Save Baby Aaliyah
The case of Aaliyah Bedwell:
SaveAaliyah.com – read about it here. It is not a hoax, this is a real girl, with a real mother trying to protect her daughter.
Write the District Attorney of Placer County, California:
Bradford R. Fenocchio
Placer County District Attorney
10810 Justice Center Drive Suite #240
Roseville, CA 95678
(916) 543-8000
(916) 543-2550 fax
bfenocch@placer.ca.gov
Date:
Mr. Fenocchio,
I am writing you to express my concern about your apparent lack of attention in a case involving the sexual abuse of a three year old girl named Aaliyah Bedwell. The video seen many places on the internet titled “Daddy’s Worm” is disturbing to say the least. What’s more disturbing is the way this case has been handled by your office. You are the highest Law Enforcement Official in Placer County, California. You have the responsibility to protect this child when the allegation of sexual abuse is brought to your attention, which this was over eight months ago by all accounts.
The suspect in this case has an attorney named Mrs. Sandra Amara, whose husband is also a judge. If Judge Dirk Amara is meddling in this case, it is also your duty to investigate him. Judge Frances Kearney, removed herself from this case, and stipulated that a judge from a different county would hear it. Which is a step in the right direction, however, it does not absolve you of your responsibility of investigating credible allegations of serious violent sexual crimes like this one.
Mr. Fenocchio, it is paramount for the well being of children in your county that you prosecute those suspected of child sexual abuse to the fullest extent of the law without exception. Anything else is unacceptable for a District Attorney. Protect this child, prosecute the offender, and uphold the laws of your state. These are all part of your responsibility as the District Attorney of Placer County, California. You need to take this very seriously before this child is beyond the help and protection she deserves.
Sincerely,
Your name
City, State
Read here about how broken the Placer County, California Superior Court really is:
http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/43819/placer_county_judicial_system.html?cat=17
Blogger News Network Update:
Aaliyah Bedwell – Accused’s Lawyer Plays Dirty
May 14th, 2009 at 6:46 am
Bubba we need to help this child, I myself am a abused child and this poor baby girl is being abused in the worst way! We need to pull together, and get this son of a bitch.
This is awfull. My God please save this child!! This is so sad now she has been pulled out of her home and now with strangers. I hope she is home with here mom now.? HE IS HURTING THIS LITTLE GIRL! HELP!!
May 14th, 2009 at 6:47 am
They really ought to get to the root of this sicko. Just because he seems well connected doesn’t give him the right to do things to this poor innocent child.
GOD will take care of this man come judgement day.
May 14th, 2009 at 6:48 am
rather when I was as a child.
May 14th, 2009 at 6:49 am
this is so disgusting. this man needs to be hurt the same way he has hurt his little girl!!!!!!!!
May 14th, 2009 at 6:55 am
Man, I feel bad for you two. I hope that somebody in the court system hears you and sees that video.
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May 14th, 2009 at 6:58 am
This is not staged. You can tell. I am a parent of a beautiful little girl as well & couldn’t imagine anyone doing this to my child. I can just understand how her mother feels right now. I would be in rage mode & stopping at nothing to make sure something is done to protect this child. What kind of sick bastard would do this to a child let alone his own. What a sick F***. Someone needs to do something about this. If this little girl stays in his custody she could end up dead like the rest or these poor babies out there that keep getting murdered by their parents. What is wrong with people? What is wrong with this society? This child will probably be scarred for life over this. Legal actions must be taken. I’m just in shock!! WTF?
May 14th, 2009 at 6:59 am
Hi I’m from Miami and I was extremely disgusted. I am a father of 3 and the benefit of the doubt is that a 2 and a half year old cannot be train or coach to say all all this. The little girl was brutally honest as all the kids are…… they just say as it is. Please send this to the proper authorities and get the Deacos involve.
Thanks for your time.
JC
May 14th, 2009 at 7:00 am
This is so eff’ed up….I cannot believe what I am hearing…I had to turn the volume down…I am in tears….I contacted my husband and he said he had to turn the radio off in the car just during Bubba’s intro…..I want to eff’ing kill this guy, this is so wrong!!!!…….WHY?!?!?! does our justice system continue to allow our beautiful children get hurt and violated like this…..this beautiful lil girl is going to be mentally damamged for life…I am in tears, my heart aches for this lil girl and her mother……..I want to post this to my Facebook to spread the word!!!
May 14th, 2009 at 7:01 am
That sicko needs to be exterminated. God bless this beautiful little girl and help her to overcome this horrible experience.
May 14th, 2009 at 7:09 am
Dear Guys,
I have never called or mailed you guys, till now. I am moved to at this time. To keep it short, just let me know when you load the bus going to California. I’am with you, bat in hand.
May 14th, 2009 at 7:12 am
OMG! This guy is sick ,his parental rights should be taken until a full investigation has been conducted. And from what I have heard,they should be taken away for good.
Bubba army, keep up the great work by bringing awareness of these issues to your listeners.
Look out Nancy Grace, Bubba’s got radio:)
May 14th, 2009 at 7:12 am
I am absolutely sickened by this video! Her father’s “worm” should be cut off and fed to him!!
May 14th, 2009 at 7:14 am
I can only hope that Dr. Saturley is well trained in the literature on tainting of very you children’s memories and the manner in which very young children use language…on top of that, he should also be well trained in the forensic evaluation of child sexual abuse…in my opinion, the country’s leading expert is Tampa psychologist, Dr. Kathy Kuehnle [pronounced keen-lee]…
I’m a forensic psychologist in the Brandon area and have seen way too many cases that sound legitamite but later prove to be staged or tainted memories…children this age are incredibly sensitive to inappropriate questioning and once tainted, their memories cannot be untainted…
The problem is that this video already suggests that the child’s memory may be tainted by the mothers seemingly harmless questioning…this questioning may have no malicious intent, but can alter the child’s memory without meaning to do so…
The appropriate questioning of a young child takes years of training, a thorough knowledge of the research on how young children use language, and techniques to prevent tainting or confounding of memory…
That being said, if this case proves to be accurate, then the child should definitely be protected…the more people who question the child the greater the likelihood that the father could win a “taint hearing”, which is when the reliability of the child’s statements is challenged…please, do not allow any more questioning until a well-trained specialist gets involved in the case…
Thanks…
James R. Flens, Psy.D., ABPP
Diplomate in Forensic Psychology
May 14th, 2009 at 7:15 am
I can’t believe that man would be allowed to have custody of this child. And I can’t believe this county would not at the very least investigate. What are they waiting for this child to be killed by that monster??? That entire county is corrupt!
May 14th, 2009 at 7:17 am
This is OUTRAGEOUS!!! Dr. Joe or whomever needs to contact Gov. Schwartnegger or someone! I am sickened by this.
Please help this poor little girl and mother.
May 14th, 2009 at 7:20 am
hey bubba, i am also a survivor of child abuse. after hearing this story on your show, then watching it for myself, i am sure that this little girl was not told what to say and she needs help. i am willing to write any letter or send any e-mail in order to help save this baby from any more abuse. thanks for your show bubba. god bless.
May 14th, 2009 at 7:25 am
I am so thankful that you guys got a hold of this story. Now, this little angel will get the help she needs. I am still just speechless. I am not a “professional” but I don’t think she would be suddenly so scared of the baby Einstein worm just from “coaching”.
Thanks for coming to New Smyrna Beach! BUBBA ARMY! BUBBA ARMY!
May 14th, 2009 at 7:27 am
This guy is a sick bastard!!! He should be castrated, and then have his own member shoved down his throat!!!
May 14th, 2009 at 7:34 am
I’m from Richmond, VA and I think this situation is down right disqusting! Something more needs to be done and with this really happening and there is proof of it from the child this no staged act. Why isn’t something being DONE! That lil girl is going to be messed up more in later years. Instead these damn people in the world are more concerned about the damn beauty pagents and pictures coming up, who gives a crap about that garbage!?!? No one!!!!!!!!!!! WE CARE ABOUT THIS LITTLE GILR & ACTIONS NEED 2 BE TAKEN!!!
I feel as if the Daddy’s “WORM” needs to be chopped off and someone needs to put it in his face and make him play with it and shove it down his throat and choke on it.. This story listening to it made me want to throw up on my ride to work, I don’t understand how people can do something so SICK!!!!!!
May 14th, 2009 at 7:34 am
Bubba needs to pull out ALL the stops. I mean get Charlie Crist on the case, Tucker and anyone else who can draw attention to this case.
May 14th, 2009 at 7:35 am
I say we cut this guys ‘worm’ off, put it in HIS mouth, and make him clean himself up with a f*n napkin…. that is of corse before we handcuff him to a telephone pole and let every good, honest, mother and father in america unload a few rounds into his @$$. sick bastard.
May 14th, 2009 at 7:35 am
I have sent an email to the District Attorney and the Office of Victim Services. At the very LEAST, this evidence and case needs to be investigated thoroughly and without prejudice. Anything less would be a travesty and unacceptable.
Bubba and staff….you are good people for taking this situation and making it known to all outside of the local area. Our children need to be protected and kept safe…even if that means from their own parent.
May 14th, 2009 at 7:36 am
This is so terribly sad. My husband and I cannot have children, but adore them. I think this father should have his “rights” taken from him, and now! This child does not deserve such hell…there is enough of that when she gets older. I agree, cut it off and fed to him!
May 14th, 2009 at 7:37 am
I am a criminal investigator in Georgia and I work on child molestation cases on a weekly basis. I wish I worked in CA right now so I could help this child. Has the mother taken the child to a Child Advocacy Center and had a Forensic Interview done with the child? This is one of my first steps in getting a child away from the offender and being counseling for the child and the mother.
May 14th, 2009 at 7:37 am
“my daddys worm touches my fingers”? WHAT THE F**K? how could this monster get custody? someone needs to kick the judges AND the fathers ass. DROP THE PEOPLES HAMMER!
May 14th, 2009 at 7:39 am
I have never cried on my way into my office until today, it took every ounce of me to convince myself not to drive straight out west..
Great Show bubba
May 14th, 2009 at 7:40 am
Bubba this makes for great Radio, and child services should have investigated this immediately and on face value its sicking. Their are a couple other things wrong though. First we don’t even know if that is a real child’s audio in this video because you never see the child’s mouth or face. Then at the end when the mother comes in it’s to convenient. It really seams like a magicians trick. There is no evidentiary value in this at all. Also what are the Mother and aunt lesbians sleeping together also? Also the picture of the mother and baby the mothers not showing any concern for what is probably a abused child. Frankly it’s in my opinion probably all a scam to get this woman money and custody of the child. The only good thing that could come of this is to high light the plight of child abuse and government that doesn’t immediate investigate allegations of this type!
May 14th, 2009 at 7:41 am
Someone needs to do something about this!! OMG!! The truth needs to be told and if the father really did this, someone needs to do the right thing for this little girl! She has been damaged for the rest of her life and that is not fair to her. Someone please help this little girl!!
May 14th, 2009 at 7:45 am
I want to add to my first statement.When I heard the audio on the air I felt the same way as first as you guys.( my blood was boiling) I felt discussed and wanted to kill the guy, but after seeing the video I had my doubts.
May 14th, 2009 at 7:46 am
I listened to your show this morning, where you played the tape, and it made me sick to my stomach. Thanks for posting the letter which I am going to send immediately. There is strenght in numbers so please everyone get involved and send this letter ASAP – it just might help.
Thank you.
May 14th, 2009 at 7:46 am
Thank you so much for making this available. Without outlets like you, we would not know of such horrid acts of violence against children. I think this Bastard needs to be punished and everyone needs to stand up for this defensless girl and her mother. Shame on the court system for turning the other cheeck to this video. You can obviously tell it is not coached or staged. Hopefully justice will come to this little girl and her family. And for her good for nothing father, may he suffer through the endless ass raping he deserves when he gets to jail. THANKS BUBBA!!
May 14th, 2009 at 7:49 am
I have contacted ABCnews, Oprah Winfrey and Governor “Arnold” of California imploring each to take action. The more media coverage, the better for this little girl and that corrupt system in which she lives. I am a victim myself, of sexual and other forms of abuse and can tell you with near certainty, this is real and my heart goes out to Aaliyah and her Mother. I am 40 and have a daughter (7years old)….if anyone touched her…..well let’s just say, my innocense was taken from me as a child, I won’t tolerate it happening to my child. With the Grace of God, if it stops now, the memories may fade and she can have a normal life……thank you for airing this. Social Responsibility is up to all of us.
May 14th, 2009 at 7:49 am
I’m with everyone commenting. SICK F***!!!!!!! Let me know when the bus to California leaves. I’ll be there!!!
May 14th, 2009 at 7:55 am
Heard this this morning driving in to work… Not a great way to start off the day. :( As a mother, my Heart broke just listening to that little babies voice. As a HUMAN BEING, my Sicilian blood just about boiled over in my truck. I have sent the following to the Attorney General’s office per the link above, and will today send a certified letter to the California Review Board. A true investigation may very well prove the mother to be “out there” – but only a REAL investigation, looking at all of the facts can determine that. Personally, I’ve read all the info here, and on her website ( saveaaliyah.com) and I don’t think she is anything but terrified for her child. Thanks for helping spread the word about this. I enjoy listening to you kick the midget around, but THIS.. THIS is the kind of thing you guys excel at.. I realize that idiot is making life hell for you, and I support you going after him; I’m just saying that the passion you have for your career choice, and your ability to fire up others and get them involved, shows it’s true importance with stories like this. Deb
“I just this morning learned of the case of Aaliyah on my local Tampa radio station. I AM APPALLED that the courts have not even LOOKED at this video, or taken the abuse seriously. AN investigation SHOULD be done – PERIOD. Are you people crazy or just uneducated in your profession? HOW do you disregard potential child sexual abuse without even LOOKING at the evidence? And that baby is STILL with her FATHER? NUTS! An investigation.. a REAL ONE, may very well prove the mother to be a loon – but you won’t and CAN’T KNOW that until you INVESITATE IT FULLY. And as a mother of now teenagers, I can attest that a 2 1/2 year CANNOT be coached to say the things that poor baby does in that video. The ONLY leading remark I noticed in listening to it was the aunts “daddy shouldn’t make you touch his worm” but that is at the END of the video. And Auntie is right. Placer County disgusts me, and I hope through all of the people who are now becoming aware of this case country wide due to the new media presence, that Placer County, its judges, court officials, attorneys and police department are put under a microscope and that those who have abused their power, are made to pay highly for the transgression.”
May 14th, 2009 at 7:56 am
Bubba, I’m with you….get out the GLOCK. I just forwarded the video to Nancy Grace and asked her to expose this video to save this little girl before it is too late. Others should do the same, before it is too late !!
May 14th, 2009 at 7:59 am
Watching this video is absolutely disturbing!!! If California isnt going to step up and take care of this Beautiful little girl, then the mother needs to take her away from California, she needs to be a mother and do what ever it takes to save this baby from a life of hell!!!
May 14th, 2009 at 7:59 am
Good Morning Bubba,
I listened to the video when it was played this morning on my way to work and I couldn’t believe what I was hearing. As soon as I arrive at work I went onto your website to watch it for myself. I have never left to sick to my stomach. Something needs to be done to help this little girl, fast! I hope and pray that she will get all the help she needs to overcome her fears, because definetly something is wrong. God bless her and my prayers are with her.
May 14th, 2009 at 7:59 am
To read about this case, watch the video made me sick and upset.How can a father or anyone for that matter do this to there child.This is defentaly a case of Sexual abuse and this man needs to get the death sentance.You can tell that this is not coached or that the daughter is not making this up.A 2 1/2 year old has an imagination but not to this extent.I have 8 neices,nephews and expecting my 1st child, to know that this mother is not being herd goes to show how messed up our systems really are. This is a serious case and the judge should be investigated as the letter above states.I would do anything to help this mother as far as donating money or just her knowing that she has my support.I can only imagine how hard this must be on her to be passed off as crazy, knowing that this has been going on for god knows how long and if it still is happening.He should get the death sentence and be left to rot.or maybe put in prission to get raped and see how it feels.This child will never be right and have to face a life full of therapy.Please everyone help any way you can! Pray for the child and mother and that this child is saved.
May 14th, 2009 at 8:01 am
As I sit hear and listen to this I am so disgusted and saddened.I was a pre teen that was molested and cried out for help and was not believed,it was defastating and still at times affects me till this day and I am now 35 yrs old,to be believed and her Mother trying to help and no one listening is even more devastating.As a Mother now of a 10 yr old beautiful little girl I am always on gaurd for the digusting people like this man that are out there.And you can bet if she ever came to me with this type of crap I would believe,react and probably spend the rest of my life in prison.This is so sad and something has to be done,should’ve already been done.If there is the slightest doubt what would it have hurt to take the time to investigate this,shouldn’t even be a question.I will write the system and follow this story,the sad thing is that there are so many that go untold and unheard!
May 14th, 2009 at 8:01 am
I can only say one thing about this and that is This world is very messed up i hope the mother runs away somewhere where the father never sees her again this is sick if this in fact is true godbless this little girl and i pray that all of this goes away for her sake.
May 14th, 2009 at 8:08 am
Have you all forgotten that this man is innocent until proven guilty? Yes children can be coached to say these things and often are. Thank God for DNA as it has released numerous men from prison when people just like you all jumped to conclusions and put them there out of disgust at what is alleged rather than based on the evidence. There is no one here (Crystal U & Rebecca) qualified to determine if this girl has been coached or lead in any way. If this man did this to this girl then all the things suggested for him here should be done to him. If however the mother staged this, which vindictive mothers do (and worse) on a regular basis, then the things that should be done to him should be done to her instead. Either way, one of them should pay with dearly.
May 14th, 2009 at 8:20 am
this guy is sick. I have a daughter about this little girls age and it is to even think of someone doing that to her. this guy needs to be locked up.
i can’t even say what I would do if that happend to my little girl. but people have to step up and save this little girl before it is to late.
May 14th, 2009 at 8:22 am
GOOD MORNING I AM CRYING AS I TYPE THIS. I AGREE WITH THE OTHER COMMENTS AND WITH WHAT YOU SAID ON AIR BUBBA. WE NEED TO MAKE SURE THIS IS REAL AND REALLY HAPPENED. IF IT IS PROVEN THAT SICK S.O.B. DID THIS TO HIS OWN LITTLE GIRL HE SHOULD BE PUT IN A JAIL CELL WITH A REVOLVING DOOR THEN HE CAN BE THE ONE TOUCHING AND COUGHING ON WORMS. HOW DISGUSTING AND HOW SAD. GOD BLESS AALIYAH AMD MOM
BUBBA AND CREW KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK BUBBA ARMY!!!!!
May 14th, 2009 at 8:22 am
This is Disgusting, either if The Daddy is guilty or if the mother is playing mind games with this child…I say we SICK GRADY JUDD on them!…
Grady Grady!!!!!
May 14th, 2009 at 8:22 am
OMFG!!! This man doesn’t deserve prison, he deserves to die!!! A slow and painful death! How anyone could harm a child in any way is beyond me, but a parent! That is just unspeakable. I agree that we should load the bus and find this pond scum that thinks he is a man. Yes, I am a mom of a beautiful 16 yr old girl. And she is ready to jump on the bus with us………Let’s get’em!
May 14th, 2009 at 8:23 am
My husband and i listened to this show this morning and not only were we appalled and disturbed, but angry as well. If that little girls father had been in front of us, I’m not sure which one of us would’ve beat him to death faster. I hope for the child’s sake something is done soon.
May 14th, 2009 at 8:23 am
i just watched the video it is disturbing that this kind of abuse can happen with no investigation i hope its not true but if it is put the sick bastard under the jail i have a daughter of my own and my heart goes out to the child the video made me tear up and something needs to be done
mr wiseman
May 14th, 2009 at 8:27 am
I have written the attorney, signed the petition to get her home to her mom and forwarded your site and hers to my networks.
I can’t even begin to say how much I support and continue to appreciate your show everyday.
Thank you!!!
May 14th, 2009 at 8:27 am
I AM EMAILING YOU TO EXPRESS MY CONCERN ABOUT YOUR APPARENT LACK OF ATTENTION IN A CASE INVOLVING THE SEXUAL ABUSE OF A THREE YEAR OLD GIRL NAMED AALIYAH BEDWELL. I WATCHED THE VIDEO AND AM JUST SICK. Is your backround/ancestry Italian, if so I can’t believe you would not do something about this. Your mother must be very proud of you, sic. What action is being taken, is an investigation going on?
I will be forwarding this to Maria Shriver and also suggest that the radio station I heard this news reported on also
request that whoever hears this and knows about this child write to The First Lady and also the Governor.
You need help. You need to be removed from office.
Florence Kushner
145 Brighton D
Century Village West
Boca Raton, Florida
fkushner@yahoo.com
fax: 916-558-3160
attn: First Lady Maria Shriver
SaveAaliyah.com
http://www.btls.com/news/stories/save-baby-aaliyah.html
May 14th, 2009 at 8:30 am
[...] A video being distributed on the Internet is titled daddy’s worm shows Aaliyah Bedwell talking about her experience with her father. See Video Here [...]
May 14th, 2009 at 8:31 am
First of all, this story made me sick…I can only sympathize with the mother and aunt having to hear all that this 2 – 3 year old had to say. How disgusting it was to hear about her father doing this to her is beyond all comprehension!
The County and State of California should use this video as part of their investigation and overturn the decision of granting the mother full custody and send that “animal” to jail for LIFE!
May 14th, 2009 at 8:32 am
11 visits to CPS and they didn’t find anything wrong. I could believe maybe 1 or 2 people in protective services being corrupt, but 11 visits?
Give me a break.
May 14th, 2009 at 8:39 am
I simply say death is not good enough if this is not a story made up by mom coaching. But if she done this to get back at him then she needs the same sentence.
The loser is the child….
please someone help her
May 14th, 2009 at 8:43 am
This was quick…how I feel.
How to Kill a Pedophile
The punishment must always fit the crime
The exception is with a different type of slime
The evil of which I speak
Are a special type of freak
The innocence they destroy and take
Forever stays family that they break
The justice that is served to this special kind
Send them to hell and mess with their mind
One strike is all you get for this offense
Committing this crime there is no defense
Liberals will probable become undone
What if it was their daughter or son?
This crime can get us all pissed
Back yard justice is hard to resist
Should be, mess with a child and get the chair
But there are spineless politicians that don’t care
They vote with the loudest not the most
I wish they were haunted by the child’s ghost
Now, I am no saint, I am the bad in good
I could be their executioner and you know I would
A lot of liberties will be used on this job
It’s hard to tell where I start on this slob
A week is enough to complete the task
Staying professional is hard to ask
My job was simple, kill the crook
Trade pain for the innocence he took
Now with the sound proof room secured
I tell the bastard he is about to be cured
Copyright – Ricky Venus
May 14th, 2009 at 8:47 am
Everyone has got to think that something is wrong in this situation. I, myself have a 2 1/2 yr old lil girl and myself, am a victim of child molestation from my father. Whether the father IS doing something to Aaliyah, or not, the county should be looking into this. I think we should start a petition and all start making serious phone calls. I know that somthing like this can mess you up at a young age and haunt you for most of your life and even consume you sometimes! THIS LITTLE GIRL NEEDS OUR HELP!!!
May 14th, 2009 at 8:47 am
OK this is my opinion
where there is smoke there is fire!!!! And you have A forest fire going on here something needs to be done I can’t believe this guy can even see his daughter I mean come on there are too many red flags here to just look the other way !!!!! and allow this guy custody!!!! CUSTODY!!!! come on peaple!!!! DO THE RIGHT THING!!! GET HER OUT OF THERE!!!!!I mean everybody wants to find out who is at fault or who is to blam ( the dad is doing this) (the mom is doing that)ok I understand that- but get the little girl out of there and into a safe place while you figure out whats going on the last place she needs to be is with her father!!
DO THE RIGHT THING!!!!!!!!!
May 14th, 2009 at 8:48 am
This is a true story….we all know that kids say what they see..we have all been their one time or another (not in this situation)and I think something should be done! NOW!!!
May 14th, 2009 at 9:01 am
Sicko!!!
May 14th, 2009 at 9:35 am
I am horrified at the CPS response (lack thereof). I too was a “victim” of a biased judge (relating to another matter-not child abuse) and understand how incredibly frustrating it can be. This case needs to be moved to another county.
I am ready to board the bus for California; sharpened butchers knife ready to cut the guy’s d*** off and feed it to him.
May 14th, 2009 at 9:39 am
This is a flat out outrage for a judge to even think about sending the child to the so called father not only is it a sin but it is harmfull to the child in so many ways and this is letting this child belive that it is right whare is the law at in this state and the thing with stop abuse someone needs to do something this child should be with the mother not with trash that wants to abuse her.
DO SOMETHIG START EMAILING THE GOVENER AND ALL
May 14th, 2009 at 9:47 am
Wanna know the problem with the DA’s office in Placer County? Just try calling them, the automated recording tells you told hold on the line, then it rings about 35 times, and eventually cuts you off. Obviously these guys are either sleeping on the job, or maybe they saw the FL area code and knew what was coming, sure its not the first call. Sure to be more tomorrow. Any DA’s office around here would be in a world of shizz (with a Z) if they didn’t at least thoroughly follow up on this if not immediatly arrest this perv.
May 14th, 2009 at 9:48 am
I am outraged that nothing has been done to investigate these allegations.I am even more outraged that this child was placed in the custody of the accused child abuser! Something should have been done. Whether or not these allegations are true or not,(which I being abused myself as a child believe that this child was abused!),this child should have been removed from both parents custody and these allegations should have been investigated!!!!!!WTF is this world coming to!How can our judicial system let this happen! I am so glad there is a show like yours to help this lil girl!Your show so Kicks A$$!!!!Thanks to you hopefully this lil girl will get some help! Thanks Bubba Radio Network!!!!!
May 14th, 2009 at 9:48 am
Dear Bubba,
Your story this morning about Aaliyah touch my heart in more ways than one. Now that I have my emotions under control, I felt that I should send you and email and ask you to PLEASE do not give up on this story!!!! In 1994, here in Sarasota, Florida, my brother-in-law raped & murder my 3 year old niece on several occasions. Apparently he had been doing these acts on her since birth. Once she was able to speak and understand what was going on she told him that she was going to tell her mommy. He then murdered her. This act was a horrendous act which torn my family apart. He is currently serving a life sentence in Hardee County Correction. Unfortunately she is no longer with us. But Aaliyah is and she needs protection from this monster! PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE do not let this monster get away with this anymore. Thank you for taking the time to read this! YOU ARE THE BEST!!!!!
May 14th, 2009 at 9:51 am
CONTACT THE GOVERNORPrintable VersionGovernor’s Office:
Governor Arnold Schwarzenegger
State Capitol Building
Sacramento, CA 95814
Phone: 916-445-2841
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May 14th, 2009 at 9:52 am
Turned on Bubba as I do every other morning and thought I was listening to another spoof when I heard Aaliyah’s precious voice. OMG, my heart is broken for this little girl. And until an OFFICAL inquiry is done and full investigation is completed I am confused as to who to direct my hatred towards. If the mother is creating this scenario then damn her for the damage she is about to inflict on her child. If the father is truly that sorry of a piece of $*it then the damage he has done and I`m sure continues to do is beyond repair. Either way this little girl is the victim. What a sick sick world we as a society have created!!!! Eye for an Eye I SAY!!! BUBBA ARMY BUBBA ARMY
May 14th, 2009 at 9:54 am
This is beyond words. Just tell me what I need to do to help. I have a 2 yr old daughter myself and a brother with two boys under 4 that is going thru this very same type of situation with divorce and custody (although non-sexual abuse..but abuse nonetheless) so I feel your pain and frustration. He’s besides himself with what to do and everyone thinks he’s crazy. He has proof but no one cares. It’s really something to know that all our tax paying dollars are going to court systems that are biased based upon “who you know” or “how much money you have”. *sigh*
I really hope all this attention will finally get someone to listen or pull someone out of the woodwork to finally help. I pray for this little girl and her mother.
May 14th, 2009 at 9:55 am
HEAR IS HIS WEB FOR EMAILING THE GOV,
http://gov.ca.gov/interact
May 14th, 2009 at 10:01 am
I sent the letter, but changed it-I am a stickler for grammar, etc. Here it is:I am writing to you to express my concern about your apparent lack of attention in a case involving the sexual abuse of a three year old girl, Aaliyah Bedwell. The Internet video, in which the little girl describes her “Daddy’s Wormâ€, is disturbing to say the least. What’s more disturbing is the way this case has been handled by your office. You are the highest Law Enforcement Official in Placer County, California. You have the responsibility to protect this child when the allegation of sexual abuse is brought to your attention, which by all accounts was over eight months ago.
The suspect in this case has an attorney, Mrs. Sandra Amara, whose husband is also a judge. If Judge Dirk Amara is meddling in this case, it is also your duty to investigate him. Judge Frances Kearney removed herself from this case, and stipulated that a judge from a different county would hear it. This is a step in the right direction, however, it does not absolve you of your responsibility to investigate, and become involved when there are credible allegations of serious sexual crimes, like this one.
It is paramount for the well being of children in your county that you prosecute those suspected of child sexual abuse, to the fullest extent of the law, without exception. Anything else is unacceptable for a District Attorney. As a parent of two children, I implore you to protect this child, prosecute the offender, and uphold the laws of your state. You need to take this very seriously before this child is beyond the help and protection she deserves.
May 14th, 2009 at 10:07 am
There are two tapped video calls to the mom on the blog , at http://www.ChildProtectionCommunity.com, listen to the mom and you tell me if you think she is lying?
Over an hour of her own account of this nightmare, and her trying to save her daughter. Being called crazy and no one listening?
Hear her side and see what you think/
May 14th, 2009 at 10:10 am
it’s so hard to tell if this is real or not. First of all, why would you set up a tape and record all of this and have the words put on the screen and go through so much trouble. Just take the kid to the police and let them ask her questions. The police have a way of asking and getting information from abused children.
If the guy did touch this kid, fry him! But I just can’t tell if its real or not. This chick looks psyco!
chad
May 14th, 2009 at 10:13 am
[...] A video being distributed on the Internet is titled daddy’s worm shows Aaliyah Bedwell talking about her experience with her father. See Video Here [...]
May 14th, 2009 at 10:44 am
Just saw the video after hearing about it earlier. Bubba, all I can say is if the father is investigated and found to be guilty of this sick, sick child abuse/molestation, then he deserves to be prosecuted to the fullest extent of the law (bear in mind, we ARE talking about CALIFORNIA, however)…if it ends up being the mother coaching her child, and yes, children CAN be coached at a young age, then she, too, is guilty of child abuse and again I say, should be prosecuted to the fullest extent of the law. Generally, I am of the belief that “out of the mouths of babes comes the truth,” but have seen it happen where a parent can get little ones to say horribly bad things about the other parent in an attempt to get back at them for something they feel is an injustice. This mother needs to get this little girl to a child psychologist immediately to try and see if this is indeed something that is happening. There are many qualified and experienced in this field to work with little ones this way and they do a lot through play therapy. If she has not/does not do this, then I have my doubts about the validity of this, as putting it on UTube is in no way going to help this child. It will then REEK of her being the guilty one, because if it were ME, I’d be appealing to whoever I had to, medically, psychiatrically, psychologically, to get HELP for my child, not putting her little angelic face all over UTube!! Years down the road, if this video resurfaces, the child will have other problems to deal with. She is going to have enough as it is when the truth comes out either way. If that father is guilty, the other posters and I share the same sentiments…cut it off and shove it down his throat…there would be no shortage of volunteers standing in line to do this. If it is the mother, every hair on her body should be pulled out one by one and hot bleach poured over her for victimizing her child for personal gain. This case needs to be investigated in BOTH directions and the truth will out. There are some sick parents out there…it’s a shame these babies are subjected to them. It’s a shame the California DCF and the justice system does NOT come to the aid of this child. She should be taken away from BOTH parents, placed in a safe home with a trusted family member or friend or whoever, and a COMPLETE investigation of BOTH parents needs to take place…again, I say…CALIFORNIA…it is what it is…just my opinion…
I will email the governor and whoever else I can think of regarding this! Either way, it is a sick sick situation!! Poor little baby!
May 14th, 2009 at 10:46 am
Absolutely disgusting and completely disturbing. The individuals of the “Good ‘ole Boys” who are in favor of assisting him, due to personal connections, should also hang with him. Bubba is frightenly correct when he points out the potentially mind numbing and gut wrenching acts that are constantly being handled by “Good ‘ole Boys” throughout the world on a daily basis. Love the show!!
May 14th, 2009 at 11:24 am
EVERY single person who has touched this case or even glanced at it and pushed it aside should face felony charges of the most severe kind… To say I am ENRAGED is a hideous understatement… The pathetic excuse for the Placer County D.A. already dropped the ball so badly that any corespondence to him should automatically come with a carbon copy to the State of California and probably someone on a Federal level just to be sure as many eyes are on this as possible… I know you guys aren’t looking for personal accolades in any form or fashion, but THANK YOU for continuing to do the things that absolutely need to be done, using your power to do the right thing and get things done…
May 14th, 2009 at 11:29 am
Bubba and guys great stance to take that either way some thing is wrong ,and that precious little girl is being in some way abused.Being the dad of two girls myself I found a tear run down my face hearing it and just as hard when I watched it later at work.Bubba not to mention the neglect of a communities judicial system that’s more than the good ole boy network,rather a crime by each judge that refused to air on the side of caution and view this tape.Would love to hear the mom on the show not because im 100% sure its real,but simply cause she is the one making the allegations.Bubba you need to be more than peoples hammer on this one,please we must find the truth out and get that girl checked out immediately.Love the show and what you all do,good luck guys.
May 14th, 2009 at 11:36 am
If the judge and attorney are married, that represents a huge problem of favoritism. Anyone protecting this guy should be prosecuted. And while it looks amazingly bad for the dad, are we 100 % sure this has not been investigated properly? or are we just going off of what’s in the video. The bottom line is that if it’s true, which it appears to be, throw the guy in the lion pit and let them lay waste to him.
May 14th, 2009 at 11:38 am
I’m a mother of 2 small childern. I have a husband that had a child before we got together. We had contact on and off with this boy for about 8 years. His mother had boyfriend after boyfriend, we of course never met any of them. The mother of this boy, who was 9 at the time, was going through some money problems and at this point we were all trying to get along so we took him in for her until she got back on her feet.
My husband and I did with him what we did with both our other childern raised them the only way we knew how..with love and discipline. My husband and I are both hard workers and we try and do the best that we can.
Well when this boy came into our lives we didnt know a whole lot about the back ground because the mother only allowed us to see him when she wanted something. So no questions asked we brought him into our home and treated him as if he was one of mine. This kid was sweet and loving at the begining. Things around the house came up missing. Money, credit cards, and jewerly. That was the least of our worries..
After dealing with that problem, which he blamed his 5 yr old sister for framing him on all the stolen stuff. We got a call from my best friend one afternoon her telling me that her son ,which came to the house all the time to play because her son and my daughter are 6 weeks apart, came home and told her the thing that my husbands son wad doing to my daughter in the closet. My best friends son told us everything that happened and he also told us that the 9 year old told the the 5 year old that if the told he would hurt them. I immediately called the mother of the 9 yr. old and told her to come in get her son. The next step I did was called DCF because I thought they would beable to help my daughter. In the state of Florida they have 24 hours to come out and investigate. So this so called “case worker” showed up and took the 9 yr. old to his room and talked to him for about 30-45 mins. Then they pulled my daughter to her room and talked to her for maybe 5 mins. Then the “case worker” cam out and told me she would call us in a couple of day , in the mean time the 9 yr old needed to go back with the mother. instead the mother didnt want him and he ended up with the grandmother, which i dont think is any better they are pot smoking nudest!
The next day the “case worker” called us and informed us that the the boy would be going to the Childrens Advocacy. Now there is where victims are taken to help cope with what happens to them.
I guess the more the “case worker” got into it she came across an old file that the 9 yr old had told somebody that things happened to him at one point of time with one of her boyfriends old boys. So because nothing came of the case and the mother didnt pursued the alligation the case was dropped.
So because this boy was a victim back when he was 5 , but now he is 9 and doing the same thing to my daughter that was done to him, they “DCF” treated him as the victim and not the predator. They “DCF” pretty much pushed my daughter to the side and focused on him. Which he needs it dont get me wrong , but what about my daughter and her innocence that was lost at 5 yrs. old. I am sure at one point he was the victim but not this time , he was the predator. To this day my daughter still hasnt got any help , we dont talk about it and we never see the boy. And we never bring his name up. we hate to be that way but when somebody hurts your child like that what do u do? People say that they would do this and they would do that, but until it happens , God forbid, you never truely know what to do.
I believe that the mother did not coerce a 2 yr old into saying those terrible things. A 2 yr old mind spand isnt that well that she could keep that going for as long as she did. As for the father to get full custody that is completely wrong on someones part. That could mess that sweet angel up even more than she could already be.
As a mother of a molested child my heart goes out to that mother..God gives us precious little gifts from heaven and for someone to hurt them in anyway is horrible…
My heart goes out to the beautiful little angel sent down from heaven , i will keep her in my prayers and in my heart until she returns home where she belongs in her mothers arms!
From one mother to another keep your head high all of us mothers are behind you!
May 14th, 2009 at 11:57 am
I have two children one two, one four and its hard enough to get my two year old to say her name let alone coach her to say things of this nature. The fact that the attorney of this creep suggested that is beyond mental comprehension. If this mother really wanted custody I doubt that she would bring allegations of molestation to the front.
The simple fact that she may using her connections in the court system to help her should rule her as unfit to be his lawyer. Conflict of interest to start with.
This guy is a disgusting low life and isn’t fit to be allowed in public without being ashamed of his existence. If this video and the countless others aren’t reviewed by the police then we can lose all faith in the judicial system and take the law into our hands. How can you trust the courts and police if they are too lazy to review this seriously?
May 14th, 2009 at 12:25 pm
I can’t beleive that this guy is still alive!!!I have two children myself and if I ever heard this about my children they would already be DEAD!!!!This is the worst thing anyone can do to a child… asfar as the count she lives in maybe there needs to be a investagation on the DA,police and the judge!!!! they need to know that ANY child abuse allegations need to be looked at immediately
May 14th, 2009 at 12:44 pm
this f###in guy needs to be strung up by his ankles, castrated and LITERALLY ball-gagged if you catch my drift, all while being fully conscious so he knows every bit of what’s goin on. then you just let him bleed to death. this guy is an absolute waste of semen. he is worse than broken and i know for a fact that if i lived in california this guy would be dead.
May 14th, 2009 at 1:09 pm
Bubba, im a juvenile corrections officer and my wife is a preschool teacher,we are also parents of four boys and this story made us sick to our stomachs. i think that the father is a sick bastard who needs to be put in general population with inmates who are fathers and let poetic justice take care of him and as far as him having custody, the judge who awarded it needs to be pulled off the bench permenatly.
May 14th, 2009 at 1:15 pm
We think this guy needs a taste of his own medicine…sick bastard…im sure the california state prison system has plenty of worms for this f### to choke on! PROSECUTE CHILD SEX OFFENDERS THE SAME WAY THEY OFFEND!
May 14th, 2009 at 1:31 pm
hi Bubba! You really need to listen to #13′s response. This is the saddest thing. Now what?! Are you gonna get blamed for bringing this to light? That poor baby is the innocent and if they go the “Tainted Route” then Ally is done for for sure!!!
May 14th, 2009 at 1:36 pm
I just wanted to thank you, Bubba. Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!
May 14th, 2009 at 2:04 pm
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May 14th, 2009 at 2:12 pm
Im throughly disgusted!!!!!! Today was the first time I ever turned the radio down cause i felt sick to my stomach. thank you, all of you for bringing this to our attention. thank all of you for all you do for us in the Tampa area. F.T.E
May 14th, 2009 at 2:17 pm
This is why humans need to take a test before they become parents!!!!!!!!! I’ve listened to you since your first day at 98 ROCK and this morning was the very first time I EVER turned the radio down because i was sick to my stomach!!!!! As a half-way decent human much less a parent of 2 boys this made me sick to watch. Great work guys…..Keep it up F.T.E from Dade City, Fl.
May 14th, 2009 at 2:20 pm
bubba, i love your show. i listen every morning as i get my kids off to school. when i heard about this girl this morning, my heart broke in a million pieces. even my husband was ticked. but like we said, if the mom IS coaching the girl then she needs to go to jail for this too. i feel he should be shot so he never hurts her again,but so should the mom if she is coaching her to hurt her dad. when kids are 2, they look up to BOTH parents and they want both mom and dad there for everything. we have 5 kids and at one time or another they wanted me or their dad, this did not upset me, they need their dad too and i need mom time. maybe i am weird ,but i could NOT IMAGING SAYING THINGS ABOUT MY HUSBAND TO THE KIDS. HE IS GREAT, I HAVE BEEN WITH HIM SINCE WE WERE IN HIGH SCHOOL. i was 15 when i met him and i am now 42. i need him just as much as i need my kids. i love him more than life itself. i can’t image life without any of them. bubba, i also love hearing hulk hogan with you. i am a big fan of wrestling, i have watched it since hulk won the belt from the iron sheik way back when. thank you for keeping me smiling during the day. i would love a window sticker if you could send one or let me know how much they are. keep up the GREAT work!!!! BUBBA ARMY, BUBBA ARMY!!!!
May 14th, 2009 at 2:27 pm
first of all castrate the bastard then this motherfu**er should be executed he is a mean a**hole this should be brought to justice…………AND FOR THE MOM AND LITTLE GIRL IM SO SORRY THAT THIS HAPPENED TO HER I WISH YOU WILL GET THE CUSTODY SOON……
May 14th, 2009 at 2:31 pm
Hi Bubba and Crew,
I heard this story this morning and cried for Aaliyah. When I got to work, I checked out their website and it completely broke my heart. After reading all of the entries in her journal,needeless to say I was in a state of shock. I am a mother of a 2 year old little boy and just the thought of having to go through something like this makes me sick to my stomach. I know that there are two sides to every story and hopefully the truth will come out and justice will prevail. I pray to God that this little girl isn’t ruined for life. I want to thank you and your crew for bringing this to us, the public. We would never had known what was going on. You get a lot of criticism for the “bad” things you do, but you don’t always get the praise that you deserve…I want to give it up to you for trying to get involved and help out this poor defenseless baby!!!! Keep up the great work…Us women listeners LOVE YOU!!!!
Christina
May 14th, 2009 at 3:01 pm
Bubba, I watched the video and listen to the tape twice. I dont feel this little girl was coached in any way. we all have children and you know when your child is repeating something you have told them especially something they need to repeat back again. They tend to say things in the middle for apporval such as “like that mommy” or “say it like that mommy” things of that nature and even when her mother starts to cry you would think the child might say “but mommy you said to say that” or something to that nature also. This is a sick act that is being done and it needs to be stopped. I like you would have been loading up at the first hit of the “worm” and made sure that the “worm” never came around again. There are also some ways they can see if she is talking about the “worm” we all think she is. Maybe put a few pictures of WORMS in front of her such as a glow worm, the green worm (she doesnt like), a pic of a penis (trust me I KNOW its not pretty) & a real pic of a worm, to see which one she picks up when talking about this so called “worm”. She speaks very well for a 2 1/2 year old, and she never backs down from her story. The problem is now that this is all out. What happens when she goes back to daddy’s house?? what is he going to say or make her say…
May 14th, 2009 at 3:04 pm
I don’t think we know enough as of yet. But this is very disturbing.
It doesn’t sound like she was coached, as her comments are too off colored, as a normal 2-3 yr old, not sounding rehearsed.
If it is true, there is no punishment enough for this non-man
If it isn’t there is no punishment for the mom that isn’t.
May 14th, 2009 at 3:08 pm
I want to tell you thank you for posting this and bringing it to the attention of others. I work for a law office and we have cases in Placer county and I would like to validate what you are saying about the county. It is a disgrace that they even heard this case in the county with all of the connections going on. Thank you again for bringing this mis-justice to everyone’s attention.
May 14th, 2009 at 3:09 pm
Bubba it breaks my heart to think that there is nothing being done for this little girl.I have 2 children and one being a 2yr old little girl and if someone did this to her i would take justice into my own hands.i agree with everything you said and strongly believe that child molesters should be put to death.SICK FREAKS!!!!And anyone who aides a child molester should face the same penalty.HOW WOULD THOSE COPS AND JUDGES FEEL IF IT HAPPENED TO THIER CHILDREN!!!!!!!
May 14th, 2009 at 3:11 pm
I am a victim of child molestation. I feel this little girls pain, my case also was thrown out because of my age. I could not give full details because i was scared but my older sister was also abused and she came forward and they took her word but the sad part was he only got probation. There were more children involved and the sad thing was he was still granted visitation as long as there was an adult present at all times. It still haunts me till this day. Someone please help this little girl!!!! God please watch over her.
May 14th, 2009 at 3:12 pm
Someone needs to save this baby! I am going to tweet this asap and sign on to kgb and tell the people there to help. This poor baby. I feel so bad for her
May 14th, 2009 at 3:23 pm
One word, disgusted.
May 14th, 2009 at 3:26 pm
I watched the video and was disgusted at what I heard. I fought back tears. If he has done and is still doing this to this child he should be strung up by his “worm”. Where are the people who can help this poor child? She’s trying in her own way to reach out for help! It would take an army to hold me of if this was happening to my child!
May 14th, 2009 at 3:29 pm
This a**hole needs to be dealt with. To hear this happen to a girl it sickening and I cried listening to this information today. Bubba army save this little girl and her mom.
May 14th, 2009 at 3:32 pm
I am a 21 yeard old father of a 6 month old baby boy, and i have legal custody of my 4 year old nephew. It is truely mind blowing things are overlooked like this. Now that I am a father figure i look at everything in a new light. My heart broke for this girl.
I went through the same while getting custody of my nephew. He was dropped off at day care and never picked up. My mom picked him up and noticed a huge burn on the side of his face. He claimed someone put his face to the coil of a stove top. The sherrif was called child protections were called.
That day my mom took him to the doctor and he confirmed that what my nephew told my mom matched the injury he had on his face. No charges were filed, no investigations at all.
To this day if his mother wanted to get him back she could. This stuff happens everywhere. I hope something is done about this SOON.
May 14th, 2009 at 3:33 pm
Bubba-
Please dont play this again tomorrow for the Sirius show – its being played right now. Its a tragedy if its real, but we listen to you to be entertained – you brought it to our attention -we can act if we want to – please continue on with the hillbilly hijinx
you are a good man bubba
May 14th, 2009 at 3:39 pm
This little girl need to get in safe arms A.S.A.P. im a father of three and id be on my way to prison right now if this was one of my baby girls.Californa neens to do something fast.im leaving on this that sick bastard need to be charge
May 14th, 2009 at 3:40 pm
I think this guy need to be taken to ned’s place for about a week then turned over to the prison population so they can show him just how much they like child rapo’s,if he is still alive after ned’s place!
May 14th, 2009 at 3:40 pm
I have a little girl myself. She is five years old. I could’nt even begin to think of what is going on, and if this guy is guilty…..I would cut his dick off! I hope that this little innocent girl has not been hurt in any way. I hope that this is story is false and this guy is not doing this to his daughter. This sucks for everyone especially for the little girl.
May 14th, 2009 at 3:42 pm
I dont what kind people live there but if i knew this was going on id do my best to stop it like kick in his door and break his fingers just to start, the fact nothing so far has happened legally or otherwise just blows my mind!
May 14th, 2009 at 3:43 pm
I am a 30 year old man, and i am crying my eyes out right now after watching that video. I am printing out the letter now and my wife just went to get some stamps. BUBBA ARMY we have to step up on this one. Post links to this and the SaveAaliyah.com site on every web page you see today!!! Sports pages, Entertainment Pages, etc… GET THE WORD OUT THIS WOMAN DESPRATELEY NEEDS OUR HELP!!!! Mail your letters and donate what you can. Bubba, Brent and the Crew: Thank you once again for bringing light to an incredible injustice!!! Gotta go Mail Something. BUBBA ARMY FUCKIN REPRESENT HERE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
May 14th, 2009 at 3:43 pm
Bubba, your specialist commented on the fact that the mother could have taught the child to do this. What about the bruises and the abuse? I am, just like millions of children, a victim of this type of abuse/molestation. I know first hand how hard it is to get anything done or get any convictions. The person doing the abuse will OF COURSE deny and do anything to get the attention off of him/her. For the most part, society views this as one of the worst crimes. So, the abuser would never want that conviction. The way that she responded and the repetition of the words and sentences she used are too obvious to the reality of the abuse. I do not believe the mother is crazy. This disgusting piece of ************** should be sentenced to death. No matter what happens in my life, I will always have had that in my life and no one deserves that.
May 14th, 2009 at 3:47 pm
What a sick f**k . I hope people recognize this guy on the street(which he should not be on) and take care of business. It is absolutely appalling to me that someone could treat a child like this. I hope justice is served for whomever is involved and maybe Placer County needs to have a higher authority look into matters as to why this tape has been passed through.
May 14th, 2009 at 3:54 pm
This guy needs a taste of his own medicine>!!!!
May 14th, 2009 at 4:02 pm
Bubba, As much as this video sickens me, I’ll consider the mother may have told Aaliyah what to say. The case needs to be investigated. It is disgusting and sickening to me that the video was ignored by our courts and police departments. The sad thing is that there are hundreds or thousands of other cases that are also being ignored. I’m glad to see you’re giving this story the much needed air time.
May 14th, 2009 at 4:02 pm
God bless this poor baby and protect her.Abusers are so used to getting away with things like this that they no longer take the law seriously.Ask yourself”how many people do you know who have been abused?”it shouldnt be that commonplace that each and every one of us know so many victims,the law enforcers need to take that into consideration before they let these b*st*rds get away with it!!!!!
May 14th, 2009 at 4:07 pm
Hey Bubba
I was not able to listen to all of the “Daddys Worm” video this morning or afternoon but I just finished watching it and I agree with you and almost everyone that has commented on this.
This sick bastard needs some Real good ol boy justice. When he gets put in jail they should put him in with gen pop so he can get a taste of some big burly redneck or brothers sticky worm on a nightly basis.
Thanks for having the balls to bring this to the publics attention.
Mike
May 14th, 2009 at 7:40 am
Bubba this makes for great Radio, and child services should have investigated this immediately and on face value its sicking. Their are a couple other things wrong though. First we don’t even know if that is a real child’s audio in this video because you never see the child’s mouth or face. Then at the end when the mother comes in it’s to convenient. It really seams like a magicians trick. There is no evidentiary value in this at all. Also what are the Mother and aunt lesbians sleeping together also? Also the picture of the mother and baby the mothers not showing any concern for what is probably a abused child. Frankly it’s in my opinion probably all a scam to get this woman money and custody of the child. The only good thing that could come of this is to high light the plight of child abuse and government that doesn’t immediate investigate allegations of this type!
I know that Bubba didnt put this on the air for “Great Radio” He played it because he,being a father himself is concerend about this child and if the guy is innocent and the mother coached Aaliyah then I will be the first one after bubba and crew to appolaqize.
May 14th, 2009 at 4:10 pm
Had to turn off show this guy is a pile of crap!!!
May 14th, 2009 at 4:13 pm
if this is a true representation and in fact the girl has not been coached (which i tend to believe)all u need do is put this sick bastard and his worm in the general population of any prison and his worm would be hangin limp from his own mouth.even prisoners loath and detest child molesters and serve prison justice.
May 14th, 2009 at 4:22 pm
I am also an abused child. This is very heart breaking for me, a 13 year old kid.This is sad and something should be done. Justice should be served. I never said anything when it happened to me. I waited for a couple years because I was scared. But I felt better when justice was servered. I hope they get this messed up person and throw him in prison where he belongs. If nothing is done it will keep going on and he might even evetually kill her. Especially scince she said it to pretty much everyone. I hope she gets help and this sick son of a gun get his butt throw in jail, that would make Aaliyah, her mom, her aunt, me and hundreds if not thousands of people fell better.
May 14th, 2009 at 4:23 pm
Nobody deserves this. I Didn’t, she didn’t, nobody deserves it.
May 14th, 2009 at 4:24 pm
What the ?????? I’m so lost for word’s how can anyone say this is a coached child no way a child that age would know the things she know’s it’s peoople like this that ruin the children of today and we wonder why we have murders and robbers drug addicts this is sad at the least and it’s no wonder our world is in shambles…. A Tape like this warrents a 9mm shot to the head no questions asked and if you question the mother you need a bullet too then maby our country could start being normal
May 14th, 2009 at 4:26 pm
Bubba, This sick BASTARD needs to be hung by his thumbs and casterated and feel every bit of the pain and then he needs to be SHOT!!!!
May 14th, 2009 at 4:26 pm
Bubba, Why would the mother implicate herself by taping this if she told the baby what to say. That doesn’t make sense. That child could not remember what to say during that taping word for word if the mother had told her what to say. Her father is a sick bastard and needs to be hung by his balls. A child that young could not make up a story like that unless it was happening.
May 14th, 2009 at 4:31 pm
My heart goes out to the mother and child.. I too was a young girl getting sexually abused at one point. I was so scared to say anything. This little is being so brave by telling her story in the best way she knows how. I pray everyone reading this will do everything they can to help her. Thank you bubba for reaching out. I know you have started opening many doors to try and get this little girl home!
May 14th, 2009 at 4:34 pm
Never see the little girl talking its just audio. I hope it is fake because if it isnt this guy needs to be given to marcellus wallace.
If it is fake you guys just slandered this dude pretty good.
Video definitely could be made though not hard to do and women who lose custody of their kids would do it in a heartbeat.
May 14th, 2009 at 4:34 pm
What a sick f***. He needs to end up in the big house with the guys who hate child molesters. They will handle him there way. This poor child needs all the help she can get along with mom. May GOD bless you both.
May 14th, 2009 at 4:35 pm
im sick that there are actually people that think this mite be staged!! this is a two and a half yr old little girl. the video was taken in the dark. there is no way this poor little girl could remember what or how to say all that stuff. get a grip on reality here people, listen to her voice. this girl is genuine, her voice so innocent. someone has to help get this girl away from her father. and he should be casterated. if that was my daughter, he would be dead!!!! how can i help with this?
May 14th, 2009 at 4:42 pm
This poor poor little girl. I have a 3yo son and I totally believe little Aaliyah is experiencing horrific abuse by her father and grandfather, just by the way she communicates it. This is so tragic and sickening. We always go on and on about the poor children AFTER they end up dead, well here’s our chance to do something before that happens. KEEP THIS STORY ALIVE.
May 14th, 2009 at 4:46 pm
Can’t believe this video. Shocked that someone who is a father (and I am not so sure he deserves to be even considered that) could do something so horrible and heinous to a young child. If castration is ever a legalized punishment, put this bastard on top of the list to be the first one to have it removed! Then you can beat the living hell out of him! Any kind of punishment that makes him suffer the rest of his life works!
May 14th, 2009 at 4:46 pm
I just don’t know what to say. Unbeleivable that this has not been looked into after so long. Listening to this on the show while my little 15 month old girl was napping and it really choked me up. I even felt a moment of extreme anger (my thoughts of what I would like to do scared even myself). I really hope all the talk today helps the system move forward through the preasure they will be getting now.
May 14th, 2009 at 4:48 pm
Will someone please find this guy and kill him?
May 14th, 2009 at 4:48 pm
I am speechless. Keep getting the work out, please! Let me know what more I can do, I already went to the link and contacted the child services, and so on. If this lady needs a fund to hire a good lawyer, let us know.
Keep it up guys.
May 14th, 2009 at 4:50 pm
As an abuse survivor of the same type of abuse as this little girl, they really, really need to investigate this. Listening to this has stirred up so many horrible memories, and its made my stomach turn. The only thing about this that I can hope, if this is happening, is that shes too young to remember it if it ends soon. Mine did not end until I was 9, so sadly, I have the majority of my memories and I lack a normal childhood. I hope everyone gets involved to at least cause an investigation to occur. To anyone who hasnt been through this, you have no idea how this affects you LIFE LONG. I am now soon to be 30, and there is not a day that goes by that I dont think about what was done to me. Please God or someone out there, help this little girl if this is happening. Please dont let this continue. I’m begging, if this is real. :(
May 14th, 2009 at 4:52 pm
While driving in Placer County this afternoon and tuning into the Bubba Show as I do each and everyday for a good laugh, I literally broke down in tears while listening today! Words cannot describe how disgusted I am that this kind of injustice can happen to a little girl anywhere in the United States, but the fact that it is happening in my backyard makes me even sicker!!! I will be sending my letter in as well as passing this on to each and every person I know so that something can be done to save this little girl! My heart and prayers go out to Aaliyah and her Mother! I do not believe for one minute this little girl is being leaded in anyway! Her Daddy is sick and needs to be put away forever!!!
May 14th, 2009 at 4:53 pm
I am so deeply sickened and saddened by what I heard on the video tape you played today. As the father of both a daughter 18, and son 16, I think that getting a glock out would be the least of the father’s worries. If this does turn out to be a true event, it has to be made known that whatever prison he gets sent to what he did, and make sure that the inmates get a hold of him. Sex crimes against a child are the lowest form of scum in a prison.
I feel so sorry for that poor little girl. For some bastard to steal her innocence, the world is hard enough, the longer that a child has pure innocence, the better.
Thanks for bringing this matter to little Budda and crew!
May 14th, 2009 at 4:55 pm
—-> PLEASE WRITE THE DISTRICT ATTORNEY!!!
If this really concerns you, write the district attorney and tell him. Copy and Paste the letter at the top of this page, if nothing else.
TAKE ACTION!!!
DO SOMETHING!!!!!
May 14th, 2009 at 5:01 pm
this is bullshit someone need to help tanks bubba
May 14th, 2009 at 5:06 pm
I agree with Dr. Jay Flens. Both interpertations of the story are damaging to the child. Someone needs to get to the bottom of this problem before it causes more damage for this little girl. Both parties need to know that everything that is going on and being said about the other parent will be embeded into this childs mind. The authorities need to work on this case and find the truth for this little girl.
May 14th, 2009 at 5:08 pm
Hey Bubba and the boys thank you for taking a stand on this issue I heard you on Howard 101 today and this make me sick. I have 4 little neices and couldnt believe someone could do this to a young child. I created a facebook group for this cause and gave this website and the saveaaliyah site. The group is open to the public and please join and send your friends so we can help this poor little girl. http://www.facebook.com/home.php?ref=home#/group.php?gid=92865122089&ref=nfends
May 14th, 2009 at 5:31 pm
I cannot even finish listening or watching the video. I am a mother and a grandmother. My granddaughter is close to her age. There is no way that child is coached. They are pure and innocent. They say what they think and what they feel.Remove the child. The mother nor the father matter. It is the child that matters. She has no voice in our system. Let someone speak for her. Thank you Bubba for being a voice for the innocent child. God Bless you.
May 14th, 2009 at 5:31 pm
Either way you look at this. Ture or false the fact is that it must be looked at now. Save the child. I don’t care who is innocent or guilty. My concern is for the child and she must be saved now. Thank you for bringing this issue to my attention and I will do what I can to help in the cause. Which ever way you slice this issue it is Aaliyah being hurt.
May 14th, 2009 at 5:33 pm
I CANT BELIEVE A CRIME LIKE THIS IS NOT TAKEN ANY MORE SERIOUS THAN IF IT WERE SHOP LIFTING. THIS FATHER AND THE PEOPLE COVERING THIS UP SHOULD BE DEALT WITH AND A SERIOUS PUNISHMENT GIVEN THEM.
May 14th, 2009 at 5:39 pm
this little girl was obviously coached!! you can hear the little girl pausing and trying to remember the words. hell u can even hear the mother mumbling in the back at times!! has anybody even realized that the ENTIRE conversation happens just off screen! this only one guilty of anything here is the BITCH MOTHER for making her precious child even utter such disgusting words and put her through this type of stress! im dealing with a bitch just like this! the only reason i bet she hasnt tried this is cause we have a son and not a daughter! this bitch needs to be hauled under the lights and broken down!! cmon people..they gave him custody because they have seen the video and realize that the mother is a piece of shit!! its been 8 months because they are building a case against her not him! f### this hoe!!
May 14th, 2009 at 5:40 pm
This is horrible. I hope Justice is served!!
As for Chris We don’t need listners like you glad to hear you tuned out.
May 14th, 2009 at 5:43 pm
Ok we have some serious alligations here that need to be investigated fully. My question is does the state have something that says that this is all a hoax? If not everyone in the SA’s office needs to be taken out tied to and shot along with the father or mother which ever is playing games here. I know first hand kids can be coached as my father in law was accused of these types of acts by his ex wife’s daughter but after an investigation it was prooved that the alligations were false so to just push this under the rug is just criminal! With that said if it comes to light that the father reall did these things we need to make sure the people responsible for the delay in action and placing this child in danger are brought up on criminal charges at the verry least. Now if mom is just playing games to get her child I understand a mother has to do anything in her power to get her child but somehting like this is absurd and she should never see the light of day let alone the little girl. Bubba dont stop pushing this untill the truth is know either way. you may offend most but when it comes to things that really matter like this you step up at the right time so please keep pushing this, this is one time when being outspoken is a good thing
BUBBA ARMY
May 14th, 2009 at 5:44 pm
Bubba And All Keep UP The Good Work
May 14th, 2009 at 5:45 pm
my daughter is 1 1/2 and says like 15 words..my son spoke that well and was a sponge at 2 1/2..as a father of two AND the oldest child in my ENTIRE family..yes..a 2 1/2 yr old can indeed be coached..WELL!
May 14th, 2009 at 5:49 pm
I have three words for this man. SHOOT THE BASTARD
May 14th, 2009 at 5:51 pm
Oh my god Bubba…I was in tears. I myself was an abused child and as a parent it’s not something you want happen to your child. Being a victim you educate and protect you kids to the best of your ability. I educated my children and unfortunately not only did it happen to my baby girl but to my son also by the same sick minded ******* I’m not sure how the law works in the states but here in Canada they get a slap on the hand making it very frustrating for both parent and victim. Years of therapy and still my babies will never be the same. Innocent children are being mentally damaged for life
I know that with your help justice will be served…you have the power and drive to help any victim of such. I sure wish we had someone like you here in Canada.
This guy is sick his parental rights should be taken until a full investigation has been completed.
Bubba please keep us posted.
May 14th, 2009 at 5:52 pm
After hearing this on the radio my wife and I were just in shock. We both cried, and were so happy when we heard of all the wonderful people stepping up to help. Bubba Army, BUBBA ARMY! Let us all help in prayer, even if some of us are atheist, Help her Bubba Army.
May 14th, 2009 at 5:56 pm
I WAS YOUR LAST CALLER YESTERDAY & WOULD LIKE TO SAY ONCE AGAIN, I HAVE THIS GOD AWFUL FEELING IN MY STOMACH THAT HER FATHER DID THIS IF NOT ONLY FROM MY OWN EXPERIENCE. WHATEVER THE OUT COME, I’D LIKE TO SAY THANK YOU ONCE AGAIN FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART FOR GETTING THE WORD OUT SO THAT THIS INNOCENT CHILD CAN RECEIVE HELP SOMETHING I NEVER HAD. MY FATHER IS STILL ALIVE (I HAVE NO RELATIONSHIP WITH HIM) & HE TOLD MY BROTHER HE WOULD NEVER ADMIT IT HAPPENED. WHEN MY MOTHER FOUND OUT ( I WAS AROUND 23) SHE APOLOGIZED TO ME FOR HIM (THEY WERE DIVORCED) THEN TURNED AROUND A FEW YEARS LATER REMARRIED THE SOB & TOLD ME I WAS LYING, THEN HE DIVORCED HER AND SHE BELIEVED ME AGAIN. TALK ABOUT A DOUBLE WAMMY WHEN THE 2 PEOPLE YOUR SUPPOSE TO LOVE THE MOST IN THIS WORLD & LOOK UP TO & TRUST MIGHT AS WELL HAVE JUST STUCK A KNIFE IN YOU. THANKFULLY I TURNED OUT O.K. & THAT’S ALL I WANT FOR THIS LITTLE GIRL AND LIKE I SAID, NO MATTER THE OUT COME CUZ I HAD IT FROM BOTH GOOD OLD MOM & DAD & SOMEONE NEEDS TO PAY.
May 14th, 2009 at 6:12 pm
Sick f!! this ‘a’ hole needs to have his “worm” laid out on a chopping block and hacked up, then let him try to get a 3 year old to touch it or whatever!! Can’t believe anybody with any kind of dignity or feelings would not even bother to look in to it. What the ‘f’ is going on in that part of the world? Sounds like a modern day thunderdome environment!! Way to step up Bubba and let people be aware of the alleged situation!! glad to be a part of the Bubba Army!!!!!!
May 14th, 2009 at 6:20 pm
Some one give me an address.
I’ll do him.
May 14th, 2009 at 6:24 pm
Give me an address.
I will do him.
Do him real good.
May 14th, 2009 at 6:50 pm
This bitch is a money grubbin’ whore. ANY mother on the face of the earth who heard her child say that anything was being done to them would jump out of bed and hold her and ask her what was wrong, not film her in ‘night vision’ and leave it alone AND NOT MAKE A LINK FOR A DONATION!!!!!!!!!!! A real claim would be: Please contact the police etc…..It’s soooooo fake. You can see at one point where the video stops and starts again. What mother, even a piece of shit, would just lay in bed next to her child and just listen and not hold them and ask ‘what happened, what does daddy do’?!?!?!?!!!!
LIAR
May 14th, 2009 at 6:54 pm
You have got to be kidding! This is a MegaBit*h out for revenge. Listen to the cell phone calls linked on her website. It is all about her not the child. I find it truely hard to belive that after 6 months, if the alligations were true, that ANY court would ignore the information that you have provided. You Rednecks will belive any thing -”Hell, if it’s on the internet it MUST be True!” I have, however, forwared your letter in my nane.
May 14th, 2009 at 6:56 pm
I can’t fricking believe that the judicial system can turn a blind eye to this. I have no doubt in my mind that this baby girl is telling the truth. The mother isn’t trying to extract any info out of Aaliyah such as “and what happened after that” or “tell Mommie more”, etc. Irregardless of what anyone thinks about this video, fake or not, it doesn’t matter. This child is crying for help. I swear!!! Something is jacked when children are disregarded in such a manner. I bet this wouldn’t happen if it was an animal being abused. What does that say about us???
May 14th, 2009 at 6:58 pm
I am outraged and disgusted by this video. The Father should be excuted. And as for the connections that he has we should get all of their names and be sure that when their seat comes up for re-election that the public remembers this little girl and how she was treated. If a priest (a man supposedly living for God) can molest children then anybody can, no matter their social standing. I am a victim of rape and abuse, it was overwhelming as an adult. I can’t even begin to imagine the pain and suffering it causes to a child. I am with you on this band wagon. Just tell me when and where!!!!!!!
May 14th, 2009 at 6:59 pm
I tried to have an open mind after hearing part of your show this morning. I tried to see how it could possibly be staged or misconstrued. I tried to see a WAY out for the father(I belive in innocent until proven guilty). After all the excuses I could come up with, I cried. I saw this child crying for help, and noone has been able to, obviously! My gosh this child talks and talks but cries if her auntie or Mommie doesn’t answer whether or not they are simply THERE!!
Please keep us up to date about ANYTHING you hear about this case. The public needs to know ANYTHING it can on how to prevent sexual abuse: especially child sexual abuse; how to recognize it; that you will not be ignored if you report it; and that you will not be austrisized reporting it!!!!!!
May 14th, 2009 at 7:07 pm
Hey Bubba,
After hearing this story, has caused me to feel a lot of hate, like I just want to go out and beat on a pedophile.
Where does this fag live?
May 14th, 2009 at 7:08 pm
Like you said on the show today…If this is true this guy is one crazy piece of crap. To quote Hank Jr, “I’d like to spit some Beech Nut in that dudes eyes, and shoot him with my ol’ 45″
May 14th, 2009 at 7:12 pm
If this guy did this he needs to be castrated and stoned at the courthouse steps and in front of the whole world. This actually made me tear up, I dont have kids but i have a neice and if someone would ever do something like this to her i would be in jail and would do the same as bubba would do.
May 14th, 2009 at 7:15 pm
[...] are going to be pig sick of the name Aaliyah Bedwell. It is going to be discussed again on btls again tomorrow, terrestrial radio for 4 hours, and then Sirius for another 4 [...]
May 14th, 2009 at 7:21 pm
If this f###ng monster is guilty, I say we fire up the Bubba wood chipper and make some human chili jones.
May 14th, 2009 at 7:27 pm
Some of you people are…special. What most of us want is an investigation into this. Yes the obvious one is to look into possible abuse by the dad to the little girl. BUT if that is indeed false, than an investigation needs to occur in regards to the making of this video. As a survivor, it sounds legit to me, but I’m no expert. It doesnt sound coached to me, especially near the end when you can hear the slight crying and the little girl asking whats wrong. Sure it could all be staged but I’m just not believing it. Either way, someone or both need to be investigated.
May 14th, 2009 at 7:29 pm
What a sick sick freak I have 3 kids of my own and if this was ever to go on with any of my kids so help me god ..No need for god,cops,jail.I will hand out death on the spot I sure hope the mom is not making all this up..Its hard to see 8 months or so and nothing has been done..wtf I hate all sex offender that eye up kids kill em all
May 14th, 2009 at 7:31 pm
This breaks my heart just knowing that anyone would be capable of such a heartless deed. I listened to the show today and I’m trying to way both sides. However, my gut is winning the battle of a terrible ending to the story. I hope the Bubba Army can expose this “Prick of a father” and get him put away where he belongs. Please keep me posted on this issue.
jw
May 14th, 2009 at 7:39 pm
What a BASTARD!!! I am disgusted and enraged by what I just saw. I started listening this morning on my way to work and was so upset I was glad I got to work and couldn’t listen anymore. I am a mother of 3 children 2 of which have been sexually abused by someone they know. At the time my daughter was 2 and my son was 3 1/2. Listening to Aalyiah brought back painful and sickening memories. There is no way this child is making this up. My son gave very vivid details even at his age and there is no way you can coach a kid to say things like that.
What is wrong with Placer county!!!! Are they all cold hearted Bastards???? Do they not have children???? I’m sure if it was one of theirs, they wouldn’t let someone get away with this.
I hope he rots in Hell!!! He wants someone to play with his worm so bad wait till he gets locked up (Lord willing). They don’t like people who hurt babies!!!!
I will pray for Aalyiah and her mom that God will bless them and keep them safe, and give them the strength to get this creep off the streets forever!!!
Bubba–thank you so much for caring enough to bring this to everyone’s attention!!! I love your show–Bubba Army Bubba army
May 14th, 2009 at 7:42 pm
Bubba this is so crazy! This a$$hole should be killed! Not only that, but I feel guilty because this is in my own backyard and I have not heard a thing about this case! The news coverage in the Sacramento/ Placer County area is lack luster to say the least! I will do all that I can not only as BUBBA ARMY member but as a citizen of the Roseville/Placer County area! This is complete Bullshiz, and needs to be in the for front of the media networks! Saving baby Aaliyah is way more important then a fundraiser for saving the Sacramento Kings! This is a childs life, not a shotty sports team!! Come on Sac news stations and Placer County. Get off your butts and DO SOMETHING!
Sorry I was justtrying to type fast Grammer is really shitty!!
May 14th, 2009 at 7:53 pm
From the mouths of babes..After veiwing this video posted on your website, I was left with emptiness and dispair. As a mother, a nurse and a humanbeing, I could only feel hoplessness and real pain, the kind that I have witnessed when a parent is fighting for thier childs life from cancer, and their is nothing they can do but watch. There is no cure for this disease but, there is a remedy for what pain this child is suffering. As a mother, listening to this little girl ( I can’t get her little voice out of my head ), I can tell she is speaking her truth as her little mind sees it, with honesty. Her mother’s pain is also, real. ( a mother can sense it). I empathized for her, trying to put myself in her shoes..but it was a place I could not go without feeling anger and after reading some of the comments of people doubting her it only made me sadder. Was she to shine a bright light in her childs eyes like that of an interrogation? Only a mother would know that this child was asking questions out of fear like.. do you have a worm? to her mother and “auntie” because she has witnessed first hand that the people she has trusted and grown to love, namingly her father, has scared her in a most devious and dispicable way. Who in her little mind will betray her next? For those who think the mother has coaxed her shame on you.. this mother is hurting and her daughter even at 2, could sense it. You can not fool a child if you are close enough to them..my 4 yr old son can pick up on my sadness within 5 min of my presence without me speaking a word or crying. Children deserve more credit than they recieve. I am glad Bubba you have brought this to light and others are making their contributions. This little angel needs all the help and prays she can get
May 14th, 2009 at 7:57 pm
Hi Bubba ,
Freakin CHILLS !!!!!
It’s been three hours since your show ended and i still got chills, that was one of the sadest, disgusting ,out right unforgivable acts. I’m the very proud father of two beautiful little girls,and it made be cry like a little girl on the way home from work listening to you. I know the Bubba army has to be just as sick. I cut and pasted Brets letter and sent it to that so called D.A. Hopefuly he gets off his a– and helps that ltttle girl and her mom.If there was ever the case for capatiol punishment this is IT. May that piece of crap of a father die a slow painful death ,if he did do what we all heard on that tape . Thanks for letting me vent Bubba . New listener since you came with Howard ,and I Love your SHOW.
Steven.
May 14th, 2009 at 8:08 pm
Damn it bubba, its just wrong. So glad i dont live in a small town
May 14th, 2009 at 8:15 pm
MY HEART GOES OUT TO THIS LITTLE GIRL AND HER MOTHER IT HAS TO BE HARD HEARING THIS FROM A CHILD AND NOONE WILL HELP WITH ANYTHING! HOPEFULLY SOMEONE WILL HELP WITH THIS SITUATION!
May 14th, 2009 at 8:15 pm
This guy has to be the sickest human being walking on the face of this planet,he definitely needs to be castrated,if he indeed did do this to his daughter.You are definitely broken if you have to stoop to this level to full fill your sexual desires on a child that is only innocent and really has no idea what is really happening to her.I feel so badly for this little girl.Bubba,keep your foot on his throat,until we bring all of this to justice,for this little girls sake,thank you!
May 14th, 2009 at 8:18 pm
hay bubba
being a father of a 2year old i just want to grab this guy
wrap my towchain around his balls and drag him behind my peterbuilt for about 500 miles but thats just how we would handle it in the back woods of pennsylvania
and yes the bubba army is strong around here
May 14th, 2009 at 8:23 pm
This guy is a sicko and needs to be stopped. im printing and sending the letter now.
May 14th, 2009 at 8:27 pm
I don’t understand why there is a video camera w/ night vision handy; jus t odd to me. I’m sorry, but why doesn’t the mom have a lawyer? I understand if money is the issue. I just didn’t grasp the reason during my view of the video.
I agree that some investigation is needed. Maybe the best thing is for the little girl to be in someone else’s custody until both parents are fully investigated. I know she needs her parents. The issue is if the environment in either parent’s presence is best for the little girl at the moment. Even if not coached or the parents aren’t being undermining or opinionate about the other parent, the little girl has got to sense stress. There are three sides to a story; his, hers and then the overall facts. No matter what happens someone needs to represent the child
and her rights.
http://www.dss.cahwnet.gov/cdssweb/PG20.htm
http://www.findcounseling.com/journal/child-abuse/sexual-abuse-incest-statistics.html
http://www.findcounseling.com/national/child-abuse.html
http://www.findcounseling.com/journal/child-abuse/child-abuse-hotlines-phone-numbers.html
http://sacramento.fbi.gov/
May 14th, 2009 at 8:27 pm
i know some people i was in the 82nd with we could show this man a real bad time…airborne!!
May 14th, 2009 at 8:28 pm
hey bubba and crew iam a dedicated listener for years now and also i have a bubba army sticker on my work truck(dont know if that makes me in the bubba army or not)anyway out of all the stories you guys talk about this is the first time i have ever responded to anything.i have three children myself and if this happened to my kids i would load the glock as well bubba what can i do to help you guys in any way please.thanks good luck all involved in this matter bubba and crew do your thing you will get a reaction from this somebody important has to be listening or reading
May 14th, 2009 at 8:29 pm
Thank you for picking up this story Bubba. I found out about it a week ago through BNN Simon & Jan.
The judicial system in Placer county is a corrupt (good old boys club) This affects law enforcement and the local media who are afraid to report on this case. Can you imagine living in a County like this? This sounds like a spinoff of the movie Deliverance, California style.
We need to keep this story screaming until justice is done for this precious little girl.
May 14th, 2009 at 8:41 pm
Bubba And Crew,
As proud parents of three we are sad for this child. No matter who is the psycho (mom or dad… I am guessing dad)its outrageous that the authorities have not stepped in and taken the little girl away from the situation. I listen to your show daily and just have to say no matter what you have done on the air that would seem out of line to every critic what you done today was nothing short of commendable. It should be put on every radio and news station nation wide to let people know the sickness that is out there.,.right in front of them
May 14th, 2009 at 8:48 pm
Bubba,
I live in Roseville CA, (Placer county) and this is the first I have heard of this story. None of the local news stations are running this story. Hopefully word will get out to the 3 network news (KCRA KXTV KOVR)stations and they can give this proper coverage. This guy sounds like a real pervert, and needs to be molested himself during a long stay in Folsom prison. Don’t stop with this until there is justice for this little girl, Keep up the great show!
May 14th, 2009 at 8:53 pm
The “Good ole boy” system is who to blame for any of this. Kids can pick up anything that their parents say or do. I myself had my 3 year old son, told that “We need to get out of here before daddy hurts us”, by his “then” pysco mother, and picked up on it. I am for neither the father or mother till the truth comes out. If the mother is or somehow “coached” the little girl, or God help the father if it is true, then they get what they deserve. The victim is the little girl. The culprits start with the county officials and their lack of ivestigation. I hope and pray that there is not a lot of phsycological damage done to this girl. If they are tryin to get back at one another, shame on them. The county needs a major overhaul in my opinion, that’s where I’d start first, no.. get the child the child in a safe enviroment and then get the ball rolling. Anyway it’s a tragedy that an innocent kid has to be put thru this. My son turned out great, the whole arguing with me and my ex was that she was super pissed that I let the cat out of the bag that she was gay. And was really pissed when she found out that I had tapped my own phone to get the truth. We get along great now. Again I hope that this gets resolved and fast for the little girls sake, the only casualty in this fiasco.
May 14th, 2009 at 8:53 pm
Bubba,
I just want you and everyone in the Bubba Army I am an FTE and this story touched me and my wife we sent the email to the DA. I just hope we are not to late as you said on the show today it is a win win situation.
May 14th, 2009 at 9:08 pm
how do we contact arnold swartnagger he should be all over this as well as the fbi and some child doctor should look at the child u can tell when a kid is being coach and when they are not thay is why we have those people i live in oregon a few years back front padge a man was released from jail for rapeing and murdering a 2 yr old after he spent some time in jail all because he didnt get a timeley trial what the hell is that im so angry right now i cant even spell anyway all child abuser should be kept in a special place and tortured every day of there natural life.
May 14th, 2009 at 9:21 pm
I am literally sick to my stomach after hearing that video. I heard your show today and I am confident that you will get after these people or whomever can help figure this nightmare out. I have a 4 yr old daughter that IS my entire life…I am so sickened by this. It’s too graphic to be a hoax but either way, it needs to be figured out and that child needs help asap.
May 14th, 2009 at 9:34 pm
what the hell is the matter with this man sorry i ment beast our hearts go out to this little one
May 14th, 2009 at 9:39 pm
Bubba, I heard this on your show this morning and just saw the video and all I can say is when do we get all of the Bubba Army together and ride out there to California and take care of this guy? As a father I am sickened to hear this, fearful just like every other parent out there who worries about their child when they leave the house. The most important issue here is the child and her well being and if the law will not take care of it properly then the people have to do something to protect this child and I, as well as several others, are more than willing to drive, ride or whatever it takes to get out there to be there for this little girl. This simply must NOT go unchecked and the longer it continues the more this little girl is in danger. As a fellow parent I feel it is my duty and that of every other parent worth their salt to step up and put this right before this little girl must endure any more. The People’s Hammer must be nuclear powered and slammed on this guy now!
May 14th, 2009 at 9:47 pm
Dude this is an atrocity. For something as horrific as this to take place and never see the light of day is inexcuseable. We must make them delve into this case with no prejudice. Investigate bot sides (mother and father) equally and determine what is really going on. If the father is doing what he’s accused of then he should be dealt with accordingly.
May 14th, 2009 at 9:48 pm
It’s hard to put my disgust into words over this. I was in tears today as I listened to this. How can they have not investigated this, even the smallest iota of a mention of child abuse should be looked into.The court system and law enforcement need to be investigated after this. How could they give such an innocent child to that disgusting monster!! He is a pig & I hope this gets investigated and that monster goes to jail, we all know what they do to child abusers in jail……
May 14th, 2009 at 9:53 pm
I just dont know what to say…This shizz HAS TO STOP!!!!!
I want to take her dad deep sea fishing where he will be the fishing worm. If there is a GOD, PlEAS help this kid
May 14th, 2009 at 9:54 pm
Bubba…If this guy is found guilty of this!!!He should be brought to your studio and put him on your torture rack and make him feel the wrath of the Bubba and then thrown into your Bubbagon for who ever wants at him. Me 1st!!!
May 14th, 2009 at 9:59 pm
i think the moms innocent and she just dont know what to do but the husband needs to be tortured
May 14th, 2009 at 10:03 pm
I think that there is a special corner of hell for the father and for all the authorities and everyone who is in total denial and will not do anything to confront or stick their neck out against any of the good ol boy politics that are taking place there to save this perfectly beautiful angel little girl. They have the nerve to call themselves men. Carma is a mother******. I would love to get him out here in the country in Pennsylvania where I live where us country boys would cut his worm off, stick it in his mouth, cut his legs from his ankles to were his worm used to be while he is chained and stuck to a post with arrows and let the coyotes and critters take care of him. TRUE JUSTICE! GOD SAVE AND BLESS AALIYAH AND HER MOTHER!
May 14th, 2009 at 10:08 pm
Mr. Fenocchio
My name is Tammy Paro and I am a resident in upstate NY. A friend sent me a message regarding the situation with this most tormented little girl this evening.
To have to hear of this in such a way was most unfortunate for this child as it was not a news story about the agency you head using it’s power to save the child, but a story about the humanity of a radio show doing it instead! That fact is criminal in and of itself!
I would like to tell you that what I heard and read on my computer, via the Bubba The Love Sponge Show was not only disturbing and repulsive, it was true. The language that Aaliyah used was typical of a child her age. The references she made to the Baby E. Worm and her father’s penis were also appropriate for her age (at the time of the making of the recording). She was not being influenced by either adult in the room and clearly was speaking for herself. How your agency or you could have spent the past year doing nothing to aid in the fight of this child’s mother to save her is despicable.
I have an educational background in the area of child development as well as psychology and work professionally with children. It is not possible for a child of her age to be programmed in such a way that she would make such distinct and yet random references to what she was and in all probability is still experiencing at the hands of her father. Her description of his “worm”, it’s size, it being yucky and also the way she portrayed what was causing her to cough and his having to wipe her mouth is clearly an indication that she is being forced to perform some type of oral sex on her father. This man is sodomizing his toddler and your agency is doing nothing to stop it.
Her cries have not gone unheard by those that love her or even by the country she lives in. Aaliyah’s cries go unheard only by those that have the power to change her circumstances. They are ignored by you and the others in your field that are entrusted with stopping such crimes against those too young to stop them on their own. Face it, she has tried harder to stop her father by telling him to stop than you have!
Mr. Fenocchio, you are in a position affording you the chance to bring about the saving of this child. You are also in a position to continue the obvious indifference that will doom her to a life of nothing but pain and constant violations emotionally and physically at the hands of her own father.
I can tell you from personal experience that what has been done to her is something that will not end until someone with the power to stop it, does exactly that! Mr. Fenocchio, are you going to be that man? Are you going to be the person who uses his influence to save her from more abuse and offers her the life she was meant to have? The power is yours to use if you choose to stand up for her and use it. If you choose to do nothing, I am sorry to say that you are worse than the person perpetrating these crimes against this child. He is a vile,manipulative, heinous creature who preys upon the innocent. He is sick, in a way that is not clearly understood. You, on the other hand, are not. You are clearly just indifferent to what she suffers. If you choose to continue to look away and allow this to continue, you cannot fall back on some obscure diagnosis as an excuse for doing nothing. The only reason you will have is that of complete disregard for human life and the safety, protection and welfare of Aaliyah.
I would encourage you to be a hero for this child and not add yourself to the ranks of the many that will have failed her in her young life. She is blessed to have a mother willing to continue to fight for her and not give up. What her mother lacks is power, you have that and waste it. Do the right thing Mr. Fenocchio. Do the difficult thing. Fight for the child who cannot fight for herself.
As a survivor of long term severe sexual, physical, emotional and psychological abuse, I can tell you that what happens to her now, will change her life forever. What this man has done, cannot be undone. I watched the video, I heard Aaliyah and I can tell you that I know her because there was once a child within me that experienced the same type of abuse and much worse. Had I your position and power, this would have stopped the first time it was brought to my attention. Is it only survivors of abuse that care for those that are currently being abused by not only those they trust but also by the system put in place to protect them?
Your office has an obligation to do what is right for her. Do it! Mr. Fenocchio, the eyes of the Nation are watching you now. What will you do? I pray, for Aaliyah that you and those that have the power to change her circumstances do it and do it now! Every moment is one moment too many for her to suffer.
We will be watching. We will not be silent. We will have the courage that was so profoundly apparent in Aaliyah and we will speak out. It will no longer be the small voice of a child that says “No, don’t do that”! It will be all of us telling you that it is time for you to do your duty and stop turning a blind eye to the slow death of the innocent spirit of Aaliyah.
Respectfully outraged
Tammy Paro
Mandated reporter for CPS in upstate NY
Parent Educator for Catholic Charities of the Arch Diocese of NY
Professional Nanny for an agency out of Clifton Park, NY and a parent of five happy, healthy and safe children!
May 14th, 2009 at 10:25 pm
I will be contacting my local chapter of B.A.C.A. (Bikers Against Child Abuse) to see if they have affiliates in Placer County. They’ll surely take up the case and follow it to its conclusion.
Please locate, contact, and support your local B.A.C.A. chapter. These are good people doing good work!
May 14th, 2009 at 10:35 pm
God bless this poor innocent child! She is not making this up and I do not see how an adult could not see this!! this literally makes me sick to my stomach and want to cry. We all need to take a stand for this little girl!! this is wrong! This man needs to be chopped and BURNED! what a sick f*ck!
May 14th, 2009 at 10:39 pm
“BUBBA ARMY!” “BUBBA ARMY!” BUBBA ARMY!” LET’S All send this letter. I Bubba Army Private has sent three now from northern Alberta, Canada! With Bubba’s Army on this all that’s needed is the “POWER of the HOWARD FIST”
May 14th, 2009 at 10:45 pm
this is so messed up!..this man is just plain sick in the head!…….something needs to be done and fast that baby has done nothing to deserve this injustice…..i know exactly what she is going thru as i endured @ 20 yrs of sexual abuse in my life(not all by the same person)…the first time was my biological father..nothing was ever done to him for it…it made me feel like i was nothing…this baby is something and she deserves to b protected by the law and justice system..i watched the video and it made me throw up…..there is no way that she was caoched in any way….i was her age when my father did it to me….i no first hand kids say what is the truth at 3 yrs old they cant lie on purpose…..the dont have that ability yet….i pray over and over again that this sick sob is brought to justice before any more damage is brought on this baby girl!!!!!!!…..edie
May 14th, 2009 at 11:07 pm
I have a 9 y.o. boy and a 3y.o. girl. After the brodcast of this tape I had to stop my big truck on the side of the road and call my family back home. I’m a Canadian and knows this is hapening hear too. Bubba PLEASE HELP HER OUT! If they need a please to hide. My home is open to them in a small town in northern Ontario, Canada.
May 14th, 2009 at 11:20 pm
the mom is smokeing hot. i hope shes not a 15min of fame whore useing her kid if this is true they should have him put in general population the inmates will take care of him and it wont be clean or fun he will suffer and die that is what i hope happens if this is true.
May 14th, 2009 at 11:22 pm
Bubba,no matter what,you have just saved this little girls life,I can’t believe that sicko of a father has legal custody of this child!The thing is not only does he need to go away,so does anyone involved in covering this up.No way should this have gone without being investigated.Anyone of the disturbed individuals who seen this video and did nothing about it are is just as guilty.Thanks Bubba for everything you do! And may the father of that baby girl be introduced to all the penitentiary worms.Let him see first hand just what he has done to this child!
May 14th, 2009 at 11:31 pm
I k now the hurt this mother is going threw my daughter was doing the same thing as this little girl at the age of 4 her half brother would hump her butt i could not get not help at all the court said i was telling her to say this and court turned around and gave my ex sole custody and let it happen 13 times that i know of she now is 12 years old i havnt seen her in 8 years it is very hurtful when she would come home and tell me all i can do is walk out of the room crying i could never get any one to listen to her or me in my case nothing was ever done to the sick kid that is called her half brother he can now hurt another child
May 14th, 2009 at 11:37 pm
Thousands of innocent children are abused everyday in this country behind closed doors. Aaleyahs mother gave us an opportunity to listen to how her child has been coping with this abuse. I am the mother of a 3 year old little girl and I do not believe for one second that little Aaleyah was coached. Her father is a sick SOB and his “worm” should be chopped off and floating in the Pacific Ocean!
May 14th, 2009 at 11:38 pm
We really need to get this man off of the streets, as an abused child myself, this child will have to endure years of hurt and anger, guilt for something that she never did. For something that was done to her. After years of therapy and the Lord’s good grace I have been healed and have the ability to help others. Speak with others. People like this man need to be punished for such crime/crimes never to be seen or heard from again. I know that the Lord will make sure of it one day, but while they walk this earth, we as a people need to unite and make sure we do something about them or our children will just continue to be hurt and abused instead of being safe and loved like they are intended to be. It’s a shame when a child cant just be that a child. Carefree to run and play and enjoy their life without having to live in fear of others always wondering what if? I pray that justice be done, I know that the Lord will hear our prayers. I Thank each and everyone that comes here for support as I know you care and that you are loving parents/sisters/brothers/etc. In His Love, Tam
May 14th, 2009 at 11:49 pm
WE_CARE_ProJect is hear to support Save Baby Aaliyah, We are located from East Coast to West Coast and in Between (Indiana) Please hear our voices CRY OUT SCREAM OUT for this child and her Mother.
May 14th, 2009 at 11:49 pm
I am so OUTRAGED at the way you are looking the other way as this precious baby gets sexualy, physicaly,& verbaly abused & tortured. Don’t you have babies of your own or grandchildren?~ You wonder what is wrong with our future?~ Our children? YOUR what’s wrong with it. YOU keep allowing this kind of stuff to continue & know it will only bring about more pain & anger once these babies grow up & realize that knowone cared what happened to them when they were to helpless to protect themself. YOUR so wrong if you think this could NEVER happen to your OWN children or grandchild & wrongly mistaken. PLEASE rescue this baby so she might have some kind of life left in her if that is even possible anymore? My prayers go out to all the abused children who have survived as I barely did & also to the ones who have passed because help NEVER came for them. WE HAVE TO BE THE VOICE FOR THE CHILDREN!~ From L.Engle-Belcher of Niagara Falls,N.Y. AKA HappyOne Against ALL ABUSE
May 14th, 2009 at 11:52 pm
Date: May 14,2009
Mr. Fenocchio,
I am writing you to express my concern about your apparent lack of attention in a case involving the sexual abuse of a three year old girl named Aaliyah Bedwell. The video seen many places on the internet titled “Daddy’s Worm†is disturbing to say the least. What’s more disturbing is the way this case has been handled by your office. You are the highest Law Enforcement Official in Placer County, California. You have the responsibility to protect this child when the allegation of sexual abuse is brought to your attention, which this was over eight months ago by all accounts.
The suspect in this case has an attorney named Mrs. Sandra Amara, whose husband is also a judge. If Judge Dirk Amara is meddling in this case, it is also your duty to investigate him. Judge Frances Kearney, removed herself from this case, and stipulated that a judge from a different county would hear it. Which is a step in the right direction, however, it does not absolve you of your responsibility of investigating credible allegations of serious violent sexual crimes like this one.
Mr. Fenocchio, it is paramount for the well being of children in your county that you prosecute those suspected of child sexual abuse to the fullest extent of the law without exception. Anything else is unacceptable for a District Attorney. Protect this child, prosecute the offender, and uphold the laws of your state. These are all part of your responsibility as the District Attorney of Placer County, California. You need to take this very seriously before this child is beyond the help and protection she deserves.
Sincerely,
Melanie Doty
Evansville, Indiana
May 14th, 2009 at 11:59 pm
I did not catch all the show today but I did hear some of this discussion and had to read about it for myself. After reading the story and watching the video I was sick to my stomach. I cannot believe that America’s morale compass is so FU*&* up that no one has looked at this case more closely. I know there are to sides to every story but I pray to god someone helps this little girl.
May 15th, 2009 at 12:04 am
I viewed this video this evening at the request of my husband, a dedicated listener…And I’m uphauled that no one has brought this case to trial. This poor little girl, as we all sit, in tears listening or watching what she’s going through is STILL GOING THROUGH IT!!! UNF###ING BELIEVABLE!!! Someone seriously needs to get off of their tired, lazy asses and wake up! Yes, let’s save little Aaliyah and do whatever it takes to bring her sorry desperate father to court. If for any sick reason this little girl has rehearsed this scene, then we’re responsible for bringing her mother to justice at a later time, but the focus should be to get THE BABY out of direct danger.
May 15th, 2009 at 12:25 am
All I want is Aaliaya safe! I am calling on the army. Protect this young girl. Make sure she becomes a super person. She survives and makes a difference. As a man I protect. This small one needs all of us. Turn your rage to a stream of protection. To make a difference save Aaliaya’s life. Make sure you make a difference.
BUBBA ARMY!!!!
May 15th, 2009 at 12:27 am
Disgusting, either way. Thanks Simon and Jan for bringing this to Bubba’s attention. As always, once Bubba gets ahold of something – look out!
Aaliyah, help is coming – I hope it’s not too late.
May 15th, 2009 at 1:00 am
this makes me cry
May 15th, 2009 at 1:07 am
As a retired NCOIC (Non commissioned officer in charge)of a corrections facility within the theater of the USAF, I was able to sit in on quite a few proceedings involving members of our military, and viewed similar video and recorded evidence like this, and in my honest opinion, this appears to be very legitimate. I had at least 35 convicted “child molester/abusers” sent to facilities within my command, and PLEASE understand that they are sick and in-curable degenerates, that cannot be rehabilitated. Those I encountered who were either up on charges or found guilty of these types of offenses involving children were the most cunning of vermin, I have ever met, keep in mind they have to control the mind and views of the most innocent yet inquisitive minds, those of a child. Children under the age of 5 do not have the ability to “cover” for anyone other than them selves. They, when speaking of or describing actions they dont fully understand or dont comprehend often verbalize facts in fragmented segments, often repeating them 2 or 3 times in succession, this is the way their mind works when they verbalize any point, whether they feel the urge to go potty, or they are hungry.Those of you who have kids, think back to when they were 2 or 3 and try to remember how often they repeated the phrase ” I’ve got to go potty, I’ve got to go potty, I’ve got to go potty”. Any ways< Bubba and crew, thank you for bringing this to the forefront, and fighting for this little girl, I hope for her sake, justice is done!!
May 15th, 2009 at 1:33 am
The child wasn’t coached… I hope everyone sends an email to the prosecutor regarding this case…
May 15th, 2009 at 1:41 am
Whether you believe the video or not, this obviously warrants an investigation, SOONER rather than later. I think I would run away with my child rather than ever turn her over to him for his “visits,” but maybe the legal way is the way to go. If this is true, she doesn’t have much time left before all of her innocence and trust are destroyed. :(
May 15th, 2009 at 2:08 am
Bubba thank you for taking this on you are a hero some other stations, jocks wouldnt give 2 shits less. I just wish to god someone would get to the bottom of this why is this still going on and seems to not be ending???? I pray you stay with the case and use your power to demand answers.
May 15th, 2009 at 3:55 am
At first I thought the story sounded a little too… made up. But then I watched the video. I also pumped the audio and listened through good headphones to see if I could hear any “whispers” or “coaching”.
All I heard was a little girl talking and a mother crying. The tone of the mothers voice showed she was crying probably the entire time. The little girls rambling (to me) showed ZERO signs of coaching.
Anyone with kids knows that its not easy to coach a kid to say things. Especially for any prolonged period of time. Also this video is edited down to 9 minutes. I read the actual video is 24 minutes. Coaching an (at the time) 2 1/2 year old to speak for 24 minutes about “daddy’s worm” and how “daddy wants a baby with me”… that just ain’t happening.
What I believe is, that if this is actually found out to be true… and this father is abusing the child.. then the judge, the prosecutors and anyone else involved with this case should be tried with accessory. Just as people can be charged as an accessory to murder… these people should be tried for accessory to child molestation. By not viewing this evidence and truly investigating these claims.. they themselves are facilitating this to go on. They might as well be right there with this “father” doing these acts.
May 15th, 2009 at 5:50 am
Can you hear the prayer of the children?
On bended knee, in the shadow of an unknown room
Empty eyes with no more tears to cry
Turning heavenward toward the light
Crying Jesus, help me
To see the morning light-of one more day
But if I should die before I wake,
I pray my soul to take
Can you feel the hearts of the children?
Aching for home, for something of their very own
Reaching hands, with nothing to hold on to,
But hope for a better day a better day
Crying Jesus, help me
To feel the love again in my own land
But if unknown roads lead away from home,
Give me loving arms, away from harm
Can you hear the voice of the children?
Softly pleading for silence in a shattered world?
Angry guns preach a gospel full of hate,
Blood of the innocent on their hands
Crying Jesus, help me
To feel the sun again upon my face,
For when darkness clears I know you’re near,
Bringing peace again
Dali cujete sve djecje molitive?
(Croatian translation:
‘Can you hear all the children’s prayers?’)
Can you hear the prayer of the children?.
Thank you Child Protection Community for not allowing another innocent voice NOT to be heard!..You already know!!!
May 15th, 2009 at 6:30 am
Bubba if you or your staff are reading comments during the broadcast – I think there is wrong info being said. The mother had not yet been instructed to not video tape the child when this video was made. It was after this that she was told to stop making videos.
May 15th, 2009 at 7:34 am
SAVE AALIYA!!!!!!!!!! It is a sad country when our government does not protect these beautiful children. A Mother has to rally and rely on strangers to help her baby girl! This child is in great danger, she will need extensive counseling and love. She belongs with her Mother that loves her and will do anything for her safety. The “Father” doesn’t see’s this child as an object. And he belongs in prison. We cannot let these peds out, they need to stay in prison for life. He has ruined this child’s life, his needs to be taken… He needs locked up, so he will never do this to anyone again. I am the State Director for Child Protection Community. Aaliyah, help is coming quickly!! You have BABBA, All of child protection community, our associates, and many more… The world is coming to help you sweetie!!! First we take care of Aaliyah, she is most important… THEN WE GO AFTER JUSTICE!!! It is time our governement, CPS and others that have the power to save these children wake up! We will no longer allow innocent, voiceless children to be treated worse than the criminal himself. These laws that protect the criminals HAVE to change. Child Protection Community is in 14 countries… We are growing quickly. We are here for Aaliya and all children. Please look at our stories at http://www.childprotectioncommuniy.com Read our blog. If you are visiting this page, there are many children, that need your voice! Don’t let them be silent either. If you need help, we are there for you! -Michele Sobczak, IN State Director Child Protection Community.
May 15th, 2009 at 7:48 am
I no way condone what the sick bastard is doing, but what did the mother do not to win custody? I feel bad for the child. They are always the victims.
May 15th, 2009 at 8:05 am
Instead of waiting for GOD to give this pedophile his just deserts, we the people must ban together and write to Mr. Fenocchio, and insist that he help in protecting this beautiful child.
Mr. Fenocchio is hired by the people, therefore, he works for us and we should place this issue as a priority on his “To Do List”. What is the outcome thusfar?
Thank you,
The Soldiers
May 15th, 2009 at 8:28 am
I do not see or hear what you all do at all…I Once had to deal with this type of situation when my child was 2 and a half, and my son literally told me , that his uncle stuck his Pee pee in his Butt…and I acted right away…Now this little girl, can tell you exactly what is going on…my son did! you CaNT trust anyone nowadays from Priests,teachers,mothers or fathers..its a sick society and I believe all of you are just seeing that part and not realizing that there are still good parents out there … I Just feel this little girl could come right out and say whats been going on, if anything..Not just the audio I have heard. apparently thats why the father has full custody??? has anyone checked up on the mom, maybe shes got mental problems? I dont know any of these people, so i dont see how anyone can side with either of them. sorry to be on the opposing end, But Like I said above about my son, I have been in this situation, and it really tore my heart out..
God Bless to all, and Bubba I Listen to you everyday!! we love you here in O-Town!
sincerely Lori
May 15th, 2009 at 8:59 am
As a member of the Child Protection Community, I am elated to see Aaliyah’s plight being brought to MORE attention through this blog. God bless you Bubba for helping to save this precious baby. PLEASE… EVERYONE… write, write, write, and be a voice for Aaliyah!!!! Make us too many voices to ignore.
Remember too, this is just one of thousands of innocent little lambs suffering in silence. Join us! Help us save and protect them ALL! The abuse of children MUST end! If we don’t stop it, who will?
Jesus said anyone who hurts a child would be better off if he had a rock tied around his neck and cast into the sea.
PROTECT His children – PUNISH the abusers!
May 15th, 2009 at 9:14 am
Hey Bubba, this story is very sad…I am a mother of a 3,4 and 6 year old and the youngest 2 are girls.I think this child first of all should be taking out of the amrs of her father and her mother and put somewhere until they have proven one of them guilty.I myself do believe this child and she needs help,she is unable to help herself.The courts have to stop worring sbout drugs on the streets and how much money someone can pay them and help these poor inocent children.this child is in trouble and is in fear and not one child on this planet derserves to live like this.It breaks my heart to see this happening in the world today and to think a grow man may have done this…the court has to go in on this further even if he is inocent than thats one child they know is safe.But hang in there baby girl someone will help you!!
May 15th, 2009 at 10:22 am
What is wrong with you people? It isn’t like this child is even old enough to lie and be consistent in the lie. This child was 2 years old in this video. If she was coached like some want to say she would not repeat as she did over and over again.
Maybe you need to look at how many kids end up dead because they are put back in their abuser’s arms. Maybe you need to look at the survivors as myself who lived my whole childhood with one of my abusers. You are damaged for life! Not only is this father guilty of abuse but so is the system, CPS, and anyone else that helped this child go to the father.
Our system is so screwed up is isn’t funny. What happened to show evidence? First they don’t ask for evidence accuse some that are innocent of molestation; then they don’t look at evidence to actually convict a pedophile. This father is exactly that he is a pedophile! Get off your a$$es and do your job for once and save this little girls life. Go to http://www.ChildProtectionCommunity.com and read the stories on this case. Then when you are done with that start saving other kids lives and go sign and pass Baby James Law at http://babyjamesfoundation.org
It is time we are realize we are responsible for saving these kids that includes all of you system workers, judges, etc. Just think if something happens to this child as did two boys in Bloomington, IL Will you wish then you opened your eyes?
Renee Hutchinson
President and Founder of
Baby James Foundation
May 15th, 2009 at 11:14 am
For years i too was abused by a parental figure and his worm. Noone believed me when i tried to tell teachers,and family about the abuse and for years i suffered to this day i can remember everything like it was yesterday. If there is anyway to help protect this child and get her away from the abuser we have to try. There is no way that this was set up not a moment went by that i thought it was a set up. In that innocent childs voice you can hear the sincerity and her anger at her father. The graphic description she gives had me crying and reliving my own abuse. There has got to be an attorney out there somewhere willing to stand up and fight for this girl and her mother. The fact that the fathers attorney is married to the presiding judge is a conflict of interest in my eyes and should not be allowed to happen. To the mother i wish you strength and courage and never ever give up the fight to protect your daughter. I know i would lose my mind if anything ever happened to my daughter so i can only imagine your pain but know that there are plenty of people out here that are on your side and hoping and praying that the justice system takes care of the violator. NEVER GIVE UP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
May 15th, 2009 at 11:41 am
This guy is sick!! The judge in this town needs to do his job. The Govenor needs to step up and take care of business!! If I were in the mothers shoes I would take her and never come back!! Or better yet, cut off the worm and then blow his brains in!!
May 15th, 2009 at 11:46 am
This is an absolute outrage. The father of this poor little girl needs to be brought to justice. He is one sick individual, and if anyone is mentally unstable it is this horrish man.
This little girl is telling the truth. I don’t feel this is staged in any way. Children at this age have an absolute knack for being very blunt and truthful. She is trying to process what is happening to her and her little mind can’t handle it. She is crying out for understanding. She needs help RIGHT now before it gets any worse!
WE MUST DO SOMETHING!
May 15th, 2009 at 11:46 am
uhhh this was hard to find such a change of attitude on todays show I Guess Bubba did some searching and changed his tune today. Where there’s smoke not always a fire huh.
May 15th, 2009 at 12:02 pm
This takes Parental Alienation to the extreme. If I did not see this case unfolding in front of my eyes I may not be able to believe it. But it is true and I am sickened. This little girl and her mother are not just being abused at the hands of the father and his posse but the entire Placer County Court system and CPS. He must feel like such a big man to have so many people in his pockets. He needs to be the next poster child for Domestic Violence and Narcissistic sociopaths. It is going to take this country and everyone to stand behind this mother and this little girl to protect them anyway we know how. These judges are corrupt. These good old boys need to step down and let the next generation come in and actually be able to see through these kinds of manipulation and scare tactics of these kinds of fathers. These are supposed to be mandatory reporters and ones that uphold the laws and serve justice not serve more abuse on a woman who has to be the voice of her child. Even though she clearly has one. I have children and grandchildren of my own and they speak the truth. How do we as parents and grandparents protect children if the very ones we put in office are helping perpetrate the abuse. Time to wake up AMERICA! This is happening all over. This mother was just brave enough to let us know! I for one stand behind her 100% She needs all of our help.
May 15th, 2009 at 12:11 pm
Any one who says that this discusting is wrong, this is more than discusting. As a father my6 self I don’t want this guy in prison taking the tax money from tax payers to stay there, I want to have this guy killed, maybe by a firing line, a public hanging, something that will cause this guy pain, of course if this in fact true! I also say to hell with the G.O.B.N.(Good Ole’Boy Network)
May 15th, 2009 at 12:13 pm
There are too many warning signs here for there to not be abuse. A child who has been coached does not talk like Aaliyah does in the video. She describes the events in her words, not those of an adult.
Our website members support justice for Aaliyah. BrokenChild.org is a citizen advocacy group who advocates for children who have been abused and neglected. We are also a member of the Child Protection Community. http://www.ChildProtectionCommunity.com
It is better to stand UP for a child than stand BY doing nothing. Help this little angel stay on earth. Help get her out of the abuse.
May 15th, 2009 at 12:16 pm
Bubba,
My thanks to you in making sure this story is heard. We are members of the http://www.childprotectioncommunity.com and we want to do our part on making sure these children are protected. If we stand back it is like we are perpetrating the abuse too. This mother is doing all she can despite all of those who are against her. This baby needs our help desperately. This case is not being heard in the courts or taken seriously just because of the father and his cronies. The judges and attorneys and CPS in this case need to all step down and face jail time as far as I am concerned. You cannot gag the entire world and thinking you can may make the judges in this case as bad as the father. This mother would have never had to try to plea the way she did if the system was working like it should. This child needs protection and at this point so does this mother. For those of us willing to get out there and make sure these laws change and that the final word of a small town judge is not the final word. I say jump on board let’s see some change! This is not the only case! I wonder how many others in Placer county have been gagged and ended up like this? How many others across this country are in the same position or have been? Millions. The statistics are getting worse. As the laws in some states become more stringent these perpetrators of sexual abuse, child abuse and domestic violence know how to maneuver through the court system. I see it everyday. I have lived it too. That is why I started fighting for victims everywhere. It must change and we cannot wait for the change to come. Change happens now! It takes a community to raise a child and that is just what I see happening. Don’t let one more child get abused in this community and do nothing.
May 15th, 2009 at 12:24 pm
I hope he gets put behind bars soon, and the same thing will happen to him in jail. He should never be allowed to see his child again! This makes me sick to hear!!!!!
May 15th, 2009 at 12:46 pm
The father is most likely a SICK F###! But the cops and prosecutors that sat on their thumbs should also do some HARD time!!!
May 15th, 2009 at 1:09 pm
This is a story that the whole country is now watching and learning about-Our members of The Child Ptotection Community are 60 members strong and located in almost every state now-This is such a tragedy that grown people cannot see the in simplistics terms from the child that her father is molesting her-God Bless her mother who is trying so hard to get this resolved with a positve ending for her child and shame on the court systems and CPS of California-Your state is not being seen in a positive light for this childs right-Sincerely-Janell Matula of The Texas Child Protection Community Representative
May 15th, 2009 at 2:35 pm
This is a case that so obviously needs to be investigated by impartial professionals and some intervention needs to be made immediently so that the father is not alone with Aaliyah again unless proven innocent. I hope Aaliyah gets the protection from abuse every child deserves.
May 15th, 2009 at 2:37 pm
This is a case that so obviously needs to be investigated by impartial professionals and some intervention needs to be made immediently so that the father is not alone with Aaliyah again unless proven innocent. I hope Aaliyah gets the protection from abuse every child deserves.
May 15th, 2009 at 2:39 pm
First off, one word to Renee Hutchinson: At 2.5 years of age, the child is definitely old enough to lie and do so consistently. There have been many studies done on the capacity to lie in young children such as this one and they are definitely able to do so.
Now:
Personally, I can tell you that I used to force myself to throw up in the crib when I was under two years of age to get my parents to take me out of the crib so I would not have to go to sleep.
Anyone here saying that children can not be coached to do this is mis-informed.
The notion that Aaliyah could have been coached is just as valid as the notion that she is telling the truth. Let’s not ignore the fact that the entire conversation occurs off screen, meaning that there could have been other things being done off camera to cue the child into when to say what.
There are a number of possibilities.
All any of this proves is that there is a definite NEED for an investigation on this case done immediately.
People don’t like to realize that everyone is innocent until proven guilty. The man has not been proven guilty as of yet.
This just intensifies the need for an investigation.
In the event that this is true, then the man deserves any kind of horrible fate that can be place upon him. But until then, you can not go around demonizing someone for doing something you have not investigated.
May 15th, 2009 at 3:49 pm
I agree why not take her from the dad and investigate for a few days what can it hurt what is the problem with investigating…. This continues to worry the shit out of hundreds of people i feel if they dont do something soon people and not me may start taking things into there own hands..
May 15th, 2009 at 5:02 pm
Talk to your children.
Know everything about them.
Love and nurture them.
But most of all,
LISTEN TO THEM!
May 15th, 2009 at 5:09 pm
hey bubba schedule a bus trip and charge us whatever for the ride. lets go pay a vist to this s.o.b.
May 15th, 2009 at 5:11 pm
I do not see or hear what you all do at all…I Once had to deal with this type of situation when my child was 2 and a half, and my son literally told me , that his uncle stuck his Pee pee in his Butt…and I acted right away…Now this little girl, can tell you exactly what is going on…my son did! you CaNT trust anyone nowadays from Priests,teachers,mothers or fathers..its a sick society and I believe all of you are just seeing that part and not realizing that there are still good parents out there … I Just feel this little girl could come right out and say whats been going on, if anything..Not just the audio I have heard. apparently thats why the father has full custody??? has anyone checked up on the mom, maybe shes got mental problems? I dont know any of these people, so i dont see how anyone can side with either of them. sorry to be on the opposing end, But Like I said above about my son, I have been in this situation, and it really tore my heart out..
God Bless to all, and Bubba I Listen to you everyday!! we love you here in O-Town!
sincerely Lori
Well said! Thank you Lori, it’s exactly what I was thinking. Nice to know I’m not all alone here;)
May 15th, 2009 at 6:34 pm
Do you realize that ONE OUT OF EVERY THREE GIRLS ARE MOLESTED BEFORE THE AGE OF 18? Every 10 SECONDS another child is abused, raped or killed in the U.S.– And only 28% of child abuse reports are investigated!!
We need to STOP this epidemic plaguing our nation & stand up for our innocent children. It is OUR job to protect these children—they are our future!!!
How much more evidence do you possibly need? A 2 1/2 year old child does NOT talk about being RAPED by her father for almost 30 minutes straight. She’s not even old enough to know the details described in her video “Daddy’s Worm” UNLESS it has been shown, taught or done to her.
Aaliyah’s father is a molester, pedophile and a child sex offender and needs to be prosecuted — BEFORE IT’S TOO LATE!
Sandra Potter
CEO & Founder
DREAMCATCHERS FOR ABUSED CHILDREN
http://www.myspace.com/abused_children
http://www.dreamcatchersforabusedchildren.com
May 15th, 2009 at 6:59 pm
I heard bits and pieces of this on the show yesterday and was shoked as everyone. I checked the video out and I have the sick feeling this is setting the father up, just a gut reaction, it seems all contrived. Who sets up a nightsight video and just “accidently” gets your daughter talking about daddy’s “worm”. Kids babble about all manner of nonsense at that age, their brains are absorbing information at a rate that is astounding. Add to it a mother that wants primary care?
So pissed I missed Slatery commenting on this.
May 15th, 2009 at 7:15 pm
My brother-in-law is Connie’s boyfriend, and has been in Aaliyah’s life since she was about 11 months old. He loves her like she is his own daughter. He began telling us about what was happening to Aaliyah over a year ago. I know there are many people who question the validity of this situation, and no one thinks people shouldn’t. What is hoped is that, no matter where you stand, that you will think of Aaliyah’s well being. Connie has expressed to the court that she would like for Aaliyah to be put into temporary foster care while a REAL investigation is done to prove, once and for all, whether or not Aaliyah’s legal guardian is doing terrible things to her. Any good mother will believe her child, and Connie does.
Until recently, no one was taking this seriously. In the past month or so, Connie and her family, as well as my brother-in-law and myself, and countless other people, have done whatever we can to get Aaliyah’s story out there, in the hopes that something will be done to insure the well being, safety, and happiness of Aaliyah. Thank you for spreading the word. No matter where anyone stands on the issue, no matter whether you believe it or not, what matters most is AALIYAH!!
May 15th, 2009 at 7:24 pm
I am a survivor from the age of 5, HORRIFIC abuses beginning at the hands of a family member who was supposed to keep me safe. NO-ONE wanted to believe what was before their eyes just like with AALIYAH. She is in grave danger. She NEEDS ALL of us to stand up and be her voice. We tell our children they can talk to us, tell us anything, we will believe them and keep them safe. A mother is and has been fighting to do just that for her daughter. I have been fighting here in Florida for my 2 grandchildren’s safety from constant abuse. I have watched the video “DADDY’S WORM” more than once, as revolting as it is and I ASSURE YOU it is NOT coached. Children tell the truth in their own words, age apropriate. This is real people!!! AALIYAH BEDWELL is being repeatedly abused in the custody of her abuser and the LAW is doing Nothing!!! One Judge has apropriatley removed herself from the case. WAKE UP AND DO WHAT IS RIGHT!!! REMOVE AALIYAH from her father’s custody, strip him of his parental rights and place precious AALIYAH into the loving arms of her mother where she belongs. In conjunction with Law Enforcement for the safety of ALL children C.O.P. strives to make it safe online for all children. I am Florida Division Head with CHILD ONLINE PROTECTION (C.O.P.) and blessed to be part of a great team. STAND AS ONE VOICE UNIFIED FOR THE FREEDOM OF AALIYAH.
She needs to be where she is safe. That is definitely Not with her father. I fight for best and safest placement for AALIYAH and that happens to be with her mother.
I have already written Nancy Grace and a handful of others on AALIYAH’s behalf.
WHAT IF IT WERE YOUR CHILD OR CHILD OF YOUR LOVED ONE???
Respectfully
LEE – A VOICE FOR THE VOICELESS
Child Online Protection (C.O.P.)
FL Division Head
“LET EVERY CHILD BE SAFE AT ALL TIMES”
May 15th, 2009 at 7:26 pm
I just read through the day to day notes on her website. Sorry, I have a hard time believing this. I do hope I’m right.
I’m sorry if it sounds crude, but changing a diaper of a baby girl that was raped by an adult man days before? You would have NO doubt.
May 15th, 2009 at 8:54 pm
Its funny how so many here just repeat the original lies Connie put out.
There was a massive investigation, there is no corruption and there are reasons why custody was removed from her that she is not telling you. None of you have the full story.
But you web followers read it once and it is suddenly the truth.
There are thousands of cases of custody fights where false accusations have been made against a dad on child sexual abuse.
Connie had motive to make the video. How do we know that Connie wasn’t ‘playing a game’ of Eisteins worm’ with Aali during that video and just changed the name of the worm to daddy !! There are countless ways to coach a child into saying things and playing along. I could give you an endless list on how children can be coached into role playing with parents.
NO this child didn’t make this up on her own, her mom is leading her.
Did you stop and think why Connie didn’t have her doctor Nay record a video? Why not use the professionals that this child went to? Why do a video in the dark? I do not hear words on this video that are convincing enough to demand for the fathers head on a stick.
Common sense doesn’t prevail when insanity takes over and people start believing every word they read. There is a reason this woman does not have custody. AND until she provides actual names to go along with her conspiracy theories, I won’t buy that either. Evidence is not here, were any of you not listening to the doctors on today’s show? They would not side with Connies version, they requested more evidence prior to todays show but Connie wouldn’t forward it to them. I know Bubba questioned how he felt about this after listening to them to. This is his site, if I’m wrong, he’ll say so won’t he?
There’s been 11 investigations all with doctors, police & a variety of CPS.
Theres no other cases of women coming forward screaming conspiracy. YOU think if that’s how the county worked, there’d be more than Connie yelling.??? !!! Everyone keeps repeating the words from Connie: no investigation, county officials in each others pockets, judges are crooked.
Open your eyes for a minute, stop and think. You want the world to believe this father is guilty over 1 video where the mother has control of the atmosphere & setting, without any other evidence put forward. Without doctors coming to her side agreeing with her. Without giving any names to this great cover up. You all want to hang a man on that???
You’re talking hundreds of people all risking their jobs, their lives, their careers to cover for a pedophile??? Not going to happen without someone in that group of hundreds breaking the silence. Where there’s smoke theres not always a fire people.
THINK, use your head and don’t try and make me someone who would ever support a child molester. NO WAY I EVER WOULD. Children are the world to me. I’d kill any man who’d harm my kid. I do not know the father but I have enough sense to consider what was put in front of my face!! Not going to hang this man on some flimsy suspicious stuff. NO WAY.
May 15th, 2009 at 8:55 pm
DREAMCATCHERS HOW DARE YOU SAY THAT Aaliyah expresses any form of RAPE in that video. WHERE?????????????? OMG, how you spin something into what is not there.
May 15th, 2009 at 9:01 pm
One more thing, the new judge that has been brought in from outside Placer County, NOT in anyone’s pockets have ruled STRONGLY against Connie adding even FURTHER RESTRICTIONS.
YOU’RE SUPPORTING A WOMAN WHERE 9 JUDGES HAVE LOOKED AT THE EVIDENCE AND DECIDED TO HAVE THE FATHER RETAIN CUSTODY.
YOU’RE SUPPORTING A WOMAN WHO CLAIMS THERE’S NO INVESTIGATION YET HOW HAS THIS GONE THROUGH COUNTLESS JUDGES. If there’s no investigations, why was there 11 separate CPS files of abuse investigated fully?
GOOD GOD PEOPLE USE YOUR HEAD! Your heart is in the right place but this is not a child who was sexually abused!!!
May 15th, 2009 at 9:06 pm
In the past few years,the general populace of US has been facing a radical reexamination of the health care system. Not only has this investigation avoided its illness but resist to overcome!
May 15th, 2009 at 9:10 pm
Bubba thanks to you and your show this little girl will HOPEFULLY get the help she so deserves. On a personal level I was molested as well for 4 years from my twin step- brother’s…my mom was of NO help to me and I will stand behind this mom and daughter for as long as they need…I will sign any legislature or whatever…Aaliyah Bedwell deserves the help!!!
May 15th, 2009 at 10:49 pm
As a mother, I would have disappeared with that child a LONG time ago.
May 16th, 2009 at 12:23 am
This is NONSENSE-Connie did not make this up
This brought me to tears and made me sick when I first heard this story. This devastates Connie’s grandmother, great-grandmother of Aaliyah, a good friend. I can character witness that Connie is a good person. I am acquainted with Connie, her father, sisters and grandmother (wonderful people). I do not live in the same state anymore, so I have not seen them personally in 9 years. I e-mail Aaliyah’s great-grandmother and we keep in touch. This is an unbelievably horrific story; so outrageous in the lack of justice, that any logical mind rationally wants to come up with a ‘reason’ why the mother has lost custody of the child. The father is apparently pretty crafty, as well as, very well connected. There are some insidious misrepresentations of Connie and Cara “making this up†made on this blog. I can sensibly and emphatically state that they are ‘real people’ and this is not a HOAX, nor would they ever do such a thing. This is purely a case of The Powerful vs. The Powerless.
It appears that the grandfather, Aaliyah’s father’s father, is also an abuser, which is characteristic of ‘the abused’; the abused tend to perpetrate or ‘act out’ on others what was done to them. The mother of the abuser is also an accomplice, by not doing anything but crying and not taking action for the protection of her great-grandchild to stop the abuse. Apparently, there is another victem, a girl cousin, who also might be involved with the abusers.
Please someone, help save this baby and give her back to her mother, Connie, who loves Aaliyah and is self advocating,and suffering in pain as she helplessly watches her child endure sexual molestation at the hands of her father but powerless to stop it.
I am glad to see this going national with you Bubba. I am now a New listener and will continue to listen in hopes for updates on my family friend’s plight in California. This baby needs help from anyone with the power to help.
Michelle Z.
Florida
May 16th, 2009 at 12:34 am
victim
May 16th, 2009 at 1:01 am
bubba…let me tell u how this made me feel i will kill some dumb ass for this horror i hate people that r abussing other children i am sick to my stomach right now if there was something i could do i would like blast him in the head if any of my x wifes new boyfriends ever touch my son i,ll kill them i,m just at the end of my limit with this somebody needs to help her before it is to late let me know what to do when i was 6 it hapen to me i,m not right now because of it
May 16th, 2009 at 8:46 am
I think its time those with ‘contacts’ or money are brought down a peg or two..they think they can buy their way out of the bad they do…meanwhile these jerkoff officials continue to allow the child to stay with the abuser & remove her from her protection..maybe they have gotten away with so many they think they can continue & the rest of the world never know..time to bring them down I think.
May god bless & keep that lil angel safe from any further harm, we pray, we pray, we pray lord please help us out here, your intervention is so badly needed, please bring that baby girl back to her mother, where she will be safe.
May 16th, 2009 at 11:39 am
man thats so not right to hurt kids. I am a da of a two year old boy and he is the best thing that has ever happend to me and im only 23 years old. So something needs to happen to this guy relly fast. best wishes for the family.
May 16th, 2009 at 1:52 pm
PLEASE investigate this A.S.A.P. This little one is being abused by the dad OR the mom & possibly many others. This baby is crying out & counting on us to save her & you can’t put a price on that. This is her REALITY she is talking about & it needs to change right now. DON”T keep failing our babies because they ARE OUR FUTURE & WE WILL REAP WHAT WE SOW. I am a survivor of child abuse so I know first hand what this baby has already lost & we need to change this. Thank you, HappyOne against ABUSE
May 16th, 2009 at 3:19 pm
God save this child. I hope you find a way to save her. You will be in my prayers.
May 16th, 2009 at 3:39 pm
I think what should be done, similar to bikes for badges to raise money to help this girl and her mother (because they will need therapy after all this.)
But this time strap her father to the road and all the cars and bike cruise right over this sick M*th*r F*ck*r.
But because of America’s great judicial system this guy will problem never see a jail cell because Aaliyha’s age, and may have been coursed by the mother, this sick dude will keep doing this over and over again and ruin the lives of many for people.
May 16th, 2009 at 6:09 pm
as the iron sheiks said someone should stick him in his tukas and make him humble
May 16th, 2009 at 6:10 pm
put him the cage with mike tyson and let him do the man until he loves him
May 16th, 2009 at 8:55 pm
I’m very leary to believe this as accurate solely based on an edited video made by the person making these allegations.
Where is the evidence from the experts? A pediatrician? A licensed child psychologist who specializes in sexual abuse? The CPS investigations ALREADY DONE? I’m sure this mother had time to take her child to a doctor and a psychologist who could verify these accusations and has provided the mother with written proof her concerns where founded.
Bubba I know your expert has asked the mother for copies of this information. I will be much more inclined to believe this as true once you can get this information and post it for listeners such as myself.
Without that, I can not believe this to be true but only the claims of a vindictive mother who wished to alienate her child from her father.
May 16th, 2009 at 9:05 pm
I don’t understand why people continue to look the other way in situations like this, and then they wonder why some kids turn out the way they do. This poor little girl is asking for help the only way that she knows how. How is this even an issue? The girl should not even be allowed with the sorry excuse for a man until things are sorted out. This is not something that just goes away on its own. So many kids ask for help, and so many times it is ignored until it is too late, on the other hand, a lot of kids don’t say anything at all because they feel nothing will be done. Doesn’t that say something right there?
May 17th, 2009 at 4:06 am
This worthless bastard needs to die, along with his parents and anybody in the judicial system in that f###ed up county! They need to smash his fathers balls between two bricks, so he can not reproduce any more fucking idiots! I thought I lived in a fucked up county, but it does not hold a candle to what these bastards are allowing to go on. Child molesting son of a bitch! I would LOVE to be a cop in that county! They would never be able to identify the body! This woman just needs to take the daughter and get the hell out of that fucked up state!
May 17th, 2009 at 7:25 am
This just makes me sick,
if this had happened to my daughter the sick bastard would be dead, end of conversation.
Let’s go ARMY, do what we can to get this SOB off the streets before this poor child is hurt anymore.
Greg
Ontario, Canada
May 17th, 2009 at 9:52 am
Looks like the local paper, The Auburn Jounal is finally covering this. See the article by Jenifer Gee.
http://auburnjournal.com/detail/114617.html?content_source=&category_id=&search_filter=&user_id=&event_mode=&event_ts_from=&event_ts_to=&list_type=&order_by=&order_sort=&content_class=1&sub_type=&town_id=
R/Chuck
May 17th, 2009 at 10:57 am
Let’s face it, This Connie is pulling out all stops to get her kid back. I think in the long runs she’s going to be shown as making false allegations against the father.
Most of the entries I see here are kneejerk, reactionary statements to one piece of the puzzle.
May 17th, 2009 at 12:03 pm
After listening to the video and reading the comments of others, I have this to say….both Parents should be given a polygraph test.I hope that a true verdict is ultimately rendered.The only sensible course of action would seem to be to place the child in a safe environment until the matter is fully investigated.
Joyce
Lancaster, Ohio
May 17th, 2009 at 12:49 pm
I wish it would stop and every quit repeating the lies of the mother by stating there was no investigation. Here’s FINALLY AN ARTICLE that shows law enforcement did a thorough investigation and a team of specialist have seen Aaliyah. There was no evidence of abuse and the case is closed.
http://auburnjournal.com/detail/114617.html?content_source=&category_id=&search_filter=&user_id=&event_mode=&event_ts_from=&event_ts_to=&list_type=&order_by=&order_sort=&content_class=1&sub_type=&town_id=
May 17th, 2009 at 1:26 pm
Anyone that would abuse a child should be locked in a room with a bunch of angry mothers.
May 17th, 2009 at 6:30 pm
Illinois LEO sounds like Drew Peterson. good thing we know he is behind bars with a 20 million dollar bail.
The Auburn Journal has posted about this story today. The detective handling the case explained how the case WAS in fact investigated and the father WAS CLEARED OF ALL CHARGES.
GREAT ARTICLE! Thank you Sargent Peccoraro for clearing up any doubts!
May 17th, 2009 at 6:34 pm
What’s up with the mob mentality without any facts? I wonder what those who replied here would think if THEIR son was accused without facts?
Bubba is a dad. How would you feel Bubba if your son, Trenton I believe is his name? was a father and falsely accused of molesting his child? An investigation cleared him and the mother of his child was hell bent on destroying him? I think you would be outraged!
I’m amazed how people simply believe this so quickly. Guilty until proven innocent no doubt.
What is more amazing, is IF by chance someone harms the father or child, there are going to be some serious law suits for those who assisted the mother in perpetuating these false allegations.
SHAME ON YOU CONNIE BEDWELL FOR ABUSING AND EXPLOITING YOUR CHILD AS YOU HAVE!
May 17th, 2009 at 7:30 pm
why has someone removed my links to hear the family radio interview? The interview is on blogtalkradio. Will you do one Bubba?
May 17th, 2009 at 7:51 pm
WHERE IS THE EVIDENCE, I posted a link above your post for this article. Amazing isn’t it how some can be taken in.
Here it is again. http://auburnjournal.com/detail/114617.html?content_source=&category_id=&search_filter=&user_id=&event_mode=&event_ts_from=&event_ts_to=&list_type=&order_by=&order_sort=&content_class=1&sub_type=&town_id=
May 17th, 2009 at 8:28 pm
That just sick the dad should be killed,the mom’s hot!
May 17th, 2009 at 8:28 pm
Some voices of reason.
Bubba, ya really need to take the “pedophile father” line out of the rotater for this story. It opens ya up for one hell of a slander lawsuit.
IMO, this was handled badly. BTLS I’m a total mark for you guys, I love ya and listen everyday but I think ya got worked.
May 17th, 2009 at 9:22 pm
It is right that we have child services to protect our children, but they are not doing so. This child needs to be in a place away from him. I am very hurt and disgusted that nothing has been done. I know about child services, they have been called on me 7 times since living in ny and have all been unfounded on child abuse. This case is child abuse and needs to be addressed. If it were me I could not stand by and watch my daughter go through something this horrible. I know for a fact he would not be allowed to see her. A mother is in this life to protect their children and I am totally for stopping him and bringing justice. The governor of California needs to step up and do something, and you know who you are…..
May 17th, 2009 at 9:45 pm
There is a problem with the Auburn Journal Newspaper article. The Auburn detective did not indeed investigate the case. The case was closed without examining the other side. In the articles I have read on blogtalkradio and saveaaliyah.com, there have been no questions asked of witnesses for Connie’s side whatsoever. There is a considerable amount of evidence with the sister Cara, and Connie’s boyfriend Darryl, yet NO ONE has interviewed them or any other person on Connie’s side for a balanced perspective. This is clearly a covered up case.This is straight from the save Aaliyah site from Cara Bedwell, the sister who took care of Aaliyah at night:
EVERY AUTHORITY THAT HAS THE POWER TO DO SOMETHING….. HAS NEVER CALLED TO TALK TO ANYONE THAT HAS WITNESSED AALIYAH SAY AND DO THESE THINGS!!! THEY ONLY LISTEN TO THE POOR PITTY STORY OF LIES THAT THE PEDOPHILE AND HIS MESSED UP FAMILY TELL THEM…. AND NOT ONCE HAVE THEY ATTEMPTED TO LISTEN TO ANYONE OF US THAT HAVE SEEN OR HEARD THAT BABY GIRL!!!
THEY BUY INTO THE PEDOPHILES STORY TO CALL CONNIE CRAZY FOR TRYING TO FIGHT FOR HER DAUGHTER BUT LITTLE DO THEY KNOW THERE’S A MILLION CRAZIES THAT STAND BEHIND HER THAT WILL KEEP FIGHTING UNTIL OUR BABY IS SAFE! THE TRUTH IS THE TRUTH AND WHAT AALI HAS SAID AND DONE FOR ALMOST TWO YEARS NOW WILL NOT BE HIDDEN OR KEPT QUIET!
I have a feeling there is going to be some embarrassment in Placer County before this is all through. The definition to investigate is to examine closely, and this clearly has NOT been done. There has been no justice served here and a little girl could be being sexually abused daily, for all we know, while a full scale investigation has yet to be done. I am In agreement with the family I heard on an interview on blogtalkradio yesterday, I agree that the baby should be removed from both parties until the situation is all cleared up, this offered by Connie’s family’s side. I also heard on the interview that this was NOT a custody case problem; this began with Connie fleeing to her father’s house in Alaska to get away from the physical and emotional abuse of Dustin in the first place. I read this on the site witnessed by Curtis Bedwell:
True story. It’s on tape. THANKS CPS. Way to look into it. He is quite a piece of —–. And I was there when he took a baseball bat out on her and started yelling at Connie while Aaliyah was in her arms at 4 weeks old before Alaska.
Keeping Aaliyah in an alleged abuser’s house, who has a rap sheet history with a criminal record of abuse, alcoholism, and drugs, while having evidence of him being a pedophile isn’t wise judgment for any judge, lawyer, or psychologist.
May 18th, 2009 at 1:02 am
WHERE IS THE EVIDENCE, I’ve heard rumblings of criminal charges coming about and they are not for the father FYI to all reading.
May 18th, 2009 at 6:29 am
Thank you Bubba, for being unbiased and looking into the facts for this child. I hope the truth will come out soon.
Joey Tillman
The Child Protection Community
Can we please get to the bottom of this sooner than later.
May 18th, 2009 at 8:31 am
I have a special set of skills that make me a nightmare for garbage like this. Give me 5 minutes with this guy and he will never hurt or even be able to hurt another human being!
May 18th, 2009 at 9:41 am
I am hopeful to get the chance to to out to California and meet with the mother and father in this case.
Let’s give them all the chance to do legitimate psychological testing.
I will give them the benefit of the doubt and spend ample time observing them with the child and reviewing all the data.
This case needs a neutral professional who can get to the bottom of the issues.
May 18th, 2009 at 9:50 am
If there are people like the Anthonys getting on to these talk show getting paid for their stupid daughter…..WHY can Connie not get attention like that. Why isn’t anyone helping this women? There are people out there that can help. Where in Casey Anthony getting the money to defend her useless ass and poor Connie can’t getting anything. Someone help her. I have a 4 year old daughter and let me tell you what I would be on the highest mountain screaming for help, I would be heard. Placer County is a speck on the map, I think it should be blown off the face of the earth if this is what legall system is like. Our childern are our future. God Bless this baby..!!
May 18th, 2009 at 9:53 am
Michelle is making all GREAT points, EnoughAlready should go find something else to occupy his/her time as this case seems to be annoying. Key points here is that the investigation scope is not known, could have been completed via the Police Dept. not the CPS specifically. This is key to know who did the investigation and how broad was it. Seems from what I read in the Auburn Journal article that the investigation was not thorough. From the BloggerNews radio interview with the Begwell family nothing was done on thier end as far as interviewing them. Note, there are many many people on Connie’s side confirming this problem. I can’t beleive they would all lie even considering the custody matter. Just doesn’t make since. I can’t wait until the BubbaArmy gets some traction on this case.
R/Chuck
May 18th, 2009 at 10:10 am
Bubba how are you doing??I listen to your show every morning on the way to school and when I heard this last week I was sickened and now even more that I am actually watching the video and I am sickened at the fact that this poor little innocent girl has to go through something like this and that her own father ,one of the 2 people in this world that should be taking care of her and making sure she is safe is exposing her to this kind of behavior and IT ISNT RIGHT AT ALL, I think this SOB should be in jail for as long as they can keep him there ,and its because of sick people like him that many people were unfortunate to grow up and not* have a normal life and that is very sad to hear AND SOMETHING MUST BE DONE REGARDLESS OF HOW MUCH MONEY IT MAY COST TO PUT THIS SOB BEHIND BARS, WHERE HE BELONGS!!!!!!!!
May 18th, 2009 at 11:19 am
You guys have no idea who this mom is. She has forced her daughter to say this, Before you judge the dad, get to know the mom.
May 18th, 2009 at 11:41 am
the article in the auburn journal is one- sided, and you cna post the link to it all you want but it is obvious there is No statement from CPS or anyone who isn’t part of the ‘good ol boys’ club in that article. It leaves ALOT of information out while in support of the father.
It has been stated OVER AND OVER BY WITNESSES that there has NEVER been a thorough investigation OF ANY OF THE WITNESSES to this abuse and behavior.
Considering THAT I have to admit I couldn’t give one iota that they got a sheriff who never bothered to fully investigate this. IF THEY HAD would we all be in here arguing over WHO IS LYING? I think not.
I HOPE at some point the WITNESSES can and will be heard by Someone not already embroiled in the Dastardly history of sham Justice that is often served by the Cronies in Placer and has been going on there since way before Aaliyah was even a fertilized egg.
What I’m saying is that if MANY witnesses say they were never interviewed that tells me NOBODY has done a Thorough investigation in Placer County. Some scream for Connies evidence, but my heart screams for evidence it is Not happening! I’d like to see that presented in an UNBIASED news piece, obviously not what The Auburn Journal published Half a story on.
Sweeping it under the rug and covering up or not fully investigating the evidence for two full years this has been going on, has only made it that much harder for Connie to prove her side. Leaving the child in the Fulltime hands of her possible abuser is definitely not in the best interest of the child, as he can and likely has brainwashed her to tell His side now instead of her original cries for help. This DOES, IN NO WAY mean it never happened or doesn’t exist.
I truly believe there is a little girl in danger and she should definitely be removed From BOTH parties while an impartial party investigates further. THAT HAS NOT HAPPENED YET. The same people who are covering it up or sweeping it under a rug due to their community ties, are the ones making statements they have investigated yet show us no proof of anything Connie has done to warrant not even being able to take a picture of her own daughter or visit on scheduled visits.
Abuse is perpetuated by those who will continue the cycle by covering it up. Anyone who has been a victim knows that the first thing an abuser does is try to turn the tables in their favor, make the other parent look crazy, pull any strings to cover up the abuse. That it has been allowed to happen to Aaliyah for too long, makes it hard to just hush and keep quiet. Thanks Bubba Army for stepping up to the plate for this little angel- she obviously has Not been Heard!
this is not the first case like it in Placer County. Elsewhere, and until the 80′s this was common, so common that who knows how many mothers had to run away and conceal their new identities to protect their children. Connie had some real guts to come back to Placer with the cards already dealt in the fathers favor and she has been fighting it, to no avail ever since.
There absolutely Must be a full investigation by impartial parties, for the witnesses to Finally be Heard, and for this little girl to have what all children deserve and thats the right to know both parents. If her father is abusing or has then he needs to be punished and recieve help. If Connie is not telling the whole truth, then she should be reprimanded but also have full access to her daughter. The child deserves to know both of them and that is not what I see happening in the best interest of the child just now. Right now she isn’t even allowed her legal visitation!
Anyone who can sit there and say she or this baby have been heard has got to be blind.
May 18th, 2009 at 3:50 pm
This was staged! The camera was turned off three times during the course of the video! If the little girl said those things of her free will there would not be space or time to turn the camera off! For what reason did she turn the camera off? To coach??????????
May 18th, 2009 at 3:52 pm
Dr.Saturley, I was so disappointed in not hearing what you had to say about this case the other morning (in and out of my truck all morning). It’s tiring reading the tough guy posts, the friends of a friend and quotes from a biased website or blog. I would like to see some professionals like yourself comment on this case.
I really hope I’m right and the mother is a nutjob. My friend years ago was falsely accused by the mother (and no that does bias my opinion). When the smoke cleared my friend had full custody.
May 18th, 2009 at 4:33 pm
Video Turn Off’s
#1. 2min:55sec Would the baby have forgotten what she was supposed to say? Did the “Worm” sound scary?
- Why was the bottle & the special bear so more important than telling mommy daddy was being a bad boy with his “Worm”?
#2. 5min: 31sec Why did aunty turn off the camera before coming into the picture? Did we need to re focus baby?
- After all dady didn’t show dolly the “Worm”, yet dolly and it being cold and all was more important than finishing telling mommy why the “Worm” was so yucky!
May 18th, 2009 at 5:56 pm
yea there is something going on forsure …..Thanks Bubba for getting to work on this one, just maybe now someone will listen and the right people will look into it and get this sicko AND SAVE THIS CHILD!!!!!
May 18th, 2009 at 7:09 pm
I understand she is wanting to help her child but why didn’t she at least white out her face. So for the rest of her life everyone will know. I was abused also as a child and shame comes with it. But having everyone look at you and know… if the mom is putting this stuff in her head and telling her what to say..can she grow up and really believe this happen to her if it didn’t?
May 18th, 2009 at 7:43 pm
For thoose of you who think this is fake. Even if it is how can you think it is right to not have a trial? So youd rather just let the mother brain wash her little girl. None of you were there. So you can not be sure that this if fake. And if its not that means that sick son of a bitch is still on the streets being able to do this to his little girl over and over. And maybe other little kids that none of us know about. Im not saying that I agree that this is fake. Because I don’t I really truly believe that this is real. And if it is just think. How would you feel if that was you little girl. Telling you all about her daddy’s “worm”. I have a little girl she is 5 months old. And if she ever EVER came to me telling me about her daddy “worm” or anyone’s worm at that, that sick son of a bitch would be dead. 6 feet under baby. Im not agreeing with eaither side. But for thoose of you who don’t believe this is fake. Give her mother the benefit of the doubt cause if it was your little girl you would want her to do the same. You would want people to believe you right? Okay then. I think it is really fucked up that the state of California is just now looking into this case. Because either way if he is guilty or not that little girl is still being physically or emotionally hurt. I think it is sick that it had to take Bubba The Love Sponge to air this on his radio and to put this video on the internet to finally get an investigation.
May 18th, 2009 at 9:15 pm
To all the internet tough guys; What would you do to the mom when it comes out that this was all a fabrication?
May 18th, 2009 at 11:41 pm
This entire battle started after the father had pulled a baseball bat out on Connie while she was holding there 4-week old baby. He then hit her AND the baby with soiled diapers in the same instance. He tried to keep her from leaving by taking the base to the car seat and not letting her leave to safety. There are COURT RECORDS showing this- anyone can walk in and get them… From the beginning it was his abusive nature that forced Connie to run for safety and move to Alaska to protect her daughter. The only mistake she made was listening to the promises made by the court- and him that Aaliyah would be safe if she returned. Connie wanted to let her daughter grow up knowing her father- but then he started abusing her both sexually and physically- and all of the evidence and witnesses can attest to this- we have ALL seen how Aaliyah would run from him, scream when she saw him- never look at him when he picked her up at exchanges- and we all would see the rashes around her mouth, and ALL of us heard and saw her telling us what she had experienced with him- her talking about daddy’s worm in her mouth- and how he has to wipe it off with like a napkin.
Sgt Pecoraro so casually forgets to mention WHEN he ACTUALLY and FINALLY WATCHED THAT VIDEO. It is a matter of fact that he did not watch that video when Connie went into the police station with it in her hand the very next morning (June 10, 2008) after Aaliyah made those statements regarding what her father has been doing to her the night before (June 9, 2008). In fact, the Auburn Police Department had Connie turn the child over to a child molester for his visitation on June 10, 2008 to be brainwashed during the fathers visitation again. When Connie received Aaliyah back from his visitation on June 15 2008, we all took Aaliyah to the hospital to have her examined; Sgt Pecoraro yelled at Connie and told her to leave the hospital. He did not authorize her examination. During that heated phone conversation with Sgt Pecoraro in the hospital he still at that point HAD NOT EVEN WATCHED THE VIDEO YET!!!
Mr Fenocchio (the DA) might want to help Sgt Pecoraro redefine what “immediate” truly means and see to it that he doesnt allow other children to be harmed because of his unwillingness to do his job. Also after we received Aaliyah back from him she made one line coached statements such as “I love daddy, I love daddy’s worm, mommy makes me say these things, daddy said so, daddy said I love daddy not Darrel, Darrel’s bad daddy said so. etc” It wasnt until June 17th 2008 that Sgt Pecoraro FINALLY didnt make Connie turn Aaliyah over to the father. Sgt Pecoraro had called and apologized to Connie for what he had done or should I say hadn’t done. Aaliyah’s MDIC interview took place on June 23, 2008 in which Aaliyah stated the one line brainwashing her father made her say.
WE WOULD ALL LIKE TO THANK THE AUBURN POLICE DEPARTMENT FOR CARLESSLY PUTTING AALIYAH BACK IN A PEDOOPHILE’S HOME TO BE BRAINWASHED AGAIN INSTEAD OF TAKING APPROPRIATE IMMEDIATE ACTION.
We all hope that the Auburn Police Department will acknowledge their mistakes and make this right for Aaliyah. This whole other side to the puzzle NEEDS to be heard and DESERVES to be heard for Aaliyah’s welfare.
May 19th, 2009 at 12:17 pm
He should get a slow painful death. You should contact the Steve Wilkos show. I know that he would be able to help. My prayers are with you and Aaliyah.
May 19th, 2009 at 1:34 pm
Joe, not to worry. The mother will end up behind bars for her clever coaching of her child. I’ve personally filed a complaint with the FBI internet fraud unit and there is an open file. With all her accusations confirmed by authorities to be fabrications & lies, the FBI has taken my complaint seriously.
May 19th, 2009 at 4:15 pm
This is no man, he is a sick SOB that needs to pay severe consequences for his immoral, disgusting act! I can’t understand how any so called “human being” can actually do anything like that to a poor, innocent, defenseless child. In my opinion, I think that pigs like this jerkoff needs to be tortured and a bullet in their head to put them out of the victims and the victims families misery. What a POS!!!!!!!!!!! This disgusting worthless predator does not deserve the air we breathe.
May 19th, 2009 at 9:42 pm
Michelle, take a breathe. Do you know for certain that this has transpired? We have web logs that are totally biased, we have 2nd hand info, we have friends of friends, we have a half assed blair witch type video that proves nothing. Sorry, I don’t see the evidence that I need to demonise someone.
Jesus, if I had a daughter I’d definitely keep her the hell away from worms to keep from getting labeled a pedophile.
May 19th, 2009 at 11:13 pm
EnoughAlready, Tell me you didn’t really go to the FBI and file a complaint when you don’t know all the facts. AMAZING!!!!!!
May 20th, 2009 at 12:08 am
EnoughAlready-
You sound like the pedophile yourself…
Always reverse charging your twisted behavior.
Is that supposed to be some sort of threat to scare Connie?
Connie already sat down with the FBI so now you have made a complaint. You are probably right they probably do have an open file but it’s not for fraud.
Maybe someone should check that IP address.
May 20th, 2009 at 7:53 am
fyi- joe…
quote”We have web logs that are totally biased, we have 2nd hand info, we have friends of friends, we have a half a##ed blair witch type video that proves nothing.”
FUNNY YOU CAN CONSIDER HER IMMEDIATE FAMILY AND AT LEAST ONE PSYCHIATRIST WHO WERE NEVER INTERVIEWED BY LE OR CPS, TO BE 2ND HAND INFO. THATS A NO BRAINER, AND BY THAT I MEAN AN IDEA WITH NO BRAIN BEHIND IT…
THAT VIDEO DID NOTHING BUT REINFORCE MY BELIEF IN THE MANY, MANY, MANY WITNESS STATEMENTS (that have never been heard by cps or le) THAT ARE AVAILABLE FOR YOU AND ANYONE ELSE TO READ, YES RIGHT HERE ON THE INTERNET. I’D BE WILLING TO BET AT LEAST HALF OF THE POSTERS HERE SCREAMING CONNIE IS A LIAR HAVE NOT EVEN BOTHERED TO READ THOSE MANY STATEMENTS THAT ARE NOT HEARSAY THEY ARE LEGAL STATEMENTS.
IN FACT THAT VIDEO DID NOTHING BESIDES REINFORCE MY BELIEF THAT THE BEDWELLS ARE TELLING THE TRUTH.
May 20th, 2009 at 8:01 am
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=40PGIVtbgGc
I performed analysis on this video and as near as I can tell there is a considerable amount of deception concerning the physical aspects of the video. The Daddy’s worm video must undergo scrutiny by a video expert. However I can tell you that it was standard lighting, not infrared, that was used. I agree with Enough Already, there is clear evidence of intentional deception.
May 20th, 2009 at 6:26 pm
I’ve been going through the various Youtube posts, these, including that one from Richard don’t expose anything. This is still a mystery. I still have not read a single thread or news article that confirms the CPS have checked into this case and come up with findings. Also the Bedwell family have not been interviewed (unless it was done today, ya right!), this still stinks of a coverup by the locals.
May 20th, 2009 at 7:01 pm
70sixspeed Darrel, maybe you are the pedophile and the reason Aali is having the issues she does, no wonder the courts are keeping her from you and Connie
May 20th, 2009 at 9:39 pm
I’m wondering why Bubba hasn’t commented on this in days. Maybe I missed it.
May 21st, 2009 at 12:15 am
Chuck M,
I filed a complaint on behalf of 22 people who want their money back from Connie. There have been no refunds and no response from her or the promises from Tim Bedwell to provide receipts and he will personally handle it.
THE FBI complaint is directly related to that. INTERNET FRAUD is INTERNET FRAUD.
Tim Bedwell stated & I have copies where he said he would provide refunds to anyone who gives a receipt.
We did, all 22 people and there was ZERO response.
MULTIPLE requests have been sent in since May 8th. The FBI is taking this seriously. You do not scam people on the net, then say you can get your money back and then disappear and ignore multiple requests to return money donated to something since proven a fraud!
We’ve given the FBI the info requested & emails. Showing that this case was investigated and closed, then asking for money because you claim there was no investigation is FRAUD.
WHY are we being taken seriously? Ask them, not me. Fraud cconvictions can carry a lengthy sentence Connie, so answer our emails you scammer.
May 21st, 2009 at 4:36 am
Was Dr. Joe Saturley able to obtain the information he was seeking before agreeing to move foward with this case. I see that he also offered to go to California and offered to be a non biased out of county professional to assist the family.
Why am I seeing all this finger pointing and nothing about what Dr. Saturley has offered? Is this not what the family was seeking? What about the attorney that the mother has obtained?
I’m at a loss as to why the finger pointing is still happening when the mother has obtained an attorney. Can’t her attorney talk to Dr. Saturley?
Has Dr
May 21st, 2009 at 2:13 pm
Enough, Wow, I missed the entire deal on the $$$. So Tim said he would get the money back? What was the premise on saying or promising this? Say it aint so Connie! did you scam us. What about the entire family that Simon & Jan Barrett interviewed on Bloggernews? There was the boyfriend, the aunt, a sister, her mom. Were they all in on it? I’m as confused as ever.
R/Chuck
May 21st, 2009 at 3:53 pm
SO is this sh*t real or not? Is the father a pedophile or is the mother a scammer and brainwasher?
May 21st, 2009 at 7:57 pm
TO #308
This is a blatant attempt by Dustin David Thompson the Child Molester and his clan to deter those who want to donate to help Connie.
NOT ONE PERSON HAS REQUESTED A REFUND OF THEIR DONATION … but if anyone does the instructions for obtaining your refund is; go to http://www.bloggernews.net and post your receipt # on the most current article about Aaliyah, and I will contact you and set up the refund. It’s that simple.
Thank you to all who have donated their time to help, and those who for lack of time donated money. We are eternally grateful.
As for Dr. Saterly’s offer;
Connie requested any testing deemed necessary by Dr. Saterly.
The Bedwell family and all witnesses have also agreed to take any test deemed necessary by Dr. Saterly and those professionals needed to conduct these third, neutral party tests in order to establish the truth.
Connie and the Bedwell’s are looking for the opportunity to be tested and interviewed by Dr. Saterly.
May 22nd, 2009 at 9:41 am
Does that mean that the Blogger News Network is now the official agent regarding donations now? Isn’t that a little strange to have a free blogging rumor mill in charge of such things? Or do you just skim through the comments till you spot a message pertaining to donations? Either way it hardly sounds responsible or “legit”.
May 22nd, 2009 at 9:53 am
And another thing. If BNN is not officially involved and you are just skimming messages there, how do you contact the people? You would have to ask the site editors for the email Address of the person, which they are not “supposed” to give out without permission! Why not just have a refund button on the PAYPAL page? With just as many options for refunds as there is for donations? Just Curious.
May 22nd, 2009 at 12:52 pm
i don’t think that the mother is lying. There would have to be a lot of people going to jail if this was a hoax. Why hasn’t she been arrested yet if this is a scam? There is just too much information out there now to hide it if it was a hoax. I did some research and it’s been since the second week of April. That’s a long time and she isn’t arressted. I believe the mom and we should do something to get this, god what do you call this thing; he’s not a person, father, man and even some monsters have integrity. We need to stop this guy and put him behind bars.
May 22nd, 2009 at 1:21 pm
Enough Already and Where is the evidence, you sure sound like you are the bio dad. You go to great lengths to make sure people hear you and listen to your bull crap. You have all of this “evidence” that doesn’t prove anything other than maybe 6 months ago an investigation was done improperly and needs to be done again. Bubba, you should do some IP checks. Everyone says that the thompsons have taken the high road and havn’t responded, I have seen a lot of posts that look exactly like Enough Already’s and Where’s the Evidence all over the mother’s supporters pages. The Thompson’s aren’t even human enough to use their own names. People, really, step back and really see what they are saying. Take it one word at a time. It’s amazing how they try to brainwash. It’s scary.
May 22nd, 2009 at 3:06 pm
I consider myself a christen, however this guy should be hung !!!! killed!!! then you call the police and tell them what and why you did this !you’ll at least know it will never happen again!
May 22nd, 2009 at 5:55 pm
To Dustin Thompson aka EnoughAlready and his many other alias’s;
YOU the Child Molester Dustin Thompson and his supporters are so bend on spreading the lie of people wanting refunded donations, that last week I decided the way to show these claims are false was to have any request for a refund be published by posting their receipt number on BNN. Where are the 22 receipt numbers Dustin?? I would also love to see those emails you sent to the FBI!!! POST THEM HERE ON BTLS!!! You need to get off that crack pipe your smoking and cut back on the gallon of wine you drink every night!
Grow up and be a man. Post under your name instead of all your alias’s.
Hey got an idea for ya Dustin, there’s a special button for you …..you know the 1 dollar button……you and your 22 imaginary “donation return friends†can donate a dollar then you all can request your 23 dollars back. But hey you can’t do that either because date and time stamps are posted to each donation, and you couldn’t possibly get them back dated to May 8th.
BNN is not party to this refund instruction, nor are they providing posters email addresses to anyone without their permission.
It’s so;
1.) A refund request can be verified in public.
2.) Each receipt number has a trace back to all the donator’s information.
(that’s how we know your lying Dustin)
Not one donator has requested a refund!
I’m waiting for your 22 receipt numbers and copies of your emails to the FBI…. LMAO at you curs!
How low can you possibly go?……Wait….I forgot I was talking to a child molester! What else would we expect?
The “Daddy’s Worm Video†is going to be verified as uncut, un-dubbed, uncoached and will be verified as authentic, then what are you and your pedophile backers going to say.
Why no reply from you and your family regarding Dr. Saterly’s pro bono invitation for interviews and testing by a unbiased third party outside of corrupt Placer County?
Connie and the Bedwell’s are waiting for your answer!
May 22nd, 2009 at 6:59 pm
TIM BEDWELL, NICE TRY. I will ask the FBI if I can post the FILE NUMBER HERE AND CONTACT NAME! THEY HAVE OUR RECEIPT NUMBERS. YOU TOLD ME YOURSELF YOU WOULD REFUND THE MONEY AND TOLD ME HOW FROM BNN POSTING. NOW ALL EMAILS HAVE GONE UNANSWERED.
I CAN’T WAIT TO GET THE APPROVAL OF THE AGENT HANDLING THIS TO SHOW JUST WHAT A FRIGGIN LIAR YOU ARE.
May 22nd, 2009 at 7:00 pm
I’M NOT POSTING SH## ON BNN FREE BLOGGING IDIOT SITE, THE FBI ARE HANDLING THESE COMPLAINTS. FAR BETTER FOR THEM TO INSTEAD OF SOME IDIOT WHO THINKS HE IS AN ACTUAL MEDIA PERSON
May 23rd, 2009 at 12:45 pm
I do not have permission to place the agents name on the internet. He suggested I post a link how to file your own complaint against this scam, make sure it has Connie Bedwell name in the complaint and it will get to him shortly.
He’s asked you all NOT TO DEAL WITH ANY BEDWELLS or BNN. File your complaint with authorities and it will be handled.
http://www.ic3.gov/default.aspx
Welcome to IC3
The Internet Crime Complaint Center (IC3) is a partnership between the Federal Bureau of Investigation (FBI), the National White Collar Crime Center (NW3C), and the Bureau of Justice Assistance (BJA).
May 23rd, 2009 at 12:48 pm
For the record for the last time, I DO NOT KNOW DUSTIN.
BEDWELLS WOULD LIKE EVERYONE TO THINK THERE CANNOT BE PEOPLE WHO DO NOT BELIEVE HIS DAUGHTER UNLESS THEY’RE LINKED TO DUSTIN.
NOT TRUE. THIS IS A SCAM, BEEN PROVED A SCAM, BEEN PROVED CONNIE COACHED HER KIDS.
YOU THINK YOUR LAYMAN INTERNET EYES ARE MORE INTELLIGENT THAN EXPERTS WHO’VE SEEN THE CHILD?
THERE IS A REAL TRUE FBI FILE OPEN ON FRAUD AGAINST HER. GO TO THE WEBSITE I GAVE (NOT BNN) AND WORK WITH AUTHORITIES.
May 23rd, 2009 at 12:55 pm
If a little girl were not involved, this would be entertaining but she is. I’ve said I have doubts about the accusations and I still do but either way this little girl is in trouble.
May 23rd, 2009 at 3:27 pm
EnoughAlready = Dustin Thompson the Child Molester;
Please post anything you claim, emails, 22 receipt numbers, correspondence with the FBI, FBI case #, any and all your above made claims right here on BTLS and then will see who the liar is. Or is Bubba not an actual media person too?
Dustin Thompson has NO ANSWER TO DR. SATERLY’S OFFER. What’s up with that child molester?
PUT UP OR SHUT UP Dustin! Your caught in your lies just as you will be in your criminal trial.
May 23rd, 2009 at 5:21 pm
Tim Bedwell, I’ll get this website BTLS to confirm my IP addy and location.
You want to turn this into Dustin’s doing. It is NOT.
God you are as crazy as the rest of the internet says. Everyone else, contact the FBI website for to be a part of this investigation.
You want to spin this making me part of any Dustin team or camp, I’m not. I’ll let those who read here decide for themselves by contacting this link if you feel you’ve been scammed, put it through the FBI Internet Fraud Unit. You will find none of us even know Dustin, we just were dumb enough to believe this sh** off the start. We sure don’t anymore!
http://www.ic3.gov/default.aspx
May 23rd, 2009 at 8:05 pm
I suppose all these posters are Dustin? lol
http://forums.somethingawful.com/showthread.php?threadid=3137533&userid=0&perpage=40&pagenumber=7
In the link below, people talking about requesting their money back and getting no response. I’ve put in a request to add them to our group.
http://www.websleuths.com/forums/showthread.php?t=83594&page=8
It’s a great thing she did the Auburn Journal article because it showed the world what a con she really is.
May 23rd, 2009 at 8:33 pm
EnoughAlready = Dustin Thompson THE CHILD MOLESTER….why can’t you publish those #22 receipt numbers and FBI emails for us? WHERE ARE THEY??? Your caught in your lies again Dustin!
GOT NEWS FOR YOU CHILD MOLESTER – you don’t need permission to publish a FBI agents name if what you’re saying is the truth! The only reason you didn’t publish an FBI agents name was there is no agents name you could truthfully publish based upon your allegations! Without actually having a true FBI Agents name to publish with your allegations, any name you published would be a fraudulent statement which the FBI could have the Justice Department prosecute you for. You are such a lying dumb ass! You got another lies for us today???
The web link is an internet FBI complaint link… There’s no contact with an FBI AGENT….your laughable.
Dustin, Enough Already about the donation return lies…
LET’S GET TO THE FACTS OF THIS CASE!!!
Molester Where’s the proof of your statements about evidence?
Evidence that proves the child was coached.
Evidence that any judge has even viewed the Daddy’s Worm Video or any of the many videos?
Evidence that the judge rejected the videos as coached?
ANY EVIDENCE WHATSOEVER TO YOUR CLAIMS….WHERE IS IT?
What we do know is; Placer County is corrupt. The first move to get around that was a new judge has been appointed from out of the County. Second, to level the playing field, Dr. Saterly has offered pro bono (for free) to interview and test you and your family. Connie, the Bedwell’s and all direct witnesses have agreed to whatever interviewing and testing Dr. Saterly deems necessary.
Dustin, where’s yours and your families agreement to this most generous offer. After all, you claim you have been cleared of all charges….What’s the hold up Dustin and the Thompson family? Dustin you never address or answer this question. WHY?
The facts of the matter, is you will steadfastly refuse to be interviewed or tested by a neutral, nonbiased, third parties who your attorney can’t control.
For a week now, Connie and the Bedwell family, as well as all direct witnesses have stated they will cooperate with Dr. Saterly testing.
WHAT’S THE HOLD UP THOMPSON’S????
May 23rd, 2009 at 9:14 pm
This post was deleted FIVE TIMES by the Auburn Urinal ….
No small town collusion??? After they closed the comment section they went back and reposted the second deleted posting of this writing!
On 5/19/09 at 06:43 PM, TruthIS wrote:
In the Auburn Journal Victor Pecoraro is quoted below…
“Victor Pecoraro, Auburn Police detective sergeant, said the department IMMEDIATELY investigated the child’s welfare after watching Bedwell’s video. The toddler was interviewed by a team of trained specialists and investigators questioned the father. He said the video is only a ““piece of the puzzleâ€â€.
Sgt Pecoraro did not “immediately†investigate this situation as he claims. In fact he had the case open for 5 months (Feb 2008 to June 2008) and still to this day has not contacted the people who are direct witnesses to the child’s statements at the hands of her father, all of whom are listed in Connie’s two page witness list. Additionally, Connie’s boyfriend Darrel Payne called Sgt. Pecoraro to see why he hadn’t contacted him in the 5 month investigation since he was the first person on that list. Sgt. Pecoraro stated that, “everyone I’ve interviewed tells me that Dustin is the best thing since sliced bread†and “you couldn’t tell me anything I don’t already know about this caseâ€.
Sgt Pecoraro you were proved wrong on both statements.
I’m not an investigator but common sense tells me that an investigator would first look at all evidence presented to him while interviewing those making the allegations. This would help investigators to know how to proceed and determine the type of questioning of the accused? You went directly to the accused and fell for his and his family B.S. Did it go something like this; Dustin is just a mellow guy, he would never do anything like that?
Sgt Pecoraro conveniently fails to mention WHEN HE ACTUALLY and FINALLY WATCHED THAT VIDEO. It is a fact that he did not watch that video when Connie went into the police station with it in her hand the next morning of June 10, 2008 after the child made those statements regarding Dustin molesting her, as was filmed on the night of (June 9, 2008). In fact the Auburn Police Dep. made Connie hand the child over to a child molester for his visitation to be abused and brainwashed again that same day, June 10th 2008.
Upon receiving Aaliyah back from Dustin’s parenting time on June 15 2008, Connie took the child to the hospital to have her examined after the child again stated that “daddy hurt my pee pee†and “daddy hurt my buttâ€. Connie requested authorization for the examination, Sgt Pecoraro yelled at Connie and told her to leave the hospital. He did not authorize the child’s examination. During that heated phone conversation with Sgt Pecoraro in the hospital he still at that point HAD NOT YET WATCHED THE VIDEO!!! Sgt Pecoraro seems quite confused as to what “immediate†and “investigation†truly are. Sgt. Pecoraro’s actions were far from what he claims. We can only hope that District Attorney Fenocchio can bring some clarity to Sgt. Pecoraro’s perceptions in hopes that he doesn’t allow other children to be harmed due to Sgt. Pecoraro’s unwillingness to correctly do his job.
After Connie received the child back from Dustin she made one line coached statements such as, “I love daddy_ I love daddy’s worm_ mommy makes me say these things, daddy said so_ daddy said I love daddy not Darrel_ Darrel’s bad, daddy said so. etc†It wasn’t until June 17th 2008 that Sgt Pecoraro FINALLY didn’t make Connie turn Aaliyah over to Dustin. In fact, Sgt. Pescoraro called and apologized to Connie and Darrel for what he had done, or should I say hadn’t done.
Aaliyah’s MDIC interview took place on June 23, 2008 in which Aaliyah stated the one line brainwashing from her father.
Thanks to Sergeant Victor Pecoraro’s negligence and dereliction of duty, failing to properly follow the basic rules of investigation, putting the child back in Dustin’s home for continued brainwashing before the MDIC interview, the interview was ruled as “unsubstantiated claims of abuse†and is where the claim of coaching originated.
DUE TO THIS COMPLETELY INEPT, ONE SIDED INVESTIGATION THE CHILD REMAINS IN DUSTIN’S HOME TO THIS VERY THIS DAY. Connie refusing to stop bringing the continued statements of this child before the court, CPS, STEP, and Sandra Amara, Dustin’s attorney and the child’s court appointed attorney Ms. Bowman, all of whom recommended to Judge Jeffery Penny that, 100% custody should be given to the father. Their premise was that Connie stating to the court what the child was continuing to speak of Dustin’s sexual and physical abuse constituted “child abuse at the hands of the motherâ€. That “video taping of the child exchanges constituted abuse by the motherâ€. This reasoning defies logic. That didn’t stop Judge Jeffery Penny from granting their recommendation without viewing court mandated reports of abuse or the Daddy’s Worm Video. No judge has ever viewed the Daddy’s worm Video†regardless of Sandra Amara’s blatant lies to the contrary to Judge Francis Kearney and Judge Nichols.
Sandra Amara requested Connie’s visitation completely taken away is for one purpose and one purpose only; To stop further documenting of the child’s statements and actions that reveal the Thompson’s on going abuse sexual and physical abuse. Betty the supervisor of Connie and the child’s visitation at “About The Childrenâ€, stated regarding her observation of the child having to go to Dina Thompson the mother of Dustin Thompson was, “That was the second worst reaction of this child’s refusal to go to the other party I’ve ever seenâ€. (like those in the parential exchange video) Though Betty documents the child’s reactions and statements during visitation, Connie asked Betty if her documentation was being reported to the court? There after, Connies shows up for visitation and the owner of About The Children, Maureene Rodarte starts yelling about a picture(s) of Connie and the child on http://www.saveaaliyah.com stating, “someone could come in here and grab the child out of the arms of a supervisor and run away with herâ€. Rodarte further claimed Connie was in violation of the restraining order for posting the picture. Connie refuted each and every accusation of Ms. Rodarte to her ultimate stupefied silence. Rodarte, then reverted to name calling. Rodarte’s last words were to refuse to allow Connie visitation there anymore. Rodarte claimed the picture(s) gave away the location of visitation. Look for yourself to see if her claim is true. The picture was taken in a room with out any designation of location. Her claim is baseless! However, it accomplished Sandra Amars court denied request to cancel Connie’s visitation without cause through a friend and fellow colleague. Thompson’s never showed up with the child for that visitation either. Imagine that! These facts point once again to the Good Ole’ Boys and Girls Club of Placer County showing their collusion! If Sandra Amara can’t get the Judge to do what she wants, she’ll pull the strings to get it done through friends and colleagues.
To date the only known person of the above named, known to have view the video evidence is Sgt. Pecoraro and STEP as they pulled out of the case. Judge Kearney in the Ex-Party hearing before she recused herself, ordered the child’s attorney Ms. Bowman to view the video. Interesting fact; Ms. Rebecca Bowman was appointed as attorney for the child to fight for the child’s best interests, has had access to court mandated reporters reports, the video for 11 months and had to be ordered to watch the video.
U N B E L I E V A B L E !
Placer County Judicial System is notorious for its corruption long before this case! Read the article at and see why Dustin is hiding in Place County behind it’s co-called professionals; http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/43819/placer_county_judicial_system.html?cat=17
For anyone who is interested in the truth of these matters, the court filed paper work is public record. It will easily disprove the pedophile clans supporters statements of events. It’s well documented and not even remotely close to what the child molester family and friends claim.
Dustin Thompson if you’re as innocent as you claim to be, take Dr. Saterly’s, Pro Bono invitation to be tested and evaluated by non bias third party outside of the corrupt Placer County Good Ole’ Boys and Girls Club.
Connie and the Bedwell family and all witness to the child’s statements have already agreed to be interviewed and tested. How about Dustin and the Thompson family!
Step up Dustin, be a man, let go of your daddy’s hand, quit hiding behind the skirt of Sandra Amara and lets find the truth! I know you won’t do it, but Connie and the Bedwell family and all witness’s to your despicable acts have already agreed to do it.
Here’s your chance, were looking to see what you and your family are made of?
Come on, prove Connie and those crazy Bedwell’s wrong.
THEY’RE WAITING……..
May 23rd, 2009 at 9:42 pm
No one requesting a refund is a FLAT OUT LIE. Websleuth posters have requested refunds before this story even HIT BNN. Directing those who have donated and are requesting a refund of their money to a site, Blogger News Network, which bans a users ISP if they are not 100% supportive of the mothers story is not only irresponsible it prevents anyone who wants a refund from doing so and steers them away from being able to get their money back.
For anyone requesting a refund, I suggest contacting PayPal directly. You won’t get anywhere requesting your money from the Bedwells.
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May 23rd, 2009 at 9:46 pm
Enough Already, I had not seen your previous post with the FBI info on requesting a refund/filing a complaint. Perhaps it would be wise for anyone requesting a refund to contact both the FBI as well as PayPal and and make sure both know of the request for a refund as well as contacting both agencies.
May 23rd, 2009 at 9:48 pm
Referring the above writing about Sgt. Pecoraro;
Regarding the picture Maureen Rodarte claimed, “someone could come in here and grab the child out of the arms of a supervisor and run away with herâ€. Rodarte also claimed the picture(s) gave away the location of visitation. This is the very same picture posted here on BTLS in the very beginning of this thread.
Note also; In the article linked to, about Corrupt Placer County Judicial System… One of the Judges spoken of in the article was the very same Judge that recused herself … Judge Francis Kearney!
May 23rd, 2009 at 11:20 pm
Thank you for the information regarding Paypal. I think a few in our group were trying that way. I took it upon myself to collect everyone’s details and supply it to the internet fraud unit after seeing confirmation in the Auburn Journal regarding this story, the steps taken and the results of the investigation.
I will contact Paypal and let them know the information and names involved.
Tim, I cannot wait for Bubba to email me so I can speak with him. He can let everyone know I am clearly not Dustin and have no connections to Dustin.
Regarding your 1 internet posting of an OLD Placer County article. I think you are confusing Associated Content with Associated Press. One is credible and one is NOT. The one you use is NOT.
Anyone can write for Associated Content or submit an article. THEY DO NOT HAVE ANY EDUCATED JOURNALISTS.
Yet again Tim is using a free blogger uneducated source lacking credibility in the news field to put this story out there. Associated Content article was a highly biased article written by a party that did not have a successful outcome in Placer County. It was not written by a journalist or true media. We can leave it to the readers of this ARCHIVED board to decide if a completely unrelated article, the ONLY article Connie can put out there, makes for a conspiracy theory.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Associated_Content
It shows once again how desperate Connie is. She is running scared and has her daddy play SPIN PARTY to sway the readers away from the truth.
I won’t bother wasting one more moment of my time debating with something that has been proven to be a fraud. I won’t be returning UNTIL Bubba speaks with me so I can provide to him who I am and the FBI information on the Internet Fraud.
Yes Tim, the agent has asked me NOT to leave his contact information on any internet posting. I’ve told the people here if they follow my instructions above and list Connie Bedwell in the information, it will get to the investigating agent. http://www.ic3.gov/default.aspx
Post all the lies you want Tim and attack me all you want. I cannot wait for Bubba to verify who I am and my details SO I can throw it in your face. Lie lie lie is all you’ve ever taught your girl to do. She’s followed well in your footsteps. You taught her well.
May 24th, 2009 at 12:16 am
Oh and you all know that while Placer County may indeed be corrupt or have a few problems, the Associated Content blog, is just that a blog article, not a news source. Not only is it from 2006 and about only a couple of cases, it is just opinion and not in any way associated with a news organization.
I believe this case needs to be investigated further. No matter which parent is causing this child harm(in my opinion after much reading for weeks- they potentially are both doing this child harm).
This case has not been handled well. This child is indeed in danger- there has been no determination as to which parent is hurting her. Keep the focus on this child in need.
May 24th, 2009 at 12:43 am
Sandra Amara requested Connie’s visitation completely taken away is for one purpose and one purpose only; To stop further documenting of the child’s statements and actions that reveal the Thompson’s on going abuse sexual and physical abuse.
About that perception- maybe it was because Connie was freaking her daughter out with all the questions and suspicions. She was becoming hyper aware of any an all disturbances and linking them to abuse. A lot of what I have read seems to be normal childhood tantrums-not breakdowns. And this baby girl is very attuned to her mother’s emotions.
Connie was tainting the memories that the baby with her questions, reactions and fears. (which may be valid and must be investigated). She may have invalidated all possible evidence except physical evidence by her own actions. This may not have been her intent, but it is the result.
Also, how many regular pediatrician visits did this baby have since June of last year? Pediatricians are mandated reporters of suspected abuse. And would have been required to document any physical signs of abuse- especially sexual.
You don’t need to take a child to the hospital and request permission. Any suspected abuse is mandated to be reported, and an exam for sexual abuse will happen no matter what.
How do I know this? Because I suspected my ex of doing this to my 2 year old when she came home from a weekend visit screaming ‘owwie daddy No NO!’ for 7 hours straight. I took her to the doctors immediately and described her reaction and was ordered to have her examined for sexual abuse. It was horrible, they took pictures, and did internal exams. I was not allowed to be in the room.
Thank God it proved she was not molested, and had just reacted to being away from me for one of the first times for more than overnight. That, and her father is a very big guy and can be very scary. This all happened 20 years ago, and in California. So I am familiar with the process.
I strongly doubt any medical doctor could be influenced by anyone to jeopardize their medical license just to make this go away!! It just makes some of the statements by the mother and her family harder to believe. Either that or there truly was no sign of abuse to be found.
I am bothered by the fact that none of the Bedwell family has been interviewed as part of an investigation. Because of this I have written numerous emails and letters to people both in Placer and at the State level.
No one has to agree with the Bedwell’s reality to do this. No one has to believe the father is being falsely accused. All you have to believe is that this child needs help.
This definitely warrants the attention and a closer look by those outside Placer County.
May 24th, 2009 at 3:52 am
TO THE BELOW LISTED:
EnoughAlready
May 23rd, 2009 at 5:21 pm
WhereIStheEVIDENCE
May 23rd, 2009 at 9:42 pm
WhereIStheEVIDENCE
May 23rd, 2009 at 9:46 pm
AND IF I MISSED ANY OF YOU MOLESTER SUPPORTERS THIS IS TO YOU TOO;
All your writing and BS yet you still fail to provide your #22 fictitious donation refund receipt numbers, and those ever so scary emails to the FBI … :>{)
I don’t care if you’re actually him or not…if you support him, that’s the same as being him. Ever heard of guilt by association? Asking intelligent questions is one thing…supporting Dustin Thompson’s lies is another.
Once again if there’s anyone who wants a donation refund post your receipt # here on BTLS or BNN and I’ll contact you.
How is it Dustin that you will do anything and everything but prove your own words?
Lies are empty words and so much hot air!
WAITING FOR YOUR PROOF!
May 24th, 2009 at 8:22 am
“Directing those who have donated and are requesting a refund of their money to a site, Blogger News Network, which bans a users ISP if they are not 100% supportive”
This is an out right lie as well. The BNN moderator ONLY bans IP addresses for those who attack and name call those who do believe the mother. They are also warned about it. They encourage discussion and questioning, just not attacks.
They believe everyone is entitles to their own opinion.
May 25th, 2009 at 10:36 am
Well I see the people banned from Bnn are spreading their hate, discontent and lies here now. Have you guys NOT heard there has been a support group started just for you? I think it’s called Bnn Banned Bloggers.
Whether you believe this story or not, we should all demand a complete, thorough and unbiased investigation be done in this case. To do any less is a dis-service to every child who has ever been or ever will be abused!
I absolutely believe the Bedwells. They have not just agreed but begged for independant investigations, mental evaluations and even polygraph tests, stress tests and any other test that proves deception. I do know there are test that a person can not manipulate and the truth WILL be clear. The Bedwells and I mean EACH AND EVERYONE OF THEM, ARE BEGGING FOR TEST WHICH WILL UNDENIABLY EXPOSE WHO IS BEING DISHONEST, MANIPULATIVE AND WHICH PARENT IS TRYING TO COACH Aaliyah. The father’s side have even refused to discuss this. All they do is come on the internet and try to discredit the Bedwell’s ANYWAY they can. The donations are of particular concern to them, money is power. With the money to hire an attorney and pay for professional testing,
TWO THINGS WILL HAPPEN which scares the hell out of the
Worm. Connie will have an attorney, so the Worms’s attorney won’t be able to run all over Connie and twist every fact like she has been able to do thus far. With funds to pay for professional evaluations, the people hired will not be Placer county good ole boys and therefore the Thompson’s will no longer control those things either. The Worm KNOWS if this case is taken out of the hands of his cohorts, he will be in big trouble. People have sent donations to Connie and she has hired an attorney. The Worm is getting more nervous EVERY day. He is DESPERATE to STOP these donations. DESPERATE! He will say and do anything it takes to keep people from sending any money to be used to expose the truth. Connie Bedwell has sold ALL her personal belongings to try and get the money to fight and get protection for her child. Her family members have also sold their worldly goods to get the money needed, even her circle of friends have donated to this cause. The Bedwells do NOT have the resources that the Worm enjoys. His money and connections have given him the freedom to sexually abuse his own daughter. Thank God some people followed their hearts and sent money and Connie HAS HIRED AN ATTORNEY WITH THOSE DONATIONS!!! Every dime she gets goes toward protecting her baby. I ask you mothers and fathers would you do LESS for your child then Connie is doing for Aaliyah? How far would you go to get your baby out of the hands of a monster. Yes she needs money, it takes money to fight in court. Attorneys work for money and as great as it would be to think that some high powered bulldog would take this case on pro bono, it has not happened. The Worm has deep roots in Placer county and he has money. Connie is an outsider there and she is a working mother. When the Worm had supervised visitation for that very short time, his parents could oversee his time with Aaliyah, Connie has had to pay a fee of a hundred dollars each and every time she has seen Aaliyah. She was the victim of abuse, she brought Aaliyah back to Placer County because she had been assured the baby would be protected, they all lied. She was tricked and now Aaliyah pays the price nightly, when the Worm comes out! PLEASE DON’T BE FOOLED BY THIS MONSTER. If you can send a dollar, well I can’t think of a better place to spend one. This family is extremely appreciative for anything anyone does for Aaliyah. Write letters, send emails or even just pray for Aaliyah’s safety. Connie’s big crimes are leaving the Worm and his abusive actions, he would NOT even sign Aaliyah’s birth certificate, he wanted NOTHING to do with this child until he could use her to get back at Connie and that includes sexually abusing this baby. He is sick and needs help but most of all he needs to be kept away from children. ALL THESE FOLKS WHO SCREAM THIS IS A FRAUD, WELL THERE ARE “REAL SCAMMERS” ON THE NET, ROBBING THE ELDERLY AND NAIVE DAILY. IF YOU ARE REALLY THAT CIVIC MINDED AND YOU ARE DETERMINED TO “HELP BY KEEPING US FROM BEING SCAMMED” GO AFTER THE PROFESSIONAL CON ARTISTS, THEY CAN EASILY BE FOUND ON THE NET. No your intentions and motives are clear, you can’t afford to fight Connie on an even field, you will be exposed.
May 25th, 2009 at 10:53 am
BTW I called the office of the FBI and spoke with an agent at length. They are in NO WAY involved with ANY aspect of the Bedwell case. NONE NOTA NOTHING so liar liar pants on fire, peddle your papers elsewhere.
To the WORM, you and your attorney have managed to put a gag order on Connie Bedwell, which DOES violate her civil rights, every dog has his day, and the two of you should practice your barking, cause your bite gets less scary every day. YOU AND PLACER COUNTY WILL BE EXPOSED. You have shut Connie up, what is your plans for the rest of the country? How are you going to shut us up? You have done everything in your power to stop the Bedwells from exposing you and your crooked dealings and yet your crimes have still come to light. I would love to be there, the day you get the same kind of jewelry Drew Peterson sports in public now, he to thinks he is above the law! No child is safe as long as you are walking around free, especially Aaliyah, you are a monster!
May 25th, 2009 at 11:19 am
This is not a scam or a hoax. This is the desperate attempt of a mother to save her child from being sexually assaulted by the man who is suppose to protect her.
Bubba I understood you intended to follow thru with this story, what happened? I know these things take time, however every day that passes, is another 24 hours of abuse on this little girl. Because the mother is trying to protect her child, the corrupt people in Placer county have seen to it, Aaliyah no longer sees her mother. This child must be half scared to death. She is surely thinking even her mommy has abandoned her now. Richard Nixon didn’t even have the power to stop an investigation, how in God’s name has this Worm accomplished this?
All we hear is, we are working on it and yet Aaliyah is also living it. Bubba there are a lot of people who find you offensive and I admit, being from a different generation then you, I don’t always understand or even appreciate your humor. I honestly believed your disgust about this case. I mean I really thought, this guy IS a real decent person. I have had trouble eating and sleeping since I first became aware of Aaliyah’s case. The day you talked about this on your show, I felt at ease that night, I slept like a baby. I thanked God for you and your interest in getting to the bottom of this story. Please Bubba that child needs you and your army. Don’t ignore this like so many others are doing. Aaliyah needs a hero, she is a tiny little girl and her mother has done everything in her power to save her. She risks going to jail, her reputation has been soiled and her sanity questioned and she is still fighting. THEY NEED YOUR HELP, PLEASE. You told the listeners you would be talking about this again, When? When will you follow up on this story?
BTW Love the segments with the HULK, you guys are hilarious.
May 26th, 2009 at 11:49 am
No need to do anything other than file your dispute with PayPal and contact the above FBI info if one so desires. Those handling the paypal account via the save aaliyah site can give Mr. Bedwell the information he needs on whether or not anyone has requested or received refunds.
If PayPal is refunding the money, I would not reveal any personal info to Mr. Bedwell. Especially with the response given to those requesting a refund. All his request will do is give him your personal email and info. PayPal is set up as a secure site. To maintain your privacy go directly through them.
May 26th, 2009 at 12:49 pm
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May 26th, 2009 at 1:32 pm
Mema,
Why is Connie an ‘outsider’ in Placer County? I thought she went to High School there? I know she went to Alaska for 7-8 months after the baby was born. Surely that does not make her an outsider or did she grow up somewhere else?
How much money are we talking about here for the Thompson family- are they upper middle class, millionaires or multi-millionaires?
Who lied about it being safe to return with this baby? Why did she even come back if he was abusive? Surely she did not want her daughter to have a relationship with an abusive man just because he was the sperm donor, or did the courts make her come back to CA? Was it an involuntary return, or her choice? If she was forced to return, how was that accomplished?
Has the father ever signed the birth certificate, or how else does he prove he is this child’s father? As it is stated frequently he in not on the birth certificate, when was he confirmed to be the father?? Did he prove it with a paternity test and then sue to get custody/visitation, or was he sued for child support, and forced to take a paternity test? Is his name now on this child’s birth certificate? How long has this custody battle been going on if he was initially unwilling to admit paternity?
In addition to having to pay for visitation (why were none of the Bedwell’s allowed to supervise- what reason did the courts use?), I am guessing Connie has to pay child support too. I am so glad she has raised funds enough to hire an attorney now. No one should have the scales tipped to such an overwhelming imbalance by being without representation in court. Does Connie have a court hearing this week?
I pray for this baby girl. She has to be so sad and worried about why she has not seen her mother in a couple of weeks. Children need their routine’s. Children need to be safe, and loved every day!
May 26th, 2009 at 4:36 pm
Justgetaninvestigation
May 24th, 2009 at 8:22 am
The BNN moderator ONLY bans IP addresses for those who attack and name call those who do believe the mother.
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Excuse me but I was one of those BNN’rs that was banned for not being supportive ( and get this straight once and for all ) for not being supportive of THE MOTHER…ok…We are all in complete agreement on finding the truth…that should not mean hanging a man in public with no proof and 11 investigations and a lame coached video!
I never once name called anybody…and was told to shut my mouth by the female editor…for asking questions…so unless you can prove what you say is true…DON’T BOTHER SLINGING YOUR B.S on a subject you clearly know nothing about!
The other thing…why would she bann those who name call “THE MOTHER”…isn’t that in itself biased if nothing else…what about A who called a poster “the pedaphile”…SHE IS STILL BLOGGING…that’s right…can you see a pattern here!!! THOSE WHO WANT THE TRUTH AND NOT JUST THE MOTHERS SIDE WERE BANNED….BNN is NOT interested in the TRUTH!!!
May 26th, 2009 at 4:36 pm
“Upon receiving Aaliyah back from Dustin’s parenting time on June 15 2008, Connie took the child to the hospital to have her examined after the child again stated that “daddy hurt my pee pee†and “daddy hurt my buttâ€. Connie requested authorization for the examination, Sgt Pecoraro yelled at Connie and told her to leave the hospital. He did not authorize the child’s examination.”
Umm, why would she need authorization? You take a child you have custody of to a pediatrician and ask to have an exam to rule out sexual assault/sexual molestation. Once a doctor hears those terms – he is required to report his/her findings to law enforcement/DCF/CPS right?
Was it because she could not pay for the exam? Why would she need authorization from the police? I must be missing something there. How can the cop tell her not to have her child examined and to leave the hospital? Was there already some restrictions placed on Connie at that time? Because this one thing totally confuses me!!
May 26th, 2009 at 4:39 pm
I personally know of a handful of people that JUST LEFT that site because they have eyes and saw what was going on…more then a handful have left on their own….so don’t give me that crap about post-bnn’rs spreading hate cause they were banned or for any other reason.
I know everyone of the people who have left or have been banned…and they ( we ) are quite content to be away from the natzi nation!!!!! Leaving it behind, however…you needed some clarification so there you have it!
May 26th, 2009 at 4:43 pm
So what’s going on with doc joe???? Is he interviewing the mother father and child??? AnneA…is Connie going through with the pro bono evaluation…did she hand over her psych eval yet?…….
May 26th, 2009 at 4:49 pm
“It wasn’t until June 17th 2008 that Sgt Pecoraro FINALLY didn’t make Connie turn Aaliyah over to Dustin. In fact, Sgt. Pescoraro called and apologized to Connie and Darrel for what he had done, or should I say hadn’t done.”
So if I have the time line right- Connie reported this on June 10th (with the video taken June 9th), the cop refused ‘authorization’ for an exam at the hospital on or about June 15th (5 days later) and had not yet viewed the video. Then on June 17th (7 days after the initial report) he called to apologize.
Then the baby had and MDIC exam on June 23rd. Can anyone explain what an MDIC exam entails?
This sounds like within the first 2 weeks there was some sort of investigation. Is it true that there was nothing found and nothing done at this point?
Thanks!
Then for
May 26th, 2009 at 4:52 pm
She risks going to jail, her reputation has been soiled and her sanity questioned and she is still fighting.
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IMO she should be in jail for not taking that child away for good if this was really true! She has had 2 years to get more then one homemade video for proof…where’ the vid of the child screaming and crying not wanting to go to daddy’s…( even though that is natural for a young child not understanding why she has to leave mommy to see daddy)…where is the documenting support from psych docs and gp’s and child abuse experts….WHERE IS THE BEEF????
So yes, her sanity questioned for claiming the entire state of FL is corrupt…!!! ahhh…yes…do you really think that could even be possible? You obviously do….that is why I also question your sanity!
If she is still fighting…I expect your answer to my question about doc joe would be that CONNIE has already done the evaluation….but I am doubtful of that!!!
May 26th, 2009 at 7:44 pm
Bubba and Co.
I am also wondering why you dropped this story from your show. Is it your lawyers or Sirius Corporate? What about a good SpiceBoy parody song? I agree with Anne, we need you and your Army to at least support the story, yet not taking a side as you did on the first day. The more I read on this the more I know there is a violation of a small child. Come on BUBBA!!!!!!!!!!!!!
R/Chuck
May 27th, 2009 at 8:10 am
http://www.bloggernews.net/120689
http://www.bloggernews.net/120697
http://www.bloggernews.net/120707
CA, this is why you were banned from BNN. You refused to listen to what the owners of BNN had asked you NOT to do. IT’s all there in black and white eveyrone. See the first article, and watch how it all unfolds. C~A was yelling and screaming at the person who brought the story to BNN and then accusing her of being Connie. C~A, you can’t hide who you really are and what you really said.
May 27th, 2009 at 10:02 am
Justget….I am not interested in your above post. Since when is an opinion on if someone is someone other then they appear to be a crime???
I can’t view those posts…and going in the back door would be a waste of my time…so why don’t you post them IN BLACK AND WHITE…I was there…I don’t know who you are you obvioulsy are here under a different name and why you would take the time to research my posts which, again..are NOT the reason I was banned! I was there, I know what happened, and I now the personal emails i recieved from the female editor…If you are referring to caps…take a bit more and research ALL my posts on Bnn over the last year…I USE CAPS ALOT….DOESN’T MEAN I AM YELLING…So unless you want to identify yourself and post my comments to show all why YOU say I was banned…I stand by every post I made there and here….I never called anyone names or called them a PEDAPHILE…which imo is the worst thing someone can do and it was done there….AnneA is still there…NOT BANNED!! I am sick of the sugar coating and b.s and back peddling about the TRUTH about BNN…Don’t tell me what went on…I WAS THERE!
So post my comments…show me how horrible I was to get banned…I was leaving ANYWAY….I know I asked questions of karenccc one friday night…post that too…my first interaction with her…I was polite and was simply asking questions…that is what started the whole interaction with j telling me AND MY MOUTH..BLAH BLAH BLAH…..show me the money. Show me what I refused to do…put your money where your mouth is…or shut up! I also asked the editor to provide me with posts of mine that would back her mouth up too…SHE COULDN’T!! Seems alot of questions being asked about credibility and truth and alot of DEAD AIR in return.
May 27th, 2009 at 10:04 am
Oh ya, and EVERYTHING…that is asked of the BLOGGERS AT BNN to do or not to do SHOULD ALSO APPLY TO THE EDITORS…that’s where the word hypocritical comes in to play!!!!
May 27th, 2009 at 10:12 am
Bnn had no problem telling posters to shut their mouth…I have no problem telling the TRUTH and every right to ask for it!!!!
May 27th, 2009 at 10:13 am
except…I had the class to tell J to shove her sight and her hypocracy where the sun don’t shine in an email…I didn’t belittle her on the blog…that’s the difference between her and I!!
May 27th, 2009 at 10:47 am
Huh??
RESPONDING TO THE ABOVE POST:
May 26th, 2009 at 4:36 pm
“Upon receiving Aaliyah back from Dustin’s parenting time on June 15 2008, Connie took the child to the hospital to have her examined after the child again stated that “daddy hurt my pee pee†and “daddy hurt my buttâ€. Connie requested authorization for the examination, Sgt Pecoraro yelled at Connie and told her to leave the hospital. He did not authorize the child’s examination.â€
****Police cannot do any such thing. It is another lie Connie has put out there, apparently stuck didn’t it? She could have taken her daughter to multiple doctors during the day, any where. Why would police be in the hospital too?
As far as BNN bannings go, I’ve seen some uncalled for hate filled raging emails Jan sent to others. Nothing professional or journalistic about that forsure. She would not let multiple people dare ask any questions if it was against Connie but let Karen & Anne have a free for all calling everyone names if they remotely looked like they were not believing Connie’s tall tales. It had nothing to do with name calling, everything to do with alterior motives on J&S’s part. Got pretty darn quiet over there after everyone started to see through Connies lies. Actually, no matter where you go it’s died down. If there was this mass force mounting up against this ‘crooked county’, the voice on the internet would be everywhere.
Bedwells have a couple of stragglers but otherwise, other than changing names to appear like Connie has support, she has nothing because it’s very apparent to people like me who did not know this story. She’s a good con artist.
May 27th, 2009 at 10:51 am
and another thing…you obviously know who I am…I don’t hide..as you can see from my username…however, seems you are hiding behind a different name. Surely you would have better things to do then do “research” if ya want to call it to look up some strangers posts to see why they were banned from a blog you prob. were never on!!
so which is it…YOU the one hiding or you just have no life?
May 27th, 2009 at 11:09 am
If any of you know how to go look at sites that track ‘web hits’ on any given article, take a good look. This story died in its tracks when the AJ article came out confirming Connie set this whole thing up. Confirming this child has seen a team of specialists. Confirming an investigation clearing the dad of any thing.
Just fun to take a look at that statistical information. Most people on the internet have a brain and have seen through this woman’s crazed rants.
Have at it Tim, it’s fun to read how you attack people on here. Sure does not make any of you look credible when you do stuff like that. People like me that read this on Websleuths for the 1st time can’t believe how you attack perfect strangers.
You’re time would be better served writing to congressmen and any government official possible all around the USA if you actually believed your granddaughter was being harmed. But to find you in (what I think is an archived board here) screaming at people shows you have nothing better to do for your granddaughter. Can’t imagine there’s more than 10 people that pop in to read this. How screaming at a board helps your granddaughter?? Not sure how that achieves anything. Just makes you look like a nutcase so if that’s what you’re going for, have at it.
Feel free to call me Dustin, Timmy. I don’t care. I know I’m not. I’m just a stranger that read & posted on WS about this, but if it’ll help de-stress you, feel free.
May 27th, 2009 at 12:41 pm
Justgetaninvestigation,
Since you obviously have spent time in the archives of the site that has chosen to promote the claims of the mother in this matter, perhaps you could point out to me any posts that I made that were abusive or contained any sort of name calling.
I can save you some time, there were none. I NEVER called anyone a name, I never “yelled” at anyone, nor was I abusive to anyone with a different opinion.
Yet I am among the “banned” from that site. Why? Because I went to another web site, Web Sleuths, and voiced my opinion of disbelief of the mother’s claims in very clear, no uncertain terms.
The editor’s of that site seem to believe that they have the right to restrict or control the most cherished of all liberties, the freedom of speech. Brave men and women have shed their life’s blood to give each of us this liberty, and they cannot restrict that right.
Since then, I have voiced my opinion of the mother’s claims at other sites in this virtual world of the Internet. I have stated many reasons that I disbelieve this story. Foremost of these is the video at the center of this emotional reaction. After viewing the video several times, I was forced to realize that I had not SEEN the child say a single word accusing the father of sexual abuse, AND NEITHER HAVE YOU. For whatever reason you choose to believe, the camera NEVER shows the child say anything. I am unable to take the giant “leap of faith” that the video is valid solely because the mother and her family say so.
Let me ask you a question. If someone posted a video on You Tube claiming that a 2 year old little girl could quote the entire Declaration of Independence from memory and NEVER showed the child talking, would you believe it? Would it help you to believe it if the child’s aunt, and grandfather posted long posts on the Internet referring to you, or anyone not believing the claim, with some of the most vile terms that can be applied to a human being?
In my opinion, the emotional reaction surrounding this saga was accurately defined in an article at tampabay.com…….
“In a sense, the Internet is the largest mob ever assembled. It sometimes transforms otherwise inhibited people into unrestrained, faceless conduits for emotion.”
No matter your opinion, this child deserves a non emotional analysis of the facts. I have done my best to give her just that.
May 27th, 2009 at 1:14 pm
Justgetaninvestigation
How many is it going to take? There have been what, 11 investigations so far? That’s a lot of taxpayers money already. Seems to me some people should be gettin a little pissed about that. Oh the conspiracy thing? The corruption thing? The whole county and police department, all inept or corrupt? Please that’s just utterly absurd.
May 27th, 2009 at 3:24 pm
HUH?? said: Umm, why would she need authorization? You take a child you have custody of to a pediatrician and ask to have an exam to rule out sexual assault/sexual molestation. Once a doctor hears those terms – he is required to report his/her findings to law enforcement/DCF/CPS right?
Exactly, what police officer has ANY right to AUTHORIZE an examination of ANY child? If you all cannot see how rediculous this situation is, you need new glasses.
I wish I had the dang court files. Anyone in Auburn, Cali want to go down to the court house and get a copy? It’s all public domain. Then maybe we can get somewhere and get this little girl and her mother help!
May 27th, 2009 at 7:19 pm
What difference does any of that make Justgetaninvestigation ?
I am still amazed after reading on BNN that Connie willingly came back to CA to allow her daughter to have a relationship with a man she claims abused her (connie) and threw dirty diapers at her and the baby.
It is said now that it was not due to the paternity issue(ei. Dustin sued connie for visitation so she came back), nor is it a child support issue(ei. Connie filed for child support and proved paternity of Dustin).
This is a bit tough to understand, a mother chose to involve an abusive man into her daughter’s life while living in Alaska, and moved back to California for THIS????
According to BNN Connie had not requested child support- and Dustin did this to force Connie to come back to him.
Allegedly the courts told her visitation would be supervised- so how did the courts get involved?
Who brought the matter to court? Dustin because he admitted paternity, or Connie who rightfully requested child support. How can she say willingly if she was forced to come back to CA? Something is not being told here.
What really happened?
May 27th, 2009 at 7:31 pm
I left BNN too- willingly. I was tired of only those who disagreed with popular opinions being chastised or in a couple of cases banned. While others where allowed to say anything they wanted to people who were posting respectful or even interesting questions or points of view.
That attacks on newcomers, or those who post opposing views is still happening is apparent on several subjects and articles. I stopped posting, and only read there.
Now with the advent of no more public comments being allowed on CAYLEE, HALEIGH or AALIYAH – and only members being allowed to post (so far 80% of posts are in the off topics thread and NOT about the articles anymore) I find the limited perspective not worth the time.
Blogs get boring if there is no real discussion, or new input. Many people I know will never post on member only blogs or forums. Why bother- it becomes the good ole boy/girl club of opinions.
Instead of moderating comments like this site does- they have pretty much limited it to just a few points of view. They have over reacted and shut the doors to new points of view.
And I agree about Jan shutting down points of view she does not agree with- she has been doing that of late.
It is their site- they get to make the rules. That is how it is everywhere. But I know it just cost them my readership and posts. Possibly others. Either way, the lack of control has been ongoing and is now killing that Blog in my opinion.
May 27th, 2009 at 7:42 pm
This is a place to post opinions and views about this case. Not about what is going on on other sites. I am sorry for getting off topic.
The next court date is June 1st. Connie has said she has an appointment to meet with the DA on June 2nd, the one who handles child abuse cases. I wonder if which parent will be discussed.
I only hope it leads to something better for this baby. One way or the other, she is what matters to me.
May 27th, 2009 at 9:58 pm
Bubba’s specialist asked Connie for a copy of her psych eval. My guess is Connie has not provided Dr. Saturley with any of the information he requested so no further story to comment on until he gets the info. Pretty simple to figure out.
May 28th, 2009 at 7:07 am
If this is a sick scam or custody battle I ask you all the following questions…
Why hasn’t Connie been arrested?
Why hasn’t the saveaaliyah site been shut down?
Why haven’t paypal shut her account down?
Why no follow up in the Auburn Journal?
Why no response at all from the fathers camp?
Why won’t the Thompsons agree to an independant assessment from Dr Joe Saturley? Connie and her family have welcomed this.
Why hasn’t Dustin agreed to Lie detector and stress tests? Connie has volunteered to take any tests necessary to protect her daughter.
An innocent man would do anything to clear his name, surely he would be demanding these tests to put an end to all the rumours?
To Beast, CA, Huh and the rest of your vindictive little gang just ask yourself why you are so angry about being banned from a blogging site, this isn’t about you it’s actually about Aaliyah. You are all coming across as obsessive and wierd which in turn discredits what you’re actually trying to say.
Bubba when are you going to give everyone an update, please don’t let this little girl down.
May 28th, 2009 at 7:10 am
HUH?? Why does any abused woman ever go back to their abuser? It happens everyday. I don’t have the answer to that. How I read it is that the only way she was going to come back to California was if the courts stepped in and made it safe with supervised visitations for the father. I also read where Connie didn’t believe the abuse she was shown would be placed upon their daughter. The only way we will truly know all the circumstances of the whole situation is to get a copy of their file. Dustin isn’t saying anything and Connie is telling her side of the story. And what happened on BNN doesn’t really matter other than there are now a half dozen people, bitter if you ask me, that are now spreading gossip and slander of the owners and posters on that site. I was there for a long while, I didn’t post much. But that’s only because I saw the clique there run off many people. I totally believe that the clique, the runners of the board, attacked KarenCCC over and over until they either got her banned or she left, but that didn’t happen and they got angry. If you read there for any time, you cannot say that didn’t happen before. However the owners of that board choose to run it, it’s their decision. And there aren’t any new hits on Aaliyah’s threads because there isn’t any new news. I’m hoping that after the court date, there will be a new article and then there will be more discussion.
CA, I have a life, I was there when this all happened. I chose not to show my name that I posted under because I don’t need to be rediculed and harrassed. I saw how you all worked on that board. I have spoken to many people who feel the same way. There are alot of people on those boards now that were there just lurking and never posted before. But now that a few have left, they feel free to post. At least before this new forum came about. It goes both ways CA.
May 28th, 2009 at 10:11 am
Justgetaninvestigation
May 27th, 2009 at 3:24 pm
I wish I had the dang court files. Anyone in Auburn, Cali want to go down to the court house and get a copy? It’s all public domain.
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JUSTGET – your response in the above quote is funny and tells me you know nothing of family courts. None of this is public domain, not one bit. You could not get any of this information. Really, this is how smart you are?
I’d suggest you JUST GET out of here before you make any other ummmm ‘statements’ like that, you are clueless about the courts.
The very few left following this at BNN are because a small handful were banned for no reason other than not siding with the mother. The rest left because it was a joke and proved to be a sham by the mother.
May 28th, 2009 at 11:10 am
marmite
May 28th, 2009 at 7:07 am
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To Beast, CA, Huh and the rest of your vindictive little gang just ask yourself why you are so angry about being banned from a blogging site, this isn’t about you it’s actually about Aaliyah. You are all coming across as obsessive and wierd which in turn discredits what you’re actually trying to say.
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Exactly where have we (I) made this about me??? Care to post that comment of mine that makes you say that!
Angry about leaving a site that has no COMMENTERS..angry about leaving a site that controls opinions and ridicules opposing opinions right in the blog? Angry for leaving the drama surrounding the high school mentality? Angry to leave a site that “stinks” of horse manure and has only a few regulars there that post more in chat then in an article? HARDLY! I have all my friends that are no longer there either. We are all actually very very happy! So you are way off the mark here girlfriend. YOu don’t know me or who I am. You hide your name, your prob. very two faced on the blog as well..Are you afraid of being banned for commenting on ANOTHER BLOG…oooohhhh…love to be a prisoner of BNN again…NOT…Actually, I have a good idea who you are. So sad you feel the need to hide! Some are weak that way!
ustgetaninvestigation
May 28th, 2009 at 7:10 am
Would you kindly post the comments we have made that make you act the way you do? You haven’t posted why i was banned…if you were there…and you have some intellectual capabilities..you would see how it was not only me that was banned..and you haven’t posted your proof…How about minding your business. Busy body people like you with no back up for your mouth are a waste of space you belong whre you are! If you don’t have anything nice to say…shut your mouth..move along..Why are you attacking me? You were there…you are hiding NOW…posting stuff about ME that you can’t back up…a link is not proof. YOu are counting on people not taking the time to go look and looking “right’ at the same time. Your a coward not saying who you are! You obviously would like to hide your short comings and ridiculous thoughts and empty headed accuastions.
You very simply person…”vindictive gang”….your funny!
I have a gang now ya ok …your laughable! What is it I’m vindictive about anyway…I tell the truth…never lied about what went on at bnn…if the truth and the courage to stand up for it is vindictive to you then I can’t help you!
Will be waiting for you to post your proof on both my comments for being banned…as well as where you see any post of mine of beasts that show anger and obsessivness. Go for it! I’d love to see it! I have a few names that you know perhaps including yourself that show true signs of obsessiveness! I am hardly interested in this case. NO PROOF!! There is proof however that CAYLEE IS DEAD..there is proof however that HALEIGH IS MISSING…THERE IS PROOF THAT SANDRA IS DEAD…THERE IS PROOF THAT TORI IS MISSING AND LIKELY DEAD…You want to accuse me of being obsessed at least take your best shot at it…BEDWELL case IS NOT IT!!
I’d also like to know how wanting the truth and asking for proof can be something that can be discredited…I”M not the one having to proof anything nor am I the one who is spewing lies. I am not the one who is demanding people to believe…so what is it that I have said that needs to be credited??? Post your answer to that too…or will you simply ignore as usual. Go back to BNN…that’s where you belong in the black hole with all the other moles.
You don’t need to be ridiculed or harrassed? Isn’t that what your trying to do to me? If you don’t say who you are then you nothing but a fake! You don’t believe in yourself or what you say! Why don’t ya take a long walk off a short pier unless you want to be honest!
May 28th, 2009 at 11:43 am
“KarenCCC said,in May 1st, 2009 at 8:35 am Papa, I wasn’t threatening anything. I just don’t want to cause trouble, and that seems all I have done.
m2c, I haven’t said that I am unhappy about no one helping, I know people are helping. Again, about money, I didn’t ask anyone to send money. I just thought if I got this out to millions of people that there would be a lawyer in her area that could contact her and get her the help she needs. That’s all I wanted. I am unhappy that I have to validate why I am here.
Papa, I have contacted John Walsh’s site, Oprah’s won’t even let me put up a post because it violates it’s rules, I contacted so many different people and as I said yesterday, this forum is the only one that is helping me. I am thankful. I do not want to start any trouble.”
This is KarenCCC trying to defend herself from all of your accusations. C~A, I’ll be back with what you said to her before you got banned. I have to find it, but I will….
May 28th, 2009 at 2:04 pm
Marmite, I have never been banned from ANY site. I was simply asking questions based on my own perceptions and the information I have read.
I have clearly stated that I believe something needs to be done to further the investigation for the sake of this child. I have contributed to that effort by emailing officials I believe can assist in getting this case the attention it deserves.
If you don’t like my questions, please feel free to ignore them. I do not attack anyone personally, and I respect your right to an opinion that may differ from mine.
Why is it necessary that I agree with you or go away? Am I not entitled to the same respect you have with regards to posting a comment or a question? I am in no way ‘vindictive’- I only care about the safety and happiness of this CHILD- she is the only one that matters to me!
This attitude of attacking people does not further the cause at hand- helping this baby girl. Instead of attacking individual posters how about convincing people with words and evidence. How about respecting everyone’s right to think for themselves?
May 28th, 2009 at 2:20 pm
In answer to your posted questions Marmite..
Why would Connie be arrested? What is she alleged to have done.
Why would the SaveAaliyah site be taken down? That would require Dustion instigate a Civil case against the owners of that site- it is not under Connie’s control. They have a right to put up a site and ask for donations to support ANY CAUSE they want.
Why would PayPal shut down the account? Same as above, and I do not see that they are violating terms of service for Paypal accounts. Unless fraud is proven, and to my knowledge it has not.
To the questions about the father or his family responding, who knows, they have not formally responded. Plenty of allegations about them allegedy being posters of comments, but once again- who knows it they are indeed the family or father or attorney. Just like your assumption I was a banned blog commentor and or allegations that if someone does not fully agree with the Bedwell’s they MUST be ‘pedophile supporters’ because of their opinions.
Who knows why they have not accepted offers for an out of state doctor to investigate. Who knows if they have taken polygraphs on their own. I sure don’t know. No one is saying, only guessing. Heck I don’t even know if it would be considered by the courts.
I have already commented on your generalization that I am a member of a ‘vindictive little gang’. I am not, I speak and think for myself.
May 28th, 2009 at 3:14 pm
Justgetaninvestigation when I said what difference does that make. in post 361..I was referring to post 350. Apparently some comments were in moderation and appeared after I posted my comment.
Sorry!
May 28th, 2009 at 8:11 pm
To Where’s the evidence may27 9:58 pm-
Bubba’s producer said that he had read the moms psych report. “And it’s a mixed bag of goods †That comes from this same site I believe, just a different page.
I may be wrong, but I read that today while looking for updates and more information about this weird case!
May 28th, 2009 at 9:15 pm
TO – TimeWillTell
May 27th, 2009 at 10:47 am
“Upon receiving Aaliyah back from Dustin’s parenting time on June 15 2008, Connie took the child to the hospital to have her examined after the child again stated that “daddy hurt my pee pee†and “daddy hurt my buttâ€. Connie requested authorization for the examination, Sgt Pecoraro yelled at Connie and told her to leave the hospital. He did not authorize the child’s examination.â€
****Police cannot do any such thing. It is another lie Connie has put out there, apparently stuck didn’t it? She could have taken her daughter to multiple doctors during the day, any where. Why would police be in the hospital too?
TimeWillTell; stated, “Police cannot do any such thingâ€.
Please tell all of us the exact procedure the pediatrician directs one to do after they have examined the child brought in under the accusation of sexual abuse.
What’s the difference of a mandated reporter reporting it sexual abuse VS. what’s needed in a sexual abuse case that’s to be prosecuted for sexual assault etc.?
May 28th, 2009 at 9:24 pm
WhereIStheEVIDENCE
May 26th, 2009 at 11:49 am
I already have the names and email address’s of every donator. Their information is located on their receipt. Keep trying to shift the issue.
EnoughAlready
Still no #22 requested donation refund receipt numbers, or complaint emails filed with the FBI. When you pull them out of your hat will you please post them here on BTLS and/or BNN for all to see.
6+ days and waiting for your proof EnoughAlready!
May 28th, 2009 at 9:30 pm
WhereIStheEVIDENCE
May 26th, 2009 at 11:49 am
I already have the names and email address’s of every donator. Their information is located on their receipt. Keep trying to shift the issue.
EnoughAlready
Still no #22 requested donation refund receipt numbers, or complaint emails filed with the FBI. When you pull them out of your hat will you please post them here on BTLS and/or BNN for all to see. (your posting of the #22 donators requested refunds & FBI emails) It’s obvious you won’t post this information has come to support the lies by trying to direct people another way.
6+ days and waiting for your proof EnoughAlready!
May 29th, 2009 at 12:26 am
I was wrong about where I read the update about Dr. Saturley in my may 27 8:11 pm comment.
Here is the correct link.
/directoryofclearwater.com/blog/cleatwater_news/dr-joe-saturley-follows-up-on-aaliyah-bedwell/
May 29th, 2009 at 8:10 am
This article mentions that Dr. Saturley would go to Auburn Ca. if somone buys him a plane ticket.
{Quote from article} “Half joking, he said if someone bought the plane ticket he would go to California to evaluate the case.”
Dr. Saturley, I have several free tickets on United Airlines, you are welcome to use one (no charge) to get out there and figure this story out once and for all. I will find your E-Mail address and E-Mail you my information.
R/Chuck
May 29th, 2009 at 8:17 am
HUH?? “A mixed bag of goods” does’t scream “lies” or “delusional” to me. It just means we have to wait for the evaluation to come to light. It could mean an endless amount of possibilities.
I hope we all can get some answers, soon.
C~A, I’m not going to fight with you any longer. I saw what happened, people can go to those sites and look for themselves. I am fighting for Aaliyah. I can’t waste anymore time on you.
May 29th, 2009 at 9:51 am
Mr. Bedwell. There is no case to prosecute until physical evidence is gathered.
You report suspected child abuse to any doctor (usually your own pediatrician). That doctor will listen and do an examination for signs of physical trauma. Even without any physical sign of sexual abuse you are then referred to an official documented physical exam (county/state doctors). This exam is usually conducted at a hospital. That exam involves many pictures of internal vaginal exams, and an overall physical with many tests for bladder infections, blood tests and more. They look to see if the hymen has been compromised (although this is not proof as it can happen in other ways, it will trigger further exams and a formal investigation). This is all done outside the presence of the family, and as a mother I can tell you it is heart wrenching and an awful event.
The findings of any and all physical evidence will be referred to the next level. Without physical evidence if the emotional trauma is clearly evident CPS may require psychological examination. If psychological evaluation of the child leads them to believe the potential of abuse is there all results are documented and forwarded to the DA. If they are not able to find definitive physical proof they will generally hold an open case until such time as physical evidence is found.
This is all done without consulting the ‘witnesses’ as unless they witnessed actual sexual contact and molestation or worse…they are not providing anything beyond opinion and speculation. They may be needed during an actual trial to support physical findings. They may not even be contacted until the D.A. is involved in a formal charge.
If the D.A. does not have enough evidence this may not be prosecuted at the criminal level.
I know this is not what you wanted to hear. But there pretty much has to be physical evidence, not subjective opinions and perceptions before you reach the D.A and a criminal trial.
The handling of this in family courts is somewhat different. There are many forms of child abuse. Judges can and do make decisions based on submitted evidence by either side. Once again, opinions do not count. You need to have documented proof by court ordered doctors of many disciplines. It comes down to the laws, the physical evidence and the medical and professional opinions the court uses.
I know all this from having gone through it, in California.
I also know that Justice is blind…it is a matter of law, not morality. And that your situation must be very frustrating for your family. At least you have a lawyer now who can guide you through the legal proceedings. The scales where tipped when Connie did not have representation.
You still may not like the outcome. It does not always make for a county wide conspiracy. You need the physical proof. That is the way the laws are written.
Good luck in your battle.
May 29th, 2009 at 10:03 am
What all that meant was that Connie should have gone through her own pediatrician or family doctor in order to get the official physical exam ball rolling. The police do not authorize it unless there is an ongoing criminal case that the DA is involved in.
She probably should not have even called the police at that point. She had already made a police report right? Taking the baby to a doctor after what she saw as escalation of abuse and having a police report number and her own description of the babies behavior would have triggered the mandated reporting process.
I think she had the process backwards. Unfortunately. you do not need police until there is proof. I wish she would have taken the baby to her own medical doctor after she left the hospital. I am still not sure what type of authorization she was seeking from police. Both the hospital emergency room and the police should have been able to explain this to her.
May 29th, 2009 at 11:14 am
I agree a ‘mixed bag of goods’ just means that there are some things we do not know. We have no details on what it means. Everyone has issues that may turn up in an evaluation, in this case they may not even relate to this situation. We should never know the results of a person’s psych exam. That is private and not up for discussion by the public in my opinion.
I believe Connie absolutely believes in this abuse. I believe that she is telling the truth as she sees it. I do not think she is lying. She has her opinions and her perceptions. She is doing what she believes is right. She wants her daughter to be safe from harm! Any mother wants that, I would only doubt her sanity if she believed it and did not care or act.
There needs to be more details provided that we will likely never know. Medical and court records are sealed. If there is no physical proof to back up the beliefs of the mother and her family this is not going to be resolved soon. I do not know what will happen. I do not know enough to know what should be done, beyond another investigation to remove all doubt if any corruption within this case.
All that matters is this child being safe. Whatever that takes! What if abuse did happen and can’t be proven? What if the abuse never happened, and is driven by a mother’s fear?
We can only pray for this child, and that the truth will prevail. I want this child to be loved, safe and happy no matter who is right. That is why I keep writing emails to officials in the state, and county.
May 29th, 2009 at 11:26 am
I’ve taken my children to the doctor dozens of times in their lives. Thankfully, we’ve only been to the emergency room a few times.
The police have never had to authorize any of the examinations or visits. They’ve never even been consulted as far as I know.
May 29th, 2009 at 11:31 am
There was an MDIC evaluation on June 23rd 2008
Here is a link to what that is, they apparently did not find enough evidence to pursue a criminal charge at that time.
/www.placer.ca.gov/Departments/DA/DAUnits/MDIC.aspx
May 29th, 2009 at 11:32 am
This was part of the investigation that did occur.
May 29th, 2009 at 12:41 pm
So on June 9th the video was made, on June 10th the police were contacted and presumably a police report taken, on June 15th Connie went to the hospital but was not seen, on June 23rd there was Multi Disciplinary Interview done where the baby was examined. I am guessing CPS was part of that process. I am hoping doctors were involved. There were is a Child Forensic Interview Specialist who talks to the child and it is all videotaped.
Was that the extent of the investigation? What did they do beyond that?
May 29th, 2009 at 1:35 pm
“There was an MDIC evaluation on June 23rd 2008
Here is a link to what that is, they apparently did not find enough evidence to pursue a criminal charge at that time.”
That evaluation was done while the baby was in Dustin’s care, this is when Connie states that the baby would say, “mommy makes me say these things, daddy says so” “I don’t like Darrel, daddy says so” etc……
Connie also stated that the baby wouldn’t disclose to all of those CPS and examiners, I don’t know if any two year old would. They are strangers to them. There are so many questions. If you don’t mind me asking, where are you getting your information?
May 29th, 2009 at 5:45 pm
Mr Bedwell, do you really expect me to believe you had private information given to you from PayPal as to email addresses for those who donated or requested a refund?
You sir, are the one spinning things coming out evading peoples questions and redirecting pointing fingers. You sir, are foolish to believe readers of this story are not intelligent enough to see right through what you are trying to attempt. The courts did not, I do not and MOST readers of this story do not.
I am a member of Websleuths, no one there bought this story BEFORE it ever hit BNN. They still do not. As a matter of fact readers think your daughter should be charged with child exploitation AND they have reported their concerns to the National Center of Missing and Endangered Childrens exploitation department. Why is it the most respected crime sleuthing site on the net and its members who ADVOCATE for crime victims and despise pedofiles do not buy a word of this? Because there is no crime and the allegations are false.
ALL you and your family do is try to intimidate through bullying and fear. Surely the courts saw through this, as do the rest of us which left the courts NO CHOICE but to PROTECT a child from the harm her mother and your family is causing.
Keep it up Bedwell family, and I can almost be certain the next thing we’ll be reading is Connie loses her parental rights. That would be very sad for this child, but as we all know in some cases it is necessary.
May 29th, 2009 at 5:50 pm
What are the criminal charges for exploiting a child on the internet for which one has NO LEGAL custody?
May 29th, 2009 at 7:50 pm
Did you read the MDIC website and brochure? The person the child talks to is an expert a CHILD FORENSIC INTERVIEWER SPECIALIST. Many agencies are involved, but they try to avoid having too many people interview a victim. Read the site and the brochure information.
This MDIC exam was done during the 50/50 custody back in June 2008. This info about the MDIC exam and the custody comes from the Bedwell’s. I believe they(the Bedwell’s) also said no charges where filed against anyone at that time, and that they were angry about the outcome. I believe they also said custody was changed to twice a week for Connie at some point down the road. It did not sound like it was because of the MDIC, but I have not found an answer to that one way or the other.
Do you have information to the contrary about the custody or findings of the MDIC Justgetaninvestigation?
May 29th, 2009 at 8:02 pm
DOES ANYONE WONDER WHY SHE DOESNT HAVE CUSTODY?? DOES ANYONE WONDER WHY SHE LEFT THE COUNTRY TO GO TO JORDAN BECAUSE SHE “THOUGHT THE WORLD WAS ENDING.” I KNOW, BECAUSE SHE HAS A COUPLE OF SCREWS LOOSE! THE COURTS ALREADY FOUND HER NOT MENTAL FIT TO RAISE A KID, UNLESS SHE GOT HELP. I KNOW ALL THIS, BECAUSE I GREW UP WITH BOTH OF THEM.
May 29th, 2009 at 8:38 pm
Thank you Huh. I wanted to know if TimeWillTell could explain it since it seemed so sure of the procedure and bluntly claims Connie’s lying.
On Feb 6, 2008 Connie went to APD. Officer Ackard and Sgt. Reams, they interviewed her for 8 hours, this included copying of evidence. However, they did not want to have the Aaliyah examined due to being unable to verify that abuse occurred within the last 72 hours.
Fact; APD Sgt Pecoraro was well aware of Connie’s claim that Aaliyah was being sexual abused.. Connie contacted Aaliyah’s pediatrician who referred her to take Aaliyah to UC Davis Medical Center where they do complete through exams for the purpose of prosecution. This exam needed LE authorization. APD Sgt. Victor Pecoraro refused to authorize Aaliyah examination on two separate occasions while Aaliyah was at UC Davis Medical. The last time was on June 15, 2008.
May 29th, 2009 at 8:45 pm
“I am a member of Websleuths”
This answers my question as to why you sound so ignorant.
May 29th, 2009 at 8:51 pm
My offer for a ticket for Dr. Saturley was received well. Joe will go there but needs to insure he has cooperation on the Calafornia side. News at 11………………..
May 29th, 2009 at 9:45 pm
Thank you Huh, but I wanted to know if TimeWillTell could explain it since it seemed so sure of the procedure and bluntly claims Connie’s lying.
On Feb 6, 2008 Connie went to APD. Officer Ackard and Sgt. Reams, they interviewed her for 8 hours, this included copying of evidence. However, they didn’t want to have the Aaliyah examined due to being unable to verify that abuse occurred within the last 72 hours.
Fact; APD Sgt Pecoraro was well aware of Connie’s claim that Aaliyah was being sexual abused.. Connie contacted Aaliyah’s pediatrician who referred her to take Aaliyah to UC Davis Medical Center where they do complete through exams for the purpose of prosecution. This exam needed LE authorization. APD Sgt. Victor Pecoraro several times refused to authorize Aaliyah examination while Aaliyah was at UC Davis Medical. The last time was on June 15, 2008.
May 29th, 2009 at 10:44 pm
WhereIS the Evidence;
I have NEVER one time heard Aaliyah say;
Mommy and/or Darrel hurt me.
Pop Pop punched, kicked, slapped or knocked me down.
Auntie hurts me.
NOW WHO IS IT THAT’S HURTING THIS CHILD?
Spin spin spin the Thompson SPIN!
May 29th, 2009 at 11:14 pm
WhereIStheEVIDENCE
May 29th, 2009 at 5:45 pm
I think it should be clear by now… I don’t care what you and your little group think!
AS a matter of fact, PayPal does publish the email address with the donation receipt!
Lets get to the truth of the matter! It’s simple, get your friend to publish the receipt # of any of your claimed donators who want a refund. Until then the subjects dropped. I’ll be waiting.
You can claim that there’s been a investigation, but it has only been from one side. If it was your daughter being molested, is that what you would label as an investigation?
You State;
“As a matter of fact readers think your daughter should be charged with child exploitation AND they have reported their concerns to the National Center of Missing and Endangered Childrens exploitation department”.
AND HOW’S THAT WORKING OUT FOR YA???
Sound like the FBI investigation for internet fraud, that isn’t.
Sounds like the Roseville police investigation for fraud, that isn’t.
Sounds like the #22 donators who want refunds, that you can’t produce.
Sounds like those ever terrifying emails to the FBI, that you can’t produce either.
Sounds like all those donators receipt #’s and email addresses that you claim I don’t have, but I do.
I could go on and on! but what’s the point, it like talking to a brick.
Attack me all you want, I put my name on everything I write, where’s yours? Why do you attack from the shadows. Come put your real name out here and then write your crap, then when this is over let’s see who still standing!
Since you’re all so close to the Molester and his family, why don’t we ever get to hear you tell us about why he won’t step outside the corrupt Placer County Professionals and be tested and interviewed by Dr. Saturley?
If Connie’s claims of Placer County being corrupt aren’t true. Why is Dustin and the Thompson’s refusing to be interviewed and tested by someone outside of PC?
Simple questions!
May 30th, 2009 at 11:23 am
It’s nice to see another site that allows freedom of speech, no matter what the subject! In my opinion, BNN has lowered itself to the boot out the door level…and will surely be the cause of it’s own demise.
Rock on bloggers!
May 30th, 2009 at 12:12 pm
marmite
May 28th, 2009 at 7:07 am
To Beast, CA, Huh and the rest of your vindictive little gang just ask yourself why you are so angry about being banned from a blogging site, this isn’t about you it’s actually about Aaliyah. You are all coming across as obsessive and weird which in turn discredits what you’re actually trying to say.
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C~A
May 28th, 2009 at 11:10 am
Exactly where have we (I) made this about me??? Care to post that comment of mine that makes you say that!
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In response to C~A please read this blog from the beginning, I suggest you take your time reading your own posts for evidence of your weird and vindictive rants.
It is clear you are have issues and this situation just happens to be your latest outlet to release that unresolved anger. I seriously suggest counselling.
To the rest of your gang please channel your energies into something positive. All we are asking for is an independant investigation.
C~A please don’t bother to respond, you’re boring me.
I repeat This is about Aaliyah not you!
May 30th, 2009 at 3:14 pm
Connie did not lose joint 50/50 custody till July 1 2008 per her own time line. After that is when she went to the supervised visitation twice a week. So the change was probably a result of the MDIC interview reports to the Family court.
She had also had the baby home with her from June 15 till the MDIC interview in June 23rd.
While the STEP program no longer exists, there is still information on what it was. It lost funding during the budget cuts in CA.
It also sounds like both parents and the child were in the STEP program for quite a while if this was the source of the therapy/counseling that the baby was getting. Once again, from the mother’s own words.
May 30th, 2009 at 3:50 pm
I actually meant she lost joint custody and went to supervised visits July 3, 2008.
The information about what MDIC is in Placer County, as well as the brochure they give to the parents of the victims before the interview is available at the link I provided above. I suggest you read it, as well as watch the full 27 minute video.
There is much more to the time line in this case that I have put together from the statements going back to prior to the move to Alaska, through the initial custody court hearings as reported by the Bedwells statements, through to putting together my own time line. There is a lot going on in this case. Much more than first reported.
They return to court June 1. No telling what will happen.
Once again, I believe this child needs to be supported. No matter the outcome, she is the ONLY one I care about.
May 30th, 2009 at 9:49 pm
I see a lot of people wrote on here stating they have sent emails to Placer County officials and state level officials and others…..HAS ANYONE RECEIVED A RESPONSE????? I sure haven’t. If anyone has received any responses, please let me know. Thanks a log everyone.
May 30th, 2009 at 9:50 pm
Ha, ha….I mean “thanks a lot everyone”
May 31st, 2009 at 12:13 pm
Mr. Bedwell,
I think you have mistaken me for someone else. I know nothing about 22 requests for refunds. I know of one who received a refund, and I posted the information solely for those wishing a straight answer on how to get their money back.
As for the rest of your statements regarding the medical center. Get it in writing from the physicians who were told by whatever law enforcement officer NOT to give your granddaughter an exam to determine if she was sexually abused. Post that online so you can back your statements with facts. You’re family must have them. Surely your daughter would not have walked out of the medical center without having written proof. We’ll be waiting.
WITE – Oak Park, IL
May 31st, 2009 at 12:19 pm
That should read I know of no one personally who has received a refund. Though, I suggest the request go directly to PayPal as opposed to sharing personal info here or at BNN.
WITE- Oak Park, IL
May 31st, 2009 at 1:08 pm
No responses to any of my emails to the D.A. or the letters to the Judicial Review Board. Form Letter from the Governor, and none from CPS.
May 31st, 2009 at 1:15 pm
So Mr. Bedwell,
you said:
“On Feb 6, 2008 Connie went to APD. Officer Ackard and Sgt. Reams, they interviewed her for 8 hours, this included copying of evidence. However, they didn’t want to have the Aaliyah examined due to being unable to verify that abuse occurred within the last 72 hours.”
Did this result in the MDIC interview ON fEB 26, 2008 instead of the medical evaluation?
“Fact; APD Sgt Pecoraro was well aware of Connie’s claim that Aaliyah was being sexual abused.. Connie contacted Aaliyah’s pediatrician who referred her to take Aaliyah to UC Davis Medical Center where they do complete through exams for the purpose of prosecution. This exam needed LE authorization. APD Sgt. Victor Pecoraro several times refused to authorize Aaliyah examination while Aaliyah was at UC Davis Medical. The last time was on June 15, 2008″
But there was an MDIC interview on June 23,2008. Was that the substitution for the hospital exam? Did Connies pediatrician see the baby? Did he exam her at any point and ever find any signs of sexual abuse, or physical abuse?
Did she just call her own doctor for advice, or did he see her and refer her to UC Davis Medical? Has this little girl ever been physically examined???
May 31st, 2009 at 1:42 pm
Marmite- once again, I am not now, nor have I EVER been banned from any blog or forum anywhere. I am not vindictive, but I have an opinion. I am not part of a gang.
You are right, this is about this child, not name calling, not blame for the problems at other sites. In reality BNN is no longer a blog that allows comments (at least not on the subjects I used to read there). That does make it difficult to contain the problems to just that site.
I do think that Aaliyah has lost a venue to get public attention and support. It was always the comments and discussion that was able to sway opinions and involve the public hopefully. I believe they had quite a following of readers who never posted. I know that their site still comes up when I do Google searches for information about this case.
The comments are now locked away in a private forum. There is nothing wrong with that, however it limits the exposure for this case. This is why I post here and on any other public blogs and forums that I can about this case. I want the public aware. I want this child to he helped.
I hope that there will be an update somewhere about the results of the court tomorrow. Connie will be in court, and she has an attorney. Hopefully she will regain at least access to visitation services again. I have been told she has located another supervised visitation center that she can utilize, and that the only holdup resuming her twice weekly visitation has been a lack of response from Dustin’s attorney on the subject.
May 31st, 2009 at 2:43 pm
HUH?? Because of moderation, I don’t know what post you are referring to when you are speaking to me. From how I read the timeline, the baby had just came back from Dustin’s when they did the MDIC interview. That’s when the baby started saying “mommy makes me say these things, daddy says so” etc…..and just because the site states what a MDIC is and exactly how they perform it does’t mean that they do it like that. I know I have been to Drs and other places where the format for something was done so totally different than before. It just depends on the person. I think Connie should read all of what you posted here and on your other board and then she, or rather a family member, tell us if that is how it was performed. I’m sure there are holes in that evaluation as well. The ONLY reason Connie has had custody taken from her and put on visitations is because she will NOT lie and say Dustin isn’t doing this to her daughter. That’s how I see it.
May 31st, 2009 at 4:24 pm
Mr. Bedwell,
you said:
“On Feb 6, 2008 Connie went to APD. Officer Ackard and Sgt. Reams, they interviewed her for 8 hours, this included copying of evidence. However, they didn’t want to have the Aaliyah examined due to being unable to verify that abuse occurred within the last 72 hours.â€
It is too bad there are not any comments from Connie on her time line document about Feb 6th. I would have hoped an 8 hour interview with police and their refusal to do anything but copy her evidence would have warranted an entry. She mentions other trips to see the police.
May 31st, 2009 at 7:32 pm
While googling “Corrupt Placer County CA”, I have found some things:
http://la.indymedia.org/news/2008/02/214067.php
With this one, It’s only for officials, but look at all the civil rights cases against Placer County:
http://dockets.justia.com/search?q=County+of+Placer
http://www.ripoffreport.com/reports/0/320/RipOff0320960.htm
Claim against county of placer
http://www.libertyforlife.com/abuse/abuse/claims/CLAIM%20AGAINST%20Placer%20v1.doc –
http://auburnjournal.com/detail/106582.html
I found this in the Auburn Journal:
“domestic crimes are taken seriously by both law enforcement agencies and the judicial system.” LOL Not in Placer County California, where rubber stamping judges, closed hearings, corrupt DA’s, perverse financial funding, ignorance of the law runs amok, all under the guise of “we are tough on domestic violence” and “if were proven wrong, well, we’ll just make a case up” mentality. If you have a family in Placer County, you are a target and I recommend you get out now before it’s to late. They want your children and will perjure themselves to get them and they want you, the parent, to partake of their social services and they are willing to use extortion tactics to reach these goals. The judges and DA are in on the scam. This is fact. Heed this advice and do not find out the hard way, as we did. Add a Comment Posted on 12/02/2006 at 6:12:00 PM
I can keep going on. There are NUMEROUS stories of Placer County, CA corruptions!
June 1st, 2009 at 12:53 pm
I really feel that Connie could come up with something better and more effective to ruin Dustins life if that was her goal. What idiots! Connie’s IQ places her in the top one third of the population…I am pretty sure she could think of something way more clever to be vindictive. But she has morals and she doesn’t believe in hurting people…vengeance isn’t hers… how it is going to feel to have to explain and apologize to Aaliyah of why you all would help her dad further molest her because you want to spread his lies and you own lies and assumptions? Duh??, you are disecting every bit of that timeline. It wasn’t finished and all the information is not there. She was just jotting things down as they came. Who does it benifit to lie about something they dont know about and are just assuming things by just a few words? The baby states that her dad sticks his penis in her mouth, the only two people that are there are Dustin and Aaliyah and Aaliyah says that is what her dad does to her, I can’t understand why you choose to think that Connie is lying just to be vindictive. How do you all sleep at night knowing you are supporting him to further do this? You can keep disecting that timeline, it doesn’t make your assumptions of it true.
June 1st, 2009 at 1:39 pm
JustGet,
On June 17, Connie was told not to turn the baby over to Dustin.
He had just had her from June 11 to June 15.
So from June 15 until the June 23,2008 MDIC interview, Connie had the baby.
June 1st, 2009 at 2:29 pm
JustGet. At least one of your links (the one to the Auburn Journal) is not applicable at all to the case at hand.
It is about a dui/murder case, one that had a very polarizing effect on the community. NOTE: There was a trial for a DUI death/vehicular manslaughter charge. He was found guilty of 2nd degree murder and gross vehicular manslaughter. In what way is this corruption?
The first case you list is about a lawsuit regarding theft, and is also not in any way related to this case. In fact the plaintiff says some pretty nutty things in his pleading- Including calling the Federal courts Felons, and saying that Jerry Brown(Ca State Attorney General) had him kidnapped(umm it’s called arrested) and he sat in jail for 30 days. This is all over an IRS audit and Social Security pension, and his Trust funds. It has nothing to do with the corruption of Placer county, The guy had 9 simultaneous laaw suits going on. The case went through multiple courts and state/federal jurisdictions and seems to have been ongoing for years.
The ripoff link is about a deportation hearing- allegedly involving tainted evidence being submitted by the DA- with no supporting documentation available – made by the guy who was deported back to Germany.
Many of the civil rights cases are against the sheriff’s office, alleging either civil rights being violated during arrests, or while in Jail. Big surprise there, how many Sheriffs departments do you think get sued by defendants?
The only interesting information was the comment someone made on an article in the Auburn journal. Was this out of an article’s contents or out of user posted responses? I would be interested in reading more about it.
June 1st, 2009 at 7:36 pm
JustGet,
I don’t think Connie is lying. I think she truly believes abuse is occurring. I believe her family does too. She lives in a total nightmare right now.
What I find after researching the information as it has been presented to date, is that there are questions I still have as to what is going on.
If you feel I have lied about anything, feel free to point it out. I will listen if you think I have misrepresented information. In fact, I have read nothing from the father. I don’t know how I can be ‘spreading his lies’. I am only stating my own thoughts and opinions.
I have not contributed to the molestation of a child. I have supported the request to help get a further more complete investigation. I do not feel this mother is vindictive (angry yes). I just do not agree with all of her interpretations of all these reported events as being of physical and sexual abuse based on what I have read.
I am troubled by the notion that so much of this is being stated as corruption. There have been investigations, just none that have found enough proof to support the mother’s claims so far. There have been a lot of agencies involved, and a lot of professionals outside the court. That none of these others have supported Connie’s belief does not make them corrupt, nor her a liar. But it is information that I consider when I am looking at this case.
Why is it everyone who does not agree with the Bedwell’s interpretation of the history, statements, or questions these beliefs is labeled a pedophile or supporter. Everyone who comes up with alternative opinions or interpretations of the reported events is somehow spreading lies. It is called a difference of opinion. It is called thinking and deciding based on what you read.
No one on the internet ‘knows’ all the facts. It is purely speculation based on our interpretation of the information presented. Not even the mother ‘knows’ all the facts. She only knows how she understands and interprets what she sees.
How is it there has been no physical proof of this ongoing molestation and physical abuse- not in 2 years? Or has there? Objective proof would be welcome here, not the subjective. I hope this can be found, for the sake of this child.
One thing I know for sure is this child deserves to be happy. She deserves to be safe. Once again, I do not care about her parents. I care about this child.
June 1st, 2009 at 7:41 pm
Just Get, you state “I really feel that Connie could come up with something better and more effective to ruin Dustins life if that was her goal. What idiots! Connie’s IQ places her in the top one third of the population…I am pretty sure she could think of something way more clever to be vindictive. But she has morals and she doesn’t believe in hurting people…vengeance isn’t hers”
So you know her? For how long? What would she want to ruin Dustin for? Is that what she wants to do?
June 1st, 2009 at 9:48 pm
New article at BNN regarding Connie and Aaliyah. Something finally is happening for Connie’s side!
http://www.bloggernews.net/121098
June 1st, 2009 at 9:51 pm
HUH??, to me, it shouldn’t really matter the contents of the case, what they are for, these people are screaming CORRUPTION in Placer County. That’s why I posted them. I will find that last link for the Auburn Journal, yes it was a user comment. I will try to find it again and post it here. But, from what I remember, the article didn’t have anything to do with what you are looking for either.
June 1st, 2009 at 10:02 pm
HUH??, I’m still looking for the other article, but found this one first:
http://abolishcps.blogspot.com/2006/09/placer-county-california-cps-victim.html
June 1st, 2009 at 10:09 pm
Ok, here it is. It’s about domestic crimes:
http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/71869/domestic_crimes_in_criminal_law.html?cat=17
June 1st, 2009 at 10:19 pm
Oh, BTW, Judge Kearney never signed the papers before she recused herself, so the restraining order isn’t even in effect! HA! So funny!
June 1st, 2009 at 11:00 pm
So if there is to be a California 730 exam, does this mean Dr. Saturley will be the one conducting it???
I sure hope so, because it can be very expensive(up to $15,000) and cost can be split between parents if the court does not pick up the tab.
Connie should have supervised visitation restored within a day or two. This is good news!
June 2nd, 2009 at 4:02 am
Well they went back to court and guess what….?
Connie was not jailed, in fact the new Judge ruled against everything the fathers lawyer requested.
The judge ordered that Connies visitation be reinstated immediately, if this cannot be arranged within a couple of days then Connie has to file an Ex Parte hearing.
The hearing will resume 30th June.
June 2nd, 2009 at 6:56 am
“So you know her? For how long? What would she want to ruin Dustin for? Is that what she wants to do?”
I said she didn’t want to ruin Dustin’s life, there are some people who are stating she is vindictive because he gave her a STD and cheated on her, they claim to be freedom of speech advocates (hypocrites) but I can’t post on their site. As a matter of fact, my post is still in moderation on their site. So, I decided to write it here, where they don’t own the board.
June 2nd, 2009 at 7:00 am
This is to the other site I was talking about previous:
No, there isn’t a 730 examination ordered yet, you should read the entire article before jumping to conclusions. Amara tried to sneak that past the judge, she filed the papers as Connie and her lawyer were walking into court, the judge said “HUH, UH MS AMARA”, so it is not ordered yet, NOTHING is ordered yet other than visitiation be reinstated NOW!
June 2nd, 2009 at 7:10 am
Hey Pattcake (again for the other site), Connie doesn’t have to tell her father what goes on in court, Darrel was there, her sisters and I think her brother was there. Also, don’t you think her lawyer is doing the talking now? Why don’t you go investigate something else now. BTW, did you hear that David Thompson sat on the stand for almost two hours calling his son a child molester, roflmao! About halfway through, he started saying “Alleged molester”, I swear, that is one of the funniest things I’ve ever heard. Liars cannot keep their words untruthful.
Nothing was resolved yesterday because they only allotted 2 hours for the hearing, they spent the two hours proving that Connie is not the one posting these things on the internet. Patty, you should go back to sleep, you have absolutely NO CLUE what is going on. On June 30th, the hearing will continue and Connie will be on the stand….and then we will see if the judge is in anyone’s favor. AGAIN, there were no orders other than to re-establish visitations. Have a nice day Pattycake, but I suggest you sleep just a little more, you need to be awake in order to read and comprehend things. I hope you can actually comprehend what I have written! Good day all!
June 2nd, 2009 at 9:32 am
HUH??, this moderation thing stinks. I am sorry that you thought I said you were lying, I was talking to other people on another site that state everyone is able to voice their opinion but won’t allow me to post there. I’m not sure but you seem to be one of those people on that other site, a lot of what you say here is over there. Here it seems you pretend you are neutral, over there you are against Connie. I could be wrong, if I am, just let me know. There are a lot of things that will be coming out soon. Such as doctor’s evaluations and such. There should be some reports from the caretakers at the supervised visitations that prove the baby is stating in visitations what Connie says she is. It’s all documented, and as soon as Connie is ALLOWED it will all be out. I am hoping that this judge sees the restraining order is completely against Connie’s civil rights and does something about it. That’s all I’m trying to say, everyone that is not truly trying to find the answers, that truly believes this little girl is not being abused by her “father” are enabling his abuse. That’s how I see it.
June 2nd, 2009 at 9:50 am
Hi Just… not really caring much about your post about me. It’s flattering you took the time to read my info, thank you.
The current orders remain in place. If they were removed, your ‘blogger’ would have said so. Getting further information about 730 exam states exactly what I said last night.
IF THE JUDGE BELIEVED FOR A MOMENT ABOUT CONNIE’S ABUSE CLAIMS – HE WOULD NOT HAVE ORDERED THE 730. So the JUDGE DOES NOT BELIEVE HER period. The judge wants this finished! Speaking to my boss, he said that professionals past and present will evaluate both homes and even interview the child.
If Dustins’ home continues to be where the child is currently thriving, there will be a recommendation to keep the child exactly where she is. As I understand it, BabyA is doing remarkable, happy & thriving very well. It’s not a good thing for Connie – period!
As long as the Thompsons will show the loving environment, the child will REMAIN where she is. It wouldn’t be in the child’s best interest to move her if she’s doing so well. Especially when these professionals can now take a look and see how the Bedwells attack perfect strangers online, can you imagine how they would be in person?
Their actions and behaviour have harmed any possibility of the child going to the mothers home. This order will be final, it will be permanent. The timing of it is a major success for the Thompsons.
Not going to bother debating this on now a 3rd board. You are welcome to come ‘to the other site’ to post. I won’t be back to read your response. Enjoy your day.
June 2nd, 2009 at 9:52 am
Justgetaninvestigation,
The only mention of a 730 examination in the “article” you proclaim(!) reference to in your post #417, states as follows:
“Furthermore Connie Bedwell should be stopped from filing any motions until THE completion of THE 730 examination.”
The “article” clearly indicates that a 730 examination is forthcoming by their wording of THE 730 examination versus usage of A 730 examination.
In your post #425 are you saying the “article” is incorrect in their choice of wording? The only reason I’m asking is that your post seems to be a rather hostile response to a question asked in post #422:
“So IF there is to be a California 730 exam, does this mean Dr. Saturley will be the one conducting it???”
Please note that this post clearly asks IF. It is a question that many would like an answer to.
June 2nd, 2009 at 12:39 pm
Possibly there needs to a clarification of the 730 order.
Seems S does not write clearly. He does not say who requested the 730 order. It may have been the judge, or the attorney for either parent. I interpreted:
“Furthermore Connie Bedwell should be stopped from filing any motions until the completion of the 730 examination”
To mean that she was trying to prevent any motions from being filed until the completion of the 730 exam. Not to mean that Amara was requesting a 730 exam. In fact, I thought it leaned more towards Connie having requested the 730 hearing in order to bring Dr. Saturley into the case. That is purely speculation on my part.
California Evidence Code Section §730 (“730 Child Custody Evaluation”):
When it appears to the court, at any time before or during the trial of an action, that expert evidence is or may be required by the court or by any party to the action, the court on its own motion or on motion of any party may appoint one or more experts to investigate, to render a report as may be ordered by the court, and to testify as an expert at the trial of the action relative to the fact or matter as to which the expert evidence is or may be required. The court may fix the compensation for these services, if any, rendered by any person appointed under this section, in addition to any service as a witness, at the amount as seems reasonable to the court. Nothing in this section shall be construed to permit a person to perform any act for which a license is required unless the person holds the appropriate license to lawfully perform that act.
Also, I was unaware there was verification of the lack of signature on the restraining order. Has this been verified with the court clerk? Because in reality, the court clerk is the one who supplies you with the certified signature of the judge. Once again Simon’s article was unclear about tis detail also. It sounded like it was not verified. Bummer about there being no printed verification of that for the public to read for him to expand on these items!!
“On June 30th, the hearing will continue and Connie will be on the stand…and then we will see if the judge is in anyone’s favor ”
I think the point about the Judge is important Just Get…so if this judge rules against Connie in any way will he be deemed corrupt too? What if the truth falls short of what either side claims?
June 2nd, 2009 at 1:51 pm
So bottom line,
Is there a 730 order or not?
Is there a 3111 evaluation?
Is Dr. Saturley coming to Ca. to interview relevant parties?
Did Connie meet with the District Attorney who handles Child abuse cases as was mentioned at BNN as to be occurring today June 2 ?
Is Connie still limited to 2 – 1 hour visits a week?
June 2nd, 2009 at 1:58 pm
Here is something interesting I found, and if you read all of the witness letters on the CPC site (especially Connie’s Nana’s) you will see all 9 of these behaviors witnessed of Aaliyah. Why can anyone not see this and think there shouldn’t be a new, thorough investigation? Come on people, let’s do the right thing for this child!
Do you notice some of the following behaviors in children you know?
….Fear of certain people or places (e.g.
, a child may not
want to be left alone with a baby-sitter, a friend, a relative, or some
other child or adult; or a child who is usually talkative and cheery
may become quiet and distant when around a certain person).
….Nightmares, trouble sleeping, or other extreme fears without an obvious explanation.
….Play, writing, drawings or dreams may include sexual or frightening images.
….Spacing out at odd times, seems distracted or distant, “checked out.
 .Loss of appetite, or trouble eating or swallowing or sudden changes in eating habits.
….Sudden mood swings: rage, fear, anger, insecurity or withdrawal.
….Leaves “clues†that seem likely to provoke a discussion about sexual issues.
….Stomach illness all of the time with no identifiable reason.
….An older child behaving like a younger child, such as bed-wetting or thumb sucking.
….Adult-like
sexual activities with toys or other children, such as simulating sex
with dolls or asking other children/siblings to behave sexually.
….New words for private body parts.
….Shows resistance to bathing, toileting, or removing clothes even at appropriate situations.
….Refusing to talk about a “secret” he/she has with an adult or older child.
….Talking about a new older friend.
….Suddenly having money, toys or other gifts for no apparent reason.
….Cutting,
burning or otherwise intentionally harming herself or himself, i.e.
drug use, alcohol abuse, sexual promiscuity, running away from home.
….Has negative self image, i.e. thinks of self or body as repulsive, dirty or bad.
….
Physical Warning Signs of Possible Child Sexual Abuse
Does a child close to you have:
….Unexplained bruises, redness, or bleeding of the child’s genitals, anus, or mouth?….Pain at the genitals, anus, or mouth?….Genital sores or milky fluids in the genital area?….
If you said “yes” to any of these example please report it or consult a professional
June 3rd, 2009 at 5:56 am
To just get an investigation.
You said:
If you said “yes†to any of these example please report it or consult a professional
Exactly! However if you look at the timeline posted at CPC, Connie never did ask a professional despite the numerous doctor visits in her notes. Why is that? Why did the child never complain about her sore bottom in the care of her dad or her dads family, at any of the numerous doctors she saw including the therapist Mitzi Nay, any of the exchanges in front of anyone other than Connie and her sister Cara? If you go read the timeline, no where is it documented A’ complained about her sore bottom to anyone other than Connie and her sister. That is very suspicious to me if in fact her bottom was sore.
June 3rd, 2009 at 12:10 pm
Well, WhereIs, I’d say she never said anything to her dad or her dad’s parents because she was afraid of them. Plus from the allegations, they are the ones that have done it to her. Why would she have to tell them?
Also, we don’t know what Mitzi Nay has said or not said. There is a letter on an article about the baby at BNN that states she feels some sort of abuse had occured. But that is just one letter while Mitzi worked with her. Didn’t Mitzi work with the baby for at least 10 months? I’m sure there is a lot of documentation that will be put out as soon as the Bedwell family is sure that the restraining order is not in effect.
HUH?? Amara and Dustin asked for the 730 examination, but as I said before, the Judge did not order on anything or even hear anythiing in regards to it because he was busy listening to Connie’s lawyer prove Connie wasn’t the one putting/posting anythng on the internet. We’ll have to wait and see on the 30th as to what happens with the 730 exam.
June 4th, 2009 at 12:55 am
Justgetaninvestigation
June 2nd, 2009 at 9:32 am
HUH??, this moderation thing stinks. I am sorry that you thought I said you were lying, I was talking to other people on another site that state everyone is able to voice their opinion but won’t allow me to post there. I’m not sure but you seem to be one of those people on that other site, a lot of what you say here is over there. Here it seems you pretend you are neutral, over there you are against Connie. I could be wrong, if I am, just let me know
I am not in support of anyone but this child. I am not enabling the father, nor am I supporting the mother. I am trying to put the pieces of a puzzle together, without the full picture to match it to, or all the pieces. I refuse to call him a pedophile, or her a liar. There are not enough objective facts to do either.
Why has the full 27 minute video been removed? It surely can’t be because it shows this child’s face, as there are numerous still photo’s on the main saveaaliyah site.
I am waiting for the additional information many are discussing. Such as medical opinions, and independent statements or reports, whatever there may be.
It is fine if you choose to believe what you have been told from the bedwells. Based on my own interactions with them, I choose to look elsewhere for objective proof.
Although I do believe that Connie fully believes there is and has been abuse of her child. I am not convinced all that she sees leads to only one conclusion.
I want this investigated too, this child should be the only priority no matter which side you fall on.
June 4th, 2009 at 1:02 am
I had actually hoped there would be an independent 730 exam. It would make me personally feel much better if someone went through all the sealed documents and MDIC videos, and CPS, STEP and all the various reports, and then spoke to the witnesses in the immediate families. ALL THE SEALED records, medical, legal, and any other are reviewed in such an investigation. It can be quite intensive.
The only problem is the cost. It is usually split between parents- and I am not sure if either side could afford the rather hefty price tag. Payment arrangements must be made before that type of exam is even started. It can take weeks, if not months and can cost up to $15,000 base on what I have found researching it.
I am hoping some less financially restrictive method of accomplishing this will be found. We will have to wait and see.
June 4th, 2009 at 8:47 am
The only problem is the cost. It is usually split between parents- and I am not sure if either side could afford the rather hefty price tag. Payment arrangements must be made before that type of exam is even started. It can take weeks, if not months and can cost up to $15,000 base on what I have found researching it.
I find that odd that it costs that much and Amara is trying to go after Connie for exactly that amount. I heard that Dr. Saturley is trying to get Dustin to agree to the evaluations, but he will not respond to him. I’m assuming it’s because the doctor isn’t from California and he doesn’t have any juristiction there. And if Dr. Joe will do this pro bono, why wouldn’t Dustin just agree to it? Then the $15,000 wouldn’t matter.
June 4th, 2009 at 12:32 pm
JUSTGETANINVESTIGATION;
Really starting to look like the Bedwells are using you and feeding you only what they want you to know!
If you were talking to them… like you say, they should have told you how the 730 EVALUATION IS done, completed and already ALL recommendations ACCEPTED by the courts!!!
Recommended???? That DUSTIN retains 100% custody. That evaluation is serious stuff, almost impossible to overturn!
They would have told you the MINOR issue of the gag order was resolved on June 1st and the orders are in full force.
They would have told you Connie never bothered to attend even 1 STEP class at all.
They would have told you the REAL REASON Connie lost ALL custody. Not some but all… it takes SOME VERY SERIOUS STUFF for a parent to lose all rights to their child. So why hasn’t she told you yet?
Tim, I’d shut up if I were you. Dragging BabyA to Jordan and having the District Attorney’s office drag you back and throwing you in jail for kidnapping a baby – I think you have deeply harmed Connie’s case of EVER EVER getting her child back. It’ll never happen, you’ve helped her lose it all. Wonder what that feels like?
June 4th, 2009 at 9:56 pm
If you take away the emotional response to watching all the videos, and stick to the facts, there’s not much solid info on this case. There’s conflicting info at best. Incomplete and misleading info at worst. These people have been fighting over this child long enough. I hope the court makes a final choice on evidence only. I hope this little girl ends up in the right place- maybe that should be away from both parents. She’ll at least need a new name since all this publicity. What was her mother thinking putting her name on the internet? Did she really make enough money that way to justify what she’s done to her baby? Was the money worth it?
WOW, just WOW!! poor child
June 4th, 2009 at 10:01 pm
Baby A wasn’t born when Tim and his children went to Jordan on vacation.
I am not going to argue with you Patty, I tried speaking civilly with you on your other site, but you made it quite clear you are not capable of that. So please do not address me any longer. You are not getting the right information. You are being manipulated by the abuser himself. All abusers have the capablilities to do that. You have fallen under his “spell”. When all comes to light I will not accept your apology. I tried, you failed.
June 5th, 2009 at 1:24 am
I thought it was determined Tim Bedwell kidnapped a child (what child we do not know) and too the child to Jordan. He sure does have a long criminal history.
Justget… Give it up. Connie has already broken the gag/restraining order- whatever you want to call it. I see them as two seperate things. One a gag order to not talk about the case, and two a restraining order to keep her away from DT. Connie has already put a video online, talked with a CPC after the gag order. Why not put it all out there and throw herself to the mercy of the courts IF this were fact? It makes NO sense whatsover to put some but not ALL of the information out there IF it existed.
Hon, this story has already been debunked. It is only a matter of time before criminal charges and additional info is out there to prove this mother LIED about ALL of this. AND created a coached video. Why reminds me, why was the 27 min video removed? Because it made more logical sense that this was a load of bull doo doo. Instead an edited 9 min video exists with more lies as to why the entire 27 min couldn’t be posted.
June 5th, 2009 at 1:59 am
Guess I have 1 MINOR correction to make. I assumed the conviction of child abduction was for babyA. It was not and I willingly admit my mistake. NOT something BNN would ever do. Nevertheless TIM BEDWELL is THE convicted criminal NOT Dustin. Because of the penal code number attached to the file, I was mistaken. Still, the guy kidnapped kids!
Everything else about the completed 730 Evaluation and the recommendations SUPPORTED by the court, the NEW judge is all true, all correct. Connie never attended a STEP program, NOT ONE day at all.
The court orders against Connie are all FULLY ENFORCED AND SIGNED BY THE NEW JUDGE. Doesn’t sound like he’s liking anything about this woman.
With the 730 Evaluation completed, Connie has basically – with that – LOST ALL CHANCE of ever obtaining custody ever again. She will never get her kid back.
So you can all stop begging for a NEW investigation. AS you were begging, ONE was being worked on and completed by a very HIGHLY respected Forensic Child Psychologist. Not some (lol, good ole boys).
Because the NEW JUDGE (also NOT good ole boys club) enforced the orders and QUICKLY signed what was missing… he will be visiting those orders on June 30th. He will be deciding Connies’ FATE and what to do about her endless violations and disgusting lies she’s spewed about an innocent man. A INNOCENT man who’s repeatedly been found INNOCENT of any sexual abuse accusation.
BabyA is very safe in the home she’s in. Connie can never claim ever again that OUTSIDERS did not help her. THEY HAVE and THEY’VE RULED AGAINST HER. Looks like Placer County got it right all along. Even outsiders not from this place agree that the FATHER WAS SET UP & FRAMED.
We’re talking now 12+ investigations that’s included more than 100 people ALL AGREE – CONNIE COACHED babyA. Connie made it all up.
June 5th, 2009 at 5:07 am
Considering there are fines and jail time for mandatory reporters who do not report child abuse we can believe if Mitzi Nay did suspect child abuse she would have provided Connie with more than the a letter indicating **maybe** abuse occured. If she had been working with the child for 10 months- she worked with the child long enough to make that distinction. However she did not. The very general letter dated June of 2008 just prior to court simply indicated **IF** the child disclosed she would report it. In the 10 or so months she worked with A, A did not disclose enough for Mitzi Nay to confirm abuse.
June 5th, 2009 at 5:23 am
Tim Bedwell – Connie’s Father
May 29th, 2009 at 9:45 pm
Thank you Huh, but I wanted to know if TimeWillTell could explain it since it seemed so sure of the procedure and bluntly claims Connie’s lying.
On Feb 6, 2008 Connie went to APD. Officer Ackard and Sgt. Reams, they interviewed her for 8 hours, this included copying of evidence. However, they didn’t want to have the Aaliyah examined due to being unable to verify that abuse occurred within the last 72 hours.
Fact; APD Sgt Pecoraro was well aware of Connie’s claim that Aaliyah was being sexual abused.. Connie contacted Aaliyah’s pediatrician who referred her to take Aaliyah to UC Davis Medical Center where they do complete through exams for the purpose of prosecution. This exam needed LE authorization. APD Sgt. Victor Pecoraro several times refused to authorize Aaliyah examination while Aaliyah was at UC Davis Medical. The last time was on June 15, 2008.
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This too makes no sense. There are protocals for both acute (within the last 72 hours) and non acute (more than 72 hours) exams for possible sexual abuse against a child. throughout Connies timeline she repeatedly notates a sore bottom. A young child under 3 would have signs of vaginal or anal abuse that would not require dna evidence of semen being located in those areas. Tearing would occur. Then later the story seems to change to oral violation. (quite possibly because genital abuse never occured) and again the 72 hour issue. Way back while Connie was expecting she accused DT of giving her an STD. Surely if the child was repeatedly being abused orally evidence of an STD would likely have shown up. the twists, spins changes throughout this poorly written story by the Bedwell family seem to change to support reasons why evidence could not be found.
I would still love to see a statute where a doctor needs law enforcement permission to conduct a visual or forensic exam on a child for sexual abuse. I doubt one exists or it would have been posted to support this phony story.
June 5th, 2009 at 5:29 am
Just get it…. Oh please. Who is calling the kettle black with name calling. Maybe you should scroll back and see your own name calling of other posters at this site. Still doing it I see.
June 5th, 2009 at 5:41 am
Then later the story seems to change to oral violation. (quite possibly because genital abuse never occured) and again the 72 hour issue——
Would be better phrased as follows. Once the Bedwells realized no investigation wouldn’t hold water based on the 72 hour requirement for acute abuse and DNA evidence the story then switched to oral abuse which they hoped would fly thinking it would be logical that readers would buy into that needing 72 hours for DNA evidence theory, however, if the alleged abuse had continued for as long as it has been claimed at least 5 months according to the timeline posted at child protection community it is very very likely a test would be positive showing the child had signs of an oral STD. There would be no need for a 72 hour ‘rule’ for evidene with that scenario. That could have been done at any time.
Keep trying to spin the story- I’m sure we’ll debunk it with logic time and time again. Can’t prove lies.
June 5th, 2009 at 5:49 am
Just get an…..
IF the Jordan trip was a family vacation there would not have been criminal charges for child abduction. IF he was cleared of these charges and not found guilty public record sites would not show codes – the sites would indicate no conviction only.
Maybe you need to just get educated.
June 5th, 2009 at 6:01 am
Justgetaninvestigation
May 29th, 2009 at 1:35 pm
“There was an MDIC evaluation on June 23rd 2008
That evaluation was done while the baby was in Dustin’s care, Connie also stated that the baby wouldn’t disclose to all of those CPS and examiners,
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More false info. According to the timeline at Child Protection center A was in Connies care from the 15th of June through the 23rd when the MDIC evaluation was conducted.
As to your second statement:
JustGetanInvestigation
June 3rd, 2009 at 12:10 pm
Well, WhereIs, I’d say she never said anything to her dad or her dad’s parents because she was afraid of them. Plus from the allegations, they are the ones that have done it to her. Why would she have to tell them?
Also, we don’t know what Mitzi Nay has said or not said. There is a letter on an article about the baby at BNN that states she feels some sort of abuse had occured. But that is just one letter while Mitzi worked with her. Didn’t Mitzi work with the baby for at least 10 months?
What are you saying Justgetan? That Mitzi Nay was still a stranger to this child after 10 months?
June 5th, 2009 at 8:08 am
Who, in their right mind, would ever take their children to a middle east center of terrorism for VACATION?
June 5th, 2009 at 8:44 am
You people amaze me. WhereIs, read my posts. I was asking exactly what you just asked me about Mitzi Nay.
Thank you Patty for retracting your false allegations of Tim abducting baby A to Jordan. He was accused of kidnapping HIS children to Jordan in 2000. Connie was 16 at the time and I believe Christen was 18, I haven’t a clue as to how he could even be charged with that. Just because their mother claims they were kidnapped doesn’t mean that he did. I mean, you are sitting her saying that when baby A is stating that her “father” is abusing her, you don’t believe her, but you’ll believe Connie’s mother? I don’t understand your logic.
I will admit to name calling in the beginning, but I was frustrated. But I went to another site in order to speak to Patty, but it did not work out the way I would have liked it to. Oh well, so I will stay here and speak.
June 5th, 2009 at 8:53 am
Here is an article with an update regarding Dr. Joe Saturley:
http://www.bloggernews.net/121141
June 5th, 2009 at 9:46 am
LL Papa,
They are Jewish. So are you saying that a father cannot take his children to a land where they can learn about their religion?
June 5th, 2009 at 9:55 am
BTW, LL Papa, I saw your post regarding Anne Ambrose being related to Micheal Ambrose. This is untrue. The way you connect the dots is funny. There is a Lauren Ambrose (an acress) and a Jimmy Ambrose (a writer, I believe his name is Jimmy), does that mean she is related to them as well? Ambrose is her married name.
June 5th, 2009 at 10:32 am
JustGet,
You were acting civilly to me? HUH? calling me vile names is civil? I owe you NO APOLOGY. None and you’ll never get one from me. So DO NOT FLATTER YOURSELF.
The truth is the truth and I will keep speaking it because this child is safe where she is!
TIME IS WHATS GOING TO PROVE HOW RIGHT I AM ABOUT EVERTHING THAT’S GONE ON WITH THE CHILD AND THE EVALUATIONS. TIME WILL BE THE ANSWER HERE.
IT IS YOU THAT WILL HAVE EGG ON YOUR FACE. THIS CHILD IS NOT BEING ABUSED, NEVER WAS OTHER THAN BY HER OWN MOTHER.
June 5th, 2009 at 10:58 am
LL Papa
June 5th, 2009 at 8:08 am
Who, in their right mind, would ever take their children to a middle east center of terrorism for VACATION?
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lonelyplanet.com/jordan
For many people Jordan begins and ends with the magical ancient Nabataean city of Petra. And it’s true, Petra is without doubt one of the Middle East’s most spectacular, unmissable sights, battling it out with Machu Picchu or Angkor Wat for the title of the world’s most dramatic ‘lost city’.
Yet there’s so much more to see in Jordan – ruined Roman cities, Crusader castles, desert citadels and powerful biblical sites: the brook where Jesus was baptised, the fortress where Herod beheaded John the Baptist, and the mountain top where Moses cast eyes on the Promised Land. Biblical scenes are not just consigned to the past in Jordan; you’ll see plenty of men wearing full-flowing robes and leading herds of livestock across the timeless desert. But it’s not all crusty ruins. Jordan’s capital Amman is a modern, culturally diverse Arab city which is lightyears away from the typical cliches of Middle Eastern exoticism. The country also offers some of the wildest adventures in the region, as well as an incredibly varied backdrop ranging from the red desert sands of Wadi Rum to the brilliant blues of the coral-filled Gulf of Aqaba; from rich palm-filled wadis to the lifeless Dead Sea. Ultimately it’s the sensual delights of daily life in the Middle East that you’ll hanker for longest after you return home; the bittersweet taste of cardamom coffee or the smell of a richly scented nargileh (water pipe); the intoxicating swirl of Arabic pop sliding out of an Amman doorway and the deafening silence of the desert.
Jordanians are a passionate and proud people and the country truly welcomes visitors with open arms. Despite being squeezed between the hotspots of Iraq, Saudi Arabia and Israel & the Palestinian Territories, Jordan is probably the safest and most stable country in the region. Regardless of your nationality, you’ll be greeted with nothing but courtesy and hospitality in this gem of a country
June 5th, 2009 at 11:00 am
Whatever Patty, and what are you talking about? I never called you any names on the other site. You are delusional. I will not respond to your idiotic posts any longer. I am telling the truth, you are spouting lies from this so called “father’s” mouth. I can’t wait for you to never show your face on the internet again when all is said and done. Sleep peacefully knowing you are conversing with an abuser.
June 5th, 2009 at 11:12 am
Re: Justgetaninvestigation, post #452……
From: en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Religion_in_Jordan
The Hashemite Kingdom of Jordan is a majority Muslim country, with 92% of the population following Sunni Islam while a small minority of around 2% follow Shia Islam (as well as some Druze). Jordan also has a significant Christian minority, making up around 6% of the population, mainly Greek Orthodox, Catholic or Coptic)
The family is Jewish per your post and they went to a 94% Muslim country for VACATION? What is your hypothesis of anticipated “learning”?
June 5th, 2009 at 11:25 am
Do you see where Jordan is LL Papa? It’s a hop skip and a jump to Isreal. Get a life, please. How you connect the dots is rediculous. Let your friend Oceans speak for you. She’s better at the investigation.
June 5th, 2009 at 11:27 am
Justget… All Patty got wrong was the name of the child Tim Bedwell was charged with and CONVICTED of abducting. A charge for which he did time in prison. No one heard this from the mother. It is on public websites which give criminal background checks.
Please keep your facts straight.
June 5th, 2009 at 11:27 am
Also, if you are using wikpedia, that says a lot about your investigating skills.
June 5th, 2009 at 11:30 am
If this was a vacation… TIM BEDWELL WOULD NOT HAVE BEEN IN PRISON FOR THIS ‘TRIP’ WOULD HE?
UHHH 228 days served and 114 conduct = THIS WAS NO VACATION
I’m thinking pattycake200, the name calling pretty uncivil if you ask me, made them look highly foolish and beyond capable of any credibility.
What a waste of time here… WE’VE PILED ON THE EVIDENCE WITH EXPERTS, DOCTORS, DA’S OFFICE, POLICE, CHILD PSYCHOLOGISTS = ALL AGREEING THIS CHILD IS SAFE.
THERE IS YOUR PROOF – and with the NEW EVALUATION COMPLETED (unlike Justget, june 2 – NOT KNOWING THAT IT WAS DONE…)
The NEW JUDGE AGREES WITH THE EVALUATION, ACCEPTED IT AND THE COURTS ADOPTED IT. JustGet, go look up courts, procedure, acceptance and furthermore HOW LONG AND EXTENSIVE THE 730 EVALUATION IS TO GET DONE. A HIGHLY REGARDED FORENSIC CHILD PSYCHOLOGIST SPECIALIST OUTSIDE THE COUNTY AGREES THE CHILD IS SAFE, AND RECOMMENDED DUSTING RETAIN 100% CUSTODY AND CONNIE have NO custody of her daughter.
THE TRUTH IS THE TRUTH IS THE TRUTH!!! June 30 IS NOT FOR CONNIE, it’s about Connie. The judge will be ruling on a great deal of infractions and orders she HAS NOT complied with.
THIS EVALUATION ESSENTIALLY GIVES THE FATHER PERMANENT CUSTODY. PERMANENT CUSTODY IS PERMANENT. THERE IS NO ABUSE AND WITH OFFICIALS AND EXPERTS OUTSIDE THIS COUNTY RULING IN FAVOR OF THE FATHER – THAT IS PROFOUND.
ENOUGH SAID, Justget, you’re a joke with what you think you know. Goodbye.
June 5th, 2009 at 11:46 am
Re: Justgetaninvestigation, post #453…..
At no point in my post, which you referenced, did I ever say anything about anyone being related? To refresh your memory, my post from djxtreme.wordpress.com, is as follows:
papa813 says:
June 4, 2009 at 12:45p.m.
AnneA from the other site made several posts that began with ANNE AMBROSE HERE. I noticed on the CPC timeline of the mother that she and MICHAEL AMBROSE returned Aaliyah to Dustin…hmmmmmm???
I typically need no help in expressing myself through word choice. I found the name of Ambrose contained in the CPC timeline to be reason for thought, hence hmmmmmm???.
I will assure you that had I noticed the “Lauren Ambrose” or “Jimmy Ambrose” names, which you referred to, as being a part of the CPC timeline, the closing to my post would probably have been hmmmmmm, hmmmmmm?????? for a “double”
June 5th, 2009 at 11:53 am
Permant custody is permanent custody. Basically what this means is the courts will NOT accept any further case regarding custody unless it can be PROVEN there has been a significant change of circumstances AFTER June 30th. Everything prior to June 30th will be done, over, kaput.
June 5th, 2009 at 12:06 pm
“the brook where Jesus was baptised,” – marmite
June 5th, 2009 at 10:58 am
Why would a Jew want to see that? Jesus is not their Messiah.
June 5th, 2009 at 12:17 pm
Patty, we’ll see. You are going to be choking on your words. I can’t wait for it.
June 5th, 2009 at 12:24 pm
Why would you want her choking on her own words? Wouldn’t you be happy if what she has found is the truth?? A not being abused sexually at all?
June 5th, 2009 at 12:33 pm
Re: marmite post #455…….
Without getting into the merits of your referenced article, I respectfully submit to you that it’s dated as Feb 17, 2009.
The Jordan vacation trip of the Bedwell father and children, to which I referred in my post #449 was nine years earlier in 2000. The following article from, en.wikipedia.org/wiki/2000_millennium_attack_plots, is considerably more relevant as to the political climate and terrorist activity of the year 2000.
The Year 2000 attack plots were terrorist attacks planned to occur on or near January 1, 2000: the bombing of four sites in Jordan……In Jordan, members of the group planned to bomb four sites: a fully-booked Radisson hotel in Amman, Jordan; the border between Jordan and Israel; Mount Nebo, a Christian holy site; and a site on the Jordan River where John the Baptist is said to have baptized Jesus. These locations were chosen to target tourists from the United States and Israel. The most active participant was a Boston taxi driver named Raed Hijazi.
On November 30, 1999, Jordanian intelligence intercepted a call between Abu Zubaydah, the leader of the plot, and Khadr Abu Hoshar, a Palestinian militant. In the conversation, Zubaydah stated, “The time for training is over.” Sensing that the attack was imminent, Jordanian police arrested Hoshar and fifteen others on December 12, 1999.
The authorities put twenty eight suspects on trial. Twenty two of them were quickly found guilty. Six of them, including Hijazi, were sentenced to death. Zubaydah was sentenced to death in absentia. Loa’i Mohammad Haj Bakr al-Saqa and Abu Musab al-Zarqawi, were sentenced in absentia in 2002, for their part in the plot which included using poison gas during the bombing.
Particulary in light of a sentence contained in the first paragraph of this article, “These locations were chosen to target tourists from the United States and Israel”, my post #449 requires no further validation.
I repeat, “Who, in their right mind, would ever take their children to a middle east center of terrorism for VACATION?”, especially in the year 2000?
June 5th, 2009 at 12:40 pm
JustGet…It didn’t work out for you cause you’re a flake.
June 5th, 2009 at 12:43 pm
Poor JustGet, you are confusing ME with the one that’s made the decision for this child. There’s nothing further to do, the 730 Evaluation is DONE… DONE deal – awarded the father 100% permanent custody. okay?
There’s NO good ole boys club. We’re dealing with OUT of the County Judge & OUT of the county EXPERTS… A VERY RENOWED highly respected Forensic Child Psychology Expert none the less!!
THIS OUTSIDE GROUP of EXPERTS AND JUDGE have concluded the child is safe. There is NO MORE ARGUMENT HERE whether she’s being abused… she IS NOT being abused by the father. The mother on the other hand, well THERE’S GOOD REASON SHE can ONLY have supervised visits.
I repeat:
PERMANENT CUSTODY IS PERMANENT. THERE IS NO ABUSE AND WITH OFFICIALS AND EXPERTS OUTSIDE THIS COUNTY RULING IN FAVOR OF THE FATHER – THAT IS PROFOUND.
There’s nothing for me to choke on my dear. There’s COUNTLESS experts and NOW SPECIALISTS & JUDGES from the OUTSIDE that’s determined babyA is safe, loved and WILL REMAIN with the father PERMANENTLY.
Not sure what you do not understand about any of this? There’s nothing further that will be done, other than the Judge dealing with Connie and her behavior on June 30. Otherwise this is all OVER AND DONE. ITS SEALED, FINAL, FINISHED.
How could I ever choke? I have the TRUTH on my side. You’ll be waiting an eternity my dear. I only pity you, have no anger… because you’re being used, it’s called a Pasty. That’s very sad actually. Now I’m off and running to enjoy my day.
Its a great thing to know this child is safe & loved & happy.!!! YAY BABYA, that’s what its all about.
June 5th, 2009 at 12:44 pm
Who is Yahshua then?
June 5th, 2009 at 12:49 pm
Aww Beast, and you aren’t? You are the biggest of them all. It didn’t work out for me because I refused to be attacked and being called names by you, the biggest hypocrite on the net that I have ever “met”. You don’t write about facts, you are writing about what Patty is telling you that Dustin is spewing to her. Which are all lies.
StopCon, I would love it if baby A wasn’t being abused, but she is, so I cant wait for Patty to choke on all of her lies. All of you are going to be SILENCED and soon. It’s going to be a beautiful day when that happens.
June 5th, 2009 at 12:54 pm
JustGet…really..Spend the $30 and get the records for yourself. I suppose though according to you then it will all be lies and corrupt officials. We are talking abhout facts in black and white from police and courts. You are talking about ….what?
June 5th, 2009 at 12:55 pm
STOPCONARTISTS…
Maybe she’s been praying BabyA is being abused just so she can be right? Pretty sad she cannot understand how many experts have REALLY looked at this all, including doctors to find BabyA is not a victim of sexual abuse. Connie is a fraud, a scam artist… and a flake.
June 5th, 2009 at 1:00 pm
Again, Patty, we will see.
June 5th, 2009 at 1:02 pm
JustGet, if you only knew the length this Forensic Expert has gone to be certain this child is safe. This renowned child psychologist…
You think some person from outside the COUNTY would put their entire career on the line to protect a molester?
This order makes it permanent. This FORENSIC expert HAS SEEN EVERY SHRED OF EVIDENCE & documentation from ALL SIDES.
ALL OF IT, and still feels the best, safest most loving environment is in the fathers’ home.
Again hon, you’ll be waiting a long time. I DO KNOW THAT FOR SURE. This child will always remain in the father’s care. The father will always have custody, the father will always be the one making the decisions for babyA.
The mother can keep paying for her supervised visits and can keep singing the same ole song. It’s OVER. Whatever orders Connie TRIES to bring to the courts and the new judge now will not be accepted.
I mean you don’t even know what you’re talking about, you didn’t even know this extensive Evaluation was completed. So shut up already, you’re looking pathetic.
June 5th, 2009 at 1:09 pm
have a question JustGet…
where have I lied? My opinions are backed up by police, DA, doctors, experts, and NOW a Forensic Child Psychologist.
SO WHERE is it that I’ve lied about the safety of babyA? How can all these EXPERTS & SPECIALISTS BE WRONG and YOU are right?
You realize how ridiculous you look when you make those statements, don’t you??
I’ve pointed out many times where you were DEAD WRONG. But you just keep babbling.
June 5th, 2009 at 1:21 pm
460.JustGetanInvestigation
June 5th, 2009 at 11:27 am
Also, if you are using wikpedia, that says a lot about your investigating skills.
……………………………………………………
Just Get, If my choice of reference site for response to your posts, Wikipedia, offends your thought process, that was certainly not my intent. Quite frankly I believed it might be one of your favorites due to an endorsement by your ofttimes referenced site’s senior editor on May 5th, 2009.
“Take a look at this article. Now I will say that Associated Content in my mind is about as reliable as Wikipedia”
June 5th, 2009 at 1:27 pm
I won’t hold my breath for Connies version of the truth to be verified as the actual truth.. :)
June 5th, 2009 at 1:29 pm
JustGet. What PROOF do you have that babyA is being abused? You have none other than what you have been TOLD. You haven’t SEEN ANY documentation to PROVE she is being abused. Pattycake has done her own investigating and has actual DOCUMENTATION that backs up her story. What do you have to back up your story? I will say this right now, I AM A FRIEND OF THE FATHER & I’M PROUD OF THE WAY HE HAS HANDLED HIMSELF THROUGHTOUT THIS WHOLE SAGA. He is a great father. I see him interact with his daughter and I see how well she is doing in her fathers home. There is NO abuse and JustGet you haven’t seen this little girl. You have absolutely NO CLUE about what is going on in this childs world. You are the one that will be silenced and we can’t wait!
June 5th, 2009 at 1:37 pm
Jews do not accept Jesus as the messiah because:
1) Jesus did not fulfill the messianic prophecies.
2) Jesus did not embody the personal qualifications of the Messiah.
3) Biblical verses “referring” to Jesus are mistranslations.
4) Jewish belief is based on national revelation.
June 5th, 2009 at 1:51 pm
personally i would love it if this has all been a mistake. It would make me happy to know there has been no abuse, and this baby is/has been where she should be.
June 5th, 2009 at 3:05 pm
Who is Yahshua ?? I haven’t heard that name in this case????
June 5th, 2009 at 3:07 pm
So this stuff is coming from the father?? I thought all this information came from the mother?
Are there court records?
June 5th, 2009 at 7:24 pm
This is C~A and I haven’t been here for a week, internet problems the very day I was typing JUSTGET a really pretty letter…I saved it…..but didn’t get to send it. Hmmm! A week later she is still here arguing a moot point, being catty and degrating STILL!!!!
Your such an angry person JUSTGET. I can’t imagine doing what your doing….everyday all day …spewing hatred and non-factual b.s and the sad thing is …YOU BELIEVE WHAT YOU SAY! How can you form an opinion with NO facts? Unless it is you who has no life, and is willing to converse with people in any way it takes to make you feel mighty and righteous!
Gawd, come back when you have something intelligent and mature to say and some facts to back up your big MOUTH!
I’m outta here…someone let me know when IT gives up and goes away!
June 5th, 2009 at 7:29 pm
JustGetanInvestigation
June 5th, 2009 at 8:44 am
You people amaze me. He was accused of kidnapping HIS children to Jordan in 2000. Connie was 16 at the time and I believe Christen was 18, I haven’t a clue as to how he could even be charged with that.
Just because their mother claims they were kidnapped doesn’t mean that he did.
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
IT’S TIME FOR YOU TO EAT YOUR WORDS!
YOUR LAST SENTENCE ~ THINK ABOUT IT AND THINK ABOUT CONNIE!
CHOKE ON IT!
June 5th, 2009 at 7:31 pm
ABOVE POST ALSO SUBMITTED BY C~A YOUR FAVORITE FAN!
June 6th, 2009 at 12:41 pm
Just get, you said:
“He was accused of kidnapping HIS children to Jordan in 2000. Connie was 16 at the time and I believe Christen was 18, I haven’t a clue as to how he could even be charged with that. Just because their mother claims they were kidnapped doesn’t mean that he did. I mean, you are sitting her saying that when baby A is stating that her “father†is abusing her, you don’t believe her, but you’ll believe Connie’s mother? I don’t understand your logic.”
It seems based on what I have read, that he was not just accused of this, he actually spent time in jail for it. Taking any child across state lines, or out of the country without the full consent of the other custodial parent is indeed kidnapping. There must have been more than just an accusation from an angry mother in order to cause this to result in jail in my opinion.
I see no reason to research this information about Mr. Bedwell. The only relevance to the subject of this child would be in understanding why Connie would not run with her child- if she has seen the net result of taking a child without permission result in jail time she would have been less likely to go that route back when the father began his custody/visitation case while she was in Alaska.
All of this is my opinion only, I do not know the actual circumstances that resulted in the charges, convictions and jail time Mr. Bedwell appears to have served.
June 6th, 2009 at 2:35 pm
JustGet, It seems you have more of an overwhelming need for vengeance toward Patty then you do in seeking truth and justice for baby A.
Your obsession with having those that believe differently then you “choke on their words” only serves to discredits you.
Calm down, and get a grip if you expect anyone to take you seriously! Right now you are just ranting and raving and frankly unbelievable.
June 7th, 2009 at 8:31 am
STOPCONARTISTS – Exactly ~ seems that ol’ justget would rather be right and the baby is being sexually abused then for it not to be true…HOW SICK IS THAT!
June 7th, 2009 at 8:40 am
justget – StopCon, I would love it if baby A wasn’t being abused, but she is, so I cant wait for Patty to choke on all of her lies. All of you are going to be SILENCED and soon. It’s going to be a beautiful day when that happens.
( oh really, WHAT A BEAUTIFUL DAY THAT WILL BE EH! When a child is proven to being molested! What’s wrong with your head! ) STOP MAKING THIS ABOUT YOU!!!!!!
June 7th, 2009 at 12:27 pm
Hi No Reply, I just saw your post regarding not getting any responses to your emails. I received the same form letter from the Govenors office. Thank you for answering. This moderation here kind of mucks things up.
June 7th, 2009 at 5:05 pm
marmite
May 30th, 2009 at 12:12 pm
Didn’t think you could produce…if you could you would…don’t waste my time…I haven’t been on here much and I know I have never said anything your accusing me or beast of …it’s you my dear that needs to stop wasting my time…move along…get over me! I know your hiding behind a new name…that’s ok…i don’t really care to know who you are! I don’t hide, your lack of producing anything to back up your accusations is very telling on who you are…unless there are two of you at bnn that run your mouth without anything to back it up! LOL
June 8th, 2009 at 2:14 am
C~A You obviously didnt read my May 30th post slowly enough to understand it so I’ll repeat it again just for you.
In response to C~A please read this blog (and the others)from the beginning, I suggest you take your time reading your own posts for evidence of your weird and vindictive rants.
It is clear you are have issues and this situation just happens to be your latest outlet to release that unresolved anger. I seriously suggest counselling.
To the rest of your gang please channel your energies into something positive. All we are asking for is an independant investigation.
C~A, Please don’t bother to respond to me, I’m not vaguely interested in anything you have to say. Your responses are neither intelligent or helpful to the situation.
I repeat once more – This is about Aaliyah not about you!
June 8th, 2009 at 8:24 am
then quit addressing me marmite! Your very repetative and again, I do not need to re-read my own posts! Your a lost cause…let it go! If you want to shoot your mouth off about me, produce your proof of your accusations…otherwise keep your mouth shut! I have never made it about me…your a joke! Go back to your hole and leave me alone..GOT IT!
June 8th, 2009 at 8:35 am
All of you have no proof that he is not abusing baby A. You can sit there and tell me all you know from the past investigations. It does not matter. It was a biased investigation and because Connie did not have a lawyer throughout, there are things that should have happened that did not. I am so tired of hearing your “proof”. It is in the past. We will see what happens now, today, in the present. You all have no idea what is going on and what is happening. I, however, do. And to the person who is a personal friend of the “father”, haven’t you ever heard someone say when they find out that their friend does something horrible “I can’t believe he did this, they were such a nice person. It doesn’t make sense”? This is what abusers do, they manipulate, they hide things. They are good at showing you what you want to see. I believe this is happening to the baby, and nothing, not ANYTHING any of you have to say to me will EVER change my mind. I will never stop fighting as long as baby A needs me.
C~A and Beast, move on to something new. You have nothing intelligent to say regarding this case – move on. This is the very last time I will respond to anything you say.
June 8th, 2009 at 8:35 am
and another thing, how do I make it about me anyway, I was done with the case from the beginning…NO PROOF! I hardly spend time on it …I spend my time on cases that are actually real and have proof that a child is either missing, dead or abused! This story is a waste of time..which is why you are so hell bent on spending all your time on it…cause that is all you are…A WASTE OF TIME!
June 8th, 2009 at 8:42 am
Sadstuff, someone was asking about Jesus and the Jewish religion:
Yahshua is a transliteration of the original Hebrew or Aramaic name of Jesus commonly used by individuals in the Sacred Name religious movement out of Christianity. Those who follow Sacred Name teachings (such as the Assemblies of Yahweh) believe that it is essential to salvation to use the correct pronunciation of the name of the one most Christians call “Jesus”. It is believed by some that this is the correct transliteration of the Hebrew יהושע (yod-he-waw-shin-ayin – usually transliterated as Y’hoshua or sometimes Yahoshua), which means “Yahweh is Salvation.”
June 8th, 2009 at 9:17 am
justgetinvestigation – when I read throughout here you have been wrong on almost everything. There was just a current investigation (not past) completed with a forensic psychologist that is very well respected in their field. This expert has no motive nor bias and came from out side of Placer County. It was very thorough therefore Connie cannot keep making claims about no new investigation. Due to the child psyc forensic findings Dustin was told by the courts and Judge Smith his kid is staying with him and Connie lost all her rights. The rest of the BS your hashing is old news and has since been addressed by Judge Smith. Maybe you should take up knitting because supporting a mom you have never met is making you look very uneducated to us who know whats happening.
June 8th, 2009 at 11:39 am
“There is no proof that he is not abusing Baby A”…
How are eleven investigations by CPS, the police & the courts not proof?
What would be proof that someone was not abusing someone else? What would that proof consist of?
At what point does the accuser stop accusing?
And, are you, personally, capable of seeing the emotional, behavioral & developmental damage done – not to the accused, but to the child – by the accusing, if it is not true, whether mom believes it to be true or not? And, are you able to see how the damage done to the child multiplies with each new investigation once the accusations have been shown to be unfounded?
Is there some point in the future appeal after appeal, accusation after escalated accusation, where even her best friend will be able to say, “Look honey, it’s time to give up. It’s time to move on. Your baby is healthy & normal. Maybe you misread some of the signals here. You have every right to your feelings, but you might be causing problems for baby if you don’t step back & see that you might be wrong about this. Time to start healing and building a good relationship with her and her father, as a co-parent, before it’s too late for you to be a positive influence in her life at all. She needs you. As a parent, not as a broken adult who was in the wrong adult relationship for her.”
June 8th, 2009 at 1:46 pm
JustGet… You say that you do know what is going on, really from who? Obviously a very reliable source right? There was a FULL THOUROUGH INVESTIGATION! It doesn’t matter that the mother didn’t have an attorney. There is a standard procedure that the investigators follow, it doesn’t matter if both parties have attorneys or not! They don’t base their investigations on who has an attorney and who doesn’t. Your excuses are lame. All you “mother supporters” say that this baby is afraid of her father, right? I KNOW FOR A FACT that this baby is NOT afraid of her father. Have you seen this little girl?? I think not!!
You stated: Thank you Patty for retracting your false allegations of Tim abducting baby A to Jordan. He was accused of kidnapping HIS children to Jordan in 2000. Connie was 16 at the time and I believe Christen was 18, I haven’t a clue as to how he could even be charged with that. Just because their mother claims they were kidnapped doesn’t mean that he did. I mean, you are sitting her saying that when baby A is stating that her “father†is abusing her, you don’t believe her, but you’ll believe Connie’s mother? I don’t understand your logic.
Are you serious? He was CONVICTED AND SERVED JAIL TIME!!! Here, also there was an investigation done for him to have been convicted in a court of law. Oh wait, was this also a “good ol boys” county? Did Connies mother have so much money that she also had all the professionals in her pocket?
You are rediculous!
June 8th, 2009 at 5:35 pm
Just get,
“You all have no idea what is going on and what is happening. I, however, do”
So what inside information do you have about what is going on? Any new information on the status would be appreciated.
Has Connie resumed her visitation? How is that going?
Why are all previous investigations biased? Has Connie’s attorney submitted the family statements to the courts yet? Does Connie know that these statements are not actual evidence without some sort of medical/psychological proof to back them up? Is the family saying there has been no 730 exam done?
What does this baby’s own doctor say about the physical/sexual abuse? The rashes or the many reports of pain (in her private parts), surely she was seen for this multiple times? Her own doctor can’t be considered corrupt, as his office called to tell Connie that Dustin had picked up the baby’s medical records from his office.
How long has the baby been in therapy? Does she still go? I had read that she has been seeing a therapist for a year. Is that true? What does this therapist say? Surely after that long, she would be able to confirm sexual abuse is ongoing and by law report it to the police?
How did Connie’s meeting with the D.A.(who handles child abuse cases) on June 2 go? Did it happen or was it mis-communicated to KarenCCC? Is there still charges ‘pending’ against Dustin for abuse?
June 8th, 2009 at 8:33 pm
I just saw this on the saveaaliyah.com website:
LOCAL NEWSPAPER WHERE THE MOLESTING TAKES PLACE
The mother was interviewed for an hour and a half with complete answers and full details to the case. The Auburn Journal told BloggerNews.Net that they had to stay in the good graces of the local police. Therefore details were left out and information supporting Aaliyah and her mother on the comment section were taken off by The Auburn Journal. Placer County spells corruption. To answer the question left out by AJ- the ONLY reason the child was taken from the mother was because the mother constantly told the court and proper authorities of what the child was saying about her father. It is documented in the court file on July 3, 2008.
June 8th, 2009 at 9:06 pm
A witness letter from a Registered Nurse:
To whom it may concern:
I am writing this letter on the behalf of Aaliyah Bedwell and Connie Bedwell which I have personally gotten to know over the last 2 years. I have been a registered nurse at X Medical Center at which I am currently employed for the last 4 years. In my field of work and training I perceive myself as having an insight to people and their character. I am completely perplexed by some of the judgments made in this court case.
Connie has always shown her incredible love for Aaliyah and her overwhelming concern for her well being has shown. I find it completely devastating as well as poor judgment to take this little girl from her loving and caring mother. This action I feel is detrimental to the child’s well being.
Coming from a medical background and studying adult and child psychology the actions and words from Aaliyah clearly show the amount of stress she is experiencing such as regressing in potty training. After reviewing the video of Aaliyah describing what is happening while in the care of her father, it is very clear that this 2 year old child is describing male genitalia without question. Aaliyah without being coached was able to describe the act of falachio and the clean up after the fact. She actually states “he has to wipe it off with like a napkin.†After she describes how it chokes her making a coughing sound. A 2 year old cannot talk in so much detail for 27 minutes, uncoached, refusing to lie in a bed unless she has experienced this traumatic event. I feel it would be in the best interest of Aaliyah if the court actually took the time to review this video and hear the cry out for help from a defenseless 2 year old child.
I feel this case has been mismanaged and lost the insight of what the focus is ….Aaliyah! Everyone involved supporting Connie wants what is in the best interest for this little girl. I am embarrassed for the fact we trust and use Child Protective Services and the court system to yes in deed protect those who can not protect themselves. In Connie’s case I feel there has been negligence in the system. If the “daddy’s worm,†video presented by the mother was actually reviewed by the court I would like to think that the father would be prosecuted not receiving full custody of the child.
I have not been asked to write a letter or give my opinion, but in my profession I am an advocate for people whom I don’t know. Here in this case I wish to be an advocate for a little girl and her mother. I hope the court system will do the same and make this right for the best interest of Aaliyah. Thank you.
I declare under the penalty of perjury under the laws of the state of California that the foregoing is true and correct.
June 8th, 2009 at 9:08 pm
Have you seen the video of the visitation exchanges:
youtube.com/watch?v=7VWzfM14Ha4
This baby CLEARLY does not like her father. She won’t look at him NOR will she touch him. Watch her hands…..poor sweet baby.
June 8th, 2009 at 9:24 pm
Just Get,
So this means that the Bedwel’s think that the newspaper is also corrupt. She is accusing them of lying about her comments? Where they state she declined to answer??
Some comments in support of the father were also removed by the AJ. Comments were screened for abuse and removed. Unfortunately many of the abusive comments I read and saw removed were from the Mother’s supporters (but not all). Libelous comments were also removed.
As near as I can tell, the reason the child was taken away by the Step program is because she did not comply with the requirements of the program. She needed to attend classes and she needed to cooperate with the parenting plan. She refused to believe there was anything else besides abuse going on. She made reference to her opinions of the Step program meeting she had, and was frustrated they told her she was ‘hyper’ (I take that to mean hyper-aware- seeing abuse in everything) and could be wrong. Her reaction in that meeting is most likely key to the decision to remove her custody.
Since we can’t read the court files online, we will have to wait until someone can provide copies. I do not believe family court records are available to the public, so this will not happen until the restraining order is lifted I am guessing.
The other reason she was taken away is because no facts supporting the claims of abuse where found. There are no medical reports supporting physical abuse, and none finding physical signs of molestation (ie – anal or vaginal abuse) by medical professionals. Apparently there are also none from the psychological testing done either.
Once again, I would think with all the claims of physical pain the child expressed(my butt hurts, my pee-pee hurts) there would have been many medical doctor visits that would be looking for the causes of the pain. No results of these visits are mentioned by Connie. Why is that?
June 8th, 2009 at 9:35 pm
It is also possible that the Auburn Journal stuck to verifiable facts. And limited the article itself to comments from the mother and the authorities they could get responses and quotes from. It stated her opinions, but did not portray them as factual. That was the proper thing to do. I do not know what Connie expected them to do- believe all of what she said without checking the facts and commit libel? No where did I see them lie about what Connie said.
How often do you see news articles with peoples opinions (especially of sexual abuse that has not been proven) being stated as facts? Witnesses to crimes are quoted, sources like LE are quoted, but no where do you see speculative opinion in a newspaper(except in the editorial and opinions pages).
Connie could have talked for hours, and yet only provided a few details that could actually be printed in a paper. Unlike BNN and individuals, newspapers are supposed to be unbiased. They are not supposed to slant the news to only provide one persons viewpoints. The Bedwell’s seem to have issues with those who do not agree 100% with their views.
June 8th, 2009 at 9:44 pm
There must be actual legal grounds for removing a parents custody altogether. These would actually be documented in the legal records and, possibly, in the amended custody agreement. If ‘Reporting suspected abuse to the court’ is the actual reason documented in the custody agreements and the documentation of the legal decision & proceedings, then she certainly does have a case for appeal.
I’m pretty sure that’s not what’s documented, though. They may be corrupt, but I’m sure they are not stupid.
June 8th, 2009 at 9:48 pm
TryADifferentPointOfView
June 8th, 2009 at 11:39 am
“There is no proof that he is not abusing Baby Aâ€â€¦
How are eleven investigations by CPS, the police & the courts not proof?
What would be proof that someone was not abusing someone else? What would that proof consist of?
At what point does the accuser stop accusing?
And, are you, personally, capable of seeing the emotional, behavioral & developmental damage done – not to the accused, but to the child – by the accusing, if it is not true, whether mom believes it to be true or not? And, are you able to see how the damage done to the child multiplies with each new investigation once the accusations have been shown to be unfounded?
Is there some point in the future appeal after appeal, accusation after escalated accusation, where even her best friend will be able to say, “Look honey, it’s time to give up. It’s time to move on. Your baby is healthy & normal. Maybe you misread some of the signals here. You have every right to your feelings, but you might be causing problems for baby if you don’t step back & see that you might be wrong about this. Time to start healing and building a good relationship with her and her father, as a co-parent, before it’s too late for you to be a positive influence in her life at all. She needs you. As a parent, not as a broken adult who was in the wrong adult relationship for her.â€
Excellent post! Finally a voice of reason!
June 8th, 2009 at 9:53 pm
Dustinfriend
June 8th, 2009 at 9:17 am
….and Connie lost all her rights.
Dustinfriend, does this mean Connies parental rights were revoked and the info we read about the judges ordering supervised visitation to be agreed upon two days after the last court date is untrue? If so, it would make sense the next court date would be for criminal charges against Connie for the information she has posted online.
Please clarify, if you can, what you mean by Connie lost ALL her rights. Thank you.
WITE
June 8th, 2009 at 10:15 pm
JustGetanInvestigation
June 8th, 2009 at 8:33 pm
The only way you can make the comment with absolute certainty:
“To answer the question left out by AJ- the ONLY reason the child was taken from the mother was because the mother constantly told the court and proper authorities of what the child was saying about her father. It is documented in the court file on July 3, 2008.”
Is if you personally saw the court file from July 3,2008. My guess is you have not. If you have, then by all means start posting facts to back up your opinions. without fact to back it up your thoughts are nothing other than an opinion.
I even asked Mr. Bedwell for proof his daughter was turned away from a medical doctor when requesting an examination of A for abuse. Never got it. Doubt it exists, if so it would have been posted to back up facts. Instead, when asked for proof you people go silent, dodge reasonable questions and start spouting off your unfounded opinions as they can not be supported with proof.
June 8th, 2009 at 10:59 pm
Courts need legitimate reasons to remove custody from a parent. Those reasons are recorded in the documentation of the court proceedings, the judges decision, the psychological reports and, possibly, in the amended custody agreement.
“Reporting suspected abuse to the courts and other authorities” is not grounds for removing custody from a parent and would not be documented in any legal capacity. At least, not on it’s own. Perhaps something more like, “Mother continues to make false claims of abuse against the father, despite the lack of evidence and the fact that these claims are, repeatedly, unsupported by psychological evaluations of the child and households. Mother shows an inability to effectively co-parent with the child’s father, in the child’s best interest. She repeatedly shows only an unhealthy animosity towards her child’s father, which cause emotional distress for her child.”
But, a simple ‘she keeps telling on him so we’re taking custody away’ wouldn’t signify corruption on the part of the legal system, it would signify stupidity. If they’re smart enough to be corrupt, they’re smart enough to cover up their corruption with actual legal terminology & procedure.
June 9th, 2009 at 3:01 am
From Adoption.com
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I’ve deleted what we know does not exist in this case, chronic alcohol and drug abuse, information pertaining to siblings, child murder……
While the father has been cleared as a suspect and CASE CLOSED according to Sargent Pecoraro, I still left info pertaining to ‘sexual abuse’.
What is of interest here, is abuse, as well as possible reunification as well as unwillingness to get help for such things as mental disorders etc.
My apologies for not adding a link due to computer problems on my end. A google search of California grounds for termination of parental rights will get you to the info from adoption.com
Grounds for Termination of Parental Rights California
Statute: Welf. & Inst. Code §§ 361.5(b), (h), (i); 366.26(c)(1)
Circumstances That Are Grounds for Termination
Abuse/Neglect
Mental Illness or Deficiency
Felony Conviction/Incarceration
Failure of Reasonable Efforts
Sexual Abuse
Child Judged in Need of Services/Dependent
Child’s Best Interest
Circumstances That Are Not Grounds for Termination
Failure to Establish Paternity
Child in care 15 of 22 months (or less)
Cal. Welf. and Inst. Code § 361.5(b), (h), (i) (West, WESTLAW through Cal. 2003 Legis. Serv., Ch. 28)
Reunification services need not be provided to a parent or guardian described in this subdivision when the court finds, by clear and convincing evidence, any of the following:
That the parent or guardian is suffering from a mental disability that renders him or her incapable of utilizing those services;
That the child or a sibling of the child has been previously adjudicated a dependent as a result of physical or sexual abuse, that following that adjudication the child had been removed from the custody of his or her parent or guardian, that the child has been returned to the custody of the parent or guardian from whom the child had been taken originally, and that the child is being removed due to additional physical or sexual abuse;
That the child was brought within the jurisdiction of the court because of the conduct of that parent or guardian;
That the child has been adjudicated a dependent as a result of severe sexual abuse or the infliction of severe physical harm to the child, a sibling, as defined above, by a parent or guardian, and the court makes a factual finding that it would not benefit the child to pursue reunification services with the offending parent or guardian;
That the parent or guardian of the child has been convicted of a violent felony;
That the parent or guardian of the child has advised the court that he or she is not interested in receiving family maintenance or family reunification services or having the child returned to or placed in his or her custody and does not wish to receive family maintenance or reunification services;
That the parent or guardian has on one or more occasions willfully abducted the child or child’s sibling from his or her placement and refused to disclose the child’s or child’s sibling whereabouts, refused to return physical custody of the child or child’s sibling to his or her placement, or refused to return physical custody of the child or child’s sibling to the social worker.
In determining whether reunification services will benefit the child, the court shall consider any information it deems relevant, including the following factors:
The specific act or omission comprising the severe sexual abuse or the severe physical harm inflicted on the child or the child’s sibling;
The circumstances under which the abuse or harm was inflicted on the child or the child’s sibling;
The severity of the emotional trauma suffered by the child or the child’s sibling;
Any history of abuse of other children by the offending parent or guardian;
The likelihood that the child may be safely returned to the care of the offending parent or guardian within 12 months with no continuing supervision;
Unfortunately, based on much of what we have read it appears Connie does meet more of the above than does her daughters daddy.
Hmmmm……
June 9th, 2009 at 3:04 am
I meant to snip more, such as failure to establish paternity. sorry all.
June 9th, 2009 at 7:40 am
To you all, you will have to just sit and be patient for the new facts to come out. They will be here soon, promise. I don’t have hours to sit here and refute all of your “OLD” information. HUH?? I do not wish to answer any of your questions. Not that I can right now anyway. Patience is a virtue. I am just posting, here, information that is elsewhere so people have the information. I’m not here to debate with anyone.
June 9th, 2009 at 7:45 am
And as far as I know, Connie is not the one that has taken Dustin to court, it has been the other way around for almost 2.5 years. I can’t be 100% sure, but from what I have heard and been told, I believe Dustin is the one that files the court petitions. So whoever said something to the affect that Connie keeps bringing these allegations to court, it isn’t quite true.
June 9th, 2009 at 10:37 am
Dustin keeps going to court because of Connies sick allegations. He’s protecting his kid for good reason.
Justget you’re a load of crock with your soon postings. I know whats coming down on June 30 against Connie. If she wants to get in one last attack on Dustin it will help his case even more so tell her to go for it. You’ve been wrong on almost all your posts here and you expect everyone to believe your pile?
June 9th, 2009 at 11:33 am
In custody cases, petitions are most often brought forth by the party who is attempting to work civilly as a co-parent within the bounds of the mutually agreed upon custody agreement (or the one set by the court, if a mutually agreed upon agreement is not possible or has been shown to be not in the best interests of the child).
The parent who is working within the bounds of the agreement will respectfully follow proceedings that the judge asked them to follow when they signed the custody agreement. If the other parent is *not* respecting the custody agreement, they will bring a petition before the court for the judge to rule on.
Conversely, the parent who does not respect the courts and who does not honor the commitment that they made when signing the original custody agreement wouldn’t bring a petition before the court to ‘tell on themselves’ for breaking the agreement that they made, would they? They would just go ahead & do whatever they want.
Blaming the father for the fact that this is being dragged out due to the father’s bringing petitions before the court, asking the judge to civilly rule on the matter of mother’s transgressions against the agreement they joined into, is ridiculous.
That’s like blaming the police for wasting the murderer’s time by bringing the criminal before the courts to have justice served against him.
June 9th, 2009 at 11:51 am
My husband’s ex lost primary residency because she completely ignored the parenting agreement doing whatever she wanted, showing contempt for the court by ignoring the agreement she made with the court and showing that she was unable to respect her child’s relationship with her father.
In order to try to be civil & flexible, to respect his child’s relationship with her mother and to respect his child’s right to a stress-free childhood, my husband would often let the little things slide, as his ex ignored the parenting agreement. But, for the big things, the things where she was obviously causing emotional harm to their child or attempting to severely limit his parenting time with their child, he would follow the agreement they made in court, bringing the issue to mediation and then, when that failed, petitioning the court.
His ex would have had no reason or issues to bring a petition to court. He never showed contempt for the parenting agreement.
June 9th, 2009 at 12:44 pm
Just Get, You said “HUH?? I do not wish to answer any of your questions. Not that I can right now anyway. Patience is a virtue.”
I can be patient and wait for answers. I appreciate the reply. I really do not expect you to have all the answers, but you alluded to having some information that the rest of us searching the internet about this case didn’t have (“You all have no idea what is going on and what is happening. I, however, do”).
The questions I asked remain however:
Has Connie resumed her visitation? How is that going?
Why are all previous investigations biased? Has Connie’s attorney submitted the family statements to the courts yet? Does Connie know that these statements are not actual evidence without some sort of medical/psychological proof to back them up? Is the family saying there has been no 730 exam done?
What does this baby’s own doctor say about the physical/sexual abuse? The rashes or the many reports of pain (in her private parts), surely she was seen for this multiple times? Her own doctor can’t be considered corrupt, as his office called to tell Connie that Dustin had picked up the baby’s medical records from his office.
How long has the baby been in therapy? Does she still go? I had read that she has been seeing a therapist for a year. Is that true? What does this therapist say? Surely after that long, she would be able to confirm sexual abuse is ongoing and by law report it to the police?
How did Connie’s meeting with the D.A.(who handles child abuse cases) on June 2 go? Did it happen or was it mis-communicated to KarenCCC? Is there still charges ‘pending’ against Dustin for abuse?
June 9th, 2009 at 12:51 pm
I do not believe all parental rights for this mother have been terminated. She may not currently have custodial rights, but she was supposed to get her supervised visitation rights back after the June 1 court date. I had been told that Connie had indeed found another facility to use, and that the only holdup was Amara returning calls to arrange it. Since the judge was said to have ordered the attorneys to make these visitation arrangements within I believe 2 days (June 3) Connie should be able to see the baby.
June 9th, 2009 at 2:42 pm
TryaDifferentPointofView said:
[How are eleven investigations by CPS, the police & the courts not proof?
What would be proof that someone was not abusing someone else? What would that proof consist of?
At what point does the accuser stop accusing?
And, are you, personally, capable of seeing the emotional, behavioral & developmental damage done - not to the accused, but to the child - by the accusing, if it is not true, whether mom believes it to be true or not? And, are you able to see how the damage done to the child multiplies with each new investigation once the accusations have been shown to be unfounded?
Is there some point in the future appeal after appeal, accusation after escalated accusation, where even her best friend will be able to say, “Look honey, it’s time to give up. It’s time to move on. Your baby is healthy & normal. Maybe you misread some of the signals here. You have every right to your feelings, but you might be causing problems for baby if you don’t step back & see that you might be wrong about this. Time to start healing and building a good relationship with her and her father, as a co-parent, before it’s too late for you to be a positive influence in her life at all. She needs you. As a parent, not as a broken adult who was in the wrong adult relationship for her.†]
Brilliant post!
June 9th, 2009 at 5:33 pm
Last time I checked JustGET… you didn’t even realize there WAS a 730 evaluation.
Certainly NOT OLD INFO IS IT NOW?
THE COURTS already adopted the 730 eval. which means they agree with all recommendations, the most important being there’s NO abuse of BabyA and Dustin retains 100% custody. What a pity you didn’t know about that NEW tidbit, as I look up to June 2 of your post and see how oblivious you are.
Bottom line the courts continue to side with the dad and this not so clever internet campaign has backfired on Connie. She should ask her daddy about ways of jail life, she may need the tips.
Pretty sick that a mother would ever withhold NEW evidence when her child is supposedly being molested. Maybe she’s had to take time to manufacture more evidence.
I can’t be bothered to post here, anyone else want to debate with me, you know where to find me. At least that place isn’t ARCHIVED like here. lol
June 10th, 2009 at 7:32 am
Patty, good.
Huh?? Visitations have not been started, as far as I know. The judge ordered to petition an ex parte if they were not, so I assume that is what they are doing. I do not know what happened in the appointment with the DA. I’m not sure if they baby is still seeing a psychologist, I sure hope so. And I don’t think there were any charges pending against Dustin when the judge told Connie and her lawyer that there was an ongoing investigation against him. There just hasn’t been too much information as of now. I have been told to be patient, so that is what I have been saying, and others who are helping in baby A’s case. We just feel that we need to put the information we do know on the new “articles” regarding this case.
June 10th, 2009 at 7:53 am
Stepmom, all I was saying is that Connie was told to stop making these allegations towards the “father”. Everytime she sees her baby and her baby is still saying that her “father” is abusing her and playing the games that she plays, she keeps on telling it. That’s what they are saying about her not going by court orders. I would do the same thing in all honesty. I would never stop. People don’t tell all the facts. And then they disect her words and twist them. How many cases have there been where CPS has dropped the ball on a child and that child ends up really hurt or dead? Every bruise that was documented on this child, CPS said that they couldn’t determine when or how it happened, even though the child stated her “daddy kicked her in the back” or whatever. So 11 “investigations” means nothing to me. Even if people think that Connie is the one telling her child to say these things (which baby A did say that, but only after she was with her father for a week) why wasn’t there an investigation into that? They just claimed she was doing it. A judge told Connie that she did not have to participate in the “classes” where she would have to co-parent with an alleged child abuser. She had told the judge that she did not want to sit in a room with him, which is what they would have to do. I agree that what I say is just hear-say, but I believe her. If there wasn’t a restraining order in place to where she could put forth the information that is needed in order to prove all of this, I wouldn’t even be here helping this baby. I refuse to fight with anyone any longer. But with all the “proof” these people claim to have against Connie, I think they should post it. I personally do not have the documentation of any court papers, but have seen a few. I have not seen anything regarding the proof these people have about Connie lying. And it doesn’t matter what type of religion Connie and her family are. Now they are disecting and assuming what they practice. Someone asked a question, I answered it, and now these people are in a cult. Nothing that Tim has done should matter regarding baby A or Connie. I heard the story about what happened in Jordan, it’s all irrelevant. Connie is not Tim. And in my opinion what Tim did isn’t how they are protraying it to be. No one was there. Not one of these people here can say for a fact that Tim kidnapped his children to Jordan. There are so many men and women accused of doing this, just because he was convicted of it doesn’t make it true. There is a man that just sat in prison for 27 years for a murder he did not commit. There were three lawyers that knew this, but left him in jail because of client/lawyer priviledges. Innocent people go to jail everyday. If Tim served 200 days, like they say he did, then he served his time and has paid his dues. But it still doesn’t mean he did what his ex-wife claims. This is all useless information anyway. This is about baby A. Not all of the Bedwells.
June 10th, 2009 at 10:46 am
Why are you posting alone Justget? Have you taken up knitting yet because everything you write is wrong information.
June 10th, 2009 at 12:25 pm
Just because there is an exception to every thing doesn’t mean this whole A case is the exception.. 11 CPS INVESTIGATIONS.. 730 Exam just completed..
Tim Bedwell was convicted for kidnapping..
Why all these excuses for people you DO NOT know?? Christ I hope you all think with your brains and look at the facts instead of what a woman you never met in your life says. You all are sucked in because a child is supposively being hurt.. I really feel sorry for you all.. this will al