OF ATTENTION IN A CASE INVOLVING THE SEXUAL ABUSE OF A THREE YEAR OLD GIRL NAMED AALIYAH BEDWELL. I WATCHED THE VIDEO AND AM JUST SICK. Is your backround/ancestry Italian, if so I can’t believe you would not do something about this. Your mother must be very proud of you, sic. What action is being taken, is an investigation going on?
    I will be forwarding this to Maria Shriver and also suggest that the radio station I heard this news reported on also
    request that whoever hears this and knows about this child write to The First Lady and also the Governor.

    You need help. You need to be removed from office.

    Florence Kushner
    145 Brighton D
    Century Village West
    Boca Raton, Florida
    fkushner@yahoo.com

    fax: 916-558-3160
    attn: First Lady Maria Shriver
    SaveAaliyah.com
    http://www.btls.com/news/stories/save-baby-aaliyah.html

  50. BTLS Brings Light to Possable Child Abuse | Directory Of Tampa

    [...] A video being distributed on the Internet is titled daddy’s worm shows Aaliyah Bedwell talking about her experience with her father. See Video Here [...]

  51. Zina

    First of all, this story made me sick…I can only sympathize with the mother and aunt having to hear all that this 2 – 3 year old had to say. How disgusting it was to hear about her father doing this to her is beyond all comprehension!
    The County and State of California should use this video as part of their investigation and overturn the decision of granting the mother full custody and send that “animal” to jail for LIFE!

  52. paul

    11 visits to CPS and they didn’t find anything wrong. I could believe maybe 1 or 2 people in protective services being corrupt, but 11 visits?

    Give me a break.

  53. steve

    I simply say death is not good enough if this is not a story made up by mom coaching. But if she done this to get back at him then she needs the same sentence.
    The loser is the child….
    please someone help her

  54. Bill

    This was quick…how I feel.

    How to Kill a Pedophile

    The punishment must always fit the crime
    The exception is with a different type of slime

    The evil of which I speak
    Are a special type of freak

    The innocence they destroy and take
    Forever stays family that they break

    The justice that is served to this special kind
    Send them to hell and mess with their mind

    One strike is all you get for this offense
    Committing this crime there is no defense

    Liberals will probable become undone
    What if it was their daughter or son?

    This crime can get us all pissed
    Back yard justice is hard to resist

    Should be, mess with a child and get the chair
    But there are spineless politicians that don’t care

    They vote with the loudest not the most
    I wish they were haunted by the child’s ghost

    Now, I am no saint, I am the bad in good
    I could be their executioner and you know I would

    A lot of liberties will be used on this job
    It’s hard to tell where I start on this slob

    A week is enough to complete the task
    Staying professional is hard to ask

    My job was simple, kill the crook
    Trade pain for the innocence he took

    Now with the sound proof room secured
    I tell the bastard he is about to be cured

    Copyright – Ricky Venus

  55. Amanda Jones

    Everyone has got to think that something is wrong in this situation. I, myself have a 2 1/2 yr old lil girl and myself, am a victim of child molestation from my father. Whether the father IS doing something to Aaliyah, or not, the county should be looking into this. I think we should start a petition and all start making serious phone calls. I know that somthing like this can mess you up at a young age and haunt you for most of your life and even consume you sometimes! THIS LITTLE GIRL NEEDS OUR HELP!!!

  56. C Fish

    OK this is my opinion
    where there is smoke there is fire!!!! And you have A forest fire going on here something needs to be done I can’t believe this guy can even see his daughter I mean come on there are too many red flags here to just look the other way !!!!! and allow this guy custody!!!! CUSTODY!!!! come on peaple!!!! DO THE RIGHT THING!!! GET HER OUT OF THERE!!!!!I mean everybody wants to find out who is at fault or who is to blam ( the dad is doing this) (the mom is doing that)ok I understand that- but get the little girl out of there and into a safe place while you figure out whats going on the last place she needs to be is with her father!!
    DO THE RIGHT THING!!!!!!!!!

  57. Jason F.

    This is a true story….we all know that kids say what they see..we have all been their one time or another (not in this situation)and I think something should be done! NOW!!!

  58. Sara

    Sicko!!!

  59. Ann

    I am horrified at the CPS response (lack thereof). I too was a “victim” of a biased judge (relating to another matter-not child abuse) and understand how incredibly frustrating it can be. This case needs to be moved to another county.
    I am ready to board the bus for California; sharpened butchers knife ready to cut the guy’s d*** off and feed it to him.

  60. michelle

    This is a flat out outrage for a judge to even think about sending the child to the so called father not only is it a sin but it is harmfull to the child in so many ways and this is letting this child belive that it is right whare is the law at in this state and the thing with stop abuse someone needs to do something this child should be with the mother not with trash that wants to abuse her.
    DO SOMETHIG START EMAILING THE GOVENER AND ALL

  61. will

    Wanna know the problem with the DA’s office in Placer County? Just try calling them, the automated recording tells you told hold on the line, then it rings about 35 times, and eventually cuts you off. Obviously these guys are either sleeping on the job, or maybe they saw the FL area code and knew what was coming, sure its not the first call. Sure to be more tomorrow. Any DA’s office around here would be in a world of shizz (with a Z) if they didn’t at least thoroughly follow up on this if not immediatly arrest this perv.

  62. Jami J.L. Reid

    I am outraged that nothing has been done to investigate these allegations.I am even more outraged that this child was placed in the custody of the accused child abuser! Something should have been done. Whether or not these allegations are true or not,(which I being abused myself as a child believe that this child was abused!),this child should have been removed from both parents custody and these allegations should have been investigated!!!!!!WTF is this world coming to!How can our judicial system let this happen! I am so glad there is a show like yours to help this lil girl!Your show so Kicks A$$!!!!Thanks to you hopefully this lil girl will get some help! Thanks Bubba Radio Network!!!!!

  63. Patricia

    Dear Bubba,

    Your story this morning about Aaliyah touch my heart in more ways than one. Now that I have my emotions under control, I felt that I should send you and email and ask you to PLEASE do not give up on this story!!!! In 1994, here in Sarasota, Florida, my brother-in-law raped & murder my 3 year old niece on several occasions. Apparently he had been doing these acts on her since birth. Once she was able to speak and understand what was going on she told him that she was going to tell her mommy. He then murdered her. This act was a horrendous act which torn my family apart. He is currently serving a life sentence in Hardee County Correction. Unfortunately she is no longer with us. But Aaliyah is and she needs protection from this monster! PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE do not let this monster get away with this anymore. Thank you for taking the time to read this! YOU ARE THE BEST!!!!!

  64. michelle

    CONTACT THE GOVERNORPrintable VersionGovernor’s Office:

    Governor Arnold Schwarzenegger
    State Capitol Building
    Sacramento, CA 95814
    Phone: 916-445-2841
    Fax: 916-558-3160 ( new number )

    District Offices:

    CALL THIS MAN

  65. Mandi

    Turned on Bubba as I do every other morning and thought I was listening to another spoof when I heard Aaliyah’s precious voice. OMG, my heart is broken for this little girl. And until an OFFICAL inquiry is done and full investigation is completed I am confused as to who to direct my hatred towards. If the mother is creating this scenario then damn her for the damage she is about to inflict on her child. If the father is truly that sorry of a piece of $*it then the damage he has done and I`m sure continues to do is beyond repair. Either way this little girl is the victim. What a sick sick world we as a society have created!!!! Eye for an Eye I SAY!!! BUBBA ARMY BUBBA ARMY

  66. April H.

    This is beyond words. Just tell me what I need to do to help. I have a 2 yr old daughter myself and a brother with two boys under 4 that is going thru this very same type of situation with divorce and custody (although non-sexual abuse..but abuse nonetheless) so I feel your pain and frustration. He’s besides himself with what to do and everyone thinks he’s crazy. He has proof but no one cares. It’s really something to know that all our tax paying dollars are going to court systems that are biased based upon “who you know” or “how much money you have”. *sigh*

    I really hope all this attention will finally get someone to listen or pull someone out of the woodwork to finally help. I pray for this little girl and her mother.

  67. michelle

    HEAR IS HIS WEB FOR EMAILING THE GOV,

    http://gov.ca.gov/interact

  68. Ann

    I sent the letter, but changed it-I am a stickler for grammar, etc. Here it is:I am writing to you to express my concern about your apparent lack of attention in a case involving the sexual abuse of a three year old girl, Aaliyah Bedwell. The Internet video, in which the little girl describes her “Daddy’s Worm”, is disturbing to say the least. What’s more disturbing is the way this case has been handled by your office. You are the highest Law Enforcement Official in Placer County, California. You have the responsibility to protect this child when the allegation of sexual abuse is brought to your attention, which by all accounts was over eight months ago.
    The suspect in this case has an attorney, Mrs. Sandra Amara, whose husband is also a judge. If Judge Dirk Amara is meddling in this case, it is also your duty to investigate him. Judge Frances Kearney removed herself from this case, and stipulated that a judge from a different county would hear it. This is a step in the right direction, however, it does not absolve you of your responsibility to investigate, and become involved when there are credible allegations of serious sexual crimes, like this one.
    It is paramount for the well being of children in your county that you prosecute those suspected of child sexual abuse, to the fullest extent of the law, without exception. Anything else is unacceptable for a District Attorney. As a parent of two children, I implore you to protect this child, prosecute the offender, and uphold the laws of your state. You need to take this very seriously before this child is beyond the help and protection she deserves.

  69. Joey Tillman

    There are two tapped video calls to the mom on the blog , at http://www.ChildProtectionCommunity.com, listen to the mom and you tell me if you think she is lying?
    Over an hour of her own account of this nightmare, and her trying to save her daughter. Being called crazy and no one listening?
    Hear her side and see what you think/

  70. chad

    it’s so hard to tell if this is real or not. First of all, why would you set up a tape and record all of this and have the words put on the screen and go through so much trouble. Just take the kid to the police and let them ask her questions. The police have a way of asking and getting information from abused children.
    If the guy did touch this kid, fry him! But I just can’t tell if its real or not. This chick looks psyco!
    chad

  71. BTLS Brings Light to Possable Child Abuse Case | Directory of Clearwater

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  72. DAH

    Just saw the video after hearing about it earlier. Bubba, all I can say is if the father is investigated and found to be guilty of this sick, sick child abuse/molestation, then he deserves to be prosecuted to the fullest extent of the law (bear in mind, we ARE talking about CALIFORNIA, however)…if it ends up being the mother coaching her child, and yes, children CAN be coached at a young age, then she, too, is guilty of child abuse and again I say, should be prosecuted to the fullest extent of the law. Generally, I am of the belief that “out of the mouths of babes comes the truth,” but have seen it happen where a parent can get little ones to say horribly bad things about the other parent in an attempt to get back at them for something they feel is an injustice. This mother needs to get this little girl to a child psychologist immediately to try and see if this is indeed something that is happening. There are many qualified and experienced in this field to work with little ones this way and they do a lot through play therapy. If she has not/does not do this, then I have my doubts about the validity of this, as putting it on UTube is in no way going to help this child. It will then REEK of her being the guilty one, because if it were ME, I’d be appealing to whoever I had to, medically, psychiatrically, psychologically, to get HELP for my child, not putting her little angelic face all over UTube!! Years down the road, if this video resurfaces, the child will have other problems to deal with. She is going to have enough as it is when the truth comes out either way. If that father is guilty, the other posters and I share the same sentiments…cut it off and shove it down his throat…there would be no shortage of volunteers standing in line to do this. If it is the mother, every hair on her body should be pulled out one by one and hot bleach poured over her for victimizing her child for personal gain. This case needs to be investigated in BOTH directions and the truth will out. There are some sick parents out there…it’s a shame these babies are subjected to them. It’s a shame the California DCF and the justice system does NOT come to the aid of this child. She should be taken away from BOTH parents, placed in a safe home with a trusted family member or friend or whoever, and a COMPLETE investigation of BOTH parents needs to take place…again, I say…CALIFORNIA…it is what it is…just my opinion…
    I will email the governor and whoever else I can think of regarding this! Either way, it is a sick sick situation!! Poor little baby!

  73. Shane Morris

    Absolutely disgusting and completely disturbing. The individuals of the “Good ‘ole Boys” who are in favor of assisting him, due to personal connections, should also hang with him. Bubba is frightenly correct when he points out the potentially mind numbing and gut wrenching acts that are constantly being handled by “Good ‘ole Boys” throughout the world on a daily basis. Love the show!!

  74. Clint

    EVERY single person who has touched this case or even glanced at it and pushed it aside should face felony charges of the most severe kind… To say I am ENRAGED is a hideous understatement… The pathetic excuse for the Placer County D.A. already dropped the ball so badly that any corespondence to him should automatically come with a carbon copy to the State of California and probably someone on a Federal level just to be sure as many eyes are on this as possible… I know you guys aren’t looking for personal accolades in any form or fashion, but THANK YOU for continuing to do the things that absolutely need to be done, using your power to do the right thing and get things done…

  75. Marc C.

    Bubba and guys great stance to take that either way some thing is wrong ,and that precious little girl is being in some way abused.Being the dad of two girls myself I found a tear run down my face hearing it and just as hard when I watched it later at work.Bubba not to mention the neglect of a communities judicial system that’s more than the good ole boy network,rather a crime by each judge that refused to air on the side of caution and view this tape.Would love to hear the mom on the show not because im 100% sure its real,but simply cause she is the one making the allegations.Bubba you need to be more than peoples hammer on this one,please we must find the truth out and get that girl checked out immediately.Love the show and what you all do,good luck guys.

  76. Mike

    If the judge and attorney are married, that represents a huge problem of favoritism. Anyone protecting this guy should be prosecuted. And while it looks amazingly bad for the dad, are we 100 % sure this has not been investigated properly? or are we just going off of what’s in the video. The bottom line is that if it’s true, which it appears to be, throw the guy in the lion pit and let them lay waste to him.

  77. "a concerned mother"

    I’m a mother of 2 small childern. I have a husband that had a child before we got together. We had contact on and off with this boy for about 8 years. His mother had boyfriend after boyfriend, we of course never met any of them. The mother of this boy, who was 9 at the time, was going through some money problems and at this point we were all trying to get along so we took him in for her until she got back on her feet.
    My husband and I did with him what we did with both our other childern raised them the only way we knew how..with love and discipline. My husband and I are both hard workers and we try and do the best that we can.
    Well when this boy came into our lives we didnt know a whole lot about the back ground because the mother only allowed us to see him when she wanted something. So no questions asked we brought him into our home and treated him as if he was one of mine. This kid was sweet and loving at the begining. Things around the house came up missing. Money, credit cards, and jewerly. That was the least of our worries..
    After dealing with that problem, which he blamed his 5 yr old sister for framing him on all the stolen stuff. We got a call from my best friend one afternoon her telling me that her son ,which came to the house all the time to play because her son and my daughter are 6 weeks apart, came home and told her the thing that my husbands son wad doing to my daughter in the closet. My best friends son told us everything that happened and he also told us that the 9 year old told the the 5 year old that if the told he would hurt them. I immediately called the mother of the 9 yr. old and told her to come in get her son. The next step I did was called DCF because I thought they would beable to help my daughter. In the state of Florida they have 24 hours to come out and investigate. So this so called “case worker” showed up and took the 9 yr. old to his room and talked to him for about 30-45 mins. Then they pulled my daughter to her room and talked to her for maybe 5 mins. Then the “case worker” cam out and told me she would call us in a couple of day , in the mean time the 9 yr old needed to go back with the mother. instead the mother didnt want him and he ended up with the grandmother, which i dont think is any better they are pot smoking nudest!
    The next day the “case worker” called us and informed us that the the boy would be going to the Childrens Advocacy. Now there is where victims are taken to help cope with what happens to them.
    I guess the more the “case worker” got into it she came across an old file that the 9 yr old had told somebody that things happened to him at one point of time with one of her boyfriends old boys. So because nothing came of the case and the mother didnt pursued the alligation the case was dropped.
    So because this boy was a victim back when he was 5 , but now he is 9 and doing the same thing to my daughter that was done to him, they “DCF” treated him as the victim and not the predator. They “DCF” pretty much pushed my daughter to the side and focused on him. Which he needs it dont get me wrong , but what about my daughter and her innocence that was lost at 5 yrs. old. I am sure at one point he was the victim but not this time , he was the predator. To this day my daughter still hasnt got any help , we dont talk about it and we never see the boy. And we never bring his name up. we hate to be that way but when somebody hurts your child like that what do u do? People say that they would do this and they would do that, but until it happens , God forbid, you never truely know what to do.
    I believe that the mother did not coerce a 2 yr old into saying those terrible things. A 2 yr old mind spand isnt that well that she could keep that going for as long as she did. As for the father to get full custody that is completely wrong on someones part. That could mess that sweet angel up even more than she could already be.
    As a mother of a molested child my heart goes out to that mother..God gives us precious little gifts from heaven and for someone to hurt them in anyway is horrible…
    My heart goes out to the beautiful little angel sent down from heaven , i will keep her in my prayers and in my heart until she returns home where she belongs in her mothers arms!

    From one mother to another keep your head high all of us mothers are behind you!

  78. Jane

    I have two children one two, one four and its hard enough to get my two year old to say her name let alone coach her to say things of this nature. The fact that the attorney of this creep suggested that is beyond mental comprehension. If this mother really wanted custody I doubt that she would bring allegations of molestation to the front.
    The simple fact that she may using her connections in the court system to help her should rule her as unfit to be his lawyer. Conflict of interest to start with.
    This guy is a disgusting low life and isn’t fit to be allowed in public without being ashamed of his existence. If this video and the countless others aren’t reviewed by the police then we can lose all faith in the judicial system and take the law into our hands. How can you trust the courts and police if they are too lazy to review this seriously?

  79. VINNY

    I can’t beleive that this guy is still alive!!!I have two children myself and if I ever heard this about my children they would already be DEAD!!!!This is the worst thing anyone can do to a child… asfar as the count she lives in maybe there needs to be a investagation on the DA,police and the judge!!!! they need to know that ANY child abuse allegations need to be looked at immediately

  80. Jake Benecasa

    this f###in guy needs to be strung up by his ankles, castrated and LITERALLY ball-gagged if you catch my drift, all while being fully conscious so he knows every bit of what’s goin on. then you just let him bleed to death. this guy is an absolute waste of semen. he is worse than broken and i know for a fact that if i lived in california this guy would be dead.

  81. scott l

    Bubba, im a juvenile corrections officer and my wife is a preschool teacher,we are also parents of four boys and this story made us sick to our stomachs. i think that the father is a sick bastard who needs to be put in general population with inmates who are fathers and let poetic justice take care of him and as far as him having custody, the judge who awarded it needs to be pulled off the bench permenatly.

  82. J. Toolz, and Soapihands

    We think this guy needs a taste of his own medicine…sick bastard…im sure the california state prison system has plenty of worms for this f### to choke on! PROSECUTE CHILD SEX OFFENDERS THE SAME WAY THEY OFFEND!

  83. lisa

    hi Bubba! You really need to listen to #13′s response. This is the saddest thing. Now what?! Are you gonna get blamed for bringing this to light? That poor baby is the innocent and if they go the “Tainted Route” then Ally is done for for sure!!!

  84. KarenCCC

    I just wanted to thank you, Bubba. Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!

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  86. james j.

    Im throughly disgusted!!!!!! Today was the first time I ever turned the radio down cause i felt sick to my stomach. thank you, all of you for bringing this to our attention. thank all of you for all you do for us in the Tampa area. F.T.E

  87. James J.

    This is why humans need to take a test before they become parents!!!!!!!!! I’ve listened to you since your first day at 98 ROCK and this morning was the very first time I EVER turned the radio down because i was sick to my stomach!!!!! As a half-way decent human much less a parent of 2 boys this made me sick to watch. Great work guys…..Keep it up F.T.E from Dade City, Fl.

  88. janet trader

    bubba, i love your show. i listen every morning as i get my kids off to school. when i heard about this girl this morning, my heart broke in a million pieces. even my husband was ticked. but like we said, if the mom IS coaching the girl then she needs to go to jail for this too. i feel he should be shot so he never hurts her again,but so should the mom if she is coaching her to hurt her dad. when kids are 2, they look up to BOTH parents and they want both mom and dad there for everything. we have 5 kids and at one time or another they wanted me or their dad, this did not upset me, they need their dad too and i need mom time. maybe i am weird ,but i could NOT IMAGING SAYING THINGS ABOUT MY HUSBAND TO THE KIDS. HE IS GREAT, I HAVE BEEN WITH HIM SINCE WE WERE IN HIGH SCHOOL. i was 15 when i met him and i am now 42. i need him just as much as i need my kids. i love him more than life itself. i can’t image life without any of them. bubba, i also love hearing hulk hogan with you. i am a big fan of wrestling, i have watched it since hulk won the belt from the iron sheik way back when. thank you for keeping me smiling during the day. i would love a window sticker if you could send one or let me know how much they are. keep up the GREAT work!!!! BUBBA ARMY, BUBBA ARMY!!!!

  89. aida arroyo

    first of all castrate the bastard then this motherfu**er should be executed he is a mean a**hole this should be brought to justice…………AND FOR THE MOM AND LITTLE GIRL IM SO SORRY THAT THIS HAPPENED TO HER I WISH YOU WILL GET THE CUSTODY SOON……

  90. Christina

    Hi Bubba and Crew,

    I heard this story this morning and cried for Aaliyah. When I got to work, I checked out their website and it completely broke my heart. After reading all of the entries in her journal,needeless to say I was in a state of shock. I am a mother of a 2 year old little boy and just the thought of having to go through something like this makes me sick to my stomach. I know that there are two sides to every story and hopefully the truth will come out and justice will prevail. I pray to God that this little girl isn’t ruined for life. I want to thank you and your crew for bringing this to us, the public. We would never had known what was going on. You get a lot of criticism for the “bad” things you do, but you don’t always get the praise that you deserve…I want to give it up to you for trying to get involved and help out this poor defenseless baby!!!! Keep up the great work…Us women listeners LOVE YOU!!!!
    Christina

  91. gina

    Bubba, I watched the video and listen to the tape twice. I dont feel this little girl was coached in any way. we all have children and you know when your child is repeating something you have told them especially something they need to repeat back again. They tend to say things in the middle for apporval such as “like that mommy” or “say it like that mommy” things of that nature and even when her mother starts to cry you would think the child might say “but mommy you said to say that” or something to that nature also. This is a sick act that is being done and it needs to be stopped. I like you would have been loading up at the first hit of the “worm” and made sure that the “worm” never came around again. There are also some ways they can see if she is talking about the “worm” we all think she is. Maybe put a few pictures of WORMS in front of her such as a glow worm, the green worm (she doesnt like), a pic of a penis (trust me I KNOW its not pretty) & a real pic of a worm, to see which one she picks up when talking about this so called “worm”. She speaks very well for a 2 1/2 year old, and she never backs down from her story. The problem is now that this is all out. What happens when she goes back to daddy’s house?? what is he going to say or make her say…

  92. Milkman

    I don’t think we know enough as of yet. But this is very disturbing.
    It doesn’t sound like she was coached, as her comments are too off colored, as a normal 2-3 yr old, not sounding rehearsed.
    If it is true, there is no punishment enough for this non-man
    If it isn’t there is no punishment for the mom that isn’t.

  93. Stacy

    I want to tell you thank you for posting this and bringing it to the attention of others. I work for a law office and we have cases in Placer county and I would like to validate what you are saying about the county. It is a disgrace that they even heard this case in the county with all of the connections going on. Thank you again for bringing this mis-justice to everyone’s attention.

  94. angela

    Bubba it breaks my heart to think that there is nothing being done for this little girl.I have 2 children and one being a 2yr old little girl and if someone did this to her i would take justice into my own hands.i agree with everything you said and strongly believe that child molesters should be put to death.SICK FREAKS!!!!And anyone who aides a child molester should face the same penalty.HOW WOULD THOSE COPS AND JUDGES FEEL IF IT HAPPENED TO THIER CHILDREN!!!!!!!

  95. Candy

    I am a victim of child molestation. I feel this little girls pain, my case also was thrown out because of my age. I could not give full details because i was scared but my older sister was also abused and she came forward and they took her word but the sad part was he only got probation. There were more children involved and the sad thing was he was still granted visitation as long as there was an adult present at all times. It still haunts me till this day. Someone please help this little girl!!!! God please watch over her.

  96. Janessa

    Someone needs to save this baby! I am going to tweet this asap and sign on to kgb and tell the people there to help. This poor baby. I feel so bad for her

  97. Chris

    One word, disgusted.

  98. Sheri

    I watched the video and was disgusted at what I heard. I fought back tears. If he has done and is still doing this to this child he should be strung up by his “worm”. Where are the people who can help this poor child? She’s trying in her own way to reach out for help! It would take an army to hold me of if this was happening to my child!

  99. Joshua

    This a**hole needs to be dealt with. To hear this happen to a girl it sickening and I cried listening to this information today. Bubba army save this little girl and her mom.

  100. Shane

    I am a 21 yeard old father of a 6 month old baby boy, and i have legal custody of my 4 year old nephew. It is truely mind blowing things are overlooked like this. Now that I am a father figure i look at everything in a new light. My heart broke for this girl.

    I went through the same while getting custody of my nephew. He was dropped off at day care and never picked up. My mom picked him up and noticed a huge burn on the side of his face. He claimed someone put his face to the coil of a stove top. The sherrif was called child protections were called.

    That day my mom took him to the doctor and he confirmed that what my nephew told my mom matched the injury he had on his face. No charges were filed, no investigations at all.

    To this day if his mother wanted to get him back she could. This stuff happens everywhere. I hope something is done about this SOON.

  101. sirius

    Bubba-

    Please dont play this again tomorrow for the Sirius show – its being played right now. Its a tragedy if its real, but we listen to you to be entertained – you brought it to our attention -we can act if we want to – please continue on with the hillbilly hijinx

    you are a good man bubba

  102. GENE hoover

    This little girl need to get in safe arms A.S.A.P. im a father of three and id be on my way to prison right now if this was one of my baby girls.Californa neens to do something fast.im leaving on this that sick bastard need to be charge

  103. Steveg

    I think this guy need to be taken to ned’s place for about a week then turned over to the prison population so they can show him just how much they like child rapo’s,if he is still alive after ned’s place!

  104. marcelo

    I have a little girl myself. She is five years old. I could’nt even begin to think of what is going on, and if this guy is guilty…..I would cut his dick off! I hope that this little innocent girl has not been hurt in any way. I hope that this is story is false and this guy is not doing this to his daughter. This sucks for everyone especially for the little girl.

  105. Beau

    I dont what kind people live there but if i knew this was going on id do my best to stop it like kick in his door and break his fingers just to start, the fact nothing so far has happened legally or otherwise just blows my mind!

  106. Todd Eichler

    I am a 30 year old man, and i am crying my eyes out right now after watching that video. I am printing out the letter now and my wife just went to get some stamps. BUBBA ARMY we have to step up on this one. Post links to this and the SaveAaliyah.com site on every web page you see today!!! Sports pages, Entertainment Pages, etc… GET THE WORD OUT THIS WOMAN DESPRATELEY NEEDS OUR HELP!!!! Mail your letters and donate what you can. Bubba, Brent and the Crew: Thank you once again for bringing light to an incredible injustice!!! Gotta go Mail Something. BUBBA ARMY FUCKIN REPRESENT HERE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  107. Michelle

    Bubba, your specialist commented on the fact that the mother could have taught the child to do this. What about the bruises and the abuse? I am, just like millions of children, a victim of this type of abuse/molestation. I know first hand how hard it is to get anything done or get any convictions. The person doing the abuse will OF COURSE deny and do anything to get the attention off of him/her. For the most part, society views this as one of the worst crimes. So, the abuser would never want that conviction. The way that she responded and the repetition of the words and sentences she used are too obvious to the reality of the abuse. I do not believe the mother is crazy. This disgusting piece of ************** should be sentenced to death. No matter what happens in my life, I will always have had that in my life and no one deserves that.

  108. Shane Poyser

    What a sick f**k . I hope people recognize this guy on the street(which he should not be on) and take care of business. It is absolutely appalling to me that someone could treat a child like this. I hope justice is served for whomever is involved and maybe Placer County needs to have a higher authority look into matters as to why this tape has been passed through.

  109. W Lenzner

    This guy needs a taste of his own medicine>!!!!

  110. Mike H

    Bubba, As much as this video sickens me, I’ll consider the mother may have told Aaliyah what to say. The case needs to be investigated. It is disgusting and sickening to me that the video was ignored by our courts and police departments. The sad thing is that there are hundreds or thousands of other cases that are also being ignored. I’m glad to see you’re giving this story the much needed air time.

  111. Suzanna

    God bless this poor baby and protect her.Abusers are so used to getting away with things like this that they no longer take the law seriously.Ask yourself”how many people do you know who have been abused?”it shouldnt be that commonplace that each and every one of us know so many victims,the law enforcers need to take that into consideration before they let these b*st*rds get away with it!!!!!

  112. Steve in Richmond

    Hey Bubba
    I was not able to listen to all of the “Daddys Worm” video this morning or afternoon but I just finished watching it and I agree with you and almost everyone that has commented on this.
    This sick bastard needs some Real good ol boy justice. When he gets put in jail they should put him in with gen pop so he can get a taste of some big burly redneck or brothers sticky worm on a nightly basis.

    Thanks for having the balls to bring this to the publics attention.

    Mike
    May 14th, 2009 at 7:40 am
    Bubba this makes for great Radio, and child services should have investigated this immediately and on face value its sicking. Their are a couple other things wrong though. First we don’t even know if that is a real child’s audio in this video because you never see the child’s mouth or face. Then at the end when the mother comes in it’s to convenient. It really seams like a magicians trick. There is no evidentiary value in this at all. Also what are the Mother and aunt lesbians sleeping together also? Also the picture of the mother and baby the mothers not showing any concern for what is probably a abused child. Frankly it’s in my opinion probably all a scam to get this woman money and custody of the child. The only good thing that could come of this is to high light the plight of child abuse and government that doesn’t immediate investigate allegations of this type!

    I know that Bubba didnt put this on the air for “Great Radio” He played it because he,being a father himself is concerend about this child and if the guy is innocent and the mother coached Aaliyah then I will be the first one after bubba and crew to appolaqize.

  113. Chris

    Had to turn off show this guy is a pile of crap!!!

  114. Mike

    if this is a true representation and in fact the girl has not been coached (which i tend to believe)all u need do is put this sick bastard and his worm in the general population of any prison and his worm would be hangin limp from his own mouth.even prisoners loath and detest child molesters and serve prison justice.

  115. Sean M

    I am also an abused child. This is very heart breaking for me, a 13 year old kid.This is sad and something should be done. Justice should be served. I never said anything when it happened to me. I waited for a couple years because I was scared. But I felt better when justice was servered. I hope they get this messed up person and throw him in prison where he belongs. If nothing is done it will keep going on and he might even evetually kill her. Especially scince she said it to pretty much everyone. I hope she gets help and this sick son of a gun get his butt throw in jail, that would make Aaliyah, her mom, her aunt, me and hundreds if not thousands of people fell better.

  116. Sean M

    Nobody deserves this. I Didn’t, she didn’t, nobody deserves it.

  117. Anthony

    What the ?????? I’m so lost for word’s how can anyone say this is a coached child no way a child that age would know the things she know’s it’s peoople like this that ruin the children of today and we wonder why we have murders and robbers drug addicts this is sad at the least and it’s no wonder our world is in shambles…. A Tape like this warrents a 9mm shot to the head no questions asked and if you question the mother you need a bullet too then maby our country could start being normal

  118. Doris

    Bubba, This sick BASTARD needs to be hung by his thumbs and casterated and feel every bit of the pain and then he needs to be SHOT!!!!

  119. Lou Ann

    Bubba, Why would the mother implicate herself by taping this if she told the baby what to say. That doesn’t make sense. That child could not remember what to say during that taping word for word if the mother had told her what to say. Her father is a sick bastard and needs to be hung by his balls. A child that young could not make up a story like that unless it was happening.

  120. Kristina

    My heart goes out to the mother and child.. I too was a young girl getting sexually abused at one point. I was so scared to say anything. This little is being so brave by telling her story in the best way she knows how. I pray everyone reading this will do everything they can to help her. Thank you bubba for reaching out. I know you have started opening many doors to try and get this little girl home!

  121. heywood jablome

    Never see the little girl talking its just audio. I hope it is fake because if it isnt this guy needs to be given to marcellus wallace.

    If it is fake you guys just slandered this dude pretty good.
    Video definitely could be made though not hard to do and women who lose custody of their kids would do it in a heartbeat.

  122. Dennis S.

    What a sick f***. He needs to end up in the big house with the guys who hate child molesters. They will handle him there way. This poor child needs all the help she can get along with mom. May GOD bless you both.

  123. kevin w

    im sick that there are actually people that think this mite be staged!! this is a two and a half yr old little girl. the video was taken in the dark. there is no way this poor little girl could remember what or how to say all that stuff. get a grip on reality here people, listen to her voice. this girl is genuine, her voice so innocent. someone has to help get this girl away from her father. and he should be casterated. if that was my daughter, he would be dead!!!! how can i help with this?

  124. Lee

    This poor poor little girl. I have a 3yo son and I totally believe little Aaliyah is experiencing horrific abuse by her father and grandfather, just by the way she communicates it. This is so tragic and sickening. We always go on and on about the poor children AFTER they end up dead, well here’s our chance to do something before that happens. KEEP THIS STORY ALIVE.

  125. Dennis

    Can’t believe this video. Shocked that someone who is a father (and I am not so sure he deserves to be even considered that) could do something so horrible and heinous to a young child. If castration is ever a legalized punishment, put this bastard on top of the list to be the first one to have it removed! Then you can beat the living hell out of him! Any kind of punishment that makes him suffer the rest of his life works!

  126. Leonard from So Cal

    I just don’t know what to say. Unbeleivable that this has not been looked into after so long. Listening to this on the show while my little 15 month old girl was napping and it really choked me up. I even felt a moment of extreme anger (my thoughts of what I would like to do scared even myself). I really hope all the talk today helps the system move forward through the preasure they will be getting now.

  127. Marie

    Will someone please find this guy and kill him?

  128. Shawn Stine

    I am speechless. Keep getting the work out, please! Let me know what more I can do, I already went to the link and contacted the child services, and so on. If this lady needs a fund to hire a good lawyer, let us know.

    Keep it up guys.

  129. Lixx

    As an abuse survivor of the same type of abuse as this little girl, they really, really need to investigate this. Listening to this has stirred up so many horrible memories, and its made my stomach turn. The only thing about this that I can hope, if this is happening, is that shes too young to remember it if it ends soon. Mine did not end until I was 9, so sadly, I have the majority of my memories and I lack a normal childhood. I hope everyone gets involved to at least cause an investigation to occur. To anyone who hasnt been through this, you have no idea how this affects you LIFE LONG. I am now soon to be 30, and there is not a day that goes by that I dont think about what was done to me. Please God or someone out there, help this little girl if this is happening. Please dont let this continue. I’m begging, if this is real. :(

  130. Sandy

    While driving in Placer County this afternoon and tuning into the Bubba Show as I do each and everyday for a good laugh, I literally broke down in tears while listening today! Words cannot describe how disgusted I am that this kind of injustice can happen to a little girl anywhere in the United States, but the fact that it is happening in my backyard makes me even sicker!!! I will be sending my letter in as well as passing this on to each and every person I know so that something can be done to save this little girl! My heart and prayers go out to Aaliyah and her Mother! I do not believe for one minute this little girl is being leaded in anyway! Her Daddy is sick and needs to be put away forever!!!

  131. Steve

    I am so deeply sickened and saddened by what I heard on the video tape you played today. As the father of both a daughter 18, and son 16, I think that getting a glock out would be the least of the father’s worries. If this does turn out to be a true event, it has to be made known that whatever prison he gets sent to what he did, and make sure that the inmates get a hold of him. Sex crimes against a child are the lowest form of scum in a prison.

    I feel so sorry for that poor little girl. For some bastard to steal her innocence, the world is hard enough, the longer that a child has pure innocence, the better.

    Thanks for bringing this matter to little Budda and crew!

  132. Helper

    —-> PLEASE WRITE THE DISTRICT ATTORNEY!!!

    If this really concerns you, write the district attorney and tell him. Copy and Paste the letter at the top of this page, if nothing else.

    TAKE ACTION!!!
    DO SOMETHING!!!!!

  133. jim

    this is bullshit someone need to help tanks bubba

  134. Nick

    I agree with Dr. Jay Flens. Both interpertations of the story are damaging to the child. Someone needs to get to the bottom of this problem before it causes more damage for this little girl. Both parties need to know that everything that is going on and being said about the other parent will be embeded into this childs mind. The authorities need to work on this case and find the truth for this little girl.

  135. Brian Briggs

    Hey Bubba and the boys thank you for taking a stand on this issue I heard you on Howard 101 today and this make me sick. I have 4 little neices and couldnt believe someone could do this to a young child. I created a facebook group for this cause and gave this website and the saveaaliyah site. The group is open to the public and please join and send your friends so we can help this poor little girl. http://www.facebook.com/home.php?ref=home#/group.php?gid=92865122089&ref=nfends

  136. missy

    I cannot even finish listening or watching the video. I am a mother and a grandmother. My granddaughter is close to her age. There is no way that child is coached. They are pure and innocent. They say what they think and what they feel.Remove the child. The mother nor the father matter. It is the child that matters. She has no voice in our system. Let someone speak for her. Thank you Bubba for being a voice for the innocent child. God Bless you.

  137. Aaron

    Either way you look at this. Ture or false the fact is that it must be looked at now. Save the child. I don’t care who is innocent or guilty. My concern is for the child and she must be saved now. Thank you for bringing this issue to my attention and I will do what I can to help in the cause. Which ever way you slice this issue it is Aaliyah being hurt.

  138. bill

    I CANT BELIEVE A CRIME LIKE THIS IS NOT TAKEN ANY MORE SERIOUS THAN IF IT WERE SHOP LIFTING. THIS FATHER AND THE PEOPLE COVERING THIS UP SHOULD BE DEALT WITH AND A SERIOUS PUNISHMENT GIVEN THEM.

  139. Fred

    this little girl was obviously coached!! you can hear the little girl pausing and trying to remember the words. hell u can even hear the mother mumbling in the back at times!! has anybody even realized that the ENTIRE conversation happens just off screen! this only one guilty of anything here is the BITCH MOTHER for making her precious child even utter such disgusting words and put her through this type of stress! im dealing with a bitch just like this! the only reason i bet she hasnt tried this is cause we have a son and not a daughter! this bitch needs to be hauled under the lights and broken down!! cmon people..they gave him custody because they have seen the video and realize that the mother is a piece of shit!! its been 8 months because they are building a case against her not him! f### this hoe!!

  140. Dennis

    This is horrible. I hope Justice is served!!
    As for Chris We don’t need listners like you glad to hear you tuned out.

  141. Thomas M

    Ok we have some serious alligations here that need to be investigated fully. My question is does the state have something that says that this is all a hoax? If not everyone in the SA’s office needs to be taken out tied to and shot along with the father or mother which ever is playing games here. I know first hand kids can be coached as my father in law was accused of these types of acts by his ex wife’s daughter but after an investigation it was prooved that the alligations were false so to just push this under the rug is just criminal! With that said if it comes to light that the father reall did these things we need to make sure the people responsible for the delay in action and placing this child in danger are brought up on criminal charges at the verry least. Now if mom is just playing games to get her child I understand a mother has to do anything in her power to get her child but somehting like this is absurd and she should never see the light of day let alone the little girl. Bubba dont stop pushing this untill the truth is know either way. you may offend most but when it comes to things that really matter like this you step up at the right time so please keep pushing this, this is one time when being outspoken is a good thing

    BUBBA ARMY

  142. Joe S

    Bubba And All Keep UP The Good Work

  143. Fred

    my daughter is 1 1/2 and says like 15 words..my son spoke that well and was a sponge at 2 1/2..as a father of two AND the oldest child in my ENTIRE family..yes..a 2 1/2 yr old can indeed be coached..WELL!

  144. Jim

    I have three words for this man. SHOOT THE BASTARD

  145. Mr. and Mrs. Tankass

    Oh my god Bubba…I was in tears. I myself was an abused child and as a parent it’s not something you want happen to your child. Being a victim you educate and protect you kids to the best of your ability. I educated my children and unfortunately not only did it happen to my baby girl but to my son also by the same sick minded ******* I’m not sure how the law works in the states but here in Canada they get a slap on the hand making it very frustrating for both parent and victim. Years of therapy and still my babies will never be the same. Innocent children are being mentally damaged for life
    I know that with your help justice will be served…you have the power and drive to help any victim of such. I sure wish we had someone like you here in Canada.
    This guy is sick his parental rights should be taken until a full investigation has been completed.
    Bubba please keep us posted.

  146. Eric

    After hearing this on the radio my wife and I were just in shock. We both cried, and were so happy when we heard of all the wonderful people stepping up to help. Bubba Army, BUBBA ARMY! Let us all help in prayer, even if some of us are atheist, Help her Bubba Army.

  147. Your last caller yesterday

    I WAS YOUR LAST CALLER YESTERDAY & WOULD LIKE TO SAY ONCE AGAIN, I HAVE THIS GOD AWFUL FEELING IN MY STOMACH THAT HER FATHER DID THIS IF NOT ONLY FROM MY OWN EXPERIENCE. WHATEVER THE OUT COME, I’D LIKE TO SAY THANK YOU ONCE AGAIN FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART FOR GETTING THE WORD OUT SO THAT THIS INNOCENT CHILD CAN RECEIVE HELP SOMETHING I NEVER HAD. MY FATHER IS STILL ALIVE (I HAVE NO RELATIONSHIP WITH HIM) & HE TOLD MY BROTHER HE WOULD NEVER ADMIT IT HAPPENED. WHEN MY MOTHER FOUND OUT ( I WAS AROUND 23) SHE APOLOGIZED TO ME FOR HIM (THEY WERE DIVORCED) THEN TURNED AROUND A FEW YEARS LATER REMARRIED THE SOB & TOLD ME I WAS LYING, THEN HE DIVORCED HER AND SHE BELIEVED ME AGAIN. TALK ABOUT A DOUBLE WAMMY WHEN THE 2 PEOPLE YOUR SUPPOSE TO LOVE THE MOST IN THIS WORLD & LOOK UP TO & TRUST MIGHT AS WELL HAVE JUST STUCK A KNIFE IN YOU. THANKFULLY I TURNED OUT O.K. & THAT’S ALL I WANT FOR THIS LITTLE GIRL AND LIKE I SAID, NO MATTER THE OUT COME CUZ I HAD IT FROM BOTH GOOD OLD MOM & DAD & SOMEONE NEEDS TO PAY.

  148. Philip C

    Sick f!! this ‘a’ hole needs to have his “worm” laid out on a chopping block and hacked up, then let him try to get a 3 year old to touch it or whatever!! Can’t believe anybody with any kind of dignity or feelings would not even bother to look in to it. What the ‘f’ is going on in that part of the world? Sounds like a modern day thunderdome environment!! Way to step up Bubba and let people be aware of the alleged situation!! glad to be a part of the Bubba Army!!!!!!

  149. Mike

    Some one give me an address.
    I’ll do him.

  150. Revenge

    Give me an address.
    I will do him.
    Do him real good.

  151. Kristin

    This bitch is a money grubbin’ whore. ANY mother on the face of the earth who heard her child say that anything was being done to them would jump out of bed and hold her and ask her what was wrong, not film her in ‘night vision’ and leave it alone AND NOT MAKE A LINK FOR A DONATION!!!!!!!!!!! A real claim would be: Please contact the police etc…..It’s soooooo fake. You can see at one point where the video stops and starts again. What mother, even a piece of shit, would just lay in bed next to her child and just listen and not hold them and ask ‘what happened, what does daddy do’?!?!?!?!!!!

    LIAR

  152. Bill

    You have got to be kidding! This is a MegaBit*h out for revenge. Listen to the cell phone calls linked on her website. It is all about her not the child. I find it truely hard to belive that after 6 months, if the alligations were true, that ANY court would ignore the information that you have provided. You Rednecks will belive any thing -”Hell, if it’s on the internet it MUST be True!” I have, however, forwared your letter in my nane.

  153. Laura

    I can’t fricking believe that the judicial system can turn a blind eye to this. I have no doubt in my mind that this baby girl is telling the truth. The mother isn’t trying to extract any info out of Aaliyah such as “and what happened after that” or “tell Mommie more”, etc. Irregardless of what anyone thinks about this video, fake or not, it doesn’t matter. This child is crying for help. I swear!!! Something is jacked when children are disregarded in such a manner. I bet this wouldn’t happen if it was an animal being abused. What does that say about us???

  154. Melissa & Chris

    I am outraged and disgusted by this video. The Father should be excuted. And as for the connections that he has we should get all of their names and be sure that when their seat comes up for re-election that the public remembers this little girl and how she was treated. If a priest (a man supposedly living for God) can molest children then anybody can, no matter their social standing. I am a victim of rape and abuse, it was overwhelming as an adult. I can’t even begin to imagine the pain and suffering it causes to a child. I am with you on this band wagon. Just tell me when and where!!!!!!!

  155. Talena

    I tried to have an open mind after hearing part of your show this morning. I tried to see how it could possibly be staged or misconstrued. I tried to see a WAY out for the father(I belive in innocent until proven guilty). After all the excuses I could come up with, I cried. I saw this child crying for help, and noone has been able to, obviously! My gosh this child talks and talks but cries if her auntie or Mommie doesn’t answer whether or not they are simply THERE!!

    Please keep us up to date about ANYTHING you hear about this case. The public needs to know ANYTHING it can on how to prevent sexual abuse: especially child sexual abuse; how to recognize it; that you will not be ignored if you report it; and that you will not be austrisized reporting it!!!!!!

  156. Jersey Mike

    Hey Bubba,

    After hearing this story, has caused me to feel a lot of hate, like I just want to go out and beat on a pedophile.
    Where does this fag live?

  157. Matt

    Like you said on the show today…If this is true this guy is one crazy piece of crap. To quote Hank Jr, “I’d like to spit some Beech Nut in that dudes eyes, and shoot him with my ol’ 45″

  158. jc

    If this guy did this he needs to be castrated and stoned at the courthouse steps and in front of the whole world. This actually made me tear up, I dont have kids but i have a neice and if someone would ever do something like this to her i would be in jail and would do the same as bubba would do.

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  160. Brian Bloom

    If this f###ng monster is guilty, I say we fire up the Bubba wood chipper and make some human chili jones.

  161. Lixx

    Some of you people are…special. What most of us want is an investigation into this. Yes the obvious one is to look into possible abuse by the dad to the little girl. BUT if that is indeed false, than an investigation needs to occur in regards to the making of this video. As a survivor, it sounds legit to me, but I’m no expert. It doesnt sound coached to me, especially near the end when you can hear the slight crying and the little girl asking whats wrong. Sure it could all be staged but I’m just not believing it. Either way, someone or both need to be investigated.

  162. Jet Stream

    What a sick sick freak I have 3 kids of my own and if this was ever to go on with any of my kids so help me god ..No need for god,cops,jail.I will hand out death on the spot I sure hope the mom is not making all this up..Its hard to see 8 months or so and nothing has been done..wtf I hate all sex offender that eye up kids kill em all

  163. Jason W.

    This breaks my heart just knowing that anyone would be capable of such a heartless deed. I listened to the show today and I’m trying to way both sides. However, my gut is winning the battle of a terrible ending to the story. I hope the Bubba Army can expose this “Prick of a father” and get him put away where he belongs. Please keep me posted on this issue.

    jw

  164. Stephanie from Richmond, VA

    What a BASTARD!!! I am disgusted and enraged by what I just saw. I started listening this morning on my way to work and was so upset I was glad I got to work and couldn’t listen anymore. I am a mother of 3 children 2 of which have been sexually abused by someone they know. At the time my daughter was 2 and my son was 3 1/2. Listening to Aalyiah brought back painful and sickening memories. There is no way this child is making this up. My son gave very vivid details even at his age and there is no way you can coach a kid to say things like that.

    What is wrong with Placer county!!!! Are they all cold hearted Bastards???? Do they not have children???? I’m sure if it was one of theirs, they wouldn’t let someone get away with this.

    I hope he rots in Hell!!! He wants someone to play with his worm so bad wait till he gets locked up (Lord willing). They don’t like people who hurt babies!!!!

    I will pray for Aalyiah and her mom that God will bless them and keep them safe, and give them the strength to get this creep off the streets forever!!!

    Bubba–thank you so much for caring enough to bring this to everyone’s attention!!! I love your show–Bubba Army Bubba army

  165. Brian

    Bubba this is so crazy! This a$$hole should be killed! Not only that, but I feel guilty because this is in my own backyard and I have not heard a thing about this case! The news coverage in the Sacramento/ Placer County area is lack luster to say the least! I will do all that I can not only as BUBBA ARMY member but as a citizen of the Roseville/Placer County area! This is complete Bullshiz, and needs to be in the for front of the media networks! Saving baby Aaliyah is way more important then a fundraiser for saving the Sacramento Kings! This is a childs life, not a shotty sports team!! Come on Sac news stations and Placer County. Get off your butts and DO SOMETHING!

    Sorry I was justtrying to type fast Grammer is really shitty!!

  166. Lysa

    From the mouths of babes..After veiwing this video posted on your website, I was left with emptiness and dispair. As a mother, a nurse and a humanbeing, I could only feel hoplessness and real pain, the kind that I have witnessed when a parent is fighting for thier childs life from cancer, and their is nothing they can do but watch. There is no cure for this disease but, there is a remedy for what pain this child is suffering. As a mother, listening to this little girl ( I can’t get her little voice out of my head ), I can tell she is speaking her truth as her little mind sees it, with honesty. Her mother’s pain is also, real. ( a mother can sense it). I empathized for her, trying to put myself in her shoes..but it was a place I could not go without feeling anger and after reading some of the comments of people doubting her it only made me sadder. Was she to shine a bright light in her childs eyes like that of an interrogation? Only a mother would know that this child was asking questions out of fear like.. do you have a worm? to her mother and “auntie” because she has witnessed first hand that the people she has trusted and grown to love, namingly her father, has scared her in a most devious and dispicable way. Who in her little mind will betray her next? For those who think the mother has coaxed her shame on you.. this mother is hurting and her daughter even at 2, could sense it. You can not fool a child if you are close enough to them..my 4 yr old son can pick up on my sadness within 5 min of my presence without me speaking a word or crying. Children deserve more credit than they recieve. I am glad Bubba you have brought this to light and others are making their contributions. This little angel needs all the help and prays she can get

  167. Steven J. Arvan

    Hi Bubba ,
    Freakin CHILLS !!!!!
    It’s been three hours since your show ended and i still got chills, that was one of the sadest, disgusting ,out right unforgivable acts. I’m the very proud father of two beautiful little girls,and it made be cry like a little girl on the way home from work listening to you. I know the Bubba army has to be just as sick. I cut and pasted Brets letter and sent it to that so called D.A. Hopefuly he gets off his a– and helps that ltttle girl and her mom.If there was ever the case for capatiol punishment this is IT. May that piece of crap of a father die a slow painful death ,if he did do what we all heard on that tape . Thanks for letting me vent Bubba . New listener since you came with Howard ,and I Love your SHOW.
    Steven.

  168. Ron

    Damn it bubba, its just wrong. So glad i dont live in a small town

  169. Kathryn

    MY HEART GOES OUT TO THIS LITTLE GIRL AND HER MOTHER IT HAS TO BE HARD HEARING THIS FROM A CHILD AND NOONE WILL HELP WITH ANYTHING! HOPEFULLY SOMEONE WILL HELP WITH THIS SITUATION!

  170. Tony Brigman

    This guy has to be the sickest human being walking on the face of this planet,he definitely needs to be castrated,if he indeed did do this to his daughter.You are definitely broken if you have to stoop to this level to full fill your sexual desires on a child that is only innocent and really has no idea what is really happening to her.I feel so badly for this little girl.Bubba,keep your foot on his throat,until we bring all of this to justice,for this little girls sake,thank you!

  171. hillbilly

    hay bubba

    being a father of a 2year old i just want to grab this guy
    wrap my towchain around his balls and drag him behind my peterbuilt for about 500 miles but thats just how we would handle it in the back woods of pennsylvania

    and yes the bubba army is strong around here

  172. Greg

    This guy is a sicko and needs to be stopped. im printing and sending the letter now.

  173. Gina

    I don’t understand why there is a video camera w/ night vision handy; jus t odd to me. I’m sorry, but why doesn’t the mom have a lawyer? I understand if money is the issue. I just didn’t grasp the reason during my view of the video.

    I agree that some investigation is needed. Maybe the best thing is for the little girl to be in someone else’s custody until both parents are fully investigated. I know she needs her parents. The issue is if the environment in either parent’s presence is best for the little girl at the moment. Even if not coached or the parents aren’t being undermining or opinionate about the other parent, the little girl has got to sense stress. There are three sides to a story; his, hers and then the overall facts. No matter what happens someone needs to represent the child
    and her rights.

    http://www.dss.cahwnet.gov/cdssweb/PG20.htm

    http://www.findcounseling.com/journal/child-abuse/sexual-abuse-incest-statistics.html

    http://www.findcounseling.com/national/child-abuse.html

    http://www.findcounseling.com/journal/child-abuse/child-abuse-hotlines-phone-numbers.html

    http://sacramento.fbi.gov/

  174. jon

    i know some people i was in the 82nd with we could show this man a real bad time…airborne!!

  175. gary

    hey bubba and crew iam a dedicated listener for years now and also i have a bubba army sticker on my work truck(dont know if that makes me in the bubba army or not)anyway out of all the stories you guys talk about this is the first time i have ever responded to anything.i have three children myself and if this happened to my kids i would load the glock as well bubba what can i do to help you guys in any way please.thanks good luck all involved in this matter bubba and crew do your thing you will get a reaction from this somebody important has to be listening or reading

  176. Sassy

    Thank you for picking up this story Bubba. I found out about it a week ago through BNN Simon & Jan.

    The judicial system in Placer county is a corrupt (good old boys club) This affects law enforcement and the local media who are afraid to report on this case. Can you imagine living in a County like this? This sounds like a spinoff of the movie Deliverance, California style.

    We need to keep this story screaming until justice is done for this precious little girl.

  177. Bill and Jen

    Bubba And Crew,
    As proud parents of three we are sad for this child. No matter who is the psycho (mom or dad… I am guessing dad)its outrageous that the authorities have not stepped in and taken the little girl away from the situation. I listen to your show daily and just have to say no matter what you have done on the air that would seem out of line to every critic what you done today was nothing short of commendable. It should be put on every radio and news station nation wide to let people know the sickness that is out there.,.right in front of them

  178. Brian

    Bubba,

    I live in Roseville CA, (Placer county) and this is the first I have heard of this story. None of the local news stations are running this story. Hopefully word will get out to the 3 network news (KCRA KXTV KOVR)stations and they can give this proper coverage. This guy sounds like a real pervert, and needs to be molested himself during a long stay in Folsom prison. Don’t stop with this until there is justice for this little girl, Keep up the great show!

  179. John H.

    The “Good ole boy” system is who to blame for any of this. Kids can pick up anything that their parents say or do. I myself had my 3 year old son, told that “We need to get out of here before daddy hurts us”, by his “then” pysco mother, and picked up on it. I am for neither the father or mother till the truth comes out. If the mother is or somehow “coached” the little girl, or God help the father if it is true, then they get what they deserve. The victim is the little girl. The culprits start with the county officials and their lack of ivestigation. I hope and pray that there is not a lot of phsycological damage done to this girl. If they are tryin to get back at one another, shame on them. The county needs a major overhaul in my opinion, that’s where I’d start first, no.. get the child the child in a safe enviroment and then get the ball rolling. Anyway it’s a tragedy that an innocent kid has to be put thru this. My son turned out great, the whole arguing with me and my ex was that she was super pissed that I let the cat out of the bag that she was gay. And was really pissed when she found out that I had tapped my own phone to get the truth. We get along great now. Again I hope that this gets resolved and fast for the little girls sake, the only casualty in this fiasco.

  180. Ed an Michele Butler

    Bubba,
    I just want you and everyone in the Bubba Army I am an FTE and this story touched me and my wife we sent the email to the DA. I just hope we are not to late as you said on the show today it is a win win situation.

  181. mad in oregon

    how do we contact arnold swartnagger he should be all over this as well as the fbi and some child doctor should look at the child u can tell when a kid is being coach and when they are not thay is why we have those people i live in oregon a few years back front padge a man was released from jail for rapeing and murdering a 2 yr old after he spent some time in jail all because he didnt get a timeley trial what the hell is that im so angry right now i cant even spell anyway all child abuser should be kept in a special place and tortured every day of there natural life.

  182. Karen

    I am literally sick to my stomach after hearing that video. I heard your show today and I am confident that you will get after these people or whomever can help figure this nightmare out. I have a 4 yr old daughter that IS my entire life…I am so sickened by this. It’s too graphic to be a hoax but either way, it needs to be figured out and that child needs help asap.

  183. TRUCKEN

    what the hell is the matter with this man sorry i ment beast our hearts go out to this little one

  184. Chris from Bradenton

    Bubba, I heard this on your show this morning and just saw the video and all I can say is when do we get all of the Bubba Army together and ride out there to California and take care of this guy? As a father I am sickened to hear this, fearful just like every other parent out there who worries about their child when they leave the house. The most important issue here is the child and her well being and if the law will not take care of it properly then the people have to do something to protect this child and I, as well as several others, are more than willing to drive, ride or whatever it takes to get out there to be there for this little girl. This simply must NOT go unchecked and the longer it continues the more this little girl is in danger. As a fellow parent I feel it is my duty and that of every other parent worth their salt to step up and put this right before this little girl must endure any more. The People’s Hammer must be nuclear powered and slammed on this guy now!

  185. Matthew

    Dude this is an atrocity. For something as horrific as this to take place and never see the light of day is inexcuseable. We must make them delve into this case with no prejudice. Investigate bot sides (mother and father) equally and determine what is really going on. If the father is doing what he’s accused of then he should be dealt with accordingly.

  186. Robin Licitra

    It’s hard to put my disgust into words over this. I was in tears today as I listened to this. How can they have not investigated this, even the smallest iota of a mention of child abuse should be looked into.The court system and law enforcement need to be investigated after this. How could they give such an innocent child to that disgusting monster!! He is a pig & I hope this gets investigated and that monster goes to jail, we all know what they do to child abusers in jail……

  187. John

    I just dont know what to say…This shizz HAS TO STOP!!!!!
    I want to take her dad deep sea fishing where he will be the fishing worm. If there is a GOD, PlEAS help this kid

  188. vagabond

    Bubba…If this guy is found guilty of this!!!He should be brought to your studio and put him on your torture rack and make him feel the wrath of the Bubba and then thrown into your Bubbagon for who ever wants at him. Me 1st!!!

  189. zak

    i think the moms innocent and she just dont know what to do but the husband needs to be tortured

  190. Jeff

    I think that there is a special corner of hell for the father and for all the authorities and everyone who is in total denial and will not do anything to confront or stick their neck out against any of the good ol boy politics that are taking place there to save this perfectly beautiful angel little girl. They have the nerve to call themselves men. Carma is a mother******. I would love to get him out here in the country in Pennsylvania where I live where us country boys would cut his worm off, stick it in his mouth, cut his legs from his ankles to were his worm used to be while he is chained and stuck to a post with arrows and let the coyotes and critters take care of him. TRUE JUSTICE! GOD SAVE AND BLESS AALIYAH AND HER MOTHER!

  191. Tammy Paro

    Mr. Fenocchio
    My name is Tammy Paro and I am a resident in upstate NY. A friend sent me a message regarding the situation with this most tormented little girl this evening.

    To have to hear of this in such a way was most unfortunate for this child as it was not a news story about the agency you head using it’s power to save the child, but a story about the humanity of a radio show doing it instead! That fact is criminal in and of itself!
    I would like to tell you that what I heard and read on my computer, via the Bubba The Love Sponge Show was not only disturbing and repulsive, it was true. The language that Aaliyah used was typical of a child her age. The references she made to the Baby E. Worm and her father’s penis were also appropriate for her age (at the time of the making of the recording). She was not being influenced by either adult in the room and clearly was speaking for herself. How your agency or you could have spent the past year doing nothing to aid in the fight of this child’s mother to save her is despicable.

    I have an educational background in the area of child development as well as psychology and work professionally with children. It is not possible for a child of her age to be programmed in such a way that she would make such distinct and yet random references to what she was and in all probability is still experiencing at the hands of her father. Her description of his “worm”, it’s size, it being yucky and also the way she portrayed what was causing her to cough and his having to wipe her mouth is clearly an indication that she is being forced to perform some type of oral sex on her father. This man is sodomizing his toddler and your agency is doing nothing to stop it.

    Her cries have not gone unheard by those that love her or even by the country she lives in. Aaliyah’s cries go unheard only by those that have the power to change her circumstances. They are ignored by you and the others in your field that are entrusted with stopping such crimes against those too young to stop them on their own. Face it, she has tried harder to stop her father by telling him to stop than you have!

    Mr. Fenocchio, you are in a position affording you the chance to bring about the saving of this child. You are also in a position to continue the obvious indifference that will doom her to a life of nothing but pain and constant violations emotionally and physically at the hands of her own father.

    I can tell you from personal experience that what has been done to her is something that will not end until someone with the power to stop it, does exactly that! Mr. Fenocchio, are you going to be that man? Are you going to be the person who uses his influence to save her from more abuse and offers her the life she was meant to have? The power is yours to use if you choose to stand up for her and use it. If you choose to do nothing, I am sorry to say that you are worse than the person perpetrating these crimes against this child. He is a vile,manipulative, heinous creature who preys upon the innocent. He is sick, in a way that is not clearly understood. You, on the other hand, are not. You are clearly just indifferent to what she suffers. If you choose to continue to look away and allow this to continue, you cannot fall back on some obscure diagnosis as an excuse for doing nothing. The only reason you will have is that of complete disregard for human life and the safety, protection and welfare of Aaliyah.

    I would encourage you to be a hero for this child and not add yourself to the ranks of the many that will have failed her in her young life. She is blessed to have a mother willing to continue to fight for her and not give up. What her mother lacks is power, you have that and waste it. Do the right thing Mr. Fenocchio. Do the difficult thing. Fight for the child who cannot fight for herself.

    As a survivor of long term severe sexual, physical, emotional and psychological abuse, I can tell you that what happens to her now, will change her life forever. What this man has done, cannot be undone. I watched the video, I heard Aaliyah and I can tell you that I know her because there was once a child within me that experienced the same type of abuse and much worse. Had I your position and power, this would have stopped the first time it was brought to my attention. Is it only survivors of abuse that care for those that are currently being abused by not only those they trust but also by the system put in place to protect them?

    Your office has an obligation to do what is right for her. Do it! Mr. Fenocchio, the eyes of the Nation are watching you now. What will you do? I pray, for Aaliyah that you and those that have the power to change her circumstances do it and do it now! Every moment is one moment too many for her to suffer.

    We will be watching. We will not be silent. We will have the courage that was so profoundly apparent in Aaliyah and we will speak out. It will no longer be the small voice of a child that says “No, don’t do that”! It will be all of us telling you that it is time for you to do your duty and stop turning a blind eye to the slow death of the innocent spirit of Aaliyah.

    Respectfully outraged
    Tammy Paro
    Mandated reporter for CPS in upstate NY
    Parent Educator for Catholic Charities of the Arch Diocese of NY
    Professional Nanny for an agency out of Clifton Park, NY and a parent of five happy, healthy and safe children!

  192. Steve

    I will be contacting my local chapter of B.A.C.A. (Bikers Against Child Abuse) to see if they have affiliates in Placer County. They’ll surely take up the case and follow it to its conclusion.

    Please locate, contact, and support your local B.A.C.A. chapter. These are good people doing good work!

  193. Charlene Y

    God bless this poor innocent child! She is not making this up and I do not see how an adult could not see this!! this literally makes me sick to my stomach and want to cry. We all need to take a stand for this little girl!! this is wrong! This man needs to be chopped and BURNED! what a sick f*ck!

  194. KEALOHA

    “BUBBA ARMY!” “BUBBA ARMY!” BUBBA ARMY!” LET’S All send this letter. I Bubba Army Private has sent three now from northern Alberta, Canada! With Bubba’s Army on this all that’s needed is the “POWER of the HOWARD FIST”

  195. marty and edie

    this is so messed up!..this man is just plain sick in the head!…….something needs to be done and fast that baby has done nothing to deserve this injustice…..i know exactly what she is going thru as i endured @ 20 yrs of sexual abuse in my life(not all by the same person)…the first time was my biological father..nothing was ever done to him for it…it made me feel like i was nothing…this baby is something and she deserves to b protected by the law and justice system..i watched the video and it made me throw up…..there is no way that she was caoched in any way….i was her age when my father did it to me….i no first hand kids say what is the truth at 3 yrs old they cant lie on purpose…..the dont have that ability yet….i pray over and over again that this sick sob is brought to justice before any more damage is brought on this baby girl!!!!!!!…..edie

  196. Shawn

    I have a 9 y.o. boy and a 3y.o. girl. After the brodcast of this tape I had to stop my big truck on the side of the road and call my family back home. I’m a Canadian and knows this is hapening hear too. Bubba PLEASE HELP HER OUT! If they need a please to hide. My home is open to them in a small town in northern Ontario, Canada.

  197. bill

    the mom is smokeing hot. i hope shes not a 15min of fame whore useing her kid if this is true they should have him put in general population the inmates will take care of him and it wont be clean or fun he will suffer and die that is what i hope happens if this is true.

  198. Vern from Calgary Canada

    Bubba,no matter what,you have just saved this little girls life,I can’t believe that sicko of a father has legal custody of this child!The thing is not only does he need to go away,so does anyone involved in covering this up.No way should this have gone without being investigated.Anyone of the disturbed individuals who seen this video and did nothing about it are is just as guilty.Thanks Bubba for everything you do! And may the father of that baby girl be introduced to all the penitentiary worms.Let him see first hand just what he has done to this child!

  199. janet

    I k now the hurt this mother is going threw my daughter was doing the same thing as this little girl at the age of 4 her half brother would hump her butt i could not get not help at all the court said i was telling her to say this and court turned around and gave my ex sole custody and let it happen 13 times that i know of she now is 12 years old i havnt seen her in 8 years it is very hurtful when she would come home and tell me all i can do is walk out of the room crying i could never get any one to listen to her or me in my case nothing was ever done to the sick kid that is called her half brother he can now hurt another child

  200. Sonia

    Thousands of innocent children are abused everyday in this country behind closed doors. Aaleyahs mother gave us an opportunity to listen to how her child has been coping with this abuse. I am the mother of a 3 year old little girl and I do not believe for one second that little Aaleyah was coached. Her father is a sick SOB and his “worm” should be chopped off and floating in the Pacific Ocean!

  201. Tambra

    We really need to get this man off of the streets, as an abused child myself, this child will have to endure years of hurt and anger, guilt for something that she never did. For something that was done to her. After years of therapy and the Lord’s good grace I have been healed and have the ability to help others. Speak with others. People like this man need to be punished for such crime/crimes never to be seen or heard from again. I know that the Lord will make sure of it one day, but while they walk this earth, we as a people need to unite and make sure we do something about them or our children will just continue to be hurt and abused instead of being safe and loved like they are intended to be. It’s a shame when a child cant just be that a child. Carefree to run and play and enjoy their life without having to live in fear of others always wondering what if? I pray that justice be done, I know that the Lord will hear our prayers. I Thank each and everyone that comes here for support as I know you care and that you are loving parents/sisters/brothers/etc. In His Love, Tam

  202. Melanie Doty

    WE_CARE_ProJect is hear to support Save Baby Aaliyah, We are located from East Coast to West Coast and in Between (Indiana) Please hear our voices CRY OUT SCREAM OUT for this child and her Mother.

  203. Linda Engle-Belcher

    I am so OUTRAGED at the way you are looking the other way as this precious baby gets sexualy, physicaly,& verbaly abused & tortured. Don’t you have babies of your own or grandchildren?~ You wonder what is wrong with our future?~ Our children? YOUR what’s wrong with it. YOU keep allowing this kind of stuff to continue & know it will only bring about more pain & anger once these babies grow up & realize that knowone cared what happened to them when they were to helpless to protect themself. YOUR so wrong if you think this could NEVER happen to your OWN children or grandchild & wrongly mistaken. PLEASE rescue this baby so she might have some kind of life left in her if that is even possible anymore? My prayers go out to all the abused children who have survived as I barely did & also to the ones who have passed because help NEVER came for them. WE HAVE TO BE THE VOICE FOR THE CHILDREN!~ From L.Engle-Belcher of Niagara Falls,N.Y. AKA HappyOne Against ALL ABUSE

  204. Melanie Doty

    Date: May 14,2009

    Mr. Fenocchio,

    I am writing you to express my concern about your apparent lack of attention in a case involving the sexual abuse of a three year old girl named Aaliyah Bedwell. The video seen many places on the internet titled “Daddy’s Worm” is disturbing to say the least. What’s more disturbing is the way this case has been handled by your office. You are the highest Law Enforcement Official in Placer County, California. You have the responsibility to protect this child when the allegation of sexual abuse is brought to your attention, which this was over eight months ago by all accounts.

    The suspect in this case has an attorney named Mrs. Sandra Amara, whose husband is also a judge. If Judge Dirk Amara is meddling in this case, it is also your duty to investigate him. Judge Frances Kearney, removed herself from this case, and stipulated that a judge from a different county would hear it. Which is a step in the right direction, however, it does not absolve you of your responsibility of investigating credible allegations of serious violent sexual crimes like this one.

    Mr. Fenocchio, it is paramount for the well being of children in your county that you prosecute those suspected of child sexual abuse to the fullest extent of the law without exception. Anything else is unacceptable for a District Attorney. Protect this child, prosecute the offender, and uphold the laws of your state. These are all part of your responsibility as the District Attorney of Placer County, California. You need to take this very seriously before this child is beyond the help and protection she deserves.

    Sincerely,
    Melanie Doty
    Evansville, Indiana

  205. Matt

    I did not catch all the show today but I did hear some of this discussion and had to read about it for myself. After reading the story and watching the video I was sick to my stomach. I cannot believe that America’s morale compass is so FU*&* up that no one has looked at this case more closely. I know there are to sides to every story but I pray to god someone helps this little girl.

  206. Vanessa

    I viewed this video this evening at the request of my husband, a dedicated listener…And I’m uphauled that no one has brought this case to trial. This poor little girl, as we all sit, in tears listening or watching what she’s going through is STILL GOING THROUGH IT!!! UNF###ING BELIEVABLE!!! Someone seriously needs to get off of their tired, lazy asses and wake up! Yes, let’s save little Aaliyah and do whatever it takes to bring her sorry desperate father to court. If for any sick reason this little girl has rehearsed this scene, then we’re responsible for bringing her mother to justice at a later time, but the focus should be to get THE BABY out of direct danger.

  207. Aaron

    All I want is Aaliaya safe! I am calling on the army. Protect this young girl. Make sure she becomes a super person. She survives and makes a difference. As a man I protect. This small one needs all of us. Turn your rage to a stream of protection. To make a difference save Aaliaya’s life. Make sure you make a difference.

    BUBBA ARMY!!!!

  208. Jo-ann

    Disgusting, either way. Thanks Simon and Jan for bringing this to Bubba’s attention. As always, once Bubba gets ahold of something – look out!
    Aaliyah, help is coming – I hope it’s not too late.

  209. Eric

    this makes me cry

  210. Jaimie

    As a retired NCOIC (Non commissioned officer in charge)of a corrections facility within the theater of the USAF, I was able to sit in on quite a few proceedings involving members of our military, and viewed similar video and recorded evidence like this, and in my honest opinion, this appears to be very legitimate. I had at least 35 convicted “child molester/abusers” sent to facilities within my command, and PLEASE understand that they are sick and in-curable degenerates, that cannot be rehabilitated. Those I encountered who were either up on charges or found guilty of these types of offenses involving children were the most cunning of vermin, I have ever met, keep in mind they have to control the mind and views of the most innocent yet inquisitive minds, those of a child. Children under the age of 5 do not have the ability to “cover” for anyone other than them selves. They, when speaking of or describing actions they dont fully understand or dont comprehend often verbalize facts in fragmented segments, often repeating them 2 or 3 times in succession, this is the way their mind works when they verbalize any point, whether they feel the urge to go potty, or they are hungry.Those of you who have kids, think back to when they were 2 or 3 and try to remember how often they repeated the phrase ” I’ve got to go potty, I’ve got to go potty, I’ve got to go potty”. Any ways< Bubba and crew, thank you for bringing this to the forefront, and fighting for this little girl, I hope for her sake, justice is done!!

  211. Rufus Leekin

    The child wasn’t coached… I hope everyone sends an email to the prosecutor regarding this case…

  212. Ana

    Whether you believe the video or not, this obviously warrants an investigation, SOONER rather than later. I think I would run away with my child rather than ever turn her over to him for his “visits,” but maybe the legal way is the way to go. If this is true, she doesn’t have much time left before all of her innocence and trust are destroyed. :(

  213. kim

    Bubba thank you for taking this on you are a hero some other stations, jocks wouldnt give 2 shits less. I just wish to god someone would get to the bottom of this why is this still going on and seems to not be ending???? I pray you stay with the case and use your power to demand answers.

  214. Derek

    At first I thought the story sounded a little too… made up. But then I watched the video. I also pumped the audio and listened through good headphones to see if I could hear any “whispers” or “coaching”.

    All I heard was a little girl talking and a mother crying. The tone of the mothers voice showed she was crying probably the entire time. The little girls rambling (to me) showed ZERO signs of coaching.

    Anyone with kids knows that its not easy to coach a kid to say things. Especially for any prolonged period of time. Also this video is edited down to 9 minutes. I read the actual video is 24 minutes. Coaching an (at the time) 2 1/2 year old to speak for 24 minutes about “daddy’s worm” and how “daddy wants a baby with me”… that just ain’t happening.

    What I believe is, that if this is actually found out to be true… and this father is abusing the child.. then the judge, the prosecutors and anyone else involved with this case should be tried with accessory. Just as people can be charged as an accessory to murder… these people should be tried for accessory to child molestation. By not viewing this evidence and truly investigating these claims.. they themselves are facilitating this to go on. They might as well be right there with this “father” doing these acts.

  215. Teri Broadstreet

    Can you hear the prayer of the children?
    On bended knee, in the shadow of an unknown room
    Empty eyes with no more tears to cry
    Turning heavenward toward the light

    Crying Jesus, help me
    To see the morning light-of one more day
    But if I should die before I wake,
    I pray my soul to take

    Can you feel the hearts of the children?
    Aching for home, for something of their very own
    Reaching hands, with nothing to hold on to,
    But hope for a better day a better day

    Crying Jesus, help me
    To feel the love again in my own land
    But if unknown roads lead away from home,
    Give me loving arms, away from harm

    Can you hear the voice of the children?
    Softly pleading for silence in a shattered world?
    Angry guns preach a gospel full of hate,
    Blood of the innocent on their hands

    Crying Jesus, help me
    To feel the sun again upon my face,
    For when darkness clears I know you’re near,
    Bringing peace again

    Dali cujete sve djecje molitive?
    (Croatian translation:
    ‘Can you hear all the children’s prayers?’)
    Can you hear the prayer of the children?.

    Thank you Child Protection Community for not allowing another innocent voice NOT to be heard!..You already know!!!

  216. Lou

    Bubba if you or your staff are reading comments during the broadcast – I think there is wrong info being said. The mother had not yet been instructed to not video tape the child when this video was made. It was after this that she was told to stop making videos.

  217. Michele Sobczak

    SAVE AALIYA!!!!!!!!!! It is a sad country when our government does not protect these beautiful children. A Mother has to rally and rely on strangers to help her baby girl! This child is in great danger, she will need extensive counseling and love. She belongs with her Mother that loves her and will do anything for her safety. The “Father” doesn’t see’s this child as an object. And he belongs in prison. We cannot let these peds out, they need to stay in prison for life. He has ruined this child’s life, his needs to be taken… He needs locked up, so he will never do this to anyone again. I am the State Director for Child Protection Community. Aaliyah, help is coming quickly!! You have BABBA, All of child protection community, our associates, and many more… The world is coming to help you sweetie!!! First we take care of Aaliyah, she is most important… THEN WE GO AFTER JUSTICE!!! It is time our governement, CPS and others that have the power to save these children wake up! We will no longer allow innocent, voiceless children to be treated worse than the criminal himself. These laws that protect the criminals HAVE to change. Child Protection Community is in 14 countries… We are growing quickly. We are here for Aaliya and all children. Please look at our stories at http://www.childprotectioncommuniy.com Read our blog. If you are visiting this page, there are many children, that need your voice! Don’t let them be silent either. If you need help, we are there for you! -Michele Sobczak, IN State Director Child Protection Community.

  218. Jason

    I no way condone what the sick bastard is doing, but what did the mother do not to win custody? I feel bad for the child. They are always the victims.

  219. The Soldiers

    Instead of waiting for GOD to give this pedophile his just deserts, we the people must ban together and write to Mr. Fenocchio, and insist that he help in protecting this beautiful child.

    Mr. Fenocchio is hired by the people, therefore, he works for us and we should place this issue as a priority on his “To Do List”. What is the outcome thusfar?

    Thank you,
    The Soldiers

  220. lori

    I do not see or hear what you all do at all…I Once had to deal with this type of situation when my child was 2 and a half, and my son literally told me , that his uncle stuck his Pee pee in his Butt…and I acted right away…Now this little girl, can tell you exactly what is going on…my son did! you CaNT trust anyone nowadays from Priests,teachers,mothers or fathers..its a sick society and I believe all of you are just seeing that part and not realizing that there are still good parents out there … I Just feel this little girl could come right out and say whats been going on, if anything..Not just the audio I have heard. apparently thats why the father has full custody??? has anyone checked up on the mom, maybe shes got mental problems? I dont know any of these people, so i dont see how anyone can side with either of them. sorry to be on the opposing end, But Like I said above about my son, I have been in this situation, and it really tore my heart out..
    God Bless to all, and Bubba I Listen to you everyday!! we love you here in O-Town!
    sincerely Lori

  221. Seans Voice

    As a member of the Child Protection Community, I am elated to see Aaliyah’s plight being brought to MORE attention through this blog. God bless you Bubba for helping to save this precious baby. PLEASE… EVERYONE… write, write, write, and be a voice for Aaliyah!!!! Make us too many voices to ignore.

    Remember too, this is just one of thousands of innocent little lambs suffering in silence. Join us! Help us save and protect them ALL! The abuse of children MUST end! If we don’t stop it, who will?

    Jesus said anyone who hurts a child would be better off if he had a rock tied around his neck and cast into the sea.

    PROTECT His children – PUNISH the abusers!

  222. Ashley Busink

    Hey Bubba, this story is very sad…I am a mother of a 3,4 and 6 year old and the youngest 2 are girls.I think this child first of all should be taking out of the amrs of her father and her mother and put somewhere until they have proven one of them guilty.I myself do believe this child and she needs help,she is unable to help herself.The courts have to stop worring sbout drugs on the streets and how much money someone can pay them and help these poor inocent children.this child is in trouble and is in fear and not one child on this planet derserves to live like this.It breaks my heart to see this happening in the world today and to think a grow man may have done this…the court has to go in on this further even if he is inocent than thats one child they know is safe.But hang in there baby girl someone will help you!!

  223. Renee Hutchinson

    What is wrong with you people? It isn’t like this child is even old enough to lie and be consistent in the lie. This child was 2 years old in this video. If she was coached like some want to say she would not repeat as she did over and over again.

    Maybe you need to look at how many kids end up dead because they are put back in their abuser’s arms. Maybe you need to look at the survivors as myself who lived my whole childhood with one of my abusers. You are damaged for life! Not only is this father guilty of abuse but so is the system, CPS, and anyone else that helped this child go to the father.

    Our system is so screwed up is isn’t funny. What happened to show evidence? First they don’t ask for evidence accuse some that are innocent of molestation; then they don’t look at evidence to actually convict a pedophile. This father is exactly that he is a pedophile! Get off your a$$es and do your job for once and save this little girls life. Go to http://www.ChildProtectionCommunity.com and read the stories on this case. Then when you are done with that start saving other kids lives and go sign and pass Baby James Law at http://babyjamesfoundation.org

    It is time we are realize we are responsible for saving these kids that includes all of you system workers, judges, etc. Just think if something happens to this child as did two boys in Bloomington, IL Will you wish then you opened your eyes?

    Renee Hutchinson
    President and Founder of
    Baby James Foundation

  224. Robin

    For years i too was abused by a parental figure and his worm. Noone believed me when i tried to tell teachers,and family about the abuse and for years i suffered to this day i can remember everything like it was yesterday. If there is anyway to help protect this child and get her away from the abuser we have to try. There is no way that this was set up not a moment went by that i thought it was a set up. In that innocent childs voice you can hear the sincerity and her anger at her father. The graphic description she gives had me crying and reliving my own abuse. There has got to be an attorney out there somewhere willing to stand up and fight for this girl and her mother. The fact that the fathers attorney is married to the presiding judge is a conflict of interest in my eyes and should not be allowed to happen. To the mother i wish you strength and courage and never ever give up the fight to protect your daughter. I know i would lose my mind if anything ever happened to my daughter so i can only imagine your pain but know that there are plenty of people out here that are on your side and hoping and praying that the justice system takes care of the violator. NEVER GIVE UP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  225. Margaret

    This guy is sick!! The judge in this town needs to do his job. The Govenor needs to step up and take care of business!! If I were in the mothers shoes I would take her and never come back!! Or better yet, cut off the worm and then blow his brains in!!

  226. Jennifer keith

    This is an absolute outrage. The father of this poor little girl needs to be brought to justice. He is one sick individual, and if anyone is mentally unstable it is this horrish man.

    This little girl is telling the truth. I don’t feel this is staged in any way. Children at this age have an absolute knack for being very blunt and truthful. She is trying to process what is happening to her and her little mind can’t handle it. She is crying out for understanding. She needs help RIGHT now before it gets any worse!

    WE MUST DO SOMETHING!

  227. Manny K

    uhhh this was hard to find such a change of attitude on todays show I Guess Bubba did some searching and changed his tune today. Where there’s smoke not always a fire huh.

  228. The Tracking Hope Foundation

    This takes Parental Alienation to the extreme. If I did not see this case unfolding in front of my eyes I may not be able to believe it. But it is true and I am sickened. This little girl and her mother are not just being abused at the hands of the father and his posse but the entire Placer County Court system and CPS. He must feel like such a big man to have so many people in his pockets. He needs to be the next poster child for Domestic Violence and Narcissistic sociopaths. It is going to take this country and everyone to stand behind this mother and this little girl to protect them anyway we know how. These judges are corrupt. These good old boys need to step down and let the next generation come in and actually be able to see through these kinds of manipulation and scare tactics of these kinds of fathers. These are supposed to be mandatory reporters and ones that uphold the laws and serve justice not serve more abuse on a woman who has to be the voice of her child. Even though she clearly has one. I have children and grandchildren of my own and they speak the truth. How do we as parents and grandparents protect children if the very ones we put in office are helping perpetrate the abuse. Time to wake up AMERICA! This is happening all over. This mother was just brave enough to let us know! I for one stand behind her 100% She needs all of our help.

  229. lou eville

    Any one who says that this discusting is wrong, this is more than discusting. As a father my6 self I don’t want this guy in prison taking the tax money from tax payers to stay there, I want to have this guy killed, maybe by a firing line, a public hanging, something that will cause this guy pain, of course if this in fact true! I also say to hell with the G.O.B.N.(Good Ole’Boy Network)

  230. Jamie

    There are too many warning signs here for there to not be abuse. A child who has been coached does not talk like Aaliyah does in the video. She describes the events in her words, not those of an adult.

    Our website members support justice for Aaliyah. BrokenChild.org is a citizen advocacy group who advocates for children who have been abused and neglected. We are also a member of the Child Protection Community. http://www.ChildProtectionCommunity.com

    It is better to stand UP for a child than stand BY doing nothing. Help this little angel stay on earth. Help get her out of the abuse.

  231. The Tracking Hope Foundation

    Bubba,
    My thanks to you in making sure this story is heard. We are members of the http://www.childprotectioncommunity.com and we want to do our part on making sure these children are protected. If we stand back it is like we are perpetrating the abuse too. This mother is doing all she can despite all of those who are against her. This baby needs our help desperately. This case is not being heard in the courts or taken seriously just because of the father and his cronies. The judges and attorneys and CPS in this case need to all step down and face jail time as far as I am concerned. You cannot gag the entire world and thinking you can may make the judges in this case as bad as the father. This mother would have never had to try to plea the way she did if the system was working like it should. This child needs protection and at this point so does this mother. For those of us willing to get out there and make sure these laws change and that the final word of a small town judge is not the final word. I say jump on board let’s see some change! This is not the only case! I wonder how many others in Placer county have been gagged and ended up like this? How many others across this country are in the same position or have been? Millions. The statistics are getting worse. As the laws in some states become more stringent these perpetrators of sexual abuse, child abuse and domestic violence know how to maneuver through the court system. I see it everyday. I have lived it too. That is why I started fighting for victims everywhere. It must change and we cannot wait for the change to come. Change happens now! It takes a community to raise a child and that is just what I see happening. Don’t let one more child get abused in this community and do nothing.

  232. Alicia

    I hope he gets put behind bars soon, and the same thing will happen to him in jail. He should never be allowed to see his child again! This makes me sick to hear!!!!!

  233. Tony Muth

    The father is most likely a SICK F###! But the cops and prosecutors that sat on their thumbs should also do some HARD time!!!

  234. CPCTexas-Janell Matula

    This is a story that the whole country is now watching and learning about-Our members of The Child Ptotection Community are 60 members strong and located in almost every state now-This is such a tragedy that grown people cannot see the in simplistics terms from the child that her father is molesting her-God Bless her mother who is trying so hard to get this resolved with a positve ending for her child and shame on the court systems and CPS of California-Your state is not being seen in a positive light for this childs right-Sincerely-Janell Matula of The Texas Child Protection Community Representative

  235. Joanna Tierno

    This is a case that so obviously needs to be investigated by impartial professionals and some intervention needs to be made immediently so that the father is not alone with Aaliyah again unless proven innocent. I hope Aaliyah gets the protection from abuse every child deserves.

  236. Joanna Tierno

    This is a case that so obviously needs to be investigated by impartial professionals and some intervention needs to be made immediently so that the father is not alone with Aaliyah again unless proven innocent. I hope Aaliyah gets the protection from abuse every child deserves.

  237. Michell

    First off, one word to Renee Hutchinson: At 2.5 years of age, the child is definitely old enough to lie and do so consistently. There have been many studies done on the capacity to lie in young children such as this one and they are definitely able to do so.

    Now:

    Personally, I can tell you that I used to force myself to throw up in the crib when I was under two years of age to get my parents to take me out of the crib so I would not have to go to sleep.

    Anyone here saying that children can not be coached to do this is mis-informed.

    The notion that Aaliyah could have been coached is just as valid as the notion that she is telling the truth. Let’s not ignore the fact that the entire conversation occurs off screen, meaning that there could have been other things being done off camera to cue the child into when to say what.

    There are a number of possibilities.

    All any of this proves is that there is a definite NEED for an investigation on this case done immediately.

    People don’t like to realize that everyone is innocent until proven guilty. The man has not been proven guilty as of yet.

    This just intensifies the need for an investigation.

    In the event that this is true, then the man deserves any kind of horrible fate that can be place upon him. But until then, you can not go around demonizing someone for doing something you have not investigated.

  238. kim

    I agree why not take her from the dad and investigate for a few days what can it hurt what is the problem with investigating…. This continues to worry the shit out of hundreds of people i feel if they dont do something soon people and not me may start taking things into there own hands..

  239. Robert Mitchum

    Talk to your children.
    Know everything about them.
    Love and nurture them.
    But most of all,

    LISTEN TO THEM!

  240. jmy44baseball

    hey bubba schedule a bus trip and charge us whatever for the ride. lets go pay a vist to this s.o.b.

  241. Diana

    I do not see or hear what you all do at all…I Once had to deal with this type of situation when my child was 2 and a half, and my son literally told me , that his uncle stuck his Pee pee in his Butt…and I acted right away…Now this little girl, can tell you exactly what is going on…my son did! you CaNT trust anyone nowadays from Priests,teachers,mothers or fathers..its a sick society and I believe all of you are just seeing that part and not realizing that there are still good parents out there … I Just feel this little girl could come right out and say whats been going on, if anything..Not just the audio I have heard. apparently thats why the father has full custody??? has anyone checked up on the mom, maybe shes got mental problems? I dont know any of these people, so i dont see how anyone can side with either of them. sorry to be on the opposing end, But Like I said above about my son, I have been in this situation, and it really tore my heart out..
    God Bless to all, and Bubba I Listen to you everyday!! we love you here in O-Town!
    sincerely Lori
    Well said! Thank you Lori, it’s exactly what I was thinking. Nice to know I’m not all alone here;)

  242. DREAMCATCHERS for Abused Children

    Do you realize that ONE OUT OF EVERY THREE GIRLS ARE MOLESTED BEFORE THE AGE OF 18? Every 10 SECONDS another child is abused, raped or killed in the U.S.– And only 28% of child abuse reports are investigated!!

    We need to STOP this epidemic plaguing our nation & stand up for our innocent children. It is OUR job to protect these children—they are our future!!!

    How much more evidence do you possibly need? A 2 1/2 year old child does NOT talk about being RAPED by her father for almost 30 minutes straight. She’s not even old enough to know the details described in her video “Daddy’s Worm” UNLESS it has been shown, taught or done to her.

    Aaliyah’s father is a molester, pedophile and a child sex offender and needs to be prosecuted — BEFORE IT’S TOO LATE!

    Sandra Potter
    CEO & Founder
    DREAMCATCHERS FOR ABUSED CHILDREN
    http://www.myspace.com/abused_children
    http://www.dreamcatchersforabusedchildren.com

  243. Joe

    I heard bits and pieces of this on the show yesterday and was shoked as everyone. I checked the video out and I have the sick feeling this is setting the father up, just a gut reaction, it seems all contrived. Who sets up a nightsight video and just “accidently” gets your daughter talking about daddy’s “worm”. Kids babble about all manner of nonsense at that age, their brains are absorbing information at a rate that is astounding. Add to it a mother that wants primary care?

    So pissed I missed Slatery commenting on this.

  244. Denise

    My brother-in-law is Connie’s boyfriend, and has been in Aaliyah’s life since she was about 11 months old. He loves her like she is his own daughter. He began telling us about what was happening to Aaliyah over a year ago. I know there are many people who question the validity of this situation, and no one thinks people shouldn’t. What is hoped is that, no matter where you stand, that you will think of Aaliyah’s well being. Connie has expressed to the court that she would like for Aaliyah to be put into temporary foster care while a REAL investigation is done to prove, once and for all, whether or not Aaliyah’s legal guardian is doing terrible things to her. Any good mother will believe her child, and Connie does.
    Until recently, no one was taking this seriously. In the past month or so, Connie and her family, as well as my brother-in-law and myself, and countless other people, have done whatever we can to get Aaliyah’s story out there, in the hopes that something will be done to insure the well being, safety, and happiness of Aaliyah. Thank you for spreading the word. No matter where anyone stands on the issue, no matter whether you believe it or not, what matters most is AALIYAH!!

  245. Lee Brawley - FL Division Head

    I am a survivor from the age of 5, HORRIFIC abuses beginning at the hands of a family member who was supposed to keep me safe. NO-ONE wanted to believe what was before their eyes just like with AALIYAH. She is in grave danger. She NEEDS ALL of us to stand up and be her voice. We tell our children they can talk to us, tell us anything, we will believe them and keep them safe. A mother is and has been fighting to do just that for her daughter. I have been fighting here in Florida for my 2 grandchildren’s safety from constant abuse. I have watched the video “DADDY’S WORM” more than once, as revolting as it is and I ASSURE YOU it is NOT coached. Children tell the truth in their own words, age apropriate. This is real people!!! AALIYAH BEDWELL is being repeatedly abused in the custody of her abuser and the LAW is doing Nothing!!! One Judge has apropriatley removed herself from the case. WAKE UP AND DO WHAT IS RIGHT!!! REMOVE AALIYAH from her father’s custody, strip him of his parental rights and place precious AALIYAH into the loving arms of her mother where she belongs. In conjunction with Law Enforcement for the safety of ALL children C.O.P. strives to make it safe online for all children. I am Florida Division Head with CHILD ONLINE PROTECTION (C.O.P.) and blessed to be part of a great team. STAND AS ONE VOICE UNIFIED FOR THE FREEDOM OF AALIYAH.
    She needs to be where she is safe. That is definitely Not with her father. I fight for best and safest placement for AALIYAH and that happens to be with her mother.
    I have already written Nancy Grace and a handful of others on AALIYAH’s behalf.
    WHAT IF IT WERE YOUR CHILD OR CHILD OF YOUR LOVED ONE???
    Respectfully
    LEE – A VOICE FOR THE VOICELESS
    Child Online Protection (C.O.P.)
    FL Division Head
    “LET EVERY CHILD BE SAFE AT ALL TIMES”

  246. Joe

    I just read through the day to day notes on her website. Sorry, I have a hard time believing this. I do hope I’m right.

    I’m sorry if it sounds crude, but changing a diaper of a baby girl that was raped by an adult man days before? You would have NO doubt.

  247. Manny K

    Its funny how so many here just repeat the original lies Connie put out.

    There was a massive investigation, there is no corruption and there are reasons why custody was removed from her that she is not telling you. None of you have the full story.

    But you web followers read it once and it is suddenly the truth.

    There are thousands of cases of custody fights where false accusations have been made against a dad on child sexual abuse.

    Connie had motive to make the video. How do we know that Connie wasn’t ‘playing a game’ of Eisteins worm’ with Aali during that video and just changed the name of the worm to daddy !! There are countless ways to coach a child into saying things and playing along. I could give you an endless list on how children can be coached into role playing with parents.

    NO this child didn’t make this up on her own, her mom is leading her.

    Did you stop and think why Connie didn’t have her doctor Nay record a video? Why not use the professionals that this child went to? Why do a video in the dark? I do not hear words on this video that are convincing enough to demand for the fathers head on a stick.

    Common sense doesn’t prevail when insanity takes over and people start believing every word they read. There is a reason this woman does not have custody. AND until she provides actual names to go along with her conspiracy theories, I won’t buy that either. Evidence is not here, were any of you not listening to the doctors on today’s show? They would not side with Connies version, they requested more evidence prior to todays show but Connie wouldn’t forward it to them. I know Bubba questioned how he felt about this after listening to them to. This is his site, if I’m wrong, he’ll say so won’t he?

    There’s been 11 investigations all with doctors, police & a variety of CPS.

    Theres no other cases of women coming forward screaming conspiracy. YOU think if that’s how the county worked, there’d be more than Connie yelling.??? !!! Everyone keeps repeating the words from Connie: no investigation, county officials in each others pockets, judges are crooked.

    Open your eyes for a minute, stop and think. You want the world to believe this father is guilty over 1 video where the mother has control of the atmosphere & setting, without any other evidence put forward. Without doctors coming to her side agreeing with her. Without giving any names to this great cover up. You all want to hang a man on that???

    You’re talking hundreds of people all risking their jobs, their lives, their careers to cover for a pedophile??? Not going to happen without someone in that group of hundreds breaking the silence. Where there’s smoke theres not always a fire people.

    THINK, use your head and don’t try and make me someone who would ever support a child molester. NO WAY I EVER WOULD. Children are the world to me. I’d kill any man who’d harm my kid. I do not know the father but I have enough sense to consider what was put in front of my face!! Not going to hang this man on some flimsy suspicious stuff. NO WAY.

  248. Manny K

    DREAMCATCHERS HOW DARE YOU SAY THAT Aaliyah expresses any form of RAPE in that video. WHERE?????????????? OMG, how you spin something into what is not there.

  249. Manny K

    One more thing, the new judge that has been brought in from outside Placer County, NOT in anyone’s pockets have ruled STRONGLY against Connie adding even FURTHER RESTRICTIONS.

    YOU’RE SUPPORTING A WOMAN WHERE 9 JUDGES HAVE LOOKED AT THE EVIDENCE AND DECIDED TO HAVE THE FATHER RETAIN CUSTODY.

    YOU’RE SUPPORTING A WOMAN WHO CLAIMS THERE’S NO INVESTIGATION YET HOW HAS THIS GONE THROUGH COUNTLESS JUDGES. If there’s no investigations, why was there 11 separate CPS files of abuse investigated fully?

    GOOD GOD PEOPLE USE YOUR HEAD! Your heart is in the right place but this is not a child who was sexually abused!!!

  250. rickhunggar

    In the past few years,the general populace of US has been facing a radical reexamination of the health care system. Not only has this investigation avoided its illness but resist to overcome!

  251. Shelly Johnson

    Bubba thanks to you and your show this little girl will HOPEFULLY get the help she so deserves. On a personal level I was molested as well for 4 years from my twin step- brother’s…my mom was of NO help to me and I will stand behind this mom and daughter for as long as they need…I will sign any legislature or whatever…Aaliyah Bedwell deserves the help!!!

  252. Katie

    As a mother, I would have disappeared with that child a LONG time ago.

  253. Michelle

    This is NONSENSE-Connie did not make this up

    This brought me to tears and made me sick when I first heard this story. This devastates Connie’s grandmother, great-grandmother of Aaliyah, a good friend. I can character witness that Connie is a good person. I am acquainted with Connie, her father, sisters and grandmother (wonderful people). I do not live in the same state anymore, so I have not seen them personally in 9 years. I e-mail Aaliyah’s great-grandmother and we keep in touch. This is an unbelievably horrific story; so outrageous in the lack of justice, that any logical mind rationally wants to come up with a ‘reason’ why the mother has lost custody of the child. The father is apparently pretty crafty, as well as, very well connected. There are some insidious misrepresentations of Connie and Cara “making this up” made on this blog. I can sensibly and emphatically state that they are ‘real people’ and this is not a HOAX, nor would they ever do such a thing. This is purely a case of The Powerful vs. The Powerless.

    It appears that the grandfather, Aaliyah’s father’s father, is also an abuser, which is characteristic of ‘the abused’; the abused tend to perpetrate or ‘act out’ on others what was done to them. The mother of the abuser is also an accomplice, by not doing anything but crying and not taking action for the protection of her great-grandchild to stop the abuse. Apparently, there is another victem, a girl cousin, who also might be involved with the abusers.

    Please someone, help save this baby and give her back to her mother, Connie, who loves Aaliyah and is self advocating,and suffering in pain as she helplessly watches her child endure sexual molestation at the hands of her father but powerless to stop it.

    I am glad to see this going national with you Bubba. I am now a New listener and will continue to listen in hopes for updates on my family friend’s plight in California. This baby needs help from anyone with the power to help.

    Michelle Z.
    Florida

  254. Michelle

    victim

  255. nip

    bubba…let me tell u how this made me feel i will kill some dumb ass for this horror i hate people that r abussing other children i am sick to my stomach right now if there was something i could do i would like blast him in the head if any of my x wifes new boyfriends ever touch my son i,ll kill them i,m just at the end of my limit with this somebody needs to help her before it is to late let me know what to do when i was 6 it hapen to me i,m not right now because of it

  256. Raine

    I think its time those with ‘contacts’ or money are brought down a peg or two..they think they can buy their way out of the bad they do…meanwhile these jerkoff officials continue to allow the child to stay with the abuser & remove her from her protection..maybe they have gotten away with so many they think they can continue & the rest of the world never know..time to bring them down I think.
    May god bless & keep that lil angel safe from any further harm, we pray, we pray, we pray lord please help us out here, your intervention is so badly needed, please bring that baby girl back to her mother, where she will be safe.

  257. nic

    man thats so not right to hurt kids. I am a da of a two year old boy and he is the best thing that has ever happend to me and im only 23 years old. So something needs to happen to this guy relly fast. best wishes for the family.

  258. Linda Engle-Belcher

    PLEASE investigate this A.S.A.P. This little one is being abused by the dad OR the mom & possibly many others. This baby is crying out & counting on us to save her & you can’t put a price on that. This is her REALITY she is talking about & it needs to change right now. DON”T keep failing our babies because they ARE OUR FUTURE & WE WILL REAP WHAT WE SOW. I am a survivor of child abuse so I know first hand what this baby has already lost & we need to change this. Thank you, HappyOne against ABUSE

  259. emilie

    God save this child. I hope you find a way to save her. You will be in my prayers.

  260. Matt

    I think what should be done, similar to bikes for badges to raise money to help this girl and her mother (because they will need therapy after all this.)
    But this time strap her father to the road and all the cars and bike cruise right over this sick M*th*r F*ck*r.

    But because of America’s great judicial system this guy will problem never see a jail cell because Aaliyha’s age, and may have been coursed by the mother, this sick dude will keep doing this over and over again and ruin the lives of many for people.

  261. e gross

    as the iron sheiks said someone should stick him in his tukas and make him humble

  262. e gross

    put him the cage with mike tyson and let him do the man until he loves him

  263. WhereIStheEVIDENCE

    I’m very leary to believe this as accurate solely based on an edited video made by the person making these allegations.

    Where is the evidence from the experts? A pediatrician? A licensed child psychologist who specializes in sexual abuse? The CPS investigations ALREADY DONE? I’m sure this mother had time to take her child to a doctor and a psychologist who could verify these accusations and has provided the mother with written proof her concerns where founded.

    Bubba I know your expert has asked the mother for copies of this information. I will be much more inclined to believe this as true once you can get this information and post it for listeners such as myself.
    Without that, I can not believe this to be true but only the claims of a vindictive mother who wished to alienate her child from her father.

  264. concerned

    I don’t understand why people continue to look the other way in situations like this, and then they wonder why some kids turn out the way they do. This poor little girl is asking for help the only way that she knows how. How is this even an issue? The girl should not even be allowed with the sorry excuse for a man until things are sorted out. This is not something that just goes away on its own. So many kids ask for help, and so many times it is ignored until it is too late, on the other hand, a lot of kids don’t say anything at all because they feel nothing will be done. Doesn’t that say something right there?

  265. Illinois LEO

    This worthless bastard needs to die, along with his parents and anybody in the judicial system in that f###ed up county! They need to smash his fathers balls between two bricks, so he can not reproduce any more fucking idiots! I thought I lived in a fucked up county, but it does not hold a candle to what these bastards are allowing to go on. Child molesting son of a bitch! I would LOVE to be a cop in that county! They would never be able to identify the body! This woman just needs to take the daughter and get the hell out of that fucked up state!

  266. Greg Cashmore

    This just makes me sick,
    if this had happened to my daughter the sick bastard would be dead, end of conversation.
    Let’s go ARMY, do what we can to get this SOB off the streets before this poor child is hurt anymore.

    Greg
    Ontario, Canada

  267. Chuck M

    Looks like the local paper, The Auburn Jounal is finally covering this. See the article by Jenifer Gee.

    http://auburnjournal.com/detail/114617.html?content_source=&category_id=&search_filter=&user_id=&event_mode=&event_ts_from=&event_ts_to=&list_type=&order_by=&order_sort=&content_class=1&sub_type=&town_id=

    R/Chuck

  268. Joe

    Let’s face it, This Connie is pulling out all stops to get her kid back. I think in the long runs she’s going to be shown as making false allegations against the father.

    Most of the entries I see here are kneejerk, reactionary statements to one piece of the puzzle.

  269. Joyce

    After listening to the video and reading the comments of others, I have this to say….both Parents should be given a polygraph test.I hope that a true verdict is ultimately rendered.The only sensible course of action would seem to be to place the child in a safe environment until the matter is fully investigated.
    Joyce
    Lancaster, Ohio

  270. EnoughAlready

    I wish it would stop and every quit repeating the lies of the mother by stating there was no investigation. Here’s FINALLY AN ARTICLE that shows law enforcement did a thorough investigation and a team of specialist have seen Aaliyah. There was no evidence of abuse and the case is closed.

    http://auburnjournal.com/detail/114617.html?content_source=&category_id=&search_filter=&user_id=&event_mode=&event_ts_from=&event_ts_to=&list_type=&order_by=&order_sort=&content_class=1&sub_type=&town_id=

  271. Jennifer Gunther

    Anyone that would abuse a child should be locked in a room with a bunch of angry mothers.

  272. WhereIStheEVIDENCE

    Illinois LEO sounds like Drew Peterson. good thing we know he is behind bars with a 20 million dollar bail.

    The Auburn Journal has posted about this story today. The detective handling the case explained how the case WAS in fact investigated and the father WAS CLEARED OF ALL CHARGES.

    GREAT ARTICLE! Thank you Sargent Peccoraro for clearing up any doubts!

  273. WhereIStheEVIDENCE

    What’s up with the mob mentality without any facts? I wonder what those who replied here would think if THEIR son was accused without facts?

    Bubba is a dad. How would you feel Bubba if your son, Trenton I believe is his name? was a father and falsely accused of molesting his child? An investigation cleared him and the mother of his child was hell bent on destroying him? I think you would be outraged!

    I’m amazed how people simply believe this so quickly. Guilty until proven innocent no doubt.

    What is more amazing, is IF by chance someone harms the father or child, there are going to be some serious law suits for those who assisted the mother in perpetuating these false allegations.

    SHAME ON YOU CONNIE BEDWELL FOR ABUSING AND EXPLOITING YOUR CHILD AS YOU HAVE!

  274. Michelle

    why has someone removed my links to hear the family radio interview? The interview is on blogtalkradio. Will you do one Bubba?

  275. EnoughAlready

    WHERE IS THE EVIDENCE, I posted a link above your post for this article. Amazing isn’t it how some can be taken in.

    Here it is again. http://auburnjournal.com/detail/114617.html?content_source=&category_id=&search_filter=&user_id=&event_mode=&event_ts_from=&event_ts_to=&list_type=&order_by=&order_sort=&content_class=1&sub_type=&town_id=

  276. MrGz0r

    That just sick the dad should be killed,the mom’s hot!

  277. Joe

    Some voices of reason.

    Bubba, ya really need to take the “pedophile father” line out of the rotater for this story. It opens ya up for one hell of a slander lawsuit.

    IMO, this was handled badly. BTLS I’m a total mark for you guys, I love ya and listen everyday but I think ya got worked.

  278. Michelle

    It is right that we have child services to protect our children, but they are not doing so. This child needs to be in a place away from him. I am very hurt and disgusted that nothing has been done. I know about child services, they have been called on me 7 times since living in ny and have all been unfounded on child abuse. This case is child abuse and needs to be addressed. If it were me I could not stand by and watch my daughter go through something this horrible. I know for a fact he would not be allowed to see her. A mother is in this life to protect their children and I am totally for stopping him and bringing justice. The governor of California needs to step up and do something, and you know who you are…..

  279. Michelle

    There is a problem with the Auburn Journal Newspaper article. The Auburn detective did not indeed investigate the case. The case was closed without examining the other side. In the articles I have read on blogtalkradio and saveaaliyah.com, there have been no questions asked of witnesses for Connie’s side whatsoever. There is a considerable amount of evidence with the sister Cara, and Connie’s boyfriend Darryl, yet NO ONE has interviewed them or any other person on Connie’s side for a balanced perspective. This is clearly a covered up case.This is straight from the save Aaliyah site from Cara Bedwell, the sister who took care of Aaliyah at night:
    EVERY AUTHORITY THAT HAS THE POWER TO DO SOMETHING….. HAS NEVER CALLED TO TALK TO ANYONE THAT HAS WITNESSED AALIYAH SAY AND DO THESE THINGS!!! THEY ONLY LISTEN TO THE POOR PITTY STORY OF LIES THAT THE PEDOPHILE AND HIS MESSED UP FAMILY TELL THEM…. AND NOT ONCE HAVE THEY ATTEMPTED TO LISTEN TO ANYONE OF US THAT HAVE SEEN OR HEARD THAT BABY GIRL!!!

    THEY BUY INTO THE PEDOPHILES STORY TO CALL CONNIE CRAZY FOR TRYING TO FIGHT FOR HER DAUGHTER BUT LITTLE DO THEY KNOW THERE’S A MILLION CRAZIES THAT STAND BEHIND HER THAT WILL KEEP FIGHTING UNTIL OUR BABY IS SAFE! THE TRUTH IS THE TRUTH AND WHAT AALI HAS SAID AND DONE FOR ALMOST TWO YEARS NOW WILL NOT BE HIDDEN OR KEPT QUIET!
    I have a feeling there is going to be some embarrassment in Placer County before this is all through. The definition to investigate is to examine closely, and this clearly has NOT been done. There has been no justice served here and a little girl could be being sexually abused daily, for all we know, while a full scale investigation has yet to be done. I am In agreement with the family I heard on an interview on blogtalkradio yesterday, I agree that the baby should be removed from both parties until the situation is all cleared up, this offered by Connie’s family’s side. I also heard on the interview that this was NOT a custody case problem; this began with Connie fleeing to her father’s house in Alaska to get away from the physical and emotional abuse of Dustin in the first place. I read this on the site witnessed by Curtis Bedwell:
    True story. It’s on tape. THANKS CPS. Way to look into it. He is quite a piece of —–. And I was there when he took a baseball bat out on her and started yelling at Connie while Aaliyah was in her arms at 4 weeks old before Alaska.

    Keeping Aaliyah in an alleged abuser’s house, who has a rap sheet history with a criminal record of abuse, alcoholism, and drugs, while having evidence of him being a pedophile isn’t wise judgment for any judge, lawyer, or psychologist.

  280. EnoughAlready

    WHERE IS THE EVIDENCE, I’ve heard rumblings of criminal charges coming about and they are not for the father FYI to all reading.

  281. Joey Tillman

    Thank you Bubba, for being unbiased and looking into the facts for this child. I hope the truth will come out soon.
    Joey Tillman
    The Child Protection Community
    Can we please get to the bottom of this sooner than later.

  282. SEAL

    I have a special set of skills that make me a nightmare for garbage like this. Give me 5 minutes with this guy and he will never hurt or even be able to hurt another human being!

  283. Doc Joe Saturley

    I am hopeful to get the chance to to out to California and meet with the mother and father in this case.

    Let’s give them all the chance to do legitimate psychological testing.

    I will give them the benefit of the doubt and spend ample time observing them with the child and reviewing all the data.

    This case needs a neutral professional who can get to the bottom of the issues.

  284. Teresa

    If there are people like the Anthonys getting on to these talk show getting paid for their stupid daughter…..WHY can Connie not get attention like that. Why isn’t anyone helping this women? There are people out there that can help. Where in Casey Anthony getting the money to defend her useless ass and poor Connie can’t getting anything. Someone help her. I have a 4 year old daughter and let me tell you what I would be on the highest mountain screaming for help, I would be heard. Placer County is a speck on the map, I think it should be blown off the face of the earth if this is what legall system is like. Our childern are our future. God Bless this baby..!!

  285. Chuck M

    Michelle is making all GREAT points, EnoughAlready should go find something else to occupy his/her time as this case seems to be annoying. Key points here is that the investigation scope is not known, could have been completed via the Police Dept. not the CPS specifically. This is key to know who did the investigation and how broad was it. Seems from what I read in the Auburn Journal article that the investigation was not thorough. From the BloggerNews radio interview with the Begwell family nothing was done on thier end as far as interviewing them. Note, there are many many people on Connie’s side confirming this problem. I can’t beleive they would all lie even considering the custody matter. Just doesn’t make since. I can’t wait until the BubbaArmy gets some traction on this case.

    R/Chuck

  286. Oscar

    Bubba how are you doing??I listen to your show every morning on the way to school and when I heard this last week I was sickened and now even more that I am actually watching the video and I am sickened at the fact that this poor little innocent girl has to go through something like this and that her own father ,one of the 2 people in this world that should be taking care of her and making sure she is safe is exposing her to this kind of behavior and IT ISNT RIGHT AT ALL, I think this SOB should be in jail for as long as they can keep him there ,and its because of sick people like him that many people were unfortunate to grow up and not* have a normal life and that is very sad to hear AND SOMETHING MUST BE DONE REGARDLESS OF HOW MUCH MONEY IT MAY COST TO PUT THIS SOB BEHIND BARS, WHERE HE BELONGS!!!!!!!!

  287. Todd Reason

    You guys have no idea who this mom is. She has forced her daughter to say this, Before you judge the dad, get to know the mom.

  288. bunny

    the article in the auburn journal is one- sided, and you cna post the link to it all you want but it is obvious there is No statement from CPS or anyone who isn’t part of the ‘good ol boys’ club in that article. It leaves ALOT of information out while in support of the father.
    It has been stated OVER AND OVER BY WITNESSES that there has NEVER been a thorough investigation OF ANY OF THE WITNESSES to this abuse and behavior.
    Considering THAT I have to admit I couldn’t give one iota that they got a sheriff who never bothered to fully investigate this. IF THEY HAD would we all be in here arguing over WHO IS LYING? I think not.
    I HOPE at some point the WITNESSES can and will be heard by Someone not already embroiled in the Dastardly history of sham Justice that is often served by the Cronies in Placer and has been going on there since way before Aaliyah was even a fertilized egg.
    What I’m saying is that if MANY witnesses say they were never interviewed that tells me NOBODY has done a Thorough investigation in Placer County. Some scream for Connies evidence, but my heart screams for evidence it is Not happening! I’d like to see that presented in an UNBIASED news piece, obviously not what The Auburn Journal published Half a story on.
    Sweeping it under the rug and covering up or not fully investigating the evidence for two full years this has been going on, has only made it that much harder for Connie to prove her side. Leaving the child in the Fulltime hands of her possible abuser is definitely not in the best interest of the child, as he can and likely has brainwashed her to tell His side now instead of her original cries for help. This DOES, IN NO WAY mean it never happened or doesn’t exist.
    I truly believe there is a little girl in danger and she should definitely be removed From BOTH parties while an impartial party investigates further. THAT HAS NOT HAPPENED YET. The same people who are covering it up or sweeping it under a rug due to their community ties, are the ones making statements they have investigated yet show us no proof of anything Connie has done to warrant not even being able to take a picture of her own daughter or visit on scheduled visits.
    Abuse is perpetuated by those who will continue the cycle by covering it up. Anyone who has been a victim knows that the first thing an abuser does is try to turn the tables in their favor, make the other parent look crazy, pull any strings to cover up the abuse. That it has been allowed to happen to Aaliyah for too long, makes it hard to just hush and keep quiet. Thanks Bubba Army for stepping up to the plate for this little angel- she obviously has Not been Heard!
    this is not the first case like it in Placer County. Elsewhere, and until the 80′s this was common, so common that who knows how many mothers had to run away and conceal their new identities to protect their children. Connie had some real guts to come back to Placer with the cards already dealt in the fathers favor and she has been fighting it, to no avail ever since.
    There absolutely Must be a full investigation by impartial parties, for the witnesses to Finally be Heard, and for this little girl to have what all children deserve and thats the right to know both parents. If her father is abusing or has then he needs to be punished and recieve help. If Connie is not telling the whole truth, then she should be reprimanded but also have full access to her daughter. The child deserves to know both of them and that is not what I see happening in the best interest of the child just now. Right now she isn’t even allowed her legal visitation!
    Anyone who can sit there and say she or this baby have been heard has got to be blind.

  289. Jamie

    This was staged! The camera was turned off three times during the course of the video! If the little girl said those things of her free will there would not be space or time to turn the camera off! For what reason did she turn the camera off? To coach??????????

  290. Joe

    Dr.Saturley, I was so disappointed in not hearing what you had to say about this case the other morning (in and out of my truck all morning). It’s tiring reading the tough guy posts, the friends of a friend and quotes from a biased website or blog. I would like to see some professionals like yourself comment on this case.

    I really hope I’m right and the mother is a nutjob. My friend years ago was falsely accused by the mother (and no that does bias my opinion). When the smoke cleared my friend had full custody.

  291. Jamie

    Video Turn Off’s

    #1. 2min:55sec Would the baby have forgotten what she was supposed to say? Did the “Worm” sound scary?
    - Why was the bottle & the special bear so more important than telling mommy daddy was being a bad boy with his “Worm”?

    #2. 5min: 31sec Why did aunty turn off the camera before coming into the picture? Did we need to re focus baby?
    - After all dady didn’t show dolly the “Worm”, yet dolly and it being cold and all was more important than finishing telling mommy why the “Worm” was so yucky!

  292. Joel Palmer

    yea there is something going on forsure …..Thanks Bubba for getting to work on this one, just maybe now someone will listen and the right people will look into it and get this sicko AND SAVE THIS CHILD!!!!!

  293. tweetygirl

    I understand she is wanting to help her child but why didn’t she at least white out her face. So for the rest of her life everyone will know. I was abused also as a child and shame comes with it. But having everyone look at you and know… if the mom is putting this stuff in her head and telling her what to say..can she grow up and really believe this happen to her if it didn’t?

  294. Jessica

    For thoose of you who think this is fake. Even if it is how can you think it is right to not have a trial? So youd rather just let the mother brain wash her little girl. None of you were there. So you can not be sure that this if fake. And if its not that means that sick son of a bitch is still on the streets being able to do this to his little girl over and over. And maybe other little kids that none of us know about. Im not saying that I agree that this is fake. Because I don’t I really truly believe that this is real. And if it is just think. How would you feel if that was you little girl. Telling you all about her daddy’s “worm”. I have a little girl she is 5 months old. And if she ever EVER came to me telling me about her daddy “worm” or anyone’s worm at that, that sick son of a bitch would be dead. 6 feet under baby. Im not agreeing with eaither side. But for thoose of you who don’t believe this is fake. Give her mother the benefit of the doubt cause if it was your little girl you would want her to do the same. You would want people to believe you right? Okay then. I think it is really fucked up that the state of California is just now looking into this case. Because either way if he is guilty or not that little girl is still being physically or emotionally hurt. I think it is sick that it had to take Bubba The Love Sponge to air this on his radio and to put this video on the internet to finally get an investigation.

  295. Joe

    To all the internet tough guys; What would you do to the mom when it comes out that this was all a fabrication?

  296. 70sixspeed

    This entire battle started after the father had pulled a baseball bat out on Connie while she was holding there 4-week old baby. He then hit her AND the baby with soiled diapers in the same instance. He tried to keep her from leaving by taking the base to the car seat and not letting her leave to safety. There are COURT RECORDS showing this- anyone can walk in and get them… From the beginning it was his abusive nature that forced Connie to run for safety and move to Alaska to protect her daughter. The only mistake she made was listening to the promises made by the court- and him that Aaliyah would be safe if she returned. Connie wanted to let her daughter grow up knowing her father- but then he started abusing her both sexually and physically- and all of the evidence and witnesses can attest to this- we have ALL seen how Aaliyah would run from him, scream when she saw him- never look at him when he picked her up at exchanges- and we all would see the rashes around her mouth, and ALL of us heard and saw her telling us what she had experienced with him- her talking about daddy’s worm in her mouth- and how he has to wipe it off with like a napkin.

    Sgt Pecoraro so casually forgets to mention WHEN he ACTUALLY and FINALLY WATCHED THAT VIDEO. It is a matter of fact that he did not watch that video when Connie went into the police station with it in her hand the very next morning (June 10, 2008) after Aaliyah made those statements regarding what her father has been doing to her the night before (June 9, 2008). In fact, the Auburn Police Department had Connie turn the child over to a child molester for his visitation on June 10, 2008 to be brainwashed during the fathers visitation again. When Connie received Aaliyah back from his visitation on June 15 2008, we all took Aaliyah to the hospital to have her examined; Sgt Pecoraro yelled at Connie and told her to leave the hospital. He did not authorize her examination. During that heated phone conversation with Sgt Pecoraro in the hospital he still at that point HAD NOT EVEN WATCHED THE VIDEO YET!!!

    Mr Fenocchio (the DA) might want to help Sgt Pecoraro redefine what “immediate” truly means and see to it that he doesnt allow other children to be harmed because of his unwillingness to do his job. Also after we received Aaliyah back from him she made one line coached statements such as “I love daddy, I love daddy’s worm, mommy makes me say these things, daddy said so, daddy said I love daddy not Darrel, Darrel’s bad daddy said so. etc” It wasnt until June 17th 2008 that Sgt Pecoraro FINALLY didnt make Connie turn Aaliyah over to the father. Sgt Pecoraro had called and apologized to Connie for what he had done or should I say hadn’t done. Aaliyah’s MDIC interview took place on June 23, 2008 in which Aaliyah stated the one line brainwashing her father made her say.

    WE WOULD ALL LIKE TO THANK THE AUBURN POLICE DEPARTMENT FOR CARLESSLY PUTTING AALIYAH BACK IN A PEDOOPHILE’S HOME TO BE BRAINWASHED AGAIN INSTEAD OF TAKING APPROPRIATE IMMEDIATE ACTION.

    We all hope that the Auburn Police Department will acknowledge their mistakes and make this right for Aaliyah. This whole other side to the puzzle NEEDS to be heard and DESERVES to be heard for Aaliyah’s welfare.

  297. Matthew

    He should get a slow painful death. You should contact the Steve Wilkos show. I know that he would be able to help. My prayers are with you and Aaliyah.

  298. EnoughAlready

    Joe, not to worry. The mother will end up behind bars for her clever coaching of her child. I’ve personally filed a complaint with the FBI internet fraud unit and there is an open file. With all her accusations confirmed by authorities to be fabrications & lies, the FBI has taken my complaint seriously.

  299. Michelle- Bowling Green, Fl.

    This is no man, he is a sick SOB that needs to pay severe consequences for his immoral, disgusting act! I can’t understand how any so called “human being” can actually do anything like that to a poor, innocent, defenseless child. In my opinion, I think that pigs like this jerkoff needs to be tortured and a bullet in their head to put them out of the victims and the victims families misery. What a POS!!!!!!!!!!! This disgusting worthless predator does not deserve the air we breathe.

  300. Joe

    Michelle, take a breathe. Do you know for certain that this has transpired? We have web logs that are totally biased, we have 2nd hand info, we have friends of friends, we have a half assed blair witch type video that proves nothing. Sorry, I don’t see the evidence that I need to demonise someone.

    Jesus, if I had a daughter I’d definitely keep her the hell away from worms to keep from getting labeled a pedophile.

  301. Chuck M

    EnoughAlready, Tell me you didn’t really go to the FBI and file a complaint when you don’t know all the facts. AMAZING!!!!!!

  302. 70sixspeed

    EnoughAlready-

    You sound like the pedophile yourself…

    Always reverse charging your twisted behavior.

    Is that supposed to be some sort of threat to scare Connie?

    Connie already sat down with the FBI so now you have made a complaint. You are probably right they probably do have an open file but it’s not for fraud.

    Maybe someone should check that IP address.

  303. bunny

    fyi- joe…
    quote”We have web logs that are totally biased, we have 2nd hand info, we have friends of friends, we have a half a##ed blair witch type video that proves nothing.”

    FUNNY YOU CAN CONSIDER HER IMMEDIATE FAMILY AND AT LEAST ONE PSYCHIATRIST WHO WERE NEVER INTERVIEWED BY LE OR CPS, TO BE 2ND HAND INFO. THATS A NO BRAINER, AND BY THAT I MEAN AN IDEA WITH NO BRAIN BEHIND IT…

    THAT VIDEO DID NOTHING BUT REINFORCE MY BELIEF IN THE MANY, MANY, MANY WITNESS STATEMENTS (that have never been heard by cps or le) THAT ARE AVAILABLE FOR YOU AND ANYONE ELSE TO READ, YES RIGHT HERE ON THE INTERNET. I’D BE WILLING TO BET AT LEAST HALF OF THE POSTERS HERE SCREAMING CONNIE IS A LIAR HAVE NOT EVEN BOTHERED TO READ THOSE MANY STATEMENTS THAT ARE NOT HEARSAY THEY ARE LEGAL STATEMENTS.

    IN FACT THAT VIDEO DID NOTHING BESIDES REINFORCE MY BELIEF THAT THE BEDWELLS ARE TELLING THE TRUTH.

  304. Richard

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=40PGIVtbgGc
    I performed analysis on this video and as near as I can tell there is a considerable amount of deception concerning the physical aspects of the video. The Daddy’s worm video must undergo scrutiny by a video expert. However I can tell you that it was standard lighting, not infrared, that was used. I agree with Enough Already, there is clear evidence of intentional deception.

  305. Chuck M

    I’ve been going through the various Youtube posts, these, including that one from Richard don’t expose anything. This is still a mystery. I still have not read a single thread or news article that confirms the CPS have checked into this case and come up with findings. Also the Bedwell family have not been interviewed (unless it was done today, ya right!), this still stinks of a coverup by the locals.

  306. EnoughAlready

    70sixspeed Darrel, maybe you are the pedophile and the reason Aali is having the issues she does, no wonder the courts are keeping her from you and Connie

  307. Joe

    I’m wondering why Bubba hasn’t commented on this in days. Maybe I missed it.

  308. EnoughAlready

    Chuck M,

    I filed a complaint on behalf of 22 people who want their money back from Connie. There have been no refunds and no response from her or the promises from Tim Bedwell to provide receipts and he will personally handle it.

    THE FBI complaint is directly related to that. INTERNET FRAUD is INTERNET FRAUD.

    Tim Bedwell stated & I have copies where he said he would provide refunds to anyone who gives a receipt.

    We did, all 22 people and there was ZERO response.

    MULTIPLE requests have been sent in since May 8th. The FBI is taking this seriously. You do not scam people on the net, then say you can get your money back and then disappear and ignore multiple requests to return money donated to something since proven a fraud!

    We’ve given the FBI the info requested & emails. Showing that this case was investigated and closed, then asking for money because you claim there was no investigation is FRAUD.

    WHY are we being taken seriously? Ask them, not me. Fraud cconvictions can carry a lengthy sentence Connie, so answer our emails you scammer.

  309. WhereIStheEVIDENCE

    Was Dr. Joe Saturley able to obtain the information he was seeking before agreeing to move foward with this case. I see that he also offered to go to California and offered to be a non biased out of county professional to assist the family.

    Why am I seeing all this finger pointing and nothing about what Dr. Saturley has offered? Is this not what the family was seeking? What about the attorney that the mother has obtained?

    I’m at a loss as to why the finger pointing is still happening when the mother has obtained an attorney. Can’t her attorney talk to Dr. Saturley?

    Has Dr

  310. Chuck M

    Enough, Wow, I missed the entire deal on the $$$. So Tim said he would get the money back? What was the premise on saying or promising this? Say it aint so Connie! did you scam us. What about the entire family that Simon & Jan Barrett interviewed on Bloggernews? There was the boyfriend, the aunt, a sister, her mom. Were they all in on it? I’m as confused as ever.

    R/Chuck

  311. BlueMan

    SO is this sh*t real or not? Is the father a pedophile or is the mother a scammer and brainwasher?

  312. Tim Bedwell - Connie Father

    TO #308

    This is a blatant attempt by Dustin David Thompson the Child Molester and his clan to deter those who want to donate to help Connie.

    NOT ONE PERSON HAS REQUESTED A REFUND OF THEIR DONATION … but if anyone does the instructions for obtaining your refund is; go to http://www.bloggernews.net and post your receipt # on the most current article about Aaliyah, and I will contact you and set up the refund. It’s that simple.

    Thank you to all who have donated their time to help, and those who for lack of time donated money. We are eternally grateful.

    As for Dr. Saterly’s offer;

    Connie requested any testing deemed necessary by Dr. Saterly.

    The Bedwell family and all witnesses have also agreed to take any test deemed necessary by Dr. Saterly and those professionals needed to conduct these third, neutral party tests in order to establish the truth.

    Connie and the Bedwell’s are looking for the opportunity to be tested and interviewed by Dr. Saterly.

  313. Curious

    Does that mean that the Blogger News Network is now the official agent regarding donations now? Isn’t that a little strange to have a free blogging rumor mill in charge of such things? Or do you just skim through the comments till you spot a message pertaining to donations? Either way it hardly sounds responsible or “legit”.

  314. Curious

    And another thing. If BNN is not officially involved and you are just skimming messages there, how do you contact the people? You would have to ask the site editors for the email Address of the person, which they are not “supposed” to give out without permission! Why not just have a refund button on the PAYPAL page? With just as many options for refunds as there is for donations? Just Curious.

  315. Justgetaninvestigation

    i don’t think that the mother is lying. There would have to be a lot of people going to jail if this was a hoax. Why hasn’t she been arrested yet if this is a scam? There is just too much information out there now to hide it if it was a hoax. I did some research and it’s been since the second week of April. That’s a long time and she isn’t arressted. I believe the mom and we should do something to get this, god what do you call this thing; he’s not a person, father, man and even some monsters have integrity. We need to stop this guy and put him behind bars.

  316. Justgetaninvestigation

    Enough Already and Where is the evidence, you sure sound like you are the bio dad. You go to great lengths to make sure people hear you and listen to your bull crap. You have all of this “evidence” that doesn’t prove anything other than maybe 6 months ago an investigation was done improperly and needs to be done again. Bubba, you should do some IP checks. Everyone says that the thompsons have taken the high road and havn’t responded, I have seen a lot of posts that look exactly like Enough Already’s and Where’s the Evidence all over the mother’s supporters pages. The Thompson’s aren’t even human enough to use their own names. People, really, step back and really see what they are saying. Take it one word at a time. It’s amazing how they try to brainwash. It’s scary.

  317. susie

    I consider myself a christen, however this guy should be hung !!!! killed!!! then you call the police and tell them what and why you did this !you’ll at least know it will never happen again!

  318. Tim Bedwell - Connie Father

    To Dustin Thompson aka EnoughAlready and his many other alias’s;

    YOU the Child Molester Dustin Thompson and his supporters are so bend on spreading the lie of people wanting refunded donations, that last week I decided the way to show these claims are false was to have any request for a refund be published by posting their receipt number on BNN. Where are the 22 receipt numbers Dustin?? I would also love to see those emails you sent to the FBI!!! POST THEM HERE ON BTLS!!! You need to get off that crack pipe your smoking and cut back on the gallon of wine you drink every night!

    Grow up and be a man. Post under your name instead of all your alias’s.

    Hey got an idea for ya Dustin, there’s a special button for you …..you know the 1 dollar button……you and your 22 imaginary “donation return friends” can donate a dollar then you all can request your 23 dollars back. But hey you can’t do that either because date and time stamps are posted to each donation, and you couldn’t possibly get them back dated to May 8th.

    BNN is not party to this refund instruction, nor are they providing posters email addresses to anyone without their permission.

    It’s so;

    1.) A refund request can be verified in public.
    2.) Each receipt number has a trace back to all the donator’s information.
    (that’s how we know your lying Dustin)

    Not one donator has requested a refund!

    I’m waiting for your 22 receipt numbers and copies of your emails to the FBI…. LMAO at you curs!

    How low can you possibly go?……Wait….I forgot I was talking to a child molester! What else would we expect?

    The “Daddy’s Worm Video” is going to be verified as uncut, un-dubbed, uncoached and will be verified as authentic, then what are you and your pedophile backers going to say.

    Why no reply from you and your family regarding Dr. Saterly’s pro bono invitation for interviews and testing by a unbiased third party outside of corrupt Placer County?

    Connie and the Bedwell’s are waiting for your answer!

  319. EnoughAlready

    TIM BEDWELL, NICE TRY. I will ask the FBI if I can post the FILE NUMBER HERE AND CONTACT NAME! THEY HAVE OUR RECEIPT NUMBERS. YOU TOLD ME YOURSELF YOU WOULD REFUND THE MONEY AND TOLD ME HOW FROM BNN POSTING. NOW ALL EMAILS HAVE GONE UNANSWERED.

    I CAN’T WAIT TO GET THE APPROVAL OF THE AGENT HANDLING THIS TO SHOW JUST WHAT A FRIGGIN LIAR YOU ARE.

  320. EnoughAlready

    I’M NOT POSTING SH## ON BNN FREE BLOGGING IDIOT SITE, THE FBI ARE HANDLING THESE COMPLAINTS. FAR BETTER FOR THEM TO INSTEAD OF SOME IDIOT WHO THINKS HE IS AN ACTUAL MEDIA PERSON

  321. EnoughAlready

    I do not have permission to place the agents name on the internet. He suggested I post a link how to file your own complaint against this scam, make sure it has Connie Bedwell name in the complaint and it will get to him shortly.

    He’s asked you all NOT TO DEAL WITH ANY BEDWELLS or BNN. File your complaint with authorities and it will be handled.

    http://www.ic3.gov/default.aspx

    Welcome to IC3
    The Internet Crime Complaint Center (IC3) is a partnership between the Federal Bureau of Investigation (FBI), the National White Collar Crime Center (NW3C), and the Bureau of Justice Assistance (BJA).

  322. EnoughAlready

    For the record for the last time, I DO NOT KNOW DUSTIN.

    BEDWELLS WOULD LIKE EVERYONE TO THINK THERE CANNOT BE PEOPLE WHO DO NOT BELIEVE HIS DAUGHTER UNLESS THEY’RE LINKED TO DUSTIN.

    NOT TRUE. THIS IS A SCAM, BEEN PROVED A SCAM, BEEN PROVED CONNIE COACHED HER KIDS.

    YOU THINK YOUR LAYMAN INTERNET EYES ARE MORE INTELLIGENT THAN EXPERTS WHO’VE SEEN THE CHILD?

    THERE IS A REAL TRUE FBI FILE OPEN ON FRAUD AGAINST HER. GO TO THE WEBSITE I GAVE (NOT BNN) AND WORK WITH AUTHORITIES.

  323. Joe

    If a little girl were not involved, this would be entertaining but she is. I’ve said I have doubts about the accusations and I still do but either way this little girl is in trouble.

  324. Tim Bedwell - Connie Father

    EnoughAlready = Dustin Thompson the Child Molester;

    Please post anything you claim, emails, 22 receipt numbers, correspondence with the FBI, FBI case #, any and all your above made claims right here on BTLS and then will see who the liar is. Or is Bubba not an actual media person too?

    Dustin Thompson has NO ANSWER TO DR. SATERLY’S OFFER. What’s up with that child molester?

    PUT UP OR SHUT UP Dustin! Your caught in your lies just as you will be in your criminal trial.

  325. EnoughAlready

    Tim Bedwell, I’ll get this website BTLS to confirm my IP addy and location.

    You want to turn this into Dustin’s doing. It is NOT.

    God you are as crazy as the rest of the internet says. Everyone else, contact the FBI website for to be a part of this investigation.

    You want to spin this making me part of any Dustin team or camp, I’m not. I’ll let those who read here decide for themselves by contacting this link if you feel you’ve been scammed, put it through the FBI Internet Fraud Unit. You will find none of us even know Dustin, we just were dumb enough to believe this sh** off the start. We sure don’t anymore!

    http://www.ic3.gov/default.aspx

  326. EnoughAlready

    I suppose all these posters are Dustin? lol
    http://forums.somethingawful.com/showthread.php?threadid=3137533&userid=0&perpage=40&pagenumber=7

    In the link below, people talking about requesting their money back and getting no response. I’ve put in a request to add them to our group.

    http://www.websleuths.com/forums/showthread.php?t=83594&page=8

    It’s a great thing she did the Auburn Journal article because it showed the world what a con she really is.

  327. Tim Bedwell - Connie Father

    EnoughAlready = Dustin Thompson THE CHILD MOLESTER….why can’t you publish those #22 receipt numbers and FBI emails for us? WHERE ARE THEY??? Your caught in your lies again Dustin!

    GOT NEWS FOR YOU CHILD MOLESTER – you don’t need permission to publish a FBI agents name if what you’re saying is the truth! The only reason you didn’t publish an FBI agents name was there is no agents name you could truthfully publish based upon your allegations! Without actually having a true FBI Agents name to publish with your allegations, any name you published would be a fraudulent statement which the FBI could have the Justice Department prosecute you for. You are such a lying dumb ass! You got another lies for us today???

    The web link is an internet FBI complaint link… There’s no contact with an FBI AGENT….your laughable.

    Dustin, Enough Already about the donation return lies…

    LET’S GET TO THE FACTS OF THIS CASE!!!
    Molester Where’s the proof of your statements about evidence?

    Evidence that proves the child was coached.

    Evidence that any judge has even viewed the Daddy’s Worm Video or any of the many videos?

    Evidence that the judge rejected the videos as coached?

    ANY EVIDENCE WHATSOEVER TO YOUR CLAIMS….WHERE IS IT?

    What we do know is; Placer County is corrupt. The first move to get around that was a new judge has been appointed from out of the County. Second, to level the playing field, Dr. Saterly has offered pro bono (for free) to interview and test you and your family. Connie, the Bedwell’s and all direct witnesses have agreed to whatever interviewing and testing Dr. Saterly deems necessary.

    Dustin, where’s yours and your families agreement to this most generous offer. After all, you claim you have been cleared of all charges….What’s the hold up Dustin and the Thompson family? Dustin you never address or answer this question. WHY?

    The facts of the matter, is you will steadfastly refuse to be interviewed or tested by a neutral, nonbiased, third parties who your attorney can’t control.

    For a week now, Connie and the Bedwell family, as well as all direct witnesses have stated they will cooperate with Dr. Saterly testing.

    WHAT’S THE HOLD UP THOMPSON’S????

  328. Tim Bedwell - Connie Father

    This post was deleted FIVE TIMES by the Auburn Urinal ….
    No small town collusion??? After they closed the comment section they went back and reposted the second deleted posting of this writing!

    On 5/19/09 at 06:43 PM, TruthIS wrote:

    In the Auburn Journal Victor Pecoraro is quoted below…

    “Victor Pecoraro, Auburn Police detective sergeant, said the department IMMEDIATELY investigated the child’s welfare after watching Bedwell’s video. The toddler was interviewed by a team of trained specialists and investigators questioned the father. He said the video is only a ““piece of the puzzle””.

    Sgt Pecoraro did not “immediately” investigate this situation as he claims. In fact he had the case open for 5 months (Feb 2008 to June 2008) and still to this day has not contacted the people who are direct witnesses to the child’s statements at the hands of her father, all of whom are listed in Connie’s two page witness list. Additionally, Connie’s boyfriend Darrel Payne called Sgt. Pecoraro to see why he hadn’t contacted him in the 5 month investigation since he was the first person on that list. Sgt. Pecoraro stated that, “everyone I’ve interviewed tells me that Dustin is the best thing since sliced bread” and “you couldn’t tell me anything I don’t already know about this case”.

    Sgt Pecoraro you were proved wrong on both statements.

    I’m not an investigator but common sense tells me that an investigator would first look at all evidence presented to him while interviewing those making the allegations. This would help investigators to know how to proceed and determine the type of questioning of the accused? You went directly to the accused and fell for his and his family B.S. Did it go something like this; Dustin is just a mellow guy, he would never do anything like that?

    Sgt Pecoraro conveniently fails to mention WHEN HE ACTUALLY and FINALLY WATCHED THAT VIDEO. It is a fact that he did not watch that video when Connie went into the police station with it in her hand the next morning of June 10, 2008 after the child made those statements regarding Dustin molesting her, as was filmed on the night of (June 9, 2008). In fact the Auburn Police Dep. made Connie hand the child over to a child molester for his visitation to be abused and brainwashed again that same day, June 10th 2008.

    Upon receiving Aaliyah back from Dustin’s parenting time on June 15 2008, Connie took the child to the hospital to have her examined after the child again stated that “daddy hurt my pee pee” and “daddy hurt my butt”. Connie requested authorization for the examination, Sgt Pecoraro yelled at Connie and told her to leave the hospital. He did not authorize the child’s examination. During that heated phone conversation with Sgt Pecoraro in the hospital he still at that point HAD NOT YET WATCHED THE VIDEO!!! Sgt Pecoraro seems quite confused as to what “immediate” and “investigation” truly are. Sgt. Pecoraro’s actions were far from what he claims. We can only hope that District Attorney Fenocchio can bring some clarity to Sgt. Pecoraro’s perceptions in hopes that he doesn’t allow other children to be harmed due to Sgt. Pecoraro’s unwillingness to correctly do his job.

    After Connie received the child back from Dustin she made one line coached statements such as, “I love daddy_ I love daddy’s worm_ mommy makes me say these things, daddy said so_ daddy said I love daddy not Darrel_ Darrel’s bad, daddy said so. etc” It wasn’t until June 17th 2008 that Sgt Pecoraro FINALLY didn’t make Connie turn Aaliyah over to Dustin. In fact, Sgt. Pescoraro called and apologized to Connie and Darrel for what he had done, or should I say hadn’t done.

    Aaliyah’s MDIC interview took place on June 23, 2008 in which Aaliyah stated the one line brainwashing from her father.

    Thanks to Sergeant Victor Pecoraro’s negligence and dereliction of duty, failing to properly follow the basic rules of investigation, putting the child back in Dustin’s home for continued brainwashing before the MDIC interview, the interview was ruled as “unsubstantiated claims of abuse” and is where the claim of coaching originated.

    DUE TO THIS COMPLETELY INEPT, ONE SIDED INVESTIGATION THE CHILD REMAINS IN DUSTIN’S HOME TO THIS VERY THIS DAY. Connie refusing to stop bringing the continued statements of this child before the court, CPS, STEP, and Sandra Amara, Dustin’s attorney and the child’s court appointed attorney Ms. Bowman, all of whom recommended to Judge Jeffery Penny that, 100% custody should be given to the father. Their premise was that Connie stating to the court what the child was continuing to speak of Dustin’s sexual and physical abuse constituted “child abuse at the hands of the mother”. That “video taping of the child exchanges constituted abuse by the mother”. This reasoning defies logic. That didn’t stop Judge Jeffery Penny from granting their recommendation without viewing court mandated reports of abuse or the Daddy’s Worm Video. No judge has ever viewed the Daddy’s worm Video” regardless of Sandra Amara’s blatant lies to the contrary to Judge Francis Kearney and Judge Nichols.

    Sandra Amara requested Connie’s visitation completely taken away is for one purpose and one purpose only; To stop further documenting of the child’s statements and actions that reveal the Thompson’s on going abuse sexual and physical abuse. Betty the supervisor of Connie and the child’s visitation at “About The Children”, stated regarding her observation of the child having to go to Dina Thompson the mother of Dustin Thompson was, “That was the second worst reaction of this child’s refusal to go to the other party I’ve ever seen”. (like those in the parential exchange video) Though Betty documents the child’s reactions and statements during visitation, Connie asked Betty if her documentation was being reported to the court? There after, Connies shows up for visitation and the owner of About The Children, Maureene Rodarte starts yelling about a picture(s) of Connie and the child on http://www.saveaaliyah.com stating, “someone could come in here and grab the child out of the arms of a supervisor and run away with her”. Rodarte further claimed Connie was in violation of the restraining order for posting the picture. Connie refuted each and every accusation of Ms. Rodarte to her ultimate stupefied silence. Rodarte, then reverted to name calling. Rodarte’s last words were to refuse to allow Connie visitation there anymore. Rodarte claimed the picture(s) gave away the location of visitation. Look for yourself to see if her claim is true. The picture was taken in a room with out any designation of location. Her claim is baseless! However, it accomplished Sandra Amars court denied request to cancel Connie’s visitation without cause through a friend and fellow colleague. Thompson’s never showed up with the child for that visitation either. Imagine that! These facts point once again to the Good Ole’ Boys and Girls Club of Placer County showing their collusion! If Sandra Amara can’t get the Judge to do what she wants, she’ll pull the strings to get it done through friends and colleagues.

    To date the only known person of the above named, known to have view the video evidence is Sgt. Pecoraro and STEP as they pulled out of the case. Judge Kearney in the Ex-Party hearing before she recused herself, ordered the child’s attorney Ms. Bowman to view the video. Interesting fact; Ms. Rebecca Bowman was appointed as attorney for the child to fight for the child’s best interests, has had access to court mandated reporters reports, the video for 11 months and had to be ordered to watch the video.
    U N B E L I E V A B L E !

    Placer County Judicial System is notorious for its corruption long before this case! Read the article at and see why Dustin is hiding in Place County behind it’s co-called professionals; http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/43819/placer_county_judicial_system.html?cat=17

    For anyone who is interested in the truth of these matters, the court filed paper work is public record. It will easily disprove the pedophile clans supporters statements of events. It’s well documented and not even remotely close to what the child molester family and friends claim.

    Dustin Thompson if you’re as innocent as you claim to be, take Dr. Saterly’s, Pro Bono invitation to be tested and evaluated by non bias third party outside of the corrupt Placer County Good Ole’ Boys and Girls Club.

    Connie and the Bedwell family and all witness to the child’s statements have already agreed to be interviewed and tested. How about Dustin and the Thompson family!

    Step up Dustin, be a man, let go of your daddy’s hand, quit hiding behind the skirt of Sandra Amara and lets find the truth! I know you won’t do it, but Connie and the Bedwell family and all witness’s to your despicable acts have already agreed to do it.

    Here’s your chance, were looking to see what you and your family are made of?

    Come on, prove Connie and those crazy Bedwell’s wrong.

    THEY’RE WAITING……..

  329. WhereIStheEVIDENCE

    No one requesting a refund is a FLAT OUT LIE. Websleuth posters have requested refunds before this story even HIT BNN. Directing those who have donated and are requesting a refund of their money to a site, Blogger News Network, which bans a users ISP if they are not 100% supportive of the mothers story is not only irresponsible it prevents anyone who wants a refund from doing so and steers them away from being able to get their money back.

    For anyone requesting a refund, I suggest contacting PayPal directly. You won’t get anywhere requesting your money from the Bedwells.

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  330. WhereIStheEVIDENCE

    Enough Already, I had not seen your previous post with the FBI info on requesting a refund/filing a complaint. Perhaps it would be wise for anyone requesting a refund to contact both the FBI as well as PayPal and and make sure both know of the request for a refund as well as contacting both agencies.

  331. Tim Bedwell - Connie Father

    Referring the above writing about Sgt. Pecoraro;

    Regarding the picture Maureen Rodarte claimed, “someone could come in here and grab the child out of the arms of a supervisor and run away with her”. Rodarte also claimed the picture(s) gave away the location of visitation. This is the very same picture posted here on BTLS in the very beginning of this thread.

    Note also; In the article linked to, about Corrupt Placer County Judicial System… One of the Judges spoken of in the article was the very same Judge that recused herself … Judge Francis Kearney!

  332. EnoughAlready

    Thank you for the information regarding Paypal. I think a few in our group were trying that way. I took it upon myself to collect everyone’s details and supply it to the internet fraud unit after seeing confirmation in the Auburn Journal regarding this story, the steps taken and the results of the investigation.

    I will contact Paypal and let them know the information and names involved.

    Tim, I cannot wait for Bubba to email me so I can speak with him. He can let everyone know I am clearly not Dustin and have no connections to Dustin.

    Regarding your 1 internet posting of an OLD Placer County article. I think you are confusing Associated Content with Associated Press. One is credible and one is NOT. The one you use is NOT.

    Anyone can write for Associated Content or submit an article. THEY DO NOT HAVE ANY EDUCATED JOURNALISTS.

    Yet again Tim is using a free blogger uneducated source lacking credibility in the news field to put this story out there. Associated Content article was a highly biased article written by a party that did not have a successful outcome in Placer County. It was not written by a journalist or true media. We can leave it to the readers of this ARCHIVED board to decide if a completely unrelated article, the ONLY article Connie can put out there, makes for a conspiracy theory.

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Associated_Content

    It shows once again how desperate Connie is. She is running scared and has her daddy play SPIN PARTY to sway the readers away from the truth.

    I won’t bother wasting one more moment of my time debating with something that has been proven to be a fraud. I won’t be returning UNTIL Bubba speaks with me so I can provide to him who I am and the FBI information on the Internet Fraud.

    Yes Tim, the agent has asked me NOT to leave his contact information on any internet posting. I’ve told the people here if they follow my instructions above and list Connie Bedwell in the information, it will get to the investigating agent. http://www.ic3.gov/default.aspx

    Post all the lies you want Tim and attack me all you want. I cannot wait for Bubba to verify who I am and my details SO I can throw it in your face. Lie lie lie is all you’ve ever taught your girl to do. She’s followed well in your footsteps. You taught her well.

  333. where's bubba

    Oh and you all know that while Placer County may indeed be corrupt or have a few problems, the Associated Content blog, is just that a blog article, not a news source. Not only is it from 2006 and about only a couple of cases, it is just opinion and not in any way associated with a news organization.

    I believe this case needs to be investigated further. No matter which parent is causing this child harm(in my opinion after much reading for weeks- they potentially are both doing this child harm).

    This case has not been handled well. This child is indeed in danger- there has been no determination as to which parent is hurting her. Keep the focus on this child in need.

  334. where's bubba

    Sandra Amara requested Connie’s visitation completely taken away is for one purpose and one purpose only; To stop further documenting of the child’s statements and actions that reveal the Thompson’s on going abuse sexual and physical abuse.

    About that perception- maybe it was because Connie was freaking her daughter out with all the questions and suspicions. She was becoming hyper aware of any an all disturbances and linking them to abuse. A lot of what I have read seems to be normal childhood tantrums-not breakdowns. And this baby girl is very attuned to her mother’s emotions.

    Connie was tainting the memories that the baby with her questions, reactions and fears. (which may be valid and must be investigated). She may have invalidated all possible evidence except physical evidence by her own actions. This may not have been her intent, but it is the result.

    Also, how many regular pediatrician visits did this baby have since June of last year? Pediatricians are mandated reporters of suspected abuse. And would have been required to document any physical signs of abuse- especially sexual.

    You don’t need to take a child to the hospital and request permission. Any suspected abuse is mandated to be reported, and an exam for sexual abuse will happen no matter what.

    How do I know this? Because I suspected my ex of doing this to my 2 year old when she came home from a weekend visit screaming ‘owwie daddy No NO!’ for 7 hours straight. I took her to the doctors immediately and described her reaction and was ordered to have her examined for sexual abuse. It was horrible, they took pictures, and did internal exams. I was not allowed to be in the room.

    Thank God it proved she was not molested, and had just reacted to being away from me for one of the first times for more than overnight. That, and her father is a very big guy and can be very scary. This all happened 20 years ago, and in California. So I am familiar with the process.

    I strongly doubt any medical doctor could be influenced by anyone to jeopardize their medical license just to make this go away!! It just makes some of the statements by the mother and her family harder to believe. Either that or there truly was no sign of abuse to be found.

    I am bothered by the fact that none of the Bedwell family has been interviewed as part of an investigation. Because of this I have written numerous emails and letters to people both in Placer and at the State level.

    No one has to agree with the Bedwell’s reality to do this. No one has to believe the father is being falsely accused. All you have to believe is that this child needs help.

    This definitely warrants the attention and a closer look by those outside Placer County.

  335. Tim Bedwell - Connie Father

    TO THE BELOW LISTED:

    EnoughAlready
    May 23rd, 2009 at 5:21 pm

    WhereIStheEVIDENCE
    May 23rd, 2009 at 9:42 pm

    WhereIStheEVIDENCE
    May 23rd, 2009 at 9:46 pm

    AND IF I MISSED ANY OF YOU MOLESTER SUPPORTERS THIS IS TO YOU TOO;

    All your writing and BS yet you still fail to provide your #22 fictitious donation refund receipt numbers, and those ever so scary emails to the FBI … :>{)

    I don’t care if you’re actually him or not…if you support him, that’s the same as being him. Ever heard of guilt by association? Asking intelligent questions is one thing…supporting Dustin Thompson’s lies is another.

    Once again if there’s anyone who wants a donation refund post your receipt # here on BTLS or BNN and I’ll contact you.

    How is it Dustin that you will do anything and everything but prove your own words?

    Lies are empty words and so much hot air!

    WAITING FOR YOUR PROOF!

  336. Justgetaninvestigation

    “Directing those who have donated and are requesting a refund of their money to a site, Blogger News Network, which bans a users ISP if they are not 100% supportive”

    This is an out right lie as well. The BNN moderator ONLY bans IP addresses for those who attack and name call those who do believe the mother. They are also warned about it. They encourage discussion and questioning, just not attacks.
    They believe everyone is entitles to their own opinion.

  337. Mema

    Well I see the people banned from Bnn are spreading their hate, discontent and lies here now. Have you guys NOT heard there has been a support group started just for you? I think it’s called Bnn Banned Bloggers.
    Whether you believe this story or not, we should all demand a complete, thorough and unbiased investigation be done in this case. To do any less is a dis-service to every child who has ever been or ever will be abused!
    I absolutely believe the Bedwells. They have not just agreed but begged for independant investigations, mental evaluations and even polygraph tests, stress tests and any other test that proves deception. I do know there are test that a person can not manipulate and the truth WILL be clear. The Bedwells and I mean EACH AND EVERYONE OF THEM, ARE BEGGING FOR TEST WHICH WILL UNDENIABLY EXPOSE WHO IS BEING DISHONEST, MANIPULATIVE AND WHICH PARENT IS TRYING TO COACH Aaliyah. The father’s side have even refused to discuss this. All they do is come on the internet and try to discredit the Bedwell’s ANYWAY they can. The donations are of particular concern to them, money is power. With the money to hire an attorney and pay for professional testing,
    TWO THINGS WILL HAPPEN which scares the hell out of the
    Worm. Connie will have an attorney, so the Worms’s attorney won’t be able to run all over Connie and twist every fact like she has been able to do thus far. With funds to pay for professional evaluations, the people hired will not be Placer county good ole boys and therefore the Thompson’s will no longer control those things either. The Worm KNOWS if this case is taken out of the hands of his cohorts, he will be in big trouble. People have sent donations to Connie and she has hired an attorney. The Worm is getting more nervous EVERY day. He is DESPERATE to STOP these donations. DESPERATE! He will say and do anything it takes to keep people from sending any money to be used to expose the truth. Connie Bedwell has sold ALL her personal belongings to try and get the money to fight and get protection for her child. Her family members have also sold their worldly goods to get the money needed, even her circle of friends have donated to this cause. The Bedwells do NOT have the resources that the Worm enjoys. His money and connections have given him the freedom to sexually abuse his own daughter. Thank God some people followed their hearts and sent money and Connie HAS HIRED AN ATTORNEY WITH THOSE DONATIONS!!! Every dime she gets goes toward protecting her baby. I ask you mothers and fathers would you do LESS for your child then Connie is doing for Aaliyah? How far would you go to get your baby out of the hands of a monster. Yes she needs money, it takes money to fight in court. Attorneys work for money and as great as it would be to think that some high powered bulldog would take this case on pro bono, it has not happened. The Worm has deep roots in Placer county and he has money. Connie is an outsider there and she is a working mother. When the Worm had supervised visitation for that very short time, his parents could oversee his time with Aaliyah, Connie has had to pay a fee of a hundred dollars each and every time she has seen Aaliyah. She was the victim of abuse, she brought Aaliyah back to Placer County because she had been assured the baby would be protected, they all lied. She was tricked and now Aaliyah pays the price nightly, when the Worm comes out! PLEASE DON’T BE FOOLED BY THIS MONSTER. If you can send a dollar, well I can’t think of a better place to spend one. This family is extremely appreciative for anything anyone does for Aaliyah. Write letters, send emails or even just pray for Aaliyah’s safety. Connie’s big crimes are leaving the Worm and his abusive actions, he would NOT even sign Aaliyah’s birth certificate, he wanted NOTHING to do with this child until he could use her to get back at Connie and that includes sexually abusing this baby. He is sick and needs help but most of all he needs to be kept away from children. ALL THESE FOLKS WHO SCREAM THIS IS A FRAUD, WELL THERE ARE “REAL SCAMMERS” ON THE NET, ROBBING THE ELDERLY AND NAIVE DAILY. IF YOU ARE REALLY THAT CIVIC MINDED AND YOU ARE DETERMINED TO “HELP BY KEEPING US FROM BEING SCAMMED” GO AFTER THE PROFESSIONAL CON ARTISTS, THEY CAN EASILY BE FOUND ON THE NET. No your intentions and motives are clear, you can’t afford to fight Connie on an even field, you will be exposed.

  338. Mema

    BTW I called the office of the FBI and spoke with an agent at length. They are in NO WAY involved with ANY aspect of the Bedwell case. NONE NOTA NOTHING so liar liar pants on fire, peddle your papers elsewhere.
    To the WORM, you and your attorney have managed to put a gag order on Connie Bedwell, which DOES violate her civil rights, every dog has his day, and the two of you should practice your barking, cause your bite gets less scary every day. YOU AND PLACER COUNTY WILL BE EXPOSED. You have shut Connie up, what is your plans for the rest of the country? How are you going to shut us up? You have done everything in your power to stop the Bedwells from exposing you and your crooked dealings and yet your crimes have still come to light. I would love to be there, the day you get the same kind of jewelry Drew Peterson sports in public now, he to thinks he is above the law! No child is safe as long as you are walking around free, especially Aaliyah, you are a monster!

  339. Anne Ambrose

    This is not a scam or a hoax. This is the desperate attempt of a mother to save her child from being sexually assaulted by the man who is suppose to protect her.

    Bubba I understood you intended to follow thru with this story, what happened? I know these things take time, however every day that passes, is another 24 hours of abuse on this little girl. Because the mother is trying to protect her child, the corrupt people in Placer county have seen to it, Aaliyah no longer sees her mother. This child must be half scared to death. She is surely thinking even her mommy has abandoned her now. Richard Nixon didn’t even have the power to stop an investigation, how in God’s name has this Worm accomplished this?

    All we hear is, we are working on it and yet Aaliyah is also living it. Bubba there are a lot of people who find you offensive and I admit, being from a different generation then you, I don’t always understand or even appreciate your humor. I honestly believed your disgust about this case. I mean I really thought, this guy IS a real decent person. I have had trouble eating and sleeping since I first became aware of Aaliyah’s case. The day you talked about this on your show, I felt at ease that night, I slept like a baby. I thanked God for you and your interest in getting to the bottom of this story. Please Bubba that child needs you and your army. Don’t ignore this like so many others are doing. Aaliyah needs a hero, she is a tiny little girl and her mother has done everything in her power to save her. She risks going to jail, her reputation has been soiled and her sanity questioned and she is still fighting. THEY NEED YOUR HELP, PLEASE. You told the listeners you would be talking about this again, When? When will you follow up on this story?

    BTW Love the segments with the HULK, you guys are hilarious.

  340. WhereIStheEVIDENCE

    No need to do anything other than file your dispute with PayPal and contact the above FBI info if one so desires. Those handling the paypal account via the save aaliyah site can give Mr. Bedwell the information he needs on whether or not anyone has requested or received refunds.

    If PayPal is refunding the money, I would not reveal any personal info to Mr. Bedwell. Especially with the response given to those requesting a refund. All his request will do is give him your personal email and info. PayPal is set up as a secure site. To maintain your privacy go directly through them.

  341. WhereIStheEVIDENCE

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  342. Need more info please

    Mema,
    Why is Connie an ‘outsider’ in Placer County? I thought she went to High School there? I know she went to Alaska for 7-8 months after the baby was born. Surely that does not make her an outsider or did she grow up somewhere else?

    How much money are we talking about here for the Thompson family- are they upper middle class, millionaires or multi-millionaires?

    Who lied about it being safe to return with this baby? Why did she even come back if he was abusive? Surely she did not want her daughter to have a relationship with an abusive man just because he was the sperm donor, or did the courts make her come back to CA? Was it an involuntary return, or her choice? If she was forced to return, how was that accomplished?

    Has the father ever signed the birth certificate, or how else does he prove he is this child’s father? As it is stated frequently he in not on the birth certificate, when was he confirmed to be the father?? Did he prove it with a paternity test and then sue to get custody/visitation, or was he sued for child support, and forced to take a paternity test? Is his name now on this child’s birth certificate? How long has this custody battle been going on if he was initially unwilling to admit paternity?

    In addition to having to pay for visitation (why were none of the Bedwell’s allowed to supervise- what reason did the courts use?), I am guessing Connie has to pay child support too. I am so glad she has raised funds enough to hire an attorney now. No one should have the scales tipped to such an overwhelming imbalance by being without representation in court. Does Connie have a court hearing this week?

    I pray for this baby girl. She has to be so sad and worried about why she has not seen her mother in a couple of weeks. Children need their routine’s. Children need to be safe, and loved every day!

  343. CA

    Justgetaninvestigation
    May 24th, 2009 at 8:22 am
    The BNN moderator ONLY bans IP addresses for those who attack and name call those who do believe the mother.

    ***************

    Excuse me but I was one of those BNN’rs that was banned for not being supportive ( and get this straight once and for all ) for not being supportive of THE MOTHER…ok…We are all in complete agreement on finding the truth…that should not mean hanging a man in public with no proof and 11 investigations and a lame coached video!

    I never once name called anybody…and was told to shut my mouth by the female editor…for asking questions…so unless you can prove what you say is true…DON’T BOTHER SLINGING YOUR B.S on a subject you clearly know nothing about!

    The other thing…why would she bann those who name call “THE MOTHER”…isn’t that in itself biased if nothing else…what about A who called a poster “the pedaphile”…SHE IS STILL BLOGGING…that’s right…can you see a pattern here!!! THOSE WHO WANT THE TRUTH AND NOT JUST THE MOTHERS SIDE WERE BANNED….BNN is NOT interested in the TRUTH!!!

  344. Huh??

    “Upon receiving Aaliyah back from Dustin’s parenting time on June 15 2008, Connie took the child to the hospital to have her examined after the child again stated that “daddy hurt my pee pee” and “daddy hurt my butt”. Connie requested authorization for the examination, Sgt Pecoraro yelled at Connie and told her to leave the hospital. He did not authorize the child’s examination.”

    Umm, why would she need authorization? You take a child you have custody of to a pediatrician and ask to have an exam to rule out sexual assault/sexual molestation. Once a doctor hears those terms – he is required to report his/her findings to law enforcement/DCF/CPS right?

    Was it because she could not pay for the exam? Why would she need authorization from the police? I must be missing something there. How can the cop tell her not to have her child examined and to leave the hospital? Was there already some restrictions placed on Connie at that time? Because this one thing totally confuses me!!

  345. CA

    I personally know of a handful of people that JUST LEFT that site because they have eyes and saw what was going on…more then a handful have left on their own….so don’t give me that crap about post-bnn’rs spreading hate cause they were banned or for any other reason.

    I know everyone of the people who have left or have been banned…and they ( we ) are quite content to be away from the natzi nation!!!!! Leaving it behind, however…you needed some clarification so there you have it!

  346. CA

    So what’s going on with doc joe???? Is he interviewing the mother father and child??? AnneA…is Connie going through with the pro bono evaluation…did she hand over her psych eval yet?…….

  347. Huh??

    “It wasn’t until June 17th 2008 that Sgt Pecoraro FINALLY didn’t make Connie turn Aaliyah over to Dustin. In fact, Sgt. Pescoraro called and apologized to Connie and Darrel for what he had done, or should I say hadn’t done.”

    So if I have the time line right- Connie reported this on June 10th (with the video taken June 9th), the cop refused ‘authorization’ for an exam at the hospital on or about June 15th (5 days later) and had not yet viewed the video. Then on June 17th (7 days after the initial report) he called to apologize.

    Then the baby had and MDIC exam on June 23rd. Can anyone explain what an MDIC exam entails?

    This sounds like within the first 2 weeks there was some sort of investigation. Is it true that there was nothing found and nothing done at this point?

    Thanks!

    Then for

  348. CA

    She risks going to jail, her reputation has been soiled and her sanity questioned and she is still fighting.

    ************

    IMO she should be in jail for not taking that child away for good if this was really true! She has had 2 years to get more then one homemade video for proof…where’ the vid of the child screaming and crying not wanting to go to daddy’s…( even though that is natural for a young child not understanding why she has to leave mommy to see daddy)…where is the documenting support from psych docs and gp’s and child abuse experts….WHERE IS THE BEEF????

    So yes, her sanity questioned for claiming the entire state of FL is corrupt…!!! ahhh…yes…do you really think that could even be possible? You obviously do….that is why I also question your sanity!

    If she is still fighting…I expect your answer to my question about doc joe would be that CONNIE has already done the evaluation….but I am doubtful of that!!!

  349. Chuck M

    Bubba and Co.

    I am also wondering why you dropped this story from your show. Is it your lawyers or Sirius Corporate? What about a good SpiceBoy parody song? I agree with Anne, we need you and your Army to at least support the story, yet not taking a side as you did on the first day. The more I read on this the more I know there is a violation of a small child. Come on BUBBA!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    R/Chuck

  350. Justgetaninvestigation

    http://www.bloggernews.net/120689

    http://www.bloggernews.net/120697

    http://www.bloggernews.net/120707

    CA, this is why you were banned from BNN. You refused to listen to what the owners of BNN had asked you NOT to do. IT’s all there in black and white eveyrone. See the first article, and watch how it all unfolds. C~A was yelling and screaming at the person who brought the story to BNN and then accusing her of being Connie. C~A, you can’t hide who you really are and what you really said.

  351. CA

    Justget….I am not interested in your above post. Since when is an opinion on if someone is someone other then they appear to be a crime???

    I can’t view those posts…and going in the back door would be a waste of my time…so why don’t you post them IN BLACK AND WHITE…I was there…I don’t know who you are you obvioulsy are here under a different name and why you would take the time to research my posts which, again..are NOT the reason I was banned! I was there, I know what happened, and I now the personal emails i recieved from the female editor…If you are referring to caps…take a bit more and research ALL my posts on Bnn over the last year…I USE CAPS ALOT….DOESN’T MEAN I AM YELLING…So unless you want to identify yourself and post my comments to show all why YOU say I was banned…I stand by every post I made there and here….I never called anyone names or called them a PEDAPHILE…which imo is the worst thing someone can do and it was done there….AnneA is still there…NOT BANNED!! I am sick of the sugar coating and b.s and back peddling about the TRUTH about BNN…Don’t tell me what went on…I WAS THERE!
    So post my comments…show me how horrible I was to get banned…I was leaving ANYWAY….I know I asked questions of karenccc one friday night…post that too…my first interaction with her…I was polite and was simply asking questions…that is what started the whole interaction with j telling me AND MY MOUTH..BLAH BLAH BLAH…..show me the money. Show me what I refused to do…put your money where your mouth is…or shut up! I also asked the editor to provide me with posts of mine that would back her mouth up too…SHE COULDN’T!! Seems alot of questions being asked about credibility and truth and alot of DEAD AIR in return.

  352. CA

    Oh ya, and EVERYTHING…that is asked of the BLOGGERS AT BNN to do or not to do SHOULD ALSO APPLY TO THE EDITORS…that’s where the word hypocritical comes in to play!!!!

  353. CA

    Bnn had no problem telling posters to shut their mouth…I have no problem telling the TRUTH and every right to ask for it!!!!

  354. CA

    except…I had the class to tell J to shove her sight and her hypocracy where the sun don’t shine in an email…I didn’t belittle her on the blog…that’s the difference between her and I!!

  355. TimeWillTell

    Huh??
    RESPONDING TO THE ABOVE POST:

    May 26th, 2009 at 4:36 pm
    “Upon receiving Aaliyah back from Dustin’s parenting time on June 15 2008, Connie took the child to the hospital to have her examined after the child again stated that “daddy hurt my pee pee” and “daddy hurt my butt”. Connie requested authorization for the examination, Sgt Pecoraro yelled at Connie and told her to leave the hospital. He did not authorize the child’s examination.”

    ****Police cannot do any such thing. It is another lie Connie has put out there, apparently stuck didn’t it? She could have taken her daughter to multiple doctors during the day, any where. Why would police be in the hospital too?

    As far as BNN bannings go, I’ve seen some uncalled for hate filled raging emails Jan sent to others. Nothing professional or journalistic about that forsure. She would not let multiple people dare ask any questions if it was against Connie but let Karen & Anne have a free for all calling everyone names if they remotely looked like they were not believing Connie’s tall tales. It had nothing to do with name calling, everything to do with alterior motives on J&S’s part. Got pretty darn quiet over there after everyone started to see through Connies lies. Actually, no matter where you go it’s died down. If there was this mass force mounting up against this ‘crooked county’, the voice on the internet would be everywhere.

    Bedwells have a couple of stragglers but otherwise, other than changing names to appear like Connie has support, she has nothing because it’s very apparent to people like me who did not know this story. She’s a good con artist.

  356. CA

    and another thing…you obviously know who I am…I don’t hide..as you can see from my username…however, seems you are hiding behind a different name. Surely you would have better things to do then do “research” if ya want to call it to look up some strangers posts to see why they were banned from a blog you prob. were never on!!

    so which is it…YOU the one hiding or you just have no life?

  357. TimeWillTell

    If any of you know how to go look at sites that track ‘web hits’ on any given article, take a good look. This story died in its tracks when the AJ article came out confirming Connie set this whole thing up. Confirming this child has seen a team of specialists. Confirming an investigation clearing the dad of any thing.

    Just fun to take a look at that statistical information. Most people on the internet have a brain and have seen through this woman’s crazed rants.

    Have at it Tim, it’s fun to read how you attack people on here. Sure does not make any of you look credible when you do stuff like that. People like me that read this on Websleuths for the 1st time can’t believe how you attack perfect strangers.

    You’re time would be better served writing to congressmen and any government official possible all around the USA if you actually believed your granddaughter was being harmed. But to find you in (what I think is an archived board here) screaming at people shows you have nothing better to do for your granddaughter. Can’t imagine there’s more than 10 people that pop in to read this. How screaming at a board helps your granddaughter?? Not sure how that achieves anything. Just makes you look like a nutcase so if that’s what you’re going for, have at it.

    Feel free to call me Dustin, Timmy. I don’t care. I know I’m not. I’m just a stranger that read & posted on WS about this, but if it’ll help de-stress you, feel free.

  358. LL Papa

    Justgetaninvestigation,

    Since you obviously have spent time in the archives of the site that has chosen to promote the claims of the mother in this matter, perhaps you could point out to me any posts that I made that were abusive or contained any sort of name calling.

    I can save you some time, there were none. I NEVER called anyone a name, I never “yelled” at anyone, nor was I abusive to anyone with a different opinion.

    Yet I am among the “banned” from that site. Why? Because I went to another web site, Web Sleuths, and voiced my opinion of disbelief of the mother’s claims in very clear, no uncertain terms.

    The editor’s of that site seem to believe that they have the right to restrict or control the most cherished of all liberties, the freedom of speech. Brave men and women have shed their life’s blood to give each of us this liberty, and they cannot restrict that right.

    Since then, I have voiced my opinion of the mother’s claims at other sites in this virtual world of the Internet. I have stated many reasons that I disbelieve this story. Foremost of these is the video at the center of this emotional reaction. After viewing the video several times, I was forced to realize that I had not SEEN the child say a single word accusing the father of sexual abuse, AND NEITHER HAVE YOU. For whatever reason you choose to believe, the camera NEVER shows the child say anything. I am unable to take the giant “leap of faith” that the video is valid solely because the mother and her family say so.

    Let me ask you a question. If someone posted a video on You Tube claiming that a 2 year old little girl could quote the entire Declaration of Independence from memory and NEVER showed the child talking, would you believe it? Would it help you to believe it if the child’s aunt, and grandfather posted long posts on the Internet referring to you, or anyone not believing the claim, with some of the most vile terms that can be applied to a human being?

    In my opinion, the emotional reaction surrounding this saga was accurately defined in an article at tampabay.com…….

    “In a sense, the Internet is the largest mob ever assembled. It sometimes transforms otherwise inhibited people into unrestrained, faceless conduits for emotion.”

    No matter your opinion, this child deserves a non emotional analysis of the facts. I have done my best to give her just that.

  359. Beast

    Justgetaninvestigation

    How many is it going to take? There have been what, 11 investigations so far? That’s a lot of taxpayers money already. Seems to me some people should be gettin a little pissed about that. Oh the conspiracy thing? The corruption thing? The whole county and police department, all inept or corrupt? Please that’s just utterly absurd.

  360. Justgetaninvestigation

    HUH?? said: Umm, why would she need authorization? You take a child you have custody of to a pediatrician and ask to have an exam to rule out sexual assault/sexual molestation. Once a doctor hears those terms – he is required to report his/her findings to law enforcement/DCF/CPS right?

    Exactly, what police officer has ANY right to AUTHORIZE an examination of ANY child? If you all cannot see how rediculous this situation is, you need new glasses.

    I wish I had the dang court files. Anyone in Auburn, Cali want to go down to the court house and get a copy? It’s all public domain. Then maybe we can get somewhere and get this little girl and her mother help!

  361. Huh??

    What difference does any of that make Justgetaninvestigation ?

    I am still amazed after reading on BNN that Connie willingly came back to CA to allow her daughter to have a relationship with a man she claims abused her (connie) and threw dirty diapers at her and the baby.

    It is said now that it was not due to the paternity issue(ei. Dustin sued connie for visitation so she came back), nor is it a child support issue(ei. Connie filed for child support and proved paternity of Dustin).

    This is a bit tough to understand, a mother chose to involve an abusive man into her daughter’s life while living in Alaska, and moved back to California for THIS????
    According to BNN Connie had not requested child support- and Dustin did this to force Connie to come back to him.
    Allegedly the courts told her visitation would be supervised- so how did the courts get involved?

    Who brought the matter to court? Dustin because he admitted paternity, or Connie who rightfully requested child support. How can she say willingly if she was forced to come back to CA? Something is not being told here.

    What really happened?

  362. Huh??

    I left BNN too- willingly. I was tired of only those who disagreed with popular opinions being chastised or in a couple of cases banned. While others where allowed to say anything they wanted to people who were posting respectful or even interesting questions or points of view.

    That attacks on newcomers, or those who post opposing views is still happening is apparent on several subjects and articles. I stopped posting, and only read there.

    Now with the advent of no more public comments being allowed on CAYLEE, HALEIGH or AALIYAH – and only members being allowed to post (so far 80% of posts are in the off topics thread and NOT about the articles anymore) I find the limited perspective not worth the time.

    Blogs get boring if there is no real discussion, or new input. Many people I know will never post on member only blogs or forums. Why bother- it becomes the good ole boy/girl club of opinions.

    Instead of moderating comments like this site does- they have pretty much limited it to just a few points of view. They have over reacted and shut the doors to new points of view.

    And I agree about Jan shutting down points of view she does not agree with- she has been doing that of late.

    It is their site- they get to make the rules. That is how it is everywhere. But I know it just cost them my readership and posts. Possibly others. Either way, the lack of control has been ongoing and is now killing that Blog in my opinion.

  363. Huh??

    This is a place to post opinions and views about this case. Not about what is going on on other sites. I am sorry for getting off topic.

    The next court date is June 1st. Connie has said she has an appointment to meet with the DA on June 2nd, the one who handles child abuse cases. I wonder if which parent will be discussed.

    I only hope it leads to something better for this baby. One way or the other, she is what matters to me.

  364. WhereIStheEVIDENCE

    Bubba’s specialist asked Connie for a copy of her psych eval. My guess is Connie has not provided Dr. Saturley with any of the information he requested so no further story to comment on until he gets the info. Pretty simple to figure out.

  365. marmite

    If this is a sick scam or custody battle I ask you all the following questions…

    Why hasn’t Connie been arrested?

    Why hasn’t the saveaaliyah site been shut down?

    Why haven’t paypal shut her account down?

    Why no follow up in the Auburn Journal?

    Why no response at all from the fathers camp?

    Why won’t the Thompsons agree to an independant assessment from Dr Joe Saturley? Connie and her family have welcomed this.

    Why hasn’t Dustin agreed to Lie detector and stress tests? Connie has volunteered to take any tests necessary to protect her daughter.

    An innocent man would do anything to clear his name, surely he would be demanding these tests to put an end to all the rumours?

    To Beast, CA, Huh and the rest of your vindictive little gang just ask yourself why you are so angry about being banned from a blogging site, this isn’t about you it’s actually about Aaliyah. You are all coming across as obsessive and wierd which in turn discredits what you’re actually trying to say.

    Bubba when are you going to give everyone an update, please don’t let this little girl down.

  366. Justgetaninvestigation

    HUH?? Why does any abused woman ever go back to their abuser? It happens everyday. I don’t have the answer to that. How I read it is that the only way she was going to come back to California was if the courts stepped in and made it safe with supervised visitations for the father. I also read where Connie didn’t believe the abuse she was shown would be placed upon their daughter. The only way we will truly know all the circumstances of the whole situation is to get a copy of their file. Dustin isn’t saying anything and Connie is telling her side of the story. And what happened on BNN doesn’t really matter other than there are now a half dozen people, bitter if you ask me, that are now spreading gossip and slander of the owners and posters on that site. I was there for a long while, I didn’t post much. But that’s only because I saw the clique there run off many people. I totally believe that the clique, the runners of the board, attacked KarenCCC over and over until they either got her banned or she left, but that didn’t happen and they got angry. If you read there for any time, you cannot say that didn’t happen before. However the owners of that board choose to run it, it’s their decision. And there aren’t any new hits on Aaliyah’s threads because there isn’t any new news. I’m hoping that after the court date, there will be a new article and then there will be more discussion.

    CA, I have a life, I was there when this all happened. I chose not to show my name that I posted under because I don’t need to be rediculed and harrassed. I saw how you all worked on that board. I have spoken to many people who feel the same way. There are alot of people on those boards now that were there just lurking and never posted before. But now that a few have left, they feel free to post. At least before this new forum came about. It goes both ways CA.

  367. TimeWillTell

    Justgetaninvestigation
    May 27th, 2009 at 3:24 pm
    I wish I had the dang court files. Anyone in Auburn, Cali want to go down to the court house and get a copy? It’s all public domain.

    ————

    JUSTGET – your response in the above quote is funny and tells me you know nothing of family courts. None of this is public domain, not one bit. You could not get any of this information. Really, this is how smart you are?

    I’d suggest you JUST GET out of here before you make any other ummmm ‘statements’ like that, you are clueless about the courts.

    The very few left following this at BNN are because a small handful were banned for no reason other than not siding with the mother. The rest left because it was a joke and proved to be a sham by the mother.

  368. C~A

    marmite
    May 28th, 2009 at 7:07 am

    ********
    To Beast, CA, Huh and the rest of your vindictive little gang just ask yourself why you are so angry about being banned from a blogging site, this isn’t about you it’s actually about Aaliyah. You are all coming across as obsessive and wierd which in turn discredits what you’re actually trying to say.
    **********
    Exactly where have we (I) made this about me??? Care to post that comment of mine that makes you say that!
    Angry about leaving a site that has no COMMENTERS..angry about leaving a site that controls opinions and ridicules opposing opinions right in the blog? Angry for leaving the drama surrounding the high school mentality? Angry to leave a site that “stinks” of horse manure and has only a few regulars there that post more in chat then in an article? HARDLY! I have all my friends that are no longer there either. We are all actually very very happy! So you are way off the mark here girlfriend. YOu don’t know me or who I am. You hide your name, your prob. very two faced on the blog as well..Are you afraid of being banned for commenting on ANOTHER BLOG…oooohhhh…love to be a prisoner of BNN again…NOT…Actually, I have a good idea who you are. So sad you feel the need to hide! Some are weak that way!

    ustgetaninvestigation
    May 28th, 2009 at 7:10 am

    Would you kindly post the comments we have made that make you act the way you do? You haven’t posted why i was banned…if you were there…and you have some intellectual capabilities..you would see how it was not only me that was banned..and you haven’t posted your proof…How about minding your business. Busy body people like you with no back up for your mouth are a waste of space you belong whre you are! If you don’t have anything nice to say…shut your mouth..move along..Why are you attacking me? You were there…you are hiding NOW…posting stuff about ME that you can’t back up…a link is not proof. YOu are counting on people not taking the time to go look and looking “right’ at the same time. Your a coward not saying who you are! You obviously would like to hide your short comings and ridiculous thoughts and empty headed accuastions.

    You very simply person…”vindictive gang”….your funny!
    I have a gang now ya ok …your laughable! What is it I’m vindictive about anyway…I tell the truth…never lied about what went on at bnn…if the truth and the courage to stand up for it is vindictive to you then I can’t help you!

    Will be waiting for you to post your proof on both my comments for being banned…as well as where you see any post of mine of beasts that show anger and obsessivness. Go for it! I’d love to see it! I have a few names that you know perhaps including yourself that show true signs of obsessiveness! I am hardly interested in this case. NO PROOF!! There is proof however that CAYLEE IS DEAD..there is proof however that HALEIGH IS MISSING…THERE IS PROOF THAT SANDRA IS DEAD…THERE IS PROOF THAT TORI IS MISSING AND LIKELY DEAD…You want to accuse me of being obsessed at least take your best shot at it…BEDWELL case IS NOT IT!!
    I’d also like to know how wanting the truth and asking for proof can be something that can be discredited…I”M not the one having to proof anything nor am I the one who is spewing lies. I am not the one who is demanding people to believe…so what is it that I have said that needs to be credited??? Post your answer to that too…or will you simply ignore as usual. Go back to BNN…that’s where you belong in the black hole with all the other moles.

    You don’t need to be ridiculed or harrassed? Isn’t that what your trying to do to me? If you don’t say who you are then you nothing but a fake! You don’t believe in yourself or what you say! Why don’t ya take a long walk off a short pier unless you want to be honest!

  369. Justgetaninvestigation

    “KarenCCC said,in May 1st, 2009 at 8:35 am Papa, I wasn’t threatening anything. I just don’t want to cause trouble, and that seems all I have done.

    m2c, I haven’t said that I am unhappy about no one helping, I know people are helping. Again, about money, I didn’t ask anyone to send money. I just thought if I got this out to millions of people that there would be a lawyer in her area that could contact her and get her the help she needs. That’s all I wanted. I am unhappy that I have to validate why I am here.

    Papa, I have contacted John Walsh’s site, Oprah’s won’t even let me put up a post because it violates it’s rules, I contacted so many different people and as I said yesterday, this forum is the only one that is helping me. I am thankful. I do not want to start any trouble.”

    This is KarenCCC trying to defend herself from all of your accusations. C~A, I’ll be back with what you said to her before you got banned. I have to find it, but I will….

  370. Huh??

    Marmite, I have never been banned from ANY site. I was simply asking questions based on my own perceptions and the information I have read.

    I have clearly stated that I believe something needs to be done to further the investigation for the sake of this child. I have contributed to that effort by emailing officials I believe can assist in getting this case the attention it deserves.

    If you don’t like my questions, please feel free to ignore them. I do not attack anyone personally, and I respect your right to an opinion that may differ from mine.

    Why is it necessary that I agree with you or go away? Am I not entitled to the same respect you have with regards to posting a comment or a question? I am in no way ‘vindictive’- I only care about the safety and happiness of this CHILD- she is the only one that matters to me!

    This attitude of attacking people does not further the cause at hand- helping this baby girl. Instead of attacking individual posters how about convincing people with words and evidence. How about respecting everyone’s right to think for themselves?

  371. Huh??

    In answer to your posted questions Marmite..

    Why would Connie be arrested? What is she alleged to have done.

    Why would the SaveAaliyah site be taken down? That would require Dustion instigate a Civil case against the owners of that site- it is not under Connie’s control. They have a right to put up a site and ask for donations to support ANY CAUSE they want.

    Why would PayPal shut down the account? Same as above, and I do not see that they are violating terms of service for Paypal accounts. Unless fraud is proven, and to my knowledge it has not.

    To the questions about the father or his family responding, who knows, they have not formally responded. Plenty of allegations about them allegedy being posters of comments, but once again- who knows it they are indeed the family or father or attorney. Just like your assumption I was a banned blog commentor and or allegations that if someone does not fully agree with the Bedwell’s they MUST be ‘pedophile supporters’ because of their opinions.

    Who knows why they have not accepted offers for an out of state doctor to investigate. Who knows if they have taken polygraphs on their own. I sure don’t know. No one is saying, only guessing. Heck I don’t even know if it would be considered by the courts.

    I have already commented on your generalization that I am a member of a ‘vindictive little gang’. I am not, I speak and think for myself.

  372. Huh??

    Justgetaninvestigation when I said what difference does that make. in post 361..I was referring to post 350. Apparently some comments were in moderation and appeared after I posted my comment.

    Sorry!

  373. Huh??

    To Where’s the evidence may27 9:58 pm-
    Bubba’s producer said that he had read the moms psych report. “And it’s a mixed bag of goods ” That comes from this same site I believe, just a different page.

    I may be wrong, but I read that today while looking for updates and more information about this weird case!

  374. Tim Bedwell - Connie Father

    TO – TimeWillTell
    May 27th, 2009 at 10:47 am

    “Upon receiving Aaliyah back from Dustin’s parenting time on June 15 2008, Connie took the child to the hospital to have her examined after the child again stated that “daddy hurt my pee pee” and “daddy hurt my butt”. Connie requested authorization for the examination, Sgt Pecoraro yelled at Connie and told her to leave the hospital. He did not authorize the child’s examination.”

    ****Police cannot do any such thing. It is another lie Connie has put out there, apparently stuck didn’t it? She could have taken her daughter to multiple doctors during the day, any where. Why would police be in the hospital too?

    TimeWillTell; stated, “Police cannot do any such thing”.

    Please tell all of us the exact procedure the pediatrician directs one to do after they have examined the child brought in under the accusation of sexual abuse.

    What’s the difference of a mandated reporter reporting it sexual abuse VS. what’s needed in a sexual abuse case that’s to be prosecuted for sexual assault etc.?

  375. Tim Bedwell - Connie's Father

    WhereIStheEVIDENCE
    May 26th, 2009 at 11:49 am

    I already have the names and email address’s of every donator. Their information is located on their receipt. Keep trying to shift the issue.

    EnoughAlready
    Still no #22 requested donation refund receipt numbers, or complaint emails filed with the FBI. When you pull them out of your hat will you please post them here on BTLS and/or BNN for all to see.

    6+ days and waiting for your proof EnoughAlready!

  376. Tim Bedwell - Connie's Father

    WhereIStheEVIDENCE
    May 26th, 2009 at 11:49 am

    I already have the names and email address’s of every donator. Their information is located on their receipt. Keep trying to shift the issue.

    EnoughAlready
    Still no #22 requested donation refund receipt numbers, or complaint emails filed with the FBI. When you pull them out of your hat will you please post them here on BTLS and/or BNN for all to see. (your posting of the #22 donators requested refunds & FBI emails) It’s obvious you won’t post this information has come to support the lies by trying to direct people another way.

    6+ days and waiting for your proof EnoughAlready!

  377. Huh??

    I was wrong about where I read the update about Dr. Saturley in my may 27 8:11 pm comment.

    Here is the correct link.

    /directoryofclearwater.com/blog/cleatwater_news/dr-joe-saturley-follows-up-on-aaliyah-bedwell/

  378. Chuck M

    This article mentions that Dr. Saturley would go to Auburn Ca. if somone buys him a plane ticket.

    {Quote from article} “Half joking, he said if someone bought the plane ticket he would go to California to evaluate the case.”

    Dr. Saturley, I have several free tickets on United Airlines, you are welcome to use one (no charge) to get out there and figure this story out once and for all. I will find your E-Mail address and E-Mail you my information.

    R/Chuck

  379. Justgetaninvestigation

    HUH?? “A mixed bag of goods” does’t scream “lies” or “delusional” to me. It just means we have to wait for the evaluation to come to light. It could mean an endless amount of possibilities.

    I hope we all can get some answers, soon.

    C~A, I’m not going to fight with you any longer. I saw what happened, people can go to those sites and look for themselves. I am fighting for Aaliyah. I can’t waste anymore time on you.

  380. Huh??

    Mr. Bedwell. There is no case to prosecute until physical evidence is gathered.

    You report suspected child abuse to any doctor (usually your own pediatrician). That doctor will listen and do an examination for signs of physical trauma. Even without any physical sign of sexual abuse you are then referred to an official documented physical exam (county/state doctors). This exam is usually conducted at a hospital. That exam involves many pictures of internal vaginal exams, and an overall physical with many tests for bladder infections, blood tests and more. They look to see if the hymen has been compromised (although this is not proof as it can happen in other ways, it will trigger further exams and a formal investigation). This is all done outside the presence of the family, and as a mother I can tell you it is heart wrenching and an awful event.

    The findings of any and all physical evidence will be referred to the next level. Without physical evidence if the emotional trauma is clearly evident CPS may require psychological examination. If psychological evaluation of the child leads them to believe the potential of abuse is there all results are documented and forwarded to the DA. If they are not able to find definitive physical proof they will generally hold an open case until such time as physical evidence is found.

    This is all done without consulting the ‘witnesses’ as unless they witnessed actual sexual contact and molestation or worse…they are not providing anything beyond opinion and speculation. They may be needed during an actual trial to support physical findings. They may not even be contacted until the D.A. is involved in a formal charge.
    If the D.A. does not have enough evidence this may not be prosecuted at the criminal level.

    I know this is not what you wanted to hear. But there pretty much has to be physical evidence, not subjective opinions and perceptions before you reach the D.A and a criminal trial.

    The handling of this in family courts is somewhat different. There are many forms of child abuse. Judges can and do make decisions based on submitted evidence by either side. Once again, opinions do not count. You need to have documented proof by court ordered doctors of many disciplines. It comes down to the laws, the physical evidence and the medical and professional opinions the court uses.

    I know all this from having gone through it, in California.
    I also know that Justice is blind…it is a matter of law, not morality. And that your situation must be very frustrating for your family. At least you have a lawyer now who can guide you through the legal proceedings. The scales where tipped when Connie did not have representation.

    You still may not like the outcome. It does not always make for a county wide conspiracy. You need the physical proof. That is the way the laws are written.

    Good luck in your battle.

  381. Huh??

    What all that meant was that Connie should have gone through her own pediatrician or family doctor in order to get the official physical exam ball rolling. The police do not authorize it unless there is an ongoing criminal case that the DA is involved in.

    She probably should not have even called the police at that point. She had already made a police report right? Taking the baby to a doctor after what she saw as escalation of abuse and having a police report number and her own description of the babies behavior would have triggered the mandated reporting process.

    I think she had the process backwards. Unfortunately. you do not need police until there is proof. I wish she would have taken the baby to her own medical doctor after she left the hospital. I am still not sure what type of authorization she was seeking from police. Both the hospital emergency room and the police should have been able to explain this to her.

  382. Huh??

    I agree a ‘mixed bag of goods’ just means that there are some things we do not know. We have no details on what it means. Everyone has issues that may turn up in an evaluation, in this case they may not even relate to this situation. We should never know the results of a person’s psych exam. That is private and not up for discussion by the public in my opinion.

    I believe Connie absolutely believes in this abuse. I believe that she is telling the truth as she sees it. I do not think she is lying. She has her opinions and her perceptions. She is doing what she believes is right. She wants her daughter to be safe from harm! Any mother wants that, I would only doubt her sanity if she believed it and did not care or act.

    There needs to be more details provided that we will likely never know. Medical and court records are sealed. If there is no physical proof to back up the beliefs of the mother and her family this is not going to be resolved soon. I do not know what will happen. I do not know enough to know what should be done, beyond another investigation to remove all doubt if any corruption within this case.

    All that matters is this child being safe. Whatever that takes! What if abuse did happen and can’t be proven? What if the abuse never happened, and is driven by a mother’s fear?

    We can only pray for this child, and that the truth will prevail. I want this child to be loved, safe and happy no matter who is right. That is why I keep writing emails to officials in the state, and county.

  383. A mom

    I’ve taken my children to the doctor dozens of times in their lives. Thankfully, we’ve only been to the emergency room a few times.

    The police have never had to authorize any of the examinations or visits. They’ve never even been consulted as far as I know.

  384. Huh??

    There was an MDIC evaluation on June 23rd 2008

    Here is a link to what that is, they apparently did not find enough evidence to pursue a criminal charge at that time.

    /www.placer.ca.gov/Departments/DA/DAUnits/MDIC.aspx

  385. Huh??

    This was part of the investigation that did occur.

  386. Huh??

    So on June 9th the video was made, on June 10th the police were contacted and presumably a police report taken, on June 15th Connie went to the hospital but was not seen, on June 23rd there was Multi Disciplinary Interview done where the baby was examined. I am guessing CPS was part of that process. I am hoping doctors were involved. There were is a Child Forensic Interview Specialist who talks to the child and it is all videotaped.

    Was that the extent of the investigation? What did they do beyond that?

  387. Justgetaninvestigation

    “There was an MDIC evaluation on June 23rd 2008

    Here is a link to what that is, they apparently did not find enough evidence to pursue a criminal charge at that time.”

    That evaluation was done while the baby was in Dustin’s care, this is when Connie states that the baby would say, “mommy makes me say these things, daddy says so” “I don’t like Darrel, daddy says so” etc……

    Connie also stated that the baby wouldn’t disclose to all of those CPS and examiners, I don’t know if any two year old would. They are strangers to them. There are so many questions. If you don’t mind me asking, where are you getting your information?

  388. WhereIStheEVIDENCE

    Mr Bedwell, do you really expect me to believe you had private information given to you from PayPal as to email addresses for those who donated or requested a refund?

    You sir, are the one spinning things coming out evading peoples questions and redirecting pointing fingers. You sir, are foolish to believe readers of this story are not intelligent enough to see right through what you are trying to attempt. The courts did not, I do not and MOST readers of this story do not.

    I am a member of Websleuths, no one there bought this story BEFORE it ever hit BNN. They still do not. As a matter of fact readers think your daughter should be charged with child exploitation AND they have reported their concerns to the National Center of Missing and Endangered Childrens exploitation department. Why is it the most respected crime sleuthing site on the net and its members who ADVOCATE for crime victims and despise pedofiles do not buy a word of this? Because there is no crime and the allegations are false.

    ALL you and your family do is try to intimidate through bullying and fear. Surely the courts saw through this, as do the rest of us which left the courts NO CHOICE but to PROTECT a child from the harm her mother and your family is causing.

    Keep it up Bedwell family, and I can almost be certain the next thing we’ll be reading is Connie loses her parental rights. That would be very sad for this child, but as we all know in some cases it is necessary.

  389. WhereIStheEVIDENCE

    What are the criminal charges for exploiting a child on the internet for which one has NO LEGAL custody?

  390. Huh??

    Did you read the MDIC website and brochure? The person the child talks to is an expert a CHILD FORENSIC INTERVIEWER SPECIALIST. Many agencies are involved, but they try to avoid having too many people interview a victim. Read the site and the brochure information.

    This MDIC exam was done during the 50/50 custody back in June 2008. This info about the MDIC exam and the custody comes from the Bedwell’s. I believe they(the Bedwell’s) also said no charges where filed against anyone at that time, and that they were angry about the outcome. I believe they also said custody was changed to twice a week for Connie at some point down the road. It did not sound like it was because of the MDIC, but I have not found an answer to that one way or the other.

    Do you have information to the contrary about the custody or findings of the MDIC Justgetaninvestigation?

  391. PLEASEKNOWTHEFACTS

    DOES ANYONE WONDER WHY SHE DOESNT HAVE CUSTODY?? DOES ANYONE WONDER WHY SHE LEFT THE COUNTRY TO GO TO JORDAN BECAUSE SHE “THOUGHT THE WORLD WAS ENDING.” I KNOW, BECAUSE SHE HAS A COUPLE OF SCREWS LOOSE! THE COURTS ALREADY FOUND HER NOT MENTAL FIT TO RAISE A KID, UNLESS SHE GOT HELP. I KNOW ALL THIS, BECAUSE I GREW UP WITH BOTH OF THEM.

  392. Tim Bedwell - Connie's Father

    Thank you Huh. I wanted to know if TimeWillTell could explain it since it seemed so sure of the procedure and bluntly claims Connie’s lying.

    On Feb 6, 2008 Connie went to APD. Officer Ackard and Sgt. Reams, they interviewed her for 8 hours, this included copying of evidence. However, they did not want to have the Aaliyah examined due to being unable to verify that abuse occurred within the last 72 hours.

    Fact; APD Sgt Pecoraro was well aware of Connie’s claim that Aaliyah was being sexual abused.. Connie contacted Aaliyah’s pediatrician who referred her to take Aaliyah to UC Davis Medical Center where they do complete through exams for the purpose of prosecution. This exam needed LE authorization. APD Sgt. Victor Pecoraro refused to authorize Aaliyah examination on two separate occasions while Aaliyah was at UC Davis Medical. The last time was on June 15, 2008.

  393. Justgetaninvestigation

    “I am a member of Websleuths”

    This answers my question as to why you sound so ignorant.

  394. Chuck M

    My offer for a ticket for Dr. Saturley was received well. Joe will go there but needs to insure he has cooperation on the Calafornia side. News at 11………………..

  395. Tim Bedwell - Connie's Father

    Thank you Huh, but I wanted to know if TimeWillTell could explain it since it seemed so sure of the procedure and bluntly claims Connie’s lying.

    On Feb 6, 2008 Connie went to APD. Officer Ackard and Sgt. Reams, they interviewed her for 8 hours, this included copying of evidence. However, they didn’t want to have the Aaliyah examined due to being unable to verify that abuse occurred within the last 72 hours.

    Fact; APD Sgt Pecoraro was well aware of Connie’s claim that Aaliyah was being sexual abused.. Connie contacted Aaliyah’s pediatrician who referred her to take Aaliyah to UC Davis Medical Center where they do complete through exams for the purpose of prosecution. This exam needed LE authorization. APD Sgt. Victor Pecoraro several times refused to authorize Aaliyah examination while Aaliyah was at UC Davis Medical. The last time was on June 15, 2008.

  396. Tim Bedwell - Connie's Father

    WhereIS the Evidence;

    I have NEVER one time heard Aaliyah say;

    Mommy and/or Darrel hurt me.

    Pop Pop punched, kicked, slapped or knocked me down.

    Auntie hurts me.

    NOW WHO IS IT THAT’S HURTING THIS CHILD?

    Spin spin spin the Thompson SPIN!

  397. Tim Bedwell - Connie's Father

    WhereIStheEVIDENCE
    May 29th, 2009 at 5:45 pm

    I think it should be clear by now… I don’t care what you and your little group think!

    AS a matter of fact, PayPal does publish the email address with the donation receipt!

    Lets get to the truth of the matter! It’s simple, get your friend to publish the receipt # of any of your claimed donators who want a refund. Until then the subjects dropped. I’ll be waiting.

    You can claim that there’s been a investigation, but it has only been from one side. If it was your daughter being molested, is that what you would label as an investigation?

    You State;
    “As a matter of fact readers think your daughter should be charged with child exploitation AND they have reported their concerns to the National Center of Missing and Endangered Childrens exploitation department”.

    AND HOW’S THAT WORKING OUT FOR YA???
    Sound like the FBI investigation for internet fraud, that isn’t.
    Sounds like the Roseville police investigation for fraud, that isn’t.
    Sounds like the #22 donators who want refunds, that you can’t produce.
    Sounds like those ever terrifying emails to the FBI, that you can’t produce either.
    Sounds like all those donators receipt #’s and email addresses that you claim I don’t have, but I do.

    I could go on and on! but what’s the point, it like talking to a brick.

    Attack me all you want, I put my name on everything I write, where’s yours? Why do you attack from the shadows. Come put your real name out here and then write your crap, then when this is over let’s see who still standing!

    Since you’re all so close to the Molester and his family, why don’t we ever get to hear you tell us about why he won’t step outside the corrupt Placer County Professionals and be tested and interviewed by Dr. Saturley?

    If Connie’s claims of Placer County being corrupt aren’t true. Why is Dustin and the Thompson’s refusing to be interviewed and tested by someone outside of PC?

    Simple questions!

  398. Global

    It’s nice to see another site that allows freedom of speech, no matter what the subject! In my opinion, BNN has lowered itself to the boot out the door level…and will surely be the cause of it’s own demise.

    Rock on bloggers!

  399. marmite

    marmite
    May 28th, 2009 at 7:07 am
    To Beast, CA, Huh and the rest of your vindictive little gang just ask yourself why you are so angry about being banned from a blogging site, this isn’t about you it’s actually about Aaliyah. You are all coming across as obsessive and weird which in turn discredits what you’re actually trying to say.
    **********
    C~A
    May 28th, 2009 at 11:10 am
    Exactly where have we (I) made this about me??? Care to post that comment of mine that makes you say that!

    #######################################################

    In response to C~A please read this blog from the beginning, I suggest you take your time reading your own posts for evidence of your weird and vindictive rants.

    It is clear you are have issues and this situation just happens to be your latest outlet to release that unresolved anger. I seriously suggest counselling.

    To the rest of your gang please channel your energies into something positive. All we are asking for is an independant investigation.

    C~A please don’t bother to respond, you’re boring me.

    I repeat This is about Aaliyah not you!

  400. Huh??

    Connie did not lose joint 50/50 custody till July 1 2008 per her own time line. After that is when she went to the supervised visitation twice a week. So the change was probably a result of the MDIC interview reports to the Family court.

    She had also had the baby home with her from June 15 till the MDIC interview in June 23rd.

    While the STEP program no longer exists, there is still information on what it was. It lost funding during the budget cuts in CA.

    It also sounds like both parents and the child were in the STEP program for quite a while if this was the source of the therapy/counseling that the baby was getting. Once again, from the mother’s own words.

  401. Huh??

    I actually meant she lost joint custody and went to supervised visits July 3, 2008.

    The information about what MDIC is in Placer County, as well as the brochure they give to the parents of the victims before the interview is available at the link I provided above. I suggest you read it, as well as watch the full 27 minute video.

    There is much more to the time line in this case that I have put together from the statements going back to prior to the move to Alaska, through the initial custody court hearings as reported by the Bedwells statements, through to putting together my own time line. There is a lot going on in this case. Much more than first reported.

    They return to court June 1. No telling what will happen.

    Once again, I believe this child needs to be supported. No matter the outcome, she is the ONLY one I care about.

  402. Justgetaninvestigation

    I see a lot of people wrote on here stating they have sent emails to Placer County officials and state level officials and others…..HAS ANYONE RECEIVED A RESPONSE????? I sure haven’t. If anyone has received any responses, please let me know. Thanks a log everyone.

  403. Justgetaninvestigation

    Ha, ha….I mean “thanks a lot everyone”

  404. WhereIStheEVIDENCE

    Mr. Bedwell,

    I think you have mistaken me for someone else. I know nothing about 22 requests for refunds. I know of one who received a refund, and I posted the information solely for those wishing a straight answer on how to get their money back.

    As for the rest of your statements regarding the medical center. Get it in writing from the physicians who were told by whatever law enforcement officer NOT to give your granddaughter an exam to determine if she was sexually abused. Post that online so you can back your statements with facts. You’re family must have them. Surely your daughter would not have walked out of the medical center without having written proof. We’ll be waiting.

    WITE – Oak Park, IL

  405. WhereIStheEVIDENCE

    That should read I know of no one personally who has received a refund. Though, I suggest the request go directly to PayPal as opposed to sharing personal info here or at BNN.

    WITE- Oak Park, IL

  406. No reply

    No responses to any of my emails to the D.A. or the letters to the Judicial Review Board. Form Letter from the Governor, and none from CPS.

  407. Huh?

    So Mr. Bedwell,

    you said:
    “On Feb 6, 2008 Connie went to APD. Officer Ackard and Sgt. Reams, they interviewed her for 8 hours, this included copying of evidence. However, they didn’t want to have the Aaliyah examined due to being unable to verify that abuse occurred within the last 72 hours.”

    Did this result in the MDIC interview ON fEB 26, 2008 instead of the medical evaluation?

    “Fact; APD Sgt Pecoraro was well aware of Connie’s claim that Aaliyah was being sexual abused.. Connie contacted Aaliyah’s pediatrician who referred her to take Aaliyah to UC Davis Medical Center where they do complete through exams for the purpose of prosecution. This exam needed LE authorization. APD Sgt. Victor Pecoraro several times refused to authorize Aaliyah examination while Aaliyah was at UC Davis Medical. The last time was on June 15, 2008″

    But there was an MDIC interview on June 23,2008. Was that the substitution for the hospital exam? Did Connies pediatrician see the baby? Did he exam her at any point and ever find any signs of sexual abuse, or physical abuse?
    Did she just call her own doctor for advice, or did he see her and refer her to UC Davis Medical? Has this little girl ever been physically examined???

  408. Huh?

    Marmite- once again, I am not now, nor have I EVER been banned from any blog or forum anywhere. I am not vindictive, but I have an opinion. I am not part of a gang.

    You are right, this is about this child, not name calling, not blame for the problems at other sites. In reality BNN is no longer a blog that allows comments (at least not on the subjects I used to read there). That does make it difficult to contain the problems to just that site.

    I do think that Aaliyah has lost a venue to get public attention and support. It was always the comments and discussion that was able to sway opinions and involve the public hopefully. I believe they had quite a following of readers who never posted. I know that their site still comes up when I do Google searches for information about this case.

    The comments are now locked away in a private forum. There is nothing wrong with that, however it limits the exposure for this case. This is why I post here and on any other public blogs and forums that I can about this case. I want the public aware. I want this child to he helped.

    I hope that there will be an update somewhere about the results of the court tomorrow. Connie will be in court, and she has an attorney. Hopefully she will regain at least access to visitation services again. I have been told she has located another supervised visitation center that she can utilize, and that the only holdup resuming her twice weekly visitation has been a lack of response from Dustin’s attorney on the subject.

  409. Justgetaninvestigation

    HUH?? Because of moderation, I don’t know what post you are referring to when you are speaking to me. From how I read the timeline, the baby had just came back from Dustin’s when they did the MDIC interview. That’s when the baby started saying “mommy makes me say these things, daddy says so” etc…..and just because the site states what a MDIC is and exactly how they perform it does’t mean that they do it like that. I know I have been to Drs and other places where the format for something was done so totally different than before. It just depends on the person. I think Connie should read all of what you posted here and on your other board and then she, or rather a family member, tell us if that is how it was performed. I’m sure there are holes in that evaluation as well. The ONLY reason Connie has had custody taken from her and put on visitations is because she will NOT lie and say Dustin isn’t doing this to her daughter. That’s how I see it.

  410. Huh?

    Mr. Bedwell,
    you said:
    “On Feb 6, 2008 Connie went to APD. Officer Ackard and Sgt. Reams, they interviewed her for 8 hours, this included copying of evidence. However, they didn’t want to have the Aaliyah examined due to being unable to verify that abuse occurred within the last 72 hours.”

    It is too bad there are not any comments from Connie on her time line document about Feb 6th. I would have hoped an 8 hour interview with police and their refusal to do anything but copy her evidence would have warranted an entry. She mentions other trips to see the police.

  411. Justgetaninvestigation

    While googling “Corrupt Placer County CA”, I have found some things:

    http://la.indymedia.org/news/2008/02/214067.php

    With this one, It’s only for officials, but look at all the civil rights cases against Placer County:

    http://dockets.justia.com/search?q=County+of+Placer

    http://www.ripoffreport.com/reports/0/320/RipOff0320960.htm

    Claim against county of placer
    http://www.libertyforlife.com/abuse/abuse/claims/CLAIM%20AGAINST%20Placer%20v1.doc

    http://auburnjournal.com/detail/106582.html

    I found this in the Auburn Journal:

    “domestic crimes are taken seriously by both law enforcement agencies and the judicial system.” LOL Not in Placer County California, where rubber stamping judges, closed hearings, corrupt DA’s, perverse financial funding, ignorance of the law runs amok, all under the guise of “we are tough on domestic violence” and “if were proven wrong, well, we’ll just make a case up” mentality. If you have a family in Placer County, you are a target and I recommend you get out now before it’s to late. They want your children and will perjure themselves to get them and they want you, the parent, to partake of their social services and they are willing to use extortion tactics to reach these goals. The judges and DA are in on the scam. This is fact. Heed this advice and do not find out the hard way, as we did. Add a Comment Posted on 12/02/2006 at 6:12:00 PM

    I can keep going on. There are NUMEROUS stories of Placer County, CA corruptions!

  412. Justgetaninvestigation

    I really feel that Connie could come up with something better and more effective to ruin Dustins life if that was her goal. What idiots! Connie’s IQ places her in the top one third of the population…I am pretty sure she could think of something way more clever to be vindictive. But she has morals and she doesn’t believe in hurting people…vengeance isn’t hers… how it is going to feel to have to explain and apologize to Aaliyah of why you all would help her dad further molest her because you want to spread his lies and you own lies and assumptions? Duh??, you are disecting every bit of that timeline. It wasn’t finished and all the information is not there. She was just jotting things down as they came. Who does it benifit to lie about something they dont know about and are just assuming things by just a few words? The baby states that her dad sticks his penis in her mouth, the only two people that are there are Dustin and Aaliyah and Aaliyah says that is what her dad does to her, I can’t understand why you choose to think that Connie is lying just to be vindictive. How do you all sleep at night knowing you are supporting him to further do this? You can keep disecting that timeline, it doesn’t make your assumptions of it true.

  413. Huh?

    JustGet,
    On June 17, Connie was told not to turn the baby over to Dustin.

    He had just had her from June 11 to June 15.

    So from June 15 until the June 23,2008 MDIC interview, Connie had the baby.

  414. Huh?

    JustGet. At least one of your links (the one to the Auburn Journal) is not applicable at all to the case at hand.

    It is about a dui/murder case, one that had a very polarizing effect on the community. NOTE: There was a trial for a DUI death/vehicular manslaughter charge. He was found guilty of 2nd degree murder and gross vehicular manslaughter. In what way is this corruption?

    The first case you list is about a lawsuit regarding theft, and is also not in any way related to this case. In fact the plaintiff says some pretty nutty things in his pleading- Including calling the Federal courts Felons, and saying that Jerry Brown(Ca State Attorney General) had him kidnapped(umm it’s called arrested) and he sat in jail for 30 days. This is all over an IRS audit and Social Security pension, and his Trust funds. It has nothing to do with the corruption of Placer county, The guy had 9 simultaneous laaw suits going on. The case went through multiple courts and state/federal jurisdictions and seems to have been ongoing for years.

    The ripoff link is about a deportation hearing- allegedly involving tainted evidence being submitted by the DA- with no supporting documentation available – made by the guy who was deported back to Germany.

    Many of the civil rights cases are against the sheriff’s office, alleging either civil rights being violated during arrests, or while in Jail. Big surprise there, how many Sheriffs departments do you think get sued by defendants?

    The only interesting information was the comment someone made on an article in the Auburn journal. Was this out of an article’s contents or out of user posted responses? I would be interested in reading more about it.

  415. Huh?

    JustGet,

    I don’t think Connie is lying. I think she truly believes abuse is occurring. I believe her family does too. She lives in a total nightmare right now.

    What I find after researching the information as it has been presented to date, is that there are questions I still have as to what is going on.

    If you feel I have lied about anything, feel free to point it out. I will listen if you think I have misrepresented information. In fact, I have read nothing from the father. I don’t know how I can be ‘spreading his lies’. I am only stating my own thoughts and opinions.

    I have not contributed to the molestation of a child. I have supported the request to help get a further more complete investigation. I do not feel this mother is vindictive (angry yes). I just do not agree with all of her interpretations of all these reported events as being of physical and sexual abuse based on what I have read.

    I am troubled by the notion that so much of this is being stated as corruption. There have been investigations, just none that have found enough proof to support the mother’s claims so far. There have been a lot of agencies involved, and a lot of professionals outside the court. That none of these others have supported Connie’s belief does not make them corrupt, nor her a liar. But it is information that I consider when I am looking at this case.

    Why is it everyone who does not agree with the Bedwell’s interpretation of the history, statements, or questions these beliefs is labeled a pedophile or supporter. Everyone who comes up with alternative opinions or interpretations of the reported events is somehow spreading lies. It is called a difference of opinion. It is called thinking and deciding based on what you read.

    No one on the internet ‘knows’ all the facts. It is purely speculation based on our interpretation of the information presented. Not even the mother ‘knows’ all the facts. She only knows how she understands and interprets what she sees.

    How is it there has been no physical proof of this ongoing molestation and physical abuse- not in 2 years? Or has there? Objective proof would be welcome here, not the subjective. I hope this can be found, for the sake of this child.

    One thing I know for sure is this child deserves to be happy. She deserves to be safe. Once again, I do not care about her parents. I care about this child.

  416. Huh?

    Just Get, you state “I really feel that Connie could come up with something better and more effective to ruin Dustins life if that was her goal. What idiots! Connie’s IQ places her in the top one third of the population…I am pretty sure she could think of something way more clever to be vindictive. But she has morals and she doesn’t believe in hurting people…vengeance isn’t hers”

    So you know her? For how long? What would she want to ruin Dustin for? Is that what she wants to do?

  417. Justgetaninvestigation

    New article at BNN regarding Connie and Aaliyah. Something finally is happening for Connie’s side!

    http://www.bloggernews.net/121098

  418. Justgetaninvestigation

    HUH??, to me, it shouldn’t really matter the contents of the case, what they are for, these people are screaming CORRUPTION in Placer County. That’s why I posted them. I will find that last link for the Auburn Journal, yes it was a user comment. I will try to find it again and post it here. But, from what I remember, the article didn’t have anything to do with what you are looking for either.

  419. Justgetaninvestigation

    HUH??, I’m still looking for the other article, but found this one first:

    http://abolishcps.blogspot.com/2006/09/placer-county-california-cps-victim.html

  420. Justgetaninvestigation

    Ok, here it is. It’s about domestic crimes:

    http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/71869/domestic_crimes_in_criminal_law.html?cat=17

  421. Justgetaninvestigation

    Oh, BTW, Judge Kearney never signed the papers before she recused herself, so the restraining order isn’t even in effect! HA! So funny!

  422. Huh?

    So if there is to be a California 730 exam, does this mean Dr. Saturley will be the one conducting it???

    I sure hope so, because it can be very expensive(up to $15,000) and cost can be split between parents if the court does not pick up the tab.

    Connie should have supervised visitation restored within a day or two. This is good news!

  423. marmite

    Well they went back to court and guess what….?

    Connie was not jailed, in fact the new Judge ruled against everything the fathers lawyer requested.

    The judge ordered that Connies visitation be reinstated immediately, if this cannot be arranged within a couple of days then Connie has to file an Ex Parte hearing.

    The hearing will resume 30th June.

  424. Justgetaninvestigation

    “So you know her? For how long? What would she want to ruin Dustin for? Is that what she wants to do?”

    I said she didn’t want to ruin Dustin’s life, there are some people who are stating she is vindictive because he gave her a STD and cheated on her, they claim to be freedom of speech advocates (hypocrites) but I can’t post on their site. As a matter of fact, my post is still in moderation on their site. So, I decided to write it here, where they don’t own the board.

  425. Justgetaninvestigation

    This is to the other site I was talking about previous:

    No, there isn’t a 730 examination ordered yet, you should read the entire article before jumping to conclusions. Amara tried to sneak that past the judge, she filed the papers as Connie and her lawyer were walking into court, the judge said “HUH, UH MS AMARA”, so it is not ordered yet, NOTHING is ordered yet other than visitiation be reinstated NOW!

  426. Justgetaninvestigation

    Hey Pattcake (again for the other site), Connie doesn’t have to tell her father what goes on in court, Darrel was there, her sisters and I think her brother was there. Also, don’t you think her lawyer is doing the talking now? Why don’t you go investigate something else now. BTW, did you hear that David Thompson sat on the stand for almost two hours calling his son a child molester, roflmao! About halfway through, he started saying “Alleged molester”, I swear, that is one of the funniest things I’ve ever heard. Liars cannot keep their words untruthful.
    Nothing was resolved yesterday because they only allotted 2 hours for the hearing, they spent the two hours proving that Connie is not the one posting these things on the internet. Patty, you should go back to sleep, you have absolutely NO CLUE what is going on. On June 30th, the hearing will continue and Connie will be on the stand….and then we will see if the judge is in anyone’s favor. AGAIN, there were no orders other than to re-establish visitations. Have a nice day Pattycake, but I suggest you sleep just a little more, you need to be awake in order to read and comprehend things. I hope you can actually comprehend what I have written! Good day all!

  427. Justgetaninvestigation

    HUH??, this moderation thing stinks. I am sorry that you thought I said you were lying, I was talking to other people on another site that state everyone is able to voice their opinion but won’t allow me to post there. I’m not sure but you seem to be one of those people on that other site, a lot of what you say here is over there. Here it seems you pretend you are neutral, over there you are against Connie. I could be wrong, if I am, just let me know. There are a lot of things that will be coming out soon. Such as doctor’s evaluations and such. There should be some reports from the caretakers at the supervised visitations that prove the baby is stating in visitations what Connie says she is. It’s all documented, and as soon as Connie is ALLOWED it will all be out. I am hoping that this judge sees the restraining order is completely against Connie’s civil rights and does something about it. That’s all I’m trying to say, everyone that is not truly trying to find the answers, that truly believes this little girl is not being abused by her “father” are enabling his abuse. That’s how I see it.

  428. Pattycake

    Hi Just… not really caring much about your post about me. It’s flattering you took the time to read my info, thank you.

    The current orders remain in place. If they were removed, your ‘blogger’ would have said so. Getting further information about 730 exam states exactly what I said last night.

    IF THE JUDGE BELIEVED FOR A MOMENT ABOUT CONNIE’S ABUSE CLAIMS – HE WOULD NOT HAVE ORDERED THE 730. So the JUDGE DOES NOT BELIEVE HER period. The judge wants this finished! Speaking to my boss, he said that professionals past and present will evaluate both homes and even interview the child.

    If Dustins’ home continues to be where the child is currently thriving, there will be a recommendation to keep the child exactly where she is. As I understand it, BabyA is doing remarkable, happy & thriving very well. It’s not a good thing for Connie – period!

    As long as the Thompsons will show the loving environment, the child will REMAIN where she is. It wouldn’t be in the child’s best interest to move her if she’s doing so well. Especially when these professionals can now take a look and see how the Bedwells attack perfect strangers online, can you imagine how they would be in person?

    Their actions and behaviour have harmed any possibility of the child going to the mothers home. This order will be final, it will be permanent. The timing of it is a major success for the Thompsons.

    Not going to bother debating this on now a 3rd board. You are welcome to come ‘to the other site’ to post. I won’t be back to read your response. Enjoy your day.

  429. LL Papa

    Justgetaninvestigation,

    The only mention of a 730 examination in the “article” you proclaim(!) reference to in your post #417, states as follows:

    “Furthermore Connie Bedwell should be stopped from filing any motions until THE completion of THE 730 examination.”

    The “article” clearly indicates that a 730 examination is forthcoming by their wording of THE 730 examination versus usage of A 730 examination.

    In your post #425 are you saying the “article” is incorrect in their choice of wording? The only reason I’m asking is that your post seems to be a rather hostile response to a question asked in post #422:

    “So IF there is to be a California 730 exam, does this mean Dr. Saturley will be the one conducting it???”

    Please note that this post clearly asks IF. It is a question that many would like an answer to.

  430. Huh?

    Possibly there needs to a clarification of the 730 order.

    Seems S does not write clearly. He does not say who requested the 730 order. It may have been the judge, or the attorney for either parent. I interpreted:

    “Furthermore Connie Bedwell should be stopped from filing any motions until the completion of the 730 examination”

    To mean that she was trying to prevent any motions from being filed until the completion of the 730 exam. Not to mean that Amara was requesting a 730 exam. In fact, I thought it leaned more towards Connie having requested the 730 hearing in order to bring Dr. Saturley into the case. That is purely speculation on my part.

    California Evidence Code Section §730 (“730 Child Custody Evaluation”):
    When it appears to the court, at any time before or during the trial of an action, that expert evidence is or may be required by the court or by any party to the action, the court on its own motion or on motion of any party may appoint one or more experts to investigate, to render a report as may be ordered by the court, and to testify as an expert at the trial of the action relative to the fact or matter as to which the expert evidence is or may be required. The court may fix the compensation for these services, if any, rendered by any person appointed under this section, in addition to any service as a witness, at the amount as seems reasonable to the court. Nothing in this section shall be construed to permit a person to perform any act for which a license is required unless the person holds the appropriate license to lawfully perform that act.

    Also, I was unaware there was verification of the lack of signature on the restraining order. Has this been verified with the court clerk? Because in reality, the court clerk is the one who supplies you with the certified signature of the judge. Once again Simon’s article was unclear about tis detail also. It sounded like it was not verified. Bummer about there being no printed verification of that for the public to read for him to expand on these items!!

    “On June 30th, the hearing will continue and Connie will be on the stand…and then we will see if the judge is in anyone’s favor ”
    I think the point about the Judge is important Just Get…so if this judge rules against Connie in any way will he be deemed corrupt too? What if the truth falls short of what either side claims?

  431. Huh?

    So bottom line,

    Is there a 730 order or not?

    Is there a 3111 evaluation?

    Is Dr. Saturley coming to Ca. to interview relevant parties?

    Did Connie meet with the District Attorney who handles Child abuse cases as was mentioned at BNN as to be occurring today June 2 ?

    Is Connie still limited to 2 – 1 hour visits a week?

  432. JustGetanInvestigation

    Here is something interesting I found, and if you read all of the witness letters on the CPC site (especially Connie’s Nana’s) you will see all 9 of these behaviors witnessed of Aaliyah. Why can anyone not see this and think there shouldn’t be a new, thorough investigation? Come on people, let’s do the right thing for this child!

    Do you notice some of the following behaviors in children you know?

    ….Fear of certain people or places (e.g.
    , a child may not
    want to be left alone with a baby-sitter, a friend, a relative, or some
    other child or adult; or a child who is usually talkative and cheery
    may become quiet and distant when around a certain person).
    ….Nightmares, trouble sleeping, or other extreme fears without an obvious explanation.
    ….Play, writing, drawings or dreams may include sexual or frightening images.
    ….Spacing out at odd times, seems distracted or distant, “checked out.
    ”….Loss of appetite, or trouble eating or swallowing or sudden changes in eating habits.
    ….Sudden mood swings: rage, fear, anger, insecurity or withdrawal.
    ….Leaves “clues” that seem likely to provoke a discussion about sexual issues.
    ….Stomach illness all of the time with no identifiable reason.
    ….An older child behaving like a younger child, such as bed-wetting or thumb sucking.
    ….Adult-like
    sexual activities with toys or other children, such as simulating sex
    with dolls or asking other children/siblings to behave sexually.
    ….New words for private body parts.
    ….Shows resistance to bathing, toileting, or removing clothes even at appropriate situations.
    ….Refusing to talk about a “secret” he/she has with an adult or older child.
    ….Talking about a new older friend.
    ….Suddenly having money, toys or other gifts for no apparent reason.
    ….Cutting,
    burning or otherwise intentionally harming herself or himself, i.e.

    drug use, alcohol abuse, sexual promiscuity, running away from home.
    ….Has negative self image, i.e. thinks of self or body as repulsive, dirty or bad.
    ….
    Physical Warning Signs of Possible Child Sexual Abuse
    Does a child close to you have:

    ….Unexplained bruises, redness, or bleeding of the child’s genitals, anus, or mouth?….Pain at the genitals, anus, or mouth?….Genital sores or milky fluids in the genital area?….
    If you said “yes” to any of these example please report it or consult a professional

  433. WhereIStheEVIDENCE

    To just get an investigation.
    You said:
    If you said “yes” to any of these example please report it or consult a professional

    Exactly! However if you look at the timeline posted at CPC, Connie never did ask a professional despite the numerous doctor visits in her notes. Why is that? Why did the child never complain about her sore bottom in the care of her dad or her dads family, at any of the numerous doctors she saw including the therapist Mitzi Nay, any of the exchanges in front of anyone other than Connie and her sister Cara? If you go read the timeline, no where is it documented A’ complained about her sore bottom to anyone other than Connie and her sister. That is very suspicious to me if in fact her bottom was sore.

  434. JustGetanInvestigation

    Well, WhereIs, I’d say she never said anything to her dad or her dad’s parents because she was afraid of them. Plus from the allegations, they are the ones that have done it to her. Why would she have to tell them?

    Also, we don’t know what Mitzi Nay has said or not said. There is a letter on an article about the baby at BNN that states she feels some sort of abuse had occured. But that is just one letter while Mitzi worked with her. Didn’t Mitzi work with the baby for at least 10 months? I’m sure there is a lot of documentation that will be put out as soon as the Bedwell family is sure that the restraining order is not in effect.

    HUH?? Amara and Dustin asked for the 730 examination, but as I said before, the Judge did not order on anything or even hear anythiing in regards to it because he was busy listening to Connie’s lawyer prove Connie wasn’t the one putting/posting anythng on the internet. We’ll have to wait and see on the 30th as to what happens with the 730 exam.

  435. Huh?

    Justgetaninvestigation
    June 2nd, 2009 at 9:32 am

    HUH??, this moderation thing stinks. I am sorry that you thought I said you were lying, I was talking to other people on another site that state everyone is able to voice their opinion but won’t allow me to post there. I’m not sure but you seem to be one of those people on that other site, a lot of what you say here is over there. Here it seems you pretend you are neutral, over there you are against Connie. I could be wrong, if I am, just let me know

    I am not in support of anyone but this child. I am not enabling the father, nor am I supporting the mother. I am trying to put the pieces of a puzzle together, without the full picture to match it to, or all the pieces. I refuse to call him a pedophile, or her a liar. There are not enough objective facts to do either.

    Why has the full 27 minute video been removed? It surely can’t be because it shows this child’s face, as there are numerous still photo’s on the main saveaaliyah site.

    I am waiting for the additional information many are discussing. Such as medical opinions, and independent statements or reports, whatever there may be.

    It is fine if you choose to believe what you have been told from the bedwells. Based on my own interactions with them, I choose to look elsewhere for objective proof.

    Although I do believe that Connie fully believes there is and has been abuse of her child. I am not convinced all that she sees leads to only one conclusion.

    I want this investigated too, this child should be the only priority no matter which side you fall on.

  436. Huh?

    I had actually hoped there would be an independent 730 exam. It would make me personally feel much better if someone went through all the sealed documents and MDIC videos, and CPS, STEP and all the various reports, and then spoke to the witnesses in the immediate families. ALL THE SEALED records, medical, legal, and any other are reviewed in such an investigation. It can be quite intensive.

    The only problem is the cost. It is usually split between parents- and I am not sure if either side could afford the rather hefty price tag. Payment arrangements must be made before that type of exam is even started. It can take weeks, if not months and can cost up to $15,000 base on what I have found researching it.

    I am hoping some less financially restrictive method of accomplishing this will be found. We will have to wait and see.

  437. JustGetanInvestigation

    The only problem is the cost. It is usually split between parents- and I am not sure if either side could afford the rather hefty price tag. Payment arrangements must be made before that type of exam is even started. It can take weeks, if not months and can cost up to $15,000 base on what I have found researching it.

    I find that odd that it costs that much and Amara is trying to go after Connie for exactly that amount. I heard that Dr. Saturley is trying to get Dustin to agree to the evaluations, but he will not respond to him. I’m assuming it’s because the doctor isn’t from California and he doesn’t have any juristiction there. And if Dr. Joe will do this pro bono, why wouldn’t Dustin just agree to it? Then the $15,000 wouldn’t matter.

  438. Pattycake

    JUSTGETANINVESTIGATION;

    Really starting to look like the Bedwells are using you and feeding you only what they want you to know!

    If you were talking to them… like you say, they should have told you how the 730 EVALUATION IS done, completed and already ALL recommendations ACCEPTED by the courts!!!

    Recommended???? That DUSTIN retains 100% custody. That evaluation is serious stuff, almost impossible to overturn!

    They would have told you the MINOR issue of the gag order was resolved on June 1st and the orders are in full force.

    They would have told you Connie never bothered to attend even 1 STEP class at all.

    They would have told you the REAL REASON Connie lost ALL custody. Not some but all… it takes SOME VERY SERIOUS STUFF for a parent to lose all rights to their child. So why hasn’t she told you yet?

    Tim, I’d shut up if I were you. Dragging BabyA to Jordan and having the District Attorney’s office drag you back and throwing you in jail for kidnapping a baby – I think you have deeply harmed Connie’s case of EVER EVER getting her child back. It’ll never happen, you’ve helped her lose it all. Wonder what that feels like?

  439. sadstuff

    If you take away the emotional response to watching all the videos, and stick to the facts, there’s not much solid info on this case. There’s conflicting info at best. Incomplete and misleading info at worst. These people have been fighting over this child long enough. I hope the court makes a final choice on evidence only. I hope this little girl ends up in the right place- maybe that should be away from both parents. She’ll at least need a new name since all this publicity. What was her mother thinking putting her name on the internet? Did she really make enough money that way to justify what she’s done to her baby? Was the money worth it?
    WOW, just WOW!! poor child

  440. JustGetanInvestigation

    Baby A wasn’t born when Tim and his children went to Jordan on vacation.

    I am not going to argue with you Patty, I tried speaking civilly with you on your other site, but you made it quite clear you are not capable of that. So please do not address me any longer. You are not getting the right information. You are being manipulated by the abuser himself. All abusers have the capablilities to do that. You have fallen under his “spell”. When all comes to light I will not accept your apology. I tried, you failed.

  441. WhereIStheEVIDENCE

    I thought it was determined Tim Bedwell kidnapped a child (what child we do not know) and too the child to Jordan. He sure does have a long criminal history.

    Justget… Give it up. Connie has already broken the gag/restraining order- whatever you want to call it. I see them as two seperate things. One a gag order to not talk about the case, and two a restraining order to keep her away from DT. Connie has already put a video online, talked with a CPC after the gag order. Why not put it all out there and throw herself to the mercy of the courts IF this were fact? It makes NO sense whatsover to put some but not ALL of the information out there IF it existed.

    Hon, this story has already been debunked. It is only a matter of time before criminal charges and additional info is out there to prove this mother LIED about ALL of this. AND created a coached video. Why reminds me, why was the 27 min video removed? Because it made more logical sense that this was a load of bull doo doo. Instead an edited 9 min video exists with more lies as to why the entire 27 min couldn’t be posted.

  442. Pattycake

    Guess I have 1 MINOR correction to make. I assumed the conviction of child abduction was for babyA. It was not and I willingly admit my mistake. NOT something BNN would ever do. Nevertheless TIM BEDWELL is THE convicted criminal NOT Dustin. Because of the penal code number attached to the file, I was mistaken. Still, the guy kidnapped kids!

    Everything else about the completed 730 Evaluation and the recommendations SUPPORTED by the court, the NEW judge is all true, all correct. Connie never attended a STEP program, NOT ONE day at all.

    The court orders against Connie are all FULLY ENFORCED AND SIGNED BY THE NEW JUDGE. Doesn’t sound like he’s liking anything about this woman.

    With the 730 Evaluation completed, Connie has basically – with that – LOST ALL CHANCE of ever obtaining custody ever again. She will never get her kid back.

    So you can all stop begging for a NEW investigation. AS you were begging, ONE was being worked on and completed by a very HIGHLY respected Forensic Child Psychologist. Not some (lol, good ole boys).

    Because the NEW JUDGE (also NOT good ole boys club) enforced the orders and QUICKLY signed what was missing… he will be visiting those orders on June 30th. He will be deciding Connies’ FATE and what to do about her endless violations and disgusting lies she’s spewed about an innocent man. A INNOCENT man who’s repeatedly been found INNOCENT of any sexual abuse accusation.

    BabyA is very safe in the home she’s in. Connie can never claim ever again that OUTSIDERS did not help her. THEY HAVE and THEY’VE RULED AGAINST HER. Looks like Placer County got it right all along. Even outsiders not from this place agree that the FATHER WAS SET UP & FRAMED.

    We’re talking now 12+ investigations that’s included more than 100 people ALL AGREE – CONNIE COACHED babyA. Connie made it all up.

  443. WhereIStheEVIDENCE

    Considering there are fines and jail time for mandatory reporters who do not report child abuse we can believe if Mitzi Nay did suspect child abuse she would have provided Connie with more than the a letter indicating **maybe** abuse occured. If she had been working with the child for 10 months- she worked with the child long enough to make that distinction. However she did not. The very general letter dated June of 2008 just prior to court simply indicated **IF** the child disclosed she would report it. In the 10 or so months she worked with A, A did not disclose enough for Mitzi Nay to confirm abuse.

  444. WhereIStheEVIDENCE

    Tim Bedwell – Connie’s Father
    May 29th, 2009 at 9:45 pm
    Thank you Huh, but I wanted to know if TimeWillTell could explain it since it seemed so sure of the procedure and bluntly claims Connie’s lying.

    On Feb 6, 2008 Connie went to APD. Officer Ackard and Sgt. Reams, they interviewed her for 8 hours, this included copying of evidence. However, they didn’t want to have the Aaliyah examined due to being unable to verify that abuse occurred within the last 72 hours.

    Fact; APD Sgt Pecoraro was well aware of Connie’s claim that Aaliyah was being sexual abused.. Connie contacted Aaliyah’s pediatrician who referred her to take Aaliyah to UC Davis Medical Center where they do complete through exams for the purpose of prosecution. This exam needed LE authorization. APD Sgt. Victor Pecoraro several times refused to authorize Aaliyah examination while Aaliyah was at UC Davis Medical. The last time was on June 15, 2008.
    ********************************************************

    This too makes no sense. There are protocals for both acute (within the last 72 hours) and non acute (more than 72 hours) exams for possible sexual abuse against a child. throughout Connies timeline she repeatedly notates a sore bottom. A young child under 3 would have signs of vaginal or anal abuse that would not require dna evidence of semen being located in those areas. Tearing would occur. Then later the story seems to change to oral violation. (quite possibly because genital abuse never occured) and again the 72 hour issue. Way back while Connie was expecting she accused DT of giving her an STD. Surely if the child was repeatedly being abused orally evidence of an STD would likely have shown up. the twists, spins changes throughout this poorly written story by the Bedwell family seem to change to support reasons why evidence could not be found.

    I would still love to see a statute where a doctor needs law enforcement permission to conduct a visual or forensic exam on a child for sexual abuse. I doubt one exists or it would have been posted to support this phony story.

  445. WhereIStheEVIDENCE

    Just get it…. Oh please. Who is calling the kettle black with name calling. Maybe you should scroll back and see your own name calling of other posters at this site. Still doing it I see.

  446. WhereIStheEVIDENCE

    Then later the story seems to change to oral violation. (quite possibly because genital abuse never occured) and again the 72 hour issue——
    Would be better phrased as follows. Once the Bedwells realized no investigation wouldn’t hold water based on the 72 hour requirement for acute abuse and DNA evidence the story then switched to oral abuse which they hoped would fly thinking it would be logical that readers would buy into that needing 72 hours for DNA evidence theory, however, if the alleged abuse had continued for as long as it has been claimed at least 5 months according to the timeline posted at child protection community it is very very likely a test would be positive showing the child had signs of an oral STD. There would be no need for a 72 hour ‘rule’ for evidene with that scenario. That could have been done at any time.

    Keep trying to spin the story- I’m sure we’ll debunk it with logic time and time again. Can’t prove lies.

  447. WhereIStheEVIDENCE

    Just get an…..
    IF the Jordan trip was a family vacation there would not have been criminal charges for child abduction. IF he was cleared of these charges and not found guilty public record sites would not show codes – the sites would indicate no conviction only.

    Maybe you need to just get educated.

  448. WhereIStheEVIDENCE

    Justgetaninvestigation
    May 29th, 2009 at 1:35 pm
    “There was an MDIC evaluation on June 23rd 2008

    That evaluation was done while the baby was in Dustin’s care, Connie also stated that the baby wouldn’t disclose to all of those CPS and examiners,
    ***********************************************************

    More false info. According to the timeline at Child Protection center A was in Connies care from the 15th of June through the 23rd when the MDIC evaluation was conducted.

    As to your second statement:
    JustGetanInvestigation
    June 3rd, 2009 at 12:10 pm
    Well, WhereIs, I’d say she never said anything to her dad or her dad’s parents because she was afraid of them. Plus from the allegations, they are the ones that have done it to her. Why would she have to tell them?

    Also, we don’t know what Mitzi Nay has said or not said. There is a letter on an article about the baby at BNN that states she feels some sort of abuse had occured. But that is just one letter while Mitzi worked with her. Didn’t Mitzi work with the baby for at least 10 months?

    What are you saying Justgetan? That Mitzi Nay was still a stranger to this child after 10 months?

  449. LL Papa

    Who, in their right mind, would ever take their children to a middle east center of terrorism for VACATION?

  450. JustGetanInvestigation

    You people amaze me. WhereIs, read my posts. I was asking exactly what you just asked me about Mitzi Nay.

    Thank you Patty for retracting your false allegations of Tim abducting baby A to Jordan. He was accused of kidnapping HIS children to Jordan in 2000. Connie was 16 at the time and I believe Christen was 18, I haven’t a clue as to how he could even be charged with that. Just because their mother claims they were kidnapped doesn’t mean that he did. I mean, you are sitting her saying that when baby A is stating that her “father” is abusing her, you don’t believe her, but you’ll believe Connie’s mother? I don’t understand your logic.

    I will admit to name calling in the beginning, but I was frustrated. But I went to another site in order to speak to Patty, but it did not work out the way I would have liked it to. Oh well, so I will stay here and speak.

  451. JustGetanInvestigation

    Here is an article with an update regarding Dr. Joe Saturley:

    http://www.bloggernews.net/121141

  452. JustGetanInvestigation

    LL Papa,

    They are Jewish. So are you saying that a father cannot take his children to a land where they can learn about their religion?

  453. JustGetanInvestigation

    BTW, LL Papa, I saw your post regarding Anne Ambrose being related to Micheal Ambrose. This is untrue. The way you connect the dots is funny. There is a Lauren Ambrose (an acress) and a Jimmy Ambrose (a writer, I believe his name is Jimmy), does that mean she is related to them as well? Ambrose is her married name.

  454. Pattycake

    JustGet,
    You were acting civilly to me? HUH? calling me vile names is civil? I owe you NO APOLOGY. None and you’ll never get one from me. So DO NOT FLATTER YOURSELF.

    The truth is the truth and I will keep speaking it because this child is safe where she is!

    TIME IS WHATS GOING TO PROVE HOW RIGHT I AM ABOUT EVERTHING THAT’S GONE ON WITH THE CHILD AND THE EVALUATIONS. TIME WILL BE THE ANSWER HERE.

    IT IS YOU THAT WILL HAVE EGG ON YOUR FACE. THIS CHILD IS NOT BEING ABUSED, NEVER WAS OTHER THAN BY HER OWN MOTHER.

  455. marmite

    LL Papa
    June 5th, 2009 at 8:08 am
    Who, in their right mind, would ever take their children to a middle east center of terrorism for VACATION?

    #############################################

    lonelyplanet.com/jordan

    For many people Jordan begins and ends with the magical ancient Nabataean city of Petra. And it’s true, Petra is without doubt one of the Middle East’s most spectacular, unmissable sights, battling it out with Machu Picchu or Angkor Wat for the title of the world’s most dramatic ‘lost city’.

    Yet there’s so much more to see in Jordan – ruined Roman cities, Crusader castles, desert citadels and powerful biblical sites: the brook where Jesus was baptised, the fortress where Herod beheaded John the Baptist, and the mountain top where Moses cast eyes on the Promised Land. Biblical scenes are not just consigned to the past in Jordan; you’ll see plenty of men wearing full-flowing robes and leading herds of livestock across the timeless desert. But it’s not all crusty ruins. Jordan’s capital Amman is a modern, culturally diverse Arab city which is lightyears away from the typical cliches of Middle Eastern exoticism. The country also offers some of the wildest adventures in the region, as well as an incredibly varied backdrop ranging from the red desert sands of Wadi Rum to the brilliant blues of the coral-filled Gulf of Aqaba; from rich palm-filled wadis to the lifeless Dead Sea. Ultimately it’s the sensual delights of daily life in the Middle East that you’ll hanker for longest after you return home; the bittersweet taste of cardamom coffee or the smell of a richly scented nargileh (water pipe); the intoxicating swirl of Arabic pop sliding out of an Amman doorway and the deafening silence of the desert.

    Jordanians are a passionate and proud people and the country truly welcomes visitors with open arms. Despite being squeezed between the hotspots of Iraq, Saudi Arabia and Israel & the Palestinian Territories, Jordan is probably the safest and most stable country in the region. Regardless of your nationality, you’ll be greeted with nothing but courtesy and hospitality in this gem of a country

  456. JustGetanInvestigation

    Whatever Patty, and what are you talking about? I never called you any names on the other site. You are delusional. I will not respond to your idiotic posts any longer. I am telling the truth, you are spouting lies from this so called “father’s” mouth. I can’t wait for you to never show your face on the internet again when all is said and done. Sleep peacefully knowing you are conversing with an abuser.

  457. LL Papa

    Re: Justgetaninvestigation, post #452……

    From: en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Religion_in_Jordan

    The Hashemite Kingdom of Jordan is a majority Muslim country, with 92% of the population following Sunni Islam while a small minority of around 2% follow Shia Islam (as well as some Druze). Jordan also has a significant Christian minority, making up around 6% of the population, mainly Greek Orthodox, Catholic or Coptic)

    The family is Jewish per your post and they went to a 94% Muslim country for VACATION? What is your hypothesis of anticipated “learning”?

  458. JustGetanInvestigation

    Do you see where Jordan is LL Papa? It’s a hop skip and a jump to Isreal. Get a life, please. How you connect the dots is rediculous. Let your friend Oceans speak for you. She’s better at the investigation.

  459. WhereIStheEVIDENCE

    Justget… All Patty got wrong was the name of the child Tim Bedwell was charged with and CONVICTED of abducting. A charge for which he did time in prison. No one heard this from the mother. It is on public websites which give criminal background checks.
    Please keep your facts straight.

  460. JustGetanInvestigation

    Also, if you are using wikpedia, that says a lot about your investigating skills.

  461. Pattycake

    If this was a vacation… TIM BEDWELL WOULD NOT HAVE BEEN IN PRISON FOR THIS ‘TRIP’ WOULD HE?

    UHHH 228 days served and 114 conduct = THIS WAS NO VACATION

    I’m thinking pattycake200, the name calling pretty uncivil if you ask me, made them look highly foolish and beyond capable of any credibility.

    What a waste of time here… WE’VE PILED ON THE EVIDENCE WITH EXPERTS, DOCTORS, DA’S OFFICE, POLICE, CHILD PSYCHOLOGISTS = ALL AGREEING THIS CHILD IS SAFE.

    THERE IS YOUR PROOF – and with the NEW EVALUATION COMPLETED (unlike Justget, june 2 – NOT KNOWING THAT IT WAS DONE…)

    The NEW JUDGE AGREES WITH THE EVALUATION, ACCEPTED IT AND THE COURTS ADOPTED IT. JustGet, go look up courts, procedure, acceptance and furthermore HOW LONG AND EXTENSIVE THE 730 EVALUATION IS TO GET DONE. A HIGHLY REGARDED FORENSIC CHILD PSYCHOLOGIST SPECIALIST OUTSIDE THE COUNTY AGREES THE CHILD IS SAFE, AND RECOMMENDED DUSTING RETAIN 100% CUSTODY AND CONNIE have NO custody of her daughter.

    THE TRUTH IS THE TRUTH IS THE TRUTH!!! June 30 IS NOT FOR CONNIE, it’s about Connie. The judge will be ruling on a great deal of infractions and orders she HAS NOT complied with.

    THIS EVALUATION ESSENTIALLY GIVES THE FATHER PERMANENT CUSTODY. PERMANENT CUSTODY IS PERMANENT. THERE IS NO ABUSE AND WITH OFFICIALS AND EXPERTS OUTSIDE THIS COUNTY RULING IN FAVOR OF THE FATHER – THAT IS PROFOUND.

    ENOUGH SAID, Justget, you’re a joke with what you think you know. Goodbye.

  462. LL Papa

    Re: Justgetaninvestigation, post #453…..

    At no point in my post, which you referenced, did I ever say anything about anyone being related? To refresh your memory, my post from djxtreme.wordpress.com, is as follows:

    papa813 says:
    June 4, 2009 at 12:45p.m.

    AnneA from the other site made several posts that began with ANNE AMBROSE HERE. I noticed on the CPC timeline of the mother that she and MICHAEL AMBROSE returned Aaliyah to Dustin…hmmmmmm???

    I typically need no help in expressing myself through word choice. I found the name of Ambrose contained in the CPC timeline to be reason for thought, hence hmmmmmm???.

    I will assure you that had I noticed the “Lauren Ambrose” or “Jimmy Ambrose” names, which you referred to, as being a part of the CPC timeline, the closing to my post would probably have been hmmmmmm, hmmmmmm?????? for a “double”

  463. WhereIStheEVIDENCE

    Permant custody is permanent custody. Basically what this means is the courts will NOT accept any further case regarding custody unless it can be PROVEN there has been a significant change of circumstances AFTER June 30th. Everything prior to June 30th will be done, over, kaput.

  464. StopConArtists

    “the brook where Jesus was baptised,” – marmite
    June 5th, 2009 at 10:58 am

    Why would a Jew want to see that? Jesus is not their Messiah.

  465. JustGetanInvestigation

    Patty, we’ll see. You are going to be choking on your words. I can’t wait for it.

  466. StopConArtists

    Why would you want her choking on her own words? Wouldn’t you be happy if what she has found is the truth?? A not being abused sexually at all?

  467. LL Papa

    Re: marmite post #455…….

    Without getting into the merits of your referenced article, I respectfully submit to you that it’s dated as Feb 17, 2009.

    The Jordan vacation trip of the Bedwell father and children, to which I referred in my post #449 was nine years earlier in 2000. The following article from, en.wikipedia.org/wiki/2000_millennium_attack_plots, is considerably more relevant as to the political climate and terrorist activity of the year 2000.

    The Year 2000 attack plots were terrorist attacks planned to occur on or near January 1, 2000: the bombing of four sites in Jordan……In Jordan, members of the group planned to bomb four sites: a fully-booked Radisson hotel in Amman, Jordan; the border between Jordan and Israel; Mount Nebo, a Christian holy site; and a site on the Jordan River where John the Baptist is said to have baptized Jesus. These locations were chosen to target tourists from the United States and Israel. The most active participant was a Boston taxi driver named Raed Hijazi.

    On November 30, 1999, Jordanian intelligence intercepted a call between Abu Zubaydah, the leader of the plot, and Khadr Abu Hoshar, a Palestinian militant. In the conversation, Zubaydah stated, “The time for training is over.” Sensing that the attack was imminent, Jordanian police arrested Hoshar and fifteen others on December 12, 1999.

    The authorities put twenty eight suspects on trial. Twenty two of them were quickly found guilty. Six of them, including Hijazi, were sentenced to death. Zubaydah was sentenced to death in absentia. Loa’i Mohammad Haj Bakr al-Saqa and Abu Musab al-Zarqawi, were sentenced in absentia in 2002, for their part in the plot which included using poison gas during the bombing.

    Particulary in light of a sentence contained in the first paragraph of this article, “These locations were chosen to target tourists from the United States and Israel”, my post #449 requires no further validation.

    I repeat, “Who, in their right mind, would ever take their children to a middle east center of terrorism for VACATION?”, especially in the year 2000?

  468. Beast

    JustGet…It didn’t work out for you cause you’re a flake.

  469. Pattycake

    Poor JustGet, you are confusing ME with the one that’s made the decision for this child. There’s nothing further to do, the 730 Evaluation is DONE… DONE deal – awarded the father 100% permanent custody. okay?

    There’s NO good ole boys club. We’re dealing with OUT of the County Judge & OUT of the county EXPERTS… A VERY RENOWED highly respected Forensic Child Psychology Expert none the less!!

    THIS OUTSIDE GROUP of EXPERTS AND JUDGE have concluded the child is safe. There is NO MORE ARGUMENT HERE whether she’s being abused… she IS NOT being abused by the father. The mother on the other hand, well THERE’S GOOD REASON SHE can ONLY have supervised visits.

    I repeat:
    PERMANENT CUSTODY IS PERMANENT. THERE IS NO ABUSE AND WITH OFFICIALS AND EXPERTS OUTSIDE THIS COUNTY RULING IN FAVOR OF THE FATHER – THAT IS PROFOUND.

    There’s nothing for me to choke on my dear. There’s COUNTLESS experts and NOW SPECIALISTS & JUDGES from the OUTSIDE that’s determined babyA is safe, loved and WILL REMAIN with the father PERMANENTLY.

    Not sure what you do not understand about any of this? There’s nothing further that will be done, other than the Judge dealing with Connie and her behavior on June 30. Otherwise this is all OVER AND DONE. ITS SEALED, FINAL, FINISHED.

    How could I ever choke? I have the TRUTH on my side. You’ll be waiting an eternity my dear. I only pity you, have no anger… because you’re being used, it’s called a Pasty. That’s very sad actually. Now I’m off and running to enjoy my day.

    Its a great thing to know this child is safe & loved & happy.!!! YAY BABYA, that’s what its all about.

  470. JustGetanInvestigation

    Who is Yahshua then?

  471. JustGetanInvestigation

    Aww Beast, and you aren’t? You are the biggest of them all. It didn’t work out for me because I refused to be attacked and being called names by you, the biggest hypocrite on the net that I have ever “met”. You don’t write about facts, you are writing about what Patty is telling you that Dustin is spewing to her. Which are all lies.

    StopCon, I would love it if baby A wasn’t being abused, but she is, so I cant wait for Patty to choke on all of her lies. All of you are going to be SILENCED and soon. It’s going to be a beautiful day when that happens.

  472. Beast

    JustGet…really..Spend the $30 and get the records for yourself. I suppose though according to you then it will all be lies and corrupt officials. We are talking abhout facts in black and white from police and courts. You are talking about ….what?

  473. Pattycake

    STOPCONARTISTS…

    Maybe she’s been praying BabyA is being abused just so she can be right? Pretty sad she cannot understand how many experts have REALLY looked at this all, including doctors to find BabyA is not a victim of sexual abuse. Connie is a fraud, a scam artist… and a flake.

  474. JustGetanInvestigation

    Again, Patty, we will see.

  475. Pattycake

    JustGet, if you only knew the length this Forensic Expert has gone to be certain this child is safe. This renowned child psychologist…

    You think some person from outside the COUNTY would put their entire career on the line to protect a molester?

    This order makes it permanent. This FORENSIC expert HAS SEEN EVERY SHRED OF EVIDENCE & documentation from ALL SIDES.

    ALL OF IT, and still feels the best, safest most loving environment is in the fathers’ home.

    Again hon, you’ll be waiting a long time. I DO KNOW THAT FOR SURE. This child will always remain in the father’s care. The father will always have custody, the father will always be the one making the decisions for babyA.

    The mother can keep paying for her supervised visits and can keep singing the same ole song. It’s OVER. Whatever orders Connie TRIES to bring to the courts and the new judge now will not be accepted.

    I mean you don’t even know what you’re talking about, you didn’t even know this extensive Evaluation was completed. So shut up already, you’re looking pathetic.

  476. Pattycake

    have a question JustGet…
    where have I lied? My opinions are backed up by police, DA, doctors, experts, and NOW a Forensic Child Psychologist.

    SO WHERE is it that I’ve lied about the safety of babyA? How can all these EXPERTS & SPECIALISTS BE WRONG and YOU are right?

    You realize how ridiculous you look when you make those statements, don’t you??

    I’ve pointed out many times where you were DEAD WRONG. But you just keep babbling.

  477. LL Papa

    460.JustGetanInvestigation
    June 5th, 2009 at 11:27 am
    Also, if you are using wikpedia, that says a lot about your investigating skills.
    ……………………………………………………

    Just Get, If my choice of reference site for response to your posts, Wikipedia, offends your thought process, that was certainly not my intent. Quite frankly I believed it might be one of your favorites due to an endorsement by your ofttimes referenced site’s senior editor on May 5th, 2009.

    “Take a look at this article. Now I will say that Associated Content in my mind is about as reliable as Wikipedia”

  478. StopConArtists

    I won’t hold my breath for Connies version of the truth to be verified as the actual truth.. :)

  479. justjen

    JustGet. What PROOF do you have that babyA is being abused? You have none other than what you have been TOLD. You haven’t SEEN ANY documentation to PROVE she is being abused. Pattycake has done her own investigating and has actual DOCUMENTATION that backs up her story. What do you have to back up your story? I will say this right now, I AM A FRIEND OF THE FATHER & I’M PROUD OF THE WAY HE HAS HANDLED HIMSELF THROUGHTOUT THIS WHOLE SAGA. He is a great father. I see him interact with his daughter and I see how well she is doing in her fathers home. There is NO abuse and JustGet you haven’t seen this little girl. You have absolutely NO CLUE about what is going on in this childs world. You are the one that will be silenced and we can’t wait!

  480. StopConArtists

    Jews do not accept Jesus as the messiah because:

    1) Jesus did not fulfill the messianic prophecies.

    2) Jesus did not embody the personal qualifications of the Messiah.

    3) Biblical verses “referring” to Jesus are mistranslations.

    4) Jewish belief is based on national revelation.

  481. sadstuff

    personally i would love it if this has all been a mistake. It would make me happy to know there has been no abuse, and this baby is/has been where she should be.

  482. sadstuff

    Who is Yahshua ?? I haven’t heard that name in this case????

  483. sadstuff

    So this stuff is coming from the father?? I thought all this information came from the mother?

    Are there court records?

  484. Beast

    This is C~A and I haven’t been here for a week, internet problems the very day I was typing JUSTGET a really pretty letter…I saved it…..but didn’t get to send it. Hmmm! A week later she is still here arguing a moot point, being catty and degrating STILL!!!!

    Your such an angry person JUSTGET. I can’t imagine doing what your doing….everyday all day …spewing hatred and non-factual b.s and the sad thing is …YOU BELIEVE WHAT YOU SAY! How can you form an opinion with NO facts? Unless it is you who has no life, and is willing to converse with people in any way it takes to make you feel mighty and righteous!

    Gawd, come back when you have something intelligent and mature to say and some facts to back up your big MOUTH!
    I’m outta here…someone let me know when IT gives up and goes away!

  485. Beast

    JustGetanInvestigation
    June 5th, 2009 at 8:44 am

    You people amaze me. He was accused of kidnapping HIS children to Jordan in 2000. Connie was 16 at the time and I believe Christen was 18, I haven’t a clue as to how he could even be charged with that.

    Just because their mother claims they were kidnapped doesn’t mean that he did.

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    IT’S TIME FOR YOU TO EAT YOUR WORDS!
    YOUR LAST SENTENCE ~ THINK ABOUT IT AND THINK ABOUT CONNIE!

    CHOKE ON IT!

  486. Beast

    ABOVE POST ALSO SUBMITTED BY C~A YOUR FAVORITE FAN!

  487. Huh?

    Just get, you said:
    “He was accused of kidnapping HIS children to Jordan in 2000. Connie was 16 at the time and I believe Christen was 18, I haven’t a clue as to how he could even be charged with that. Just because their mother claims they were kidnapped doesn’t mean that he did. I mean, you are sitting her saying that when baby A is stating that her “father” is abusing her, you don’t believe her, but you’ll believe Connie’s mother? I don’t understand your logic.”

    It seems based on what I have read, that he was not just accused of this, he actually spent time in jail for it. Taking any child across state lines, or out of the country without the full consent of the other custodial parent is indeed kidnapping. There must have been more than just an accusation from an angry mother in order to cause this to result in jail in my opinion.

    I see no reason to research this information about Mr. Bedwell. The only relevance to the subject of this child would be in understanding why Connie would not run with her child- if she has seen the net result of taking a child without permission result in jail time she would have been less likely to go that route back when the father began his custody/visitation case while she was in Alaska.

    All of this is my opinion only, I do not know the actual circumstances that resulted in the charges, convictions and jail time Mr. Bedwell appears to have served.

  488. Global

    JustGet, It seems you have more of an overwhelming need for vengeance toward Patty then you do in seeking truth and justice for baby A.

    Your obsession with having those that believe differently then you “choke on their words” only serves to discredits you.

    Calm down, and get a grip if you expect anyone to take you seriously! Right now you are just ranting and raving and frankly unbelievable.

  489. C~A

    STOPCONARTISTS – Exactly ~ seems that ol’ justget would rather be right and the baby is being sexually abused then for it not to be true…HOW SICK IS THAT!

  490. C~A

    justget – StopCon, I would love it if baby A wasn’t being abused, but she is, so I cant wait for Patty to choke on all of her lies. All of you are going to be SILENCED and soon. It’s going to be a beautiful day when that happens.

    ( oh really, WHAT A BEAUTIFUL DAY THAT WILL BE EH! When a child is proven to being molested! What’s wrong with your head! ) STOP MAKING THIS ABOUT YOU!!!!!!

  491. JustGetanInvestigation

    Hi No Reply, I just saw your post regarding not getting any responses to your emails. I received the same form letter from the Govenors office. Thank you for answering. This moderation here kind of mucks things up.

  492. C~A

    marmite
    May 30th, 2009 at 12:12 pm

    Didn’t think you could produce…if you could you would…don’t waste my time…I haven’t been on here much and I know I have never said anything your accusing me or beast of …it’s you my dear that needs to stop wasting my time…move along…get over me! I know your hiding behind a new name…that’s ok…i don’t really care to know who you are! I don’t hide, your lack of producing anything to back up your accusations is very telling on who you are…unless there are two of you at bnn that run your mouth without anything to back it up! LOL

  493. marmite

    C~A You obviously didnt read my May 30th post slowly enough to understand it so I’ll repeat it again just for you.

    In response to C~A please read this blog (and the others)from the beginning, I suggest you take your time reading your own posts for evidence of your weird and vindictive rants.

    It is clear you are have issues and this situation just happens to be your latest outlet to release that unresolved anger. I seriously suggest counselling.

    To the rest of your gang please channel your energies into something positive. All we are asking for is an independant investigation.

    C~A, Please don’t bother to respond to me, I’m not vaguely interested in anything you have to say. Your responses are neither intelligent or helpful to the situation.

    I repeat once more – This is about Aaliyah not about you!

  494. C~A

    then quit addressing me marmite! Your very repetative and again, I do not need to re-read my own posts! Your a lost cause…let it go! If you want to shoot your mouth off about me, produce your proof of your accusations…otherwise keep your mouth shut! I have never made it about me…your a joke! Go back to your hole and leave me alone..GOT IT!

  495. JustGetanInvestigation

    All of you have no proof that he is not abusing baby A. You can sit there and tell me all you know from the past investigations. It does not matter. It was a biased investigation and because Connie did not have a lawyer throughout, there are things that should have happened that did not. I am so tired of hearing your “proof”. It is in the past. We will see what happens now, today, in the present. You all have no idea what is going on and what is happening. I, however, do. And to the person who is a personal friend of the “father”, haven’t you ever heard someone say when they find out that their friend does something horrible “I can’t believe he did this, they were such a nice person. It doesn’t make sense”? This is what abusers do, they manipulate, they hide things. They are good at showing you what you want to see. I believe this is happening to the baby, and nothing, not ANYTHING any of you have to say to me will EVER change my mind. I will never stop fighting as long as baby A needs me.

    C~A and Beast, move on to something new. You have nothing intelligent to say regarding this case – move on. This is the very last time I will respond to anything you say.

  496. C~A

    and another thing, how do I make it about me anyway, I was done with the case from the beginning…NO PROOF! I hardly spend time on it …I spend my time on cases that are actually real and have proof that a child is either missing, dead or abused! This story is a waste of time..which is why you are so hell bent on spending all your time on it…cause that is all you are…A WASTE OF TIME!

  497. JustGetanInvestigation

    Sadstuff, someone was asking about Jesus and the Jewish religion:

    Yahshua is a transliteration of the original Hebrew or Aramaic name of Jesus commonly used by individuals in the Sacred Name religious movement out of Christianity. Those who follow Sacred Name teachings (such as the Assemblies of Yahweh) believe that it is essential to salvation to use the correct pronunciation of the name of the one most Christians call “Jesus”. It is believed by some that this is the correct transliteration of the Hebrew יהושע (yod-he-waw-shin-ayin – usually transliterated as Y’hoshua or sometimes Yahoshua), which means “Yahweh is Salvation.”

  498. Dustinfriend

    justgetinvestigation – when I read throughout here you have been wrong on almost everything. There was just a current investigation (not past) completed with a forensic psychologist that is very well respected in their field. This expert has no motive nor bias and came from out side of Placer County. It was very thorough therefore Connie cannot keep making claims about no new investigation. Due to the child psyc forensic findings Dustin was told by the courts and Judge Smith his kid is staying with him and Connie lost all her rights. The rest of the BS your hashing is old news and has since been addressed by Judge Smith. Maybe you should take up knitting because supporting a mom you have never met is making you look very uneducated to us who know whats happening.

  499. TryADifferentPointOfView

    “There is no proof that he is not abusing Baby A”…

    How are eleven investigations by CPS, the police & the courts not proof?

    What would be proof that someone was not abusing someone else? What would that proof consist of?

    At what point does the accuser stop accusing?

    And, are you, personally, capable of seeing the emotional, behavioral & developmental damage done – not to the accused, but to the child – by the accusing, if it is not true, whether mom believes it to be true or not? And, are you able to see how the damage done to the child multiplies with each new investigation once the accusations have been shown to be unfounded?

    Is there some point in the future appeal after appeal, accusation after escalated accusation, where even her best friend will be able to say, “Look honey, it’s time to give up. It’s time to move on. Your baby is healthy & normal. Maybe you misread some of the signals here. You have every right to your feelings, but you might be causing problems for baby if you don’t step back & see that you might be wrong about this. Time to start healing and building a good relationship with her and her father, as a co-parent, before it’s too late for you to be a positive influence in her life at all. She needs you. As a parent, not as a broken adult who was in the wrong adult relationship for her.”

  500. justjen

    JustGet… You say that you do know what is going on, really from who? Obviously a very reliable source right? There was a FULL THOUROUGH INVESTIGATION! It doesn’t matter that the mother didn’t have an attorney. There is a standard procedure that the investigators follow, it doesn’t matter if both parties have attorneys or not! They don’t base their investigations on who has an attorney and who doesn’t. Your excuses are lame. All you “mother supporters” say that this baby is afraid of her father, right? I KNOW FOR A FACT that this baby is NOT afraid of her father. Have you seen this little girl?? I think not!!

    You stated: Thank you Patty for retracting your false allegations of Tim abducting baby A to Jordan. He was accused of kidnapping HIS children to Jordan in 2000. Connie was 16 at the time and I believe Christen was 18, I haven’t a clue as to how he could even be charged with that. Just because their mother claims they were kidnapped doesn’t mean that he did. I mean, you are sitting her saying that when baby A is stating that her “father” is abusing her, you don’t believe her, but you’ll believe Connie’s mother? I don’t understand your logic.

    Are you serious? He was CONVICTED AND SERVED JAIL TIME!!! Here, also there was an investigation done for him to have been convicted in a court of law. Oh wait, was this also a “good ol boys” county? Did Connies mother have so much money that she also had all the professionals in her pocket?
    You are rediculous!

  501. Huh?

    Just get,
    “You all have no idea what is going on and what is happening. I, however, do”

    So what inside information do you have about what is going on? Any new information on the status would be appreciated.

    Has Connie resumed her visitation? How is that going?

    Why are all previous investigations biased? Has Connie’s attorney submitted the family statements to the courts yet? Does Connie know that these statements are not actual evidence without some sort of medical/psychological proof to back them up? Is the family saying there has been no 730 exam done?

    What does this baby’s own doctor say about the physical/sexual abuse? The rashes or the many reports of pain (in her private parts), surely she was seen for this multiple times? Her own doctor can’t be considered corrupt, as his office called to tell Connie that Dustin had picked up the baby’s medical records from his office.

    How long has the baby been in therapy? Does she still go? I had read that she has been seeing a therapist for a year. Is that true? What does this therapist say? Surely after that long, she would be able to confirm sexual abuse is ongoing and by law report it to the police?

    How did Connie’s meeting with the D.A.(who handles child abuse cases) on June 2 go? Did it happen or was it mis-communicated to KarenCCC? Is there still charges ‘pending’ against Dustin for abuse?

  502. JustGetanInvestigation

    I just saw this on the saveaaliyah.com website:

    LOCAL NEWSPAPER WHERE THE MOLESTING TAKES PLACE

    The mother was interviewed for an hour and a half with complete answers and full details to the case. The Auburn Journal told BloggerNews.Net that they had to stay in the good graces of the local police. Therefore details were left out and information supporting Aaliyah and her mother on the comment section were taken off by The Auburn Journal. Placer County spells corruption. To answer the question left out by AJ- the ONLY reason the child was taken from the mother was because the mother constantly told the court and proper authorities of what the child was saying about her father. It is documented in the court file on July 3, 2008.

  503. JustGetanInvestigation

    A witness letter from a Registered Nurse:

    To whom it may concern:

    I am writing this letter on the behalf of Aaliyah Bedwell and Connie Bedwell which I have personally gotten to know over the last 2 years. I have been a registered nurse at X Medical Center at which I am currently employed for the last 4 years. In my field of work and training I perceive myself as having an insight to people and their character. I am completely perplexed by some of the judgments made in this court case.

    Connie has always shown her incredible love for Aaliyah and her overwhelming concern for her well being has shown. I find it completely devastating as well as poor judgment to take this little girl from her loving and caring mother. This action I feel is detrimental to the child’s well being.

    Coming from a medical background and studying adult and child psychology the actions and words from Aaliyah clearly show the amount of stress she is experiencing such as regressing in potty training. After reviewing the video of Aaliyah describing what is happening while in the care of her father, it is very clear that this 2 year old child is describing male genitalia without question. Aaliyah without being coached was able to describe the act of falachio and the clean up after the fact. She actually states “he has to wipe it off with like a napkin.” After she describes how it chokes her making a coughing sound. A 2 year old cannot talk in so much detail for 27 minutes, uncoached, refusing to lie in a bed unless she has experienced this traumatic event. I feel it would be in the best interest of Aaliyah if the court actually took the time to review this video and hear the cry out for help from a defenseless 2 year old child.

    I feel this case has been mismanaged and lost the insight of what the focus is ….Aaliyah! Everyone involved supporting Connie wants what is in the best interest for this little girl. I am embarrassed for the fact we trust and use Child Protective Services and the court system to yes in deed protect those who can not protect themselves. In Connie’s case I feel there has been negligence in the system. If the “daddy’s worm,” video presented by the mother was actually reviewed by the court I would like to think that the father would be prosecuted not receiving full custody of the child.

    I have not been asked to write a letter or give my opinion, but in my profession I am an advocate for people whom I don’t know. Here in this case I wish to be an advocate for a little girl and her mother. I hope the court system will do the same and make this right for the best interest of Aaliyah. Thank you.

    I declare under the penalty of perjury under the laws of the state of California that the foregoing is true and correct.

  504. JustGetanInvestigation

    Have you seen the video of the visitation exchanges:

    youtube.com/watch?v=7VWzfM14Ha4

    This baby CLEARLY does not like her father. She won’t look at him NOR will she touch him. Watch her hands…..poor sweet baby.

  505. Huh?

    Just Get,

    So this means that the Bedwel’s think that the newspaper is also corrupt. She is accusing them of lying about her comments? Where they state she declined to answer??

    Some comments in support of the father were also removed by the AJ. Comments were screened for abuse and removed. Unfortunately many of the abusive comments I read and saw removed were from the Mother’s supporters (but not all). Libelous comments were also removed.

    As near as I can tell, the reason the child was taken away by the Step program is because she did not comply with the requirements of the program. She needed to attend classes and she needed to cooperate with the parenting plan. She refused to believe there was anything else besides abuse going on. She made reference to her opinions of the Step program meeting she had, and was frustrated they told her she was ‘hyper’ (I take that to mean hyper-aware- seeing abuse in everything) and could be wrong. Her reaction in that meeting is most likely key to the decision to remove her custody.

    Since we can’t read the court files online, we will have to wait until someone can provide copies. I do not believe family court records are available to the public, so this will not happen until the restraining order is lifted I am guessing.

    The other reason she was taken away is because no facts supporting the claims of abuse where found. There are no medical reports supporting physical abuse, and none finding physical signs of molestation (ie – anal or vaginal abuse) by medical professionals. Apparently there are also none from the psychological testing done either.

    Once again, I would think with all the claims of physical pain the child expressed(my butt hurts, my pee-pee hurts) there would have been many medical doctor visits that would be looking for the causes of the pain. No results of these visits are mentioned by Connie. Why is that?

  506. Huh?

    It is also possible that the Auburn Journal stuck to verifiable facts. And limited the article itself to comments from the mother and the authorities they could get responses and quotes from. It stated her opinions, but did not portray them as factual. That was the proper thing to do. I do not know what Connie expected them to do- believe all of what she said without checking the facts and commit libel? No where did I see them lie about what Connie said.

    How often do you see news articles with peoples opinions (especially of sexual abuse that has not been proven) being stated as facts? Witnesses to crimes are quoted, sources like LE are quoted, but no where do you see speculative opinion in a newspaper(except in the editorial and opinions pages).

    Connie could have talked for hours, and yet only provided a few details that could actually be printed in a paper. Unlike BNN and individuals, newspapers are supposed to be unbiased. They are not supposed to slant the news to only provide one persons viewpoints. The Bedwell’s seem to have issues with those who do not agree 100% with their views.

  507. what??

    There must be actual legal grounds for removing a parents custody altogether. These would actually be documented in the legal records and, possibly, in the amended custody agreement. If ‘Reporting suspected abuse to the court’ is the actual reason documented in the custody agreements and the documentation of the legal decision & proceedings, then she certainly does have a case for appeal.

    I’m pretty sure that’s not what’s documented, though. They may be corrupt, but I’m sure they are not stupid.

  508. WhereIStheEVIDENCE

    TryADifferentPointOfView
    June 8th, 2009 at 11:39 am
    “There is no proof that he is not abusing Baby A”…

    How are eleven investigations by CPS, the police & the courts not proof?

    What would be proof that someone was not abusing someone else? What would that proof consist of?

    At what point does the accuser stop accusing?

    And, are you, personally, capable of seeing the emotional, behavioral & developmental damage done – not to the accused, but to the child – by the accusing, if it is not true, whether mom believes it to be true or not? And, are you able to see how the damage done to the child multiplies with each new investigation once the accusations have been shown to be unfounded?

    Is there some point in the future appeal after appeal, accusation after escalated accusation, where even her best friend will be able to say, “Look honey, it’s time to give up. It’s time to move on. Your baby is healthy & normal. Maybe you misread some of the signals here. You have every right to your feelings, but you might be causing problems for baby if you don’t step back & see that you might be wrong about this. Time to start healing and building a good relationship with her and her father, as a co-parent, before it’s too late for you to be a positive influence in her life at all. She needs you. As a parent, not as a broken adult who was in the wrong adult relationship for her.”

    Excellent post! Finally a voice of reason!

  509. WhereIStheEVIDENCE

    Dustinfriend
    June 8th, 2009 at 9:17 am

    ….and Connie lost all her rights.

    Dustinfriend, does this mean Connies parental rights were revoked and the info we read about the judges ordering supervised visitation to be agreed upon two days after the last court date is untrue? If so, it would make sense the next court date would be for criminal charges against Connie for the information she has posted online.

    Please clarify, if you can, what you mean by Connie lost ALL her rights. Thank you.

    WITE

  510. WhereIStheEVIDENCE

    JustGetanInvestigation
    June 8th, 2009 at 8:33 pm

    The only way you can make the comment with absolute certainty:
    “To answer the question left out by AJ- the ONLY reason the child was taken from the mother was because the mother constantly told the court and proper authorities of what the child was saying about her father. It is documented in the court file on July 3, 2008.”

    Is if you personally saw the court file from July 3,2008. My guess is you have not. If you have, then by all means start posting facts to back up your opinions. without fact to back it up your thoughts are nothing other than an opinion.

    I even asked Mr. Bedwell for proof his daughter was turned away from a medical doctor when requesting an examination of A for abuse. Never got it. Doubt it exists, if so it would have been posted to back up facts. Instead, when asked for proof you people go silent, dodge reasonable questions and start spouting off your unfounded opinions as they can not be supported with proof.

  511. what??

    Courts need legitimate reasons to remove custody from a parent. Those reasons are recorded in the documentation of the court proceedings, the judges decision, the psychological reports and, possibly, in the amended custody agreement.

    “Reporting suspected abuse to the courts and other authorities” is not grounds for removing custody from a parent and would not be documented in any legal capacity. At least, not on it’s own. Perhaps something more like, “Mother continues to make false claims of abuse against the father, despite the lack of evidence and the fact that these claims are, repeatedly, unsupported by psychological evaluations of the child and households. Mother shows an inability to effectively co-parent with the child’s father, in the child’s best interest. She repeatedly shows only an unhealthy animosity towards her child’s father, which cause emotional distress for her child.”

    But, a simple ‘she keeps telling on him so we’re taking custody away’ wouldn’t signify corruption on the part of the legal system, it would signify stupidity. If they’re smart enough to be corrupt, they’re smart enough to cover up their corruption with actual legal terminology & procedure.

  512. WhereIStheEVIDENCE

    From Adoption.com
    -long-
    I’ve deleted what we know does not exist in this case, chronic alcohol and drug abuse, information pertaining to siblings, child murder……

    While the father has been cleared as a suspect and CASE CLOSED according to Sargent Pecoraro, I still left info pertaining to ‘sexual abuse’.

    What is of interest here, is abuse, as well as possible reunification as well as unwillingness to get help for such things as mental disorders etc.

    My apologies for not adding a link due to computer problems on my end. A google search of California grounds for termination of parental rights will get you to the info from adoption.com

    Grounds for Termination of Parental Rights California
    Statute: Welf. & Inst. Code §§ 361.5(b), (h), (i); 366.26(c)(1)

    Circumstances That Are Grounds for Termination

    Abuse/Neglect

    Mental Illness or Deficiency

    Felony Conviction/Incarceration

    Failure of Reasonable Efforts
    Sexual Abuse

    Child Judged in Need of Services/Dependent

    Child’s Best Interest

    Circumstances That Are Not Grounds for Termination

    Failure to Establish Paternity

    Child in care 15 of 22 months (or less)

    Cal. Welf. and Inst. Code § 361.5(b), (h), (i) (West, WESTLAW through Cal. 2003 Legis. Serv., Ch. 28)

    Reunification services need not be provided to a parent or guardian described in this subdivision when the court finds, by clear and convincing evidence, any of the following:

    That the parent or guardian is suffering from a mental disability that renders him or her incapable of utilizing those services;

    That the child or a sibling of the child has been previously adjudicated a dependent as a result of physical or sexual abuse, that following that adjudication the child had been removed from the custody of his or her parent or guardian, that the child has been returned to the custody of the parent or guardian from whom the child had been taken originally, and that the child is being removed due to additional physical or sexual abuse;

    That the child was brought within the jurisdiction of the court because of the conduct of that parent or guardian;

    That the child has been adjudicated a dependent as a result of severe sexual abuse or the infliction of severe physical harm to the child, a sibling, as defined above, by a parent or guardian, and the court makes a factual finding that it would not benefit the child to pursue reunification services with the offending parent or guardian;

    That the parent or guardian of the child has been convicted of a violent felony;

    That the parent or guardian of the child has advised the court that he or she is not interested in receiving family maintenance or family reunification services or having the child returned to or placed in his or her custody and does not wish to receive family maintenance or reunification services;

    That the parent or guardian has on one or more occasions willfully abducted the child or child’s sibling from his or her placement and refused to disclose the child’s or child’s sibling whereabouts, refused to return physical custody of the child or child’s sibling to his or her placement, or refused to return physical custody of the child or child’s sibling to the social worker.

    In determining whether reunification services will benefit the child, the court shall consider any information it deems relevant, including the following factors:

    The specific act or omission comprising the severe sexual abuse or the severe physical harm inflicted on the child or the child’s sibling;
    The circumstances under which the abuse or harm was inflicted on the child or the child’s sibling;

    The severity of the emotional trauma suffered by the child or the child’s sibling;

    Any history of abuse of other children by the offending parent or guardian;

    The likelihood that the child may be safely returned to the care of the offending parent or guardian within 12 months with no continuing supervision;

    Unfortunately, based on much of what we have read it appears Connie does meet more of the above than does her daughters daddy.

    Hmmmm……

  513. WhereIStheEVIDENCE

    I meant to snip more, such as failure to establish paternity. sorry all.

  514. JustGetanInvestigation

    To you all, you will have to just sit and be patient for the new facts to come out. They will be here soon, promise. I don’t have hours to sit here and refute all of your “OLD” information. HUH?? I do not wish to answer any of your questions. Not that I can right now anyway. Patience is a virtue. I am just posting, here, information that is elsewhere so people have the information. I’m not here to debate with anyone.

  515. JustGetanInvestigation

    And as far as I know, Connie is not the one that has taken Dustin to court, it has been the other way around for almost 2.5 years. I can’t be 100% sure, but from what I have heard and been told, I believe Dustin is the one that files the court petitions. So whoever said something to the affect that Connie keeps bringing these allegations to court, it isn’t quite true.

  516. Dustinfriend

    Dustin keeps going to court because of Connies sick allegations. He’s protecting his kid for good reason.

    Justget you’re a load of crock with your soon postings. I know whats coming down on June 30 against Connie. If she wants to get in one last attack on Dustin it will help his case even more so tell her to go for it. You’ve been wrong on almost all your posts here and you expect everyone to believe your pile?

  517. A stepmom

    In custody cases, petitions are most often brought forth by the party who is attempting to work civilly as a co-parent within the bounds of the mutually agreed upon custody agreement (or the one set by the court, if a mutually agreed upon agreement is not possible or has been shown to be not in the best interests of the child).

    The parent who is working within the bounds of the agreement will respectfully follow proceedings that the judge asked them to follow when they signed the custody agreement. If the other parent is *not* respecting the custody agreement, they will bring a petition before the court for the judge to rule on.

    Conversely, the parent who does not respect the courts and who does not honor the commitment that they made when signing the original custody agreement wouldn’t bring a petition before the court to ‘tell on themselves’ for breaking the agreement that they made, would they? They would just go ahead & do whatever they want.

    Blaming the father for the fact that this is being dragged out due to the father’s bringing petitions before the court, asking the judge to civilly rule on the matter of mother’s transgressions against the agreement they joined into, is ridiculous.

    That’s like blaming the police for wasting the murderer’s time by bringing the criminal before the courts to have justice served against him.

  518. A stepmom

    My husband’s ex lost primary residency because she completely ignored the parenting agreement doing whatever she wanted, showing contempt for the court by ignoring the agreement she made with the court and showing that she was unable to respect her child’s relationship with her father.

    In order to try to be civil & flexible, to respect his child’s relationship with her mother and to respect his child’s right to a stress-free childhood, my husband would often let the little things slide, as his ex ignored the parenting agreement. But, for the big things, the things where she was obviously causing emotional harm to their child or attempting to severely limit his parenting time with their child, he would follow the agreement they made in court, bringing the issue to mediation and then, when that failed, petitioning the court.

    His ex would have had no reason or issues to bring a petition to court. He never showed contempt for the parenting agreement.

  519. Huh?

    Just Get, You said “HUH?? I do not wish to answer any of your questions. Not that I can right now anyway. Patience is a virtue.”

    I can be patient and wait for answers. I appreciate the reply. I really do not expect you to have all the answers, but you alluded to having some information that the rest of us searching the internet about this case didn’t have (“You all have no idea what is going on and what is happening. I, however, do”).

    The questions I asked remain however:
    Has Connie resumed her visitation? How is that going?

    Why are all previous investigations biased? Has Connie’s attorney submitted the family statements to the courts yet? Does Connie know that these statements are not actual evidence without some sort of medical/psychological proof to back them up? Is the family saying there has been no 730 exam done?

    What does this baby’s own doctor say about the physical/sexual abuse? The rashes or the many reports of pain (in her private parts), surely she was seen for this multiple times? Her own doctor can’t be considered corrupt, as his office called to tell Connie that Dustin had picked up the baby’s medical records from his office.

    How long has the baby been in therapy? Does she still go? I had read that she has been seeing a therapist for a year. Is that true? What does this therapist say? Surely after that long, she would be able to confirm sexual abuse is ongoing and by law report it to the police?

    How did Connie’s meeting with the D.A.(who handles child abuse cases) on June 2 go? Did it happen or was it mis-communicated to KarenCCC? Is there still charges ‘pending’ against Dustin for abuse?

  520. Huh?

    I do not believe all parental rights for this mother have been terminated. She may not currently have custodial rights, but she was supposed to get her supervised visitation rights back after the June 1 court date. I had been told that Connie had indeed found another facility to use, and that the only holdup was Amara returning calls to arrange it. Since the judge was said to have ordered the attorneys to make these visitation arrangements within I believe 2 days (June 3) Connie should be able to see the baby.

  521. Huh?

    TryaDifferentPointofView said:
    [How are eleven investigations by CPS, the police & the courts not proof?

    What would be proof that someone was not abusing someone else? What would that proof consist of?

    At what point does the accuser stop accusing?

    And, are you, personally, capable of seeing the emotional, behavioral & developmental damage done - not to the accused, but to the child - by the accusing, if it is not true, whether mom believes it to be true or not? And, are you able to see how the damage done to the child multiplies with each new investigation once the accusations have been shown to be unfounded?

    Is there some point in the future appeal after appeal, accusation after escalated accusation, where even her best friend will be able to say, “Look honey, it’s time to give up. It’s time to move on. Your baby is healthy & normal. Maybe you misread some of the signals here. You have every right to your feelings, but you might be causing problems for baby if you don’t step back & see that you might be wrong about this. Time to start healing and building a good relationship with her and her father, as a co-parent, before it’s too late for you to be a positive influence in her life at all. She needs you. As a parent, not as a broken adult who was in the wrong adult relationship for her.” ]

    Brilliant post!

  522. pattycake07

    Last time I checked JustGET… you didn’t even realize there WAS a 730 evaluation.

    Certainly NOT OLD INFO IS IT NOW?

    THE COURTS already adopted the 730 eval. which means they agree with all recommendations, the most important being there’s NO abuse of BabyA and Dustin retains 100% custody. What a pity you didn’t know about that NEW tidbit, as I look up to June 2 of your post and see how oblivious you are.

    Bottom line the courts continue to side with the dad and this not so clever internet campaign has backfired on Connie. She should ask her daddy about ways of jail life, she may need the tips.

    Pretty sick that a mother would ever withhold NEW evidence when her child is supposedly being molested. Maybe she’s had to take time to manufacture more evidence.

    I can’t be bothered to post here, anyone else want to debate with me, you know where to find me. At least that place isn’t ARCHIVED like here. lol

  523. JustGetanInvestigation

    Patty, good.

    Huh?? Visitations have not been started, as far as I know. The judge ordered to petition an ex parte if they were not, so I assume that is what they are doing. I do not know what happened in the appointment with the DA. I’m not sure if they baby is still seeing a psychologist, I sure hope so. And I don’t think there were any charges pending against Dustin when the judge told Connie and her lawyer that there was an ongoing investigation against him. There just hasn’t been too much information as of now. I have been told to be patient, so that is what I have been saying, and others who are helping in baby A’s case. We just feel that we need to put the information we do know on the new “articles” regarding this case.

  524. JustGetanInvestigation

    Stepmom, all I was saying is that Connie was told to stop making these allegations towards the “father”. Everytime she sees her baby and her baby is still saying that her “father” is abusing her and playing the games that she plays, she keeps on telling it. That’s what they are saying about her not going by court orders. I would do the same thing in all honesty. I would never stop. People don’t tell all the facts. And then they disect her words and twist them. How many cases have there been where CPS has dropped the ball on a child and that child ends up really hurt or dead? Every bruise that was documented on this child, CPS said that they couldn’t determine when or how it happened, even though the child stated her “daddy kicked her in the back” or whatever. So 11 “investigations” means nothing to me. Even if people think that Connie is the one telling her child to say these things (which baby A did say that, but only after she was with her father for a week) why wasn’t there an investigation into that? They just claimed she was doing it. A judge told Connie that she did not have to participate in the “classes” where she would have to co-parent with an alleged child abuser. She had told the judge that she did not want to sit in a room with him, which is what they would have to do. I agree that what I say is just hear-say, but I believe her. If there wasn’t a restraining order in place to where she could put forth the information that is needed in order to prove all of this, I wouldn’t even be here helping this baby. I refuse to fight with anyone any longer. But with all the “proof” these people claim to have against Connie, I think they should post it. I personally do not have the documentation of any court papers, but have seen a few. I have not seen anything regarding the proof these people have about Connie lying. And it doesn’t matter what type of religion Connie and her family are. Now they are disecting and assuming what they practice. Someone asked a question, I answered it, and now these people are in a cult. Nothing that Tim has done should matter regarding baby A or Connie. I heard the story about what happened in Jordan, it’s all irrelevant. Connie is not Tim. And in my opinion what Tim did isn’t how they are protraying it to be. No one was there. Not one of these people here can say for a fact that Tim kidnapped his children to Jordan. There are so many men and women accused of doing this, just because he was convicted of it doesn’t make it true. There is a man that just sat in prison for 27 years for a murder he did not commit. There were three lawyers that knew this, but left him in jail because of client/lawyer priviledges. Innocent people go to jail everyday. If Tim served 200 days, like they say he did, then he served his time and has paid his dues. But it still doesn’t mean he did what his ex-wife claims. This is all useless information anyway. This is about baby A. Not all of the Bedwells.

  525. Dustinfriend

    Why are you posting alone Justget? Have you taken up knitting yet because everything you write is wrong information.

  526. StopConArtists

    Just because there is an exception to every thing doesn’t mean this whole A case is the exception.. 11 CPS INVESTIGATIONS.. 730 Exam just completed..

    Tim Bedwell was convicted for kidnapping..

    Why all these excuses for people you DO NOT know?? Christ I hope you all think with your brains and look at the facts instead of what a woman you never met in your life says. You all are sucked in because a child is supposively being hurt.. I really feel sorry for you all.. this will all wash away and you will still be sitting there defending and being manipulated.

    Its all black and white.. Analyze the facts you do know.. Not what she said but what has been done.

    Everyone who revels in this whole conspiracy and corruption of a whole county needs to go back to reading fictional books..

    The reason someone would look at Tim’s criminal background and his psyche would be the fact he help raise this woman who alleges abuse is happening. So if a mentally unstable person were to raise a child.. there could be emotional and mental instability in the child aka Connie.

  527. Icky Etardo

    Justgetaninvestigation: Is there anything that WOULD convince you that the father is innocent?

    At first, the allegations are “They haven’t investigated.” Then we come to find out, they HAVE investigated, 11 times, and it didn’t go the mother’s way.

    The original allegation was “CPS and Law Enforcement are part of a good-ol-boy’s club and they’re in on suppressing the TRUTH.” Now it turns out that the out-of-county judge and specialists are agreeing with the original assessment and ruling against the mother. Are they in the good-ol-boy’s network too?

    Frankly I think that Ms. Bedwell’s supporters are going to continue to ignore any evidence that is contrary to their beliefs and will persist in harassing Placer County officials until Ms. Bedwell loses all custody or is prosecuted for unleashing this storm of public interference on their county. The wheels of justice do move exceedingly slowly, and I think there will be profound repercussions to Ms. Bedwell’s internet campaign against the father—it’s only a matter of time.

  528. Huh?

    Thank you for those answers JustGet.

    So Connie still does not have her visitation back as far as you know. Her lawyer should have filed an ex-parte for her after 2 days. An Ex-parte hearing would not be waiting until June 30. She should have had her visitation back- that is just not right!

    I do have to correct you about the father having this child before any of the MDIC interviews. If you look at the time line, Connie had her child before these interviews. That would be plenty of time for her to “unbrainwash” (her term) this child before the exams. She was told to give the father the child on June10, and got her back June 15, she makes note of being told by police she did not have to give Dustin the child on June 19, and the MDIC interview was June 23. SO she had just had the child for 8 days. Same thing for the MDIC on Feb 26, 2008. At this point Dustin was only seeing the child for short visits.

    If you are right about the judge telling Connie she did not have to participate in the Step program, then that should not be the reason she lost custody of her child Jul 3, 2008. It will be interesting to find out why the Step program took the child away. And what the actual legal reason was.

    As far as trying to tell people what you know, tell them where your source is. Here, let me help. People that are reading here already know about this (it is an archived blog), but just in case- read the saveaaliyah blog- there are links there to everything the family says, and has in the way of proof. To read statements from the Bedwells and others supporting this mother- go to Child Protection Community- links available on the saveaaliyah site.

    LOL- as far as your take on Tim- I agree their religious beliefs and his criminal record do not apply- but it all came up because you and Marmite tried to say that it was not a kidnapping. If you take a child across state lines or country borders without the permission of the other custodial parent, or you do not return on the pre-arranged date with said child- It is indeed kidnapping. There was a trial, there was a sentence, and Mr. Bedwell went to jail. There are no gray areas here. You defeat your purpose by even being pulled into that discussion. It is not a matter of portraying Tim as doing anything. The jail term is a FACT. The charges fit the timing of the trip to Jordan with a then underaged Connie. Sounds like he had a contentious divorce and custody battle. It is what Connie grew up with. But please do not try to say he was innocent or try to blame the ex-wife- this was not in the ‘corrupt’ courts of Placer county. This was a federal case- you know crossing state lines or borders makes it federal. How would you feel if your ex took your children to another country or did not return on time with your children?

  529. JustGetanInvestigation

    Frome AnneA:

    I have more anger then frustration right now. Every day that goes by, Aaliyah is STILL in a living hell. I can’t believe Connie’s attorney will let this go on until June 30th. He needs to work on getting that child OUT of that home NOW! Maybe we need to start writing, emailing and faxing again. Yes the courts seem to be listening to Connie now but she still has NOT had the opportunity to present the evidence she has to anyone with the power to pull that baby out of the Worm’s custody. We should NOT stop until this one little girl is safe. We have not been able to help any of the other children. Partly because most of the mothers in some of these other cases are part of the problem. This mother is the solution to her child’s victimization and we MUST support her any way we can.

    This story has opponents, sadly many of them, are advocates for children. I don’t know how they can in good conscience, claim they advocate for children.
    Nor do I buy the rightous indignation they dogmatically spew while attacking Connie and defending the Worm. I have watched and rewatched the Daddy’s Worm video, 27 minutes of a 2 year old, telling her mother and auntie about her daddy’s abuse of her. NOT ONCE, did I hear any coaching or interjecting by either of the women in the room. In fact I clearly saw a mother whose heart was breaking. She was doing her best to keep her child from seeing just how upset she really was. I saw a little girl who used her doll to express her wants and fears, such as the doll was hungry. Aaliyah wanted something to eat. The doll was afraid. Both Connie and her sister, tried to redirect Aaliyah’s attention. While Aaliyiah ate one of the women talked to the child about a lost toy, but Aaliyah would NOT be detoured. She was determined to tell her mother what was happening to her. Later Connie tried to get Aaliyah to go to sleep. Still this little girl would not be denied the opportunity she had to try and stop her father’s abuse. 27 continuous minutes of a 2 year old talking about things NO CHILD should know about.

    Giving facts and details that adults would NEVER think to say while coaching a child. Children who have been coached will give FEW if any actual facts or details. A mother who uses a child to get back at the father tell the child, tell them daddy touched you on your private parts. She may even throw in its yucky but NO CASE I have seen in over 40 years of experience, that has EVER been this detailed and fact filled UNLESS the was abuse happening. The father calling his anatomy the Worm and then using baby Einstien’s worm to make the child sound mixed up, should she tell anyone. This is a common practice among pedophiles, it’s all part of his manipulation of this child. The best way NOT to get caught is to confuse the child. Confusion is a pedophiles BEST friend.

    When a man rapes a woman, he uses fear and guilt and while fear is also a big part of a pedohile’s MO, confusion is the most reliable. A child can’t explain anything to anyone, if what she says makes no sense. He intentionally teaches her the senseless, anything to confuse the facts. It has worked for generations. Adults deal in facts and things that make sense. If a child conquers her fears enough to tell on her abuser, he has already programed that child by confusing her on every issue. Pedophiles have 2 goals, having sex with children and not getting caught. Making sure the child is confused allows him to accomplish both.

    This case is a little different then other cases I have seen over the years. Normally the pedophile being older and therefore wiser then the child, usually is completely successful. In this case, its unfortunate for the Worm, but his victim, Aaliyah is smarter than he is!!! This is one very special and bright little girl, the sky is the limit for what she may give the world, if she gets the chance.

    Connie Bedwell needs and DESERVES our support. We see so many other mothers allowing and in some cases participating in the abuse of their young children. Then we see the extremes that Connie has been forced to go to, just to try and protect her child. We can’t call ourselves advocates for children and NOT defend her. Those who want to attack her, will continue to do it. In my opinion they can advocate for children with the Anthony’s. They all have the same mind set. To me this whole issue is a little bit like the belief in God, there is no sitting on the fence. You either believe or you don’t. But don’t tell me you are an advocate for children and then attack a mother who is fighting for her child. There is NO evidence that shows Connie is trying to get even with the Worm. In fact there is NO proof she has ever done anything except try to keep her child’s father in her child’s life. The fact that she was safely in Alaska and returned on her own to California PROVES she was not trying to eliminate the father from Aaliyah or his family. THAT IS THE ONE UNDENIABLE FACT, in this case. All this other crap is theories and lies brought in the picture by the Worm and his supporters to, here I go, CONFUSE the issues and facts of this situation.

    Connie Bedwell and her entire family have been fighting a corrupt justice system, the Worm and all his supporters, his attorney and now she has to fight people who CLAIM to be advocates for children. The Worm must be having a good laugh at all these fine folks who say they advocate for children. He has managed to settle the question of who they believe him, or their lying eyes. And let me add, he has done this without so much as an open denial. He has accomplished this with the help of many children’s advocates who blogged right here on BNN. These advocates for children went after Connie and ANYONE who supported her like a hungry dog after a meaty bone.

    I’m sorry, I watched like many of others have, as the search for sweet little Nevaeh came to a heart breaking end. When I read the post about how horrific this all is and how WE MUST put an end to it, the anger in me is ready to explode. I hear sympathy from some for this mother who did NOTHING to protect her child. Then I remember how Connie has been ripped to shredds for trying to protect her child. All of these comments are coming from the same people! Demands for this to stop are coming from the same people who have done all in their power to try and get Connie PROSECUTED!

    Well sit back all of you who attacked Connie Bedwell, all who made jokes about a woman who disclosed the details of being raped as a young girl, all those who have jumped on the Worms wagon. As long as there are people like YOU, this will NEVER END!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! YOU are the problem. A woman talked about the most painful experience in her life, a mother video taped her child’s account of being abused and forced to perform oral sex on her father, your reaction was to laugh, make jokes, accuse, and attack. I heard the pain in the woman on the radio, the pain in the mother’s voice and the fear in little Aaliyah. What has all your hateful words and actons accomplished? Let me see now……. You re-victimized the woman on the radio, hurt her to her core. You helped enable the father to continue to molest his daughter and gave the Worm’s attorney the weapons she needed to keep this child from the mother she loves and trusts. And Connie Bedwell, what did you do for this mother who is REALLY an advocate for Aaliyah, you beat her to the ground.

    Everything Connie did up to the point that her friends and family put this story on the internet, was without an attorney. Which was the reason the Worm and his attorney dominated every court appearance. Because of this story, people were sending money so Connie could get the legal help she had to have to save Aaliiyah. But because of the efforts of one person and his sidekick, both claiming to be advocates for children, the donations came to an abrupt end. Those 2 should be especially proud. Stand on those morales boys. You will need something to comfort you when the truth in the Bedwell case comes out.
    Your theories and math make about as much sense as the family tree you
    researched.

    BY THE WAY:
    (For the record, I married the name I carry and have never even heard of Michael. Brilliant deduction Watson, I have the same last name as someone related to someone in this case, it stands to reason I must be his aunt. Gee there are some very rich and famous people with this same last name. Do you think they will accept I am related to them, put me in the Will? huh ya think? NOT! ) Stupid sticks out no matter who is wearing it. I’m sorry, I will get back on topic.

  530. Huh?

    Just Get, it is not proof against Connie, it is the total lack of proof (medical reports, actual witnesses to abuse like hitting, psychologist reports that document any physical or sexual abuse of this child) showing this father is abusing this child. And debating the facts found is not attacking, nor is it twisting words. But you are entitled to that opinion, as others are to theirs. It has to be hard to be the only one here posting in support most of the time.

    I have read every scrap of information I could get a hold of. I have yet to see answers to the most important questions that could provide proof. I watched all the videos. I am still not convinced of abuse by this father.

    Still asking-
    What does this baby’s own doctor say about the physical/sexual abuse? The rashes or the many reports of pain (in her private parts), surely she was seen for this multiple times? Her own doctor can’t be considered corrupt, as his office called to tell Connie that Dustin had picked up the baby’s medical records from his office.

    I had read that this child has been seeing a therapist for a year. What does this therapist say? Surely after that long, she would be able to confirm sexual abuse is ongoing and by law report it to the police?

    What is the reason the court gave for removing custody on July 3, 2008? See the comment by “what” post number 511.

    Are the Bedwells saying there has been no 730 exam? Have the statements shown on CPC been submitted to the court?
    Was there a 3111 exam instead? Who ordered the psych evaluations? There has to have been one or the other.

    Where is the medical or psychological basis for these allegations of abuse?

    I do believe this mother and now her family have become Hyper Aware- everything is interpreted to mean sexual or physical abuse. I do believe that the lack of physical/medical proof has caused a drop off in support or even a change of public opinions once the initial emotional response to the video wore off. IMO of course.

  531. Huh?

    Justget, You say “But because of the efforts of one person and his sidekick, both claiming to be advocates for children, the donations came to an abrupt end.”

    So Connie is not able to get any more donations?

    And WTH is Anne talking about- joking a woman who was raped?

    “all who made jokes about a woman who disclosed the details of being raped as a young girl”

    “The fact that she was safely in Alaska and returned on her own to California PROVES she was not trying to eliminate the father from Aaliyah or his family.” actually the courts were involved in this decision too. She returned after finding out she had not been a resident of Alaska long enough to avoid having to return to deal with the custody/visitation proceedings here in CA. She says the court lied to her about Dustin having only supervised visitation.

  532. Huh?

    Much of AnneA’s post just does not make sense. I can tell she was upset when she wrote it but????

    “You re-victimized the woman on the radio, hurt her to her core. You helped enable the father to continue to molest his daughter and gave the Worm’s attorney the weapons she needed to keep this child from the mother she loves and trusts”

    What is she trying to say? Was Connie supposedly on the radio- or was it just her family? Enabled a father to molest his child how? The courts are looking at evidence and reports that we in the public do not see to make their decisions. Gave the father’s attorney weapons? You mean like the postings made by the family members and friends? There is so much rambling in that post it gives me a headache.

    Once again, by demanding physical/medical/psychological documentation, and not just the statements of this mother who obviously believes there is no other possible cause but sexaul abuse does not make anyone a pedophile or a pedophile supporter.

    Many of us wrote demanding further investigation. Turns out with this 730 evaluation, there was. Many of us are asking valid questions- like what were the findings of the doctors (surely there were many visits to this child’s pediatrician) for the ongoing complaints this child made about pain to her private areas? What reason did the court specifically use to remove her custody and switch t supervised visits? Not just she would not stop complaining- but what legal reason did they use?

    I remind you that saying this child was tricked by the father to say ‘mommy made me say it” at the June 23 MDIC exam does not work- by her own accounts she had this child in her full custody for 8 days prior to the exam. Also there have been 2 MDIC exams- one was in Feb 2008.

    Now it is also being said that despite the Jun 1 court appearance Connie is still not able to have supervised visits? Why? An Ex Parte hearing does not take that long to get heard? The Judge said 2 days to arrange it- it is now the 11th. What is the delay?

    I just see no reason to believe in a woman I have never met who has shown no documented proof of these allegations after 2 years of trying to get some. How many doctors is it that have failed to find any physical proof? I mean she is alleging more that just oral sex. She has repeatedly said this child’s ‘butt’ and ‘pee-pee’ hurt! It has even been implied by the comments about a rash around this child’s mouth that this was going on back in Jan/Feb 2008. This child has seen numerous doctor’s including her own pediatrician right? So why can not one doctor corroborate sexual or physical abuse?

    And is this child finally potty trained?

  533. JustGetanInvestigation

    Icky Etardo, if he takes a lie detector test and allowe the baby to be evaluated by an independent doctor, such as Joe Saturley and he states that there is no abuse, then I would believe him.

    Huh?? You ask so many questions at one time. The 730 eval was completed in January. They want her to comply with it, but she has askec for a trial and they have not given her one as of yet.

    Yes, every time Connie had gone to court, she submitted the witness statements. But without a lawyer, she doesn’t think anyone had read them. And I don’t know who ordered the 730 Eval, if I had to guess, I’d guess the ‘father’. I think the medical and psycological basis are considered evidence and they are not on the internet pending a trial.

    Regarding your statement about Tim and if it were my ex, I don’t hate my ex husband so I wouldn’t have called the police to say it was a kidnapping. If they were REALLY late coming back home then, of course I would. But not to claim kidnapping, I’d see if they could find out what happened. My ex would never leave the state or country with the kids without consent from me. Everyone is different though.

  534. Pattycake

    Justgetaninvestigation AKA KarenCCC aka a lot of other names

    I can’t get over how you claim inside information when you didn’t even know the 730 Evaluation was completed AND didn’t know Connie didn’t care enough to bother attending the STEP classes, not 1.

    Seems to me if you knew things that were actually happening, that would be pretty important information. Reading here, you state empatically the 730 eval. was not done. I quote YOU KarenCCC/JustgetanInv. – “NO there ISN’T a 730 Evaluation ordered yet” See Post #425.

    AAAAAA But there was one ordered & COMPLETED and the courts / Judge Smith adopted the recommendations allowing the father to retain 100% custody. WOW, just how did you not know ALL of that???

    I think it’s quite evident to everyone around that I OBVIOUSLY know a thing or two of what’s occuring behind the scenes of this entire sham of a story.

    This child is safe with her father and Connie has MUCH to hide from y’all. Tim, want to yell at me about calling your daughter a liar? She is & she’s a scam artist who’s too lazy to work & decides its easier to go online to beg for money…you raised her well I see. I’m sure you’re as proud as a convicted felon could be. KarenCCC seems to think the ‘kidnapping’ was your only conviction, you should update her about the rest of them.

    Intimidation is what Connie & her dad does best, but it won’t work on me. None of your vile ‘threatening’ emails have done anything to shut me up. It’s no shocker to see why the father has all custody and why the judges REALLY keep siding with him.

    To all who ‘hide’ by sending me ugly emails instead of confronting me out here – COWARDS. Pretty scary to think Aaliyah would EVER be safe in that environment with any Bedwell! So bring on whatever you want, you OBVIOUSLY know where to find me.

  535. Chicana

    Whenever I hear that there is no evidence, I remember Aaliyah saying Daddy’s worm made me cough and he had to wipe it off.
    How would a doctor be able to tell if this man had stuck his penis in this baby’s mouth ?

    CPS/family court can’t back down now, they won’t admit that they forced a little girl to live with a worm while keeping her away from her mother that she loves.

  536. Beast

    I am getting really sick and tired by the rantings and lies posted by these zealots on their vengeful head hunt. Do you think we are fools? I see a letter posted above from a supposed RN describing her time with A, if we are to believe this in any way a true copy of a true RN, are we then supposed to believe she does not know how to spell fellatio? Again no name is offered with this so called “evidence”. No official report from an RN on the examination. Just something posted online by someone that clearly does not understand what a “professional” letter of declaration should look like, and certainly would contain better spelling and grammar. It’s a joke.

  537. Beast

    You expect us to believe an RN can’t spell fellatio? And uses !!! in a so-called letter of professional declaration? Wow, how stupid do you think we are?

  538. Guess what

    It seems that this little girl is now potty trained in addition to being happy where she is. She is where she needs to be, and the courts know it!

  539. LL Papa

    JustGet, I would like to ask you two questions.

    (1)How did you go from this, on June 2nd………

    “No, there isn’t a 730 examination ordered yet”

    To this on June 11th and posted this morning?……..

    “The 730 eval was completed in January.”

    (2) Why has the mother NOT told Dr. Saturley about a completed 730 evaluation as he stated on BTR this past Saturday?

  540. JustGetanInvestigation

    I can’t help it if my post was in moderation since June 11th.

    When on June 1st Amara had submitted the 730 eval, I assumed it was for it to be done, I was told on June 11th that one has already been done, since January.

    Huh?? AnneA was speaking about how some people had re-victimised Jan from BNN, not Connie.

  541. LoraLee

    Flappycakes

    Do you think any of us that know Connie and the Bedwell’s is actually going to believe she is writing you threatening emails?
    Go flap your lying flapjacks somewhere else.
    We are all sick of you and your little crew of ignorant people that wouldn’t know what abuse looks like if it hit them in the forehead. Do you people have lives? It is apparent that you don’t! You all got banned from BNN and so you attack the people they are supporting.

    It must feel pretty nice when you lay down at night and think to yourself, “Wow I’ve had a productive day of talking about things I know nothing about. I don’t even know these families involved or the little child that is being abused. I’ve spent my whole day blogging on the web spewing lies because I don’t have the brains to do the research it takes to get factual information. Not only am I a gossiping fool but I am supporting a child molester that is more intelligent than I am and he is using me like a puppet so he can stick his hairy worm in his daughters mouth.”

    It must feel really good to have all of those thoughts flow through your head at night. How do you sleep flappycakes and crew? We all want to know.

  542. Huh?

    I would guess the reason she did not tell Dr. Saturley about the 730 child custody exam, is because that is what she is asking him to come to California to do.

    She neglected to mention that the full family(both the parents and child) have been interviewed. She just did not like the results of the exam, and she refuses to believe there has been no abuse.

    As Dr. Saturley said during your interview with him on Saturday, this mother believes wholeheartedly in the abuse. It does not make it real. He also said that he did not see the video as absolute proof, especially because Connie had already been ordered to stop video taping her child. So where are these other videos? He also stated that he had no idea what had been going on in the minutes,hours, or days leading up to the taping of the video- GREAT POINT! and how easy it is to alter memories, and lead children towards statements. He also said that there have been at least 2 interviews with 2 way glass, with witnesses watching- and in neither of these would this child, when questioned by a professional say there had been ANY TYPE of abuse!

    Dr. Saturley also expresses the opinion that the child exchange was not relevant and that these exchanges were too drawn out- and traumatic for this baby. That ideally, there should be a third party exchange where the child’s parents just did not meet.

    I also loved when he talked about the credentials of the woman who wrote that letter posted at BNN. How her credentials were not appropriate to have made that statement.

    Basically, it is confirmation of what I have been saying all along!

  543. Pattycake

    Ummmm everyone 730 EVALUATION WAS COMPLETED AND ACCEPTED INTO THE COURTS MAY 13, 2009. Far cry from January. but if Connie NEEEEEDS to stick with January for whatever reason, feel free.

    All I know is that she lied to the Doctor and told him NO family evaluation was being done at all. NONE. The doctor as a pile of stuff sitting in his inbox UPON his return from Mexico. Guess he’ll see how mislead he’s been.

    Furthermore – I JUST LOVE HOW KAREN continues to make mistakes THEN does not tell the entire story when CORRECTING her mistakes.

    The rest of the story being the NEW JUDGE accepted ALL recommendations by this family evaluation and Dustin continues to retain 100% custody. NO TRIAL will be ordered Karen. What NOW has to happen is for Connie to bring forth to the courts a very compelling reason why Aaliyahs custody situation should be changed… And OLD ACCUSATIONS will not work with the courts. OLD stuff (like on the net) will not be listened to, they are RESOLVED issues.

    What could Connie possibly get as a new compelling reason when she can hardly see her kid? I’m not sure she truly understands the BACKFLIPS AND BEGGING she’ll have to do with the courts to obtain further visitation – never mind any form of custody. UNTIL she adheres to everything & AGREES to everything – she will continue to lose. Karen, you’ve not helped her 1bit, you’ve actually added information that (now I KNOW) some experts have also given to the judge to show how Connie & family continue to be in violation.

    You can all try and hide “I spoke to family…NOT Connie” BUT FAMILY is still getting INFO FROM CONNIE. = STILL DIRECT VIOLATION.

    what DON’T you get about that? JAIL is what needs to happen to end this BS on the net.

  544. Huh?

    I really do not see this as a matter of pride preventing the courts from acting or

    “CPS/family court can’t back down now, they won’t admit that they forced a little girl to live with a worm while keeping her away from her mother that she loves.”

    There has been no documented proof of physical or sexual abuse. Remember Connie is alleging more than just oral sex here. The “my butt hurts” and “my pee-pee hurts” statements had (or should) have been investigated by this child’s own pediatrician. Is it that there were no doctor exams or that there were no findings of abuse? Could it be that these were related to normal diaper rashes, or Urinary Tract Infections? Just like the rash on this child’s mouth- which are only reported for a couple of weeks in Jan-Feb of last year…where they thrush, or infantigo or some other type of rash children get?

    Has this mother ever considered that many of these ‘symptoms of abuse’ are explainable in other less sexual ways? Has this mother ever considered her own fears and anxiety are causing this child harm? Especially when there are no medical or psychological basis for these events being sexual abuse?

    You really should listen to the interview with Dr. Saturley and consider what he says. And then remember that a comprehensive interview with both parents and this child HAS OCCURED. Connie just did not agree with the results.

  545. Huh?

    I agree this child loves her mother. That is true of all children of this age. She spent most of her time with her mother, and her mother’s family up until July 2008. There is nothing unusual about that.

    This child also has the right to a father. Especially when it has never been proven that there is any abuse occurring except in the mind of this mother. That this mother refuses to see this as a possibility has cost her joint custody of this child. That she can’t accept the findings of the investigations and examinations of her child, and herself and this child’s father as not being sexual abuse has created this situation.

    It is sad, and I am absolutely sure that this mother is in pain, and has been suffering for a very long time. It still does not mean these allegations are true. It doesn’t give her the right to make these allegations of abuse endlessly without repercussion either.

    Connie needs to realize she may be wrong from day one about these charges. What then? Is her pride and her belief worth losing her daughter forever over?

  546. marmite

    Some quotes from Dr Joe Saturley taken from the radio broadcast 13 June.

    ‘Connie believes that the childs father is sexually abusing this child, has or continues to. It doesn’t make it so but Connie truly believes that and therefore appears to be quite motivated in trying to gather evidence and to prove to the court system and other people, the people at large that this is going on. As any parent that feels that they are in the right and the system is wrong she has fought in a variety of ways to bring attention to this matter.’

    ‘As far as Connie Bedwells psychological evaluation, theres nothing particularly of concern in it. There are certainly some comments by the psychologist that wrote it up that I take exception with. I have also obtained the testing or at least I believe I have the testing that Connie went and got what we call the protocol, I have rescored them, you know every psychologist has there own little spin on interpretation but theres nothing of any true significance in Connies profile that would cause me concern.’

    ‘Now what I am proposing to do is go to California to do psychological testing on both parents, interview them, collect collateral data from other people and some of the court records. And also to observe the behaviour of the parents with the child and interview the child and do a complete family evaluation. That has NOT taken place yet. There has been NO thorough family evalution that looks at all parties and looks at the child and looks at the relationships. There have all been kind of these piece meal things that have taken place.’

    ‘If you watch the Daddys worm video Connie really did not, or at least from what I’ve seen of it, I don’t know what was occuring before the video was being shot but there was no prompting of the child to talk about this. She seemed to be talking about it fairly easily.’

    ‘I have spoken with Connie over the telephone, she comes across as very sane.’

    ‘Connie has already been evaluated and until a full family evaluation takes place this case is just stuck in the mud.’

    ‘I placed a call to the father, he’s not returned it. I have recently sent an email offer to Connie to offer to her attorney and to the court system, a free evaluation. Connie is certainly on board for a full family evaluation. I have no contact with the dads side so I don’t know their position or whether they have any interest in participating yet.’

  547. StopConArtists

    marmite do you really read??? A 730 exam has been done whether it was Jan or May doesn’t matter but it has been done so the Dr. has been MISINFORMED as usual by Connie!

  548. Pattycake

    Loralee you are so kind to give me such a sweet name ♥♥♥

    I sleep very well thank you. In fact I have the police, child psychologist & forensic experts all sleeping in bed with me LOL

    We ALL agree babyA is safe & loved and will FOREVER REMAIN WITH HER DEAR DADDY. You are wrong though honey, I’ve never spoken to BabyA’s Daddy – ever. So I don’t need daddy’s words – I HAVE THE COURTS WORD & EVIDENCE ON MY SIDE! HECK EVEN THE NEW JUDGE HAS SIDED WITH THE DAD. lol

    But thanks for the good laugh, it made my crews day. Our tummy’s hurt from your post. ♥♥♥

  549. Huh?

    A full family evaluation has already taken place. Full Family means both the mother, the father, and the child. It is unfortunate that Dr. Saturley was not told this.

    Connie could use Dr. Saturley’s help in disputing the findings of the existing 730 child custody evaluation and MDIC interviews. She may be able to regain some custody that way. She just has to realize she has no way to prove sexual abuse has occurred.

    Dr. Saturley did clear up a few things in his radio interview. He has confirmed that he is unaware of what a 730 evaluation is. That he is unaware there was also a Step Program evaluation and recommendation written too. He also confirmed that while Connie believes abuse has occurred it does not make it so.

    There is still no medical or psychological reports about or from any of the parties(the child, the mother or the father) that support sexual or physical child abuse has occurred.

    Connie has the right to question this 730 child custody exam, during a trial, an provide her own evidence to dispute it. That is all she can do at this point.

    But her unwillingness to abide by court rulings, and to follow the orders and work within the process has made this unlikely to mean she will regain even shared custody. She wants sole custody, and she refuses to accept less. It is sad, because I am sure this child loves her mother dearly.

  550. Huh?

    Wow the 730 child custody report was submitted to the court May 13??? Seems some bloggers should have known that before they went off on the entire county being corrupt rants. Seems Dr. Saturley should have been informed during the initial radio show on May 14!!

    I guess the fact that the court did not adopt the recommendations until the new Judge heard them June 1, was the loophole on reporting this. I guess that the testimony of Dustin’s father heard on June 1 was completely about the fact that Connie is not in compliance with the court orders. That her belief in ‘sexual abuse’ is still ongoing and she has not changed her position about this ‘abuse’ in the 11 months since she lost custody because of it.

    I wonder what sort of attorney Connie has. He does not seem to able to explain to his client that she is hurting herself and not Dustin.

  551. Beast

    Loral Lee..nice post..who is the “we are all”? Patty has more facts, FACTS, on this case than anyone does. Especially BNN. The 30th is coming up fast. We can wait, Bud.

  552. marmite

    StopConArtists

    There is no need to be rude, I was only quoting what Dr Joe Saturley said on ‘Beasts’ radio show. It was obvious you were all trying to get the Dr to agree that Connie was a crazy fraud but the Dr remained professional and impartial and in fact stated that there was nothing in Connies psychological evaluation that indicated anything of concern.

    http://www.saveaaliyah.com/

    http://www.thepetitionsite.com/1/help-save-aaliyah

  553. Huh?

    Connie believes that the childs father is sexually abusing this child, has or continues to. It doesn’t make it so

  554. Huh?

    Show me even one report from a medical doctor, or licensed psychologist that has documented evidence of sexual or physical abuse of this child by her father.

    Even just tell me one exists. You can’t, because there is none.

    Despite months of complaints about her ‘pee-pee’ or ‘butt’ hurting there was no evidence found. Is it that Connie is only intending to imply there has been sexual abuse or that there have been other reasons found for this repeated complaint. Surely it was looked at by a doctor many times. This child complained about this for months. Is this real, or just a fabrication? What did the doctors say?

    Surely this child’s problems with sleeping and having her diaper changed where discussed with the therapist she had been seeing for the last year or more. What did she say?

    I remember the family talking about the rash she ‘always’ has around her mouth- you know the one that occurs only for a couple of weeks in the time line? Is it ‘always’ or just for 2-3 weeks. What did the doctor diagnose the cause as being? Surely she saw a doctor for this also.

    How can Connie say Dustin ‘brainwashed’ this child before the June 23 MDIC(Multi Disciplinary Interview) when Connie had the child for a full 8 days beforehand?

  555. Huh?

    What were the findings of the first MDIC interview – you know the one in Feb 2008.

    Why did Connie end up losing custody? Was it related to her refusal to go to the Step Program Classes? Because if that is so- and Connie says that the judge told her she didn’t have to- then why did Step consider her in default of the agreement?

    Why hasn’t Connie et al told Dr. Saturley that a family evaluation has occurred. Is it because her ‘witnesses’ have not been interviewed? She needs to read the statutes – they are not included just because she wants them to be, The FAMILY is the child and her mother and her father. Since she has also submitted the sworn statements of her family and friends to the court- it is possible they were considered. What Connie is unhappy about is that these statements are not convincing evidence. They are purely observations from untrained professionals who do indeed have ‘a dog in this race’.

    Just how many investigations and reports and court trips will it take before Connie is satisfied? Will this new judge be considered corrupt because he does not ‘see it’ her way?

    There have been 2 MDIC exams, 11 CPS reports, at least 1 Step program family evaluation(read about what that entails before you discount there having been a full family child custody report), and a CA 730 Child Custody Evaluation and Recommendations report (which the court accepted).

  556. Huh?

    And why does this mother not have her supervised visitation again? This is ridiculous- the judge ordered it continued, and she could have filed the ex-parte after 2 days- that would be Jun 3rd. What is the holdup- does Connie want to see her child or what?

  557. Dustin Thompson

    I moved out of my daddy’s house for the first time when I turned 25 to attempt to be a man. John David Thompson, yep that’s my daddy!! He beats and cheats on my mother; I’ve learned from the best of ‘em! My daddy hold’s my hand through everything I do. If you all ever had the chance to meet my parents you would just love em; they are just like Casey Anthony’s enabling screwed up parents. They lie and protect me from having to go to jail instead of protecting the baby from my yucky, one-eyed, hairy worm.

    My baby’s mom left me when our daughter was 4 weeks old because I tried to beat her up with a Louisville slugger baseball bat while she was breastfeeding the baby. She took off to Alaska for the babies and her safety. Oh and I forgot to mention that I wanted to be just like Scott Peterson, and I threatened to kill her while she was pregnant 2 weeks before her due date. She was such a drag because I couldn’t do cocaine and get drunk as often as I wanted.

    I filed a false emergency hearing claiming the baby was kidnapped about 3 months after she was gone, but the judge caught me in a bunch of lies about me trying to beat my baby’s mom up with my baseball bat. Then he caught me in some lies about the time I slammed her head in the trunk of my mercedes. So he put a No contact order on me so I couldn’t contact, threaten or harass her… but that hasn’t stopped me even to this day. I still creep and stalk her apartment at night to hopefully get a glance of her beautiful body. Im so good at lying I get these idiots that work for the court system to join in on my scheme to continue to abuse her and the baby. Our 9 other judges weren’t nearly as smart as our first one was; they don’t even read the file. These judges listen to my attorney while she invents and twists the greatest stories.

    I started beating my daughter when I realized my baby’s mom wouldn’t come back to me. I’m so psychologically unstable that I threatened suicide two times to jump off the foresthill bridge… just ask Connie, she taped it. Crap I don’t know how I am going to talk my way out of that tape… I can’t claim she coached me too!!

    My daughter tells her mommy that I hurt her pee pee and butt. She tells her how I stick my yucky, one-eyed, hairy worm in her mouth even after I have threatened to kill her and her mommy for telling on me… can you believe that f**king little brat? Oh wait, that is what I called her when she was only 8 days old because she was crying when her mommy was in the bath.

    I have been trying to brainwash other people like I do to my own daughter in hopes that they will fall for my crap. I’ve tried to convince my daughter into thinking I was a parrot, but her mom caught onto that one so now I wear a scary mask and tell my daughter it’s the monster that is molesting her at night. I don’t want anymore proof of me being a child molester documented in the visitation reports so I am breaking a court order denying Connie her rights of visitation.
    My daddy John David Thompson- yep that’s my daddy- the apple doesn’t fall far from the tree, like I said, that’s where I have learned to hit women and babies because my dad does hit my mom and me growing up. My daddy tries to convince my daughter that his name is Papi instead of grandpa because he hits her too. Man, I am a spitting image of my daddy!!

    I want you all to go to saveaaliyah.com and watch the video called “daddy’s worm” where my daughter will tell you the TRUTH about what I do to her at night time.

    PLEASE SAVE MY DAUGHTER FROM MY CHILD MOLESTING SELF !!!!!

    Sending out my pedophile wormy love,
    Dustin David Thompson

    P.S. Thank you to all of you that support me not even knowing the facts of what I am. Thanks for helping me try to continue to isolate my victims so they can’t get help. I can just feed you a little bull here and there and you completely forget that you just heard my daughter talk entirely on her own about what I do to her at night.

  558. Flappycakes BFF

    Connie can talk to anyone about anything. It’s freedom of speech and it does not violate the restraining order.

    Even though the restraining order violates Connie’s civil and constitutional rights right now as it is. It only prevents her from posting on the internet, if it is even valid given the judge never signed it.

    There has been a 730 evaluation completed on January 5 and adopted in May, Flappycakes. You should get your facts straight!! Oh but wait, you get your “facts” aka “hot air” from the pedophile so you will never get the facts straight. The Dr. never watched the daddy’s worm video. It defefinitely was not a complete evaluation for many reasons which would be proven in a trial.

    Connie legally has a right to a trial for the restraining order and Dr Roeder’s report. Another violation of her rights that the judge has violated.

    Anybody know of a great civil suit attorney in Placer County?

    Oh hey and Flappycakes, Tim was never convicted of kidnapping, drug charges, or any other hot air that leaks out of your flap jacks. He has never threatened you, nor have any of the Bedwell’s. You would have that and Tim’s “record” posted in a heart beat if their was such a thing!!! Post the PROOF that you dont have. Flap, flap, flap away Patty, you’re as high as a kite.

    Anybody can create lies about anybody just as you and the Thompson’s do, but what separates us sane people from wack-jobs like you is we tell the truth Flappycakes.

    And Huh… Connie is not making the allegations, she is simply repeating what Aaliyah has alleged about her wormy daddy.

    The focus here is the safety of the child from the pedophile. Spin the subject and the focus all day long pedophile clan.

  559. Flappycakes BFF

    Oh flappycakes the new judge isn’t on anybody’s side. Judge Smith (you probably didn’t even know his name though you claim you have info from the courts) has only heard the restraining order and sanctions.

    He will be filled in on the child molester’s actions really soon which will be a pretty little surprise for the pedophile and clan.

    And hey flappycakes since you have so much information from the courts why don’t you go ahead and tell us about the No contact order that Judge Peneschi put on Dustin because he abused Connie and Aaliyah in march of 2006?? Or why don’t you explain to us what the 3 other Domestic Violence restraining orders consisted of that Connie had filed on the pedophile. Or explain to us how Dustin was on court ordered alcohol testing because he is a drunk! Yeah flappycakes read us that court file!!! Read to us how Dustin raped a 15 year old girl when he was 18. Read to us how the police report and Dr’s notes from Dustin slamming Connie’s head in the trunk of his mercedes.
    Come on flappycakes, you have so much information from the courts you act like the world revolves around you…just read it to us already!
    You won’t do that though, because for one, you don’t have it and two, you wouldn’t dare expose the pedophile for what he is.
    Oh and one more thing we want you to do is post Dustin’s own handwriting that is in the court file of him admitting his anger problems, what a liar he is, how emotionally unstable he is, how trustworthy Connie is, etc.

    Keep flapping Patty!!

  560. Flappycakes BFF

    http://www.bloggernews.net/121278

    Aaliyah Bedwell – An Update June 17
    Posted on June 17th, 2009 by Simon Barrett

    My wife and I had the opportunity to talk to a close family friend last night. We were brought us up to date on the case. In the last court date (June 1) the judge stipulated that the attorneys representing both mother Connie Bedwell, and biological father Dustin Thompson needed to get together and arrange a visitation schedule. The threat was also put out, that if this could not be achieved within a couple of days then Connie Bedwell’s attorney should resort to an ex parte hearing.

    Well 17 days later, nothing has been achieved. It is now 7 long weeks that Connie Bedwell has been denied access to her three year old daughter.

    The next court date is scheduled for June 30, another two weeks. And it is merely a continuance. New Judge, same old stuff!

    Dustin meanwhile has his attorney Sandra Amara trying to slap a $15k sanction on Connie for online transgressions. There is a supposed restraining order from Judge Kearney preventing Connie Bedwell from talking to the the press (and we here at BNN have made a point of not contacting her directly), however, no-one actually seems able to locate a ’signed’ version of this order. Attempts by the Bedwell family to obtain this information have been unsuccessful. Judge Kearney as you might recall removed herself from the case. The reasons for her decision remain conjecture. While I could offer some insider information, I suspect that my information would only cause more trouble for the Bedwell family.

    What really surprises me about this case is that it is not happening in some no name town in a no name state, Auburn is a scant 40 miles from Sacramento, California.

    A Florida based specialist Dr Saturley has offered his expertise to do a comprehensive family analysis, and he is offering this at no cost. Dr. Saturley has contacted the California authorities, and they have ‘green lighted’ the project. While the Bedwell family have signed on to the project, neither Dustin Thompson, nor his attorney have even had the courtesy to return his calls. Of course that is not surprising, Dustin Thompson has no reason to comply to the request.

    One has to wonder if the courts can force Dustin Thompson, and his intransigent lawyer Amara into agreement? Clearly the Thompson family have some pull in the area. Both Dustin and his father are county employees. And I certainly cannot forget the quote from the Auburn Journal “You have to remember that we have to keep in the good graces of the local police force”. This was the quote that Jan and I received from the reporter when we pressed her about the Bedwell case! At the time I was flabbergasted that a member of the press would say such a thing. That is akin to committing Hari Kari in the press world.

    In fact this case has been extremely difficult to investigate. Dustin Thompson refuses to return our calls, and the closest we have got to Amara is her office gofer, who would take a question, go ask Amara, then come back with a ‘no comment’. Amara even took the opportunity to go on a fishing expedition. Needless to say she came up empty handed. I am sure that she will be reading this article, so I will reiterate what I have said before. If Dustin is being falsely accused, why are you so reticent to talk to the press? I would also like to know why Dustin Thompson will not agree to an independent assessment? In my mind an independent assessment could go far in resolving this case. Generally it is only the guilty that would refuse such an offer.

    I know if I was being accused of heinous crimes against a small child I would welcome the opportunity to clear my name.

    One of the more interesting court documents is one from Connie Bedwells’s chiropractor. I hear you say “What could that have to do with anything”. It shows a clear style. A style that has been well documented about Dustin, his past conduct is somewhat questionable, but it does seem to include quite a bit of violence. One of the strange aspects involves an incident while he was in high school. Although he was 18 at the time, the records are still apparently sealed, sealed as a juvenile. The incident concerned a serious beating of a younger student.

    The letter from the Chiropractor can be read here. You can draw your own conclusions. Was Dustin involved?

    Simon Barrett

  561. Flappycakes aka Pattycake

    Flappycakes has an update for y’all to do with what you wish. Since some here think I KNOW NOTHING, I trust there will be no replies to my ‘non’ information. PS: TY for the new nickname, it’s a whole lotta fun :D, I just might change it officially.

    #1. BabyA is currently still seeing a child psychologist. I know I’ve seen concerns wondering if anyone sees the child anymore and there is.

    #2. Connie, for whatever reason, has not contacted DT’s lawyer to resume visitation with her child. Although unclear, the possibility exists that she cannot find a suitable visitation center willing to have her. It’s now been 41 days since her last visit – YES 41 days… and DT’s lawyer is fully willing & ready to comply to the ‘standard’ supervised visitation put in place by the courts. They just need to contact them and have not.

  562. Flappycakes aka Pattycake

    Maybe Karen can answer me pullleeeeze? Is it true Connie’s own lawyer will not return her calls? holy wow

  563. JustGetanInvestigation

    I like your new name Flappycakes, pretty cute. Anyway, leave me out of this. It looks like you have angered someone knew. I am not posting about anything except on BNN. So, please just leave me out of this.

  564. JustGetanInvestigation

    Flappycakes BFF,

    Wow!! LOL!

  565. Anne Ambrose

    Karen I would type some kind of comments but I can’t stop laughing. Sorry to funny, talk about being put in one’s place. You go folks, time someone who REALLY knows the truth expose the wanna be insiders. LOL this is great.
    Karen I feel jealous, I want Pattycakes BFF to be our BFF. She is awesome!

  566. Anne Ambrose

    The best part of all this is, all these FACTS about daddy are not even that paramount, wait until the pertinent facts come out. I predict an EXPLOSION that will rock a lot of worlds and knock the smug smiles off many faces.

  567. Anne Ambrose

    HAPPY DANCE ANYONE????

  568. LoraLee

    LOL First of all pattycake just because Dustins ex Michael Anne lied to the courts about Dustins abuse towards her doesn’t mean she hasnt disclosed that information to a number of other people that know she is lying too. And yes patty cake Dustin was 18 when he raped Connie at 15. He was drunk and there was no fight going on when Dustin viciously attacked Brian while he was drunk on campus. He was arrested for assault and was suspended for an entire semester, half the school year. The other fight had already occurred in a complete different location of the campus. You cant spread lies about an event that an entire school saw! Nice try Patty Cake. It’s all documented in the court file Patty Cake. And what’s even more hysterical about Michael Annes letter is that Dustin wrote it for her!!! Ask Steve he was there!!! Another guy Michael Anne was sleeping with at the time!

  569. LoraLee

    We are so tired of you Flappycakes! Why don’t you post Connie’s arrest record? Oh Yah! Because there ISN’T one! But keep spouting the lies from Dustin, you are just what you accuse KarenCCC of being! Spew crap, Flappycakes! Keep on keeping on!!!!

  570. Flappycakes BFF

    Actually and Factually Flappycakes

    1) Aaliyah is not seeing a psychologist. She has seen an MFT only 5 times in the last year with the child molester sitting in the room to intimidate her to make sure she acts exactly how he wants her to so he doesn’t get caught. Although Dustin Thompson thought he had it made by threatening the crap out of Aaliyah and sitting in the MFT’s room with her he couldn’t completely control Aaliyah from telling her mother in visitation what he does to her. Yes there is circumstancial evidence and quotes from Aaliyah about what her mad wormy daddy is doing to her documented in the visitation reports.

    2) Sandy Amara does not only NOT return BNN’s or Dr Saturley’s phone calls but Connie Bedwell’s attorney’s phone calls as well… Shocker! Do I see sanctions coming on Dustin for violating a court order that the judge was clear as day about?

    It’s okay Pattycake because the DA is familiar with pedophiles and this type of behavior. They know what the pedophile is doing. They know he is trying to cut off her visitation for 4 very intentional reasons…

    1) So continual evidence isn’t constantly stacked against him documented as Proof against him.

    2) So he can continue to stick his worm in his daughter’s mouth.

    3) All child molesters try to isolate their victims and cutt off the child-mother relationship.

    4) It’s just one more way to be abusive to Connie and Aaliyah both.

    Dustin Thompson might be fooling a number of ignorant people such as yourself, but there are people who do deal with child molesters on a daily basis that know exactly what he is doing. Thousands of child molesters have done this exact behavior before him.

  571. Flappycakes BFF

    FlappyCakes

    Ask yourself a few questions…

    The lies the pedophile is spewing to you that you type as facts, how stupid are you going to feel when they are all proven untrue?

    Think to yourself does any of his lies seem a little ludicrous? Do you know exactly how ridiculous you sound repeating them?

    Tim never kidnapped his children.

    This entire situation has nothing to do with Tim. Do you have the brain capacity to realize the pedophile is doing one damn good con job on you to take the focus off of his worm? Just marinate on that for a minute. Flappycakes my suggestion would be to go read a couple of books on child molesters before you keep flapping your cakes.

    Tim doesn’t even live in the same state as Dustin, Connie or Aaliyah. It shouldn’t be any harder than 1+2=3 to figure out that the pedophile has you focused on a single person that has nothing to do with the entire situation instead of having you focused on what is right in your face…Daddy’s worm!!! 5 year olds could do the math, but you can’t?

    If you actually had threats from the Bedwell’s you would have them posted already, but you and I know that as an absolute fact you don’t have such a thing. It’s just more of the same hot air that you spew with every other sentence out of your Potty mouth Flappycakes. It’s the same as you saying Tim has a criminal record which he doesn’t. We are all capable of buying it. Funny that you haven’t posted that yet either. What’s even more funny is a lot of us went to high school with both Dustin and Connie and are extremely familiar with Dustin’s lying manipulative criminal history. But Flappycakes you wouldn’t know of Dustin beating the crap out of people drunk and getting arrested for it or him beating the crap out of his girlfriends prior to him being the child molester that he is.
    The child molester loves to leave all the good factual information out and feed you some off the wall crap about Tim to sidetrack the less intelligent such as yourself with his lies and manipulation.

    Flappycakes when are you going to realize that the pedophile is using you as a puppet in his show.

    You should cut the puppet strings before he hangs you along with his worm.

    Take Aaliyah’s advice “It’s yucky!”

  572. "Guesswhat" 's BFF

    To Guesswhat AKA The Child Molester,

    We all have seen the supervised visitation reports where it is documented that she is refusing the potty and she is still in diapers.

    And there is one thing you are right about… She is potty trained. Connie had her potty trained before she regressed in it because of the sick child molester molesting her.

    We know it’s your goal to try to hide the sexual abuse symptoms she is having from your yucky worm, but anyone with a brain knows why a child at 3 1/2 yrs old would refuse the potty.

    You child molesting creep!!!

    We all can’t wait for bubba’s worm to be in your mouth at San Quintin. Maybe your two hole will hurt so bad you will refuse the potty too!!!

  573. Hey Porta-Potty-Patty

    Flappycakes, hope you like porta-potty-patty too because you are full of it sweetie!

    Dr Saturley has in writing knowledge about the 730 evaluation. You wouldn’t know that though because you speak of things you aren’t there for and know nothing about.

    “Dustinsfriend” aka Dustin: You have drug Connie into court every single occasion besides a restraining order in 3 1/2 years. We all know how obsessed you are with her. You need to move on and get a life and quit using your daughter as means to try to control Connie.

    Beast: The words “Patty” and “Facts” do not belong in the same sentence together. Hot air does not equal facts. Have you ever heard of these things called FIRSTHAND knowledge and PROOF? Something neither of you have! It sounds like you need to pull Dustin Thompson’s chlamydia infested yucky WORM out of your mouth’s!!

    To all of you Pedophile supports we are looking forward to you posting your proof!!! If Porta-potty-patty is your detective; You’re all going down the sewer with her!

    Hey Thompson’s when are you going to answer Dr Saturley’s offer? Hiding out behind Sandy Amara’s skirt and corrupt Placer County is only going to last for so long.

    Hey Dustin FYI: a little bird told me you and your daddy have a colonoscopy appointment done by law enforcement on it’s way. Maybe you and your daddy can hold hands for that too. And when Justice is served you both can have matching bracelets!!! It’ll be cute.

    It looks like your whole little plan of trying to convince the world Connie is “crazy” didn’t work. Now what are you going to do? Keep attacking her dad that lives over 4,000 miles away and has nothing to do with the situation? Sounds like a couple of real genius’ came up with that idea! LOL. The Thompson’s must have used their B.S. Degree’s they received from the University of Bovine Scatology (I know you will need to look this one up).

    PattyCake the only one threatening anybody is you repeating Dustin’s threats to Connie about how she is never going to have custody again. Keep it coming- It just shows the mindset of the threatening controlling abuser Dustin Thompson and why he is withholding visitation. He can’t help but be abusive in everything he does and says. Patty you talk with the child molester himself and deny what’s only obvious.

    Hey Flappycakes do you know that falsely stating someone is a kidnapper, has drug charges, all the other vomit that comes out of your potty mouth, etc is something called slander and defamation of character? =)

    You should probably put a couple of minutes of thought about whether you should repeat the B. S. out of the child molesters mouth. Ponder that!

  574. a stepmom & mom

    “If

    If you can keep your head when all about you
    Are losing theirs and blaming it on you,
    If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you
    But make allowance for their doubting too,
    * * If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
    * * Or being lied about, don’t deal in lies,
    * * Or being hated, don’t give way to hating,
    And yet don’t look too good, nor talk too wise:

    If you can dream–and not make dreams your master,
    If you can think–and not make thoughts your aim;
    If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster
    And treat those two impostors just the same;
    If you can bear to hear the truth you’ve spoken
    Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
    Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken,
    And stoop and build ‘em up with worn-out tools:

    If you can make one heap of all your winnings
    And risk it all on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
    And lose, and start again at your beginnings
    And never breath a word about your loss;
    If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
    To serve your turn long after they are gone,
    And so hold on when there is nothing in you
    Except the Will which says to them: “Hold on!”

    If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
    Or walk with kings–nor lose the common touch,
    If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you;
    If all men count with you, but none too much,
    If you can fill the unforgiving minute
    With sixty seconds’ worth of distance run,
    Yours is the Earth and everything that’s in it,
    And–which is more–you’ll be a Man, my son!

    –Rudyard Kipling”

    The father’s name *has been cleared* in a court of law, where it matters, where it is important for it to be clear in order for him to continue on fulfilling his responsibilities as a *parent*.

    Dr Saturley’s investigation is not being ordered or requested by the courts. In fact, just saying that it has been ‘greenlighted’ doesn’t mean that the courts *want it*. It sounds like they’re just saying ‘You are welcome to consult any professionals in your personal life that you choose to’.

    Dr Saturley’s investigation, if it were to occur, would simply serve to continue the internet circus for no actual legal benefit for the child. It might make dad feel better about himself, personally, to prove himself to anonymous people on the internet, but I don’t think that a good parent puts their personal pride before their child’s needs. And, this child needs the circus to end.

    What *would* help the child, if there is actually abuse going on or if there had been abuse going on, would have been visits to the child’s pediatrician and other medical professionals, at the time the abuse was/is happening.

    If the court orders it, I don’t believe the father would need to be ‘forced into agreement’. Has he violated any court orders so far?

    To say ‘I know if I was being accused of heinous crimes against a small child I would welcome the opportunity to clear my name.’ is rather short-sighted, in my opinion. If I were living day-to-day with a child (and I have lived through the toddler years with children of my own) and my *personal life* was in turmoil, as anonymous people on the internet accused me of things that had already been proven untrue with the people that matter, then I, personally, would put my responsibilities as a parent first and try to move on as gracefully as possible, letting the lies slide on past unless they affected my ability to parent. Stick and stones, etc…

  575. Flappycakes aka Pattycake

    Just when I thought Connies groupies could hit rock bottom, you’ve succeeded in a new low here. What a shame. tsk tsk tsk tsk

    BUT I WANT TO THANK YOU ALL WHO’VE POSTED AS OF LATE …. 12 DAYS TO THE NEXT HEARING AND THERE’S TREMENDOUS WORK GOING ON BEHIND THE SCENES ON DT’S END.

    YOU’VE BASICALLY NAILED CONNIE’S COFFIN CLOSED BY YOUR WORDS HERE TODAY. Thank you VM in assisting with that. Way 2 go :D

    THIS WILL LOOK GREAT WITH THE JUDGE ON JUNE 30th.
    I truly will no longer care to ever post IN A ROOM FILLED WITH BOTTOM FEEDERS people who are profoundly mentally ill. Bye all

  576. Huh?

    Once again, the bedwell family is posting accusations of those they disagree with of being the father. You fools still do not understand that you do not help your position, you hurt it. Stick to arguing the facts and lose the lame attitude, name calling and vile posts.

    No one listens to your nonsense- even if you have some valid points because you are only on the attack.

    When it comes down to it- this is just an internet blog, and will not decide this case in court- Although I must agree, that there are many libelous claims, and those are prosecutable and could result in civil suits. At minimum they make the Connie supporters look like lunatics. Especially that Dustin Thompson post.

    You really should stick to the debate of the facts, or even just the posting of the facts and give up on the childish attacks.

  577. I don't get it

    TO:
    Flappy aka Patty

    What effect could anonymous posters have on a court hearing that’s supposed to be based on facts ?
    Please try to speak as if you have a little common sense.
    In order for any of this to have any relevance in court, the judge either has to be biased and corrupt to allow anonymous posts entered as evidence or will need to subpoena. Flappycakes bff, “Guesswhat” ‘s BFF, and Hey Porta Potty Patty to testify. You give as good as you get and sling more mud than all the posters combined, then you start making threats when you can’t take the heat.
    You are pathetic and I feel sorry for you.

  578. I don't get it

    In response to Huh?
    Show me even one report from a medical doctor, or licensed psychologist that has documented evidence of sexual or physical abuse of this child by her father.

    Huh. Please show me one report that has documented evidence that there was no abuse by the father.
    You can’t, BECAUSE they are confidential records.
    Neither on of us know what they state. This court could work like the one who gave the perv who raped a 4 year old a year in jail. IDK.

    I do know that Daddy’s worm was yucky and made baby Aaliyah cough. I’m so sorry baby.

  579. WTH

    loralee— If Dustin raped Connie why did she continue to date him and have a relationship?

    guess what— If a child is being forced to give oral sex why would she have issues with potty training?

  580. Lies vs. Facts

    Over the next few posts let’s examine Lies versus Facts in this story.

  581. Lies vs Facts

    Over the next few posts let’s examine Lies versus Facts in this story.

  582. LL Papa

    LIE #1

    571 Flappycakes BFF
    June 18th, 2009 at 4:40 pm

    It’s the same as you saying Tim has a criminal record which he doesn’t…….Funny that you haven’t posted that yet either

    (Don’t worry Pal, she didn’t but I will)

    FACT #1

    FROM INTEGRASCAN.COM

    National Criminal Record Search
    Search Summary
    2 offender record(s) found, containing 2 offense record(s).
    Search Criteria: First Name=TIMOTHY, Last Name=BEDWELL, DOB=07/29/1960

    Jurisdictions Searched

    Search Criteria
    SEARCH DATE 06/05/2009 SEARCH TIME 4:56 AM
    FIRST NAME TIMOTHY LAST NAME BEDWELL
    DATE OF BIRTH 07/29/1960 STATE ALL

    Search Detail Records
    Juris. ID No. / Last Name First Name Middle Name/ Date Of Birth
    AK_AOC 24332/ BEDWELL TIMOTHY B/ 07/29/1960
    Additional Information
    Full Name BEDWELL, TIMOTHY B DC # 24332

    OFFENSE
    Offense AS11.41.270(A): STALKING-2ND DEGREE Offense Type MISDEMEANOR
    Case # 4FA-03-00765CR State AK
    Source AK_AOC Court FAIRBANKS
    Case Type CRIMINAL Disp. Date 05/05/2003
    File Date 02/26/2003

    Juris. ID/ No. /Last Name First Name Middle Name / Date Of Birth
    AK ADMIN OFFICE OF COURTS/ BEDWELL TIMOTHY B/ 07/29/1960
    Additional Information
    Full Name BEDWELL, TIMOTHY B DC # 1039806

    OFFENSE
    Arrest Date 02/26/2003 Case # 1039806
    State AK Source AK ADMIN OFFICE OF COURTS
    Case Type Criminal-Misdemeanor File Date 02/26/2003
    Disposition DS
    ——————————————————————————–
    FEDERAL CRIMINAL RECORD SEARCH

    Search Summary
    3 index case record(s) found containing 3 criminal record(s), 0 civil record(s), and 0 appellate record(s)

    Search Criteria: First Name=TIMOTHY, Last Name=BEDWELL, DOB=07/29/1960

    Regions Searched
    FEDERAL DISTRICT COURTS SEARCHED

    Criminal Index Case Records
    Name /Court/ Case No./ Case Name /Filing Date /Case Date
    BEDWELL, TIMOTHY BROCK /caedce /2:2000mj00103 /USA v. Bedwell/ 05/12/2000

    BEDWELL, TIMOTHY BROCK/caedce /2:2000cr00328/ USA v. Bedwell/ 06/22/2000 09/14/2000

    BEDWELL, TIMOTHY BROCK /nyedce/ 1:2000mj00909/ USA v. Bedwell 05/28/2000

    Appellate Index Case Records
    No Records Found

  583. LL Papa

    LIE #2

    425 Justgetaninvestigation
    June 2nd, 2009 at 7:00 am
    No, there isn’t a 730 examination ordered yet

    FACT #2

    543 Pattycake
    June 15th, 2009 at 2:33 pm
    730 EVALUATION WAS COMPLETED AND ACCEPTED INTO THE COURTS MAY 13, 2009.

    VALIDATED AND CONFIRMED BY OUR PAL

    558 Flappycakes BFF
    June 17th, 2009 at 7:19 pm

    There has been a 730 evaluation completed on January 5 and adopted in May, Flappycakes. You should get your facts straight!!

  584. LL Papa

    LIE #3

    (From BNN)
    Aaliyah Bedwell – An Update June 17
    Posted on June 17th, 2009 by Simon Barrett

    There is a supposed restraining order from Judge Kearney preventing Connie Bedwell from talking to the the press (and we here at BNN have made a point of not contacting her directly)

    FACT #3

    Jan Barrett said,
    in May 2nd, 2009 at 4:16 pm
    ok for the record, Simon and I have talked to this childs mother

  585. LL Papa

    LIE #4

    573 Hey Porta-Potty-Patty
    June 18th, 2009 at 5:37 pm

    Dr Saturley has in writing knowledge about the 730 evaluation. You wouldn’t know that though because you speak of things you aren’t there for and know nothing about.

    FACT #4

    Listen to Dr. Saturley’s own words with particular attention beginning at the 12 minute 45 second mark of the broadcast. He was NOT aware of a 730 Evaluation having been completed, as of 6/13.

    http://www.blogtalkradio.com/djxtreme

  586. LL Papa

    These are just 4 examples of the vicious lies being told by the mother’s supporters. I have many others, but I believe you can clearly see a pattern that has emerged of who’s telling LIES and who speaks the TRUTH.

  587. Cubby

    Happy Fathers Day DT!

    I am confident your daughter is safe with you. Let your ‘enemies’ fall on their own as they have.

    I thought I would share this with you, and your daughters wonderful paternal Grandfather from one lover of the game to another.

    You are a rainbow of hope, and the promise of hope via that rainbow for all the never married single fathers out there, as well as all the falsely accused fathers. God Bless!

    From Baseball Almanac.

    The Reason for Rainbows
    A Song to Baseball
    by J. Patrick Lewis

    Published: Baseball Almanac

    There was an Old Man of Late Summer
    Met a Winter Boy out of the blue,
    And he whisked him away
    From the city one day
    Just to show him what country boys do.

    He taught him three whys of a rooster,
    And he showed him two hows of a hen.
    Then he’d try to bewitch him
    With curveballs he’d pitch him
    Again and again and again.

    He taught him the reason for rainbows,
    And he showed him why lightning was king,
    Then he fingered the last ball—
    A wicked hop fastball—
    He threw to the plate on a string.

    Oh, the Old Summer Man and the Young Winter Lad
    Spent the light of each day—every moment they had—
    In the wind and the rain, or the late summer sun,
    Where he taught him to pitch and he taught him to run
    In the wind and rain and the late summer sun.

    But when that Old Man of Late Summer
    Met the Winter Boy out of the blue,
    He said to him, “Son,
    You can pitch, you can run,
    But to hit here is what you must do:

    Just pretend that the stick on your shoulder
    Is as wide as a bald eagle’s wing.
    You’re a bird on a wire
    And your hands are on fire—
    But you’re never too eager to swing.

    Stand as still as a rabbit in danger,
    Watch the pitch with the eyes of a cat.
    What will fly past the mound—
    Unforgettable sound—
    Is the ball as it cracks off the bat.”

    Oh, the Old Summer Man and the Young Winter Lad
    Spent the light of each day—every moment they had—
    In the wind and the rain, or the late summer sun,
    Where he taught him to pitch and he taught him to run
    In the wind and rain and the late summer sun.

    The Reason for Rainbows by J. Patrick Lewis

    One More:

    WHEN GOD MADE FATHERS
    by Erma Bombeck

    When the good Lord was creating Fathers, he started with a tall frame. A female angel nearby said “What kind of a Father is that? If you’re going to make children so close to the ground, why have you put the Father up so high? He won’t be able to shoot marbles without kneeling, tuck a child in bed without bending, or even kiss a child without stooping”

    God smiled and said, “Yes, but if I make him child size, who would children have to look up to?”

    And when God made a Father’s hands, they were large. The angel shook her head and said, “Large hands can’t manage diaper pins, small buttons, rubber bands on pony tails, or even remove splinters caused from baseball bats.”

    Again God smiled and said, “I know, but they’re large enough to hold everything a small boy empties from his pockets, yet small enough to cup a child’s face in them.”

    Then God molded long slim legs and broad shoulders, “Do you realize you just made a Father without a lap?” The angel chuckled.

    God said, “A Mother needs a lap. A Father needs strong shoulders to pull a sled, to balance a boy on a bicycle, or to hold a sleepy head on the way home from the circus.”

    When God was in the middle of creating the biggest feet any one had ever seen, the angel could not contain herself any longer. “That’s not fair. Do you honestly think those boats are going to get out of bed early in the morning when the baby cries, or walk through a birthday party without crushing one or two of the guests?”

    God again smiled and said, “They will work. You will see. They will support a small child who wants to ride to Branbury Cross or scare mice away from a summer cabin , or display shoes that will be a challenge to fill.”

    God worked throughout the night, giving the Father few words, but a firm authoritative voice; eyes that see everything, but remain calm and tolerant.

    Finally, almost as an after thought, He added tears. Then he turned to the angel and said, “Now are you satisfied he can love as much as a Mother can?”

    The angel said nothing more.

    Happy Fathers day!

  588. Cubby

    By the way DT, Your opponents are still hoping for a second chance at that first pitch.

    They seem to have forgotten the three strike rule for an out, etc. etc.

    Let them keep replaying that first pitch. Asking the umpires to review the call over and over. Maybe 20 years from now it will make some of those sports history funnies.

    Just do me a favor, please try a hot dog Chicago style, without ketchup. It’s a sin to have ketchup on a hot dog in Chicago. Just like it is a sin to not do your homework in family court. ;)

    Kiss A for us!

  589. Porta-potty-mouth-patty's BFF-4-life

    Connie’s group is more mature than you Flappycakes. They all don’t have to spend hours upon hours arguing your circle-jerk lies that you spread all day long.

    We are all just helping the Bedwell’s put the facts out there to show the great lengths the Thompsons go to deceive people to cover the facts of Dustin Thompson molesting his own daughter. It shows to anyone reading, the long extensive fight Connie has been up against fighting so many dishonest people, sick lies and gossip the child molester spreads about her and her family just to cover his crimes.

    And the first time you have ever been right Flappycakes… This will look great with the new Judge!!! Maybe it will spark him to actually read the file to see what a sick past Dustin Thompson has and make him wonder what kind of Judge gave custody of a child to an abusive, alcoholic, that has a history of abuse towards both the child and mother. Maybe it will spark him to watch the video of Aaliyah telling us all what her wormy daddy does to her at night on saveaaliyah.com.

    The only thing Dustin can do at this point “behind the scenes” is stop molesting his daughter “behind the scenes” since he has the world watching him. It must just piss him off that “Connie has reeled in the Nation” as he said in his restraining order. It kills the Thompsons knowing people outside of Placer County actually care to know THE TRUTH and FACTS pertaining to this case. These people that don’t live in an inbred, backwards, corrupt county such as Placer County actually want the truth and wonder why Placer County would have to violate Connie’s civil rights to hide the facts.
    They want to know how a child molester can unlawfully get a Judge to order full custody of a child to be taken away from a fully competent mother with absolutely ZERO proof against her. By California law, Judge Penney had unlawfully granted Dustin full custody. The court records state they took Aaliyah from Connie because she wont stop reporting abuse. By law you are supposed to report abuse!! Anyone see the contradictions within Placer County? Placer County is THE BIGGEST CATCH 22!! If she didn’t report the abuse she would be liable for endangering the child knowing he is a child molester.

    And Flappycakes why are you wanting so badly “to nail Connie’s coffin closed” or call her, her friends or any witnesses who know Dustin is a child molester “mentally ill?” Is it because you are the abuser himself???? Or are you just spouting his abusive talk he relays to you?

    Once again Patty, you should put some serious thought into the things you say given that the Child Molester himself has threatened to kill Aaliyah and Connie a number of times and then states she is “mentally ill” for trying to get help because of his crimes. It’s not exactly a safe bed to be sleeping in with him figuratively and literally if you know what I mean!

    WHAT IS YOUR REAL NAME PATTY?? WE ALL WANT TO KNOW?? You say you don’t speak with the wormy daddy so are you the wormy daddy? You sure use a lot of his favorite terms for “not talking to him”!!

    “a stepmom and mom”
    The ONLY reason Dustin would love to end his own circus that he created, would simply be to get everyone to look the other way to keep molesting his daughter!!!! He can play the caring, concerned, victim, innocent father role all he wants!! We PERSONALLY KNOW him and the sick games he plays!!

    Oh and June 30th will be another hysterical court session just as the last one was on June 1. It went like this…

    Connie’s lawyer speaking…
    John David Thompson do you have any proof that Connie is posting on BNN like you claim?

    JDT’s answer: No I do not.

    John David Thompson do you have any proof Connie is posting on myspace like you claim?

    JDT answer: No I do not.

    John David Thompson do you have any proof that Connis is posting on BTLS like you claim?

    JDT’s answer: No I do not… but there is information posted the next day about events that just occured in the court room!!!

    John David Thompson do you have any proof that Connie is posting ANY of this information?

    JDT’s answer: No I do not!!

    John David Thompson at the last court hearing I recall about 20 other people being in the court room other than Connie OR are you insinuating that I posted these?

    LMFAO!!!

    It will be the same routine on June 30th! It will go something like this…
    Now Connie Bedwell have you posted anything on the web since the ‘unconstitutional restraining order violating your civil rights that Judge Kearney that recused herself never signed’ has been in effect? …

    LMFAO!!!! Court should be pretty entertaining again! The Judge will probably be yawning like last time because Connie is NOT posting!! The child molester is just wasting the judges time to try to get the him to grant Dustin $15 K so that Connie can’t afford to fight his Child molesting *** in court!!

    It’s okay Connie we all have your back. God knows he is a child molester and he has his day coming. Keep being strong and fighting for what’s right!! We all admire your strength girlie!!

    Aaliyah honey we all miss you and think you are the strongest person alive to be going through what you are going through. It will all be over one day soon and you will be safe again and home with your mommy.

    Aaliyah means set apart above all, set on high, ascending to the heavens and TRUTH. The truth will come out honey keep being strong!

    Pattycake says she supposedly isn’t posting anymore! Patty did you just realize that you have opened yourself up to a lawsuit for slandering the heck out of Tim and Connie? Is that why you aren’t posting anymore? It would be the most intelligent thing you have done so far. We could only hope you are done posting your B.S., but like all of the other B.S. out of your mouth we all can’t bank on anything you say. See we can call Dustin a child molester because he is one. It’s not slander. It’s the Truth. And flappycakes It is documented in the pediatrician reports; You are probably one of the most ignorant of people I’ve come across.

    Hey Dustin take a lie detector test!! Connie will why wont you?

    G U I L T Y

    That’s why!!!

    Patty also I’ve gone back through some of your blabbing posts on other websites… Really? You have earned the right to judge the mother? Wow, God heard that one! Really? Do I need to post the supervised visitation reports that show you what a child molesting creep Dustin is in order for you to retract what you have said? It’s public information! It seems like you are the type that won’t ever admit you are wrong even if it’s in your face. I hope God judges you with the same judgement stick you are judging Connie with because you are so wrong.

  590. StopConArtists

    WOW I really believe people who can inappropriately be so graphic about molestation… it sounds like a joke to you guys. NEVER would I EVER repeat a single word of insults or horrible garbage that comes out of your mouths if I knew a child who was being molested.. you guys should be ashamed of yourselves.. I hope baby A will never have to read your disgusting language about her. Connie is not going to have custody much longer.

    And by the way unlike you trolls most of us get our information via background checks and by the courts…not a sad loser named Connie…. go back with your sister T*ts Mcgee and go party some more..

  591. StopConArtists

    visitation not custody*

  592. so many unknowns & assumptions

    It’s just so much circumstantial evidence with no actual proof of abuse at all. And, all of the circumstantial evidence could easily be chalked up to any number of regular childhood behaviors, especially behaviors associated with children who have a parent who is clearly not willing to put the child’s emotional needs before their own personal issues of anger, bitterness, deflected guilt, rejection or past childhood abuse of their own.

    Even the words the child is saying in the video could easily be interpreted in any number of ways. It would have been great to have been there at the time, to ask the questions that should have been asked, calmly & without fear – ‘Tell me more about that worm’, for example.

    If you can’t get past your own assumptions that the worm must, surely, be phallic in nature & could be nothing else, try thinking about the entire conversation if the adult with the worm had been mommy, instead of daddy. Surely you would never have assumed a phallus then, right? What would you have assumed? You’d want to ask the child more questions, wouldn’t you, before you made any assumptions at all. And, you can see that it could have been just about anything, then, from the imagination of a 2yo child.

  593. LoraLee

    Wow Cubby, you are just as smart as PattyCake! Goodness grief!

    LL Papa, just what exactly were you trying to prove? Tim has nothing to do with this case. NOTHING! Got it???? You are all disgustingly pathetic.

  594. Oh pedophile clan...

    “So many unknowns and assumptions”

    You say…
    “If you can’t get past your own assumptions that the worm must, surely, be phallic in nature & could be nothing else, try thinking about the entire conversation if the adult with the worm had been mommy, instead of daddy. Surely you would never have assumed a phallus then, right? What would you have assumed? You’d want to ask the child more questions, wouldn’t you, before you made any assumptions at all. And, you can see that it could have been just about anything, then, from the imagination of a 2yo child.” Blah, Blah, Blah…

    Well for the first 4,000 of us that were all able to see the entire 27 minute video of Aaliyah talking about her daddy’s worm know that she isn’t talking about the mom because she walks over to her mother and asks to sit in her lap, then explains that she doesn’t have a worm because she is home with her mommy. FYI: women don’t have penis’. No two year old can describe with such detail what her daddy has done to her without it having happened to her. And to say it was from her imagination is ludicrous because no child can tell of a consecutive story of her dad molesting her for two years unless he has been molesting her for 2 years.
    Why would the mother need to ask more about the worm? Aaliyah did a pretty good desription of it without having to ask her any questions. Have you ever thought that the mother didn’t want to give the wormy daddy any chance to use her questions as an out to say her mother coached her? It was super smart on her part to say as little as possible and let Aaliyah explain away. It was not the first time she has described daddy’s worm if you read through the documentation.

    Keep trying to come up with an aliby Dustin, Baby Einstein’s worm is green and orange and doesn’t gag people. There is no need to ever have to wipe Baby Einstein’s worm off her mouth with like a napkin. Your worm has been described as yucky with one eye and hair. Better come up with something more clever than Baby Einstiens worm, but then you would have to change your story like you always do when confronted about your abuse by us “crazy” honest people.

    And Thompsons if you cared so much about the world knowing about your granddaughter being a victim of molestation you would be protecting her and not covering for your P.O.S. son you raised and it wouldn’t have come to this point.

    Dustin you are no father. A father wouldn’t be molesting his own child like you are doing. Do you think sending yourself happy father’s day wishes on BTLS makes it appear like you are a good father? Come on we know what you are… A child molester.

    “inapropriately be so graphic about molestation” -Good one Dustin. Oh are we supposed to keep it a secret like you and your demented parents? No thanks! If you weren’t molesting her we wouldn’t have to talk about it. Once again 1+2=3.

    Truth hurts doesn’t it Thompsons?

    Take a lie detector test Dustin… Show the world how innocent you aren’t.

    Connie will take one.

  595. To HUUUUHHHHHH?

    Huh, look how mad you are that someone on here is putting the facts in your face.

    Name calling… What does fool and lunatic mean to you?
    I will call you names but I wouldn’t sit back in denial and pretend I’m not calling you names like you do.

    According to you, anyone telling the Truth it means they’re a lunatic. You can call me a lunatic all day long; I have no problem putting reality in your face.

    The ENTIRETY of the Dustin Thompson post is 100 percent factual. It’s as raw as it gets. The Thompson’s know it, Sandy Amara knows it and the Bedwell’s know it.

    How is it that you automatically assume this is a Bedwell family member? You sound silly, almost as silly as John David Thompson on the stand stating 18 plus times, “No I do not have any proof Connie is posting.” Who brings an 8 inch stack of paperwork to their own requested trial and not a single shed of it is evidence with the expectation of a $15K sanction? Oh that’s right, Sandy Amara does that. I see a correlation here. It sounds like “Huh” has a B.S. degree too!

    We all know that Dustin Thompson didn’t post that. We all know Dustin is incapable of telling the truth and therefore wouldn’t post such factual information.

    We all know Dustin Thompson’s posts include name calling such as “whore” and “slut,” have threats such as “Connie is never going to see Aaliyah again,” they refer to death such as “coffin” or state “Connie is gambling Aaliyah’s well being,” they almost always have a statement about how “mentally ill” anyone supporting Connie is. My suggestion to people respouting his lies is that given Dustin Thompson has threatened to kill Connie and Aaliyah both a number of times, it would be extremely dumb to quote his abusiveness.

  596. To LL Papa

    LL PAPA’s PROVES HIMSELF A LIAR WITH HIS PREVIOUS LIES

    p.s. If you are going to try to convince people of your lies you should at least try to be consistent. lol

    1) Altering a record report about Tim Bedwell doesn’t make it the truth. But what is funny is it shows us all what a liar you are because first your story was Tim kidnapped Aaliyah, then it was Tim kidnapped his kids, then it was he has drug charges, now it is this…??? You people are really twisted. For you to post this after all the other lies you tell just makes you look like the liars you are… so thank you!

    2) Just because a random poster was unaware of a minor detail doesn’t make it a lie from Connie’s camp. Connie’s camp was actually the ones who confirmed the exact dates for you LL Papa because your porta-potty-mouth-patty detective cant get the facts right.

    3) Connie can technically talk to whomever she wishes because that portion of the restraining order was not listed as part of the order… so the arguement is moot altogether.

    4) At that point in time maybe Dr. Saturley hadn’t read to the point discussing the 730 evaluation since it is discussed at the end of a 75 page document that you don’t have access to LL Papa!! Dr Saturley has it and you do not.

    LL PAPA HAVE YOU EVER HEARD THE SAYING…

    “IT IS BETTER TO BE PERCEIVED A FOOL IN SILENCE THAN TO OPEN YOUR MOUTH AND REMOVE ALL DOUBT.”

    YOU SHOULD JUST KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT AND YOU WONT CONTINUE TO MAKE THIS STATEMENT RING IN OUR ALL OF OUR HEADS EACH TIME YOU TALK.

    Who are you to think you can talk of a subject as if you have facts when you live in Florida? You aren’t here in California, you haven’t seen the court file, you haven’t met the Thompsons or the Bedwells, etc. You don’t even have an uncut version of the Daddy’s worm video.

    Abuse is a complex subject that the average human mind can’t begin to conceive unless they have experienced it themselves and/or have studied it for many years. It’s okay LL Papa we don’t expect average minds like yours to understand. We didn’t put the information on the net to explain ourselves to random ignorant people. It’s on the net to recieve help in which is being achieved in various ways already.

    You sure are a strange one to boldly speak of something you know nothing about. Why don’t you have a life? Maybe you should get some help from a counselor that can give you some direction in your life. That way you don’t have to waste your time on the computer defending a child molester all day when you aren’t even aware of the circumstances. Maybe Dr Saturley can help you? You should reach out for help really. We will pray for you.

  597. StopConArtists

    “You don’t even have an uncut version of the Daddy’s worm video. ”

    HOW wrong you are! I know I saved a copy of it to my computer before it was deleted on a myspace profile within the last month.

    Also I am not Dustin Thompson, I go by the name Butters on other sites and I have no shame in sharing that fact.

    I will be interested to see how your tune changes on June 30th…

  598. StopConArtists

    Also Cubby is a fellow blogger on another site.. we all post under one name unlike some of you…

  599. LoraLee

    I can’t wait for PattyCake to have to eat her keyboard…and it may just be before June 30th.

  600. JustGetanInvestigation

    I couldn’t resist:

    Full Name: Timothy B Bedwell Date of Birth:
    AKAs: Height:
    Weight:
    Hair Color:
    Eye Color:
    Race:
    Gender: Unspecified

    ADDRESSES

    V CRIMINAL OFFENSE 1
    Offense Date:

    Case Number: 4FA-03-00765CR
    Offense Type: Stalking
    Offense Code: AS11.41.270(A)
    Offense Description: STALKING-2ND DEGREE
    Date Reported: 02/26/2003
    Disposition: DISMISS
    Disposition Date: 05/05/2003

    V CRIMINAL OFFENSE 2
    Offense Date:
    Case Number: 4FA-03-00765CR
    Offense Type: Stalking
    Offense Code: AS11.41.270(A)
    Offense Description: STALKING-2ND DEGREE
    Date Reported: 02/26/2003
    Disposition: DISMISSED
    Disposition Date: 05/05/2003

  601. Anne Ambrose

    I couldn’t help but notice daddy’s supporters are comparing this sad situation to a BASEBALL GAME. I finally understand their motives. This is a game to them, just a game. They will say anything they need to. It is all a game.

    As for the poster who wouldn’t repeat those words even if you KNEW a child was being molested. How sad for the children in your life. It is so distasteful you wouldn’t repeat it. So if a child you love gets molested, how will you handle it? From your own words, I guess you wouldn’t do anything at all. I think you have some pretty major problems of your own and you should see somebody. That attitude is really sick. Normally the only ones who don’t want to expose this crime, are the ones who do the molesting. But then when the shared mentality looks at this as a game, what else would your position be. Get help please. You really do need it, all jokes and insults aside.

    You know the daddy supporters have done a good job of confusing these issues and even the average reader. First you screamed, you were stopping a scam a hoax. But its not like you sent money and had a reason to scream that. I asked long ago, if scams are really your beef, why not go after the big fish. The net is full of them, they aren’t hard to find. But no you latch onto a single mother who truly believes her child is being molested. You do all in your power to try and get her arrested, that failed. You launch a campaign to discredit her, but that hasn’t worked out as you thought it would. Now you say the mother SHOULD have asked more questions. Before you said she coached her. I think ANYONE can see why there is so much confusion.

    The Bedwell’s story has NEVER changed. They don’t come up with “evidence” that suits the situation. They have told the same story no matter what. Connie’s opponents have a defense for all seasons. Well it don’t fly, with all your combined IQ’s you have not figured that out yet?

    I don’t care what the judges say, the lawyers, the parents, the supporters from either side. I believe Aaliyah, I believe a child that will not be silenced. You hold onto one sentence, Mommy made me say it. I hold onto 27 solid minutes of a little girl talking without any assistance or even encouragement. You all play your games, I don’t have time. I want to help this child, her words need to be heard. She deserves to be listened to. To all those who have reduced this child’s abuse to the equivalent of a baseball game, I say God forgive you. There is no way to convince those who are determined that their team win no matter what the facts really are. All I can think to say to you is PLAY BALL. Leave the protection of children to the people who know its not a game!

  602. Hey Porta-potty-mouth-patty

    Someone told me today that you said you will eat your keyboard if you are wrong.

    Please tape this for us and youtube it!!! LMFAO

    You should be eating it real soon!!!

    Someone also told me the best joke I’ve heard all day… that you claim you are a child advocate! So could you please post child sexual abuse symptoms in 15 month old victims to toddler victims.

    If you really knew this information I question your intellect given the stance you have taken.

    You might want to back out of this situation since you supposedly just passed your course in May. You might ruin your career you haven’t even begun.

    Did you cheat your way through your course or did you get tutoring from Dustin the Child Molester?

  603. Ashley

    Hey LL Papa,

    It has been stated Tim has been “CONVICTED” of…

    Federal Kidnapping of Aaliyah,
    Federal Kidnapping of his children,
    Drug Charges, and
    Stalking

    Would you please explain to us what that record means since you posted it? Are they convictions, are they time served, are they suspended, are they dismissed, etc.?

    This record doesn’t seem to back the things that have been said so please explain it to me.

  604. Hey Anne A

    You are completely right about these “BASEBALL GAME PLAYERS” that think that Aaliyah’s life is just a game to play with.

    I don’t know if you are aware of this, but coincidently OR NOT Dustin David Thompson and John David Thompson (yep that’s his daddy) are BASEBALL COACHES!! Go figure! I know both of those perverts personally and this is just a game to them. Their posts continue to show their mindset. They are abusers that think they have a right to beat women and molest children, to them it’s just a fun little game they laugh at.

    Connie even writes about the “games” they play over and over again in her court paperwork and now you all get to see it here on the internet for yourselves.

    It’s always the coaches, priests or people you think you can trust that claim to be “pillars in the community” that are molesting children behind closed doors. The Thompson’s fit the profile. Molesters make molesting a game too. These two boys, I refuse to call them men, think life is a game.

    You know what type of people think life is just a game… Sociopaths. Read up on the definition of a sociopath and you will be convinced Dustin and JD Thompson are both sociopaths.

    Dustin David Thompson You are a Child Molester.
    John David Thompson You set a great example for your son.

    Get help!

    They have even sent a message to saveaaliyah.com stating to Connie that she is “gambling (like a game) Aaliyah’s safety and welfare.” Dustin has a serious gambling problem on top of his other problems. Dustin obviously feels Aaliyah’s life is just a game. Quit gambling your daughter’s life Casey Anthony, I mean Dustin Thompson.

  605. Butters/Dustin/stopconartists

    If you support a child molester therefore you are guilty by association.

    Dustin you probably do have a full copy of Daddy’s worm that you got off Connie’s myspace before you had her entire account deleted. Post it!! Show everyone how UNCOACHED Aaliyah is. Let them see the full 27 minutes of her talking completely on her own. Yeah you wouldn’t post that because then everyone would conclude that a 2 year old can’t talk about your worm for 27 minutes straight. Plus that video shows how much she loves her Mother, Darrel and Auntie.

    All of your lies and trash talking would be shown as exactly that, lies and trash talking. Then people would further conclude that you are exactly what we all know you to be… A Child Molester.

    Calling Connie a loser it just shows your abusiveness. Keep it up, keep showing the world what you are!

    Just to fill you all in that are keeping up with this situation. Dustin has very distinct patterns. He loves to flip everything he does on Connie. Keep your eyes peeled. Cara’s a partier now? Dustin we all know you are the one who does cocaine and has a drinking problem. Keep flipping your behavior on everyone else.

  606. so many unknowns & assumptions

    I’m not saying that mommy abused her & she’s turned it around and is using the video against daddy.

    I’m saying that the child didn’t say that her father abused her. She told about a worm.

    Just because daddy is a man and men have penises and penises could be said to look like worms doesn’t mean that the worm, in this case, is daddy’s penis.

    Without physical evidence or, at least, supporting psychological evidence, I think that the assumption that the worm is a penis is a sensational one. And, I’ve worked with children since I was 12 years old, in one form or another – that’s over 30 years – and potty training is a years long process for all children, with regression happening for any number of reasons, but especially common in children who trained too early in their development, so that doesn’t really stand out as an issue for me, at least not on it’s own.

    Without being able to speak to the child (as, I’m sure, the professionals involved have done), I can’t know what she meant when she spoke of the worm. Some non-leading questions would have been so easy to ask – ‘Tell me more about the worm’ ‘Where did it come from?’

    And, to paraphrase Freud’s saying – ‘Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar’… Sometimes a worm is just a worm…

  607. Icky Etardo

    Moving from “Dustin Thompson beat someone up when he was a minor” to “Dustin Thompson RAPED Connie Bedwell when she was only fifteen!!1!” certainly constitutes a radical change in the story, imho. “Nobody has ever investigated” to “This has been investigated 11 times,” is also a major change in the story imho.

  608. Anne Ambrose

    Something has occurred to me and I would really like an answer from those who support the father.

    Many of you keep repeating that Connie is making these accusations against Dustin because she is bitter. Others say she is a scam artist out for money. Then there are those who say she is mental. So which is it?

    Let me address the first reason you say she makes these claims. She is just bitter. What is it she is bitter about. SHE LEFT HIM. There is documentation, (you all have not seen I’m sure) in his OWN handwriting where he swears his love for Connie. Where he states he screwed up and will do WHATEVER she wants him to do to make up for all his “mistakes”. He states he KNOWS he was wrong and he is sorry. In his OWN handwriting he praises her for her kind and loving nature. He talks about how honest and pure her heart is. All he wants is for her to give him another chance. This documentation is NOT a letter to Connie. It’s something very official and as I said it is HIM admitting his wrongs NOT Connie accusing him. Again SHE was the one that wanted out. She had NOT met someone new, she just had all of the abuse she could take. She wanted him to move on and she wanted to do the same. She wanted him to acknowledge Aaliyah as his daughter and help her raise the child they both created. She NEVER wanted to exclude him from Aaliyah’s life, she wanted him out of hers. She would have been happy to co-parent with him UNTIL Aaliyah told her what he was doing. Then and ONLY then did she want to limit his access to this child. He has threatened suicide and when that failed he threatens to kill Connie and Aaliyah. He is as desperate as a man can get to have Connie with him. Forcing her is no problem to him, just so she is there. So I ask, what is she bitter about? It’s not like he left her and she is trying to get HIM back, she don’t want him.

    Ok the whole money thing, lets see here is a woman who has sold ALL of her belongings to get money for an attorney. She has sold everything she didn’t have to keep to live. EVERYTHING. So obviously material goods have little meaning to her. Her child is the most important and keeping her safe is her only goal. You have her painted as a materialist money grubber who is trying to get people to send her donations. What would she do with them? Buy toys and goodies for herself? But yet she sold everything she had EVERYTHING to try and spare her child from abuse. So that reason don’t really cut it either.

    Now the mental illness claim. She has been evaluated up, down and sideways and shows no sign of mental illness. She is stressed but any mother who believes her child is being sexually and physically abused who ISN’T stressed is a mother who is mentally ill.

    Now that I have gone through all the reasons you say Connie has for saying Aaliyah is being abused, and none of them make common sense, what’s next?

    In Dustin’s own handwriting he talks about Connie’s kind, gentle and loving nature. He talks about her honesty and goodness. He admits he did all she claimed and more BUT he is sorry. There is a number of witnesses to his abuse and threats of killing both Connie and Aaliyah. His mentality is if he can’t have her, nobody can. His abuse of Connie during her pregnancy clearly proves he had no problem hurting his unborn child. Aaliyah could have died from the physical assaults he perpetrated on Connie. He didn’t succeed in getting rid of Aaliyah before she was born. He can’t stand the thought of Connie loving anyone else, not even this innocent child. If you were EVER the victim of domestic violence, of a man who wanted to contol and own you. Abusive men are sick and will do ANYTHING to punish the woman who walks out. They know what hurts and scares you the most. The anger they feel for the victim extends to the person they THINK got between them and the woman they abuse. Women and children die everyday at the hands of a man like this. Connie found her strength and got away, she has ONE weakness, Aaliyah. This innocent child is Dustin’s way to hurt Connie, he is destroying both of them. You all believe he loves Aaliyah, but he don’t. If you watch the exchange video’s you can see how cold and unfeeling he is. It would break my heart to see my child in the state Aaliyah is in, NOT HIM. He callously ignores her plea’s and tears. Not something a person who loves a child can do. If the judge said they had to share the child so cut her in half. Dustin would have the knife, Connie would walk away. Now which parent really loves this baby girl?

    An average of 3 out of 5 girls are sexually abused before they reach 18. Those statistics are old and I don’t have the latest results from that research. The last numbers I had also showed 1 in 5 boys also had the same fate. The numbers have not gone down but have surpassed those reports. With all the children who are sexually abused why are so FEW men in prison for it? Why do so many get accused and walk away from the charges? The reason is because pedophiles are the most manipulative crimminals in the world. They are calculating and cunning. They know who to charm and how to do it. They confuse their young victims and they get off free and clear. They ALWAYS come up with a hundred reasons why their accusers are accusing them. It is easy to convince people they have not done what they are being accused of. None of us really want to believe this stuff happens. When you don’t WANT to know the truth, the truth aludes you. For all these reasons, child molesters are free to keep hurting kids. And all the good and decent people sit around trying to figure out how these things KEEP happening.

    They say its better to let ten guilty men go free then to wrongfully convict one innocent man. I don’t agree with us for crimes against children. Thinking like this is why are children are being raped and murdered. Until good and decent people are willing to see the ugly of these crimes, our children will continue to pay the price. We have to find the way to level the field. As it is now, a sweet innocent child is expected to do battle with a grown man who is skillful in deceit and crimminal behavior. It is equivalent to putting a newborn baby in the water with a crocodile. I will fight for the baby, you all keep helping the croc. But PLEASE don’t fight under the child advocates banner, it don’t compute.

  609. JustGetanInvestigation

    Anne A

    You are an amazing person. Thank you for that post. Even though it will be twisted and disected to make it look like something totally different, it is so true. I am so happy the baby has you in her corner.

  610. SEXUAL ABUSE

    To “so many unknowns and assumtions”

    You need to go back and read all of the information on saveaaliyah.com. The child has described “daddy’s worm” a number of times after she had been complaining about her daddy hurting her pee pee. Instead of ASSuming right now try to use common sense and logic. Why would a child be afraid of beds? Why would a child say her daddy is hurting her pee pee then claim he is sticking his one eyed hairy worm in her mouth? And she thinks she has married her father? If you pay attention to the words of the child even in the video alone she is refusing to sleep in the bed, eventually didn’t even want to be in a bedroom at all, and is insistant on telling her mother and auntie why she gets mad at her daddy all coinsiding with numerous symptoms of sexual abuse: nightmares, wanting a nightlight, fearing certain people and places, rashes, bruising, limping, regressing in breastfeeding and refusing the potty. It is a continual situation over a 2 year period. The child has told a consistant story of physical and sexual abuse from her father along with the physical, circumstancial and symptomatic evidence all pointing to the abuse. The two people Aaliyah is reacting to and making statements about is her father and grandfather (Dustin and JD Thompson). It all can only add up to one thing: It is undoubtedly occurring.

    No, it is not normal for a child to refuse to go to the bathroom. When a child is being abused, they regress to a level of a time when it was safe for them. On top of that fact, they want to control something in their world because the abuser has ripped any ounce of control from them. So in a child’s world there are few things they can control such as eating and using the bathroom. It is also a sign of psychological trauma.

    It is the exact same reason why abusers are so controlling. In this situation Dustin Thompson is extremely controlling of his victims because he has been a victim of abuse himself by his father. His parents seriously contributed to psychologically damaging of him to the point he feels the need to control everything and everyone. His parents raised him in an atmosphere in which he confuses love and abuse. Abusers learn to be abusers from their parents and it is a vicious cycle through generations. Dustin’s daddy John David Thompson is also an abuser which is where he learned it from.

    Incest perpetrators such as Dustin Thompson always have some form of violent past on the mother (read saveaaliyah.com) where you can see Dustin has slammed Connie’s head in the trunk of his car. The fact Dustin raped Connie when she was 15 shows his interest in young children at that point in time. Dustin Thompson completely from one end of the spectrum to the other has the entire profile of a child molester. It is not assumption it is fact.

    Even still at this very point in time, Dustin is using the court system and his daughter to abuse and control Connie. He is trying to wreck havoc upon her life in hopes she will return to him. Abusers can’t stand the thought of the woman ending the relationship which Connie did. Statistics show that is when abusers are the most dangerous and often murder their victims. They feel they have lost control of the victim and therefore feel the only way to control them is kill them. Read on saveaaliyah.com that Dustin would send Aaliyah home singing “Aaliyah, Aaliyah your mommy is dead.” In a post above it states he threatened to kill her 2 weeks before her due date. Men like Dustin Thompson and Scott Peterson are charming and manipulative. They work havoc behind closed doors and spend hours upon hours to convince the outside world that they are the best thing since sliced bread. Scott Peterson even had Lacy Peterson’s parents on his side at one point. Dustin Thompson happens to have manipulated a number of people through this process also. Abusers play a very charming role, usually playing the victim themselves to proceed in getting as many others as possible to join in on abusing their victims with them. Their goal is to isolate their victims from any form of help by using any means necessary. Dustin wants to isolate Connie and Aaliyah from getting any help. Abusers abuse their victims and then attempt to be their victims savior from the abuse they just inflicted. He wants to make it to where Connie has nowhere to turn but back to him. Dustin hopes in abusing Aaliyah Connie will have to go back to him.

    Someone needs to help put an end to this situation for Aaliyah. She is in serious danger with Dustin Thompson and John David Thompson.

  611. StopConArtists

    LMAO wow you really think I am Dustin sorry to tell you I have a vagina. I am all woman and I do not even live anywhere near California.

    So how many Lawyers has Connie gone through? I know its at least a handful of Lawyers.

    Sorry but I have my info backed up by the 11 CPS investigations and the 730 Exam. I don’t need to hear from Dustin or Connie. This child is safe, I really wouldn’t be able to live with myself if I were responsible for baby A having to go back with her mother.

    The video I got from a diff. myspace account and its not even Connies account sorry. Oh and I think at least half of us who are advocates for the truth and not some sensationalize story by Connie have seen the video. Like the scene were they are in the hall way and she is eating her hot dog. Yeah I have seen it… not a proof of abuse at all.

  612. To Icky Retardo

    Reported 11 times doesnt mean investigated 11 times.

    And yes Dustin at age 18 raped Connie when she was a 15 year old child. It is a complete separate event from Dustin committing assault and battery on a student on campus while under a controlled substance (that yes indeed occurred also).

    Last time I checked in California an 18 year old sleeping with a 15 year old child is statutory rape. Last time I checked, when a female tells a male no 3 times, it means the sex wasn’t consentual.

    Dustin Thompson has the profile of a child molester 10 years prior to him hurting his daughter’s pee pee and sticking his one eyed yucky hairy worm in his daughter’s mouth.

    Dustin’s definitions regarding sex doesn’t apply to what’s considered normal. Raping a 15 year old child and continually molesting a 15 month old child through 3 1/2 years old is not normal.

    If Dustin’s parents would have given him boundaries to abide by and consequences for his actions instead of enabling him, he probably wouldn’t be who he is today. Why would they punish Dustin for something they taught him was okay though right? Dustin’s behavior is a reflection of them so they feel the need to lie and cover for him.

    It’s the same pattern as Casey Anthony’s parents. They deny they raised a murderer.
    Dustin Thompson’s parents deny they raised a child molester threatening to be a murderer.
    Neither families care to give justice to the innocent babies, but only care to protect the monsters they have raised.

  613. I don't get it

    Some answers in response to the post by so many unknowns & assumptions..

    U & A said :Just because daddy is a man and men have penises and penises could be said to look like worms doesn’t mean that the worm, in this case, is daddy’s penis.

    ****What kind of worm would daddy have that would hurt Baby A’s mouth ?

    U & A: I think that the assumption that the worm is a penis is a sensational one.

    ***Then what was Aali referring to ? We know that the worm belonged to daddy, we know that the worm is yucky and that it makes Aaliyah cough ( Aaliyah makes a gagging sound)
    We know that daddy has to wipe the worm that belongs to him off with like a napkin.
    Many little girls go through life being sexually abused. When Aaliyah is old enough to talk and use words like penis and blow job, will anybody be fighting for her like they’re fighting to save the worm ?
    What will those who allowed it to happen say ? OOPS ! My bad.
    We have Aaliyah’s testimony, when is someone gonna save her ?

    U & A: Without being able to speak to the child (as, I’m sure, the professionals involved have done), I can’t know what she meant when she spoke of the worm. Some non-leading questions would have been so easy to ask – ‘Tell me more about the worm’ ‘Where did it come from?’

    ***Aaliyah’s aunt said she told her that the worm had one eye and hair, like on the top of your head.

    U&A: And, to paraphrase Freud’s saying – ‘Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar’… Sometimes a worm is just a worm…

    *** Sometime’s a worm makes you cough.

  614. StopCONARTISTSnamedDUSTIN

    Your right you do have a vagina DUSTIN DAVID THOMPSON…

    You are a one big vagina!

    It starts with a P and ends with a Y and has a USS in the middle.

    Child Molesting CREEP.

    You can’t pick on someone your own size so you rape and beat women and children! PIG!

  615. StopCONARTISTSnamedDUSTIN

    Hey wasn’t Scott Peterson cleared by the police as a suspect at one point in time before the TRUTH came out?

    Oh Dustin David Thompson your day is coming too. It looks like you and Scotty have a little something in common.

    Dustin since you want to claim that Tim has been convicted of kidnapping, hopefully he could get a few people lined up in Prison waiting for you. I here they love Child Molesters like you.

  616. so many unknowns & assumptions

    Just wondering if the people (person?) who think that there can be no other interpretation of the child’s words have children of their own (that they spent loads of quality playing time with).

    The first possible alternate interpretation that comes to my mind, as a parent, is that the child was, as children do, picking things up off of the ground & putting them into her mouth. I can easily see a parent getting goofy in order to help the child learn, pretending to pick dirty yucky things off of the floor themselves (things like worms) and putting them in their own mouth, offering them to the child, and, yes, wiping their mouth afterwards with a napkin.

    I have no idea if this is what the child was talking about. Or if it is abuse. Or if it is gummy worms. Or a puppet. Or a toy. Or any other imaginary game that might spring from the mind of a child at play with a parent who’s playing along.

    It’s odd to me that people can see only one possible interpretation. Yes, abuse does happen. I was a victim of sexual abuse myself as a child. But, that doesn’t mean that it always happens to everyone or that people don’t lie about it (or think it’s happening when it isn’t).

    I don’t know any of the people in this sad story. I don’t know anything about this story besides what I’ve seen on the internet. If I’m on anyone’s ‘side’, it’s on the side of the child. These preschool years are so very important to a child’s development. The lessons that they learn at this age regarding the world around them, that it’s safe, secure, that they are surrounded by people who they can trust to put them first, to guide them as they grow, are the very foundation of who they are to become as adults. A child at this age needs stable adults around them who act as role models of good behavior, who act as safety nets while the child explores their boundaries, who help the child past normal fears & mistakes.

    This child’s development seems secondary to at least one of her parents – second to that parent’s emotional issues, whatever they may be.

    The fact that these accusations, along with any physical or psychological evidence that the mother has presented, have been reviewed by professionals multiple times and found to be unfounded every time, leads me to believe that it’s mom who’s not figured out that parenting means growing beyond your own self, means realizing that the world’s not all about you anymore.

    Why she’s doing it? I don’t know. I like to think it’s not malicious – that she believes (or has made herself believe) that she’s doing what’s right.

    I’ve known my share of divorced parents where they both started out saying the right things about co-parenting and respecting the child’s other parent, but where one of them didn’t really mean it, or didn’t intend to honor their co-parenting promises – didn’t think it was really going to happen. At that point, frustration, anger, sadness, feelings of low self-esteem when they see their child loving the other parent, regret, competitiveness, bitterness, jealousy, all kind of emotions come in to play. People are complex, they change, they show one side but feel another. It’s hard to move past that, to make the right decisions no matter how tough they are, how much they make you grow. Some do it better than others.

    It’s just sad that there’s always a child or two stuck in the middle, their childhood & the lessons they’re supposed to be learning, lost in the mess of failed adult human issues.

  617. Anne Ambrose

    Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar, a worm just a worm. But always clueless is just clueless.

    To the Bedwells,
    Keep fighting, don’t ever give up. Those of us who believe this story are praying for Aaliyah’s safety. Hopefully she will grow up and speak for herself. By then the damage is done and she will have to deal with the aftermath. Those who doubt her will have to live with the things they have said and the harm they have done. My loyalties are and from day one been with this very special little girl. For those who have taken Aaliyah’s side just know, there is no wrong side by standing up for her.

  618. Doesn'tMatter

    I see Tim Convict got back online in time to spread more lies before court. youre all so friggin hilarious the stupid posts could never be taken serious. bedwells are a joke huge joke huge huge huge like a worm joke

  619. marmite

    so many unknowns & assumptions

    You cannot have seen ALL the evidence online and still doubt what Aaliyah is describing in the Daddys Worm Video.

    Did you watch the full 27 minute uncut version? Have you read the witness statements? Have you watched the ‘Exchanges video’, have you seen the documents handwritten by Dustin where he describes how badly he behaves. If you claim to have seen ALL the evidence and still don’t believe what Aaliyah is trying to tell her Mom you are seriously deluded.

    http://www.saveaaliyah.com/

    http://www.thepetitionsite.com/1/help-save-aaliyah

  620. StopConArtists

    All the witness statements who happen to just be family and friends.. not professionals.

    Who knows maybe Darrel or some other guy wrote that out and now they try to pass it off as Dustins handwritten note.

    And I have watched the full 27mins I do not see a thing that screams abused child.

    I can see all the “evidence” online and know that she is safe with her dad. There is a completed 730 Exam, there is an out of county judge and Connie has had a handful of lawyers because they find out how much of a case she DOESN’T have after awhile..

  621. StopConArtists

    And if Dustin or his lawyer wants to contact me to provide the evidence that I am not Dustin they can go to the website that my name provides and find me. My name is Butters on that site. Because I would hate to see Connie trying to pass me off as Dustin as some sort of “evidence”.

  622. IT'S OLD

    Seriously, you people need to get a freakin life. All you do is bicker back and forth about the same thing and call each other names. Take a step back from your computer and find a social life outside of your home. All I can see are losers fighting a battle that you can’t win because your a dumb azz blogger!!! Not one of you is probably personally involved in the case. Get over yourselves, this was originally about a child, has everyone forgoten about that? Maybe Aaliyah is in danger and maybe she’s not but all of you have made this about getting the last word. Obviously you all continue to return so your never gonna get the last word.

  623. MelissaC

    Well well so Dustin can contact Butters if he NEEDS her. You would do anything to get on the inside of this case. You are a joke. Poor helpless Dustin NEEDS you to save the day. YOU ARE DELUSIONAL. How empty must your life really be?

    Perhaps you should sweep your own door step before you take the broom to Connie’s. You are so desperate to be on the inside of this case that you’re begging the worm to contact you. Hey Worm you got a good witness here, call her. She will save the day. Not to mention if you call her the other 2stooges she associates with will help you to. Let me think you could get, Butters, Flappycakes and CA all for the price of one. I bet Mr. Ed would jump on your wagon to.

    Mr. Dustin’s whole fan club could testify as character witness. They want to be witnesses and the Judge will know right off the bat, these are some real characters. Sounds like a plan to me. All these people who have known you for soooo long can swear you are not guilty of anything. I’m sure the Judge will take into account the long and close relationship between all of you. You’re a joke, a group of jokes. There is a reason some call you all the outhouse group. I’d buy a ticket to that show.

    Hey and you have an almost licensed almost certified child advocate in that group. She has not actually had a real case but hey she will testify about her 20 years experience on this subject. You can do that for your good buddy Dustin can’t you Flappycakes? Then there is CA mother of 5. Course only 2 of those are hers but that is just a technicality. See they hold everyone to the highest standards except them-selves and you. Kind of like Ms. Amara, right Shelley? Then there is Butters herself, she has taken you under her wing cause she is such a Butinski her own family don’t like her much. They just misunderstand you don’t they Butters? Then there is Mr. Ed. Well he pretty much ignored his son growing up but he REALLY likes his granddaughters a lot. So he thinks he may be some kind of expert on kids. If he had been involved raising his own kid, he would know he’s an expert instead of thinking it. A stellar list of witnesses. Dustin you better recruit them quick. You NEED them.

    I have laughed so hard I nearly wet myself. This is too funny and my side hurts. I need to move on. Laughter is the best medicine but Butters you have made me OD on it.

  624. do something productive

    ca, butters, flappy – get a new hobby, you suck at this one. maybe try match.com to find someone special to share your thoughts with. I personally am tired of reading your negativity. So you say you are all together at another site? Go back there then and spread your bad attitude to each other.

  625. Beast

    Melissa..Gee and you are calling other people stupid? CA does have 5 children, and she gave birth to all of them. I know, I am her husband. Perhaps you are confused that only 2 of them are “biologically” mine. But I suppose that is just a mistake by someone blinded by stupidity. Obviously YOU are the one that cant keep the facts or truth straight. Since you know nothing about love or families, that is clear and I will explain something to you. Paternity does not have anything to do with being a mother or a father. That is just a technicality. I wonder if you have any children of your own? You see WE have a lot of experience with children, and can very easily see what is possible and what is not. What is normal behavior and what is not. There is no proof that DT is abusing A. But there is abundant evidence that C is a poor mother.

  626. LoraLee

    Beast, EVERY child is different. What you have experienced with your children is different that what others may have experienced with theres. There is not generalization to that. And there is no evidence that Connie is a poor mother. She loves her little girl very much and is doing what she feels she should do in order to protect her. THAT is not a “poor” mother. That is a great mother! And if your wife thought that anything was happening to her children (not by you, just by anyone) would not do the same thing that Connie is doing in order to protect her child if she thought no one was listening to her, what would you suggest she do? If you were both told that there wasn’t enough evidence to prove the allegations, what would you do? Espceially after two years???

  627. Talina

    Beast,

    I’ve seen you post before something along the lines of that because you have children that you know what is possible and what is not possible. I would say that what is possible and no possible varies a great deal between all children.

    I have 3 myself and one talked in complete sentences at the age of 16 months with a vocabulary that was astounding, one did not speak in full sentences until well beyond 24 months, the other was more quiet in nature and spoke when he wanted to speak, not when you prompted him. The differences among my own 3 children did not stop at their speech development, it went way beyond that. I just gave speech development as a simple quick example. My 20 month grandaughter has been talking in complete, understandable sentences for well over 3 months and she uses sign language.

    For someone to say because they have children it gives them an edge to know what is and is not possible with all children or normal/not normal paints an awful broad brush that IMO is ripe for error since it can and does vary so much between them all.

    I also don’t see how anyone blogging about this on the internet can possibly know with all certainty that “there is no proof DT is abusing A. But there is abundant evidence that C is a poor mother”.

    While I have not seen any “proof” that there is any abuse going on by DT, I have seen what (to me) is suspicious. On the other hand, I have not seen the abundant evidence that you say proves C is a poor mother. The fact that she does not have custody and is on supervised visits does not prove to me that she is a poor mother. If the accounts are correct that we have seen posted by those that proport to be connected to this situation in real life, then it is very suspect the reasons why she lost joint custody. All I’m offering here is that none of us really know. We don’t have any hard evidence in front of us either way.

    It’s unfortunante that so many people who have absolutely no way of knowing first hand what is really going on with the little girl feel so compelled to speak as though they do and then trash so many others for having an opinion and voicing it. The ones I am referring to are the ones that have only learned about this on the internet and jumped on one band wagon or the other. I am not referring to the people posting here who do have first hand knowledge by virtue of knowing these people in real life and are posting here to give their first hand accounts of what they have themself witnessed. That is a far cry different than a blogger claiming to have done research in publc records or talked to someone that talked to someone, etc.

  628. do something productive

    Everyone bow – beast is here and he thinks he’s the king. King of BS lol

  629. I don't get it

    I haven’t seen abundant evidence that C is a poor mother. It’s obvious that she loves her daughter very much. She believes that her daughter is being molested by her father.
    The only people that know for sure are A and her daddy.
    Oh, I forgot — the worm.

  630. MelissaC

    Hello Beast,

    This case got my attention from the beginning. I read all the posts I can. I have done my best to keep up with it. I don’t fight with either side as a rule. You guys have finally got to me. Somebody I can’t remember who called you all sheep and they are right. You and your group twist and tweek stuff til the only truth left is the players real names.

    Using your kind of logic I’ve been able to paint a picture of some of you. If you don’t ike my art work blame your-
    selves. I’m using your supplies directions and your lead to make it as truthful as you have the accusations against Tim
    Connie and all the Bedwells.

    I see facts about as clear as all of you. Remember I am following the same kind of logic you and your flock use. I could never paint such a colorful picture using my normal logic. God I love thinking like this. I have not ever been able to mangle facts so much.

    It is a fact CA has 5 kids. I got the number right so I told the truth. It don’t make no difference who the daddy is. I never said nothing about him or her husband for that matter. If over half her brood ain’t yours huh, sounds like a big ole personal problem to me.

    Have you 2 ever thought about getting off the computer and going to see a real marriage counselor. I know both of you have a bunch of faith in your online professional amatuer blogger friends. But they are dabbler shrinks and they ain’t addressing the real deal here either. See these are the kind of facts to be ignored.

    Beast ole buddy there ain’t no gentle way to tell you what you need to know. I am going to just spit it out. You are a decent man but you are in denial big time. There is an elephant in the room and you need to look at it.

    It ain’t normal for a married woman to run around getting knocked up with kids that ain’t her husbands. There is no good reason for her doing that stuff. Your online friends seem to think different than average people. They might be thinking your wife’s family has a shortage of offspring. They might even think she is having all them extra kids with her cousins so her family tree keeps growing. Or could it be you ain’t upset cause her babies daddys are your cousins? Could it be your kin need more branches on their trees? At least that tells me why you plain don’t care half your kids ain’t even yours.

    One fact you got perfect no doubt about it. I don’t know nothing about love and families, not your kind anyway. In my world, daddy’s get downright upset when their wives present them with other men’s babies. Beast I really tried to get on board with you on this one. I can’t do it. It don’t matter which one of your blood lines could end. It blows my icky meter off the charts. You hit the nail on the head. I don’s know nothing about that kind of family love!

    You are right there is no proof that DT abuses Aaliyah. That is normal to. Guys who do this stuff never do it in front of people. Using your kind of logic even a nationally broadcast TV show would not be enough evidence. If DT hand wrote a full confession, somehow Connie would be to blame.
    You are also right that the mother is poor. The father has made sure she uses every dime she earns fighting ridiculous accusations in court. Paying $100.00 bucks a pop for an hour visit with her child. Being poor has cost her custody of her child. If what I hear is really true, there is a new day coming. Things are about to change according to my info.

    No sense wondering if I have children, I do. 2 of them and they both belong to my husband. We kind of like it that way.
    We both come from large families. There is little to no chance either of our blood lines will come to an end. There
    is no need to, how can I say this, learn or engage in your kind of family love. We really like that. Our family tree’s aren’t even in the same forest. Again liking it.

    About your all your vast experience with kids. How much can you learn by ignoring your kids sitting in front of the computer screen. Husband, wife and their dualing keyboards. Yes you can learn a barrel full about what is normal and not normal. What exactly is your expertise? 1001 ways to keep 5 kids from interrupting your computer time? Who is better at ignoring those kids? How many family members don’t answer their phones when your number comes up on caller ID. They are probably all sick of you pushing your kids off on them, even if some of them are the daddies. You are right about having the most experience. I take care of my kids. They are fed balanced meals, bathed daily and have a regular bedtime. The focal point in our home is not his and hers computer stations. My kids wear clean clothes every day and they live in a home that is neat, clean and orderly. People who parent like you can be found online 24/7.

    I seldom post because I don’t have time. I am busy caring for my family. We live a normal life and think normal thoughts. You will never find myself or my husband online fighting for a man accused of abusing his daughter. I have a life off line. I find my own logic makes sense to me. Your logic does not make sense to anyone except you and the faithful flock who follow you.

    Beast by your logic I took your own words and twisted, tweaked and mangled them until the picture I painted was to my liking. That is exactly what you have been doing to the Bedwell’s for weeks. How do you like it? I’d bet you have called me nuts and worse many times. I bet I’m being called delusional to. When you absorb all I have said and how crazy you believe me to be, think about this. Your rants and ravings sound just as crazy and vindictive to each of us not in your circle as mine sounds to you. Deal with your logic for awhile. We all have had to and its old. Move on none of your group have been asked to involve yourselves in this case. You annoy us as much as those 5 kids annoy you.
    Ok I’m done. D U N N done !

  631. 70sixspeed

    So for those of you who question Connie here is some “inside” info on her… I have known her VERY VERY closely for 2 1/2 years and have spent more time with her then anyone in that time. All of you who say she is doing this for vengeance are clearly ignorant. In no way would she EVER use her daughter as any kind of vengeful tactic, or leverage, or in any way to try and get revenge on dustin. Her daughter is her life- believe me, she would do anything to protect her daughter and to nurture and raise her in a safe, stable, loving environment. Just a few weeks after Aaliyah was born she packed up everything she could carry and moved a few thousand miles away after he physically abused her while she was holding newborn Aaliyah and at the same time threw soiled diapers at her which hit Aaliyah in the face. She left everyone she knew and loved to get away from dustin and keep her baby safe and protected from her baby’s own father. Several months later when dustin filed an ex-parte hearing to try and get Connie to move back so he could see Aaliyah- the judge presiding over the case placed a no- contact order on dustin stating he could not annoy, harass, or contact Connie in anyway. Dustin filed the hearing and after the judge listened to the evidence and talked to dustin he decided AGAINST dustin and told Connie to remain in Alaska at the time. Connie has ALWAYS put her daughter before her needs or anyone elses- Aaliyah is all that matters to her. She raised Aaliyah in a safe loving environment and Aaliyah was one of the most intelligent, well spoken, happy babies I have ever seen. This was all in thanks to how much love and support Connie gave her- Aaliyah ALWAYS had 100% of her attention- and it was so obvious to anyone how much Aaliyah loves her mother- every time she sees her she gets incredibly giggly and hyper and playful and wants to show her mom everything she knows! The first time Aaliyah spent the night for visitation at her dads house- when she returned to Connie’s home she actually ran in the house and was doing somersaults in the living room and running around playing with all her toys- this was all after she was shaking with joy laughing at the top of her lungs and hugging Connie uncontrollably in excitement the second she saw her mom at the visitation exchange!

    Some of you say that Connie is a liar- that she is “making all of this up”- what proof do you have of ANY of that? Like I said- I have known her VERY closely for along time spending all of my time with her- and have NEVER caught her in any lie, not even a little white lie. She does not believe in it- it has never even been an option for her, her religious belief and personal morals prevent her from lying, and she is by far the most honest person I have EVER met. If she is so bad- like dustin tries to say on here- then why, in his own handwriting, did he say that her 5 best characteristics are her sense of humor, how trustworthy she is, her caring nature, that she’s mature and loving? Why did he say that he lies and yells and has anger problems and fears losing her and he cant be without her cause he needs her? Why did he say it’s his fault that she felt the way she did- and that he doesn’t want to change because he has been that way for so long- which a little tip for you is a prerequisite of a sociopath… Why did he admit in his own writing that he hurts her and he is emotionally unstable? Doesn’t sound like he is the best guy in the world to me. So what evidence do any of you ignorant people have that prove Connie has EVER lied- or done any of the stuff you are accusing her of??? The only thing Connie ever has done wrong in this case is actually coming back to California after believing the courts saying she would be protected from him…

    When Connie first moved back from Alaska- she did it so Aaliyah would grow up knowing her father. At first everything was great with Aaliyah and her dad, but at the time Connie was telling me that she had noticed dustin around her apartment and stalking her. Soon after that dustin and I met- and almost immediately Aaliyah started changing attitudes severely towards dustin. She no longer was happy to see him like she used to be- and around that time she started saying in her limited vocabulary daddy owies and other scary things. Sure seems odd that after he wrote in his own handwriting that he fears losing her- and after he told Connie’s Grandmother that Connie will always be his- Connie’s daughter started coming home with bruises and was scared of her own dad. Sure seems like after realizing that he in fact DID lose Connie, and realizing that he could no longer take his anger out on Connie- he did the next thing he could do to hurt her- which unfortunately was to abuse there daughter so that he could still control and hurt Connie. It sure takes a weak man to hurt an innocent child- but it takes a sick demented man to hurt his own flesh and blood.

    Now back to the ignorant people who pretend they have inside info on the case… Those of you who talk about the 11 CPS investigations that have been thoroughly investigated and cleared– what evidence do you have? Just to be clear- I have been to almost every single court case- and the CPS reports have come up numerous times- but the second the judge calls CPS, he COMPLETELY clears the courtroom except for mother father and paternal grandparents. They are the ONLY ones allowed in- not even Connie’s sisters can be in the court to hear ANYTHING about the CPS reports… To be clear once again- reports DO NOT mean investigations- I made a report pertaining to what Aaliyah had told me- and all they did was write it down and say thanks for calling and I never heard from them again- great “investigations” they do… So for those of you saying you have seen the reports- please please post them and share them- I am willing to put money on the fact you have zero details about any of the “investigations”…

    Now onto those of you who seem to have deemed Tim as a criminal… It’s very easy to doctor a document to not show how Tim was dismissed of all charges- or you must have forgotten to mention that the person he was accused of stalking was his former boss who is now in prison on a 99 year stint for second degree murder of a 21 year old girl who he had tried to sexually abuse while high on cocaine. Ohh and the other guy he was dismissed of stalking- was the brother of the murderer who helped hide the girls body and then committed suicide so he wouldn’t have to testify against his brother. You can read all about it- just search Mike Lawson and Bob Lawson on Google…

    So what evidence have any of you really seen??? It is very easy for all of you to just say you have inside info- but I bet that you know nothing other then you have read online or someone told you in a blog- and just so you know, thats not inside info! I have been around for all of this real life- not reading about it from the liars on here saying what they think will help dustins side- I have formed my opinions based on what I have experienced and seen in person- and from what little Aaliyah has told me and from seeing all of the signs of abuse she has shown towards dustin. So if all of you want to keep fighting and saying ignorant lies about Connie- just know that in the end you will be judged and punished for your willingness to help a pedophile…

  632. Icky Etardo

    Personal attacks on other users do NOTHING to help Aaliyah. It’s also pretty amusing when someone says “You need to find something else to do/get a life” and then follows that up with 10 more paragraphs.

    The police have CLEARED Mr. Thompson of all wrongdoing, and no number of personal attacks are going to change that. We’re at the end of the road here. Unless somebody manages to come up with some sort of concrete NEW evidence, the case is over.

  633. MelissaC

    Icky Etardo

    I find your name amusing. Is it a play on someone famous say maybe Ricky Ricardo of I Love Lucy fame? Or perhaps a nickname people have given you? Let’s see what kind of name could have been given to you that made you come up with the version you WILL share with the world. Oh I got it, could it be the real name you are known for is Sicky Retardo, I bet that’s it. It sure seems to fit you well.

    Just what rope are YOU at the end of? And who are YOU to decide this case is over? Does the Judge know of your decision to end this case? Do the Bedwells? Just who has
    given YOU the authority to say its over? Funny you say its over and yet there are many who KNOW this case has not even begun yet! By all means you can call it quits for yourself at any time you choose. How dare you speak for the rest of us. Those of us who KNOW justice has not yet prevailed.

    Good luck, Goodbye and good riddance. Peace.

    Saying this case is over, sounds like one of two things. It is either wishful thinking or stupidity. I am happy to know you and your kind have thrown in the towel. I guess you will be going back to lives you don’t have. As for those of us who fight for Aaliyah, we intend to fight on, thank you very much.

    It has been great not knowing you. I am wishing something for you in the future. My wish is God show you kindness and give you some happiness. Maybe then you won’t be filled the anger and hate you exhibit now. Maybe you will never again go after a young single mother and her innocent baby girl.
    You have really shown what a bully you can be. I hope those days end when you close this case in your mind.

  634. JustMe

    Darrel & Tim shut up. People won’t stop, Connie won’t win, she won’t keep making her scam money. No ones gone away except from this joke board.

  635. Icky Etardo

    Do you have any new evidence, MelissaC? Something that the courts haven’t seen or heard yet that will sway them to change their decisions that have been upheld by multiple judges multiple times?

    I thought not. All you have is more pap. Good luck, you’re doing an excellent job of making this poor child’s life a circus, and you’re doing nothing to forward your aims.

  636. ALL~4~AALIYAH

    Melissa C~

    Good Job figuring out Dustin’s name he posts under: Icky Etardo you can guarentee stands for Sicky Retardo. Like the posts above explain, Dustin thinks everything in life is a game. S o c i o p a t h

    Dustin reminds me of the sociopath Joker on Batman that has the whole town running around, fighting and bickering about his next game plan. All the while, he sits back in the shadows and enjoys the utter Chaos he has created. He sits back thinking he is a cunning puppet master to have invented such an entertaining show. Sociopaths are often bored and find situations such as molesting Aaliyah, destroying and threatening her life, just a fun little game. Not only does he find what he is doing to Aaliyah, a game, but deceiving ignorant people to fight for him so he doesn’t have to appear that he is doing it himself. This also makes quite an exciting little game for Dustin as well.
    Dustin gets a thrill from ignorant people such as Beast, Pattycake, LL Papa and crew feeding out of his hand and feeding off of his worm.

    Justme~ is Dustin Thompson

    Let me show you all how you can tell this is Dustin the child molesting Thompson posting himself. There are a number of signs in his words alone…

    1) He tells both “Tim and Darrel” to “shut up”! Abusers have a very distinct sign in them that gives you a red flag before they even hit women: Extreme Jealousy. Here Dustin can’t stand that two men in Connie’s life are fighting for her and Aaliyah, so he feels the need to tell them to shut up. There are a lot of us posting about what a child molester you are Dustin so why would you only tell Tim and Darrel to shut up? We know that answer… A B U S E R that’s what they all do. If Connie was on here posting you would not only be chiming in on Tim and Darrel but Connie as well.

    2) “People wont stop.” Dustin is actually referring to himself. Dustin will never stop. Abusers don’t think it is over until they say it is. So all of you posters keep that in mind because according to Dustin you can’t stop until he says so. He thinks he can control you as well as Connie and Aaliyah.

    3) “Connie won’t WIN” This is a classic example of what a sociopath Dustin really is. Connie won’t WIN??? Dustin last time we all checked this wasn’t a game for anybody to win. Aaliyah’s life isn’t a game to win. We understand in your’s and your daddy’s heads that it is a game to you…

    IT IS NOT A GAME!! GET THAT THROUGH YOUR CHILD MOLESTING ABUSER BRAINS DUSTIN THOMPSON AND JOHN DAVID THOMPSON!!

  637. Beast

    Melissa. SO I suppose then women that have children while they are married but then get divorced should just stay alone for the rest of their lives? And again you are just like the rest with your attacks, lies, and garbage. You call what I have to say “Rants”. So what are we to call the putrid filth that you write here? All I want is the truth, and the way you folks are going about it is not getting any. It’s vicious, slanderous, and disgusting.

  638. hey, y'know what's funny?

    I was just scrolling through all of this & saw the letter from the ‘registered nurse’ again.

    The original posting of this letter, on the comments of the (conveniently now deleted) i-report ‘article’, included some odd misspellings, most notably a way off-base spelling of ‘fellatio’ as something like ‘falachio’. I remember that a few of us even commented on that at the time.

    Isn’t it odd how that misspelling is missing in the presumed cut/paste of this official letter from a witness registered nurse when it’s later posted here?

  639. JustMe

    lmao nope not Dustin, nice try. I repeat Darrel & Tim shut up. People won’t stop, Connie won’t win, she won’t keep making her scam money. No ones gone away except from this joke board.

  640. JustGetanInvestigation

    Well, Connie was not put in jail today. I wonder why? Congratulations Connie. Keep fighting!!!!!

  641. Icky Etardo

    Any new evidence? Anything at all? A doctor’s report, a psychiatrist’s opinion, a letter from a teacher or daycare worker? *crickets*

  642. Dr. Due Books » Save 3 year old baby Aaliyah

    [...] http://www.btls.com/news/stories/save-baby-aaliyah.html [...]

  643. JustGetanInvestigation

    Hey y’know, I copied and pasted that off of the saveaaliyah.com site. I don’t know what you are talking about. I guess you are saying I fixed it before I posted it. I guess we can go and see on CPC and saveaaliyah.com and see if they are different? That would be a good idea, huh?

  644. btdt

    Family court judges don’t put parents in jail for contempt of court. They give them a slap on the wrist, a lecture in the hopes that they will get it together & start co-parenting in the best interests of the child and, eventually, if they have to, family court judges change custody & restrict visitation in order to maintain the child’s best interests when their parent just refuses to get it.

    I am curious, though, regarding what did happen in court yesterday. If you know she wasn’t put in jail, do you know what *did* happen?

  645. LoraLee

    I heard that Amara asked Connie and her lawyer to take down everything on the internet and they would drop the whole thing. Connie, I think you should counter with you will try to get everything taken off the internet (I don’t see how you could do it, unless you can actually speak about it) if they give custody back to you and he sign all of his parental rights away! I mean, if they were begging like they were, they should comply with it. If they were’t a bunch of dishonest, disgraceful people, none of it would have been put on the internet at all! You go Connie!

  646. JustMe

    sniff sniff poor connie

  647. JustMe

    hey, y’know what’s funny?
    June 30th, 2009 at 10:59 am
    I was just scrolling through all of this & saw the letter from the ‘registered nurse’ again.

    The original posting of this letter, on the comments of the (conveniently now deleted) i-report ‘article’, included some odd misspellings, most notably a way off-base spelling of ‘fellatio’ as something like ‘falachio’. I remember that a few of us even commented on that at the time.

    Isn’t it odd how that misspelling is missing in the presumed cut/paste of this official letter from a witness registered nurse when it’s later posted here?

    ***rolf that’s funny***

  648. JustMe

    JustMe
    July 1st, 2009 at 5:32 pm
    sniff sniff poor connie

  649. JustMe

    poor connie sniff sniff

  650. JustMe

    JustMe
    July 1st, 2009 at 5:38 pm
    poor connie sniff sniff

  651. JustMe

    Whats the congratulations for? LMAO congratulations? ha ha ha

  652. Icky Etardo

    Anyone feel like sharing the outcome of yesterday’s hearing? Anyone at all?

    *tumbleweed drifts by*

  653. Glad I'm not this STUPID

    OMG. PattyCake is cracking me up. She was an interested party and poster or whatever and now she’s involved with the case and submitted an affidavit to the judge.
    –” Dear Judge, my name is PattyCake and I post on Bubba the Love Sponge and all kindsa people that post there are saying mean things and Connie must be forcing them to say these mean things and me and my friends Icky and Tubby think you should do something about it. Please put her in jail so me & Icky have something new to post about”

  654. really?

    Retardo? Really?

    I haven’t heard anyone make fun of mentally handicapped people since elementary school.

    Wow…

  655. JustMe

    justgetyourselfouttahere

    if there was good news for connies hearing everyone would be screaming it from the mountain tops. LMAO

  656. JustMe

    bnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn where for art thou master of all knowledge awaiting your update. thou’s knowledge equals a sludge and ye bows to your greatness and holiness

  657. JustGetanInvestigation

    Glad,

    LMAO!!! That is funny!

    Btdt, Bnn will be writing a new article as soon as they can.

  658. Who's the Jews???

    Everybody is saying Connie and the Bedwell’s are Jewish but I think the Thompsons are Jewish!!

    Look it up all of their names are Jewish: Adam, Dina, David, John, Thompson, etc…

    Aaliyah is even Jewish.

    The Thompson’s are just a whole bunch of Jews calling the Bedwell’s a bunch of Jews. LOL

    They call Connie’s religion “unusual” but they are all Jews. Maybe the Thompson’s should learn about their heritage before they continue to indirectly call themselves and their ancestors “unusual.”

    A little knowledge goes a long way…

    So my question is

    WHO’S THE JEWS?

  659. Hey L L Pa Pa

    Anybody know where Lying Libelous Pa Pa went?

    I bet he is afraid because he altered Tim’s nonexistant record and he is afraid of a lawsuit. He disappeared as soon as he realized some of the people posting here aren’t morons and called him on his crap.

    Eddy Craig from Sarasota Fl… Where are you? That is your real name right Lying Libelous Pa Pa?

    Why if you are defending an innocent man do you have to lie about the Bedwell’s?

    Only guilty people need to lie and have people lie for them…

  660. Our Dearest Patty,

    Did anyone see “Flappycakes” posting yesterday? She thinks the world revolves around her. She actually told everyone that she wrote an affadavit to the judge! One more lie to add to her long list. Judges’ information isn’t available to the public because of people like her.

    Patty this isn’t about you! Get some help it seems you have this problem called…

    Narcissistic Personality Disorder

    DSM IV-TR criteria
    A pervasive pattern of grandiosity (in fantasy or behavior), need for admiration, and lack of empathy, beginning by early adulthood and present in a variety of contexts, as indicated by five (or more) of the following:

    1) has a grandiose sense of self-importance
    2)is preoccupied with fantasies of unlimited success, power, brilliance, beauty or ideal love (megalomania)
    3) believes that he or she is “special” and can only be understood by, or should associate with, people (or institutions) who are also “special” or of high status.
    4) requires excessive admiration
    5) has a sense of entitlement
    6) is interpersonally exploitative
    7)lacks empathy
    8)is often envious of others or believes others are envious of him or her
    9)shows arrogant, haughty behaviors or attitudes

    Check, check, check, check… and check! Patty it fits you perfectly. Anybody can see it for themselves throughout all of your postings!

    Patty what makes you think you are so important that the Judge is actually going to listen to you if you were to write to the judge? You are a blogger with 5th hand information! Im sure you didn’t write anything to the judge but only told people that to get attention, to feel important, to have people ask you questions like you have inside information. That is a pretty desperate stunt to pull. Your behavior says Narcissistic all over it!

    This isn’t about you Patty. Get over yourself.

    It is about an innocent baby that is having her psychological health ripped away from her because of her child molesting monster of a dad and her physically abusive grandfather. Have some empathy for the child that is being abused by her father.

    Maybe Dr Saturley can help you right along the side of your friends L L Pa Pa, Dustin and John David Thompson.

    We all will support you getting the help you so desperately need. We will all pray for you.

    Please just get help.

  661. justwaitandsee

    LMAO just wait and see what’s about to happen to Dustin and his worm. Big things are happening so flappy beasty & tubby will have to eat it big time. Things are about to get interesting and Aaliyah will finally be safe.

  662. JustGetanInvestigation

    Well Flabbycakes why the silence? You’re buddy Tubby got the thread closed. Why are you hiding? LMAO scared? Better be. Tell your worm friend things are coming.

  663. JustGetanInvestigation

    We need everyone to join and help. Contact me asap letter email phone, things are happening now!

    Karen Daley
    3708 RIDGEMERE DR
    VALDOSTA, GA 31605 Ph: 229-794-1838
    My email is tianjaffords@hotmail.com

    If the sick pedo’s reading here try and mess with my 4 kids there will be hell! Save Aaliyah

  664. marmite

    Well Flappy, Beast and co, we’re still waiting…..

    *tumbleweed drifts by*

    You must be running scared as you’re running round deleting comments and threads. You do realise everything is saved elsewhere don’t you??

    You’re so desperate for posters at the ‘Outhouse’ you’ve even got C~A copying and pasting other peoples comments from other sites – he he he he

    Back in your boxes freaks, this is about Aaliyah!

    http://www.saveaaliyah.com/

  665. MaureenN

    I just want to respond to something that was said on another board regarding this case.

    Changing custody or limiting visitation when a parent shows contempt for the decisions the court has made regarding what is best for the child – is not ‘punishment’. It is an attempt to try to do what’s best for the child, in response to the realization that the parent in contempt is not planning to cooperate with what the court has already decided.

    It’s a ‘change of plans’ that the court has to make after the parent shows that they have no respect for the courts decisions, especially if that parent’s actions are proving to be detrimental to the child’s well-being. One very important part of being a parent to a child who is moving from parent to parent, is to let the child know that you respect and encourage their relationship with their other parent. Not doing so is harmful to your child, not in their best interest.

  666. Who is Innocent?

    Dustin why don’t you take a lie detector test?

    Connie will.

  667. JustMe

    Hey L L Pa Pa
    July 2nd, 2009 at 1:48 pm

    Snipped quote

    “Only guilty people need to lie and have people lie for them…”

    DAMN YOU GOT THAT RIGHT. HOW MANY PEOPLE ARE THERE LYING FOR CONNIE?

  668. MentalInstitutionHelper

    Hey L L Pa Pa
    July 2nd, 2009 at 1:48 pm

    *snipped*

    Eddy Craig from Sarasota Fl… Where are you? That is your real name right

    KarenCCC
    Karen Daley from Valdosta GA. Where are you? That is your real name right

  669. KarenCCC

    Well, I guess I should go back to using KarenCCC since Dustin is using my old one. Have fun Dustin. You do NOT bother me…..Kisses!

  670. sigh...

    Yikes – no matter how strongly you feel about this, putting your personal information out like that, especially when emotions are running so high on this issue, is not a smart or safe thing to do. I’m sure if you ask the webmaster, they’ll delete that comment for you. You have no idea who can read that, how they feel about you or how emotionally stable they may be.

  671. MaureenN

    Re: Polygraph (lie detector) – They are not useful in a court of law (even family court). See California Superior Court decision here: http://www.saccourt.ca.gov/juvenile/delinquency/rulings/docs/sara-b.pdf – pages 11 & 12 mention the admissibility of lie detector tests in court, calling them as useful as a deck of tarot cards…

    A lie detector test might help clear his name on the internet for some people (and, for others, it will be seen as being interpreted wrong or being as useful as a deck of tarot cards), but what does that have to do with his life as a parent?

  672. Crazies

    Reminds me of a circus side-show. How does this help any child? shame on all of you

  673. Wonder

    I thought Papa Ed & Dena were from Brandon,Fl ??

  674. JustGetanInvestigation

    Yes I posted my info!

  675. Wonder

    Just me…
    Get your buddy Dustin to take a polyghraph. $50 says he wont.

  676. MAN I LOVE THE TRUTH

    First off, I dont know why any of you think it was Karen who posted LL Pa Pa’s name. Why would she need his info? She isn’t the one who would be filing a lawsuit for altering Tim’s record. Think about it genius’. Trace the IP its not coming from GA! And hey Pattycake your next sweetcheeks!

    You people aren’t that intelligent to be altering documents to lie, slander and defame people when they can prove what you are saying is bull.

    This one goes to JUSTME- What makes you think that people are lying for Connie? There are plenty of people behind the scenes that have the visitation reports and documents in their own hands that are fighting for Aaliyah. This was never about Connie. Dustin wants to make it about Connie to side track you off the real issue…

    DUSTIN IS MOLESTING HIS OWN DAUGHTER.

    Yes, all people behind the scenes have “THE PROOF” that Aaliyah is still talking about her tongue hurting, how mad her daddy is, how she begs to go home with her mommy, and how her daddy wears a scary mask, etc and so on. Patty, LL, Beast, Pedophile clan… Why hasn’t Dustin supplied you with those reports since you are all such great detectives and you are defending an “innocent” PIG?

    Dustin Thompson is a Child Molesting Creep.

    We all KNOW THIS AS FACT! That’s why we are fighting on Connie’s side because we all have seen PROOF that she isnt the one making her daughter say and do those statements and behaviors. We all know why Aaliyah is still saying and doing those things…

    Dustin Thompson is a Child Molester.

    It doesn’t take a genius to figure it out.

    To MaureenN-
    Who would respect a court system full of ignorant monkey’s who put a defenseless child in the home of a Child Molester?

    Attempt to use your own head people…and Not let the Wormy Daddy do it for you.

    DUSTIN TAKE A LIE DETECTOR TEST SO ALL OF YOUR SUPPORTERS CAN SCREAM YOUR GUILTY WITH US.

    We know you won’t take one!! Let the Truth come out!!!

  677. THE TRUTH WILL PREVAIL

    Addressing Patty off the other site

    Patty what makes you think that Connie is capable of taking anything off the net? Did Dustin tell you that so you just turn around spew it without using a single brain cell you might have?

    Not a single thing is coming down off the net. If that’s what Dustin thinks, that is funny. That’s what he was begging Connie for and he obviously didn’t pay attention to what Connie’s attorney told the judge. Plus Connie has zero control of what we all do on the net!

    The internet is just the beginning of this battle. Not a single thing is coming down until Aaliyah is safe from her Wormy Daddy aka The Parrot aka The Scary Monster and Abusive Papi or shall we call him “mad grandpa” because that’s what Aali called him until “Papi” realized he was being told on too.

    John David Thompson and Dustin David Thompson mark these words…

    Your lies are going to unravel in front of the entire nation.

    Your lies are going to unravel in front of the entire nation.

    Your lies are going to unravel in front of the entire nation.

    Your lies are going to unravel in front of the entire nation.

    Your lies are going to unravel in front of the entire nation.

    Your lies are going to unravel in front of the entire nation.

    Your lies are going to unravel in front of the entire nation.

    I hope that rings in your head on an hourly basis. Think about it and let it eat at your conscience (if you even have one left).

    Your lies are going to unravel in front of the entire nation!!!!!!!

  678. KarenCCC

    I didnn’t post anything on here since the Ireport fiascoe except the DISMISSED charges for Tim Bedwell and a few laughing posts about what others have said about Patty and Beast. I really don’t care about all of you and if you post my information. Papa, I’m not the one that had your information, and I certainly didn’t post it. You all say I’m crazy, but I am not like any of you. I wouldn’t do that. I don’t care that my information is here, it’s been every where else since the Ireport. Using my name and pretending that I post this stuff doesn’t bother me. You can tell by the writing styles it isn’t me. So go ahead, what you think you accomplished, you didn’t do any harm to me. But thanks for letting everyone know how pathetic you all are.

  679. KarenCCC

    Sigh,

    Thanks for the advice, but they have had my information posted pretty much everywhere since the middle of June. They know what I’ve done about it and since they have now done it again, there will be something I can do about it. They all think I’m crazy, so if some creep comes to my house or anything, I can use that as an excuse for my actions.

  680. KarenCCC

    Plans are in the works to Save Aaliyah!
    Karen Daley
    3708 RIDGEMERE DR
    VALDOSTA, GA 31605 Ph: 229-794-1838
    My email is tianjaffords@hotmail.com

  681. MaureenN

    The courts are the ones who are deciding custody issues in this case.

    If she does not respect to the court, the judges making the decisions, then what exactly does she hope to accomplish? What is her goal? What is her plan?

    If the intention is not to show evidence to help the judge decide what is in the best interest of her child, what is the point of the videos & claims of abuse?

    Is it just a tantrum?

    An attempt to slander?

    Who is she attempting to reach with the videos & claims of abuse, if not someone who actually has the ability & power to keep her child safe? The general internet public?

    And if she’s right about the abuse -and- not willing to really disrespect the courts & laws by simply putting her child into hiding – then continuing to show contempt for the very system that has the power to keep her child safe, is a very immature, unreasonable, irresponsible way to be a parent.

    Again, I don’t know anything about this case besides what I’ve seen on the internet. I’ve not spoken to anyone on either side or received personal emails from anyone on either side of this family. I have no idea what is true or not true.

    But, I do know children well, know that they say all kinds of things that can mean a million different things. I know that children have all kinds of issues while growing up, including rashes, diaper rashes, potty training problems, boundary pushing, sleeping issues, etc & that those are not, necessarily, proof of abuse. I know that if abuse is happening, that doctors can usually find physical proof of it. I know that mothers are not automatically the best parent or even a caring parent, that sometimes they (just like fathers sometimes) cannot put their own issues aside & do what’s right for their kids, give their children what they need.

    I also know how the custody/family courts work. My husband was in & out of court with his ex for over a decade. But, it’s not just the court system that I’m familiar with. I’m familiar with the games that divorced parents sometimes play outside of court.

    I’m also familiar with how much those games harm the children who are stuck in the middle. My stepdaughter has issues & emotional scars that she will carry with her for the rest of her life.

    This child will, too. Unless everyone starts working respectfully within the court system (and it is possible to respectfully disagree and to respectfully show proof to ask for changes), respectfully with each other, and really puts themselves in the child’s shoes & heart, putting their own egos aside & being good day-to-day parents, teaching her how to confidently find her way in the world.

  682. DADDY"S WORM WITH LOGIC

    DADDY’S WORM

    The pedophile clan wants to try to convince anybody they can that “Daddy’s Worm” is anything but Dustin’s penis. So right here we will rip his “theories” to shreds with this thing called LOGIC.

    (Think slowly about each point before you move on to the next point.)

    1) Dustin wants you all to believe the child is speaking of Baby Einstein’s worm:

    The child is clearly speaking of 3 types of worms throughout the video. Baby Einstein’s worm is the first one she addresses which she states is green and orange. Anyone that has seen B. E. knows that is correct and accurate. The child then adresses “Daddy’s worm” which tastes “Yucky” and makes her cough, he has to wipe her mouth with like a napkin because of “Daddy’s worm” not B. E.’s worm. She states she sometimes gets mad at daddy and then further describes why. At the end she describes how daddy takes her to the store to see worms. She is very descriptive and very clear it is “daddy’s worm” not worm’s from the store. Daddy thinks he is so smart and tried to confuse her by taking her to the store to see worms. Too bad for him that his child is more intelligent than him. The child then concludes she doesn’t like ANY of the worms. She gives the infamous worm an owner, her Daddy. She gives Baby Einstein’s worm an owner B. E., and she tells us where the other worms are that daddy made her go see…at the store.
    She addresses “daddy’s worm’s” size. She is holding her little baby doll in her arms and says its giant like her baby. She says she tried to see him, he tries to look big.
    “he tries to look big” possibly like an errection? She says “she tried to see him” so apparently it was dark. She says “I tell daddy’s worm dont do that, its yucky, dont touch my mouth worm” And that she has to tell him “dont stop.” It makes her choke and cry. Then tells him “daddy get it off, he has to wipe it off with like a napkin.” This child descibed perfectly the act of oral sex in complete sequencial order entirely on her own. “Daddy’s worm” does it to her. Then she states “daddy wants to have a baby.”

    2) The Child Molester wants you to believe his Worm is an earth worm:

    The child is very descriptive and clear. She described it’s size and it is not the size of an earth worm. Why would Daddy be sticking earth worms in her mouth anyway? That is abuse in itself. If you paid attention in the first of his theories it clearly debunks this theory of the child molesters too.

    3) The Child molester wants you to believe that she is speaking of gummy worms:

    Listen to the child!! She tells you Baby Einstein’s worm is green and orange, not “Daddy’s worm.” Remember she tells you about “daddy’s worm” that she “tried to see him.” It’s kind of hard to see a worm that is getting shoved down your throat in the dark that makes you choke and cry. “It tries to look big” so we know it changes sizes. Plus, kids love gummy worms. “Daddy’s worm” is “yucky,” she has to tell it “dont stop” and then she states “daddy wants a baby”!! That is no gummy worm! Why would a child think her daddy wants a baby with her? Think about it. Why would she have to tell a worm that she doesn’t like, “Dont stop”?

    4) The Wormy Daddy wants you to believe the mother coached her:

    Coaching is leading. It is the same as leading a witness with the answer in the question just like the rules in a courtroom. First of all nobody is even talking about the subject of “Daddy’s worm” in the video but ONLY the child entirely on her own. The only question asked is “What does the worm look like? There was nothing suggesting or leading in it. For those of you who do not understand what coaching is, a coaching example would be: Does the worm look like a banana? That would be suggesting an answer in the question. None of which ever happens throughout the entire 27 minutes of the “Daddy’s Worm” Video. The Mother and Aunt aren’t even talking. The child is insisting on telling them why she doesn’t want to go to bed. Any good Psychologist knows that children relate everything to their own knowledge and the world as they know it. They relate their own problems to their dolls having the same problems. This child in the video tells us that “Daddy’s worm makes her sick and cry and it makes her teddy bear sick and cry too.” She tells us that both her and her doll “don’t wants to go to bed right now.” At 2 1/2 she wouldn’t know the word penis instead describes it the best way she knows how “Daddy’s worm.” Don’t forget also there were previous reports made to CPS by others than the mother of the child describing “daddy’s worm” as having hair like the hair on her head, it having one eye, and hurting her tongue. There are previous reports and restraining orders filed because “daddy hurts her pee pee” before she ever talked about daddy’s worm in her mouth.

    Child molesters only progress in the sick things they experiment on children. You can see the progression throughout this child’s statements and behaviors. You can only imagine what he is doing to her since he has her alone for a year.

    It is very clear to any attentive parent that it is impossible to coach a 2 1/2 year old child to talk for 27 minutes straight relating everything she says to her dolls. Not one time throughout the entire video does she ask what mommy what did you say? The Inotation (rise and fall of ones pitch) is clear this child is speaking of her own valition. Her inotation does not rise like she is questioning each statement like a coached child would sound like. This child is clearly uncoached.
    Also it is pitch dark in the room. You can tell that they have to turn on a glowing bear in order to see. Also the infared is on in order to view the video. There is a tremendous amount of detail in the video alone to prove this child was indeed not coached or prompted in any way to say what she is describing about her “Daddy’s Worm”.

    Help stop this Child Molester!

  683. Oh Man Maureen

    We know that lie detector tests are not admissable in court. The courts do not care about Truth.

    And since you are defending the Child Molester, get him to take a Polygraph test to show you peronally what a Child Molester he is.

    And sorry but I have to rip you hard on this question because it is probably the most idiotic question I’ve ever heard…

    “but what does that have to do with his life as a parent?”

    ARE YOU KIDDING ME??????????????

    WHAT WOULD A LIE DETECTOR TEST DO TO DETERMINE WHETHER HE IS MOLESTING HIS OWN DAUGHTER AND WHAT DOES THAT HAVE TO DO WITH HIS LIFE AS A PARENT???

    I THINK THE CHILD MOLESTER HIMSELF IS POSTING UNDER MAUREEN!!!!

    WOW!!!!

    Who wouldn’t have guessed that the Pedophile clan would make excusses for The Child Molester having to take a lie detector test?

    G U I L T Y.

    All of your excuses say one thing to us all Dustin…

    G U I L T Y.
    G U I L T Y.
    G U I L T Y.
    G U I L T Y.
    G U I L T Y.
    G U I L T Y.
    G U I L T Y.
    G U I L T Y.
    G U I L T Y.
    G U I L T Y.
    G U I L T Y.

    And “Wonder” I put my life on it that he won’t take a lie detector test nor ever step foot near one.

    Connie already had agreed to take a lie detector test and show the results to the world how about you Dustin?

    We are still waiting.

    Come on clear your “innocent” name in front of all of us!!

  684. KarenCCCC

    More kisses! Muah!!!

  685. CeeA

    marmite
    July 3rd, 2009 at 9:45 am

    Well Flappy, Beast and co, we’re still waiting…..

    *tumbleweed drifts by*

    You must be running scared as you’re running round deleting comments and threads. You do realise everything is saved elsewhere don’t you??

    You’re so desperate for posters at the ‘Outhouse’ you’ve even got C~A copying and pasting other peoples comments from other sites – he he he he

    Back in your boxes freaks, this is about Aaliyah!

    ************

    YA TUMBLEWEEDS FORM IN MY MOUTH PRICLE!!! I knew I should not have come in here…WTF are you talking about idiot! I do want I want …I don’t do anything for anyone…Why don’t you STOP coming to our blog if you don’t like what i do…I mean really, get a life…you don’t like what i do what i say what i post…GO AWAY! This is a baby A article…WHY ARE YOU POSTING WHAT YOU SEE I COPY AND PASTE FOR A MICHAEL JACKSON ARTICLE…you say this isn’t about me?? HELLOOOO…you are posting stuff I do on another topic on baby A’s article…YOU SICK PIG…

    We thank you very much are not desperate for posters you idiot…we don’t have ads’ and are not paid…unlike THE OTHER SITE YOU BELONG TOO…GOING DOWN DOWN DOWN…LMFAO!

    Your still so angry with me? You miss me!! Too bad…have fun spewing you b.s about who I am ..YOU DON’T KNOW ME SKANK! WHY CAN’T YOU LEAVE ME ALONE…??? I have not been here for 2 months…and your still taking about me…YOUR A SAD DEGENERATE NO LIFE…You make me laugh…MOVE ALONG LITTLE DOGGY…STAY OFF OUR SITE IF YA DON’T LIKE IT! GAWD!

  686. Why you Connie supporters are NUTS!

    Hey Simon, aka MARMITE, you write fiction with your real name, why not post here using the same name you use on your blog? Hiding? Do us a favor, use spell check… A 4th grader can spell better than you can SIMON AKA MARMITE

    And for Darrel, and his right arm, couldn’t find a reason to call her a lady, because she is not…. Darrel, unless you Tim in disguise, you need to grab yours and try to save part of your name, as does your sweet sis DuhNiece.

    HEY TIM, HEY DARREL, when you are done trying to FIND YOUR BALLS OFF THE FLOOR- as you uh, let scara CARA speak for you so called MEN — the jokes you are, running so far GRANDPA about had to run as close to RUSSIA as he could…

    Maybe ya’ll should look at or rethink, ( Lord, I am giving these people credit to think — hee hee ) something called peaceful protesting…

    A guy named John Murtari, well, he stood for his rights, and LIKE A MAN did not cry out blame elsewhere… instead, when he went to jail, he went on a hunger strike. Would not drink or eat for weeks….

    Instead of being a GROWN UP- you all exploit a child… and let her be the brunt….

    GROW SOME –

    CONNIE ACCEPT JAIL TIME! GO ON A HUNGER STRIKE- Make Placer county be responsible for your being even so much as hydrated… if you so believe in your cause.

    OR DARREL OR TIM, you do it for her.

    Better odds than the lottery that none of the above, Timmy, Darrrel, or ANY Bedwell, will make an ounce of sacrifice…

    They will keep using MARMITE AKA BNN or fools like KAREN..

    BEDWELL PUSSY CHUMPS! EVEN your dike baseball sister – still a chump!

    I will eat it, right here, in CHICAGO –

    I LOVE DENNIS RODMAN THE WORM!

    - just because I am from Cicero, doesn’t mean I am a fan of Capone.

  687. Why you Connie supporters are NUTS!

    Oh by the way Skimmy TIMMY! You are a runaway… What kind of father BAILS out on their daughters and baby boy. by running as far away as one can?

    You are a JOKE TIM!

    REAL FATHERS ARE CLOSE BY not thousands of miles away and having people make lies about being discharges for stalking. WHAT ABOUT YOUR OTHER CHARGES TIMMY TIMMY TIMMY WON’T GO HOME!

    HEY DARREL! PLEASE tell us, when those murderes who lives 650+ 8 hours away from Timmy lived, what exactly was the ‘bar’? Was it that Tim didn’t murder anyone, that he was a felon with a kidnapping charge, or was it, that you all could come up with NOTHING better to compare Connies DAD to, other than chasing murderers an 8 hour drive away for a pay check?

    LOVE YOUR BAR FOR CHARACTER DARREL! Ya found a good one Connie… a dude who finds the bar for character chasing losers 850 miles away. GREAT JOB SKIMMY TIMMY!
    Keep posting you freaks!

    The more you talk, the more the NATION SEE’S THIS CHILD IS SAFE AS FAR AWAY FROM THE BEDHELLS AS POSSIBLE!

  688. Why you Connie supporters are NUTS!

    Oh by the way TIMMY! You are a runaway… What kind of father BAILS out on their daughters and baby boy. by running as far away as one can?

    You are a JOKE TIM!

    REAL FATHERS ARE THEIR CLOSE BY not thousands of miles away and having people laugh about being discharges for stalking.

    HEY DARREL! PLEASE tell us, when those murderes who lives 650+ 8 hours away from Timmy lived, what exactly was the ‘bar’? Was it that Tim didn’t murder anyone, that he was a felon with a kidnapping charge, or was it, that you all could come up with NOTHING better to compare Connies DAD to, other than chasing murderers an 8 hour drive away for a pay check?

    LOVE YOUR BAR FOR CHARACTER DARREL! Ya found a good one Connie… a dude who finds the bar for character chasing losers 850 miles away. GREAT JOB SKIMMY TIMMY!
    Keep posting you freaks!

    The more you talk, the more the NATION SEE’S THIS CHILD IS SAFE AS FAR AWAY FROM THE BEDHELLS AS POSSIBLE!

  689. Why you Connie supporters are NUTS!

    Oh by the way TIMMY! You are a runaway… What kind of father BAILS out on their daughters and baby boy. by running as far away as one can?

    You are a JOKE TIM!

    REAL FATHERS ARE THEIR CLOSE BY not thousands of miles away and having people laugh about being discharges for stalking.

    HEY DARREL! PLEASE tell us, when those murderes who lives 650+ 8 hours away from Timmy lived, what exactly was the ‘bar’? Was it that Tim didn’t murder anyone, that he was a felon with a kidnapping charge, or was it, that you all could come up with NOTHING better to compare Connies DAD to, other than chasing murderers an 8 hour drive away for a pay check?

    LOVE YOUR BAR FOR CHARACTER DARREL! Ya found a good one Connie… a dude who finds the bar for character chasing losers 850 miles away. GREAT JOB SKIMMY TIMMY!
    Keep posting you freaks!

    The more you talk, the more the NATION SEE’S THIS CHILD IS SAFE AS FAR AWAY FROM THE BEDHELLS AS POSSIBLE!

  690. Why you Connie supporters are NUTS!

    Oh by the way TIMMY! You are a runaway… What kind of father BAILS out on their daughters and baby boy. by running as far away as one can?

    You are a JOKE TIM!

    REAL FATHERS ARE THEIR CLOSE BY not thousands of miles away and having people laugh about being discharges for stalking.

    HEY DARREL! PLEASE tell us, when those murderes who lives 650+ 8 hours away from Timmy lived, what exactly was the ‘bar’? Was it that Tim didn’t murder anyone, that he was a felon with a kidnapping charge, or was it, that you all could come up with NOTHING better to compare Connies DAD to, other than chasing murderers an 8 hour drive away for a pay check?

    LOVE YOUR BAR FOR CHARACTER DARREL!

    Keep posting you freaks!

    The more you talk, the more the NATION SEE’S THIS CHILD IS SAFE AS FAR AWAY FROM TEH BEDHELLS AS POSSIBLE!

  691. Why you Connie supporters are NUTS!

    Oh by the way TIMMY! You are a runaway… What kind of father BAILS out on their daughters and baby boy. by running as far away as one can?

    You are a JOKE TIM!

    REAL FATHERS ARE THEIR CLOSE BY not thousands of miles away and having people laugh about being discharges for stalking.

    HEY DARREL! PLEASE tell us, when those murderes who lives 650+ 8 hours away from Timmy lived, what exactly was the ‘bar’? Was it that Tim didn’t murder anyone, that he was a felon with a kidnapping charge, or was it, that you all could come up with NOTHING better to compare Connies DAD to, other than chasing murderers an 8 hour drive away for a pay check?

    LOVE YOUR BAR FOR CHARACTER DARREL! Ya found a good one Connie… a dude who finds the bar for character chasing losers 850 miles away. GREAT JOB SKIMMY TIMMY!
    Keep posting you freaks!

    The more you talk, the more the NATION SEE’S THIS CHILD IS SAFE AS FAR AWAY FROM THE BEDHELLS AS POSSIBLE!

  692. Why you Connie supporters are NUTS!

    Oh by the way Skimmy TIMMY! You are a runaway… What kind of father BAILS out on their daughters and baby boy. by running as far away as one can?

    You are a JOKE TIM!

    REAL FATHERS ARE CLOSE BY not thousands of miles away and having people make lies about being discharges for stalking. WHAT ABOUT YOUR OTHER CHARGES TIMMY TIMMY TIMMY WON’T GO HOME!

    HEY DARREL! PLEASE tell us, when those murderes who lives 650+ 8 hours away from Timmy lived, what exactly was the ‘bar’? Was it that Tim didn’t murder anyone, that he was a felon with a kidnapping charge, or was it, that you all could come up with NOTHING better to compare Connies DAD to, other than chasing murderers an 8 hour drive away for a pay check?

    LOVE YOUR BAR FOR CHARACTER DARREL! Ya found a good one Connie… a dude who finds the bar for character chasing losers 850 miles away. GREAT JOB SKIMMY TIMMY!
    Keep posting you freaks!

    The more you talk, the more the NATION SEE’S THIS CHILD IS SAFE AS FAR AWAY FROM THE BEDHELLS AS POSSIBLE!

  693. Why you Connie supporters are NUTS!

    Oh by the way TIMMY! You are a runaway… What kind of father BAILS out on their daughters and baby boy. by running as far away as one can?

    You are a JOKE TIM!

    REAL FATHERS ARE THEIR CLOSE BY not thousands of miles away and having people laugh about being discharges for stalking.

    HEY DARREL! PLEASE tell us, when those murderes who lives 650+ 8 hours away from Timmy lived, what exactly was the ‘bar’? Was it that Tim didn’t murder anyone, that he was a felon with a kidnapping charge, or was it, that you all could come up with NOTHING better to compare Connies DAD to, other than chasing murderers an 8 hour drive away for a pay check?

    LOVE YOUR BAR FOR CHARACTER DARREL! Ya found a good one Connie… a dude who finds the bar for character chasing losers 850 miles away. GREAT JOB SKIMMY TIMMY!
    Keep posting you freaks!

    The more you talk, the more the NATION SEE’S THIS CHILD IS SAFE AS FAR AWAY FROM THE BEDHELLS AS POSSIBLE!

  694. Why you Connie supporters are NUTS!

    Oh by the way TIMMY! You are a runaway… What kind of father BAILS out on their daughters and baby boy. by running as far away as one can?

    You are a JOKE TIM!

    REAL FATHERS ARE THEIR CLOSE BY not thousands of miles away and having people laugh about being discharges for stalking.

    HEY DARREL! PLEASE tell us, when those murderes who lives 650+ 8 hours away from Timmy lived, what exactly was the ‘bar’? Was it that Tim didn’t murder anyone, that he was a felon with a kidnapping charge, or was it, that you all could come up with NOTHING better to compare Connies DAD to, other than chasing murderers an 8 hour drive away for a pay check?

    LOVE YOUR BAR FOR CHARACTER DARREL! Ya found a good one Connie… a dude who finds the bar for character chasing losers 850 miles away. GREAT JOB SKIMMY TIMMY!
    Keep posting you freaks!

    The more you talk, the more the NATION SEE’S THIS CHILD IS SAFE AS FAR AWAY FROM THE BEDHELLS AS POSSIBLE!

  695. Why you Connie supporters are NUTS!

    Oh by the way Skimmy TIMMY! You are a runaway… What kind of father BAILS out on their daughters and baby boy. by running as far away as one can?

    You are a JOKE TIM!

    REAL FATHERS ARE CLOSE BY not thousands of miles away and having people make lies about being discharges for stalking. WHAT ABOUT YOUR OTHER CHARGES TIMMY TIMMY TIMMY WON’T GO HOME!

    HEY DARREL! PLEASE tell us, when those murderes who lives 650+ 8 hours away from Timmy lived, what exactly was the ‘bar’? Was it that Tim didn’t murder anyone, that he was a felon with a kidnapping charge, or was it, that you all could come up with NOTHING better to compare Connies DAD to, other than chasing murderers an 8 hour drive away for a pay check?

    LOVE YOUR BAR FOR CHARACTER DARREL! Ya found a good one Connie… a dude who finds the bar for character chasing losers 850 miles away. GREAT JOB SKIMMY TIMMY!
    Keep posting you freaks!

    The more you talk, the more the NATION SEE’S THIS CHILD IS SAFE AS FAR AWAY FROM THE BEDHELLS AS POSSIBLE!

  696. Why you Connie supporters are NUTS!

    Oh by the way TIMMY! You are a runaway… What kind of father BAILS out on their daughters and baby boy. by running as far away as one can?

    You are a JOKE TIM!

    REAL FATHERS ARE THEIR CLOSE BY not thousands of miles away and having people laugh about being discharges for stalking.

    HEY DARREL! PLEASE tell us, when those murderes who lives 650+ 8 hours away from Timmy lived, what exactly was the ‘bar’? Was it that Tim didn’t murder anyone, that he was a felon with a kidnapping charge, or was it, that you all could come up with NOTHING better to compare Connies DAD to, other than chasing murderers an 8 hour drive away for a pay check?

    LOVE YOUR BAR FOR CHARACTER DARREL! Ya found a good one Connie… a dude who finds the bar for character chasing losers 850 miles away. GREAT JOB SKIMMY TIMMY!
    Keep posting you freaks!

    The more you talk, the more the NATION SEE’S THIS CHILD IS SAFE AS FAR AWAY FROM THE BEDHELLS AS POSSIBLE!

  697. Why you Connie supporters are NUTS!

    My name is Timmy (Bedwell), I got a nickel, it bought me a bus ticket and a bench to sleep on too.

    My latest stop, is Alaska, where I am a baska’
    Cuz all I can offer is a nickel or two….

    and then along came DARREL!

    Who would like another tune other than the legaSEEEEEEE
    that comes with leaving women to panhandle for the FAMILY!

    TIM, Darrel, WHAT MEN YOU ARE!

    BRAA HAA HAA HAA HAAAAAA

    You go suck your own worm, or better yet, chase your tails you SQUIRRELS!

  698. Why you Connie supporters are NUTS!

    Yep, I LOVE THE WORM! #91

    I LOVE THE WORM
    I LOVE THE WORM

    Hey WORM, I miss you playing with MJ!

    LOVE YOU WORM! I WANT THE JERSEY!

    When vague desire is the fire
    In the eyes of chicks whose sickness
    Is the games they play
    And when the masquerade is played
    The neighbor folks make jokes
    At who is most to blame today

    the above, dedicated to the BEDHELLS!

  699. CeeA

    marmite
    July 3rd, 2009 at 9:45 am

    Well Flappy, Beast and co, we’re still waiting…..

    *tumbleweed drifts by*

    You must be running scared as you’re running round deleting comments and threads. You do realise everything is saved elsewhere don’t you??

    ***************

    First of all anything that has been posted has NEVER been deleted…SECOND of all there was and is nothing there that would give us any reason to delete! OOHH..running scared…ya you got it Barfite!! Do you realize how immature and senseless it is to run your mouth off about total b.s? You know your full of it…I know you full of it!! JUST WHO IS IT YOUR TRYING TO FOOL AND WHAT IS YOUR PURPOSE?

    Do I dare hold my breath for an HONEST answer or something to back your mouth up with !!

  700. CeeA

    and uh…your still waiting…DID YOU WANT SOMETHING?

  701. CeeA

    It is a fact CA has 5 kids. I got the number right so I told the truth. It don’t make no difference who the daddy is. I never said nothing about him or her husband for that matter. If over half her brood ain’t yours huh, sounds like a big ole personal problem to me.

    Have you 2 ever thought about getting off the computer and going to see a real marriage counselor.

    HEY MELISSA…I HAVE NEVER SPOKE TO YOU NOR DO I CARE TO..JUST WHO THE HEL ARE YOU TO SPEAK OF MY CHILDREN OR MY MARRIAGE..WHO DO YOU THINK YOU ARE! MY CHILDREN AREN’T ANY OF YOUR GAWD DAMN BUSNINESS TO DISCSUSS ..YOU GOT THAT!!! GROW UP, KEEP MY PERSONAL LIFE OUT OF THIS YOU SCUM BAG, WHICH IS FYI JUST FINE THANK YOU…WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU!

    YOU DON’T KNOW JACK ABOUT MY PERSONAL LIFE…SO DON’T PRETEND TO…SEEMS TO ME YOU ARE THE ONE THAT NEEDS SOME PERSONAL ATTENTION FROM A PROFESSIONAL! THIS SITE REAKS OF THE SCUM OF THE EARTH!!

    You have alot of nerve…

  702. Icky Etardo

    Why would Mr. Thompson bother taking a lie detector test? The only people that matter already believe him, and that’s the court system. He’s not required to answer to anyone else except the court system. He also has everything he wants—full custody of the child. Why would he waste his time and money?

    Let Ms. Bedwell take a lie detector test, since it’s her word that’s being doubted by the courts. You all can take up a collection to pay for it, since you’re so concerned.

    Of course, as many people have said, lie detector tests aren’t admissible in court, so why should Ms. Bedwell take one either? It would just be a big fat waste of money—money that she could spend on the visitation center and seeing her child. Why would she waste her time and money?

    Maybe lie detector tests are just a stupid idea, since they won’t really help anyone!

  703. marmite

    It is still apparent that C~A has NOT yet got that help she so greatly needs. She keeps saying she isn’t going to post here anymore and back she comes again! It would laughable if she wasn’t messing around with the life of a 3 year old girl.

    How can anyone defend the fact the fact that the father won’t take a lie detector test, it may not be admissable in court but it would certainly clear up a hell of a lot of doubt.

    Ask any innocent person if they were accused of sexually abusing their little girl would they take a lie detector test, everyone I have asked has said they would go to ANY lengths to clear their name.

    Cost isn’t an issue for the Thompsons, if they can afford to keep this case in court for this long they can afford a lie detector test. You know what, IF the test proved the ‘father’ wasnt lying I’m sure he could sue the Bedwells for his costs so surely it’s a win win situation for him either way.

    Still not willing to take the test Dustin – Why, what do you have to hide?

    http://www.saveaaliyah.com/

  704. StopConArtists

    How can anyone defend the fact that Connie won’t take a lie detector test.. works both ways…idiots..

  705. MaureenN

    “How can anyone defend the fact the fact that the father won’t take a lie detector test, it may not be admissable in court but it would certainly clear up a hell of a lot of doubt. ”

    Clear up doubt for who? The internet public?

    As a parent, I wouldn’t waste my time & money defending myself to the general internet public, no matter what they were accusing me of doing. A responsible parent puts their child’s needs before their own personal issues, unless those issues are interfering with their ability to parent well.

    The courts have not asked for (and most certanly won’t ask for) a polygraph test. I’m sure that, if they do, both parents would comply. As far as I’ve heard here on the internet, the father is complying with everything that the courts ask of him.

  706. MaureenN

    BTW – If I were Connie & truly believed that my child was being abused, I would most certainly be playing nice with whoever I needed to play nice with, in order to get time with my child, even supervised time that I had to work 2 extra jobs to pay for. I would play nice with the courts, I would play nice with my ex, I would let the judges, lawyers & all involved officials know that I understood their concerns & was willing to do anything to show them that they could trust me.

    I would be friendly with my worst enemy, if it meant that I could spend even a few minutes with my child, comforting her, giving her strength, letting her know that there’s a safe, loving place in the world. I would be aching for my child, alone in an abusive world & I would not let my pride or personal feelings stand in my way at all in order to be with her.

    Then, I would keep working within the system, the system that has the power, to earn more time, more custody, to get people to know I was trustworthy, responsible, mature, sane, doing whatever was asked of me, then asking what more I could do, in order to find someone with power who I could convince, rationally, of what I believed to be true.

    I would stay in constant contact with my child’s psychologist, asking that person to include me whenever possible in the sessions. And, even if that was not possible, I would befriend the counselor or psychologist, behaving rationally & responsibly, showing an awareness of the possibility that I might not be believed due to my personal involvement in these relationships, but that I felt strongly that there was abuse happening.

    I would admit to the possibility, also, that the child’s father was not *all evil*, that there was good in his presence in her life as well. Believing only in extremes, with no gray areas, is a sign of irrationality – especially when discussing a person who, in your past, you chose to be in a relationship with, therefore, in your past, somehone who you admired & saw something good & valuable in.

    And, once I had the custodial ability to do so, I would bring my child to a doctor for a full physical exam, making sure that the doctor knew that I was concerned about the possibility of sexual abuse. This, along with psychological support, is what the court needs to see.

  707. Interesting

    Below from petition.

    Why is it that every little fact of the father’s life is being dug up and brought up, but nothing about the mother’s is. I wonder how many fist fights has the mother been involved in. Is she manipulative? Did she get pregnant on purpose? Why if someone is so horrible would you want to get pregnant on purpose? How long was she left alone with her daughter where she could have coached her? Was the father left alone (no roommates or family members) around majority of the time?Why are so many people saying things that they heard from the mother, but were not physically there for. You cannot and should not be claiming and saying things to be true if you were not there. It is called here say. That is all a lot of this is. Is it true that the boyfriend and mother were broken up for a period of time? Well, why? Is it true he was on a match making website in that time? Why did the grandfather take his 4 kids to Jordan? You can’t say the mother has nothing to do with this site. I think everyone should take a long hard look at what they are saying and who and what they are believing because there are two….YES TWO sides to every story. How sad that this little girl is being subjected to all of this publicity because CPS, the court system and the police have all had enough of all the crying wolf.

    DARREL YOU CHEATED ON CONNIE? GOOD MAN
    CONNIE YOU GOT PREGNANT ON PURPOSE? WONDER WHY
    TIM WELL, WE DON’T NEED TO REHASH YOUR CRIMINAL BACKGROUND SCUM LOSER
    THE REST OF CONNIES GROUPIES ARE A PATHETIC SMALL NUMBER. HOW MANY PEOPLE DID CONNIE MANAGE TO ROUND UP ONLINE? 4 OR 5? THEY KEEP POSTING UNDER DIFFERENT NAMES SO IT APPEARS LIKE MORE PEOPLE BELIEVE HER. LMAO!

    ********AMEN TO THE WORM SUPPORTERS; YOU’VE DONE GOOD!********

  708. Interesting

    DUSTIN! WTG MAN KEEP YOUR KID FROM THESE FREAKS! BEDWELLS ARE CRAZY AND THEY’VE PROVEN THAT ALL BY THEMSELF. LMAO

  709. DuhNeice

    MaureenN said: “If I were Connie & truly believed that my child was being abused, I would most certainly be playing nice with whoever I needed to play nice with, in order to get time with my child, even supervised time that I had to work 2 extra jobs to pay for. I would play nice with the courts, I would play nice with my ex, I would let the judges, lawyers & all involved officials know that I understood their concerns & was willing to do anything to show them that they could trust me.”

    Though the point is understood, and I don’t completely disagree, I must say…if I believed my child was being abused in any way by an ex, there is no way in hell I’d play nice with him. If my belief was that my ex was a child abuser there would be no compromise.
    Candace Watson “played nice”…real nice, with a convicted sex offender and look what happened there. The guy took off with her and her 4 yr old daughter, Haylee.

  710. WONDER

    MaureenN

    You could do all those things, but you’d be wasting your time. It doesn’t matter, the Family Court System isn’t really set up to do what’s best for the child. She can befriend whoever she wants but they’re going to do as they’re told so they don’t lose out on any $$. If the pro’s don’t do what their employer (the State) wants, they will find a new pro who will. Connie can’t save her daughter by going along with those who were irrational enough to take her child in the first place.

  711. WONDER

    MaureenN

    Why play nice with a system that handed over your child to her abuser ? They’re not playing nice. Sometimes you have to fight fire with fire.
    I sure wouldn’t play nice with someone who condemns my child to a 24/7 like with her daddy’s worm.
    Connie is right and it’s out of her hands now anyway.
    Until Aaliyah is away from the worm, it’s not going away. Connie could beg & plead to have all the info taken down, but until Aali is away from the worm it’s not happening.

  712. WONDER

    If he doesn’t want to waste his time dealing with the general internet public, and the video is so innocent, why is he fighting so hard to get it removed ?
    I mean, a parent should be able to put up a perfectly innocent video of their child on Myspace or whatever.
    I know I have.

  713. DADDY'S WORM FOR DUMMIES

    For the truth along with a healthy dose of common sense, read the post by DADDY”S WORM WITH LOGIC. It makes perfect sense. Aali is being abused and many of you are more worried about her abuser.

  714. Do another line Dustin...

    Yeah Dustin anybody that tells the Truth about you is “nuts.” If telling the Truth means we are all crazy, trust us we love every minute of it!

    You must be desperate to beg Connie to take this all off the net. You can’t stand having other people knowing what you are, can you? Truth hurts doesn’t it? Maybe you should have thought about the consequences of molesting your own daughter before you did it each time.

    You know, I know, we all know, at one point in time you only have one ultimate ending for all of this that you have done to your own daughter. It’s probably eating you up right now huh Dustin? You’re still out at the bars, drinking and posting drunk posts on BTLS- can’t sleep much knowing the outcome of your actions?

    ONE ULTIMATE ENDING…JAIL.

    Your threats of jumping off the Foresthill Bridge are probably sounding good to you again.

    Since you’re an abusive sociopath, Oh you would just love for Connie to come back to you. It sure would make controlling her a hell of a lot easier than using the system! We all know that is your goal with dragging Connie into court for the last 3 1/2 years. Yes everyone, Dustin has been the one to drag Connie to court everytime but one in the last 3 1/2 years!!! I wonder what the judge would think about that if he knew. She isn’t going back to you Dustin just face it.

    Connie found a real man… Darrel. And yes he thinks she is an honest, caring, trustworthy woman just like you do Dustin… remember you even wrote it down on paper in a Dr Phil exercise. Now that you can’t have her she is “crazy.”

    Yes Dustin we can all tell by your Drunk writings how jealous you are of Darrel. (A little tip: Proof read your drunk posts the next morning after you sober up a little before you start drinking again at breakfast. Your posts might make a little more sense that way. Plus your abusive tendencies really shine through when you are drunk ;)

    You are just a typical abuser still at it. You can’t handle that Connie has support and your attempts to isolate her aren’t working. It isn’t going to happen. People see through you like glass Dustin.

    It’s no surprise to us that you would avoid Dr Saturley’s offer from outside of Inbred Placer County and then dodge a lie detector test by coming up with a million reasons it will do you no good to take one. And you’re right, the polygraph test will do YOU no good since YOU ARE GUILTY.

    Come on Dustin show everybody what a “caring, concerned father you are because Connie is nuts” Show us how nuts she really is. If she is so crazy why are you still trying to get her to come back to you? Why can you not go 5 seconds without dragging her into court? All abusers use the court system to further abuse their victims to try to make their life hell so they come back, but Connie knows this Dustin and your plan isn’t working.

    Your mommy and daddy must enjoy paying for your attorney to cover for your Pedophilia problem. How’s that working out for you Dave and Dina? Maybe when your parents learn that they are going to have to fork out 60 k for a criminal defense attorney for your pedophilia, maybe then, they will finally learn that enabling you was the most damaging thing they could have ever done for you. Ask Casey Anthony’s parents they enabled their daughter until she murdered their grandchild. The Thompson’s are headed down the same path.

    You Thompsons love to tell other people they should be ashamed of themselves… Well have you looked in your mirror lately?

    You see your dirty face in the mirror and attempt to wash the mirror like the mirror is dirty.

    I hate to be the one to break it to you Thompson’s but the crap is on your face!!

    Like the post above says…

    “Your lies are going to unfold in front of the entire nation.”

    P. S. Dustin notice the Bedwell’s don’t address your lies. They don’t care what you say because they know at least their name isn’t associated with Child Molester like yours Dustin. Quit molesting your daughter!

  715. So TRUE- Had to Repost it!!

    DADDY”S WORM WITH LOGIC
    July 4th, 2009 at 11:35 am
    DADDY’S WORM

    The pedophile clan wants to try to convince anybody they can that “Daddy’s Worm” is anything but Dustin’s penis. So right here we will rip his “theories” to shreds with this thing called LOGIC.

    (Think slowly about each point before you move on to the next point.)

    1) Dustin wants you all to believe the child is speaking of Baby Einstein’s worm:

    The child is clearly speaking of 3 types of worms throughout the video. Baby Einstein’s worm is the first one she addresses which she states is green and orange. Anyone that has seen B. E. knows that is correct and accurate. The child then adresses “Daddy’s worm” which tastes “Yucky” and makes her cough, he has to wipe her mouth with like a napkin because of “Daddy’s worm” not B. E.’s worm. She states she sometimes gets mad at daddy and then further describes why. At the end she describes how daddy takes her to the store to see worms. She is very descriptive and very clear it is “daddy’s worm” not worm’s from the store. Daddy thinks he is so smart and tried to confuse her by taking her to the store to see worms. Too bad for him that his child is more intelligent than him. The child then concludes she doesn’t like ANY of the worms. She gives the infamous worm an owner, her Daddy. She gives Baby Einstein’s worm an owner B. E., and she tells us where the other worms are that daddy made her go see…at the store.
    She addresses “daddy’s worm’s” size. She is holding her little baby doll in her arms and says its giant like her baby. She says she tried to see him, he tries to look big.
    “he tries to look big” possibly like an errection? She says “she tried to see him” so apparently it was dark. She says “I tell daddy’s worm dont do that, its yucky, dont touch my mouth worm” And that she has to tell him “dont stop.” It makes her choke and cry. Then tells him “daddy get it off, he has to wipe it off with like a napkin.” This child descibed perfectly the act of oral sex in complete sequencial order entirely on her own. “Daddy’s worm” does it to her. Then she states “daddy wants to have a baby.”

    2) The Child Molester wants you to believe his Worm is an earth worm:

    The child is very descriptive and clear. She described it’s size and it is not the size of an earth worm. Why would Daddy be sticking earth worms in her mouth anyway? That is abuse in itself. If you paid attention in the first of his theories it clearly debunks this theory of the child molesters too.

    3) The Child molester wants you to believe that she is speaking of gummy worms:

    Listen to the child!! She tells you Baby Einstein’s worm is green and orange, not “Daddy’s worm.” Remember she tells you about “daddy’s worm” that she “tried to see him.” It’s kind of hard to see a worm that is getting shoved down your throat in the dark that makes you choke and cry. “It tries to look big” so we know it changes sizes. Plus, kids love gummy worms. “Daddy’s worm” is “yucky,” she has to tell it “dont stop” and then she states “daddy wants a baby”!! That is no gummy worm! Why would a child think her daddy wants a baby with her? Think about it. Why would she have to tell a worm that she doesn’t like, “Dont stop”?

    4) The Wormy Daddy wants you to believe the mother coached her:

    Coaching is leading. It is the same as leading a witness with the answer in the question just like the rules in a courtroom. First of all nobody is even talking about the subject of “Daddy’s worm” in the video but ONLY the child entirely on her own. The only question asked is “What does the worm look like? There was nothing suggesting or leading in it. For those of you who do not understand what coaching is, a coaching example would be: Does the worm look like a banana? That would be suggesting an answer in the question. None of which ever happens throughout the entire 27 minutes of the “Daddy’s Worm” Video. The Mother and Aunt aren’t even talking. The child is insisting on telling them why she doesn’t want to go to bed. Any good Psychologist knows that children relate everything to their own knowledge and the world as they know it. They relate their own problems to their dolls having the same problems. This child in the video tells us that “Daddy’s worm makes her sick and cry and it makes her teddy bear sick and cry too.” She tells us that both her and her doll “don’t wants to go to bed right now.” At 2 1/2 she wouldn’t know the word penis instead describes it the best way she knows how “Daddy’s worm.” Don’t forget also there were previous reports made to CPS by others than the mother of the child describing “daddy’s worm” as having hair like the hair on her head, it having one eye, and hurting her tongue. There are previous reports and restraining orders filed because “daddy hurts her pee pee” before she ever talked about daddy’s worm in her mouth.

    Child molesters only progress in the sick things they experiment on children. You can see the progression throughout this child’s statements and behaviors. You can only imagine what he is doing to her since he has her alone for a year.

    It is very clear to any attentive parent that it is impossible to coach a 2 1/2 year old child to talk for 27 minutes straight relating everything she says to her dolls. Not one time throughout the entire video does she ask what mommy what did you say? The Inotation (rise and fall of ones pitch) is clear this child is speaking of her own valition. Her inotation does not rise like she is questioning each statement like a coached child would sound like. This child is clearly uncoached.
    Also it is pitch dark in the room. You can tell that they have to turn on a glowing bear in order to see. Also the infared is on in order to view the video. There is a tremendous amount of detail in the video alone to prove this child was indeed not coached or prompted in any way to say what she is describing about her “Daddy’s Worm”.

    Help stop this Child Molester!

  716. All Fighting aside...

    You all should start repenting and change your evil ways.

    Really Thompson’s, you all should apologize to Aaliyah for what you have done to her and continue to do to her. And I don’t mean your type of apologies Dina where you tell her your sorry that grandpa just hit her and you didn’t help her. I mean truly apologizing and getting her out harms way if you all don’t have the self control to go hit a punching bag instead of hitting and kicking a defenseless baby (and women). Repent and change.

    Do you actually think she is going to respect any of you when she is older? She knows who treats her like crap… The Thompsons and who treats her with Love…The Bedwells.

    She knows what all of you are. She is an extremely intelligent child and she told us all what you do to her. You all hate her for telling on you but you should hate yourselves for your dispicable actions. If you weren’t doing something wrong she wouldn’t have to tell on you. You think abusing her into silence is going to cover your asses forever: It’s not! So you should probably consider repenting and changing now. I recommend looking up on Youtube a video about kelsea Briggs who died at the hands of people like you Thompsons and at the hands of a screwed up court system like Placer County’s.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uWow42TCwzg

    I pray the guilt of what you all are doing to Aaliyah eats at you at night to the point you all can’t function until you change your evil ways.

    Have a heart or a soul Thompson’s go get help and stop taking your own psychological problems out on Aaliyah.

    Real men don’t hit babies and women they go to counsellors and get help.

    Seriously Thompson’s shouldn’t you be focusing on your other grandbaby’s life that is dying of terminal cancer rather than wasting money on defending a child molester. Can’t you people see that you are harming and ruining the lives of two helpless children? Stop putting your money towards defending your child molesting son that is threatening to kill your innocent defenseless grandbaby to keep his little secret quiet and start using your money to save your other innocent defenseless grandbaby’s life that is dying of cancer. Your son belongs in jail for what he is doing to Baby A. Dave belongs right along with him. Quit hurting and harming an innocent baby. You people just let your pride get in the way so lie to cover up your sins. You are going to end up taking two innocent babies lives down with you. Grow up and get your priorities straight and go get some theraputic help for your problems.

    We all are begging you to get some help for the sake of the lives of both your grandbabies.

    God has a way of dealing with people like you that don’t change and repent and your time is coming Thompsons…

  717. You are Right Marmite

    Dustin is avoiding the lie detector test for only one reason: GUILTY

    He wouldn’t touch a lie detector test with a ten foot pole in fear that it will let us all know the TRUTH.

  718. Hey MaureenN

    You should just sign your real name on your posts:

    Thompson Child Molester Enabler with a B. S. Degree.

  719. Hey MaureenN

    “I would be friendly with my worst enemy, if it meant that I could spend even a few minutes with my child…”

    Let me mimic you Maureen because this is essentially the ignorant things you are saying…

    “I would be friendly with the monster molesting my child and I would be friendly with the pedophile that is sticking his penis down my daughters throat, so I can be a brown noser to the corrupt system and fall right into what the pedophile wants which is control of Connie’s entire life all for the sake of seeing the child regardless of any morality in the situation.”

    You are a wack job lady or whatever you are!! Or wait a Thompson!!!

    Anybody with morals wouldn’t cave into such B.S. for a corrupt system and a sick controlling pedophile.

    Keep standing strong and fighting for what’s right Connie.

    You MaureenN sound like you just laid out the pedophiles agenda for Connie.

    How is that??

    Have a conscience, some morals, use your brain and think twice before you speak MaureenN…

  720. Hey stopconartists

    Dustin way to try to flip the lie detector test on Connie to take the heat off you!!

    Connie already plans on taking one.

    Where are you Dustin??

    Oh too busy calling people “Idiots” that can see through your sh*t!!

    C H I L D M O L E S T E R

  721. 70sixspeed

    Looks like someone (dustin) aka why Connie’s supporters are nuts– went on a little “hallucinogenic binge” this weekend… Getting a little touchy feely with the copy and paste aren’t you?
    So you say to me to FIND MY BALLS OFF THE FLOOR- yet you hide behind your computer at 2:30 in the morning? Sounds like you must have a pretty lonely disappointing life to sit and stroke keys all night long… I have made it completely obvious to everyone here who I am– what, you don’t have the balls to do that? Oh wait- maybe your daddy will come and take care of it for you. Do me a favor and tell him it was great talking to him outside the gym that one night- you remember when I had the “balls” to walk right up to him and your best buddy outside and let him politely know he is never welcome to step foot on my property- what was his response again? Oh yeah, that’s right, he called the P.D. to try and figure out where Connie was! HaHaHaHaHa! Didn’t work though did it- cause if I remember right, once I told them I refuse to help him and his pedophile son find her they backed off and he got in his little mid-life crisis car and left crying while acting tough flipping me off as he sped off!
    It’s funny that you mentioned my right arm- that really is the one Connie likes the best… She usually grabs it and tells me how easily I could use it to strangle people with! So why don’t you just man up and say who you really are? Why don’t you just answer all the REAL questions on here instead of trying to just misdirect everyone’s attention away from you- and while you are at it- stop being such a sick fu**!
    One more favor to ask, I couldn’t make it to court last time- so will you please blow your dad some kisses for me again! Thanks!

  722. CeeA

    marmite
    July 6th, 2009 at 5:46 am

    ya whatever….why are you so hateful and angry barfite…??? Do you ever have anything nice to say? Why do you focus on me? Do you even know? why do you lash out at me? Do you care to be honest for once…perhaps you just troll the net looking for victims and people you think you can hurt????? What good are you?
    Why do you “still” talk about me …what is it that you want from me…STOP MAKING THIS ABOUT YOU…whatever, so i pop back in once in a while…OOOHHH..MY BAD! I see you STILL lashing out??? YOu have never, ever answered any of my questions …why are you so interested in my personal life..??? I don’t get your hateful evil purpose…why don’t you say what you really mean barfy??? Put it out there…this case is DEAD to me A SCAM…yawn…I haven’t paid any attention to it in a long time…so why are you here ON A BABY A ARTICLE talking about ME when I haven’t been here…JEALOUSY PERHAPS? SUCK IT UP PRINCESS! I am who i am and if you don’t like who you are that’s your damn problem..You don’t talk about baby here you talk about ME…WHY? Your messed up honey bunch!
    Ya I do come here once or twice a month…when I am bored! Funny you don’t have much to say except bashing people you don’t know and their personal lives that you have sponged off other sites…parasite!

  723. CeeA

    oh and marmite…I AM NOT MESSING AROUND WITH BABY A…BECAUSE I DON’T BELIEVE HER LYING BIOTCH MOTHER…IT’S MY RIGHT TO MY OPINION…I DON’T TAKE SIDES WITHOUT PROOF…I don’t support the father…I DON’T KNOW HIM…GET THAT THROUGH YOUR THICK HEAD…I just DON’T support the mother!!! I am neutral…WTF IS YOUR PROBLEM WITH THAT??????????????????????????

  724. CeeA

    Why you Connie supporters are NUTS!
    July 5th, 2009 at 2:05 am

    Hi there…so you think the ahole marmite aka barfite is the gremlin that runs bnn….LMFAO..if that is true…he goes into his own blog and blogs under a different name…..THAT IS SCARY!!!! GLAD I DON’T SHARE A BED UNDER A BRIDGE WITH THAT LONG HAIRED FREAK!!! wHY do you think it is him? I had it narrowed down and he was one of them…but i thought…OMG..HE IS ONE SICK PUPPY IF MARMITE IS SIMON BARRETTE….I know he is full of shiott …but to stoop that low…LMFAO…I DO BELIVE YOU COULD BE RIGHT!!! WHOO HOO…WHAT A ……….. LMFAO SOME MORE! Wow…jan I thoguth i would be embarrased to have you for a wife…but if marmite is simon…YOU HAVE BIG BIG PROBLEMS…more then I knew you already have…. ;)

  725. CeeA

    Oh Man Maureen
    July 4th, 2009 at 11:55 am
    **************

    When are you connie clan members going to learn that everyone that doesn’t agree with you is NOT dustin…get a life!!! gROW a brain…get the facts…do the math… (doubles over laughing ) ya know some people believe in “FACTS”…in this world…why don’t you gather some and regroup…and realize that there are intelligent people that WILL NOT follow a woman who has NEVER PROVIDED PROOF…and continues to violate a court order in her lame attempt to get custody of her child…the rest of the bs ..he said she said…is all SPECULATION…if you start with facts and NOT opinions…you might have stopped at the tape…which is all she has AND IS NOT PROOF of anything…. this woman is a liar and a scam…IF MY CHILD WERE BEING ABUSED…I’D HAVE MORE THEN A LAME CONCOCTED VIDEO TO SHOW A JUDGE…

  726. CeeA

    marmite
    July 3rd, 2009 at 9:45 am

    Well Flappy, Beast and co, we’re still waiting…..

    Again..I ask…WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR? WHATEVER IT IS…DON’T HOLD YOUR BREATH..GREMLIN…

  727. CeeA

    marmite
    July 6th, 2009 at 5:46 am

    It is still apparent that C~A has NOT yet got that help she so greatly needs. She keeps saying she isn’t going to post here anymore and back she comes again!
    **********************

    Oh yah..that’s a real problem in the world today..someone says they won’t be back and they do!! That needs real professional help IMO too…wonder barfite…what kind of disorder is that…so I can tell my professional your uneducated barifte opinion…rotflmfao…

  728. CeeA

    then you can kiss my C~A-ss

  729. MelissaC

    Hey there CeeA

    What is your problem? Who the hell do I think I am?
    Who the hell do you think you are? The net is riddled with your trash about Connie and her daughter compliments of none other then CeeA. It’s OK for you to stick your nose in Connie’s business and disect her as a mother and a person. But you don’t like it when someone gives you a taste of your own medicine, DO YOU?

    Connie never ask you for one thing! She NEVER spoke to YOU either but you have taken it upon yourself to attack her at every opportunity. You can dish it out but you can’t take it can you! You and your husband have are disgusting excuses for human beings. You twist and contort things until they appear to be as dirty as your mind. You and that husband of yours think you can say anything you want and yet you think you should be exempt from scrutiny. People who love and care about Connie and Aaliyah put a video on the net and you went after Connie like you were being paid to discredit her. Even that wasn’t good enough for you, you also went after her father and the rest of her family. Now you COMPLAIN because there is a light on your personal life. If you were not so pathetic, you would be funny.

    CeeA honey, build a bridge and get over it. You and your husband, if he really married you, tried to run Simon’s site and when Jan stopped you, you got mad. Beasty Boy started his own site, so he could be the big dog. Boy you 2 were riding high, taking bloggers away from other sites. You were on top weren’t you. But alas, you guys went to far. Beast wasn’t happy just defending men who abuse children, he actually glorified one. It was just too much and even your long time friends and supporters couldn’t take it. Yes we all know, your site is now a ghost town. My my how the mighty have fallen. I really wish you could hear us laughing at the 2 of you. Just thinking of you in your kingdom with no subjects brings smiles to our faces. Sean and Shelley accuse Jan and Simon of being controlling liars and yet the Barretts have had successful sites for over 2 years, your site lasted what. not even 2 months. Karma gets you everytime don’t it!

    Several of us wonder why is it Beast defends men who sexually abuse children? He even glorifies them, admires them and their ability to get away with it when the world knows what they do. Men who desire sex with children often times find women who have children already and they hook up with them. Instant access to their hearts desire. It is sick and yet we see it over and over. At least if we are smart enough to add 2 and 2. Then there are women who fall for these abusers and before long they are spouting the same garbage as the abuser spouts.

    I couldn’t help but notice you defend Beast glorification of a pedophile. Why is that CeeA? hmmmmm ah-hmmm one does tend to wonder. I don’t know why you are so upset with me. Your loving hubby is the one who said you have 5 kids, all of whom you gave birth to, only 2 of them are his. I didn’t say that, he did, jump on him. Oh wait no forget that, for a second there I forgot you and Beast are like minded and you think just like him. You are obviously comfortable having Beast’s words coming out of your mouth but I’m not so don’t try to put what he says on me. He said it, I didn’t.

    You keep saying you got banned from a certain site for just asking questions. Were you high? I read the ALL your posts. You didn’t ASK questions, it was more in the vein of an interrogation. Hitler’s henchmen have nothing on you and your cohorts. You guys started that whole fiasco. You were rude, the questions were more in the frame of demands and YOUR GROUP accused them of being other people and you said they carefully planned and took 6 months to execute this hoax on the bloggers. You were firing questions at them and before they could answer anything, you shot off 10 more hateful and accusatory “QUESTIONS”. They DID NOT sound like legitimate questions to me or anyone else with half a brain. Not just you but the WHOLE BUNCH of your clique.

    When KarenCCC and AnneA. had enough, more then I would have taken by far, they fired back. KarenCCC had ONE hateful response and AnneA. had TWO hateful comments. The contents of both their comments were truthful. These 2 women refused to be obedient and follow the crowd and for that your group decided to get rid of them. You are just mad because YOU were the one that got kicked off. All the clout you THOUGHT you had, you didn’t have and you were booted! That was the funniest thing to date. You are sore losers but losers none the less. Deal with it, I’m sure you are accustomed to what you are. That is probably why you are so miserable. Misery loves company. You wanted a fight, you came out swinging, the ladies, and you can tell by their lack of vularity, they are definitely ladies, beat you without raising a hand.

    MARMITE: You are so right, she keeps promising she won’t be back and yet here she is over and over and over. She evidently can’t tell the truth about anything. She got very uupset because I said something about her children, yet she feels entitled to talk about other peoples children and families. She has NO problem posting personal information about anyone who opposes her and the mighty Beast. She has a great big new site, not crowded at all, her and her man can say and do whatever they want but here she is. Trying to run this site. Telling us what we can and can’t say. She is confusing us with the people who flocked to HER new site, following her like the sheep they had become. I think its wonderful they finally saw Beast and CeeA for who they are. Even their “friends” couldn’t tolerate their defending men who sexually abuse children. It was just to much. Thank God they came to their senses.

    CeeA let me make a suggestion, you and Beast might have more luck keeping bloggers, if you stop claiming to be advocates and defenders of children. Just come clean about what you stand for. Start up a new site, say a support group for pedophiles. Since the Baby A case came to light your comments VERY CLEARLY support men who sexually assault children, admire them even. Your best friends can’t ignore it anymore and they refuse to associate with your kind.

    OUR DEAREST PATTY: You are so right about Flappycakes but there are a couple of other people who also suffer Narcissistic Personality Disorder. CeeA and Beast have all the traits that Flappycakes has, I wonder if she gave it to them or they gave it to her. Either way you nailed Flappycakes but forgot to include CeeA and her man. Of course CeeA also seems to be mad at the world. Her anger really shows, makes you wonder why she is so mad all the time. Sometimes women with kids marry a man and they see little things they don’t like. They are often worried about why their man walked them down the aisle. Did he marry her because he loves her, in spite of the fact she has kids or because she had kids? CeeA I hope that’s not what drives the anger you have. I’m sure Beast sticks up for these men because he see’s them as underdogs and NOT predators. (snicker snicker and giggles) It will be alright sweetie.

    MAUREEN N:
    If I have to read about your husband and his daughter and the horrible woman who is your step daughter’s mother one more time, I will puke. If you only knew how jealous of his ex wife you sound, you would STOP it. I swear to God you are so threatened by his ex, you are blind to all else. The Baby A case has NOTHING in common with your situation. NOTA, NOTHING, NOT ONE THING!!!!! The first time you posted I must have read your comments a half dozen times trying to see how they related to Aaliyah, I couldn’t find one single common thread. You just keep saying the same things over and over. Just because you married a man who was in a custody battle, don’t make you an expert on courts, judges or kids. You keep insinuating that Connie is like your husband’s ex. I have a real good feeling you don’t even REALLY have a clear picture of what his ex wife is much less what Connie is. I also have a good feeling his ex wife has a story the polar opposite of the one you tell repeatedly. Your husband ain’t in love with Connie, he is in love with his ex, leave Connie alone. The reason I think he loves his ex is because you would NOT keep running her down and bringing her up, if she were no threat to you.
    Every single comment you have posted, tells all still bothering to read what you have to say, you think he still loves his ex. Get over it or send him back to her, its clear you don’t believe he loves you. Sorry honey, someone has to get you out of the denial you live in. I am not trying to be cruel, but if you were not threatened by her, you wouldn’t keep talking about her. I’m sure you will eventually find a man you can be sure of. He may love you but the point I am making is, YOU DO NOT THINK HE DOES. A woman can live with a man she don’t love BUT she can’t live with a man that don’t love her.

    TO THE SUPPORTERS OF CONNIE AND AaLIYAH:
    It’s been a long rough road but the truth is coming out and sooner then some think. We have stayed the course and fought a good fight. He who laughs last, laughs best. Connie Bedwell and her family will be vindicated and the guilty will be punished. Aaliyah thank you for giving us the words and strength to defend you and your mommy. Soon baby girl you will be back with your loving mommy where you belong. What a celebration it will be, Aali, what a smile you will have, I can almost hear you laughing with joy right now. The thought of you being safe, sound and happy has inspired us all. Hang on Baby, help is on the way……
    Your daddy’s puppets will be proven the fools they are and your truth will shine through.

  730. Wonder

    To :Daddy’s Worm with Logic—

    I hope you sent that to the DA. You just made their case.

  731. marmite

    OK, this really is the final time I address C~A here, they are determined to take the emphasis off poor Aaliyah but I feel I need to respond to her outrageous rants.

    C~A
    I went back through all my posts to see where I could have made you soooooo mad. Of the 9 posts I made you were mentioned in the following…

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    marmite
    May 28th, 2009 at 7:07 am
    To Beast, CA, Huh and the rest of your vindictive little gang just ask yourself why you are so angry about being banned from a blogging site, this isn’t about you it’s actually about Aaliyah.

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    marmite
    May 30th, 2009 at 12:12 pm
    In response to C~A please read this blog from the beginning, I suggest you take your time reading your own posts for evidence of your weird and vindictive rants.

    It is clear you are have issues and this situation just happens to be your latest outlet to release that unresolved anger. I seriously suggest counselling.

    To the rest of your gang please channel your energies into something positive. All we are asking for is an independant investigation.

    C~A please don’t bother to respond, you’re boring me.

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    marmite
    June 8th, 2009 at 2:14 am
    C~A You obviously didnt read my May 30th post slowly enough to understand it so I’ll repeat it again just for you.

    In response to C~A please read this blog (and the others)from the beginning, I suggest you take your time reading your own posts for evidence of your weird and vindictive rants.

    C~A, Please don’t bother to respond to me, I’m not vaguely interested in anything you have to say. Your responses are neither intelligent or helpful to the situation.

    I repeat once more – This is about Aaliyah not about you!

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    marmite
    July 3rd, 2009 at 9:45 am
    Well Flappy, Beast and co, we’re still waiting…..

    *tumbleweed drifts by*

    You must be running scared as you’re running round deleting comments and threads. You do realise everything is saved elsewhere don’t you??

    You’re so desperate for posters at the ‘Outhouse’ you’ve even got C~A copying and pasting other peoples comments from other sites – he he he he

    Back in your boxes freaks, this is about Aaliyah!

    http://www.saveaaliyah.com/

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    marmite
    July 6th, 2009 at 5:46 am
    It is still apparent that C~A has NOT yet got that help she so greatly needs. She keeps saying she isn’t going to post here anymore and back she comes again! It would laughable if she wasn’t messing around with the life of a 3 year old girl.

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    OK so I admit to calling you weird and vindictive, based on what you post I believe you are. I admit I suggested you need counselling for your anger issues, I think you do. I even admit I accused you of copying and pasting other peoples comments onto Beasts site to make it look like people were posting there. All true so far.

    I certainly DO NOT accept the allegations you accuse me of…

    722.CeeA
    July 6th, 2009 at 8:26 pm
    ya whatever….why are you so hateful and angry barfite…??? Do you ever have anything nice to say? Why do you focus on me? Do you even know? why do you lash out at me? Do you care to be honest for once…perhaps you just troll the net looking for victims and people you think you can hurt????? What good are you?
    Why do you “still” talk about me …what is it that you want from me…STOP MAKING THIS ABOUT YOU…whatever, so i pop back in once in a while…OOOHHH..MY BAD! I see you STILL lashing out??? YOu have never, ever answered any of my questions …why are you so interested in my personal life..???

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    C~A believe it or not I couldn’t care less about your personal life, I have never once asked you a question, I wouldn’t waste my breathe because I simply do NOT care what your opinion is. You have obviously proved yourself to be even more stupid than I thought you were originally.

    I’m not hateful and angry towards you, you flatter yourself. You are the one that has lowered the tone by calling me names, Skank, Gremlin, SAD DEGENERATE NO LIFE, LITTLE DOGGY.

    You are simply not worth any more of my time.

    It is interesting to see that you are now saying you are neutral, it’s just a shame everything you have posted so far says something entirely different.

    Now lets get back to what is really important here, getting Aaliyah back with her mom..

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7VWzfM14Ha4

    .

  732. Lou

    Wow…there’s sure some whacko’s posting on this site. I’ve never seen such incoherent rants by some of these idiots. Most of them seem to be from the side of the people defending the father. And childishness to boot with all the name changing with the posts trying to post as someone else.

    Shame on the webmaster or moderator (if there is one) for not removing the personal information posted on some of these comments. That should be removed.

  733. MaureenN

    I would be friendly with the monster molesting my child and I would be friendly with the pedophile that is sticking his penis down my daughters throat, so I can be a brown noser to the corrupt system and fall right into what the pedophile wants which is control of Connie’s entire life all for the sake of seeing the child regardless of any morality in the situation.”

    You are a wack job lady or whatever you are!! Or wait a Thompson!!!

    Anybody with morals wouldn’t cave into such B.S. for a corrupt system and a sick controlling pedophile.”

    Yes, I would do anything, no matter how personally abhorrent to me, no matter how painful, to comfort my child in any way possible, if she was being abused. Yes, I would. Any parent would. If someone was actively abusing my child, I would go up to that abuser & kiss him on the lips if it meant that I would get an extra minute with my child to comfort her and give her strength.

    I would not care if I was appeasing him or making him feel powerful. I would not care how being nice would make *me feel*. I would give him control of my life if that’s what he wanted. Anything to save my child, or even just to make things a little bit easier for my child.

    Wouldn’t you? Wouldn’t any parent who loves their child if they believed that their child was being abused?

  734. When will this stop

    This is so sad. To see how adults are acting. I have been keeping up with this story sense it was brought to BNN. I have chosen not to blog about it due to the fact that I don’t have all of the facts. I personaly would not of put my child on the net with her face shown and her name. What is on the net stays on the net and no child deserves this. There are other ways to get help. I also feel that if this father is abusing this baby he will stop with all that is going on in the courts and on the net. Connie’s father has stated that if anyone wants their money back that they donanted they can get it back. If he can pay this money back then why did Connie need money for an attorny. If she were my child and my grandbaby needed this help I would find a way for her to get an attorney. No money for an attorney before the donate button was put online now he can refund everyone’s money that wants it back. Something not right about that to me. If this were my child and she was indeed in danger I would do everything that I could to help her. I would dissapear with her for one thing. I would go so far under that no one would ever find us including my family. Should she have to do this no but, I would not be on the net begging for money from strangers. I do know that some justice systems are corrupt but when you look at all that has been done one has to wonder. 11 different interviews. I do know that there seems to be a lot of people want this to be true so they are right. Just to be right and throw it in others faces. That is the way children act. What dose this father owe any of you. If I were him I would not address this at all. You all say if he is not abusing this baby he should prove it. What dose he owe you people? He dose not know you people he has nothing to prove to you. He has to take this to the courts of law. You people are not the judge. I don’t know if this child is being abused or not. I hope and pray that she is not. If she is her daddy should go to jail. If not and this is Connie’s pound of flesh then she should go to jail. Please think how you sound. Someone on another site said that she was quilty of trying to make peope believe her way by saying and doing things that she should not of done. Don’t even ask me who and where I don’t play that game. I just wish you would all find a way to discuss this without mud slinging. This is not your fight. You will just have to wait and see what happens in court.
    Melissa, I guess that you did not know that Beast had his site before this ever started. You are accusing him and CeeA of terrible things. Do you know them? Do they know you? Are you just trying to start a fight because you can. Do you live close to this family, the Bedwells and the Thompsons. Do you know this child? Have you been to the court hearings? What do you know? Do you only know what you have read on the net? What do you know as a fact not a feeling but fact. Facts that you have seen not rumored on the net. I feel for this child. Just know what is on the net never gose away it is here for ever. How do you think this child will feel when she is old enough to understand. Who failed her? I hope and pray that this child is safe and will have a long and good life and not have to read all of these bad things about her mom and dad and herself. God bless her always. I think a lot of you people should find a fight where you can do some good. This is not helping this child. And please don’t say that it is up to the public to keep children safe. I believe that we all should do what ever we can to keep our children safe but what are you doing Melissa to help? I know that I would love to help this child or any child who is being abused. This case is in the court system and changes have been made with the judge. We can only hope and pray that this turns out right for this child.

  735. Icky Etardo

    Actually, Maureen, if I truly believed that the father was molesting my child, I would do anything and everything that the Family Court ordered me to do so that I could keep custody of my child. Even if I didn’t like the court orders, I would still follow them, so that I could at least keep my child from being molested half of the time.

    If the court ordered me to attend classes or counseling, I’d attend the classes and counseling, even if I didn’t agree that I needed them. If the court ordered me to stop talking about the case, stop talking about the father, or stop attempting to recruit new professionals into the case, I would stop. Whatever it took to retain custody of my child, I would do.

    Ms. Bedwell didn’t follow the Family Court orders, and that’s why Aaliyah is with her father. She’s done everything wrong, and continues to do everything wrong.

    P.S. It amuses the hell out of me when you all accuse me of being a Thompson, especially when you all accuse me of being Dustin.

  736. I DON'T GET IT

    Icky,

    I don’t care who you are.
    If you truly believed your child was being molested, I hope you would do everything possible to get your child away from her abuser. Being molested half the time is NOT okay.
    You could honestly drop your child off with someone you knew was going to stick their penis in your daughter’s mouth or worse ? How could you do that ? What would you say to her ? It’s ok honey, it’ll be over soon, we gotta do what the ‘experts’ want ???
    I wouldn’t. I’d listen to my heart and GOD, as Aali was a gift from him, not the STATE…
    I’m sure Connie has been tempted to take Aali & run but if she’s in jail for years, her daughter is condemned to a lifetime of abuse.
    In order to cooperate with a bunch of crazy officials who don’t even know your child ?
    I hope not Icky.
    Remember that many feel Aali is talking about Baby Einstein worms, totally innocent. So why does everybody want this cute little video of Aali talking about Baby Einstein worms to go away so bad ?

  737. I DON'T GET IT

    No MaureenN, I wouldn’t kiss someone who hurt my child.
    WTF is wrong with you ? I wouldn’t play nice with anyone who was forcing her to live with someone who sticks his penis in her mouth. How do you think she would feel about you being nice to her abuser ?
    I’ll tell you what she’d think.. It must be ok with Mommy that daddy does this. There’s nothing wrong with it or Mommy would be angry and trying to SAVE ME !!
    Why won’t Mommy SAVE ME ? She doesn’t care that he hurts me.
    I would rather my child know that I didn’t cave in to her abuser and that I fought in the only way I knew how, which was to expose him and try to get her away from him.
    It sounds like you want to breed victims. Make sure she has no self worth whatsoever. Great plan. Kiss the guy who molests your child. What a lesson that will teach her.

  738. Beast

    marmite. I could care less about not posting at BNN. Your site is a joke and not worth the lies you write there. Like no one there has ever spoken to Connie yet you have written more than once that you have. What an idiot. Your credibility is 0 Simon. What you say has no worth.

  739. CeeA

    MARMITE SAYS- You are simply not worth any more of my time.
    ****************
    Whatever that little rant was supposed to be…it made no sense…I haven’t been here for a long long time…and i come in the other day and your are STILL talking trash about me…SO BASICALLY…save your copy paste b.s …

    you haven’t asked me anything…well i must have missed it since you said

    CeeA
    July 6th, 2009 at 9:12 pm

    marmite YOUR COMMENT # 699
    July 3rd, 2009 at 9:45 am

    Well Flappy, Beast and co, we’re still waiting…..

    WAITING FOR WHAT …AND yes…I call you as I see you…your a hateful lying miserable troll!!!!

    go back under your bridge…YOU DO NO SERVICE to ANYONE …ESPECIALLY THE CHILDREN…

  740. CeeA

    YOU NEVER WERE WORTH MY TIME BARFITE…I TOLD YOU I ONLY COME HERE WHEN I AM BORED…TO GET A LAUGH ..If I am not worth your time..why do you spend so much time talking about me? When there is NOTHING TO SAY…I mean really…you have nothing better to do then trash people…???? YOur a low life troll…yes you are…a gremlin…PLANKTON…do you know what that is…?? prob. not…

    IT’S THE BOTTOM OF THE FOOD CHAIN…IT’S THE SHITT ON THE BOTTOM OF THE OCEAN FLOOR THAT IS MADE UP OF FISH SHITTT AND REMAINS…THAT’S WHAT YOU ARE!!! IT’s the stuff the bottom of the food chain SUCKS UP to stay alive…that’s what you do…suck up the SHITTT to stay alive and feel important…YOU SUCK!

  741. 70sixspeed

    Icky…
    Obviously you are not a thompson since you have all of your details wrong- First off, Connie did NOT lose Aaliyah due to not following family court orders. Where you heard that and why you believe that, is pretty obvious… She actually had Aali taken away from her because the judge at that time was punishing her for bringing evidence of child molestation into the courtroom. He believed that she should just give up and stop- and ANY parent would NEVER stop bringing valid evidence forward that there child was being molested. He even stated in court (yeah, I was ACTUALLY in the court room when it happened, so Im not just stating hearsay like the rest of you out there…) I have given you enough chances to stop showing your evidence to the authorities, and now I have no choice but to take Aaliyah away from you as punishment for not stopping bringing evidence into the court-(paraphrased). What parent in there right mind would ever stop bringing evidence forward that their baby, their flesh and blood that they naturally and passionately are going to do anything possible to protect, has been molested and physically abused??? Would you just quit and give up just because someone told you to??? Second- she was straight up lied to by the judge about the co-parenting classes. She was promised that she would never have to sit in a classroom with the man who beat her up, slammed her head in the trunk of his mercedes, emotionally abused, and even violently threatened and physically abused while she was holding their 4 week old baby- yet that promise was a lie. Immediately after signing the papers, Connie was told she HAD to sit in the same class with him and work with him, that she had no choice- how many of you would feel comfortable sitting next to the man that has threatened you and your babies life? Connie IS following the court orders- she IS doing what they want, she does not agree with it, but she is abiding by their rules. dustin on the other hand is not- they have been warned and even scolded in court for keeping Aaliyah from her mother, yet it has now been over NINE WEEKS since they have let Aaliyah see her mother, who she absolutely loves and adores- and who knows what kind of sick stuff dustin is feeding her with her mom not around to be able to give her an hour or two of peace and safety- who knows what kind of irreversible damage he is doing to her in his home right now- I only pray that she is safe and can come home to her loving mother immediately so that she can TRULY be safe and be nourished in a real family- and a loving family- not a twisted sick family like where she’s stuck now…
    So icky next time you want to post- try posting facts and not hearsay that you read on some other blog somewhere…

  742. MelissaC

    To WHEN WILL THIS STOP:
    Why is it you are SO concerned about people sending money to Connie so she will have an attorney. The reason Connie lost her child in the first place was because she didn’t have a mouth piece when appearing before the judge. The Worm had an attorney, by sending donations to Connie, we are just trying to level the field. She NEEDS and DESERVES to be represented. Since she is NOT a crimminal, she has to come up with the money to hire one herself. The Worm and his lady lawyer mashed Connie into the ground at every hearing. The last 2 court hearings things have gone quite differently. She has a representative that knows the inner workings of a court room and suddenly Ms. Amara isn’t the bulldog she was when she was going against a single mother without an attorney. So yes we are helping this baby. As for this being none of our business, you are wrong. When a child is being violated it’s everyone’s business. The days of keep it quiet and pretend it isn’t happening are OVER!!!

    You seem like a reasonable person, however you have far to much concern about the money issue of all this. Which just so happens to be the Worm’s biggest complaint. He does not want Connie to be represented, things went much better for him when she was alone in the court room. You are insinuating you are neutral but your comments say otherwise.
    You are most certainly in the Worm’s corner, I understand your reluctance in admitting that, I to would be embarrassed to publically defend him as well.

    I do not know any of the parties involved. I am a blogger who began reading this story and my heart aches for that baby girl and all the pain she clearly shows. When she talks about what her daddy is doing to her, I must defend and help her any way I can. I saw the uncut 27 minutes video and that child was NOT being coached, no way.

    The purpose of getting involved in this case was to shine a light on it and we have successfully done that. All the donations Connie gets is used for attorney fees and other professional services required to get the truth out. This is a crime against the most innocent and helpless among us. IF the Worm is innocent he has nothing to worry about. But the fact that he comes on here using God only knows how many identities trying to discredit Connie, only adds to the belief that he is in fact guilty. You can write down all he has done in reacting to Connie’s actions and you have a text book case of the ultimate abuser, both with Connie and Aaliyah. He fools some people but common sense and our own personal knowledge of men like him make it impossible to fool all of us. Those of us who believe Aaliyah, believe her because we KNOW this is a text book case. We recognize his attempts to confuse Aaliyah are common tactics of a sexual predator. Men who abuse children are the sneakiest humans on the planet. He tries to convince everyone that Connie is crazy and delusional and yet he wants her back so badly, he would crawl thru hell in gasoline underwear to have her again. He is a bully in every sense of the word and it is killing him that Connie has people who are willing to help her. The thing that is the biggest threat to him is her having an attorney, no longer will there be only one side of this issue presented in the court room. That is NOT good for him. He has done and is doing anything and everything he can to get people to stop sending her financial help. Well we will NOT NOT NOT stop. We absolutely believe this beautiful little girl and want to make sure she has a voice in all this. We know the only parent who truly loves Aaliyah is her mother. Her mother is her voice and it takes money for her to be heard, The funds will keep coming in. They slowed down for a week or so but I understand they are coming in more often and in bigger amounts again. The Worm actually did Connie a huge favor. I’m sure he didn’t intend to help her but that was the result of his campaign to get the donations stopped. Many people who never thought about sending money read his comments. They saw right through him and what he was trying to do. For many it was proof of his guilt and they want to stop Aaliyah’s suffering. I understand they have monthly pledgers. People who send a donation each month. So far those pledges have come through. The worm under estimated the intelligence of good and decent people. Once they realized how desperate the worm was to keep Connie down, all of the accusations, against him rang true. A lot of people who were undecided, jumped off the fence and they want to help. They are kind and caring people and their generosity proves it. The Worm himself CONVINCED them of his guilt, something we had not been able to do. Things are most certainly looking up for Aaliyah. This case is everyone’s business. Aaliyah deserves to grow up free of the sexual assaults she describes in the video.

    You contradict yourself, you are all fired up about others actions for helping the mother. You say its not anyone’s business and I say it’s everyone’s business. Throughout your post you say it’s not the public’s business and yet you claim you are “not involved” in this case the whole while you defend the father. Condemn the mother and defend the father, your words are very telling. I do not know you and if you really are legitimate and not a worm puppet, walk away. You are not obligated to stay on this site. Each journey begins with the first step. Take the first step and walk on. I, on the other hand, feel deeply committed to keeping this case alive for the sake of baby Aaliyah. If this case offends you, you should not be here, there are thousands of other places and stories to use your computer and time on. I am dedicated to this story and this child. That is my right and what my conscience demands I do. You deny any real interest in this case so what is the problem?

    I have watched the exchange video’s and the Worm comes off heartless and unfeeling. His beautiful young daughter is crying her heart out and he doesn’t so much as pat her on the back to comfort her. He is cold and without emotion. I could not watch an animal suffer like Aaliyah suffers when she must leave her mother and return to the Worm. He has NO problem seeing Aaliyah hysterical and screaming for her mother. What he does to that child is NOT NOT NOT love, no way on earth! He should comfort her, that is what a loving parent would do. A father who uses his child to punish the mother see’s her as a weapon and not a human being.
    In fact I bet he enjoys Aaliyah’s pain, he loves seeing Connie hurting for her baby. That is his goal, hurting Connie at any cost, even their child. All this garbage the Worm’s supporters spout off about Connie being vindictive are so wrong. Connie is the one who left the Worm, he didn’t leave her. I have seen paperwork in his own hand-writing begging and pleading for Connie to take him back. Admitting that he has been wrong and talking about what a good and decent person Connie is and how much he loves and NEEDS her. He is the vindictive one and like all men with his problems he tries to turn it around. Everything he accuses her of doing are his own actions, NOT hers.

    You also feel the need to defend Beast and his wife. No I had no idea he has had a site before this all started. Learning that just tells me, he obviously has never been able to run a successful site. He has no talent and has not been able to garner the kind of following Simon enjoys.

    As far as accusing Beast and CA of all these terrible things, I have only told the truth as I see it. Which is how they have conducted themselves in all this. They have viciously attacked people on every level. They have put personal information on the net. They have shown no regard for the safety and welfare of this woman’s children. Young children who live in the home which they have published the name, telephone #, address to. When she complained and tried to tell them that was hitting below the belt, they told her she was fair game. She ASKED FOR IT!!! She was the one putting her children in danger by involving herself in this case!!! The comments went on and on about how they had the RIGHT to publish her personal information, she brought it on herself. What did she do to give them that right? She speaks out for Aaliyah, but their goal just like the worm’s goal is to shut her up!!! You can lose sleep over the things that me and others have said about Beast and Sean if it bothers you but I have NOT put any personal info out there about them. They have children and I have morals, there is a line nobody should cross. They crossed that line and laughed at the victim they did it to. They had the nerve to BLAME HER. They think of themselves as victims but that is just another of their many delusions.

    I couldn’t have a lower opinion of them as people and yes I have made my digs at them but I would NEVER EVER do or say anything that could possibly identify them or where they may live. They have 5 children in their home, who deserve to be safe and secure and not in danger of some physco paying them a visit. Believe me, the way they have defended men who sexually abuse children and made fun of one woman who was raped, there are zealots who would go after them. I could not and would not EVER want their children put in that situation. That is the big difference between Connie supporters and Dustin supporters. Not all but most of us feel this way. They have most certainly angered more people tthan they realize. They feel entitled to say anything they want but sure get upset when people return the favor. I have not seen anything either of them have posted that indicates they are advocates for children. I have repeatedly seen comments advocating for predators. Their views are clearly stated and well known among us all. Like I said you worry about them, my efforts are used to defend real victims, the children.

    To MAUREEN:
    Once again you claim your expertise in matters you think you know about. You talk about how you would follow the orders of the court. In fact many many of you say Connie should be doing what the court orders tell her to. You consistantly attack her for not doing that. Then you spout off about all you would do. Run, hide go underground do whatever it takes to stop the abuser. One second its obey the law and the next its defy it. No matter which way Connie goes she is attacked by people who defend the father. Nothing she does is right in the eyes of you people. There is no way for her to win with you. So honestly just between us, should she follow the orders or should she disappear with the baby, which way could she go to help you believe she truly thinks Aaliyah is being abused by the worm?

    I have seen people who refuse to accept reality for many reasons but the worm’s supporters are the bottom of the barrel hard core advocates for daddy no matter what he does. There is a video and even that has been disected and dusputed. When one of their theories fall thru they just come up with another one. They resort to name calling and attacks and then they accuse us of doing it. I don’t know how they live with themselves. I couldn’t.

    Believe what you will and blame us for all the injustice in this case. I don’t care. I have gone back and read all the posts and comments on the majority of boards discussing this case. Yes I have seen attacks on some people, mostly the worm and his supporters from the outhouse (back before they fled like a house was on fire for Sean’s defense & admiration of a pedophile) but I can confidently tell you I did not find ONE INCIDENT, NOT THE FIRST WHERE CONNIE’S SUPPORTERS STARTED IT. EACH AND EVERY TIME THOSE WHO DEFEND CONNIE AND AALIYAH ONLY RESPONDED TO THE ATTACKS MADE ON AND TOWARD THEM, NOT ONE THAT CONNIE’S SIDE INSTIGATED!!!!

    I have much more to say but I’m sleepy so I will save it for another day. I will be back that is a promise. We will not stop or go away until this whole situation is resolved and the truth is out for the sake of this innocent baby.

  743. When will this stop

    One thing that you are right about Melissa is that I have been where Connie is. I did handle it very differently. I know what it is like to watch your child cry and hurt. I know. However, I do have honest conerns about how this is being handled and what the truth is. I do feel for all in this case. You did take some of what I said and twisted it. There is no need for that. I will do what you said and I will stay quite and just watch what happens. I will save any comments until then. I hate seeing the freenzy that this case has caused. We don’t know all of the facts. I do know Meliss how Connie feels. You happy. I pray for blessings for this child. I also feel for the families.

  744. KarenCCCC

    I want to thank everyone that is conserned with my children’s safety and for coming to my defense. But I do ask that everyone stop fighting with eachother. Let’s go back to discussing the facts.

    Icky, someone had told us once that you were on WS. I can only assume that you have recieved your bad information about this case from the one person who is advocating for this “father”. Since you are here now, because they have closed that thread (as I have been told), then can you just read the posts that actually have the facts? You can tell which are from Connie’s family and friends. I am not saying that I am one of them. I do, however, speak to her family and get my information from them. But I am just a person of interest in the case. I have no first hand knowledge, have never met Connie nor the baby. BUT, neither have you – nor have you met the “father”, whom you are saying is innocent. I read your posts and you are just regurgitating what you have been fed. And where do you think that person is getting her information? She recieves altered and fake information and then posts it. There weren’t 11 seperate investigations, there were 11 REPORTS of abuse that were not looked into. What was said by CPS was that they couldn’t tell if the bruises were from abuse because by the time they saw the baby they were faded. And how could the police do a complete investigation when they didn’t contact ONE witness on the child’s mother side? Regardless if they are family and friends of the mother, they SAW and HEARD with their own eyes and ears what the baby was saying and doing. Again, I wasn’t there, I don’t know what the police actually did or didn’t do. But because Connie did not have any legal council, things were done (and or not done)to keep Connie from speaking for her child. She was told to not video her daughter, the baby started speaking of the worm and said “F” this, I am going to get this on tape. There is nothing that Connie won’t do to get help for her daughter. I would NEVER kiss my daughter’s or son’s abuser. I would NEVER run with my daughter or son because if I got caught, they would end up with the abuser for the rest of their lives. I pride myself on being a good mother, that would do anything to protect them. And if people weren’t listening to my daughter, I’d make damn sure they’d listen to me. I think that if Connie had had the money and council in the beginning, NONE of this would have happened and we wouldn’t even be disgussing this. Just step back and read the truth. What you or I would do, is not necissarily what someone else would do. This isn’t about what past mistakes have been made, this is about the baby is STILL saying she is being abused and STILL playing the “death” games in visitations. Since Connie has not had custody of this child for a year, how can she be coaching her???? He doesn’t even allow the baby to speak to her on the phone! Where is the coaching coming from? And yes, I have seen the visitation reports. Written words from the supervisors, very telling to me. There needs to be something done, TODAY.

    MelissaC, I think you are one amazing lady. Your posts are to the point and filled with truth. I have been invested in this case since the beginning, and your words will fall on deaf ears from the opposing side. But I did want you to know that I appreciate your words and your support for this baby.

    Daddy’s Worm with Logic, all I have to say is that post is BRILLIANT and bravo. I hope that gets into the hands of the DA, CPS and the lawyers. You are absolutely right where you say the baby NEVER asks “What mommy? What did you say, I didn’t hear you.” That is very telling to me! If they can’t see truth from that, Connie definitely needs to get this case OUT of that county.

    Connie, if you read this site, I am so proud of you for standing up against all of this crap. You are an amazing mother! Nothing that these nay-sayers write can take that away from you. The people who know the truth can see how very much you love your daughter and are not doing this to be vindictive. Keep fighting until you have your precious little girl back with you. We will keep fighting for you Connie and Aaliyah! Stay strong and keep the faith I know that is carrying you along. You are the strongest people I “know”!

  745. KarenCCCC

    Oh, and Beast, Marmite is not Simon. I speak with HER all the time. And when Simon and Jan say they don’t speak to Connie, they don’t. Not since this first started and I asked them to. They go through Darrel and Mr. Bedwell to get their information after the court hearings. That’s why it sometimes takes a bit for a new article about it.

    Not trying to start anything with you, just wanted you to know.

  746. Icky Etardo

    I Don’t Get It:

    The way things are now, Aaliyah is (allegedly) being abused 100% of the time, all because Ms. Bedwell didn’t follow family court orders. We’re just going to have to agree to disagree: in my opinion, being abused 50% of the time is only half as bad as being abused 100% of the time. That’s just simple mathematics. If I believed that my child was being molested by the other parent, I’d do whatever it took to preserve my 50% custody.

    70sixspeed: Ms. Bedwell was ordered by the court to stop videotaping the child and to stop “collecting evidence” of abuse–most likely because the constant suggestion during the “evidence collection” was affecting the accuracy of the child’s memory of events. Ms. Bedwell ignored a court order. If you ignore orders from the Family Court on how to behave while parenting your child, they limit your access to the child or take it away completely. That’s how Family Court works. There’s no “revenge” involved. There is only codified law—guidelines that the Family Court MUST follow.

    Let me quote a very small portion of a study done on child suggestibility:

    “1. There are reliable age effects in children’s suggestibility, with preschoolers being more vulnerable than older children to a host of factors that contribute to unreliable reports.

    2. Although young children are often accurate reporters, some do make mistakes –particularly when they undergo suggestive interviews; and these errors can involve not only peripheral details, but also central, predictable (i.e., scripted) events that involve their own bodies. It is also the case that suggestive questioning not only distorts children’s factual recall, but it also has a strong influence on their interpretation of events.

    3. Measures can be taken to lessen the risk of suggestibility effects. To date, the factors that we know most about concern the nature of the interview itself–its frequency, degree of suggestiveness, and demand characteristics.”

    The entire report is here (it’s very long):
    http://www.law.umkc.edu/faculty/projects/ftrials/mcmartin/suggestibility.html

    There have been a number of people in the State of California who have been falsely accused of child molestation and even jailed for it. The State paid millions of dollars for improper trials and later, settlements to recompense people for false imprisonment (the record was 20 years for a crime that a man named John Stoll never committed; a married couple that were falsely accused and convicted, Scott and Brenda Kniffen, served 14 years in prison).

    The State learned from its mistakes and formed guidelines for experienced interviewers to use in order to not contaminate the memories of child witnesses. That’s why they ordered Ms. Bedwell to stop “collecting evidence”.

    MelissaC: Ms. Bedwell has instigated every word that’s been posted on this subject by distributing the videotape. If not for that, nobody would know anything about her personal business, and nobody would have any information to comment on. That’s what happens when you post your personal information on the internet: people comment on it, and often they disagree with you. If she doesn’t like it, and you don’t like it, tough noogies. Perhaps you could ask BTLS to remove this thread if you don’t like the fact that people disagree with your point of view.

    Personally I’d like to see a little more civility on BOTH sides of the argument. Bickering back and forth in a hostile manner does nothing to help anyone.

  747. marmite

    For anyone stumbling on this horrific case there is a lot of information out there, don’t take my word for it, listen to Aaliyah tell you herself…

    http://www.youtube.com/user/endpedophilia

    http://www.youtube.com/user/wellsaidjohnsmith

    Listen to Connie, Aaliyah mom…

    http://childprotectioncommunity.com/blog.asp?action=details&page=41327&int_blogid=350

    Read the witness statements…

    http://childprotectioncommunity.com/

    http://www.saveaaliyah.com/

    More information here….

    http://www.bloggernews.net/index.php?s=aaliyah

    Come to your own conclusions….

    I believe that Aaliyah deserves an THOROUGH independant investigation to clear this up once and for all. Is that really too much to ask for?

  748. Beast

    See Melissa that is the problem with you, and people like you. You have no facts. My “site” was started years ago. Long before I had even heard of BNN, and it will be there long after you, Connie, and BNN are gone. You know why, because people like you are not welcome there. I don’t deal in gossip, rumor, or disgusting attacks and putrid language. If you can learn somehow to research before you open your yap you’d learn some things.

  749. StopConArtists

    ” WONDER
    July 6th, 2009 at 2:35 pm

    If he doesn’t want to waste his time dealing with the general internet public, and the video is so innocent, why is he fighting so hard to get it removed ?
    I mean, a parent should be able to put up a perfectly innocent video of their child on Myspace or whatever.
    I know I have.”

    So you have posted and exploited your daughter on the internet and slandered another in the same process? Interesting people Connie has on her side! Why would he be fighting to hard to have it removed? Uh actually Connies Lawyer said that Connie would find a way for it all to be removed before August 29th. And hell yes if I were Dustin, I would be fighting for this to be taken offline because its horrible to have that out there suggesting I molest my child when I do not!

    MelissaC said at 3:03am

    “The safety and welfare of this woman’s children. Young children who live in the home which they have published the name, telephone #, address to. When she complained and tried to tell them that was hitting below the belt, they told her she was fair game. She ASKED FOR IT!!! She was the one putting her children in danger by involving herself in this case!!! The comments went on and on about how they had the RIGHT to publish her personal information, she brought it on herself. What did she do to give them that right? She speaks out for Aaliyah, but their goal just like the worm’s goal is to shut her up!!!”

    Nope lies. Karen posted her phone number many times on BNN and even a post by Karen above she provides her email,phone and address.. SO tough luck! NEVER did Beast,CeeA or anyone post her info online for everyone to see.

    ANOTHER point I would like to make is Baby A has a lawyer appointed to her that Connies lawyer would have to call and arrange visits.. its not up to Dustin. Connie needs to make the effort to see her child.

  750. Just drop it

    Why do you all continue to argue and batter each other?? Seriously, find something to do with your lives that are productive. If you are wanting to help a child that much, there are hundreds in each of your local communities that would appreciate even 50% of the effort you all put into arguing.

    And Beast.. Your site is no man’s land at this point.. you drove off your own followers. What does that tell you? The only one that can put up with your power trip is your wife. How sad.

  751. KarenCCCC

    Butters,

    You are incredibly sad. I have not posted my own information. You and your clan can keep on saying I did, because obviously it either had to be one of you or Dustin that did so, but it doesn’t make it true. You have once again proven how pathetic you are.

  752. Beast

    Just Drop it. You obviously are one of those. I don’t know what level of mental stability you have but I will try to explain something to you very simple like. I don’t have, and never will have “Followers”. Sometimes people choose to post or comment and sometimes they don’t. It doesn’t matter to me one way or the other. Whatever your name was before you should examine why you are the one going from site to site and changing your name, THAT is sad. My name is the same, and I am still where I have always been.

  753. Beast

    KarenCCC. WOW how far gone are you? look up

    KarenCCC
    July 4th, 2009 at 11:19 am

    Are you trying to say now that wasnt you?

  754. Beast

    And here as well

    JustGetanInvestigation
    July 3rd, 2009 at 9:41 am

    Why are you using 2 different names here? And you wonder why people question the credibility of you, and the others doing the accusing.

  755. KarenCCCC

    Beast, NOPE, it wasn’t me. I don’t care if you believe me or not. The moderator can tell you, it was from a different IP address. I’m not wondering anything. Butters said that I put my inormation on here, I answered her with that I didn’t. Why are you getting involved?

  756. Beast

    See Beast, it’s easy to change the screen name. I can post as all of you if I wanted to. I haven’t said one word to you or any of you in a while. Why are you starting with me today?

  757. Lou

    The way this site allows posting “names” to be changed every single time a post is made, anyone can post under any name. The poster name is not indicative in any way, shape or form of who the real poster was that posted any information. I could log on as “Beast”, “KarenCCC”, or anyone else for that matter. Just because that post was from “karenccc” does not mean it was actually her that posted what is proported to be her information.

  758. Beast

    Hey Beast, see how easy it is to use somebody’s name?

    Dumbass.

  759. ThatsAgoodOne

    Beast…you had better re-check your loopy wife and ask her how many names she uses. She’s done gone mad! As for your blog, you have lost nearly all your posters…wonder why? Could it be the nasty approached both you and wifey have? Or is it that you’re just flat out bossy, mean and everything in between!

  760. StopConArtists

    Karen why would I give a flying duck about your personal info enough to look it up? And I see no reason for Dustin to post it at all. Maybe you should contact the moderator of this site for I.P addresses to see who is posting your info..unless its you then I see no reason for you to not ask for it. And provide PROOF.. POST the I.P Addy when you get it….

  761. Keep going Connie supporters!

    Keep going Connie supporters! The more you act like raving maniacs, the SAFER Aaliyah. The courts have ALREADY determined, by the recommendation of Aaliyahs lawyer, not Connies, NOT Dustins, the BEST place for this child is with her father. The childs lawyer makes those determinations in disputed custody cases.

    Keep going Connie supporters! Seal the deal for Connie to NEVER have the opportunity for more than two one hour supervised weekly visits with her daughter. At a place Connie needs to be watched very carefully to ensure she doesn’t attempt to further poison her childs mind.

    Keep going Connie supporters! No, she may not be held liable for the libel you post, but it does help the courts ‘see’ Connie has made little to no effort to stop her vindictive rage. Can she be held in contempt for her actions? Certainly. The courts will only have so much patience until the penalties get stiffer and stiffer- maybe even prison time.

    Keep going Connie supporters! When Aaliyah is old enough to understand this, there is a DAMN good chance Aaliyah will tell the judge her father NEVER harmed her and she REFUSES contact with her mother for saying and doing such horrible things about her dad.

    Keep going Connie supporters! Because that is the track you have taken this runaway train.

  762. "Princess Connie"

    What exactly where you thinking Connie? That your daughters father didn’t deserve the opportunity to parent without your ‘bibity bobity boo’ wishful fairy tale when he didn’t allow you to dictate the time spent with both of your child? Did you think you could slam the door to the person who has equal rights according to California law and pretend she had another daddy?
    Sorry, it doesn’t work that way “princess”.

    YOU chose this man as the father of your child. The man who shares exactly as much DNA as you contributed. Aaliyah is no more Bedwell than she is Thompson.

    Oh, so things didn’t work out, get over it! It happens. Not only are your accusations baseless, your “fantasy” that your daughters father is off “pining away” for you – as if he is some love struck Romeo only demonstrates delusion you and your “clan”.

    What’s ironic, every single thing your “supporters” *cough cough* have accused your ex, describe you and your “clan” to a T.

    Connie, your “fairy tale” ends like this –
    You win the war on slamming your ex, but you LOSE out on being a part of your childs life. Why? Because you can’t see past the end of your nose, or your ass with your ego.
    The WHOLE WORLDS SEES YOU ARE A LIAR CONNIE! ACCEPT IT!

    get on your KNEES and pray for Gods forgiveness, along with the knowledge of how to get your head on straight to be an active part of your childs life, before she too thinks you are a fool along with the rest of the world.

  763. MelissaC

    BEAST:
    If you are not going from site to site, what are you doing here? Excuse me but I don’t think you were on your site where you have always been when you post here or other places I have seen comments by Beast and CA. I do have a serious question for you. Just exactly how is it that you know how horrible it is to be accused of molesting your child? You consistantly defend men who hurt children and have even gone so far as to glorify one. Both you and your puppet wife are way to passionate when defending people accused of molesting children.

    You consistantly spout off about the laws that protect these men. You live in Canada, what would you know about the American justice system? How much personal experience could you possibly have in our courts? You are a victim of your over inflated ego and like everything else you claim expertise about, you know nothing.

    In fact the one and only thing I think you are really an expert on is defending the low life scums who hurt children. You are quite good at that. A fact that I think everyone has noticed. It sure gets a big AHEMmmmm from me.
    I can’t help but wonder just how you became so good at it. Actually that’s not true, I really don’t wonder at all. I think many of us have figured it out. You have a disgusting dirty mind.

    Beast I haven’t forgotten the sickening comment you made on another site. When one of the bloggers said something about a daddy giving his young son a bath. Anyone who could even think that way is very shady as far as I’m concerned. Let me just say this, I would NEVER leave YOU alone with a child. At the time I thought your intention was to anger the blogger, but I have my doubts about that now. All you accomplished was saying a whole lot about yourself and the way you think. Sean I hope you stay in Canada. Please don’t ever come to the states. We have to many of your kind living here already.

    JUST DROP IT:
    Wow you hit the nail on the head with that assessment of Beast and his wife. If we could buy him for what he’s worth and sell him for what he THINKS he’s worth, our economy would be in great shape. He calls himself Beast, I worry he is actually describing WHAT he is. Even his nickname says alot about him. I’m not just making digs at him. I have gone back and re-read a bunch of comments made by him. Much of what he has said, is really scary. I am serious when I say I’m so thankful he is in Canada and no where near any of our beautiful children. I am not making any accusations.
    HIS OWN words and view points make me very nervous.

    C~A: On May 26, 2009 at 4:52pm you asked:
    where’ the vid of the child screaming and crying not wanting to go to daddy’s…( even though that is natural for a young child not understanding why she has to leave mommy to see daddy)

    Well those exact vid’s were put on the net and what did you do? You dismissed them, saying the mother whispered somethng to Aaliyah to get her upset. Anyone could see that child was terrified of her father. She knew what she was going back to and she was begging in every way a 3 year old can, NOT to make her go with him. NOTHING will ever convince you. WHY? Even when you get exactly what you demanded. The very thing you needed to prove Aaliyah wants her mother, you still refused to believe, what you saw with your own eyes. There are none so blind, as those who REFUSE to see. Like Beast, defending someone accused of hurting a child comes as natural to you as breathing. I can’t help but wonder WHY? I have a good idea but I will keep that to myself. I’m fairly sure others have their own ideas as well.

    KARENCCC:
    Don’t worry we all know you DIDN’T PUT YOUR OWN INFO OUT on the internet. Yes you did put it on BNN ONE TIME, and it was quickly deleted. It was very kind and generous of you to say you didn’t think anybody from the outhouse would have done that. I agreed with you at first but like I have already stated, I have re-read most of the comments on this case. I now DO think there is 3 individuals who would be that evil besides Dustin. Like you I believe it was Dustin, but I wouldn’t put it past his 3 most vocal supporters either. Those of us who have taken the time to get to know you, know exactly what a wonderful, giving, kind, and loyal person you truly are. We also know you are passionate in the defense of children. Everything that drives you is from the pure goodness in your heart. Ignore those who attack you, they are jealous of you. Shoot I am even a little jealous of the fantastic person you are. You are one of the few people I have ever known who really honestly prays for
    those who mistreat you. I strive to be more like you. Never let anyone make you doubt yourself. I am proud to call you my friend. Don’t change, not ever, you’re a gift to us all.
    Those who “question the credibility of you,” are clueless about so many things, this is just another thing on that list. It’s not your job to educate them. Let it go.

    BEAST COMMENTS:
    See Melissa that is the problem with you, and people like you. You have no facts. My “site” was started years ago. Long before I had even heard of BNN, and it will be there long after you, Connie, and BNN are gone. You know why, because people like you are not welcome there. I don’t deal in gossip, rumor, or disgusting attacks and putrid language. If you can learn somehow to research before you open your yap you’d learn some things.

    I HAVE ALREADY ADDRESSED THIS: He must have missed it. Again
    I had no idea he has had a site before this all started. Learning that just tells me, he obviously has never been able to run a successful site. He has no talent and has not been able to garner the kind of following Simon enjoys.

    Beast you flatter yourself, I know you are so self absorbed you’d never notice but I didn’t WANT to join your little clique. I defy you to show any proof I ever even so much as dropped by your site. I have standards, you do not meet them. I believe we are known by the company we keep. Contrary to what your enormous ego might tell you, I really think you are a disgusting excuse for a human being. In absolute honesty I don’t find anything about you or your opinions that I find ANY value in. What little I know about you is way too much for my taste. I don’t trust you and I don’t like you.

    You brag about this site you say you’ve had all this time. Why then were you writing for Simon. I would venture to say its because his site is successful while your site flounders. You welcomed all the people who got banned from Simon’s site and intended to lead them around like sheep. But they saw you for who and what you are, you finally had a few members and COULD NOT EVEN KEEP THEM. They came to your site out of desperation and after they got to know you, they realized they really were not THAT desperate!!!

    You and your little clan were riding high for a minute. You all had common enemies. Simon, Jan, KarenCCC and AnneA. As we the wallflowers watched everything unfold, we laughed a lot. You guys talked trash about Karen and Anne but they were the ONLY ones who were NOT sheep. They stood up to all of you and even Pickles! The whole bunch of you never did that. It must really bite that you had all the documented card carrying sheep who obediently followed PICKLES and yet you COULDN’T MAKE THEM FOLLOW YOU!!! Pickles even with all your short comings and you didn’t even come close to measuring up to her. It is really funny you’re so dense that hasn’t even occurred to you yet. YOU’RE A LOSER BIG TIME. Your opinions mean nothing. By default you get a flock of pre-programmed sheep to blog on your site and they de-program themselves and get away. I don’t know where you get the nerve to come to ANY site and post. The only reason I can come up with to explain your lack of embarrassment is pure and complete ignorance. It must suck to be you.

    Beast there is little doubt you really got short changed in this life but there is hope. Maybe in your next life you’ll come back as jackass with a brain instead of just the plain jackass you are now.

  764. MelissaC

    BEAST:
    Here is just a PS for you to think about. You should go back and read some of the blogs when everyone was one big happy family. When Pickles ruled BNN. The way all of you praised her “heartfelt” articles. Each and everyone of you said the same garble. Out of all those bloggers not even one of you, realized what a lack of intelligence there seemed to be on that site. I know some people blogging were realIy smart but by praising Pickles “work” there brain appeared to be stuck in neutral. I never saw any post by KarenCCC or AnneA that praised Pickles. You guys really slammed those ladies but yet they didn’t fall into the same category that all of you did. All the talk about the wonderful family you all had become. The reality of it was you were all just a bunch of brown nosed lying hypricrits without back bones. You also NEVER saw any praise from me. I just couldn’t be that phoney. The rest of you didn’t have any trouble pulling it off, it came natural to all of you. The kind of people who dominated that site, are not my kind of people. I will stay with Karen and Anne, they are intelligent and stand up for what they believe in. THEY ARE THE PEOPLE WHO HAVE VALUE. For all the reasons I have outlined in this post and the last one, I would never join your site. All my life I have thought all people are equal. Since becoming aware of you, I have changed my mind. I have learned one thing from you, mister you’re beneath me and my friends, on every level.

  765. Icky Etardo

    Are you trying to say that posts #663 and #680 in this thread aren’t you, KarenCCCC? Because if they aren’t, both posts are supportive of the Bedwell family, so it’s CLEARLY Bedwell supporters that posted your personal information. I have also seen the same information posted on BNN by a user calling themselves KarenCCC, so it seems a little ingenuous to claim that Bedwell opposition posted the information in order to harass you.

    And everyone wonders why the opposition posts using pseudonyms! With craziness like this going around, you’d have to be nuts to post your personal information!

  766. KarenCCCC

    If you noticed, Icky, I have added another “C” to my name because someone used my “JustGetAnInvestigation” and posted my personal information and then when I started posting here under my regular “KarenCCC”, they posted my personal information AGAIN, but using “KarenCCC”. I have been “KarenCCC” on BNN since I first went there. You people amaze me. Seriously, WHY would I post my OWN PERSONAL information for the whole wide world to see? Amazing!!!! I am not CLAIMING they did, I KNOW they did, because I DIDN’T! I wish I could post the emails I have been receiving from “them” or Dustin. Then maybe you’d be able to understand. I’m not going to post them, but there is one at BNN that you can look at. I had to put stars where the vulgar words were, and the one that I did post is not as bad as the others. And Icky, I assume you haven’t been around since the beginning, these people you are defending and I have been going round and round and round. I guess I have said some things they haven’t liked, so they stooped as low as you can go over the internet, I guess, and decided to “get me back” by posting my information. As I said, it’s fine, it just proves that they are pathetic human beings; plain and simple.

  767. KarenCCCC

    BTW, Icky, I never posted any information on BNN except my phone number. And that number is unlisted. Tis why I posted it! AND, I only posted it ONCE. It’s so funny that you (and Butters) say these lies, anyone can go to BNN and look at all the posts I’ve ever made. I have never given anyone my address, my real name or my email address. BUT, these jerks have. Your whole clan is always screaming “Post the TRUTH”, why don’t you practice what you preach!

  768. LoraLee

    OMG People!!! How idiotic of you all to think Karen or any of Connie’s supporters posted her personal information. I swear, I have never seen such moronic people EVER in my life. Wow, this is worse than Placer County’s corruption. MORONS!!!

  769. Huh?

    I had to move again to avoid my stalker ex. I only have a few minutes to come back and check for an update on this case.

    I can’t believe the idiocy I am seeing in the posts since June 30. Please use some common sense, and don’t ever post real life info out on the net. Don’t do it to get even with someone either. It is dangerous. You never know when the person you are posting info about may be put in physical danger by your actions.

    I see no new info on this case, and very little if any intelligent adult discussion. It makes me very sad to see people I know are capable of better posts sink to this level.

    Quit trying to guess who is who and stick to the facts and your own opinions about this sad case. Remember this is about what is going on in a child’s life. One or both of her parents is abusing her.

    Blessings and peace to you all, I have to get back to moving. And yes, my stalker has found me again.

  770. I can be who I want to be!!

    My name is Denise Payne…aka DUHNEICE, as I purposely posted under than name ONCE.
    If Karen says she didn’t post her personal info, that’s not hard to believe. We can all choose to be whomever the eff we choose to be on this…blog?
    I didn’t make my private blogs public yet someone found a way to make them such. So it’s completely possible for someone to take another’s personal information and publicize it…especially via the net.
    If someone knows and/or finds a way, personal info can be obtained and can be posted by anyone that cares to do so.
    To my knowledge, not a single so called “Connie supporter” has posted under any name that could not easily be traced back to the supporter. We don’t use “pseudonyms”…we are proud to stand up for and be the voice of a child that cannot do it for herself.
    TEAM AALIYAH!! Always and forever more! No matter what. End of sentence, period.

  771. KarenCCCC

    HUH, I am so sorry that your ex found you. I hope you stay safe!

  772. Icky Etardo

    But Karen, if someone were to use another person’s user name to post your information, wouldn’t it make more sense to use Beast’s name, or CA’s, or Pattycake’s, or even mine, rather than the name of a Bedwell supporter? Why would someone try to “frame” another Bedwell supporter when it would be so much easier to use an opponent’s name, and then claim that the opposition had posted your personal information? Then it would make sense, and right now, it makes no sense whatsoever. And aren’t you complaining about people calling your house in the first place? That would probably be because you posted your phone number on BNN where anybody could get at it. It IS a public site, after all.

    Also, there is no “clan”. To be a member of a “clan”, one has to know at least one other member of the “clan”, which I don’t. I’m not friends, relatives, or associates with anyone else in this case. There is nothing but people with a similar opinion.

  773. beast

    Team Aaliyah? You people are on crack. You wanna help this child? Take down all the videos and stories you have posted on the net down. Take down all the disgusting vile things down you have said about HER father. Let the courts deal with it, if there is anything left for the courts to do. GET RID OF THIS CHILD’S NAME ON THE NET! That would be helping her.

  774. TRUTH

    Keep sticking to the facts like you are doing Bedwell’s and supporters!

    The Thompson’s are doing an excellent job of looking like the dishonest twisted people that they are. Any stranger can get on these posts and clearly see that the Thompson’s are guilty simply by their posts (and keep this in mind) these people have also just watched a video that clearly shows Dustin is a child molester straight out of the baby’s mouth not Connie’s. Then these same people get to see the outrageous lengths the Thompson’s go to to hide the truth. It is really sad.

    The Truth is evident: Dustin is a child molester and the Thompson’s are liars covering for a child molester.

    There are clearly a lot of posts that show the Thompson’s will say anything at any given time they need to defend themselves and clearly not giving a rats behind if it is the truth or not!

    So my advice to you all supporting the TRUTH and the Bedwell’s would be to remember this…

    Liars operate in a realm that has no boundaries. People that tell the truth are bound by their conscience and by God’s way. Don’t get caught up in the Thompson’s sick ways.

    Fighting with the Thompson’s is like jumping into a dryer… They want to tumble you completely dry until you feel dizzy with a disgusting uncountable amount of lies they toss in their with you. It will make you want to puke. It will make you feel worn out. They want to spin you so you don’t know which way is up or down or right or wrong… My advice… don’t get into their dryer. Shut the door they try to pull you in through and stick to the Facts, Truth and Real Issue here which is Dustin is molesting an innocent baby.

    Let the Thompson’s be wicked.

    Let the Thompson’s be ignorant.

    Let the Thompson’s lie.

    Let the Thompson’s call names.

    Let the Thompson’s set their own trap.

    Let God judge each and every one of them for the things they say whether it be good or bad.

    Just don’t get in their dryer; their dryer will take you to hell with them.

    Just step back from the Thompson’s circus and remember when abusers like the Thompson’s try to Control you too; You have the power to control yourself.

  775. PeDoPhiLe

    Oh Pedophile,

    You say Connie’s lawyer is having the internet information taken down. LMFAO

    Really? You must have thought only your twisted attorney knows how to work the court system!

    Pedophile your intellect shines through brighter and brighter everyday! It’s amazing!

    So Dustin Pedophile Thompson, you explain to all of us here, How Connie would go about taking it all down off the net when she isn’t the one who put it up?

    Oh wait, that’s right, You think she is a “Princess” because you are obsessed with her.

    What do you want her to do? Wave her magic wand and POOF everyone will forget that you are a Child Molester?

    Do another line…sniff sniff

    TALK ABOUT FAIRY TALE LAND

  776. ANYBODY...

    ANYONE SUPPORTING AALIYAH AND CONNIE:

    IF YOU ARE WONDERING WHAT YOU CAN DO TO HELP…

    YOU CAN MAKE FLYERS WITH THE SAVEAALIYAH.COM WEBSITE ON IT AND START FLYERING CARS, HOUSES, PEOPLE, BUSINESSES, ETC. TO HELP KEEP THE SUPPORT COMING IN TO GET AALIYAH OUT OF THE CHILD MOLESTERS HOME. TELL THEM TO CONTINUE SPREADING THE WORD ALSO.

    THANK YOU FOR ALL OF YOUR HELP, SUPPORT, PRAYERS AND DONATIONS.

    MAY GOD BLESS AALIYAH’S HELPERS

  777. PeDoPhiLe

    Dustin do you really think people can’t tell who would be posting about Denise? Or posting about Karen? And posing as both of them? Goodness.

    You are starting to rip on Denise now because she had the Saveaaliyah.com shirts made! You thought you suceeded in lying to the shirt company huh?

    What you didn’t like Connie’s Saveaaliyah.com T shirt she wore to court?

    How’s that song go? Cry me a river!

    So typical of a child molester… cry about everything for yourself because you know you are busted here shortly but you dont have a soul to cry about the pain you cause your daughter.

    Odd, Casey Anthony did the same thing, cried for herself when she got caught but wont cry for her daughter.

    Dustin you should hit up Casey Anthony and finally get yourself a girlfriend that just so happens to be just like you.

    It’s been 3 1/2 years, you should probably quit getting ass from your daughter and maybe get it from someone your own age (like normal people do).

  778. PeDoPhiLe

    So Dustin tell us all what you are drugging Aaliyah with?

    It probably creeps you out knowing that someone knows that you are drugging her huh? You thought nobody sees what you do.

    Oh Thompson’s I can just picture you crapping your pants as you read this, paranoid that someone is watching you, wondering if there are cameras in your home or right outside your windows capturing your aweful dispicable evil behavior. I bet it just tweeks the hairs on the back of your neck knowing there is a way to know exactly what is going on behind your closed doors where you think nobody can see what you do.

    What’s it feel like when you are guilty of beating, kicking and molesting a baby and knowing someone might be capturing it all on tape to convict you? Does it make it kind of hard to put on a fake front for so long?

    Gosh if I was as sick as you people I would hate Connie too for exposing you.

    I mean why dislike yourselves when it is so much easier to hate the people who told everyone what you are?

    Truth hurts…

    Yeah God knows what you are doing too.

  779. PeDoPhiLe

    Pedophile you claim above that Darrel cheats on Connie.
    Your divide and conquer plan doesn’t work with any Bedwell or with Connie and Darrel. We see through you like glass.

    Everyone knows YOU cheated on Connie, not Darrel.

    Why is it that you feel the need to flip your behavior onto other people?

    Darrel is a great guy and treats Connie amazing. And if you want to talk about Darrel’s arms that are bigger than yours and your daddy’s put together than let’s talk about them…

    Darrel has huge muscles but he’s a real man and doesn’t use them to hit women and babies, yet instead uses them to protect women and babies from P____Y’s like you and your daddy.

    What’s funny is we all will never see the Thompson boys talk crap to a man to their face but they will hit women and children and pretend they are tuff behind a computer keyboard and think they are powerful and in control over females and babies.

    It must kill you two little boys, yes you Dustin and John David Thompson, that Connie a 26 year old petite, strong, intelligent woman 1/2 your size can stand up to the two of you P____y’s all on her own!

    O U C H!!!

    Hey I know her personally and I’ll tell you what, she will not back down from the truth until you sick bastards are behind bars and Aaliyah is safe. Connie isn’t like Dina. Connie isn’t going to put up with your crap and stand by while you try to turn another child into what Dustin was raised as. Trying to convince a child of lies at the tender age she is at is sick. You wonder why you people are so sick you can’t tell the truth from your own buttholes. You are so twisted and in need of help so you brainwash a child to try to make her be just as f***ked up as you are to hide what you are. Go to a counselor already. Oh sociopaths dont think they need help, so why on earth would you go get help for yourselves?

    Aaliyah wont be like you, Aaliyah wont lie like you, Aaliyah wont be a Thompson by name or behavior ever. She will be raised with morals in a loving environment that doesnt teach her hitting is okay, that doesn’t teach her molesting is okay, that doesn’t teach her lying is okay. It’s just too bad for you Thompson’s that nobody ever took the time to teach any of you that lesson in life. Now here you are as adults acting like psychopaths in every way shape and form just sharing your sick ways with as many as you can push them upon.

    Yeah if I were you sickos I would be begging Connie to take the websites and videos down too!

    It’s like you Thompson’s have really bad allergies to the TRUTH. Is it making you itch yet? Getting under your skin little boys? It must be to have to be for you to beg for it all to come down.

    Dustin you think you are so intelligent to have fooled so many “professionals.” Don’t forget Connie’s psych evaluation shows she is more intelligent than you. You hate that you can fool people but she isn’t buying your wolf tickets.

    Your child is more intelligent than you are: She has her mother’s genes and probably will have an IQ that places her in the top one third of the population too. You definitely picked the wrong woman to victimize and have a child with to molest!!

    How’s that Britney Spears song go??

    Lolipop, Don’t mistake me your the sucker!

    Dustin Child Molesting Thompson, You’re the sucker!!

    And we will all see it in the end.

  780. KarenCCCC

    Icky, you seem to be intelligent, until you say something like you just did. I didn’t post my information and neither did anyone who is supporting Connie. I haven’t complianed about anyone calling me. Where are you getting your information from? No one has called me. You want to ask me anything else, you can email me LMAO! End of discussion.

  781. Icky Etardo

    Karen: FROM THIS THREAD, didn’t you read it? Actually it was Melissa saying that people were calling your house, but nvm, the accusation’s there. I have to repeat: Why would they use JustGetAnInvestigation’s name, who’s a supporter, rather than my name, Pattycakes, beast, CA, or any other opponents?

    And I see “PeDoPHILe” is adding yet more new accusations to the pile at this late date–drugging the child, as if the child psychologists and social workers wouldn’t have noticed and reported it to the court. There isn’t a rolleyes emoticon big enough for this occasion.

    If you wonder why so many people disbelieve the Bedwell chain of events, maybe it’s because there are so many wild accusations tacked on to the end, and salacious details added over time. That’s how liars act–they start with a fairly simple story, then they add more and more detail until it’s finally a wild epic tale. They hope that if they release it a little snippet at a time, people will believe the little snippets, and therefore accept the whole crazy tale. Unfortunately for you guys, there’s plenty of people who didn’t believe the snippets, and now the tale is getting more and more unbelievable by the day.

  782. KarenCCCC

    Icky, I don’t wonder about anything other than why it has gotten this far out of control. Maybe the people who are tacking on new information are sick of hearing they are being called liars and they think if they add new information someone will finally listen. I don’t know Icky. I don’t know who they are unless they use their real names they have been using since the beginning. So I tend to just skim through the posts. I think the name calling and fighting is ridiculous, so as soon as I see that, I stop reading the post. I didn’t read that part where MelissaC said that I was receiving phone calls. I haven’t received one phone call.

    Why wouldn’t you or Patty or any of the others use their name to post my information???????? Really, Icky????? Do I really have to explain that to you? Wow.

  783. He'S a PeDoPhiLe

    Icky Retardo go back and read the paperwork on saveaaliyah.com. Aaliyah speaks of “medicine” they give her along with the fact she is dehydrated all of the time. Go read and then you won’t look like such a moron when you open your mouth each time. There was no new little snippet added.

    And plus if new info comes out it doesn’t mean it wasn’t documented already genius. Just because it’s new info to your small little world of perception doesn’t mean it’s new to anyone involved. Aaliyah’s pediatrician was aware of the subject genius! But you wouldn’t know that because you weren’t there. Take a step back and realize the world doesn’t revolve around you either, nobody put you in charge of the information that comes out. Then try to use this gift God gave us all, a brain, and realize there is this world around you full of information yet you choose to only see through a little looking glass called your own eyeballs. There is more to this life then your limited perception Icky.

    And yes Icky Dustin is still drugging the child to make her sleep through her nightmares because he doesn’t want his roomates to wake up to her screaming bloody murder about his molestation of her. Maybe there should be a video of her nightmares put up screaming about the abuse. Oh but wait, ignorant people such as yourself would just claim that somehow magically Connie coached her to have a nightmare about her dad molesting her, huh? There are videos of that too.

    Ever thought to yourself Icky that maybe there is quite a bit of evidence but somebody just needs to do a REAL INVESTIGATION? Of course you haven’t thought of that; an intelligent idea like that doesn’t fit in your little ignorant window of perception.

    We will pray for you too.

  784. He'S a PeDoPhiLe

    KarenCCCC We all know who posted your information. It was right after someone posted LL Pa Pa’s name. It hit a nerve with someone… Somebody thought you did it obviously. It was pretty low of them to put your personal info though. It just shows the level these creeps stoop too.

    They don’t have THE TRUTH on their side, so therefore they have nothing on their side. How else would they fight an intelligent woman such as yourself without facts? Post your personal information posing as yourself!- That’s how!

    My personal guess is that either Dustin did it because of the personal post under his name or LL PaPa and crew got a little butt hurt over his name being posted. Go back and look at exactly when it happened.

    People’s intentions of their hearts shine through in everything they say and do, just pay close attention.

    Like the people posting as just an outsider, some of those posts are from the Thompsons. It is very easy to see the intention throughout their writings. They say “oh Im nuetral” then a couple of sentences later call Connie a name.

    Out of the heart the mouth speaks.

  785. ChiLd MoLeStEr

    So upon researching this situation and researching Pedophiles and Child Molesters I have come across some interesting information.

    With all of my extensive researching I have done, I have to tell you all to quit calling Dustin a Pedophile!!

    Dustin is a Child Molester!

    There actually is a difference between Pedophiles and Child Molesters.

    Dustin falls under a grooming child molester. There are groomers and grabbers. He is definitely a groomer.

    Groomers tend to be incredibly charming and extremely helpful, and direct their activities for gaining admission into homes, organizations, or communities where children congregate. Just like a salesman may charm a prospective customer to close a sale, or a politition would be disarming to get a vote, these child molesters often also appear “too good to be true.”

    There are 3 types of grooming that is apparent Dustin has used. Child molesters will take extensive measures to groom effectively.

    1) Child molesters physically groom the victim
    2) Child molesters Psychologically groom the victim and her entire family
    3) Child molesters groom the entire community and social environment

    Child molesters gradually start out by wrestling, tickling, cuddling, hugging or playing touch games with the victim in front of other adults, children and usually the mother. The child molester does this as an act to confuse the victim that he does it in front of people so later on he can proceed a little further in private. One should never underestimate the degree of sophistication that child molesters will use to entice children as part of the grooming process. It only gets more vile from that point on.

    Physical grooming is often accompanied with psychological grooming. Psychological grooming refers to all the verbal statements a child molester uses to reduce the child’s resistance and lessen the likelihood that she will disclose about the molestation. The child molester is always plotting his next steps to progress further with the abuse. He is also always preparing a new litany of explanations for his molestation. Hense, Dustin’s infamous Baby Einstein excuse and taking her to the store to see worms.

    The child molester physically grooms the victim and psychologically grooms the victim and the victim’s mother. Most all child molesters take it one step further and groom as many people outside the home as well. (Understanding Child Molesters, p. 26)

    “The power of grooming the community is widely recognized by experts in the criminal justice system. Kenneth Lanning of the FBI training academy in Quantico, Virginia, writes in a manual for law enforcement officers that…

    PROSECUTION OF MANY CHILD MOLESTERS MAY NOT BE WELCOMED BY THEIR COMMUNITIES, ESPECIALLY IF THE MOLESTER IS A PROMINENT CITIZEN. CITIZENS MAY PROTEST, AND COMMUNITY ORGANIZATIONS MAY RALLY TO THE SUPPORT OF THE OFFENDER AND EVEN ATTACK THE VICTIMS. (LANNING, 1986, P.31)” (Understanding Child Molesters, p. 39)

    “Manipulation by child molesters includes everything they do to try to control others without being open, honest, and direct about their true intentions. They particularly try to manipuate their wives or the guardians and parents of their victims, their probabtion officers, and the court. The fullest communication possible among all parties who know the offender is the best defense, although a child molester can sometimes outwit even the greatest efforts of those involved.” (Understanding Child Molesters, p. 91)

    Dustin fits the profile over and over again.
    Dustin Thompson is a Grooming Child Molester.

    For those of you around him daily just watch his behavior. He puts way too much effort into trying to convince you that he isn’t a child molester. Being a sociopath, he tries to use your empathy to get you to feel bad for him like he is the victim. Educate yourself. Don’t be fooled. Protect Aaliyah and other children from Dustin Thompson and other child molesters like him.

  786. Icky Etardo

    Why not just use the tried and true “Anonymous”? I don’t know, Karen, there are so many ways someone could have posted your information that would have been simpler than using justgetaninvestigation’s name, it just seems that the simpler explanation is that you posted it yourself, and now you wish you hadn’t.

    Whoever posted it is obviously not afraid of any repercussions, since BTLS does indeed log IP addresses. Unfortunately for you, it’s not illegal to post someone’s personal information, it’s just against the rules of most message boards, and generally an unkind thing to do. Have you tried asking BTLS to delete those specific posts?

    I know it’s closing the barn door after the cow’s gotten out, but I hope you won’t ever post any personal information on the internet again, not a phone number, not a name, not anything, not anywhere. One piece of information easily leads to all the rest. Nobody should ever post personal information, especially if they’re an honest person who believes in what they’re saying. If you don’t get a bunch of offers from Nigerian princes who want to share their fortune with you if you’ll only pay a “handling fee”, I’ll be genuinely surprised. If it was me, I’d change my phone number. That’s the best advice I can give you.

  787. KarenCCCC

    I didn’t post my information. Thanks for the advice Icky, and yes, I have contacted someone here to look into it. I haven’t heard from anyone about it and the information is still there.

  788. Ashley

    I bet the Thompson’s are going crazy because of everyone investigating them right now.

    They are probably having the hardest time trying to put on their fake best behavior for so long.

    They are probably trying to put on a show like they are the the Leave it to Beaver family.

    What do the Thompson’s think? Do they really think that the child is never going to go to the Police on her own as soon as she is old enough? She could prosecute that pig of a “dad” and pig of a “grandfather” herself.

    If the child is a fighter like her mother she will take these pigs down all on her own. The longer it goes on the longer both of their sentencing will be. The child seems beyond intelligent for her age, I’m sure she will remember every single thing those pigs do to her and have done to her. If she could describe her daddy’s worm at that young of an age with such detail and accuracy than these two bastards have no chance.

    The Thompson’s should just be apologizing to her and start trying to make it up to her now. I think any time you were victimized as a minor you have so many years to go report it.

    The Thompson’s are done for. Connie be strong. Their day is coming and what a merry day that will be for everyone especially that precious baby.

  789. Talina

    Icky,

    How many times does she have to tell you she didn’t post her contact information yet you continue to insist that it was her “name” so it must be her because in your common sense application, there is no other plausible explanation.

    I’ve seen obtuse before and you definitely fit that to a “T” on this subject of Karen’s personal contact info.

    Only an idiot would post their personal contact information on a public forum board like this and Karen is no such idiot.

    She does not come on here and rant and rave like some of the lunatics (and yes I include lunatics on both sides of this issue) posting on here which is more likely who posted her contact information. How did they get it you wonder? Some of them, even in their perpetual delusional state of self proclaimed expertise, are quite resourceful when it comes to digging up information such as this. However, being able to find some stranger’s personal contact over the internet’s vast search capabilities does not an expert make. Sadly (and scary) anyone with a little computer search savy to them can find a person’s personal contact info given the motivation to do so. I’m not suggesting it is easy and quick to do, but a little motivation and vengeful intent goes a long way in motivating some people to do what would disgust others with even a modicum of integrity to think about.

    Talina

  790. BELEIVE IT - icky tardo

    The Child Molester’s druging of Aaliyah is’nt “a new accustion”. It’s all documented FACTS icky. If your not a Molester clan member by what authority do you speak in regard to this case? Who cares what the Thompsons and their three (3) Molester supporters think or believe. They’ve been proven liars sooooo many times it’s hard to keep track of. BOTTOM LINE!

    WE, AND YES MOST, ABSOLUTELY BELEIVE AALIYAH & CONNIE !!!

    A decerning mind knows, “WHERE’S THERE SMOKE THERE’S FIRE” -IT DOES’NT TO SEE THE FLAMES in order to yell fire!

    Lack of evidence doesn’t mean not guilty!

  791. KarenCCCC

    Let me ask you all, on both sides, one question: Do you find it fair that Aaliyah is not able to see her mom? With all the given facts, Connie is a great mom and Aaliyah is a three year old that craves and needs her mohter! Any human being knows this. It seems as if Amara is still playing her games and is stalling the visitations! This is an outrage. Some think that the baby deserves to see and be with her father, FINE, whatever! I don’t agree, but I do think most believe that Connie is not abusing her daughter and has the GOD given right to be with her baby! Amara, let Aaliyah see her mother! What type of damage are you doing to this baby???? Connie believes that the abuse is going on, that does NOT make her a terrible mother. Let the baby see her mother!

  792. get the facts straight.

    Karen- Amara has nothing to do with the visitation. Connie herself needs to make contact with HER attorney to set up the visitation. SHE has an attorney. Why isn’t Connies attorney doing anything? Amara has NO control over Connie not seeing her daughter, her only interest is getting this bull shit off the internet.

    In all honesty, regardless what anyone believes- dad guilty or not- the bottom line is this online viscious verbal attack of the father is going to do NOTHING for Connie other than to continue her limited access to her child through the courts. The authorities and courts have stated they are NOT interested, nor do they find ANY CREDIBILITY in the Bedwells ‘alleged proof’ of abuse. So, IF there is any abuse it is going to have to come from outside of the Bedwell family to be taken seriously. Just freaking common sense tells one that. IF it is ongoing, IT will be found out by a pediatrician, a teacher, a friends parent, SOMEONE.

    Tell me, if this is not soley about Connies HATRED for Aaliyahs father, why not zip it- get the bull shit offline- get her self back in position to have ACCESS to her child – so at least she can SEE her kid and voice her concerns to teachers, the childs doctor, ANYONE who is in A’s life outside the bedwells who can report this and possibly have it investigated a second time?

    I can PROMISE all this infantile online hate campaign will do is keep Connie at a distance from her child AND quite possibly ruin any chance of her having a relationship with her child.

    Fact is, Connie HAS the choice- she has two, which is more important- her hatred towards Dustin or her child? Right now it is VERY apparent her hatred of Dustin far outweighs her interest in her child. Else this would STOP and she would act like a caring parent with her childs BEST interest at heart.

  793. get the facts straight.

    I’m sure there is more the Bedwells are not ‘releasing’ as Connie has NEVER come out and given anyone a straight answer regarding why the courts severly limited her contact with her child and restricted it to being supervised by a professional. I highly doubt Connie will ever be forthcoming with the ‘truth’ on that note as it will clearly make her come out smelling less than a rose.

    That limited supervision and access to a child is HIGHLY unusual through family court. MOST will do about anything to allow both parents access, unless one is proven a danger to the child. Please don’t try to say this happened because she was without representation, the Bedwell camp has already come out stating she has in fact had a number of attorneys throughout the custody proceedings.

  794. Icky Etardo

    In the June 1 hearing, the court ruled that if Ms. Bedwell couldn’t arrange visitation with her child within 2 days, she should file for an Ex Parte hearing. So far, that hasn’t happened, or there would be a new article on BNN about the new Ex Parte hearing.

    Why hasn’t Ms. Bedwell filed for the Ex Parte hearing? All she needs to do in order to resume visitation is to find a visitation center that will accept her and call Ms. Amara’s office and arrange a date. Maybe Ms. Bedwell can’t find a visitation center that will accept her, since she violated the rules of the last center by releasing photos taken inside the place to the press. Visitation centers run under the same rules as battered women’s shelters, so releasing a photo taken inside to the public is a huge no-no.

    If Ms. Bedwell is being denied visitation by Ms. Amara’s office, she should file for the Ex Parte hearing immediately, and the court will take care of the problem. The court said they would do this as far back as June 1. The ball is in Ms. Bedwell’s court, and it’s been sitting there for over a month.

  795. Wonder

    I know this is an old topic but I was interested in 730 evaluations.
    Dustin’s attorney chose the Custody evaluator who knew that opposing Mrs Family Court Judge Amara would guarantee a cut in referrals/income for that evaluator.

    In most cases both parties have to agree to the custody evaluator.
    Connie had NO ATTORNEY to oppose Amara’s choice.

    A child custody evaluator selection process is often looked at by the attorneys as strategic. This is because some custody evaluators are considered to be “neutral” or “unbiased,” while others may be seen as pro-father or pro-mother. Some child custody evaluators have gained a reputation for their thorough custody evaluations and others are looked at as too hasty, as some 730 evaluators can take months to complete a custody evaluation, and some might finish in several weeks.
    These considerations should and most likely will be weighed by the two sides, and play into the negotiations that may take place either between the two attorneys, or alternatively during a court hearing. Of course, each side hopes to get the 730 evaluator who they believe will be more favorable to their case, which can prolong the custody evaluator selection process.

    Custody evaluators can take sides and can be biased.
    Connie didn’t have an attorney to represent her side.

    If either of the parties (parents or attorneys) is not satisfied with the evaluation report, and its recommendations, they may depose the evaluator, and/or have the evaluator placed on the witness stand for cross-examination.

    If one does challenge the evaluation report, it may be beneficial to seek out the opinion of an outside expert or mental health professional to review and critique the evaluation process and have this placed into a formal declaration written up by the attorney.

    Connie didn’t have an attorney. Dustin not only had an attorney, his attorney is the wife of one of the county court judges.

    Dr. Saturley who isn’t being paid by either party and who has no ties to the county or state would be able to do a truly unbiased evaluation.
    Dustin doesn’t want that, he already has his unfair, biased,and one sided report.

  796. Icky Etardo

    Karen

    I’m sorry for posting your private information.
    I think your an idiot for believing those lying, criminal Bedwells, but I hope you’ll forgive me for posting information that could put your family’s lives in danger.
    I still think Dustin is innocent and Connie is a liar who exploited her child by posting that obviously coached video on the web for any pervert to see, but it doesn’t excuse what I did. I’m also sorry for trying to convince everyone that it wasn’t possible that someone other than you would post under your user-name.

  797. GMA Anne

    If visitation is not occuring, I wouldn’t think Amara would be the controlling factor regarding that issue. Doesn’t the child have her own attorney appointed by the court? Wouldn’t it be between the mother and the attorney to come up with a plan that follows the guidelines established by the court previously?

    There are so many holes in the statements and allegations being made…whatever happened to common sense? I for one am not seeing much validity in any of them.

  798. guesswhatkaren!

    It’s not up to Amara to arrange the visitations at all -period!!!! Connie has to go through Aali’s lawyer NOT Amara. Still think you know everything but it always seems you turn up knowing nothing. Connie’s family OMITS NOT telling you things for a reason. Connie’s lawyer has been repeatedly contacted to re-establish but CONNIE is the one NOT replying. THATS A GOOD MOM. Whatever.

  799. KarenCCCC

    Before I continue reading your idiotic posts about Amara not being the one to get visitations started, YOU get the facts straight. SHE and Rebecca have to AGREE on where the visitations will take place. THEY will not do that!! So, get off your soap boxes and get it in to your heads, that you have no clue what is really going on. Amara asked Connie to take everything off the net, ie….the saveaaliyah site, the petition site and the videos on you tube. Connie has no control over any of it and told her she wouldn’t take the deal, so now SHE is witholding Aaliyah from her because of that. You all are so BLIND it’s pathetic!

    Hey Icky, thanks so much for your apology, but it isn’t accpeted.

  800. KarenCCCC

    Connie has asked numerous times for a trial. Has she received one? NO!!!

  801. KarenCCCC

    Connie HAS found a suitable place for visitations, and while Amara and Bowman won’t accept it, I’m hoping Connie’s lawyer is finally fed up and will sanction the crap out of them.

  802. KarenCCCC

    Get the facts straight, I thought you weren’t going to be posting here anymore? I heard you got your thread closed at WS, why don’t you ask it to be re-opened so you can go back to that hole!!! YOU are not being told the truth, Connie has no reason to lie to me. The person you are advocating for on the other hand DOES. Get your facts straight before you spout your crap to me.

  803. KarenCCCC

    Wonder, thank you for being here and helping me to get the truth and the real facts here on BTLS! I greatly appreciate you!

  804. get the facts straight.

    Oh good greif, here we go again. ‘Hijacking’ someone else’s user name- and Wonder would like us to believe Connie had NO attorney EVER representing her during the custody hearings. Puhhhhhhlease!

  805. KarenCCCC

    Let’s put it in simpiler terms: Who has custody of the baby? Dustin. Who is Dustin’s lawyer? Amara. Who is the baby’s ad litem? Bowman. Connie’s lawyer says to Rebecca Bowman: “We have a visitation center, such and such name, will you agree to this place?” Bowman, “Uh, I have to consult with Amara, since Dustin is the custodial parent, but it may be fine with me.” Bowman to Amara, “They found a place, such and such name, will this work with you and your client?” Amara, “Hell no, we won’t agree to any place until she gets all the stuff off the internet, but don’t tell her lawyer that, just say I’m thinking about it.” Bowman, “You are such a sneaky b**ch, lol.” Get it all of you????

  806. Talina

    Icky – I find it totally wreckless and unconcionable that you would post someone’s personal information and then follow up with posts riduculing them for posting it themselves. This case has certainly brought out the worst in people to say the least.

    To everyone else posting here about “facts”: Let’s all be honest about what is often referred to here as “facts”. None of us really know what is factual in this case versus what is alleged. Granted some are in direct contact with one side or the other but even then what is being conveyed can easily be selective conveyance to put that side in the best light. But I dare say that for the majority of us, we are not in direct contact with either side so our actual knowledge of any true facts is nonexistent.

    Based on what we have read or think we “know” we have formed opinions. Here’s the thing that seems to keep me thinking there is some merit to Connie’s allegations. She (in the past) and her family, recent and previously, have spoken out directly to the public in varying ways. They have not limited their allegations to anonymous postings on the internet. On the other hand, Dustin’s side has refused to respond to them under his own name or answering any inquiries from any media that ocntacted him. Some of you may say, well he doesn’t have to do that. You’re right, he doesn’t. But to me, that’s like an accused on trial not taking the stand.

    Even though the jury is not supposed to take that into consideration during deliberations, human nature is going to make many think that if the accused were truly innocent they’d want to take the stand and let the jury hear it from their own mouth that they are not guilty.

    I’ve heard of polls where father’s have been asked this very question, “how would you respond”. Overwhelmingly the response was that they would do whatever they needed to do to speak out about their innocence and take what ever evaluations they needed to take to prove it not only for them but for the child.

    Yes, we are all supposed to be abiding by “innocent until proven guilty”. However, there are some situations, more specifically abuse and molestation involving children, where that is very hard to do because of an innocent, defenseless child being at the core of it all.

    Talina

  807. marmite

    get the facts straight

    If Connie had lost custody as she was a ‘danger’ to Aaliyah as you keep alluding to it would have been ‘leaked’ by the Thompsons by now. They have tried to discredit her in every other way and I’ve no doubt if they had anything else on her it would have been revealed long before now.

    Do you agree that a 3 year old girl should NOT be allowed to see her mom, have you seen how much they love each other.

    Remind yourself, watch the exchanges video again…

    http://www.youtube.com/user/wellsaidjohnsmith

    I’m not seeing any love at all from the ‘father’, he doesn’t even console Aaliyah. I hope the Thompsons realise how much this poor little girl will resent them when she grows up for keeping her from her mom.

  808. Free clue for you!!!

    Perhaps is Bowman thought Connie was capable of discretion, she MIGHT agree to a safe place for her client. Unfortunately discretion isn’t one of Connies finer points.

  809. Free clue number two!!!

    KarenCCC said,in May 13th, 2009 at 9:06 pm

    Amen Simon…..I’m right there with you. I am NOT going away! And I thought the same thing after at least 20 times trying to call Rebecca Bowman I only received an answering machine. It’s amazing…I can’t believe that people think that by not speaking to any of us is going to make us go away. Oh well…..they don’t know me that’s for sure….

    Perhaps badmouthing Aaliyahs attorney isn’t exactly the way to win friends and influence people.

  810. Free clue!!!

    KarenCCC said,in May 7th, 2009 at 2:23 pm AnneA, I see there are a lot of posts here, I don’t have time to read them all right now, but I did see someone mention Aaliyah’s lawyer….I’m sorry I forgot your name, whomever you were, but her lawyer’s name is Rebecca Bowman and I think I found her on the internet. I am going to call her and see WHY SHE HASN’T YET VIEWED THE VIDEO! In court yesterday, she stammered all over herself when the judge asked if she had. I think we should contact her and demand she seeks justice for this little one!

    I bet she’s ecstatic her name is all over the place with the trash you Connie supporters are spouting. I suppose she thinks this internet garbage is in her clients best interest? I doubt it very much, but if it works for you Connie continue what your doing. It has quite the success rate for you doesn’t it.

    Perhaps an update to the Save Aaliyah site indicating to your readers letting them know Aaliyah does in FACT HAVE AN ATTORNEY might demonstrate just a tad bit of honesty? After all, your site is asking for funds for an attorney for Aaliyah, no?

  811. Hey get the facts straight

    It’s ridiculous to think that someone hi-jacked tardo’s
    user name. Based on the comments the poster is obviously a Dustin supporter.
    Who else but tardo would make comments like that about the Bedwells ?
    I think it’s awful that he would post her personal info, but that apology seemed heart-felt.
    Come on Karen, give ick tard another chance…..

  812. Icky Etardo

    LOL Karen, if I’d been the one to post your personal information, I wouldn’t be at all sorry and I wouldn’t bother to apologize.

  813. Icky Etardo

    The ball is in Ms. Bedwell’s court; when is she going to arrange that visitation? If she’s being denied her visitation, she should file for the Ex Parte hearing or stop complaining.

  814. GMA Anne

    But do you really have the facts? Unless you have been there to witness this situation go down from day one first hand-not based on some person you have never met on the internet, you are passing judgement based on a scorned woman’s word. I find it hard to believe that everyone from the local pd, county, shrinks and courts are all out to get Connie based on the fact the DT’s attorney is married to a judge. Allegations of this nature are taken seriously, peoples lives and welfare are at stake as well as the professional’s reputations and abilities to continue earning a living. If they had any inclination that these things were going on, the child would not be with the father period.

    The Thompson’s probably wish they were as influential and well off as they are being portrayed to be. From what I’ve been able to determine, they are just regular blue collar working class people. They may also have alot of friends in the community, but heh maybe it is something as simple as they are really nice people…think about it!

  815. Wonder

    You’re welcome Karen. The truth will all come out and when it does,Dustin’s supporters will owe Aaliyah a huge apology.

    Fact is, Amara hand-picked the 730 evaluator along with every expert that sided with her sick client.

  816. guesswhatkaren!

    The truth is that this entire case has been investigated and the accusations are unfounded. Thanks BTLS for allowing the entire story to be posted including Connies DEBUNKED accusations against the little girls father. A good deal of authorities are extremely fed up with her games and BS, maybe one day soon she can find herself between iron bars and she can understand just how wrong she was to do this to her own child online!

  817. KarenCCCC

    Clues, why do you keep saying saveaaliyah.com site is mine? I don’t run it, I didn’t put it up. You need to tell whomever put it up what you are telling me.

  818. Talina

    GMA Anne – Regarding your post that the Thompson’s are regular blue collar working people. The regular blue collar working people I have ever come in contact with do not drive Mercedes.

  819. guesswhatkaren!

    you mean the used mercedes that cost under 25,000? yah, NO ONE in the USA can afford that at all, even lowly blue collar people. Cars make people criminals I suppose? Or does it make Connie’s story any more believable? Nope. the lack of support for Connie online shows how many of us don’t buy her bs. I know there’s very little money coming in online too for her. She deserves everything she gets coming to her, karma’s a btch.

  820. Ashley

    Dustin just take your tiny crooked penis and quit calling it a damn worm and Quit putting it in baby’s mouths and all of this fighting wouldn’t be necessary.

    Child Molesting PIG!!

  821. 70sixspeed

    Dustin you are so ignorant.

    This is how much the cops care about the saveaaliyah.com website…

    You got your ass kicked in court and can’t get the court to order a 15 K sanction….

    So like a whiney baby you run to good ol APD to try to have Connie arrested.

    Guess what?

    They called Connie and asked her, “Hey are you running saveaaliyah.com?”

    She said “No.”

    Case closed.

    It was a great investigation!!! It was just about as good as the one they did on your child molesting ass!

    APD asked you, “Dustin are you a child molester?”

    You replied, “No.”

    And case closed.

    APD is REALLY good at what they do.

    They don’t care that you are molesting your daughter so why would they care about a restraining order violating Connie’s civil rights to post on the internet?

    APD is almost as intelligent as you Dustin…

  822. Ashley

    Dustin is the biggest faggot I’ve ever seen.

    Didn’t you see his pictures on Connie’s myspace?

    Dustin is a wanna be gang bangin’ Child Molester with his pants sagging to the floor with his crooked tiny worm hanging out! EWWWWWW

    It’s YUCKY!

    PIG!

  823. Free clue!!!

    Karen, I never said the site was yours, but you are obviously privy to first hand info. Perhaps you could pass it along? Not to mention, I have no doubt the Bedwells read here.

    Get a clue, Connie is not willing to cooperate with the courts, so why should anyone cooperate with her? It takes giving a little to get a little. Connie wants to play hardball, why shouldn’t she expect others to play hardball back?

    It’s really rather simple. Connie is going to reap what she sows. Let Connie go through the courts… and quit bitching and whining about it online. All you Connie supporters who keep this up, are doing no good for Connie- as you can see by the history of the actions through the last few months. As long as Connie is unwilling to cooperate, I don’t forsee anyone willing to cooperate with her, so she’ll have to file in the courts with whatever means necessary, which anyone familiar with family court knows can take years and years.

  824. Icky Etardo

    So, did Ms. Bedwell file for that Ex Parte hearing today? If she’s interested in seeing her child again, she needs to do that as soon as possible. It’s been almost two months now since the poor girl’s seen her mother.

    I checked over on BNN to see if there was news that the Ex Parte hearing request had been filed, but all that’s there are soap opera updates and reviews for movies and bad novels.

  825. Free clue!!!

    No Karen, Connie needs to tell her friends to STFU! and take the site down, which she has already clearly stated she won’t. So this is what Connie reaps…. She can go on and on with this for the next 50 years. Isn’t going to change a damn thing.

    Go look up a story titled ‘her right to be obnoxious’ – see exactly where this gets a woman who cries wolf all the time. It gets her right out of her childs life! Connie does not deserve to be in A’s life until she gets this crap off the net- and the courts SEE THAT! Why the hell you all don’t is beyond me, but as long as you keep harping, you keep Connie out of her childs life.

  826. Free clue!!!

    Talina
    July 20th, 2009 at 11:58 am
    GMA Anne – Regarding your post that the Thompson’s are regular blue collar working people. The regular blue collar working people I have ever come in contact with do not drive Mercedes

    So is this about Aaliyah or is this jealousy over what kind of car DT drives? Perhaps if Connie GOT A JOB she might be able to afford a decent set of wheels. But wait, if she got a job, perhaps the state would garnish her wages to pay child support.

    Ya, and you can buy a used mercedes pretty damn cheaply. I’m sure for a few grand.

    So, keep talking about the issue or what everyone else has or doesn’t have? Sheesh, you all must have run out of things to say, now that you’ve turned this around to what kind of car others drive! LMAO!

  827. Free clue!!!

    Here’s a little snippet from the article titled “Her right to be Obnoxious” for all you Connie supporters. The article is from 2006. As of that time, mom had no contact with her then 16 year old daughter for 4 years. Her daughter is now 20 and still has NO contact with ‘mom’- childs choice.

    “Every week, Darel can be found pacing along the 150 William Street block, protesting the way ACS caseworkers have handled her now closed case. In 1997, the department alleged that Darel’s ex-husband, a retired New York City police detective, had molested their daughter. But a series of complicated twists in Manhattan Family Court would cause judges to drop the accusation as “unproven,” find Darel guilty of neglect, and place her daughter in foster care. Eventually, she lost custody for good to the man whom ACS had once accused of abuse. The outcome has fueled an eight-year war of words for Darel/”

    Can ya see where this is taking you Connie? Do you WANT to be in your daughters life? Or would you rather follow Ms. Darels example – keep going like the ever ready bunny and have NO involvement in your daughters life?

    Keep it up Connie supporters! Because THIS is the road you are leading your ‘friend’ down.

  828. Free clue!!!

    worth reposting:
    she lost custody for good

    Permanent…. forever, and now this young woman wants NOTHING to do with her mother.

    Do you hear that Connie?

    Yes, you can protest, and complain all you wish, but the choice very well may leave you FOREVER out of your childs life. I have NO doubt, your attorney, Aaliyah’s attorney, as well as Ms. Amara know the letter of the law. So, you make the choice. I hope it is the right one for your daughter.

  829. GMA Anne

    Please…check the car ads for used cars prices, then get back to me.

  830. Free clue!!!

    and by the way Simon, here is YOUR free clue. If you bother to read the ‘Her right to be obnoxious’ article, you will see the ‘credible’ journalist LEFT OUT THE CHILDS NAME! Hint, hint, which make the actions legal… they did NOT use the childs name!

  831. Icky Etardo

    You can get a 2006 used Mercedes for about $20,000 in Placer County, which is about what you’d pay for a new Toyota Camry or similar sedan. You’re right, Free Clue, it’s sour grapes. Who cares about the stupid car.

    Y’all would rather chew on sour grapes than file for the Ex Parte hearing that would get Ms. Bedwell’s visitation back, and I think that’s sad. You’d rather howl and complain than comply with court orders, which are the ONLY WAY Ms. Bedwell will ever get shared custody back. Maybe she’s more interested in hurting Mr. Thompson than she is in raising her daughter, just like Ms. Darel in the New York News article. I for one think it’s sad.

  832. KarenCCCC

    Twist, twist, twist away! Incredibly sad and pathetic people you are.

    Connie has NOT custody FOR GOOD and the judge had said he WAS NOT taking visitations away from her either.

    Twist, twist, twist……

  833. guesswhatkaren!

    KarenCCCCCCCCC has no brains unfortunately because FREECLUE was talking about another woman similar to Connie who lost custody, NOT Connie. LMAO

    Yes the website owner of Aaliyah reads here, it’s maramite. That tidbit brought to me by a friendly ‘insider’ in Connie’s itty bitty clan.

    Darrel 70six, do you really think the case is closed with the APD against Connie with the 1 phone call? Think again buddy.

  834. guesswhatkaren!

    KarenCCCCCC what the judge said? Connie can FOR NOW keep the strictly enforced supervised visitation. Connie has NO RIGHTS to her child, not even to wipe her nose. Until she changes her ways, it will remain that way for good too Karen. You’re all helping PUNISH Connie, helping KEEP Aaliyah away from her by continuing this. As long as youre here, so will the supporters of AALIYAH TO HAVE HER NAME REMOVED FROM THE INTERNET!!!

  835. Free clue!!!

    Guesswhat, I’d agree with you, but I think Connie is very much in control of what is being spread all over the internet. All she has to do is ASK people to stop and go about this through the proper channels.

    As long as she is unwilling to do so, she RISKS the possibility of losing ALL contact with her child. She’s already pushed it to the very limited supervised contact she currently ‘enjoys’.

    Icky-
    “Maybe she’s more interested in hurting Mr. Thompson than she is in raising her daughter, just like Ms. Darel in the New York News article. I for one think it’s sad.”

    I think you nailed it! It is incredibly sad for her daughter, but as long as she’s on the path she is, the courts have no other choice than to protect her daughter from the influence and onslaught of this hatred Connie has for her daughters father.

    It’s not something I’ll ever understand, but some people are simply incapable of putting their childs best interests first.

    It won’t be long until Connie is Ms. Darel Jr. Wait, she already is.

  836. Free clue!!!

    Apparently KarenCCCC hasn’t been ‘fed’ a reply from the Bedwells yet, because all she could come up with was name calling. LMAO!

    I’m awaiting the usual copy and paste of the same old Bedwell rhetoric which usually appears following anyone posting FACTS about the possibility of Connie’s loss of her daughter as well as judicial punishment for her actions. Anyone else notice that pattern?

  837. KarenCCCC

    I don’t see how anything that any of say, even you GUESSWHAT, can sway a judge or a lawyer either way? Don’t you think they have way more important things to take care of? We are just people debating over a very sad and disgusting case….How you think we have ANY clout with the officials is really funny. Connie will do what is right. There are too many children EVERY day being murdered and neglected by their parents. Connie listened to her daughter and did what she felt is right, and you all think it’s wrong for her to do that. If she didn’t do anything about it, you’d be chastising her for that. I believe in you Connie! I believe you Aaliyah! I pray everyday for you both! Keep strong!

  838. Free clue!!!

    70SixSpeed-
    No one is fooled by your, or anyone else’s attempt to claim the 15K the courts are possibly seeking from Connie. Maybe you, Connie and the Bedwell family don’t understand that would be for the COURT COSTS. As long as Connie can not prove her case in court, SHE is liable for the court costs. You all must think Connie is the first and only person to ever have been through family court or a custody fight. Your limited capability to understand others are familiar with court proceedings shines through. Maybe you all should ASK Connies attorney if you lack understanding of any of the court fees before you continue to spout misinformation.

  839. Talina

    All of you are hilarious. I post one comment responding to someone saying that the Thompsons are just hard working blue collar family, or some such likeness – maybe not exact words. I’m not going to scroll up to see exactly how it was worded. I merely state in response to that post that the people that I know that are hard working blue collar workers don’t generally drive around in Mercedes and you guys twist it to jealousy and say I’m turning this into being about a car, not Aailayah.

    Most of you can’t even admit when something as trivial as what I said is more commonly true than not. No, this post is not about a car – it’s about how even the littlest things that are pointed out are so twisted with vitriol that it’s absolutely unreal. I couldn’t care less what kind of car anyone of you or anyone involved in this case drives or don’t drive and that is not what my original post was about.

  840. KarenCCCC

    Posted by Free Clue:
    No one is fooled by your, or anyone else’s attempt to claim the 15K the courts are possibly seeking from Connie. Maybe you, Connie and the Bedwell family don’t understand that would be for the COURT COSTS. As long as Connie can not prove her case in court, SHE is liable for the court costs. You all must think Connie is the first and only person to ever have been through family court or a custody fight. Your limited capability to understand others are familiar with court proceedings shines through. Maybe you all should ASK Connies attorney if you lack understanding of any of the court fees before you continue to spout misinformation

    You are spouting misinformation. Connie is not trying to prove she isn’t the one posting on the internet, Dustin is trying to prove that she is. It is he and his lawyer that keep dragging her to court about the restraining order. Why would Connie have to pay $15k in court costs when she isn’t the one dragging everyone to court? LMAO! And Connie can tell anyone she wants to stop posting, but that doesn’t mean that people who support her will do that. Most of the people I have asked said that they wouldn’t stop posting because they believe Aaliyah is being abused. Doesn’t have anything to do with Connie at this point, as a matter of fact, I don’t think it ever did. It’s about an innocent child.

  841. guesswhatkaren!

    Talina you brought up the mercedes not anybody else, you clearly have an issue with it. Tell Connie to go get a job and quit begging online. She has no more funds coming in so how far will she get now? None of you can see that YOUR actions online SUPPORTING HER USING HER NAME AND AALIYAHS NAME is getting her NO RESULTS.

    What don’t you get about that?

    IF SOMETHINGS NOT WORKING BUT YOU STILL KEEP DOING IT OVER AND OVER EXPECTING DIFFERENT RESULTS WILL COME ABOUT? Seriously think about that for at least 3 seconds.

    NONE of you wonder why you couldn’t get media involved? NONE of you wonder why you can’t get other levels of government interested? Because acting like fools online spouting stuff in such childish behavior has made CONNIE’S case look even MORE SUSPECT and MORE UNTRUTHFUL! NOT the other way around.

    That is, unless BNN has 800 people behind their ‘secret’ wall all discussing this case rampantly?? Probably not, I’d guess there’s 4 or 5 of you but since I too can’t view to see, I’ll just assume I’m right.

    SO WHY ARE YOUSTILL HERE? WHY IS THIS CHILDS NAME STILL ONLINE? THE CAREFUL ONLINE ‘FIGHT FOR JUSTICE’ DIDN’T WORK BUT YOU’RE ALL STILL AROUND!! CONNIE is NOT getting the results she hoped for, IN FACT, by your very own words that she hasn’t seen AALIYAH in two months – CONNIE HAS suffered even greater hasn’t she?? IT BACKFIRED IN A BIG WAY and she is paying the price.

    BUT YOU’RE ALL STILL HERE SPOUTING HER FIGHT. THIS IS HER FIGHT ISNT’ IT??? THIS IS WHY YOU ARE ONLINE?? TO SUPPORT HER FIGHT RIGHT? IT’S NOT WORKING AND WITH THE INCREDIBLE LACK OF SUPPORT ONLINE IT WILL NEVER WORK EVER NOW. TO CONTINUE IN THIS MANNER SHOWS HOW UNPLANNED THE FEW OF YOU ARE. NOTHING IS WORKING, NO ONE IS LISTENING INCLUDING THOSE WHO COULD DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT – LIKE MEDIA & DIFFERENT GOVERNMENT! Am I right or Am I right?

    UNTIL CONNIE OBEYS ALL COURT ORDERS SHE WILL CONTINUE NOT TO HAVE ANY RIGHTS TO HER CHILD EVER EVER EVER EVER. Keep posting here will just be going in circles. HOW is that any help to a child you claim is abused?????????????

  842. guesswhatkaren!

    I guess what you could do is keep doing this online BS and Connie will keep NOT getting to see her child, more importantly she’ll never have any rights to Aali either. The same actions will produce the same results time and time again.

    I don’t know about Icky or Clue or Patty or Beast or Huh or whomever I’ve left out but I’m not going away until CONNIE goes away online. CONNIE includes you few here because you all are HER VOICE. It will keep going nowhere, upsetting judges, lawyers, police, CPS, counselors, and anyone else involved. Connie will continue LOSING in the courts UNTIL CONNIE AND CONNIE ALONE CHANGES HER WAYS. Get it? Probably not.

    IF YOU ALL BELIEVE THE CHILD IS ABUSED, TELL ME HOW CONNIE NOT SEEING HER CHILD FOR 2 MONTHS IS PROTECTING HER CHILD or KEEPING HER SAFE?

    TELL ME WHAT GOOD RESULTS THIS ‘CAMPAIGN’ HAS PRODUCED? Instead of getting the world to listen, she has found herself unable to see her kid at all RIGHT? THAT works for her? THIS has accomplished WHAT may I ask?

  843. Talina

    I find it ironic that people that keep insisting this baby’s name should not be mentioned online are themselves repeatedly saying her name.

    As far as me bring up the car issue, I gave it as an analogy to blue collar worker as the Thompsons were described as being- nothing more, nothing less. Anyone that attempts to turn it into anything more than that is grasping for a life line that just isn’t there.

  844. guesswhatkaren!

    if Connie ends up in jail you won’t stop? if Connie doesn’t get to see her kid you won’t stop? you won’t stop if she asks? Wow nothing about that makes sense. You’ve all helped this get a lot worse for her. Keep doing it lol, I’m sure the Thompsons LOVE not seeing her face and having Aali all to themselves.

  845. Free clue!!!

    Karen, if Connie wasn’t spouting this crap online, DT would have no reason to bring her to court. He won the case, so YES IN FACT, Connie being the REASON for the court cases, as well as the custody battle because she was unwilling and unable to agree to the 50/50 joint custody according to CA law. She in fact created the reason for court and the court costs.

    Connies case is NO DIFFERENT than the thousands and thousands of custody cases in this country each year, where the basic principles are the same. To try and present her case as anything different is foolish. Party A cries foul, Party B proves no foul exists, Party A is responsible for court costs. Very simple.

    You are not fooling anyone. Family court/child support/cusoty case support and info is ALL over the net. Why would Connie’s case be any different? In a lame attempt to hold her hat out for donations? Beggers can’t be choosy. Keep Begging Connie- it demonstrates your wonderful ability to parent. LMAO

  846. Free clue!!!

    It’s accomplished protecting this child from her mothers venom and anger against the childs father.

    IF CONNIE IS INCAPABLE OF LOVING HER CHILD MORE THAN SHE HATES HER CHILDS FATHER, this is best for the child under the circumstances. Awful circumstances for the child. Awful to see a parent act this way, but sadly it happens. I’m just glad the courts see it, and are protecting this child from any more mind games. Poor thing. I can’t imagine the emotional turmoil she experienced at the hands of her mother.

  847. KarenCCCC

    Woah…….Wow????? What has it accomplished? I’m guessing it is giving you something to do with your boring days. 60 more people have signed the petition site in the last three days, I think that’s pretty good. I haven’t seen one judge, police officer, CPS person and whatever else you said, being one bit of “upset” by what I or anyone else is doing on line. I think you need to go take a chill pill (whatever it is you use to calm down after a hard day of yelling on the internet) and take a nap. You seem a little cranky.

  848. FACTS-4-DUMMIES

    1) THE MEDIA IS INVOLVED CHILD MOLESTER SUPPORTERS. CHILD MOLESTING PROSECUTERS FROM LA ARE INVOLVED. CHILD ADVOCATES AROUND THE NATION ARE INVOLVED. STEVE WILKOS WANTS THE WHOLE SITUATION ON HIS SHOW. CHILD MOLESTER SUPPORTERS YOU ARE MORONS. THERE IS A LOT COMING YOUR WAY… KEEP SCREAMING THE MEDIA ISN’T INVOLVED BECAUSE THEY ARE. THERE ARE REPORTERS GATHERING INFORMATION THAT HAVEN’T EVEN POSTED ARTICLES YET. YOU THOMPSONS ARE IGNORANT.

    2) CONNIE’S IQ PLACES HER IN THE TOP 1/3 OF THE POPULATION… DO YOU NOT THINK SHE KNOWS WHAT SHE IS DOING?

    3) YOU THINK EVEN IF THE COURT PERMANENTLY TAKES AALIYAH AWAY FROM CONNIE FOR GOOD THAT THE TRUTH WON’T COME OUT ANYWAY? THOMPSON’S THIS SITUATION MIGHT NOT LOOK GOOD RIGHT NOW FOR CONNIE TEMPORARILY IN YOUR EYES BECAUSE YOU CAN’T SEE RESULTS UNLESS THEY ARE RIGHT IN YOUR FACE. YOUR LIMITED BRAIN CELLS ONLY ALLOW YOU TO PERCEIVE ONLY WHAT’S RIGHT IN YOUR FACE. INTELLIGENT PEOPLE CAN ACTUALLY SEE THAT YOU THOMPSON’S ARE ULTIMATELY GOING TO PAY THE PRICE FOR ALL OF THIS.

    THOMPSON’S YOU ARE BACKED IN A CORNER. THINK ABOUT THIS AS HARD AS YOU CAN, IF YOU DON’T UNDERSTAND, I UNDERSTAND YOU DON’T HAVE THE BRAIN CELLS TO FIGURE IT OUT, BUT WE’LL GIVE IT A SHOT ANYWAY…

    AALIYAH IS GOING TO TELL ON YOU AGAIN AND THIS TIME IT WON’T BE HER MOM SHE TELLS. IT WILL BE HER TEACHER OR SOMEONE WTH A CONSCIENCE THAT WILL REPORT ALL OF YOU.

    DUSTIN YOU CONTEMPLATE MURDERING HER WELL YOU WILL JUST GO TO PRISON ANYWAY WHICH IS WHAT YOU ARE TRYING TO AVOID BY EVEN CONTEMPLATING THAT.

    THOMPSON’S YOU ARE ALL SCREWED BECAUSE IT’S ILLEGAL TO COVER FOR SOMEONE COMMITTING A FELONY. YOU ALL ARE COVERING FOR TWO FELONS.

    JUST LIKE YOUR EXAMPLE OF THE CHILD WHO WONT SPEAK TO HER MOTHER NOW… WELL IT’S APPARENT THAT AALIYAH LOVES HER MOTHER, AND CAN’T STAND HER FATHER. SHE WILL RESENT ALL OF YOU THOMPSONS. THAT CHILD IS SMART UNLIKE YOU PEOPLE THAT THINK YOU CAN CONTROL HER LIKE A PRISONER HER WHOLE LIFE.

    YOU ALL ARE GOING DOWN NO MATTER HOW MUCH YOU TRY TO ABUSE CONNIE AND AALIYAH IN THE SITUATION. YOU WILL REAP WHAT YOU SOW.

    4) CONNIE’S PSYCH EVAL SAYS HER PROBLEM SOLVING SKILLS ARE WELL ABOVE AVERAGE… SHE KNOWS WHAT SHE IS DOING.

    THOMSON’S IT’S APPARENT YOU DON’T KNOW WHAT SHE IS DOING.
    IT TAKES BRAIN CELLS TO SEE FURTHER THAN YOUR NOSE.

    HOPE YOUR ANXIETY EATS YOU…

  849. THAT'S STUPID

    Guess what..
    Are you telling me that Aaliyah can’t see her mother because KarenCCC’s continues to post her opinion that Dustin abused Aaliyah ? That’s all it takes to keep a child from their parent ?

  850. Icky Etardo

    Guesswhatkaren: I just can’t help it, I’m one of those people who, when they see a witch hunt, tries to persuade the villagers to put down their pitchforks and go home. I also try to convince Bigfoot enthusiasts that there isn’t really a 7-foot tall ape skulking around the forests of Northern California, and tell people who believe in psychics that Sylvia Brown is just guessing and really doesn’t know anything. I try to use logic to show people how they’re being tricked by others, but with limited success most of the time. I hate to see honest, caring people taken for a ride and used by others for their own purposes. It’s unfortunate that those same honest, caring people are usually eager to be taken in by a scam that plays on their emotions and their caring nature.

    KarenCCC: It’s not unusual at all in civil litigation or family court for the losing party to have to pay the winning party’s legal fees. It’s pretty standard in California, as a matter of fact. That’s one of the ways that California attempts to make people follow court orders. People are much less likely to ignore restraining orders, file harassing lawsuits, and skip out on court-ordered programs if they know they will have to pay all the legal fees if they lose in court.

    I’m sure Ms. Bedwell’s lawyer has explained all this to Ms. Bedwell. Ms. Bedwell is either not telling you this part of the story, or she doesn’t listen to her lawyer either.

    I sincerely hope, for Aaliyah’s sake, that Ms. Bedwell doesn’t choose “her right to be obnoxious” over her right to see her child, like Dyandria Darel did, but I’m afraid it looks like that’s the path she’s chosen. Y’all should read this article about Dyandria Darel, who has taken a similar path, and how it worked out for her:

    http://www.villagevoice.com/2006-04-04/news/her-right-to-be-obnoxious/

    The end result: Ms. Darel spent three years in prison, hasn’t seen her child in years, and now that her daughter is an adult, she doesn’t want to see Ms. Darel. All previous court orders against Ms. Darel have been upheld by new courts and new judges time and time again. The California courts can use Ms. Darel’s case as precedent in their rulings in Ms. Bedwell’s case.

    You’ve all been scoffing about the idea of Ms. Bedwell winding up in jail because of her behavior, but I’ll tell you: if it’s happened before, like it did to Ms. Darel, it could happen again, to Ms. Bedwell. Court orders aren’t voluntary; that’s why they call them ORDERS.

  851. marmite

    guesswhatkaren!

    So now you’re saying that I’m Simon and also the the person that put up the Save Aaliyah site – you really are deluded, misinformed and downright dumb.

    Extracts from the article Icky wants you to read.

    “ACS caseworkers are directly involved in giving custody to a pedophile cop!” she booms to the lunch crowd on a recent Monday. Nearly every passerby stares at Darel, who is carrying a sign almost as big as she is. It calls out caseworkers by name and reads: ACS GAVE A PEDOPHILE COP SOLE CUSTODY OF THE CHILD HE SEXUALLY ASSAULTED. But what draws people’s attention isn’t the text so much as the image—an old, blown-up photograph Darel purports to be of her former husband, naked, lying in bed with their young daughter, his hands on his crotch.

    This messy saga started in 1997, when the couple’s child told a doctor her father had touched her genital area, and twists its way through to 2002, when Sturm sent Darel to jail. Records of the proceedings are sealed, but Darel and her attorney made them available to the Voice.

    Flip backward through hundreds of pages to the winter of 1997, when Darel brought her then seven-year-old daughter to Bellevue Hospital “to evaluate her for emotional problems,” as the hospital’s February report states. At the time, Darel and her ex-husband had been separated for two years, duking it out in divorce court in Queens. During an exam at Bellevue, the report says, the child told a doctor that her father had molested her. The doctor reported finding abrasions on the girl’s genital area—”an adhesion of the base of her hymen to the inferior aspect of her labia minora”—consistent with sexual abuse. According to the hospital document, “The child stated to the psychiatrist that her father touched her vagina on multiple occasions.”

    The disclosures didn’t surprise Darel. In the spring of 1995, she says, she returned home one day to find her husband lying in bed with their daughter, naked. “I thought it was disgusting,” she recalls. So she grabbed a camera, she claims, snapping the photograph she now displays in her weekly protests.

    So Darel truly believes her daughter was abused. The seven year old girl told on her father but wasn’t believed, the medical evidence pointed towards abuse but still she lost custody. The ‘father’ then spends the next few years brainwashing his daughter against the mother.

    Thanks for sharing this with us Icky, it just reinforces my belief that sometimes the courts get it very very wrong.

  852. guesswhatkaren!

    I never called you Simon or anyone else maramite. You are the person that created the website, deny it is just fine with me. I have no problem with that. :)

  853. IttyBittyCrookedWormChlamyd-tee

    TO POST #698

    Everyone look at Dustin’s wanna be rap! LMFAO =0

    Just curious…

    Dustin did you do a line of cocaine before you wrote that one or did you mix a line with a bottle of Jack Daniels beforehand?

    Did you wear your favorite Eminem T-shirt while you wrote it too just to help you “spit your flow?”

    You’re still acting like you did in high school. It doesn’t surprise any of us that you are still trying to rap given that your parents never required you to grow up.

    Dustin you aren’t a gangster. You are the whitest person in Auburn— Just give it up. Pick your saggy pants off the floor, tuck your crooked worm back in, put a belt on, change your Eminem T-shirt, you can’t rap (so don’t ever quit cleaning canals for Placer County) and quit raping 3 year old children.

    Dustin it looks like you went crazy on the posting right after “Daddy’s Worm with Logic” went up. Did you not like that all of your lies and manipulation just got ripped to shreds with LOGIC and TRUTH for all to be unbrainwashed Dustin Thompson? Yeah now what are you gong to say? All of us that know you really well know you are spending countless hours debating on what you are going to say next.

    Funny that you won’t even touch on the subject of Daddy’s Worm with Logic.

    You think if you just keep the focus on Connie nobody will see what you truly are.

    You think the best defense is an offense.

    You can’t stand that there are a number of intelligent people that are well and capable of seeing through your thoughts, intents, patterns, and agendas; like most sociopaths and narcissists, they hate when more intelligent people can see through them too.

    Dustin we are all looking forward to you being on the stand in Trial… “UHHH UHHH UHHH It’s baby Einstein’s worm”

    TO THE ENTIRE ITTY BITTY CROOKED WORM CHLAMYD-TEE

    This one word will have you all stupified in silence when the time comes…

    TRIAL

    Then we will all see that Dustin is an Incestuous Child Molester.

    Count on this, the Bedwell’s will make sure that courtroom is packed for anybody who would love to hear all of the witnesses statements that KNOW Dustin Thompson is indeed an Incestuous Child Molester. Sandy Amara couldn’t even trip up Connie’s witnesses she had on the stand when she didn’t have a lawyer and it will be the same story all over again, except this time Connie has a lawyer to rip all your lies to shreds. We are looking forward to trial Thompson’s because we know you are not.

    TO SHELBY POSTING

    Shelby it is apparent that the post about your baby hit a nerve with you. Instead of posting trying to cover for your incestuous child molesting brother it would be best if you dedicated that time to your poor little baby. Kill two birds with one stone and save two children… Save Aaliyah from a child molester and use the time, energy and money on your baby. Just turn Dustin in. Unravel your families lies to save your baby too. Where is your conscience?

    Did anybody else hear that Dustin and his parent’s entire neighborhoods got flyered with saveaaliyah.com flyers? Good now his neighbors will know to keep a close eye on Aaliyah and can keep their children safe from him too.

  854. Icky Etardo

    Of course, Marmite, you completely ignored the later ruling, which has been upheld time and time again:

    “Then, in July 1998, Manhattan Family Court Judge Gloria Sosa-Lintner dropped the accusation against the dad: “The allegations of sexual abuse are dismissed as unproven.” She cited the questionable timing of the disclosures—during a contested divorce—and suggested other possible causes for the girl’s injuries, such as “poor hygiene.” In tossing the accusation the judge wrote: “The medical evidence is inconclusive, the timing of the disclosure suggests an ulterior motive and the child’s statements, by virtue of Respondent Mother’s unhealthy influence, are unreliable.”

    Sosa-Lintner devoted 14 pages of her 18-page decision, dated July 30, 1998, to Darel’s “bizarre” behavior. The judge determined Darel had neglected her daughter by socially isolating her, keeping her out of school too often one year and the next providing an “inadequate” homeschooling program that left the girl “below grade level in every subject except math even though she is above average intelligence.” She found Darel had further neglected her daughter “by creating a paranoid scenario of sexual abuse that has impaired the child’s mental stability.” She singled out Darel’s “erratic, peculiar and at times, threatening” behavior—such as leaving “rambling voice-mail messages for the attorneys on the case at 3 a.m.” And she went to town over reports that Darel had a drinking problem. She wrote that the court “enters a finding by a preponderance of the evidence that the Respondent Mother’s alcohol abuse placed the child in imminent danger.”

    This is the ruling that counts, Marmite, this is the ruling that has stuck, just like Ms. Bedwell’s case. The final outcome will be the same for Ms. Bedwell if she does not cease and desist her defamation campaign.

    “Last October, the New York Appellate Division upheld the 36-month sentence, ruling that Family Court judges can impose consecutive jail terms under state law and that Sturm had “properly exercised the discretion.” It did not address the constitutional issues for procedural reasons; on the First Amendment question, for instance, the court said Darel had failed to raise the issue during the contempt trial.

    This month, her attorney, Robin Yeamans, a California family- and constitutional-law specialist, is filing a petition for a writ of certiorari asking the nation’s top court to hear Darel’s appeal. The writ will hinge on the question of a jury trial, asserting that the U.S. Constitution ensures such due-process protections in Family Court even if New York law does not. “The argument is simple,” Yeamans says. “The U.S. Constitution trumps state law.”

    Yeamans is no stranger to Darel’s plight. The attorney filed a writ of habeas corpus to try to force Darel’s release from Rikers in January 2005 because, as she explains, “her actions amounted to free speech, whether you agree with them or not.” Now, she’s writing this latest writ on principle too. “The idea that anyone who gets ensnared in a Family Court case can find herself in prison for more than six months without a jury trial is abhorrent.”

    Meanwhile, Darel is pursuing her own suit in federal court against Judge Sturm, charging that the jurist incarcerated her “without jurisdiction” and retaliated against her for criticizing her child welfare case. She names ACS officials and her ex-husband as defendants, accusing them of bogus contempt petitions that resulted in her imprisonment. A pro se litigant, Darel wrote the filing herself, arguing the same constitutional claims as her state appeal. She is asking for $200,000 in restitution for the 28 months she spent behind bars. “I’m suing the system for what the system has done to me,” she says.

    Her chances look slim. The U.S. Supreme Court only accepts 1 percent of the thousands of certiorari petitions it receives. And her federal suit has to get around judicial immunity, a tough task in even the best circumstances.

    For Darel, her efforts have personal meaning. Four years have passed since she has seen her daughter, she notes. And she may never get what she really wants—someone to say her daughter was wrongly taken from her almost a decade ago. But maybe her suits will help vindicate her right to fight, she says.

    “Would you walk away and say, ‘The system is corrupt. I give up’? Would you let it go?”

    Please note: when the article says “Her chances look slim” that this article was written in 2006, so that line should be edited to read, “Her case was rejected by the Supreme Court.” If it were accepted, there would have been an update to the story since 2006.

    Again, the outcome: Ms. Darel has not seen her child in years, her child wants nothing to do with her, she spent three years in prison, and everyone thinks she’s insane. Is this how Ms. Bedwell wants her life to turn out? All she needs to do is keep on behaving the same way, and this is how Ms. Bedwell’s story will end.

  855. Telling the Truth lesson for dummies

    YOU SHOULD ALWAYS TELL THE TRUTH BECAUSE…

    The truth always comes out sooner or later.

    If you can’t tell the truth about something maybe you shouldn’t be doing it.

    If you dont tell the truth eventually you will just look like the Thompson’s caught with your pants down.

    Moral of the day… Always tell the Truth.

    Thompson’s you should be learning that lesson here shortly.

  856. had to throw this out there

    Thompson’s claim Connie only has a few supporters.

    Have you been to the petition Thompson’s?

    And once again, this isn’t about Connie, this is about an innocent baby being abused by a bunch of creeps.

  857. Ouch

    Marmite ripped you people to shreds.

    Ouch I heard the tear through my screen!

    Haven’t seen LL Pa Pa around. He must be sitting at home anticipating that lawsuit coming his way.

  858. APD

    So about that APD case…

    Tell us Dustin, if APD doesn’t give a shit that you are forcing oral sex upon your daughter, tell us why on this earth would they give a shit about an unconstitutional court order preventing someone from getting help for an innocent baby?

    M O R O N I C

    Let’s just say for shits sake they looked into it more than just a phone call and one question.

    Unlikely but lets just say so.

    What would that look like?

    We could most likely assume that they could trace IP addresses. Then what? Prove Connie has anything to do with anything. You can’t for one because she doesn’t have anything to do with it and for two you can’t even prove it in court.

    Your daddy looked as ignorant as could be on the stand last time. “NO I have no proof Connie is posting”- a good 18 times or more!

    We all know if you had a shred of evidence good ol Sand-on-her-face-Amara would have had Connie up on the stand in a heartbeat.

    Connie is an honest person and Dustin you know that; You even wrote it down on paper for a Dr Phil exercise. You know putting Connie on the stand would make you all look like the fools you are.

    Putting an intelligent honest person on the stand will do nothing good for the Thompson’s BOVINE SCATOLOGY B.S CASE.

    Can’t trip up the Truth! Sandy Amara knows that no matter how many screwed up angles you come at a witness that is telling the truth you can’t crack them.

    LOOKING FORWARD TO TRIAL

    INCESTOUS CHILD MOLESTER

  859. LoraLee

    If anyone is interested to see with their own eyes and in Dustin’s own handwritting how much he obsesses over Connie go here:

    myspace.com/saveaaliyah

    Free Clue and GuesswhatKaren:

    There has NOT been a trial yet. Connie has been denied that right, SO FAR! But now that she has a lawyer to petition for one, LET’S SEE WHAT WILL HAPPEN NOW!!!!!

    Save Aaliyah!!!

  860. HEY FreeClue

    GOT A FREE LITTLE CLUE FOR YOU

    Think about it…

    YOU ARE GOING TO PRISON AT SOME POINT IN TIME.

    YOU CAN’T KEEP HER QUIET FOR THE REST OF HER LIFE.

    INCEST PERPETRATOR.

    FOOL ANYONE IN THE WORLD RIGHT NOW. THIS FIGHT WILL BE OVER LIKE A LIGHT SWITCH. IT TAKES ONE DISCLOSURE FROM THE CHILD. SHE HAS 99 YEARS AHEAD OF HER TO PROSECUTE YOU. AT ONE TIME OR ANOTHER YOU ARE DONE FOR.

    SHE IS ONE TOUGH COOKIE LIKE HER MOMMY AND WILL COME OUT OF THE ABUSE STRONGER THAN EVER JUST LIKE CONNIE DID.

    PRISON
    PRISON
    PRISON
    PRISON
    PRISON

    CONTEMPLATING MURDERING HER TO KEEP HER QUIET WILL PUT YOU IN PRISON FASTER THAN YOUR LITTLE GAME YOU ARE PLAYING NOW.

    FREE CLUE: GOT YOURSELF IN ONE CLUSTER F*** OF A MESS DIDN’T YOU DUSTIN!!??

    WE CAN’T WAIT FOR THE TRUNK TO SLAM DOWN ON THIS ONE.

  861. GOOGLED-DUSTIN-THOMPSON-this came up

    Profile of the Sociopath
    This website summarizes some of the common features of descriptions of the behavior of sociopaths.

    Glibness and Superficial Charm

    Manipulative and Conning
    They never recognize the rights of others and see their self-serving behaviors as permissible. They appear to be charming, yet are covertly hostile and domineering, seeing their victim as merely an instrument to be used. They may dominate and humiliate their victims.

    Grandiose Sense of Self
    Feels entitled to certain things as “their right.”

    Pathological Lying
    Has no problem lying coolly and easily and it is almost impossible for them to be truthful on a consistent basis. Can create, and get caught up in, a complex belief about their own powers and abilities. Extremely convincing and even able to pass lie detector tests.

    Lack of Remorse, Shame or Guilt
    A deep seated rage, which is split off and repressed, is at their core. Does not see others around them as people, but only as targets and opportunities. Instead of friends, they have victims and accomplices who end up as victims. The end always justifies the means and they let nothing stand in their way.

    Shallow Emotions
    When they show what seems to be warmth, joy, love and compassion it is more feigned than experienced and serves an ulterior motive. Outraged by insignificant matters, yet remaining unmoved and cold by what would upset a normal person. Since they are not genuine, neither are their promises.

    Incapacity for Love

    Need for Stimulation
    Living on the edge. Verbal outbursts and physical punishments are normal. Promiscuity and gambling are common.

    Callousness/Lack of Empathy
    Unable to empathize with the pain of their victims, having only contempt for others’ feelings of distress and readily taking advantage of them.

    Poor Behavioral Controls/Impulsive Nature
    Rage and abuse, alternating with small expressions of love and approval produce an addictive cycle for abuser and abused, as well as creating hopelessness in the victim. Believe they are all-powerful, all-knowing, entitled to every wish, no sense of personal boundaries, no concern for their impact on others.

    Early Behavior Problems/Juvenile Delinquency
    Usually has a history of behavioral and academic difficulties, yet “gets by” by conning others. Problems in making and keeping friends; aberrant behaviors such as cruelty to people or animals, stealing, etc.

    Irresponsibility/Unreliability
    Not concerned about wrecking others’ lives and dreams. Oblivious or indifferent to the devastation they cause. Does not accept blame themselves, but blames others, even for acts they obviously committed.

    Promiscuous Sexual Behavior/Infidelity
    Promiscuity, child sexual abuse, rape and sexual acting out of all sorts.

    Lack of Realistic Life Plan/Parasitic Lifestyle
    Tends to move around a lot or makes all encompassing promises for the future, poor work ethic but exploits others effectively.

    Criminal or Entrepreneurial Versatility
    Changes their image as needed to avoid prosecution. Changes life story readily.

    ——————————————————————————–

    Other Related Qualities:

    Contemptuous of those who seek to understand them
    Does not perceive that anything is wrong with them
    Authoritarian
    Secretive
    Paranoid
    Only rarely in difficulty with the law, but seeks out situations where their tyrannical behavior will be tolerated, condoned, or admired
    Conventional appearance
    Goal of enslavement of their victim(s)
    Exercises despotic control over every aspect of the victim’s life
    Has an emotional need to justify their crimes and therefore needs their victim’s affirmation (respect, gratitude and love)
    Ultimate goal is the creation of a willing victim
    Incapable of real human attachment to another
    Unable to feel remorse or guilt
    Extreme narcissism and grandiose
    May state readily that their goal is to rule the world

    (The above traits are based on the psychopathy checklists of H. Cleckley and R. Hare.)

    ——————————————————————————–

    NOTE: In the 1830′s this disorder was called “moral insanity.” By 1900 it was changed to “psychopathic personality.” More recently it has been termed “antisocial personality disorder” in the DSM-III and DSM-IV. Some critics have complained that, in the attempt to rely only on ‘objective’ criteria, the DSM has broadened the concept to include too many individuals. The APD category includes people who commit illegal, immoral or self-serving acts for a variety of reasons and are not necessarily psychopaths.

    ——————————————————————————–

    DSM-IV Definition

    Antisocial personality disorder is characterized by a lack of regard for the moral or legal standards in the local culture. There is a marked inability to get along with others or abide by societal rules. Individuals with this disorder are sometimes called psychopaths or sociopaths.

    Diagnostic Criteria (DSM-IV)

    1. Since the age of fifteen there has been a disregard for and violation of the right’s of others, those right’s considered normal by the local culture, as indicated by at least three of the following:
    A. Repeated acts that could lead to arrest.
    B. Conning for pleasure or profit, repeated lying, or the use of aliases.
    C. Failure to plan ahead or being impulsive.
    D. Repeated assaults on others.
    E. Reckless when it comes to their or others safety.
    F. Poor work behavior or failure to honor financial obligations.
    G. Rationalizing the pain they inflict on others.

    2. At least eighteen years in age.

    3. Evidence of a Conduct Disorder, with its onset before the age of fifteen.

    4. Symptoms not due to another mental disorder.

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    Antisocial Personality Disorder Overview (Written by Derek Wood, RN, BSN, PhD Candidate)

    Antisocial Personality Disorder results in what is commonly known as a Sociopath. The criteria for this disorder require an ongoing disregard for the rights of others, since the age of 15 years. Some examples of this disregard are reckless disregard for the safety of themselves or others, failure to conform to social norms with respect to lawful behaviors, deceitfulness such as repeated lying or deceit for personal profit or pleasure, and lack of remorse for actions that hurt other people in any way. Additionally, they must have evidenced a Conduct Disorder before the age of 15 years, and must be at least 18 years old to receive this diagnosis.

    People with this disorder appear to be charming at times, and make relationships, but to them, these are relationships in name only. They are ended whenever necessary or when it suits them, and the relationships are without depth or meaning, including marriages. They seem to have an innate ability to find the weakness in people, and are ready to use these weaknesses to their own ends through deceit, manipulation, or intimidation, and gain pleasure from doing so.

    They appear to be incapable of any true emotions, from love to shame to guilt. They are quick to anger, but just as quick to let it go, without holding grudges. No matter what emotion they state they have, it has no bearing on their future actions or attitudes.

    They rarely are able to have jobs that last for any length of time, as they become easily bored, instead needing constant change. They live for the moment, forgetting the past, and not planning the future, not thinking ahead what consequences their actions will have. They want immediate rewards and gratification. There currently is no form of psychotherapy that works with those with antisocial personality disorder, as those with this disorder have no desire to change themselves, which is a prerequisite. No medication is available either. The only treatment is the prevention of the disorder in the early stages, when a child first begins to show the symptoms of conduct disorder.

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    THE PSYCHOPATH NEXT DOOR (Source: http://chericola57.tripod.com/infinite.html)

    Psychopath. We hear the word and images of Bernardo, Manson and Dahmer pop into our heads; no doubt Ted Bundy too. But they’re the bottom of the barrel — most of the two million psychopaths in North America aren’t murderers. They’re our friends, lovers and co-workers. They’re outgoing and persuasive, dazzling you with charm and flattery. Often you aren’t even aware they’ve taken you for a ride — until it’s too late.

    Psychopaths exhibit a Jekyll and Hyde personality. “They play a part so they can get what they want,” says Dr. Sheila Willson, a Toronto psychologist who has helped victims of psychopaths. The guy who showers a woman with excessive attention is much more capable of getting her to lend him money, and to put up with him when he strays. The new employee who gains her co-workers’ trust has more access to their chequebooks. And so on. Psychopaths have no conscience and their only goal is self-gratification. Many of us have been their victims — at work, through friendships or relationships — and not one of us can say, “a psychopath could never fool me.”

    Think you can spot one? Think again. In general, psychopaths aren’t the product of broken homes or the casualties of a materialistic society. Rather they come from all walks of life and there is little evidence that their upbringing affects them. Elements of a psychopath’s personality first become evident at a very early age, due to biological or genetic factors. Explains Michael Seto, a psychologist at the Centre for Addiction and Mental health in Toronto, by the time that a person hits their late teens, the disorder is almost certainly permanent. Although many clinicians use the terms psychopath and sociopath interchangeably, writes psychopath expert Robert Hare on his book ‘Without Conscience’, a sociopath’s criminal behavior is shaped by social forces and is the result of a dysfunctional environment.

    Psychopaths have only a shallow range of emotions and lack guilt, says Hare. They often see themselves as victims, and lack remorse or the ability to empathize with others. “Psychopaths play on the fact that most of us are trusting and forgiving people,” adds Seto. The warning signs are always there; it’s just difficult to see them because once we trust someone, the friendship becomes a blinder.

    Even lovers get taken for a ride by psychopaths. For a psychopath, a romantic relationship is just another opportunity to find a trusting partner who will buy into the lies. It’s primarily why a psychopath rarely stays in a relationship for the long term, and often is involved with three or four partners at once, says Willson. To a psychopath, everything about a relationship is a game. Willson refers to the movie ‘Sliding Doors’ to illustrate her point. In the film, the main character comes home early after just having been fired from her job. Only moments ago, her boyfriend has let another woman out the front door. But in a matter of minutes he is the attentive and concerned boyfriend, taking her out to dinner and devoting the entire night to comforting her. All the while he’s planning to leave the next day on a trip with the other woman.

    The boyfriend displays typical psychopathic characteristics because he falsely displays deep emotion toward the relationship, says Willson. In reality, he’s less concerned with his girlfriend’s depression than with making sure she’s clueless about the other woman’s existence. In the romance department, psychopaths have an ability to gain your affection quickly, disarming you with words, intriguing you with grandiose plans. If they cheat you’ll forgive them, and one day when they’ve gone too far, they’ll leave you with a broken heart (and an empty wallet). By then they’ll have a new player for their game.

    The problem with their game is that we don’t often play by their rules. Where we might occasionally tell a white lie, a psychopath’s lying is compulsive. Most of us experience some degree of guilt about lying, preventing us from exhibiting such behavior on a regular basis. “Psychopaths don’t discriminate who it is they lie to or cheat,” says Seto. “There’s no distinction between friend, family and sucker.”

    No one wants to be the sucker, so how do we prevent ourselves from becoming close friends or getting into a relationship with a psychopath? It’s really almost impossible, say Seto and Willson. Unfortunately, laments Seto, one way is to become more suspicious and less trusting of others. Our tendency is to forgive when we catch a loved one in a lie. “Psychopaths play on this fact,” he says. “However, I’m certainly not advocating a world where if someone lies once or twice, you never speak to them again.” What you can do is look at how often someone lies and how they react when caught. Psychopaths will lie over and over again, and where other people would sincerely apologize, a psychopath may apologize but won’t stop.

    Psychopaths also tend to switch jobs as frequently as they switch partners, mainly because they don’t have the qualities to maintain a job for the long haul. Their performance is generally erratic, with chronic absences, misuse of company resources and failed commitments. Often they aren’t even qualified for the job and use fake credentials to get it. Seto talks of a patient who would get marketing jobs based on his image; he was a presentable and charming man who layered his conversations with educational and occupational references. But it became evident that the man hadn’t a clue what he was talking about, and was unable to hold down a job.

    How do you make sure you don’t get fooled when you’re hiring someone to baby-sit your child or for any other job? Hire based on reputation and not image, says Willson. Check references thoroughly. Psychopaths tend to give vague and inconsistent replies. Of course the best way to solve this problem would be to cure psychopaths of their ‘illness.’ But there’s no recipe for treating them, say psychiatrists. Today’s traditional methods of psychotherapy (psychoanalysis, group and one-on-one therapy) and drug treatments have failed. Therapy is more likely to work when an individual admits there’s a problem and wants to change. The common problem with psychopaths, says Sets, “Is they don’t see a problem with their behavior.”

    Psychopaths don’t seek therapy willingly, says Seto. Rather, they’re pushed into it by a desperate relative or by a court order. To a psychopath, a therapist is just one more person who must be conned, and the psychopath plays the part right until the therapist is convinced of his or her ‘rehabilitation.’

    Even though we can’t treat psychopaths effectively with therapy, it doesn’t mean we can’t protect ourselves, writes Hare. Willson agrees, citing the most important factor in keeping psychopaths at bay is to know your vulnerabilities. We need to “realize our own potential and maximize our strengths” so that our insecurities don’t overcome us. Because, she says, a psychopath is a chameleon who becomes “an image of what you haven’t done for yourself.” Over time, she says, “their appearance of perfection will begin to crack,” but by that time you will have been emotionally and perhaps financially scathed. There comes a time when you realize there’s no point in searching for answers; the only thing is to move on.

    Taken in part from MW — By Caroline Konrad — September 1999

    THE MALIGNANT PERSONALITY:

    These people are mentally ill and extremely dangerous! The following precautions will help to protect you from the destructive acts of which they are capable.

    First, to recognize them, keep the following guidelines in mind.

    (1) They are habitual liars. They seem incapable of either knowing or telling the truth about anything.

    (2) They are egotistical to the point of narcissism. They really believe they are set apart from the rest of humanity by some special grace.

    (3) They scapegoat; they are incapable of either having the insight or willingness to accept responsibility for anything they do. Whatever the problem, it is always someone else’s fault.

    (4) They are remorselessly vindictive when thwarted or exposed.

    (5) Genuine religious, moral, or other values play no part in their lives. They have no empathy for others and are capable of violence. Under older psychological terminology, they fall into the category of psychopath or sociopath, but unlike the typical psychopath, their behavior is masked by a superficial social facade.

    If you have come into conflict with such a person or persons, do the following immediately!

    (1) Notify your friends and relatives of what has happened.

    Do not be vague. Name names, and specify dates and circumstances. Identify witnesses if possible and provide supporting documentation if any is available.

    (2) Inform the police. The police will do nothing with this information except to keep it on file, since they are powerless to act until a crime has been committed. Unfortunately, that often is usually too late for the victim. Nevertheless, place the information in their hands.

    Obviously, if you are assaulted or threatened before witnesses, you can get a restraining order, but those are palliative at best.

    (3) Local law enforcement agencies are usually under pressure if wealthy or politically powerful individuals are involved, so include state and federal agencies as well and tell the locals that you have. In my own experience, one agency that can help in a pinch is the Criminal Investigation Division of the Internal Revenue Service or (in Canada) Victims Services at your local police unit. It is not easy to think of the IRS as a potential friend, but a Swedish study showed that malignant types (the Swedes called them bullies) usually commit some felony or other by the age of twenty. If the family is wealthy, the fact may never come to light, but many felonies involve tax evasion, and in such cases, the IRS is interested indeed. If large amounts of money are involved, the IRS may solve all your problems for you. For obvious reasons the Drug Enforcement Agency may also be an appropriate agency to approach. The FBI is an important agency to contact, because although the FBI does not have jurisdiction over murder or assault, if informed, they do have an active interest in any other law enforcement agencies that do not follow through with an honest investigation and prosecution should a murder occur. Civil rights are involved at that point. No local crooked lawyer, judge, or corrupt police official wants to be within a country mile if that comes to light! It is in such cases that wealthy psychopaths discover just how firm the “friends” they count on to cover up for them really are! Even some of the drug cartel biggies will scuttle for cover if someone picks up the brick their thugs hide under. Exposure is bad for business.

    (4) Make sure that several of your friends have the information in the event something happens to you. That way, an appropriate investigation will follow if you are harmed. Don’t tell other people who has the information, because then something bad could happen to them as well. Instruct friends to take such an incident to the newspapers and other media.

    If you are dealing with someone who has considerable money, you must realize that they probably won’t try to harm you themselves, they will contract with someone to make the hit. The malignant type is a coward and will not expose himself or herself to personal danger if he or she can avoid it.
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    Update: A thorough article.
    I, the creator of this site, am not a psychologist and no special expertise in the subject. I created the site as a public service, because no similar site existed in 2003. I occasionally get sad calls and emails. I urge you to consult either a clinical psychologist or the police depending on the problem you face, and wish you good luck.

  862. Free clue!!!

    Dummies said: AALIYAH IS GOING TO TELL ON YOU AGAIN AND THIS TIME IT WON’T BE HER MOM SHE TELLS. IT WILL BE HER TEACHER OR SOMEONE WTH A CONSCIENCE THAT WILL REPORT ALL OF YOU.

    I don’t believe Aaliyah is being abused, but for the sake of your point, if this is the case, then why would Connie position herself to to have such limited and restricted access to her daughter by telling the courts to basically ef off? It appears the above is an acknowledgment the Bedwell camp KNOWS the courts have ruled their ‘evidence’ was fabricated thus inadmissable, and any new evidence must come from an unbiased away from the inner circle source. If that’s the case, again, what point does it serve Connie and her supporters rant, rave, and have a continuous temper tantrum online?

    IF Connie is really in the top 3rd of intelligence in the country, she certainly doesn’t have the smarts to see exactly where this took Ms. Darel, and Connies ‘copying’ her path.

    Why not just let the unbiased out of the inner circle source report abuse, if abuse is occuring, or is your ‘game’ to try and influence outside sources by the information you post online? Sounds like that’s the game plan to me, but like it did not work for Ms. Darel, it is NOT going to work for Connie regardless of how long and how loud you scream.

  863. SOCIOPATH:DUSTIN THOMPSON

    Superficial charm and good intelligence

    Absence of delusions and other signs of irrational thinking

    Absence of nervousness or psychoneurotic manifestations

    Unreliability

    Untruthfulness and insincerity

    Lack of remorse and shame

    Inadequately motivated antisocial behavior

    Poor judgment and failure to learn by experience

    Pathologic egocentricity and incapacity for love

    General poverty in major affective reactions

    Specific loss of insight

    Unresponsiveness in general interpersonal relations

    Fantastic and uninviting behavior with drink and sometimes without

    Suicide threats rarely carried out

    Sex life impersonal, trivial, and poorly integrated

    Failure to follow any life plan.

  864. Free clue!!!

    Icky Etardo
    July 21st, 2009 at 4:12 pm *********

    Icky, thank you for the excellent post! Couldn’t have said it better. TY!!!

  865. KarenCCCC

    Guesswhat, I definitely wouldn’t stop if Connie went to jail. I definitely won’t stop until she gets to see her daughter, but YES, I definitely would stop if she asked me to. Nothing I say or do has ANYTHING to do with how her case is going. I wish I had the power you think I do. And I’m sure the Thompson’s are happy not to see Connie’s face, but I’m sure they hate the fact that they were exposed for what they are.

  866. Free clue!!!

    “Marmite” Perhaps you should have read a little further into the article.

    Excerpt from page 5:

    During the 2002 contempt trial, Darel’s daughter, then 12 and living with her father, said she wanted to stay with her dad. On the witness stand, according to court transcripts, the pre-teen recanted her claim of sexual abuse and blamed her mother for putting her up to her past disclosures. “I went along with it ’cause I just wanted to make her happy,” the girl testified.

    Also from page 5:

    In her 14-page decision, the judge blasted Darel not only for “her flagrant disregard for the court system,” but found “she has acted with total disre- gard for the child’s emotional well- being.” Sturm pointed out that, during in-chambers interviews, the daughter had begged to have a “normal life.”

    It was at this time, the mothers war of words and accusations had already been going on 5 full years! And at the same time, the then 12 year old daughter was no longer required to have ANY contact with her mother. (the article, written in 2006, had stated Ms. Darel had not had contact with her then 16 year old daugther for 4 years.) It’s now 2009, and 7 years since this mother had any contact with her now adult daughter, who likely will not ever have contact with her mother- based on her mothers behavior and blatent disrespect for the father and childs wishes.

    IS THIS WHAT CONNIE WANTS? IF SO, KEEP CHISELING AWAY AT WHAT LITTLE ACCESS YOU HAVE TO YOUR DAUGHTER CONNIE. DO YOU SEE ANY CORRELATION BETWEEN YOURSELF AND MS. DAREL? MANY OF US ON THE OUTSIDE READING AND SEEING THIS ONLINE DO!!!

    Given the precedence already set in the courts, I think those handling your case will clearly see it as well.

  867. I SEE DUMB PEOPLE

    Wow, thanks for proving how corrupt family court really is.
    Notice how almost everyone supported the mom and think Dad’s a sick puppy ?
    They don’t care what the court or experts say.
    They care about what they can see with their own eyes.
    Daddy in bed with his daughter holding his crotch. Aaliyah describing how daddy’s yucky worm makes her cough-gag.
    I want to thank Connie for not giving up and not giving in.
    Unfortunately, it’s gonna take cases like this being exposed to stop the corruption.

  868. Hey Free Spew

    Connie doesn’t hate Dustin she hates his child molesting abusive behavior. She doesn’t believe in hating people even sick people such as the Thompson’s. You don’t think she could harm Dustin in so many vindictive ways if that was who she was? You can’t convince anyone of us that she is vindictive. It doesn’t fit her actions she has taken towards any of Dustin’s behavior.

    You say she hates Dustin more than loving her child? You sound like a very distorted Thompson Free Spew. Connie hates Dustin’s child molesting ways that are harming her child permenantly. Connie loves her child enough to stand and fight for the truth to protect her child regardless of punishment. That is love.

    Thompson’s don’t have a clue what love is. Love isn’t lying for a child molester (even if it’s your own blood) that is harming an innocent baby. Love isn’t molesting a baby. Love isn’t keeping a baby away from her mother that she desperately needs in her life. Love isn’t covering the truth. Love isn’t hitting, slapping, flicking, spitting, drugging, violating, controlling and threatening an innocent baby. Love isn’t touching a baby’s pee pee. Love isn’t forcing your penis in a child’s mouth. Love isn’t enabling sin. Love isn’t just a word it is an action. You Thompson’s can tell Aaliyah you love her all you want, she knows you don’t. Your actions speak louder than your words to her.

    Dustin wouldn’t be so screwed up and begging for Connie’s love if his twisted parents would have given him true love instead of abuse when he was younger. Dustin doesn’t know what love is he was never shown by his parents. Telling Dustin you love him right after you abused him isn’t love. Doing the same to Aaliyah is not love.

    Connie treated Dustin better than his parents ever had so he became obsessed with her. That’s why he claims he needs her and can’t be without her in his own handwriting. Abusers abuse the people they care about the most; It’s the only way they were shown to love someone. Dave and Dina only one can wonder what you both did to Dustin to screw him up like you did? Did you molest him Dave? We know you beat him and taught him to lie. Now Dustin is hurting his child because you sick people taught him how to. Is that why you cover for him Dave and Dina? Is it because your guilt of your own behavior makes you feel the need to cover for the monster you created.

    Why do you think Casey Anthony’s mother is sticking so hard to her lies and denial? Her mother just choked Casey before she killed her grandchild. She taught her how to choke and abuse her child.

    Is that why you cover for Dustin? Because one of you molested him? We know you beat the crap out of him, did you molest him too? Is that why all of you Thompson’s are sticking so hard to your lies and denial?

    Cover, cover, cover. It’s a sad story that people like the Thompson’s and Anthony’s won’t get themselves help.

  869. Thought I'd share

    A woman from Italy said Aaliyah spoke to her in her dream. The lady said in the dream Aaliyah told her “in her cute little voice, ‘Don’t worry I see angels.’”

  870. LoraLee

    We can do this all day, I hope you all read the whole article on Dyandira Darel:

    Last October, the New York Appellate Division upheld the 36-month sentence, ruling that Family Court judges can impose consecutive jail terms under state law and that Sturm had “properly exercised the discretion.” It did not address the constitutional issues for procedural reasons; on the First Amendment question, for instance, the court said Darel had failed to raise the issue during the contempt trial.

    This month, her attorney, Robin Yeamans, a California family- and constitutional-law specialist, is filing a petition for a writ of certiorari asking the nation’s top court to hear Darel’s appeal. The writ will hinge on the question of a jury trial, asserting that the U.S. Constitution ensures such due-process protections in Family Court even if New York law does not. “The argument is simple,” Yeamans says. “The U.S. Constitution trumps state law.”

    Yeamans is no stranger to Darel’s plight. The attorney filed a writ of habeas corpus to try to force Darel’s release from Rikers in January 2005 because, as she explains, “her actions amounted to free speech, whether you agree with them or not.” Now, she’s writing this latest writ on principle too. “The idea that anyone who gets ensnared in a Family Court case can find herself in prison for more than six months without a jury trial is abhorrent.”

  871. Icky Etardo

    Yes, Loralei, and if Yeaman’s motions had worked, then Ms. Darel would have won a case, except it didn’t, or there would have been an update. That article was written in 2006, and Yeaman has not won any of Darel’s desperate bids for money or attention.

    The outcome: Ms. Darel hasn’t seen her child in at least 7 years now, she spent 3 years in prison, her child doesn’t want to see her, and everyone thinks she’s insane. It doesn’t matter how many defense attorneys think it’s “abhorrent”, it’s still the FACT and also THE WAY MS. BEDWELL’S CASE WILL TURN OUT if she doesn’t change.

    Personally I would rather have access to my child than be a bitter, crazy person picketing in front of the family court like Ms. Darel, losing endless court cases about “my rights” while missing my child’s entire life. You can complain about “your rights” all you want, but it obviously won’t get you your kid back, and it also won’t get you your LIFE back.

    I guess some people prefer vengeance over motherhood. My choice would be motherhood and my child; obviously Ms. Darel and Ms. Bedwell would choose “their rights” over their children.

    I also love how this thread comes alive with irrelevant spam whenever a post hits too close to home. It’s the internet version of sticking one’s fingers in one’s ears and shouting “Lalala, I can’t hear you!” and I think it’s HILARIOUS. This is sooooo entertaining!

  872. thinkagain

    When will you people realize that not one member of the Thompson family has posted anything on the internet regarding this case. There are several people who do and do not know the Thompsons who are posting in defense of an innocent man, who has been subjected to an astonishing barrage of vindictive charcter assasination on the net. It is my understanding that since they are the ones who filed for the restraining order, they are the ones respecting it and not posting anything regarding this case. Make sense so far?. Maybe the Bedwells should think of all of the people they have burned in the past as the ones who are posting unfavorably against the their vindictive campaign. Maybe they should look to members of their own family that they have alientated as the posters. So again, for the record,the Thompsons are not, and have not posted on a single post on any site regarding this case and they never will. I am sure they read all this garbage have wanted to post several times over but I am certain they have not. Again, you people should think real hard about the people in your own lives that you have burned or alienated as the one’s who would benefit from trashing the Bedwell family campaign. The Thompsons have no reason to post, they have 100% custody, what is the point? It would certainly not be in the best interest of the child or anybody for the Thompsons to get into an internet fight about a custody case when it is already being handled in a court of law. So I will repeat it one more time, it is not the Thompsons who are posting.

  873. INCESTUOUS CHILD MOLESTER

    DADDY”S WORM WITH LOGIC
    July 4th, 2009 at 11:35 am
    DADDY’S WORM

    The pedophile clan wants to try to convince anybody they can that “Daddy’s Worm” is anything but Dustin’s penis. So right here we will rip his “theories” to shreds with this thing called LOGIC.

    (Think slowly about each point before you move on to the next point.)

    1) Dustin wants you all to believe the child is speaking of Baby Einstein’s worm:

    The child is clearly speaking of 3 types of worms throughout the video. Baby Einstein’s worm is the first one she addresses which she states is green and orange. Anyone that has seen B. E. knows that is correct and accurate. The child then adresses “Daddy’s worm” which tastes “Yucky” and makes her cough, he has to wipe her mouth with like a napkin because of “Daddy’s worm” not B. E.’s worm. She states she sometimes gets mad at daddy and then further describes why. At the end she describes how daddy takes her to the store to see worms. She is very descriptive and very clear it is “daddy’s worm” not worm’s from the store. Daddy thinks he is so smart and tried to confuse her by taking her to the store to see worms. Too bad for him that his child is more intelligent than him. The child then concludes she doesn’t like ANY of the worms. She gives the infamous worm an owner, her Daddy. She gives Baby Einstein’s worm an owner B. E., and she tells us where the other worms are that daddy made her go see…at the store.
    She addresses “daddy’s worm’s” size. She is holding her little baby doll in her arms and says its giant like her baby. She says she tried to see him, he tries to look big.
    “he tries to look big” possibly like an errection? She says “she tried to see him” so apparently it was dark. She says “I tell daddy’s worm dont do that, its yucky, dont touch my mouth worm” And that she has to tell him “dont stop.” It makes her choke and cry. Then tells him “daddy get it off, he has to wipe it off with like a napkin.” This child descibed perfectly the act of oral sex in complete sequencial order entirely on her own. “Daddy’s worm” does it to her. Then she states “daddy wants to have a baby.”

    2) The Child Molester wants you to believe his Worm is an earth worm:

    The child is very descriptive and clear. She described it’s size and it is not the size of an earth worm. Why would Daddy be sticking earth worms in her mouth anyway? That is abuse in itself. If you paid attention in the first of his theories it clearly debunks this theory of the child molesters too.

    3) The Child molester wants you to believe that she is speaking of gummy worms:

    Listen to the child!! She tells you Baby Einstein’s worm is green and orange, not “Daddy’s worm.” Remember she tells you about “daddy’s worm” that she “tried to see him.” It’s kind of hard to see a worm that is getting shoved down your throat in the dark that makes you choke and cry. “It tries to look big” so we know it changes sizes. Plus, kids love gummy worms. “Daddy’s worm” is “yucky,” she has to tell it “dont stop” and then she states “daddy wants a baby”!! That is no gummy worm! Why would a child think her daddy wants a baby with her? Think about it. Why would she have to tell a worm that she doesn’t like, “Dont stop”?

    4) The Wormy Daddy wants you to believe the mother coached her:

    Coaching is leading. It is the same as leading a witness with the answer in the question just like the rules in a courtroom. First of all nobody is even talking about the subject of “Daddy’s worm” in the video but ONLY the child entirely on her own. The only question asked is “What does the worm look like? There was nothing suggesting or leading in it. For those of you who do not understand what coaching is, a coaching example would be: Does the worm look like a banana? That would be suggesting an answer in the question. None of which ever happens throughout the entire 27 minutes of the “Daddy’s Worm” Video. The Mother and Aunt aren’t even talking. The child is insisting on telling them why she doesn’t want to go to bed. Any good Psychologist knows that children relate everything to their own knowledge and the world as they know it. They relate their own problems to their dolls having the same problems. This child in the video tells us that “Daddy’s worm makes her sick and cry and it makes her teddy bear sick and cry too.” She tells us that both her and her doll “don’t wants to go to bed right now.” At 2 1/2 she wouldn’t know the word penis instead describes it the best way she knows how “Daddy’s worm.” Don’t forget also there were previous reports made to CPS by others than the mother of the child describing “daddy’s worm” as having hair like the hair on her head, it having one eye, and hurting her tongue. There are previous reports and restraining orders filed because “daddy hurts her pee pee” before she ever talked about daddy’s worm in her mouth.

    Child molesters only progress in the sick things they experiment on children. You can see the progression throughout this child’s statements and behaviors. You can only imagine what he is doing to her since he has her alone for a year.

    It is very clear to any attentive parent that it is impossible to coach a 2 1/2 year old child to talk for 27 minutes straight relating everything she says to her dolls. Not one time throughout the entire video does she ask what mommy what did you say? The Inotation (rise and fall of ones pitch) is clear this child is speaking of her own valition. Her inotation does not rise like she is questioning each statement like a coached child would sound like. This child is clearly uncoached.
    Also it is pitch dark in the room. You can tell that they have to turn on a glowing bear in order to see. Also the infared is on in order to view the video. There is a tremendous amount of detail in the video alone to prove this child was indeed not coached or prompted in any way to say what she is describing about her “Daddy’s Worm”.

    Help stop this Child Molester!

    DUSTIN THIS SLAMMED YOUR ASS! PRINT THIS UP FOR COURT! BRING IT TO TRIAL.

    INCESTUOUS CHILD MOLESTER.

  874. INCESTUOUS CHILD MOLESTER

    Anyone that has seen that video of the baby speaking of Dustin Thompson’s worm and isn’t throwing a fit belongs in prison with that sick pervert himself.

  875. Hey Free Spew

    Why would you care one way or another if Connie had a job or not?

    Because you are the abusive child molester yourself? Abusers always want control over the victims money. Why would you care about Connie’s income?

    You want to make her pay you child support for you to go spend at the 160 bar in Auburn and on your cocaine habit.

    Why would Connie need to work when she has a real man to take care of her?

    Dustin used to try to isolate Connie in the house and now he is screaming get a job! lol

    John David Thompson doesn’t let Dina out of the house to work. He keeps her isolated. Dustin did the same thing to Connie. Now screams get a job so he can use the money for alcohol and drugs!

    You should be a comedian Dustin. Forget all of this rapping Eminem stuff. You are one funny s.o.b.

    How’s your worm? Did you ever go get your chlamydia treated?

    Did you find someone your own age yet to perform oral sex on you? Why don’t you just ask your mother? I don’t think she would mind, it seems you all like to keep it in the family.

  876. Where can I get flyers?

    If someone wanted to help pass out flyers how can they obtain one? I can copy them myself, but I would like to help in other areas of the community. Is there a direct link to download a printable version of the flyer? thx.

  877. marmite

    The deeper I dig the more sickened I get. Children like Aaliyah are being placed with abusers by the courts, LE and CPS. It’s happening all the time

    Check this site out…

    http://www.mothers-of-lost-children.com/MOLC_stories.htm

    BRIEF SUMMARIES FROM TRUE ACCOUNTS

    Dr. Neustein had divorced her husband, Ozzie Orbach, M.D., in 1983. They had one daughter, Sherry, who continued to live in her mother’s sole custody for three years after the divorce.

    After an eyewitness report in 1986 that the father had allegedly sexually abused Sherry, the Child Protection system swung rapidly into action – not against the father, but against the mother, Dr. Neustein.

    Sherry, was forcibly removed from her mother’s home, without the legally required proceedings, in October 1986. Dr. Neustein was barred from all contact with her daughter in 1989.

    In Sacramento County, Jack told countless therapists, teachers, doctors, social workers, investigators, and adult friends of the family that he was being raped by his father. Over 40 CPS reports were made by mandated reporters. Jack even called 911 from his father’s house to beg the police to come and rescue him. He was not rescued. Jack endured 7 long years of re-victimization. He was alternately placed with, and removed from, his father’s custody.

    His nurturing, non-abusive mother finally died of cancer and the CPS social worker recommended that Jack, age 9, live with his father. The juvenile court referee agreed and placed Jack with his documented alcoholic molester father.

    EXAMPLES OF EVIDENCE USED AGAINST MOTHERS:

    “When my daughter began to tell me about the sexual abuse, I grabbed a tape recorder and taped her conversation. She was crying and I urged her to be a brave girl and talk about what her daddy did to her so we could get help. She told all about the abuse. I gave the tape to the police. Family law court said I had put thoughts in her head and psychologically abused her because she was crying. They forced her to live full time with her father and I have to pay $70 to see her.”

    “My 2 year old son said his dad put his ‘penie’ in his bottom. He couldn’t talk very well. He wouldn’t let me look at him to see if he had any injuries. So I waited until he was asleep, and took a picture of his poor little bottom. You could even see where it was torn. I took the picture to the authorities. CPS said I was the one who was wrong, because it was an obscene photograph. He was first put in the custody of the state, and then they put him in the custody of his dad. I wasn’t even allowed to see him at all for nearly half a year.”

  878. Free clue!!!

    Icky Etardo
    July 23rd, 2009 at 11:20 am

    I also love how this thread comes alive with irrelevant spam whenever a post hits too close to home. It’s the internet version of sticking one’s fingers in one’s ears and shouting “Lalala, I can’t hear you!” and I think it’s HILARIOUS. This is sooooo entertaining!
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    You noticed that pattern too? It’s almost like bury the posts which MAKE SENSE and attack, attack, attack, because the Bedwell camp can’t come up with anything logical to prove this isn’t solely about Connies bitter hatred towards her daughters father.

    I don’t find it entertaining, I find it incredibly sad a mother i